Jeremy Indika Podcast

This episode works best on my YouTube channel, where you can watch the full talk with the visuals that support it. You can watch it here: https://youtu.be/kRIYbwE04AsThis is the full recording of my talk at a conference, where I tried to explain this subject in a different way.In this presentation, I explore the sexual abuse and exploitation of children and teenagers, both in person and online, and I focus heavily on one challenge that has driven so much of my work over the last decade: how do we communicate this subject in a way that people can truly understand?Throughout the talk, I break down difficult concepts around grooming, secrecy, silence, manipulation, and disclosure. I also share parts of my own story and explain why I believe we need better conversations in schools, homes, and organisations if we are serious about prevention and early intervention.This talk includes three questions that many people will find uncomfortable, but I ask them for a reason. My goal is not to shock. My goal is to help people think more deeply, speak more openly, and feel more confident beginning conversations that too often never happen.Topics covered include:- child sexual abuse and exploitation- grooming in person and online- why children and teenagers may not speak up- the difference between pre-pubescent children and post-pubescent teenagers- how schools, parents, and professionals can create safer environments- why better communication is central to preventionPlease take care while listening. Some parts of this talk may be difficult to hear.If something in this episode stands out to you, I encourage you to use it to begin a conversation with someone else. That is one of the main aims of my work.More about the charity who held the event where this was recorded:Kaleidoscopic are a charitable organisation of survivors for survivors of domestic abuse in ALL its forms. We are based in the Thames Valley and provide support services throughout England and Wales.Kaleidoscopic UK’s objectives are: The relief of need and the promotion of good health for children and adults in England and Wales who have been subjected to or exposed to domestic abuse through survivor-led support services and by educating and informing voluntary and statutory services, as well as the public at large, about all forms of domestic abuse and its harmful effects.For more infomation: https://www.kaleidoscopic.uk/Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak with Danny, a 73-year-old who spent eight years working as an online child decoy as part of an activist team. He explains how these teams operate, how they gather evidence, how cases are passed to police, and what the process can look like from first message to court.We talk about:- how quickly adults can approach a decoy profile online- the roles inside these teams (decoying, vetting, research, tracking, meet teams)- why teams say they are not “vigilantes” and how they view their role- training standards, screening, and why not everyone is suited to the work- live-streaming stings, the criticism around it, and the arguments for “awareness”- sentencing, delays, and what can happen after evidence is submitted- the responsibility of tech companies and what meaningful change could look likeThis conversation is direct, honest, and focused on helping people understand what’s happening online and why these teams exist.If you found this useful, subscribe for more long-form conversations on safeguarding, online harm, prevention, and the realities behind the headlines.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I review an interview with a retired child abuse investigation detective who spent nine years working on some of the most difficult cases in policing.Rather than focusing on graphic detail, this conversation is about reflection — what this work does to you, what it teaches you about trauma, and how complex child abuse investigations really are. It also raises an important question: when systems fail, is it down to bad officers, or a broken system that is underfunded, overloaded, and stretched beyond its limits?I know many people have had terrible experiences with the police, and those experiences matter. This episode isn’t about dismissing harm or defending institutions. It’s about trying to understand the reality of a role that involves daily exposure to trauma, limited resources, and enormous responsibility.The aim is to encourage more informed conversations about prevention, support, and change — and to better understand what people in these roles see, feel, and carry with them long after the job ends.This episode may be of interest to parents, educators, professionals, and anyone trying to better understand safeguarding, trauma, and the challenges faced by those working in child abuse investigations.If you have thoughts on this topic, I encourage you to share them in the comments.The aim is to encourage more informed conversations about prevention, support, and change — and to better understand what people in these roles see, feel, and carry with them long after the job ends.This episode may be of interest to parents, educators, professionals, and anyone trying to better understand safeguarding, trauma, and the challenges faced by those working in child abuse investigations.If you have thoughts on this topic, I encourage you to share them in the comments.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Stopping people from abusing children requires intervention long before harm is done — and long after someone has crossed a line.In this episode, Jeremy sits down with StopSO, a UK charity specialising in therapeutic work with offenders and people at risk of offending, to explore how early intervention, behaviour change, and specialised therapy can protect children from sexual harm.This conversation looks at what actually helps people stop, why punishment alone isn’t enough, and how prevention can reduce harm for children, families, and communities.Antounette and StopSO bioAntounette is Chair of StopSO, a charity offering specialist therapy to all those who have been impacted by child sex abuse. The main focus is the work with perpetrators, those representing a risk of sexual harm and those experiencing inappropriate thoughts and feelings. This work is central to Antounette’s belief that to prevent sex abuse, we must work with those that are at risk, or who we wish would desist from this behaviour and to do so compassionately and non judgementally. Under her chairship, the Charity has highlighted its commitment to provide therapy for survivors and all familiy members affected by abuse ,developed its work with other organisations, evolved new training for therapists in this specialist field, and launched a new approach to therapeutic intervention for those displaying sexual harm who are under 18. She is usually very busy!After 32 years working in the Criminal Justice System as a Probation Officer, Antounette has a wealth of experience of ‘the system’s’ treatment of high risk offending behaviour, and the value of mainstream as well as more nuanced and pertinent approaches to the escalation of child sex abuse. Antounette has previously specialised in work with violent offenders and mental health as well as running group work programmes for the service, writing Court reports and representing the Multi Agency Gang Unit in Birmingham. She retrained as a therapist when she was in her 40’s and feels privileged to have found a second career she feels passionate about.Going forward Antounette has exciting plans to grow the work of the charity and to support this as best she can- with enthusiasm and a deeply held belief that therapy is a powerful but under supported process of change for individuals brave enough to take on the challenge of therapy.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

n this video, you’ll see the full recording of me delivering my primary school safeguarding session — designed especially for children in Years 3 and 4 (ages 7–9).I wanted to find a way to teach body safety and online safety that actually connected — not just another formal talk that goes over their heads.So, I turned safeguarding into one big game.Together, we moved through different “levels” — learning about:🎮 Rules that help us stay safe (Level 1)💛 Feelings and what they tell us (Level 2)👥 Who’s on our team (Level 3)🗣 How to use our voice when something doesn’t feel right (Level 4)The result?They laughed, they learned, and they didn’t want the session to end.Safeguarding and body safety are serious topics — but when we teach them through play, children listen.If you’d like to see exactly how this approach works in a real classroom, this full recording shows the entire session — start to finish.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Links mentioned below. The clip I reviewed - https://youtu.be/moJ59Po9aPE?si=Qj_zqt6PigsRv7EqThe full Mikhaila Peterson podcast - https://youtu.be/4qZoJooGHfY?si=fBDmQZcopePXto8jThe Teen Corn podcast that I mentioned in video - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTw?si=OKaq9gXBhIbNwV07Why didn’t the government act sooner? For years, concerns have been raised about the easy access young people have to online porn — and the potential impact it’s having on their developing brains. Now, new laws are finally being introduced in the UK to block under-18s from these sites. But is it too late?In this episode, we explore:- The psychological and neurological effects of porn consumption- How desensitisation and escalation can lead to more extreme content- The links between compulsive porn use and real-world harm- Why action to protect young people has taken so longWatch until the end as we discuss the government’s latest move and whether it can undo the damage that may already have been done to today’s generation.What do you think — did the UK wait too long?Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to children and teenagers, their behaviour around bodies, boundaries, and sexuality can be complex — and often misunderstood.- What’s normal curiosity?- What’s problematic?- And where does it cross into being harmful or even violent?In this episode, I sit down with Dr Jennifer Allotey, forensic psychologist and social worker, to unpack these difficult questions. We discuss:- The Hackett Continuum: a framework used in schools and safeguarding to assess behaviour.- Why some behaviours should be seen as developmentally expected, while others require intervention.- The role of consent, power, and context in understanding young people’s actions.- The influence of the internet and technology on today’s behaviour.- How schools, parents, and communities can respond without overreacting or labelling young people unfairly.This is a vital conversation for anyone who cares about safeguarding, prevention, and helping young people navigate healthy development.Resources mentioned in the podcast are below. Centre of expertise on child sexual abuse - https://www.csacentre.org.ukThe AIM Project - https://aimproject.org.ukShore - https://shorespace.org.ukDr Jennifer Allotey informationWebsite - http://polaris-associates.co.uk/Dr Jennifer Allotey is a Chartered Forensic Psychologist, Social Worker and Assistant Professor in Forensic Psychology. Jennifer's career began in children and families social work, including working within the family court arena, and time spent in fostering and adoption. Within her social work career, Jennifer specialised in assessment of risk and she went on to work in specialist services including NSPCC, Lucy Faithfull Foundation, and Safer Lives. Jennifer's specialist expertise in assessment and therapeutic interventions with children led to a role as the Clinical Lead for Harmful Sexual Behaviour within a Forensic Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service (FCAMHS). Jennifer is now dual registered as a Social Worker and Forensic Psychologist, and she continues to work with both children and adults who have dispalyed harmful / offending behaviours, with a focus on sexual harm. Jennifer's doctoral thesis explores experiences of adversity and trauma in children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and the focus throughout is sexual abuse prevention. Jennifer's research make recommendations for practice to support all professionals in their role in the prevention of child sexual abuse. Alongside her clinical practice, Jennifer provides consultation, supervision and training to professionals and delivers teaching as an Assistant Professor in Forensic Psychology at the University of Nottingham. Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Bonnie Blue has built a huge following — and makes over £1 million a month — by leaning into schoolgirl and “barely legal” fantasies. But why are these themes so popular, why do they spread so easily on social media, and what does her success say about us as a society?In this episode, I explore:- How Bonnie Blue “cracked the code” of algorithms- Why outrage and support both fuel her rise- The dangers of normalising virginity and “barely legal” fantasies- What this means for young people seeing her content online- Why platforms suppress survivor stories but let this go viralThis is not about shaming anyone's decisions — it’s about asking the bigger question: what can we learn from Bonnie Blue’s rise, and what does it reveal about our culture today?Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak with Dr. Angela Tan about how to talk to children and young people about their bodies, consent, personal boundaries, and safety. It’s an honest, respectful, and practical conversation to help parents, teachers, and anyone working with children feel more confident navigating these tough — but essential — topics. Because if we don’t talk to them, someone else will… and that person may not have their best interests at heart.Dr. Angela Tan is a family physician, sexual wellness specialist, and Medical Director of Reiwa Health, with over 16 years of experience in both medical practice and professional coaching.As a parent herself, Angela understands the emotional complexities of raising tweens and teens. She has conducted sex education workshops in schools and coached parents on how to talk about growing bodies, emotions, and relationships with confidence and care.Her work goes beyond information-sharing—Angela helps parents build trust and emotional safety through vulnerability, so they can stay connected to their children through every stage of adolescence. She believes that meaningful sex education starts with honest conversations at home, where kids feel seen, safe, and supported.Dr. Angela Tan's links below.Website: www.reiwahealth.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-angela-tan/Insta: https://www.instagram.com/reiwa.apt/Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This convicted child abuser speaks openly about what makes a child vulnerable to abuse - and I don’t think you’ll be surprised. Because deep down, these are all things that we already know - but make us feel uncomfortable to face.I don’t want to give this man praise, but he is giving us something truly valuable here and I don’t want you to miss it - especially if you have children yourself.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

YouTube link - https://youtu.be/yDLzgpEbGOAWhat do you say to a room full of 13-year-olds about abuse, secrets and speaking up?In this powerful live talk, I speak directly to Year 8 students about how abuse often doesn’t look like violence — and why speaking up matters. Using real-life stories, questions, and interactive moments, this session helps young people understand grooming, recognise their own coping mechanisms, and feel more confident asking for help.This video isn’t just for students — it’s for the adults who care about them. Whether you’re a parent, teacher or survivor, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to talk to young people about abuse in a way that’s honest, clear and age-appropriate.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Links I've mentioned in the podcast below. 1. What Is Harmful Sexual Behaviour?NSPCC Learning – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/child-abuse-and-neglect/harmful-sexual-behaviourCSA Centre – https://www.csacentre.org.uk/resources/key-messages/harmful-sexual-behaviour/Lucy Faithfull Foundation - https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/harmful-sexual-behaviour.htm2. The Continuum of Sexual BehavioursNSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/media/2522/harmful-sexual-behaviour-framework.pdfHackett’s Continuum (via ICMEC Guide) - https://www.icmec.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Hackett-Continuum.pdfQueensland Health – https://www.childrens.health.qld.gov.au/wp-content/uploads/PDF/hsc-sexual-behaviours-traffic-light-guide.pdf3. 🧒 Age-Appropriate Sexual BehaviourStop It Now – https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-a-childs-sexual-behaviour/HealthyChildren.org – https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Sexual-Behavior-in-Young-Children.aspxRaising Children Network – https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/a-z-health-reference/sexual-behaviour-children4. 🚨 When to Be ConcernedNSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/research-resources/leaflets/harmful-sexual-behaviourNCSBY Fact Sheet - https://www.ncsby.org/sites/default/files/Problematic_Sexual_Behavior_Fact_Sheet.pdfPCAR – https://www.pcar.org/sites/default/files/pages-pdf/Understanding_Childrens_Sexual_Behavior.pdf5. 🛠️ Responding to HSBNSPCC – https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/child-abuse-and-neglect/harmful-sexual-behaviour/responding-to-hsbLucy Faithfull Foundation – https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/advice-for-professionals.htmIn this episode, we explore a difficult but essential topic: harmful sexual behaviour (HSB) among minors.Using real-world examples, expert-backed definitions, and resources from trusted organisations (like the Lucy Faithful Foundation, NSPCC, and the Centre of Expertise on CSA), we break down:- What HSB actually is- The traffic light continuum: green, amber, red behaviours- Age-appropriate vs. concerning behaviour- Red flags to look out for- How to respond – as a parent or professionalWhether you're a teacher, social worker, or parent, this episode will help you better understand HSB, avoid panic, and respond with confidence, calm, and care.Watch/listen and learn how to assess situations and take action that protects children — not punishes them.📌 Resources mentioned in this episode are linked in the description.🔔 Don't forget to hit the bell to be notified when new episodes drop.💬 Leave a comment – your thoughts matter and might help someone #HarmfulSexualBehaviour #SafeguardingChildren #ParentingPodcast #CSAprevention #JeremyIndika #SomethingToSay Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A new study found that 1 in 6 men admit feeling sexual attraction to children — including teenagers under the age of 18.In this episode, I break down the findings, challenge the stereotypes about who offenders are, and explore what this means for how we protect children and teens today.Too often, we imagine offenders as “creepy strangers” or people we’d spot a mile off. But the reality is more complex — and more uncomfortable. If we don’t understand that, we can’t keep children safe.This episode isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. It’s about honesty. And it’s about pushing this conversation out of the shadows and into the light.Watch. Share. Discuss.Your comments, likes, and shares help push this content into more people’s feeds — and right now, this topic is being buried.Support the podcast:– Like– Comment– Subscribe– Share it in your group chatsLinks to the website and research document that I review in this episode.Website - https://theconversation.com/a-survey-found-1-in-6-men-admit-sexual-feelings-for-children-so-is-paedophilia-increasing-218124Research document - https://www.humanrights.unsw.edu.au/sites/default/files/documents/Identifying%20and%20understanding%20child%20sexual%20offending%20behaviour%20and%20attitudes%20among%20Australian%20men.pdfBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This was a big moment for me.It was the first time I’d ever been invited to speak to Year 5 students—children just 9 and 10 years old. And I won’t lie… I was nervous.This session is about body safety, the importance of speaking up, and how to recognise when something doesn’t feel right. I speak honestly, but gently—because young children deserve to be informed and protected without being overwhelmed.This isn’t just a lesson—it’s the conversation I wish someone had with me at that age.👉 If you're a parent, teacher or professional working with children, I hope this gives you ideas and confidence to keep these conversations going.📌 Topics covered:- Body boundaries and personal space- The difference between safe and unsafe touch- Secrets vs surprises- Why trust and speaking up matters📺 Prefer to watch with visuals?This video includes slides and graphics designed to help young children understand and stay engaged.▶️ Watch on desktop or full screen for the best experience.👇 Let me know your thoughts belowAnd don’t forget to subscribe for more talks, real stories, and resources that protect and empower children.Mailing list sign up link - https://mailchi.mp/9a1acfd96e25/somethingtosayopt-inBook me for your school - https://jeremyindika.com/speaker-event/Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Jeremy speaks with Anna Sonoda, author of Duck Duck Groom, about how grooming works and how adults—not children—must be empowered to recognize and interrupt it. Drawing from her experience working with sexual offenders, Anna explains the four stages of grooming—flattery, favoritism, forbidden fruits, and fear—and emphasizes that grooming is intentional, gradual, and observable. The conversation focuses on the need for adult education, strong communication with children, and community-wide action to prevent abuse before it happens.Anna's bio.Anna Sonoda, an Emory University graduate with degrees in Anthropology and French Studies, earned her Master’s in Social Work from the University of Georgia in 2006 and became a licensed clinician in 2009. With experience counseling sexual offenders, working in mental health settings, and providing anger management and domestic violence treatment, she developed a deep understanding of grooming behaviors. This led her to write Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target (2022) and Duck Duck Groom: A Guided Journal, offering resources for prevention and survivor healing.Anna's links.Website: https://annasonoda.comBook: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BYK4LV4QBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To book me for your school - https://jeremyindika.com/speaker-event/Many will disagree with me doing this. But with so many schools saying they’re worried to bring me in to speak to teachers because of what I might say or how far I might push the boundaries, I’ve decided to post a full recording online, so everyone can see exactly what I’m doing.This comes with a risk (potentially) because now schools can watch it online instead of booking me.But, everyone knows that this should be done in person because of the audience interaction and participation that I generate and I have faith that the schools see that too. Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“If you liked it at the time, then you can’t grow into an adult and change your mind when you look back at it” - is what I’ve seen many sections of society say.And they’re not shy. They comment on my posts from time to time.Their view (from what I’ve seen) is that if a teenager flirts and involves themselves at the time, then they know what they’re doing and can’t label it as abusive and exploitative when they’re older. This is a massive misunderstanding and I explain why as I review Leila’s brave story in my podcast.This is very important, links below.Original video: https://youtu.be/PLARjisxolI?si=waOJAwvS1QmkbqCiPlease support us over at @somethingtosayofficial with running costs at - https://jeremyindika.com/donate/To connect with Leila and buy her book; Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilalala07/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leila.ivesBook: https://amzn.eu/d/jcCEq8eSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you think you’d be able to tell if your partner was living a double life behind closed doors?Imagine what this woman is going through once she finds her partner’s illegal hard drive with 600 photos and videos of children. Links as promised below, 1. 40-year old man arranges to meet 14-year old girl - https://youtu.be/3PqvA2JjkCo?si=IyaG8BSJ1lGsVtR82. Huw Edwards had 7-year olds on his phone and escaped jail - https://youtu.be/0OYYVaj5uAg?si=IRtw8cjqnacMgaZ33. Rosie Nelson Survive and Thrive CIC, unfortunately I couldn't find the charity that she founded. Original video - https://youtu.be/rOUQKB1Lyfg?si=0nnVeVfoul0Ark-XBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To watch the live recording of my school talk - https://youtu.be/eAdkKhtyYkYTo find Rachel Carey,Rachel is passionate about developing strong mental health in young people and assists school in developing well-being programs that not only meet the statutory outcomes for RSHE but also help young people to understand and develop their own mental health, resilience, and self-worth.Personal LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-carey-462569140Website: https://elizaeducation.com-----------------"It will never be good enough" - You may worry that this attitude means happiness can never be achieved, but that’s fine because happiness is not the aim with this.What you’re about to watch are two people dissecting my school talk in detail. Critiquing it and finding the ways for further improvement, with the overall goal of steering teenagers away from feeling hopeless after sexual trauma.Please come and get involved in this. The more opinions we collect, the better.Today’s generation appreciate us adults taking action around this.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you would like to watch this so you follow along with the slides I pull up, click here - https://youtu.be/eAdkKhtyYkYMany people are curious to see what I’m delivering in schools, so I’ve recorded a session for you to watch. You’ll see how I weave storytelling techniques with interactive exercises to create something that engages these young people.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve managed to get the work I do in schools and Something to Say onto BBC Radio - how amazing is this. Take a listen.I’m now going to push to see whether they will bring me into the studio for a full length interview.This is a celebration -  @SomethingtoSayofficial  Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve been heckled, I’ve had audiences shout at me and I’ve had event organisers cut my microphone and ask me to leave. You may not know about the situations I faced when I took my story public for the first time at open mic events back in 2019.But I believe this is what built me as a speaker. None of this has come naturally. Here's a link to my first ever open mic - https://youtu.be/hXQvXBqfbhw?si=Jr2-agm_4ui6CqplBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you know what to do if your child is sexually harassed, assaulted or abused online or in person? And I’m not talking about the logistics of reporting to the police etc. I’m talking about supporting your child as a mother, a father, a family, but also, how to support yourself as your world comes crashing down and you feel helpless reading police reports and witnessing your child going through trauma.15 out of 100 girls and 5 out of 100 boys will be offended against by the age of 16 (statistic from the National Crime Agency), so if you’re a parent then you must equip yourselves.Experts in this field, Nina Vaaranen-Valkonen and Katariina Leivo, have come onto my podcast to help us understand more.Protect children links below, Protect Children main website: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/enYou are Enough™ evaluation summary: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/2know-yae-evaluation-summaryYou are Enough™ parents guide: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/you-are-enough-guide-for-parents-of-children-affected-by-online-sexualOther useful materials: Online Safety guide for all parents: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/online-safety-parents-guide-not-just-a-deviceSupportive website for young people who carry their friend's distressing secret: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/myfriendtooOur Voice global survey for adults who have fallen victim to sexual violence in their childhood: https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/meidan-aanemme-kyselyInformation regarding sibling sexual trauma/abuse (this is an area where parents feel even more alone:) https://www.suojellaanlapsia.fi/en/post/sibling-sexual-trauma-sibling-sexual-abuse-leafletsBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Would you like to get involved in something?I’ve posted this recording of me presenting to Year 8 girls, so people can watch and give their thoughts and opinions on it. I’m aware that I’m one person, with one perspective and to make this the best it can be for young people, I need everyone to get involved. So please can I ask, for you to listen along to this and let me know what you think is working and what’s not. If you would like to watch the full version - https://youtu.be/xAgI3_m0F9g-----------------Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you go to work and your child is with someone else, you cannot guarantee their safety 100% - it’s impossible. And if they’re of an age where they cannot cannot speak yet - let’s say they’re under 3 - the risk is further increased as they cannot communicate with you. So, as a parent, what can you do here?I’ve brought on expert Patricia Cardona onto my podcast to explain some of the techniques you can use to ensure that your child is not an easy target. This is important information for everyone.Patricia Cardona (Mallorca, Spain) is a warrior and survivor of both intra- and extra-familial child sexual abuse. After more than thirty years of silence, she first spoke out through her poetry at an event in Amsterdam, where audience members called her brave. Since then, she has become an expert in child sexual abuse prevention and an activist. Patricia is a member of the Brave Movement—a global, survivor-centered organization dedicated to ending childhood sexual violence. She also collaborates with RANA (Red de Ayuda a Niños Abusados) and is a certified Steward of Children through Darkness to Light.Patricia’s advocacy has taken her to Brussels, where she has addressed the European Parliament, urging the passage and strengthening of the COM (2022) 209 regulation to prevent and combat child sexual abuse and stressing the critical need for comprehensive support for survivors. She has also collaborated with Europol on the GRACE (Global Response Against Child Exploitation) project.She is the author of “Frases que nunca deberías decir frente a un abuso sexual” (Phrases You Should Never Say in the Face of Sexual Abuse), a resource aimed at helping survivors feel understood, encouraging others to break their silence, and guiding allies to create a world where no victim needs bravery to speak out.Additionally, Patricia developed the L.A.B.O.R. Method, a 5-step program designed to empower parents to prevent up to 95% of potential child sexual abuse situations.Patricia's links are below,Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_patricia_cardona/ Email: [email protected] are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I asked if teenagers were less likely to be sexually assaulted than children, because they’ve developed some physical strength and that makes them less of a target for an offender.(For example, a 15-year old is very different to a 9-year old)But Dr. Kennath explained that this has nothing to do with strength or physical presence. It’s about a power dynamic and if someone gets aroused, or gets a thrill out of exploiting someone more vulnerable than them, then that is what they will do - it doesn’t matter what age they are.Dr Kennath Widanaralalage is a Lecturer in Psychology at King's College London. He researches men's sexual violence and victimisation, focusing on understanding how men disclose, seek help, and engage with support services. His work also examines criminal justice processes in rape and sexual assault investigations.Dr Kennath Widanaralalage links below,Research papers 1: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=ASzEyVkAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=aoResearch papers 2: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/B-Kennath-WidanaralalageKings Cross profile: https://www.kcl.ac.uk/people/kennath-widanaralalageLinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/kennath-widanaralalage-phd-14468014aBelow are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you would rather watch this podcast, click here - https://youtu.be/3PqvA2JjkCoHe’s a family man with a wife and two daughters, runs a successful business and looks like a normal guy, but he’s been talking to a 14-year old online and arranged to meet her for sex in his car - but when he got there, he was caught.I’m bringing this story to you because I want those who think this would never happen to their daughter to understand that it really can - in fact, it can happen very easily.I’ve reviewed the video of the sting on my latest podcast and you should see this man’s body language when he realises he’s been caught.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve split the age groups into three categories, 0-5, 5-10, 10-15 and if you’re a parent, you need to be interested in this, because you cannot guarantee your child’s safety 100% as you’re not with them everywhere they go - so your next best option is to understand what they need at each age group to not be exploited for something sexual.I’ve explained everything on my latest podcast. This is worth your time. Put some priority on it please.Tickets to my sessions - https://jeremyindika.eventbrite.comSomething to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialChild coalition rescue Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/childrescuecoalition/Blake Lively Speech - https://youtu.be/2u0b5RWKKJo?si=abDlsSisTelAsqILMother talking to child - https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_d4eNCI21p/My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1X: https://x.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Huw Edwards had ‘Category A’ content (acts involving penetration) of a 7-year old on his phone and escaped jail.What’s going on? Did the judge and the courts actually watch the videos? Probably not. Because if they did, they would have realised that anyone who is aroused by this content and acts on it, deserves to face the full force of the law - a prison sentence, probation and strict monitoring for the rest of their life. They are a danger to children when they walk free. And isn’t children’s safety not our priority?But we have a problem here, because the prisons in this country are already full and we now know that only 2/10 people who are caught with such content go to prison - the rest walk free. And we haven’t even mentioned the fact that these images and videos are recordings of real children being molested/raped/abused/assaulted. Where are they all?Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I believe there are two ways to look at this and it can be debated from both sides. What’s your opinion on trigger warnings?Let me explain mine and see what you think (please remember, even if we disagree on this, we’re still on the same team). Let’s have a conversation about it. Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaX: https://x.com/jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“It sounds like more of an inappropriate holiday romance thing” were her words. I don’t know whether you know about this story, but in summary, there’s a Dutch Olympian, Steven van de Velde, who is a convicted child rapist and has been allowed to compete in the olympics - and there’s uproar about it.But this woman doesn’t see it like that and has gone onto national TV to say that the 12-year old girl met him on her own freewill, so there’s no grooming, it’s not rape and essentially, she consented to it. I don’t know whether she has a daughter herself, but I wonder if she has, whether she’d be saying the same if it happened to her? There are MANY other worrying things in this interview.Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1X: https://x.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If I can turn this subject into something that people become interested in, rather than it being so uncomfortable that they turn away, we can make one massive step towards prevention as we get people talking/raising the awareness. CreditsDirector: Emma LyddonKind To Mind - https://www.kindtomind.orgKind To Mind Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kindtomind.in/Cinematographer: Chitaranjan KhumanChitaranjan Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lone_picturesBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Three 19-year old boys took photos as they abused Annie and threatened to post them if she didn’t keep meeting up with them. So she did. And they posted them anyway. She was 14.My pages largely concentrates on children but let’s start talking about the different situations teenagers can find themselves in and how they deal with them being so young. My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1X: https://x.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If I didn’t have thick skin, I would be in big trouble with what happened on my Instagram last week. I got attacked in a big way with thousands of comments.You’re never going to believe it. Listen to find out more. Here's a link to the reel in question - https://www.instagram.com/p/C844pIFMbSn/Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I sometimes wonder why I embarked on this. Constantly battling, constantly falling over, constantly thinking about the easier life I left behind. I didn’t record this so people feel sorry for me, I recorded it because I wanted to talk to you.Tickets for live events - https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/jeremy-indika-86116755903Gofundme for schools - https://gofund.me/fcb2bd00Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For those that missed the LIVE Q&A and catch up last week, I’ve recorded it and released it as a podcast episode. It went really well, we talked about the latest updates, a couple of things about my personal life and some new announcements on future plans. I will be doing more of these so we can all get together in the live environment and chat.My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Has the government gone mad? They intend to pass new guidance which includes the following,•⁠ ⁠NO MORE education on sexual harassment to be taught before ages 11 (even though these children spend their life online)•⁠ ⁠NO MORE discussion on sex before the age of 13 (even though some will have already done it and/or be watching hours of it on pornography sites)So, we’re now leaving young people to navigate these situations on their own, instead of educating and empowering them to make informed and safe decisions?What is this madness?!Links mentioned in the podcast:1. The Conversation Article written Dr.Sophie King-Hill on how damaging the new draft will be if made statutory: https://theconversation.com/proposed-sex-education-guidance-in-england-goes-against-evidence-and-may-well-lead-to-harm-207248?2. National Organization fo the Treatment of Sexual Abuse (NOTA) article by Dr.Sophie King-Hill and Professor Kieran McCartan on the dangers of the new draft guidance: https://www.notaprevention.co.uk/2024/05/16/relationships-sex-and-health-education-policy-for-schools-will-inhibit-preventative-and-early-intervention-work-for-child-sexual-abuse-and-harmful-sexual-behaviour/3. The new draft RSHE Guidance and consultation (where you can contribute evidence): Rhttps://consult.education.gov.uk/rshe-team/review-of-the-rshe-statutory-guidance/4. Porn access in children and young people: Growing up with pornography: https://www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk/blog/growing-up-with-pornography-advice-for-parents-and-schools/#:%7E:text=The%20CCo%20survey%20finds%3A,self%2Desteem%20as%20young%20adults.5. Ofsted Report in sexual harassment in schools: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/review-of-sexual-abuse-in-schools-and-collegesDr. Sophie King-Hill bio and linksSophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents. Sophie has an interest in policy implementation, transfer and success frameworks and evaluation strategies. Sophie leads a many projects that seek to understand what constitutes sexual behaviours – both online and offline – in young people. Profile Link: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile?ReferenceId=170453X: https://x.com/DrSophieKHInstagram: @DrSophieKingHillTikTok: @DrSophieKingHillLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-sophie-king-hill-2659b651/Professor Kieran McCartan bio and linksBio: Professor Kieran McCartan is a professor of Criminology at the University of the West of England, Bristol. He specializes in the research and policy related to the prevention of sexual abuse and the treatment as well as risk management of people convicted of it. Professor McCartan is the deputy chair of NOTA, the chair of the board of trustees of Circles South West as well as a board member of the Risk Management Authority, Scotland. He advises the Council of Europe and the European Commission on policies and practices related to the prevention of child sexual abuse.Profile Link: https://people.uwe.ac.uk/Person/KieranMccartanX: https://x.com/ProfKMcCartanLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kieran-mccartan-45b89813/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How can I get people out of their head and into their heart? Many are still confused at why a child wouldn’t say something at the time. Or why they never showed us any signs. I think people are forgetting what it used to be like, to be a child, and the puzzle I’m trying to solve is, how can I change that? I’m developing a few ideas and I’ve revealed them on this to see what you think. My aim is to get people saying ‘ahh now I understand it’.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may think I’m crazy for doing this after what happened on Instagram with this question last week, but after the comments section got heated with people attacking each other, I decided that I want to give my thoughts. Because I want everybody to remember, we are all on the same team here and to be fighting amongst ourselves is the least productive way forward. And also, nothing ever got solved without a conversation to exchange ideas first. So let’s do that. Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we dive a little deeper into the process that the police go through, we can start to see more. •⁠ ⁠Fighting against criminals who withhold all information.•⁠ ⁠Searching for evidence, sometimes from decades ago.•⁠ ⁠Interviewing children whose memory is not always linear. Can you imagine trying to do this job?That is why I’ve brought Detective Chief Superintendent, Martin Maclean, who spent 30 years in roles such as Head of Child Abuse Investigation onto my podcast to help us understand more - because I know that we’re angry, but there are reasons why it’s the way it is.To all the police officers that do this job, thank you.Martin's bioDetective Chief Superintendent Martin MacLean LLB completed many roles in his 30 years of policing including, Head of the Public Protection Unit, responsible for the investigation of recent and non-recent rape & serious sexual crime against children & adults and also, Head of the National Child Abuse Investigation Unit, responsible for tackling Online Child Sexual Abuse & Exploitation.Useful linksStop It Now HelplineThe Stop It Now helpline provides confidential advice to anyone with concerns about child sexual abuse, including anyone struggling with their own or a loved one’s sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviours towards children: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/helpline/Stop It Now! Get HelpThis provides information and support for people who are concerned about their online viewing of sexual images of children or people who have not looked at sexual images of children, but have an urge to do so: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-your-own-thoughts-or-behaviour/concerned-about-use-of-the-internet/self-help/understanding-the-behaviour/Parents ProtectThe Parents Protect website has information and advice for all adults on how to protect children from sexual abuse and exploitation: https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/ShoreLaunched in 2023, Shore is a website designed especially for young people concerned about their own or someone else’s sexual thoughts and behaviour: https://shorespace.org.uk/Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you guess what the three situations below have in common?1.⁠ ⁠On a tablet watching YouTube2.⁠ ⁠Playing the Xbox on live3.⁠ ⁠In a WhatsApp groupThe answer is…we are not there.So, if something pops up, like a message from someone suggesting something sexual, or a link that’s about something they like, but when you click, it goes to something else - maybe for something sexual - we are not there to intervene. And with thes online, being part of our culturespace being, we need to move with the times and figure out the best ways to handle this.That’s why I’ve brought Richard Pomfrett onto my podcast, who speaks to parents, teenagers and children on this topic and has valuable advice to give us.Richard Pomfrett informationSince 2013 Richard’s passion for his work as pushed him to continually evolve and shape ‘Stay Safe! Workshops’ to fit the needs of young people today. It is through these specialised and unique sessions, that they aim to educate as many young people as possible. Raising awareness and passing on vital skills and knowledge at key stages in their development and helping prevent them from becoming part of the future dire statistics.To find Richard PomfrettWebsite: https://thestaysafeinitiative.org.ukTwitter: https://twitter.com/StaySafeCICInstagram : https://www.instagram.com/thestaysafeinitiative/Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/thestaysafeinitiative/LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-pomfrett-230b63189/My linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The pain this mother feels must be excruciating. But to see her explain what happened so bravely, so that we can understand what to look out for in our own families is a gift, given to us by her. Thank you for doing this Nancy. We all appreciate it greatly.To watch this on my YouTube channel - https://youtu.be/rQrcyrUPn_sTo subscribe to the Something to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I know I push the boundaries on certain conversations and I’m worried that it’s making schools stay away from me, even though they know it’s strictly storytelling when I visit them. I’m caught in the middle here.My linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Before anyone says anything about guns, this discussion is about getting to these men before they commit any crime. Shooting them can only happen once the crime has been committed and by then we’re too late. I’ve interviewed an organisation on my podcast who work on the internet to encourage these men to come forward to work with them and I think we can all agree, if one child is saved using their methods then that is job done.They are seeing great results.Christoffer Rahm’s Research Group is at the forefront of efforts to prevent violence, with a specific focus on addressing sexual violence against children. Specializing in clinical research, the group is dedicated to improving our understanding of pedophilia and developing evidence-based treatments. Their research seeks to establish effective, safe, tolerable, and scalable interventions both online and offline for individuals at risk of committing child sexual abuse.Prevent It: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/preventit/Project Bridge: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/bridge/My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

INSPIRATION!!! I know my podcasts are usually tough to get through, but this one’s different. Marisol speaks about how she will no longer be held hostage to the sexual abuse from her brothers and she will now let go of the family that told her to keep it quiet.She is a source of inspiration and I feel honoured to review her story on my latest podcast.If you would like to watch this on YouTube - https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=xhzUH8tMI_JTjdp5Please support Soft White Underbelly YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SoftWhiteUnderbelly. For original video: https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=60-ch1i3HiHg00erMy links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As you know, I’m trying to change the way we do things, so we can provide inspiration for other survivors and also for the younger generations who look up to us to set an example.This episode comes with a visual on YouTube too, make sure you check that out here - https://youtu.be/3EVhUSYts0IPlease share this around to help raise awareness for the reality of this crime and help people protect the children in their own family.My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Girls are making a lot of money starring in scenarios where they behave underage (speaking with high pitched voices, in colourful bedrooms, whilst holding teddy bears and having sex).There are no laws against this, so no one is breaking any rules. The girls are over 18 and the directors say, the younger they can make them look, the better, because the men love it and the views are going through the roof, which means everyone’s making a lot of money and no one’s getting hurt, so what’s the problem? If you'd like to watch this podcast for the visuals, click here - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTwLink to the documentary - https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM?si=fIj9nsAs1n4zSgDDMy links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I know this is something that we never want to think about. But with children being naturally curious, and learning behaviours from what they are see on TV and online, they do things that they don't fully understand - this is more common than you think. I've interviewed Dr. Sophie King-Hill onto this podcast, who's a leading researcher on this topic to help us understand more. Sophie's bioSophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents. Profile: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile.aspx?ReferenceId=170453Twitter: https://x.com/DrSophieKH?s=20Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsophiekinghill/Mapping tool: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/research/projects/2022/sibling-sexual-behaviour-mapping/index.aspxBook: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-031-34010-9My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If I can turn this subject into something that people become interested in, rather than it being so uncomfortable that they turn away, we can make one massive step towards prevention as we get people talking/raising the awareness. CreditsDirector: Emma LyddonKind To Mind - https://www.kindtomind.orgKind To Mind Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kindtomind.in/Cinematographer: Chitaranjan KhumanChitaranjan Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lone_picturesJeremy Indika website - https://jeremyindika.com/Something to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.