We're Having Gay Sex

Breanne Williamson (YouTube) dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gara goes too hard with baby talk and accidentally cancels themself. Breanne's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Amber Martinez (MTV's Are You The One) blesses the podcast with her witchy knowledge on this possibly hexed episode. We discuss witches and the queer community, being cheated on, and handcuffs in bed. Ashley gets sex-cursed by a witch on Twitter. Gara talks about their BDSM phase. 10% off MixedByNasrin w/ code "WHGS" Amber's Work Amber's IG Spilll YouTube Amber's TikTok TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Jaye McBride (Pride Parade of Stand Up on iTunes & more) talks about her first sexual experience with a man, her boob job, and tells one of the hottest sex stories we've had on the pod (it involves a greasy mechanic). Ashley meditates in a stranger's bed to cure a post-sex anxiety attack. Gara gets walked in on while getting railed. Trigger Warning: minutes 11:45-15:30 we discuss details of dating that might trigger those who've had not so great experiences in relation to their identity and their body parts, as well as transphobia within the queer community. Buy Jaye's album here Jaye's twitter and ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sarah Schauer (of internet fame and irl talent) blesses us with her presence. We discuss making jokes while banging and covertly masturbating in public spaces. We also discuss growing up queer in religious homes. Ashley cries from an orgasm. Gara tries to hook up with their childhood love. Please bear with the audio on this episode, it is worth it :) Sarah's stuff: TikTok: @sarahschauer YouTube: Sarah Schauer ig: @sarahschauer Twitter: @sarahschauer TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carlene Purcell opens up about learning to orgasm again after her spinal cord injury. We discuss her incredible psychosexual therapist, Michelle Donald, stimulating all different parts of your anatomy, her first time squirting, and disability pride month. Ashley and Gara deep dive into sex and hygiene: we discuss what smells we love and what smells we hate. This episode was really special to me, and I extend a huge thanks to Carlene for lending me her time Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jeff Perla, famous for taking pictures of asses around the world (you can see them on @thetravelinbum), sits down with us to talk all things BUTTS. We also discuss his hook up with a 27-year-old baby gay and whether our sex noises are authentic. Ashley gets an unexpected nude. Gara nearly has a threesome. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kai Wes (MTV's Are You The One) talks about getting on Grindr for the first time, taking testosterone, and androgynous privilege. Ashley last minute hook up decision. Gara gets kicked out of their date's room... more than once. You can find Kai's work at: @kai__wes on instagram. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Corinne Fisher (Guys We F****d) tells the WHGS duo about the traumatizing time she got fingered in a nightclub by a woman with acrylics on. Ashley breaks her rule and has sex with a straight girl (again). Gara talks about role play and choosing their gender for sex. You can find Corinne's work at: @philanthropygal on instagram TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Izzy McCalla (star of Aladdin and The Prom on Broadway) dishes on all the times she's had sex in public. Ashley "swallows" for a squirter. Gara comes for the first time on the floor of their community theatre costume shop. We also discuss why we, as a society, don't know more about women's sexual health, and Ashley simps for Izzy. You can find Izzy's work at: @izzymccalla on instagram TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rita Brent (Comedy Central, TruTV) joins WHGS to discuss female wet dreams, the differences between scissoring, hunching, and tribbing, and what it was like to marry a man despite knowing she was gay. Ashley professes on the origins of scissoring in porn. Gara has the best gay night of their entire life. You can find Rita's work at: @ritabrentcomedy on all platforms TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dida Ritz (RuPaul's Drag Race, Queer Table) joins Ashley and Gara to discuss how preparing for gay sex is a lot like playing Candy Land. Ashley swears she did not put her teeth on the clit of her first love. Gara travels into the Iowa country side for their first gay sex on a waterbed. Finally, Dida answers all your basic questions about drag. You can find Dida's work at: @didaswag @therealdidswag and on @queertable TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Featuring Jourdain Fisher (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show), Jay Jurden (HBO, Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) and Alysia Brown (Vulture). This week we are highlighting the work of black artists and encouraging our listeners to listen, read, and otherwise consume black narratives. Please consider making a donation to Reclaim The Block, and following these amazing black comedians. Black lives matter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Brian Bahe (Sketchfest) opens up about his fight against the fear of eating ass, while Ashley repeatedly gets strep throat from eating too much of it. Gara has sex with their twin (figurative, not literal) and the gang discusses the ethical consequences of having sex with your clone. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Emma Willmann (Netflix, Colbert, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) recalls the first time she went into a sex store (to purchase a strap-on). Ashley has sex with a strap-on for the first time. Gara hookups with a girl in a public bathroom who will not stop saying namaste. We also discuss age-gap relationships and whether you can go down on someone while chewing gum. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Paige Cole (MTV 's Are You The One) dives deep into her intense break up with her boyfriend from the show, getting off while living w/ your parents during quarantine, and the best and worst behind the scenes tea. Ashley deep dives into period finger banging. Gara has the best sex of their entire life. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As Ashley battles a ban on her TikTok account (@ashgavscomedy is the new one) the WHGS gang decides to dedicate a special episode to the youths from TikTok that made the podcast go viral. On this episode we discuss coming out, our first loves and heartbreaks, what it's like to be young and queer, and the objects we masturbated on and/or with. @queerdancebaby @jenparkerdavis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Milo Alosi (Aladdin on Broadway) joins the podcast to discuss his horrible track record with Canadian men and his coming out story as a cis-male pansexual. Ashley has a fling with a single mom from Texas. Gara lectures on panda porn. Trigger warning 52:00 - 54:00, Ashley asks a not-so-thoughtful question about sexual orientation. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum Podcast) has a poorly configured threesome. Ashley picks up a straight stranger on the subway. Gara fights with a girl about who is the top. We discuss what goes into making a good threesome, what it's like to come out as pan while in a straight relationship, and moving your relationship from monogamous to poly. Trigger Warning: insensitive joke 45:00 to 45:20 @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We discuss all things quarantine/online sex with thirst trap expert Jay Jurden (Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO). From gay alter-identities on twitter, to nudes, to thirst traps, we cover it all. Ashley sends her first nude. Gara tells us the best way to angle your phone for FaceTime sex. Follow us and send some questions! @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We sit down with Hannah Berner (Bravo’s Summer House, Berning In Hell Podcast) to discuss her BDE, being a “butchy” straight girl, and watching solo female porn. Ashley accidentally says “I love you” during sex. Gara has to deal with two women feuding for their attention. We get deep and discuss moving forward from bad sexual experiences. Trigger Warning: discussion of sexual assault takes place from 46:45 to 51:45. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley prepares for gay sex the hottest woman she's ever seen. A stranger slides into Gara's DMs for the very first time. Comedian Jes Tom has the best sex of their life with a gynecologist. We also discuss the correct way to fist and altering your gender presentation and energy to satisfy your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thoughtfully experiment sexually for the first time and whether or not you can have a gay phase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley and Gara are surprised by unexpected bodily fluids inside their sexual partners. Chris Burns AKA Fat Carrie Bradshaw (Betches, Middle Children) gets kicked off Grindr. We also discuss what it's like to hook up with closeted people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too. After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer encounters in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her snowflake-sidekick Gara, a non-binary, pansexual, 23-year-old “youth in the soundbooth”, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices