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Ep 144Episode 144 - Sexy Disabled Bathtub Time

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In this episode, I look at the logistics of sex in a bathtub when you have a disability. We talk about how you and a partner can get you in the tub, the accessibility of sexy disabled bathtub time once in the tub, some of the problems you might encounter and more. Enjoy! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Jun 22, 201935 min

Ep 143Episode 143 - The Disabled Duo - Kate & Aaron Wolovsky

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In this episode, I sit down with disabled married couple Kate & Aaron Wolovsky. They go by "The Disabled Duo." We have a fun chat about their disabled meet cute, their marrisge and sex life as a disabled couple and a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow The Disabled Duo at @DisabledDuo on Twitter. Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Jun 15, 20192h 17m

Ep 142Episode 142 - "Taint-Sucking Is The Most Accessible Sex Act" - Elliott & Thom

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In this episode, I invite the hosts of the Do You Queer What I Queer Podcast, Elliott and Thom to ask me questions about sex, disability and queerness they might have. Things take a pretty hilarious turn as they discover why taint-sucking is the most accessible sex act, I recount hilarious stories (again!), we talk ableist misconceptions and more! Enjoy! Follow the Do Queer What I Queer Pod here: iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/do-you-queer-what-i-queer/id1297564476?mt=2 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DYQWIQ Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Jun 8, 20191h 24m

Bonus: Crip Sexuality, Disability and Shakespeare - Alison Hobgood

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In this bonus episode, I sit down with Associate Professor of English in Women's and Gender Studies at Williamette, Allison P. Hobgood. We interrogate how crip sexuality, disability and Shakespeare go together by looking at his play Measure by Measure. Through the play, we talk about how in Shakespearean times crip corporeality has always been there whether we realized it or not. This episode brought my love of history, disability and sexuality back together, and I had to share with you. Enjoy! You can connect with Dr. Hobgood via e-mail at: [email protected] Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Jun 5, 201949 min

Ep 141Episode 141 - "I Wanted To Be Sure I Was Desirable" - Travis Lau

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In this episode, I sit down with poet and professor Travis Lau as we talk about how his queerness and Asian background and upbringing both collided with his disability and mild scoliosis throughout his formative years and in gay spaces. Enjoy! You can follow Travis on Twitter @travisclau or on his website at www.travisclau.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Jun 2, 20191h 9m

Ep 140Episode 140 - Sex Beds and Accessibility

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In this episode I talk about how I just got a brand new accessible bed, and how that has changed my sex life. I share how difficult sex was in my old bed, the struggles of finding an accessible luxury bed, I ponder why these beds are not marketed to sexy, disabled people, and finally, I tell you why sex in my new accessible bed is awesome. Enjoy! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

May 28, 201940 min

Ep 139Episode 139 - "Wanna Put it in My Memory Hole?" - Thomas Dixon

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I sit down with Thomas Dixon, creator of Me.mory as we talk about how his experience with traumatic brain injury affects his memory, and how his memory has played a role in his sex life and his relationships; how sex has been different since his injury (maybe even better) and so much more. Enjoy! You can support Thomas' work by going to his GoFundMe Page Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

May 21, 20191h 10m

Episode 138.5 - "I Never Coughed Into a Pu**y" - Jeremie Saunders

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In this very special bonus episode, I sit down with one of my podcast colleagues and someone who I totally admire, Jeremie Saunders. He is the one of the hosts of the wildly popular podcasts Sickboy" all about finding the funny in chronic illness and/or disability and "Turn Me On", a podcast wherein he explores sexuality topics with his wife, Bryde. I talk to him today about his life with Cystic Fibrosis, and how living with a shortened life expectancy has had an impact on his sense of impulsiveness, time, relationships, and of course, sex. This was one of my favorite interviews ever that I just couldn't wait to share with you. Enjoy! You can follow Jeremie, SickBoy & Turn Me On on social media and allow the places below jeremiesaunders.com, turnmeonpodcast.com, sickboypodcast.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

May 14, 20191h 15m

Ep 138Episode 138 - Gimps on Grindr II - Ableist Appholes

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Since we haven't done an episode about Gimps on Grindr since WAAAAAAAAY back in Episode 5, I thought it was time to revisit some of the things guys have said to me on the app recently. You'll hear about the guy who gave me a rude awakening, the guy who asked me if I was "born in a tiny chair" and so much more. Enjoy Episode 138, all about ableist appholes! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

May 14, 201937 min

Ep 137Episode 137 - "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" Jeffrey Masters

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In this episode, I continue talking to non-disabled community members about what might happen if they became disabled tomorrow. This time, I sit down with LGBTQ&A Podcast host, Jeffrey Masters. He tells me how he thinks his sense of independence might be altered, and how car hook ups might be a tad different. I loved this one. Enjoy! Follow Jeffrey Masters here: [@jeffmasters1](www.twitter.com/jeffmasters1) Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

May 7, 201947 min

Ep 136Episode 136 - "I Pretended I Could See On Dates" - Fern Lulham

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In this episode, I sit down with UK motivational speaker, Fern Lulham. We talk about her experiences navigating the dating world as a blind woman, some of the ways she tried to cope with the stigma of blindness, how disability affected her self-esteem and her sense self, fashion, her guide dog Nancy and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Fern's work at www.fernlulham.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Apr 30, 20191h 0m

Ep 135Episode 135 - Sex, Comfort and Chronic Constipation - Anne Hodder-Ship

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In this episode, I sit down with sex educator Anne Hodder-Ship as we explore her experiences with chronic constipation and how that has affected her sexuality, her sense of safety and so much more. You can follow Anne's work by heading over to www.annehodder.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Apr 23, 20191h 20m

Ep 134Episode 134 - "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" The Guys From Gayish

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In this episode I do something a little different on the show. I reached out to my friends Mike and Kyle from the wildly popular Gayish Podcast, and asked them to come on the show so I could ask them, "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" We talk about how their views on sex might change, what they'd be afraid of and so much more. Download Gayish here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/gayish-podcast/id1223826362 Follow Gayish here: https://twitter.com/gayishpodcast Be sure to support our sponsors: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Apr 16, 20191h 28m

Ep 133Episode 133 - Stump F*cker - Anthony Michael Lopez

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In this episode, I sit down with actor Anthony Michael Lopez. We chat everything from acting with a disability, and how he prepared for his roles in Mapplethorpe and Broad City, to chatting about sex and disability as a gay amputee. Believe me, the title of this episode is more than appropriate. I loved this episode so much, and I hope you do too. Follow Anthony at @flittergaggot on Twitter and insta. Be sure to support our sponsors: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Apr 9, 20191h 20m

Ep 132Episode 132 - How to Go on a Romantic Surprise Getaway with your Disabled Lover

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In this episode, I explore how to go on a romantic getaway with your disabled lover. We talk about how there are no images of disabled couples on blogs about romantic getaways... We explore why maybe surprising your disabled lover with an impromptu unplanned getaway is a bad idea, and we talk about how some of the blogs' romantic getaway spots completely miss the mark on accessibility. We also look at a few things you can do to still have that sexy, disabled vacation. Enjoy!Be sure to support our new sponsor:Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contestsAlso, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Apr 2, 201937 min

Ep 131Episode 131 - "I Need Really Intense Everything". - August McLaughlin

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In this episode, I sit down with the creator of the Girl Boner brand, August McLaughlin. We have a chat about how ADHD has an effect on your sex life, how sometimes things can be really intense because of it, and a whole lot more. Enjoy!You can follow August's work at www.augustmclaughlin.com. You can find all her socials there as well.Be sure to support our new sponsor:Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contestsAlso, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

Mar 26, 20191h 9m

Bonus: Is Not Telling a Hookup You're Disabled Catfishing? - Nicholas Linnehan

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In this very special bonus episode, I sit down with playwright and artist Nicholas Linnehan. We talk about his experience being gay and disabled, and turning that into art projects like his upcoming short film, "Catfish", and his play "Identity" which closes in New York this weekend! We also talk about how Nicholas is looking for more than just a hook up, and so much more. You can get tickets for the show here: https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4052890

Mar 21, 201952 min

Ep 130Episode 130 - I Am Disabled. I Am Angry, and I will tell you about it. - Roo Bernascone.

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In this episode, I chat with Roo Bernascone, a self-professed "cripple punk". We have a really important chat about disability, fatness and scoliosis, and how his fatness is linked inextricably to care and disability. We also talk sex, transmasc identities, polyamory and disability. We flirt with each other too. Enjoy! You can follow Roo on twitter: @roo_b_arts Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Mar 19, 20191h 18m

DISAFTDARK MINI 24 - A DISABLED HOMO DISCOVERS ABLEISM

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In this minisode, I get an e-mail from Crystal, a self-appointed "disabled homo" from Washington, who talks about how listening to episode 125 with her ex-partner helped her understand an access internalized ableism. If you want to write in for a minisode, e-mail me at [email protected]

Mar 18, 201910 min

Ep 129Episode 129 - "Nobody Wants to F@!K the Weird Kid" - Max from Off The Cuffs.

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In episode 129, I sit down with the cohost of the kink and BDSM podcast "Off The Cuffs", Minimus Maximus, or just "Max" for short. He reveals how his autism and Asperger's has an effect on his masculinity. We chat about how ASD plays into kink scenes, how order in BDSM calms his Aspie brain; we chat about his bisexuality and how different partners handle his Asperger's. he tells me about some thoughts on Asperger's portrayals in pop culture, and we both prove that the weird kid is almost always the hot one! You can follow Max by downloading episodes of [Off The Cuffs] or following him on Twitter (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/off-the-cuffs-a-kink-and-bdsm-podcast/id1109249666?mt=2) Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Mar 12, 20191h 31m

Ep 128Episode 128 - "I Heard A Click" - Ryann Kress

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In this episode, I sit down with ER nurse Ryann Kress as she shares her experiences working in a busy hospital and living with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. We talk about how her disability affects her job as a nurse, and I ask her what you learn about sex and disability in nursing school... shocker, not much. Ryann also shares some jaw dropping sex stories about her experiences with EDS, blowjobs, polyquads and so much more. You don't wanna miss this one. Enjoy!Be sure to support our new sponsor:Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Mar 5, 20191h 12m

Ep 127Episode 127 - A Chat with Noor

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In this episode, I sit down with guest Noor Pervez, as we talk about autism, physical disability, sex, disability and religion. Noor shares his experiences of dating while trans and disabled and so much more. Enjoy!Be sure to support our new sponsor:Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contestsSupport Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Feb 26, 20191h 7m

DISAFTDARK MINI: #DISABLEDPEOPLEAREHOT

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In this random minisode I talk about the viral success of my hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot; where it came from, why it is important, what I wanna do with it and more. Enjoy!

Feb 22, 20197 min

Ep 126Episode 126 - You Think You Could Do Better Than Me - Danielle Perez

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In this episode, I sit down with LA based comedienne Danielle Perez. We chat about devotees, the challenges of hunting for good d*ck in Los Angeles when you're a wheelchair user, internalized ableism, and Danielle talks about a new romantic comedy she is writing that will have a disabled lead actress! Enjoy! Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Feb 19, 20191h 6m

Ep 125Episode 125 - "I Had GREAT SEX TWICE...and then I got Mad".

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In this episode, I share with you some GREAT sex I had recently, and discuss how ableism can be a constant bedfellow. I share my anger over not being able to jerk a lover off, or give him head in the way I want due to limited fine motor function. I explore how that anger made me feel in the moment, and consider what you can do if you have better gross motor functions than fine motor skills. Lastly, I look at exercises you might do to improve fine motor function so you can jerk cocks/lovers off all day long. Enjoy!Be sure to support our two new sponsors:Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contestsThe Lemonayde App. An app that allows for you to disclose your disability, chronic illness or health issue as you see fit. Details here: SupportLemonayde.com

Feb 12, 201923 min

Ep 124Episode 124 - "I want more than just a taste..." - An Interview w/ Spencer Williams

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In this episode, I sit down with freelance writer in sex and disability, Spencer Williams. We talk about his work as a Vice Columnist writing about the personal side of sex and disability. He also shares his experience being featured in a documentary about his work with sex surrogates and sex workers. We share in those experiences; talking about shame, fear and stigma... and it was nice to be in a space with another disabled man who has had these experiences, too. Enjoy!You can follow Spencer's written work with Vice here You can follow Spencer on Twitter at @djspencermusicPlease support our two new sponsors:The Lemonayde App KickstarterThe Oleb Books Personal Essay Contest

Feb 5, 201912 min

Ep 123Episode 123 - "My Internal Voice is a Tyrant" - An Interview w/ Roxie

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On this episode, I sit down with fan turned guest Roxie, who e-mailed me a few weeks ago saying that she listened to the show, and it was helping her get through her own internalized ableism as a woman with Cerebral Palsy raising two kids. We have a really important conversation that dives into things like financial abuse, emotional abuse, kinks, ableism, self-esteem, disability and so much more. This is an important one.

Jan 29, 20191h 9m

Ep 122Episode 122 - "Margarita with a Naw" - Disability After Dark Reviews Margarita With a Straw

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In this episode, I review the film Margarita with a Straw. It's a movie that came out in 2014 about an Indian woman with Cerebral Palsy who is experimenting her sexuality. I talk about how this film is ableist in so many ways, share some funny anecdotes about the film, and even highlight how my views on actors "cripping up" has changed. Enjoy!

Jan 22, 201951 min

BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - FACEFUCK ME PART 1 WITH PORN STAR PIERCE PARIS

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In this episode, I sit down with porn star Pierce Paris about his new scene with quadriplegic porn star, Kenneth Connin. We talk all about this new scene produced by Himeros.TV and the importance of having disabled porn stars like Kenneth. I ask him about what it was like working with a disabled star; some of the considerations, accessibility, whether disabled people give great head and so much more.To watch the scene, you can head over Himeros.TV.You can connect with Pierce on his twitter here: www.twitter.com/pierceparisxxxIf you join the Patreon at any dollar amount you will get the video interview of this!

Jan 19, 201951 min

Ep 121Episode 121 - "Would You Shove This in My Mouth?"

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In this episode, I take a look at typical first date foods, and consider how accessible or inaccessible they might be if you had to be fed by a partner. I explain why asking the question "Would you shove this in my mouth?" is both playful and important. I also give tips to non-disabled partners on how to help your disabled lover eat and more. Enjoy!

Jan 15, 201943 min

PATREON CONVO W/ CHARLIE GARNER

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As a special treat, I have decided to release the Patreon Bonus Chat with Charlie Garner from Episode 120. We talk about hospitals, doctors, medications, orgasms, disability and so, so much more. If you pledge $1 a month or more to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent you get these bonuses first! Hope you enjoy!

Jan 12, 201933 min

Ep 145Episode 120 - I'm Allergic To Sperm w/ guest Charlie Garner

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In this interview, I sit down with a DisabilityAfterDark fan turned guest from the UK, who wrote into me telling me how important the show is to her, and then proceeded to tell me of her deathly allergy to sperm, and how that affects her sex life. I knew I wanted her on the show. We talk about her sperm allergy and how that has affected her, IBS, fibromyalgia, sexual trauma and a whole lot more. This is a really important episode. Enjoy! Also, if you sign up for the Patreon, there is a bonus interview with Charlie at www.patreon.com/cripplecontentYou can follow Charlie on Twitter at @CGarner21 and you can book her for photography gigs in the UK at https://www.facebook.com/amethystphotographs/You can follow me, Andrew Gurza at @andrewgurza on Twitter or the show at @disaftdarkpodE-mail the show with questions, shout outs, minisodes and more at [email protected]

Jan 8, 20191h 19m

Ep 144Episode 119 - "Coming Out As a Chronic Pain Babe" - An Interview w/ SEIC Host Cameron Glover

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In this episode, I sit down with Cameron Glover, host of a new podcast Sex Ed in Color, as she comes out to us as a QPOC living with chronic pain. I heard of her work when she shouted out this podcast on Twitter. I started following her, listening to her show, and I fell in love with her work immediately. We have such a great chat about disability, sexuality, chronic pain, POC, I come out as femme in this episode maybe, and so much more!! Enjoy! Follow Cameron's work at www.cameronglover.com. Follow Cameron's Twitter @BlkGirlManifest. Download her podcast Sex Ed in Color .Support Disability After Dark by supporting the Patreon (if you can), for $1 a month or more, you get a shout out on air, episode access early... www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Jan 1, 20191h 1m

BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - WHEN I WAS A DISABLED KID - EPISODE 02

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Surprise! In this Bonus Episode of "When I Was A Disabled Kid", I sit down with writer Wendy Lu to talk about her experiences as a disabled kid with a trach; what it was like having a nurse with you 24/7, trying to make friends and be independent and so, so much more about her disabled childhood. You can follow all of Wendy's work on Twitter at @wendyluwrites . You can also follow my work at @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod. You can support the show by pledging $1 a month or more by heading over to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent Enjoy!

Dec 29, 201839 min

Ep 143Episode 118 - "There's a Gaping Hole" - An Interview w/ Ryan O'Connell

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In this episode, I sit down with author, producer and soon to be TV personality, Ryan O'Connell. We talk about his experience of Cerebral Palsy and gay identity, and trying to bring that into the public sphere with his up and coming TV show, "Special". We also chat about wanting boys to ask us out on weekend dates as disabled guys, disability activism and queerness, his experience of sex work and so much more. You can follow Ryan's work by following him on Twitter at @ryanoconn Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter. And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Dec 25, 20181h 2m

Ep 142Episode 117 - Guys I F*cked - Raj

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This episode I sit down with my friend, sex worker and porn star, Raj. We have a chat about what it was like for him to have sex with a disabled lover - me. We talk about our experiences having sex together, and I ask him what that must have felt like for him; was he nervous? Was he scared he'd hurt me because I was disabled? Am I a good disabled lover? All this and more will be revealed in this episode. Enjoy!!!! You can contact Raj on Twitter at @iamrajxxxRemember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Dec 21, 201810 min

Ep 141Episode 116 - That Time I Worked With Sex Workers

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In this episode, I come out about my experiences working with sex workers as a queer disabled man. I share why I made the decision, some good and not-so-good experiences working with sex workers when disabled, and I offer tips and tricks to disabled clients on how to make the sessions about your agency and your pleasure. I share how sex work helped me gain self-confidence as a disabled man and so much more... Like what it was like telling my Mom. Enjoy!Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Dec 14, 201845 min

BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - When I Was A Disabled Kid - Episode 01

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I wanted to do something special today. You may have heard on the show that I'd be releasing When I Was A Disabled Ki episodes exclusively on Patreon. BUT - I wanted to gift you with the first episode of When I Was A Disabled Kid - as a thank you for supporting the show DisabilityAfterDark and Cripple Content Creations. This first episode is with my friend; author, disabled activist Carrie Wade. We talk about her childhood growing up with Cerebral Palsy, no snow, coming out as Queer and Disabled and so many more things that make her who she is. You can follow her work on twitter at @wadeatheoryYou can also support cripple content and shows like this, by pledging $1 a month to www.patreon.com/cripplecontentYou can follow me on Twitter at @andrewgurzaEnjoy!!!!

Dec 11, 20181h 10m

Ep 140Episode 115 - An Interview w/ Disabled, Queer and Sexy AF Artist, Robert Andy Coombs

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In this episode, I talk with disabled, queer photographer, Robert Andy Coombs. We talk about how he became disabled and how he felt about that, his amazing photography work centering disabled, male sexuality and why he is a badass in the bedroom. This one is funny, raw, sexy, and I definitely spent half the episode flirting with Robert! Enjoy. Links to all of Robert's work can be found at his website: www.robertandycoombs.com.Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Dec 7, 20181h 12m

Ep 139Episode 114 - "I Don't Wanna Touch Your Face" - An Interview w/ Belo Cipriani

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In this episode, I sit down with award winning author and journalist, Belo Cipriani as we talk about navigating the world as a blind gay man; everything from how he became blind to the accessibility of gay hook up culture is openly explored. Of course, we have some laughs too. Enjoy! You can follow Belo's work by heading over to his website: www.belocipriani.com.

Nov 30, 20181h 15m

Ep 138Episode 113 - Cerebral Sexuality - A Conversation with Galia Godel about Sexuality and Intellectual Disability

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In this episode, I talk with Jewish sex educator and behavior specialist, Galia Godel. She works as a sex educator around sexual health and intellectual disabilities. We talk about how to talk about sex and sexuality with intellectually disabled people. She shares some experiences working with intellectually disabled clients, we talk consent, intellectual disabilities and so much more. Follow Galia's work at @SexCerebral on Twitter. You can work with Galia and hire her by going to cerebral-sexuality.com.Enjoy!

Nov 23, 201813 min

Ep 137Episode 112 - Meat Cage, Dislocations, Revealing Your Disability and More - An Interview w/ Ace Ratcliff

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In this episode, we sit down with writer, activist and disability badass, Ace Ratcliff. We talk about things dislocating during sex, revealing your identity as an ambulatory wheelchair user, and we talk to Ace about how their use of pronoun they/them is directly related to their disabled identity. You can follow Ace at @MortuaryReport on Twitter, or hit up their website at www.stayweirdbekind.comYou can support DisabilityAfterDark for as little as $1 per month by going to Patreon.com/cripplecontent Follow the show on Twitter @disaftdarkpod

Nov 16, 20181h 8m

Ep 136Episode 111 - Tips for a Sexy, Disabled Sleepover

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In this episode, we look at tips and tricks for a sexy, disabled sleepover, and how a lot of the tips in popular culture around sleepovers aren't accessible to disabled people. We look at things like phone etiquette, scent needs, bringing stuff in a discreet bag (how inaccessible is that when you have wheelchairs?) and so much more. Follow the show on Twitter at @disaftdarkpod and pledge to the show on Patreon at $1 month at www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Nov 9, 201843 min

Ep 135Episode 110 - Sexuality, Disability and Tattoos

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In this episode, find out why I have "Queer Cripple" tattooed on my chest, and how all my tattoos connect to my sexuality and my disability. Let me know if I should get a sexy pin up tat or not. I tell you the story of when I got a tattoo to impress a boy, and so much more. Enjoy!

Nov 2, 201843 min

Ep 134Episode 109 - I love being autistic - An Interview w/ Sara Camps

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In this episode, I sit down with Sara Camps, an autistic queer person whose gender is cat lady. We talk about how autism affects her experience of intimacy. Sara talks about running a queer disability support group at a University, and suggests ways that University groups can engage with intersectional identities better. We talk about her relationship with her cishet husband, and so much more. Enjoy!You can follow Sara on Twitter here: @cheesepickles

Oct 26, 20181h 5m

Ep 133Episode 108 - Karolyn Gehrig

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In this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Karolyn Gehrig, creator of the #HospitalGlam hashtag about sexuality, disability, and so much more. Our conversations touch on Karolyn's experience of EDS, her "How Much Blood is Too Much Blood", talking about the right to die and then getting her pussy eaten out with a date, and lots more. Follow Karolyn on Twitter here: @karolynprg Go to Karolyn's website here: http://www.karolyngehrig.com/

Oct 19, 20181h 15m

Ep 132Episode 107 - "Wounded Deer" - A Chat with Sexual Wellness & Relationship Coach Kat Nantz

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In this episode we chat with relationship and sexual wellness coach Kat Nantz. We go into her experience of Charcot Marie Tooth Disease and how that plays into sexuality for her. We also chat about grieving disability, BDSM, Kink and Power with Disability, Parenting and Disability and so much more. You can follow Kat's work at www.katnantz.com

Oct 12, 20181h 16m

Ep 131Episode 106 - A Conversation about Trans and Cerebral Palsy Identity with Aspyn Bennett

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In this episode, I talk with Aspyn Bennett about the intersection of trans and Cerebral Palsy. We also chat about dating, disability and bisexuality and demisexuality. We discuss what it feels like to be fetishized as a disabled trans person and so much more. You can follow Aspyn on instagram at www.instagram.com/aspyn_bennett

Oct 5, 20181h 0m

Ep 130Episode 105 - Wheelbarrow Sex - The Fuckability of Wheelchairs Throughout History

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In this episode, I talk about how I recently came due for a brand new wheelchair and all that entails. From there, I look at the fuckability of wheelchairs throughout history from wheelbarrows, bath chairs, the farffler and more. Enjoy!

Sep 28, 201839 min

Ep 129Episode 104 - PwD - Porn While Disabled Part 2 - Beef Wellington and Jay Austin

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In this episode, I sit down with Go-Go Boy, Chef and Porn Performer Jay Austin as we talk about the possibility of doing a porn scene together, and how my disability might be incorporated into that. We talk about the logistics of having a disabled actor in gay porn, we reveal my gay porn stage name and so much more. Follow Jay Austin's work at www.jayaustin.xxx or on Twitter @jayxaustin

Sep 21, 201840 min