The Angry Therapist Podcast

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional worlds are almost the exact opposite and how differences like this can make or break them depending on how much they understand, empathize, and adjust their expectations accordingly. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their relationship. In working through her own codependency, as well as with clients who almost all struggle in some way or another, Vanessa has made it a personal mission to speak openly with whoever will listen about the different ways it can show up. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John reads and discusses a chapter from his new book "Single. On Purpose."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the first episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa discuss their relationship and feelings around the three year itch. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how to soak up the moments and spark joy in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the things he finds beauty in in his life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how to find freedom in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the three most common signs you'll feel or see when your relationship is in trouble. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this hour long episode, John and his partner, Vanessa, talk about therapy, trauma, relationships, childhood, parenting, and much more with another couple, the Jaffe's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about whether being in an easy relationship means you're with the right person or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how to be productive in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the importance of growth and how it's a process. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the difference between feeling in love and feeling in lost, and how some people can mistake one for the other. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks the about the importance of hitting pause on life and taking the time to feel gratitude. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John shares some advice and tips on how to deal with a jealous boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the second episode of the Gratitude Series, John talks about all of the things he is grateful for in his life right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how not to drift in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices