
Anatomy of Change
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I don't know what I want! #enneagram9problems
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when you don't know what you want or how to express your needs. For the marriage help you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The impact of change and growth on marriage
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when you are improving yourself but your partner struggles to "speak to the new version of you." Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adult Attachment Disorder & Reparenting
Today we explore the impact of Disordered Attachment on Marriage and Relationships. We also explore Reparenting and share helpful tools to begin healing your attachment wounds. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I am too emotional and it is damaging my marriage
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your emotions are getting in the way of a happy marriage. Get the help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My girlfriends parents are pushing me away
Today we talk about what to do when you feel like an outsider. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My fiancée has no desire to improve her life, what do I do?
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner's desires don't line up with your long term goals in life. Get the relationship help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sexual Anxiety from porn and masturbation
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when porn and masturbation has you stuck in a cycle and is negatively impacting your real sex life. Get Virtual Counseling Today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do I forgive myself for ruining my marriage and more.
Today we answer listener questions about forgiving yourself for mistakes you have made in marriage, what to do if your partner thinks you are lying, and how to move forward when your partner has a side chick but gets mad because you got a boyfriend. Y'all, get the marriage help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transform your marriage through Self-Transformation
Today we answer a listener question about how to transform your marriage through self-transformation. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Crated With Love unboxing & Ask Us Anything!
Today we had a bodacious time with an unboxing of a mystery Date Night Box brought to us by Crated With Love, it was so much fun! We also answer listener questions about anything and everything from coaching to next steps as a therapist and more! Get your own Crated With Love Date Night Box! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I love my husband but struggle to find him sexually attractive
Today we answer a listener question about loving your partner but wanting more sexual attraction. We share tips, ideas and conversation starters to help rekindle the flame. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My Mother-In-Law wants me to force my husband to go to church
Today we answer a listener question about navigating an overbearing mother-in-law, and we share tips and tricks for how to make progress in these types of relationships. For marriage help visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I left my wife 10 months ago and it was the wrong choice.
Today we answer a listener about what to do when you have left your partner but regret your choices. Visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage for the marriage help that you need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I am unhappy in my marriage & Seth and Melanie Fight LIVE on the show!
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when you are unhappy in your marriage. We also spend a great deal working through our own misunderstanding. Visit AnatomyOfMarriage.com to get the marriage help you need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Too Christian, Not Christian Enough
Today we explore our faith and answer a listener question about why we don't talk about Jesus very much on our show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Low sex drive & spirit vs ego
Today we talk about differences in sex drive and its impact on relationships. We also explore living in spirit vs living in ego. Get therapy today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My partner wants to try Psychedelics
Today we answer a listener question about a partner wanting to experiment with drugs. We discuss the potential impacts, share personal experiences, and explore the "why" behind this desire. Get Marriage Help Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Help, my partner's family is enmeshed
Today we answer a listener question about managing enmeshment in your partner's family. We share tools, tips and ideas to make it all easier. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My spouse doesn't want to work on our marriage
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when you are working on yourself and your marriage but your partner doesn't share your enthusiasm. Get marriage help today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My husband wants sex everyday
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner wants sex everyday. To get the marriage help that you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Living Like Roommates in Marriage
Today we answer a listener question about what to do when you and your spouse are living like roommates. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Low self-esteem is ruining my marriage
Today we answer a listener question about managing low self-esteem in marriage. We talk about possible sources for low self-esteem, ways to combat it, and great resources to help you grow. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fighting over face lotion & Feelin' n' peelin'
Today we talk about the insights we gained from our "face lotion fight", the new communication tools we created because of it, the impact of being highly sensitive in marriage, and so much more. Get the marriage help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex, Intimacy and Depression
Today we explore how depression impacts sex and intimacy in marriage. We also talk about scheduling sex, sparking joy in marriage and more. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dealing with job loss & AOM MERCH!
Today we talk about ways to manage the stress of job loss, coping with how your partner handles job loss, AND we talk about the merch that we are working on! Get counseling today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Using the Clearing Structure for Cyber Infidelity
Today we answer a listener question about how to navigate cyber infidelity in marriage. We walk through the steps of the Clearing Structure and share several strategies for success when confronting your partner. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Help, I only see my husband as a friend
Today we explore the impact of only seeing your partner as a friend. We talk about the 7 year itch, seasons of relationships and share ways to get out of your friendship rut! Get the marriage help that you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I struggle with seeing the negatives in my husband
Today we answer listener questions about the impact of only seeing the negative in your spouse. To get the help you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Baby mama, Family drama
Today we answer listener questions about how to deal with family drama from in-laws, exes and more. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sleazy boyfriend and Is porn cheating
Today we answer listener questions about boyfriends with a sleazy past, and is porn considered cheating? Get the relationship that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My husband has terrible friends
Today we explore the impact that friendships have on marriage, how to talk to your spouse about their friends, and how having goals for your marriage can help you clarify which friendships are helpful and which are harmful. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vaginismus
Today we answer a listener question about vaginismus, what it is, how it impacts sex and intimacy, and ways to heal your mind and body. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fight, Flight, Freeze and FAWN
Today we explore the idea of Fawning, what it looks like, how it negatively impacts relationships, and ways that you can change fawning behaviors for good. If you struggle with fawning in your relationships you can get the help that you need by visiting getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage and getting connected with a counselor that is right for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Updates, disappointment and Seth starts crying
Today we are talking through the crazy changes that have happened with Seth and I over the last two weeks and sharing the process of healing and growth with y'all. If you need help reach out to http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For whites only - WAKE UP!
If you are a white person asking "What can I do?" listen to this podcast and share it... Silence is violence. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THERAPY
Today we talk about how therapy works, why we believe it is an important part of a healthy marriage, how to start therapy and so much more. Start your journey to mental wellness when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bachelor parties & strip clubs
Today we answer listener questions about what to do when your partner wants to go to a strip club for a bachelor party... just a hint...you say NO! 🤨 #duh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Healing From Financial Infidel
Today we answer a listener question about how to move beyond and heal from financial infidelity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My Husband Doesn't Meet My Sexual Needs
Today we answer a listener question about getting her needs met by her husband. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pornography
Today we talk about the impact that pornography has on marriage, relationships, the self and more. We also share our personal thoughts and beliefs on pornography. Do you struggle with pornography addiction? Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My husband is sexting, and what is therapy like?
Today we answer listener questions about what to do when a spouse is sexting and what it is like to go to therapy. Get the counseling help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Past Sexual Abuse Impacting Intimacy
Today we answer listener questions about moving beyond and healing from past sexual abuse. We also share tools and tips for diminishing the impact that past abuse can have on your marriage. Get the Counseling Help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I Can't be Myself with Anyone
Today we answer listener questions about self-awareness, growth, identity and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is Divorce My Only Option?
Today we take a listener call and answer questions about healing in marriage when divorce feels like the only option. Get the Counseling help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My Christian Boyfriend is looking at porn
Today we answer listener questions about what to do when your Christian boyfriend has turned to pornography. Get the Counseling you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex & Intimacy Q&A
Today we answer listener questions about sex & intimacy as we wrap up AOM Sex Week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I Want Better Sex But I Don't Want To Talk About It
Today we answer listener questions about how to talk with your spouse about sexuality and sexual needs in marriage without causing a fight or shutting down. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Reimagining Sex & Intimacy With Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
Today we go live with the AMAZING Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and discuss how our fixed and socialized mindsets around sex and intimacy leave us feeling confused, lonely and unfulfilled. Learn more about Dr. Tina https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Go to a Retreat! https://nwioi.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What We Get WRONG About Sex
Today we explore the unhealthy thoughts, behaviors, ideas and feelings around sex & intimacy in marriage and explore new ways to bring deeper connection and pleasure. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

AOM Check-In & Sex Week Announcement
Today we share what is going on in our world with the podcast, family life, sex & intimacy during Covid19, and we announce our upcoming Sex Week! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices