Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Justin and Kylie share 3 secrets for getting through the busiest time of the year. Topics included in this episode - Being intentional Playing with the kids The power of 'no' People matter, things don't Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

3 Secrets for getting through the busiest time of the yearTopics included in this episode - Be intentional Learn to say no People matter. Things don't. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Justin is loving being in Holiday Mode Justin & Kylie manage a kid-free weekend away Kylie & her daughter had a petrol blunder People matter. Things don't. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Justin plays the part of The Grinch for a moment Why Justin doesn't like giving gifts Why Kylie loves giving gifts Expectations of the giver Motivations for gift giving What would make a Merry Christmas in the Coulson house? Research articles mentioned In-Laws and Outlaws: the Impact of Divorce and Remarriage Upon Christmas Gift Exchange WHAT MAKES FOR A MERRY CHRISTMAS? Vote for Happy Families hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Surviving the holidaysTopics included in this episode - Why are Aussie parents feeling anxious about the holidays? The power of 'No'. How Kiddo can help your family Learn more about Kiddo or find them on FacebookFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is it okay to send your kids on sleepovers?Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie share their sleepover memories Research shows that there is risk associated with sleepovers Delay, delay, delay! What are the risks involved? What do kids get up to at sleepovers? How to prepare your kids for a sleepover Should there be a bedtime at sleepovers? Talking to other parents Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss a recent study on providing alcohol to childrenTopics included in this episode - Is it okay to give your teenagers some alcohol? Providing Alcohol for Underage Youth: What Messages Should We Be Sending Parents? The Mediterranean Effect Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Christmas came early to the Coulson house One of the Coulson girls gets into a car accident Kylie becomes The Best Auntie on their family weekend Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listenter's question about dealing with Grandparents Topics included in this episode - Partners need to speak with their respective parents Learning to 'let it go' Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you ready for Summer?Topics included in this episode - Justin shares a very personal story related to water safety Drowning can take 20 seconds Drowning is often silent Swimming lessons RCH National Child Health Poll NATIONAL DROWNING REPORTS Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin answers a listener's question about their child with ADHDTopics included in this episode - Behavioural strategies Rewards Different forms of motivation Developing a sense of autonomy Competence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss when to give kids phonesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The latest news and updates in parenting, Justin and Kylie share 4 parenting stories.Topics discussed in this episode Michelle Obama - a story on parenting Jason Gunn's genius parenting hack Recent research on strict parenting Controversial topic - mother v. father duties with a new baby Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's episode is taken from the Happy Families Bringing Up Boys Summit.Dr Arne Rubinstein is the author of The Making of Men, and discusses with Justin the idea of a boys “rite of passage”. Find the Bringing Up Boys Summit on the Happy Families webstore.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about lyingTopics included in this episode - Why do we lie? Why do kids lie? Lying is a developmental achievement Theory of mind What to do when they do lie Focus on the relationship Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Esther Wojcicki has some pretty good bragging rights; she's raised two CEO's (including the CEO of Youtube) and a doctor.She recently wrote an article on the upbringing of her kids, and why they turned out "successful". But should we all be raising CEO's and doctors? That's the topic of discussion on today's Happy Families podcast.You can read the article here.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin's excited that school assemblies are almost over for the year Justin & Kylie attend their daughter's Year 12 formal Let the kids be themselves Check out our Black Friday sales Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment Justin's reading The Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie Kylie's reading That Sugar Book by Damon Gameau The Girl You Left Behind by Jojo Moyes Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

RCH Health Poll - Recognising anxiety in childrenTopics discussed in this episode: Parents report 50% of children aged three years and over are experiencing problems with anxiety, with 36% experiencing ‘somewhat of’ a problem and 14% experiencing a ‘big’ problem. One in five children (19%) are anxious about attending school or kindergarten. On average, parents recognise only half of the common signs and symptoms of mental health problems in children. Only one in three parents are confident they could tell the difference between ‘normal’ worries in children and anxiety that might need professional help. What are kids anxious about? What is driving the increase in anxiety in kids? What helps people be less anxious? For more information, including info on the signs of anxiety, when and where to seek help, and a range of ways to support children with anxiety, RCH developed a new fact sheet: Anxiety - primary school aged children Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listeners question about chores & pocket moneyTopics discussed in this episode: Getting paid for chores is problematic Frustration tolerance Goal orientation Capacity for responsibility Undermining motivation Rewards are ultimately a punishment Kylie shares an object lesson Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss why sleep is so important Topics discussed in this episode: DadPod with Charlie Clausen and Osher Günsberg Bike riding as a form of therapy Teaching our kids to not be as tired as we are Want to Raise Successful Kids? Neuroscience Says Teach Them This Crucial Brain Habit Establish a regular bedtime Sleep hygiene Why is sleep so important? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - 5 weeks until Christmas Justin & Kylie make space for a weekend away Justin dealt with another case of school refusal with Miss 8 Unconditionality Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Kylie is having sugar withdrawals Pros & cons of giving kids devices Body image Kids language skills are struggling High quality communication is active Research articles mentioned “You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t”: a qualitative exploration of parent motives for provision of mobile screen devices in early childhood Psychology experts urge social media giants to increase transparency around algorithms to protect users’ mental health Screen Time of Preschool-Aged Children and Their Mothers, and Children’s Language Development Vote for Happy Families hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Parental disgression advised*Topics discussed in this episode: ACCCE with the AFP How is ACCCE different to the eSafety Commissioner? How often is online sexual extortion happening? What does it generally look like? Are there any particular platforms that are worse than others? Why are parents disengaged from their child's online activity? How to prevent this from happening? What to do once it has happened? Avoid blame Seek professional help Do not pay the scammers Response kit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Should our kids get part-time jobs? Justin & Kylie share about their first jobs The pros and cons of kids getting jobs Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener who is struggling with depression, anxiety and burnout.Topics discussed in this episode: Taking control of the controllable Practicing self care and compassion Accepting help when its offered Understanding that we can't do it all, especially in those early years of parenting Vote for the Happy Families Podcast in the Listener's Choice of the Australian Podcast Awards (just type Dr Justin in the search bar and click on the Happy Families podcast to vote).Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie get a surprise guest in the middle of the day What to do when there's not answer to your parenting problem Even the parenting expert struggles sometimes Two of the Coulson girls are having a hard time getting along Kylie struggles to show compassion for her daughter in a particularly difficult moment Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin explains why he doesn't love the term Gentle ParentingTopics discussed in this episode: Justin wants to get Ryan Reynolds on the podcast Justin & Kylie don't 'get the kids in trouble' What to do instead Emotional regulation How to not add to your child's suffering Register for our free course The Time-out AlternativeFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode Justin and Kylie answer the question:"My daughter has been diagnosed with ADHD, autism and now dyslexia. How do you talk about a diagnosis with a child and how do you know if they can understand?"Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin speaks to Paul Dillon from Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia about getting ready for the schoolies season.Find out more about Paul Dillon at the Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia website.Topics discussed in this episode: The cons of letting your kids celebrate schoolies abroad How safe are organised schoolies events? Why schoolies is the last opportunity for parents to talk safety with their kids before they are legally adults Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics mentioned in this episode - Machine learning uncovers the most robust self-report predictors of relationship quality across 43 longitudinal couples studies The National Marriage Project It's not who you're with, it's about the dynamic Scott Stanley, Sliding vs Deciding Perceived partner commitment Appreciation Level of sexual satisfaction Perceived partner satisfaction Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin had an accident involving his very fancy bike The Coulson's home has become THE Halloween House Kylie struggles with the bed time routine Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin scours the internet for weird news in parentingTopics mentioned in this episode - This Psychologist Says Don't High-Five Kids And... Excuse Me, What?! Justin's advice - High Five as many kids as possible! Internal vs extrinsic motivation Parents of boys age at a faster rate than those who have girls, claims study WHY WE LONG FOR THE MOST DIFFICULT DAYS OF PARENTHOOD Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin speaks with Dan Pink about the power of regret Topics included in this episode - The Power of Regret Why do people say that they don't have regrets? Your regrets say a lot about you as a person Your regrets can inform your future decisions Reframing regret Inward, outward, forward "Atleast"ing and "ifonly"ing Dan's advice for time poor parents Normalising the emotion of regret Talk to your kids about your regrets Dan shares some of his regrets Learn more about Dan Pink & his booksFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss how parents can help motivate their kids to studyTopics included in this episode - Kylie confesses to wagging school Justin reads out his report card from Year 12 Justin shares how he turned things around for himself There are always options Say yes to everything until you're 40. Say no to almost everything after 40 Trust Establish basic rules and parameters Follow the energy Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie discuss why we think we're boring now that we're parents, but that we're actually experiencing a heap of personal growth.Topics included in this episode - Kylie's friend who feels lost after becoming a mum Ideas for creativity through those hard years when you feel exhausted Why we keep growing all throughout life Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin has an 'aha' moment One of the Coulson girls has a hard time & Justin helps them through it Emilie adopts a lizard The Coulson's take a look at their family budget Purchase a ticket to the Hot Mess Summit in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the momentJustin's reading Carrie Soto Is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid A Kind of Magic by Anna Spargo-Ryan Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention by Johann Hari Kylie's reading We Are Wolves by Katrina Nannestad What Happened to You? by Oprah Winfrey, Dr Bruce Perry The Book of Dreams by Nina George Purchase the Better Together webinar in our online web shop or find it in your Happy Families membershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Helping families find the right help for their mental health challenges.Topics included in this episode - How to get the help you need Finding the right GP Involve the kids Get the kids outside Get back to basics What happens when you can't afford to get help? Mental health care plan Involve school teachers Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's podcast is all about recognising where you are on the parental burnout scale.Kylie takes the Parental Burnout Assessment - and you can do an online version here.Find the free Burnt Out webinar in the Happy Families Shop.Register for the Happy Families Hot Mess Summit, happening this Saturday October 29, here.Don't forget, you can also purchase the Hot Mess Summit and view all the presentations at your convenience.The speaker lineup includes: Dr Justin Coulson | Love, Limits & Laughter | 10am AEDT Amy Taylor Kabbaz | Mama Rising | 11am AEDT Trish Purnell-Webb | Creating a Strong Relationship With Your Partner | 12pm AEDT Ian Kerner | Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex | 1pm AEDT Michaeleen Doucleff | Hunt, Gather, Parent | 2pm AEDT Shefali Tsabary | The Awakened Family | 3pm AEDT Wally Goddard | How to Discipline with Love & Laughter | 4pm AEDT Chelsea Pottenger | Stress management | 5pm AEDT Jessica Rowe | The Art of Being a Crap Housewife | 6pm AEDT Amanda Keller | Having Fun When Your Life Is a Hot Mess | 7pm AEDT Dr Justin Coulson | Bonus Q&A | 8pm AEDT Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Top 5 solutions for dealing with anxiety at homeTopics included in this episode - Defining what anxiety is Experiencing anxiety vs a chronic anxiety disorder #609 Parenting & Mental Illness: A Discussion With Anna Spargo-Ryan Solutions Quality of the attachment relationship between parents & children Other connections/relationships Help them to lean in Being outside Service/volunteering Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Kylie shares her recent article she wrote for Kylie's Corner Kylie shares her experience with being physically disciplined as a child and how that effected her ability to share her emotions Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Effectiveness of mindfulness Rise of mental illness during Covid Kids doing more chores is linked to better executive function Does the gender of your sibling effect your personality? Research articles mentioned School-based mindfulness training in early adolescence: what works, for whom and how in the MYRIAD trial? Doing more chores linked to better executive functioning in kids – but direction of effect is unclear No Evidence That Siblings’ Gender Affects Personality Across Nine Countries Purchase a ticket to Autistic Not Weird at Happy FamiliesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Anxiety in kids transitioning from Primary to High SchoolTopics included in this episode - Anxiety in kids transitioning from Primary to High School Guide to Thrive from Life Education What happens when we get the transition right? We need to be having these conversations much earlier Why girls are struggling more Do older siblings play a role? What are kids biggest concerns? Heirarchy in high school Has Covid had an impact? How to help them prepare? Purchase the Better Together webinar in our online web shop or find it in your Happy Families membershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about dealing with the disruption of a moveTopics included in this episode - Kylie's move from NZ to Aus when she was 10 Justin's shares his experience with moves as a kid Justin & Kylie share about their own family moves What does the research say? Which kids are most affected? Attitude is everything Top tips Be intentional & proactive Organise play dates Initiate conversations Activity days Be there for your kids Really listen Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss smacking, and the recent calls for Australia to outlaw physical discipline of our children.Some of the topics include: The full 'A Current Affair' interview with Chris O'Keefe Some of the responses to that interview The research that has consistently linked physical discipline to negative outcomes Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Kylie created a sugar free birthday for Justin A $6 chilli Justin & Kylie have a heightened conversation with one of their daughters Parenting adult children Purchase a ticket to Autistic Not Weird at Happy FamiliesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares 3 conversation principals that can help Topics included in this episode - The way that we speak to our children becomes their inner voice Justin & Kylie share some of their inner thoughts/voices from childhood 3 conversation principals that can help A voice that encourages belonging, understanding & empathy. A voice that expresses confidence in their capacity. A voice that encourages autonomy. How do we find our own inner voice?Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Dave about men and perinatal depression & anxietyTopics discussed in today's podcast: Dave shares his own personal experience Antenatal classes Communication Symptoms What to do Talk to someone, music, reading, join a group Telehealth SMS for Dads Gidget Virtual Village for Dads Panda hotline Find more about Dave Edwards and the Gidget FoundationPurchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.