The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

Marriage was never meant to be lived alone — and neither was faith. In this week's Marriage Minute, Dave Willis reminds us that the Christian life is built on community: encouraging one another, praying for one another, and doing life together. And it all starts with you and your spouse. Tune in for this quick dose of encouragement, then come back Monday for the full episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast! Learn more at http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Being strong for your spouse doesn't mean saving them. It means standing beside them through everything. Listener question: My wife neve wants to do anything around the house. I'm the one who makes all the income and I feel like she expects me to do most of the housework too. I feel like I don't have a partner. What do I do? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Financial unity is about shared access, shared decisions, and shared responsibility. Listener question: We are saving money for a house and living temporarily with my parents. My husband hates this living arrangement and it's starting to take a toll on our marriage. What should we do? Submit your questions to Dave & Ashley: http://nakedmarriagepodcast.com Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A naked marriage leaves no topic off-limits, including sex and desire. Listener question: My wife never wants to have sex. She says she doesn't need it. Can a sexless marriage survive? What can I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Order Dave & Ashley's book, The Counterfeit Climax: https://a.co/d/09PS3KOF Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Family relationships can be a blessing, but they can also quietly strain a marriage. Listener question: My husband has a fetish and only wants to make love if I'm wearing certain items. What should I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. ‍ Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. ‍ The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many couples want the same things but don't know how to communicate it without creating distance. Listener question: I'm feeling attracted to one of my husband's friends. I hate that I have this attraction. What should I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Learn more about Dave & Ashley at http://daveandashley.com ---- Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. ‍ The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's not about changing your spouse but about choosing honesty, humility, and care that helps each of you be at your best. Listener question: My husband has been having an affair and still reaches out to the other woman. What do I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dave and Ashley are joined by XO Marriage founder Jimmy Evans, who shares his own story of believing he married the wrong person and what ultimately changed his marriage. Listener question: My wife's brother is always asking us for money... Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this relaunch episode, Dave and Ashley share what's ahead for the podcast and the vision for this new season. Listener question: My wife is obsessed with our kids...how can I get my wife back? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Naked Marriage Podcast returns with NEW episodes on Monday, February 16! The Naked Marriage invites couples to uncover God’s design for lifelong love. Through honest, faith-centered conversations, hosts Dave and Ashley Willis talk openly about challenges couples often face but rarely talk about. With wisdom, vulnerability, and humor, they offer fresh perspectives and practical ways to build a deeply connected marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re opening up about a topic that touches so many hearts—dealing with grief during the holidays. Christmas can bring a mix of joy and sorrow, and we’re talking about how to honor those feelings while leaning on your marriage for support. From navigating your unique grieving processes to creating new traditions that bring healing, we’ll share personal stories and practical tips to help you stay connected and find hope this season. ----------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief During the Holidays 03:00 Understanding Individual Grief Responses 05:52 Supporting Each Other Through Loss 10:06 The Importance of Professional Help 12:50 Creating New Traditions 16:08 Finding Joy Amidst Grief 20:10 Celebrating Life and Memories 23:54 Prayer and Reflection 26:13 Q&A: Balancing Transparency and Surprise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into why marriage is more than just a relationship—it’s a reflection of love, trust, and unity. We’ll talk about the real benefits of a committed marriage, from building deeper intimacy to creating a strong foundation for family. We also tackle common struggles like anxiety in relationships and how to keep your connection thriving, even in tough times. Whether you’re navigating challenges or looking to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt encouragement. ----------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:25 The Importance of Marriage: Why Get Married? 08:20 The Security and Commitment in Marriage 14:00 Marriage as a Reflection of Divine Love 19:49 Navigating Challenges in Marriage 22:10 Q&A: Addressing Intimacy and Anxiety in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into the second part of our conversation about the ten things sex is not in marriage. We’ll unpack why guilt should never be the driving force in intimacy, how to navigate tricky in-law dynamics without letting them impact your connection, and why open communication about your needs and desires is the real key to satisfaction. Marriage is about more than just physical intimacy—it’s about building a bond that’s honest, loving, and life-giving. Join us as we explore what it means to prioritize a healthy perspective on sex and how to keep intimacy thriving in every season of marriage. -------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 03:02 Understanding Boring Sex 05:54 The Importance of Mutual Satisfaction 09:11 Navigating Guilt in Sexual Relationships 12:03 Self-Focus vs. Mutual Enjoyment 14:51 The Duty of Sex in Marriage 18:06 Addressing In-Law Dynamics in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into a conversation about what married sex isn’t—and we promise it’s a game-changer. We’ll unpack five truths about intimacy, from why sex should never feel forced or used as a bargaining chip, to tackling the discomfort or dread that can sometimes sneak into the bedroom. We’re keeping it real with a Q&A on navigating different sex drives in marriage, giving you practical advice to create a more open, honest, and connected intimate life. Let’s grow stronger together! ----- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:56 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex 03:23 Sex Should Not Be Forced 06:40 Sex Is Not a Bargaining Tool 09:28 Sex Should Not Be Painful 12:43 Sex Should Not Be Dreaded 16:40 Sex Should Not Be Uncomfortable 19:29 Q&A: Navigating Different Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re wrapping up our series on toxic behaviors in marriage by diving into the damage that secrets and neglect can cause. We share how open communication and choosing to prioritize your spouse every day are the real game-changers for a thriving relationship. Plus, we tackle a heartfelt listener question about dealing with a self-absorbed partner, offering honest advice on creating a healthy dynamic where both spouses feel valued. This one’s all about getting real, reconnecting, and making your marriage stronger than ever! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into some tough but necessary topics that can impact any marriage. We’re talking about toxic behaviors—like swearing and physical abuse—that can creep into relationships, even when love is strong. We’ll unpack how verbal abuse can leave invisible scars and why creating a safe, nurturing space is essential for both of you to thrive. We also share a powerful story of transformation, showing that healing is always possible. Plus, we tackle a listener’s question about how erotic literature affects intimacy, underscoring the importance of open, honest conversations. Let’s get real, learn, and grow together! ----------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:57 Toxic Behaviors in Marriage: Swearing and Physical Abuse 09:55 Understanding Verbal Abuse and Its Impact 15:10 A Story of Hope: Overcoming Toxic Communication 17:54 Q&A: Navigating Issues with Erotic Literature Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the power of words in marriage and how negative conversations can sneak in and hurt our connection. We dive into what it means to truly guard our words with kindness and respect, fostering positive communication that builds up instead of tearing down. We’ll also share some personal stories about handling family dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and addressing those tough intimacy hurdles we all face. Join us as we unpack these insights with biblical wisdom and a lot of honesty—because building a strong, supportive marriage takes real talk and a lot of heart! ---------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Toxic Behaviors in Marriage 00:32 The Power of Words in Relationships 03:21 The Impact of Negative Conversations 06:40 Responding to Anger with Kindness 09:59 Building a Positive Communication Dynamic 12:50 Healing from Past Wounds 14:11 Navigating Family Dynamics 21:34 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 22:30 Addressing Intimacy Issues in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving into why a second honeymoon can be a game-changer for your relationship. From our personal experiences and stories (yes, we've had some unforgettable ones!), we’re sharing practical ways to carve out time for each other amid the busyness of parenting and everyday demands. It’s all about building trust, setting healthy boundaries, and creating space to reconnect. Join us as we explore why prioritizing each other doesn’t just benefit your marriage but refreshes every part of your life together. So, grab your earbuds, get comfy, and let’s talk about keeping love strong and building an unbreakable bond. -------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:59 The Importance of a Second Honeymoon 04:06 Planning and Budgeting for Getaways 10:10 Finding Reliable Childcare for Getaways 12:02 The Value of Prioritizing Your Marriage 15:46 Overcoming Challenges in Marriage 19:59 Navigating Boundaries in Relationships 24:12 Addressing Trust and Communication in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices