The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you looking for more sexpert advice to help you open-up your mind and push your boundaries? Perhaps you have questions about how to get into the Swinging Lifestyle. Join us with Dr Laurie Betito, who has been a sex therapist for over 30 years, as she interviews us about the swinging lifestyle on her show, The Passion Podcast with Dr Laurie. We share our sexy story about how we fell into the lifestyle and explain the basics of swinging for newbies, as well as what to do if you are the jealous type. She also gives her advice to listeners' questions about penis size and incompatibility with respect to being an introvert/extrovert, masturbating and then she tops it all off with a fun segment about sex in the news.

Are you curious about the types of couples that visit Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica and how they became sexually adventurous and open about their sexuality? Do you want to hear more about their sexy fun trips? Join us with two amazing couples who have been to Hedo many times, as they share their stories about how they discovered the swinging lifestyle and how they learned to navigate their way with good communication, honesty, respect and consent. Their sexy Hedo stories demonstrate how their open-minded experiences strengthen their couple… and keep them coming back for more.

Have you ever felt l like you were circling the drain, getting deeper and deeper into the abyss, wondering how you could ever find the inner strength to pull yourself out? Join us with Jewels, Speaker and Author of The Making of a Woman: From the Inside Out, as she shares her true-life story about how she refused to bow down to the circumstances of her birth and fought to overcome the forces and the people who populated her life in a way that often crushes others.

Is your love life getting you down because you are finding it harder and harder to meet compatible partners? Have you noticed how technology, especially dating apps, has changed the playing field with respect to dating, love and relationships? Join us with America's Relationship Expert, Dr Wendy Walsh, as she puts her spin on dating, gender dynamics and models of love. If you want to know more about mothers, milfs and wives and why women have sex, then listen right to the end because the answers are found in the science of love!

Do you ever think that maybe you need to see a couples therapist? Even if your sex life is good, don't you think you deserve more? Wouldn't it be nice to have a better, stronger, more loving relationship? Join us with Speaker, Author, Couples Therapist and Researcher, Dr Sara Nasserzadeh, who wants to create world peace – one relationship at a time. She has a unique perspective on love, sexual chemistry, sexual harmony and jealousy. She is passionate about exploring how human connections lead to meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

Are you open-minded and curious about ways to expand your relationship and explore your sexuality but your deep-rooted insecurities are stopping you from going there? Join us in a round-table discussion with Sex Therapist and Sex Coach, Stephanie and Fox, as we discuss how shame-based sex education and cultural constructs can create guilt and insecurities surrounding sex and sexuality and how we CAN overcome them with a strong, loving partner in a safe and non-judgmental environment like Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica.

Don't you wish you had a Sex and Relationship Expert available to you while on campus during your university years to help navigate the ins-and-outs of your early sexual experiences that impacted your attitude towards sex, sexuality, body image and shame? Join us with Sexologist Dr Megan Stubbs, author of Playing Without a Partner: A Single's Guide To Sex, Dating, And Happiness, as we discuss the importance of normalizing sexuality and sexual behavior, especially amongst college students who are at a very impressionable age. We also get into how sex education at any age should be fun and light-hearted.

Do you ever fantasize about what you might do if presented with hand cuffs, blind folds, feather ticklers, ice cubes or hot wax? What about your partner, would they be into it too? Perhaps you want to find out more about the kinky lifestyle? Join us with Sex Therapist and Sexuality Professor, Dr Hernando Chaves who specializes in alternative lifestyles including, BDSM, kink and fetishes, as we talk about exploring ways to live a more authentic and enjoyable sexual lifestyle, free of guilt, shame and self-judgment.

Are you curious about squirting orgasms? Wondering if they are real, only pee or just for porn stars. This mythological fluid, often referred to as "amrita", nectar of the Gods, is a popular topic of discussion for people in The Lifestyle, and anyone who is open to exploring their sexuality. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Cari Oneal, who is a Sex and Intimacy Coach, specializing in couples who are in the Lifestyle or who want to get into the Lifestyle. She is an expert on Squirting Orgasms, and she takes us through some of the common myths related to squirting, as she explains female arousal and how every vulva-owner can squirt if they want to learn how.

Are you looking for new ways to explore and share your fantasies with your partner? Perhaps you find it hard because you feel shy or ashamed of how much you want to try new sexual adventures with your partner and with other people too? Do you have difficulty opening-up the conversation and talking about your wants and needs for better sex? Join us with a sexy-fun couple at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we talk about their experiences with opening-up and pushing their boundaries to discover new and exciting ways to incorporate her bisexuality and his desire to keep her satisfied and fulfilled. We get deep into orgasms, orgies and anal play and why they love going to Hedonism II Resort so much.

Are you have trouble asking for what you want in bed? Perhaps you're feeling insecure about the moans and groans that naturally occur during sex. What about after the fact - do you ever discuss how good or how bad or how to improve your sexual pleasure? Join us as we participate in a Sexpert Panel Discussion moderated by Dr. Ava Cadell from LoveUniv.com, all about Intimate Communication – Before, During and After Sex, together with 5 other Sexperts in this field: Dr. Emily Morse, Dr. Shannon Chavez, Dr. Megan Stubbs, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Dr. Hernando Chaves.

Are you looking for more playful passion in the bedroom? Perhaps you are you struggling with your sexual confidence and feeling ineffective between the sheets. Join us with Erotic Massage Coach, Lee Jagger, from Rock the Bedroom, as we learn all about the 69 different ways to make a happy ending even happier. We get into how showing-up as a compassionate lover can make all the difference. From manual manipulation techniques that tease the pleasure centers, to taking control of your sexy play time, we cover it all.

Are you wondering what it would be like to stay at a swinger's resort like Hedonism II for three months… during a global pandemic… and not catch COVID-19? So many people have asked us that very question. Join us with other long term Hedo guests, Coco and Mark, back in our studio, as we talk about our extraordinary trips to Hedo II. We cover everything from David's birthday celebrations to The Super Bowl and three different resort weddings, to the low days and the high days, to the play dates and of course, the departure COVID tests. This was truly an experience of a lifetime and will be remembered forever as part of the unprecedented events of the global pandemic of 2020-2021.

So many people are curious about how couples get into the lifestyle and open-up their relationships to share their partners with other sexy couples. Well, you know how much we love telling our story of how we discovered the swinging lifestyle and never looked back! Join us as guests on Playmate Pick-up Podcast, hosted by the amazing Erika Jordan, media personality and relationship expert, as we share ALL – from our first swinger experience and squirting orgasms, to rules and etiquette, to jealousy and compersion. It all begins with open and honest communication so that you can push your boundaries and fulfill your fantasies in order to strengthen your couple.

Are you impressed with talented writers and editors who can craft words into stories that make us feel alive and full of emotions? How about those who can get our juices flowing, and make us feel tingly, excited, or fully aroused. Now that's a talent! Join us with Award Winning Erotica Writer and Editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of a new book, Coming Soon: Women's Orgasm Erotica, as we discuss how the demand for erotica is growing with the widespread availability of audio books. We find out how you can share your own erotic stories and what makes great erotica so good. You might find yourself moving away from porn in favor of erotica.

Are you looking for more connection with other open-minded people who share your same ideas about sex, sexuality, non-monogamy and other 'taboo' topics, with whom you can discuss openly without shame or judgement? Or perhaps you just want to find a place where you feel more comfortable hanging out naked or talking freely and honestly and being your true authentic self? Well, that's what "community" is all about! Join us with two Newlywed Couples who have found their community at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica and decided to get married right there on the beach, with all the Hedo guests invited to witness their commitment to each other. Swinger or not, we discuss what makes their wedding at Hedo so special… and why it makes a difference to have your community present on your special day.

Have you ever had such a hard break up that it left you feeling embarrassed, ashamed and guilty about how you let this happen to you? Where you find yourself wondering how you will ever trust anyone in your life again? Join us with Intimacy Expert, Author, Host and Speaker, Allana Pratt, as we find out how she guides people to find their inner strength to start loving themselves first, so that they can, in turn, find the love of their lives… no matter what they've been through.

Are you looking for ways to unleash your wild side --- without intimidating your partner? Do you have some fantasies that make you feel ashamed? Perhaps you want to share them with your partner, but you are afraid of their reaction, judgment, or rejection? Join us with Intimacy Expert, Dr Stacy Friedman, to find out how to connect or re-connect with your partner so that you can express your deepest desires and share your fantasies in a healthy and safe environment that allows you both to feel comfortable trying new things together?

Are you looking for ways to make your sexy time more fun and pleasurable? You might want to think bigger by adding fantasy role-play and some new toys to help you explore and facilitate great sex. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Carol Queen, from Good Vibrations, as we dive deep into the benefits of using sex toys with your partner for a more meaningful and bonded experience, especially as we age – because aging should not get in the middle of your intimacy. Sexy has no expiry date!

Are you new to the Lifestyle and heading to an open-minded, clothing optional, swinger-friendly resort like Hedonism II for the first time? Are you worried about feeling shy, awkward, or out of place? Perhaps you're wondering how to approach another couple to get into a swinger orgy or how to avoid another couple who is interested in you, but you don't feel the same way? Join us with Sex Educator, Dr Nancy Sutton-Pierce from Exotic Lifestyle Events, and her husband, Dr Mark, as we go deep into discussing Hedo Life 101. From consent, rules and the etiquette of swinging, to the customs and rituals of the repeat offenders, we bust the myths and answer all the questions you are afraid to ask about this iconic adult playground, Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica.

Have you ever considered expanding your relationship to include another person – not just for raw sex but to include love, intimacy and true bonding? Maybe a polyamorous relationship is meant for you. Join us with Polyamory Expert, Dr Eli Sheff from The Bonding Project, as we discuss all the different types of relationship bonding as well as all the different combinations and permutations in various polyamorous and other non-monogamous relationships. Take the Bonding Test: https://www.bondingproject.com/

Did you know that there's a spike in Open Relationships and Polyamorous Marriage? It may be due to the Covid quarantine, as couples are looking for alternative ways to "save their marriages" by adding a consensual person or people to their relationships. Join us as we participate in a Sexpert Panel Discussion moderated by Dr. Ava Cadell from LoveUniv.com, all about Open Relationships – Understanding Polyamory, Monogamish and Unicorns, together with 5 other Sexperts in this field: Dr Eli Sheff, Dr Carol Queen, Dr Nancy Sutton-Pierce, Tamara Bell and Erika Jordan. Follow the Sexpert Panel for FREE at https://www.loveuniv.com/sexpert-panel e

Are you looking for sexy parties catered specifically to open-minded folks? Perhaps you feel more comfortable exploring the lifestyle with a group of compatible people. Join us with Jessica and Justin, owners of My Frisky Business, a lifestyle party and travel group in NY, as they share their insight into the open-minded and swinger lifestyle as party organizers and host couples – whether in NY or on the road at a swinger friendly location like Hedonism II in Jamaica.

Are you new to the Lifestyle? Perhaps you want to explore your sexuality and push your boundaries, but you don't know where to begin. Wouldn't it be great if you could hook up with a mentor couple on your first lifestyle vacation and get private advice and guidance as you open up and grow as a sexy couple. Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, talking with two couples who did exactly that. Find out how one couple's newbie adventure was enhanced by the friendship of a veteran couple and how both couples were ever changed by the experience.

We have a special episode that we are excited to share with you. Get ready for our good friends, Sex Therapist and Sex Coach, Stephanie and Fox, who are the hosts of their own show, The Kinky Koach Podcast. Are you struggling with internal conflict when it comes to sex and religion? Perhaps you feel shameful about your body and sexual desires and have trouble accepting physical pleasure because of your religious upbringing? Join Stephanie & Fox as they talk with Mental Health Therapist, Danielle Kramer, from In Bed with Danielle" as they dive deep into the issues caused by shame surrounding sex in the name of religion.

Are you looking for an all-natural way to enhance pleasure and reduce pain? The Cannabis Industry is growing rapidly as it is becoming legal in so many states and countries today. In addition to its recreational use, all sorts of cannabis products are being developed for their health and medicinal benefits. Join us with Cannabis Expert and Advocate, Michael Horner, co-founder of Zuni Cannabis in Oregon as we discuss the basics of cannabis farming – from growing and harvesting to packaging and selling. We explore everything from consumption habits to engineering specific strains to enhance sensation, reduce inhibitions, elevate mood, and ease discomfort during sex.

The world's most iconic adult playground, Hedonism II Resort, will be celebrating their 40th anniversary this November and there's never been a better time to experience the erotic and exotic vibe of Hedo -- where open-minded people get together to connect and embrace their sexuality and explore the possibilities without judgement, forging life-long friendships. Join us with Harry Lange, Chairman and CEO of Hedo II, as he shares stories of his first experiences as a guest at Hedo and then how he bought Hedo when it was on the brink of being closed... and not only saved it, but renewed and restored it, so that we can all continue to pursue pleasure right here at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica.

Are you 50+ and looking for tips on how to resolve boredom in the bedroom? Find out how you can boost your sexual self-esteem in a culture that idolizes youth. Join us with Sex Educator and Writer, Tracey Cox, author of Great Sex Starts at 50: Age-proof Your Libido and Transform Your Sex Life, as we explore expectations for fifty-year-old bodies and how they are changing. Reignite your desire with a few simple recommendations that will help you make sex a habit so that you can live happier and healthier.

If you are interested in the swinging lifestyle and want to know more about how we began our journey into the world of sexy open-minded folks, then join us with Sex and Relation Expert, Lianne Young, from The House of Ardent, as she interviews us for The Ardent Podcast. We cover all the bases from the female centric point of view and explain how swinging has made our couple stronger and sexier. Lianne was intrigued… and perhaps a little turned-on... by our sexy swinger stories and might one day find herself enjoying the freedoms we discovered in the swinging lifestyle.

Do you believe in love at first sight? Have you ever had an immediate connection with someone that felt like destiny? What would you do if your perfect soul mate turns out to be a swinger? Join us with newlyweds, Victoria and Brian, who met on Match.com during the pandemic, fell in love instantly, and got married 6 months later... at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as they share their love story and their journey into the swinging lifestyle as a new couple. The discussion quickly gets down and dirty as we get into the great sex we all had together in the playroom under the stars.

With the upcoming celebration of the 40th anniversary of Hedonism II in November 2021, we are producing some special episodes that highlight the history of the world's most iconic adult playground. Over the months, we have been compiling stories from some of the life-long guests at Hedo and we've found out so much about Hedo's History. Join us with Wendy and Charlie, two 'long-stay' guests who have been visiting the resort for 30 and 40 years respectively, as they stroll down memory lane, sharing their perspective on the evolution of Hedonism II with respect to the property, staff, community, groups and of course the guests – then and now.

Are you looking to find out more about men's sexual desire? Perhaps you are wondering if all men are supposed to have a high sex drive, crave sex and enjoy sex more than women? Why is no one is talking about men's emotional vulnerability with respect to sexual desire? Join us with Sex Researcher and Relationship Therapist, Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, Author of the book, Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships, as we bust a number of myths surrounding men and their desire and dive deep into how great sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions

Are you feeling the pressures of being pulled in too many different directions? Kids, work, parents -- all demanding your attention with no consideration for you and your needs? In the midst of pleasing others, have you lost the one thing that makes you feel like you – your sexual confidence? Join us for a round table discussion with Sex Doctor, Dr Nancy Sutton-Pierce from Exotic Lifestyle Events and Erica Lemke-Pembroke, author of Feel Sexy Again, as we share our views on the common sex issues that women face as a result of being the emotional supporters and providers of others, at the expense of our own needs and desires. Find out how sex educators and sex coaches can help you reclaim your sexual identity and feel sexy again.

Have you ever wondered why we practice monogamy when marriages are breaking down more today than ever before? Is the key to a successful marriage sexual variety? Perhaps swinging with different partners can help keep it spicy… for some couples? Join us with Sex Educators, Kim and Brad, from Tantric Hearts, as we dissect the ideas of promiscuity, sexual desire and fidelity as presented in the book, "Sex at Dawn", by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha, and discuss how their ideas might explain the growing trend towards the swinging lifestyle.

Are you looking for compatible people to party with while on vacation? As crazy as this sounds, some of the friendliest, most compassionate, and truly genuine people are in the open-minded Lifestyle. And these 'Lifestylers' love to travel... Especially to non-judgmental places like Hedonism II in Jamaica. Join us with Host Couple, Chelsea and Marc, as they open-up about their jobs as entertainers in The Lifestyle world and how they create parties everywhere they go, making everyone feel welcome and part of the group.

Do you consider yourself to be sexually savvy when it comes to understanding and respecting all the aspects of the LGBTQ+ community? Or perhaps you need a little refresher course about some of the nuances? Join us with sex and wellness writer, Gabrielle Kassel, as she shares her knowledge and understanding of naughty sexual practices such as queer sex, anal sex, fisting and sex without orgasm. From mismatched libidos to re-defining sex, we get down and dirty with all the details.

With all the stresses of COVID restricting our daily lives, are you finding it difficult getting into the mood for love and romance? It might take some creativity and innovation, but it is important to make the effort to find passion and intimacy. Your relationship will thank you for it. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Educator, Dr Ava Cadell, from the Loveology University, as we talk about love in the time of COVID. Relationships everywhere are at the brink of success or failure depending how we deal with intimacy and love during times of stress and strain. Find out how to bring out the best in each other this Valentine's Day.

This is Carol and David's specially selected episode of the Talk Naked Podcast hosted by Laura Desiree. On this episode, Laura speaks to adult megastar, Cherie DeVille, as she pops her Instagram-Live Cherry with Laura and reveals all the exciting things that she's doing to keep her loyal fans entertained during COVID-19!

Are you seeking to elevate your sexuality and sexual freedom? Are you looking for guidance or counseling on sexual exploration, sexual enhancement, and sexual discovery? Or perhaps you're simply looking for a sexual tune-up. Join us with Stephanie and Fox, hosts of The Kinky Koach Podcast and founders of TheKinkyKoach.com, providing licensed-certified professionals and educators as well as resources for those interested in expanding their sexual play and getting a better understanding of the various alternative lifestyles like swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and hot-wifing, as we discuss what drives couples into consensual non-monogamy.

Celebrating their upcoming 40th anniversary, Hedonism II Resort is building an historic exposition to share their journey to becoming the world's most iconic adult playground. Join us with Captain Sir John, who has been visiting the resort since the 70's and has been a guest more than 80 times. We delve deep into his memory and pull out stories from the first days when he watched the resort being built, to the changes he witnessed in the 80's and 90's as the property expanded and encouraged public sex and open-minded folks, to the 2000's when "The Lifestyle" replaced the term "Swinging" and organizers started bringing their own like-minded groups, to the current day after Harry Lange purchased the property and made it what it is today: a safe and sexy-fun space to explore your sexuality, push your boundaries and strengthen your couple and simply enjoy the erotic guest experience where you can be as mild or as wild as you want.

Looking for a sexy-fun and exciting profession that keeps you on your toes and in the spot-light, in the world of sex and sexuality? Perhaps you're interested in combining your passion for sex-positive entertainment and media with your ambition of a successful career. Join us with Social Media Influencer, Naked News Anchor, Laura Desiree, as she shares her insight into her sexy world as an internationally renowned Burlesque Superstar and a professional news reporter who interviews people and reports on events totally naked.

This new year brings us hope for a return to 'normalcy' with the availability of vaccines against the corona virus, but what are the long-term effects of isolation, quarantine and social distancing on our intimate relationships? Join us with Sexologist, Dr Cari Oneal, as we discuss a post-covid era and a re-integration plan of action to help us immerge from lock-down and regain intimate relationships. Dr Cari outlines how sexual wellness can be mapped out to cover sex, psychology and relationship health. And yes, we talk about squirting orgasms! GUEST: Dr Cari Oneal BIO: Dr. Cari Oneal earned a PhD in Human Sexuality, is an EFT Practitioner, is certified as a Clinical Sexologist and Sex Coach. She has a private practice in Salt Lake City as a Sex and Relationship Positive Sexual Wellness Coach and sex educator. She is Co-organizer of Sex Positive Utah and hosts classes and workshops related to sexual wellness, sexual skill sets, and relationship dynamics. The emphasis of her work is sexual health, awareness, education, and coaching on sex-positive topics and behaviors. Dr Oneal takes great pride in helping you find and master YOU OWN authentic voice and behaviors for sex so that you'll feel confident about who you are and what you're Creating. Let's talk about what's got you stuck, traumas never dealt with, stories never told, and beliefs that keep you from being who you want to be. www.drcarioneal.com

Carol and David's selected episode of the Talk Naked Podcast hosted by Laura Desiree. On this episode, Laura speaks to international burlesque superstar, "The Asian Sexsation", Calamity Chang, from New York City. We find out how she got her start in one of the sexiest professions in the world.

Do you ever wonder why some of the most beautiful models and actors in the world have to reinvent themselves every few years to stay on top of their passions and interests and stay relevant in today's world of media moguls. Join us with Love and Relationship Expert, Erika Jordan, who started off as a Playboy model and then became an author, actress, media personality, and is now a leader in the field of Digital Romance and Online Dating as she shares her trade secrets from being Queen of the late-night TV to being a fitness trainer and health coach, to completing her Master's degree in Family Therapy.

As this crazy year comes to an end, Dublin's FM104 catches up with some previous guests from 2020 to find out how the pandemic has affected their lives. For us, they specifically wanted to know how Swingers have coped with lock-downs, masks and social distancing. Join us as we chat with Cormac Moore and Saoirse Long, hosts of Dublin's radio show, Room 104, in a sexy-fun discussion of how swinging has changed in 2020 and what the future holds for swinger couples, as we share our secrets on how we keep our relationship spicy and continue to live happy, healthy and horny.

PART 2 Do you consider yourself a sex-positive person? What makes you feel that way? Is it your open-minded attitude, your eagerness to explore your sexuality or your acceptance of other people's sexual expressions without judgement? Join us with Sexologist, Dr Valerie Poppel, from the Swann Center which is dedicated to healing relationships and sexual wellness, as we dive deep into her research all about the racial component of the swinging lifestyle, as we bust some myths about the BBC and the legend of Jezebel.

Do you consider yourself a sex-positive person? What makes you feel that way? Is it your open-minded attitude, your eagerness to explore your sexuality or your acceptance of other people's sexual expressions without judgement? Join us with Sexologist, Dr Valerie Poppel, from the Swann Center which is dedicated to healing relationships and sexual wellness, as we dive deep into her research all about the racial component of the swinging lifestyle, as we bust some myths about the BBC and the legend of Jezebel.

Is Covid-fatigue depleting your sex drive? Perhaps you're looking for new ways to nurture your eroticism, enhance your relationship and start feeling happy, healthy and horny again. Join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Cat Meyer, from SexLoveYoga.com, as we talk about how to move through this year 2020 into a new era where you can feel more positive, share more sexual pleasure and intimacy and reconnect with your body, through appreciation, gratitude and by creating spaciousness in your life to manifest change.

Are you looking for some expert advice about men's sexual health? Feeling broken somehow, and wondering if you will ever be able to have the great sex you used to have? Or perhaps you just want to discover more pleasure, last longer and feel confident in your own body. Join us with NY's top Urologist, Dr Jed Kaminetsky, from UniveryUrolgy.com, as we have an open discussion about men's sexual health needs, from resolving dysfunctional sex, to gaining confidence in the bedroom, to shedding guilt and shame and performance anxiety, and redefining great sex.

Carol and David's selected episode of the Talk Naked Podcast hosted by Laura Desiree. On this episode, Laura sits down with one of the most influential people in the adult industry, Holly Randall, whose work has appeared on the cover of every major American adult magazine. And that's only one of her amazing accomplishments! She discusses her incredible career and shares some amazing stories with Laura during a recent visit to Los Angeles.