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Mak Ingemi is a beloved queer influencer and content creator that’s taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment to take US on some wild sexcapades! Even more, the “Bre-son” remains in full swing as Breanne Williamson continues her role as temporary “Canceler Chancellor.” We discuss getting walked in on during sex, maintaining a healthy sex life in an untraditional career, and questioning your gender for those sweet clickbait bucks. Ashley reminisces upon an old fling. Breanne is in Pap smear pandemonium. You can find Mak on IG and TikTok: @makingemi, And you can watch her amazing YouTube content over at her channel: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Breanne Williamson’s Newsletter and Live Events: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/brewilliamson YouTube: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/7K9aSuq7NR0 ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Dipsea: ▶ https://www.dipseastories.com/gay Green Chef: ▶ https://www.greenchef.com/ashley135, and use code “ASHLEY135” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Justin Tranter is a singer, songwriter, and activist who has been the driving force behind massive artists like Justin Bieber, Lady Gaga, and more, but today they’re taking a break from banging drums to bang the gang instead! Even more, “‘Tis the Bre-son'' yet again as temporary co-host and “Chancellor Canceler” Breanne Williamson steps in to keep Ashley in check. We discuss topping as a fem-bottom, queerness in the history of music, and secret Mormon workarounds to gettin’ your nut sans eternal damnation. Ashley’s dirty talk is getting stale. Breanne has beef with love and babies. You can find Justin on IG and TikTok: @tranterjustin, Twitter: @justtranter, And you can listen to his huge body of work wherever you listen: ▶ https://artists.spotify.com/songwriter/6FFVj8xaqRa2RYOiP2PwXZ Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Breanne Williamson’s Newsletter and Live Events: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/brewilliamson YouTube: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/ciWOukBOchU ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Helix Sleep: ▶ https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Foria: ▶ https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley, or use code ASHLEY Dave: ▶ https://dave.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Georgia Bridgers is an absolutely delightful actress, podcaster, and content creator who has returned to the apartment to get emotional and gay with the gang! Today marks a special run on WHGS, for “'Tis the BRE-son” as fan-favorite Breanne Williamson steps up to the plate as our temporary co-host and bang buddy. We discuss lesbian bed death, managing mental health as a young queer, and vibrators that shake you off the Richter. Ashley has the gayest night EVER. Breanne breaks into the foot industry. You can find Georgia on TikTok: @georgialynnrose, IG and Twitter: @georgiabridgers, And you can watch more of her amazing content on YouTube: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/c/GeorgiaBridgersYT Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Breanne Williamson’s Newsletter and Live Events: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/brewilliamson YouTube: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/nJ7Bx7L2138 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Beloved actor, comedian, and WHGS regular Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell) has returned to the apartment to do the devil’s dance with the gang! We discuss getting injured during sex, the dangers of acapella, and the truth about who REALLY killed Princess Diana. Ashley finds herself a man. Kate has a fun announcement. You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and Tiktok: @jakewcornell, You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you listen, And you can see his two-person show, “Man And Woman,” at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe this August: ▶ https://assemblyfestival.com/whats-on/jake-cornell-and-marcia-belsky-man-and-woman Kate will be touring near you! Join his mailing list for show dates: ▶https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdAiGaAG42-k3aOQCkIKym0FJsBtaM5SVq8HdZHSKGh3q43eg/viewform Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Patreon: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/katesisk TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/VMu5MXRiRvw ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Dipsea: ▶ https://www.dipseastories.com/gay TrueBill: ▶ https://www.truebill.com/ashley Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Emma Willmann is one of New York’s best comedians who you have seen multiple times over on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Netflix’s “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend,” but today you can see her gettin’ nasty in the apartment! We discuss exploring kink in the bedroom, porn’s influence on your sexual habits, and the best place to ditch your poop. Ashley shoots her shot. Kate wants ads to target HARDER. You can find Emma on IG: @emmawillmann, TikTok and Twitter: @iamemmawillmann, And you can see her LIVE at theater near you: ▶ https://www.iamemmawillmann.com/emma-willmann-tour-dates Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/sIXa8J5_5uQ ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Dave: ▶ https://dave.com/ Foria: ▶ https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley, or use code ASHLEY Green Chef: ▶ https://www.greenchef.com/ashley135, and use code “ASHLEY135” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Teresa Lee (You Can Tell Me Anything) is an amazing writer and stand-up who has made mounds of content for comedy staples like Cracked, College Humor, and Reductress, but today she’s making love with the gang in another Indiana “road trib.” We discuss flipping the sexual script with your straight partner, questioning your gender, and big fake titties. Ashley does gay time travel. Kate ruins a bunch of dates. You can find Teresa on IG and TikTok: @teresaleebot, Twitter: @leresatee, And you can listen to her podcast, “You Can Tell Me Anything,” wherever you listen: ▶ http://teresaleecomedy.com/yctma Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/W-mrjtHY1FE ______________________________________________ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ian Aber (Str8 Ppl) is a hilarious comedian, podcaster, and literal bear who was a national finalist in NBC’s “Stand Up for Diversity,” but today he’s joining us for some sneaky gay sex in an Indiana hotel. We discuss married life as an older gay, generational differences in the queer community, and how Ashley’s dead dad was definitely a DILF. Ashley meets an executive lesbian. Kate educates the youth. You can find Ian on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @abearcomedian, And you can listen to his hilarious podcast, “Str8 Ppl,” wherever you listen: ▶ https://www.heliumpresents.com/str8-ppl Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/eEXi9fmpiTM ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Helix Sleep: ▶ https://helixsleep.com/gaysex TrueBill: ▶ https://www.truebill.com/ashley Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mercury Stardust is a professional Home Maintenance Technician, burlesque performer, and award-winning activist widely known as the “Trans Handy Ma’am,” and today she's in the apartment to give us a fixer-upper. We discuss rediscovering your sexuality after transitioning, the complex effects of hormones, and brick vs. drywall. Ashley is gettin’ ballpark pics. Kate hires the Trans Handy Ma’am. You can find Mercury on TikTok: @mercurystardust, IG: @mercurystartdusttopz, And you can get tickets to her weekly burlesque show now! (Online shows available) ▶ https://www.mercurystardust.com/gigs Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/mZ-Be9EhECo ______________________________________________ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rae Williams is a riveting cast member on Netflix’s hit reality TV series, “The Ultimatum,” who came out as bisexual to the whole world on the show, and now she’s in the apartment to enjoy it some! We discuss her experiences on the show, the pitfalls of femme-for-femme dating, and keeping your sex toys ball-free. Ashley sets her eyes on a bartender. Kate unearths lesbian history. You can find Rae on TikTok: @raewill_, Twitter: @raewil_, and IG: @rae.williams, And you can watch “The Ultimatum” now on Netflix: ▶ https://www.netflix.com/title/81292203 Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/LjQDiDxYhpQ ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Foria: ▶ https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley, or use code ASHLEY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Irene Tu is a killer stand-up/actor/writer whose recent debut comedy album, “We’re Done Now,” hit #1 on iTunes comedy charts upon release, but today she is in the apartment to break her dry spell. We discuss life without sex in many years, things to look for in a long-term partner, and the best place to put your doomsday bunker when the sun explodes us. Ashley unpacks her drama. Kate has a wet dream. You can find Irene on IG and Twitter: @irene_tu, TikTok: @irenetucomedy, And you can listen to her top-charting debut comedy album, “We’re Done Now,” on all platforms: ▶ https://www.irenetu.com/album Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ——— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/sWpcuyc-0LU ______________________________________________ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Daryn Carp (Reality Check) is a hilarious TV personality, podcaster, and gay royalty as Andy Cohen’s right hand woman, but today she’s in the apartment for some cougar-hunting. We discuss dating older women, maternity as an older lesbian, and scientific advancements in growing demon babies. Ashley needs a makeover. Kate has a sibling rivalry. You can find Daryn on IG and Twitter: @carpedaryn, And you can tune in to her show, “Reality Check,” on PeopleTV: ▶ https://peopletv.com/all-shows/reality-check/ Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ________________________________________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ———— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ———— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/mO8_gLOxp_s ________________________________________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Helix Sleep: ▶ https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Lumi: ▶ https://www.microdose.com/ and use code GAY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Maddie Wiener is an amazing queer stand-up comedian that’s hot on the rise, with showcases on Comedy Central, SiriusXM, and Just for Laughs' “New Faces,” but today she’s in the apartment for some gay sex-ed. We discuss discovering your queer identity later in life, the insecurities of baby-gay dating, and we put out a plea to the Bottom Nation: get Maddie some of that “good-good.” Ashley sees the return of “Main-Main.” Kate is dissected by algorithms. You can find Maddie on IG and Twitter: @maddietwiener, And you can watch her stand-up on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T5EB-O7G9BY&ab_channel=JustForLaughs Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs ———— Kate Sisk’s Newsletter & Live Events: ▶ https://www.katesisk.com/ Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/thekatesisk ———— Watch this episode on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/Vqf_cDt62oI __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Truebill: ▶ https://www.truebill.com/ashley Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jay Jurden is an actor, writer, and comedian who you’ve seen everywhere: “The Tonight Show,” “The Late Show,” “The Late Late Show,” and more, but today he’s getting FREAKY-DEAKY with us! We discuss being in a throuple, the joys of genitalia across the board, and potentially starting a gay Pixar fan-club. Ashley continues the MILF trilogy. Kate reaps the rewards of his phallic garden. You can find Jay on TikTok, IG, and Twitter: @jayjurden, And you can see his upcoming stand-up show, ‘Jay Jurden: Just Jokes,” at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY on 5/21: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/jay-jurden-just-jokes-tickets-311747102977?aff=erelexpmlt Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs Kate’s Newsletter & Live Events: https://www.katesisk.com/ @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Get 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/LGcOMXIrX5w Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fan-favorite Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain), hilarious queer actor/writer/content creator, finally returns to the apartment for another “bre-peat episode” of sexy times and good vibes. We discuss getting romantic in ol’ Las Vegas, social blunders coming out of the pandemic, and if that super sexy stripper actually really DID like you. Ashley’s MILF saga continues. Kate makes a wet revelation. You can find Breanne on TikTok, IG: @breannewilliamson, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson, And you can listen to her podcast, “I Can Explain,” wherever you listen! Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Get FREE SHIPPING and 30% off your first order of Lumi’s Microdose Gummies by visiting the following link, and using code “GAY” at checkout: https://www.microdose.com/ Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/jkW6xGk0EJw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fan-favorite Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell), a must-see comedian/actor/writer on the rise, has finally returned to the apartment to exchange a few STIs with the crew! We discuss sexual health and STD prevention, getting surgery to improve your head game, and banging your long-lost cousin. Ashley meets a mamãe brasileira. Kate needs to buy a suit. You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @jakewcornell, You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you listen, And you can see his live show, “Gorge Night,” on 4/28 at Union Hall in Brooklyn: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/gorge-night-with-jake-cornell-tickets-302767414487 Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Get 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/WHDB8pgYri8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian, Hairy Butthole) is a spectacular comedian and podcaster who is taking on the world with her sharp social commentary, but today she is slowing down to get sensual in the apartment! We discuss the inscrutability of sexual chemistry, complex perceptions of biracial individuals, and the need for proper Asian representation in our sex toys. Ashley gets real kinky. Kate tries to keep it quiet. Youngmi Mayer can be found on IG and Twitter: @ymmayer, TikTok: @youngmimayer, And you can listen to her fantastic podcasts, “Feeling Asian” and “Hairy Butthole,” wherever you listen! IG: @feelingasianpodcast, @hairybuttholepodcast. Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/cqeMxbQzSHY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Emily Wilson is a side-splitting triple threat of a comedian who performs across NYC, and soon globally at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe and more, but today she is keeping it local for a booty-call in the apartment! We discuss Emily’s truly EPIC story of being a finalist on “The X-Factor,” the joys of motherhood, and the bigger joys of group sex. Ashley has lost her mojo. Kate is stuck between a rock and a plumbing problem. You can find Emily: @therealemilywilson on all platforms, And you can see her hilarious new one woman show, “FIXED,” at a city near you! Visit https://linktr.ee/therealemilywilson for tickets and show dates! Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/lyL4gI5K5fw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Shan Boodram (Lovers and Friends) is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert who has advised giants like Netflix, Hulu, ABC, and more, but today she is in the apartment to drop some knowledge on us! We discuss why straight men are so boring in bed, the confounding complexities of pregnancy, and how exactly to make YOUR clitoris happy. Ashley gets her nut for the first time. Kate inches closer to the truth. Shan can be found on IG: @shanboody, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/shannontboodram/, And you can listen to her show, “Lovers and Friends,” wherever you get podcasts! Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Get 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6UHz-3sGdCo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Andrea Jin (Just for Laughs, Sirius XM) is an amazing shanghai-born comedian and writer whose work has been featured on VICE, CBC Comedy, and more, but today she has dropped into the apartment to wash her private parts. We discuss realizing you’re queer without having sex, feeling stuck in relationships, and fast food-based vaginal hygiene. Ashley blows through some red flags. Kate bangs with a broken butthole. Andrea can be found on IG: @andreajin, Twitter: @andreajin_, or https://www.andreajin.com/, And you can listen to her debut standup comedy album, “Grandma’s Girl,” now! https://fanlink.to/GrandmasGirl Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/WHIlSHksrC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

(TW: sexual assault) Fan-favorite Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise, Unhinged) is a multi-talented actor and musician, but today he is pausing his gay sex vacation to swing by the apartment! We discuss sexual assault in the gay male community, overcoming sexual trauma, and the intricacies of RuPaul’s media pantheon. Ashley steps up to her bully. Kate has ADHD. You can find Austin McKenzie on IG: @austineyes, Twitter: @apm_official, And you can listen to his new single, “Sending My Love Through the Ether,” on all platforms! https://open.spotify.com/track/7GJ512g5DxcxLpIkfpHz6D?si=f03b2221eac146a4 Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Listen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/ Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6Gio61krVIY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sam Morrison (Tonight Show Showcase, Stand Up NBC, NY Comedy Festival) is a top-tier stand-up comedian, gay diabetic widow, and Ashley’s bestest friend/future sperm donor, but today he’s in the apartment to spread the daddy bear gospel. We discuss dick-based sense memory, dealing with grief, and getting up in your mugger’s FACE. Ashley seeks closure. Kate hits the Big Apple, LESBIAN STYLE! You can find Sam on IG and Twitter: @samuelhmorrison, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoqH2PlyB2hIuHOGzBfjVxA, And you can see him live in a city near you! Stay updated by visiting his website: http://www.samuelmorrison.com/ Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Listen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/ Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/bRJvjwWFqmU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Caitlin Peluffo (Good Time Gal) is a hysterical stand-up comedian who performed across the United States and on your television on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, but today she is stopping by the apartment to dip her toes back into the gay sex game! We discuss exploring your sexuality, uncomfortable group sex, and the beauty of the butch woman. Ashley battles for cat custody. Kate gets emasculated by his sink. You can find Caitlin on IG and Twitter: @caitlinpeluffo, And stay up to date on when she is in your city by visiting her website: https://www.caitlinpeluffo.com/upcoming-shows-ii Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/SVQ4yjCGoTg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Angel Flores is a transgender powerlifter, political activist, and coach at the Liberation Barbell Club, a queer-friendly gym, but today she is putting down her heavy work to get sweaty with us in the apartment! We discuss transition milestones, dating mid-transition, and which tactics to employ in order to stare at titties. Ashley’s sex fest gets interrupted. Kate celebrates his queer identity. You can find Angel on IG: @arkangeljoy, on Twitter: @ArkangelAthlete, and on her website at: https://arkangel.squarespace.com/ And follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation yourself: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/xrqXKvJWVCc Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mak Ingemi is a lively queer vlogger/influencer with nearly three million followers across YouTube, TikTok, and IG, but today she is focusing her efforts on some pleasure with the gang! We discuss phone sex, maintaining healthy outlooks in relationships, and the lesbian curse of carpal tunnel syndrome. Ashley navigates the “Broad Squad.” Kate plans a name change. Mak can be found on TikTok and IG: @makingemi, And you can watch her fantastic content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Visit Allform to find the perfect sofa for your home, and get 20% OFF any order by visiting our special link: https://allform.com/gaysex Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/XKapUDuGXM8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints) is a YouTuber, ex-philosopher, transgender woman, and all-round genius who has decided to put down the books for some sexy times with the gang! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality, managing overwhelming romantic feelings, and our glorious new algorithm overlords. Ashley meets a true “chucklefucker.” Kate celebrates the New Year, COLOMBIAN STYLE! Natalie can be found @contrapoints on IG and Twitter, and you can support her amazing and thoughtful content on YouTube or her Patreon: https://www.youtube.com/c/ContraPoints https://www.patreon.com/contrapoints Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441. Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Try Green Chef, and get $130 off + FREE shipping on the most sustainable meal kit by visiting our special link and using code “ashley130”: https://www.greenchef.com/ashley130 Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/rtLy4sAJbRo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Legally, it's not a date. Yes, anywhere in the continental United States, must be 18+ to enter. Text NOTADATE to 877 497 0441 (or click here) Or submit via my website @ ashleygavin.com/win Full Rules Here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Eman El-Husseini (Comedians vs. The News) is a rib-tickling stand-up comedian and ½ of the dynamic lesbian comedy couple, the El-Salomans, but today she is stepping inside the apartment for an affair with the gang! We discuss finding true love, queer dating abroad, and ski-cucking your long-time partner. Ashley has a date, and she’s FREAKING OUT. Kate seduces a Spaniard. Eman can be found on IG: @eman_el_husseini; Twitter: @emanifique, And her comedy duo, the El-Salomans, can be found on IG: @theelsalomans. Their podcast “Comedians Vs. the News” is coming back to BBC for a 3rd season, and you can watch their comedy special “Marriage of Convenience” on YouTube now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NI9UkoZEe_o&ab_channel=JustForLaughs Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/zBEo-DoRRFQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tien Tran (How I Met Your Father) is a riveting lesbian stand-up who has performed on Comedy Central and more, but today she is calling in straight from the mid-west for some cybering in the apartment! We discuss accidental injury in bed, terrible exes, and the intense historical rivalry between France and rural Illinois. Ashley encounters a “poly supremacist.” Kate has a subway stand-off. Tien can be found @hanktina on IG, And you can watch her on “How I Met Your Father,” streaming exclusively on Hulu; new episodes release every Tuesday. Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Visit Allform to find the perfect sofa for your home, and get 20% OFF any order by visiting our special link: https://allform.com/gaysex Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/sUKGn-MxJnY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hilarious queer comedian Franqi French (Stand Up NBC, Curb Your Enthusiasm) has been on a meteoric rise, but today she has decided to come BACK the apartment for more hijinks, laughs, and gay sex. We discuss public sex acts, late vs. early bloomers, and maybe accidentally getting too high before work. Kate prepares to lose their virginity. Ashley performs for geriatric swingers. Franqi can be found @franqifrench on IG and Twitter, And see her live while she is headlining the DC Comedy Loft on April 8th -9th! Follow her on social media for more info, or visit https://franqifrench.com/ Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter -- Want better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/ViWbKaRJ6HM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gus Constantellis is a 1st generation Greek-American stand-up/writer, a hysterical human, and the viral “Greek Mom” who has performed across the tri-state area, California, and your TikTok feed, but today he has settled into the apartment to get wet and wild! We discuss immigrant parents, spontaneous sexuality, and MILF metaphysics. Ashley finds “mommy.” Kate gets down and dirty, literally. Gus can be found across the internet on IG, Twitter, and TikTok at: @constantlygus Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/1PIgkGth300 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time. You can find Casey on: IG: @queersextherapy, And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/ Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting https://www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5gKExymsCA0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brian Bahe is a hilarious Indigenous comedian, writer, and gay man who has been written up by NPR, Vulture, and the Los Angeles Times, and has an upcoming stand-up set on Comedy Central. However, thanks to the Covid-19 Omicron variant, the gang is avoiding the apartment this week and doing some cybering! We discuss coming out in school, underground sex parties, and getting horny via Pavlovian conditioning. Ashley charts her ups, downs, tops, and bottoms. Kate’s MILF fantasies go awry. Brian can be found on: IG & Twitter: @brian_bahe, And his upcoming solo show, “Reading From My Phone,” plays on 1/23/22 at Union Hall in Brooklyn! Tickets can be purchased at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/brian-bahe-reading-from-my-phone-tickets-221756408387, and you can learn about upcoming shows on his IG, or brianbahe.com. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNdT9u90U0I Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kevin McHale (Glee, Virtually Famous) and Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise) are an absolute power couple taking the world by storm, best known for their numerous performances across television, film, theatre, and music, but today they slow down to get intimate in the apartment. We discuss the dynamics of sleep kink, the ins-and-outs of topping, and… *ahem*… the 2nd Amendment. Ashley confronts toxic masculinity. Kate gets a lesbian circumcision. Kevin McHale can be found on: IG: @kevinmchale, Twitter: @druidDUDE, And more exciting projects to be announced soon! Austin McKenzie can be found on: IG: @austineyes, Twitter: @apm_official, And you can stream his music on: Spotify, (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1POOtj6nQMh8veKXfQMZee) Apple Music, (https://music.apple.com/us/artist/austin-p-mckenzie/1205567214) Or wherever you listen! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Use Truebill to manage unwanted subscriptions, lower bills, and save money by visiting www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iVpQtj_Euqs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You've been asking for it and it's finally here. We've started a Patreon exclusive series reading YOUR gay sex stories! Each month we will release full bonus episodes with your favorite guests on our Patreon where we read your raunchiest stories. patreon.com/whgs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gianna Marie, or “gwizzle”, is a super wonderful, super talented goofball who can be found singing her heart from the confines of her car to nearly 4 Million followers on TikTok, Instagram, and more, but today she is sneaking into the hotel room for some fun with the gang. On yet another special episode of We’re Having Gay Sex, “Road Dog Edition,” we discuss messy first hookups, sex on anti-depressants, and managing your mid-western mom. Ashley meets herself a small-town, apple-pie gal. Kate toys with a three-way. Gianna can be found across the internet: @gwizzle_ on Tik Tok, @g.wizzle_ on Instagram, and “Gianna Marie” on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsafnlVdgtzTKdWqe1UNChA Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Download the Current app, and enter code “Gay” during sign-up for a chance to win $200! Visit https://current.com/gay for terms and conditions. Get 20% off of your first order of Foria’s all-natural products by visiting https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley, or use code “ashley” at checkout Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/g6tHvuNuZU4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chrissy Chlapecka is an absolutely fabulous social media influencer who is spearheading the empowering “BimboTok” movement, battling tired stereotypes with nearly 4.5 million followers across social media, but today the gang is in HER apartment for a wild time. In today’s special We’re Having Gay Sex, “Road Dog Edition," we discuss the positives of a “slut phase,” navigating unfulfilling relationships, and manifesting your best and baddest self. Ashley has trouble pooping. Kate breaks their big hymen. Chrissy can be found across the internet: @chrissychlapecka on IG and TikTok, @chrissychlapp on Twitter, And you can watch her on her YouTube channel, “Chrissy Chlapecka:” https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpHxbFPuxKHJsUUVau30-Zg Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Get up to $200 off your next Helix Mattress order, PLUS two free pillows, by visiting our special link: www.helixsleep.com/gaysex Use Truebill to manage bills, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: www.truebill.com/ashley. Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/noM3bus5J88 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Akeem Woods is a hysterical stand-up comedian who opens for comedy greats like Tiffany Haddish and Godfrey, as well as makes frequent appearances on Kevin Hart’s LOL Network, but today he’s in the apartment to get into the nitty-gritty. We discuss differences in gay male vs lesbian hookup culture, strategies for taking better nudes, and the logistics of keeping a phone just for your sex life. Ashley “does the dance” with a ballerina. Kate has their first one night stand. Akeem can be found on IG: @akeemwoods, Twitter: @WoodsAkeem, and you can see his future tour dates and more at akeemwoods.com Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Get 30% off your first order of Foria’s amazing products by visiting foriawellness.com/ashley, or using code “ashley” at checkout. Use Truebill to manage bills, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: www.truebill.com/ashley. Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nVPBffngpi8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ali Kolbert (The Ali Kolbert Show) is a side-splitting writer/comedian who has worked in some of NBC’s most prestigious programming (SNL, The Tonight Show, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers), but today she has graced WHGS with her hilarious presence. We discuss lesbian role models in media, dating during big life transitions, and the intricacies of tomboy fashion. Ashley gets introspective about her future. Kate grapples with their imaginary d*ck. Ali can be found on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @alikolbert You can also listen to her podcast, The Ali Kolbert Show, on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/27KEFQNRq3kBf8uvH744bk), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ali-kolbert-show/id1569210719), or wherever you listen. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Use Truebill to manage bills, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/n9wSeUo53UA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jake Cornell (Going Out With Jake Cornell Podcast) is not only one of Kate's hilarious BFFs, he is TikTok famous, Insta famous, and truly hysterical. We get into his study abroad fling, age gap relationships, and how to get out of sleeping with someone but still using them for their mattress. Ashley goes on a date with Kate. Kate has to figure out if she was on a date or not. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Want to watch this episode on YouTube? https://youtu.be/vS6aRHo4Jps #comedy #lesbian #gay #tiktok #lgbt #queer #lesbiandating #bi #trans #nonbinary #enby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Casey Tanner, AASECT, (@queersextherapist) is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive group, a queer-affirming therapy group (www.theexpansivegroup.com). But she is also absolutely hysterical and one of Ashley's favorite people on the planet and high-key crush. We dive into common queer sex therapy questions (like mismatched sex drive, and preparing for your first queer experience) and Casey's unfortunate dildo experiences. Ashley tries to win Casey's love and affection. Kate buys a double ended dildo. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_zNABB8sMVw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brilliant actor and comedian Jess Henderson (as seen on Shrill) joins us this week to talk toxic positivity, long distance dates, and reality tv self care. Ashley has a run in with a cruise guest. Kate finds a butt plug CW: We discuss Sexual Harassment on this episode, if this is triggering for you, then it might be best to skip from minute ~20:00 to ~40:00 If you need resources on this topic you can find some here: https://www.rainn.org/ThatsHarassment Jess Henderson can be found @embrace_mess on IG Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9tR6ymxCf2I Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

YouTube Super Star Jessie Paege joins the pod to cover some sexy cosplay and the pure joy of enjoying someone else's kink. Ashley has sex with a squirting baby gay. Kate delivers some huge news! Jessie can be found @jessiepaege on IG and YouTube. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4KvIc-rUFYY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jamie Raines & Shaaba Lotun came on the pod to flex how cute they are together. We discuss what it was like to get PhDs while making viral YouTube videos, Jamie's sex lab research on genitals, and why usually Shaaba is proudly displaying her sex toys. Ashley discusses her not-date with Jen. Kate does a walk of shame to and from church. Jamie can be found @jammidodger on YouTube and @jammi.dodger on ig. Shaaba can be found @sherbertlemon007 on IG and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZ97eKgNwC4j-z_6LDjfIg on youtube. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/yYuHHJO2s4s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sophie Santos (buy her new book The One You Want to Marry) is such an incredible story teller and I'm so excited to share story of her first gay sex experience (which sounds like it could not have gone worse). We also get into OCD and whether or not Kate and Ashley have it. Kate has either a gay sex moment or a straight sex moment. Ashley is in a weird thing with a woman who just closed her relationship. Sophie can be found @sophieesantos on ig. If you'd like to buy her book or audiobook information can be found at www.sophiesantos.com Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QGzU77BFdoU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cameron Esposito (Queery Podcast, Conan, STARS) joins the pod this week for a roundtable discussion on queer teenaged longing and the lengths young gays go to for puppy love. Ashley meets up with a girl at camp in the middle of the night. Kate sneaks into a movie with her camp "friend". Cameron can be found @cameronesposito on ig and twitter. They are going to Chicago and Salt Lake City on tour this upcoming week and next. cameronesposito.com for tickets. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

James Tison (The New York Times) cracks open the vulnerability wide open on this episode by discussing his partner's transition, couples therapy, scheduling sex and more. Ashley doesn't understand straight sex. Kate cries. James can be found everywhere @jamestison Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It is no secret that Ashley has a huge crush on Izzy McCalla (The Prom on Broadway and Aladdin on Broadway) and it's because she never disappoints. We cover Izzy's moments getting heckled on Broadway and her very pleasant threesome. Ashley sees boobies for the first time. Kate gets their boobies seen for the first time. Izzy can be found on IG @izzymccalla Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lucky us! We got to sit down with one of our top requested guests ever! You might know Gaby Dunn from their viral youtube series, hit podcasts (Bad With Money and Just Between Us), or their work on Netflix's Big Mouth. We get into American Girl Dolls, dating cis men as an AFAB ENBY person, and how cis men are actually the secret to ending climate change. Ashley has another Horse Girl story. Kate has a vegetable oil related disaster. Gaby can be found on IG @gabyroad and on YouTube @nofungabydunn. Their podcasts are Just Between Us and Bad With Money. Gaby's book "Bad With Money" is available everywhere books are sold. We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! YouTube: youtube.com/user/ashgavs Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alysia Brown (Tampon Rock Podcast) cancels Ashley on the podcast today, but also dives into the nitty gritty of her own sl*t phase. We get into not knowing your type, loving a "will they / won't they / push and pull", and whether or not having an all black cat makes you an ally. Ashley tries out some BDSM stuff. Someone had sex in Kate's house. Alysia can be found @alysia.brown on ig, alysiabr0wn on twitter, and Iamalybrown on Spotify. Her podcast Tampon Rock can be found anywhere you listen to podcasts! We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this podcast on YouTube @ https://www.youtube.com/user/ashgavs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fumi Abe (as seen on Colbert and a writer on The Late Late Show, and host of the Asian Not Asian Podcast) is respectfully horny and here to tell us what that means. We get into his attraction to soccer plays and strong women and how they always turn out to be gay, copying lesbian fashion as a straight man, and communication during sex. Ashley has mommy issues. Kate has period sex before knowing she was on her period. Fumi can be found @thefumiabe on all platforms, you can watch his late night set here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozIkSbFUoSI We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter #comedy #lesbian #standup #tiktok #lgbt #queer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices