The Mellow Mama Podcast

In this episode, we explore shared regulation — what it is, why it matters, and how to use simple, practical tools to support your child during big emotions while staying grounded yourself.You’ll learn how your nervous system shapes your child’s experience, what co-regulation looks like in real life, and how to move from control-based reactions into connection-based responses.For parents who want to lead with calm, presence, and compassion — even on hard days.More resources and offerings:www.themellowmama.orgFind me on social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themellowmamaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themellowmamaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@themellowmamaIf this episode supported you, please take a moment to leave a 5-star review. It helps more parents find the show and means more than you know!The Mellow Mama

We throw the word disrespect around a lot, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, we slow things down and take a closer look at what respect truly is, whether it can be demanded or only earned, and how our own nervous system, childhood experiences, and expectations shape the way we perceive it.We explore:What we often label as “disrespect” (in kids, partners, and even ourselves)The difference between behavior, boundaries, and meaning-makingHow respect is built through connection, safety, and modelingPractical ways to give respect first—without abandoning yourselfThis conversation is an invitation to soften, reflect, and reframe—so we can show up with more clarity and compassion in our relationships. Mellow Moments:Gentle pauses, grounding reflections, and simple practices for real-time nervous system support.Resources:Visit www.themellowmama.org for courses, guides, and supportive resources to help you parent (and live) with more ease and intention.Connect with The Mellow Mama:Instagram: @themellowmamaTikTok: @themellowmama_YouTube: The Mellow MamaWebsite: www.themellowmama.orgIf this episode resonates, share it with a friend or leave a review— I'm grateful for you.

“Oh, just wait until they’re teenagers then come talk to me...” If I had a dollar for every time, ... well I'd only have like 20 dollars, but you get what I'm saying.This is a super common fear-based response or really, defense, to conscious child-rearing. I'm here to lovingly counter that this philosophy is precisely what we need in preparation for the teen years with our growing children, and in this conversation, I’m joined by Kirsten Cobabe to talk honestly it. To peel back the layers on the warning of “good luck once you have teens” to find it is not only unhelpful, but deeply inaccurate.We'll discuss how conscious parenting doesn’t fall apart as children grow, but instead becomes the foundation for trust, emotional safety, communication, and lasting connection during the next wave of formative growth in our children's lives. (And ours if we let it be that.) When we parent with awareness, regulation, and respect early on, we aren’t setting ourselves up for disconnection later. We’re building a relationship our future teens will need more than ever.This episode is for parents who want to:Release fear-based narratives around adolescenceUnderstand how conscious parenting supports teens’ need for autonomy and connectionFeel reassured that the work they’re doing now truly matters long-termEnvision teenage years rooted in trust, honesty, and mutual respectConnect with Kirsten CobabeWebsite: https://www.kirstencobabe.com/Instagram: @kirstencobabeMellow Mama ResourcesWebsite and all offerings: https://www.themellowmama.orgThe Parenting + Re-parenting CourseMellow MomentsYouTube: The Mellow MamaInstagram: @themellowmamaTikTok: @themellowmama_

In this episode, I share seven things I’m bringing more awareness to this year to cultivate greater calm, presence, and emotional safety in our home. These are simple, honest shifts that don’t require perfection, but do invite consistency, compassion, and my favorite, curiosity, into our daily life as a family.This conversation is for the parent who wants to feel more steady/grounded, less reactive, and more connected — and who understands that nervous system regulation is a family practice, not an individual one.If you’re craving more peace in your body, your parenting, or your relationships, this episode offers grounded reflection and practical guidance to support a calmer year ahead. Grateful you're here listening, MMExplore more support and resources: Online courses and Melo Moments: https://www.themelomama.orgConnect with me on social: Instagram: @themelomama TikTok: @themelomama_ YouTube: @themelomamaSupport the show

Chappell Roan commented that parents are “in hell” a while back, and whie the internet reacted—some offended, some defensive, and some a little more objective, I thought I'd make an episode about my perspective! If you’ve ever felt trapped, resentful, or quietly unhappy while loving your kids beyond measure, this conversation will help you understand why—and potentially what to adjust.Connect With MeWebsite https://www.themellowmama.orgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/themellowmamaYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@themellowmamaSupport the show

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I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!Love, KaitMy Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.be

Adjust these 4 habits & watch your entire relationship shift.I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!Love, KaitMy Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

So much that has been normalized that simply isn't "normal" or healthy & helpful in parenting... In this episode I discuss some as well as all that was and is normal that has been shamed, criticized, and repressed.I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!Love, KaitMy Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.be

Here are some things that helped me as I traveled along solo with my children a couple of weeks ago & some thoughts/reflections I had during and after!My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

In this episode of The Mellow Mama Podcast we're diving deep into the world of conscious parenting—what it really is, what it isn't, and the biggest myths that might be holding you back. From the misconception that conscious parenting means letting kids "do whatever they want" to the truth about setting boundaries with curiosity and compassion, we're uncovering the reality behind this powerful practice.If you've ever wondered whether conscious parenting is too "woo woo" or unrealistic, this episode is for you. Listen in as we break down the misconceptions, share practical insights, and help you parent with more awareness, connection, and confidence.My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

In this episode I talk all I could think of in the category of "Things Moms miss out on."My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

In this episode we discuss how nutrition and parenting consciously go hand-in-hand. My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

Continuing our mini book club series for Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Chapter 6 is all about how to actually make requests and have your needs met.My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beNonviolent Communication, Marshall Rosenberghttps://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2OASM9KB5UUN3&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.poMkMJ4iZ5d0y1PXK11VfsqbnV1cfr5JT8ajk0qHO4YxYVmFo5EcS5sYctq_WPwBgygGP59v0QgrXrniIJV3oqca8LJPEc9VCXqTFVtd60cLSxLJgrZB8z96R5Uu6JF7U5OrE5v4FLf4ahYxyFQN3tVlxRIy8elwhSl2wir3ThbKhdtK7y7DQrWlFPci-bs8eDNxnU7ZrEgJ6Mv3e2MFWHgRWYNBRJIjMhJow7KiO5c.Cv9WFtgmn_7WkbEUzg9dlyHkw0runRhO8QgBNNkv_GU&dib_tag=se&keywords=nonviolent+communication+by+marshall+rosenberg&qid=1710387431&sprefix=nonvio%2Caps%2C900&sr=8-1Support the show

Continuing our mini book club series for Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Chapter 5: Taking Responsibility for our Feelings, is so powerful & a practice to start for more peaceful, emotionally liberating days as a person and parent.My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beNonviolent Communication, Marshall Rosenberghttps://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2OASM9KB5UUN3&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.poMkMJ4iZ5d0y1PXK11VfsqbnV1cfr5JT8ajk0qHO4YxYVmFo5EcS5sYctq_WPwBgygGP59v0QgrXrniIJV3oqca8LJPEc9VCXqTFVtd60cLSxLJgrZB8z96R5Uu6JF7U5OrE5v4FLf4ahYxyFQN3tVlxRIy8elwhSl2wir3ThbKhdtK7y7DQrWlFPci-bs8eDNxnU7ZrEgJ6Mv3e2MFWHgRWYNBRJIjMhJow7KiO5c.Cv9WFtgmn_7WkbEUzg9dlyHkw0runRhO8QgBNNkv_GU&dib_tag=se&keywords=nonviolent+communication+by+marshall+rosenberg&qid=1710387431&sprefix=nonvio%2Caps%2C900&sr=8-1Support the show

Continuing our mini book club series for Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Chapter 3, Observation without Evaluation is so powerful & a practice to start for more peaceful days as a person and parent.My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsBooks to Read:Punished by Rewards, Alfie KohnUnconditional Parenting, Alfie KohnTeaching Johnny to Think, Leonard PeikoffInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

Hear what my dad has to say about Conscious Parenting!My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsBooks to Read:Punished by Rewards, Alfie KohnUnconditional Parenting, Alfie KohnTeaching Johnny to Think, Leonard PeikoffInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

Continuing our mini book club series for Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Chapter 3, Observation without Evaluation is so powerful & a practice to start for more peaceful days as a person and parent.My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsBooks to Read:Punished by Rewards, Alfie KohnUnconditional Parenting, Alfie KohnTeaching Johnny to Think, Leonard PeikoffInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

In this episode we hear from Lydia, an elementary school teacher committed to a conscious approach to raising and in her case, teaching children. My Course:https://www.themellowmama.org/teacher-trainingMellow Moments:https://www.themellowmama.org/productsBooks to Read:Punished by Rewards, Alfie KohnUnconditional Parenting, Alfie KohnTeaching Johnny to Think, Leonard PeikoffInstagram:@themellowmamaYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f3dhVUINH4&feature=youtu.beSupport the show

A new mini book club series on another one of my all-time favorite books! Nonviolent Communication by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg. Starting with the first two chapters & developing a foundation for healthier communication skills with anyone in your life focusing on these four pillars:Observations, Feelings, Needs, and Requests.As we proceed with reviewing this material you will feel more confident in expressing yourself, but even more importantly... become a better listener and observer. Getting more in-tune and deeply curious about the people around you and what it is they really need and are asking for. Even if... if isn't being asked for in a nonviolent way.Here's my course and other online products!www.themellowmama.orgInstagram:@themellowmamaTikTok:@themellowmama_YouTube:The Mellow MamaSupport the show