The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you curious about why people blog about their sex lives, sharing their real-life stories with the world? Join us with Blogger and Podcaster, Layla London from The Curious Girl Diaries, as we dive deep into how she loves to share intimate details of her sex life -- from between the sheets, to her many first dates, to exploring in swing clubs, dungeons and beyond.

Have you ever considered how cannabis could affect your intimacy and your sex life by heightening your senses and boosting your confidence in the bedroom? Join us with Author and Sex Educator, Ashley Manta, who has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. Her recently published book, The CBD Solution: Sex, is the source of so much great information on how to create a more intimate and confident sex life.

Are you one of those people who is looking for the elusive Unicorn in The Lifestyle? What is so alluring? Is it the mystery, the rarity, or the fantasy? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resorts in Jamaica as we expose one of the Topless Travel hosts, Kolbi Karma, to find out how she went from being a stripper to a unicorn in the Lifestyle.

Have you ever been shamed for wanting to try BDSM or even learn more about BDSM? Perhaps your partner or a friend has told you that BDSM is just "not right". Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they open up a conversation with one of the pioneers of BDSM, award-winning sexologist, and femme-dom extraordinaire, Dr. Gloria Brame. They discuss the intriguing lifestyle of BDSM and get advice on how to utilize some of the principles of BDSM to help overcome a sexual rut and she even explains where you need to begin before you actually start the practice of BDSM.

Do you find your sex-life to be lack-luster, boring, repetitive, and predictable? Are you looking for new ways to change-it-up and spice-it-up? Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we dive deep into the importance of variety when it comes to sex. Whether you are interested in sharing fantasies, trying new sex toys, or opening-up your relationship to include others, Dr Stacy has the best advice on how to add some spark and fire-up your sex-life… tonight.

Are you wondering what it is like to join a Lifestyle-friendly party or travel event? Perhaps you are curious about hanging out in a sexually charged environment with lots of open-minded people? Join us on location from Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with Host Couple of Topless Travel signature events, Jessica and Justin, from My Frisky Business, as we talk about creating sexy-fun parties for swingers and other open-minded people… and how they integrate their sexy parties into their own sex lives. Getting together with compatible couples while on vacation creates life-long friendships and lots of great memories.

Are you looking for ways to increase your self-confidence, in and out of the bedroom? That's great, because we all know that self-confidence is one of the biggest sexual turn-ons. Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they engage in an honest conversation about self-confidence and celebrate real bodies. Because everyone struggles with parts of their bodies they don't like and we all have pre-conceived ideas in our heads about what we 'should' look like. By debunking some of those ideas, we could start to embrace our bodies instead of being ashamed of them.

Are you interested in learning more about how transgender folks have been struggling to be heard, and seen, for so many years? It's a topic that is quickly becoming a hot button debate. Join our good friend, Bobbi Bidochka, from Love and Sex with Robots, as she welcomes Transgender Porn Star, Buck Angel, onto our show to get his professional and personal opinion on various touchy topics like: responsible and healthy approaches to sex change, reducing the harmful impact of sexual shame, the sex lives of transgender and transsexuals, cannabis and sex, social media and cancel culture.

Have you ever experienced a sexy-fun vacation with open-minded people and made life-long friendships? Perhaps you are just looking to get away and explore your sexuality with your partner to strengthen your couple. Join us on location, on board the Bliss Cruise, with husband and wife team, Shelley and Joe, co-owners of Topless Travel, as we get into sharing sexy stories and details of Topless Travel vacations and events, from the Bliss Cruises, to Hedonism II in Jamaica, to Desire in Cancun and a whole lot more.

Have you ever considered a treatment that combines lifestyle medicine with hormone optimization, healthy-aging and cosmetic gynecology? It sounds like a mouthful, but it sure covers a lot ground for a population who want to stay sexually healthy and fit to fuck at any age Join us with Ob/Gyn, Dr Shyrlena Bogard, as we discuss her two specialties, Lifestyle Medicine and Sexual Health, and how we can keep ourselves happy, healthy and horny by eating well, keeping physically active, and managing our stress levels, our hormone levels, our sleep patterns and our relationships.

So ladies… do you have a hard time achieving that ultimate bliss of excitement that leaves your body screaming for more? A study found that 39% of women say that they can only orgasm through masturbation compared to only 6% of women who orgasm during penetration!!! Also, 20% of women say they don't orgasm at all. What's up with that? Join Stephanie & Fox with Sex Therapist, Cayte Castrillon, from Communicayte.com, as they discuss the troubling statistics of the "Orgasm Gap" between men and women, and what they can do to ensure great sex is had by all.

Are you still a little hesitant to explore ways to open-up your relationship? Perhaps you just need a little more credible information about how to live a Sexy Lifestyle that supports your couple style and also strengthens the great sex life you already have… Join us as we chat with Kae and Ben, a couple who are both medical doctors, who have been in the swinging lifestyle for over a decade and now are passionate about sharing all the information they have discovered to make your experience in the lifestyle positive and fulfilling.

Are you looking to party and travel with sexy-fun and open-minded people? Getting together with compatible couples while on vacation creates life-long friendships and lots of great memories. Join us with a sexy couple who are guests at Hedo for the very first time, as we discuss how they opened-up and began to explore their sexuality as they aged and especially when their kids were grown and on their own. Their first Hedo experience was the pinnacle of what they are looking forward to -- a healthy, spicy sex-life -- for the rest of their lives.

Are you feeling a little unsure about how to spice things up and get more out of your sex life? Perhaps you want to explore your kinky side but you're worried that your sexual desires are not in line with your personal morals and... What will people think? Join us with Author and Award-Winning Sexologist, Dr Gloria Brame, who is living proof that eroticism and intimacy can be harnessed for better health and emotional wellbeing. Whether it has to do with kink, solo play, polyamory, or other lifestyles, Dr Gloria's goal is to normalize alternative sexuality and help you find your true sexual identity and embrace it.

Have you ever considered what it would be like to have sex in space? With zero gravity, confined quarters, lack of resistance, and that messy clean-up… could it actually be as pleasurable as we would expect? Join us with Space Sexology Expert, Simon Dube, co-Chair of the International Congress on Love & Sex with Robots, as we discuss all aspects of how we can integrate sex research into the space programs. We get deep into his research on human sexuality, sextech and erobotics - the study of human-machine erotic interaction and co-evolution.

Are you titillated by the sexy scenes in "50 Shades of Grey"? Perhaps you are interested in pursuing a sex-life that includes Kink and BDSM, but you're worried about what happens when things go wrong. Join Stephanie and Fox with Dr Stefani Goerlich, from Bound Together Counseling, who literally wrote the book on Kink, as they get into discussing and identifying what BDSM and Kink look like compared to sexual assault. They get deep into the sexualization of kink and what to do when your power exchange scene doesn't go as planned.

Are you looking to open-up your couple and push your sexual boundaries while on vacation? Join us live at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as we chat with two open-minded ladies as they share their new experiences and how empowered they feel in this non-judgmental environment where respect and consent are paramount.

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough? Do you find yourself acting in a certain way in an attempt to be what those around you would find more 'loveable' --- even if those actions are not congruent with who you really are? Join us with Sexologist, Emy Tafelski, from Me-Therapy.com, who specializes in breaking down the walls that have stopped people from finding the love they so desperately need and deserve. Find out how you can live your authentic life with respect to sexual orientation, gender identity, lifestyle and sexuality in order to create meaningful relationships and connections with others.

Has your sex life changed since you turned 50? Are you longing to recreate that passion and lust for your partner that you had all those years ago when you first started dating? Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, with Sexologist, Dr. Laurie Betito, as they dive deep into discussions about passion versus sex, and find out how to ensure the viability of your relationship after the age of 50.

Are you excited… but also anxious about going to your next Swinger Lifestyle event? Perhaps, you are wondering how to best prepare your body and your mind for the marathon of fun waiting to unfold? Join Sexologist, Dr Cari Oneal, as she chats with Dr Julia Ward MD to exchange various chemistry hacks for lifestyle events – things that you can do, or take, that will support your body for all the social and sexual engagements you plan to have with your sexy-fun friends -- and how to stay on your feet so you don't miss out on anything! GUEST: Dr Cari Oneal BIO: Dr. Cari Oneal earned a PhD in Human Sexuality, is an EFT Practitioner, is certified as a Clinical Sexologist and Sex Coach. She has a private practice in Salt Lake City as a Sex and Relationship Positive Sexual Wellness Coach and sex educator. She is Co-organizer of Sex Positive Utah and hosts classes and workshops related to sexual wellness, sexual skill sets, and relationship dynamics. The emphasis of her work is sexual health, awareness, education, and coaching on sex-positive topics and behaviors. Dr Oneal takes great pride in helping you find and master YOU OWN authentic voice and behaviors for sex so that you'll feel confident about who you are and what you're Creating. Let's talk about what's got you stuck, traumas never dealt with, stories never told, and beliefs that keep you from being who you want to be. www.drcarioneal.com GUEST: Dr Julia Ward BIO: Dr. Julia Ward became interested in functional medicine when she was looking into bioidentical hormones for herself. She discovered that this newer approach to treating patients is much more holistic and healthy than the traditional disease-drug model we've become accustomed to. After treating patients for two decades as a primary-care physician, Dr. Ward recognized her patients' growing need for more holistic, more personalized, more attentive care as they aged. She recognized that many of their health complaints were rooted in hormonal imbalances, inflammatory diets, poor intestinal health, environmental toxicity and lifestyle-related problems. Many patients are also concerned about their appearance as they age, so Dr. Ward offers aesthetic services such as Botox® and Dysport®, fillers such as Voluma® and Restylane®, SkinPen® microneedling treatments, chemical peels and noninvasive laser fat reduction. Her goal is to give her patients healthier, more youthful looks because Dr. Ward loves helping people look and feel their best.

Are you looking for more intimacy in your relationship? Do you want to know how to create a loving, passionate and connected intimate life and marriage? Join us with Intimacy Coach, Debbie Marielle Elzea, as we discuss how to design the love life and the sex life of your dreams -- allowing you to enjoy a happier, sexier lifestyle with lots of great sex.

Have you ever had a heated conversation about porn -- where everyone has a different definition of good porn versus bad porn? Or perhaps, you were judged the minute you brought up the topic of porn. Why can't we talk openly about porn? Join us with Sexology Girl, Avril Louise Clark from Erika Lust's non-profit project, The Porn Conversation, which promotes ethical porn and is dedicated to increasing the availability of sex-positive educational tools for parents and educators to provide the younger generations with comprehensive sex education at home and in school.

Are you looking at your relationship and wondering if it continues to serve your need for love, excitement, and sexual exploration? Perhaps you are curious about the world of non-monogamy but you're not sure how 'open' you want to get. Join us with award-winning journalist, Rachel Krantz, who just released her new book, Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-monogamy, as she shares details of the journey she took with her partner, into the world of swinging and polyamory in search of a relationship style that provides a healthy level of love, intimacy and desire, for the both of them.

Are you struggling with ADHD in the bedroom? Perhaps your partner's ADHD is affecting your romance, intimacy and pleasure standards. Join us with Psychologist and Sex Therapist, Dr Ari Tuckman who specializes in diagnosing and treating people with ADHD, as we get into how ADHD can affect your sex life and romantic relationships and what you can do to help the situation so that you can enjoy great sex.

Have you considered opening-up your relationship... but are confused, nervous and a little scared about how to do it? Perhaps you've tried polyamory or open relationship and found it to be harder than you thought? Join us with The Open-Relationship Coach, Sumati Sparks, as we discuss how to figure out if you are suited for an open relationship and if so, where to meet other polyamorous and non-monogamous people. And if you are already in an open relationship that is not going as well as you wish, Sumati shares advice on how to go from suffering to satisfied. Jealousy, communication and how to ask for what you want… we cover it all.

Are you over 50 and stuck in the dating game, going in circles, with a never-ending source of disappointment? Perhaps you've already given-up hope on finding your next life partner? Join us with Carolyn Arnold, Author of "50 First Dates After 50", as she provides a whole new perspective on the dating challenge for people over 50. From an open-minded and spiritual platform, Carolyn embarked on a dating journey of self-discovery and self-love that uncovered her very own Mr Right. And she's been happy and horny ever since.

Men, do you watch, enjoy, and consume porn? Is your partner okay with your porn use or do they shame you for it? Have you been labelled a sex addict by loved ones or even a professional because of pornography use? And Ladies, do you see porn as cheating or wrong or do you watch it with your partner Join us with Sex Therapist, Dr David J Ley, as we discuss touchy topics that are quickly becoming hot button debates within society. Topics like, healthy and responsible approach to porn use and reducing the impact of sexual shame. And how to use porn as a healthy tool to encourage great sex.

Do you ever think that you might be too old for sex? Well, you'd better think again… With the right attitude and perhaps a few adjustments, no-one is too old for sex --- no matter how long they live! Join us with two amazing experts who know everything there is to know about sex and dating over 50. Sex Therapist, Dr Laurie Betito, author of "The Sex Bible for People Over 50", shares her insight and guidance on how to continue to enjoy and maintain a deeply satisfying sex life at any age. Sex Educator, Carolyn Arnold, Author of "50 First Dates After 50", learned a whole new approach to keeping her sex-life hot 'n horny year after year and she's not shy to tell us all about it.

Finally… The Bliss Cruise set sail again - after 3 consecutive cancelled sailings since April 2020, the lifestyle full-ship take-over of the Royal Caribbean's largest ship, Oasis of The Seas, was the long-awaited event of 2021 for a community anxious to get back into the swing of things. Join us with Sex and Intimacy Coach, Dr Cari Oneal and her husband, Tom, who were aboard the November 2021 Bliss Cruise, experiencing it for the very first time. While the event is still fresh in their minds, we get into all the details of their first-hand experiences in the playrooms, the deck parties, the sexy costume parades, sexuality workshops and their personal sexual journey, leading up to this main event. GUEST: Dr Cari Oneal BIO: Dr. Cari Oneal earned a PhD in Human Sexuality, is an EFT Practitioner, is certified as a Clinical Sexologist and Sex Coach. She has a private practice in Salt Lake City as a Sex and Relationship Positive Sexual Wellness Coach and sex educator. She is Co-organizer of Sex Positive Utah and hosts classes and workshops related to sexual wellness, sexual skill sets, and relationship dynamics. The emphasis of her work is sexual health, awareness, education, and coaching on sex-positive topics and behaviors. Dr Oneal takes great pride in helping you find and master YOU OWN authentic voice and behaviors for sex so that you'll feel confident about who you are and what you're Creating. Let's talk about what's got you stuck, traumas never dealt with, stories never told, and beliefs that keep you from being who you want to be. www.drcarioneal.com

Are you debating whether or not to leave your toxic relationship behind and start anew? Is your gut telling you, 'It's time to go!' -- but your brain is saying, 'things aren't so bad'? If you're worried about finding a new partner, getting back into the dating game and learning more about your authentic self, just know that you are not alone. And, there are a lot of great benefits in starting over. Join us with Divorcee, Sadie Marie, from Sadie's Divorced and Happy Podcast, as we discuss her sexy-fun experiences since getting divorced three years ago. She shares her light-hearted insights about being relentless in pursuing happiness for herself (and her family) through self-love and determination to finding out more about her inner Goddess, her desires and pleasure zones.

Are you looking to party and travel with sexy-fun and open-minded people? Well, that's what Topless Travel is all about. Getting together with compatible couples while on vacation creates life-long friendships and lots of great memories. Join us with Topless Travel's Premier Host Couple, Chelsea and Marc, as they share their stories about their jobs as hosts and facilitators, creating parties everywhere they go. Not only do they bring people together, they make everyone feel welcome and part of the group.

Are you in exploration mode? Looking for more ways to enhance your sexual pleasure and have more powerful orgasms? Perhaps you want to know more about how mutual butt play can add some extra spice to your sex life? Join us with Sex and Relationship Therapist, Author and Educator, Carlyle Jansen from Good For Her store in Toronto Canada, as we get down to the basics when it comes to anal sex and mastering female masturbation techniques.

With the celebrations of the 40th anniversary of Hedonism II upon us, we are diving deeper into the history of the world's most iconic adult playground. Join us with Howard, the guest who has spent the most days at Hedonism over the past 40 years, who has met every one of the General Managers and Executive Chefs, and, who has become one of Harry's most trusted friends and allies, as he strolls down memory lane, sharing stories about the resort, the staff, the community and of course about Harry himself.

Are you trying to figure out what's holding you back when it comes to talking about sex? Don't you wish it would be a lot easier if we could simply open-up and share our thoughts and ideas about sex and sexuality as freely as we do about other day-to-day topics? Join us with Sexuality and Gender Professor, Dr Janell Carroll, who wrote a college textbook about Human Sexuality which is used around the world, as we get into figuring out why our culture does not encourage talking about sex and sexuality and how that affects our intimate relationships. We also take a peek into the US perspective regarding sexual values, behaviors and attitudes compared to those seen around the world – and what changes we can make to create a better sex life and a stronger relationship.

Have you ever noticed that most porn flicks are filmed for the male gaze with little regard for female pleasure… as if the all the viewers are male? Do you think there's room for another point of view when it comes to pornography? Join us with Anna Richards, founder of Frolicme.com, an online erotic publishing house specializing in the creation of exclusive erotic adult entertainment for women, men and couples, as we get into the discussion of ethical porn and why it is important in our culture today.

Wouldn't it be great if all couples could focus on sexual pleasure instead of being stuck in the social constructs, myths and stereotypes of what married sex life is "supposed to be like"? Join us with Sex and Relationship Expert, Dr Megan Fleming, as we talk about how to get the monotony out of monogamy. From changing sex habits and reversing scripted sex patterns, to adding sexy playfulness to increase responsive desire, to simply adding 'sex talk' into your daily activities, Dr Megan shares lots of helpful tips to add spice back into your sex life and enjoy hot monogamy together.

Are you looking for more sexpert advice to help you open-up your mind and push your boundaries? Perhaps you have questions about how to get into the Swinging Lifestyle. Join us with Dr Laurie Betito, who has been a sex therapist for over 30 years, as she interviews us about the swinging lifestyle on her show, The Passion Podcast with Dr Laurie. We share our sexy story about how we fell into the lifestyle and explain the basics of swinging for newbies, as well as what to do if you are the jealous type. She also gives her advice to listeners' questions about penis size and incompatibility with respect to being an introvert/extrovert, masturbating and then she tops it all off with a fun segment about sex in the news.

Are you curious about the types of couples that visit Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica and how they became sexually adventurous and open about their sexuality? Do you want to hear more about their sexy fun trips? Join us with two amazing couples who have been to Hedo many times, as they share their stories about how they discovered the swinging lifestyle and how they learned to navigate their way with good communication, honesty, respect and consent. Their sexy Hedo stories demonstrate how their open-minded experiences strengthen their couple… and keep them coming back for more.

Have you ever felt l like you were circling the drain, getting deeper and deeper into the abyss, wondering how you could ever find the inner strength to pull yourself out? Join us with Jewels, Speaker and Author of The Making of a Woman: From the Inside Out, as she shares her true-life story about how she refused to bow down to the circumstances of her birth and fought to overcome the forces and the people who populated her life in a way that often crushes others.

Is your love life getting you down because you are finding it harder and harder to meet compatible partners? Have you noticed how technology, especially dating apps, has changed the playing field with respect to dating, love and relationships? Join us with America's Relationship Expert, Dr Wendy Walsh, as she puts her spin on dating, gender dynamics and models of love. If you want to know more about mothers, milfs and wives and why women have sex, then listen right to the end because the answers are found in the science of love!

Do you ever think that maybe you need to see a couples therapist? Even if your sex life is good, don't you think you deserve more? Wouldn't it be nice to have a better, stronger, more loving relationship? Join us with Speaker, Author, Couples Therapist and Researcher, Dr Sara Nasserzadeh, who wants to create world peace – one relationship at a time. She has a unique perspective on love, sexual chemistry, sexual harmony and jealousy. She is passionate about exploring how human connections lead to meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

Are you open-minded and curious about ways to expand your relationship and explore your sexuality but your deep-rooted insecurities are stopping you from going there? Join us in a round-table discussion with Sex Therapist and Sex Coach, Stephanie and Fox, as we discuss how shame-based sex education and cultural constructs can create guilt and insecurities surrounding sex and sexuality and how we CAN overcome them with a strong, loving partner in a safe and non-judgmental environment like Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica.

Don't you wish you had a Sex and Relationship Expert available to you while on campus during your university years to help navigate the ins-and-outs of your early sexual experiences that impacted your attitude towards sex, sexuality, body image and shame? Join us with Sexologist Dr Megan Stubbs, author of Playing Without a Partner: A Single's Guide To Sex, Dating, And Happiness, as we discuss the importance of normalizing sexuality and sexual behavior, especially amongst college students who are at a very impressionable age. We also get into how sex education at any age should be fun and light-hearted.

Do you ever fantasize about what you might do if presented with hand cuffs, blind folds, feather ticklers, ice cubes or hot wax? What about your partner, would they be into it too? Perhaps you want to find out more about the kinky lifestyle? Join us with Sex Therapist and Sexuality Professor, Dr Hernando Chaves who specializes in alternative lifestyles including, BDSM, kink and fetishes, as we talk about exploring ways to live a more authentic and enjoyable sexual lifestyle, free of guilt, shame and self-judgment.

Are you curious about squirting orgasms? Wondering if they are real, only pee or just for porn stars. This mythological fluid, often referred to as "amrita", nectar of the Gods, is a popular topic of discussion for people in The Lifestyle, and anyone who is open to exploring their sexuality. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Cari Oneal, who is a Sex and Intimacy Coach, specializing in couples who are in the Lifestyle or who want to get into the Lifestyle. She is an expert on Squirting Orgasms, and she takes us through some of the common myths related to squirting, as she explains female arousal and how every vulva-owner can squirt if they want to learn how.

Are you looking for new ways to explore and share your fantasies with your partner? Perhaps you find it hard because you feel shy or ashamed of how much you want to try new sexual adventures with your partner and with other people too? Do you have difficulty opening-up the conversation and talking about your wants and needs for better sex? Join us with a sexy-fun couple at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we talk about their experiences with opening-up and pushing their boundaries to discover new and exciting ways to incorporate her bisexuality and his desire to keep her satisfied and fulfilled. We get deep into orgasms, orgies and anal play and why they love going to Hedonism II Resort so much.

Are you have trouble asking for what you want in bed? Perhaps you're feeling insecure about the moans and groans that naturally occur during sex. What about after the fact - do you ever discuss how good or how bad or how to improve your sexual pleasure? Join us as we participate in a Sexpert Panel Discussion moderated by Dr. Ava Cadell from LoveUniv.com, all about Intimate Communication – Before, During and After Sex, together with 5 other Sexperts in this field: Dr. Emily Morse, Dr. Shannon Chavez, Dr. Megan Stubbs, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Dr. Hernando Chaves.

Are you looking for more playful passion in the bedroom? Perhaps you are you struggling with your sexual confidence and feeling ineffective between the sheets. Join us with Erotic Massage Coach, Lee Jagger, from Rock the Bedroom, as we learn all about the 69 different ways to make a happy ending even happier. We get into how showing-up as a compassionate lover can make all the difference. From manual manipulation techniques that tease the pleasure centers, to taking control of your sexy play time, we cover it all.

Are you wondering what it would be like to stay at a swinger's resort like Hedonism II for three months… during a global pandemic… and not catch COVID-19? So many people have asked us that very question. Join us with other long term Hedo guests, Coco and Mark, back in our studio, as we talk about our extraordinary trips to Hedo II. We cover everything from David's birthday celebrations to The Super Bowl and three different resort weddings, to the low days and the high days, to the play dates and of course, the departure COVID tests. This was truly an experience of a lifetime and will be remembered forever as part of the unprecedented events of the global pandemic of 2020-2021.

So many people are curious about how couples get into the lifestyle and open-up their relationships to share their partners with other sexy couples. Well, you know how much we love telling our story of how we discovered the swinging lifestyle and never looked back! Join us as guests on Playmate Pick-up Podcast, hosted by the amazing Erika Jordan, media personality and relationship expert, as we share ALL – from our first swinger experience and squirting orgasms, to rules and etiquette, to jealousy and compersion. It all begins with open and honest communication so that you can push your boundaries and fulfill your fantasies in order to strengthen your couple.