
Strawberry Letter
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Her Family Is Ghetto And She Doesn't Know It
Dear Steve and Shirley, I grew up in a two-parent home and both of my parents earned college degrees and worked hard to provide a good life for me and my siblings. I have a college degree as well and I’ve been married for over 20 years to a great woman and we have two teenagers. My teenagers are well mannered and really smart kids. So, here’s my problem… I met my wife in college and fell in love with her, but I can not stand her family............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Don't Want To Be Quarantined With Him
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old single mother of a nine year old son. I love my son with all of my heart and I’ve done the best I can to discipline him and instill great morals and values in him, but he is just terrible. His behavior is the worst of the worst and he may not make it through this quarantine with me. Since he started elementary school, his teachers have said he has a major attitude problem and is a very selfish child. He makes up excuses for his bad behavior and always says his teachers are picking on him. I have observed him, without him knowing it and he is bad as heck in class. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

His Mouth May Be A Deal Breaker
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 45 year old woman and I've finally met Mr. Right, or so I thought. He has a steady job, a nice home and treats me like a queen! We've been dating two years and he recently proposed to me, but there’s just one issue with him that needs to be fixed before I agree to marry him. It’s his language. Steve, I know you are proud of your cussing skills so I need your help. Whenever my man gets frustrated, he cusses like there’s no tomorrow. Shortly after we met, he visited my church with me and while the sermon was going on, he got a call from his ex-wife............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend Has Moved In
Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a man for almost 4 years and I’m trying to do the right thing by not living with him before we are married. I live alone and he shares a house with a guy that he has been friends with forever. My boyfriend has one child that he has joint custody of, but he doesn’t really get along with the child’s mother. I’ve had a few run-ins with his child’s mother, but recently, things between us got worse when this woman moved in with my man and his roommate................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Man Should Keep Somethings To Himself
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have dealt with an older guy off and on for about 7 years and he meets all of my physical needs and we enjoy spending time together. He is 60 years old and he’s never been married and he does not have any children. He told me that I’m the only woman he’s ever been with for this long, because he hates it when women get clingy. I think he is my soulmate, but I’m worried about what goes on in his mind................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He's Had A Busy Year And It's Only March
Dear Steve and Shirley, my fiancé and I have been together for 10 months and I just had a baby girl two months ago. My man’s phone is a constant source of arguments for us. He gets so many late-night calls and texts that I’ve started snooping. I never could see anything because he deletes all of his texts and that makes me think he has something to hide. One night recently, he got a text while he was in the shower and it said, “Can you talk?” I got his phone and responded, “No, but I can text. What’s up?” The woman texted that she’s been blowing his phone up for the past 2 days because it was an emergency............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Too Old For These Games
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 57 year old very attractive widow. I started back dating four years ago, after giving myself time to deal with the loss of my husband. Over a year ago, I met a really nice man at a bar and he told me I was gorgeous and he’d love to take me to dinner. We went on our first date and I was hooked! He told me he was looking for a deep sexual connection and whoever he was with, he would treat her like a queen............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You, Me, She And This Baby
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 35-year-old lovely woman and my husband and I are having a dilemma. Four years ago, my husband of 10 years cheated on me with a woman he used to work with and he got her pregnant. He told me about the affair and I was livid, but after the baby was born, I was able to forgive him and move on. A year or so later, I had an affair with a guy that I met at the gym. He was good in bed and I quickly got hooked................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Won't Let Me Touch It Or See It
Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy online 2 years ago and we hit it off pretty good and have great chemistry. We hang out a lot and I’m ready to take the relationship to the next level. I mean the next level, as in sex. We have never been intimate and it’s becoming a problem for me. Whenever we’re alone at my place or his, I have tried to rub up on him or touch him in a way to let him know I need a little something something. He always moves away from me or he blocks my hands from touching him in places that I want to feel on.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Wants Tell My Fiancé About Us
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem that I hope you can help me sort out, because I’m really confused. I have had a fiancé for 8 years. She and I have been together since college and we always planned to get married, but we can’t commit to setting a wedding date or planning the wedding. We have been living like a married couple for years. In December of last year, someone at my job got my attention and I have a couple of issues with it............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sanctified and Saved Swingers
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a black man in my mid-thirties and I’m married to the woman of my dreams. We moved back to my home state a few years back and we joined a great new church. We are friends with several of the young married couples there, but we’re having a problem with one couple in particular. We used to hang out with them and we got really close and would double date with this couple and have game night at their house or ours............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Going Down, 'Cause He Ain't Around
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced female and I am crushed and lonely without a man in my life. That’s why I’m writing you and that’s my only problem. I am one of those women that doesn’t like to be without a man and someone to lean on when I feel down or when I’m going through things. I was in a tumultuous marriage for about 10 years and I’ve been single for 3 years now. Even though my marriage was crazy, I wanted to work things out so I would not end up alone................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stuck Between Two Women That I Love
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my lovely wife for 8 years and we have three children. My wife is great and we have a normal marriage and enjoy each spending time with each other. When my wife and I started dating, my siblings loved her, but my mom tolerated her. When we decided to get married, my wife told me that she could tell my mom was not happy about it. I blew it off and thought everything would be fine. Well, it’s not fine and I feel bad for my wife................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Wife Is Way Too Relaxed Now
Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for 24 years and my marriage started out great. My wife was beautiful and kept herself up and this was what attracted me to her. We started a business together after we got married and it was hugely successful mostly because of my wife’s sacrifices. She started putting the business in front of our family and she neglected a lot of her responsibilities to me and our children as the years went by. My wife also failed to be intimate with me and we went for almost a year without sex.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Need My Wife To Reinstate My Hall Pass
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old married man. I’ve been married for two years and it’s been a rocky two years so far. Right after I married my wife, she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. I suspected something was going on all along and she finally did admit it to me, but said she was drunk and it only happened once. I forgave her eventually and we’re still together. After it happened, my wife said she felt terrible and she told me there was only one way to make things even.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Single and Satisfied or Married and Miserable?
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married twice and I believe my second husband was the man of my dreams, but I truly didn’t see it at the time. During my second marriage, I got bored with the relationship, even though he was a great man. He had a tendency to be jealous, so I stopped hanging out with my girlfriends to keep the peace at home. After about 3 years of staying home, I decided to start back meeting my girlfriends after work often. My husband would be angry when I got home, but I didn’t care, because I had met a handsome and intriguing man and I was having an affair.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Love Life Took An Ugly Turn
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I really need advice from the guys on the show, but Ms. Shirley, you can take a stab at it too. I’ve been single for most of my life and I finally figured out why. I’m a 28 year old man, never married, no kids and I own my home. I make really good money and I have a leadership position at my job. My problem is that I’m starting to realize that I’m not the most handsome guy in the world.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You're Not As Sexy As You Think You Are
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 30 year old married woman and my husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and since I had the baby, our intimacy has gotten a little stale. We tried role playing, watching videos and talking dirty to keep the magic going, but nothing helped. A friend suggested we put a full-length mirror next to our bed because it worked for her and her hubby. They love watching themselves getting it on. My husband and I decided to try it............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Is Playing More Than The Organ
Dear Steve and Shirley, My mother is 70 years old, but she is the new 70s woman. She’s a size 8 and her skin is as smooth as can be and she doesn't have one wrinkle or gray hair in sight. She's a well-known, respected member of our church and she’s active in church ministries. My mother and I have always had a great mom and daughter relationship, until recently. We have been having a lot of problems, since my mother started dating the organist at our church, who is only 31 years old............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A House Divided By Politics
Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for 17 years and have always considered ourselves to be a politically conscious black couple. We are both grads of an HBCU and we have great jobs. Our marriage was always solid and we were die-hard Democrats. We worked hard to get Obama elected for his first and second terms. During President Obama’s second term in office, my wife lost her job and she blamed it totally on President Obama. There were some trade agreements that affected her job and she was laid off because of that................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

She Loves Me She Loves Me Not
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a real big problem. I'm a 32-year-old single father of two kids and I fell in love with my doctor who's 6 years older than me. We had a loving and caring friendship that grew into a romance. It lasted more than a year and a half. When I found out she was married, it crushed me, but she told me she was leaving her husband. It didn't happen. Eventually, I decided to try to move on from her................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Man Lies Like A Rug
Dear Steve and Shirley, my child’s father is a habitual liar. We’ve been dating for three years and he has lied to me about the most stupid stuff. We have almost been evicted because he lied about paying our rent. After I had our son, he told me he bought a ring and was going to propose, but he got in a financial bind and had to return the ring to pay off some debt. He has taken money out of our son’s bank account for petty things that he needs and then he lies about it and says it was for bank fees or something else.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Husband Is Not A Good Cheater
Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for almost 30 years. We both have professional jobs and we make a good living. My husband is genuinely a good guy but he’s also a big time cheater. The first time he cheated on me, I was pregnant with our oldest child. I forgave him then because I was young and pregnant, but years later, I found out he was still cheating. I let it slide again and things just kind of went back to normal. Over the years, I have confronted him about his inappropriate contact with women............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Over 60 And Full Of Stamina
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 31 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 8 years and we have four kids. In the beginning, our sex life was amazing and our intimate sessions would last for hours. But after four kids, it’s basically non-existent and when we do have sex, it’s terrible and boring. There is no spice in our love life because my husband is tired. It’s just sex and then he goes to sleep, leaving me wanting more. We have sex once a week so I can fulfill my duties as a wife, but I get my satisfaction elsewhere................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When Being Backwards and Bougie Collide
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 29-year-old black man and I'm sick to death of my racist family. No matter what I do, I am not "black" enough for them and I need your advice on how to handle it. As a youngster, I was interested in the arts, literature, and I preferred classical music and jazz. Their ignorant behinds always said I was “acting too white” and they forced me play sports and listen to hip-hop music. Since I was a teenager, I’ve dated white girls and I’ve dated black girls......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Man Told Me To Listen To Steve
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my man and he told me to listen to Steve, so I’m writing for advice. The issue with my guy is that he’s very self-centered and loves himself to death. He is looking at his phone literally all day and he keeps it with him at all times… in the bathroom, while he’s cooking, and by his pillow every night. I’ve asked him several times to let me see his phone and he told me that I need to listen to Steve Harvey, who said that a woman should never touch her man’s phone! If the man doesn’t have anything to hide, then why not? He goes back and forth on his phone, sending messages to women and some guys, day and night............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

She Needs A Shot But Not By Cupid
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married man and I work a few part- time jobs. I make really good money, so my line of work has never been an issue in my marriage. I work as a modern-day gigolo and I mostly get paid to entertain women at corporate events, dinners and family functions. I also have a few older ladies that call me if they need a tune-up, if you know what I mean. I get paid well for that, but I don’t do it often. My wife doesn’t know about that part of my job.................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Didn't Feel Respected Or Protected That Day
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old, women's lightweight MMA fighter and I’ve been fighting for the past 13 years. I’ve had the same coach since I started and he’s been a great role model in my life. His motto is, “ladies should be respected and protected at all times.” He has a 20 year old son that works as a trainer for the female fighters and he travels with us. Over the holidays me and two other fighters had a match out of town and coach’s son went with us............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He's Our Type of Man
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 4 months and I thought things were getting serious with us, so I told my brother about him. My brother and I are close in age and he always gives great advice on my relationships. My brother wanted to see my new boyfriend, so I gave him my phone and let him swipe to see a few of my boyfriend’s most recent pictures................... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

His Wife Was Very Calm On The Phone
Dear Steve and Shirley, six months ago I met a man and I had no idea that he was married when I met him. We waited a month to have sex and a week after that, I was talking to a group of friends and told them I met someone and that’s when I found out that he is married. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it and he said it would not be a problem for long. Unfortunately, I was already in love. I had never dated a married man and I was extremely hurt. We continued our relationship because he had me believing that he was about to leave his wife............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Not During Black History Month
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old, Republican black man and I can’t find a woman to call my own. I have dated all kinds of women but I can’t get a woman to stay with me after we have sex for the first time. I’ve had sex with black women and they told me that I am disturbed and I need help. I’ve had sex with white and Mexican women and they said they’re very uncomfortable during sex. They all complain and say I’m a sicko because I enjoy being treated like a slave in bed.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Man Has One Tiny Flaw
Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very handsome man a year ago. In the beginning, things seemed perfect. He has a great job and his own house in a very nice neighborhood. He’s a great father to his children and he and his ex-wife are good friends. He says he would love to have more children so that was big for me, because I want kids someday. I wanted us to take things slowly and get to know each other before we had sex, so our connection would be stronger........... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Anywhere Except The Bedroom
Dear Steve and Shirley, I truly need your advice on this one. I’m 28 years old and so is my girlfriend. We have been together six months and I really like her, but lately I think she’s lost her darn mind. She has a crazy new habit that’s very embarrassing and illegal. I don’t want to lose her, so I’ve been going along with it. She likes to have sex a lot and that’s fine with me, but she has become obsessed with having sex in public places. It started a month ago when we went to see a movie............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Should I Just Hush And Stay On The Main Line
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 11 years to a very religious man. When I say my husband loves the Lord, he loves the Lord! He is 5 years older than me and he dedicated his life to Christ 3 years before meeting me. He said it was the Lord that led him to me. Because of him, I got saved and really got into church. I am a faithful Christian, but I can’t quote scriptures like he can.......... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is My Wife An Undercover Gold Digger?
Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for over 15 years and we’ve come close to getting a divorce a few times in the past few years over our finances. My wife has had issues with managing money, so I don’t trust her when it comes to keeping up with our money. We have always had separate accounts. I have a personal savings account and I’ve been able to save a great deal of money for our retirement. My wife does not have access to this account............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Man Told Me To Listen To Steve
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my man and he told me to listen to Steve, so I’m writing for advice. The issue with my guy is that he’s very self-centered and loves himself to death. He is looking at his phone literally all day and he keeps it with him at all times… in the bathroom, while he’s cooking, and by his pillow every night................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There's No Way To Bless This Mess
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been kicked out of my church and I need some advice. I attended a very messy church and if you did not do things the way the pastor thought you should, he would call you out. I have had a few run-ins with him over stuff I post on my personal Facebook page. I told him that I can post what I want on my page and it has nothing to do with him or the church. I’m sure the real problem was the fact that I was sleeping with one of the deacons, but the pastor couldn’t say anything because everybody knew he was having an affair............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Husband Is Scared Of His Family
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married to a wonderful man for almost 3 years. It’s his second marriage and my first. Everything is fine with us, except the fact that his mom and his aunts don’t like me. My husband has never tried to fix this problem because I think he’s scared of the women in his family. Recently, things got out of hand and my feelings were hurt. Here’s what happened… His mom had a 60th birthday party and I didn’t want to go, but my husband insisted that I go. When we got to the party, his mother gave me a fake smile and barely spoke. His aunts avoided me so they wouldn’t have to speak to me............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Over Seventy And Selling Sexiness
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m desperate for some sound advice. I’m a 36 year old divorced female, with 2 kids. My mom is in her early 70s and recently widowed. Her life changed drastically so the kids and I spent a lot of time with her. About six months ago, I saw that my mom was getting back into her normal routine so I backed off a bit and let her have some space. When we visited with her, she seemed to be in good spirits. She wore jazzy new wigs that were longer than she normally wore and she started wearing very tight and revealing clothing, which was shocking............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Never Wanted To Be The Other Woman
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single mother and I met a nice guy two years ago at a local bar. I wasn’t interested at first because he is significantly older than me and his overall look is completely different than what I typically like in a man. I didn’t pay him much attention and I didn’t give him my phone number. As I was leaving the bar, I told him how to find me on social media. Later that night he reached out to me on Instagram and said it was great meeting me and he wanted to make sure I got home safely.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He’s Got The Sugar, But He’s Not Being Sweet
Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our late 30s and we’ve been together for almost 20 years. We have 4 children and we always had a robust sex life until 2 years ago when everything changed. My husband gradually lost interest in sex and whenever we’d try, he would stop in the middle of it and tell me he was tired. I had no idea what was wrong with him and I started to think that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. One night when he told me no to sex, I started crying. He finally came clean and admitted that he was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes and it affected his ability to perform.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Doing Wifey Things Without A Ring
Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and we moved in together with a plan to get married and start a family. I'm 30 years old and he is 25. After a year and a half of living together, he bought me an engagement ring and I found out because he was dropping hints about it. Then one day in November, he admitted to me that he had bought the ring but he’s not as happy in this relationship as he should be. He told me that he was having doubts about marrying me. I asked him what made him feel that way.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

She Called Out His Name More Than Once
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old single man and I love dating beautiful women. I have been messing around with a close friend of mine for about six months. We’ve been friends for years and then one thing led to another and we had sex. I knew that if I messed this up, I could lose a friend, so I was careful to keep her happy. The sex is amazing and everything was going really great until recently. Two weeks ago, when we were intimate, she called out her ex boyfriend’s name................. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Keep Your Nasty Hands Off Of Me
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old woman that’s in a dirty situation with my man. I love my man and couldn’t have asked for a better partner, but there’s one thing about him that ticks me off. He hates to wash his hands! We've been together for 6 years and we just got engaged. We moved in together last month and that’s when I noticed his nastiness. He works long days at a factory and when he comes home, he changes his clothes and flops down on the bed.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One Of My Sidepieces Is Stressing Me Out
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a successful executive and my job involves a lot of travel. I have been married for 20 years, but for the last 5 years, my wife has had some medical issues and she’s gained a lot of weight. At first, she tried to keep her weight down, but then she just let herself go and she is not happy with herself so she stopped having sex with me. I did a very selfish thing and started seeing other women when I am on work trips. At one time, I had four different sidepieces in four different states. They are all great women but they don’t hold a candle to my wife, so I knew I was wrong.............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We Were Nude When We Met
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old single man. I'm 6'4” and I work out 5 days a week, so I’m in great physical condition. I am a doctor now and I come from a large family, so to put myself through medical school, I worked as a male dancer and porn star and I was able to make a lot of money. Sex was never a problem for me and when I worked, I was having sex up to 5 times a day with all kinds of voluptuous women. I didn’t think much about sex because it was my job. All of that changed when I met a new girl at work................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Stole My Wife From Right Up Under Me
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hard-working, faithful man. I was married for 15 years to my college sweetheart. I never had any problems in my marriage until I tried to help out a friend. Here’s what happened… my wife had a best friend and the friend was married to a bigtime cheater. We were always there for her if she was going through drama with her husband. Their marriage finally ended when her husband got her cousin pregnant............... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Married Ex-Boyfriend Wants To Be Friends
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am heartbroken and I need your advice. My boyfriend broke up with me in September 2018 and I’m having a difficult time letting him go. We’ve been close friends since we were in middle school and we had a deep emotional and physical connection for many years. When he dumped me, he tried to still be friends but it was awkward for me, so I didn’t talk to him much because I needed to heal. Well, shortly after we broke up, he met a nice woman and they had only been together six months and he asked her to marry him. They got married in September 2019 and he had the audacity to invite me to the wedding................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Want To Get My Girlfriend Tested
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single man in my mid-twenties and I met a woman on an online dating site. She’s 3 years older. She is gorgeous, has a great body and she’s more mature than girls my age. We started dating late last year and I’ve fallen for her really quick, but now I have a big problem. We decided to go public with our relationship over the holidays and I posted a picture of the two of us on Instagram. As soon as I posted it, I got a direct message from a stranger, claiming he hung out with her recently and she’s got an STD that she didn’t tell him about................ Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Husband And His Pretty Best Friend
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve known my husband since I was in high school and we’ve been in an off-and-on relationship for 31 years. Years ago, my husband made bad choices and he was sentenced to 8 years in prison for selling marijuana. I stood by him the entire time he was incarcerated because I knew he was my soulmate. When he got out of prison, he kept his promise to be with me forever and we have been married for 5 years............. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.