
In Your Right Mind with Monique Rhodes
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Ep 1286Offering Support
Offering support means not just listening but truly hearing someone's struggles, providing a safe space where their feelings are validated and understood. It's about standing by them with empathy and patience, guiding them towards resilience and healing with both compassion and actionable advice. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1285Muddy Puddles
I was reading James Clear who had a great framework for looking at our problems. He discusses navigating life's challenges by discerning between "muddy puddles," problems that clear up when left alone, and "leaky ceilings," issues that worsen without intervention. This approach teaches us the art of patience and the necessity of timely action, empowering us with the wisdom to manage our problems effectively. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1284Truly Listening
True listening transcends merely waiting for your turn to speak; it's an act of empathy and validation that makes the speaker feel genuinely heard and valued. By practicing active listening and resisting the urge to shift the focus back to ourselves, we cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections that enrich both our lives and those of the people around us. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1283Radical Empathy
On this Easter Sunday, I wanted to take a moment to reflect on the broader meaning of this holiday and why it can be significant regardless of your religious beliefs. Today serves as a powerful reminder of our capacity for transformation. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1282Mind Surfing
Over the past week, I have encountered three challenging situations. However, I have handled them in a different way than I would have when I was younger. I would like to discuss these situations with you to demonstrate how we can approach life differently by learning how to manage our minds effectively. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1281The Perils of Committing to Nothing
Today I discuss how highly focused individuals understand that true success comes from narrowing their gaze, selecting their priorities, and comfortably shutting out the distractions. They know that by committing fully to their chosen paths and ignoring the rest, they protect themselves from being scattered by the endless possibilities that can dilute their efforts and cloud their vision. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1280Walking in Someone Else's Shoes
Sometimes, when someone is telling us something, we can gain a deeper understanding and provide better help if we try to put ourselves in their shoes. It's an amazing way to build more loving connections. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1279Opening To Your Goodness
Meditation is an incredibly powerful practice that can bring about significant positive changes in your life. There are numerous reasons why it is beneficial, and I'll list a few today in the hopes of inspiring you to start or continue a daily practice. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1278Embracing Optimism
A student asked me for advice on dealing with her pessimistic partner, which made me reflect on the transformative power of optimism. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1277What Is Love?
Taking a moment to reflect on what love truly means to us can reveal a lot about our understanding and expectations of love. It's an opportunity to deepen our understanding of love so that we can experience it more fully in our lives. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1276Inspiration is Overrated
For most of us when we are wanting to achieve something we wait for inspiration. Inspiration can be fleeting and inconsistent. Fortunately, there is a better way to move things forward. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1275Running Your Own Race
I spoke to a student struggling to stop scrolling through social media. She didn't want to miss out on what was happening but, unfortunately, was missing out on her own life. It can be hard to see how much of our life we miss out from being online. However, we must do to be happy. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1274The Pitfalls of External Validation
I have received a letter from one of my students who is facing a difficult situation. She has achieved a lot in her life but has not received any recognition or appreciation from her family for her achievements. She is seeking my advice on how to deal with this situation. I believe that my advice to her could also be beneficial to others who may be in similar circumstances. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1273Choice and Responsibility
Life may throw challenges our way, but we hold the power to choose how we respond to them. Today, I reflect on Viktor Frankl's wisdom, which teaches us that finding meaning in adversity is not just possible but also a profound responsibility and path to personal freedom. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1272Excessive Phone Use
Today, I received an email from a student who is concerned about his wife's excessive phone usage. He asked me for advice on what could be causing this behavior and how to approach her about it. I hope that this podcast will be helpful as we all try to navigate the challenges of living in a modern, technology-driven world. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1271How We View Difficulties With Others
The perspective with which we view difficulties in a relationship significantly determines the outcome of these challenges. Instead of seeing difficulties as insurmountable obstacles, viewing them as opportunities for growth, learning, and deeper connection can transform the very fabric of the relationship. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1270Beyond Learned Limits
Today, we look at why some of us think we can't learn new things and how these beliefs hold us back. I discuss why it's important to change our mindset, and embrace growth and learning at any age. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1269The Wealth Of Discomfort
In our current world, people tend to avoid discomfort. Especially in the Western world, we have access to resources that allow us to make our lives as comfortable as possible. However, this tendency to avoid discomfort can prevent us from experiencing the benefits that come with pushing through difficult situations. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1268Always Ask, But Never Expect
A student told me she fears rejection and needs help asking for things. She asked me for some strategies to help her with this obstacle. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1267Trauma Questions
In my latest podcast, I respond to your questions about trauma from the recent retreat I attended. I hope my answers are helpful. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1266A Week Looking At Trauma
I spent a week at a conference about trauma and its effects. Today, I'll share my key takeaway. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1265The Perils of Martyrdom in Personal Relationships
One of my students has a friend who always seems to talk about their problems and portray themselves as a martyr. It's important to be mindful of who we spend our time with, as negative attitudes can be contagious. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1264Reclaiming Time
I received an email from one of my students who is finding it challenging to manage the demands of their busy life. Since this is a common issue for many people nowadays, I discuss how to prioritize your responsibilities and create a healthy balance that allows you to focus on what is truly important and fulfilling. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1263Limiting Beliefs: Finding Your Own Ceiling
Who decides what is possible in your life? Is it you? Perhaps it's not, and you don't even realize it. Taking control of what is possible for you is a deeply personal and unique journey. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1262The Impact of Media Consumption on Thought Cultivation
We are constantly bombarded with media, and often we are unaware of its impact on our perception of the world. It is critical for our mental well-being that we are conscious of the impact it has on us. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1260Baseline Optimism
Having a positive mindset at the start of your day can greatly influence the outcome of your day. Today I discuss the importance of cultivating a baseline optimism. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1260The Quest for Visibility
In today's digital age, the human need to be seen, acknowledged, and validated has found a new arena: social media. Today I explore the deep-rooted need for visibility, how it has been amplified and transformed by social media, and the implications of seeking validation in the digital realm. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1259Who Are You?
As human beings, we have an innate desire to feel like we belong somewhere in this world. This leads us to search for our identity and meaning in life. However, in this pursuit, we tend to hold on to certain beliefs and ideologies that end up defining us completely, without realizing that we are much more than that. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1258The Trap of The Comfort Zone
We spend a lot of our lives trying to keep ourselves in a zone of comfort. However, this can create a lot of suffering when people and circumstances don't meet our expectations. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1257Embracing Pain as Energy
In today's podcast, we discover a transformative approach to dealing with pain by viewing it as energy. I want to show you how to embrace, relax into, and ultimately release emotional and physical pain, transforming it from a source of discomfort into an opportunity for deep personal growth. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1256The Art of Being Okay with Everything
We all want to be happier and have more peace in our lives. If we are able to understand the mind differently, then this peace is closer than we realise. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1255The Inner Challenge Reflected in Relationships
Most relationships suffer from a fundamental misunderstanding, which leads to unrealistic expectations. Recognizing this misunderstanding can free us and our relationships from such expectations. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1254The Overburdened Mind
Without realising it, we put unrealistic demands on our minds that lead us down the path of stress and anxiety. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1253The Challenge of Avoidance in Relationships
One of the primary places we avoid confronting our inner blocks is through our close relationships. Whether this is our partners, family, or friends, we can become masterful at creating relationships where others also protect us from facing ourselves. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1252Breaking Negative Cycles
If we have unresolved emotional issues, we may unintentionally project our pain onto others, causing problems in our relationships. This is why looking at our internal blocks is vital. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1251Embracing Life and Overcoming Fear
Today I delve into the psychology behind our need for control and how it can ultimately hinder our pursuit of happiness. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.

Ep 1250Navigating the Survival Instinct
Today I delve into shifting our survival instincts from defending the ego to embracing personal growth. I discuss how to navigate life's challenges by staying centered and releasing defensive energies, unlocking a path to authentic growth and self-discovery. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1249Releasing Stored Energy And Opening The Heart
Are you wondering how to let go of blocked past energies? On today's podcast, I discuss how to release blocked past energies and the benefits of doing so. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1248Embracing an Old School Approach
Dive into my latest podcast where I explore the liberating journey of a month-long technology detox! Tune in to discover how stepping away from our screens can open the doors to enhanced mindfulness, deeper connections, increased happiness and a rediscovery of life's simple joys. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1247The Importance of Unblocking
Today I delve into the fascinating concept that our perception is meant to let life's experiences flow through us, keeping us present and engaged. However, when we hold onto these experiences, they turn into blockages, affecting our mental and emotional well-being. Discover how these blockages, known as 'samskaras' in yogic teachings, influence our lives and learn the significance of letting go to truly experience the present moment fully. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.
Ep 1246Opening To The Energy
In the previous podcast, I discussed an incredible energy that is always available to you. Today, I will explain how to access it. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1243Heart Energy
We all desire to have more energy, but what if I told you that having high energy levels is not just about eating healthy and getting good sleep? What if it has a lot to do with the emotional state of your heart? Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Click here to leave a review.
Ep 1242The TV Of Your Mind
Have you ever stopped to think about how limited our perception of reality is? It's fascinating to consider that what we perceive as reality is simply what our minds are capable of processing. I want to take a moment to explore this idea and expand our understanding of the world around us. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.
Ep 1241Do You Know Who You Are?
If you're looking for a thought-provoking question that can help you deepen your understanding of yourself, then listen up. I delve into the powerful and revealing question of "Who am I?" and explore how it can impact your life. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.
Ep 1240Our Polyvagal World - Interview With Seth Porges
Today I sit down with Seth Porges, co-author of 'Our Polyvagal World.' Join us as we delve into the groundbreaking concepts presented in his book, co-written with his father, which offers a transformative look at the polyvagal theory and its profound impact on understanding human emotions and behavior. Seth, with his engaging storytelling and in-depth knowledge, unravels how our nervous system plays a pivotal role in shaping our interactions and emotional experiences. Whether you're a mental health professional, a student of psychology, or simply intrigued by the intricate workings of the human mind, this conversation promises to enlighten and inspire. If you're interested in checking out Our Polyvagal World, you can find it on Amazon through my affiliate link here. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This means that if you decide to buy the book through my link, I'll receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. This helps support my work and allows me to continue bringing great content to you. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.
Ep 1239The Out Of Control Roommate
Most people are unaware of the out-of-control roommate within them and the chaos it creates in their lives. You may not have thought you were a landlord, but you are. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.

Ep 1238The Witness
Do you ever find yourself feeling overwhelmed by the problems in your life? We all do sometimes. But what if there was a powerful technique that could help you create some distance between yourself and those issues? In my latest podcast, we explore this technique and how it can transform your perspective. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.
Ep 1237The Inside Job
In today's podcast l discuss a new problem-solving approach and explore the power of introspection over action to gain a deeper understanding of yourself in the face of life's challenges. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.

Ep 1236It's Not All About You
In Western society, it's often easy to fall into the trap of believing that we are the most important thing in the world and that everything revolves around us. However, this kind of thinking can lead to a sense of emptiness and unfulfillment. Instead, there are other keys to finding lasting peace and happiness that involve looking beyond ourselves and our immediate surroundings. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.

Ep 1235The Fear of Solitude
In today's podcast, I explore the intriguing findings of Timothy Wilson's study on solitude and discover why we often struggle to be alone with our thoughts. Click Here to see how happy you are. Enjoying our podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Kindly click here to leave a review.