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Anonymous comes from an abusive household and eventually left home and eventually started dating his current partner who supported him until he found his feet and even got a house. Anonymous then moved in with his partner and things were generally fine however they faced some financial troubles. Anonymous started having an affair with another woman who used to give anonymous money that he would give to his girlfriend, anonymous eventually confessed about this and they moved on from it. Anonymous then had some incidences with other women and says he needs help because he keeps sleeping around.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 8 years and they got engaged this year. Anonymous says her partner has cheated on him a few times over the years and he has forgiven her each time. Anonymous says she had stopped her cheating ways for a couple of months after they got engaged this year, however, anonymous says yesterday her partner disappeared and switched off her phone and when he queried her about that she confessed that she was away sleeping with another man because he gave her money and she needed money, despite the fact anonymous had already sent her money.

Anonymous met a man online two weeks ago and things were going well and she met up with him at his place last week Saturday. While on this meet they went into his prayer room where they prayed and then he showed her a hut in the same room which he uses to praise & communicate with his ancestors. Anonymous says he invited her back this past Wednesday and they prayed in the room but this time around the ancestor responded and she could hear the ancestor’s voice saying he accepts her into the family. Anonymous says something is not adding up and she feels like this guy is too good to be true.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous also notes that they have a 6 year age gap between them. Anonymous says during the course of their relationship they ran into some financial issues and even ended up separating when his partner moved to a different city. Anonymous says they eventually got back together but things haven’t been the same since then and anonymous says they are constantly in conflict and he feels like his partner won’t hear him out. Anonymous is also feeling a bit insecure because his partner once cheated on him. Anonymous is not sure if the relationship is still worth it.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 6 years now and they have a child together who stays with her parents. A few weeks ago her partner was supposed to fetch their son for a weekend visit and her but delayed all of this because he was out with his colleagues. Anonymous brought it up and asked that he doesn’t inconvenience her but he turned it around and accused her of being nagging partner. Anonymous says he’s been repeating that sort of behaviour, gaslighting her and never taking accountability for his actions.

Anonymous broke with with her ex last year, however, in recent times she started having a thing with her ex’s friend and says they both want to be with each other but the friend is scared of getting together with her and making it official publicly because of his friend who’s anonymous’ ex. Anonymous says they are still friends.

Anonymous was seeing a guy last year and they broke up because the guy wasn’t treating her well, this is guy no.1. Then anonymous got back with her ex, guy no.2, and she fell pregnant in the early days of getting back together. Anonymous says guy no.1 was then trying to get back together with her and she shared this information with guy no.2’s sister who told her brother that anonymous had some relations with guy no.1 who even had food delivered to her while she was pregnant. They broke up because guy no.2 now suspected that the baby might not even be his. Anonymous says guy no.1 still wants her back and thinks the baby might be his.

Anonymous moved to a new place with her new born last year where she met a new neighbour and got into an “entanglement” with him. Anonymous says in the course of this she fell pregnant late last year with this man’s child and she hasn’t told him. She tried to terminate the pregnancy but she struggled to terminate successfully because of finances. She currently has two kids and doesn’t know how to deal with the fact that she’s now pregnant, she still hasn’t told the guy and also can’t tell her family. Anonymous is now considering adoption

Anonymous says he’s cheated on his partner multiple times during the relationship, his partner would forgive him and they kept on being in a relationship. Anonymous says he realised that what he was doing was wrong and affecting his partner badly so he decided to stop but it was too late. Anonymous says his partner is now cheating on him with someone else and anonymous says he saw, via texts, that she is having a good time with a new guy that she’s been having an affair with, anonymous’ partner is now saying she’s done with him, but he’s saying he’s struggling to let her go and wants to know if he should fight for her.

Anonymous says her partner went away to go see his family on Saturday but didn’t come back until Sunday. Anonymous says he’s done this a few times so she told him not come back and he said fine but he did come back and she hasn’t spoken to him ever since. Anonymous says she left him at the house and blocked him on the phone. Anonymous says her partner is now blackmailing her, threatening to share incriminating information about her with her boss. Anonymous is not sure what to do. Anonymous says he blames her for ruining her life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and she recently found out that she’s pregnant, however, shortly after that anonymous’ partner lost his job and it brought strain on the relationship especially because they are expecting. Anonymous says things were fairly fine however when anonymous’ partner received his severance pay he started acting weird and they fought about his partying which led to him moving out and living with his parents. Anonymous says he now wants to break up and says he can’t be with her anymore. Anonymous is not sure whether she should fight for this relationship.

Anonymous broke up with her partner last year after she found texts on his phone that indicated that he might be gay as he was in a relationship with another guy and his WhatsApp was filled with flirty exchanges with other men. Anonymous broke up with him without confronting him about what she found in his texts. She says she’s still in love with him and doesn’t know if she made a mistake by breaking up with him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous says last week she went to her partner’s house and found him there naked with a girl in the house. Anonymous says her partner says he was naked because he was getting ready for church and the lady ended up in the house after a night of partying. Anonymous doesn’t know whether to believe him or not. Anonymous says it’s not the first time his suspected him of cheating as she once found lady’s underwear in his house.

Anonymous and her husband live with his family and the situation has gotten tricky. Anonymous says she wants them to move out of the house and find their own place with their kids, but her husband refuses and even told her to build her own house. Anonymous has since build a house for herself and her kids and her husband is not happy about this. Anonymous says her husband is now unemployed and she’s the only one working, but her husband is not helpful at even in taking care of their children.

Anonymous says her relationship was fine but she does sometimes go through some mental health issues that affect her mood. Her partner voiced that he struggles with her mood swings and anonymous says she took action to improve her behaviour and she thought everything was fine but it came up again and they broke up. Anonymous says she feels like she did improve and had one slip up but he’s not hearing her and says he doesn’t want to get back together with her. Anonymous doesn’t know if she should keep fighting for this relationship. Anonymous thinks he might still be hung up on his ex.

Anonymous and her previous partner have two kids together and broke up after 11 years last year because her partner cheated. Anonymous has since met someone else and they have been together for 6 months, the issue now is that her ex and father of her children says he doesn’t want anonymous’ new partner spending time with his kids and has raised safety issues.

Anonymous is married to a man who’s 16 years younger than her and says the issue in their relationship is her partner and his friends. Anonymous says she feels like her partner is always prioritising friends and partying and she can’t do it. She says he came into the relationship knowing this but it’s now becoming a challenge in their relationship. Anonymous says aside from that he is a great husband at home.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about 18 months and she says it’s been amazing. Anonymous says in the last couple of months her feelings for her partner have suddenly changed and she doesn’t know why because he has done nothing wrong. and the relationship is fine. Anonymous doesn’t know why she’s feeling this way and wishes to go back to being in love with her partner again.

Anonymous says she cheated on her boyfriend last year and confessed what she had done because she felt guilty. Anonymous says months later he seems to still not be over the fact that she cheated on him and even got angry that she was being friendly with their neighbour’s guests over the weekend. Anonymous says her partner did cheat on her multiple times before but had stopped in the recent years of their 5 year relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to convince him that she won’t do it again.

Anonymous says she’s been in the talking stage with a man for the last year. Anonymous says everything is going well and the vibe is good. But every time she brings up the conversation of them making things official the guy says she’s putting too much pressure on him. Anonymous is not sure if she can move forward being in limbo.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his children from a previous relationship to pay for school supplies and school fees. Anonymous says he lied to her about not getting his bonus and getting half a salary. She feels like he’s using her.

Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a relationship with the child but doesn’t know how to go about dealing with this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts on his phone which have revealed cozy relationships with other women. Anonymous also says she has never heard an “I love you” from him.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner then one day came with the child to their home because the mother of the baby said she needed a nanny. They continued with their relationship but years later when anonymous fell pregnant, she found out that this woman was also pregnant with her partner’s child once again.

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family they might build together in future. Anonymous says they both feel like his family is taking advantage of him.

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has noticed suspicious behaviour with him another woman while they were out at one of his DJing gigs. Anonymous says she loves him but her problem is the cheating.

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raising his concerns about some of the people she’s been communicating with, something anonymous’ partner sees as him suspecting her of being unfaithful towards him.

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cleansed. Anonymous wants to confront her ex about this and doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

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If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now that the wife has found out.

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymous’ mother, that anonymous’ boyfriend has asked her to show him her privates so he could see if she’s a virgin, anonymous’ daughter also says he’s forced to hug him which all made feel uncomfortable, anonymous’ partner says he wasn’t trying to make advances on her.

Anonymous is caught between two guys. The first guy is in a relationship with several other people and that would make anonymous a side dish, things are a little tricky there, anonymous says he does love the first guy though. Guy no.2 is cool but anonymous found out that the guy is engaged to be married to another guy, and even wants to introduce anonymous to his fiancé , anonymous is not sure what to do.

Anonymous and her partner were struggling to conceive a baby and eventually went on fertility treatments which led to sex feeling like a chore for them, however, anonymous did fall pregnant and they have a child. The issue is that anonymous now feels like what they went through has affected their sex life and her partner doesn’t seem interested. They are also in a long distance relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to go about resolving the situation with their sex life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 5 years and their relationship is fairly ok. Her partner has a 13 year-old son who she has a good relationship with but not with the mother of the child, who anonymous says is always fighting with her and bringing drama to her and her relationship. Anonymous says her partner is now also seemingly coming under stress from all this and taking it out on her. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by this and is even considering leaving the relationship.

Anonymous met a man last year and they instantly clicked and started dating. Anonymous says in the midst of this she met her man’s friend and started clicking with him. One day she was alone with her man’s friends and ended up having sex with the friend she likes. Her man found out about the affair and they eventually broke up. Anonymous now wants her ex-man back even though he is now seemingly happy in a relationship.

Anonymous and his now ex were together in what he thought was a beautiful relationship until he caught her in bed cheating on him with another man. The relationship continued after the incident but anonymous saw the same guy calling her and saw text exchanges between them…

Anonymous has been dating his partner for 2 years now. They both came into the relationship with their own kids, anonymous has 1 and the partner has two kids. Anonymous says because he’s in love with her he decided to also support her kids but now there’s a problem in the relationship because anonymous’s partner feels like anonymous is prioritising his own child over her children. Anonymous says another issue is that his partner has been saying she’s pregnant for months now but the doctors say it’s not true.

Anonymous has had a friends with benefits situation with a friend of his for the last year, this is guy no.1, however anonymous then ended up also having sex with guy no.2 who’s guy no.1’s brother, and they’ve now developed feelings for each other. In the middle of all of this anonymous has also had sexual relations with their guy no.3, who’s their other brother. Anonymous is not sure what to do in terms persuing something with one of them or dropping it all together.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 10 years and things got a little tricky between him and his partner which led to him having an affair with a friend of his. The affair was eventually ended by their respective partners but they’ve found a way back to each other. Anonymous doesn't know what to do as he loves them both.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and the relationship has been going well, despite the fact the her partner has a child with another partner. Anonymous says the problems started when she would bleed after having sex with her partner, upon consulting traditional healers she was told that the bleeding is caused by a spell that’s been cast on her and anonymous suspects that it’s her boyfriend’s other partner that’s doing this, something her boyfriend disagrees with.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.