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Anonymous says she’s been in the talking stage with a man for the last year. Anonymous says everything is going well and the vibe is good. But every time she brings up the conversation of them making things official the guy says she’s putting too much pressure on him. Anonymous is not sure if she can move forward being in limbo.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his children from a previous relationship to pay for school supplies and school fees. Anonymous says he lied to her about not getting his bonus and getting half a salary. She feels like he’s using her.

Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a relationship with the child but doesn’t know how to go about dealing with this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts on his phone which have revealed cozy relationships with other women. Anonymous also says she has never heard an “I love you” from him.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner then one day came with the child to their home because the mother of the baby said she needed a nanny. They continued with their relationship but years later when anonymous fell pregnant, she found out that this woman was also pregnant with her partner’s child once again.

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family they might build together in future. Anonymous says they both feel like his family is taking advantage of him.

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has noticed suspicious behaviour with him another woman while they were out at one of his DJing gigs. Anonymous says she loves him but her problem is the cheating.

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raising his concerns about some of the people she’s been communicating with, something anonymous’ partner sees as him suspecting her of being unfaithful towards him.

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cleansed. Anonymous wants to confront her ex about this and doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now that the wife has found out.

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymous’ mother, that anonymous’ boyfriend has asked her to show him her privates so he could see if she’s a virgin, anonymous’ daughter also says he’s forced to hug him which all made feel uncomfortable, anonymous’ partner says he wasn’t trying to make advances on her.

Anonymous is caught between two guys. The first guy is in a relationship with several other people and that would make anonymous a side dish, things are a little tricky there, anonymous says he does love the first guy though. Guy no.2 is cool but anonymous found out that the guy is engaged to be married to another guy, and even wants to introduce anonymous to his fiancé , anonymous is not sure what to do.

Anonymous and her partner were struggling to conceive a baby and eventually went on fertility treatments which led to sex feeling like a chore for them, however, anonymous did fall pregnant and they have a child. The issue is that anonymous now feels like what they went through has affected their sex life and her partner doesn’t seem interested. They are also in a long distance relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to go about resolving the situation with their sex life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 5 years and their relationship is fairly ok. Her partner has a 13 year-old son who she has a good relationship with but not with the mother of the child, who anonymous says is always fighting with her and bringing drama to her and her relationship. Anonymous says her partner is now also seemingly coming under stress from all this and taking it out on her. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by this and is even considering leaving the relationship.

Anonymous met a man last year and they instantly clicked and started dating. Anonymous says in the midst of this she met her man’s friend and started clicking with him. One day she was alone with her man’s friends and ended up having sex with the friend she likes. Her man found out about the affair and they eventually broke up. Anonymous now wants her ex-man back even though he is now seemingly happy in a relationship.

Anonymous and his now ex were together in what he thought was a beautiful relationship until he caught her in bed cheating on him with another man. The relationship continued after the incident but anonymous saw the same guy calling her and saw text exchanges between them…

Anonymous has been dating his partner for 2 years now. They both came into the relationship with their own kids, anonymous has 1 and the partner has two kids. Anonymous says because he’s in love with her he decided to also support her kids but now there’s a problem in the relationship because anonymous’s partner feels like anonymous is prioritising his own child over her children. Anonymous says another issue is that his partner has been saying she’s pregnant for months now but the doctors say it’s not true.

Anonymous has had a friends with benefits situation with a friend of his for the last year, this is guy no.1, however anonymous then ended up also having sex with guy no.2 who’s guy no.1’s brother, and they’ve now developed feelings for each other. In the middle of all of this anonymous has also had sexual relations with their guy no.3, who’s their other brother. Anonymous is not sure what to do in terms persuing something with one of them or dropping it all together.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 10 years and things got a little tricky between him and his partner which led to him having an affair with a friend of his. The affair was eventually ended by their respective partners but they’ve found a way back to each other. Anonymous doesn't know what to do as he loves them both.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and the relationship has been going well, despite the fact the her partner has a child with another partner. Anonymous says the problems started when she would bleed after having sex with her partner, upon consulting traditional healers she was told that the bleeding is caused by a spell that’s been cast on her and anonymous suspects that it’s her boyfriend’s other partner that’s doing this, something her boyfriend disagrees with.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

Tuesdays in the Self Care Corner are all about health and on World Diabetes Day we’ll be focusing on how a higher Health Promotion Levy could help in reducing the increasing number of South Africans suffering from diabetes. Joining us this morning is Nzama Mbalati - head of programmes at the Healthy Living Alliance aka HEALA.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.