
The Mark Groves Podcast
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#363: Relationship Repair: Navigating Through Conflict
In this episode, I discuss the vital role of repairing ruptures in relationships – diving into the significance of mutual understanding, empathy, and consistent repair as foundational elements for building trust and deep emotional connections. I talk about the importance of addressing unresolved issues early on to prevent lingering negativity and nurture intimacy. I also explore the challenges in modeling repair, the barriers to genuine apologies, and the valuable insights gained through reflecting on past experiences. Join me in this conversation as we prioritize repair over ego, embrace love in our lives more deeply, and co-create a culture of grace for stronger, healthier relationships. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Breakups, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Emotional Health, Grief, Repairing Ruptures, Empathy, Intimacy, Grace, Apology, Healing, Relational Repair Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#362: Heal Your Wounds & Reclaim Your Life Through Shadow Work w/ Violet Benson
In this episode, I welcome Violet Benson back to the podcast. We dive into the transformative process of shadow work and the impact of confronting grief. In order to help understand how past experiences have shaped our present behaviors, Violet speaks about the significance of understanding our personal experiences of childhood trauma and the coping mechanisms we’ve developed. She also discusses the power of self-expression, boundaries, and the channeling of emotions into constructive actions. Violet encourages us to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth – sharing the tool of shadow work as a means of healing past wounds, enhancing emotional intelligence, and cultivating fulfilling relationships with oneself and others. Join us for this enlightening conversation that invites honesty forward and deepens our connections within. Violet Benson, comedian, motivational speaker, creator of Daddy Issues and podcast host of the largest self love podcast and movement for women. Known for her solo episodes and amazing guests, You can catch new episodes of Almost Adulting, every Tuesday and Thursday on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. —Violet’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ —Violet’s Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ —Violet’s Meme Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ —Violet’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues —Violet’s Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IY1Gjc1uktmDCmNLA0HXo If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Shadow Work, Grief, Trauma, Self-Expression, Emotional Health, Healing, Personal Growth, Boundaries, Coping Mechanisms This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#361: The Deeper Meaning Behind Your Anxiety
In this episode, I discuss anxiety as a signal for self-exploration, not an internal flaw. I offer a sentence stem practice for us to walk through together – a tool to further embrace self-expression and use anxiety as a guide for personal growth. By reframing anxiety as a tool for empowerment we can begin to navigate challenges with strength and authenticity – fostering deeper connections and self-assurance. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Get the Replay of our Liberated Life Event | Liberated Life - Learn How to Live and Love on (Y)our Terms: http://createthelove.com/liberated For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Self-Exploration Practices, Anxiety, Self-Exploration, Self-Expression, Personal Growth, Self-Assurance Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#360: Nurturing the Sensitive Soul & Grounding Through Grief w/ Dr. Laura Berman
EIn this episode, I welcome Dr. Laura Berman to the podcast, a world-renowned sex, love & relationship therapist and author. Dr. Berman and I dive deep about quantum love & sex, as well as parenting in the age of social media, the energetics of sensitive beings, and lessons learned from navigating grief. We also explore the topic of vibrational frequencies, the evolving dynamics of parenting, and how relationships can surface unhealed wounds. Join us for an eye-opening conversation that shares the profound transformational power of quantum love in every aspect of our lives. Dr. Laura Berman earned two Masters Degrees and a PhD from New York University, and has spent the past 30 years devoting her career to helping others learn to love and be loved better from a mind, body and spiritual perspective. Dr. Berman is also a columnist for USA Today and a New York Times best selling author who has written nine books. She is an award-winning syndicated radio host and currently hosts the popular love, sex & relationship advice podcast, The Language of Love. In addition to her regular appearances in daytime and news media, Dr Berman was also the sex, love and relationship expert on The Oprah Winfrey Show and has starred in four television series, including two on the OWN Network and one on Showtime. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/ —Website: www.drlauraberman.com —Love Mama Grief Retreat: https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/love-mama-grief-retreat If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Sensitivity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Purpose, Grief, Death, Quantum Love, Vibrational Frequencies, Energy, Alignment, Social Media, Quantum Sex Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#359: Break Up With Who You’ve Been
In this episode, I share about the powerful role responsibility and accountability play in our lives. I talk about the discomfort of realizing our choices shape our reality and discuss the importance of facing uncomfortable truths for personal growth. Additionally, I share an excerpt from Liberated Love, the book I co-authored with my wife, Kylie, to emphasize the transformative power of radical responsibility and making empowered choices aligned with our values. Tune in to learn how to wholeheartedly embody your full self-expression and live a life of deep self-love and integrity. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Accountability, Personal Growth, Radical Responsibility This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#358: The Connection Between Self-Worth & Your Physical Body w/ Aaron Alexander
In this episode, I'm joined by Aaron Alexander, a manual therapist, movement coach, podcast host, author, and creator of the Align Method. Aaron dives into the profound connection between fitness and spiritual growth – highlighting how incorporating small practices into our daily routines can greatly enhance physical and emotional well-being. We also explore the interconnectedness of nutrition, movement, self-worth, and boundary setting – emphasizing the importance of community support and self-reflection for optimal health. Aaron shares valuable insights on essential components of holistic well-being like breathing techniques, resilience building, stress management, and self-awareness. Tune in to discover how aligning your physical and spiritual practices can lead to greater vitality and deepen your relationship with yourself. Aaron Alexander has over two decades of professional coaching experience whose clients range from A-list Hollywood celebrities to professional athletes and everyone in between. With his vast knowledge and experience, Aaron has gone on to interview over 400 hundred of the world’s preeminent thought leaders on physical and psychological well-being on the top-rated Align Podcast, bringing together a variety of diverse perspectives on optimising health and performance. Through trial, error, and the opportunity to commune with the world's foremost experts, Aaron has distilled what he has found to be the bedrock of human health into the Align Method. —Instagram: https://instagram.com/aaronalexander —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alignpodcast —Podcast: https://www.alignpodcast.com/episodes —Align Method Program: https://www.alignpodcast.com/amp —Book: The Align Method: A Modern Movement Guide for a Stronger Body, Sharper Mind, and Stress-Proof Life: https://www.alignpodcast.com/alignbook —Align Podcast Episode with Mark: https://www.alignpodcast.com/episodes/anzpccftj2yb4nm-thhhf-ssj6g-bjd3j-rd39l-c6jr4-48zgn-wnzxh-64xhj-25lhk —Align Podcast Episode with Mark on YouTube: https://youtu.be/yqwiJwflHK4?si=FkstxQzYgJiDEtyU If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Emotional Well-Being, Mental Health, Align Method, Fitness, Spiritual Growth, Community Support, Self-Reflection, Holistic Well-Being, Stress Management This episode is sponsored by: —FACTOR: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#357: Deleting Social Media and Trusting The Unknown
In this special episode, I share a BIG announcement that’s been brewing for a long time. I discuss how my relationship with social media has impacted my well-being – including the pressures of constant content creation and changing algorithms. I also talk about the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and relationships based in mutual regard. This episode marks a shift towards aligning my life with core values and embracing a fully liberated life. For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Boundaries, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Social Media, Purpose, Liberation, Self-Expression, Self-Discovery, Alignment This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#356: Deepening Love: Navigating Relationships with Wisdom
This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, I discuss the nuances of navigating relationships and breakups – emphasizing the crucial role of clear communication and intentional boundaries. Drawing from my personal journey of reconnecting with Kylie, I share the significance of well-defined guidelines post-breakup, explicit communication of needs, and mutual respect. I also explore topics such as infidelity, regret, and confronting uncomfortable truths for personal growth and transformation in relationships. The episode dives into the importance of embracing grief as a pathway to self-discovery and emphasizes the profound growth achieved by acknowledging our inner darkness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery, Communication, Infidelity, Personal Growth, Regret, Acceptance This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#355: Unlocking the World of Attachment, Emotional Isolation, and EFT with Dr. Sue
EIn this episode, I welcome Dr. Sue Johnson, a pioneering figure in couples therapy and adult attachment, renowned for her role in developing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Together, we explore the profound impact of relationships and attachment in the human experience. Dr. Sue discusses the role of emotions in therapy, emphasizing the significance of understanding and validating emotions to establish secure attachments. Throughout the episode, she shares insights on how she’s helped her clients navigate challenging emotions for authentic change through EFT. Dr. Sue also dives into topics such as the transformative power of emotional epiphanies, the creation of safe spaces in therapy, the societal shift towards digital connections, and the importance of understanding attachment needs in the digital age. Join us in this impactful conversation to explore the pursuit of authentic, face-to-face connections and their fundamental role in enhancing your emotional well-being. Dr. Sue Johnson has received numerous awards including Psychotherapy Networker’s Lifetime Achievement Award, the APA’s Family Psychologist of the Year, and the Order of Canada. Her best-selling book Hold Me Tight (2008) has sold over one million copies and was developed into a relationship education program. As founding director of the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Dr. Sue trains counselors in EFT worldwide, providing guidance to over 90 affiliated organizations. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsuejohnson/ —Website: https://drsuejohnson.com/ —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drsuejohnson/ —Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_SueJohnson —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorSueJohnson?themeRefresh=1 —Website: International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) www.iceeft.com —Books: https://drsuejohnson.com/books/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Emotions This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#354: Boundaries are HOT!
This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the concept of liberated love and advocate for diversified relationships to fulfill various needs. We discuss the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and practicing self-care to achieve authentic connections. Kylie and I share our personal experience and perspectives on reconciling after a breakup, emphasizing mutual growth and trust-building. We also explore the importance of self-trust, clean anger expression, and the transformative power of self-discovery. Tune in to this episode to learn how to navigate relationships and personal evolution with wisdom and openness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#353: How to Optimize Your Life with Neuroscience Professor & Elite Performance Coach
EIn this episode, I welcome Dr. Mark Guadagnoli, Teacher, Author, Elite Performer Coach, and Neuroscience Professor. Dr. Guadagnoli shares his expertise in optimizing performance, discusses leveraging situations for growth, and emphasizes taking control of your life in order to thrive. He shares the wisdom of the Challenge Point Framework and finding the right stress level for learning and growth. We explore how adverse childhood experiences' impact resilience and what trauma's role is in growth. Dr. Guadagnoli emphasizes the importance of taking control of our experiences, reframing traumas, recognizing the significance of arousal states in learning, and prioritizing growth over ego in relationships. Tune in to this episode to discover how personal development through challenge can be a pivotal factor for both individual and collective advancement. Dr. Mark Guadagnoli has worked in industry and academia for three decades. He has taught at several universities including Harvard University, MIT, UCLA, and USC. Media appearances include New York Times, Time Magazine, USA Today, Wall Street Journal, the London Times, the History Channel, and CBS Sports. Dr. Guadagnoli was one of the original faculty members of the Kirk Kerkorian School of Medicine at UNLV and serves as a Professor of Neuroscience and Neurology and the Dean of Faculty where he runs professional development and feedback programs for the School. Mark’s love is working with the best to help them become even better. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markguadagnoli/ —Website: https://www.unlv.edu/medicine/faculty-affairs/the-academy —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@academy.unlvmed If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Optimizing Performance, Personal Growth, Personal Development, Challenge, Trauma, Neuroscience This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#352: Stepping Into Your Personal Power to Deepen Your Relationships with Kylie McBeath
This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the specifics of what liberated love means in action and discuss the need to break free from repeated relational patterns. We share our definition of codependency and emphasize the importance of both individual growth and mutual responsibility in relationships. Our conversation highlights the significance of personal maturation, self-awareness, self-trust, and setting boundaries to create genuine connections. Tune into this episode to learn how to embrace and liberate your full expression in every relationship in your life. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay About Kylie: Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Kylie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Kylie’s Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Patterns, Liberated Love, Personal Growth, Responsibility Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#351: Nutrition, Lifestyle, and Longevity: A Heart Surgeon's Perspective with Dr. Philip Ovadia
In this episode, I welcome Dr. Philip Ovadia, a heart surgeon, author and founder of Ovadia Heart Health. In our conversation, Dr. Ovadia challenges the traditional view of heart disease – clarifying what cholesterol does for the body and emphasizing the need for more awareness around inflammation and insulin resistance. He discusses the drawbacks of weight loss medications, promotes the benefits of whole foods and animal protein, and shares the importance of early detection when it comes to issues of blood vessels and the heart. Dr. Ovadia also speaks on the misconceptions about statins, the importance of cholesterol quality, and shares actionable steps for optimizing metabolic health. Tune in to this perspective widening conversation about heart health and the ways we can not only live healthier, but prevent heart disease in the process. Dr. Philip Ovadia is a heart surgeon who has done over 3,000 heart surgeries. He is also the founder of Ovadia Heart Health, offering a virtual clinic to people all over the world that focuses on the prevention and treatment of heart disease by modifying diet and lifestyle. His book, Stay off My Operating Table: A Heart Surgeon’s Metabolic Health Guide to Lose Weight, Prevent Disease, and Feel Your Best Every Day teaches you the 7 principles of metabolic health and shows you how to eat metabolically healthy with just about any popular diet. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ovadiahearthealth Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ovadia_heart_health/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ifixhearts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IFixHearts LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/philip-ovadia-heart-health Book: https://www.amazon.com/Stay-off-Operating-Table-Metabolic/dp/1737818205/ Appearances: https://ifixhearts.com/podcasts-and-videos/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Self-Care, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Heart Health, Ketogenic Diet, Cholesterol, Metabolic Health, Inflammation, Heart Disease Prevention, Insulin Resistance, Whole Food 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:03 Heart Health and Misunderstandings About Heart Disease 0:03:53 The Historical Shift in Heart Disease Causes 0:10:20 Reflecting on Surgical Procedures and Medications 0:31:23 The Perfect Storm: Food, Pharma, and Health Care 0:35:47 The Importance of Real Food and Animal Proteins 0:38:03 Managing Insulin Resistance Through Diet 0:41:17 Reversing Type 2 Diabetes: A Controversial Concept 0:44:08 Weight Loss Medication Concerns and the Long-Term Effects 0:46:45 The Difference Between Obesity and Insulin Resistance 1:01:06 Transitioning to an Animal-Based Approach 1:02:57 Effects of Carnivore Diet on Inflammation 1:04:20 Carnivore Diet and Autoimmune Disorders 1:05:47 Plant-Based Diets vs. Meat-Based Approaches 1:12:28 Concerns about Seed Oils in Foods 1:18:31 Empowering Individuals to Take Control of Health 1:24:54 Actionable Steps to Improve Heart Health This episode is sponsored by Factor: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#350: Grieving Expectations & Embracing Transformations
In this episode, I talk about adapting to change, setting boundaries, and valuing self in relationships. I explore the concept of self-worth detached from external validation and the importance of authenticity in relationships. I also speak about the process of confronting past traumas, the power of conversational role-play, and how to navigate grief and guilt as it arises. Join me as we get real about ourselves and our relationships in order to move towards healthier connections. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma 0:00:00 Intro + Reorienting in Relationship 0:02:35 Importance of Integrity and Boundaries 0:02:43 Embracing Grief and Healing Wounds 0:02:56 Role-Playing Conversations for Closure 0:04:14 Navigating Toxic Environments and Boundaries This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#349: Psychedelics & Microdosing to Boost Your Mental Health with Matt Zemon
In this episode, I chat with Matt Zemon, educator, author, and leader in psychedelic wellness. Matt shares the transformative power of psychedelics in fostering personal growth beyond conventional treatments. He discusses the evolving research landscape around this topic and the positive impact psychedelics have on mental health. From medical applications to spiritual practices, Matt talks about the diverse avenues of psychedelic use, the importance of responsible engagement, and the potential of psychedelics to be used with intention for individual and societal well-being. Tune in to this eye-opening dialogue that invites us to both widen our perspective and expand our consciousness. Matt Zemon, MSc, is a dedicated explorer of the inner world and a passionate advocate for the responsible use of psychedelics. With a Master of Science in Psychology and Neuroscience of Mental Health from King’s College London, Matt explores the transformative potential of psychedelics, aiming to guide individuals through their experiences toward purpose, connection, and understanding. As the author of the Amazon Best-Seller, Psychedelics for Everyone: A Beginner’s Guide to these Powerful Medicines for Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, PTSD, and Expanding Consciousness, Matt shares insights on using these powerful medicines for anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, and expanding consciousness. Additionally, he co-founded companies like HAPPŸŸ, specializing in psychedelic-assisted ketamine therapy, PSYCHABLE, an online community connecting seekers with practitioners, and TAKE2MINUTES, a nonprofit dedicated to improving mental health and wellbeing. Website: http://www.mattzemon.com/ LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattzemon/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matt.zemon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt.zemon/ If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Mental Health, Grief, Psychedelics, Personal Growth 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:29 The Rising Interest in Psychedelics 0:02:22 The Influence of Michael Pollan and MAPS 0:03:12 Three Ways People Approach Psychedelics 0:04:02 Psychedelic Churches and Ceremonies 0:07:27 The Process of Healing and Growth 0:11:46 Accessing Suppressed Emotions with Psychedelics 0:29:06 Navigating the World of Psychedelics Safely 0:33:40 Asking the Right Questions Before a Psychedelic Experience 0:36:17 Integrating Medical and Spiritual Knowledge 0:37:10 Unlocking Emotions and Connection Through Psychedelics 0:40:42 Embracing Accountability and Emotional Exploration 0:47:06 Medicinal Use Across Generations and Relationships 0:57:55 Raising Children in a Changing Educational System 1:02:12 Reflecting on Cultural Differences and Educational Systems 1:06:44 Radical Responsibility and Emotional Awareness 1:09:27 Music and Playlists in Psychedelic Journeys 1:13:24 Navigating Angst and Respect for Psychedelic Journeys This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#348: Free Yourself from Codependency to Experience Liberated Love with Kylie McBeath
In this special Valentine's episode, I welcome back my wonderful wife, Kylie McBeath. Together we dive into the conversation of codependency and the role shame plays in relationships. We discuss our own journey and share insights on healing, integrating, and growing both in- and outside of relationship. We also introduce our new book, Liberated Love, which explores breaking free from codependent patterns and creating relational environments that celebrate mutual strength and liberation. Tune in to learn how to understand and heal codependent patterns and invitation to pre-order our book to dive even deeper in this transformative journey. Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Get Our New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Grief, Liberated Love 0:00:00 Introducing Kylie as the Special Guest 0:02:44 Reflecting on our Unconventional Wedding Ceremony 0:05:40 Marriage as a Step Towards Sacred Union 0:08:08 Exploring the Possibilities of Commitment and Sacredness 0:08:24 Reflecting on the Journey and Breakup 0:09:46 Sacred Pause: The Space Between Relationships 0:12:45 Embracing the Journey of Relationships 0:13:16 Honoring the Tough Experiences and Integrating the Lessons 0:15:27 Returning to Openness and Resensitizing What Was Desensitized 0:18:42 The Power of Creating Together 0:20:29 Ending Old Patterns and Finding a New Path 0:21:21 The Journey of Love and Letting Go 0:23:08 The Canary in the Coal Mine: Recognizing the Wisdom to Leave 0:25:10 Sacred Work: Healing Generational Patterns of Codependency 0:32:31 The Concept of Taking Up Space in Relationships 0:32:53 The Invisible Barriers and Relational Ruptures 0:35:11 Belonging and Finding Support Even in Rupture and Ending 0:38:23 The Journey of Writing a Book and Preparing for Parenthood This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#347: The Power of Collective Healing & Where to Even Begin with Thomas Hübl
In this episode, I talk with Thomas Hübl, a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator. We explore healing collective trauma and the importance of developing attunement in relationships. Thomas shares insights on trauma's impact on our nervous systems and the intergenerational transmission of trauma. We also discuss the broader implications of trauma for humanity and the planet and the need for deeper healing and interdependence. Join us on this deep dive to discover more about the far-reaching impact of trauma and the tangible steps we can collectively take towards integration, embodiment, and healing. Thomas Hübl, PhD, works within the complexity of systems and cultural change, integrating the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. He is the author of Attuned: Practicing Interdependence to Heal Our Trauma—and Our World and Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds. —Book: https://www.attunedbook.com —Website: https://thomashuebl.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Trauma, Relationships, Spirituality, Attunement, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Emotional Health, Nervous System Health, Interdependence, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Collective, Ancestors, Healing, Intergenerational 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:47 Discussion on Mysticism and Science 0:05:10 Transition from Paramedic to a Meditation Deep Dive 0:09:50 Understanding the Dance of Attunement 0:15:14 How Disconnection From Self Hinders Connection with Others 0:19:06 Curiosity and Self-Contact as Keys to Uncovering Filters 0:22:54 Depathologizing Wounds and Integrating Past Experiences 0:24:11 Devaluing Emotions: Rational vs. Emotional Response 0:25:23 Co-Regulation and Decreasing Fear Levels 0:27:25 Fear as an Isolated Emotion 0:31:01 Recognizing Intergenerational Trauma and its Impact 0:34:54 Finding Relief in the Power of a Single Brick 0:38:10 Disembodied Relating and the Impact of Social Media Communication 0:41:30 Disembodiment, Toxic Dynamics, and the Need for Attunement 0:46:02 Losing Touch with Specificity on Social Media and its Consequences 0:48:13 Sensational News Feeds: Detrimental to Public Health 0:51:28 The Journey to Maturity: Being with Self and Others without Othering 0:53:09 Shifting Perspectives: From Pain to Generosity 0:56:14 Moving Beyond Hyper-Individualization: The Power of Interdependence 1:03:36 Complexity of Ancestors and Trauma 1:07:15 The Spiritual Dimension: Transcendence and Bigger Context 1:11:23 The Beauty of Being Present: A Self-Healing Mechanism This episode is sponsored by: —BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#346: Intuition vs Bullsh*t: How to Listen to Inner Guidance & Commit to Your Evolution
This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I discuss the signs of receiving inner guidance, the importance of building self-trust, and the invitation to accept that the universe doesn’t make mistakes. I also dive into the four areas of life that contribute to abundance or suffering. Tune in to clarify your values and learn to discern the true voice within. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Purpose, Abundance, Liberation, Integrity, Holistic Health, Truth, Self-Trust, Values 0:00:00 Intro + Annoying Signs of Inner Guidance 0:00:38 Acts of Trust and Sacrifice for Personal Evolution 0:01:30 Embracing Present Circumstances for Growth 0:02:11 How Rejecting Initiation Causes Anxiety and Control Issues 0:03:03 Growing Wings through Self-Trust and Recognizing Miracles 0:03:35 Trusting Yourself: The First Step Towards Growth 0:04:18 The Transformation of a Nymph into a Dragonfly 0:05:14 Finding Purpose in Life's Challenges 0:06:09 Identifying Values for a Foundation of Abundance 0:06:24 Liberation: Freedom to Be Who You Are 0:07:38 Integrity: Living in Alignment with Your Truth 0:08:02 Bringing Ourselves Alive Through Self-Expression 0:08:29 Creating a Beautiful Strategy for Liberation 0:08:45 The Importance of Alignment and Integrity 0:09:23 Choosing Relationships that Align with Your Values This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#345: Nurturing Babies’ Brains to Revolutionize Mental Health with Greer Kirshenbaum
In this episode, I chat with Greer Kirshenbaum, an Author, Mother, Neuroscientist, Doula, and Infant and Family Sleep Specialist. We discuss the power of nurture and how understanding early nurturing experiences can shape our adult lives and parenting styles. Greer talks about the importance of gentleness and modeling foundational pillars like nervous system regulation and setting healthy boundaries with children. We also explore the history and long-term effects of sleep training methods. Join us on this thought-provoking journey into the transformative effects of nurturing and neuroscience. Greer Kirshenbaum PhD has combined her academic training with her experience as a doula and mother to lead The Nurture Revolution - A movement to nurture our babies’ brains to revolutionize mental health and impact larger systems in our world. Greer wants families, professionals, and workplaces to understand how early caregiving experience can boost mental wellness and diminish depression, anxiety, and addiction in adulthood by shaping babies’ brains through simple intuitive enriching experiences in pregnancy, birth, and infancy. —Instagram @nurture_neuroscience_parenting: https://www.instagram.com/nurture_neuroscience_parenting —Website: www.nurture-neuroscience.com —Book: https://www.nurture-neuroscience.com/the-nurture-revolution If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Nurturing, Boundaries, Nervous System, Emotional Health, Belonging, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Parenting, Mental Health 0:00:00 Intro 0:05:30 The Cultural Conversation Around Parenting and Shame 0:08:39 Notable Differences in the Amygdala, Hippocampus, and Prefrontal Cortex 0:12:03 The Key Years for Emotional Brain Development 0:22:42 Epigenetics and the Legacy of Nurturing 0:27:14 The Dose-dependent Relationship of Time Spent with Babies 0:30:10 Breastfeeding and its Benefits for Brain Development 0:37:00 Allowing Toddlers to Explore Boundaries and Teach Healthy Boundaries 0:42:39 The Origins of Sleep Training: A Controversial Topic 0:46:50 Babies' Fight or Flight Response: Distress and Fear 0:47:25 The Intense Experience of Parenting and its Toll. 0:51:33 The Controversy of Sleep Training 0:54:57 The Effects of Chronic Cortisol on Children's Sleep 0:55:25 The Impact of Inconsistent Sleep Training 0:58:39 Exploring Different Therapeutic Tools for Stress Regulation 1:03:05 Reviewing and Teaching Emotional Regulation to Children 1:04:51 Four Questions 1:06:28 Showing Care and Love for Our Children This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#344: Trusting Your Calling and Living It
This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I explore the transformative power of initiations, guided by insights from Francis Weller and James Hillman. I talk about the three parts of initiation: severance from the world you once knew, radical alteration to your sense of identity, and inability to go back to the world you knew. I also discuss the power of community during these personal transformations, the importance of prioritizing our instincts as well as alchemizing our knowledge into action. This episode is an invitation to align our actions and remember that true transformation comes from within. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Transformation, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Initiations, Community 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:33 Initiations and its Three Parts 0:01:58 Identity Shift: Embracing the Unknown 0:02:35 A Radical Alteration: Severance from the Familiar World 0:03:12 The Distractions from Self 0:03:50 The Screen Report and Lack of Time for Personal Growth 0:04:19 The Power of Community 0:06:09 Trusting Your Instincts and Ignoring Outside Opinions 0:06:37 Pursuing Your Calling as an Imperative 0:07:26 Being Yourself in Relationships 0:09:25 Finding Inner Strength Again 0:10:24 Where You’re Not Liberated 0:10:41 The Mind's Limitations in Understanding Reality 0:11:31 Knowledge vs. Action: The Importance of Living in Integrity Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#343: From Scarcity to Intentionality with Michael Easter
EIn this episode, I welcome back Michael Easter, a bestselling author and esteemed professor. Michael shares what the Scarcity Loop is and how to move towards more intentional thinking and decision making. We discuss the detrimental effects comfort can have on our health, the mechanics behind addictive behaviors, and strategies for self-regulation in an increasingly addictive digital landscape. This is a great episode to heighten awareness around our everyday habits and what ways we could be more intentional moving forward. Michael Easter is the author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain, to be released in September 2023, and a professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. When he's not writing and traveling for his books, he writes the weekly 2% Newsletter. —Newsletter: https://unique-painter-9003.ck.page/441934d2f0 —Website: http://eastermichael.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Purpose, Scarcity, Addiction, Addictive Behavior, Self-Regulation 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:11 Observing Human Behavior and Overconsumption in Las Vegas 0:09:24 The Scarcity Loop: Unpredictable Rewards and Repeatability 0:12:53 Pigeon Studies and the Attraction to the Scarcity Loop 0:16:31 Wired for Unpredictable Reward Games 0:19:42 Society's Acceptance of Harmful Behaviors and Minimizing their Impact 0:23:24 The Lack of Immediate Consequences for Excessive Social Media Use 0:26:57 Embracing the Discomfort of Interrupting the Loop 0:27:16 Changing Behaviors: The Challenge of Consciousness 0:29:32 The Impact of Time Spent on Digital Media 0:33:04 Lack of Exposure to Diverse Thought and Experience 0:36:04 The Art of Capturing Attention 0:40:01 Negativity bias in media and its impact on worldview 0:46:36 Monetizing Opportunity and Rewards in Dating Apps 0:49:56 Cravings and the Evolutionary Drive of Scarcity 0:53:08 Pigeons and their Surprising Gambling Choices 0:54:44 The Need for Stimulation and Optimal Stimulation Theory 1:03:31 Anthropologists and Human Behavior 1:07:24 Realizing the Short-Term Benefits and Long-Term Consequences This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#342: Trusting The Process
E#342: Trusting The Process This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I discuss breaking generational patterns and embracing self-expression. I explore navigating feeling lost, the importance of embracing past painful experiences, and trusting the beauty of the process. Let’s uncover the wisdom in our journey towards a more authentically expressed future. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Purpose, Generational Patterns, Personal Growth 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:06 Letting Go of Baggage and Inherited Suffering 0:02:15 Small Commitments Lead to Big Commitments 0:03:22 Letting Go and Finding More Peace 0:04:52 Discovering Potent Material 0:05:26 Unpacking the Confusion and Impact of Relationships 0:06:29 The Significance of Life Experience 0:06:46 Stuck in the Past 0:08:08 Learning from Fear This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#341: How to Re-Wire from Survival to Greatness with James Silvas
E#341: How to Re-Wire from Survival to Greatness with James Silvas In this episode, I welcome back James Silvas, an International Mindset Specialist and Peak Performance Coach. James encourages listeners to embrace both their individuality and the interconnectedness of all things to live a meaningful life aligned with their values and purpose. We explore the importance of living our values to be in true alignment with ourselves. James dismantles presence and discusses the concept of unselfing and facing our sh*t head on. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that invites us to reflect on and widen our perspective. James Silvas teaches athletes, leaders, and high-performing teams how to clear their minds, break through fear, optimize their performance, and enhance the quality of their personal and professional lives. James is also the founder of Be That 1% – a movement, brand, and podcast that inspires others to live on their terms, overcome obstacles, and do what 99% of people won’t. — Instagram @james_silvas: https://www.instagram.com/james_silvas — TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@james_silvas — Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/jamessilvas — LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-silvas — Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-that-1-podcast/id1330345445 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Accountability, Individuality, Performance, Presence, Values 0:00:00 Intro + Understanding our minds, performance, and presence 0:08:34 The Wall of Avoidance 0:24:20 Personal Fulfillment 0:25:33 Establishing Boundaries and Preserving Wholeness 0:28:44 Emotions are constructed in the moment, not pre-determined 0:31:52 Letting go of attachment allows for a relaxed and evolving conversation 0:35:33 Creating Certainty to Avoid Uncertainty 0:37:52 Observing and Selecting Thoughts 0:42:01 Constructed Lives: Society's Influence and Identifiable Labels 0:42:42 The Masks We Wear and the People We Attract 0:45:26 Triggers as Opportunities for Personal Growth 0:49:45 Becoming a Trailblazer in Your Own Life 0:55:12 Honoring Self and Others through Alignment 0:58:43 Unleashing Your Unique Superpower 1:02:59 Shifting from Victim to Victor Mentality This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#340: The Pain of Self-Abandonment
EThis espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. I’ll have a few of these coming out over the next few weeks! In this one, I talk about the importance of self-worth in decision-making and taking proactive steps towards change. We explore the impact of fear and resistance on progress and the transformative power of embracing discomfort. I also share the transformation that a dragonfly undergoes and how we can learn from it by utilizing pain for personal transformation. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN 00:00:00 Intro + Operating from a place of self-worth 0:02:10 Lowering standards and making exceptions 0:03:22 The importance of saying yes to oneself 0:06:14 The Weight of Knowing Without Living 0:06:33 Embracing the Fear and Starting Anyway 0:07:45 Stepping up as an Adult and Taking the Lead in 2024 0:08:14 True acceptance leads to transformation and action 0:09:56 The Fascinating Transformation of a Dragonfly 0:11:23 Shedding Old Skin and Emerging as a New Creature 0:11:31 The Power of New Beginnings 0:12:52 Embracing the Moment of Decision 0:13:02 Embracing Pain and Transformation 0:15:10 The Dragonfly Metaphor: Embracing Change and Growth 0:17:27 Using Emotional Residue for Transformation If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Grief This episode is sponsored by IIN: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#339: We’re Afraid to Die, Because We’re Afraid to Live with Koshin Paley Ellison
E#339: We’re Afraid to Die, Because We’re Afraid to Live with Sensei Koshin Paley Ellison In this episode, I welcome Sensei Koshin Paley Ellison to the show. We discuss the fear of confronting mortality and the aversion to facing death, letting go of our sh*t and facing our fears, and how to embrace the present moment. This is an episode you won’t want to miss that will help ground you into the new year and reorient you to the joy of living. Koshin Paley Ellison (MFA, LMSW, DMIN, NYZC Co-Founder, President, & Guiding Teacher) is an author, Zen teacher, Jungian psychotherapist, leader in contemplative care, and co-founder of an educational non-profit called the New York Zen Center for Contemplative Care. His books, grounded in Buddhist wisdom and practice, have gained national attention. Through its numerous educational programs, contemplative retreats, and Soto Zen Buddhist practices, the New York Zen Center touches thousands of lives every year. Koshin has appeared on dozens of podcasts and his work has been featured in the New York Times, PBS, CBS Sunday Morning and other media outlets. — Instagram @koshinpaleyellison @newyorkzencenter : https://www.instagram.com/koshinpaleyellison https://www.instagram.com/newyorkzencenter — New York Zen Center Website: https://zencare.org — NYZC Contemplative Medicine Fellowship: https://zencare.org/contemplative-medicine-fellowship — NYZC Foundations in Contemplative Care https://zencare.org/foundations — Koshin’s Book: Untangled: Walking the Eightfold Path to Clarity, Courage, and Compassion: https://www.amazon.com/Untangled-Walking-Eightfold-Clarity-Compassion-ebook/dp/B09TZY26J3 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Humanity, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Transformation, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, Death, Aging, Living, Life 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:47 Confronting Mortality and our Aversion to Facing Death 0:04:20 Appreciating the Awareness of Mortality and Embracing Life 0:08:58 Embracing the Inevitability of Death 0:11:56 Confronting Fear and Assessing a Fear-Based Life 0:13:19 The Importance of True Reflection and Conscious Untapped Potential 0:16:08 Letting Go of Patterns and Facing Our Fears 0:19:56 Trauma Response and Identity 0:23:36 Finding Joy and Levity in Life 0:32:58 Embracing the Present Moment 0:34:30 Embracing Feedback and Changing Perspective on Commitment 0:38:13 Embracing the Challenge of Loving Difficult People 0:41:13 Layers of Pain and Betrayal 0:43:52 Opening up to painful self-discovery 0:46:27 Feeling grounded and ready for self-exploration 0:49:20 Developing the courage to untangle and seek help 0:49:37 Searching for Inspiration and Direction 0:52:20 Embracing Dissolution and Self-Limiting Ideas This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Art of Self-Healing: How to Transform with Yung Pueblo
EAre you ready to live the most happy, fulfilled and abundant life you could ever imagine? Are you itching to create that for yourself?! Diego Perez, better known as Yung Pueblo, has a beautiful ability to inspire and help people find their inner strength; by giving us all tangible techniques and tools, showing us we are capable of embracing change, deeping loving and healing ourselves, and truly unlocking a world of boundless possibilities for a life where we don’t just survive, but we THRIVE! I am bringing this episode back as another Saturday Special, because it was a top hit of 2023. Topics from self-love and self-healing to creating healthy relationships and truly transforming into the best version of yourself, are all things I need everyone to hear and take into 2024. YOU have the power, and Diego shows us that. Diego Perez is a meditator and New York Times bestselling author who is widely known on Instagram and various social media networks through his pen name Yung Pueblo. Online he has an audience of over 3 million people. His writing focuses on the power of self-healing, creating healthy relationships, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves. Get his newest book, The Way Forward, today! — Diego's Book: The Way Forward: https://yungpueblo.com/books-1 — Website: www.yungpueblo.com — Instragram: @yung_pueblo - https://www.instagram.com/yung_pueblo — Substack Newsletter: https://yungpueblo.substack.com/ — Vipassana Meditation: https://www.dhamma.org/en/index 00:00 Intro 01:03 The never-ending journey to self-growth 02:50 Embracing the unknown 06:02 Transforming disagreements into understanding 09:24 The Way Forward 13:15 Vipassana Meditation 21:20 For people bad at meditating 23:04 Intuition vs. reactivity 25:35 Intuition as your compass for life 27:20 The benefits of meditation 31:29 The challenges of being seen as a teacher 35:27 Complexities of hierarchy and fame 41:21 Dissolving hierarchy in relationships 44:41 Reclaiming your inner wisdom 49:18 The inspiration behind 'The Way Forward' 51:38 Integrity and embracing impermanence 54:56 Where can you start? If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgrovesAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#338: When Things Get Tough, Do You Quit?
EIn this episode, I share about my transformative journey with plant medicine in Peru. I explain the physical sensations, the discomfort I felt and how I worked through it, the visions I saw, the reflections I had, and the profound lessons I learned throughout the experience. I share this with you in hopes that some of my reflections will resonate with you. Sending you so much love. —Matt Zemon - Beyond the Trip: A Journal for Psychedelic Preparation and Integration: https://a.co/d/akIQfVE —Branden Collinsworth’s Warrior Retreats: https://www.warriorretreats.com —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Psychedelics, Ayahuasca, Shamanism, Spirituality, Presence, Introspection, Codependency, Martyrdom, Transformation, Fear, Grief, Truth, Plant Medicine, Reverent Relationship to Plant Medicine 0:00:00 Intro 0:09:44 Preparing and participating in the jungle plant rituals 0:18:59 Physical Sensations and Reflections 0:20:51 Connection to Ayahuasca through Reciprocal Relationship with Land 0:22:46 Feeling the Discomfort 0:24:40 Navigating Dark Entities and Protecting Your Energy 0:25:51 Embracing the Present and the Importance of Integrity 0:27:52 Having Patience with Unresolved Matters in the Heart 0:28:06 Embracing the Mystery of Unanswered Questions 0:30:05 The Importance of Self-Leadership 0:32:14 Stepping into Personal Leadership 0:32:44 Gathering Wisdom 0:34:06 A Commitment Driven by Love for Family 0:34:52 Trusting the Spiritual Realms and Letting Go 0:36:58 Embracing the Unknown and Finding Community This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#337: F the (Dating) Fairy Tale with Damona Hoffman
Today I’m welcoming back renowned dating coach Damona Hoffman! Damona shares the top common dating challenges & hiccups that most people encounter, her top four dating myths to watch out for, and many more dating & relationship tips. We explore the concept of soulmates, fear of commitment, and the transformative power of taking it SLOW, and SO much more. Tune in to hear Damona’s top dating tips including what you can do to call in a relationship that aligns with your truth and your values. Damona Hoffman has created content and collaborated with most major dating apps including Bumble and Match and she was named the Official U.S. Dating Coach of OkCupid in 2021. Her podcast, Dates & Mates, was named Best Podcast of the Year by The Black Podcasting Awards. Damona’s first book F the Fairy Tale releases on January 2, 2024 and is endorsed by Dr. Drew Pinsky, Drew Barrymore, Lori Gottlieb and more. —Instagram @DamonaHoffman: https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman —Website: http://damonahoffman.com —Book - F The Fairy Tale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story: http://fthefairytalebook.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, dating, dating advice, dating coach, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:14 The Four Dating Myths 0:14:45 The Importance of Kindness and Generosity in Relationships 0:25:00 The Importance of Self-Value in Dating 0:28:08 Carving Out Time for Self-Love and Personal Growth 0:31:07 Authenticity and Creating Your Own Love Story 0:35:01 The Evolution of Online Dating 0:38:57 The Soulmate Myth 0:45:12 Relationships and Growth 0:48:47 Parenthood and Relationship: Opportunities for Discovery and Growth 0:52:06 Cultivating Trust in Relationships: The Role of Surrender 0:56:22 Embracing the Journey of Love and Connection This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From Limitation to Liberation: How to Unlock the Power of Your Mind with Dr Joe Dispenza
Learn how you can harness the power of your mind to create the life you've always wanted! One of the most popular episodes of 2023 was with the great Dr Joe Dispenza, a New York Times best-selling author, teacher and lecturer whose research has led him to develop a practical formula to help people heal themselves and transform their lives. I believe his teachings are SO important and powerful, especially as we start this New Year, so I am bringing this episode back for our first Saturday Special. Dr Joe’s passion can be found at the intersection of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics. He integrates that knowledge to teach people how to heal their bodies of health conditions, make significant changes in their lives, and evolve their consciousness. Dr Joe speaks to the power of the mind and how we can reframe our thoughts, beliefs, experiences, and feelings to change our reality. Whether you're looking to overcome limiting beliefs, increase your resilience, change your health, or create a different life for yourself, this episode has something for you! —Unlimited Website: https://drjoedispenza.com —YouTube: @drjoedispenza - https://www.youtube.com/drjoedispenza —TikTok: @official_drjoedispenza - https://www.tiktok.com/@official_drjoedispenza —Twitter: @drjoedispenza - https://twitter.com/drjoedispenza —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoeDispenzaOfficialNewsFanPage —Instagram: @drjoedispenza - https://www.instagram.com/drjoedispenza 00:00 Intro 00:38 The power of reframing your reality 04:58 How positive thoughts affect your biology 11:57 We’re addicted to fear 16:59 How your thoughts shape your health 21:24 Your nervous system is a pharmacy 27:49 Healing frequency and the healing potential of the human body 37:52 We’re changing the science 43:48 The brain thinks, but the heart knows 48:16 Changing your state of being to achieve lasting transformation 54:44 Meditation for physical and mental well-being Themes: Nervous System, Transformation, Neuroscience, The Brain, Meditation, Mental Health, Physical Health If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgrovesAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#336: Let's Build Some Bridges
#336: Let's Build Some Bridges Sometimes, we find ourselves burning bridges because we lack the skills or confidence to walk away or choose ourselves. It’s a form of self-sabotage, where we consciously or unconsciously avoid reaching out or following through on opportunities that could lead to personal growth. But what if we built bridges instead of burned them? We must embrace change and actively pursue personal growth. Trusting ourselves and accepting our truths is key to creating meaningful change. Let’s build some bridges. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Grief, Sustainability 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:07 "We burn bridges we don't know yet how to cross" 0:02:28 Create Space for Self-Discovery 0:06:35 Fiercely Walking Our Path with Grace 0:07:39 Accepting Truths and Finding Light 0:08:35 Stepping into Worth and Self-Trust 0:09:35 Bringing Truth to Life and Recognizing Burned Bridges 0:10:31 Creating Opportunities and Stepping into the Truth 0:11:22 Taking Responsibility and Moving Towards Change Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#335: From “Work” to “Worth” with Allyson Byrd
In this episode, Allyson Byrd teaches us how to reframe our mindsets to create the abundance we all deserve. We explore the power of negative emotions versus the power of conscious identity choices for overcoming obstacles. Allyson teaches us how to reframe our perspectives on suffering and embrace our stories, and how our perception of reality makes an impact on our abundance and what we create in our lives. Allyson’s passion, story, and determination will motivate you to be and create more, and live a life you love. Allyson Byrd is more than just a mentor to business owners in the digital marketing space; she is an agent of transformation and grace. A celebrated leader in sales through energetics, Allyson has enabled her students to come together and create astounding results – $330 million in sales revenue using her methodologies of Spotlight Energetics™. Her unique approach of bold guidance, disruptive challenges, and empowering encouragement have enabled thousands of people in over 20 industries from 47+ countries to exceed their own expectations. Allyson invites us to join her on a mission to push boundaries, make an impact, and share our own stories. To invite Allyson to speak to your organization, mastermind, retreat or virtual experience, please email [email protected] for consideration. —Instagram @iamallysonbyrd: https://www.instagram.com/iamallysonbyrd —Website: https://www.allysonbyrd.com —Want to discover how to effortlessly attract your dream clients online with ease and joy? Download Allyson's private podcast series, The Magnetism Code for NO-Cost here: https://allysonbyrd.ac-page.com/magnetism-codes-instagram —Are you new to learning how to integrate spiritual technologies with successful visibility as an entrepreneur who desires supernatural prosperity? Take a look at Allyson's 1-year MasterHeart here: https://bit.ly/meltwithallyson If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, prayer, negative emotions, conscious identity choices, reframing perspectives, suffering, embracing stories, understanding and supporting Blackness, challenging societal beliefs, perception of reality, making a living, overcoming obstacles, passion 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:46 Reconnecting and Reflecting on Growth 0:04:10 Dissolving Patriarchal Lens and Embracing Worth 0:07:18 The Power of External Governance 0:10:38 The Desire to Belong and Tell a Fair Story 0:14:21 The Imaginary Troll and External Validation 0:17:45 Embracing Truth and Overcoming Fear 0:21:39 The Belief in Deserving a Better Childhood 0:24:51 Transitioning from Pleasure to Purpose 0:28:00 Finding Joy in Chaos and Grief 0:33:55 Martyrdom and Abundance 0:40:01 Power and Control 0:45:07 Recognizing the Power of Psychological Manipulation 0:51:09 Breaking Bread and Embracing Aging 1:01:14 Using Attention for Personal Transformation 1:04:29 Digital Marketing and Representation of Blackness Online 1:09:08 Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity and Support 1:12:12 Shape-shifting for Protection: A 200-pound Body as Armor 1:18:30 Challenging societal norms and body image 1:25:18 Embracing personal stories and creating extraordinary lives 1:28:54 Spreading liberation and justice through conversation 1:32:30 Wrapping up with gratitude and invitation acceptance This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove —Hatch Restore 2: Go to https://www.hatch.co/markgroves to get $20 off and free shipping! Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#334: How to Show Up, Even if You’re Afraid
EIn this episode, I’m talking about the importance of TRULY showing up to create the life we really want. We can be very ambivalent when it comes to relationships with others, but that same ambivalence exists within us when our NO’s and YES’s don’t come from an embodied place, and leaks into other areas of our lives. Stop delaying what you’re becoming, create the abundance you seek, give birth to your purpose and passion, and step fully into the opportunity that 2024 can be. Let it be the moment that everything changed. Show up. You can do this. You’ve got this. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Behavioral Patterns, Personal Growth, Integrity 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:06 The Importance of Cultivating Trust in Yourself 0:01:04 Shifting from Outcome-Oriented to Process-Oriented Thinking 0:02:11 Respect for Boundaries and Self-Worth 0:07:22 The Desire for More Answers and Abundance 0:08:20 Shifting from Seeking Certainty to Embracing Possibility 0:09:21 Taking Action and Building Foundations for Success 0:11:33 Choosing with Intuition 0:13:18 Overcoming Ambivalence 0:16:25 Trusting Choices in All Areas of Life 0:18:57 Telling Yourself the Truth Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#333: Liberating the Conversation around Sex and Pleasure with Dr. Emily Morse
EToday I welcome Dr. Emily Morse to the show, doctor of human sexuality and the host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for nearly two decades. Dr. Emily Morse normalizes sex in way that rewires your brain to see sexuality through a liberating, new lens. She teaches us the importance of removing shame, addressing all the factors that affect our sexuality like our trauma and getting out of our heads during the act, and focusing on our sexual health. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! Dr. Morse is a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and was previously a radio host and executive producer on SiriusXM. She has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes, and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and elsewhere. Her mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation, and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily —Book: https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sex-Boost-Your-Pleasure/dp/0778387100 —Website: https://sexwithemily.com Themes: Sex, Sexuality, Authenticity, Relationships, Self-Love, Sexual Health, Communication, Pleasure, Shame, Imago Theory, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:01 Sex and Communication 0:06:09 The Impact of Porn on Sexual Education 0:08:17 Making Peace with Your Own Body 0:09:15 Discovering the Truth About Female Arousal and Pleasure 0:13:36 Tips for Couples Who Haven't Spoken About Sex in a Long Time 0:16:36 Faking Orgasms and the Desire for Emotional Safety 0:19:40 Rebuilding and Starting Fresh: Reconnecting and Prioritizing Sex Life 0:22:24 The Role of the Brain in Arousal and Desire 0:24:14 Embodiment Practice: Being Present and Mindful During Sex 0:26:02 The importance of breathing + breathing technique 0:29:40 Tools for better sex 0:32:21 The Importance of Lube 0:35:55 Impact of Swiping Culture on Sex and Dating Apps 0:39:43 Sexual Expression on Dating Profiles 0:42:31 The Power of Personal Evolution in Sexuality This episode is brought to you by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com —IIN: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#332: Why Couples Really Fight with Figs O’Sullivan
EIn this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing LMFT Figs O’Sullivan. In his practice, Figs focuses on three pillars for relationship work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences. Figs teaches us that understanding that people's actions are driven by their own insecurities and fears is fundamental. Instead of fixating on the flaws of our partner/ex-partner, it's more beneficial to study one's own emotional responses and vulnerabilities and how to feel our feelings better. By becoming an expert on oneself and the system, one can be and attract a more emotionally evolved partner, and fight less! So many gems in this episode - dive in! Fiachra "Figs'' O'Sullivan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, certified in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and the founder of Empathi. He strives to interact with his clients as fellow travelers on life’s journey, allowing them to easily dive deeper into their “stuff” with his down-to-earth philosophy. Figs has spent years working with frustrated couples at a crossroads in their relationship—they want to make things work but are stuck in what Figs calls their “Waltz of Pain”—which is what led him to create Empathi! Inspired by attachment theory, improvisational dance and theater, experiential psychotherapy, and EFT, Empathi provides fun, effective, and simple solutions to help couples stop fighting and snuggle more. —Website: https://empathi.com —Empathi Quiz for Couples: https://empathi.com/quiz/ —Empathi Courses: https://get.empathi.com/ —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Empathinow —Media Page: https://empathi.com/figs-osullivan Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Grief, Communication, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:11 Who’s the problem in the relationship? 0:08:10 How communication can be threatening 0:11:30 Three Pillars for Relationship Work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences 0:18:46 The reason people get together 0:28:21 Confronted with grief - now what? 0:28:55 Changing perspective 0:37:12 Importance of using attachment theory responsibly 0:40:14 Tips for a successful relationship 0:43:37 Counterintuitive concepts in self-development and attachment theory 0:48:12 The line between personal boundaries and relationship deal-breakers 0:54:21 Opening up about feelings and concerns 1:03:08 The Complexity of Attachment and Relationships 1:06:47 The Pain of Disappointing a Loved One 1:10:16 Helping People Feel Their Feelings Better 1:13:16 Becoming an Expert for Future Relationships This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free by visiting https://withopen.com/CREATETHELOVE —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#331: Tell Yourself a Better Lie with Marisa Peer
EIn today’s episode, I welcome world-renowned therapist Marisa Peer to the show. Marisa is an expert in hypnosis and shares how it wakes people up to their potential by tapping into the subconscious mind as a powerful inner resource. She explains that everything we do can be categorized into punishing, protecting, or prioritizing ourselves, and its impact on our behaviors and relationships. So many gems in here… don't miss this fascinating episode on a different and refreshing view of the way the human mind works! For over 30 years, Marisa Peer, has helped thousands of clients reframe their issues and turn their lives around thanks to her unique approach - Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®). Last year saw the publication of her sixth best-selling book - Tell Yourself A Better Lie - and she also launched Dietless Life, a unique weight management program. —Website: https://marisapeer.com/ —Speaking: https://marisapeer.com/speaker/ —Rapid Transformational Therapy: https://rtt.com/ —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMarisaPeer/ —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marisapeertherapy/ —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarisaPeer/ —LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisa-peer/ —Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarisaPeer —TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themarisapeer Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Neuroplasticity, Hypnosis, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, Happiness 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:03 The importance of repetition and affirmations in hypnotherapy 0:04:29 The power of hypnosis in tapping into subconscious potential 0:05:55 Tapping into the purpose behind behaviors and patterns 0:07:12 Repeating patterns in relationships and fear of rejection 0:09:07 Subtle ways low self-worth is created in children 0:16:29 Rewiring the mind through neuroplasticity 0:17:42 Telling yourself a better lie 0:18:30 Messy kids & nostagia 0:20:02 Upgrading our thoughts: shifting from external to internal growth 0:23:00 Unconditional love and the pursuit of happiness 0:27:00 Embracing our power and the power of the mind This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com/ —BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#330: A Relationship Survival Guide for New Parents with Dr. Stan Tatkin
EIn this episode, I welcome back the brilliant Dr. Stan Tatkin to the show. This time, we’re talking about parenting, especially from the lens of being new parents. Dr. Tatkin co-authored the book Baby Bomb, which dives deep into the nuances of new parenting and the effects it has on the couple’s relationship dynamic. Couples are often unprepared for the challenges of parenthood and lack a solid foundation in their relationship. Dr. Tatkin covers topics like disagreements in parenting style, embracing the change in sexual dynamics, and how to master communication and connection. Whether you’ve got a babe on the way, are a new parent, or are interested in learning how to parent better - this episode is a MUST listen! Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He is the best-selling author of In Each Other’s Care (4/25), along with the relationship must-have book, Wired for Love. Dr. Tatkin speaks and teaches around the world on how to understand, create and sustain secure-functioning relationships. He helps couples create healthy attachments and secure-functioning relationships based on fairness, justice, and sensitivity. In addition to his robust clinical practice in Calabasas, California, Dr. Tatkin and Tracey lead couples through Wired For Love Couple Retreats -- both online and in person across the United States and Europe. —Dr. Tatkin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstantatkin/ —The PACT Institute Website: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/ Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Parenting, New Parents, Relationships, Boundaries, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:10:57 Co-regulating Practices for Improved Communication and Connection 0:14:16 Challenges in Modern Times: Distractions, Isolation, and Lack of Support 0:16:41 Fighting for Two Winners: The Concept of Win-Win in Relationships 0:19:07 Navigating Disagreements in Parenting Styles 0:21:12 Parenting: Collaborative and ever-evolving 0:23:11 Taking charge of parenting, creating something entirely different 0:27:00 Understanding intimacy and embracing change in sexual dynamics 0:29:02 Growing up, accepting losses, and deepening intimacy in relationships 0:30:57 Embracing the opportunity to become a better couple through parenting 0:33:25 Profound Insights on Communication Struggles and Self-awareness 0:35:23 The Humaneness of Communication: An Opportunity for Growth This episode is sponsored by: —BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/GROVES —SafeSleeve: Use code GROVES10 for 10% off sitewide at safesleevecases.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#329: Why Humans Fear Making Decisions
E#329: Why Humans Fear Making Decisions In this episode, I dive into the art of decision-making. I explore the idea of peaceful fear and how it can guide our decision-making, challenge the notion that fear always means we're making the wrong choice, and speak to the resistance we feel when making decisions. Embracing fear and resistance leads to transformative experiences. Let's face our own versions of the jungle in life and live fully. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN Themes: decision-making, challenge, fear, wrong choice, right choice, personal growth, trust, intuition, embracing fear, resistance, transformative experiences, ayahuasca, plant medicine, authenticity, change, transformation 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:47 Making difficult decisions and facing fear 0:02:20 Embracing the unknown and the outcomes of decisions made 0:08:45 Fear as a guide to the “right” decision 0:09:40 Moving towards peace beyond fear 0:09:50 Embracing fear and trusting your soul's path 0:11:15 Embracing intuition and letting go of pretense 0:14:01 Breaking free from struggle mentality 0:14:48 Seeking “peaceful fear” and resistance Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#328: The Hidden Consciousness of Water with Tracy Duhs
In this episode, I welcome Water Expert Tracy Duhs to the show. We explore the fascinating world of water and its impact on our health, in a way you’ve likely never heard it talked about before. Tracy teaches us about the complexity of water, including the concept of water structure and its role in hydrating cells. She also teaches us about the important but little-known facts about tap water, “filtered” water, and the presence of plastic and toxins in water. Listen in to learn more about how changing the kind of water you drink (including how you drink it) can positively change the state of your health and wellbeing. Tracy Duhs works as a modern wellness advocate specializing in the restorative powers of intelligent hydration. She is also the author of the book HYDRATE: preserving youth and activating vitality through intelligent hydration, nutrition, and self-care. — Website: http://tracyduhs.com — Instagram @tracyduhs: https://www.instagram.com/tracyduhs — Podcast - HYDRATE with Tracy Duhs: https://tracyduhs.com/podcasts — Book: https://tracyduhs.com/product/hydrate-with-tracy-duhs — Tracy’s Hydration Essentials: https://sanctuarysd.com/product-category/hydration — More information on deuterium-depleted water - Use code: TRACYDUHS for 20% + 10% off subscriptions: https://www.drinklitewater.com/pages/subscribe-and-save?utm_source=tracyduhs&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=subscribe-save-promo 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:01 The Fascination with Water and Hydration 0:06:02 The Impact of Thoughts and Words on Water Structure 0:08:45 Different Types of Water Filters and their Effectiveness 0:10:20 Bottled Water vs. Tap Water 0:13:10 The Importance of Resonant Water and Adding Minerals 0:20:00 The Calling to Research Water and Hydration 0:21:54 The Dramatic Effects of Dehydration 0:29:37 Anxiety and the Impact of Thoughts on Well-being 0:34:04 Nature's Influence on Water and Bringing Awareness to Hydration 0:36:48 Intracellular Water and the Benefits of Deuterium Depleted Water 0:39:07 The Best Filtration Process for Traveling and at Home 0:42:05 The Power of Mindfulness in Shaping Thoughts and Words This episode is brought to you by: — Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at organifi.com/createthelove — SafeSleeve: Use code GROVES10 for 10% off sitewide at safesleevecases.com Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#327: Why Humans Fear Commitment
EIn this episode, I dive deep into the subject of commitment. Not just in the sense of committed romantic relationships—but the fear of commitment to ourselves and our truth, extrapolating it to every area of your life. Your fear to commit to a dream, to a possibility, to a relationship, to your purpose, to a goal—all of these are the same process. Understanding what lies at the base of our fears of commitment can allow us to become more committed people, more disciplined, and more discerning, and move forward and create things we never thought were possible but always desired. Sentence starters I share in this episode: —When I love people, they… —When I love people, I… —When I let people love me, they… —When I let people love me, I…Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#326: Break Through Your Walls with Branden Collinsworth
EIn today’s episode, I’m jamming with Branden Collinsworth again. This time, we explore the importance of reconnecting with nature and becoming sovereign humans again. Branden guides us through the importance of balancing the physical, emotional, spiritual, wisdom, and love aspects of ourselves through personal growth and self-discovery, and shares his insights into how we can make our old ceilings into our new floors. Branden is a testament to human resilience, emerging from a background fraught with adversity to become a global beacon of transformative power. His journey from the perilous grips of gang violence and personal despair to esteemed Nike ambassador and advisor to elite athletes and visionary leaders reflects his unparalleled determination. A mastermind in enhancing human performance, Branden's influence resonates in the successes of top-tier professionals and his transformative Warrior Retreats, recognized as the pinnacle of experiential journeys. Through all his endeavors, Branden proves that the spirit of human achievement knows no bounds. —Branden’s Instagram @brandencollinsworth: https://www.instagram.com/brandencollinsworth —Nike Classes: https://www.nike.com/ntc-app —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCyA1vNZ6Z2k7g26JNKA83g —Warrior Retreats: https://gogetfunding.com/warriorretreats2023/ —TedxTalk: https://youtu.be/kadse8DqMkU?si=j5DlujYSTS_nqAcu Themes: Reconnecting with Nature, Paradox of Technology, Holistic Well-being, Balance, Personal Growth, Self-discovery, Courage, Change, Authenticity, Healing, Emotions, Personal Growth, Integration, Embracing the Unknown, Beliefs, Stepping Into Our Fullest Potential, Liberation, Transformation, Purpose Chapters: 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:19 The Power of Choice 0:12:43 The Journey to Alignment and Expression 0:16:33 Preserving the Past vs. Ushering into a Love-centered Future 0:17:49 Technology's Detachment from Self 0:21:41 The Insane Asylum that society is 0:25:00 Monetizing Lack of Optimization in a Manipulative World 0:28:31 Plato's Allegory of the Cave: The Illusion of Reality 0:31:41 Bringing Others Into the Light: Our Duty for Love 0:35:20 Challenging Accepted Narratives 0:36:00 Questioning righteousness and biases 0:42:49 Critical thinking and the fear of censorship 0:45:59 Challenging toxic narratives in media and culture 0:49:24 The challenges and rewards of personal growth and optimization 0:57:05 The Power of Unity and Division 1:01:09 Willingness to Die for Truth and Love 1:02:48 Courage and the Power of Using Your Voice 1:07:37 The Importance of Humility in Conversations 1:08:48 The Courageous Path: Embracing Challenges for Fulfillment 1:09:35 Courageous Step Towards Optimization and Warrior Retreat Introduction 1:18:52 Connecting with Nature and Ayahuasca in the Jungle This episode is sponsored by SafeSleeve: Use code GROVES10 for 10% off sitewide at www.safesleevecases.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#325: Discipline and Self-Direction
EIn this episode, I reflect on my personal journey with body image and weight fluctuation, the wounding and repeating patterns I found that had me stuck there, and my recent transformation of “Reverse Dad Bod.” I share how I tapped into a new level of discipline and discernment in hopes that my story might inspire you to move towards what your soul might be asking of you, regardless if it’s with body image and weight or something else. We have limited time here on Earth… let today be the day when everything changes. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN Themes: Authenticity, Healing, Emotions, Personal Growth, Integration, Beliefs, Stepping Into Our Fullest Potential, Liberation, Transformation, Purpose, Body Image, Shame, Societal Standards, Insecurities, Healthy Lifestyle, Integrity, Discipline, Discernment, Change Chapters: 0:00:00 Introduction and the concept of "Operation Reverse Dad Bod" 0:01:10 Battling weight fluctuations and the desire for a healthy weight 0:04:50 A Moment of Self-Recognition 0:07:02 The complexity of body image and societal expectations 0:09:00 Shifting perspectives and choosing a healthier relationship with food 0:12:36 Embodying change and personal growth 0:14:06 Finding motivation to transform through confronting our own limitations 0:16:25 Commitments, Integrity, and Teaching Through Example 0:17:05 Reflecting on past choices and newfound motivation 0:18:09 The transformative power of discipline and time appreciation 0:20:29 Living Life with Purpose and Legacy Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#324: How to Somatically Rewire Your Past to Create Secure Attachment with Sarah Baldwin
EToday I welcome back Sarah Baldwin for the third time - Sarah’s last two podcasts have the most downloads out of any of my episodes! Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and expert in the field of trauma resolution. She’s a member of the world-renowned Polyvagal Theory training team and has trained clinicians around the world in nervous system interventions. In this episode, Sarah explains how we can use our nervous systems to rewire our past experiences to create secure attachment, deepen intimacy, and ultimately have better relationships. She brings light to the core needs resulting from our childhood experiences that drive our adult behaviors, and how understanding the connection can help us identify the root causes of ruptures in our relationships. She also guides us through somatic regulation techniques to foster more genuine connections, gently expand our comfort zones, and finally heal the traumas of our past so we can be the best version of ourselves today. Nervous system regulation is some of the most important work we can do, so dive right in to learn more! — Sarah’s Instagram @sarahbcoaching: https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching —Sarah’s Website: sarahbaldwincoaching.com —Sarah’s Amazing Course - You Make Sense: https://programs.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/you-make-sense Themes: Somatic Therapy, Nervous System, Regulation, Self-Healing, Trauma, Attachment Theory, Relational Dynamics, Relationships, Belonging, Societal Pressures, Childhood Trauma, Overcoming Fear, Healing Our Past, Parenting Chapters: 0:00:00 Intro 0:08:34 The Importance of Feeling Safe in Our Nervous System 0:13:02 Unconscious attraction resulting from childhood experiences 0:14:00 Disconfirming Experiences 0:18:42 Internal Co-regulation: Changing Autonomic Tones for Self-Healing 0:21:41 How to help others regulate without becoming dysregulated 0:27:33 Meeting our own needs and creating internal secure attachment 0:31:01 Nervous System Responses in Relational Dynamics 0:38:35 Avoidant attachment and the human need for connection 0:42:12 The struggle of avoidance and the desire for connection 0:45:18 Building capacity for good things in life and overcoming overwhelm 0:48:25 Shifting from posturing to desiring genuine connection 0:52:08 Taking tolerable steps towards connection and expanding comfort zone 0:56:08 The Power of Relationships in Motivating Change 1:00:47 The Nervous System and the Impact of Media and Propaganda 1:05:10 The Impact of Nervous System Healing on Relationships 1:08:37 Nervous System Regulation in Every System for a Better World This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to The Mark Groves Podcast
EMy work is about personal liberation. Through the vehicle of relationship… yes. But, really, through whatever challenges you are facing. That’s why I explore how we relate to food, our bodies, friends, family, animals, nature, earth, our addictions… and of course, ourselves. I’m here to explore consciousness, the universe, God, how to create epic health, and how to be the best partner, parent, child, and friend. I did not come to this earth to f*ck around and I sure as hell ain’t here to pretend I agree with sh*t I don’t agree with. And I refuse to participate in relationships that require the censorship of ourselves. My soul is loud, and I have been silent. Enough of that sh*t. If you’re ready to go deeper and learn how to master human connection, how to respectfully disagree, cultivate deeper intimacy through difference, nerd out on why we seem to sell our own sh*t out for belonging, why we throw our brains in the garbage when we’re afraid, why we’re so susceptible to propaganda, and why we’re willing to dehumanize, hurt, and even kill those who we disagree with or disagree with us... well, this is your place! I’m here to help support and guide people in their ability to utilize the challenges in their lives to liberate themselves from patterns they’re tired of, create a life and love they have always desired, and get paid to be themselves. The soul is calling. And I’m answering, are you? P.S. I am not advocating for the use of irresponsible language, disrespect or hate. I’m advocating for conversation, curiosity, the pursuit of truth, and the creation of love.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#323: Sourcing Emotional and Physical Needs
E#323: Sourcing Emotional and Physical Needs — Solo EP In this solo episode, I break down the behavioural patterns of minimizing our needs in relationship, which often stem from childhood experiences (you saw that one coming, right?!). It’s so important to honour our own needs and not settle for less. So let's cut the BS! Claim who you are, what you want, and what you’re going to create with your life. Be available to availability, set boundaries, tell the truth and clean up agreements. Hear your own voice and claim what you desire - free from needing the other person to change - then YOU are free to change and choose the life, love, and experience you want! To have the great love and great relationship you want - you MUST move forward telling the truth, creating NEW patterns, and reclaiming what you desire. You in?! P.S. Kylie and I dive deeper into these themes in our new book "Liberated Love" now available for pre-order! https://a.co/d/91ElXvN -Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove -Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter -Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com -Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove -Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN Themes: Unavailability, Attracted to Unavailability, Repeating Patterns, Childhood Related Patterns, Making Different Choices, Integrity, Authenticity, Healing Chapters: 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:37 Dissecting the Pattern of Minimizing Needs 0:01:30 The Paradox of Unavailability in Friendships and Desires 0:09:39 Embracing Authenticity and Setting Boundaries 0:10:24 Reflecting on Standards and Accommodating Behavior 0:11:05 Taking Accountability and Making Conscious Choices 0:11:41 Healing Relationships and Claiming Desires 0:12:49 Liberating Yourself through Self-Authenticity and Integrity 0:13:30 Dive Deeper into Liberated Love with our New Book This episode was brought to you by Cozy Earth! Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#322: Reversing Crohn’s, Colitis, and IBD with Dane Johnson
#322: Reversing Crohn’s, Colitis, and IBD with Dane Johnson Dane Johnson is a Board Certified Nutritionist with expertise in IBD (Inflammatory Bowel Disease), Crohn’s Disease, and Ulcerative Colitis, and a pioneer of natural medicine and self-healing. To date, he has the most testimonies in the world for reversing IBD symptoms. His international team of coaches have all reversed their own symptoms of IBD, Crohn’s or Ulcerative Colitis using his fully customized S.H.I.E.L.D Program, and work with over 100+ cases a week helping others reverse their IBD. In this episode, Dane shares his incredible journey from being near death to reclaiming his health by reversing the symptoms of what doctors say is “a lifelong, incurable disease.” Dane educates us on all the ins and outs of IBD, Crohn’s and Colitis, the importance of addressing root causes and improving overall well-being to heal, and the power of functional medicine/natural/holistic approaches when it comes to healing the gut. He also shares details about his SHIELD healing program. Whether you’re in the mood for an inspirational story, or if you or someone you know suffers from IBD, this episode is a must-listen! — Dane’s Crohn’s Colitis Lifestyle Coaching Program: https://crohnscolitislifestyle.com — Instagram: @crohnscolitis_lifestyle https://www.instagram.com/crohnscolitis_lifestyle Themes: Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD), Crohn’s Disease, Ulcerative Colitis, functional medicine, gut health, holistic healing, detoxification, mental health, transformation Chapters: 0:00:00 Introducing Dane Johnson and His Life-Changing Journey 0:03:18 Inflammation and Gut Dysbiosis 0:06:18 Dane Almost Losing His Life 0:14:11 Financial struggles and the emotional tolls of the illness 0:22:49 Shifting from Sacrifice to Investment 0:28:23 From Victimhood to Healing 0:36:58 Finding Balance and Connection in a Consistent Practice 0:37:36 Finding Consistency and Happiness in New Endeavors 0:45:05 Low Stomach Acid and Digestive Issues 0:52:42 The Physical Toll of Illness 0:55:32 Remission vs Cure: Understanding Root Causes 1:00:12 Empowering the Body: Finding Root Causes and Customized Plans 1:04:17 Ways to support detox pathways and promote liver health 1:07:19 The importance of balance in the microbiome and avoiding harmful substances 1:10:32 Discovering diets for Crohn's and colitis 1:13:25 Embracing Pain for Personal Growth and Leadership Sponsors: — Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at organifi.com/createthelove — Cured Nutrition: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at curednutrition.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#321: Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself
#321: Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself— Solo EP In this episode, I share my journey to embracing the change that has been seeking me, and embracing the unknown that I’ve been afraid of. For so many of us, we fear letting go of our familiar patterns, but also fear stepping into our fullest potential because we’re afraid of what might happen or what lies ahead. But stepping into the unknown IS the key to our personal libration. I’m ready to leap, and I’m not f’ing around anymore. So with that said, allow me to reintroduce myself. My name is Mark Groves. It's nice to meet you, again. And again… and again. -Join my Crushing Communication Workshop: https://crushingcommunication.com/mark -Join my Mastermind: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/mastermind2023 -Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove -Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter -Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com -Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove -Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN Themes: Authenticity, Healing, Emotions, Personal Growth, Integration, Embracing the Unknown, Beliefs, Stepping Into Our Fullest Potential, Liberation, Transformation, Purpose Chapters: 0:00:00 Introduction and Gratitude for Co-Working Space 0:01:10 Exploring the Journey of Reintegration and Wholeness 0:02:32 Understanding Trauma Response and Staying Frozen in Patterns 0:05:12 The Fear of Leaping and Embracing the Unknown 0:09:50 Embracing Change and Reintroducing Myself 0:12:18 Becoming the Best Version of Ourselves through Relationships 0:13:45 Embracing Compassion and Recognizing Everyone's Journey 0:15:30 Cultivating Curiosity, Compassion, and Flexibility in Interactions 0:17:25 Mastering Relationships: The Key to Transforming Life Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#320: How to Prepare for Fatherhood with Dr. Ryan Pope
Themes: Fatherhood, Parenthood, Becoming, Relationships, Wholeness, Children, Parenting, Holistic Healing Summary: Today I welcome Dr. Ryan Pope, a neurostructural Chiropractor, men’s home birthing coach, and rites of passage enthusiast with a giant beardy smile and infectious laugh that lights up any room. He’s spent the last ten years exploring the edges of how to be a man in this world, with a focus on healing, personal growth, business, and the transition from boy to man and man to father. What sets Ryan apart from many modern health professionals is his unwavering trust in the innate capabilities of the human body to heal and bring forth new life naturally. This conviction stems from his incredible partner Amber's epic 35+ hour wild birth experience and over a decade of watching thousands of people heal naturally under his guidance and care. Alongside his hands-on healing and dedication to his local community through his chiropractic care, Ryan’s global mission is to empower men to unearth an unshakable trust in themselves, in nature, in the human body, and in life itself, contributing to a resilient, confident, and thriving family ecosystem. In this episode, Ryan shares his preparation for fatherhood and wild home birth experience, what he’s learned along the way, and how we can live more intentionally and deeply through our own personal experiences. Discover: How to prepare for fatherhood How our past traumas and wounds impact our mind and body Experiencing grief as we enter fatherhood The secret to health and long-lasting relationships 00:00 Intro 01:23 Becoming a Chiropractor 05:52 How does stress show physically? 08:33 Fatherhood and the Rite of Passage 22:01 The unexpected side of fatherhood 24:39 Power of surrender in childbirth and home birth experience 33:39 A father's journey in childbirth 42:12 Balancing fatherhood and work 49:52 Eldership and support in parenthood 59:15 Empowering change and mindful transformation Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pope_ryan_ Website: https://www.becomingthemountain.co/ Sponsors: SafeSleeve: Use code GROVES10 to get 10% off at safesleevecases.com Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at cozyearth.com Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#319: Coincidence or Conversation with God? with Neale Donald Walsch
Themes: God, Divine, Spirituality, Interconnectedness, Faith, Transformation, Purpose, Mentality, Awareness, Enlightenment, Belief, Trust, Serenity, Power, Inner peace Summary: Today I welcome, Neale Donald Walsch, a modern-day spiritual messenger whose words have profoundly touched the world. With a lifelong curiosity about religion and a deep connection to spirituality, Neale embarked on a personal journey that led to his now-famous conversations with God. From these transformative dialogues emerged the "Conversations with God" series of books, translated into 37 languages, sparking life-altering changes in the lives of millions. This episode is a journey into the heart of profound spirituality and the potential for positive change within each of us. He has written 40 books on contemporary spirituality and its practical application in everyday life, including his new book GodTalk: Experiences of Humanity’s Connections with a Higher Power, a book in the Common Sentience book series. Neale is the bestselling author of the Conversations with God series, in which seven of the nine books made the New York Times bestseller list. Book One remained on that list for 134 weeks. Discover: Gain insights into Neale's profound spiritual evolution and how it continues to inspire and impact lives Learn how the "Conversations with God" series has redefined traditional beliefs about God and spirituality How to question conventional wisdom and embrace a broader, more inclusive perspective on the divine Tangible things we can do every day to connect with the divine and live fuller lives 00:00 Intro 00:30 Rediscovering spirituality 09:07 Questioning what we're told about God 14:10 Writing ‘God Talk’ 16:41 Can God talk to us? 24:25 Finding the channel to God 27:42 Recognizing our connection to all life 41:53 Divine insights 44:24 Seeking Unity Through 'God Talk' Links: Website: https://nealedonaldwalsch.com Book - GodTalk on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3O0ud1c Book - GodTalk on Barnes and Noble: https://bit.ly/3KjN9pz Sponsors: The Wellness Company | Use code GROVES at checkout for 15% off sitewide at twc.health/groves Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#318: When The Need to Achieve Becomes Toxic with Jennifer B. Wallace
Themes: Parenting, Achievement, Toxic Achievement Culture, Children, Parenting, Confidence, Mental Health, Teens Summary: I’m jamming today with Jennifer B. Wallace, an acclaimed journalist and bestselling author of "Never Enough: When Achievement Pressure Becomes Toxic." Jennifer, a mother of three, was struck by the toxic pressure surrounding high-achievement schools. Concerned about the impact on her own children, she embarked on a journey to understand and mitigate this achievement culture's harmful effects, resulting in her book, "Never Enough: When Achievement Cultures Become Toxic and What We Can Do About It." In this episode, we talk about toxic achievement culture and what parents can do to make their children feel seen, heard, and loved without that being contingent on their achievements. Discover: How parenting has evolved over the past few decades What we can do to help our children become mentally strong How a sense of “mattering” can protect against burnout for parents and children How increased pressure and the need to succeed create a toxic environment for our children 00:00 Intro 00:27 The high expectations of modern parenting 04:51 Value of a college education in today's job market 06:32 Teaching kids that they matter 10:03 Empowering kids with intrinsic motivation 16:07 How toxic achievement culture is impacting children today 22:51 From people-pleasing to self-valuing 31:14 Parenting with value 35:46 Repairing and shifting in parenting 40:55 Teach your kids to ‘never worry alone’ 45:18 Be interested in your child’s online world 50:22 Encouraging kids to celebrate other’s achievements Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferbrehenywallace/ Book: https://www.jenniferbwallace.com/pre-order Website: https://www.jenniferbwallace.com/ Sponsors: Cured Nutrition: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards: Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#317: Overcome Trauma & Reclaim Your Power with Drew Canole
Themes: Self-discovery, Triumph, Letting Go, Wholeness, Trauma, Health, Mindfulness, Eating, Transformation, Emotions, Pain, Abuse, Healing, Dream Summary: Today I welcome Drew Canole, the CEO of FitLife.Tv and Founder of Organifi. Drew is a renowned wellness expert, author, and motivational speaker. In this episode, Drew shares his profound insights and wisdom on the journey to becoming your best self. Drew Canole has inspired countless individuals to lead healthier, more purposeful lives through his transformative work in the field of wellness and personal development. Drew also provides practical tips and actionable advice on personal growth, from optimizing physical health through nutrition and fitness to fostering mental and emotional well-being. He shares his own personal experiences, challenges, and triumphs on the path to self-improvement, offering relatable anecdotes that resonate with listeners. Whether you want to improve your health, boost your confidence, or simply lead a more fulfilling life, this episode is a must-listen! Discover: How a positive mental attitude and gratitude shape our most fulfilling life. Strategic ways to overcome challenges How we can reshape our future by letting go of the past How healing starts with small, daily habits How can we change from being codependent on trauma to triumph How to step into your power and life life at your fullest potential 00:00 Intro 00:52 Drew’s first lucid dream 04:23 From dreaming to awakening 08:29 Forgiveness and reuniting with his father 11:29 How nutrition transforms relationships 17:27 Confidence through fitness 20:12 Glimmers 22:11 Transforming trauma into motivation 31:39 Redefining masculinity and rediscovering community 36:07 Creating Organifi and what’s next? Links: Website: https://drewcanole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drewcanole/?hl=en Organifi Website: https://www.organifishop.com/pages/drew-canole-podcast-2 Drew and You Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/drew-and-you-podcast/id1555338843 Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at cozyearth.com Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards: Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices