The Mark Groves Podcast

In this episode, I welcome Sarah Swain, Digital Business Strategist and Founder of Monetize Your Mind™️. Sarah shares the transformative power of pursuing passions and finding purpose for personal and financial liberation. We explore navigating the complexities of purpose-seeking and entrepreneurship, discussing alternative wealth-building tools along the way. As we reflect on our own career experiences, we highlight the perseverance required to succeed and the significance of overcoming self-doubt for financial stability. Sarah also dives into the fundamentals of business and the importance of building from a foundation of authenticity and open communication. Tune in to learn how to align your passions with financial freedom and create a resilient entrepreneurial mindset. Sarah Swain is a fierce mix of masculine and feminine energy, Sarah represents a new way of doing business, and she doesn’t shy away from disrupting the status quo. A proponent of all things freedom, she courageously paves the way for leaders to liberate themselves personally and financially. When she’s not busy shifting paradigms, you can usually find her nestled in her log cabin, or off exploring the wilderness with her husband and 3 dogs. —Sarah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamsarahswain —Sarah’s Website: https://www.monetizeyourmind.ca/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Entrepreneurship, Passions, Financial Liberation, Challenges, Wealth-Building, Financial Independence, Perseverance This episode is sponsored by: —BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES —Eversio Wellness: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at https://eversiowellness.com/discount/MARKGROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I share an update about leaving Instagram and navigating the complexities of social media's influence on society. I talk about my personal experience with Instagram and discuss the importance of mindful engagement online as well as reclaiming control over our digital presence. I also speak about the psychological & somatic impacts of social media and lack of relational feedback in online interactions. This conversation ultimately invites you to get curious about your relationship with social media, explore activities that nurture fulfillment in your life, and step into a life liberated from the pressures of online validation. Episode References: —Podcast Episode with Dr. Stephen Porges: https://markgroves.com/episode/polyvagal-path-healing-your-nervous-system-and-your-life-with-dr-stephen-porges/ —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Social Media, Society, Digital Platforms, Instagram, Nervous System Regulation, Mindful Engagement, Psychological Impacts, Curiosity Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I have the absolute honor of welcoming legendary relationship experts Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt. I had to pinch myself when I met them – it was a full circle moment for me. I found Harville and Helen’s work at a time in my life when I was deeply confused about relationships. I didn't know why I was so good at talking about everything but my feelings. I didn't know why I chose the people I chose or was the way I was. Harville and Helen’s work and their book gave me context to my personal relational patterns and a framework for relating better. In this episode, Harville and Helen discuss the transformative power of dialogue in relationships and the importance of curiosity and open-mindedness. We explore the complexities of emotional healing and self-awareness in relationships, the concept of unconscious attraction in romantic partnerships, and how childhood needs and experiences shape adult behaviors and relationships. Tune in for a profound conversation that will surely impact the way you relate in your life moving forward. Harville Hendrix Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D. are co-creators of Imago Relationship Therapy and a social movement called Safe Conversations. Internationally respected as couple’s therapists, educators, speakers, activists, and New York Times bestselling authors, their 10 books, including the timeless classic, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, have sold more than 4 million copies. Harville appeared on the Oprah Winfrey television program 17 times! Helen was installed in the Women’s Hall of Fame and the Smithsonian Institute. They have six children and eight grandchildren. —Harville & Helen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harvilleandhelen/ —Harville & Helen’s Website: https://harvilleandhelen.com/ —Harville & Helen’s Website | Safe Conversations: https:/quantumconnections.com —Harville & Helen’s Website | Imago Relationship: https://imagorelationships.org/ —Harville & Helen’s Book: Getting the Love You Want: https://harvilleandhelen.com/books/getting-the-love-you-want/ —Still Face Experiment: Dr. Edward Tronick: https://youtu.be/vmE3NfB_HhE?si=QivHWP9_jREexK3s&t=34 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Dialogue, Curiosity, Childhood Experiences, Unconscious Attraction, Relationship Development, Self-Awareness, Self-Care, Collaboration This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we talk about understanding depression as a message rather than a flaw to help lead us to valuable insights and personal growth. We discuss how building self-trust by honoring commitments and setting boundaries can shift our relationship with emotions. Ultimately we explore how to embrace emotional intelligence, step into self-responsibility, and invite ourselves to view depression as a catalyst for transformation and empowerment. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Mental Health, Grief, Depression, Personal Growth, Self-Reflection, Negative Patterns, Self-Trust, Emotional Intelligence, Resilience, Fulfillment Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome back Peter Crone, a writer, speaker, and thought leader in the realm of human awakening and potential. Peter and I discuss victimhood, personal responsibility, and the power of self-evolution. Peter talks about the importance of letting go, forgiveness, and reframing perspectives in relationships. He challenges the victim mentality and champions authenticity through freeing ourselves from limiting beliefs, embracing vulnerability and the transformative journey to self-discovery. Tune into this inspiring episode to invite more self-awareness in your day-to-day and to take back the reins of your life. Peter works with everyone from world-class athletes to stay-at-home parents to redesign the subconscious mind. We exist within limiting mental constructs that dictate our thoughts, feelings, actions, and the results we experience. Peter helps people and groups step outside of the world as they know it by identifying mental constructs that have been holding them back. Peter’s work explores the fundamental issues that affect us all to foster a deeper understanding of our common humanity. —Peter’s Website: https://www.petercrone.com —Peter's New Online Platform - Freedom: https://www.petercrone.com/freedom —Peter's Mastermind: https://www.petercrone.com/mastermind —Peter’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/petercrone —Peter’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/petercronethemindarchitect —Peter’s Previous Episode: https://markgroves.com/episode/free-your-mind-liberate-your-soul-with-peter-crone/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Victimhood, Personal Responsibility, Self-Evolution, Letting Go, Forgiveness, Reframing Perspectives, Limiting Beliefs, Self-Discovery, Self-Awareness This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I explore the challenges we encounter in decision-making and our tendency to seek external validation. We talk about the concept of the externalization of authority, indecision as a form of self-sabotage, and the role our nervous system plays in our relationship to our intuition. We also discuss the importance of making choices aligned with personal values and needs, overcoming the fear of being perceived as selfish, and how to connect with our inner voice to transition from anxiety & indecision to clarity & empowerment. Tune in to learn how to release tension, enhance your decision-making process, reclaim agency and live authentically. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Challenges, Decision-Making, Validation, Indecision, Intuition, Self-Trust, Self-Sabotage, Breathwork, Empowerment Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome back the amazing Africa Brooke, a consultant, coach, speaker, podcaster and author renowned for her work in overcoming self-sabotage and self-censorship. In this conversation, Africa dives into the concept of "collective sabotage" and why she wrote her book, The Third Perspective, which explores brave expression in a climate of intolerance. We also explore self-sabotage as a basis for societal behaviors and talk about the importance of embracing contradictions and diverse thoughts. Africa and I share our personal journeys and struggles with self-censorship and discuss different ways to navigate societal pressures and evolving dialogues. We also address the impact of cancel culture and the importance of creating avenues for honest curiosity and conversation to exist to lead us to more genuine connections. We advocate for truth-telling, embracing complexity, and challenging entrenched viewpoints as vital components for introspection and navigating collective dynamics with awareness and empathy. Tune in for a candid and open dialogue that encourages us to fully engage in our relationships and reshape our approach to differences. Africa Brooke is the founder and CEO of Africa Brooke International where she provides consulting, coaching, and support to a global audience. She hosts two personal development podcasts, “Beyond the Self” and “Unthinkable Thoughts,” and is a frequent guest on TV shows, podcasts, and radio broadcasts. Her insights have been featured in publications like The Guardian, and she has delivered keynotes at prestigious venues, including Cambridge University. —Africa’s Book - The Third Perspective: https://africabrooke.com/preorder-my-book —Africa’s Website: www.africabrooke.com —Africa’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/africabrooke/ —Africa’s Podcast: https://africabrooke.com/podcast If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Collective Sabotage, Self-Sabotage, Brave Expression, Self-Expression, Embracing Contradictions, Diverse Thought, Difference, Cancel Culture, Genuine Connection, Empathy, Courage, Societal Norms, Societal Pressure, Complex Conversation, Self-Righteousness, Binary Thinking, Curiosity This episode is sponsored by: —BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, we pay tribute to the late Dr. Sue Johnson, a beloved relational teacher, therapist, author, and the pioneering innovator behind Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Her work has been instrumental in shaping my understanding of relationships and I recently had the privilege of hosting her on the podcast. To honor Dr. Sue and her significant contributions to relationship therapy and education, we've put together some of the most impactful moments from that episode. I am profoundly grateful for Dr. Sue's work and her lasting influence. Thank you for the gift of your voice, your presence, and your loving heart in this life, Dr. Sue. You are deeply missed. —Dr. Sue's Full Episode: https://markgroves.com/episode/unlocking-the-world-of-attachment-emotional-isolation-and-eft —Dr. Sue's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsuejohnson/ —Dr. Sue's Website: https://drsuejohnson.com/ —Dr. Sue's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drsuejohnson/ —Dr. Sue's Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_SueJohnson —Dr. Sue's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorSueJohnson?themeRefresh=1 —Dr. Sue's Website for International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT): www.iceeft.com — Dr. Sue's Books: https://drsuejohnson.com/books/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Emotions, Honoring Dr. Sue Johnson, Dr. Sue Johnson, LegacyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome bestselling author Steven Pressfield to the podcast. Steven dives into the idea of relating differently to resistance and embracing creativity in our lives. We discuss the commitment, self-awareness, and resilience in navigating the complex path of creative expression as well as the perseverance, self-doubt, and the internal battles creatives face. Steven shares practical strategies for confronting resistance, including the transformative power of daily practice, and emphasizes the role of dedication and authenticity in fulfilling creative visions. Tune in to hear this meaningful conversation that will undoubtedly inspire you to overcome obstacles, seize opportunities, and embrace your creative journey. Steven Pressfield is the bestselling author of fiction and nonfiction including The Legend of Bagger Vance, Gates of Fire, and A Man at Arms, as well as the classics on creativity, The War of Art, Turning Pro, and his most recent, The Daily Pressfield. He lives in Los Angeles. —Steven’s Website: https://stevenpressfield.com/ —Steven’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven_pressfield —Steven’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StevePressfield —Steven’s Twitter/X: http://twitter.com/SPressfield —Steven’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StevePressfield If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Resistance, Creativity, Perseverance, Self-Doubt, Commitment, Resilience, Creative Expression, Daily Practice, Dedication, Personal Growth, Inspiration, Meaningful Work, Obstacles, Opportunities, Creative Journey This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we discuss triggers and how these signals-of-past-pain are integral to our relationships and healing journeys. We talk about the importance of our response to activations – including triggers of intimacy and vulnerability. We also explore how working through our wounds fosters self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and empowered relationships. Listen in to this eye-opening episode to learn how embracing both positive and challenging experiences in our lives can pave the way towards liberated love rooted in integrity, trust, and deep understanding. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Grief, Triggers, Healing, Vulnerability, Intimacy, Personal Growth, Self-Discovery, Emotional Well-Being, Self-Awareness, Emotional Intelligence, Empowerment, Liberation, Meditation This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Stephen Porges, the originator of the Polyvagal Theory, to the podcast. Dr. Porges discusses the impact of trauma histories on our relationships and behaviors – sharing Polyvagal Theory's role in our physiological responses. We also discuss post-pandemic societal shifts, navigating the challenges of societal evaluation, the impact of social media, and ethical considerations surrounding digital interactions. Dr. Porges explores alternative modalities for self-regulation – emphasizing the importance of co-regulation, and shares somatic therapies for trauma healing. Listen in to this conversation that reminds us of the transformative power of connection for promoting healing and well-being. Stephen W. Porges, Ph.D. is a Distinguished University Scientist at Indiana University where he is the founding director of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium in the Kinsey Institute. He is Professor of Psychiatry at the University of North Carolina, and Professor Emeritus at both the University of Illinois at Chicago and the University of Maryland. He served as president of the Society for Psychophysiological Research and the Federation of Associations in Behavioral & Brain Sciences and is a former recipient of a National Institute of Mental Health Research Scientist Development Award. He is the originator of the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that emphasizes the importance of physiological state in the expression of behavioral, mental, and health problems related to traumatic experiences. He is the creator of a music-based intervention, the Safe and Sound Protocol ™ , which currently is used by approximately 3,000 therapists to improve spontaneous social engagement, to reduce hearing sensitivities, and to improve language processing, state regulation, and spontaneous social engagement. Dr. Porges is a founder of the Polyvagal Institute. —Stephen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polyvagalinstitute —Stephen’s Website: https://www.stephenporges.com/ —Stephen’s Website: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/ —Stephen’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/polyvagalinstitute —Stephen’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephen-w-porges-6514877b/ —Stephen’s Books: https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/bookstore If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Grief, Trauma, Polyvagal Theory, Neuroception, Physiological Responses, Social Media, Self-Regulation, Co-Regulation, Nervous System Regulation, Nervous System, Somatic Therapy, Dysregulation This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This special episode is a sneak peek of Liberated Love's audiobook. After each chapter, Kylie and I have recorded special bonus conversations where we dive deeper into the content and our personal journeys. Today’s episode is a preview of the discussion we have about Chapter Five called Breaking Up With Normal. Want to listen to more of these conversations? Get the audiobook here: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Get My New Audiobook! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Grief, Liberated Love, Book, Freedom, Patterns, Self-Awareness, Personal Growth, Self-Care Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Meg Jay – a developmental clinical psychologist specializing in twentysomethings – who helps tackle the question: are your 20s the best years of your life? Together, we explore the complexities of navigating our 20s and the misconceptions about this period. Meg sheds light on societal pressures, mental health hurdles, and the crucial need for tailored support for individuals in their 20s. She also discusses the power of empathy over stigmas, touches on generational shifts in work culture, and addresses the common obstacles faced by twentysomethings. Whether you're currently in this age group or not, this conversation offers invaluable insights into the support we all require during this pivotal decade of life. Meg Jay, PhD, is the author of The Twentysomething Treatment: A Revolutionary Remedy for an Uncertain Age, Supernormal: The Secret World of the Family Hero and the cult classic The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now. Her books have been translated into more than a dozen languages and her work has appeared in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Harvard Business Review and on NPR, BBC and—maybe most important for her audience—TikTok. Her TED talk “Why 30 Is Not the New 20” is among the most watched to date. Dr. Jay earned a doctorate in clinical psychology, and in gender studies, from the University of California, Berkeley. She is on faculty at the University of Virginia and maintains a private practice in Charlottesville. —Meg’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmegjay/ —Meg’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/meg-jay-phd/ —Meg’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drmegjay —Meg’s X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/drmegjay —Meg’s Threads: https://www.threads.net/@drmegjay —Meg’s Book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Twentysomething-Treatment/Meg-Jay/9781668012291 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Empathy, Personal Growth, Twenties This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com —FACTOR: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This special episode is a sneak peek of Liberated Love's audiobook. After each chapter, Kylie and I have recorded special bonus conversations where we dive deeper into the content and our personal journeys. Today’s episode is a preview of the discussion we have about Chapter Four called Getting Right with Reality. Want to listen to more of these conversations? Get the audiobook here: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Grief, Liberated Love, Book, Freedom, Patterns, Self-Awareness, Personal Growth Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm joined by Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. Matthew discusses the transformative power of authenticity and vulnerability – highlighting how personal struggles can deepen empathy and strengthen interpersonal connections. He shares insights from his own journey, including battles with chronic pain and the pursuit of happiness. Our conversation dives into themes of self-acceptance, inner peace, and reframing perspectives to lead a more fulfilling life. We also explore strategies for managing emotional and physical pain, transitioning from victimhood to proactive resilience. Join us for this empowering discussion, where we learn to find contentment, navigate emotions effectively, and cultivate self-compassion for healthier relationships and resilience in life's challenges. Matthew Hussey’s YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles. —Matthew’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey —Matthew’s Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ —Matthew’s Book - Love Life: https://matthewhussey.com/lovelifebook-announce/ —Matthew’s Live Retreat: https://matthewhussey.com/live-retreat-2024/ —Matthew’s Love Life Club: https://matthewhussey.com/llc/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, personal growth, vulnerability, self-acceptance, self-compassion This episode is sponsored by: —BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I discuss the vital role of repairing ruptures in relationships – diving into the significance of mutual understanding, empathy, and consistent repair as foundational elements for building trust and deep emotional connections. I talk about the importance of addressing unresolved issues early on to prevent lingering negativity and nurture intimacy. I also explore the challenges in modeling repair, the barriers to genuine apologies, and the valuable insights gained through reflecting on past experiences. Join me in this conversation as we prioritize repair over ego, embrace love in our lives more deeply, and co-create a culture of grace for stronger, healthier relationships. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Breakups, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Emotional Health, Grief, Repairing Ruptures, Empathy, Intimacy, Grace, Apology, Healing, Relational Repair Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Violet Benson back to the podcast. We dive into the transformative process of shadow work and the impact of confronting grief. In order to help understand how past experiences have shaped our present behaviors, Violet speaks about the significance of understanding our personal experiences of childhood trauma and the coping mechanisms we’ve developed. She also discusses the power of self-expression, boundaries, and the channeling of emotions into constructive actions. Violet encourages us to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth – sharing the tool of shadow work as a means of healing past wounds, enhancing emotional intelligence, and cultivating fulfilling relationships with oneself and others. Join us for this enlightening conversation that invites honesty forward and deepens our connections within. Violet Benson, comedian, motivational speaker, creator of Daddy Issues and podcast host of the largest self love podcast and movement for women. Known for her solo episodes and amazing guests, You can catch new episodes of Almost Adulting, every Tuesday and Thursday on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. —Violet’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ —Violet’s Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ —Violet’s Meme Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ —Violet’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues —Violet’s Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IY1Gjc1uktmDCmNLA0HXo If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Shadow Work, Grief, Trauma, Self-Expression, Emotional Health, Healing, Personal Growth, Boundaries, Coping Mechanisms This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I discuss anxiety as a signal for self-exploration, not an internal flaw. I offer a sentence stem practice for us to walk through together – a tool to further embrace self-expression and use anxiety as a guide for personal growth. By reframing anxiety as a tool for empowerment we can begin to navigate challenges with strength and authenticity – fostering deeper connections and self-assurance. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Get the Replay of our Liberated Life Event | Liberated Life - Learn How to Live and Love on (Y)our Terms: http://createthelove.com/liberated For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Self-Exploration Practices, Anxiety, Self-Exploration, Self-Expression, Personal Growth, Self-Assurance Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Dr. Laura Berman to the podcast, a world-renowned sex, love & relationship therapist and author. Dr. Berman and I dive deep about quantum love & sex, as well as parenting in the age of social media, the energetics of sensitive beings, and lessons learned from navigating grief. We also explore the topic of vibrational frequencies, the evolving dynamics of parenting, and how relationships can surface unhealed wounds. Join us for an eye-opening conversation that shares the profound transformational power of quantum love in every aspect of our lives. Dr. Laura Berman earned two Masters Degrees and a PhD from New York University, and has spent the past 30 years devoting her career to helping others learn to love and be loved better from a mind, body and spiritual perspective. Dr. Berman is also a columnist for USA Today and a New York Times best selling author who has written nine books. She is an award-winning syndicated radio host and currently hosts the popular love, sex & relationship advice podcast, The Language of Love. In addition to her regular appearances in daytime and news media, Dr Berman was also the sex, love and relationship expert on The Oprah Winfrey Show and has starred in four television series, including two on the OWN Network and one on Showtime. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/ —Website: www.drlauraberman.com —Love Mama Grief Retreat: https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/love-mama-grief-retreat If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Sensitivity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Purpose, Grief, Death, Quantum Love, Vibrational Frequencies, Energy, Alignment, Social Media, Quantum Sex Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I share about the powerful role responsibility and accountability play in our lives. I talk about the discomfort of realizing our choices shape our reality and discuss the importance of facing uncomfortable truths for personal growth. Additionally, I share an excerpt from Liberated Love, the book I co-authored with my wife, Kylie, to emphasize the transformative power of radical responsibility and making empowered choices aligned with our values. Tune in to learn how to wholeheartedly embody your full self-expression and live a life of deep self-love and integrity. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Accountability, Personal Growth, Radical Responsibility This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm joined by Aaron Alexander, a manual therapist, movement coach, podcast host, author, and creator of the Align Method. Aaron dives into the profound connection between fitness and spiritual growth – highlighting how incorporating small practices into our daily routines can greatly enhance physical and emotional well-being. We also explore the interconnectedness of nutrition, movement, self-worth, and boundary setting – emphasizing the importance of community support and self-reflection for optimal health. Aaron shares valuable insights on essential components of holistic well-being like breathing techniques, resilience building, stress management, and self-awareness. Tune in to discover how aligning your physical and spiritual practices can lead to greater vitality and deepen your relationship with yourself. Aaron Alexander has over two decades of professional coaching experience whose clients range from A-list Hollywood celebrities to professional athletes and everyone in between. With his vast knowledge and experience, Aaron has gone on to interview over 400 hundred of the world’s preeminent thought leaders on physical and psychological well-being on the top-rated Align Podcast, bringing together a variety of diverse perspectives on optimising health and performance. Through trial, error, and the opportunity to commune with the world's foremost experts, Aaron has distilled what he has found to be the bedrock of human health into the Align Method. —Instagram: https://instagram.com/aaronalexander —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alignpodcast —Podcast: https://www.alignpodcast.com/episodes —Align Method Program: https://www.alignpodcast.com/amp —Book: The Align Method: A Modern Movement Guide for a Stronger Body, Sharper Mind, and Stress-Proof Life: https://www.alignpodcast.com/alignbook —Align Podcast Episode with Mark: https://www.alignpodcast.com/episodes/anzpccftj2yb4nm-thhhf-ssj6g-bjd3j-rd39l-c6jr4-48zgn-wnzxh-64xhj-25lhk —Align Podcast Episode with Mark on YouTube: https://youtu.be/yqwiJwflHK4?si=FkstxQzYgJiDEtyU If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Emotional Well-Being, Mental Health, Align Method, Fitness, Spiritual Growth, Community Support, Self-Reflection, Holistic Well-Being, Stress Management This episode is sponsored by: —FACTOR: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, I share a BIG announcement that’s been brewing for a long time. I discuss how my relationship with social media has impacted my well-being – including the pressures of constant content creation and changing algorithms. I also talk about the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and relationships based in mutual regard. This episode marks a shift towards aligning my life with core values and embracing a fully liberated life. For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Boundaries, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Social Media, Purpose, Liberation, Self-Expression, Self-Discovery, Alignment This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, I discuss the nuances of navigating relationships and breakups – emphasizing the crucial role of clear communication and intentional boundaries. Drawing from my personal journey of reconnecting with Kylie, I share the significance of well-defined guidelines post-breakup, explicit communication of needs, and mutual respect. I also explore topics such as infidelity, regret, and confronting uncomfortable truths for personal growth and transformation in relationships. The episode dives into the importance of embracing grief as a pathway to self-discovery and emphasizes the profound growth achieved by acknowledging our inner darkness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery, Communication, Infidelity, Personal Growth, Regret, Acceptance This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Dr. Sue Johnson, a pioneering figure in couples therapy and adult attachment, renowned for her role in developing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Together, we explore the profound impact of relationships and attachment in the human experience. Dr. Sue discusses the role of emotions in therapy, emphasizing the significance of understanding and validating emotions to establish secure attachments. Throughout the episode, she shares insights on how she’s helped her clients navigate challenging emotions for authentic change through EFT. Dr. Sue also dives into topics such as the transformative power of emotional epiphanies, the creation of safe spaces in therapy, the societal shift towards digital connections, and the importance of understanding attachment needs in the digital age. Join us in this impactful conversation to explore the pursuit of authentic, face-to-face connections and their fundamental role in enhancing your emotional well-being. Dr. Sue Johnson has received numerous awards including Psychotherapy Networker’s Lifetime Achievement Award, the APA’s Family Psychologist of the Year, and the Order of Canada. Her best-selling book Hold Me Tight (2008) has sold over one million copies and was developed into a relationship education program. As founding director of the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Dr. Sue trains counselors in EFT worldwide, providing guidance to over 90 affiliated organizations. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsuejohnson/ —Website: https://drsuejohnson.com/ —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drsuejohnson/ —Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_SueJohnson —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorSueJohnson?themeRefresh=1 —Website: International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) www.iceeft.com —Books: https://drsuejohnson.com/books/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Emotions This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the concept of liberated love and advocate for diversified relationships to fulfill various needs. We discuss the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and practicing self-care to achieve authentic connections. Kylie and I share our personal experience and perspectives on reconciling after a breakup, emphasizing mutual growth and trust-building. We also explore the importance of self-trust, clean anger expression, and the transformative power of self-discovery. Tune in to this episode to learn how to navigate relationships and personal evolution with wisdom and openness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Dr. Mark Guadagnoli, Teacher, Author, Elite Performer Coach, and Neuroscience Professor. Dr. Guadagnoli shares his expertise in optimizing performance, discusses leveraging situations for growth, and emphasizes taking control of your life in order to thrive. He shares the wisdom of the Challenge Point Framework and finding the right stress level for learning and growth. We explore how adverse childhood experiences' impact resilience and what trauma's role is in growth. Dr. Guadagnoli emphasizes the importance of taking control of our experiences, reframing traumas, recognizing the significance of arousal states in learning, and prioritizing growth over ego in relationships. Tune in to this episode to discover how personal development through challenge can be a pivotal factor for both individual and collective advancement. Dr. Mark Guadagnoli has worked in industry and academia for three decades. He has taught at several universities including Harvard University, MIT, UCLA, and USC. Media appearances include New York Times, Time Magazine, USA Today, Wall Street Journal, the London Times, the History Channel, and CBS Sports. Dr. Guadagnoli was one of the original faculty members of the Kirk Kerkorian School of Medicine at UNLV and serves as a Professor of Neuroscience and Neurology and the Dean of Faculty where he runs professional development and feedback programs for the School. Mark’s love is working with the best to help them become even better. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markguadagnoli/ —Website: https://www.unlv.edu/medicine/faculty-affairs/the-academy —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@academy.unlvmed If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Optimizing Performance, Personal Growth, Personal Development, Challenge, Trauma, Neuroscience This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the specifics of what liberated love means in action and discuss the need to break free from repeated relational patterns. We share our definition of codependency and emphasize the importance of both individual growth and mutual responsibility in relationships. Our conversation highlights the significance of personal maturation, self-awareness, self-trust, and setting boundaries to create genuine connections. Tune into this episode to learn how to embrace and liberate your full expression in every relationship in your life. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay About Kylie: Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Kylie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Kylie’s Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Patterns, Liberated Love, Personal Growth, Responsibility Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome Dr. Philip Ovadia, a heart surgeon, author and founder of Ovadia Heart Health. In our conversation, Dr. Ovadia challenges the traditional view of heart disease – clarifying what cholesterol does for the body and emphasizing the need for more awareness around inflammation and insulin resistance. He discusses the drawbacks of weight loss medications, promotes the benefits of whole foods and animal protein, and shares the importance of early detection when it comes to issues of blood vessels and the heart. Dr. Ovadia also speaks on the misconceptions about statins, the importance of cholesterol quality, and shares actionable steps for optimizing metabolic health. Tune in to this perspective widening conversation about heart health and the ways we can not only live healthier, but prevent heart disease in the process. Dr. Philip Ovadia is a heart surgeon who has done over 3,000 heart surgeries. He is also the founder of Ovadia Heart Health, offering a virtual clinic to people all over the world that focuses on the prevention and treatment of heart disease by modifying diet and lifestyle. His book, Stay off My Operating Table: A Heart Surgeon’s Metabolic Health Guide to Lose Weight, Prevent Disease, and Feel Your Best Every Day teaches you the 7 principles of metabolic health and shows you how to eat metabolically healthy with just about any popular diet. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ovadiahearthealth Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ovadia_heart_health/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ifixhearts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IFixHearts LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/philip-ovadia-heart-health Book: https://www.amazon.com/Stay-off-Operating-Table-Metabolic/dp/1737818205/ Appearances: https://ifixhearts.com/podcasts-and-videos/ If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Self-Care, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Heart Health, Ketogenic Diet, Cholesterol, Metabolic Health, Inflammation, Heart Disease Prevention, Insulin Resistance, Whole Food 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:03 Heart Health and Misunderstandings About Heart Disease 0:03:53 The Historical Shift in Heart Disease Causes 0:10:20 Reflecting on Surgical Procedures and Medications 0:31:23 The Perfect Storm: Food, Pharma, and Health Care 0:35:47 The Importance of Real Food and Animal Proteins 0:38:03 Managing Insulin Resistance Through Diet 0:41:17 Reversing Type 2 Diabetes: A Controversial Concept 0:44:08 Weight Loss Medication Concerns and the Long-Term Effects 0:46:45 The Difference Between Obesity and Insulin Resistance 1:01:06 Transitioning to an Animal-Based Approach 1:02:57 Effects of Carnivore Diet on Inflammation 1:04:20 Carnivore Diet and Autoimmune Disorders 1:05:47 Plant-Based Diets vs. Meat-Based Approaches 1:12:28 Concerns about Seed Oils in Foods 1:18:31 Empowering Individuals to Take Control of Health 1:24:54 Actionable Steps to Improve Heart Health This episode is sponsored by Factor: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I talk about adapting to change, setting boundaries, and valuing self in relationships. I explore the concept of self-worth detached from external validation and the importance of authenticity in relationships. I also speak about the process of confronting past traumas, the power of conversational role-play, and how to navigate grief and guilt as it arises. Join me as we get real about ourselves and our relationships in order to move towards healthier connections. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma 0:00:00 Intro + Reorienting in Relationship 0:02:35 Importance of Integrity and Boundaries 0:02:43 Embracing Grief and Healing Wounds 0:02:56 Role-Playing Conversations for Closure 0:04:14 Navigating Toxic Environments and Boundaries This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I chat with Matt Zemon, educator, author, and leader in psychedelic wellness. Matt shares the transformative power of psychedelics in fostering personal growth beyond conventional treatments. He discusses the evolving research landscape around this topic and the positive impact psychedelics have on mental health. From medical applications to spiritual practices, Matt talks about the diverse avenues of psychedelic use, the importance of responsible engagement, and the potential of psychedelics to be used with intention for individual and societal well-being. Tune in to this eye-opening dialogue that invites us to both widen our perspective and expand our consciousness. Matt Zemon, MSc, is a dedicated explorer of the inner world and a passionate advocate for the responsible use of psychedelics. With a Master of Science in Psychology and Neuroscience of Mental Health from King’s College London, Matt explores the transformative potential of psychedelics, aiming to guide individuals through their experiences toward purpose, connection, and understanding. As the author of the Amazon Best-Seller, Psychedelics for Everyone: A Beginner’s Guide to these Powerful Medicines for Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, PTSD, and Expanding Consciousness, Matt shares insights on using these powerful medicines for anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, and expanding consciousness. Additionally, he co-founded companies like HAPPŸŸ, specializing in psychedelic-assisted ketamine therapy, PSYCHABLE, an online community connecting seekers with practitioners, and TAKE2MINUTES, a nonprofit dedicated to improving mental health and wellbeing. Website: http://www.mattzemon.com/ LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattzemon/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matt.zemon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt.zemon/ If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Mental Health, Grief, Psychedelics, Personal Growth 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:29 The Rising Interest in Psychedelics 0:02:22 The Influence of Michael Pollan and MAPS 0:03:12 Three Ways People Approach Psychedelics 0:04:02 Psychedelic Churches and Ceremonies 0:07:27 The Process of Healing and Growth 0:11:46 Accessing Suppressed Emotions with Psychedelics 0:29:06 Navigating the World of Psychedelics Safely 0:33:40 Asking the Right Questions Before a Psychedelic Experience 0:36:17 Integrating Medical and Spiritual Knowledge 0:37:10 Unlocking Emotions and Connection Through Psychedelics 0:40:42 Embracing Accountability and Emotional Exploration 0:47:06 Medicinal Use Across Generations and Relationships 0:57:55 Raising Children in a Changing Educational System 1:02:12 Reflecting on Cultural Differences and Educational Systems 1:06:44 Radical Responsibility and Emotional Awareness 1:09:27 Music and Playlists in Psychedelic Journeys 1:13:24 Navigating Angst and Respect for Psychedelic Journeys This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special Valentine's episode, I welcome back my wonderful wife, Kylie McBeath. Together we dive into the conversation of codependency and the role shame plays in relationships. We discuss our own journey and share insights on healing, integrating, and growing both in- and outside of relationship. We also introduce our new book, Liberated Love, which explores breaking free from codependent patterns and creating relational environments that celebrate mutual strength and liberation. Tune in to learn how to understand and heal codependent patterns and invitation to pre-order our book to dive even deeper in this transformative journey. Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Get Our New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Grief, Liberated Love 0:00:00 Introducing Kylie as the Special Guest 0:02:44 Reflecting on our Unconventional Wedding Ceremony 0:05:40 Marriage as a Step Towards Sacred Union 0:08:08 Exploring the Possibilities of Commitment and Sacredness 0:08:24 Reflecting on the Journey and Breakup 0:09:46 Sacred Pause: The Space Between Relationships 0:12:45 Embracing the Journey of Relationships 0:13:16 Honoring the Tough Experiences and Integrating the Lessons 0:15:27 Returning to Openness and Resensitizing What Was Desensitized 0:18:42 The Power of Creating Together 0:20:29 Ending Old Patterns and Finding a New Path 0:21:21 The Journey of Love and Letting Go 0:23:08 The Canary in the Coal Mine: Recognizing the Wisdom to Leave 0:25:10 Sacred Work: Healing Generational Patterns of Codependency 0:32:31 The Concept of Taking Up Space in Relationships 0:32:53 The Invisible Barriers and Relational Ruptures 0:35:11 Belonging and Finding Support Even in Rupture and Ending 0:38:23 The Journey of Writing a Book and Preparing for Parenthood This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I talk with Thomas Hübl, a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator. We explore healing collective trauma and the importance of developing attunement in relationships. Thomas shares insights on trauma's impact on our nervous systems and the intergenerational transmission of trauma. We also discuss the broader implications of trauma for humanity and the planet and the need for deeper healing and interdependence. Join us on this deep dive to discover more about the far-reaching impact of trauma and the tangible steps we can collectively take towards integration, embodiment, and healing. Thomas Hübl, PhD, works within the complexity of systems and cultural change, integrating the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. He is the author of Attuned: Practicing Interdependence to Heal Our Trauma—and Our World and Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds. —Book: https://www.attunedbook.com —Website: https://thomashuebl.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Trauma, Relationships, Spirituality, Attunement, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Emotional Health, Nervous System Health, Interdependence, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Collective, Ancestors, Healing, Intergenerational 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:47 Discussion on Mysticism and Science 0:05:10 Transition from Paramedic to a Meditation Deep Dive 0:09:50 Understanding the Dance of Attunement 0:15:14 How Disconnection From Self Hinders Connection with Others 0:19:06 Curiosity and Self-Contact as Keys to Uncovering Filters 0:22:54 Depathologizing Wounds and Integrating Past Experiences 0:24:11 Devaluing Emotions: Rational vs. Emotional Response 0:25:23 Co-Regulation and Decreasing Fear Levels 0:27:25 Fear as an Isolated Emotion 0:31:01 Recognizing Intergenerational Trauma and its Impact 0:34:54 Finding Relief in the Power of a Single Brick 0:38:10 Disembodied Relating and the Impact of Social Media Communication 0:41:30 Disembodiment, Toxic Dynamics, and the Need for Attunement 0:46:02 Losing Touch with Specificity on Social Media and its Consequences 0:48:13 Sensational News Feeds: Detrimental to Public Health 0:51:28 The Journey to Maturity: Being with Self and Others without Othering 0:53:09 Shifting Perspectives: From Pain to Generosity 0:56:14 Moving Beyond Hyper-Individualization: The Power of Interdependence 1:03:36 Complexity of Ancestors and Trauma 1:07:15 The Spiritual Dimension: Transcendence and Bigger Context 1:11:23 The Beauty of Being Present: A Self-Healing Mechanism This episode is sponsored by: —BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I discuss the signs of receiving inner guidance, the importance of building self-trust, and the invitation to accept that the universe doesn’t make mistakes. I also dive into the four areas of life that contribute to abundance or suffering. Tune in to clarify your values and learn to discern the true voice within. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Purpose, Abundance, Liberation, Integrity, Holistic Health, Truth, Self-Trust, Values 0:00:00 Intro + Annoying Signs of Inner Guidance 0:00:38 Acts of Trust and Sacrifice for Personal Evolution 0:01:30 Embracing Present Circumstances for Growth 0:02:11 How Rejecting Initiation Causes Anxiety and Control Issues 0:03:03 Growing Wings through Self-Trust and Recognizing Miracles 0:03:35 Trusting Yourself: The First Step Towards Growth 0:04:18 The Transformation of a Nymph into a Dragonfly 0:05:14 Finding Purpose in Life's Challenges 0:06:09 Identifying Values for a Foundation of Abundance 0:06:24 Liberation: Freedom to Be Who You Are 0:07:38 Integrity: Living in Alignment with Your Truth 0:08:02 Bringing Ourselves Alive Through Self-Expression 0:08:29 Creating a Beautiful Strategy for Liberation 0:08:45 The Importance of Alignment and Integrity 0:09:23 Choosing Relationships that Align with Your Values This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I chat with Greer Kirshenbaum, an Author, Mother, Neuroscientist, Doula, and Infant and Family Sleep Specialist. We discuss the power of nurture and how understanding early nurturing experiences can shape our adult lives and parenting styles. Greer talks about the importance of gentleness and modeling foundational pillars like nervous system regulation and setting healthy boundaries with children. We also explore the history and long-term effects of sleep training methods. Join us on this thought-provoking journey into the transformative effects of nurturing and neuroscience. Greer Kirshenbaum PhD has combined her academic training with her experience as a doula and mother to lead The Nurture Revolution - A movement to nurture our babies’ brains to revolutionize mental health and impact larger systems in our world. Greer wants families, professionals, and workplaces to understand how early caregiving experience can boost mental wellness and diminish depression, anxiety, and addiction in adulthood by shaping babies’ brains through simple intuitive enriching experiences in pregnancy, birth, and infancy. —Instagram @nurture_neuroscience_parenting: https://www.instagram.com/nurture_neuroscience_parenting —Website: www.nurture-neuroscience.com —Book: https://www.nurture-neuroscience.com/the-nurture-revolution If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Nurturing, Boundaries, Nervous System, Emotional Health, Belonging, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Parenting, Mental Health 0:00:00 Intro 0:05:30 The Cultural Conversation Around Parenting and Shame 0:08:39 Notable Differences in the Amygdala, Hippocampus, and Prefrontal Cortex 0:12:03 The Key Years for Emotional Brain Development 0:22:42 Epigenetics and the Legacy of Nurturing 0:27:14 The Dose-dependent Relationship of Time Spent with Babies 0:30:10 Breastfeeding and its Benefits for Brain Development 0:37:00 Allowing Toddlers to Explore Boundaries and Teach Healthy Boundaries 0:42:39 The Origins of Sleep Training: A Controversial Topic 0:46:50 Babies' Fight or Flight Response: Distress and Fear 0:47:25 The Intense Experience of Parenting and its Toll. 0:51:33 The Controversy of Sleep Training 0:54:57 The Effects of Chronic Cortisol on Children's Sleep 0:55:25 The Impact of Inconsistent Sleep Training 0:58:39 Exploring Different Therapeutic Tools for Stress Regulation 1:03:05 Reviewing and Teaching Emotional Regulation to Children 1:04:51 Four Questions 1:06:28 Showing Care and Love for Our Children This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I explore the transformative power of initiations, guided by insights from Francis Weller and James Hillman. I talk about the three parts of initiation: severance from the world you once knew, radical alteration to your sense of identity, and inability to go back to the world you knew. I also discuss the power of community during these personal transformations, the importance of prioritizing our instincts as well as alchemizing our knowledge into action. This episode is an invitation to align our actions and remember that true transformation comes from within. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Transformation, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Initiations, Community 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:33 Initiations and its Three Parts 0:01:58 Identity Shift: Embracing the Unknown 0:02:35 A Radical Alteration: Severance from the Familiar World 0:03:12 The Distractions from Self 0:03:50 The Screen Report and Lack of Time for Personal Growth 0:04:19 The Power of Community 0:06:09 Trusting Your Instincts and Ignoring Outside Opinions 0:06:37 Pursuing Your Calling as an Imperative 0:07:26 Being Yourself in Relationships 0:09:25 Finding Inner Strength Again 0:10:24 Where You’re Not Liberated 0:10:41 The Mind's Limitations in Understanding Reality 0:11:31 Knowledge vs. Action: The Importance of Living in Integrity Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I welcome back Michael Easter, a bestselling author and esteemed professor. Michael shares what the Scarcity Loop is and how to move towards more intentional thinking and decision making. We discuss the detrimental effects comfort can have on our health, the mechanics behind addictive behaviors, and strategies for self-regulation in an increasingly addictive digital landscape. This is a great episode to heighten awareness around our everyday habits and what ways we could be more intentional moving forward. Michael Easter is the author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain, to be released in September 2023, and a professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. When he's not writing and traveling for his books, he writes the weekly 2% Newsletter. —Newsletter: https://unique-painter-9003.ck.page/441934d2f0 —Website: http://eastermichael.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Purpose, Scarcity, Addiction, Addictive Behavior, Self-Regulation 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:11 Observing Human Behavior and Overconsumption in Las Vegas 0:09:24 The Scarcity Loop: Unpredictable Rewards and Repeatability 0:12:53 Pigeon Studies and the Attraction to the Scarcity Loop 0:16:31 Wired for Unpredictable Reward Games 0:19:42 Society's Acceptance of Harmful Behaviors and Minimizing their Impact 0:23:24 The Lack of Immediate Consequences for Excessive Social Media Use 0:26:57 Embracing the Discomfort of Interrupting the Loop 0:27:16 Changing Behaviors: The Challenge of Consciousness 0:29:32 The Impact of Time Spent on Digital Media 0:33:04 Lack of Exposure to Diverse Thought and Experience 0:36:04 The Art of Capturing Attention 0:40:01 Negativity bias in media and its impact on worldview 0:46:36 Monetizing Opportunity and Rewards in Dating Apps 0:49:56 Cravings and the Evolutionary Drive of Scarcity 0:53:08 Pigeons and their Surprising Gambling Choices 0:54:44 The Need for Stimulation and Optimal Stimulation Theory 1:03:31 Anthropologists and Human Behavior 1:07:24 Realizing the Short-Term Benefits and Long-Term Consequences This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#342: Trusting The Process This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. In this episode, I discuss breaking generational patterns and embracing self-expression. I explore navigating feeling lost, the importance of embracing past painful experiences, and trusting the beauty of the process. Let’s uncover the wisdom in our journey towards a more authentically expressed future. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Purpose, Generational Patterns, Personal Growth 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:06 Letting Go of Baggage and Inherited Suffering 0:02:15 Small Commitments Lead to Big Commitments 0:03:22 Letting Go and Finding More Peace 0:04:52 Discovering Potent Material 0:05:26 Unpacking the Confusion and Impact of Relationships 0:06:29 The Significance of Life Experience 0:06:46 Stuck in the Past 0:08:08 Learning from Fear This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#341: How to Re-Wire from Survival to Greatness with James Silvas In this episode, I welcome back James Silvas, an International Mindset Specialist and Peak Performance Coach. James encourages listeners to embrace both their individuality and the interconnectedness of all things to live a meaningful life aligned with their values and purpose. We explore the importance of living our values to be in true alignment with ourselves. James dismantles presence and discusses the concept of unselfing and facing our sh*t head on. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that invites us to reflect on and widen our perspective. James Silvas teaches athletes, leaders, and high-performing teams how to clear their minds, break through fear, optimize their performance, and enhance the quality of their personal and professional lives. James is also the founder of Be That 1% – a movement, brand, and podcast that inspires others to live on their terms, overcome obstacles, and do what 99% of people won’t. — Instagram @james_silvas: https://www.instagram.com/james_silvas — TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@james_silvas — Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/jamessilvas — LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-silvas — Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-that-1-podcast/id1330345445 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Accountability, Individuality, Performance, Presence, Values 0:00:00 Intro + Understanding our minds, performance, and presence 0:08:34 The Wall of Avoidance 0:24:20 Personal Fulfillment 0:25:33 Establishing Boundaries and Preserving Wholeness 0:28:44 Emotions are constructed in the moment, not pre-determined 0:31:52 Letting go of attachment allows for a relaxed and evolving conversation 0:35:33 Creating Certainty to Avoid Uncertainty 0:37:52 Observing and Selecting Thoughts 0:42:01 Constructed Lives: Society's Influence and Identifiable Labels 0:42:42 The Masks We Wear and the People We Attract 0:45:26 Triggers as Opportunities for Personal Growth 0:49:45 Becoming a Trailblazer in Your Own Life 0:55:12 Honoring Self and Others through Alignment 0:58:43 Unleashing Your Unique Superpower 1:02:59 Shifting from Victim to Victor Mentality This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from my recent Masterclass: 2024: Your Breakthrough Year. I’ll have a few of these coming out over the next few weeks! In this one, I talk about the importance of self-worth in decision-making and taking proactive steps towards change. We explore the impact of fear and resistance on progress and the transformative power of embracing discomfort. I also share the transformation that a dragonfly undergoes and how we can learn from it by utilizing pain for personal transformation. Get the full recording at markgroves.com/2024 —Full Masterclass recording: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/Masterclass-2024-sign-up —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN 00:00:00 Intro + Operating from a place of self-worth 0:02:10 Lowering standards and making exceptions 0:03:22 The importance of saying yes to oneself 0:06:14 The Weight of Knowing Without Living 0:06:33 Embracing the Fear and Starting Anyway 0:07:45 Stepping up as an Adult and Taking the Lead in 2024 0:08:14 True acceptance leads to transformation and action 0:09:56 The Fascinating Transformation of a Dragonfly 0:11:23 Shedding Old Skin and Emerging as a New Creature 0:11:31 The Power of New Beginnings 0:12:52 Embracing the Moment of Decision 0:13:02 Embracing Pain and Transformation 0:15:10 The Dragonfly Metaphor: Embracing Change and Growth 0:17:27 Using Emotional Residue for Transformation If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Grief This episode is sponsored by IIN: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#339: We’re Afraid to Die, Because We’re Afraid to Live with Sensei Koshin Paley Ellison In this episode, I welcome Sensei Koshin Paley Ellison to the show. We discuss the fear of confronting mortality and the aversion to facing death, letting go of our sh*t and facing our fears, and how to embrace the present moment. This is an episode you won’t want to miss that will help ground you into the new year and reorient you to the joy of living. Koshin Paley Ellison (MFA, LMSW, DMIN, NYZC Co-Founder, President, & Guiding Teacher) is an author, Zen teacher, Jungian psychotherapist, leader in contemplative care, and co-founder of an educational non-profit called the New York Zen Center for Contemplative Care. His books, grounded in Buddhist wisdom and practice, have gained national attention. Through its numerous educational programs, contemplative retreats, and Soto Zen Buddhist practices, the New York Zen Center touches thousands of lives every year. Koshin has appeared on dozens of podcasts and his work has been featured in the New York Times, PBS, CBS Sunday Morning and other media outlets. — Instagram @koshinpaleyellison @newyorkzencenter : https://www.instagram.com/koshinpaleyellison https://www.instagram.com/newyorkzencenter — New York Zen Center Website: https://zencare.org — NYZC Contemplative Medicine Fellowship: https://zencare.org/contemplative-medicine-fellowship — NYZC Foundations in Contemplative Care https://zencare.org/foundations — Koshin’s Book: Untangled: Walking the Eightfold Path to Clarity, Courage, and Compassion: https://www.amazon.com/Untangled-Walking-Eightfold-Clarity-Compassion-ebook/dp/B09TZY26J3 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Humanity, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Transformation, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, Death, Aging, Living, Life 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:47 Confronting Mortality and our Aversion to Facing Death 0:04:20 Appreciating the Awareness of Mortality and Embracing Life 0:08:58 Embracing the Inevitability of Death 0:11:56 Confronting Fear and Assessing a Fear-Based Life 0:13:19 The Importance of True Reflection and Conscious Untapped Potential 0:16:08 Letting Go of Patterns and Facing Our Fears 0:19:56 Trauma Response and Identity 0:23:36 Finding Joy and Levity in Life 0:32:58 Embracing the Present Moment 0:34:30 Embracing Feedback and Changing Perspective on Commitment 0:38:13 Embracing the Challenge of Loving Difficult People 0:41:13 Layers of Pain and Betrayal 0:43:52 Opening up to painful self-discovery 0:46:27 Feeling grounded and ready for self-exploration 0:49:20 Developing the courage to untangle and seek help 0:49:37 Searching for Inspiration and Direction 0:52:20 Embracing Dissolution and Self-Limiting Ideas This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to live the most happy, fulfilled and abundant life you could ever imagine? Are you itching to create that for yourself?! Diego Perez, better known as Yung Pueblo, has a beautiful ability to inspire and help people find their inner strength; by giving us all tangible techniques and tools, showing us we are capable of embracing change, deeping loving and healing ourselves, and truly unlocking a world of boundless possibilities for a life where we don’t just survive, but we THRIVE! I am bringing this episode back as another Saturday Special, because it was a top hit of 2023. Topics from self-love and self-healing to creating healthy relationships and truly transforming into the best version of yourself, are all things I need everyone to hear and take into 2024. YOU have the power, and Diego shows us that. Diego Perez is a meditator and New York Times bestselling author who is widely known on Instagram and various social media networks through his pen name Yung Pueblo. Online he has an audience of over 3 million people. His writing focuses on the power of self-healing, creating healthy relationships, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves. Get his newest book, The Way Forward, today! — Diego's Book: The Way Forward: https://yungpueblo.com/books-1 — Website: www.yungpueblo.com — Instragram: @yung_pueblo - https://www.instagram.com/yung_pueblo — Substack Newsletter: https://yungpueblo.substack.com/ — Vipassana Meditation: https://www.dhamma.org/en/index 00:00 Intro 01:03 The never-ending journey to self-growth 02:50 Embracing the unknown 06:02 Transforming disagreements into understanding 09:24 The Way Forward 13:15 Vipassana Meditation 21:20 For people bad at meditating 23:04 Intuition vs. reactivity 25:35 Intuition as your compass for life 27:20 The benefits of meditation 31:29 The challenges of being seen as a teacher 35:27 Complexities of hierarchy and fame 41:21 Dissolving hierarchy in relationships 44:41 Reclaiming your inner wisdom 49:18 The inspiration behind 'The Way Forward' 51:38 Integrity and embracing impermanence 54:56 Where can you start? If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgrovesAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I share about my transformative journey with plant medicine in Peru. I explain the physical sensations, the discomfort I felt and how I worked through it, the visions I saw, the reflections I had, and the profound lessons I learned throughout the experience. I share this with you in hopes that some of my reflections will resonate with you. Sending you so much love. —Matt Zemon - Beyond the Trip: A Journal for Psychedelic Preparation and Integration: https://a.co/d/akIQfVE —Branden Collinsworth’s Warrior Retreats: https://www.warriorretreats.com —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Psychedelics, Ayahuasca, Shamanism, Spirituality, Presence, Introspection, Codependency, Martyrdom, Transformation, Fear, Grief, Truth, Plant Medicine, Reverent Relationship to Plant Medicine 0:00:00 Intro 0:09:44 Preparing and participating in the jungle plant rituals 0:18:59 Physical Sensations and Reflections 0:20:51 Connection to Ayahuasca through Reciprocal Relationship with Land 0:22:46 Feeling the Discomfort 0:24:40 Navigating Dark Entities and Protecting Your Energy 0:25:51 Embracing the Present and the Importance of Integrity 0:27:52 Having Patience with Unresolved Matters in the Heart 0:28:06 Embracing the Mystery of Unanswered Questions 0:30:05 The Importance of Self-Leadership 0:32:14 Stepping into Personal Leadership 0:32:44 Gathering Wisdom 0:34:06 A Commitment Driven by Love for Family 0:34:52 Trusting the Spiritual Realms and Letting Go 0:36:58 Embracing the Unknown and Finding Community This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://cozyearth.com/GROVES Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I’m welcoming back renowned dating coach Damona Hoffman! Damona shares the top common dating challenges & hiccups that most people encounter, her top four dating myths to watch out for, and many more dating & relationship tips. We explore the concept of soulmates, fear of commitment, and the transformative power of taking it SLOW, and SO much more. Tune in to hear Damona’s top dating tips including what you can do to call in a relationship that aligns with your truth and your values. Damona Hoffman has created content and collaborated with most major dating apps including Bumble and Match and she was named the Official U.S. Dating Coach of OkCupid in 2021. Her podcast, Dates & Mates, was named Best Podcast of the Year by The Black Podcasting Awards. Damona’s first book F the Fairy Tale releases on January 2, 2024 and is endorsed by Dr. Drew Pinsky, Drew Barrymore, Lori Gottlieb and more. —Instagram @DamonaHoffman: https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman —Website: http://damonahoffman.com —Book - F The Fairy Tale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story: http://fthefairytalebook.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, dating, dating advice, dating coach, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:14 The Four Dating Myths 0:14:45 The Importance of Kindness and Generosity in Relationships 0:25:00 The Importance of Self-Value in Dating 0:28:08 Carving Out Time for Self-Love and Personal Growth 0:31:07 Authenticity and Creating Your Own Love Story 0:35:01 The Evolution of Online Dating 0:38:57 The Soulmate Myth 0:45:12 Relationships and Growth 0:48:47 Parenthood and Relationship: Opportunities for Discovery and Growth 0:52:06 Cultivating Trust in Relationships: The Role of Surrender 0:56:22 Embracing the Journey of Love and Connection This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn how you can harness the power of your mind to create the life you've always wanted! One of the most popular episodes of 2023 was with the great Dr Joe Dispenza, a New York Times best-selling author, teacher and lecturer whose research has led him to develop a practical formula to help people heal themselves and transform their lives. I believe his teachings are SO important and powerful, especially as we start this New Year, so I am bringing this episode back for our first Saturday Special. Dr Joe’s passion can be found at the intersection of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics. He integrates that knowledge to teach people how to heal their bodies of health conditions, make significant changes in their lives, and evolve their consciousness. Dr Joe speaks to the power of the mind and how we can reframe our thoughts, beliefs, experiences, and feelings to change our reality. Whether you're looking to overcome limiting beliefs, increase your resilience, change your health, or create a different life for yourself, this episode has something for you! —Unlimited Website: https://drjoedispenza.com —YouTube: @drjoedispenza - https://www.youtube.com/drjoedispenza —TikTok: @official_drjoedispenza - https://www.tiktok.com/@official_drjoedispenza —Twitter: @drjoedispenza - https://twitter.com/drjoedispenza —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoeDispenzaOfficialNewsFanPage —Instagram: @drjoedispenza - https://www.instagram.com/drjoedispenza 00:00 Intro 00:38 The power of reframing your reality 04:58 How positive thoughts affect your biology 11:57 We’re addicted to fear 16:59 How your thoughts shape your health 21:24 Your nervous system is a pharmacy 27:49 Healing frequency and the healing potential of the human body 37:52 We’re changing the science 43:48 The brain thinks, but the heart knows 48:16 Changing your state of being to achieve lasting transformation 54:44 Meditation for physical and mental well-being Themes: Nervous System, Transformation, Neuroscience, The Brain, Meditation, Mental Health, Physical Health If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgrovesAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#336: Let's Build Some Bridges Sometimes, we find ourselves burning bridges because we lack the skills or confidence to walk away or choose ourselves. It’s a form of self-sabotage, where we consciously or unconsciously avoid reaching out or following through on opportunities that could lead to personal growth. But what if we built bridges instead of burned them? We must embrace change and actively pursue personal growth. Trusting ourselves and accepting our truths is key to creating meaningful change. Let’s build some bridges. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Grief, Sustainability 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:07 "We burn bridges we don't know yet how to cross" 0:02:28 Create Space for Self-Discovery 0:06:35 Fiercely Walking Our Path with Grace 0:07:39 Accepting Truths and Finding Light 0:08:35 Stepping into Worth and Self-Trust 0:09:35 Bringing Truth to Life and Recognizing Burned Bridges 0:10:31 Creating Opportunities and Stepping into the Truth 0:11:22 Taking Responsibility and Moving Towards Change Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Allyson Byrd teaches us how to reframe our mindsets to create the abundance we all deserve. We explore the power of negative emotions versus the power of conscious identity choices for overcoming obstacles. Allyson teaches us how to reframe our perspectives on suffering and embrace our stories, and how our perception of reality makes an impact on our abundance and what we create in our lives. Allyson’s passion, story, and determination will motivate you to be and create more, and live a life you love. Allyson Byrd is more than just a mentor to business owners in the digital marketing space; she is an agent of transformation and grace. A celebrated leader in sales through energetics, Allyson has enabled her students to come together and create astounding results – $330 million in sales revenue using her methodologies of Spotlight Energetics™. Her unique approach of bold guidance, disruptive challenges, and empowering encouragement have enabled thousands of people in over 20 industries from 47+ countries to exceed their own expectations. Allyson invites us to join her on a mission to push boundaries, make an impact, and share our own stories. To invite Allyson to speak to your organization, mastermind, retreat or virtual experience, please email [email protected] for consideration. —Instagram @iamallysonbyrd: https://www.instagram.com/iamallysonbyrd —Website: https://www.allysonbyrd.com —Want to discover how to effortlessly attract your dream clients online with ease and joy? Download Allyson's private podcast series, The Magnetism Code for NO-Cost here: https://allysonbyrd.ac-page.com/magnetism-codes-instagram —Are you new to learning how to integrate spiritual technologies with successful visibility as an entrepreneur who desires supernatural prosperity? Take a look at Allyson's 1-year MasterHeart here: https://bit.ly/meltwithallyson If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, prayer, negative emotions, conscious identity choices, reframing perspectives, suffering, embracing stories, understanding and supporting Blackness, challenging societal beliefs, perception of reality, making a living, overcoming obstacles, passion 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:46 Reconnecting and Reflecting on Growth 0:04:10 Dissolving Patriarchal Lens and Embracing Worth 0:07:18 The Power of External Governance 0:10:38 The Desire to Belong and Tell a Fair Story 0:14:21 The Imaginary Troll and External Validation 0:17:45 Embracing Truth and Overcoming Fear 0:21:39 The Belief in Deserving a Better Childhood 0:24:51 Transitioning from Pleasure to Purpose 0:28:00 Finding Joy in Chaos and Grief 0:33:55 Martyrdom and Abundance 0:40:01 Power and Control 0:45:07 Recognizing the Power of Psychological Manipulation 0:51:09 Breaking Bread and Embracing Aging 1:01:14 Using Attention for Personal Transformation 1:04:29 Digital Marketing and Representation of Blackness Online 1:09:08 Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity and Support 1:12:12 Shape-shifting for Protection: A 200-pound Body as Armor 1:18:30 Challenging societal norms and body image 1:25:18 Embracing personal stories and creating extraordinary lives 1:28:54 Spreading liberation and justice through conversation 1:32:30 Wrapping up with gratitude and invitation acceptance This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove —Hatch Restore 2: Go to https://www.hatch.co/markgroves to get $20 off and free shipping! Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I’m talking about the importance of TRULY showing up to create the life we really want. We can be very ambivalent when it comes to relationships with others, but that same ambivalence exists within us when our NO’s and YES’s don’t come from an embodied place, and leaks into other areas of our lives. Stop delaying what you’re becoming, create the abundance you seek, give birth to your purpose and passion, and step fully into the opportunity that 2024 can be. Let it be the moment that everything changed. Show up. You can do this. You’ve got this. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Behavioral Patterns, Personal Growth, Integrity 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:06 The Importance of Cultivating Trust in Yourself 0:01:04 Shifting from Outcome-Oriented to Process-Oriented Thinking 0:02:11 Respect for Boundaries and Self-Worth 0:07:22 The Desire for More Answers and Abundance 0:08:20 Shifting from Seeking Certainty to Embracing Possibility 0:09:21 Taking Action and Building Foundations for Success 0:11:33 Choosing with Intuition 0:13:18 Overcoming Ambivalence 0:16:25 Trusting Choices in All Areas of Life 0:18:57 Telling Yourself the Truth Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I welcome Dr. Emily Morse to the show, doctor of human sexuality and the host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for nearly two decades. Dr. Emily Morse normalizes sex in way that rewires your brain to see sexuality through a liberating, new lens. She teaches us the importance of removing shame, addressing all the factors that affect our sexuality like our trauma and getting out of our heads during the act, and focusing on our sexual health. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! Dr. Morse is a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and was previously a radio host and executive producer on SiriusXM. She has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes, and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and elsewhere. Her mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation, and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily —Book: https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sex-Boost-Your-Pleasure/dp/0778387100 —Website: https://sexwithemily.com Themes: Sex, Sexuality, Authenticity, Relationships, Self-Love, Sexual Health, Communication, Pleasure, Shame, Imago Theory, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:01 Sex and Communication 0:06:09 The Impact of Porn on Sexual Education 0:08:17 Making Peace with Your Own Body 0:09:15 Discovering the Truth About Female Arousal and Pleasure 0:13:36 Tips for Couples Who Haven't Spoken About Sex in a Long Time 0:16:36 Faking Orgasms and the Desire for Emotional Safety 0:19:40 Rebuilding and Starting Fresh: Reconnecting and Prioritizing Sex Life 0:22:24 The Role of the Brain in Arousal and Desire 0:24:14 Embodiment Practice: Being Present and Mindful During Sex 0:26:02 The importance of breathing + breathing technique 0:29:40 Tools for better sex 0:32:21 The Importance of Lube 0:35:55 Impact of Swiping Culture on Sex and Dating Apps 0:39:43 Sexual Expression on Dating Profiles 0:42:31 The Power of Personal Evolution in Sexuality This episode is brought to you by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com —IIN: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing LMFT Figs O’Sullivan. In his practice, Figs focuses on three pillars for relationship work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences. Figs teaches us that understanding that people's actions are driven by their own insecurities and fears is fundamental. Instead of fixating on the flaws of our partner/ex-partner, it's more beneficial to study one's own emotional responses and vulnerabilities and how to feel our feelings better. By becoming an expert on oneself and the system, one can be and attract a more emotionally evolved partner, and fight less! So many gems in this episode - dive in! Fiachra "Figs'' O'Sullivan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, certified in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and the founder of Empathi. He strives to interact with his clients as fellow travelers on life’s journey, allowing them to easily dive deeper into their “stuff” with his down-to-earth philosophy. Figs has spent years working with frustrated couples at a crossroads in their relationship—they want to make things work but are stuck in what Figs calls their “Waltz of Pain”—which is what led him to create Empathi! Inspired by attachment theory, improvisational dance and theater, experiential psychotherapy, and EFT, Empathi provides fun, effective, and simple solutions to help couples stop fighting and snuggle more. —Website: https://empathi.com —Empathi Quiz for Couples: https://empathi.com/quiz/ —Empathi Courses: https://get.empathi.com/ —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Empathinow —Media Page: https://empathi.com/figs-osullivan Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Grief, Communication, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:11 Who’s the problem in the relationship? 0:08:10 How communication can be threatening 0:11:30 Three Pillars for Relationship Work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences 0:18:46 The reason people get together 0:28:21 Confronted with grief - now what? 0:28:55 Changing perspective 0:37:12 Importance of using attachment theory responsibly 0:40:14 Tips for a successful relationship 0:43:37 Counterintuitive concepts in self-development and attachment theory 0:48:12 The line between personal boundaries and relationship deal-breakers 0:54:21 Opening up about feelings and concerns 1:03:08 The Complexity of Attachment and Relationships 1:06:47 The Pain of Disappointing a Loved One 1:10:16 Helping People Feel Their Feelings Better 1:13:16 Becoming an Expert for Future Relationships This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free by visiting https://withopen.com/CREATETHELOVE —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode, I welcome world-renowned therapist Marisa Peer to the show. Marisa is an expert in hypnosis and shares how it wakes people up to their potential by tapping into the subconscious mind as a powerful inner resource. She explains that everything we do can be categorized into punishing, protecting, or prioritizing ourselves, and its impact on our behaviors and relationships. So many gems in here… don't miss this fascinating episode on a different and refreshing view of the way the human mind works! For over 30 years, Marisa Peer, has helped thousands of clients reframe their issues and turn their lives around thanks to her unique approach - Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®). Last year saw the publication of her sixth best-selling book - Tell Yourself A Better Lie - and she also launched Dietless Life, a unique weight management program. —Website: https://marisapeer.com/ —Speaking: https://marisapeer.com/speaker/ —Rapid Transformational Therapy: https://rtt.com/ —Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMarisaPeer/ —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marisapeertherapy/ —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarisaPeer/ —LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisa-peer/ —Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarisaPeer —TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themarisapeer Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Neuroplasticity, Hypnosis, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, Happiness 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:03 The importance of repetition and affirmations in hypnotherapy 0:04:29 The power of hypnosis in tapping into subconscious potential 0:05:55 Tapping into the purpose behind behaviors and patterns 0:07:12 Repeating patterns in relationships and fear of rejection 0:09:07 Subtle ways low self-worth is created in children 0:16:29 Rewiring the mind through neuroplasticity 0:17:42 Telling yourself a better lie 0:18:30 Messy kids & nostagia 0:20:02 Upgrading our thoughts: shifting from external to internal growth 0:23:00 Unconditional love and the pursuit of happiness 0:27:00 Embracing our power and the power of the mind This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com/ —BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices