The Thoughtful Leader Podcast with Ben Brearley

I'm a big fan of using self-assessment (or psychometric) tools to help people understand more about themselves and each other. However, they aren't perfect and we need to use them with a bit of caution. In this post, I take a look at some of the things to watch out for and clarify when you're using these types of tools for your team. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: The Iceberg Model PRINT® assessment Clifton Strengths DISC MBTI EQi 2.0 Emotional Intelligence Thoughtful Leader Podcast #203: Want to Feel Better Leading? Self-Acceptance Is a Good Start. Article: Introverted Leaders vs. Extroverted Leaders. Who Wins? Article: Professor Brian Little refers to deviations of behaviour like this as "free traits" Thoughtful Leader Podcast #153: Why Knowing Yourself Equals Better Leadership. Article: 5 Tips For Quiet Leaders Article: Blind Spots: How to Shrink Yours to Lead Better Article: Don't Know Your Employees? Here's Why You Should.

Being assertive is important in leadership, because it helps us to look out for our own needs and those of our team. But it doesn't come naturally to everyone, and we can fall into non-assertive habits. In this episode, I take a look at some tips to appear more assertive, based on tweaking the language that we use. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #219: 4 Steps to Grow Your Leadership Confidence Article: 7 Things Leaders Should Stop Saying Article: Is Passive Leadership Destroying Your Team's Motivation?

I find that many thoughtful leaders are introspective and often stuck in their own heads. It goes with the territory of being thoughtful, I suppose! This can be problematic if we start to worry excessively about work. So in this episodes, I've collected some tips that have helped me over the years and hopefully they can help you too. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Black Dog Institute Website (For mental health resources) Thoughtful Leader Podcast #72: How You Can Be a More Thoughtful Leader Today. Thoughtful Leader Podcast #143: How to Stop Overthinking Things Thoughtful Leader Podcast #200: How to Feel More Positive at Work Book: The Happiness Trap. Waking Up. Article: Box breathing Huberman Lab Podcast: How to breathe correctly for optimal health, mood, learning, and performance.

Company values have been around for years, but they can certainly attract a lot of cynicism. If they are just a poster on the wall which nobody reads, they probably aren't doing much good. However, I think they can be valuable when you're trying to get lots of people working in the same direction! In this episode, I take a look at why many people don't care about company values, and some ways that you might start to make them more useful for your team. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Brene Brown values list: Brene Brown. James Clear values list: James Clear. "Built to Last" by Jim Collins and Jerry Porras: Built to Last. Podcast: Lead Better By Understanding Your Core Values. Article: Why Even Good Leaders Can Show a Lack of Integrity. Article: Seeing Negative Behaviour Patterns? Here's How to Stop Them. Resources: Live Your Values Deck. Article: Why Team Purpose Matters.

We all have stories that we carry around in our heads like baggage. Some of these stories are helpful, while others can actually work against us. In this episode, I take a look at the concept of stories and think about how we might challenge them to put ourselves in a better place. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: How Are Your Stories Shaping Your Leadership? Article: How to Manage Your Emotions For Better Leadership. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #158: Let's Build a Better Leadership Mindset.

Encouraging someone to change their behaviour or attitude is hard work, because there are a bunch of barriers that may get in the way. To help you understand and navigate your way through the process you can use the simple model in this episode. It's simple, generic and can be used in many situations! Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Encourage Change In Your Team With This Simple Model. Article: 10 Simple & Effective Tips For Giving Feedback. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #113: Do You Have a Victim Leadership Mindset? Article: People Not Doing What You Want? Ask This Leadership Question.

We often hear about controlling managers who micromanage people. But what about controlling employees, who hoard information and wield influence? In this episode, I take a look at trying to lead a controlling employee, as well as what might be beneath the surface for them. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: How to Lead a Controlling Employee. Article: Build Empathy With the Iceberg Model. Article: Seeing Negative Behaviour Patterns? Here's How to Stop Them. Article: Power Dynamics: Are They Impacting Your Team? Article: Stakeholder Management Tips For the Everyday Leader.

Leadership is not easy, and sometimes we need a boost of courage and motivation to keep us going. In this episode, I take a look at some of my favourite motivational resources that I've collected over the last few years. Hopefully they can help you too! Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: 5 Thoughtful Resources to Help Your Leadership. Seth Godin: "Everyone is Doing Their Best". Article: 4 Ways Leaders Can Build Empathy in the Workplace (and Why It Matters). Article: Are You Too Busy to Lead Effectively? Nancy Kline: Time to Think.

There are many stereotypes we hear about younger generations. They're lazy…. uncommitted…. have no loyalty. But are the younger generations actually just showing behaviours that can guide us towards better leadership? In this episode, I take a look at some lessons I think we can learn from younger generations which can make our workplaces better. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Leadership Lessons to Learn From Younger Generations. Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Leadership Model: Kouzes and Posner's Exemplary Leadership model. Article: Millennials – The Job-Hopping Generation. Article: American Institute of Stress – Are You Experiencing Workplace Stress?

Leaders don't set out to seem like they don't care. They become that way because of stressful work environments and chaotic workplaces. Even thoughtful leaders can seem uncaring if they aren't careful. In this episode, I take a look at my top 5 innocent uncaring leadership actions, so you can look out for, and avoid them. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 5 Innocent Actions That Make You Seem Like An Uncaring Leader. Forbes: Discover the Top 5 Reasons Workers Want to Quit Their Jobs. Article: The Cult of Busyness: How Leaders Can Kill It. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #130: How to Make Your 1 to 1 Meetings Better. Article: Why Leaders Don't Delegate (and How to Do It More). Article: 5 Ways to Say No Without Getting Fired.

Sometimes leaders can let their roles go to their heads, becoming wrapped-up in their own self-importance. This can be a trap which even thoughtful leaders can fall into! In this episode, I'll take a look at some common warning signs that you might be taking yourself a little too seriously, so you can lighten up a bit. You never know, people might respect you more for it. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Are You Taking Yourself Too Seriously? Book: The Art of Possibility. Video: Rule #6. Article: Is Your Ego Damaging Your Leadership? Article: Lessons Learnt From Career Burnout. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #132: Would You Rather Be Liked or Respected? Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #78: Want to Feel More In Control of Your Team? Try Letting Go.

Tuckman's Team Development Model has been around for a while, but I find it to still be relevant and useful today. Some people think that you can whack people together and become high-performing straight away. This just ain't true, and this model helps to understand what stages a team goes through to get to that high-performing point. In this episode, I'll take a look at the stages and how you can navigate them. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: The 5 Stages of Team Development. Article: Don't Have a Team Operating Model? Here's Why You Need One. Online Course: Team Accountability Builder Online Course. Article: Motivation at Work: Moving Your People Along the Motivation Spectrum.

It is fairly common knowledge now that providing people with more autonomy can drive big improvements in motivation. However, it's not as easy as it sounds. Sometimes providing your team with more autonomy is daunting and frustrating. In this episode, I take a look at some of the common traps and what we can do to avoid them. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Struggling to Foster Autonomy In Your Team? Here's Why. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #215: Why Autonomy Matters For Your People and How to Provide It. Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Article: Proactive vs Reactive Team Members: Make the Switch. Article: People Not Doing What You Want? Ask This Leadership Question.

Goal setting is very common in most organisations, but that doesn't mean it's done very well. If you get it right it can provide a big motivational boost, but when it goes wrong it can have the opposite effect. In this episode, I take a look at some tips to help you set more effective goals for your team. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Setting Team Goals: Tips for Thoughtful Leaders. Book: 5 Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni. Book: Drive by Dan Pink. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcat #165: How to Provide Development Opportunities For Your Team. Article: Want a Committed Team? Check These Factors.

It's pretty common knowledge that recognising the contributions of your team can be a useful motivational tool. Praise is a cost-effective way to do this, but sometimes I notice it falls flat. In this episode, I take a look at some situations where praise becomes ineffective and how you might use it better. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Praising Employees Is Good – But Here's Why It Isn't Working Harvard Research: A Little Recognition Can Provide a Big Morale Boost. Article: 3 Ways That False Praise is Ruining Your Team. Article: Start Being Trustworthy For Your Team: Here's How. Article: 10 Simple & Effective Tips For Giving Feedback.

I think organisations could function more effectively if there were a few more direct conversations. But, as thoughtful leaders, direct conversations can be daunting, and we don't want to have them when they're not really needed or appropriate. In this episode, I look at some of the factors to help you decide whether a more direct conversation is the answer for your situation. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Should You Have a Direct Conversation? Try This Checklist. Article: Avoiding a Difficult Conversation? Ask Yourself These 3 Questions. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #149: Steps to Break Negative Behaviour Patterns. Article: People Not Doing What You Want? Ask This Leadership Question.

Many leaders grapple with challenges that come with leading or working with people who they consider to be friends. So that begs the question: should you be friends with your team members? Or should you try not to let that happen? In this episode, I take a look at some of the challenges that can come from being friends with team members, and what you could potentially try to do about them. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Should You Be Friends With Your Employees? Gallup Article: The Increasing Importance of a Best Friend at Work. Article: Avoiding Groupthink. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #132: Would You Rather Be Liked or Respected? Article: Why Even Good Leaders Can Show a Lack of Integrity.

I receive a lot of emails asking for advice about difficult or disruptive team members. While all of these situations have their intricacies and quirks, I reckon that underlying them all is a simple idea. And this simple idea is the basis for a very useful leadership question that I like to ask people when they have these sorts of issues. You can ask it too, so listen to this episode and let me know what you think. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: People Not Doing What You Want? Ask This Leadership Question. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #149: Steps to Break Negative Behaviour Patterns. Article: Why Leaders Must Drive Consequences in the Workplace. Article: Power Dynamics: Are They Impacting Your Team?

Leaders often need to negotiate, even if they aren't involved in closing high-powered deals all the time. We might negotiate a pay rise for ourselves or with our team members, negotiate for extra resources on a project or even when buying a used car. Whatever the negotiation situation, these 3 simple concepts will help you prepare and hopefully get a better outcome for you and the other party. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: 3 Useful Negotiation Concepts For the Everyday Leader. Article: How to Influence People to Achieve Your Leadership Goals.

Reading about leadership can be quite confusing. There are lots of leadership styles, theories and models out there, which can make it hard to gain a basic understanding of what it all means. So in this episode, I go back to basics with a simple 4-step process which covers what I believe are the core parts of leadership to concentrate on. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links Article: Overwhelmed? Follow This Simple Leadership Process. Article: Leadership Weaknesses: Use Them to Lead Better. Article: How to Delegate Work to Improve Your Team.

Leadership used to be about command and control. Over time, it has become much more inclusive and collaborative. However, I feel that the quiet leaders among us still feel the pressure to be louder and more outgoing than they may naturally be. In this episode, I look at the benefits of quiet leadership and offer some tips for those quiet leaders out there. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: 5 Tips For Quiet Leaders. Article: Introverted Leaders vs. Extroverted Leaders. Who Wins? Article: Brian Little – Free Traits. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #28: Why Softly Spoken Leaders Make a Big Impact. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #206: Lead Better By Understanding Your Core Values. Article: Why You Need to Speak Up at Work and Why You Don't. Article: Essential Daily Habits to Maintain Your Workplace Wellbeing.

Motivating team members is an ongoing challenge for leaders. Unfortunately, there is no one-size-fits-all motivation solution because everyone is different. In this episode, I cover three factors that you can use to try to motivate your people. Hopefully you can use these as a guide to develop more specific strategies to help your people feel more engaged with the work that they do. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Motivate Your People Using These 3 Levers. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #71: A Simple Model for Team Motivation. Article: Job Characteristics model. Book: "Drive", by Dan Pink. Article: 4 Ways to Provide Autonomy For Your People. Article: Risk & Reward: How to Provide Development Opportunities For Your Team.

Saying "No" is a superpower in leadership (and in life), in my opinion. Many thoughtful leaders feel stressed at the prospect of pushing back or saying no, especially to someone like their own boss. This episode is a little encouragement for you to start saying "No" a little more often, so you can create space for the most important work and set a positive example for the people around you. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Great Things That Happen When You Start Saying No. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #92: Struggling to Say No? Try These 5 Ways! Article: Too Many Priorities: What to Do When You're Asked to Do It All. Article: Do You Have a Victim Leadership Mentality?

Staff turnover is a natural part of life, even for excellent leaders. Even so, it can have a big impact on the functioning of a team if we aren't careful. In this episode, I take a look at some ideas to help reduce the impact of turnover in your team, so that the wheels don't fall off when someone says goodbye. Sample RACI Matrix Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Ways to Reduce the Impact of Staff Turnover. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #33: Employee Turnover: Why It's Good and When You Should Worry. Article: Process Mapping – Lucidchart. Article: Roles and Responsibilities Unclear? Do This. Article: How Leaders Can Improve Team Performance Through Cross Training. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #64: Overwhelmed? Start Working at 80%.

In many respects, it's good to be a nice leader. But what happens if you're one of those leaders who is perceived as "too nice"? In this episode, I take a look at some tips for nice leaders, to help to counter some of the common perceptions that can hold them back in the workplace. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Critical Considerations for "Nice" Leaders. Article: Struggling as a Kind Leader? Ask Yourself These 3 Questions. Article: Hiring People? Here Are 5 Essential Personality Traits to Watch Out For. Article: CNBC Interview With David Kawasaki. Article: Jacinda Ardern. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #83: Handling Emotions in Leadership. Article: How to Manage Your Emotions For Better Leadership.

Feeling confident in your leadership role always makes leading a whole lot easier. So in this episode, I take a look at the four steps I believe are necessary to grow in confidence. I share a few personal examples from my own journey in confidence-building, and hopefully you can view some of your challenges in a different light, and use these four steps to build your own confidence. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Critical Steps to Grow Your Confidence In Leadership. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #90: Beating Leadership Imposter Syndrome. Article: Working For An Insecure Manager? Here's What to Do. Assessment Tools: DISC, PRINT, MBTI, Clifton's Strengths or Hogan. Article: Why You Need to Know Your Values In Leadership. Article: 5 Questions Confident Leaders Ask. Article: Leadership Confidence Problem? Let's Diagnose It. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #56: Why Thoughtful Leaders Need the Most Confidence. Online Course: Leadership Confidence Online Course. (Discount ends June 30th 2023!)

Many people are looking for a quick fix for their time management challenges, in the form of tools and technologies. While these can be helpful for working more efficiently, nothing beats having the skills and mindset to actually set clear boundaries and become more effective. The only thing is… it's much harder, takes effort… and might even involve a few challenging conversations. In this episode, I take a look at the top 3 time management skills I think will *really* help you become more effective. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Forget the Tools, Master These Top 3 Time Management Skills. The Urgent-Important Matrix: How to Be More Productive at Work: A Simple Tool for Leaders. Article: How Better Time Management Will Help Your Team (Not just you!) Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #80: What to Do When You Have Too Many Priorities. Article: Why Leaders Must Push Back and Say "No". Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #18: How to Delegate to Improve Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #105: Downsides of Delegation.

Communication skills are a hot topic in leadership, and are often one of the most sought-after skills for leaders. However, we don't usually dig much into what good communication means. So in this episode, I thought I'd look into what it means (Thoughtful Leader style, that is) and how you bring it more often. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Magnifying Effect of Communication Show Links: Article: What Good Communication Means, and How to Do It. LinkedIn Learning Blog: Top Skills to Future Proof Your Career. Article: 5 Leadership Communication Principles to Help Your Team. Statista: Emails Sent Per Day Stats. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #122: Suffering From a Communication Breakdown? Let's Fix It. Article: 5 Communication Skills Every Leader Needs. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #35: How to Create Open Communication in Your Team.

We often talk about the actions that leaders should take to get the best out of their teams. But it's worth thinking about the things we choose *not* to do which can make a real difference. In this episode, I take a look at why leaders sometimes struggle to restrain themselves from taking instinctive actions, and take a look at some ways you might be able to add a little restraint into your leadership. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Why Exercising Restraint Is Important For Good Leadership. Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Article: How to Manage Your Emotions For Better Leadership. Article: The Impact and Importance of Emotions in Leadership. Resource: PRINT assessment. Resource: Live Your Values deck. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #124: How to Stay Calm In Tricky, Stressful and Uncertain Situations.

Autonomy is a key factor when it comes to team member motivation at work. But unfortunately, it can feel daunting to let go and provide your people with the autonomy they want. In this episode, I take a look at some simple options for providing greater autonomy to your people, without necessarily saying "Go do whatever you want!" Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: 4 Ways to Provide Autonomy For Your People. Motivation Model: Job Characteristics model. Book: "Drive" by Daniel Pink. Article: Why Leaders Struggle to Provide Autonomy at Work. Article: 5 Empowering Leadership Actions to Try In Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #78: Want to Feel More In Control of Your Team? Try Letting Go.

Trust is important in leadership. After all, it's tiring and stressful when people are questioning our motives all the time. But we can't just ask people to trust us. We need to show up as being trustworthy. Otherwise, we're just the person who says "trust me", with nothing to back it up. And you don't trust people like that, do you? Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Start Being Trustworthy For Your Team: Here's How. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #125: How to Build Trust In Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #130: How to Make Your 1 to 1 Meetings Better. Article: The #1 Way That Leaders Damage Team Trust. Article: Team Improvement: 5 Reasons Smart Leaders Love It. Article: Is a Lack of Trust Ruining Your Team? Here's 3 Ways to Fix It. Article: "Trust Equation" by Trusted Advisor.

I've noticed that leaders in many organisations like to send people on training without too much thought. Unfortunately, usually this results in a lot of wasted time and money, even though it may seem like a good idea at the time. To help with this, in this episode I take a look at 3 simple questions to answer to improve the chances of the training being useful and worth the expense! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Training Your People? Ask These 3 Questions Before You Spend the Money.

Managing by exception is a style of management that emphasises escalation of only significant issues to leaders in an organisation. It is often seen as a way to free up a leader's capacity, because they are only involved when there is a challenge to be overcome or a significant decision to be made. I'm naturally skeptical about "silver bullet" leadership approaches, so in this episode, I take a look at this style of leading, along with the benefits and potential pitfalls, so you can see how this might suit your situation. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Managing By Exception: How Does It Impact Our People? Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #48: The Perils of Passive Leadership. Article: 4 Signs That a Productivity Problem Might Be Hurting Your Leadership. Article: How to Get Comfortable Without Controlling Leadership. Article: McKinsey Study on Employee Satisfaction. (Note: I incorrectly referenced this as a Harvard Business Review study in the episode).

Working for an insecure manager is no picnic. Many people react to this situation by fighting. Trying to prove to their insecure boss that they are superior and capable and don't need to be controlled. Unfortunately, I've never seen this work. It usually results in a worse situation as the feeling of insecurity grows even further! I suggest you try the strategies in this episode instead. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Working For An Insecure Manager? Here's What to Do. Article: Moving From Doer to Leader: The Top Challenges. Article: Are You an Insecure Leader? Watch for These 10 Signs. Article: Leadership Confidence Problem? Let's Diagnose It. Article: Start Being Trustworthy For Your Team: Here's How. Article: How to Influence People to Achieve Your Leadership Goals. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #78: Want to Feel More In Control of Your Team? Try Letting Go. Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Article: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #104: Why Leaders Must Set Boundaries at Work.

Empowering leadership is all about getting out of your team's way, so they can do their thing. However, this deceptively simple idea can be daunting for leaders who aren't used to letting go of the reins so much. In this episode, I take a look at empowering leadership, why it can be a great thing for your team, and give you some ideas of empowering actions you can take. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 5 Empowering Leadership Actions to Try In Your Team. Article: Are You an Insecure Leader? Watch for These 10 Signs. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #172: Team Member Lacking Confidence? Here's How to Lead Them. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #74: Want a More Proactive Team? Try These Things. Article: 4 Ways Leaders Damage Accountability in the Workplace. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #112: Why Smart Leaders Seek Continuous Improvement. Article: 5 Questions Confident Leaders Ask. Article: How to Delegate Work to Improve Your Team. Article: How a Self Fulfilling Prophecy Will Make or Break Your Team.

Being able to show empathy is a great skill for leaders to better understand and engage with their people. One tool I've found really useful in helping to keep an open mind and show empathy is the iceberg model. In this episode, I introduce this simple model and how you can use it to think differently about the various behaviours you might be seeing in your workplace. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Article: Empathy from UC Berkeley's Greater Good Magazine. Article: 4 Ways Leaders Can Build Empathy in the Workplace (and Why It Matters). Article: How to Manage Your Emotions For Better Leadership.

One of the common complaints levelled at leaders (especially in the middle-management layer) is that they are "useless" and "don't do anything". And sometimes, when you've gone from being a valuable "doer" to a leader, it can certainly feel that way! In this episode, I take a look at some ways to help yourself (and your team) feel like you're making a positive difference in your leadership role. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 4 Ways to Be a More Useful Leader. Article: Why is Leadership Important? Here's a Reminder. Article: The Power of Setting a Direction For Your Team. Article: Don't Have a Clear Team Purpose? Here's Why You Need One. Article: Don't Have a Team Operating Model? Here's Why You Need One. Article: Stakeholder Management Tips For the Everyday Leader. Article: How to Influence People to Achieve Your Leadership Goals. Article: Are you a Micromanaging Boss? Here's How to Break the Habit. Article: Risk & Reward: How to Provide Development Opportunities For Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #112: Why Smart Leaders Seek Continuous Improvement.

In the book "Legacy" about the New Zealand All Blacks Rugby team, the concept of "sweeping the sheds" is raised. That is – even leaders should pitch in and do the small things, rather than considering them to be beneath their station. So is sweeping the sheds good leadership? When should you do it, and when should you avoid it? I discuss these questions in this podcast episode. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Too Important For That Task? Is It Good or Bad Leadership? Book: "Legacy" Article: Are You Taking Yourself Too Seriously? Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #80: What to Do When You Have Too Many Priorities. Article: Don't Have a Team Operating Model? Here's Why You Need One. Article: How to Create a Clear Team Purpose. Article: 5 Strategic Skills to Improve Your Leadership.

One way that we can help to set a good foundation for our leadership is to understand our core values. Our core values help us to understand what drives us, what we stand for and what we won't. They can also help us to identify the situations and environments where we are more likely to feel satisfied, content and motivated. In this episode, I take a look at why our values are so important, what we can use them for and how to figure out what yours are. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Maslow's Hierarchy – a Leadership Perspective Show Links: Article: Why You Need to Know Your Values In Leadership. Article: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Article: 4 Types of Motivation to Look For In Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #153: Why Knowing Yourself Equals Better Leadership. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #76: Why Leaders Should Focus On Workplace Wellbeing. Article: How Leaders Can Build Strong Working Relationships. Product: Live Your Values Deck. Lists of Values: James Clear and Brene Brown.

You might not feel confident all the time, but that doesn't mean you can't ask confident questions! In this episode, I take a look at some good questions that you can ask to help build trust and rapport with the people around you. Many leaders don't ask these questions, because they don't want to hear the answers. Don't be like them – ask away! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 5 Questions Confident Leaders Ask. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #90: Beating Leadership Imposter Syndrome. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #125: How to Build Trust In Your Team. Article – Entrepreneur: A Lack of Confidence Is a Surprising Trait of Successful Leaders.

Most leaders have parts of their leadership they'd like to improve. One way to improve is to create good leadership habits, to help you show up consistently and reliably for your team. In this episode, I take a look at 3 key ingredients I believe are important for making a change to your leadership habits. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Create Positive Leadership Habits With These 3 Ingredients. Article: James Clear – Creating a new habit Tool: RescueTime Article: Are You a Consistent Leader, Or Keeping Your Team Guessing?

I sometimes work with leaders who pretty much need a complete confidence rebuild because of their experiences in crappy workplaces. Damaged confidence can take years to recover (if it does at all), so we need to be able to guard against this problem. Over time, I've come to realise that self-acceptance is a big piece of the puzzle, and I think it plays a foundational role in our leadership. In this episode, I take a look at why it matters, and some ways to help you find it. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Why Self Acceptance is a Foundation for Good Leadership. Article: Why Leaders Need to Build Self Esteem. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #164: Don't Let Blind Spots Derail Your Leadership. Article: Self-talk: What is it and why is it important – Healthdirect. Article: How Daily Commitments Can Improve Your Leadership. Article: Psychology Today – One tool that can change the way you think. Article: Tim Denning – Neuroplasticity changed changed the way I think.

It seems to be fairly common knowledge that delegation is a valuable leadership skill. But in my experience coaching and talking to my training attendees, there is not enough of it happening in our workplaces. Many leaders want to be able to delegate more, but there are things getting in the way that seem to prevent it. So in this episode, I take a look at some of the common reasons why leaders fail to delegate, and some potential solutions to that problem! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Why Leaders Don't Delegate (and How to Do It More). Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #105: Downsides of Delegation. Article: How Letting Go Will Help You Take Control. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #31: Short Term Thinking = Bad Leadership. Article: How a Self Fulfilling Prophecy Will Make or Break Your Team. Article: Why Exercising Restraint Is Important For Good Leadership. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #80: What to Do When You Have Too Many Priorities. Article: Balancing the Four Essential Leadership Components. Article: Moving From Doer to Leader: The Top Challenges.

Recent research shows that honesty is one of the most highly sought-after leadership characteristics. However, there are many situations in which we sometimes feel like we can't be as honest as we'd like to be. So in this episode, I take a look at some of the ways you can bring honesty to the table more often, because it's what people are looking for in their leaders! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Honest Leadership: How to Bring It More Often (and Why It Matters). Book: Leadership Challenge by Kouzes and Posner. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #175: Avoiding Conflict? Here's What's Really Happening. Study: Brain battles itself over short-term rewards, long-term goals. Article: How Short Term Thinking Leads to Bad Leadership. Link: Philosopher and Neuroscientist Sam Harris.

Workplaces can often be busy and overwhelming places, convincing us that our situation is all doom and gloom. People like to focus on negativity and this can make the situation even worse! Instead, wouldn't it be nice to feel more positive about your work situation? In this episode, I look at 3 factors that help leaders feel more positive at work, based on the trends that I notice speaking with my coaching clients. You'll still have challenges and tricky problems to solve, but hopefully you can approach them with greater enthusiasm and positive energy! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: How Leaders Can Feel More Positive at Work. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #140: Are You Being Too Optimistic? Article: Do You Have a Victim Leadership Mentality?

It's time to get started with 2023! In this episode, I take a look at my 5 key leadership focus areas which I think are important. These include being aware of global trends (and matching them in your team), watching out for poor time management, being a leadership scientist, cultivating a curious mindset and being able to restrain ourselves in the face of our tricky emotions! Listen to the episode to find out more about them! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: Want to Build Empathy? Use the Iceberg Model. Article: 4 Types of Motivation to Look For In Your Team. Podcast: #71: A Simple Model for Team Motivation. Article: Improve Motivation In Your Team With This Simple Theory.

Most leaders don't go straight into a leadership position. They start by doing the technical work, and then progress to leadership positions afterwards when they show the potential. This transition can be a huge challenge for many leaders, especially those who actually quite liked doing the technical work! In this episode, I take a look at some of the top challenges of moving from doer to leader, and some ways you can hopefully overcome these to be as good a leader as you were a team member. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Moving From Doer to Leader: The Top Challenges. Article: How Much Technical Expertise Should You Have to Lead Your Team? Article: Leading Former Colleagues Can Be Tricky. Try These Tips. Strategic Thinking Article: 5 Strategic Skills to Improve Your Leadership. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #81: The Power of Setting a Direction for Your Team (and how to do it). Article: Team Improvement: 5 Reasons Smart Leaders Love It. Article: Don't Have a Team Operating Model? Here's Why You Need One. Motivation & Difficult Conversations Article: Avoiding a Difficult Conversation? Ask Yourself These 3 Questions. Article: 5 Questions to Ask An Unmotivated Team Member. Article: 4 Types of Motivation to Look For In Your Team. Delegation Article: The Downsides of the Delegating Leadership Style. Article: How to Delegate Work to Improve Your Team. Article: Why Leaders Don't Delegate Tasks (and How to Fix It). Article: Are you a Micromanaging Boss? Here's How to Break the Habit. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #21: Micromanagement and How to Stop It.

Stress is common in busy workplaces, and we might think that it usually occurs because the workload is too high. However, there can be many sources of stress that don't necessarily involve the amount of work on our plate. In this episode, I take a look at some of the common signs of stress that you might see, and then look at the common causes that may be behind them. If you can remain aware of the signs and causes, you might be able to stop them becoming an issue for you and your team! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: How Leaders Can Identify Mental Health Issues. Article: Is Your Team Struggling? Understand Workplace Stress to Lead Better. Article: Roles and Responsibilities Unclear? Do This. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #55: The Importance of Consequences for an Effective Workplace. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #121: Difficult Colleague? Let's Improve the Relationship. Article: 4 Types of Motivation to Look For In Your Team. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader #71: A Simple Model for Team Motivation. Article: Motivation at Work: Moving Your People Along the Motivation Spectrum. Article: How Leaders Can Survive "Working In the Grey". Article: 5 Questions to Ask An Unmotivated Team Member.

When leaders do bad things in your workplace, do you assume they are bad, evil people? Or could it be that in a different environment, they'd lead in a better way? In this episode I take a look at some of the integrity risks that I find can have even good leaders doing bad leadership things. Watch out for them, to be able to lead better, more often. Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Show Links: Article: Why Even Good Leaders Can Show a Lack of Integrity. Article: Power Dynamics: Are They Impacting Your Team? Article: Setting Boundaries at Work: Why It's Crucial. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #123: Common Leadership Fears and How to Challenge Them. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #156: Let's Dismantle the Cult of Busyness. Article: Too Many Priorities: What to Do When You're Asked to Do It All Article: Too Busy at Work? Try These 5 Things.

There are still some common misconceptions about leadership floating around in our organisations. Leadership has changed. Gone are the days of command and control and the days of more inclusive leadership are upon us. However, many workplaces are still battling "old-school" leadership challenges. In this episode, I take a look at some common leadership misconceptions that I feel still have a tendency to trip us up! Like the Show? Please Leave a Review! ✅ If you like this episode or the show in general, please take a few minutes to leave a review by clicking one of the links below. Your review really helps me to reach a wider audience of thoughtful leaders, so we can improve workplaces around the world. I appreciate you taking the time! 🙏 >>> Click here to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. >>> Click here to leave a rating on Spotify. Apply For Your Complimentary Coaching Session I invite you to a complimentary Discovery Coaching Session, where we will: Get clear on your most important goals and what is most important to you Identify blockers and limiting beliefs that are holding you back; and Develop key actions you can take to move forward and make progress. You will leave the Discovery Coaching Session with a sense of clarity, purpose and practical steps to move you forward. There is no obligation to pursue further coaching after this session - but many people do! >>> Click here to apply for your complimentary coaching session. Show Links: Article: 5 Leadership Misconceptions We Need to Correct. Article: How Much Technical Expertise Should You Have to Lead Your Team? Article: What is an introvert? – Healthline. Podcast: Thoughtful Leader Podcast #28: Why Softly Spoken Leaders Make a Big Impact. Podcast: Brene Brown – Anatomy of Trust. Article: The Impact and Importance of Emotions in Leadership. Article: Why Formal Authority Won't Solve Your Leadership Problems. Online Course: Team Accountability Builder Online Course.