The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you aware of the pleasure gap between men and women? Wondering why men have orgasms almost every time they have sex and yet women don't? Ladies!! If you are not experiencing mind-blowing, body-rippling, can't-help-screaming-out-loud orgasms, then you need to listen to this episode… and take notes. Join us with Dr Laurie Mintz, Author of "Becoming Clitorate", as we discuss why Orgasm Equality matters – and how we get it.

Are you suffering from symptoms of menopause? Wondering if cannabis can help with some relief? Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she chats with Sex Therapist, Dr. Shannon Chavez all about the fascinating world of menopause and cannabis. Discover how cannabis can offer relief from the unique challenges that menopause brings, from hot flashes to sexual health. Dr. Chavez combines her expertise in sexuality and cannabis to shed light on the potential benefits, risks, and best practices cannabis, offering valuable insights for those navigating the transformative journey of menopause.

Have you ever wondered why some relationships feel shallow and lacking in depth, while others bring us a profound sense of belonging and understanding? Do you want to learn how to cultivate deeper connections and experience greater joy in your relationships? If your answer is yes, then you're in the right place! Join Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy with Intimacy Expert, Beth Darling, as they get into the different types of intimacy! Intimacy goes far beyond the realm of romance, and it touches every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our relationship with ourselves, our friends, or even our coworkers, understanding the different ways we connect and build meaningful bonds opens up endless possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment. If this resonates with you, stay tuned as we dive into the 5 kinds of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to creating deeply fulfilling connections that will transform your life.

Are you looking for ways to have better sex, longer sessions at more frequency intervals? If you're huffing and puffing during sex, with sweat dripping off your forehead, you may already know that you need to improve your cardio game. But, that's always easier said than done. Join us with Fitness Experts, April and Scott, from Naughty Gym as we talk about the best ways to get "fit to fuck" even if you've never jogged a mile in your life. If you want your body to continue to be an amazing source of pleasure, you have to provide the care and feeding required to maintain and nourish your body. It's that simple! You may be surprised to find out how small changes can go a long way to improving your sex life when you're motivated by pleasure.

Are you curious about what happens behind the scenes of a lifestyle vacation through the eyes of the organizers and host couples? Perhaps you want to know how they contribute to the wellbeing of their group and help make your trip the most erotic sexy vacation ever. Join us with host couple, Jessica and Justin, from My Frisky Business as we review the background details of their most recent Topless Travel event at Hedonism II in Jamaica. We cover everything from the role of the host couple, to playroom etiquette and the dos and don'ts for first timers through their personal experiences and sexy-fun stories. You'll begin to understand why traveling with a group has its advantages, even if they have been to the resort before.

Are you curious about the future of sex and the role of SexTech in our lives today and the decades to come? Can you imagine a world where people will have real relationships with robots including companionship and sex? Join us with Bobbi Bidochka, co-chair of Love & Sex with Robots, as we discuss her upcoming Academic Conference, Reimagine Sexuality. In our round-table discussion we review some of the topics that her expert presenters will be covering in the conference and share our opinions on why those topics are vital to our growth and understanding about human sexuality, and how SexTech and AI will revolutionize our sexual experiences and change our perceptions about sex and sexuality forever.

Are you curious about how cannabis can be used to enhance our understanding of ourselves and the world around us, revealing some of its profound benefits for embodiment, presence, and attunement. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual and Relationship Coach, Dr Charlie Glickman, as they delve into the world of cannabis embark on a transformative journey, exploring the ancient wisdom and modern science behind this remarkable plant's ability to heighten our sensory perception, connect us with the present moment, and deepen our self-awareness like never before. Through intimate conversations with experts and personal testimonials, we unravel the secrets of how cannabis unlocks the gates of mindfulness and allows individuals to explore their bodies in ways they never thought possible. From this we venture into a topic often shrouded in taboo: the surprising benefits of cannabis for anal play. Brace yourself for an open and honest discussion, shedding light on how cannabis can play a role in elevating prostate stimulation (and so many other things!) Join Beducated.com, the #1 online platform for sexual health and happiness, and save 40% off the annual membership with coupon code: SEXYLIFESTYLE Click this link NOW: https://beducate.me/pd2329-sexylifestyle

Are you curious about ethical porn and what they do differently during the shooting process in order to get the different perspective of pornographic scenes that they are aiming for? Perhaps you are looking for a more female centric porn style for your own sexual entertainment. Join us with Sexology Girl, Avril Louise Clarke, the Intimacy Coordinator for Erika Lust Films, as we get a behind the scenes look into the filming of ethical porn, from how to stay hard and premature ejaculation, to condom rules, squirting and prepping for anal sex. We cover it all!

Have you ever wondered what makes people want to open-up their marriage? Perhaps you are having discussions about how you too can get on the band wagon of having consensual sex with other compatible singles and couples. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Holy Richmond, as we get into our favorite topics, open relationships, consensual non-monogamy and polyamory. We talk about why people are opening-up more today than ever before. And, Dr Holy reveals some of her best tips and tricks to help couples open-up their relationships successfully and ensure their primary relationship stays solid while their connection grows with extracurricular sexual experiences they fantasize about.

Are you and your partner interested in joining The Sexy Lifestyle community, but you don't know where to begin or how to integrate yourselves? Perhaps you've been invited to a travel event, and you are looking for more information about what you can expect. Join us with Party Organizers, Shannon and Frank, from Pussycat Parties, as they share their advice on how 'sexy travel newbies' can feel comfortable exploring their own sexuality within a group of open-minded folks, whether or not they want to share their partners, be exhibitionists or simply watch the sexy fun as voyeurs. We cover the most common dos and don'ts that help couples enjoy their first experience at a lifestyle resort with guidelines that will translate into sexy fun and lasting friendships.

Do you feel shame and embarrassment around masturbation? Are you having difficulties talking about masturbation with your partner or even your friends? Well, you're not alone. Most of us are taught to experience sexual pleasure in "stealth mode" – as quickly and silently as possible. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she talks with Sex and Relationship Writer, Ryn Pfeuffer, discussing how cannabis can be a powerful ally in shedding shame and feeling more present and embodied, especially for those who feel self-conscious about their bodies and their pleasure. By the end of the episode you'll understand the legacy of feminist icon, Dr. Betty Dodson, how to incorporate cannabis into your masturbation practices, and feel more comfortable using allies like toys and lube to enhance your experience.

Are you still intrigued by the kinkiness of Fifty Shades of Grey? Perhaps you are looking for more credible information about the kink and BDSM lifestyle? Join us with Film Producer, Todd "Max" Carey, as we dive deep into his newest documentary, "Touch Kink" which provides a glimpse into the real world of the Dominatrix, the Sub, the Slave, and the Newbie. This film provides an honest reflection of a community that is widely misunderstood, judged and shamed for their practices, and presents a candid point of view for those who are genuinely intrigued to open up discussions about kink, and ask questions like: "Would we? Could we? Should we?"

Are you questioning the security of your long-term, sexual relationship? Is it currently lacking luster and excitement, causing you to worry that your partnership is in peril? If only we could learn how to have open dialogue about maintaining deep and meaningful connections with our lovers. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we broach the subject of how to maintain our sexual relationships to ensure stability and viability over time, to overcome the waning "honeymoon phase" where the sexual chemistry is at its peak, and ramp up the "couple phase" to include more connected sex, as we bond and learn to honor and cherish each other, as we move towards true love.

Do you consider yourself open-minded enough to mingle with a swinger group… without judgment? Perhaps you're curious about The Lifestyle and want to watch vicariously from afar? Join us from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with two of the on-board entertainment groups, KINGS OF QUEEN, a popular Queen cover band, and SAVANNAH JACK, who performed on the Bliss Cruise to a standing-room-only, sexy, open-minded crowd… and crushed it! After their work was done, they got to experience the Bliss Cruise at its most decadent best… for the rest of the week, and they had lots to say about it.

Do you struggle with sexual communication? Are you interested in exploring your sexual desires safely with your partner but are unsure where to begin? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she interviews Jack Polo, creator of Triple X Playground, the "Best Adult Sex Game Ever!" ™. TXP has created a naughty adult playground where "You Set the Environment, We Take It There" ™. This holistic tool is designed to help couples with those unfulfilled moments waiting to be unleashed, by providing the most exciting fantasies to reach the highest levels of climax while bridging the gap of communication, building trust, and creating stronger bonds in any adult relationship free of judgment and awkwardness.

Are you curious but squeamish when it comes to anal play? Perhaps you're afraid that it might hurt, or that you might hurt your partner. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual, together with award winning author and sex educator, Tristan Taormino, the 'Anal Queen' herself, as they discuss how cannabis can be an incredible ally when it comes to reducing discomfort that might arise during anal play. Its analgesic properties can help calm the nerves, making the whole experience more enjoyable and stress-free. You will find out how communication and consent are key when exploring any new territory, especially when it comes to anal play, and how cannabis can help you embark on a journey of pleasure, intimacy, and exploration like never before.

Is consensual non-monogamy a lifestyle that you find perplexing? Are you confused about the terminology and the nuances of various styles of sexual expression that include other people and other couples? Join us with Dr Edward Fernandes, aka Dr Ziggy, researcher and expert on Ethical Non-Monogamy, as we tackle the history and evolution of swinging, open relationships and polyamory. The differences and similarities of the various alternative sexual lifestyles are as intriguing as the reasons why people have consensual extra-marital sex and relationships, according to the research.

Have you ever considered having a nip 'n tuck procedure to enhance your body or restore it to its former shape? Perhaps you're done with your baby-making years and you want your old body back. Do your sagging boobs and pouchy tummy make you feel less sexy in bed? Join us with Dr Karl Schwartz, from Clinique K, talking about the Mommy-Make-over and other cosmetic procedures designed to restore and enhance the body as an important step in the journey towards self-confidence and psychological well-being and a better, more substantial sex life --- creating the kind of beauty on the outside that serves as a pillar for developing inner beauty and sexual empowerment.

Are you curious about how couples get into the swinging lifestyle? As much as we have shared various personal stories on our show explaining parts of our sexual exploration journey, we always welcome new questions with different points of view that might bring to light new aspects of how we navigate the swinging lifestyle together. Join us with Podcast Host, Sumati Sparks, a highly compassionate and spiritual Relationship Coach specializing in creating successful open relationships, as we answer all her questions about our swinging sex lives on her podcast. We openly talk about how we discovered the Swinging Lifestyle and how we pushed our sexual boundaries to be the sexiest versions of ourselves. We reveal our private stories about masturbation, orgasms, squirting, fantasies, and our favorite sex toys. This is one of those episodes where you need to listen to the end.

Are you interested in going back to school… on a cruise ship? How about taking sex-ed classes on the Bliss Cruise? If knowledge brings power, then learning more about intimacy must bring more sexual pleasure, and a stronger, more secure relationship. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Stephanie, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as we find out all about her most recent voyage with Topless Travel on The Bliss Cruise doing her workshops and play-shops to another sold-out audience of open-minded people ready to explore their sexuality. There's no better place for couples to learn together and practice their new skills while on vacation with other sexy couples on the high seas.

Do you ever wonder how cannabis impacts sexual creativity --- can it translate into better sex? Join our guest host, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual together with her DaddyDom as they share their favorite ways to use cannabis to enhance sexual creativity. They dive deep into all the ways it can help with improving role play and dirty talk, and inspire new ways to revamp bedroom and other erotic spaces, explore tantric and energetic play from a distance, and even create music or art, with a sexy twist!

Are you impressed by people who look fitter and healthier than their biological age? Perhaps you believe, as we do, that sixty is the new fifty? Join us with April and Scott from NaughtyGym.com as they reveal their secret to the fountain of youth --and it has as much to do with attitude as it does to hard work and discipline. We compare our mantra of happy, healthy and horny to their three pillars: look your best, feel your best and play your best. We find out all about their upcoming Naughty Gym week at Hedonism II, January 6-13, 2024, where they share their sexy-fun ways to stay 'fit to fuck' as we age. Go to www.naughtygym.com to book your trip right now. We'll see you there!

Are you seeking a magical, mystical unicorn for your couple play? As the world's rarest natural phenomenon, swingers everywhere celebrate unicorns as sexy companions for making threesomes and other fantasies come true. Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we chat with, not one, but three Sexy Unicorns, Amber, Megan and Kairee, as they share their journeys and personal stories about the sexy fun adventures they've experienced over the years. And find out how Amber lost her voice in the dungeon last night, leaving her with a sexy rasp and a brand new sexy story.

Do you sometimes feel uncomfortable in your relationship or in the bedroom. Does fear, shame or embarrassment ever get in the way of your pleasure? Do you retreat emotionally or lash out when those feelings show up? Join us with Sex Coach and Intimacy Speaker, Dr Jenn Gunsaullus, from DrJennsDen.com, as we dive deep into the hot topic of emotional agility, which uses mindfulness and communication skills to help work through the discomfort, instead of retreating, ignoring or making jokes about the situation. Dealing with these emotions in a mature and healthy manner helps build stronger and sexier relationships.

Have you ever been curious about how cannabis can improve your intimacy and your sexual health and wellness? Join Cannasexual's Founder, Ashley Manta together with Dr Shannon Chavez, as they share their sex and cannabis origin stories and the specific sexual health benefits that drew them to this powerful plant. Ashley discusses how she overcame pain with penetration and Dr Shannon talks about her life with endometriosis and how cannabis has become a vital ally in her sexual wellness.

Do you ever fantasize about being in the middle of an orgy with sexy couples all around you, swapping and playing together? Perhaps, like Carol, you'd like to find yourself as the "queen bee", at the bottom of the pile while everyone is 'doing you'? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with Topless Travel, as we chat with one of their host couples, Orgy Girl and her husband, all about how much fun it is to be caught up in the erotic environment of a multi-couple orgy, and find out all the best ways to organize an orgy successfully, with full consent, respect and great communication?

Are you dealing with the effects of sexual trauma and body shaming? Do you feel stuck and afraid to venture too far into the realm of sexuality, trying not to trigger those unwanted memories? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as we chat with a couple of first-timers who have been able to overcome some of their obstacles, building confidence and self-esteem as their week progressed, allowing them to experience a sexual awakening of sorts. By pushing boundaries and supporting each other, they are able to journey into a wider realm of sexual openness. Everyone loves a transformation story. This one is so heart-warming; you will feel their joy as they recount their amazing week of self-discovery.

Did you know that being a "people-pleaser" can affect your performance in bed? If you, or your partner are people-pleasers, you may be missing out on a mutually great sex life. Join us with Sex Educator and Sex & Relationship Writer, Ella Dorval Hall as we dive deep into the effects of being a people-pleaser – especially in the bedroom. We also find out more about the relationship between libido, desire, and arousal and we get a better understanding of how to deal with guilt and shame around sex.

Are you looking for a new fun and sexy way to spice up your sex life? If you are adventurous, we've got a great activity to share with you, where you get to slip 'n slide together. Join us with Tania Semper, the owner and founder of Nuru Play, which is a gel used for intimate body massage, as we share our erotic experience with her slippery product, and she shares how the ancient Japanese techniques of Nuru body massage can help couples connect physically and viscerally with a full body contact massage.

Have you ever considered taking cannabis products before your sexual encounters to heighten your senses and boost your confidence in the bedroom? Join us with Author and Sex Educator, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual®, as we chat specifically about the types of conversations you need to have with your partner before and after your sexual experience with cannabis so that you can create an incredibly sensory experience together and ultimately enjoy more great sex.

How many times have you considered booking a trip to a resort that allows the freedom of nudity and sexuality while vacationing on a beautiful beach… but somehow, you can't find the courage to go. Join us on location with Harry Lange, the Chairman of Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as we talk about how the resort has changed over the past 10 years since Harry bought it, and how the guests keep coming again and again because of the openness, the freedom to express our sexuality in the most relaxed, non-pressure environment, reminding us that we all need to explore our passions and create connections within ourselves and our partners.

Have you ever had a date that turned out all wrong because you had certain expectations that simply missed the mark in real time? Perhaps the person or couple you met online didn't look the same in real life or their vibe was not compatible. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we discuss difficult social situations, like first dates, fulfilling fantasies or trying out new sexual partners, that have gone awry because of pre-conceived ideas and expectations that were somehow misrepresented. And then the big questions is… how do we politely say "no" and get ourselves out of the awkward situation as quickly as possible.

Do you ever wonder how open-minded people learn their skills and continue exploring their sexuality as they navigate their sex lives within the alternative non-monogamous lifestyle? Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, together with Sexologist, Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as we find out all about her first experience doing workshops and play-shops on The Bliss Cruise to a sold-out audience hungry to learn more about expanding their sexual relationships in order to continue to enjoy great sex together.

Ladies! Are you hesitant to start up difficult conversations about your relationship? Do you feel uncomfortable being totally naked in front of your new partner? Are you lacking the confidence to openly carry a tampon to the restroom in public? If you answered YES to any these questions, you are not alone. You are one of many women who are feeling the effects of "sexual madness". Join us with Dr Jenn Gunsaullus from Dr Jenn's Den, as we discuss her new book: From Madness to Mindfulness, where she guides women to empower themselves to transition out of a state of sexual madness and into a state of sexual mindfulness. A state in which women can give themselves permission to feel more worthy of love and great sex… and then have it!

Do you ever find yourself frustrated by your partner's unwillingness to receive pleasure unconditionally? Does this make you feel like you're not as good a lover as you thought you were? Join us with Sex Educator, Amy Baldwin, from the Shameless Sex Podcast as she shares some of her hot tips on pussy/penis praising and pleasuring with touch techniques, as well as some supportive phrases that will help your partner relax and get into receiving pleasure without shame or pressure. This might be just the advice you've been waiting for.

Are you looking for sexy parties catered specifically to open-minded folks? Perhaps you feel more comfortable exploring the lifestyle with a group of compatible people. Join us with Shannon and Frank, owners of Pussy Cat Parties travel group, as they share their insight into the open-minded and swinger lifestyle as party organizers and host couples – whether at the lifestyle resorts or on the Bliss Cruise, you'll want to join in the fun.

Have you ever questioned whether your sexual behavior is a problem that needs professional help? Is your preoccupation with sex affecting your life or your livelihood and causing feelings of shame, pain and self-loathing? Join us with Hollywood Sex Addict, Dan Harary, Author of Carrots, a chronicle of Dan's lifelong struggles with his desire for alluring women, while overcoming crippling shyness, depression, and a powerful sex addiction, as we talk about his real-life experiences with many, many gorgeous women that all turn into a series of "really bad dates", and how he managed his successful Hollywood career amid all those challenges.

Do you ever wonder how couples fall into the swinging lifestyle? Does it happen organically or is it mapped out and executed with a plan? Join us on board The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel for our 6th anniversary show, chatting with 3 lifestyle couples as they share their stories, journeys and experiences exploring their sexuality and their sex lives to find out what works best for them.

Are you looking for a more intimate connection with your partner? Perhaps you're feeling empowered to create your own sexy lifestyle full of happiness, passion, and love. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Educator, Dr Ava Cadell, from Loveology University and Loveology Retreat, as we talk about the benefits of physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, and sexual wellness; and how healthy relationships and emotional intimacy are at the core of true happiness and a life full of joy… Live Happy, Healthy and Horny!

Are you still wondering what squirting is all about? It seems to be a hot topic but so few people can actually explain what squirting is and where it comes from. Join us with Dr Valerie Poppel from The Swann Center, as we dive deep into the details of what, where and why squirt happens... so that we all can better understand and demystify the wonderful, sweet nectar of female ejaculation.

Have you decided to open up your relationship with your primary partner but you don't know where to start? Are you wondering what it means to be "in the lifestyle"? Join Dr Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve your Intimacy Podcast, as they take you through the various aspects of ethical non-monogamy and all the related pros and cons, ups and downs, and relationship dynamics that will help you decide if the lifestyle is right for you. From communication skills to relationship contracts, they get into the harder conversations that you need to have with your partner in order to be successful in the lifestyle or simply enjoy exploring your sexuality together.

Do you feel safe being your true authentic self? Perhaps you are you constantly covering up fear, shame, grief and trauma causing a negative impact on your sexuality. Join us with Energy Healer, Greg Weiting, Founder of PRISMA, the framework which overlays trauma, neuroscience, and energy medicine with somatic and mindfulness-based practices, as we uncover ways to calm the cardiovascular system to flush out sexual trauma, to access a deeper sense of presence during sex and to reconnect with your partner in a more balanced state of mind.

Are you longing for relationship that starts off strong and get more intimate and exciting over time? Perhaps you wish you could communicate in a mature and emotionally-connected way with your partner. Join us with Relationship Coach, Shana James, Author of "Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Connection and Keep Relationships Alive", as we discuss her new book that sheds light on how honesty creates closeness and how mature communication creates intimacy. She offers great tips on how to develop a more sexually-satisfying relationship through deep honest discussions.

Does size matter? is probably the most asked question men have inquired about since the dawn of time. As a proud owner of a penis, most men want to share it, show it, and otherwise let people know how endowed they are. But, there are so many other, more important questions to ask about. Like: how to keep it healthy as we age? Join us with Urologist, Dr Andrew Steinberg as we dive deep into the male pleasure center, discussing everything from erections to prostate function and treatments, from the perspective of aging well.

Have you ever wondered how swingers evolve in their lifestyle. How do they keep things fresh and new and exciting? Of course, travel and sexy vacations always add passion, novelty and fun into any relationship, but what about the sex? Join us on location at Desire Pearl with Topless Travel, as we chat with a seasoned swinger couple who have found their way to spice up their sex life and continue to explore their sexuality with other open-minded people. We find out how their evolving lifestyle experiences continue to bring them closer together as a couple and strengthen their relationship.

Are you concerned about the sexual health of a potential sex partner but find it too uncomfortable to ask the right questions at the right time? Perhaps you want to warn a new partner about your STD but you're too ashamed to admit it. Join Dr Stephanie and Fox from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they chat with Sexual Health Expert, Dr Evelin Dacker, all about destigmatizing STIs, consent and sexual communication. They also get into how to live a sex positive lifestyle and how talk to your partner about your needs and wants.

Are you still mystified about the incredibly versatile vagina and vulva? Are you open to discovering more about how the female pleasure center works? Join us with Dr Gabrielle Landry from ELNA's Sexual Wellness Center, who has trained in Paris in vulvovaginal dermatology, as we get into discussing everything to do with the vulva and the vagina from anatomy and function, to aging and pleasure perspectives.

Are you worried about how your relationship will change when you retire? Is your sex life going to get boring or better? Join us on location at Desire Pearl in Mexico with Topless Travel's Sexy Silver Group as we chat with a long time swinger couple all about how they adapted their lifestyle relationship when they retired from their full time jobs.

Are you looking for a new swinger's club to try out while on vacation in London England? Join us with The Surrey MILF, who has been a regular at Le Boudoir Club since they opened. She hosts their Naughty List nights and frankly is part of the Le Boudoir Club family. She also has a higher pain threshold than any woman alive and loves to be flogged and fisted! We find out more about the only Swinger's Club in downtown London where we had a chance to experience Le Boudoir Club first-hand after the Barcelona Bliss Cruise in June where we had an amazing fun and sexy time.

Are you still keen on trying out kinky sex based on the movies you've seen, like, 50 Shades of Grey and 365? Just remember that these movies aren't actually showing the reality of kink. Some types of kinky sex can actually be extremely dangerous if not done correctly. Join, Dr Stephanie and Fox from Evolving Your Intimacy, as they talk with Kink Expert, Dr Eli Sheff, all about what happens when kinky sex goes wrong and the consequences of legal prosecutions regarding issues of consent, age, play style and even death due to kinky play. They get into the importance of education concerning different toys, contraptions, communication, and other things that people in the BDSM world put into practice in order to protect themselves so that they can enjoy their kinky lifestyle with safety.