
To My Sisters
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S4 Ep 43The Internet is Making Us DELUSIONAL... And It's Scary: Evaluating Our Unrealistic Expectations
Is social media detrimentally affecting our friendships and relationships? Whilst the internet has been such a great source of connection and platforming, is the constant access to each other online going to harm us in the long term? Is everyone REALLY making six figures, have the perfect relationship, and able to own a house at 25? Are these things you should aspire to? Check out the sisters’ thoughts in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements05:37 Ding Ding Dilemma: Adjusting to New Seasons & Letting Go of Your 5-Year Plan24:46 The Internet is a Scary Place: Cosplaying Perfection & The Dangers of Delusion38:47 The Uncomfortable Reality of Economic Crisis & The Distracting Illusions of Capitalism46:20 Being a Force for Positive Change in Your World Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 42Friendships Are Getting Too Expensive?! : Pricey Birthday's, Broke Seasons & Being a ‘Sugar Sister’
Are friendships getting too pricey to sustain these days? How do you navigate showing up for your friends when you’re in a tight financial spot? What’s the tea on supporting your friends going through rough patches? The sisters talk all things money, friends, and more in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements06:33 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My friend is unhappy in her marriage '24:21 The Cost of Friendship: Birthday Dinners, Girls Trips 38:55 Being a 'Sugar Sister': Generosity & Being Sensitive48:37 Unrealistic Friendship Expectations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 41Rekindling Lost Love: Getting Back With Your Ex, Mending Broken Friendships & Forgiving Your Parents
Is it ever a good idea to get back together with your ex? Can you make peace after troubled times with friends and family? The sisters talk about all things rekindling and reconciliation in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!01:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I feel unwanted & undervalued by my friends...'12:19 Why is reconciliation so hard?: Forgiveness & Transformation25:46 Once a cheater, always a cheater?!36:31 The process of healing your relationships: patience vs. acceptance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 40Step Your Money Up: Financial Glow Ups, Embracing Broke Seasons and Getting Comfortable With Cash
Getting your finances together and cultivating a healthy relationship with money is an integral part of the glowing and growing journey! In today’s episode, the sisters talk all things jobs, aligning your goals with your money, and how to ensure you’re getting the best use of your money as a sister. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🔥GET A TICKET TO THE BYP LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE: https://byp.network/leadership-conference-2023/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!07:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I'm trying to gain financial independence from my parents!'22:42 Lessons We've Learnt About MAKING MONEY: 9-5's, Freelancing & Entrepreneurship 42:14 Tips on MANAGING YOUR MONEY: Budgeting for Enjoyment & Avoiding Lifestyle Creep 57:04 Investment Strategies People Rarely Speak Of: Generosity & Seeing Yourself as an asset Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 38Don't Let Anyone's Son Take You For Eediat!: Guarding Your Heart Whilst Dating & Learning To Let Go
The sisterhood have had their fair share of trouble with the opposite sex, but it seems like the problems have been compounding and increasing lately! Join your resident sisters in today’s episode as we talk about how to effectively guard your heart, date with intention, and watch out for red flags in the quest to find a life partnerJoin your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss how to guard your heart in the dating process.🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Exciting House Keeping Announcements & Life Updates04:50 Ding Ding Dilemma: I had a one-night stand & an update! 24:35 STORYTIME 😂 The time we found out he already had a girlfriend42:12 Setting expectations & boundaries 55:53 Letting go of a relationship that isn't working 01:07:29 Having hope for the right one & 👀 preying on single women Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 37Your Man Can’t Be Your Only Friend Sis: Cutting Off Single Friends & Valuing Sisterhood
As women we can go through many pivotal life changes like marriage and motherhood which change the dynamics of our friendships. So let's talk about it, how do you balance the tension between new responsibilities, changing priorities, and your existing friendships? How do you know when you cut a friend off? And how does it feel to be cut off?Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss the reality of building lifelong friendships through changing seasons. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 36The Art of Contentment: Balancing Ambition & Gratitude
In a world that tells us that we constantly need more things in order to be happy, it’s easy to find ourselves becoming discontent with our lives. So how do we practice gratitude and thankfulness for what we have, whilst still aspiring for more in our careers, relationships and other pursuits? Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss balancing ambition, contentment and gratitude.☀️🇬🇭 VOTE FOR THE BRIGHT FUTURE ACADEMY TO WIN CSR PROJECT OF THE YEAR IN GHANA : https://www.mysmsinbox.com/gba/contestant.php?q=CSR%20PROJECT%20OF%20THE%20YEAR&cat_id=12 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/...🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-...📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 35How to Be A World Changer: Persistence, Practical Goal Setting & Betting on YOU ft. Vee Kativhu
To my empowered sisters, this is your sign to start betting on yourself to change the world (or at least your world)! On today's episode, your favourite online sisters sit down with activist, author, entrepreneur, and their friend Vee Kativhu, to get the tea on what it really takes to create change, make sure your voice is heard, and some of the misconceptions people have about dating high flying women. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Growing up without a dad, parentification & family values17:24 The mindset of a high achiever: persistence, confidence & accountability 44:05 The truth about dating as a hypervisible woman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 34An Honest Conversation on Dealing with Rejection, Feeling Unwanted & Your Own Mistakes
No one wants to feel unwanted, rejected and like a failure, but at some point in our lives, we are all going to have to contend with these feelings. Join your favourite online sisters in today's episode as they get real about overcoming rejection and making mistakes on your glowing and growing journey. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 33Why Do You Struggle to Celebrate Yourself?: Let’s Talk Building Confidence, Consistency & Gratitude
It’s time for you to enter into your confident era sis! So let’s have a conversation about how to practically build your confidence after dealing being faced with a setback or deep-rooted insecurity.Join for favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss leveraging the power of gratitude, consistency and community to build your confidence on your glowing and growing journey. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 32Navigating Friendships After the Honeymoon Phase: Love Bombing, Bad Seasons & Vulnerability
Like romantic relationships, our female friendships can go through a honeymoon phase where everything feels fresh and exciting; but what should we do when that season comes to an end? Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss the reality behind being friends for over a decade, how you can build true intimacy and secrets to finding joy and contentment in your platonic relationships. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 31The Struggle of the Multifaceted Babe: Burnout, Overwhelm, Lacking Focus & Identity Issues
Being a woman of many talents is wonderful, it allows you to explore your passions and talents and could lead to multiple income streams. But what happens when burnout and overwhelm creep in? How do we redefine confidence and self-esteem when we're validated by our hyper-productivity? Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they get vulnerable and honest about it all 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 30Money By Any Means Necessary: NPCs, Side Hustles, Sex Work, and Foot Fetishes
In a cost of living crisis, the girlies are thinking of innovative ways to make money. From NPC to Side Hustles to Foot Pics - is the question of ‘respectable income’ relevant as the cost of living becomes more disrespectful? Check out our latest episode to find out 👀 💕TICKETS TO THE LONDON LIVE SHOW DROP FRIDAY 4TH AUGUST!! 💌 Sign up to the newsletter to be the first to get the link: https://www.tomysisters.com 🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Updates & BIG NEWS - TMS Live in London!!!17:14 Ding Ding Dilemma: Learning to enjoy being single in my 30's35:24 Is all money legit? The Digital Economy & NPC's45:53 Are we dehumanizing women online?01:02:48 Love Island & Dating Shows: The incentivization of love Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 29Ding Ding Ding Dilemmas: STD’s, Church Boys, Career Pivots, Cutting Off Friends & MORE
From relationship drama to graduation blues, the girls are in need of some advice! Join your favourite online sisters in today's episode as they share wisdom, tips, and encouragement in response to your dilemmas. 🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome and Housekeeping Announcements06:16 Dilemma 1: Taking a $40,000 loan & telling my parents about my career pivot?25:45 Dilemma 2: I slept with a boy from church45:53 Dilemma 3: Should I cut my friend off?59:33 Dilemma 4: I gave my boyfriend an STD01:18:13 Dilemma Update: We broke up Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 28Glowing & Growing Whilst Overcoming Trauma: The Reality of Healing From Pain & Negative Experiences
Sisters, it’s a deep one today! Is it possible to win when you’re still getting right within? In today’s episode, the sisters have a transparent conversation on trauma, the reality of the healing journey, and whether it’s possible to finally reach a stage where you can ‘let it all go’. Tune in to today’s episode to get the low-down, and more!🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 27“You’re A Mom!!”: What the Keke Palmer Situation Can Teach Us About Communicating Expectations
The much-loved Keke Palmer found herself trending recently as the father of her child and partner came under fire for calling her out on social media for what he deemed as inappropriate behaviour for a mother. So join your favourite online sisters today as they share thoughts on what we can learn from this when it comes to communicating our expectations with our partners. 🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 26It’s All Getting Too Much: Dealing With Responsibility and ‘Adulting’ Anxiety
In today’s episode, the sisters touch base on the reality of ‘adulting’ - from paying bills to maintaining friendships as we get older, what do we do when it all feels like ‘too much’ and we don’t really feel as though we are fully-functioning adults…despite the demand on us made by society to be superwoman? Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 25'Please LOL Money Affi Mek!!": Toxic Hustle Culture, Soft Life & Finding YOUR Success Plan
Sisters, the pressure is getting worser. On one end you have pressure to work toxic extremes and on the other, we’re being told to slow down, and live a soft life - and on the surface, both seem very attractive, luxurious, and profitable. So where does that leave us? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 24Is the Dating Market Actually Trash? : City Girls, Passport Bros & Modern Expectations
With the growing trend of men flying out to find their future wives, and the rising rates of discontent in the dating market, how does the ‘modern woman’ navigate what feels like a hopeless pursuit to find a life partner? And is the rise of the 'City Girl' philosophy helping or harming the sisters in the long run? The sisters weigh in today! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 23The Normalisation of Cheating: Is the Internet & Celebrity Culture Ruining Modern Relationships?
From reality TV to red pill content and Twitter threads, cheating seems to be a trending topic these days, and for all the wrong reasons. Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss the normalisation of cheating and its consequences for women and men. Whose duty is it to spot the red flags and hold men accountable in a world which seems to be letting the standard for committed relationships slip? ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 22When Everyone is Doing Better Than You: Dealing With Failure, Disappointment and Comparison
What do you do when it feels like everyone’s life is going great…but you’re feeling left behind? Whether it be the job, the money, the relationship, the opportunity, somehow these days it seems like someone is always doing better than you. In today’s episode, the sisters delve deep into their own personal struggles with stagnancy, the tea behind life timelines and the snare of comparison. ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 21Hygiene Politics, Periods, PCOS, Birth Control & Menopause: Tackling Period Poverty ft Tasha Burgess
Happy World Menstrual Hygiene Day sisters! In a special edition of the To My Sisters podcast, we’re joined by our sis Tasha Burgess from Action Aid, as we delve deep into one of the most culturally taboo topics for women - menstruation and reproductive health. From tackling period poverty to menstrual representation, it’s important the sisters tune into what we can do to ensure women across the world feel happy, healthy, and informed on their reproductive journeys. 🩸 Make a donation towards ActionAid's work to end period poverty: https://www.actionaid.org.uk/donate/rg/share-a-better-period ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 20Are We Getting Rid of Influencers? Deinfluencing, Overconsumption and ‘Quiet Luxury’
Is it time to get rid of ‘influencing’? Are the women of nowadays to preoccupied with consuming social media, products and more based on what we see from those around us? Is ‘quiet luxury’ a thing we should aspire to? Find out the sisters’ thoughts and more in today’s episode! ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 19'Love Shouldn't Make You Stupid': 10 Lessons We've Learnt About Love, Relationships & Heartbreak
We haven’t given up hope on love just yet, but growing up means that we’re constantly learning more about the art of romantic love. In today’s episode, the sisters share 10 essential keys they’ve learnt on romantic love, pursuing a healthy relationship and sustaining it in modern-day society. ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the community @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 18Modern Relationships are Failing: Self-Preservation, Cheating & Submission vs. Oppression
Are modern-day relationships destined to end up in destruction? Why are the dating streets in the pits? Can we ever get to a place of mutual companionship and fulfillment with our partners? Find out our thoughts in today’s episode! 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the community @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 17The Danger of Being a Material Girl: Luxury Living, Prosperity Gospel and Capitalism
The girls NEED the money and materials to live…or do we? And why? In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on the rise of capitalism and materialism, the lure of prosperity teachings, and the forces that exist beyond us which are keeping the girlies in an endless rat race. It’s the unspoken dangers of being a material girl 👀 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisyers.com 🇹🇿 Vlog of Our Trip to Tanzania: https://youtu.be/Xko8uQanIa4 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 16“It felt like you all abandoned me and I didn’t have my own identity”: Overcoming Identity Struggles ft. Yasmina and Shamira
In this episode, Renée is joined by her two younger twin sisters for a candid conversation on sisterhood, family dynamics, gender roles and mental health. The three reflect on some of the positive times in their relationships, and the challenges that arose from being peas in a pod - all in different positions as eldest daughter and youngest daughters 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomyistsers.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 15The Truth About Relationships with Older Women: Boundaries, Wisdom & Jealousy
The wisdom of the older women and sisters in our lives cannot be understated. Their experience and support can catapult our glowing and growing journeys in the right direction by saving us so much time. In this episode your favourite online sisters discuss how we can stand on the shoulder of older women in our lives who can serve as mentors through transgenerational sisterhood. And address some of the sadder things we can experience in these relationships like violated boundaries and even jealousy. 🌍 JOIN US IN GHANA & BALI for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation & the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 14‘I saw you as my mum not my big sister & I HATED YOU for it’: Healing Our Wounds ft. Mary-Jo Boateng
In today's episode, Courtney has a heart-to-heart conversation with her younger sister Mary-Jo. They both share their unique perspectives and challenges when it came to healing their dysfunctional relationship as sisters as a result of the damaging effects of ‘Eldest Daughter Syndrome’. They transparently discuss trauma, mental health struggles, the cause of their sibling rivalry, and how they were forced to build sisterhood and friendship from scratch after a traumatic incident. 🌍 JOIN US in Bali, Ghana & South Africa: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisters #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 13So You've Found Yourself on the List of God's Strongest Soldiers for 2023
The first quarter of the year has quickly come to an end, and today the sisters share some encouragement and wisdom for those who feel the actualisation of the goals is being delayed by personal battles. How do we cultivate patience, endurance and strength for the journey of healing, growing and change ahead of us? 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 12"Women are Too Much Drama" - Competition, Pettiness and Male Friends Only?
Have you ever heard a sister say ‘women are too much drama’ or ‘all my friends are men’? Is it true that women are catty, petty and too much drama to be good friends? Do men have ‘one-up’ on us when it comes to being better friends? We are bringing all our thoughts and more on the latest episode 👀 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 11Cheating, Power & Expectations: Do Women Actually Win in This New Wave of Polygamy?
Is polygamy REALLY all it’s cut out to be? Does it benefit the modern woman? Is it something that the sisters of today can sustain? On today’s episode of TMS, we talk the tea on having more than one partner - for better, or worse! 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 10Is Divorce the Way Forward? The Future of Marriage and The Modern Woman
With divorce rates skyrocketing in the modern age, and the conversation around marriage becoming seemingly more negative, where does that leave the girlies of today’s day and age? Is it naive to aspire towards a ‘healthy’ marriage? Are marriages doomed to fail from the jump in the 21st century? Check out today’s episode to find out! ⚡️ Come to the live event so we can talk, have a hug and I can sign your copy https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🇬🇧 UK Link - https://amzn.to/3T071RC 🇺🇸 USA Link - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1035005727?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_S0P2GP44CTWCD2A3D3EC 🇿🇦 South Africa - https://www.panmacmillan.co.za/authors/courtney-daniella-boateng/to-my-sisters/9781035005727 🏝 SIGN UP FOR TMS GIRLS TRIPS! https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters For affordable and accessible online therapy visit https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 9Plastic Surgery, The Pressure to be Perfect, Body Dysmorphia & Social Media
Does getting plastic surgery make you ‘insecure’? How do women keep up with a changing standard of physical beauty? How do we engage with the influx of celebrities, influencers and even friends hopping on the cosmetic procedural train? All questions we examine with the appropriate dosage of tea, in the latest episode! Support Yoko in the fight for girls education in Sierra Leone: https://gofund.me/bc3ad46e GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 8Fake Sisterhood, Dealing With ‘Husband Snatchers’ and Honouring Girl Code
As amazing as sisterhood is, with every good thing comes its counterfeits. From fake sisterhood to stealing partners, how do we discern between who is really down for the sisters, and who wants the sisters down bad? The sisters weigh in on today’s episode! GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 7Mastering the Art of Pivoting, Overcoming & Productive Self-Talk with Zoe Alexandra
Welcome to 'Girls Night In' a series of deep and candid conversations your favourite online sisters will be having with the women they love and admire. In today's conversation, we dive into the life of Zoe Alexandra - an entrepreneur, podcaster and one-third of the iconic trio 'Live From Layfield'. She talks about the emotional rollercoaster of ending their YouTube channel, realizing she was failing at business & navigating her dating life as a single, successful and supportive sister. GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 6Is There No Hope for Love?: Dating Chronicles, Having High Expectations and Finding the ‘One’
In part one of our Valentine’s Day special, the sisters speak candidly about their worst dating experiences and the reality of finding a long-term partner in the ‘streets’ of the current climate. GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 525 Lessons We've Learnt at 25: Essential Keys To Navigating Life, Love and Everything in Between
As one of the sisters harkens in a brand new age, and the sisters are in deep reflecting mode on some of their mid-twenties learnings. We’re keen to share the essential hacks, lessons and wisdom we’ve managed to pick up on the way. GRAB TICKETS FOR THE BOOK LAUNCH: https://www.fane.co.uk/to-my-sisters 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 4The Truth About Patience & Waiting: Dealing With Anxiety, Overcoming Jealousy and Building Endurance
Planning for the future and working out your dream life is often something many women do. After all, it’s important to ensure that you have goals and visions to aspire towards to motivate you in your daily life. However, sometimes it gets hard along the way - anxiety, giving up, and watching others win where you have failed can be tough. How should we deal with it all? The sisters weigh in, in this next episode. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 3Spring Clean Your Feed: Social Media Use & Tailoring Your Consumption
'Tailor your consumption’ and ‘consume critically’ are all sentiments we use a lot over at TMS. When we are constantly bombarded by endless streams of content and social norms, what does it look like to intentionally curate your feed and critically think when confronted with problematic content on regular basis? 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💰 Apply to the Vision Fund here: https://forms.gle/Ew5DyjtyHtbyQVJG8 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 2We Need to Leave the Gender Wars Behind: Misogyny, Red Pill & Predatory Advice
Misogyny, red pill and predatory advice - we saw it all in 2022, but what is the future of the gender wars in 2023? Are we finally leaving it behind? The sisters weigh in, in today’s episode. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💰 Apply to the Vision Fund here: https://forms.gle/Ew5DyjtyHtbyQVJG8 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S4 Ep 1New Year MORE Me: How to Compound Your Habits & Make Progress
New year, new me - or new year, more me? The sisters are back this season with our reflections on how we can stack the healthy habits and behaviour the girls need, in order to win big in life. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 54Our Biggest Lessons of 2022: Investing in Yourself, Gratitude & Life-changing Friendship
Merry Christmas Sisters! As the festive season is upon us and 2022 draws to a close we wanted to share our gratitude and the greatest lessons of the year. So sit back, relax, have a mince pie, and enjoy the conversation. 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters @tomysisterhood #tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 53It’s Time to Give it Up Sis: Hanging on to Toxic Habits, Overcoming Addictions & Coping Mechanisms
As much as we are looking forward to 2023 and all it’s gifts, it’s important to address the not-so-pretty side of ourselves which have prevented us from progressing and achieving our goals. From toxic behaviours to addictions, it’s time to give it up sis - all of it. Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Pre-order our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 522023 Prep: Celebrating Yourself, Cultivating Discipline & Consistency + Implementing Accountability
In today’s episode, the sisters delve into how you can ensure 2023 is the year you win! How do you practically cultivate consistency, overcome failure, implement accountability and celebrate your wins? Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com 🌍 Sign up to the TMS experiences: https://forms.gle/STxfGXmSUq1uqfeKA 📚 PRE-ORDER our new book here: https://shorturl.at/AFIRS 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 51Girl Chat: Overcoming Embarrassment, Unpacking ‘Icks’ and Low Vibrational Plates
In today’s episode, the sisters come together to have a little bit of girl chat - we touch on overcoming #shygirl feels, the trend of ‘kicks’ that has taken the online world by storm, adjust a dash of eating low vibrational plates. Get your glass of tea, wine or coffee ready and get into this one sis! Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Pre-order our debut book here For affordable and accessible therapy visit https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 50The Darkest Side of Fake Friendships: The Shanquella Robinson Tragedy
The unfortunate passing of Shanquella Robinson has taken the world by storm - especially the harrowing details of her death at the hands of people she called ‘friends’. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the dark side of friendships, the importance of justice and accountability, and the significance of Shanquella’s case for friendships more widely. Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysiserhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com Pre-order our debut book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Sisters-Building-Lifelong-Friendships/dp/1035005727/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=9781035005727&&qid=1666103492&&sr=8-1&&x=0&&y=0 For affordable and accessible online therapy visit www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 49Only Pretty Girls Deserve Nice Things: Internalised Mysogyny, and the Reality of Pretty Privilege
The reality of being a woman means that many of us are subject to the real effects of what society perceives as ‘pretty’. However, beyond this being something that we just talk about, the sisters chime in on whether pretty privilege is a real form of capital affecting the way men see women - and even how our sisters see each other. Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com For affordable and accessible online therapy visit https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 48Have We Given Up On Love? Misery, Hopelessness & Failing Relationships
A viral tweet of a woman sharing how much she loves spending time with her husband over coffee in the morning sent the internet into a frenzy and has led the sisters to ask, have we as a generation given up on love? Why have so many people become resistant to positive representations of relationships? And how do we overcome this hopelessness? Pre-order our debut book here: shorturl.at/JUWX5 Join the conversation and the sisterhood @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com For affordable and accessible online therapy visit https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

S3 Ep 47Dealing With the Trauma You’ve Caused: Being the Villain, Waiting for Forgiveness & Earning Trust
It’s easy to think of this glowing and growing journey as a chance for you to heal and move on from past hurt and trauma. However, we always encourage a 360-degree approach to become your best self, and that means also acknowledging when you have been the perpetrator or the villain. In today’s episode, the sisters get super transparent as we talk about the trauma that we, as women, cause other people in our lives. Join the sisterhood and the conversation @tomysisterhood #tomysisters www.tomysisters.com For affordable and accessible online therapy visit https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.