EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Sarah Wayland discuss:her journey and insights into using relationship-based dynamic intelligence (RDI) to enhance family bonds and your autistic child's growththe role of co-regulation and autonomy in parenting your autistic childpractical advice for parents on integrating RDI principles into daily life RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., parent coach + founder of Guiding Exceptional Parents on her website and on Facebook and LinkedIn⚡️ learn more about Relationship-based Dynamic Intelligence (RDI™) and working with Dr. Wayland⚡️ purchase her book along with Dr. Donna Henderson and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"⚡️ reference another great resource from Dr. Wayland: Behavior Revolution⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss:navigating the IEP processworking with your child's school to have a shared understanding of PDA (pathological demand avoidance), a theorized profile of autismproposing appropriate accommodations and support strategies for PDA learnersRESOURCES⚡️ keep learning and purchase the course Supporting PDA Learners: Centering Connection, Autonomy and Equality in the IEP Process ⚡️ connect with Jessica Hanzo, LMFT on Instagram @pda.project and visit her website⚡️ connect with Lisa Basking Wright, IEP coach on Instagram @lisabaskinwright, on Facebook, and visit her website⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses the highly requested topic of how autism often presents in females, particularly those with low support needs. This episode would still be an informative listen if you have a son who presents with high masking autism, as the more nuanced traits are discussed.RESOURCES⚡️ want more on this topic? listen to Dr. Donna Henderson's episode on girls (note: this episode was recorded for psychologists / neuropsychologists but still could be a good listen)⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Amanda Diekman discuss:what a low demand lifestyle isthe three layers of a demand how to find joy in this parenting journeyRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Amanda DiekmanInstagram @lowdemandamanda Facebook @lowdemandamandawww.amandadiekman.comGet the book⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Steph Curtis discuss:the nuances of raising a child with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), emphasizing early detection, adapting parenting techniques, and understanding unique needs.the journey to find the right educational setting for a child with PDA, dealing with societal pressures, and the critical role of flexibility and individualized approaches.leveraging community support and personal growth through blogging and writing, highlighting the value of connecting with community and the intersection of PDA with conditions like ADHD and anxiety.RESOURCES⚡️ resources referenced in today's episode Steph's BlogPDA in the Family: Life After the Lightbulb MomentSasha's Animation About her School Experiences ⚡️ connect with Steph Curtis, mom to two autistic daughters, writer, and PDA pioneerInstagram @stephstwogirls YouTube @stephstwogirls Facebook @stephstwogirlsX @stephstwogirls⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.**also PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I will do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. To learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a pediatric sleep medicine physician, discuss:what sleep medicine is and how a sleep medicine physician can helpthe three buckets of sleep issues - medical, behavioral, and 24-hour factorseducation about medications that impact sleepRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Funke Afolabi-Brown, MD, FAASMhttps://www.therestfulsleepplace.comInstagram @restfulsleepmdFacebook @restfulsleepmdYouTube @DrFunkeBrown LinkedIn @drfunkebrown⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss:what PDA is as a theorized profile of autismvarying perspectives about PDAco-occurring conditions and their overlap with PDAsupport strategies and how to continue learningRESOURCES⚡️ download my free PDA guide⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Amber Arrington discuss:the emotional and practical journey of receiving and embracing 3 autism diagnoses, reflecting on the changes in understanding and approaches over timethe significance of community, self-education, and tailored support in navigating the autism parenting experiencethe evolving conversation around autism therapies, particularly ABA, and the shift towards a neurodiversity-affirming perspective that celebrates individual strengths and needsRESOURCES⚡️ Register for The Autism Savvy Summit: While You Wait Edition⚡️ connect with Amber Arrington, autism mom and founder of Autism Savvy >>Instagram @autismsavvyTikTok @autismsavvyOrder Amber's book Not Atypical Motherhood: The Guide For Navigating a Child's New Autism Diagnosis⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay, Chris Wenger, and Jessie Ginsburg discuss:the impact of embracing neurodiversity in speech therapy, focusing on intrinsic motivation and sensory integrationchallenges and solutions for implementing sensory-friendly practices in therapy and educational settingsadvice for parents on advocating for neuroaffirming approaches and navigating school systemsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Chris Wenger, CCC-SLP @speechdude on Instagram and TikTok >>DM the word “BANANAS” for his neuroaffirming resources⚡️ connect with Jessie Ginsburg, MS, CCC-SLP @sensory.slp on Instagram and TikTok >>order Jessie's book Ready, Set Connect: A Sensory Based Approach to Accelerate Communication in Autistic Children⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:the complex issue of seeking a cure for autism, including the risks and ethical concerns of treatments like chelation and hyperbaric oxygen therapythe shift towards acceptance and neurodiversity, highlighting the value of unconditional love and present parenting in the autism communitydebunking myths around autism recovery, such as reducing screen time, and stressing the importance of accurate information and holistic family supportRESOURCES⚡️ your next episode >> 96 | key autism parenting mindset shifts⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

Dr. Tay and Elizabeth Duttera from @aut2ask discuss:Elizabeth's personal advocacy sparked by her late diagnosis and how individual stories can highlight broader issues within the autism community.insights from the Aut2Ask survey struggles with accessing affordable support and the necessity for systemic and policy changes to provide better resources for autistic individuals.RESOURCES⚡️ complete the Aut2Ask Survey⚡️ connect with Elizabeth >>Instagram @aut2askX @aut2ask ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Malia Phelps Waller discuss:transitioning to homeschooling: Malia's journey from public schooling to a play-based homeschooling approach during the pandemic.homeschooling methodologies: discussions on unschooling, Montessori, and eclectic styles, emphasizing child-centered education.practical homeschooling aspects: navigating state regulations, curriculum choices, and integrating real-world experiences for learning.RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Malia Phelps Waller homeschool mama, special educator and BCBAMalia's WebsiteInstagram @maliaphelpswallerhomeschoolFacebook @maliaphelpswallerhomeschoolDownload Malia's Homeschool Toolbox⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Brittyn Coleman, Registered Dietitian, discuss:the overlap between sensory experiences and eating for autistic childrensensory-friendly strategies to diversify diets and support gut healthoffering practical advice for parents on supporting their autistic children with feeding therapy and neurodivergent affirming approachesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Brittyn Colemanvisit her website (including her 5-day workshop + membership)Instagram @autismdietitianTikTok @autismdietitian Facebook @autismdietitianYouTube @autismdietitian⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Liz Angoff, an educational psychologist, discuss:the importance of parents embracing and understanding neurodiversity and how they can help their child understand how their brain works empowering strategies and how-tos for parents to discuss autism with their child, including relatable metaphors and AI toolsemphasizing ongoing, open conversations with your family about autism (including with siblings)RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Dr. Liz AngoffInstagram @explainingbrainshttps://explainingbrains.com/autism⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Donna Henderson define the following:PDAinteroception and emotionsneurocrashautistic burnoutRSDautigender RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Donna Henderson, clinical neuropsychologist https://www.drdonnahenderson.com/her book along with Drs. Sarah Wayland and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"Donna's practice: https://stixrud.com/⚡️ additional resources mentioned by Dr. Hendersonhttps://www.kelly-mahler.com/neurodivergentinsights.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses:her journey from graduate school and D1 athletics to specializing in autism, highlighting her personal and professional experiences that shaped her focus.a sneak peek of a new 12-week course on PDA, developed in collaboration with Katherine L'Etang, @theneurodiversitymom, to better serve the autistic communityRESOURCES⚡️ get on the waitlist for the PDA course >> https://link.drtaycoaching.com/widget/form/1K4FJdMEqHU7qVBu9apU⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇this is a special episode to celebrate 100 episodes of autism education here on the podcast. I emphasize the parallel of how consistency and time got me here and how that perfectly describes the autism parenting journey! at the end, I announce a big giveaway - a chance to win a three-month group therapy scholarship. RESOURCES⚡️ 10K GIVEAWAY POST - DETAILS TO ENTER >>https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3nsfwixnXq/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses:Taylor Swift's potential neurodivergence and its relevance to your autistic child.embracing neurodivergence in parenting and advocating for acceptance.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusseslessons learned from her dating experiencethe importance of vulnerability and growthRESOURCES⚡️ No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP discuss:understanding tantrums vs meltdownschild communication and coping strategiesimportance of parent regulation during meltdownsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP. she is a parent coach and founder of Orchid Kids.Instagram @speechkidsdcLinkedIn @gabriele-nicoletFacebook @ gabriele.nicoletSubstack @gabrielenicolethttps://www.raisingorchidkids.com/https://www.speechkids.com/⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:emphasizing flexibility in parenting autistic children, adapting to their unique needs.encouraging parents to accept uncertainties and learn alongside their child.understanding and embracing neurodivergent perspectives over conventional expectations.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Katherine L'Etang of @theneurodiversitymom discuss:The journey of self-realization as an autistic woman and navigating life with autistic children.Learning about neurodiversity and how to become an advocate.Insights into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a profile of autism, and adopting a neuroaffirming low demand lifestyle.RESOURCES⚡️⚡️ connect with Katherine L'EtangInstagram + TikTok @theneurodiversitymomhttps://www.theneurodiversitymom.net/⚡️ also discussed in this episode was Erin of @spinsandstomps roadmap (PS she was on the pod too - episode 68). download it here 👇🏼https://www.spinsandstomps.com/resources⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Arielle Rubin, a board-certified child and adolescent psychiatrist, discuss:the field of psychiatry and its role in diagnosing autism and co-occurring conditionstreating anxiety, depression, and ADHD in the context of autismdifferent options and considerations when it comes to medicationRESOURCES⚡️⚡️Connect with Dr. Arielle Rubin >>Instagram @ariellerubinmdhttp://www.ariellerubinmd.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tayplease note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFTABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Pasha Marlowe, marriage and family therapist / neurodiversity coach, discuss: challenges in family relationships when children or partners are neurodivergentthe role of communication and balancing individual needs in neurodivergent familiesinsights on redefining perceptions and thriving in neurodiversityRESOURCES⚡️Connect with Pasha Marlowe >>on LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, and Facebookhttps://pashamarlowe.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses:the concept of getting “delulu” in the context of autism parentingbelieving in your autistic child's communication and developmental potential through various methodsthe transformative effect of applying 'getting delulu' to personal growth and aspirationsRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and anti-hustle coach + autism parent Marisa Hohaia discuss:her family's autism journey, the impact of her son's diagnosis on her work, and her philosophy of living that helps them navigate through their lifethe importance of enjoying the present moment and letting go of expectations in the autism journey, emphasizing how not getting caught up in a rigid vision for the future can open up more room for joy and progress in the present.manifestation in the context of autism parenting, suggesting that while parents can't directly shape or control their child's journey, they can manifest and attract necessary support, resources, and growth experiences.RESOURCES⚡️continue to learn from Marisa >>follow on Instagramcheck out resources on her website breakupwithbusy.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024. she emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting realistic and progressive goals, and taking inventory of strengths and support needs for oneself and your autistic child. she talks about her own personal journey, shares the most popular episodes of her podcast for the past year, and her ongoing learning from professionals and Autistic voices alike. the discussion also delves into challenges faced in the previous year and how they shape resilience. Dr. Tay concludes by highlighting the need to be more intentional, to live in alignment with one's values, and to focus on internal measurements of success. she also shares some sneak peeks of what is to come in 2024 for her practice.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in a candid, impromptu episode of her podcast, I address a social media video that portrays being a sibling of a neurodivergent child as unfair. while I acknowledge the challenges of parenting autistic children, I offer a different perspective based on my personal experience as a sibling and my professional insight. I discuss the importance of seeing the beauty in diversity, focusing on quality over quantity of time, and fostering empathy, resilience and advocacy skills among all children. I encourages parents to start dialogues about neurodiversity within their homes and emphasize that the goal should not be about achieving fairness but about being mindful and present for each child’s unique needs.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts an in-depth discussion with Kelli Fetter, an occupational therapist and certified handwriting specialist. they explore the common challenges autistic children encounter with handwriting, relating to fine motor difficulties and learning disabilities. Kelli provides valuable insights on the integral connection between handwriting and overall literacy. Dr. Tay and Kelli discuss signs that additional support outside of school might be necessary, and they shed light on the benefits of utilizing a strengths-based approach for building handwriting skills. Kelli stresses the importance of explicit instruction in handwriting as well as maintaining foundational motor skills through physical play to facilitate better handwriting.CHAPTERS02:21 Kelli's background and the importance of handwriting07:27 when to start monitoring for handwriting difficulties13:26 red flags for handwriting difficulties21:16 the neurological aspects of learning disabilities24:08 the impact of learning disabilities28:11 the role of motor skills in writing32:48 supporting families through Handwriting SolutionsRESOURCES⚡️ Connect with Kelli Fetter >>Subscribe to Kelli's Handwriting Solutions blogHandwriting Solutions websiteBook a free consult call with Kelli FetterOther social media: Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, I discuss my journey of unexpectedly navigating my dog Charlotte's cancer diagnosis, paralleling it with lessons for an autism parenting journey. I discuss the importance of 'living in the present moment' by constantly grounding oneself in available data and of accepting and acknowledging emotions instead of suppressing them. I share my personal experience dealing with anticipatory anxiety and how I have been countering it with grounding practices. I remind you to trust the process, enjoy life's moments despite challenges, and to remember that it's okay not to have everything together all the time and how that doesn't make anyone less of a person or parent.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts Dr. Phil Boucher, a pediatrician working within the direct primary care model. they discuss autism, including advocating for your child and support needs like sleep and additional testing. Dr. Boucher explains the challenges of traditional healthcare and his transition to the direct primary care model, allowing him more time to deliver quality healthcare to patients. he offers advice to parents on how to approach discussions about autism with their child's pediatrician. the episode concludes with a look at the future of this healthcare model, and how it allows for a more personalized and efficient approach to healthcare.RESOURCES⚡️ follow Dr. Phil Boucher on Instagram to keep learning from him⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism / ASD) are used. we have a conversation in the episode about language and why both are being used!

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts Autistic autism researcher Chelsea Verrette, who provides her insights on the current state of autism research. we discuss the importance of language in discussions about neurodivergence and the gaps in the existing literature. the conversation centers on shifting from a deficit-based model to incorporating the neurodiversity framework into research and life. Chelsea also shares her perspectives on navigating the educational system, helping children learn about their diagnosis, and building community. at the end of the episode, Chelsea shares a sneak peek into her research around neurodivergent individuals' response to marketing, suggesting that top marketing tactics may be harmful for the neurodivergent community. CHAPTERS:02:28 Chelsea's journey into autism research12:22 understanding autism and its impact24:52 understanding neurodiversity and belonging29:40 the need for neurodivergent representation in research 36:11 the impact of marketing and communication on neurodivergent individuals49:08 the importance of community and support for neurodivergent individualsRESOURCES⚡️ ways to connect with Chelsea Verrette >>Chelsea's resources, including her Discord community and daily text affirmationsfollow Chelsea on Instagramfollow Chelsea on LinkedIn⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by Jamie Lin Brown, an autism mama, to discuss the importance of building a strong community for parents of autistic children. the conversation focuses on the need to view the child holistically, integrating physical, mental, and emotional aspects of their growth. Jamie shares her own experiences and suggests how parenting communities can offer emotional support and practical advice. they also touch on the idea of maintaining personal well-being as an autism parent and not losing one's self in the journey. the episode highlights that while each child's autism journey may be unique, common connections can be formed between families sharing similar experiences.CHAPTERS02:25 Jamie's personal journey with autism08:10 the challenges and triumphs of autism parenting13:33 the role of holistic approach in autism21:08 the power of community in the autism journey30:57 the importance of building relationships40:45 the Importance of self-care in autism parentingRESOURCES⚡️ ways to connect with Jamie Lin Brown >>join the Intentional Autism Mama Community on Patreon Jamie Lin Brown's website follow Jamie on Instagram⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season. RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts mother-son duo, Dr. Myava Clark and Chris Clark, to discuss their experiences and advocacy for navigating educational support systems for children with learning differences. Dr. Clark shares her early advocacy efforts for Chris who experienced developmental delays and learning differences. Chris talks about his realization of learning differently and points out the importance of open communication. their experiences inspired the co-founding of 'CASEN', an organization and program designed to guide young people on safe and responsible usage of social media. they provide resources on social-emotional development, bullying identification, mental health development, and social media readiness. both stress the importance of celebrating individuals' abilities and strengths rather than focusing on their weaknesses.CHAPTERS:02:23 Guests share their backgrounds04:20 Discussion on early challenges and advocacy13:25 Chris' personal experience and reflections18:45 Advocacy in education and tailoring learning paths23:05 Chris's high school experience25:43 Chris' regrets and lessons learned31:00 The role of parents in social dedia safety32:51 The development of the CASEN program and app35:32 The importance of social media readinessRESOURCES⚡️ ways to connect with Dr. Myava and Chris Clark >>subscribe to the CASEN Newsletter: https://casenllc.com/ CASEN Resource library: https://casenllc.com/resource-library/ CASEN Courses: https://casenllc.com/casen-courses/CASEN Platforms: https://casenllc.com/platforms/ ⚡️apps for monitoring your child's social media >>Kids 360 app: https://kids360.app/Bark app: https://www.bark.us/⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism and other disabilities. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses swim and water safety for autistic children with Kira La Forgia, the COO of Floatie's Swim School and founder of The Paradigmm HR. they discuss the importance of swim lessons and creating a safe environment around water. Kira shares tips for parents on building awareness for themselves and their children regarding water safety. they also discuss the different types of swim lessons and the benefits of inclusive programs. Kira highlights the signs of drowning and emphasizes the importance of prevention. finally, they touch on the importance of patience and support when it comes to teaching autistic children how to swim.RESOURCES⚡️ learn more about Floatie's Swim School >> website and Instagram @floatiesswimschool⚡️ find a swim school near you >> United States Swim School Association website⚡️ connect with Kira and learn more about her HR company Paradigm Consulting >> website, business Instagram @theparadigmm, personal Instagram @kiralaforgia⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. v

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of stillness and how it can benefit parents navigating the autism parenting journey. she shares her personal experience with breathwork and therapy, highlighting the power of slowing down and regulating the nervous system. Dr. Tay emphasizes the need for parents to create moments of stillness to refill their energy and prevent burnout. she also provides practical tips for incorporating stillness into daily life, such as meditation, journaling, and intentional self-care. through intentional stillness, parents can find clarity, trust their instincts, and take intuitive action in supporting their autistic child.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Chris Bonnello, an autistic advocate, author, and a Rubik's cube master, to the podcast. Chris shares his journey from the classroom to advocacy, highlighting the importance of promoting neurodivergence. he talks about his late autism diagnosis at 24 and how this led him to a journey of self-acceptance. the discussion also covers the impact of labels on self-perception and the use of the Autistic Not Weird platform to amplify the voices and experiences of the autistic community. Chris shares about his Underdog Series and his newfound love of the Rubik's Cube, the evolution of neurodiversity, and advice for parents of autistic children.CHAPTERS(00:00) Neurodiversity and Acceptance(10:31) Autism's Impact on Identity and Masking(23:41) The Growth of Autistic Not Weird(34:35) The Underdog Series and Other Advocacy Work(41:29) Rubik's Cubes and Finding CommunityRESOURCES⚡️ Connect with Chris and support his advocacy workJoin the Autistic Not Weird community on FacebookOrder the Underdogs Series and other booksSubscribe to Chris' PatreonOther social media: Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook⚡️Read the Autistic Not Weird Autism Survey that summarizes perspectives from over 7,000 autistic people and 11,000 people total⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Dr. Nicole Michaeli, a pediatric psychologist specializing in comprehensive evaluations, to the podcast. we discuss the twice-exceptional (2E) profile of children who are gifted and have learning or developmental disabilities. the episode includes discussions about asynchronous development characteristic of 2E children as well as strengths and support needs in the context of a neurodiversity framework. Dr. Nicole discusses the importance of a tailored approach to foster the growth of 2E children, addressing the emotional impact they often experience. she also explores intriguing findings from brain imaging studies that differentiate these children from their peers. the episode offers practical advice and actionable steps for 2E children, with a specific focus on how giftedness can present in autistic children.RESOURCES⚡️connect with Dr. Nicole MichaeliInstagram @drnicolephdTikTok @drnicolephdMy Child Assessment website (her practice in West Los Angeles)⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts speech-language pathologist Katja Piscitelli on the podcast to explore Gestalt Language Processing and Natural Language Acquisition (NLA). They discuss how this form of language processing is a common and natural pathway to language development for autistic and non-autistic children alike. Katja shares her experience of discovering this language phenomenon, and how it can be a powerful tool in supporting language development. they also discuss the role of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) in language development. The conversation includes pointers on how to identify if your child is a Gestalt Language Processor and the importance of patience and consistent modeling in language development.CHAPTERS0:00.00 - welcome Katja Piscitelli and her story of becoming a speech-language pathologist0:03:33 - what is Gestalt Language Processing (GLP)0:07:52 - what is Natural Language Acquisition (NLA)0:08:50 - stage 1 of GLP and how to support0:21:37 - what is Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) and how to adapt for GLPs0:36:41 - stage 2 of GLP and how to support0:40:41 - stage 3 of GLP and how to support0:46:28 - stage 4, 5, and 6 with developing grammar0:49:23 - ways to connect with KatjaRESOURCES⚡️ follow Katja on Instagram and Facebook to keep learning more from here⚡️ additional resources for GLPwww.meaningfulspeech.comwww.communicationdevelopmentcenter.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇this in epsiode, I discuss my personal experience with burnout and perfectionism. I emphasize the importance of recognizing when it's time to pause, reassessing priorities, and letting go of perfectionism. I announce a change to the podcast - dropping down to one promised episode per week! but we have over 70 past episodes that you can binge. plus there could be surprise episodes from time to time. I also encourage you to take a step back and evaluate your life, cutting back on unnecessary tasks and focusing on what truly matters.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!on today's Dr. Tay breaks down the different specialty fields and what types of providers can diagnose vs. do therapy. we focus on the field of psychology, as psychologists are uniquely positioned to provide comprehensive care, including diagnosis and therapy services. the other fields covered in this episode include psychiatry, developmental behavioral pediatrics, neurology, mental health therapists, and school psychology. NOTE: in this episode, I do not touch on the therapists who focus on developmental skills, such as speech-language therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy. these types of therapists provide great support services but are unable to diagnose autism. basically any profession with the title "therapist" are typically unable to diagnose autism.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tayDISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Theresa Noye, an autism mother, author, and self-love coach, to the podcast. Theresa shares her journey of her son's diagnosis, from non-speaking to now a college student studying strategic communications. she also discusses the transformative power of love and advocacy and sheds light on the importance of self-care and family care. the episode also delves into racial disparities and seeing your child as an individual. Theresa used the inspiration of her own story to write a book and then start coaching other Black women on self-love. RESOURCES⚡️ Theresa's book "Hello Autism: How to Love, Like, and Learn from Your Special Needs Child"⚡️ connect with Theresa on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram and/or book a free epiphany session to learn more about her self-love coaching⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the transformative power of "yet" in parenting an autistic child. discover the power of 'yet' as a tool for staying present, believing in your child's potential, and reducing worry. as an action item, you are encouraged to journal your current worries and shift them to include "yet."RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!Q: how do I respond when someone makes fun of my autistic child?A: Dr. Tay shares tips and strategies for navigating this difficult topic, with a focus on creating collaborative conversations and managing your own emotions in these situations.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts Dr. Steve Chaney, a renowned research scientist and educator, on the podcast to discuss the complexities of autism. we cover the causes of autism, emphasizing the roles of genetics, environmental factors, and epigenetics. we also discuss common misconceptions about autism and discuss the importance of individual experiences. the conversation also focuses on the role of diet, highlighting the benefits of whole foods, as well as discussion of supplementation.CHAPTERS0:00:00 - introduction of Dr. Chaney0:03:25 - causes of autism0:11:38 - understanding and interpreting research0:18:18 - the role of diet0:25:45 - discussion about supplementsRESOURCES⚡️ continue learning from Dr. Chaney >>subscribe to his weekly blog Health Tips From The Professorread his books Slaying the Food Myths and Slaying the Supplement Myths⚡️learn more about Shaklee products, including connecting with Dr. Chaney's wife, Suzanne, via email [email protected] or text 919-524-4815⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay delves into the transformative concept of presuming competence in autistic children, highlighting the profound effect our expectations and assumptions can have on their development and growth. it explores real-life stories and experiences, showing how the lack of presumed competence can limit a child's potential and create barriers to inclusion. the episode ends by urging listeners to continually challenge their thinking about autism and competence, emphasizing that every child's potential should be seen, nurtured, and heard.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

69 | "can a child outgrow autism" Q+Aanswering YOUR questions on today's episode!Q: can a child outgrow autism?A: Dr. Tay addresses a misconception that a child can outgrow autism, emphasizing how autism is a lifelong disability and it is how your child's brain is wired. we discuss the DSM diagnostic criteria and how a child may need different supports at different times.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay has Erin from @spinsandstomps on the podcast. Erin shares about her daughter Riley's journey to getting an autism diagnosis as well as understanding her daughter's ways of communicating. Erin discusses the transformative power of an AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) device in Riley's life and how she identified that she was a Gestalt Language Processor (GLP). specifics on AAC devices particularly for GLPs were detailed in this episode. we also cover broader issues that many autism parents face, including access to diagnostic services and decisions about therapy services. CHAPTERS(0:00:00) - introduction and beginning of the discussion on AAC devices for autistic children.(0:14:26) - navigating autism and accessing services for autistic children.(0:22:56) - AAC and Gestalt Language Processing(0:35:50) - AAC devices and their role in promoting self-directed communication in autistic children(0:41:56) - conclusion including understanding autism, the use of AAC devices, and the importance of love and education in raising an autistic child.RESOURCES⚡️ connect with Erin to learn more about her family's journey as well as helpful resources on Instagram @spinsandstomps and her website.⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares practical strategies to overcome procrastination and the psychology behind it. we also discuss the concept of catastrophization, where small tasks are magnified into overwhelming burdens, and how to stop it.RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.