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#189: Spotting Narcissism with Stefanos Sifandos

Themes: Dating, Relationships, Narcissism, Red Flags, Gaslighting Summary: Our relationships and how happy we are within them has a powerful influence on our health, wellbeing and quality of life. In fact, in the Harvard Study of Adult Development which tracked the health of 268 sophomores over a period of 80 years, those who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80. Surprise, surprise: close relationships are what keep us going and are better predictors of long and happy lives than social class, IQ or even genes. With that in mind, I wanted to interview relational alchemist Stefanos Sifandos on the important topic of narcissism so you can feel more empowered as you navigate dating and your relationships in general. This episode is a sneak peek into Week Four of my Dating 101 course, so if you're ready to dive into the deep work of relational awareness and set the stage for heart-led, fulfilling relationships, head to datingisdope.com now to sign up! Discover: The root of narcissism or narcissistic traits and why this personality disorder/way of relating manifests Why those with narcissistic traits are attracted to those who are empathic, highly-sensitive and/or codependent How to identify narcissism and the red flags to look for Empowering tips to diffuse the power of a narcissist Links: Dating 101 Instagram: @stefanossifandos Check out Stefanos’ new book Tuned In and Turned On: Bring Conscious Sexuality & Sacred Connection Into Your Life and Elementum Coaching Institute Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 202242 min

#188: The Nervous System Explained with Sarah Baldwin

Themes: Polyvagal Theory, Attachment Theory, Trauma, Nervous System Regulation, Relationships Summary: Sarah Baldwin is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma Coach trained in Polyvagal interventions and on the training team at the Polyvagal Institute. She specializes in somatic trauma healing; attachment work, inner child work and nervous system regulation and I'm so excited to share her insight with you. In this episode, Sarah breaks down the brilliance of the nervous system so we can move out of dysregulated states and become the active operators of our lives. Discover: The incredible protective force within each of us – the Autonomic Nervous System – and how this brilliant system functions to protect us from threat and danger What is happening in the body when stored traumas and/or an insecure attachment style informs the way we show up in the present moment Why a dysregulated nervous system is a primary marker for unhappiness in our lives Tips to self-regulate and move from being in fight/flight/freeze/immobility or shut down Co-regulation and why it's so important! Links: sarahbaldwincoaching.com Instagram: @sarahbcoaching Sign up for Sarah's email list to get exclusive support, offers and her free workbook "How to Gain Control Over How You Feel" Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 18, 20221h 16m

#187: Understanding Mass Formation with Mattias Desmet

Themes: Psychology, Mass Formation, Groupthink, Belonging Summary: The psychology of individuals is interesting, and how individual psychology is influenced by groups, media, marketing and fear is an area I’m going to continue to explore. It’s like family systems but muchhhhh larger. And much more complex. Yet still simple in the narrow ways we respond when afraid — thanks to evolution and our amygdala. This is why I’M SO EXCITED that I got to interview Mattias Desmet! He is a Professor of Clinical Psychology at Ghent University in Belgium with a masters degree in statistics. As an academic researcher, Mattias started to study the statistics presented around the current events in early 2020 and it became clear to him that the stats needed further exploration and discussion, as did how we were approaching it psychologically. Mattias joins me to share his expertise in a phenomenon known as "mass formation," a kind of collective hypnosis that occurs under certain societal conditions. WOW. What an incredible exploration that I thoroughly enjoyed. I hope this episode gives you deeper context for our current situation and makes you a feel less alone as you navigate today's climate. Discover: The psychological process of "mass formation" and how it relates to current events The four specific conditions in society that when fulfilled simultaneously, lead to groupthink The surprising reason people continue to buy into a consensus narrative The most efficient strategy you can adopt to help shift the narrative Links: Mattias Desmet's Research Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 10, 20221h 6m

#186: Falling in Love Again with Diana Davis Dyer

Themes: Transformation, Awareness, Relationships, Breakups, Self Worth Summary: Today’s guest slid into my DM’s with a story of transformation so inspiring that I had to have her on to share her experience. Right before the pandemic, Diana Davis Dyer left her nine year relationship with her fiancé. With plans to be married in May 2020, she felt they were both individually functioning in darkness and that a "forever" like that was terrifying. Having never sat down to decide what kind of future and family she wanted, Diana felt so unsure of who she was and where she was going that a commitment so concrete scared her and prompted a life-changing decision to leave her relationship. After moving out and living with a friend for six months, Diana discovered my work and completed my seven day Relationship Starter Course (formerly Relationships 101) and in Diana's words, "It changed me. It let me RE-WRITE and RE-CREATE my narrative. In those days and the days after, I returned to love. And on his own, my partner did too. We came back together (with lots of work that is never-ending), got married in January 2021, and our love now is stronger, way more fun, deeper and brighter. While an immense bout of heartbreak and pain was inflicted on both of us during those 6 months, what came out of it was worth it. I wouldn't change leaving for a heartbeat, because it wouldn't have lead to this amazing love we now have." If you've struggled with a similar situation, aren't sure what you deserve or haven't sat down and thought about the love and the life you want, this episode is for you. I love for people to hear other’s stories of growth so we can see not only what’s possible for ourselves, but how to get there. I hope this episode plants a seed of hope or possibility and inspires you to keep going down the path of becoming all of who you are. Discover: Why Diana called off her engagement and the inner work she did to facilitate a reunion with her partner How to trust yourself, your innate wisdom and your journey The power of honouring your heart, choosing yourself and the self-worth that follows How painful experiences are necessary on our path to growth The importance of uncovering the narratives that run our lives to understand why we are the way we are and why we choose what we choose Links: Relationships Starter Course: A seven-day deep dive into a better understanding of relationships. (Formerly Relationships 101) Dating 101: A four week course to work on your relational awareness and get into alignment with your dream partner Instagram: @dianadavisdyer Check out Diana's directorial debut JANE: A short film about an assassin that witnesses a violent act at a motel and gives the victim a chance to exact revenge. Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 3, 202242 min

#185: Respond to the Call with Mary Shenouda

Themes: Nutrition, the Microbiome, Relationships, Health + Wellness Summary: Mary Shenouda is a highly sought-after performance chef and specialist with clients including both professional athletes and Hollywood entertainers. Shenouda is also the creator and founder of Phat Fudge, a high-performance food line of her own formulation. After almost two decades suffering from debilitating “mystery” illnesses that doctors seemed unable to explain and prescription drugs failed to solve, Mary took matters into her own hands. Devoting years of dogged, personal research into the foods she was putting into her body, Shenouda decided to change the way she ate and was able to reverse her condition within months. This new lease on life would lead her to abandon a career in tech and start a performance-focused, private chef and consulting practice. Working with a team of nutritionists, doctors, physical therapists, and performance technologies, Mary is able to identify and curate the specific nutritional needs, for a diverse roster of high-performing clients. Having done her Gut Reset program three times myself, I wanted to have Mary on the show to discuss the gut, human performance and the link between nutrition and good relationships. How does the food we feed our body affect emotional regulation and our overall wellbeing? Join me as we explore the mind-gut connection and how to embrace your health goals in a compassionate way. Discover: How your relationships influence your GI health An approach to health and wellness based on self-compassion Mary’s gut reset protocol to promote lower inflammation, better sleep and improved digestion How Mary healed her coeliac disease through food and lifestyle changes The series of events that led to Mary leaving the corporate world and becoming a private chef Links: paleochef.com Phat Fudge Instagram/Twitter: @paleochef 7 Day Gut Reset Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 27, 20211h 5m

#184: Shedding Societal Pressure with Amanda Goetz

Themes: Emotional Wellness, Mental Health, Sexuality, Societal Conditioning, Identity, Motherhood, Divorce Summary: Meet Amanda Goetz, my good friend and founder of House of Wise. I’m always inspired by what is born from the space of pain, which is why I wanted to have Amanda on to share her story. Raised in a conservative Midwest home, Amanda is a former group-fitness instructor, marathoner, and overall health nut. Over the past few years, she has navigated a divorce while being a mom of three children and working as a VP at a major wedding industry brand. Amanda turned to CBD out of desperation, and it changed her life. What she has created from her challenges is incredible and I hope her conversation inspires you as it did me. Discover: Amanda’s story of divorce during the pandemic and how her personal exploration into cannabis products led to a new business How Amanda is working to change the stigma and shame associated with cannabis products Amanda’s ritual for switching from ‘Mom mode’ to ‘date mode’ and the importance of allowing your different identities to co-exist How our cannabinoid system works and the way House of Wise’s CBD products are created to ensure your body and mind get the most out of every drop (or bite) The importance of intentional self-care and its profound correlation with self-worth Links: House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co Instagram: House of Wise + Amanda Goetz Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 20, 202152 min

#183: The Power of Fun with Catherine Price

Themes: Fun, Technology, Social Media, Relationships, Behavioural Addiction Summary: I discovered Catherine Price’s book, How to Break Up With Your Phone, during the height of what I like to call my “technology breakdown” this September. My relationship with my phone and Instagram was creating a lot of anxiety and resentment and discovering this book was the message I needed to explore and regain control in my relationship to technology. Dubbed “The Marie Kondo of Brains” by The New York Times, Catherine Price is an award-winning science journalist and speaker and the author of books including The Power of Fun: How to Feel Alive Again, and How to Break Up with Your Phone. She is also the creator and founder of ScreenLifeBalance.com, which is dedicated to helping people learn how to scroll less and live more. Her work has appeared in publications including The Best American Science Writing, The New York Times, O: The Oprah Magazine, Los Angeles Times, San Francisco Chronicle, The Washington Post Magazine, Slate, Men's Journal, Self, and Outside, among others. Discover: How our phones are deliberately designed to trigger the release of dopamine and ultimately contribute to addictive behaviours The profound negative effects of our devices on intimacy and relationships with other people The importance of fleeting interactions on our wellbeing How to create space from technology and what to do with that space How to harness the power of fun to balance the negative effects of screen time Links: HowtoHaveFun.com ScreenLifeBalance.com Instagram: @_CatherinePrice Twitter: @Catherine_Price Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 13, 20211h 9m

#182: Going Light with Kaiwei Tang

Themes: Technology, Social Media, Presence, Connection Summary: Ever feel powerless to the powers of your phone and technology? I certainly have, and over the past few months, my relationship with tech has left me feeling more depleted and anxious than ever. So much so that I recently took my first break from Instagram in seven years! This much needed space allowed me to discover how to relate to my phone and social media on my own terms, and this journey led me to discovering the Light Phone. I was fascinated by this genius idea and the company behind it creating products "designed to be used as little as possible." Say what?! Joining me today is the Light Phone co-founder Kaiwei Tang. After meeting his business partner, artist Joe Hollier, at in a Google experimental program in 2014, this product designer helped create a smartphone alternative that promotes peace of mind and intentional use. Whether you need a break from your smartphone for the weekend or you're ready to ditch it for good, the Light Phone changes how you experience your time. Discover: How tech companies profit from our time, attention and data and how The Light Phone is disrupting this industry The effects of constant digital stimulation and the profound benefits users have experienced from "going light" How to regain control in your relationship with your smartphone The ways we distract and numb ourselves with technology and how the Light Phone is helping people reconnect with themselves, others and the present moment Links: The Light Phone Instagram: @thelightphone Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 10, 20211h 2m

#181: Get High on Your Own Supply with Wim Hof

Themes: Breathwork, Inner Power, Physiology, Cold Therapy, Trauma, Stress Management Summary: "Just BREATHE, mother-f@&*er!" Join me in this fiery conversation with 'The Iceman', nicknamed so for breaking a number of records related to cold exposure including: climbing Mount Kilimanjaro in shorts, running a half marathon above the Arctic Circle barefoot, and standing in a container while covered with ice cubes for more than 112 minutes. In this episode with the legendary Wim Hof, we passionately explore the power we each hold to not only heal ourselves from within, but to control our physiology through will, breathwork and cold therapy. Get ready to have your mind blown and your inner fire ignited as we explore how to tap into your potential and unlock the multitude of benefits of the Wim Hof Method. Discover: Wim's powerful, accessible and scientifically endorsed method for improved energy, mood and cognitive function How to tap into the power we each hold within to heal and move through trauma or blockages How to shift our entire physiology and influence the immune, lymphatic, vascular and nervous systems using breath and cold therapy The simple technique to unlock your deepest potential and become the master of your emotions Links: Are you interested in learning the Wim Hof Method? Visit www.wimhofmethod.com for workshops, online courses and more, or download the Wim Hof Method app for free in the Google or Apple store Instagram: @iceman_hof Youtube: @wimhof1 Scientific Discoveries Iceman VICE Documentary Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co The Cold Plunge | Use code Createthelove for $150 off your first order at thecoldplunge.com Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 6, 202156 min

#180: The Body Doesn't Lie with Manon Mathews

Themes: Healing, Transformation, Relationships, Betrayal, Infidelity Summary: Buckle up, friends, because in today’s episode we’re taking you on a ride. I have been consistently impressed with today’s guest and I was so inspired by her story that I had to have her on the podcast to share it with you. For comedian and content creator Manon Mathews, comedy is life. It took more than luck for her hilarious antics on Vine to open the door for her career. Years of routinely embarrassing herself, improv classes, some stints as an amateur standup comic, unrelenting dedication, and a life-altering night out that forced her to change her ways—that’s what set her on the path to manifesting her dream life. Join me and Manon as she shares her story of a whirlwind romance, the betrayal that shattered her reality and the incredible transformation that followed. Discover: The importance of honouring your intuition and trusting energy The lessons and growth that can come from infidelity and betrayal Links: Instagram: @manonmathews & @manonfestation Twitter: @manonmathews TikTok: @manonmathews Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 30, 20211h 31m

#179: Embracing Conflict with Jayson Gaddis

Themes: Conflict, Communication, Relationships, Personal Responsibility, Parenting Summary: This week I’m joined once again by the brilliant Jayson Gaddis. Jayson is an incredible author, relationship expert and coach who teaches the one class we didn’t get in school – “How To Do Relationships.” Jayson leads one of the most in-depth and comprehensive relationship educational programs and trains relationship coaches all over the world. He’s also the host of The Relationship School Podcast with over 5 million downloads and published his first book, Getting to Zero, in October 2021. Discover: The number one thing we can do to better manage and move through conflict Tools and techniques to master communication under stress How the rupture and repair cycle builds security in an relationship over time How to model healthy conflict and repair for our children Links: Getting to Zero jaysongaddis.com relationshipschool.com Instagram: @JaysonGaddis YouTube: @JaysonGaddis Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 202149 min

#178: Get More Sober with Gangaji

Themes: Fulfillment, Sobriety, Grief Summary: They say when the student is ready, the teacher arrives, and that was most certainly the case with this week’s guest, Gangaji. I discovered Gangaji’s teachings in the depths of my recent breakup and her words sparked a profound journey deep within me. As a teacher and author, Gangaji meets with seekers from across the globe and in all walks of life. She shares her direct experience of the essential message she received from her teacher Papaji and offers it to all who want to discover a true and lasting fulfillment. Through her life and words, she powerfully articulates how it is really possible to discover the truth of who you are and be true to that discovery. Discover: The truths that dwell in stillness The call to sobriety How to take responsibility for your narrative Links: Website: gangaji.org Monthly Online Meeting: Live with Gangaji Sponsors: Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove House of Wise Co. | Use code CREATETHELOVEBOGO to get one free box of gummies when you buy one box at houseofwise.co Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 15, 202157 min

#177: Healing Your Programming with Rachel Fiori

Themes: Personal Responsibility, Self-Realization, Subconscious Programming Summary: This week's guest is Rachel Fiori, MSOT and Mystical Therapist. For over 23 years, Rachel has empowered individuals, couples, high-profile people, and coaches across the world to reach a level of mastery in their lives. She strategically teaches how to let go of painful mental, emotional, behavioural, and inner child programs through self-realization so her clients can be free from suffering, create sacred relationships, and fulfill their life’s potential. Discover: The importance of acknowledging our divinity Why radical responsibility is key to healing the deeply embedded programs that often run our lives How examining our own programming affects systemic change Manipulation vs. conscious intention Links: Instagram: @rachel_fiori Website: The Masters of Self University Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 8, 20211h 5m

#176: The War on Nature with Dr. Nathan Riley

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Themes: Quantum Philosophy, Medicine, Health Freedom, Harmony, Biology, Nature, Culture, Anthroposophy Summary: Our inherent connection to the natural world is in a state of disharmony and Dr. Nathan Riley, who refers to himself as a recovering OB/GYN, joins us in this episode to talk about his experiences practicing within the constructs of the Western medical model, why he left, and how he pushes back against the template approach to human health + standardized medical intervention. Dr. Riley treats the whole being in order to facilitate an elevated, expansive, and embodied life (and a good death). Discover: The problem with the Western medical model's one-size-fits-all, template approach. Birthing practices, medical convenience, and coercion in “corporate” medicine. Death, rebirth, and ancient wisdom. Embracing the beauty of our natural death experience. Re-harmonizing with + reconnecting to the natural world. Links IG: @nathanrileyobgyn Tiktok: @nathanrileyobgyn Website: www.BelovedHolistics.com End of episode reference: Dr. Stan Grof Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 1, 20211h 37m

#175: The Complexities of Being Alive with Rainier Wylde

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Themes: Self-Discovery, Societal Expectations, Individuality, Accountability, Repression Experienced teacher, writer, and speaker, Rainier Wylde takes us on a journey of the human experience and his struggles with finding his true self. Rainier also shares how society conditions us to wear a cloak of dishonesty, and how we can dissolve the daily illusion we live and learn to be our true selves. Discover: Deeper understanding of the human experience. You have to be a SELF in order to be in relationships with others. What fuels us to repress individuality. What comes next when the mask comes off and it’s time to face your true self. The basement of shadows and how it helps to dismantle your reality to find yourself. Links IG: @rainierwylde Website: https://www.rainierwylde.com/ The Rope, an 8-week transformational experience of discovering self, building mastery, and encountering profound connection. A community of brothers becoming strong individuals in relationship to others, a leveling up, and a sense of freedom. Current Rope experience is May 4 - June 22. Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 26, 202158 min

#174: Good Death - Solo Episode

Themes: Death, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Learning to Let Go, Self-Reflection, Relational Endings Death. Learning to let go. It’s easier said than done. You didn’t fight hard enough for this relationship. These are words and phrases that haunt us when we shift towards a new phase of our lives, whether it’s professionally, romantically or both. When we find ourselves at the end of a relationship we often feel that we need to fight so we can preserve the relationship. We feel that we need to give that extra push to preserve the love that once was. But what if...the best way to fight for the relationship is to let it go? What if...the best way to honour each other is to honour yourselves first? When we find ourselves at these crossroads where do we go? What do we need to do to move on and grow? Discover: How we mistake letting go with giving up. Letting go of people, behaviours, patterns that are not in alignment is a superpower. Relationships are a potent invitation to your expansion and growth. We’re not honouring our worth when we don’t show up. Love is meant to teach us, to prepare us for connection that is within our highest alignment. Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 21, 202132 min

#173: Reclaiming Your Inner Fire with Anahata Ananda

Themes: Breathwork, Shamanic Healing, Transformation, Spiritual Awakening Anahata Ananda blends the compassion and tenderness of an Angel and the wisdom and strength of a Shaman to guide profound journeys of core healing and spiritual awakening. As a Certified High-Performance Coach, Shamanic Healer and Soul Guide, Anahata has guided thousands of individuals through core life shifts, helping them to turn their life around and manifest the life of their dreams. Anahata is the founder of Shamangelic Healing, based in Sedona, AZ, where she offers life coaching, virtual workshops, group retreats, private healing sessions and online courses. She is also the host of the internationally acclaimed Shamangelic Healing Podcast. Discover: Anahata’s passion for guiding people through their transformational journey of reclamation and relighting their fire. Opening up our subconscious where we can see ourselves in our fuller potential through the Shamangelic healing. Accessing our natural state of joy and fully expressing ourselves as compassionate humans. Free gift for our audience from Anahata: Free Guided Visualization for Balancing the Feminine & Masculine Within + 15% off Anahata's online Balancing the Feminine & Masculine Within course: https://shamangelic.pages.ontraport.net/FreeGift_MarkGroves Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Resources: Website: ShamangelicHealing.com Instagram: @AnahataAnanda Facebook: facebook.com/ShamangelicHealing YouTube: youtube.com/ShamangelicHealing Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 18, 20211h 2m

#172: Facing the Chaos with Jennifer Jimeno

Themes: Relationships, Self Discovery, Accountability, Self-Care & Social Conditioning Jennifer is a hairstylist, writer, podcaster, and mother who shares her courageous and transformative journey of self-discovery and accountability. Jennifer also shares the importance of running towards the chaos instead of running away from it, and the value of putting in the work. Discover: Jennifer’s personal journey learning to face challenges head-on. Normalizing life’s beautiful struggles. Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Links: Instagram: @hightide_mama Jennifer’s Podcast: High Tide - a podcast about brave individuals navigating life's waves and going beyond their comfort zones. Experience the Rediscover Your Wholeness course that transformed Jennifer's personal growth journey at Create The Love! Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 11, 202146 min

#171: Discover Your Sparketype with Jonathan Fields

Themes: Career Fulfillment, Finding Purpose, Leadership, Identity, Personality Archetypes Jonathan Fields is the mastermind behind the Sparketype assessment, which uses 30 million data points to help you discover your unique imprint, so you can become aligned with the work that makes you come alive! Discover: Why you feel burned out and uninspired by your career, and how a simple, unexpected shift can bring more meaning and joy back into what you do. How to reimagine your current work to feel more energized and inspired. Tapping your Sparketype to ignite a sense of purpose, excitement, and possibility. Links: Find Your Sparketype: https://sparketype.com Website: https://www.jonathanfields.com Jonathan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonathanfields Jonathan’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanfields1 Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 4, 20211h 7m

#170: The State of Things - Solo Episode

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Themes: Identity, Othering, Restoring Our Humanity, Finding Your Center The world is in a state where the divisiveness cuts so deep that human beings are actually wishing death upon one another for not falling in line with a particular point of view. How did we get here? Discover: The issue of our resistance to discomfort and intellectual fragility. Dehumanization in order to justify human rights violations. The crafty marketing via captured organizations driving “othering” and exclusion. Links: IG: @createthelove and @createthelovecards Website:www.createthelove.com Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 27, 202129 min

#169: Love Is Transcendent with Moe Ari

Themes: Loving + accepting Transgender family members, Re-learning how to receive love, Radical Authenticity Moe Ari is a licensed marriage and family therapist + reiki practitioner who brings the confluence of these worlds to his healing practice. Moe specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community and all people in pursuit of authenticity + self-awareness. Discover: Moe’s personal journey as a member of the Transgender community. Overcoming adversity in the quest for your authentic self. The authenticity versus belonging dynamic. Links: IG: @loveoutproud Website:www.loveistranscendent.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/loveistranscendent Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 20, 20211h 0m

#168: Crushing Comparisonitis with Melissa Ambrosini

Themes: Unhealthy Comparison, Social Pressure, Individuality, Identity Best-selling author, motivational speaker, and empowerment entrepreneur Melissa Ambrosini walks us through overcoming what she’s coined “comparisonitis,” a.k.a. the unhealthy and incessant self-comparison that stems from spending so much of our time in the digital landscape. Discover: The signs that you’re suffering from comparisonitis. Embracing your uniqueness and becoming genuinely happy. Getting clear on your own core values in order to heal from comparisonitis. Links: @melissaambrosini www.melissaambrosini.com http://comparisonitis.com/ https://twitter.com/Mel_Ambrosini https://www.facebook.com/MelissaAmbrosiniTribe ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 13, 20211h 2m

#167: The Cost of Censorship with Africa Brooke

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Themes: Self-Sabotage, Healthy Discomfort, Courage, Curiosity & Cancel Culture As a collective, we must exit our echo chambers, open our minds, embrace nuance, and return to curiosity & reasoned discourse. Discover: Practicing critical thought & becoming okay with the potential of being wrong Creating an environment where it’s acceptable to experience healthy discomfort The intrinsic power of curiosity and the value of embracing nuance Collective self-sabotage and how “cancel culture” has created an environment where discourse is viewed as an affront In this episode, I sit down with globally recognised mindset coach Africa Brooke to talk censorship, collective self-sabotage, and how the success of humanity relies on the understanding that we must be capable of coexisting, which requires healthy, productive engagement with one another instead of forced homogeneity & conformity of thought. This is one of the most important podcasts you’ll listen to this year. Links: IG: @africabrooke Website: africabrooke.com ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 6, 20211h 6m

#166: The Art + Science of Fulfillment with Robert Mack

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Themes: Gratitude, Happiness, Success, Positive Psychology, Authenticity, Mental Health Positive Psychology expert Robert Mack is one of the world's leading experts on the relationship between happiness and success. In this episode we discuss Robert’s own illuminations on healing from a life-altering event that completely shifted the course of his personal and professional trajectory + we get to the bottom of what blocks us from experiencing true peace, love, and joy in our lives. Discover: How to avoid overwhelm with the infinite choices we’re faced with in our daily lives. Learning to experience ourselves in a state of presence resulting in effortless success. The transformation that manifests when we become rooted in beingness, planted in presence + grounded in gratitude. Links: IG: @robmackofficial Website: www.coachrobmack.com Be sure to check out Robert’s new book Happiness from the Inside Out: The Art and Science of Fulfillment which provides a practical approach—born out of both personal experience + science—for living a happier, healthier, and wealthier life. Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 3, 202154 min

#165: Attachment Theory 101 with Silvy Khoucasian

Themes: Attachment Theory, Attachment Styles, Dating, Relationships THIS IS IT! The Attachment theory podcast you’ve all been waiting for! Silvy Khoucasian is my personal go-to expert for attachment theory so sit back and let us guide you through all things attachment! Discover: Attachment 101- New Course all about Attachment Theory and attachment styles Silvy’s background and expertise in Attachment Theory What your attachment style tendencies are and how you can change them to create secure stable relationships Links: https://createthelove.com/attachment https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/ Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 26, 202155 min

#164: Just BREATHE with Josh Trent

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Themes: Breathwork, Emotional Awareness Josh Trent is back by popular demand! Josh is the Founder of Wellness Force Media , host of the Wellness Force Podcast and the creator of the BREATHE: Breath & Wellness Program. Josh has spent the past 19 years as a trainer, researcher, and facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world. This episode is for new AND seasoned breathwork practitioners! Discover: The role pain plays in shaping our ability to deal with adversity The power of using breathwork to regulate emotions in everyday life All about Josh’s program BREATHE, use code 'MARK' for 20% off!!! Find more of josh at the following links! www.wellnessforce.com www.civilizedcaveman.com www.wellnessforce.com/iTunes www.youtube.com/wellnessforce www.facebook.com/wellnessF www.wellnessforce.com/group www.twitter.com/wellnessforce www.instagram.com/wellnessforce www.linkedin.com/in/joshtrent www.facebook.com/fitnessSD www.instagram.com/trent_SD www.facebook.com/CivilizedCaveman www.instragram.com/civilizedcaveman Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 19, 202158 min

#163: Quit Your Day Job with Cathy Heller

Themes: Careers, Alignment, Professional development, Cathy Heller is your number one hype woman! Seriously I get so pumped talking to her. Cathy helps people find out what they truly love in life and then helps them find ways to get paid for it. Discover: How to come back home to yourself and find out what you truly would like to do with your life How to hold your own wants as goals for professional and personal development What finding alignment with your professional life can do for your interpersonal relationships. Links: https://www.cathyheller.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cathy.heller/ ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 13, 202158 min

#162: On Loving Yourself: Solo Episode

Themes: Values, Relationship to self, Boundaries, Self-love Join me on this gentle invitation to think about how you love and relate to your own self. What do you value? What do you hold sacred when venturing outside of yourself to love another? If self-love is ultimately about the choices we make, do you love your choices? ~ Discover: The process of processing grief Why checking in with yourself is important Nurturing mental and emotional health What is self love? Sitting with yourself and listening, "What this pain asking of you?" Betrayal of self How to have reverence for yourself What does sacredness mean to you? Sponsors: Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE! Create more love by visiting: createthelove.com @createthelove @createthelovecards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 8, 202117 min

#161: Inside Male Emotions with Bryan Reeves

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Themes: Male emotions, Masculine vs feminine communication, Anxious attachment, Breakups Bryan Reeves is a writer, educator and coach specializing in the male experience within relationships. Bryan is an expert in troubleshooting emotional expression and you're going to want what he has to say! Discover: The male emotional experience and how men were traditionally expected to show up in relationships What men AND women can do to take responsibility for how we communicate with each other Bryan’s new book “Choose Her Everyday Or Leave Her” Links: https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/ https://bryanreeves.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bryanreevesinsight?lang=en ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 4, 20211h 1m

#160: What Femininity Wants with John Wineland

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John Wineland is a speaker and teacher who leads men and women in the practices of embodied masculine leadership, spiritual intimacy and sexual polarity. John’s embodiment-driven teachings draw from over 30 years of experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, as well as 10 years of intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida. Listen in as John unpacks the roles that masculinity and femininity play in our lives. John is a master teacher who navigates this space like no other. You’re going to want to hear his new paradigm of how masculinity can inform what action needs to take place in order for more freedom and love to be experienced in a relationship. I’ve admired John’s work for years, incorporating many of his teachings into my personal journey. You can find out more about John via the following links. ~ Discover: What is authentic masculine and feminine energy? How do the masculine and feminine act in nature? (Structure vs. Flow) The recipe for presence How to dismantle pain and how it liberates us The collective grief for men How we lost permission to access anger The path for men to reconnect to their feelings How non-verbal communication can co-regulate the nervous system What women really need ~ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/john_wineland/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/johnwineland Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnWineland1/ Webstite: www.JohnWineland.com ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 28, 202155 min

#159: How To Not Die Alone - Logan Ury

What does the science say about finding and creating health relationships? This week I dive into the science on dating and love with behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury, who is also the author of the incredible book How To Not Die Alone. Not only is Logan a dating and relationship science ninja, she's also the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. You're not going to want to miss her brilliant and practical insights on how to create the love. #seewhatididthere Find Logan at www.loganury.com on Instagram. ~ Discover: What makes a great relationship? Dating blindspots The "romanticizer", the "maximizer" and the "hesitater" The Disney and Rom-Com paradox The happily every after fallacy The life partner vs. the prom date How to improve your dating habits How are you showing up? Why we don't use discernment in dating The drug of love How to not die alone ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 18, 202150 min

#158: Why You Run From Love (or Sabotage it) - Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Why do we have such a hard time stepping towards love and/or surrendering into it? Why do we sabotage relationships with people who actually want to love us? In this episode, I welcome back one of your favourites, Dr. Alexandra Solomon. She is an absolute relationship wizard and we discuss what gets in the way of love and why. We explore how to navigate the delicate space of relationships and take responsibility for ourselves, and invite our partner to take responsibility for themselves. You're not going to want to miss this wisdom-packed episode. Buckle up. ~ Discover: Why we don't touch the depth of grief and pain Noticing and exploring patterns are necessary to create shift Why do we hesitate talking about our feelings Name your pain Taking in feedback and healthy shame How to deepen relationships How to move through shutting down Relational is change cemented when... Why acknowledgment is so critical How to love bravely ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 14, 20211h 1m

#157: The Impacts of Lockdowns - Dr. Jay Bhattacharya

This week I am so excited to welcome Dr. Jay Bhattacharya on the podcast. He is a Professor of Medicine at Stanford University and directs Stanford’s Center for Demography and Economics of Health and Aging. Dr. Bhattacharya’s recent research focuses on the epidemiology of COVID, including the lethality of COVID infection and effects of lockdown policies. Listen out for: The ideas behind pandemic plans, and why Dr. Bhattacharya says lockdowns will be viewed as the single biggest public health mistake in all of history. Why public health officials' had the wrong approach by focusing on controlling all infections (or cases) in the population, rather than focusing on how to protect those most at risk. The psychological, socio-economic, and physical effects that infection control/ lockdowns have had on individuals and communities. Learn more about the Collateral Global project and connect with Dr. Bhattacharya on LinkedIn. ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 7, 20211h 10m

#156: Recognizing Red Flags - Vienna Pharaon

This week I am so excited to share an amazing conversation from a Live webinar I hosted with one of my best friends, Vienna Pharaon. Vienna is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of New York, practicing out of NYC. Vienna received her Master of Science in Marriage & Family Therapy from Northwestern University and trained extensively at The Family Institute, Bette D. Harris Center. In this episode we dive deep into dating, red flags, narcissism, unavailability, self-worth and so much more. Grab your pen and paper—this episode is dynamite! Find more about Vienna's work here, and be sure to follow her on Instagram @mindfulmft. ~~~ Discover: Dating Q&A with Vienna Dating dynamics and red flags Why don't they text me back? If you loved yourself would you respond this way? Signs of green flags What is love bombing? Narcissism, gas lighting and discarding Why we are drawn to people who wound us Emotional familiarity, trauma bonding, and healing How to touch the wound differently The conversations we don't want to have are the exact thing we need for alignment Why we are drawn to avoidant people? How to heal the chasing Why you need to tune in to yourself How to take your power back Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 30, 202157 min

#155: How You Relate Is Your Responsibility - Solo Episode

This week I wanted to share some thoughts on taking responsibility for our relationships. When we begin to understand things like our unconscious biases, explore the programs we were raised with, and recognize the BS of what we've been taught relationally — we are presented with a choice. We can choose whether or not we want to do the work, sit with the hard stuff, and become the best version of ourselves. Expansion is readily available to us... will you choose it? ~~~ Discover: Perspectives of the world of those who are "lucky" and those who are "unlucky" The unconscious programs that are running the show Healthy inquiry, self-responsibility and self-awareness Expansion and the cocoon Where your worth comes from Explore the depths of who you are with grace and compassion Progress and transformation and stepping into a new space The beauty of repair Take responsibility for the way you relate Life is hard, AND we can change From victim to victor Life is hard, AND you can change Owning your sh*t Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 24, 202118 min

#154: Let Yourself Arrive - Solo Episode

How do you honour transitions? Are you able to sit in the space of expansion? Can you fly off the edge and trust? This week's episode is a personal life update. I share what life has felt like lately, moving cities, and how I've been navigating both change and uncertainty while continuously being called back to the present moment. ~~~ Discover: How to be more present and slow down through change and grief Sitting with yourself is a gift How to navigate through life transitions Pay attention to the subtle nudges Can you sit in the space that your soul has drawn you to and just trust? Imposter syndrome is a sign you're on the right path Can you have courage and let yourself arrive? Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 16, 202117 min

#153: Healing is Multi-Dimensional with Dr. Mariel Buqué

I think it’s absolutely fascinating that a lot of the things we might be healing today… are not actually ours. You may have heard the words generational trauma, intergenerational trauma and collective trauma before – but what do they mean? How does this impact a person’s relational patterns, expansion, intimacy or growth? I am so excited for you to experience this week’s episode with the brilliant Dr. Mariel Buqué, a Columbia University-trained Psychologist, Intergenerational Trauma expert, and sound bath meditation healer. Her work focuses on the advancement of culturally responsive therapeutic practices that affirm the lived experiences of Black & Indigenous People of Color (BIPOCs). Her clinical work centers on healing wounds of intergenerational trauma, holistic mental wellness, and centering indigenous healing practices. We discuss the ways intergenerational trauma forms, caring for ourselves in a holistic way, healing from emotional wounds and how to transition into a liberated version of Self. Head here to find Dr. Mariel Buqué's work and learn about the the Soul Healing Collective –a community space she created for people to heal together, as she believes in the liberation of both our minds and of oppressive systems as necessary qualities of our collective wellness. Be sure to connect with @dr.marielbuque on Instagram as well. ~~~ Discover: The things we are looking to heal today are actually not ours Looking at inherited trauma The connection to the gut microbiome, trauma and mental health Challenging western science and psychology How hollistic and ancestral practices help us feel grounded and connected Why we hang on to our limitations - the undercurrent of safety Safety vs. certainty How trauma effects nature vs. nurture Epigenetics, stress and resilience Sound bath meditations for inherited trauma How to hold compassion for trauma that isn't yours Finding wisdom inside your history The multi-dimensional approach to healing Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 9, 202146 min

#152: How to Access Clarity & Connection with Yung Pueblo

This week I am honoured to welcome back Diego Perez onto the show. Diego Perez is a meditator, writer, and speaker who is widely known on Instagram through his pen name Yung Pueblo. His written works focus on the reality of self-healing, the movement from self-love to unconditional love, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves. Diego's practice of Vipassana meditation has given him a deeper understanding of liberation that inspires his writing. Through writing and speaking he aims to support the healing of the individual, knowing that when people release their personal burdens it helps humanity build a global peace. In this episode Diego shares how meditation practice is a profoundly transformative path, and his primary vehicle for growth, healing and freedom. We anchor into how to traverse serious transformation on both an individual and global level. How to dance in nuance, how to practice love in its purest form, and how to deepen our connections rather than our attachments. The name Yung Pueblo means young people; it serves to remind him of his Ecuadorian roots, his experiences in activism, and that the collective of humanity is in the midst of important growth. You can connect with Diego on Instagram @yung_pueblo, and find his new book Clarity & Connection, here. ~~~ Discover: The power of mediation and silent retreats "In silence is who you are." How silence can give you more than a college education How to hold space for different perspectives and truths How to deepen trust intimacy How 50% gives you success in relationships How impermanence is critical How to return to circadian alignment How to create more balance in life and relationships Love in purest form How to deepen clarity and connection ~~~ Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi! Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 3, 20211h 5m

#151: How to Harness The Power of Plant Medicine - Jenny Sansouci

I am so excited to welcome Jenny Sansouci onto the podcast! Jenny is the author of The Rebel's Apothecary: A Practical Guide to the Healing Magic of Cannabis, CBD, and Mushrooms. Jenny is a Certified Health Coach through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and has been trained by functional medicine doctor Frank Lipman, MD, in New York City. In this episode we discuss the various medical and wellness uses for cannabis and medicinal mushrooms. How they can enhance the lives of anyone living with pain, anxiety, depression, weakened immune system, insomnia, and more. We talk about the myths and stigmas associated with these powerful healing plants and fungi. We get into the research on psilocybin mushrooms, and share our personal journey’s — diving deep into the weird and beautiful blend of biological and spiritual facets. What starts off as a conversation aiming to deepen your understanding and respect for organisms that literally exist under our feet, quickly shifts to the understanding and expansion of human consciousness. Discover: Cannabis, psilocybin and chemotherapy Healing modalities that academia is now supporting The benefits of Reishi, Maitake, Chaga, Lion's Mane and other medicinal mushrooms Censorship of natural modalities Looking at healing through a different perspective Questioning what we were taught in relationship How relationships are the gateway to the divine Depression: blunting the symptoms vs. getting to the root cause The beauty and wisdom inside nature The illusion of security "When you get the message, hang up the phone." Exploration vs. recreation Maybe there's another way Click here to grab your copy of The Rebel’s Apothecary. Download this free immune support chapter from the book, and be sure to follow @jennysansouci on Instagram. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 27, 20211h 8m

#150: Supporting Women's Mental Health - Taryn Bird

This week I am excited to introduce you to the wonderful Taryn Bird, Senior Director of Social Impact, Kate Spade New York. She leads the social impact team, overseeing the company’s social enterprise initiative on purpose, philanthropic programs and corporate volunteering. In this episode, we discuss the importance of women’s mental health, the impact it has in today’s society, and the gaps in the women & girls empowerment space. We dive into being proactive about mental health and wellbeing, knowing that you’re not alone, and the unique considerations that are important to recognize among women-identified individuals. Taryn candidly shares her own experiences with mental health, post traumatic stress, loss, and healing. I am so excited to share this important conversation with you as part of Mental Health Awareness Month and Mental Health Action Day. ~ Discover: The accessible mental health tools available to women, girls, and moms Current mental health statistic during covid Experiencing negative emotions The shocking KPI's of women who give The questions we are not asking enough The correlation between how much women give and their mental health How companies are putting resources in place to support mental health Mental health does not have to be dark Why feeling seen inside community is healing The pandemic after the pandemic Releasing control and welcoming the process Why filling your cup is so important but so easily forgotten "Post Traumatic Growth" Purpose and the connection to mental health Learn more about the Kate Spade New York Foundation here, and check out the Women’s Guide to Mental Health & Wellbeing. Check out Mine’d, an accessible way to support your mood and mental health. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 20, 20211h 12m

#149: Reprogramming Your Self-Worth with Lacy Phillips

This week we welcome back Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, a global manifestation expert and speaker specializing in unblocking subconscious beliefs of unworthiness while expanding into alignment with what one is calling in. In this episode Lacy introduces us to Neural Manifestation - a concept backed by neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics and energetics, based on raising your self worth and stepping into your true authentic self. You'll learn how manifestation works, what blocks us, and how we can debunk superstitions or other childhood beliefs. Discover: Why the "think positive" model doesn't work Self-worth and deservingness is the law of attraction We are projecting from the subconscious beliefs from our childhood Understanding when you're doing the work but it doesn't happen, why? Negative feelings are the roadmap to what's blocking you "You don't change the memory, you change the emotional response to it." - Lacy Phillips Love and money are directly connected - their deepest connection is security What is your authentic code? Why must shatter the old relational model What is your true authentic self and how are you showing up in relationship? ~ Find more about Lacy and To Be Magnetic at www.tobemagnetic.com or on Instagram.To get 20% off the Love Bundle head to www.tobemagnetic.com/mark-groves and use code MARKGROVES20. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 5, 202159 min

#148: Activating the Activist in All of Us with Mark Brand

Mark Brand is a pioneering entrepreneur and chef in the field of Social Impact and Community Development. Along with overseeing the 5 organizations under MB Inc, Brand leads his A Better Life Foundation in Canada, the United States, he is a Stanford fellow, Professor of Innovation and Design Thinking, and has served as executive chef for the American Refugee Committee and Pope Francis's Climate Challenge. Brand has recently been appointed to the United Nations Catalyst team focusing on food waste, poverty, and the impacts of current systemic structures on the most marginalized. At the root of everything he works on, his belief is that the solutions are all attainable with deep cooperation and the understanding there is no “Us and Them, only Us.” This transformative episode is one that can't be missed. Mark and I discuss poverty and how it affects all of us. Mark walks us through how we as individuals can take immediate steps towards eradicating poverty and becoming and activists in our own communities. ~ Discover: "The one vs. the one percent" The incredible things Mark Brand is doing to eradicate poverty What do you care about and why? Why volunteering and contribution will light you up Never stop following your inner guidance If the community is unwell, we are unwell. We have to sit in our grief because there is something powerful inside of it How socialization has caused us to dehumanized Ways you can show up for humanity Find Mark on Instagram, or at www.markbrandinc.com www.abetterlifefoundation.ca www.abetterlifefoundation.us Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 28, 20211h 7m

#147: How To Become A Boundary Boss with Terri Cole

Back for a third time is the fantastic Terri Cole. Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and this week she is here to talk all things BOUNDARIES! Terri breaks down her own definition of Boundaries and walks us through the 10 rules of her Boundary Bill of Rights outlined in her new Boundary Boss Book. Understanding and getting to know your boundaries is the first step toward getting to know the real you, and building a life that aligns. Start by asking yourself - where am I angry? Where am I exhausted? Where am I not talking my truth? Discover: What is a boundary and how to be a boundary boss How we have learned codependency and people pleasing Why do we say yes when we want say no Why checking off the boxes can still leave you empty What a boundary disaster looks like Becoming fluent in boundaries is a process of learning about yourself The "ok and not ok list" The "boundary bully" Compatibility and compliance Are your current boundaries getting you what you want? What you get by continuing to have disordered boundaries How to empower yourself by choosing differently The "boundary boss bill of rights" Find Terri's book at www.boundarybossbook.com and head to www.boundaryboss.me/ctl for your free gift. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 23, 202152 min

#146: Engineering Our Future with Dr. Zach Bush

Back by very popular demand, we welcome Dr. Zach Bush. Zach Bush MD is a renowned, multi-disciplinary physician of internal medicine, endocrinology, hospice care and internationally recognized educator on the microbiome as it relates to human health, soil health, food systems, and a regenerative future. Once again - I want to premise with the fact that this conversation is a complex one, and not for the faint of heart. After having Zach on previously to discuss the world's response to the Covid-19 pandemic, I wanted to bring him back to further divulge the medical systems response to the virus, primarily; the vaccination, the PCR test and the various strategies that were implemented to combat this virus - plus so. much. more. ~ Discover: Fear-mongering and isolation negatively affect immunity Why doesn't the government talk about strategies that promote health? The benefits of sunshine/vitamin D, sleep hygiene, nutrition, and fresh air for the immune system The no-fear approach The genetic modification of humanity New facts about PCR tests How the innate immune system adapts naturally A fascinating study with Gonzaga University The statistics of comorbidities We have to work with nature, not against it Our bacteria are essential for our health What questions are we not asking about the human immune system We need to be in balance with Mother Earth, not in opposition to it Healthy soil is directly connected with healthy humans Viruses are genetic upgrades and we should not fear it Find Zach on his website www.ZachBushMD.com or on Instagram. To order Ion Biome head here and get a free travel bottle with purchase of a two month supply! If you want to subscribe, click here. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 19, 20211h 39m

#145: How To Live Your Best Life, Integrated with Steph Corker

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Steph Corker is my dear friend and the founder of The Corker Collective, a human capital consulting firm committed to everyone living their best life, integrated. She is passionate about potential and leading people towards personal transformation. In this episode we dive into how to bring out the actualized version of yourself in all areas of your life, specifically - in relationships and your career. Join us to learn how to change what is possible in your life so you can love every moment you experience. You will learn how to allocate your time in a way that generates the best version of yourself and raises the frequency of every experience you encounter. ~ Discover: The Corker Collective: Injecting heart beats into businesses How are you showing up in work, life, relationships, and is it the same? The evolution of the workplace To have a big life, you have to be willing to have big conversations The steps we can take to get who we want to be It's hard for toxicity to penetrate when you're connected to yourself What would the actualized version of you do? The resistance in going to the edge The consumer vs. the generator Slow down, you'll get there faster The five regrets of the dying, and what matters The "and" is always possible Find Steph on Instagram or at www.thecorkercollective.com. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 14, 20211h 7m

#144: Let It Burn Pt. 2 - Mark Groves & Kylie McBeath

Part 2 of the much anticipated conversation with my partner Kylie on our breakup is here. We dive deeper into the imperative work that was required of both of us to be able to re-enter into right relationship, together. Both Ky and I explore the necessity of the rupture, our wounding and how we healed. Join us for Part 2 of this emotional conversation that further explores so many crucial topics from Part 1. Expanding, unpacking and dismantling old frameworks around what we were taught about relationship. Letting go of what no longer served us, to invite reconciliation. ~ Discover: Relational patterns and dynamics What is buried underneath grief, loss and suffering The deep soul knowing that it's time to let go of your old self The key behind deep, meaningful relationships How suffering gives us a gift Support and community is vital during a breakup Examining and processing generational lineage/patterns "Man = mother until you do mother work" External validation vs. internal sourcing Why we soothe wounds with arousal Holding reverence for the feminine and mother earth What love truly means Find Kylie on Instagram or on her website https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/courses. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 9, 20211h 22m

#143: How To Change Your Life Through Meditation - Laurasia Mattingly

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This week we jam with Laurasia Mattingly about the power of mindfulness and meditation. Following the loss of her mother, Laurasia began exploring her own spirituality as a means of working through her grief to find peace in the uncertainty of life. Laurasia shares with us how meditation can transform our lives. Join us as we explore how we, through mindfulness and meditation, can overcome our stress and free up the space for us to deepen our relationship with ourselves and our intuition. ~ Discover: The beautiful power of meditation Can you sit with it? Start with mindfulness The power of presence Why is it difficult to hold so many feelings Joy vs. Happiness How softening your parameters makes everything easier Why life is delicious within this space Are you abandoning yourself? Loneliness vs. Alone Beauty is growing from where you are hurt The invitation to slowness Caring for your wounds (aka frequent visitors) What is essentialism Find more on Laurasia on her website www.laurasiamattingly.com or on Instagram. You can grab a copy of her book here. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 5, 202154 min

#142: How To Transform Anger Into Growth - Alejandra Proaño

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Alejandra Proaño is an Anger Management Specialist and is the co-owner of Moose Anger Management. She directs Healing Anger, the program for women that now runs online and worldwide. She and her team specialize in individual, couple and group counselling work on anger and addictions. Alejandra holds a Specialization in Family Therapy, a Master’s in clinical psychology, a Master’s in Science and a Master’s in Literature. I am so excited to have Alejandra on this week for an extremely informative conversation on anger - how so many of us don't truly know how to express it or feel shame in the emotion. Anger is necessary to protect the integrity of individuals in a relationship; it represents the need for a boundary. Our capacity for a compassionate expression of our anger, is usually the result of past trauma and experience. Tune in to learn more! ~ Discover: Why we can't externalize anger What is underneath anger? What are you really feeling? Understanding cues in the body Understanding your own relationship to anger How anger can deepen intimacy and personal evolution The power of the collective anger Until we change, nothing changes. You can find more about Alejandra at www.healinganger.ca or on Instagram. Find her book here: https://healinganger.ca/product/healing-anger-ebook/. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 29, 202157 min

#141: How To Take Responsibility For Your Worth - Solo Episode

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In this episode join me on my hike as I share my thoughts on the false sense of separation we have with the Earth, the disconnection we have with ourselves, and our worth. The truth is hidden in plain sight, and we can all find it by being present, turning inward and taking radical responsibility for our self worth. We can’t wait for people to choose us. Otherwise we’ll always be waiting, because nobody wants the responsibility of our self worth. We model the love we want by the type of love we give. Make yours unconditional. ~ Discover: Asking the questions: What are you ignoring? What does your body need? What does your soul crave? Why we get stuck in co-dependency and wrapped up in our wounds Boundaries are guide-posts to love and trust Why a baseline for grace, kindness, trust and respect is vital Expansion is hidden inside the frustrations and challenges Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 26, 202116 min

#140: The Truth Will Set You Free - Solo Episode

When you don't stand in the truth of what, you're not going to get what you want - pretty simple right? Whether or not we decide to talk about our truth, it will always still live inside you. Not honouring our truth leads to small betrayals, which usually become giant betrayals later on and typically we can look back and see where we betrayed ourselves initially in order to get there. This week I share a personal story from my past where I self abandoned and didn't declare what I really wanted. The truth always sets us free, no matter how difficult it can be to say it. ~ Discover: Why do we fear stepping into our truth? The dangers of staying in the comfort zone Why we self-betray and self-abandon in effort to keep connection Why we need to explore grief The two most important questions you need to ask yourself Small betrayals become giant betrayals later Where do you betray yourself? The power of claiming yourself Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 22, 202125 min