
Adult Child of Dysfunction
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E 314: Tammy's Take #20: You Don't Need Perfect Parents: You Need One Safe Person
E313: Foster Care, Trauma & Hope: What Every Child Really Needs | Paula Yost
E 312: Tammy's Take #19: Awareness Isn’t Healing: Why You Still Feel Stuck
Ep 311: The Truth About Trauma: Healing, Patterns, and Your Story | Scott Stolarick
E 310: Tammys Takes #18: What Happened to You Shaped You… But It Doesn’t Define You
E 309: Soda: Growing Up in Addiction, Trauma, and Survival with David LaTorre
E 308: Tammys Takes #17: Should I Stay or Go? When The Relationship Feels OFF
E 307: Stay or Leave? The Truth About Relationships No One Talks About: Guest Karyn Spetz
E 306: You Don't Need More Discipline- You Need This Instead
E305: Understanding Emotional Eating, Shame & Food Addiction Recovery: Guest Jennifer Schrappe
E304: Tammy Takes #15 You’re Not Self-Sabotaging… You’re Protecting Yourself
E 303: Healing Through Hypnosis: Peter McLaughlin's Transformative Experience
E 302: Tammy's Takes #14: 5 Signs You Are Stuck In Survival Mode
E 301: The Truth About Narcissistic Abuse and Family Trauma - Gueset Dr.Tracy Hutchinson
E300: Tammy Takes #13: You’re Not Unmotivated… You’re Just Believing the Wrong Story
E 299: How to Overcome Burnout and Build a Sustainable Life: Guest Moe Choice
E298: Tammy's Take #12: Your Body Isn’t Broken: How Trauma & Your Nervous System Create Chronic Symptoms
E 297 : The Hidden Link Between Trauma and Chronic Illness | Faith Ashenden
E296: Tammy Take #11: Nervous System Regulation: Breaking Familiar Trauma Patterns That Keep You Stuck
E 295: Trauma, the Brain, and Healing: A Conversation with Dr. Tiff Thompson
E 294: Tammy's Take #10: You Don't Have A Food Problem, You Have A Coping Problem
E 293: From Sugar Addiction to Freedom: Christine Trimpe’s 100-Pound Transformation
E 292: Tammys Takes #9: The Truth About Forgiveness No One Talks About
E291: Forgiveness as Radical Self-Liberation Guest Paul Drugan

S12 Ep 290E 290: Tammy's Take #8: You’re Not Stuck… You’re Replaying the Same Story
In this episode of Tammy’s Takes, Tammy Vincent dives into one of the most powerful concepts in healing and personal growth:👉 the stories you tell yourself—and how they’re shaping your reality.Following her conversation with Dr. Karen Parker, Tammy breaks down the idea that you don’t just have a story… you are living inside of it. These internal narratives—what she calls “tape loops”—can keep you stuck in repeating patterns, even when you’re doing the work.If you’ve ever felt like you’re growing, learning, and trying… but still experiencing the same emotions or outcomes, this episode will help you understand why.Tammy walks you through:What a “tape loop” is and how it keeps you stuckWhy awareness alone isn’t enough to create changeHow your stories are stored not just in your mind—but in your body and energyA simple, powerful exercise to help you rewrite your story in real timeHow to begin shifting from survival patterns into a more empowered identityThis episode goes beyond insight and gives you something you can actually do—right here, right now.Tammy also connects this work back to the body and energy, explaining how unresolved stories can show up as patterns in your nervous system. Through biofrequency voice scans, she helps clients identify exactly what their body is holding so they can move forward with clarity and intention.☕ Ready to go deeper?If this resonated with you and you’re ready to see what your body is holding, Tammy invites you to experience a complimentary biofrequency voice scan.👉 Book your scan here:https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 289E 289: How to Rewire Your Story and Heal from Burnout | Dr. Karen Parker
In this episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, I sit down with Dr. Karen Parker, founder of Quantum Human Design, to talk about something that impacts all of us more than we realize… the stories we carry.So many of the patterns we struggle with today, whether it’s burnout, feeling stuck, or constantly falling into the same cycles, are rooted in the narratives we formed earlier in life. And the powerful part is… those stories are not fixed.Dr. Karen shares how her work blends science and spirituality, bringing together concepts like human design, epigenetics, and narrative coaching to help people understand themselves on a deeper level and begin rewriting the story they’ve been living.We talk about how your past experiences shape your identity, how those patterns can show up emotionally and physically, and what it really looks like to start shifting out of survival mode and into a more authentic, empowered way of living.If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in the same patterns or wondering why healing hasn’t fully clicked yet, this conversation will give you a new way to look at it.Your story isn’t set in stone… and you have more power than you think to change it.✨ Connect with Dr. Karen Parker:Website: https://quantumhumandesign.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkarenparker22/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drkarenparkerFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrKarenParker22/Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 288E288: Tammy's Takes #7: You Don’t Have a Boundary Problem… You Have a Safety Problem
In this Tammy’s Take, we build on my conversation with Angie Hawkins and break down one of the biggest misconceptions around boundaries: it’s not that you don’t know how to set them, it’s that your body doesn’t feel safe enough to hold them.If you’ve ever found yourself saying yes when you meant no, over-explaining, or giving in after trying to set a boundary, this episode will help you understand why. What looks like a boundary issue is often a nervous system response rooted in early patterns of survival.In this episode, I walk you through how to pause, check in with your body, and begin responding from a place of safety instead of survival, so you can start holding boundaries without guilt or fear.If this resonates and you’re ready to understand your patterns on a deeper level, I invite you to book a confidence and clarity call with me. We’ll start uncovering what’s really going on beneath the surface so you can move forward with more ease, confidence, and self-trust.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 287E 287: Learning to Choose Yourself: Boundaries, Self-Worth, and Inner Healing w/Guest Angie Hawkins
In this deeply empowering episode, we sit down with Angie Hawkins, known as The Inner Glow Coach, to explore what it truly takes for women to move from chasing external validation to embodying self-acceptance, confidence, and inner peace.Angie works with high-achieving women who have “done the work” — therapy, personal development, self-help — yet still feel stuck, unfulfilled, or disconnected from their worth. Through both professional insight and personal vulnerability, Angie shares how lasting transformation requires deep inner work and identity-level change, not just surface-level coping strategies.Drawing from her own journey of resilience and healing, Angie discusses the lessons captured in her memoir, Running in Slippers, which chronicles her rise after emotional turmoil and profound self-abandonment. Together, we unpack how early life experiences shape self-worth, why so many women struggle with boundaries, and how overachieving can be a trauma response rather than a strength.This conversation highlights the importance of nervous system awareness, self-compassion, and learning to release self-critical thought patterns. Angie offers a compassionate yet practical framework for reclaiming personal power — reminding listeners that fulfillment doesn’t come from approval, perfection, or productivity, but from learning to radiate love and confidence from within.This episode is a powerful invitation for anyone ready to stop proving their worth and start living from it.🔗 Connect with Angie HawkinsWebsite & Memoir:👉 https://www.runninginslippers.com

S12 Ep 286E286: Tammys Take #6, Why You Still Feel Stuck… Even After Doing the Work
In this episode of Tammy’s Takes, Tammy Vincent breaks down a powerful insight from her recent conversation with Doris Angel and turns it into a practical strategy you can use immediately.If you’ve ever felt like you’ve done the work—talked about your past, understood your triggers, and still feel stuck—this episode will help you understand why.Tammy explains the missing piece in many healing journeys: the body.While many approaches focus on thinking, analyzing, and understanding, true healing requires reconnecting with what the body is holding. When emotions and experiences aren’t fully processed, they show up as physical sensations—tightness, anxiety, dread, or the urge to shut down.In this episode, Tammy walks you through:Why talking about trauma isn’t always enoughThe three common patterns that keep people stuck (fixing, overthinking, avoiding)How the nervous system actually processes emotionsA simple, practical technique to begin releasing what your body is holdingThis is a grounded, real-world approach to healing that moves beyond awareness and into actual change.If you’re ready to stop trying to think your way through healing and start experiencing real shifts, this episode is for you.☕ Ready to go deeper?If this resonated with you and you’re ready to explore your own patterns in a supportive, no-pressure space, you’re invited to book a free coffee chat with Tammy.👉 https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/clarity-and-calm-call🔑 Key TakeawayYou’re not stuck.Your body just hasn’t been given the space to process what it’s been holding.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 285E285: How to Heal Emotional Pain Without Overthinking It: Guest Doris Angel Williams
What if healing wasn’t something you had to search for… but something already inside of you?In this episode, Tammy sits down with Doris Angel—musician, spiritual guide, and creator of Divine Flow workshops—to explore how breath, sound, and movement can help release emotional pain, regulate the nervous system, and reconnect you to your heart.Doris shares her journey through adversity, insomnia, and emotional overwhelm, and how she returned to her natural gifts of music, breathwork, and spiritual connection to heal. Together, Tammy and Doris dive into the power of intention, the importance of integrating body, mind, and spirit, and how simple practices like breathing into the body can create real, lasting shifts.This conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t always have to be complicated. Sometimes, it starts with something as simple as a breath.✨ Connect With Our Guest – Doris AngelInstagram: @dorisangelsingsFacebook: Doris Marie WilliamsTikTok: Doris Angel Williams🎵 Listen to her music: Breath of Angel Wings (available on Spotify and streaming platforms)💛 Connect With Tammy VincentHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 284E284: Tammy's Takes #5: You Don't Find Yourself, You Remember Yourself
In this Tammy’s Takes episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent unpacks a powerful insight from her conversation with Kelly Kinney:👉 You don’t need to find yourself—you need to remember yourself.This episode dives deep into how trauma, conditioning, and life experiences can disconnect us from who we truly are. Tammy explains that many people feel “lost,” not because they’ve lost themselves, but because they’ve become disconnected from their authentic identity.Through Kelly’s story, we explore how self-trust is built—not through one big breakthrough—but through small, aligned choices over time. From healing childhood wounds to navigating cycles of growth, relapse, and rediscovery, this conversation highlights the non-linear nature of healing and personal transformation.Tammy emphasizes that clarity doesn’t come first—connection does. And that connection begins by returning to the body, slowing down, and asking one simple but powerful question:👉 “What feels good for me right now?”Listeners will walk away with practical, grounded steps to reconnect with themselves, including nervous system regulation, body awareness, and using nature as a tool for healing.Ultimately, this episode is a reminder that healing is not about becoming someone new—it’s about coming home to who you’ve always been beneath the layers of trauma and expectation.Come explore my seminar "Awakening Your Authentic Self" You can find it at my website at www.tammyvincent.comHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 283E 283: Breaking Childhood Dysfunction Through Self-Healing and Nature: Guest Fairy Kelly Kinney
What happens when childhood trauma shapes the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world?In this powerful conversation, Tammy Vincent sits down with mystic healer Fairy Kelly, founder of the Wild Way Apothecary, to explore the journey from childhood dysfunction to deep personal healing. Kelly shares her story of abandonment, addiction, motherhood, and ultimately discovering a path of healing through nature, ritual, and reconnecting with the body.Together, Tammy and Kelly dive into nervous system healing, breaking subconscious patterns, the mother wound, and the importance of looking inward rather than searching for external validation. This episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t come from fixing ourselves — it comes from remembering who we truly are.Connect With Our Guesthttps://wildwayapothecary.com [email protected]://instagram.com/wildfirefairyhair https://instagram.com/thewildwayapothefairy

S12 Ep 282E 282: Tammy's Takes #4: Your Triggers Are Not Random
In this Tammy’s Takes episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction podcast, Tammy Vincent explores why emotional triggers can feel so powerful and where those reactions really come from. Building on her recent conversation with Josie Gibson, Tammy explains how the nervous system stores past experiences and trauma patterns, which can influence our emotional reactions in the present.Many people believe they are simply overreacting, but in reality their body may be responding to learned survival patterns from childhood or past experiences. Tammy discusses how recognizing these trauma triggers and nervous system responses can help people better understand their emotional reactions, relationship dynamics, and stress responses.By becoming aware of the patterns your body has learned, you can begin to approach triggers with curiosity instead of judgment and move toward greater emotional regulation, self-awareness, and healing from childhood trauma.If you’re curious about what emotional or energetic patterns your body may still be holding onto, Tammy offers a complimentary Inner Voice Energy Scan to help uncover hidden patterns and bring greater clarity.👉 Book your free scan here:https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAnd if this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast and share it with someone who might benefit from hearing it.

S12 Ep 281E281: Why Trauma Triggers Us: The Reactive Mind, Guest Josie Gibson
In this episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction podcast, Tammy Vincent sits down with Josie Gibson to explore the ideas behind Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health and how understanding the mind can help people navigate trauma, emotional triggers, and personal growth.Josie shares how discovering Dianetics as a teenager helped her make sense of intrusive thoughts, emotional reactions, and the patterns that often develop from past experiences. Central to the conversation is the concept of the reactive mind—the part of the subconscious that stores painful memories and emotional responses that can influence our behavior without us even realizing it.Throughout the conversation, Tammy and Josie discuss how unresolved experiences and past trauma can shape the way people respond to situations in the present, and why bringing awareness to these patterns can be a powerful step toward emotional healing and mental clarity.Listeners will gain insight into how understanding the subconscious mind may help individuals recognize triggers, process past experiences, and develop healthier emotional responses.If you’re curious about the concepts discussed in this episode, you can explore more here:Learn more about Dianetics:https://www.dianetics.orgWhere to find the book:Amazon – https://www.amazon.comBarnes & Noble – https://www.barnesandnoble.comThis episode invites listeners to reflect on how past experiences shape our reactions—and how greater awareness of the mind can open the door to personal growth and healing.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 280E 280: Tammy’s Takes #3: 5 Ways Childhood Dysfunction Shows Up in Adult Relationships
In this Tammy’s Takes episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction podcast, Tammy Vincent reflects on her recent conversation with marriage coach Dr. Lee Balcom and expands on an important topic: how childhood dysfunction often shows up in our adult relationships.Many people assume relationship struggles start within the relationship itself, but the truth is that our early environments shape the way we communicate, handle conflict, trust others, and connect emotionally.In this episode, Tammy shares five common ways growing up in dysfunction can affect adult relationships, including conflict avoidance, hyper-independence, emotional shutdown, over-giving, and fear of abandonment. She explains how these patterns often begin as survival strategies in childhood but can create distance and misunderstanding in adult partnerships.With warmth and insight, Tammy encourages listeners to approach these patterns with curiosity and compassion rather than judgment, reminding us that awareness is the first step toward creating healthier and more connected relationships.If you’ve ever wondered why certain relationship patterns keep repeating, this episode offers perspective, understanding, and hope for change.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 279E 279: Why Marriages Drift Apart — and How to Reconnect w/ Guest Dr. Lee Baucom
In this insightful episode, Dr. Lee Baucom — renowned marriage coach, speaker, and author — joins the conversation to unpack one of the most common yet overlooked challenges in marriage: disconnection.Dr. Baucom explains how many couples enter marriage with deep love and good intentions, only to unintentionally place their relationship on pause as careers, parenting, stress, and daily responsibilities take center stage. Over time, this lack of intentional connection can quietly erode the bond between partners, leading to frustration, conflict, and emotional distance.Throughout the episode, Dr. Baucom emphasizes that love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy marriage. Thriving relationships require ongoing effort, mutual responsibility, and a shared commitment to connection. He introduces the importance of adopting a “we” mindset — viewing marriage as a team rather than adversaries — and outlines the three essential levels of connection every marriage needs: physical, emotional, and spiritual.Listeners will gain practical insights into recognizing early signs of disconnection, improving communication by focusing on emotional understanding rather than surface-level conversations, and taking proactive steps to rebuild intimacy and trust. This episode offers both clarity and hope for couples who want to move from survival mode to a more connected, fulfilling partnership.🔗 Connect with Dr. Lee Baucom & Explore His ResourcesWebsite & Podcast:👉 https://www.savethemarriage.com/podcastRelationship Programs & Resources:👉 https://www.savethemarriage.comUnPause Your Marriage:👉 http://UnPauseYourMarriage.comHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 278E278: Tammy's Take #2: Why Resilience Feels Hard After Trauma — And How to Rebuild It
In this Tammy’s Take follow-up episode, Tammy Vincent expands on the powerful conversation from Episode 277 with resilience coach Tom Lenoble about what he calls “terrible gifts.”Tom shared the idea that some of life’s hardest experiences can eventually lead to unexpected growth. While that perspective can be incredibly empowering, Tammy dives deeper into an important truth many people who grew up in dysfunction understand: resilience doesn’t always feel like strength. Sometimes it simply feels like survival.In this teaching episode, Tammy explains how resilience is not just a personality trait — it is deeply connected to the nervous system. For those who grew up navigating chaos, unpredictability, or emotional instability, resilience was often overused early in life. The nervous system may still be wired for survival, which can make healing and growth feel exhausting.Tammy explores how true resilience begins with regulation, not pressure. When the nervous system learns that it is finally safe, the brain becomes capable of creativity, problem solving, and forward movement again.You’ll also hear Tammy’s perspective on reframing difficult life experiences. While trauma itself does not need to be celebrated, it can become the foundation for empathy, emotional intelligence, and purpose when we choose how to move forward.In this episode you’ll learn:• Why resilience is biological, not just psychological• How childhood dysfunction wires the nervous system for survival• Why regulation must come before growth• How to identify the strengths your hardest experiences created• A simple reflection exercise to help you begin rebuilding resilienceIf this episode resonates with you, Tammy also offers a complimentary Inner Voice Frequency Scan to help identify emotional, physical, and energetic patterns your body may still be holding.Because healing doesn’t happen alone.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 277E 277: How to Build Resilience When Life Falls Apart, Guest Tom LeNoble
In this powerful episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent sits down with executive leader, resilience coach, and international speaker Tom LeNoble to explore the transformative power of resilience and how life’s most difficult experiences can shape us into stronger, more compassionate human beings.Tom shares insights from his remarkable journey through business leadership, life-threatening illness, and personal adversity. His perspective reframes hardship as what he calls “terrible gifts” — moments that may feel devastating in the moment but ultimately offer profound opportunities for growth, purpose, and self-discovery.Throughout the conversation, Tom explains why resilience is not simply about bouncing back from challenges, but about learning, adapting, and evolving because of them. He describes resilience as a muscle that grows stronger the more it is exercised, encouraging listeners to shift their perspective from victimhood to empowerment.In this episode, we discuss:• How adversity can become a catalyst for personal growth• Why resilience is a skill anyone can develop• The concept of “terrible gifts” and how painful experiences can shape our purpose• The role mindset plays in overcoming life’s most difficult moments• Gratitude and philanthropy as powerful tools for healing and connection• How even small acts of kindness can create meaningful impact in the worldTom’s story reminds us that our struggles do not define us — but how we choose to respond to them can transform our lives and the lives of those around us.This episode is an inspiring reminder that resilience is not reserved for the extraordinary. It is a skill that can be cultivated by anyone willing to face life’s challenges with courage, gratitude, and perspective.To learn more about Tom Lenoble and his work, visit:www.tomlenoble.comConnect with Tom on LinkedIn:www.linkedin.com/in/tomlenobleHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 276E276: Tammy's Take #1: What Forgiveness Really Means for Trauma Survivors
In this follow-up solo episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent expands on a powerful moment from her recent conversation with Carly Alyssa Thorne about forgiveness and trauma recovery.Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood concepts in healing. Many trauma survivors hear the word “forgive” and assume it means excusing abuse, forgetting what happened, or allowing harmful people back into their lives.But true forgiveness is something entirely different.In this teaching episode, Tammy explains how forgiveness is actually a nervous system process. It is not about condoning the past — it is about releasing the emotional and energetic cord that keeps the body stuck in fight, flight, or freeze.Drawing from her work as a trauma-informed ACOA coach, Tammy walks listeners through how to recognize when trauma is still stored in the body and how to begin the process of releasing it.In this episode, you’ll learn:• What forgiveness really means for trauma survivors• How to know if your nervous system has truly processed past trauma• Why anger and resentment keep the body stuck in survival mode• The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation• Practical first steps to begin moving toward real emotional freedom• How nervous system regulation plays a role in healing traumaTammy also shares simple ways to begin noticing your body’s responses to past experiences and how tools like breath work, somatic awareness, and nervous system regulation can support deeper healing.If you’ve ever struggled with the idea of forgiveness after trauma, this episode will help you reframe the concept and understand how healing can happen without minimizing what you’ve been through.Forgiveness is not about the other person.It is about reclaiming your power, your peace, and your nervous system.

S13 Ep 275E 275: Rewiring Your Nervous System for Peace: Guest - Carly Alyssa Thorne
In this deeply powerful episode, I sit down with Carly Alyssa Thorne, trauma-informed coach, advocate, and transformational guide, to talk about what it truly means to heal from survival mode and reclaim your life after trauma.Carly shares her lived experience navigating adversity, chronic stress, and the long-term impact of unresolved trauma — and how those experiences shaped her mission to help others regulate their nervous systems, rebuild emotional resilience, and rediscover their voice.We explore how trauma doesn’t just live in our memories — it lives in our bodies. It shows up as anxiety, burnout, chronic overwhelm, physical tension, and patterns of self-protection that once kept us safe but now keep us stuck. Carly explains why real healing isn’t about “pushing through” or pretending everything is fine — it’s about creating safety within yourself first.Together, we unpack:• How trauma affects the nervous system• Why adult children of dysfunction often live in chronic survival mode• The connection between emotional wounds and physical symptoms• The power of boundaries and self-advocacy• Practical tools for nervous system regulation• Reclaiming identity, strength, and self-worthCarly’s message is both compassionate and empowering: you are not broken. Your system adapted to survive. And now you get to gently retrain it to thrive.If you’ve ever felt trapped in fight-or-flight, disconnected from your body, or unsure how to move forward after adversity, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, validated, and hopeful.Healing is possible. Safety is possible. And you are worthy of both.🔗 Connect with Carly Alyssa Thorne:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlyalyssathorneWebsite: www.Carlyathorne.comLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/carlyalyssathorneHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S12 Ep 274E 274: The Hidden Link Between Emotional Trauma and Chronic Pain: Guest - Eileen Kopsaftis
In this powerful and hope-filled episode, we sit down with Eileen Kopsaftis, founder of Lifelong Well-Being and co-founder of Cameo Ministries, to explore the deep connection between chronic pain and unresolved emotional trauma.For more than 26 years, Eileen has dedicated her life to supporting women who have endured various forms of abuse. As a chronic pain specialist and nutrition educator, she brings both professional expertise and lived compassion to the conversation — illuminating how emotional wounds often manifest as physical symptoms in the body.We dive into the mind-body connection, unpacking how trauma can be stored in the nervous system and expressed through chronic pain, inflammation, fatigue, and tension. Eileen explains why addressing symptoms alone is rarely enough, and why true healing requires a holistic approach — one that includes emotional processing, supportive community, gentle movement, breathwork, and self-compassion.This conversation is especially meaningful for those who have struggled with chronic illness, pain that “doesn’t make sense,” or lingering physical symptoms tied to stress and past experiences. Eileen reminds us that healing is possible. No matter what you’ve endured, your body is not your enemy — it is communicating.Together, we discuss:• The connection between emotional trauma and chronic pain• Why community support is essential for survivors• How stress and stored trauma impact the nervous system• Gentle movement and breath as tools for regulation• Reclaiming joy, resilience, and peace after abuseIf you’ve ever wondered whether your physical pain could be connected to your emotional history, this episode offers both insight and encouragement.Healing is not about pushing harder — it’s about listening deeper.🔗 Connect with Eileen Kopsaftis:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EileenKopsaftisOfficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/EileenKopsaftisHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 273E 273: If You Don’t Believe You Matter, Nothing Else Sticks
In this follow-up teaching episode inspired by my conversation with Sue Bowles, we go deeper into one life-altering question:Do you believe that you matter?Not intellectually.Not because someone else says you do.But in your body. In your nervous system. In the quiet spaces where your real beliefs live.For so many adult children of dysfunction, the core wound isn’t just what happened to us — it’s what we came to believe about ourselves because of it. Survival mode can quietly shape our identity, leaving us stuck in patterns of self-doubt, hyper-independence, people-pleasing, anxiety, or burnout without fully understanding why.In this episode, I unpack:• How childhood dysfunction shapes your belief about your worth• Why your body reveals what you truly believe• The difference between owning your story and becoming your story• Why community is essential for healing• How curiosity replaces self-criticism in recovery• Practical steps to begin rewiring the belief that you don’t matterThis is not surface-level motivation. This is foundational healing work.If you’ve ever felt invisible… not enough… too much… or unworthy of rest, love, or support — this episode is for you.You are not broken.Your nervous system adapted to survive.And now you get to gently teach it something new.Because the truth is this:You matter.Right now.Exactly as you are.—💛 Ready for Your Next Step?If this episode stirred something in you… if you realized you’ve been living like you don’t matter as much as everyone else… I want to invite you to take one brave next step.You don’t have to figure this out alone.If you’re ready to explore what healing could look like for you — in a safe, grounded, supportive space — book a Clarity & Calm Call with me. This is a gentle, no-pressure conversation where we look at where you are, what’s keeping you stuck, and what your next step could be.Schedule your call here:https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/clarity-and-calm-callYour healing matters.And your next step could start today.

S11 Ep 272E 272: Reclaiming Your Worth: The Courage to Believe You Matter Guest Sue Bowles
In this powerful and heart-centered episode, we sit down with Sue Bowles, life and mental health coach, founder of the Dare to Believe Movement, and passionate advocate for dismantling the stigma surrounding mental health.At the center of Sue’s work is one transformative question:“Do you believe that you matter?”Drawing from her own journey through trauma, grief, resilience, and personal rebuilding, Sue shares how self-belief becomes the foundation for healing. She explains that real change does not begin with external validation — it begins with the courageous declaration: I believe that I matter.Together, we explore:• How trauma shapes self-worth and identity• Why owning your story is essential to healing• The intersection of faith and mental health• The role of community in personal growth• How imposter syndrome and fear can be dismantled through self-reflection• Why healing is a lifelong practice, not a one-time breakthroughSue also shares the heart behind her Dare to Believe Movement, a global initiative designed to help individuals confront self-doubt, reclaim their intrinsic value, and take actionable steps toward growth. Through coaching, retreats, and community support, Sue equips people with the tools to break free from shame and step into empowered living.This episode is a rallying call for anyone who has questioned their worth, struggled in silence, or felt unseen in their mental health journey. If you’ve ever wondered whether you truly matter — this conversation is for you.Because the truth is:You were never broken. You were never too much. And your worth has never been negotiable.—🔗 Connect with Sue Bowles:Website: suebowles.comDare to Believe Movement: daretobelievemovement.comMy Step Ahead: mystepahead.comFacebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/sue.bowles.52/Facebook (Coaching): https://www.facebook.com/suebowlescoaching/Facebook (My Step Ahead): https://www.facebook.com/mystepaheadInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/MyStepAheadYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@suebowles5756Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 271E 271: Why Hustle Culture Breaks Connection , Guest Anthony Spark
In this episode, I sit down with Anthony Spark, a personal and business coach who brings powerful insight into the often-overlooked gap between external success and internal alignment. Together, we explore what happens when life looks successful on paper—career growth, leadership roles, financial wins—but feels disconnected, strained, or empty behind the scenes.Anthony shares his own journey of navigating success while quietly losing connection with himself and the people who mattered most. He speaks candidly about how hustle culture, unexamined values, and unresolved patterns can pull us out of alignment, even as achievements continue to stack up. True fulfillment, he explains, doesn’t come from accolades or income alone, but from living with integrity, honoring personal values, and cultivating authentic relationships.Throughout the conversation, Anthony emphasizes that rebuilding your life doesn’t require burning everything down or starting over completely. Instead, it begins with honest reflection, clarity around values, and the willingness to create consistent, value-driven habits. We also discuss the importance of boundaries, prioritizing family and well-being, and resisting the pressure to sacrifice everything in the name of success.This episode highlights the role of mentorship, community, and accountability in both personal and professional growth, reminding listeners that sustainable success is rooted in alignment—not burnout. Anthony’s message is clear and hopeful: no matter where you are, you can always choose to realign, rebuild, and move forward with authenticity and integrity.Connect with Anthony Spark🌐 Website: https://sparkachangecoaching.com📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SparkAChangeCoaching📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sparkachangecoaching/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_sparkachangecoaching💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthonykspark/🐦 X (Twitter): https://x.com/_sparkachange📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585084903103Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 270E 270: Maybe You Brought the Ick Into The Relationship
As a follow-up to the recent episode with Bryan Power, this conversation looks at a familiar experience many people encounter in long-term relationships—often referred to as “the ick.” That subtle but persistent feeling of irritation, resentment, emotional distance, or shutdown can be unsettling and easy to misinterpret.Rather than suggesting these feelings mean something is wrong with your partner or your relationship, this episode offers a different lens: the ick as a response from a dysregulated nervous system. When stress, emotional load, and unresolved experiences accumulate, the body can shift into protection mode, altering how we perceive connection, closeness, and safety within our relationships.Building on themes discussed in the episode with Bryan, this conversation focuses on how nervous system dysregulation can distort interpretation and amplify reactivity. What feels like loss of attraction or emotional disconnection is often the nervous system signaling overload—not a lack of love or compatibility. When the body is dysregulated, clarity is limited, and familiar behaviors can suddenly feel irritating or overwhelming.This episode invites listeners to pause before assigning meaning to these reactions and instead notice what’s happening internally. By viewing the ick through a nervous system lens rather than as a relationship verdict, it becomes possible to move out of blame and into awareness, creating space for regulation, compassion, and more grounded connection.If this perspective resonates and you want support understanding how your nervous system may be influencing your relationships, you’re invited to book a Clarity to Calm call here:👉 https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/clarity-and-calm-callHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 269E 269: Attachment Theory and Relationship Breakdown: A Path to Healing: Guest: Bryan Power
In this episode, Bryan Power shares his personal experience of a major breakdown in his marriage and the journey that followed. What appeared to be a stable relationship in 2024 quickly unraveled, leading to a period of separation that required deep self-reflection and personal accountability. Rather than focusing solely on fixing the relationship, Bryan explains how this time became an opportunity to examine his own emotional patterns, reactions, and behaviors.Bryan discusses how learning about attachment theory helped him understand the subconscious wounds and nervous system responses that were influencing his relationship. He explains how attachment styles develop early in life and can shape communication, emotional safety, and responses to conflict in adult partnerships. Gaining awareness of these patterns allowed him to better understand both his own behaviors and his wife’s emotional responses.The episode explores the importance of emotional regulation in healthy relationships. Bryan shares how learning to regulate his emotional reactions reduced reactivity and made communication more effective. He also emphasizes the role of boundaries, explaining that boundaries are not meant to control a partner, but to support emotional safety, clarity, and mutual respect.Bryan introduces Integrated Attachment Theory as a framework that supported growth and repair during a very difficult period. He outlines key principles such as taking responsibility for one’s own emotions, communicating needs clearly, and engaging in repair after conflict. The conversation highlights that conflict itself is not the problem in relationships; rather, the ability to repair and reconnect after moments of disconnection is what determines long-term relational health.Throughout the discussion, Bryan reflects on how separation, while painful, created the space necessary for meaningful change. Time apart allowed both partners to work on their individual emotional patterns, reduce defensiveness, and build a stronger foundation for reconnection. He emphasizes that relationship breakdowns, though deeply challenging, can become opportunities for growth, awareness, and transformation.This episode offers insight into how understanding attachment patterns and emotional regulation can change the way individuals experience relationships. Bryan’s story provides a thoughtful perspective for listeners navigating relationship challenges and illustrates that healing and growth are possible even after significant relational strain.To learn more about Bryan Power and his work, visit https://www.myrelationshipfail.com.You can also find him on:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@myrelationshipfailInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/myrelationshipfail/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/myrelationshipfailHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendl

S11 Ep 268E 268: The Day My Son Said He "DIdn't LIke This Mommy"
In this solo follow-up episode, Tammy speaks directly to parents who are doing the healing work—but still feel overwhelmed by guilt, regret, and fear that they started too late.With honesty and compassion, Tammy shares what it was like to begin her healing journey after her children were older, the unbearable guilt that surfaced with awareness, and the moment her eight-year-old son told her he didn’t like who she was when she was drinking—a turning point that changed everything.This episode is both deeply personal and practical. Tammy explains why knowing better doesn’t automatically mean doing better, how the nervous system drives reactions before logic can step in, and why children often trigger our deepest, unhealed wounds. She also offers five simple, grounding practices listeners can begin using immediately to build regulation, repair after mistakes, and move forward with greater presence and connection.If you’re a parent navigating healing in real time—especially if you grew up in dysfunction—this episode is a reminder that you can’t go back and change the past, but you can show up differently now. And that matters more than you think.Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 267E 267: Breaking Generational Patterns of Guilt and Anger in Motherhood Guest: Misun Oh
In this heartfelt episode , Tammy sits down with Misun, a spiritual life coach who supports mothers navigating the complex emotional terrain of parenting after deep personal growth. This conversation is especially resonant for women who have done the inner work, yet still find themselves caught in cycles of guilt, anger, emotional overwhelm, and self-judgment.Misun shares her powerful personal journey of growing up in a dysfunctional family and how those early experiences shaped her identity, relationships, and approach to motherhood. Through vulnerability and insight, she explains how unresolved childhood patterns can resurface in parenting — not because mothers are failing, but because identity-level wounds are asking to be seen and healed.Central to the discussion is Misun’s Soul Print approach, which focuses on healing at the identity level rather than simply changing behaviors. She emphasizes that lasting transformation begins when mothers reconnect with their true selves, release victimhood, and take compassionate responsibility for their inner world. From this place, emotional regulation, calmer homes, and deeper connection with children naturally emerge.Together, Tammy and Misun explore the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting, including how honest, age-appropriate communication with children can foster safety and trust. They discuss how acceptance, self-awareness, and compassion — rather than perfection — are the foundation for breaking generational patterns and creating healthier family dynamics.This episode offers reassurance to mothers who feel overwhelmed or ashamed for struggling, reminding them that healing is not about being a perfect parent, but about being a present, self-aware one.Listeners are encouraged to continue their own healing journeys through supportive resources such as the ACA program and Misun’s coaching work.To learn more about Misun and her work, you can connect with her on Facebook:👉 https://www.facebook.com/misun.oh.16Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 266E 266: Five Signs Your Anxiety Stems From An Old Belief
Today Tammy builds on the last episode, the powerful conversation with Peak Performance Hypnotist Tim Shurr. to explore a critical reframe many people have never been offered:What if anxiety isn’t a stress problem — but a belief your nervous system learned long ago?Drawing from Tim’s insights and her own trauma-informed coaching work, Tammy walks listeners through five clear signs that anxiety may be rooted in subconscious beliefs rather than current circumstances. She explains why affirmations and mindset work often fall flat, how the body responds to meaning instead of logic, and why adult children of dysfunction frequently remain stuck in survival mode even when life appears “fine.”Listeners will learn how core beliefs like “I’m not safe,” “I’m not good enough,” or “I’ll be rejected” quietly shape nervous system responses, influence self-sabotage and perfectionism, and keep the body in chronic alert. Tammy offers compassionate explanations for behaviors like freezing, procrastination, hypervigilance, and emotional shutdown — reframing them as protective responses rather than personal failures.This episode is especially supportive for those who:Experience anxiety without an obvious causeFeel their body reacts faster than their thoughtsStruggle with people-pleasing, perfectionism, or self-doubtHave tried therapy or personal growth work but still feel stuckGrew up in chaotic, emotionally unsafe, or dysfunctional environmentsTammy also shares how tools like biofrequency voice scans can help illuminate what the nervous system is holding, and invites listeners into a free Clarity & Calm Call — a gentle, non-sales conversation designed to help them feel heard, grounded, and clear about their next right step.This episode is not about fixing yourself — it’s about understanding your body with compassion and recognizing that your anxiety has a story worth listening to.You can grab a free voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.

S11 Ep 265E 265: One Belief Away from Change: Guest Tim Shurr
Today we sit down with Tim Shurr, a renowned Peak Performance Hypnotist with over 37 years of experience helping people break free from subconscious limitations and step into what he calls “Peaceful Success.”Tim shares how many of the struggles we face—chronic stress, anxiety, self-sabotage, health issues, and emotional overwhelm—are not simply mindset problems, but the result of deeply rooted subconscious beliefs, often formed in childhood. These beliefs quietly shape our behaviors, self-talk, relationships, and even how our bodies respond to stress and trauma.Throughout the conversation, Tim explains his One Belief Away method, revealing how identifying and reprogramming a single core belief can create profound and lasting change. We explore how unresolved emotional patterns can live on in the body as inflammation, digestive issues, tension, and fatigue, and why surface-level affirmations or positive thinking often fall short if the underlying belief system remains untouched.Tim also breaks down common misconceptions about hypnosis, clarifying how hypnotherapy works as a collaborative, empowering process rather than something that takes control away. He emphasizes the importance of shifting from self-criticism to self-compassion, and introduces the concept of “feelization”—associating positive emotions with desired outcomes—to support motivation, healing, and sustainable growth.This episode is especially meaningful for those who grew up in dysfunctional or emotionally unsafe environments, where beliefs around unworthiness, perfectionism, and self-doubt often take root. Tim reminds listeners that true transformation begins with recognizing that you are already enough, and that self-love is not a reward—it’s the foundation.To learn more about Tim Shurr and his work, connect with him here:👉 Facebook: https://facebook.com/timshurr👉 YouTube: https://youtube.com/timshurr👉 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@timshurrHey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TammyvincentcoachingI work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demoAs an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness ConsultationLet’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing.👉 Book your session: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/head-to-toe-wellness-consultation✈️ Bonus for Travel Lovers!Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube🌟 Book Me to Speak at Your Event👉 Let’s connect: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat🫶 Let’s Connect📩 Email: [email protected]📱 Text: 513-280-3555🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and brings healing into more lives.