The New Man

Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.

A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.

Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?

Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.

Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.

The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.

Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.

Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for finding power, freedom, and playing your own game.

Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.

Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.

Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity.

Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? With Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments.

Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get knocked down, and the danger of getting your hopes up.

Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire

Part 2 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program.

Why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. An intro to Tripp Lanier's Authority Group Coaching program.

Mike Kelly Member Vault Founder discusses moving from a job to starting his own company, creating your own opportunities, having ballsy conversations, and how to stop “hiding out” professionally. - https://membervault.co

Family problems? Do “normal” families even exist? What can you do to stay in your power? Discussion with Eric Maisel PhD author of Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation. - https://ericmaisel.com

Joe De Sena Spartan Race CEO and author discusses grit, obstacle immunity, hacking, business success, and how to be tough as hell.

Akshay Nanavati discusses: tips for turning fear into power, PTSD, addiction, ultra-marathons, the Marines, and finding bliss thru fear aka Fearvana.

JP Sears How to Be Ultra Spiritual — Why you should get offended; Comedy; Sex, Tantra and Acro-Yoga; Finding a sense of purpose; Neediness; Spiritual Gurus.

Jaimal Yogis (All Our Waves Are Water) discusses why the 4 Hour Workweek Lifestyle is unfulfilling, Buddhism, escaping life’s problems, and comparing ourselves to others.

Alyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship.

Is anger management a bunch of BS? How can anger make us more powerful? Discussed: Anger vs aggression, Robert Augustus Masters, Equine Therapy

Shane Ramer from Sober Guy Radio shares his hero’s journey through addiction to recovery. Plus: mindset, living for something bigger than your ego

Robert Kandell created One Taste with Nicole Daedone. Discussed: How the company was devouring his life, how he dealt with doubt/uncertainty, and how he learned from personal and professional mistakes.

Tripp Lanier talks about how to overcome anxiety and move into power. Learn how to master dynamic tension, defeat powerlessness, and go all in.

Tripp Lanier talks about overcoming the fear of rejection and encourages you to stop avoiding NO so you can play at a higher level and feel more alive.

Tripp Lanier talks about how to grow your business by taking the focus away from trying to be ‘liked’ and instead focus on serving others.

Joseph Campbell's quote ‘Follow Your Bliss’, how it relates to making money, and how it doesn’t guarantee you won’t have challenges.

How ego is the enemy, how it shows up in self-deprecation and has you play small, and why you might be a jerk if you’re hiding out waiting to do good work.

Tripp Lanier talks about his experience with David Lee Roth at a strip club. Tips for how to get more energy, passion back into your life.

How to get out of your comfort zone and stop tolerating a life you don’t want. Tips to step out of your comfort zone and into uncertainty.

Tripp Lanier talks about learning how to sell yourself by taking responsibility to master your elevator pitch and tell your story so you can create cool opportunities.

Tripp Lanier talks the drama triangle, how to avoid drama and the time he wanted to have a 3-way on his honeymoon without his wife.

Tripp Lanier talks about the growth mindset, learning as a key to growth, and why you need a montage to achieve your goals

Don Miguel Ruiz Jr: Mastery of Self, how to stop taking things personally, personal power, scarcity mindset, and how men become domesticated.

Learn how to be a badass from Bruce Lee as Tripp Lanier talks about Bruce Lee philosophy and why being a badass requires you to be a whole person.

Stealing Fire Jamie Wheal discusses flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, Navy SEALs using altered states to accelerate learning

Eric Davis Habits of Heroes: Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor discusses the trap of manliness, why most guys have no clue about strength, and what makes men weak.

Kamal Ravikant Rebirth: How to face your fears, forgive, use death as a motivator, stay out of victim mindset, and walk the Camino de Santiago.

Optimize Your Mood. What’s really causing your lousy moods? Dr Will Van Derveer helps us understand what the brain needs so you can feel amazing. Also: MDMA being used to treat PTSD.

Women and Sexual Harassment with Jeanine Becker. How to be an ally to women at work. When can you tell her a dirty joke without losing your job?

Mark Manson author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F discusses why it’s better to be average, entitlement, bad values vs good values, and trying to avoid negativity.

Daniel Priestley on being a Key Person of Influence, why personal growth won’t make you more money, and why self deprecation is another ego-trip.

Eric Davis Navy SEAL Sniper discusses Raising Men, lessons learned from SEAL training and taught to our sons and daughters.

Bill Shireman of Future 500 discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, being played by political polarization, and institutions demonizing one another.