The Angry Therapist Podcast

In this episode, John explains how to calm your nervous system,. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how it's okay to not know what's going to happen in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how to live in a high frequency and attract more of what you want out of life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about his own and having fork in the road moments. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa speak with Ashley and Lair Torrent all about the practice of love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how important it is to stop hiding and be as honest as soon as possible when you're dating. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about playing back old memories to recreate the amazing feeing it gave you back then today, and how memories and new experiences make an imprint in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the benefits of being open to everything in life while not attaching yourself to anything in life at the same time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser session with another couple. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the fine line between self care and self destruction. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John explains and gives his tips on how to know if your relationship is safe. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the different types of barriers you should look for that prevents love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about a new type of love we should thread into all of our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks with a longtime friend, Haylin Dennison, about social work, trauma, growth, and life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about his revelations he's learned at 49. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John plays back some of his relationships and previous experiences, and talks about what to do when you get down on yourself about them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks with book agent JL Stermer all about writing books, getting published, and how to stand out on social media. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about taking swings at life and what it means to live consciously. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk work, love, life, and family with Charlie and Erika Curtis. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about his dad and the importance of having empathy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about life anchors, what they are, and how to integrate them into your daily life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the different types of grief you will experience after a break-up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John shares his opinion on the kind of love we look for in our 30's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers a listener's question about finding other people attractive while you're in a relationship, and the importance of living like you're on vacation. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about different expectations in dating and relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the three things your relationship should be able to survive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa share what their most recent revelations are. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives advice on how to pull yourself out of the trenches. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives his tips and examples on how to hold on and push through when you see the island. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner. They also examine their still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John shares some stories and revelations around raising a child in today's world. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John pulls from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about how to treat your mind better. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the importance of rewiring and processing your old residue. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how to push yourself out of your comfort zone and be "relationships better." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships, and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?" Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices