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My Spouse Is Having A Secret Relationship With Another Woman// Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: I've told my spouse that having one-on-one lunches with the opposite sex makes me uncomfortable, and now he's having secret connections with other women. How do I ask him to stop? ————— Grab a copy of the Vision Retreat: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundle Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 20247 min

How To get My Spouse To Listen

Hey there, Dave and Ashley Willis here, and we just want to welcome you to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the core of marriage – communication. We share our personal journey on how to get your spouse to really listen. From being present to avoiding distractions, we spill the secrets. Learn tips on approaching a non-listening spouse with grace and curiosity. We explore side-by-side communication and tackle gender differences in processing info. Wrap it up with the magic of giving each other time to process, and watch your relationship transform through effective communication. Grab a seat, tune in, and let's deepen those connections! --------------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Takeaways Listening is more important than talking in communication. Being present and avoiding distractions is crucial for effective listening. Approach a spouse who doesn't listen with gentleness and curiosity. Side-by-side communication and understanding gender differences can enhance connection. Give each other time to process information and thoughts. --------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Importance of Communication 01:30 Learning to Listen Better03:10The Listening Exercise 04:07 Being Present and Avoiding Distractions 05:04 Approaching a Spouse Who Doesn't Listen 06:32 Being Gentle and Curious 08:23 Assuming and Zoning Out 09:20 Side-by-Side Communication 10:44 Non-Accusatory Approach 11:37 Understanding Gender Differences 17:29 Processing Time for Men 20:12 Giving Time to Process 20:43 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 22, 202426 min

Creating & Keeping Great Sex Habits in 2024 | 14 Days of Sex | Day 14

Hey there! Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis. Today, in our final episode wrapping up our spicy 14-days of sex, Ashley and I get real about something close to our hearts: the importance of sex habits in a marriage. We share our experiences and insights on fostering regular, fulfilling intimacy, and dive deep into open communication, mutual needs, and how prayer plays a key role. This isn't just a talk; it's a personal invitation to prioritize connection and keep the flame burning. Join us for some candid conversations and takeaways that hit home – let's continue growing together for a more passionate marriage journey! ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Our Producers Link: https://www.zola.com/registry/chloeeandtywon ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Recap 03:41 Sex Habits 10:41 Conclusion and Next Steps Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 21, 202413 min

I Dont Want to be Controlling// Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I initiate conversations with my spouse without coming across as bossy or controlling ————— Grab a copy of the Vision Retreat: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundle Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 20, 202414 min

Helping Your Husband Achieve Better Orgasm | 14 Days of Sex | Day 13

Hey, welcome back! We're still riding the waves of our 14 days of sex journey on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Ashley and I get personal, diving into the male orgasm and everything related. From discussing the impact of a vasectomy on ejaculation to our approach to talking openly with our kids about sex, we cover it all. Join us as we cover the nuances of pleasure points and even tackle the headache mystery during orgasm. Communication is key, and we're here to normalize these experiences. Stick around for insights on sexual variety and the intriguing refractory period for men. It's an episode filled with candid conversation and insights into our own journey. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Year Outlook 00:31 Male Orgasm 01:27 Ejaculation and Vasectomy 02:24 Openness with Children 03:18 Female Ejaculation 04:14 Quantity of Ejaculate 04:40 Headaches during Orgasm 05:29 Communication and Normalcy 06:56 Pleasure Points for Men 08:19 Variety and Oral Sex 09:48 Multiple Orgasms for Women 10:18 Refractory Period 11:18 Post-Sex Hygiene 12:26 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 20, 202414 min

Helping Your Wife Achieve Better Orgasm | 14 Days of Sex | Day 12

Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are talking about what culture deems as a very hard goal... but we think with a little communication it is super achievable -- the female orgasm. We're tackling common questions, emphasizing patience and selflessness for husbands, and sharing practical tips. Our challenge for you: prioritize your wife's pleasure for deeper intimacy. Ready to dive! -------------------- FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage -------------------- Takeaways The female orgasm is characterized by a clenching of the muscles and a feeling of pleasure. The female orgasm often takes longer to achieve than the male orgasm. Husbands should be patient and prioritize their wives' pleasure, focusing on foreplay and taking the time to understand their preferences. Communication and kindness are key in creating a fulfilling sexual relationship. -------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Series Overview 00:32 Understanding the Female Orgasm03:21 The Female Orgasm Takes Longer 04:19 Patience and Selflessness in Pleasuring the Wife 05:17 Exploring Different Stimulation Techniques 06:43 The Importance of Time and Kindness 08:10 Prioritizing the Wife's Pleasure Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 19, 202410 min

What's Off-Limits In Marriage? | 14 Days of Sex | Day 11

Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're almost at the end of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're diving into a personal conversation about what's off-limits in the bedroom for Christian married couples. No frills, just real talk. We're emphasizing the importance of keeping it between the two of you – no bringing other people into the bedroom, no polyamory or open marriages. We also tackle using non-human objects for pleasure and the potential issues that can arise. Vibrators, masturbation, slapping, choking – we're covering it all. Our encouragement? Have those open discussions and seek counseling if you need it. Join us for this honest chat about boundaries in the bedroom as we navigate this journey together ------------------------------- Takeaways Christian married couples should not bring other people into the bedroom. Using non-human objects for sexual pleasure should be carefully considered. Open communication and seeking counseling can help navigate boundaries in the bedroom. Respecting and prioritizing the emotional and physical well-being of both partners is crucial. ------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and XO Marriage Announcement 01:24 What's Off Limits in the Bedroom 03:46 Not Going Outside of Marriage Covenant 06:29 Sexual Sin in the Bible 07:48 Using Non-Human Objects for Sex 08:17 Vibrators and Masturbation 09:10 Slapping and Choking 10:57 Conclusion and Open Discussion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 18, 202413 min

Understanding Painful Sex | 14 Days of Sex | Day 10

Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're right in the thick of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! This episode is a bit close to the heart. Today, we're diving into the sometimes sensitive issue of painful sex, and we want to approach it with the care it deserves. Opening up about the importance of communication, we share some insights on conditions like vaginismus and how those pelvic floor muscles can play a role in causing discomfort. But it's not just physical – we touch on the emotional impact too, stressing the need for understanding and support between partners. We even explore unexpected factors like allergies to condoms and lubricants. As we wrap up, think of this as a gentle reminder to seek solutions and support. And remember, finding intimacy in different ways is a journey worth taking. Join us for this intimate conversation, where openness paves the way to a healthier and more fulfilling sex life. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Painful sex is a common issue that many couples experience but often struggle with in isolation. Vaginismus, a condition involving tight pelvic floor muscles, is a common cause of pain during sex and can be addressed through physical therapy. Allergies to condoms, lubricants, or spermicides can also cause discomfort during sex, and exploring alternative options may help. Menopause can lead to dryness and pain during sex, and hormone replacement therapy may be a solution. Believing and supporting your spouse when they experience pain is crucial, and seeking medical help and therapy can provide solutions. If one solution doesn't work, keep seeking alternatives and don't give up on finding ways to enjoy sex. During times of pain or discomfort, couples can focus on growing closer in other ways and finding intimacy outside of intercourse. Men can also experience pain during sex, and there are solutions available for them as well. Open communication, seeking help, and supporting each other are key to addressing and overcoming painful sex in a marriage. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction: Painful Sex 01:00 Vaginismus and Pelvic Floor Issues 02:22 Psychological Impact of Painful Sex 03:17 Allergies to Condoms and Lubricants 05:12 Painful Sex during Menopause 06:10 Believing and Supporting Your Spouse 07:36 Seeking Solutions and Finding Help 09:25 Growing Closer in Other Ways 09:54 Men's Experience of Painful Sex 10:23 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 17, 202412 min

Dealing With Premature Ejaculation | 14 Days of Sex | Day 9

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. We're in the middle of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we are having a real talk about something a lot of couples go through: premature ejaculation and how it affects our sex lives. We're keeping it simple – it's all about open communication with your spouse and finding solutions together. We're sharing some practical tips to make things last a bit longer, like using desensitizing gels or condoms. It's about being patient, understanding each other, and making sure both partners are satisfied. And hey, before we wrap up, we've got a light-hearted shout-out for the upcoming XO Marriage conferences. Join us for a down-to-earth chat about navigating the ups and downs of our sex lives." ------------------ XO2024: Join us from THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME:https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Open and honest conversation with your spouse is crucial for addressing and finding solutions to sexual issues. Premature ejaculation can lead to frustration for both partners, but there are practical ways to prolong the sexual experience. Reducing premature ejaculation can be achieved through stimulation and focusing on mutual satisfaction. Shame should not be associated with premature ejaculation, and seeking solutions through medical advice is encouraged. Patience and understanding are key in supporting a spouse dealing with premature ejaculation. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Conversation with Spouse 00:29 Premature Ejaculation and Frustration 01:24 Practical Challenges and Solutions03:21Reducing Premature Ejaculation through Stimulation 03:47 Shame and Solutions 04:44 Patience and Mutual Satisfaction 05:40 Humor and Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 16, 20248 min

Sex Drive Changes | 14 Days of Sex | Day 8

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast – we're in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, We're pulling back the curtains on the various causes, from aging to medical issues and mental health, that lead to Sex Drive Changes. It's not just a talk; it's a personal journey as we share our own experiences and the solutions we've discovered. Open communication is key, and sometimes seeking professional help is a game-changer. As we wrap up, consider our book, 'The Counterfeit Climax,' a resource for further exploration. Join us for a candid conversation where our personal stories shine a light on navigating the twists and turns of changing sex drives in marriage. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Sex drive changes can be caused by various factors, including aging, medical issues, and mental health. Seeking specialized doctors and exploring alternative solutions can help address sex drive changes. Open communication and seeking professional help are crucial in navigating changes in sex drive. The book 'The Counterfeit Climax' is recommended as a resource for further exploration. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Preview 00:51 Causes of Sex Drive Changes 01:48 Personal Experience with Sex Drive Changes 03:12 Seeking Solutions for Sex Drive Changes 04:09 Importance of Specialized Doctors 05:03 Exploring Alternative Solutions 06:30 Comprehensive Testing and Research 08:48 Hormone Replacement Therapy 09:41 Navigating Changes in Sex Drive 10:39 Communication and Seeking Help 13:04 Conclusion and Resource Recommendation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 15, 202415 min

Fetishes And Role Playing | 14 Days of Sex | Day 7

Hey there, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're right in the midst of our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! It's Dave and Ashley here, and today we're diving into a topic that's personal and, let's face it, maybe a bit spicy – fetishes and role-playing in Christian marriages. We break it down, defining fetishes as those specific non-sexual things that can light a fire, and role-playing as, well, acting out those scenarios that get the imagination going. But here's the real talk – we're shedding light on the dangers of pornography and its influence on these aspects of intimacy. We also explore the idea that some fantasies may have roots in our adolescence. Through it all, we're hitting home the importance of mutual consent, safety, and honoring God in our sexual activities. As we wrap up, we want to remind you that communication is key, and addressing any restrictions or guilt is crucial for a healthy, fulfilling sexual relationship. Join us for a candid conversation where nothing's off-limits! ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Fetishes are specific non-sexual things that turn someone on sexually, while role-playing involves acting out specific scenarios. Pornography can fuel dangerous fetishes and role-playing scenarios, and it is important to avoid using porn as an instructional manual for sex. Some fetishes and role-playing scenarios may stem from fantasies developed during adolescence. Mutual consent, safety, and honoring God are essential in exploring fetishes and engaging in role-playing. Communication and addressing restrictions or guilt are crucial in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:00 Definition of Fetishes and Role-playing 02:28 Dangers of Pornography 03:23 Fantasies and Role-playing from Adolescence 05:16 Different Types of Fetishes and Role-playing 06:42 Exploring BDSM 07:39 The Importance of Mutual Consent and Safety 09:03 Using Sex as a Gift from God 10:31 Addressing Restrictions and Guilt 11:24 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 14, 202413 min

Sharing Sexual Past With Your Spouse | 14 Days of Sex | Day 6

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're knee-deep in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're delving into a topic that's as personal as it gets – the importance of discussing sexual history in a marriage. We're all about full disclosure, baring it all, and having those tough, but crucial, conversations about our pasts. From the number of partners to mindsets, expectations, and insecurities, nothing's off the table. We get real about struggles with pornography and its impact on how sex is viewed. Join us for a raw and honest conversation that hits close to home. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Open and honest communication about sexual history is crucial in a marriage. Sexual history includes not only past partners but also mindsets, expectations, and insecurities. Childhood sexual experiences can have long-term effects and should be addressed with compassion and understanding. Seeking counseling and support can help in processing and healing from past sexual trauma. Apologizing and rebuilding trust is important when revealing past actions in a marriage. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Discussing Sexual History 01:00 Understanding Sexual History 02:25 Personal Sexual History 04:18 Embarrassment and Regret in Sharing Sexual History 05:46 Childhood Sexual Experiences 07:11 Trauma and Loss 09:06 Processing Trauma with a Counselor 10:33 Long-Term Effects of Trauma 13:28 Dealing with Regret and Guilt 16:17 Supporting Spouses with Sexual Trauma 17:45 Revealing Past Actions in Marriage 21:03 Moving Forward and Seeking Healing 22:29 Apologizing and Rebuilding Trust 23:28 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 13, 202425 min

Lets Talk Birth control | 14 Days of Sex | Day 5

Hey, it's Dave and Ashley here; welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast. We are in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenging, and we are excited about today's topic. In today's Naked Marriage Podcast episode, we're diving into a topic close to our hearts: birth control. We get real about the misconceptions, emphasizing the significance of open conversations when it comes to family planning. Exploring various methods and their potential side effects, we highlight the importance of listening to our bodies and seeking guidance, even from the Holy Spirit, in these decisions. Wrapping up, we remind you how crucial communication is in every facet of marriage. Join us for a candid, personal chat about a topic that impacts us all. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Open and honest communication is essential when discussing birth control and family planning. There are various types of birth control methods available, each with its own potential side effects. Couples should consider their own bodies, the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and the opinions of both partners when making decisions about birth control. Communication is key in all aspects of marriage, including discussions about sex and family planning. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Series Overview 01:03 Misconceptions about Birth Control 03:29 Different Types of Birth Control 08:02 Considering Family Planning and God's Will 10:17 Listening to Your Body and Spouse 11:15 Conclusion and Importance of Communication Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 12, 202413 min

How To Get And Keep Better Erections | 14 Days of Sex | Day 4

We are in the 14 Days Of Sex Series, and today, we want to have the hard conversation about getting and keeping better erections. Today's episode is a candid talk about our experiences and the importance of seeking solutions together. Stick around as we wrap up with encouragement to seek resources and support because no one should navigate this journey alone. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Erectile dysfunction can be caused by various factors, including hormonal issues, mental health issues, and physical issues. Testosterone replacement therapy can be a game changer for men experiencing erectile dysfunction. Support and understanding from a spouse are crucial in navigating the challenges of erectile dysfunction. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Topic Introduction 00:56 Understanding Erections and Erectile Dysfunction 02:21 Personal Experience with Erectile Dysfunction 03:20 The Importance of Testosterone Replacement 04:15 Support and Understanding from Spouse 05:13 Finding the Right Doctor for Hormone Replacement 06:37 Exploring Treatment Options 08:33 Creating a Safe Space to Discuss Sexual Issues 09:03 Encouragement to Seek Solutions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 11, 202411 min

Foreplay All Day & Lingerie | 14 Days of Sex | Day 3

Welcome back to the 14 Days to Better Sex with Dave & Ashley Willis. Let's talk about intentional foreplay all day, the power of lingerie, and just celebrating each other's bodies. Stay tuned for today's conversation on foreplay all day. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Foreplay should be an all-day intentionality of connecting with your spouse. Lingerie can be a powerful tool in building desire and confidence. Appreciating and celebrating each other's bodies is essential for a healthy sexual relationship. Words of affirmation and compliments play a significant role in boosting confidence and desire. ------------------ 00:00Introduction and Series Overview 01:00 Foreplay All Day 02:23 Understanding Foreplay 03:22 The Power of Lingerie 04:50 Appreciating Each Other's Bodies 07:35 Confidence and Variety 09:01 Words of Affirmation 11:08 Complimenting and Celebrating Each Other 12:09 Continuing the Conversation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 10, 202414 min

The Best Sex Positions | 14 Days of Sex | Day 2

In this episode, we're continuing our 14 Days to Better Sex Series! Today we're discussing sex positions and the freedom and creativity that couples have in exploring different positions. Embrace your creativity and enjoy a thriving sex life within the boundaries of mutual consent and respect. ------------------ Christian Sex Positions video: https://youtu.be/pRwuVGKDM_E FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Chapters 00:44 Christian Sex Positions 03:02 Freedom and Creativity in Sex Positions 04:23 Overcoming Baggage and Shame 05:21 Exploring Different Positions for Pleasure 07:06 Creating a Safe and Respectful Environment 08:27 Discussion on Boundaries and Consent 10:15 Avoiding Dangerous or Painful Activities 11:12 Recommendation: The Counterfeit Climax 11:32 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 9, 202413 min

Talking About Sex & Talking During Sex | 14 Days of Sex | Day 1

Open and honest communication about sex is crucial in marriage. That's why we are so excited to start this year off with 14 Days of Sex, and we can't wait to walk through it with you all. In this episode, we're discussing the importance of talking about sex, talking and sounds during sex, and creating the right environment for sex. This series is centered around cultivating a remarkable year of intimacy in your relationship. Gain practical insights and candid advice on igniting passion and strengthening the bond with your spouse. Tune in as they share tips and discussions that empower couples to elevate their physical connection and create a deeply fulfilling and passionate marriage. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ 00:00 Introduction 03:18 Importance of Talking About Sex 07:23 Prioritizing Sex in Marriage 09:18 Challenges in Sexual Intimacy 13:18 Sounds and Talking During Sex 19:15 Practical Tips for Enhancing Your Sex Life 21:13 Preparing for the 14-Day Challenge 22:38 Resources for Enhancing Your Sex Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 8, 202425 min

14 Days to Better Sex (Starting Jan 8th)

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Kick off your NEW YEAR with 14 Days to Better Sex. Starting Monday, January 8th, we're talking about SEX every day for 14 days!! So make a commitment to your marriage and your spouse and join us for these short daily episodes. Jump in anytime and start from the top! For the topics, we've listened to your questions and comments. So, buckle up and get ready for an entertaining and informative 2 weeks of talking about sex! Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 5, 20244 min

Are Toys In The Bedroom Off Limits? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: Are Toys In The Bedroom Off Limits? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 3, 20245 min

Dealing with intolerances In Marriage with Stefanie and Caleb Rouse

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast! Today you are in for a treat; we're having a discussion with Stefanie and Caleb Rouse, two people we dearly love. the Rouses open up about their experiences and challenges in dealing with food intolerances within their relationship. Discover how they've navigated this aspect of life together, sharing personal insights, practical tips, and the emotional dynamics of adapting to dietary restrictions as a couple ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 1, 202426 min

Can We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How can my spouse and I both orgasm when having sex together? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 27, 202310 min

Lets Talk About Money with Tim & Alexis Woodward

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! Join us as we chat with Tim & Alexis Woodward about integrating biblical wisdom into your financial journey. Get ready for a down-to-earth conversation where we'll uncover how to simplify the complexities of wealth management Connect with Tim & Alexis: www.blendwealth.com ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 25, 202332 min

Having Better Sex & Loving Your Body // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How does body image improve our sex lives? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 20, 202315 min

Open Conversation About Young Couples & Interracial Relationships with Josh & Sav Alexander

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today, we're having an open conversation about interracial relationships with special guests Josh and Sav Alexander. The Alexanders share their personal stories, experiences, and insights into the complexities and beauty of navigating an interracial relationship. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 18, 202322 min

Past Trauma is killing Our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How does past sexual and other trauma affect my relationship with my husband --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 13, 202311 min

Setting Healthy Boundaries With Technology with Christina Avallone

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. Today, we are discussing the essential topic of setting healthy boundaries with technology. In this episode, we're joined by renowned tech educator Christina Avallone, who offers expert insights and practical advice on navigating the digital landscape within relationships in your family. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 11, 202330 min

Overcoming Body Insecurity In Marriage // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I overcome body insecurities in my marriage? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 6, 20237 min

My Spouse Is AWESOME!

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We wanted to end this collection on a high point, so today, we are celebrating our spouse's incredible strengths and unique qualities. Discover how acknowledging these traits strengthens our bond and brings more joy to our marriages. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 4, 202321 min

My Spouse Is Not A Christian // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband is not a believer, and I've never pushed it on him, but we've now had children, and I want to raise them with Christian morals. What do I do now? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 29, 202312 min

My Spouse Won't Leave & Cleave

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast today, we are going to tackle the crucial topic of 'My Spouse Won't Leave & Cleave.' we're going to talk about the challenges couples face when it comes to prioritizing their marriage over other relationships. From navigating boundaries to fostering a stronger connection. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 27, 202322 min

We're Both Struggling With Porn // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband and I are both struggling with porn & masturbation in our marriage; how do we keep each other accountable? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 20238 min

My Spouse Is A Workaholic

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's episode! We are in a collection of conversations titled Help My Spouse is ______. We fully understand working is essential, and it's how we provide for our families, But we fully believe that our number one priority is our families. So join us today as we hop in with Help My Spouse Is A Workaholic. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 20, 202324 min

Is Romance Needed? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband and I are great friends & have a good sex life as well, but romance is not very present. Should I change what I'm taking in to help with this desire? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 15, 20237 min

My Spouse Is Watching Porn

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's episode! We are in a collection of conversations titled Help My Spouse is ______. This is one of the hardest things to deal with in marriage, and we want you to know we are praying with you. This is one that we personally grew through in our marriage, and we are excited to tell you that you absolutely can grow together through this process and come out united and more robust. Needing Help In Your Marriage:XOMARRIAGE.COM/HELP Need a Resource? We want to give you one chapter for FREE! Try out our book to help guide some conversations about a healthy mentality toward sex life: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 13, 202326 min

My Spouse Is Lying

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's episode! We are in a collection of conversations titled Help My Spouse is ______. Did you know there's an increasing trend in America where couples justify lying? How do you build a true, deep relationship built upon a foundation filled with lies? We want to dive in and discuss this on today's episode. We hope these topics help you all and that you will share these quick, practical steps with your friends and family. Today, we will hop right in with Help My Spouse Is lying! ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 6, 202320 min

Parenting Uncovered Sneak Peak + Listen For A Chance To Win!

We are so excited; we have officially launched our new Parenting Undercover Podcast, and we want to share this quick clip with you guys. Because you are listening on The Naked Marriage Podcast channel, you have the opportunity to enter a giveaway, and who doesn't love free stuff? Click the link below, listen to the first episode, follow, give a five-star review, and fill out the form in the episode description to enter! https://link.chtbl.com/NH9GRC1Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 1, 20234 min

We're Stuck In A Rut // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My spouse and I have different interests and were falling into a rut with our date nights. What can we do to make it fun for us both again? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 1, 20237 min

My Spouse Is Depressed

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; today, we're discussing a topic close to home! We are in a collection of topics titled Help My Spouse is ______. We hope these topics help you all and that you will share these quick, practical steps with your friends and family. We're discussing depression in marriage; we know it looks different for every person and can't speak to every situation, but we can tell you with some hard work and intentionality, your marriage can become stronger through this season of depression. Let's talk about Help My Spouse Is Depressed! If you need resources to help you in your marriage, please visit https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ ----------------------- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 30, 202327 min

I Miss Wanting To Have Sex With My Spouse // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: We had our first child, and my desire for sex with my spouse has changed. I Love my child so much, but I miss the days of just my husband and I.. What should I do? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 25, 20236 min

My Spouse Is Absent

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's episode! We are in a collection of topics titled Help My Spouse is ______. We hope these topics help you all and that you will share these quick, practical steps with your friends and family. Today, we will hop right in with a topic that is true for a lot of people for a lot of different reasons. Let's talk about Help My Spouse Is Absent! If you need resources to help you in your marriage, please visit https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 23, 202316 min

Our In-laws Are Trampling The Boundaries // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back, it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A! Today's question: How do I talk to my spouse about setting boundaries with in-laws? --- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 18, 20236 min

My Spouse Is A Narcissist

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's episode! We are starting a collection of topics titled Help My Spouse is ______. We planned on only doing 3 of these but we just couldn't stop so we will be adding a few more weeks of topics. We hope these topics help you all and that you will share these quick, practical steps with your friends and family. Today, we will hop right in with Help My Spouse Is a Narcissist! ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 16, 202321 min

Will This Rough Patch Ever End? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back, it's our favorite day of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A! Today's question: What do I do when my spouse yells in front of our children and has stated they don't believe counseling will help due to a former relationship? --- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 11, 20239 min

Playing The Long Game In Marriage

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are excited for today's guest! Eric Wooten is here to discuss how you and your spouse can practically implement some small things to help build the marriage you want through the power of consistency. Free Relationship Rythem From Eric: https://www.altaredmarriage.com/naked/ ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 9, 202329 min

My Spouse Is Messaging Other Women// Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back It's our favorite day of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A! Today's question: My Spouse is sending messages & memes to another woman and I've communicated I don't like it, but he continues to do it; what should I do? --- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 4, 20239 min

Is This My Season?

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast; we are extra super excited for today's guest! Rebecca George is here to discuss how you and your spouse can support each other in pursuing goals, creating a space for each other's dreams, and finding a balance between ambition and prioritizing your marriage you don't want to miss this one! Please grab a copy of Rebecca's book: https://www.amazon.com/Do-Thing-Gospel-Centered-Gumption-Go-Getter/dp/0830784357/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=RpMqI&content-id=amzn1.sym.579192ca-1482-4409-abe7-9e14f17ac827&pf_rd_p=579192ca-1482-4409-abe7-9e14f17ac827&pf_rd_r=136-2881544-1577513&pd_rd_wg=UTeDK&pd_rd_r=f8f3465c-f558-4c30-a98f-ef1f0a4c5e61&ref_=aufs_ap_sc_dsk ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 2, 202329 min

Deployment Is Hurting Our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back It's our favorite day of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A! Today's question: How do I stay connected to my husband while he's deployed? --- Surviving a “Commuter Marriage”: https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage?ppplayer=08d3fb28193db69c4c103474769df71b&ppepisode=9d13127875e1dc5fd4adfb9f372b0dcd For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 27, 202311 min

Having The Hard Conversation with Preston Sprinkle

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. Today, we are having a complicated conversation and recommend being mindful if you have children around; we will discuss LBGT topics and how we can navigate them in our marriages. Join us in this biblically based honest conversation! ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Our vision here at XO: Reach the Masses and educate them about marriage according to a biblical design. Resource the Churches and equip them to teach and minister on marriage. Reverse the Crises being created to high-risk and high-impact groups. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 25, 202327 min

How To Be A Great In-Law

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. We've had so much fun with these in-law episodes but sadly today is our last one, but it doesn't mean you can't keep working on your relationships, grab a copy of the book get your community together, and keep rebuilding healthy in-law relationships! On today's episode, we want to dive into some steps to help you be the best in-law you can be. We know every situation is different, so don't be discouraged in this process; with communication and some difficult conversations in love, you can slowly build/heal your in-law relationship. We'd love to walk with you in this process; please send us your questions:https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ --------- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 21, 202324 min

Steps to Building a Healthy In-Law Relationship

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. On today's episode, we want to dive into helping you rebuild a healthy in-law dynamic. We want you to know that you are not alone in this and you can get through this season, it's going to take some hard work and hard conversations in love but in the end, the unity that will come will be worth it. Help us spread the word and share this episode with anyone you think it could help! We know every situation is different, so don't be discouraged in this process; with communication and some difficult conversations in love, you can slowly build/heal your in-law relationship. We'd love to walk with you in this process; please send us your questions:https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/the-naked-marriage/ --------- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 20, 202322 min