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Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing on all platforms) is here to answer all your questions about queer sex ed, having a sl*t phase, and also that time she had an insane threesome in front of her colleagues at a sex conference. Ashley goes on a date with horse girl. Kate has an unexpected dirty talk experience. Eva can be found @whatsmybodydoing everywhere. We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ian Fidance (Bi Guys Pod) is hands down one of the best comedians in New York City and the first openly bi guy at the world famous Comedy Cellar. We dive into breaking his post-break up celibacy, and how to politely ask for a hand job. Ashley has phone sex with a stranger. Kate wants to get pegged. Ian Fidance can be found @ianimal69 everywhere, including twitch where he streams video gaming. Listen to his podcast Bi Guys Pod We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Franqi French (Stand Up NBC) is not only queer herself, but raising a badass baby-they in an ethical open marriage. We hear about how she met her partner and why it's the most trusting, honest, relationship of her life, and all of previous horrible relationships she learned from. Including dating someone who was simultaneously dating her doppelgänger, and catching her ex cheating. Ashley starts hooking up with someone who also looks just like her ex. Kate fakes an orgasm. Franqi French can be found @FranqiFrench everywhere. Franqi has two amazing podcasts: "Bi The Way They're Gay" and "Non Prophets". We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You all have been begging for some sexual health experts and Anna Lee will not disappoint! Anna is the co-founder of Lioness health, a sex toy company that actually uses data to track your orgasms. And she is committed to her craft. We get into how she discovered her own sexuality through building the viral tiktok sex toy, different types of orgasms, and DP (yes, *that* dp) Ashley does a data driven sexual experiment of her own. Kate is validated by a p0rn advertisement. Anna Lee can be found @annaisaverage on ig and @annatheaverage on tiktok. Lioness Health is https://lioness.io/ We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You asked for big undercut energy and now you got it: it's NBC News anchor Megan Mitchell! Megan Mitchell gets into her relationship, who's the big spoon, and how cuddling changes throughout her cycle. Ashley sends the worst flirty text of her life. Kate needs a rabies shot. Megan can be found on tiktok and ig @megan.mitchell and @megan1mitchell on twitter! We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lou Gonzalez (founder of Squirrel Comedy Theatre, a majority queer, majority POC improv and sketch theatre) is one of the most talented improvisers in the world, and now you can hear him riffing on WHGS! We get into ass eating, getting over ass eating related trauma, and how to hide your porn. Ashley breaks down boob energy. Kate has sex at a straight wedding. Lou can be found on ig and tw @angrylou, the squirrel theatre has weekly shows at Caveat in NYC every weekend. www.thesquirrelnyc.com We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: patreon.com/whgs Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig. @thekatesisk on twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hannah Berner (Bravo's Summer House, Berning in Hell, Giggly Squad) is back and get into pegging, why lesbians are the most superior form of woman, and her fear of missing out on p*ssy. Ashley makes a hinge profile. We introduce the incredible Kate Sisk, our cancel coach, to the podcast, and discuss the time they lost their strap on. Hannah can be found @hannahberner everywhere, listen to her podcasts Berning in Hell and Giggle Squad Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

After an incredible year on the pod, Gara is stepping back and made this audio note for you. Let's wish them well and all the love in the world. Follow Gara's podcast En(ba)by , @garararararara on IG, https://www.patreon.com/garalonning Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jaclyn Moore (Netflix "Dear White People") gives us the full story on being a queer sex worker, sex while transitioning, and her pre-transition hook ups with lesbians. Ashley shares a kiss in public at camp. Gara gets their butt poked in a gay bar. Jaclyn can be found @jaclynpmoore on ig and twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Finally some L-Word representation on the show! Leo Sheng hops on the mic today to discuss meet cutes and his moms (yes plural) watching him hook up on the L-World. We talk about intimacy coordinators, meet cutes, and red flags. Ashley gets jealous visiting her college girlfriend during study abroad. Gara has an on stage kiss. Leo can be found @ileosheng on Twitter and Instagram. You can watch him on season 2 of the L-Word reboot starting this August Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's an heart-wrenching break up episode and who better to come and provide emotional support than Ashley's closest friend, Breanne Williamson (@breannewilliamson on all platforms, peep her YouTube). Ashley explains the break up and what might be in store for the future, while Bre admits to Gara that she had a sex dream about them. Gara finally loosens up for their partner for the first time in 2 years. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Courtney Revolution (Netflix's The Circle) joins the pod to discuss gooches and his high school sweetheart. We get into knowing when you're in love vs. when you're just comfortable, what he did when the internet came after his partner, and the great wolf lodge. Ashley bombs in bed. Gara abandons a date. Courtney can be found all platforms and youtube @courtneyrevolution Courtney's podcast "Overheard in the Pantry" can be found at: Podcast: https://anchor.fm/overheardinthepantry We are funded by YOU! Patreon.com/WHGS Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOLY CRAP IT'S SHANNON BEVERIDGE! You've been requesting her for a year and now she's here. We talk about dating someone who won't come out, why it's sexy to almost get caught, and the origin story behind her YouTube channel. Ashley has sex in the dark. Gara makes a tinder profile for their threesome. Shannon can be found everywhere @nowthisisliving Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michaela Okland (She Rates Dogs) joins the podcast and we delve into her queer cat-fishing roots on club penguin. We discuss the origins of her podcast, which turn out to be the gay agenda, and talking to women on the apps for the first time. Ashley enters the threesome zone. Gara plans a big summer blowout (yoohoo!) Michaela can be found on ig @michaelaokland and tw @michaelaokla. Her podcast is She Rates Dogs and you can find her memes @sheratesdogs on ig. Trigger Warning at 46:45 through 47:15 (not graphic, references a past sexual assault) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marth Woertman (@marthwatermelon on ig and @marthwubbles on tiktok) brings the heat on this episode and we both melted. She discusses being a queer model, being bi and having masc energy, and her goth phase. Ashley gets revenge on her ex girlfriends parents. Gara relives their first queer kiss. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kate Willett (Netflix, Colbert, Comedy Central, & Reply Guys podcast) relives the drama of losing her dream girl, and then attempting to join Scientology to get her back. We also cover bi-curiosity and "experimenting". Ashley tells the third and final installment of the cat girl saga. Gara stars in Gara-lox and the 3 twinks. Kate can be found on twitter @katewillett and on ig @kate.willett . Her podcast is called Reply Guys. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Evan Ross Katz (Shut Up Evan podcast) is totally un-cancel-able in this episode, no matter how hard Ashley tries to trick him. We get into sexting, how a relationship can start in a beautiful slow burn, and meeting your not-yet-partner's parents before you define the relationship. Ashley and Jen finally successfully sext. Gara does foreplay via sext in an Uber. Evan can be found on ig & tw @evanrosskatz. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian podcast) bros out with us on the podcast this week and we talk about chaotic bottom-ing, fire sign energy, and the complexities of dating someone who is cis "passing". Ashley discusses meeting her first serious girlfriend. Gara is desired by two people in the same night. Youngmi can be found on ig & tw @ymmayer, and tiktok @youngmimayer Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alyx Weiss (YouTube @ayydubs) gives us some age gap loving lessons on this very steamy episodes. We talk hot moms, our celebrity crushes when we were kids, but also ostriches. Ashley gets f*cked in her sleep. Gara attends a King Princess concert. Alyx can be found on all platforms @ayydubs, besides tiktok where she is @alyxweiss Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ellie Desautels (NBC's Rise, Disclosure) gives us the deets about they meet their partner on Tumblr, asexuality and non-genital sex. We also dive deep into the merits of regular back rubs and soft tickling from your significant other. Ashley is the girl in a girl on top 69. Gara dates a very, very bad boy. Ellie can be found everywhere @ohyouknowellie (check out their IG and TikTok) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chrissy Chlapecka (@chrissychlapecka on TikTok and IG, @chrissyschlapp on twitter) reflects on her very gay days of denial, what it means to be a bimbo, and does some very sexy ASMR. Ashley gets fingered on a beach. Gara has a sex competition. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sammie Cimarelli (The Circle on Netflix) does not take shit from anyone, especially when it comes to bi-phobia, coming out, and poultry. We talk boundary setting, and realizing you're in love at Wawa. Ashley has an epically long not-love story. Gara is shark boy. Sammie can be found on instagram @sammiee and everywhere else @itsssammie. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week Violet Benson (Too Tired To Be Crazy podcast, Daddy Issues on IG) schools us on zodiac signs, rebounding, and general self awareness. We get into how she discovered she was pan, hooking up with Francesca, and whether her gay friend has a crush on her. Ashley has a run in with "2 cats equals 1 kid". Gara is in a dry spell. Violet can be found on instagram @violetbenson and their meme account is @daddyissues_ . Listen to her podcast "Too Tired To Be Crazy" anywhere you pod. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum podcast) is BACK and they are GONNA CRY. No seriously we get to some really deep shit on this episode, and we are so honored that Remy came back. Ashley shares her epic break up story. Gara needs plan b. Remy can be found on instagram and twitter at @RemyKassimir. Their podcast is called How Cum. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getting feelings for someone during his open relationship, and coming out via AIM. Ashley recalls the last time she tried to hook up with a man (gross). Gara comes out as non-binary at Pride. Kevin can be found on instagram @kevinmchale or on twitter at @druidDUDE Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure") blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she could come out of the closet. But don't worry, it gets better, and the happy ending includes Sam Smith and The Buttigieg family. Ashley gets an angry email from her aunt after a TikTok goes viral. Gara is a chamber of secrets. Shea can be found at @iamsheadiamond on IG and Twitter. She is Shia Diamond on Spotify. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably didn't even do it. Gara bangs to Fixer Upper Francesca can be found at @francescafarago on IG and Tiktok. Her swimwear line is called Farago The Label. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you. Taylor is @taylorstrecker on IG and you can listen to her on Wake Up w/ Taylor and Taste of Taylor. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time. Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere) Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferweston on Twitter. Pup Amp can be found @pupamp on IG and Twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building. Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles & on twitter @mila_doesit Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick. Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069. Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am. Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season. Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3uDEg_gwoY&feature=youtu.be Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood. Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow him on IG and watch his "live screams" of the bachelor. @jaredfreid Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist. Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel under her name and can be found on ig @breannewilliamson and tiktok @breannewilliamson_ Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Queen of all Drag Queens Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul's Drag Race, Drag Race Canada) joins the podcast this week to discuss her love of pimple popping, dislike of anal, her desire to be alone and why traditional relationships don't work for everyone! Ashley gets her butt pinched (and she likes it). Gara does poppers for the first time. Brooke Lynn can be found @bhytes on ig and @bhytes1 on twitter. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mat George (She Rates Dogs) tells us about how he is faking straight for Love Island casting and going viral twitter. He also discusses how he lost his virginity story and how he was outed. Ashley talks about how she was outed in 9th grade and her girlfriend turned bully. Gara gets high and has sex. Mat can be found @matchu_chutrain on twitter and ig. His podcast is She Rates Dogs. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alayna Joy (1 billion YouTube followers) not only tells us about her first time giving and receiving oral sex, but it was also her first ever experience as a fully out gay woman. We also cover compulsive heterosexuality and the struggles of being bisexual. Alayna reads Ashley's birthday tarot. Gara hooks up with the cool(er) barista. Alayna can be found @missfenderr on all platforms, except for YouTube where she is Alayna Joy. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rayna Greenberg is BACK (Girls Gotta Eat) and she's here to evaluate whether or not Mayor Pete has B.D.E. and tells us about a time she accidentally went on a date with a woman. Ashley may or may not have had sex w/ 3 people in one day (she's worried you'll judge her). Gara goes on another date with KittyKitty44. Girls Gotta Eat podcast is available everywhere (Ashley's on it!). Rayna's IG is @rayna.greenberg Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali (Dyking Out Podcast) join the podcast to discuss CBD lube, sex on a bunk bed, and hate banging on a Trump supporter's bed. Ashley laments not being able to eat more butt. Gara shares the story of their first date with Jacob. Dyking Out podcast is available everywhere (Ashley and Gara are both on it!). Their IG is @dykingout and their TikTok is @dykingoutpodcast. Carolyn is @tgicarolyn & Melody is @melodykamali everywhere. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Medinah Monroe (Cocktales Podcast, Temptation Island, Dipsea) lends us her very sexy voice on this sensual episode. We talk about bringing a dildo into your hetero sex experiences and sexy authority figures. Ashley gets scammed on on a date. Gara's vagina blows up 5 times its size. Mediah's Podcast is called Cocktales: Dirty Discussions (cocktalespodcast on ig). Medinah can also be found on ig @coffeebeandean Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cosplay Icon Emery Pan (OnlyFans) curses this episode and gets our soundboard possessed. She discusses growing up in a religious cult and escaping to sexually experiment in a graveyard. Ashley has a confrontation with a cottage core ghost gay / tiktok lesbian. Gara has a 3 way make-out in a barn. Emery's work can be found everywhere under @emerypan Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show and the new host of TruTV's Top Secret Videos) drops in to debate whether or not she is a lesbian or bisexual. No one wins. We also get into quarantine break ups, and Ali promotes herself from guest of the show to host. Ashley talks about how she met Jen and tells the full story. Gara meets up with KittyKitty44, but was it a date? Ali's Work: @alikolbert on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian and composer Dylan Adler not only sings on this episode, but he also burps twice. We talk about his random threesome in a gay bar bathroom, getting strep twice from the same person, and not having sex to get over trauma. Ashley licks a foot. Gara gives someone notes on their bad kissing. Dylans's Work: @dylanadler_ on ig. dylanadler6 on twitter. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The queen sex of podcasts Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We F*****d, The Voices In Our Heads) joins the podcast to discuss her bi-curiosity, first time going down on a woman, and milking prostates. Ashley gets negged by one of Krystyna's fans. Gara has another run in with Denise. Krystyna's Work: @krystynahutch on ig. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

WILDLY successful YouTube Comedian Mac Kahey loosens us up for a conversation about poppers, poopers, morning sex, and also his farm boy boyfriend. Ashley gets rejected. Gara dates a robot alien. Mac Kahey is @macdoesit on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Matteo Lane (Netflix, Colbert, Inside The Closet Podcast) drops some seriously hilarious opinions on the pod this week. We get his thoughts on horses and horse girls, Alice in Wonderland, and Avril Lavigne. Most importantly, we discuss what coming out is really about. Ashley has a date with a horse girl (Trigger Warning: horse girls get ROASTED). Gara gets off to hearing about their partner's past hook ups. To our horse girl fans: we love you Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Joe Dombrowski (Ellen) tells us his horrifying, manekin-filled story of nearly getting murdered via Grindr. We also dive into his experiences with Ellen (yes, Ellen of Ellen), being a gay teacher, and crushes on non-binary people. Ashley fists like a classy lady. Gara bumps into their instagram crush in real life. Joe's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Robin Tran (Comedy Central Roast Battle) joins us on the gay sex couch to discuss why she thinks sex with your clothes on is the hottest thing ever. Ashley has sex w/ Jen while her parents are home. Gara has the craziest sex dream ever. We also discuss why Robin calls herself the worst trans woman, and Gara and Robin realize they've seen the same porn video. Robin's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig, Twitter TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices