EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this mini-episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of noticing and reinforcing small wins in the autism parenting journey. Emphasizing the balance between avoiding toxic positivity and acknowledging positive moments, Dr. Tay explains how behaviorism done in a neurodiversity affirming way can play a role in promoting desired behaviors in autistic children. She shares practical tips on how parents can start recognizing subtle behavioral shifts and reinforce them to facilitate positive change. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, Dr. Tay offers valuable strategies for improving parent-child interactions and fostering an environment where small steps are celebrated on the way to achieving bigger goals.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:04 Understanding the Concept of Wins01:45 Behaviorism and Neurodiversity Affirming Approaches02:57 Practical Examples and Strategies07:57 The Importance of Interpretation09:04 Reinforcing Small Wins12:42 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Lo Farmer to discuss the role of parental advocacy. Lo shares her journey from discovering her son's developmental delays to advocating for equitable access to services. Highlighted topics include the emotional and logistical challenges of getting a diagnosis, the broken support systems for special needs families, and Lo's significant efforts to change policies at the Fort Worth Zoo regarding 1:1 aides. Dr. Tay and Lo emphasize the importance of community support, the need for systemic change, and the value of giving parents grace during this demanding journey.00:00 Introduction and Episode Theme00:23 Inspiring Quote and Guest Introduction01:35 Welcome to the Parenting Space02:42 Guest's Background and Family Journey03:45 Challenges in Accessing Services05:07 The Broken System and Advocacy07:29 Navigating Diagnosis and Support10:54 The Emotional Toll and Parental Grief15:58 Public Advocacy and Viral Impact20:44 Facing Legal Challenges Without a Lawyer21:15 Empowering Special Needs Moms21:43 Strategic Advocacy for Change22:31 The Zoo Inclusion Controversy22:57 Navigating Support Systems24:10 The Importance of Familiarity in Care28:36 Advocacy Goals and Personal Challenges35:40 Parental Stress and Community Support39:40 Wrapping Up and Staying ConnectedRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Lo on Instagram @sipdinedesign and continue to hear her updates on inclusion⚡️ research article about parental stress discussed in episode linked here ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses five compelling reasons why parents should consider getting their child assessed for autism, despite the current political climate. This mini episode offers insights into the benefits of obtaining a tailored plan, gaining greater understanding and acceptance of your child, boosting parental confidence, and being proactive in mental health outcomes. Dr. Tay also addresses common concerns about sharing diagnoses and offers guidance on how to navigate the evaluation process, including the advantages of private pay options. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:25 Why Get an Autism Assessment?01:24 Tailored Plans from Evaluations03:04 Understanding Your Child Better05:24 Acceptance and Mental Health06:59 Boosting Parental Confidence08:23 The Importance of Being Proactive10:55 Navigating the Evaluation Process14:00 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ Learn more about our approaches and services in episodes "46 | telehealth evaluations: a new era in autism diagnosis" and "48 | Q+A: a closer look into Dr. Tay's concierge private practice for autism support" ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Andi Putt, better known on social media as @mrsspeechiep. Andi, a late identified autistic speech therapist, discusses her work doing autism evaluations and the resources she provides for the autism community. They explore topics including the nuances of autism diagnosis, the importance of neurodiversity-affirming care, and the development of Andi's popular Autism Handbooks. The conversation also dives into challenges within the clinical community, continuous learning, and advocacy for understanding and acceptance of autism. Andi shares how her personal experiences as an autistic individual influence her work and advocacy, with an invitation for all clinical providers and educators to make the perspective shift to neurodiversity-affirming care.00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement02:08 Meet Andi Putt: The Journey to Speech Therapy04:10 Discovering Autism and Social Media Advocacy05:00 The Importance of Neurodiversity Affirming Care06:45 Challenges and Growth in Autism Evaluations12:14 Personal Diagnosis and Self-Discovery16:16 The Role of Speech Therapy in Autism Diagnosis23:33 Creating the Autism Handbook28:32 Connecting Through Autism29:19 Books for Autistic Children31:07 Simplifying Complex Information32:37 Understanding Autism Variability33:27 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis36:52 Autism Epidemic Misconceptions39:27 The Importance of Accurate Diagnosis46:17 Conclusion and ResourcesRESOURCES ⚡️ check out Andi's resourcesParent Autism HandbookThe Autism Handbook for KidsUnderstanding Autism TogetherStatistics post referenced on the episode⚡️ follow Andi on Instagram @mrsspeechiep and Facebook⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the challenges and debates surrounding Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month. She shares insights from conversations about the division within the autism community over terminologies, symbols, and approaches, emphasizing the importance of unity and empathy. Dr. Tay highlights the pressing issues like the spread of misinformation, the role of evidence-based practices, and the political landscape affecting autism support. She calls for collaboration and understanding to better support autistic individuals and their families while addressing societal and medical misperceptions.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:32 Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month01:36 Debates and Divisions in the Autism Community03:37 Misinformation and Vaccine Controversies06:09 Call for Unity and Empathy09:44 Conclusion and Call to ActionRESOURCES⚡️ Check out episodes "152 | how US policy updates impact the neurodiversity movement" and "156 | education under siege: what it means for your autistic child" ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this insightful episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Lisa Jean-Francois, known as @consciouslylisa_ on social media. Lisa shares her in-depth and personal journey of parenting two autistic children. The conversation covers her initial struggles and breakthroughs in understanding autism, the unexpected discovery of her husband's late diagnosis, and her introspective look at her possible neurodivergence. Lisa also discusses her adaptation of gentle and conscious parenting techniques to align with her family's unique cultural context and needs. The episode delves into the challenges and strategies for raising autistic children, including the importance of community support and the varying experiences across different neurodivergence spectrums. Crucially, this episode emphasizes the importance of not generalizing autism experiences and highlights the necessity of tailored approaches in both understanding and parenting.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:36 Lisa's Parenting Journey02:45 Early Signs and Diagnosis05:57 Navigating Misdiagnosis and Acceptance10:01 Impact on Family and Personal Reflections17:40 Husband's Realization and Family Dynamics22:33 Self-Identification and Broader Implications26:24 Navigating Parental Self-Diagnosis27:38 The Complexity of Diagnosing Neurodivergence31:00 Parenting Approaches and Cultural Adaptations35:01 Challenges and Strategies in Gentle Parenting43:53 The Importance of Individual Experiences46:15 Connecting and Learning from the Community49:40 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ follow Lisa on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the intersection between evidence-based practices and neurodiversity affirming care in autism treatment. Drawing from her extensive background in research and clinical practice, she discusses the challenges of integrating these approaches to provide tailored, effective support for autistic individuals. Emphasizing the importance of lived experiences and clinical impressions alongside research, Dr. Tay highlights the need for a flexible, patient-centered approach to care that focuses on quality of life. This episode aims to inform and inspire listeners about the evolving landscape of autism care.00:00 Introduction to Mini Episodes00:49 Purpose and Format of Mini Episodes01:33 Today's Topic: Evidence-Based Practice and Neurodiversity02:00 Background and Training in Research03:05 Challenges in Autism Research03:41 Neurodiversity Affirming Practices07:34 Intersection of Evidence-Based and Neurodiversity Practices11:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts13:11 Subscribe and EngageRESOURCES ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses apraxia with Jordan Levan, a disability advocate and founder of The Apraxia Foundation. They explore the differences between apraxia and dyspraxia, signs and symptoms, and the importance of early diagnosis. Jordan shares his personal journey with childhood apraxia of speech, the types of therapeutic approaches available, and how to integrate neurodiversity affirming approaches into therapeutic supports. They also talk about the resources and support provided by The Apraxia Foundation, specifically AAC devices and speech therapy services, emphasizing a comprehensive understanding of each child’s needs.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:40 Meet Jordan LeVan: Disability Advocate02:59 Jordan's Personal Journey with Apraxia04:06 Challenges and Advocacy in Childhood07:10 Speech Therapy and Treatment Approaches15:29 Understanding Apraxia and Its Types23:11 Dyspraxia Explained31:56 Understanding Co-Occurring Conditions with Childhood Apraxia32:29 The Importance of Knowing Your Child's Full Disability Profile32:47 Personal Experiences with Late Diagnoses34:11 The Impact of Historical Treatment of Disabilities on Parents' Fears36:58 The Role of Comprehensive Evaluations in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia41:54 Challenges in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia in Autistic Children44:37 Therapeutic Approaches for Childhood Apraxia48:53 The Importance of Consent in Speech Therapy56:37 Introduction to the Apraxia Foundation01:00:50 Connecting with the Apraxia Foundation and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Jordan on Instagram @fightingformyvoice and visit his website ⚡️ learn about his nonprofit @theapraxiafoundation and visit the website ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay connects with Neurofriendly Beau, a neurodivergent ADHD coach and parent of a neurodivergent child. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of parenting when the parent and child have different neurotypes. Beau shares insights on her late ADHD diagnosis and limitations of the diagnosis process as well as details her journey through parenthood, and the importance of adaptable and understanding approaches that go beyond traditional neurotypical standards. They also dive into the need for safety, individual accommodation, and the critical importance of modeling self-compassion and advocacy for children. Beau also presents her personal struggles and strategies for co-existing with Autism/ADHD (AuDHD) in an insightful and relatable manner, making this a deeply valuable episode for parents and guardians navigating similar journeys.00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview00:58 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose01:59 Guest's Introduction and Initial Conversation03:27 Guest's ADHD Diagnosis Journey09:49 Parenting and Neurodivergence17:34 Collaborative Parenting Approach18:06 Addressing Self-Sabotaging Thoughts18:59 Unique Solutions for Daily Challenges20:03 Navigating Screen Time Concerns22:01 Modeling Problem-Solving for Kids24:58 Embracing Neurodivergent Parenting25:57 The Importance of Self-Advocacy27:44 Shame and Neurodivergence31:25 Resources and Support for Parents32:39 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ follow Beau on Instagram @neurofriendlybeau and check out her website here, including to learn about her coaching services ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in neurodiversity affirming care, interviews Laura Petix @theotbutterfly about her children's book on neurodiversity. They discuss how to help children understand their autistic brain and neurodivergent traits, Laura's inspiration for writing the book, and her background as a pediatric occupational therapist. The conversation covers Laura's journey as a neurodivergent parent, the importance of educating neurotypical children about neurodiversity, and how her book aims to normalize differences in behaviors and learning styles in classrooms and at home.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview01:55 Meet Laura Petix: The OT Butterfly02:20 Laura's Journey and Neurodivergent Parenting03:40 Understanding Neurodiversity and ADHD05:54 Challenges in Getting a Diagnosis15:01 Educating Neurotypical Kids About Neurodiversity21:17 Understanding Autism and Family Care21:48 Book Release and Publisher Transition22:35 Importance of Pre-orders for Authors24:21 Impact of the Book on Children and Classrooms26:36 Key Concepts and Messages in the Book30:42 Engaging Adults and Broader Audience34:43 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️PRE-ORDER her book here before March 4, 2025 (same link works to purchase the book after that date)⚡️ FOLLOW Laura on Instagram and learn about her other resources ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this special episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to discuss critical updates impacting special education in the U.S. They delve into the Texas vs. Becerra case regarding the potential elimination of Section 504 protections, explore potential changes within the Department of Education, and highlight the significance of grassroots advocacy. Dr. Tay and Ashley provide valuable insights on how parents can proactively advocate for their children's educational rights, navigate current stresses, and use available resources effectively. The episode underscores the importance of building strong relationships with IEP teams and staying informed about legislative changes that may affect the neurodivergent community.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:10 Meet Ashley Barlow: Special Education Attorney00:19 Understanding 504 IEP and Its Importance03:18 Concerns About Losing 504 Protections08:04 Impact of Losing 504 on Disability Community14:20 Advocacy and Grassroots Efforts30:21 Potential Changes in the Department of Education39:23 Government Efficiency and DEI Initiatives40:59 Impact on Education and Research42:23 State-Level Implications and Comparisons44:25 Project 2025 and Potential Changes45:47 Real-Life Impacts on Special Education54:48 Advocacy and Legislative Engagement01:02:51 Practical Advice for Parents01:08:17 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ CHECK OUT Ashley’s $9 training for building collaborative teams: https://ashleybarlowco.com/video-2-from-tension-to-teamwork-harnessing-conflict-for-iep-success⚡️FOLLOW Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep⚡️ TAKE ACTION and download the 5 calls app and start making calls⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes Mercedes Palermo to discuss her experiences as a parent of an autistic daughter diagnosed with ARFID. Mercedes shares her journey, from the initial diagnosis to managing daily challenges, while highlighting her advocacy efforts in spreading awareness. The episode covers key issues like understanding avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), balancing the needs of siblings, and creating supportive environments. Mercedes also talks about her initiatives, including a nonprofit providing recreational programs for individuals with disabilities, emphasizing the importance of community support and neurodiversity.00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement00:28 Meet Mercedes Palermo01:18 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose02:28 Mercedes' Family and Autism Journey04:08 Diagnosis Process and Early Signs06:59 Challenges and Advocacy10:14 Understanding ARFID12:50 Navigating ARFID and Family Dynamics30:35 Community Building and Support36:13 Final Thoughts and Resources37:26 Closing Remarks and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ Follow Mercedes on Instagram @autismoutloud⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Michelle Fardella, a clinical and school psychologist from Canada, to discuss the critical topic of sex education for autistic youth. The conversation covers various aspects, including the importance of proactive sex education, teaching body autonomy, consent, and addressing misconceptions. They delve into barriers faced by autistic youth in accessing comprehensive sex education and emphasize safety and appropriate teaching methods. Additionally, the episode touches on gender identity, sexual orientation, and provides practical resources for parents and educators. Trigger warnings and the importance of seeking support are also highlighted to ensure a safe and informative discussion.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:29 Meet Dr. Michelle Fardella02:43 Trigger Warning and Sensitive Topics03:57 Dr. Fardella's Background and Passion06:26 Challenges in Sex Education for Autistic Youth08:09 Importance of Tailored Sex Education10:27 Parental Mindset and Barriers18:03 Starting Early: Teaching Consent and Safety20:01 Navigating Discomfort and Finding Safe Persons23:43 The Accidental Exposure to Pornography23:58 Discussing Pornography with Young Children25:11 Proactive Conversations About Intercourse26:04 Addressing Misconceptions from Pornography28:13 Honesty in Answering Kids' Questions30:10 Resources for Teaching Sexual Health32:46 Masturbation: Education and Safety36:00 Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation41:04 Conclusion and Additional ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ find resources for talking about these topics on Dr. Michelle’s blog >> https://www.wondertreepractice.ca/post/a-caregiver-s-guide-to-teaching-sex-education-to-neurodivergent-youth⚡️follow WonderTree Practice on Instagram and learn more about their services here if you’re in Ontario⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach, speaks with Dr. Mona Amin, a board-certified pediatrician known for her social media presence as PedsDocTalk. They discuss critical aspects of navigating the journey of raising an autistic child, including effective strategies for interacting with pediatricians, advocating for necessary accommodations, and understanding the nuances of autism diagnosis. Dr. Mona shares insights on the importance of continual learning for clinicians and collaboration between professionals and parents. The conversation also addresses handling common challenges such as anxiety, behavioral issues, and medical fears in autistic children. This episode is a valuable resource for parents and professionals alike, providing practical tips and underscoring the significance of empathy and communication in pediatric care.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:31 Meet Dr. Mona Amin02:50 Dr. Mona's Online Education Journey05:32 Navigating Autism Diagnosis07:44 State Differences in Autism Diagnosis10:58 Screening Tools and Challenges15:11 Parental Advocacy and Pediatrician Collaboration19:27 Collaborations and Resources25:38 Accommodations for Autistic Patients26:28 Understanding Accommodations for Autistic Children26:57 Creating a Low-Stim Environment27:50 Effective Communication with Autistic Children28:28 Handling Medical Procedures with Care31:47 Addressing Anxiety and Medical Fears32:18 Role-Playing and Preparation at Home33:04 Strategies for Reducing Stress in Medical Settings34:31 Training Medical Staff for Better Care40:08 Procedures and Special Considerations41:26 Addressing Sleep, Feeding, and Behavior Issues47:10 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ continue learning and connecting with Dr. Mona @pedsdoctalk on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, podcast, and her website. ⚡️ watch Dr. Mona and Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep's YouTube video on autism characteristics and signs here. ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay shares a real-time update on US policy changes and their impact for autistic individuals and neurodiversity affirming supports. This episode was recorded and published on Jan 29th, 2025 and addresses topics such as DEI, Medicaid, NIH, gender recognition, ICE, and Elon Musk. This episode is not intended to be a news source but instead encourages you to stay informed and presents the implications for the neurodiversity affirming movement. If you feel passionate about neurodiversity and autistic supports, this is a must-listen.RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by school psychologist Briana Drimmer to explore the complexities of school eligibility criteria for autism. They discuss the differences between medical diagnoses and educational eligibility, the role of an IEP team, and how to advocate for your autistic child within the school system. The episode also covers the educational impact, specially designed instruction, and other common eligibility categories such as OHI and ED. Tune in to learn how to effectively navigate the school system and ensure your child receives the support they need.00:00 Introduction to School and Autism Eligibility00:36 Meet Briana Drimmer: School Psychologist01:34 Navigating School Systems vs. Clinical Diagnoses04:21 Understanding the IEP Team05:31 The Process of School Evaluation for Autism08:13 Challenges and Denials in the Evaluation Process14:52 Eligibility Criteria for Autism in Schools21:58 Differences Between DSM and IDEA Criteria30:58 Understanding Educational Impact Beyond Grades31:05 Communication and Social Challenges31:35 Emotional and Adaptive Skills31:59 Mobility and Academic Examples32:27 Curiosity and Broader Definitions32:59 Specially Designed Instruction35:10 Accommodations vs. Special Education36:27 The Role of 504 Plans38:21 Specialized Academic Instruction39:24 Behavioral and Counseling Services42:33 Navigating School Systems and Advocacy51:10 Co-Occurring Diagnoses and Eligibility57:32 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ Follow Briana on Instagram @educationallypsyched ⚡️ Check out her resources on Teachers Pay Teachers ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Marissa Ramos, a bilingual English/ASL speech therapist, to discuss the benefits of incorporating sign language into communication strategies for autistic and hard of hearing children. They dive into the overlapping needs of these children, the surprisingly low percentage of speech therapists who are fluent in ASL, and share insights on the importance of early language exposure. Marissa also discusses her personal journey with ASL and her advocacy for its broader use in therapy. The conversation highlights the significance of multimodal communication and introduces listeners to resources for learning and integrating ASL into everyday practice.00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview03:28 Marissa's Background and Journey into ASL05:36 Understanding Deaf Culture and Terminology09:26 The Power of ASL in Early Childhood13:13 Neurodiversity Affirming Approaches to ASL17:06 Sign Language as a Form of Communication20:20 Spoken Language vs AAC: Efficiency and Accessibility21:25 Understanding the Difference: ASL vs AAC22:34 The Benefits of Teaching Sign Language25:11 Statistics on Hearing Loss in Autistic Children28:15 The Importance of Multimodal Communication33:12 Language Deprivation Syndrome37:19 Resources for Learning ASL39:10 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Marissa on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook⚡️ check out her resources, including the free 100 word checklist here ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Iris Wong, a speech-language pathologist, executive functioning coach, and late diagnosed AuDHD mother with ND children to discuss the importance of executive functions. The conversation covers the definition of executive functions, how they manifest in daily life, and particularly how they impact autistic and ADHD children. They explore practical examples and strategies to support executive functioning skills, focusing on using special interests and leveraging AI tools. This episode emphasizes the importance of understanding individual brain patterns and provides resources for continued learning.00:00 Introduction to Executive Functions00:27 Meet Iris Wong: A Journey Through Neurodivergence01:11 Understanding Executive Functions in Daily Life01:29 Welcome to A Parenting Space Designed for You02:48 Iris Wong's Personal and Professional Background04:31 The Role of Executive Functions in Family Dynamics06:53 Challenges and Strategies for Parents08:45 Defining Executive Functions15:45 Executive Functions and PDA Profile18:33 Navigating Burnout and Executive Functions21:46 Real-Life Examples and Practical Advice23:25 Flexible Schooling and Self-Care Tasks25:26 Understanding Body Doubling in Schools25:51 Navigating Self-Care with EF Challenges26:43 Innovative Self-Care Strategies27:54 Supporting Neurodivergent Adults28:44 Accommodations for Executive Functioning29:43 Demand Avoidance and Overwhelm30:04 Personal Stories and EF Challenges31:55 Special Interests and EF Skills42:28 The Role of AI in Supporting EF45:14 Resources and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ Follow Iris on Instagram⚡️ Learn about her resources >> www.eftoolkit.com⚡️ Check out her book all things EF >> https://akidsco.com/products/a-kids-book-about-executive-functioning⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this final episode of 2024, Dr. Tay recaps the top 10 most downloaded podcast episodes of the year, reflecting on the amazing growth and impact of the show. The podcast, focused on autism and parenting, has garnered significant attention with an average of 1,400 downloads per week recently, and a total of over 55,000 all-time downloads. Highlighted episodes include deep dives into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), autism in females, low demand parenting, sensory regulation at home, and various therapeutic approaches. Dr. Tay also discusses future plans for monetization to enhance the podcast's reach and quality, including potential ads and sponsorships that align with the listeners' interests. Listeners are encouraged to provide feedback and topic suggestions for future episodes. Happy New Year and looking forward to the exciting developments in 2025!00:00 Welcome and Episode Recap Introduction00:51 Podcast Analytics and Listener Engagement02:32 Future Plans and Monetization03:58 Top Episode #1: What is PDA?05:18 Top Episodes #2-5: PDA and Beyond10:48 Top Episodes #6-10: Autism Insights and Alternatives19:26 Honorable Mentions and Listener Appreciation20:37 Closing Remarks and Future Outlook⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay discusses the pressures of modern life, the need for human connection, and the importance of being present. She reflects on her experiences from the past year, including her professional milestones and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of celebrating accomplishments instead of always striving for more. Dr. Tay also talks about her upcoming plans, including the highly-anticipated membership launch. As she recaps the year, Dr. Tay invites listeners to focus on their own growth and wins, and to remember that epic fails do not define them, but how they recover and move forward does.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:22 Personal Reflections and Social Media Insights02:19 The Importance of Slowing Down03:27 Taylor Swift and Personal Growth07:13 Holiday Season Reflections10:41 Epic Fail and Business Update13:33 Neuro Affirming Care and Personal Growth14:10 Balancing Work and Personal Life15:00 The Membership Journey17:17 Reflecting on Achievements and Failures23:35 Parenting and Personal Development24:42 Wrapping Up and Looking Forward⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay hosts Betsy Hicks (@betsyonthego) who discusses her journey parenting her 31-year-old non-speaking autistic son, Joey. The conversation delves into Betsy's experiences with autism awareness over the years, the impact of nutrition on Joey's behavior, and the significant breakthrough they experienced with Spelling to Communicate. Betsy shares the process and emotional experience of Joey moving out and gaining independence, emphasizing the importance of following one's intuition as a parent. Dr. Tay and Betsy also address the challenges and nuances of parenting within the autism community and the role of social media in providing support and spreading awareness.00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview02:23 Betsy's Journey Begins03:40 Discovering the Impact of Diet04:27 A New Chapter with John05:55 The Shift in Understanding Autism07:34 Spelling to Communicate09:14 Reflections and Insights15:25 Navigating Social Media and Advocacy29:27 Joey's Progress and Moving Out31:54 Realizing Children's Independence33:44 Joey's New Caregiver: Nick's Story35:29 The Apartment Community's Support42:03 Navigating Section 8 Housing45:39 Balancing Caregiving and Independence49:25 The Importance of Nutrition54:30 Wrapping Up and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ Follow Betsy @betsyonthego on TikTok and Instagram and learn about her resources betsyonthego.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this heartfelt mini-episode, Dr. Tay sheds light on the disturbing practice of using seclusion rooms for dysregulated children, often presented under names like 'calm down rooms' or 'regulation rooms.' Highlighting the traumatic impact of these practices, Dr. Tay empowers parents with information on how to identify and advocate against the use of these rooms. The episode includes practical tips for parents on educating themselves about state laws, inquiring about school policies in IEP meetings, and proposing proactive, humane solutions. Dr. Tay calls for community unity in advocating for neurodiversity-affirming care and ensuring autistic children are treated with dignity and respect.00:00 Introduction to a Difficult Topic00:29 Understanding Seclusion Rooms01:42 Real-Life Stories and Impact02:56 Advocating for Change08:32 Proactive Strategies and Solutions15:35 Final Thoughts and Call to ActionRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season. RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this special mini-episode Dr. Tay, a child psychologist specializing in autism, discusses how extended family members can better support parents of autistic children during the holiday season. Drawing on over a decade of experience and direct feedback from parents, Dr. Tay shares practical advice, such as understanding triggers, recognizing the effort parents put into preparing for events, and ways to offer meaningful help. This episode is what your loved one wants you to know! A special thank you to the parents who submitted their insights and are featured on this episode. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast01:12 Understanding Autism and Neurodiversity02:21 Holiday Support for Autistic Children03:29 Parental Insights and Requests06:38 Common Misunderstandings and Challenges15:07 Sensory and Social Considerations18:38 Creating a Supportive Environment for Neurodivergent Children19:05 Offering Help and Dropping Judgment20:21 Understanding Meltdowns and Neurodivergence21:11 Challenges in Getting Diagnoses and Support21:51 Validating Parents' Efforts and Experiences23:23 Navigating Family Traditions and Accommodations27:18 Grief and Emotional Complexity in Parenting32:08 Final Thoughts and EncouragementRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back Ashley Barlow, a special education attorney and advocate, for her third appearance. The discussion dives into the complexities of special education disputes, specifically focusing on mediation, due process, and parental rights. They explore the challenges parents face with school systems, legal options available, and the importance of advocacy and negotiation. Essential resources and strategies for navigating these situations are also shared, providing parents with valuable insights to better support their children’s education.00:00 Introduction and Guest Reintroduction00:33 Overview of Today's Topic01:18 Host and Guest Backgrounds02:43 Challenges in Special Education03:59 Navigating Special Education Law05:21 Advocacy and Negotiation Strategies10:36 Understanding Due Process23:32 Legal Counteractions in School Disputes24:05 Understanding Independent Educational Evaluations (IEE)24:43 Financial Considerations and Attorney Fees26:24 The Role of Due Process in Special Education28:50 Navigating 504 Plans and Anti-Discrimination Laws36:44 Alternative Approaches to Due Process41:32 Final Thoughts and Resources for Parents44:08 Wrap-Up and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ listen to episodes 53 and 57 for more information about special education from Ashley as well as her podcast The Collaborative IEP⚡️ see all that Ashley has to offer here, including her newly launched IEP Guru Academy ⚡️ follow Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

In this episode, Dr. Tay invites Alyssa Campbell of Seed & Sew to discuss the importance of supporting autistic students at a classroom-wide level, particularly focusing on their nervous system and sensory regulation. Alyssa, with her extensive background in early childhood education and emotional development, shares insights and practical strategies for creating sensory-friendly environments and understanding individual sensory profiles. They explore the benefits of proactive versus reactive strategies in educational settings, the vital role of teachers and parents in advocating for proper supports, and the importance of normalizing neurodiverse needs to foster inclusive learning spaces for all students. The episode is filled with actionable insights that are beneficial for educators, parents, and anyone involved in the care and development of autistic children.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:48 Meet Alyssa Campbell: Expert in Emotional Development01:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Mission03:33 Alyssa's Journey and Collaborative Emotion Processing Method04:12 Understanding Sensory Regulation and Nervous System18:00 Practical Applications in the Classroom20:34 Supporting Sensory Needs in Education25:19 Parental and Teacher Collaboration25:58 Understanding Early Childhood Sensory Responses27:17 Proactive Strategies in Schools35:13 Supporting Teachers and Parents38:32 Managing Diverse Needs in the Classroom45:55 The Role of Occupational Therapy49:26 Resources and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️check out Alyssa and her parent-friendly resources, including the sensory quiz here: https://www.seedandsew.org/parents⚡️check out her resources for teachers and schools, including her certification here: https://www.seedandsew.org/seedcertificationteachers⚡️follow her on Instagram @seed.and.sew and listen to her podcast Voices of Your Village⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Courtney Peebles, co-founder of Solobo Toys, which designs educational toys with neurodivergent children in mind. Courtney shares personal stories about her diagnoses, launching the company, and navigating a neurodiverse household. Courtney designs toys for all ability levels. They discuss how parents can select toys that promote children's learning and interests. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement01:23 Meet Dr. Tay: Your Host02:25 Courtney's Journey and Family Background03:09 The Diagnosis Journey09:41 Starting Solobo Toys13:36 Challenges and Triumphs in Business23:03 The Story Behind the Emotional Baggage Toy23:55 Changing the Narrative in Parenting24:52 Navigating Autism and Family Support25:32 Self-Advocacy and Permission26:58 Modeling Behavior for Kids27:43 Challenging Unrealistic Expectations28:22 Teaching Self-Advocacy Early29:31 Creating a Safe Space at Home32:50 Exploring and Setting Boundaries36:11 Designing Inclusive Toys41:53 Balancing Business and Accessibility46:07 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ shop Solobo Toys and check out their sensory guide⚡️ follow @solobotoys on Instagram⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this podcast episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back Dr. Arielle Rubin, a triple board certified psychiatrist, to discuss the role of psychiatry for autistic children with co-occurring mental health conditions. This is a follow-up to episode 94, where Dr. Rubin answers parent-submitted questions. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:15 Recap of Episode 9400:53 Challenges in Psychiatry01:12 Disclaimer and Podcast Purpose02:25 Welcome Dr. Arielle Rubin02:38 Dr. Arielle Rubin's Background03:57 Breaking the Status Quo in Psychiatry04:22 Community Support for Families06:18 Diving into Parent Questions06:51 Stimulant Medication for ADHD11:11 Alternatives to Atypical Antipsychotics14:55 When to Consider Psychiatry20:08 Tips for Discussing PDA with Psychiatry23:24 Genesight Testing for Kids27:42 Considering Mental Health Programs29:09 Inpatient Psychiatry: When and Why30:53 Residential Treatment Centers32:04 Intensive Outpatient Programs and Partial Hospitalization35:19 Medications for Rumination and Aggression39:36 Medications to Avoid and Supplement Interactions42:53 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ listen to episode 94 on Apple or Spotify⚡️ follow Dr. Rubin on Instagram, join the Autism Roadmaps Community, and sign-up for her newsletter ⚡️ download the Supplement Guide for Autism and Mental Health referenced in the episode⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: 1) in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.2) PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the key themes she is seeing in clinical practice. Dr. Taylor Day is a licensed psychologist specializing in neurodiversity affirming care and shares insights regarding common referral questions as well as what many families in her group therapy program are navigating. 00:00 Introduction to Common Themes in Clinical Practice01:21 Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)03:19 Challenges Faced by Parents and Families04:41 The Role of Clinical Care vs. Social Media07:12 The Importance of Tailored Clinical Approaches16:23 Second Opinion Evaluations and Autism Diagnosis20:52 Navigating the Broken System21:27 Scholarships and Financial Aid21:50 Late Autism Diagnoses in Children23:02 Parents Exploring Their Own Neurodiversity24:54 Parents' Mental Health Matters29:46 Advocacy as a Skill32:43 Challenges in Schools with Neurodiversity Affirming Care36:41 Conclusion and Community SupportRESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

⚠️ DISCLAIMER >> this episode dives into trauma-informed care but highly sensitive topics are discussed, including Rachel’s personal experiences with a nationally publicized traumatic event while working at a school in 2018ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this podcast episode, Dr. Tay hosts Rachel Archambault, a speech-language pathologist specializing in trauma informed practices. They delve into the definition of trauma informed care, its importance in neurodiversity affirming practices, and how trauma can impact autistic individuals and their families. Rachel shares her personal experience with trauma, highlighting how professionals and parents can proactively adopt trauma informed approaches. The episode also covers practical tips for discussing traumatic events with children and ensuring that care providers are sensitive to trauma. Resources like the NASP guidelines and social stories are recommended for further support.00:00 Introduction and Theme Overview02:41 Guest Introduction: Rachel Archambault03:41 Rachel's Traumatic Experience07:03 Impact and Aftermath of Trauma10:42 Trauma Informed Care in Schools14:17 Supporting Children Through Trauma16:48 Collaborative Efforts and Resources23:26 Drills and Trauma: A Delicate Balance31:00 Big T vs Little T Trauma32:17 Understanding PTSD and Trauma Symptoms33:31 Personal Experiences with Trauma33:54 Listening and Validating Trauma35:02 Trauma in Autism and Communication Challenges36:03 Bodily Autonomy and Abuse Risks38:54 Trauma Informed Care: Key Elements47:49 Recognizing and Preventing Trauma54:22 Proactive Trauma Informed Approaches57:04 Resources and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with RachelInstagram @ptsd.slp Facebook @ptsd.slp LinkedIn @rachel-archambault Website: www.ptsdslp.comEmail: [email protected]⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: 1) in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.2) PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay explores obsessive traits in autistic children, inspired by a conversation with Katherine @theneurodiversitymom. The discussion focuses on distinguishing between autism-related behaviors and potential co-occurring conditions like OCD. The episode highlights the need for diagnostic clarity and continuous reassessment of children's behaviors to identify effective support strategies. Dr. Tay also shares personal insights from a recent business retreat, emphasizing the importance of self-care for parents. Additionally, Dr. Tay discusses updates to her new educational membership platform aimed at empowering parents globally to advocate for their autistic children and providing tools for better support strategies. 00:00 Introduction to Obsessive Traits in Autistic Kids 00:07 Inspiration Behind the Episode 01:47 Personal Life Updates and Reflections 08:54 The Importance of Diagnostic Clarity 09:20 Understanding Obsessive Traits and OCD 12:11 Strategies for Supporting Kids with Obsessive Traits 16:58 The Role of Medication and Therapy 20:42 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 25:29 Conclusion and Upcoming EpisodesRESOURCES⚡️learn more about the membership: drtaylorday.com/membership⚡️learn more about group therapy: drtaylorday.com/therapy⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay explores the topic of neurodivergence in adults, particularly parents, with guest Dr. Salena Justice, a psychologist specializing in late diagnoses of autism and ADHD. They discuss the indicators of neurodivergence, the evaluation process, and the differences between self-diagnosis and formal diagnosis. The conversation also addresses common issues faced by neurodivergent adults, the therapy approaches that can be beneficial, and the importance of finding the right therapist.00:00 Introduction to Neurodivergence in Parenting00:37 Guest Introduction: Dr. Salena Justice00:50 Understanding Late Diagnoses in Adults01:35 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose02:44 Challenges in Diagnosing Autism in Adults07:35 Evaluation Process for Adults12:21 Common Presentations of Autism in Adults15:14 ADHD in Adults: Common Presentations and Challenges17:45 Discussing Autism Diagnoses and Common Misdiagnoses19:08 Evaluating Autism and ADHD in Women23:15 Therapy Approaches for Autism and ADHD26:52 Finding the Right Therapist28:40 Connecting with Dr. Salena Justice31:04 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Dr. Salena on Instagram @@psychologywithsalena and check out her website⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses child-led therapy with Nicole Casey, a speech-language pathologist known for her work with gestalt language processing. The conversation delves into the importance of child-led approaches, how they differ from traditional methods, and what parents should look for in therapy sessions. They also touch on the misconceptions around play-based therapy, the challenges and benefits of truly child-led sessions, and the significance of honoring all forms of communication. Nicole shares her experience of growing her practice and social media presence, advocating for child-centered methods, and collaborating within the field to offer authentic support for neurodivergent children.00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic00:21 Meet Nicole Casey: Speech Therapist and Advocate01:59 Nicole's Journey and Social Media Impact09:03 Defining Child-Led Therapy11:18 Balancing Therapy Goals with Child-Led Approaches15:56 The Importance of Play in Therapy27:31 Communication Beyond Spoken Language32:11 Kids Taking Initiative32:29 Recognizing Progress in Therapy33:38 Mindset Shifts for Parents34:55 Child-Led Therapy in Practice38:05 Navigating Real-World Challenges40:07 Balancing Boundaries and Freedom45:34 Adapting Child-Led Approaches in Different Settings49:22 Conclusion and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Nicole Casey on Instagram @connectionsspeechpathology and her website www.greatlanguagepartner.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the distinction between Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Inspired by conversations with parents in her group therapy program, she delves into the complexities and overlaps between the two diagnoses. Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of understanding PDA within the framework of anxiety and highlights the stigmas associated with ODD, especially in racialized communities. She also touches on the limitations of behavioral approaches and the significance of adopting neurodiversity-affirming practices.00:00 Introduction and Life Updates00:45 Exploring PDA and ODD02:03 Nuances and Misconceptions02:49 Clinical Perspectives and Research05:33 Therapeutic Approaches and Stigma09:52 Evidence-Based Practices14:46 Conclusion and Future Episodes*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110RESOURCES⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

In this episode, Dr. Tay interviews Kaley Stymeist about "Spell to Communicate" (S2C), a method used to support non-speaking autistic children in expressing themselves. Kaley shares her journey with her son Hudson, who is progressing his communication through S2C after language regression. The discussion covers the methodology of S2C, emphasizing its neurodiversity-affirming approach and the importance of motor planning. Kaley also addresses common misconceptions and the need for structured training. Listeners learn where to find S2C practitioners and how to get started.00:00 Introduction to Spell to Communicate00:42 Meet Kaley Stymeist01:03 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission02:20 Kaley's Family and Autism Journey03:07 Hudson's Birth and Early Challenges06:49 Discovering Spell to Communicate15:38 Hudson's Progress and Motor Planning25:32 Starting with Presuming Competence25:50 Introduction to Three Letter Boards26:16 Transition to 26 Letter Boards26:54 The Importance of Prompting28:32 Building Motor Control and Accuracy30:08 Progressing to Open Communication33:18 The Goal of Spell to Communicate39:09 Addressing Concerns and Misconceptions44:50 Finding a Practitioner and Training47:07 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Kaley on Instagram @kaley_and_3 and learn more about her S2C practice @autismsoulspeak ⚡️ find a local S2C practitioner >> https://i-asc.org/⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

Dr. Tay shares a mini-episode where she dives into the complexities and controversies surrounding Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy in the autism field. She presents a balanced perspective on ABA, emphasizing the importance of informed consent and considering the diverse needs and privileges of families. Dr. Tay also highlights different neurodiversity affirming modalities under the ABA umbrella, upcoming podcast guests, and her own experiences, urging the need for more nuanced conversations in the field.00:00 Introduction and Personal Update00:52 Welcome to the Parenting Space01:05 Diving into ABA Therapy01:22 Controversies and Perspectives on ABA01:41 Upcoming Podcast Guests and Topics04:55 Informed Decision-Making for Families05:42 Advocating for Neurodiversity Affirming Practices07:06 Changing the Field from the Inside Out08:55 Accessibility Issues in Neurodiversity Affirming Therapy09:18 Challenges in Child Care for Working Parents10:02 Intersectionality and Racial Perspectives in ABA11:05 Safety and Compliance for Non-White Children12:08 Balancing Family Needs and Therapy Approaches12:43 Open Dialogue and Future Conversations13:34 Supporting Families Through Free Resources and Memberships14:47 Encouraging Informed Consent and Advocacy15:37 Conclusion and Future EpisodesRESOURCES⚡️ listen to episodes 26, 59, and 128, which further discuss ABA and varying approaches. and check out the Making the Shift episode on ABA that inspired this episode!⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Rob Gorski, known as The Autism Dad on social media, to discuss his experience as a father raising three autistic children. They explore the unique challenges and opportunities of fatherhood in the autism community, the grief process associated with diagnoses, and the importance of leaning into emotions. Rob shares his journey of starting a blog, the evolving support needs of his children, and the importance of self-care and mental health for parents. They also discuss the societal expectations for dads and the need for more inclusive and supportive conversations around fatherhood and autism.00:00 Introduction and Today's Special Guest00:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission02:01 Rob Gorski's Family and Autism Journey03:22 Challenges and Insights on Autism Diagnoses08:48 Support Needs and Progress of Rob's Children12:42 Navigating Parenting and Personal Challenges13:39 The Role of Dads in Autism Parenting18:05 Emotional Struggles and Mental Health28:38 Understanding the Impact of Parental Emotions29:34 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting31:10 Navigating Social Media and External Judgments32:54 The Importance of Repair and Recovery34:50 Challenging Parenting Norms and Expectations39:03 Advocating for Your Child's Needs44:06 The Power of Vulnerability and Self-Care48:33 Final Thoughts and EncouragementRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Rob on Instagram @theautismdad and on his website⚡️ listen to our recent episode on Rob's podcast about autism in girls ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Carrie Cariello, a mother of five, including an autistic young adult. Carrie shares her family's journey, advocacy work, and the unique challenges and triumphs of raising an autistic child. They discuss practical strategies for fostering independence, the importance of community, navigating the education system, and marital dynamics. Carrie also shares insights into the transition to young adulthood, including finding supportive college programs. This episode offers hope, practical advice, and a reminder that families are not alone in their journey.00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview02:09 Meet Carrie Cariello: A Journey Through Autism03:00 Carrie's Family and Early Diagnosis04:07 From Writing to Advocacy06:40 Navigating Challenges and Safety Concerns08:59 Parenting Strategies and Splinter Skills17:50 Redefining Family Dynamics27:48 Parenting Challenges and Triumphs28:41 Navigating Discomfort and Fix-It Mode29:16 Dinner Time Dilemmas31:28 College Program Search36:24 Balancing Marriage and Parenting40:12 Encouraging Independence45:48 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Carrie >>Instagram @carrie_cariello Facebook @whatcolorismondayWebsite Link: https://carriecariello.substack.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Maggie of Unfurling Littles and explores Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) from an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) lens. They discuss how to incorporate neurodiversity-affirming practices into ABA to create a compassionate, child-led approach. Maggie shares her journey into the field, her own lived experience as an autistic individual, and practical examples of how ACT principles can be applied within ABA for the benefit of both children and their families. The episode also addresses common concerns about traditional ABA and offers insights on fostering mindful play and regulation.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview00:46 Guest Introduction: Maggie from Unfurling Littles02:33 Maggie's Journey into Early Childhood Special Education03:43 Challenges and Criticisms of ABA06:28 Maggie's Personal Neurodivergence Story08:29 Founding Unfurling Littles and Professional Challenges10:59 Navigating ABA and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices14:38 Introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)16:39 Implementing ACT in Family and Child Goals21:26 Balancing Family and Child Values in Therapy27:08 Practical Applications of ACT in Therapy29:25 Measuring Engagement and Joy in Child Interactions29:59 Integrating Child-Led Approaches in Therapy30:27 Present Moment Awareness and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices32:04 Mindfulness in Neurodiversity Affirming Care34:16 Handling Dysregulation with ACT Principles36:32 The Importance of Validating Emotions40:41 Healing Through Neurodiversity Affirming Practices44:33 The Evolution and Future of ABA50:49 Connecting with Families and Resources52:45 Final Thoughts and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Maggie on Instagram @unfurling_littles and her website https://www.unfurlinglittles.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tayNote: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

👉🏼 ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membershipIf you find value in this podcast and want even more support, tune in to learn about “EVOLVE the membership.” This new membership offers a lower-cost, flexible alternative to traditional clinical services, designed to provide accessible support and education for autism families. I share personal insights about my journey from academia to entrepreneurship, the challenges faced in balancing multiple roles, and the motivation behind creating this membership. Making this launch happen even while I’m in Europe (and truthfully it feels quite sentimental!). What’s included in the membership: ⚡️a comprehensive video library⚡️community support⚡️expert masterclasses⚡️ resources⚡️and if you’re a founding member, you get the opportunity to shape what’s in the membership and what I create. 👉🏼 MORE DETAIL HERE + ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membership00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:32 Launching a New Membership02:24 Personal Journey and Professional Growth04:42 Challenges and Expanding Services06:51 The Evolve Membership Details09:46 Balancing Personal and Professional Life12:02 Advocacy and Real-Life Stories18:03 Membership Benefits and Pricing31:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Rachel Madel, a speech language pathologist specializing in AAC, dive into the benefits of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) for autistic children, both non-speaking and verbally fluent children. They dispel common misconceptions about AAC, discuss various high-tech and low-tech AAC tools, and emphasize the importance of modeling and integrating AAC into daily routines. They also explore the impact of AAC on motor planning, literacy, and overall communication skills. Rachel shares practical tips for parents starting the AAC journey, highlights the significance of robust systems, and challenges the use of PECS. The episode includes insights on how technology can enhance communication, even among children with well-developed spoken language, and offers various resources for further learning.00:00 Introduction to AAC and Its Importance00:47 Meet Rachel Madel: AAC Specialist02:34 Understanding AAC: Tools and Techniques06:07 The Role of Technology in AAC09:37 Starting the AAC Journey: Tips for Parents14:21 Addressing Misconceptions About AAC19:57 Motor Planning Challenges: Apraxia vs. Dyspraxia26:08 Popular AAC Apps and Tools30:01 The Importance of Core Words in AAC30:20 Grammar and Literacy in AAC Systems31:04 Modifying AAC Systems32:54 Motivating Children to Use AAC36:04 The Role of Modeling in AAC39:00 Why Not PECS?43:54 Introducing AAC to Verbal Children46:46 Resources and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Rachel on Instagram @rachelmadelslp, find resources on her website www.rachelmadel.com, and listen to her podcast Talking with Tech ⚡️ get on the waitlist for Rachel's course, AAC Ally⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Stefanie, the president and co-founder of the nonprofit Lilly's Voice. Stefanie shares the inspiring story of her non-speaking autistic daughter, Lilly, whose journey with augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices led to the creation of the nonprofit. Lilly’s Voice provides AAC devices to children who have communication differences for families who cannot access these tools through conventional means, such as through school funding, insurance, or other grant mechanisms. Lilly’s Voice also provides education on AAC. The episode covers the importance of AAC, debunks common myths, and emphasizes best practices for parents to support their children's communication. Stefanie also discusses fundraising efforts and the impactful work of Lilly’s Voice.00:00 Introduction to Lily's Voice Nonprofit02:19 Meet Stephanie: The Inspiration Behind Lily's Voice03:32 The Journey to AAC: Challenges and Discoveries05:51 Launching Lily's Voice: A Nationwide Nonprofit08:34 Understanding Apraxia and the Role of AAC12:11 Debunking Myths About AAC20:01 Navigating the Process of Acquiring AAC Devices25:48 How Lily's Voice Supports Families27:18 App Limitations and Popular Choices28:02 Guidance for Parents on Choosing Apps30:20 Personal Experiences with AAC Apps31:28 Best Practices for AAC Devices34:55 Learning and Customizing AAC Devices40:12 Fundraising and Support for Lily's Voice45:25 Encouragement and Final Thoughts46:39 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ learn more about Lilly's Voice, apply for a scholarship, and learn about AAC on their website⚡️ connect with Stefanie through the nonprofit’s Instagram account @lillysvoice and Lilly’s personal page @afriendforlillybug⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay is joined by Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar, an AuDHD communication researcher, to discuss the intersection of neurodiversity and research, with a particular emphasis on BIPOC representation within the autism community. Kali shares her personal journey of discovering her autism diagnosis and her efforts to highlight the representation of Black autistic individuals on social media. The conversation covers broad topics such as the history of autism subtypes, the diagnostic challenges faced by BIPOC individuals, and the complexities of clinical diagnosis. Dr. Tay and Kali also delve into the importance of evolving our understanding and terminology around autism to build greater acceptance and support as well as how to use social media as a tool to learn while also knowing its limitations. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview01:19 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose02:22 Guest's Personal Journey with Autism04:49 Challenges and Representation in Autism Research07:14 Social Media and Misinformation11:31 Navigating Research and Personal Experience26:11 Discussion on Autism Subtypes and Diagnosis30:53 Understanding PDD-NOS and Stigma31:47 Challenges with DSM-5 Levels32:58 Regional Differences in Diagnoses33:44 Functional Assessment Over Levels35:24 Issues with Profound Autism Label37:18 Spiky Profiles and Individual Differences39:22 BIPOC Representation in Autism Conversations39:55 Cultural Barriers to Diagnosis42:57 ODD and PDA: Shifting Perspectives49:53 Complexities of Diagnosing Anxiety51:24 Finding Affirming Practitioners53:28 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Kaligirwa on Instagram and TikTok @blackspectrumscholar and check out her resource library⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Emily Hamblin, a parent coach and neurodivergent mom of four, discuss practical strategies for self-compassion, regulating the nervous system, and addressing the challenges parents face. The episode covers the crucial role of self-care, debunking the notion that it's selfish, and highlights the impact it has on the parent and the entire family. Emily shares her personal journey, including her experiences and how understanding her own sensory needs and emotional triggers significantly improved her family dynamics. They discuss how to model healthy coping mechanisms for children and the importance of addressing underlying behaviors. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:15 Meet Emily Hamblin: A Journey into Neurodivergent Parenting02:31 The Challenges of Parenting Neurodivergent Children03:31 Shifting Perspectives: From Control to Compassion08:40 Understanding Self-Compassion and Its Importance13:55 The Impact of Self-Compassion on Parenting15:55 Modeling Positive Behavior for Children17:46 The Beginning of a Challenging Journey18:59 Coping with Extreme Parenting Stress20:35 Finding Support and Validation21:56 Balancing Self-Care and Parenting23:35 Navigating Guilt and Self-Care27:57 Teaching Emotional Intelligence to Kids29:36 Membership Programs and Resources32:34 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Emily Hamblin on Instagram @enlighteningmotherhood and learn more about her services https://emily-hamblin.com/ ⚡️ listen to my episode on Emily's podcast Enlightening Motherhood episode 126⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Joy Eberhardt, a holistic pediatrician specializing in integrative and functional medicine, discuss PANS (Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) and PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections). They delve into the complexities of diagnosing these conditions, particularly in neurodivergent children, and the importance of a holistic approach that includes conventional, integrative, and functional medicine. The conversation also covers the significance of parental advocacy, understanding neurodivergence, and defining thriving for both children and parents. Dr. Eberhardt shares insights into her clinical practice, challenges in differentiating symptoms, and ways to support families through personalized care plans. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:10 Meet Dr. Joy Everhart: Holistic Pediatrician 00:43 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission 01:49 Welcoming Dr. Joy to the Podcast 02:32 Dr. Joy's Journey and Expertise 04:08 Understanding Neurodivergence in Dr. Joy's Family 08:24 Dr. Joy's Professional Practice and Expansion 13:20 Navigating Pediatric Care and Neurodivergence 17:41 Introduction to PANS and PANDAS 25:51 Understanding the Complexity of Child Burnout 26:50 The Importance of History in Diagnosis 28:14 Exploring PANS and PANDAS 30:04 Identifying and Treating Inflammation 32:57 The Three-Legged Stool Approach 36:35 Holistic and Integrative Medicine 38:22 Defining Thriving for Your Child 41:33 Advocacy and Finding the Right Support 48:07 Wrapping Up and Final ThoughtsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Dr. Eberhardt on Instagram @orchidpediatrics and visit her website www.orchidpediatrics.com⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Sunita Theiss, an Indian neurodivergent mom, discuss Sunita's journey through autism diagnoses for herself and her children, the impact of South Asian cultural values on her parenting, and the integration of neurodivergent needs within religious communities. Sunita shares her personal experiences, the challenges of advocating for her child's needs within faith-based settings, and practical strategies for creating more inclusive communities. Together, they discuss the importance of accommodations, self-advocacy, and intentional parenting.00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview00:54 Host's Background and Podcast Mission01:57 Sunita's Family and Personal Journey02:51 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family05:22 Cultural Influences and Misattributions11:44 Parenting Approaches and Self-Advocacy21:40 Accommodations and Long-Term Support26:41 Meeting Online and Family Backgrounds27:11 Integrating Different Upbringings27:42 Reparenting and Healing28:29 Family Time and Dinner Table Dynamics31:21 Parenting Strategies and Research33:28 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family37:01 Cultural and Community Reactions41:30 Supporting Neurodivergent Families in Religious Communities49:00 Final Thoughts and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Sunita on Instagram @sunitatheiss, visit her website, and read her Substack⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this solo episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of being comfortable with being wrong and sitting with the discomfort that accompanies it. She draws from her personal experiences and professional journey to provide insights on navigating life with an autistic child while balancing evidence-based practices with neurodiversity-affirming approaches. Dr. Tay addresses the evolving landscape of autism care, emphasizes the value of lived experiences, and offers practical advice to parents. RESOURCES⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Chandele Morris, an inclusive educational consultant and author, discuss the barriers in the educational system, the importance of understanding neurodiversity and tangible steps to be better advocates for autistic children. Chandele shares her experiences as a former educator and a parent of an autistic/ADHD child, emphasizing the need for inclusive education and the significance of updating educational training. The episode also highlights practical strategies for creating inclusive classrooms and the role of community and resources in supporting neurodivergent children.00:00 Introduction to the Educational System and Advocacy00:41 Meet Chandele Morris, an Inclusive Educational Consultant02:25 Understanding Neurodiversity in Education03:29 Challenges in Teacher Training and Awareness05:45 The Need for Systemic Change in Education09:24 Inclusion vs. Segregation in Classrooms15:41 Real-Life Examples and Solutions for Inclusion27:10 Fidgets and Sensory Breaks in Classrooms28:01 Inclusive Classroom Practices29:01 Understanding Neurodivergence in Families29:38 AAC Devices and Communication31:24 Teaching Empathy and Inclusion36:25 Challenges in Changing Educational Systems41:36 Finding Community and Support44:06 The Role of Children's Books in Neurodiversity46:38 Conclusion and Next StepsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Chandele MorrisInstagram @Diversityofminds TikTok @Diversityofminds  Facebook @Diversityofminds ⚡️ check out Chandele's books The Beauty of Us AllI'm Just a Kid: A Social Emotional Book about Self-Regulation⚡️email [email protected] to schedule an author visit, professional development, or order bulk copies of books ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Courtney English discuss:importance of sensory systemsintroduction to sensory profileshow to support sensory regulation at homeRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Courtney English on Instagram @courtneyenglish.ot and on TikTok @courtneyenglish.ot⚡️ get access to Courtney's resources here, including learning about your child's sensory profile⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay and Dr. Daniella Boyd discuss:Daniella's personal and parental journey in navigating neurodivergenceAn explanation of DIRFloortime, including engagement in play and relationship-based activities.Supporting BIPOC neurodivergent children and the adaptability of Floortime to meet culture-specific needsRESOURCES⚡️ connect with Dr. Daniella Boyd through her website https://allplayisok.com/ or through Instagram @montessoriandsensory⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tayLinkedIn @the-dr-tay