Anatomy of Change
477 episodes — Page 9 of 10
279 Q&A Day 62: Love Languages, ignoring depression, husband doesn’t help and finding a therapist.
Today we answer your questions about how to connect with your partner using your Love Languages, what happens when a spouse ignores their depressive symptoms, What to do if your husband thinks you are his subordinate and NOT his partner, and how on earth you can find a therapist that you jive with! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
278 Q&A Day 61: Self-awareness, Enneagram type 9, ADD, and searching for inner peace.
Today Seth and I talk about our journey with self awareness, the enneagram type 9 and how ADD plays a part in all of it. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
277 Q&A Day 60: Compulsive Lying, my husband is depressed and Group Therapy.
Today we answer your questions about how to stop the cycle of Compulsive Lying in your marriage, how to help a spouse who has Depression and what proactive steps you can take to help the depressed partner walk through a depressed state. We also share AOM Group Therapy!! We are excited to announce this new idea into the AOM world and will be sharing more each week! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
276 Q&A Day 59: Rigid In-Laws, ADHD Partner, Overcoming Childhood Trauma and Parenting Tweens.
Today we answer your questions about how to cope with extremely rigid In-Laws, how to deal with an ADHD partner, how to know when progress is being made in your marriage, how to begin healing from childhood trauma and some tips for parenting tweenagers. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
275 Q&A Day 58: Should I break off the engagement, Working from home with a baby, & Why am I so angry?!
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you feel miserable in your engagement, how to navigate work and being a stay at home parent, and what to do when you are constantly thinking, feeling and doing negative things in your relationships. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
274 Q&A Day 57: Initiating sex, stopping the cycle of anger & intimacy after infidelity.
Today we answer your questions about when to do when a partner rarely initiates sex, how to stop the cycle of anger and frustration that happens in relationships, and the issues that couples face around intimacy after there has been infidelity. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
273 Marriage & Comedy With Dustin Nickerson!
Today we talk with the hilarious Dustin Nickerson. Dad, Husband, Professional Comedian, and Host of the Don’t Make Me Come Back There podcast, a comedian's perspective on all things marriage, family, relationships, kids and more! He talks about what it was like making his big jump into a full time Comedy Career and what it is like sharing the spotlight with people like John Crist and Kevin Hart. Learn more about Dustin https://www.dustinnickerson.com/ Follow him https://www.instagram.com/dustinnickerson/ https://www.facebook.com/dustinnickersoncomedy https://twitter.com/DustinNickerson Listen to Don’t Make Me Come Back There Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
272 Q&A Day 56: Lust, Anxiety & Am I Really In Love?!
Today we answer your questions about how much lusting is acceptable in marriage, we talk about the impact of anxiety on relationships and we wonder if the infatuation stage is actually necessary in a happy marriage. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
271 Q&A Day 55: The Enneagram In Action!
Today Seth and I talk about our own Enneagram journey and how what we used to think was a bunch of hokum has actually changed our lives!! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
270 Q&A Day 54: Premarital advice, The Bachelorette, and a Disapproving Boyfriend.
Today we answer your questions about premarital advice, share our thoughts on the Bachelorette and figure out what to do about an overly disapproving and critical boyfriend. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Marriage & the Enneagram with Beth and Jeff McCord
Today we explore the Enneagram with the awesome Beth and Jeff McCord of Your Enneagram Coach. We talk about the impact that understanding the Enneagram has on your relationships, and how it is a tool for building compassion and empathy. Seth also shares his journey with discovering his own 9-ness and what that means in our marriage. Learn more about Beth & Jeff! https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/ Buy tickets for their tour https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/becomingus Follow them online! https://www.instagram.com/yourenneagramcoach/ https://www.facebook.com/YourEnneagramCoach/ Find out your type! https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/dont-know-your-type Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
268 Q&A Day 53: Quiet men, emotional affairs and taking responsibility for your behaviors and actions.
Today we talk about sharing your emotions as a man, we answer your questions about emotional affairs and we talk about the power and importance of taking ownership and responsibility for your behaviors and actions in marriage and in your relationships. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
267 Q&A Day 52: Dating continued, hunting fights, and boundaries around an abusive parent.
Today we continue the conversation about dating, what it is for and why we do it, we also answer your questions about differences in hobbies that cost money such as hunting, and how to change your relationship with an abusive parent. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
266 Q&A Day 51: Dating, Chores, preparing for baby and fun things to do with your spouse!
Today we answer your questions about dating, navigating chores with your spouse, how to prepare for having a kid, and bringing fun into your marriage with games! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
265 Q&A Day 50: Household chores, pleasing in-laws, abusive parents and pet snake?!
Today we answer your questions about managing shared household chores, pleasing your in-laws, dealing with an abusive parent, and what to do when your spouse wants a snake! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
264 Q&A Day 49: Afraid to touch, clingy wife, and Mother-In-law boundaries.
Today we answer your questions about how to heal from a fear of touch, what to do with a clingy wife, and how on earth to navigate a Mother-In-Law who has no boundaries. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
263 Q&A Day 48: Narcissist Personalities, chance to rebuild and inlaws….again!!!
Today we answer your questions about what to do if you see narcissistic traits in your partner, how to rebuild after a tumultuous past, and how to handle patronizing in-laws. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
262 Q&A Day 47: Connecting with your Partner, Attachment styles, and managing friendships
Today we answer your questions about connecting with your partner when you are feeling “meh”, we talk more about attachment styles and their impact on relationships, and we also talk about the importance of friendships. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
261 Q&A Day 46: Double standards in relationships, and mother-in-law struggles
Today we answer your questions about what to do with double standards in relationships, mother-in-law boundary troubles and more. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
260: Enemy Emotions With Dr. Laura Dabney
Today we talk with the wonderful Dr. Laura Dabney about how being the right kind of selfish can improve your marriage, how Enemy Emotions often destroy intimacy but should really act as smoke alarms, and how avoiding negative emotions can be harmful. Learn more about Dr. Laura Dabney https://lauradabney.com/ Learn more about being the right kind of selfish in marriage http://lauradabney.com/anatomyofmarriage/ Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
259 Q&A Day 45: Growing wife, stagnant husband, Family Of Origin and generational addiction.
Today we answer your questions about how to inspire and invite growth in your partner, how Family Of Origin impacts relationships, and how addiction and abusive behavior get passed down through generations. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
258 Q&A Day 44: How to Transform Your Marriage!
Today we talk about 3 key steps that will actually Transform Your Marriage! What you take in What you do with that information And what you give It’s gonna be AMAZING! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
257 Q&A Day 43: Parenting differences, good vibes only and the grass is always greener.
Today we answer your questions about being in a relationship in your early to mid twenties, how positive vibes really do matter, and we talk about the deeper implications and importance of raising kids in a healthy balanced way and what to do when you and your partner have parenting differences. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
256 Q&A Day 42: Boundaries in a separation, video game problems and honoring differences.
Today we answer your questions about what to do during a separation, how to handle the stress that video games can add to a relationship, and we explore how to actively honor differences and promote linkages! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
255 Q&A Day 41: Adult Attachment Disorder, Organized religion, our faith journey and taking a break from your partner.
Today we answer your questions about adult attachment disorder, talk about our thoughts on organized religion and share some of our own faith journey, as well as share some tips on lovingly taking a temporary break from your partner if that is what your marriage needs. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
254 Q&A Day 40: Spectrum and relationships, how to get sex when and how you want it, and what to do if someone you are NOT married to finds you attractive.
Today we answer your questions about being in relationship with someone on the Spectrum, how to get the sex that you want when you want it, and what to do if someone you are NOT married to finds you attractive... and tells you! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
253 Q&A Day 39: Hope after an affair, making decisions as a couple, and forgiving a hurtful past.
Today we answer your questions about how to make decisions as a couple when you have conflicting communication styles, how to change hurtful behaviors and heal from the past, and we bring you a hopeful letter about healing after an affair. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
252 Q&A Day 38: Forgiving myself, building trust, and healthy boundaries with toxic parents.
Today we answer your questions about how to forgive yourself if you struggle with trust issues, how to handle toxic parent/child relationships, and the importance of understanding how the lizard brain impacts our daily lives. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
251 Q&A Day 37: Helping a partner heal, using “I Statements”, and a disappointed husband.
Today we answer your questions about how to help your partner heal family wounds, how to use the Clearing Structure and “I Statements” with more than just your partner, and we explore how to change the pattern of disappointment in your marriage. Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
250 Q&A Day 36: Questioning faith, long distance relationships and broccoli fights!
Today we answer your questions about what to do when your partner is questioning their faith, how to enjoy a long distance relationship, and we share a story about broccoli fight from our private AOM Women’s Facebook Page! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
249 Q&A Day 35: How Family of Origin, Epigenetics, my wife has changed and morning mindfulness.
Today we talk about the power of Family Of Origin and the role of Epigenetics as well as how to navigate a partner who is cheating and has changed. We also share the incredible power of a morning routine! Today’s show is brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
248 Q&A Day 34: Family of origin, support through financial struggles and is aggressive sex OK?
Today we answer your questions about how to change your perspective on Family Of Origin issues in your marriage, how you can handle the ups and downs of life and we talk about the importance of understanding your sexual desire and having a healthy sex life. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
247 Q&A Day 33: I don’t speak my partner’s Love Language, how can I learn to communicate and my husband is an alcoholic.
Today we answer your questions about how to learn and practice your partner's Love Language each day, how you can learn more about good communication skills for marriage, and what to do if your spouse in an alcoholic. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
245 Q&A Day 31: Male Emotional Intelligence, my wife is cheating on me, and gift lists make me feel terrible!
Today we talk about the importance of understanding Emotional Intelligence and how it has often been repressed in men. We also talk about what to do when you have a partner who is cheating and why gift lists mean one thing to you but a totally different thing to your partner. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
244 Q&A Day 30: My husband is condescending, I don’t know what I want sexually, and I have been a B-word all day!
Today we answer your questions about dealing with a condescending partner, how to explore your sexuality in a healthy way and we share real stories from the Anatomy Of Marriage Facebook groups! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
243 BONUS EPISODE: Motivation with Seth
Today Seth shares his thoughts on getting therapy, creating motivation, personal development, having a growth mindset and more. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
242 Q&A Day 29: Chore charts, sex drive and how to heal from hurtful words in marriage.
Today we answer your questions about the chore charts that we use for our kids, what to do if your wife has a lower sex drive, how to heal from past hurtful words or actions from your partner and more! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
241 Q&A Day 28: My husband won’t talk to me, he thinks I’m being stupid, and I have a lower sex drive.
Today we answer your questions about why husbands can often have a hard time talking about emotional issues, we talk about the importance of using peacemaking communication instead of weaponizing, and what to do about a lower sex drive. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
240 Q&A Day 27: The impact of sexual abuse on marrige, I hate oral sex, and how can I ask for what I want?
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you have a history of sexual abuse and find intimacy challenging in your marriage, how to have a mindset shift about oral sex, and how to ask your partner for what you want in marriage. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
239 Q&A Day 26: Porn in a Christian marriage and my husband looks at other women.
Today we answer your questions about what to do when your partner is using porn, and how to address concerns when your partner is openly looking at other people. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
238 Q&A Day 25: Routines, how to find a counselor, and making big family choices.
Today we answer your questions about what routines we do each day and how they have shaped our marriage, how to find a therapist or a counselor, and how to process big choices in marriage together. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
237 Q&A Day 24: Premarital Sex, Enneagram help and I think my husband is cheating on me!
Today we answer your questions about how the enneagram helps in our marriage, what to do if you think your partner is cheating on you and our thoughts on regretting premarital sex. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
235 Q&A Day 22: Boundaries with friends, resolving conflict and communication.
Today we answer your questions about creating boundaries around friendships with past sexual partners, resolving conflict in marriage and how to improve communication. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
233 Q&A Day 20: Faith differences in relationships and is the man really the head of the house?
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you and your partner have different perspectives on faith and we take a second look at the idea of the man being the head of the house. Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
232 Q&A Day 19: No sex for a year and what to do when you don’t have the marriage that you want.
Today we answer your questions about what to do when you don’t have the marriage that you want, and how to change the pattern of having sex just once a year. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
231 Q&A Day 18: Wife doesn’t initiate sex and losing friends when you move away.
Today we answer your questions about how to navigate a partner who is not initiating sex and what happens when you lose your friends after moving away. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
230 Q&A Day 17: Relationship doubts, a changing spouse, mother-in-law issues, app update and more!
Today we dive into how to manage boundaries with in-laws, what to do if you doubt your relationship, how to deal with a changing spouse, where we are with the app and so much more!! Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
229 Q&A Day 16: Finding self confidence, book recommendations, sarcasm, dealing with a sensitive partner and more!
Today Seth and I talk about our favorite audiobooks for growing self confidence, how to deal with a sensitive partner, and the impact that sarcasm has on a relationship! Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
228 Q&A Day 15: How to fight without causing harm, dealing with a victim mentality in your partner and how to stop an apologizing partner.
Today Seth and I talk about the importance of learning to go through conflict without causing harm to your partner as well as how to help your spouse get out of a victim mentality, and what to do when your partner is always apologizing. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
227: Q&A Day 14 - Avoiding conflict but becoming like roommates and gender roles continued.
Today we talk about the importance of examining the knee jerk reaction of avoiding conflict and we also dive deeper into gender roles. Start each day intentionally with Prayer & Gratitude! Today’s show was brought to you by Audible, get your FREE Audiobook when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices