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Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we’re sitting down with Eric and Kristin Kennedy to dive deep into their incredible journey through recovery and how addiction has shaped their relationship. They opened up about their love story—the highs, the lows, and everything in between—and how they’ve learned to stand by each other with respect and support through the toughest times. We also get a peek into Eric’s new book, *Marriage After Addiction*, which is all about helping couples who are facing addiction find hope and healing. This conversation is packed with real talk, honesty, and encouragement for anyone walking a similar path. We hope you find it as inspiring as we did! ----------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:00 The Journey of Recovery and Sobriety 02:25 Love Story: Eric and Kristin's Connection 08:47 Navigating Relationships with Addiction 16:03 The Importance of Mutual Respect in Recovery 19:08 Introducing the Book: I Do Recover 23:56 The Resource for Couples in Recovery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 16, 202429 min

I've Lost Myself in our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A

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Sep 11, 202412 min

Marriage Isn’t a Fix

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we dive into the common misconception that marriage can magically fix all our problems. We get real about how, instead of being a quick fix, marriage often shines a light on our personal struggles and amplifies both the highs and the lows. We share some personal stories and chat about the power of grace, patience, and embracing each other's differences. We also touch on the importance of setting realistic expectations and steering clear of the comparison trap—because every marriage has its unique journey, and that's something worth celebrating! --------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Debunking the Myth: Marriage Will Fix All Problems 01:30 Amplifying the Good and the Struggles in Marriage 02:55 Marriage as a Mirror: Reflecting Flaws and False Narratives 05:49 Bearing with Each Other and Showing Grace in Marriage 09:39 Celebrating Differences in Marriage 19:04 Setting Realistic Expectations and Avoiding Comparison in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 9, 202432 min

We're Struggling to Connect, Help! // Hump Day Q&A

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Sep 4, 20248 min

Our Guide to Talking (and Really Hearing) Each Other

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the importance of communication in marriage. We’re sharing some of our own struggles and how those tough moments impacted our relationship. Honestly, it wasn’t always easy, and sometimes, we needed professional help to get back on track. We’ll talk about practical steps like making eye contact, starting conversations gently, and really listening to each other—plus why it’s so important to assume the best in your partner. We hope this chat encourages you to keep those lines of communication open and build a marriage that thrives. ---------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------- Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Communication in Marriage 01:00 The Challenges of Communication in Marriage 08:40 Addressing Communication Patterns Learned from Childhood 13:49 The Role of Counseling in Improving Communication 17:59 Recognizing Red Flags and Seeking Help 19:25 Setting Boundaries and Learning Healthy Communication Techniques 22:16 The Importance of Effective Communication in Marriage 25:09 Practical Tips for Improving Communication 28:47 Assuming the Best and Prioritizing Open Communication 33:27 The Role of Listening and Avoiding Assumptions in Communication Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 2, 202445 min

Bonus: A Second Chance at Love: Trusting God with Anthony & Shannen

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Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this heartfelt episode, Anthony Braswell and Shannen Fields-Braswell share their incredible journey of finding love again after losing their spouses. They open up about the power of putting Jesus first, the importance of honest communication, and how laughter keeps their marriage strong. Together, they inspire us to trust God's plan, embrace joy, and build a legacy of love. If you're navigating tough times or loss in your marriage, this conversation will bring you hope and encouragement. -------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage -------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Anthony and Shannen's Inspiring Love Story 11:08 First Date: Waffle House and a Hug 23:00 Believe, Pray, and Trust: Finding Hope in Difficult Times 25:23 Trusting and Surrendering: Letting God Take the Wheel 29:10 Finding Strength in Each Other: Leaving a Legacy 34:07 Conclusion: Spreading Hope and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 28, 202436 min

How do I get past the broken promises in our marriage // Hump Day Q&A

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Aug 28, 202411 min

Tackling Tough Topics for Stronger Intimacy

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of marital intimacy, exploring how emotional connection lays the foundation for a thriving sex life. Dave and Ashley get real about the challenges couples face, from navigating dry seasons to understanding lopsided sex drives, and even the impact of a hysterectomy. With candid stories and practical tips, they guide you on fostering open, honest conversations and prioritizing each other's needs, ensuring your marriage stays strong and connected. ------------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Popularity of Sex Episodes 07:06 The Importance of a Healthy Mindset about Sex 10:44 Building Emotional Intimacy for Better Sex 13:02 Serving Each Other's Needs in the Bedroom 19:03 The Art of Initiating Sex 21:16 Spicing Things Up: Trying New Things in the Bedroom 23:07 Navigating Surprises and Embarrassment in Sexual Intimacy 24:25 Addressing Dry Seasons and Discomfort with Lubrication 25:20 The Impact of a Hysterectomy on Sexual Health 28:08 Navigating Lopsided Sex Drives with Curiosity and Communication 37:41 How Often Should Couples Have Sex? 43:55 Exploring Sexual Intimacy Beyond Intercourse Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 26, 202448 min

How can we Rebuild Intimacy and Trust in our Marriage? // Hump Day Q&A

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Aug 21, 202413 min

Dreaming Again: Finding Hope and Healing from Burnout

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of burnout—something we all face at times. We share personal insights on how to care for yourself, lean on your faith, and dream together as a couple. You’ll walk away feeling inspired to trust in God and stay strong in your relationship, knowing you’re not alone in this journey. Don’t miss out on our heartfelt conversation and the uplifting reminders that will keep you connected and ready for what’s next! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 19, 202426 min

Strengthening Your Marriage Through Honest Conversations

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation on burnout. We'll dive into how to recognize and prevent burnout while keeping your marriage strong. We share practical advice on how to openly communicate with your spouse about what’s weighing you down and why involving each other in the journey is crucial. we also break down the three Cs that contribute to burnout—what you consume, what's on your calendar, and who’s in your community—and offer personal tips on how to manage these areas and set healthy boundaries together. ------------------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Recap 01:28 Opening Up the Conversation about Burnout 03:22 Overextending Ourselves and People-Pleasing 08:04 Setting Boundaries on Your Calendar 13:30 Saying No to Avoid Burnout 22:01 Managing What You Consume 28:32 Surrounding Yourself with Positive Influences 35:20 Taking Time for Self-Care 37:15 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 12, 202440 min

I Love My Husband and Sex, but I'm Grossed Out by Semen // Hump Day Q&A

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Aug 7, 20249 min

Burnout, Boundaries, and Balance in Marriage

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we'll open up about burnout in marriage and life. we share our personal experiences, offering insights on how to recognize and tackle burnout. Discover practical tips on finding rest, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding the link between burnout and depression. Join us for an honest conversation about self-reflection and the importance of communication in overcoming burnout. ------------------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Burnout Series 03:50 Defining Marriage Burnout 08:32 Personal Experiences with Burnout 14:30 Recognizing and Addressing Burnout 19:13 Finding Rest and Seeking Refuge 23:00 Embracing God's Rhythm of Rest 29:01 Recognizing Burnout in Yourself and Your Spouse 32:59 Conclusion and Invitation to the Anxious for Nothing Series Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 5, 202435 min

Navigating In-Law Relationships in Interracial Marriages

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis, this is a special bonus episode! Today we will chat with Eric and Chanel Penn about their journey navigating in-law relationships and interracial marriage. Eric and Chanel open up about the challenges they faced, sharing their personal experiences of love, forgiveness, and grace in building healthy family dynamics. Despite rejection and hurtful comments, they chose to embrace difficult conversations and extend love and understanding. Their story beautifully showcases the power of healing, redemption, and the transformative nature of love. -------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage -------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 07:34 Dealing with Rejection and Hurt 16:07 Taking Steps Towards Reconciliation 21:14 Continuing the Journey of Healing and Growth 25:30 Encouragement and Hope for Others Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 2, 202430 min

Marriage Lessons We're Embracing Today // Hump Day Q&A

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Jul 31, 202412 min

Four Lies About Sex You Need to Stop Believing

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into four common lies about sex and the truth that debunks them. From misconceptions that sex is dirty or shameful to the false notion that sexual experiences outside of marriage are harmless, we explore God's truth about sex and why it's essential to replace these lies with His perspective. We also tackle the topics of porn, sexual fantasy, and the misconception that sexual sins are unforgivable. Plus, we answer a listener's question about the use of vibrators within marriage. Join us for a candid and enlightening conversation that aims to strengthen your understanding and relationship. ------------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:23 Lie #1: Sex is dirty or shameful 05:09 Lie #2: Sexual experiences outside of marriage are harmless 08:48 Lie #3: Porn and sexual fantasy are harmless forms of entertainment 16:10 Lie #4: Sexual sins are unforgivable 19:00 Q&A: Using vibrators in marriage 25:00 Conclusion and Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 29, 202427 min

How Can we Grow In Our Faith // Hump Day Q&A

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Jul 24, 202412 min

The Art of Marital Compromise

Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we will tackle the delicate art of handling disagreements in marriage, covering everything from minor squabbles to major life decisions. we'll stress the vital importance of unity, serving, and supporting each other, even when political differences arise. Tune in for practical advice on prioritizing unity over winning arguments, discovering joy in serving your partner, practicing patience and respect, and maintaining peace and love in your home. ------------ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Summer Episode Recap 00:57 Handling Disagreements in Marriage 02:40 Finding Joy in Serving Each Other 08:31 Handling Political Differences in Marriage 19:41 Prioritizing Unity and Love 25:15 Q&A: Surviving a Politically Divided Marriage 32:44 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 22, 202435 min

Is Your Sexual Baggage Affecting Your Marriage? // Hump Day Q&A

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Jul 17, 20246 min

Sexual Healing: Finding Joy in Intimacy Again

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we'll dive into the sensitive topic of painful sex in marriage. were exploring various causes, including vaginismus, allergies to condoms or lubricants, mental blocks, and menopause. Emphasizing the importance of seeking solutions and avoiding blame, we encourage listeners to consult doctors, and therapists, and conduct their own research. We also remind couples that intimacy can still thrive through other forms, even if intercourse isn't possible. Tune in for valuable insights and heartfelt advice on navigating this challenging issue together. ----------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Topic of Painful Sex 01:20 Causes of Painful Sex: Vaginismus and Allergies 03:15 Challenges of Waiting for Sex Until Marriage 07:02 Supporting and Believing Each Other 08:01 Finding Solutions and Not Settling for Discomfort 09:25 Finding Intimacy and Growth During Difficult Times Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 15, 202413 min

How Do We Balance Our Family vs. Extended Family? // Hump Day Q&A

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Jul 10, 20247 min

Unapologetic Love

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis. In this episode, Dave and Ashley delve into why it’s crucial for married couples to be recognized as such in public. They share heartfelt anecdotes and tips on how to never come off as single when you’re out and about, emphasizing proactive measures like wearing wedding rings, sharing photos of your spouse, and frequently discussing your marriage openly. They explore the subtle risks involved with seemingly innocent flirting and stress the importance of transparency with your spouse. Wrapping up the episode, Dave and Ashley challenge listeners to keep regular date nights and integrate their spouses fully into their lives to safeguard their unions. ----------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Being Publicly Known as a Married Couple 08:21 The Significance of Wedding Rings and Public Displays of Affection 13:05 The Dangers of Flirting Through Laughter 27:45 Prioritizing Date Nights and Making Your Spouse a Part of Every Aspect of Your Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 8, 202434 min

Should We Move For a Job? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: How do we know if now is the right time to move? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 3, 20249 min

Lets Talk About Sex

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we'll delve into the importance of discussing sex within marriage, highlighting it as a divine gift essential for a strong, connected relationship. They tackle common issues like mismatched sex drives, insecurities, and the crucial need for communication and emotional intimacy. The conversation also explores topics such as making sounds during sex, the impact of music or background noise, and the significance of being intentional and mentally prepared for intimacy. Join them as they encourage couples to openly share their desires and preferences to enhance their marital bond. --------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Revisiting the Importance of Sex in Marriage 03:13 The Importance of Sex as a Connection in Marriage 04:40 Prioritizing and Meeting Each Other's Needs 07:34 The Importance of a Servant Mindset in Marriage 10:54 Exploring Personal Preferences: Sounds and Verbal Communication 13:19 Being Intentional and Mentally Prepared for Intimacy 20:21 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 1, 202422 min

Are We Ready For Our Baby to Come? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: What things should we talk about before our baby comes? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 26, 20248 min

Are You Feeling Lonely in Your Marriage?

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis dive into the critical topic of staying connected in marriage and avoiding the trap of becoming emotionally or physically absent. They explore different forms of absence, such as physical avoidance and emotional disconnection, and provide practical tips for recognizing red flags and reestablishing connection. Emphasizing the importance of quality time and prioritizing the relationship over other commitments, they encourage open communication and vulnerability. The episode concludes with a reminder that help is available for couples facing challenges, ensuring that no one has to navigate these struggles alone. --------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Importance of Staying Connected in Marriage 01:25 Different Forms of Absence: Physical and Emotional 08:25 Prioritizing Quality Time for a Strong Connection 11:48 Open Communication: Expressing the Need for Connection 13:40 Conclusion: Seeking Help and Support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 24, 202415 min

Is Testosterone playing a role in our Sex Life?

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: How can I tell if my Testosterone is low? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 19, 20245 min

Let's Talk Oral Sex

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today we are going to dive into the topic of oral sex in marriage. We'll address common misconceptions, individual preferences, and the significance of oral sex in enhancing marital intimacy. Emphasizing open communication, consent, and mutual pleasure, Dave and Ashley also explore the reasons behind reservations or insecurities some might have about oral sex. They provide valuable guidance on navigating these issues and encourage couples to prioritize emotional connection and respect in their sexual relationship. ---------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Popular Demand for Oral Sex Episode 02:50 Exploring the Role of Oral Sex in Marital Intimacy 08:08 Addressing Misconceptions and Reservations about Oral Sex 11:00 The Importance of Open Communication and Consent 13:48 Navigating Insecurities and Seeking Professional Help 18:00 Emphasizing Emotional Connection and Respect in the Sexual Relationship Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 17, 202420 min

Favorite Romantic Getaways // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: What are your Favorite Romantic Getaways? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 12, 20248 min

Strengthening Parent-Child Relationships

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today we sit down with Don Manning, the founder of Crazy Cool Family, to discuss the nuances of parenting and fostering strong relationships with children. Don, a father of seven, shares his journey from being a controlling parent to becoming a supportive friend and mentor. He emphasizes the value of close-knit relationships, open communication, and vulnerability with children. Don also introduces Basecamp, a free membership site filled with courses and resources designed to help parents navigate the challenges of raising a Christian family. Don't miss this insightful conversation! ----------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background of Crazy Cool Family 07:02 Transitioning from Controlling Parent to Friend and Mentor 11:22 Navigating the Teenage Years and Building a Strong Relationship 23:17 Sharing Age-Appropriate Stories and Experiences 26:08 Introduction to Basecamp: A Resource for Building Strong Christian Families Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 10, 202432 min

We're Bored In Our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: We're Bored In Our Marriage what do we do now? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 5, 20247 min

Overcoming Emotional Withholding

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis conclude their intimacy series by addressing key issues like loneliness in marriage, emotional withholding, unresolved conflict, and the hidden enemies of intimacy. They also share three practical strategies they use to meet each other's intimacy needs. The episode wraps up with a meaningful discussion on spiritual intimacy and the importance of trusting God with finances. Join us for an insightful conversation that aims to strengthen your marriage and deepen your connection. ------------------ Watch our interview with Mark Batterson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flsdEixdVQI Get our book, Naked & Healthy! https://store.xomarriage.com/products/naked-and-healthy Visit XONow.com/naked to sign up and get 25% off your first month plus a 7-day free trial! ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Graduation Celebration 02:24 Navigating Loneliness in Marriage 13:32 The Hidden Enemy of Intimacy 21:30 The Importance of Spiritual Intimacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 3, 202424 min

Navigating Social Media Boundaries in Marriage

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: The Women My Husband is Following On Social Media Makes Me Uncomfortable -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 29, 20246 min

Prioritizing Your Marriage in a Busy World

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis. Today we are going to tackle the topic of intimacy killers in marriage. we'll begin by exploring how phones and digital distractions can impact intimacy, stressing the importance of putting down the phone and being fully present with your spouse. The discussion then shifts to the dangers of connecting with others outside of the marriage via social media, including the risk of emotional infidelity. we also delve into controlling behavior, emphasizing the need to recognize and address these patterns to maintain intimacy. Finally, they discuss how stress affects intimacy and share practical tips for managing stress to prioritize connection in your marriage. --------------------- Grab a copy of Naked & Healthy:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Visit XONow.com/naked to sign up and get 25% off your first month plus a 7-day free trial! ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:00 The Impact of Phones and Digital Distractions on Intimacy 09:32 Recognizing and Addressing Patterns of Control in the Marriage 16:04 Managing Stress to Prioritize Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 27, 202425 min

The Nagging Cure

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: How Do I Get My Wife to Stop Nagging Me? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 22, 202410 min

Healthy You, Healthy Marriage

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast wihtDave and Ashley Willis. Today we will dive into the crucial connection between intimacy and self-care, with a special focus on mental and emotional health. We discuss the importance of prioritizing physical, mental, and spiritual well-being to foster a healthy marriage. Addressing common insecurities and challenges related to body image, we explore how these issues can impact intimacy. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, mutual support between spouses, and the importance of seeking professional help when necessary. ---------------------- Grab a copy of Naked & Healthy:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:23 The Connection Between Intimacy and Self-Care 10:21 The Importance of Open Communication and Support 26:06 Tip for Increasing Emotional Intimacy 27:28 Conclusion and Book Recommendation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 20, 202429 min

My Husband is Masterbating but Won't Have Sex With Me // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: My husband won't have sex with me but is masterbating what should I do? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 15, 20246 min

Building a Resilient Marriage

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast with Davw & Ashley Willis! In this episode, Jon and Kathryn Gordon share their love story and the challenges they've faced, focusing on the crucial role of open and honest communication, especially regarding sex and intimacy. They delve into how faith has been transformative for their relationship, a theme that's central in their book, *Relationship Grit*. The Gordons highlight the importance of perseverance, prayer, and practical tools in overcoming marital challenges, including betrayal, emphasizing the need to invest in and fight for one’s relationship. They also discuss the significance of praying together and how it strengthens intimacy and connection between partners. ------------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to John and Catherine Gordon 03:22 The Importance of Open and Honest Communication 05:14 Addressing Issues of Sex and Intimacy 14:15 The Healing Power of Faith 22:12 The Power of Perseverance and Resolve 24:10 Investing in Your Relationship 31:48 Praying Together: Strengthening the Bond 33:12 Healing and Growth Through Sharing Struggles 34:37 Tools and Resources for Navigating Difficult Times Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 13, 202445 min

Embracing the Seasons

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Hello and welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In today's episode, we're exploring an important topic: the significance of friendships between married individuals and their single friends. We'll address common myths that frequently arise in this context. Additionally, we have Marcus with us today, who will share his personal insights from the dating world as a single person, along with some valuable tips. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Marcus' Background 08:10 The Importance of Friendship Between Single and Married Individuals 12:28 Navigating the Challenges of the Modern Dating Scene 27:22 Embracing the Season of Singleness 32:08 Building Lifelong Connections and Serving One Another Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 10, 202436 min

We Are Deep In Debt... How Do We Get Out // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: We Are Deep In Debt... How Do We Get Out? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 8, 20247 min

The Art of Touch

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! We're Dave and Ashley, and in this episode, we're diving into a topic close to our hearts: alternative forms of physical intimacy and spicing up your sex life. We've found that non-sexual physical touch, like massage, cuddling, and kissing, is so crucial in building the intimacy and closeness we all crave. We're sharing our own tips and techniques for enhancing foreplay and exploring sensuality, all while stressing the importance of open communication and understanding each other's desires. Let's prioritize our sex life and tackle any challenges together, because a thriving marriage deserves nothing less. ---------------------------- The Secret to Great Sex:https://youtu.be/MfWrHvoBjI8 Need Marriage Help?: Xomarriage.com/help Want More Resources?: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/new-releases/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1 ---------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:20 Exploring Alternative Forms of Physical Intimacy 12:50 Enhancing Sexual Intimacy: Tips and Techniques Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 6, 202433 min

Hope in the Waiting

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis sit down with Denis and Kara Duncan to delve into their heartfelt journey through infertility and adoption. The Duncans open up about their love story, the hurdles they encountered while trying to begin their family, and the significant emotional impact it had on their marriage. They emphasize the critical role of communication, the benefits of counseling, and the strength they drew from their faith during challenging times. The episode concludes with a touching prayer for others facing similar struggles. --------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests 02:15 Starting the Journey and Facing Infertility 08:21 Communication and Counseling 13:06 Support from Friends and Family 21:14 The Journey to Adoption 26:26 Prayer for Those Going Through Infertility and Adoption Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 3, 202429 min

My Spouse Is Using OnlyFans..... // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: My Spouse Is On OnlyFans. What do I do? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 1, 20249 min

Intimacy Anchored in Faith

Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, with, Dave and Ashley Willis. In today’s episode, we explore the essential role of faith in enriching your marriage. We invite you and your partner to join us in building a relationship grounded in God’s Word, engaging together in prayer, Bible study, and active participation in your church community. We also discuss how serving together can deepen your bond. To support you on this journey, we’re excited to offer a free prayer guide. We'll share some uplifting statistics on how faith can anchor your marriage, making it stronger and more resilient. Join us as we delve into these transformative practices that can bring you and your spouse closer, not just to each other, but also to God. -------------------------- Grab Your Free Prayer Guide:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/dtad9cbfib Grab a copy of I Will:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/i-will For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:02 Welcome and Overview 01:30 Building a Marriage on Faith 02:27 Faith Through the Storms 04:53 Engaging in Community and Church 07:15 Benefits of Serving Together 09:34 Experiencing Growth Through Service 16:33 Faith in Daily Life and Resources for Growth 25:56 The Power of Prayer in Marriage 28:00 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 29, 202429 min

Flirting with Danger? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: I'm Attracted To Someone At Work What Now? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 202410 min

Cultivating Love and Sex in Marriage

We are so excited to continue in our intimacy series here on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the essential ways to rekindle romance and amplify intimacy in your marriage..... yes we mean SEX. We discuss the pivotal role of physical touch and its immense benefits for a couple’s emotional and physical bond. We also explore how engaging all five senses can significantly enhance your sexual intimacy, and we’re thrilled to share a special bonus sex tip with you! Join us as we emphasize the importance of making intimacy a priority and the power of open communication to fulfill each other's needs and desires. Get ready to take actionable steps to deepen your connection and enjoy a more fulfilling marital relationship. ------------------------- FREE Resource: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 10:24 The Importance of Physical Touch: Building Trust and Connection 26:17 Prioritizing Intimacy: Breaking the Cycle of Mismatched Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 22, 202432 min

Can I Save My Marriage from Addiction? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: what do I do when I think my spouse has an addiction ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 17, 20246 min

Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?

Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We are Dave and Ashley Willis, and we are thrilled to continue our intimacy series. In this series, we are diving deep into the essentials of intimacy—emotional, physical, and spiritual—and explore the vital role of communication and trust in fostering a healthy marriage. Each episode is designed to help couples build unbreakable trust and deepen their connection through transparent and open dialogue. We share insights from our own marriage and biblical principles to guide you through common challenges and improve your relationship. Join us as we help you remove barriers and embrace a fully intimate, "naked" marriage free from secrets and full of lifelong love. Tune in to grow closer to your spouse and strengthen your marital bond as we dive in on what trust adds to your marriage. --------------------------- FREE Book: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Should your spouse be able to check your phone?: https://xomarriage.com/articles/can-i-check-my-spouses-phone/ Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Intimacy Types Overview of emotional, sexual/physical, and spiritual intimacy. 02:50 - The Importance of Communication and Trust How active communication and trust are foundational to intimacy. 04:33- The Digital Dilemma: Presence Over Screens Challenges of digital distractions and the importance of mindfulness. 06:58 - Secrets: The Enemy of Intimacy Why secrecy sabotages intimacy and how transparency can rebuild it. 09:22 - Restoring Trust After It’s Broken Strategies for rebuilding trust with honesty and frequent check-ins. 11:37- Healing and Forgiveness Post-Betrayal The process of healing, the necessity of forgiveness, and managing challenging emotions. 13:55 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust Guidance on restoring trust through consistent and transparent actions. 16:15 - The Role of Apology and Repentance The importance of genuine apologies and repentance in trust restoration. 18:34 - Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Intimacy Gradual rebuilding of intimacy, akin to healing a physical injury, including setting boundaries. 20:58 - Support Systems and Counseling Using counseling and support systems to aid the recovery process. 23:22 - Grief and Emotion Management Handling emotional and grief processes in relationship rebuilding. 25:34 - Empowering the Wronged Spouse Supporting the wronged spouse through emotional expression and prayer. 27:57 - Forgiveness and Re-Earning Trust Distinguishing between forgiveness and trust, and methods for re-earning trust for enhanced intimacy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 15, 202432 min

Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: Should We Orgasm Together ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 20247 min

The Keys to Rebuilding Intimacy in Your Marriage

We are so excited to be starting our new intimacy series on the Naked Marriage Podcast, and we can't wait to embark on this journey with you! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the intricate layers of intimacy within marriage. From emotional to physical, spiritual, and sexual intimacy, we delve into the essential components that strengthen the bond between partners. Join us as we offer practical insights and tips for nurturing intimacy in your marriage. Let's dive in together and build deeper connections! ----------------------------------- Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Want an Ad-Free Experience: xonow.com/naked Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ----------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:23 Defining Intimacy 05:31 Emotional Intimacy 16:22 Spiritual Intimacy 27:27 The Key to Better Intimacy: Vulnerability and Consistency 29:48 The Power of Praying Together in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 8, 202432 min