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Giannis Antetokounmpo (say that 5 times fast!), the all star forward and one time MVP of the National Basketball Association's Milwaukee Bucks is currently experiencing painful playoff adversity in more ways than one. At publishing time of this episode (April 29, 2024) he is hobbled by a late season injury that has kept him out of the series with the Indiana Pacers which has also contributed to them facing first round elimination for the second consecutive year. Ugh! So let's rewind a bit...Back on April 26, 2023. The Eastern Conference #1 seeded Milwaukee Bucks had just been eliminated from the playoffs in the first round by the #8 seed, the Miami Heat. By most observers, this was an unexpectedly quick end to the Bucks' season.In this short episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we discuss NBA superstar Giannis Antetokounmpo's answer to the following question in a post game press conference following the disappointing defeat: "Do you view this season as a failure?"We are downright giddy of the widespread broadcast of this press conference question. We are likewise jazzed that it was asked of a well respected, well grounded, not to mention immensely talented, professional athlete such as Giannis.The question and answer provides a golden opportunity for you as a parent to really think about your own thinking relative to "failure" and "success." What is your definition of success? We believe this question and your answers can open the door of discovery as you intentionally engage in meaningful discussions with your spouse and teens concerning your definitions of "failure" and "success." Enjoy!----Watch the Giannis Antetokounmpo press conference here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZwlAzr44ys----Watch the Inside in the NBA crew explore the Giannis press conference here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qI6vsaZZDJc-Nate & SteveP.S. We also introduce The Scoreboard Course for parents of teen athletes and performers which is undergoing a few tweaks before we launch it along with our new revamped website: createtransformbecome.com.P.P.S. f you love this podcast and find it helpful, would you please indulge us and leave us a 5 star review and share this episode with a parent friend who would enjoy it too? THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT as our passion project gains traction and the createtransformbecome community continues to blossom!

Moms/Dads--Halt...Stop. If you have not listened to Episode 41 on The 3 R's of Productivity, please throw it into Reverse and go listen to it first.And then...dial in to today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast where we do a semi-simulated coaching session of a fictitious (and totally plausible) Parental Unit who is proudly wearing The Badge of Busyness!Enjoy!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday.We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Moms/Dads--we know you're soooooper BUSY! And we know you're often proud of it--haha! We get it and applaud your never ending efforts to excel and doing your best to help your teen athlete or performer excel! Bravo!Question: Should we proudly display the Badge of Busyness? We're not saying it's a terrible thing, but...and this is a big but...is there anything we can do as high performing parents of high performing teens to alleviate this incessant BUSYNESS that is both a blessing and a curse?! It turns out there is, you can, and probably already are!! But let's check in on this anyway.We're going to get busy (sorry, we are dads) explore in today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast (and next week we'll be role playing an abbreviated coaching session with a parent who wears the Badge of Busyness!) We also destroy the age old, worn out, and deeply flawed title of "time management!"Let's go--we're excited to challenge your thinking today about going fast and we're also jazzed to chat about The 3 R's. C'mon, we're coaching and psychology nuts so we gotta throw in a Consonant List every once in awhile!Enjoy!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday.We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

We're weighing costs and benefits and outcomes today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! Let's address some very important questions that you as parents need to ask yourselves as you make decisions about support, incentives, and rewards with the intent of raising your teen's performance and creating a great life experience for them. And, as you decide on what type of support you provide, what are the ramifications besides the obvious (and not so obvious) price tags?! Here are a few teaser questions to ponder: --Do I pay or reward for performance such as stats, ratings, scores, or rankings? --Do I incentivize outcomes?--Have I considered the ramifications for everyone involved (team/group, teammates/peers, coaches/leaders)?--How do I really know or learn what to reinforce or incentivize? And...there's more! We'll also dive into the following critical concepts:1) The reality that teens are very susceptible to feeling as if they are a burden on their very supportive parents.2) How can you create transformation rather than going through the motions of making mere transactions in your parent/teen athlete--performer relationship. 3) Have I sufficiently pondered whether my actions and support are "costs" or "investments?" What do I truly value and how does that translate to my support of my teen athlete/performer?Let's goooooooooooo moms and dads--let's up your game!-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there SUPERSTAR Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

This episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast. is no joke (really)! Happy April 1st everyone!Today we explore a very intriguing question from one of our teen listeners (ha-this isn't just for parents!) who competes as a high school wrestler:Should I or shouldn't I "bracket watch?" What a great question! And what a timely question too as most of the world (even if you don't like basketball) is aware of the fun and frenzied "bracket watching" that goes on during the winding up of the college basketball season as several dozen teams engage single elimination tourney bracket craziness known as March Madness (even though it always ends in early April--so there's that!). So let's tip this thing off and play--here are a few things we'll address in today's discussion:--What is "bracket watching?"--Will "bracket watching" help me perform better? Will it harm my performance?--What is the best approach to help me focus in a tournament or competition scenario?We hope you love this episode and find it useful! And while you're here, would you please share it and/or this episode with your parent friends (or teen athlete) who reside with teen athletes/performers. \We do this for you and cannot do it without you. Please drop us a 5 star review on your favorite pod platform if you feel we are deserving of such glowing comments--it will help our podcast become available to more parents!We also LOVE the feedback and/or questions you send to us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--we want you to elevate your parenting (and so do your kids!). You CAN do this if you "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching" your superstar teen! Let's goooooo! -Nate & Steve

Welcome to a fiery episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast where we encourage you, ourselves, and all Parental Units on earth to toss those ever so destructive Blamethrowers into the trash heap! We're not gonna lie--today's subject makes us squirm a little and may make you a bit uncomfy as well! That's why it's soooooo necessary and so important for each of us to address head on. We aim to help you avoid being "trapped in blame!"So, here's our path today. We will build on the "Figure it out and get better" & The Expectancy Test concepts from Episode 37 "So, You're Saying There's a Chance" by discussing the destructive nature of casting blame! Here are a few questions we encourage you to entertain: --How do we deal effectively with uncontrollable situations (that are true) where mistakes are inevitable?!--Where is a better place for my focus?--What is the best perspective to help me avoid picking up The Blamethrower?--How do you really want to show up for your kids before, during, and after their performances?And, that's not all!We finish up with some gems on how to deal with friends, other parents, or even your spouse who play the blame game! If you "figure this out and get better" you'll be modeling a great life skill to your teen athlete and performer! WIN-WIN, baby! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------We LOVE feedback and/or questions! Send us yours to [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--you are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Have a great week of parenting, uh we mean, coaching!! -Nate & Steve

Thank you for joining us as we attempt to counter a crazy delusion that exists in some parental circles on today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! This episode is built around an illuminating observation and quote from an NBA veteran and father, Jamal Crawford.Listen in to hear him describe a chronic problem in the AAU youth basketball circuit than can help you grow as a parent and in turn help your teen to successfully navigate their performance world. It matters not if your son or daughter plays basketball, a musical instrument, or sings like an angel--there is much to learn here in this discussion.How can you avoid The Delusion Zone and show up as your best parental self? Well, let's start right here with these two gems...Become informed and set realistic expectations!Determine whose dream is being pursued!In this episode we introduce the raw material of The Expectancy Test, a new thinking tool we're creating! It is comprised of a few powerful questions you can ask yourself as a parent to help you to help your teen athlete or performer pursue their dreams and perform their best! Let's goooooooooooo!-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building!Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

In today's this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we are going to talk stop signs, ladders and the common "I Don't Know" answer. We dive in first by chatting about those red, octagon-shaped street signs and "The Ladder of Learning!" What is The Ladder of Learning? You're going to find out (or remember it) in this episode. We all climb it throughout our life and it's important that we understand where our teen athletes and performers are at on The Ladder. Understanding the 4 related "rungs" of competence, incompetence and consciousness is way more important than that physical ladder hanging in your garage. When your kids say "I don't know" you can immediately up your parenting game as you seamlessly encourage them to "think about their thinking" because you really know and understand The Ladder of Learning! Oh, this is the good stuff! It is your time to shine parents! And when you shine, you empower your teen athlete and performer to do the same!Hey--while you're here, would you please share our show or this episode with a parent friend who could benefit as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We would love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving of such!We also LOVE your feedback and/or questions you send to us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--we want you to elevate your parenting. You CAN do this if you "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching" your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

Parents...Ever run into Stubborn Walls in your daily battles with a not so cooperative teen?Ever tried to connect with Stubborn Ones? Ever been in the proverbial "I'm Right You're Wrong" power struggle with your teen (or anyone else!)?In this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we explore how you can learn to lead with humility in conversations with teens who are not so easy to connect with. Some questions we take on include:--What is your role as a parent in your teen's journey?--How can you can connect with your teens while not destroying boundaries or letting them run wild! --Are you ready to hear something you do not want to hear?--What's something "simple and consistent" that you could do daily that will create mutual respect and understanding?Most Valuable Parents--we hope this episode will help you gain some helpful insights to help you confidently approach and guide conversations with your Stubborn One(s)! If you love this episode, please share it with a friend and if you love it as much as a full fledged dance party with Furious George & The Monster Groove, we'd love it if you gave us a 5 star review and/or leave a helpful review so others may more easily find us as we continue to grow--thanks!And please remember, we're cheering you on moms and dads--you're doing better than you think! - Nate & Steve

Moms and Dads--Ever feel like you're spinning out of control? How do you stay firmly in orbit in your role as a Parental Unit?!Prepare to launch yourself (sorry for the dad joke) into the nerd zone in this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast. We'll do our very best to land on the following questions (sorry, that was a bad one!):--Why is it critical you UNDERSTAND the gravity of your role as a parent?--Why is being INTENTIONAL in your interactions and conversations so important?--What do your teens WANT (& NEED) to hear from you?--What is the danger of being TRAPPED by your past mistakes?--W.I.N. -- What's Important NOW?When you get this all of this right, your teen athlete and performer will be freed up to perform their very best and will do so knowing that you are firmly in your orbit and in their corner!Speaking of corners, we wrap up today's episode's by splashing down (oh boy) into Creation Corner where we invite you to thoughtfully and carefully answer the most "important question: the W.I.N. question!!1) List "the W.I.N." for you as a parent2) Discuss your "W.I.N." answer(s) with your spouse, a friend, or a random stranger at the grocery store!We hope you love this episode and find it useful! And while you're here, would you please share it and/or this episode with a parent friend (or two or three) who could benefit from it as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We would love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving of such!We also LOVE the feedback and/or questions you send to us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--we want you to elevate your parenting (and so do your kids!). You CAN do this if you "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching" your superstar teen! Let's goooooo! -Nate & Steve

CLICKBAIT WARNING! What do guinea pigs and perpendicular parking have to do with parenting a teenaged athlete or performer?! Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?!and...Have you ever parked like a banana? Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh?!OK, let's unpeel this banana and straighten up those guinea pigs between the lines or in other words, let's figure out how this one weird little perpendicular parking trick will help you to strengthen your connections with your teen and elevate your parental communication skills!Listen in to the latest episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast and we'll make sense of this nonsense!Final thought, Parental Units--you are doing better than you think and your kids are counting on you. Believe in them. Respect them. Guide them. Trust them. Transform your relationship with them, TODAY.Catch you next week with another episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching* Podcast. We drop every Monday. -Nate & SteveP.S. We believe in your parenting (and your perpendicular parking, too)!

What in the wide world of sports is "positional intimidation" and how does it effect your teen athlete or performer? And what is "pupification?!" Ok, the second term was created purely in jest but the first term is real and almost every teen will find themself facing it at some point in their playing or performing journey. Perspective and preparation will help them lower the stress and apprehension that often accompanies this scary situation! What situation? We're talking about your teen approaching an "intimidating" coach, director, advisor, teacher, or leader. Yikes! This can be difficult, but it doesn't have to be. Let's skill up!In this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we do not dance around this tough situation for teens and parents. Let's find out when and how to approach these crazy, intimidating coaches by focusing on a few important things:Why getting to the truth is criticalMethods for getting to the truth by conversing with your coachQuestions to consider that really workA gold mine role playing tip for parents and teensWhy timing can help dial down the pressure and ramp up growthVery Important Parents--we hope you have gained some helpful insights to help you confidently guide your teen to confidently approach their coach! We hope you will discuss those insights with your spouse or partner and most importantly, with your teen athlete or performer!If you love this episode, please share it with a friend and if you love it as much as a fluffy puppy, we'd love it if you gave us a 5 star review and/or leave a helpful review so others may more easily find us as we continue to grow--thanks!And please remember, we're cheering you on moms and dads--you're doing better than you think! - Nate & Steve

Last week in Episode #30 of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we explored the "My Coach Hates Me" situation and in today's episode (#31) we stick our hands in the same hornet's nest, but now from a coach's perspective. In fact, speaking on "perspective", our goal is to encourage you as a Most Valuable Parent to entertain the idea of creating a perspective shift in this difficult situation. By doing so, you position yourself to help your teen to learn the best way(s) to turn this not very fun situation into a positive experience. We all have blind spots (performers/parents/coaches) and becoming aware of those blind spots and then viewing things in a fresh, different, (and calm) manner can pay big dividends now and in the long term. Let's all experience a grand perspective shift! Thanks for being here--we hope you gain something valuable from this time we spend together!! We LOVE the feedback and/or questions you send us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY! What's on your parenting mind? Send it to us today! -Nate & Steve

"My coach hates me!" Is this a thing? Oh, it's a thing and it's not fun for player or parent (or coach, either). Ouch, this one hurts!"My coach hates me!" is a common refrain from performing teens the world over! So parents, how do we handle this difficult situation? How would you (or do you) deal with this fragile moment that borders on opportunity for learning and a full on train wreck?!We don't claim to have all of the answers but we do have some gems for you today on navigating the whole "My coach hates me" thing. On The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast today we bust into a spontaneous role play between parent (Nate) and teen (Steve) which we think and believe will be useful for you and your talented teen. Our goal? To help you as a parent up your game in this situation so that you can help your son or daughter to learn and grow through an appropriate perspective shift. This is an prime example of a parent (Nate) who "stops parenting" and "starts coaching" and will create much better results than you hopping on The Misery Train or diving into Fix It Right Now gear. You can do this (the "start coaching" thing)!Are you ready for some excellent inquiry, gold nugget references to some titans in the personal development world (and their excellent work!), and some tasty apple turnovers, too?! Let's go! Enjoy!We also LOVE the feedback and/or questions you send to us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--we want you to elevate your parenting. You CAN do this if you "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching" your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

The opening line for today's show was about sunshine but we must tell you it was sooooooo cold in the studio today--downright frigid! But, we warmed up quickly creating this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast for you. We hope you love it and find it useful.What do BHAG's, Pink Floyd, Steve Chandler, qualifying for the Boston Marathon and "moving futures" have to do with your parenting and coaching? Listen in to find out as we explore all of the above and specifically the following:--the importance of managing expectations by using a moving future-- learning to use a balanced goal approach to model chasing your own goals and dreams--why it is important for us as parents to have BHAG's and then adjust and adapt appropriately as we pursue them?--what is a real life example of chasing a BHAG?--what are some practical applications of the balanced goal approach?And, we'll wrap it all up in Creation Corner where we will challenge you to thoughtfully and carefully answer these two important questions:--What will you create with your remaining time?--Who do you have to be to inspire your teen athlete or performer?It is your time to shine parents and as you do, you will be modeling great behavior for your teen athletes/performers. Let's do this (whatever you're BHAG is!)And while you're here, would you please share it and/or this episode with a parent friend who could benefit as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We would love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving of such!We also LOVE the feedback and/or questions you send to us at [email protected]. We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode. We drop new ones every MONDAY!Moms/Dads--we want you to elevate your parenting. You CAN do this if you "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching" your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

In the high performance coaching pool that we swim in, the phrase "trust the process" is mentioned every 3.8 seconds (ok, maybe an exaggeration there!). But...what if we get stuck on or in our feelings and "trusting the process" is not very attractive in the moment? Motivation is easy uh well, when it's easy! :) But what about when it's not?In today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we continue our BHAG (big, hairy audacious goal--thank you Jim Collins), resolutions, and generally "go make things happen" 2024 conversation that we began in Episode 26 ("You Don't Need No Stinkin' Resolutions!"). We hit on the balanced goal approach, which is our way of describing the overall strategy of "trusting the process," as we strive to achieve our short and long term goals. Here are just a few of the gold nuggets you'll find here today:--What is the real battle in taking the balanced goal approach?--Why should we model this behavior as a parent (rather than just telling them)?--Why is discipline more important than motivation and how to win the battles within the moment?--How do we accelerate progress?--The Nick Booth jump hook story!--What are the common pitfalls we face when trying to trust the process?--What is the "sweet spot" when trying to stretch yourself in attacking a goal?!--And to finish up, a Parental Unit challenge is issued (besides the ongoing challenge for you to share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with 3 of your friends--if you love it, of course, and if you are benefitting from it! The challenge: What can you do TODAY to upgrade your relationship with your teen athlete or performer?Trust the Process and make it happen moment by moment!-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday.We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Welcome back to The Stop Parenting and Start Coaching Podcast! And a hearty welcome to any new listeners--thanks for being here!In the third and final episode of The TRANSFORMING Stress Series, we hit on an absolutely critical subject! The all important, absolutely necessary process of creating your definition of success (for you and helping your teen athlete or performer to create their own).Here's a look at what you'll find in this episode:- The "story of humanity" or the quest we perpetually chase- The traps we continually fall into as athletes and parents- How can you transform the stress associated with these pesky traps?- What can you do as a superstar parent to create alignment with your teen relative- A summary of all three episodes in The TRANSFORMING Stress Series and an exciting challenge for you Most Valuable Parents!If you love what you are LEARNING & LISTENING to here, please share it and/or this episode with a parent friend who could benefit as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We would as they say, love, love, love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving! We are constantly working on our game to create a world-class podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.We also LOVE the feedback or questions sent to us at [email protected]. Let's hear from YOU!! Keep them coming! We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode.Moms/Dads--we've got your back as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! By leveling up your parent game, your teen athlete or performer is much more likely to follow your lead and elevate their performance. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

It's January 1. Do you know where your resolutions are? Hopefully in the garbage! Wait, what? Did we just say that?! Uh, yeah we did. Btw, thanks for joining us for the first episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast in 2024! It's time to bang your pots and pans and light off some fireworks! Happy New Year!!It's also time to:--exercise more often--lose that unwanted weight--read 1 book a week--eat clean--start a new hobby--get out of debt--share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with 2,024 of your friendsC'mon, that sounds like another New Year's resolutions list. Yaaaawwwn. You're gonna fall off the wagon and we can predict approximately when that will happen (you gotta listen in to find out). It's sooner than you think. Ugh.On a serious note moms & dads--if you are all fired up for 2024 and have your New Year's resolutions posted, please don't tear them up or burn them! But, we do encourage you to open your mind for a few minutes and lean in or listen in to our discussion on goals, "resolve", and a perhaps a better way to approach a brand stinkin' new year as a parent who wants to get better.Join us for an intriguing conversation on why it may be a really good thing to challenge the traditional notion that January 1 is prime time for resolutions! We think you'll enjoy having your thinking challenged and we hope you love what we have dialed up for you in Creation Corner.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and even on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday.We would super love it if you gave us a 5 star review along with a brief comment on what you are gaining from our show. Much thanks!Programming note: we will wrap up The TRANSFORMING Stress Series with a firecracker when we explore the extremely important "__________________." Tune in to Episode 27 to find out what goes in the blank!Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week and THIS BRAND NEW YEAR as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

Greetings to any new listeners and welcome back to those who've been onboard with us at The Stop Parenting and Start Coaching Podcast!In the second episode of The TRANSFORMING Stress Series, we bring some glass cleaner and wipe the egocentrism off our parental eyeglasses! This one is all about seeing things from your teen's perspective.Here is a quick peek at what you'll find inside this episode:--Would you ever deprive a two year-old of a nap in an effort to prepare him or her to for elementary school? Huh?!--Hair, cars, and music...the good stuff!--Grades, grades, grades...oh boy, here we go again!--Sleep and HS start times...don't get us started on this one!And. we finish up with some great questions to ask your teens to help you switch lenses and shift your perspective! What an opportunity you have to grow and strengthen your relationship with these! Nourish those conversations!If you love what you are LEARNING & LISTENING to here, please share it and/or this episode with a parent friend who could benefit as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We would as they say, love, love, love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving! We are constantly working on our game to create a world-class podcast! New episodes drop every Monday.We also LOVE the feedback or questions sent to us at [email protected]. Let's hear from YOU!! We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode.And, speaking of upcoming episodes, we will soon wrap up The TRANSFORMING Stress Series with a bang as we explore the extremely critical "__________________." Tune in to find out what that is!Moms/Dads--we're cheering you on this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. Let's goooooooo! -Nate & Steve

Welcome to the Transforming Stress Series on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! In the first of three empowering episodes, we delve into the crucial topic of stress transformation.You, the Very Important Parent, play a crucial role in modeling leading the way for your teen athlete or performer. Your teen is watching you and how you deal with the big "S" word. Stress. YIKES! And, we know it's tough. Often it is harder for you as a parent to watch your teen in a pressure cooker situation than it is for them to perform! You know what we're talking about here!A common phrase in the personal development/mental health/sport psychology worlds is "stress management." We push back against that phrase in this episode. We confidently and resolutely view stress as something that cannot be eliminated. We view ever present stress as a wonderful opportunity for transformation rather than management! We hope you enjoy the stories from Steve as young athlete and Nate as a sports dad as we illustrate what it means to transform stress into something amazing and helpful.Speaking of that, how do you change or transform stress into a positive force for good? How do we model appropriate stress transformation for our teens? Here is a great place to start. Answer this gem from Nate: What do you really want for you teen out of their performance experiences? Your honest answer will be insightful and will likely help you shape your behavior in a way that will help your teen to transform stress in effective ways. You got this moms and dads!Thanks for listening! We hope to have your ears and attention in the next episode as well where we continue our discussion of transforming stress with an emphasis on the mighty role of "perspective."If you love The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast, please follow us and share with two or three of your Parental Unit tribe! We'd also love a 5 star review on Apple or Spotify--it will help us grow and improve! And if you're into the whole socials thing you can follow us at createtransformbecome on Instagram and Facebook. Until next time, GO PARENTS! -Nate & Steve

Thanks for tuning in to this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast.When a "season" or career ends we often wonder: "so, what's next?"We are so thankful to one of our listeners for asking us to address this common and challenging situation that most if not all parents of athletes and performers face: the inevitable end of your son or daughter's high school career. As both coaches and as fathers, we have had a front row seat for this experience with our own teens and hundreds of players. It is not an easy situation to deal with and just one of many reasons why "parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second" (our favorite parenting line of all time)!Let's tackle this situation together moms and dads! How do we approach this emotionally challenging time where we are watching something so amazing coming to an end? How do we help our teen prepare for this ending? So many good questions to consider--here are some more to ponder:--As parents, what are the different components of this situation that should be addressed?--If my teen may or will receive the opportunity to play or perform beyond high school, how do we as parents discuss or prepare for such?--What does "success" look like for my teen?--What does my teen want?--Is this about me or my teen?--How do I as a parent handle "the end?"When answering the many questions that fall into the "So, What's Next?" category, the critical fundamentals of connection and communication are KEYS to your success, moms and dads! Btw, we absolutely love how using The QOC Tool would be helpful in this situation. Listen to Episodes 14 & 15 for the deets!Very Important Parents--we hope you have gained some helpful insights! We hope you are now poised to discuss those insights with your spouse or partner and most importantly, with your teen athlete or performer!If you love this episode, please share it with a friend--thanks! And please remember, we're cheering you on moms and dads--you're doing better than you think! - Nate & Steve

Relax parents, it's not a medical emergency, it's an Emotional Regulation Expedition! That's right, on today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we're taking a trip to the 'E.R.' !As a parent of a teen athlete or performer you know emotions are intertwined into your parent/teen world. Emotions show up in your thoughts, conversations, and for sure in your teen's competitions and performances. We cannot and should not necessarily avoid being emotional, but we can and should learn how to appropriately regulate our emotions to set a great example for our teens. You got this mom, you can do this dad!Emotional regulation is a skill, so we are going to ask some tough questions that can help you, as the MVP adults in the room, to develop this important parenting skill. When you regulate your emotions, your superstar teens learn how to regulate theirs. Wow, is this valuable! Wow, will this improve your parent/teen relationship! When this happens, your teen is freed up to perform their best! Win-win!Here are a few of the questions we'll dive into in this episode:-Why should we NOT suppress emotion?-Why we should we embrace rather than ignore emotions?-As a parent what is the best way to teach E.R. to my teen athlete or performer?-As a parent, where do I start in developing this skill?-What is the "next level" (Nate's words) or "oblique" approach to working together with our teens to improve our E.R.? (Note: Steve knows what "oblique" means (and we know you do as well) but his sarcasm fools Nate, so you're gonna get the definition anyway! 😊-Which emotions should we encourage?Well, we're feeling a little emotional! We are so grateful to you for listening in to The Stop Parenting & Stop Parenting Podcast! Without you, there is no show. Thanks for following us on Instagram at @createtransformbecome and on Facebook (Create Transform Become). And, if you are benefitting from our podcast, please share it with your friends who would love it too! -Nate & Steve#parentingteens #highperformance

Just curious Most Valuable Parents--do you say asterICK or asterISK? Ok, that's not really important, but what IS important is understanding the coaching* we are talking about in today's episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching* Podcast. We are not talking about your typical sport or performance coaching.* Football, voice, lacrosse, dance, etc. Nope, not that!When we tipped off with the "what makes a great coach"* question, we were talking about a whole different kind of coaching.* When we say that a better way to equip, empower, and encourage your teen athlete or performer is to "stop parenting & start coaching"*, we place an asterisk on the word coaching.* Yeah, just like that!*Wanna know the coaching* deserving or the mighty asterisk? Well, listen to this episode to learn about this other kind of coaching* that can benefit your teen athlete or performer! Btw, we're BIG fans of this kind of coaching!*Gratitude moment....We cannot thank our growing audience enough! You are fantastic parents who share our dream of helping your kids to learn, grow, struggle, and triumph! If you are gaining insights to help you stop parenting and start coaching* your teen, please share this episode with another parent or two, or three who would benefit as well. Sharing is caring!Final thought, Parent Units--you are doing better than you think and your kids are counting on you. Believe in them. Respect them. Guide them. Trust them. Transform your relationship with them, TODAY. Catch you next week with another episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching* Podcast. -Nate & SteveP.S. No asterisks were harmed* in the making of this episode.*just overused

Welcome to an unofficial "air quote" episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast. We immediately dive into our description and explanation of what it really means to "stop parenting" and "start coaching! This powerful, mind shifting concept is the pinnacle of our Parenting Success Pyramid. This is where we hop on the Fun Bus--let's gooooooo MVPs (Most Valuable Parents)!Moms and dads you are engaging in one of the most difficult responsibilities and opportunities you ever undertake in life: parenting your teen athlete or performer. This is a beautiful, messy, and complicated dance between "parenting" and "coaching!" If you ever feel off balance or like you're stepping on your partner's toes, you are not alone. We all can use a dance lesson now and then! Btw, Nate and I are TERRIBLE dancers!The key to creating a better relationship with your teen lies in a fundamental shift from parenting to coaching. The tricks and transactions used on young children are inconsistent in gaining cooperation from teens. The more you lead with respect and COACH your teen, the greater the transformation experienced.We know you are doing your best to get it right. And, if the truth is told, you are likely doing waaaaaaaaaaaaaay better than you think. And, imagine for a moment what can happen if you add to your skill set so your son or daughter is empowered to elevate their performance while simultaneously experiencing less stress and MORE JOY!? Do it! We can help! You will begin transforming the relationship with your teen faster than a 17 year-old can give you a one word answer!Come as you are! We invite you to explore what we are creating at createtransformbecome.com. We are building a one stop shop for parents of teen athletes and performers. We are building courses, thinking and communication tools, coaching opportunities, this podcast (yay!), and more for YOU! And, speaking of our podcast, if you love what you are learning here, please share it and/or this episode with a parent friend who could benefit as well. We do this for you and cannot do it without you. We'd love a 5 star review from you if we are deserving (we are working on our game, too!).We also LOVE the feedback or questions sent to us at [email protected]. Let's hear from YOU!! We'd be honored to discuss your "parenting your athlete/performer question/crisis/issue" on an upcoming episode.Best wishes this week as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You got this and we got your back. -Nate & Steve

Hello high performing parents! Welcome back or welcome to, for new listeners, to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! In this third episode of a Parenting Skill Series we dive into the last of the 3 E's in our Triple E Toolkit! It's always a good time to ENCOURAGE our teen athletes and performers. Note: If you haven't checked out Episodes 17 (Equip) and 18 (Empower) we think you'll love them too. The 3 E's play well together--they make a fantastic team!While it may seem so easy to just "encourage," the path to next level parenting is to begins with becoming keenly aware of the best ways to encourage your teen. Encouragement comes in many forms and let's face it, "encouragement" from a parental perspective may not be received by our teens as "encouragement." Every parent knows that no two teens are exactly alike and no two siblings are the same either! So let's examine some important questions to help you get on the same page with your superstars:--What encouragement is most beneficial for your teen?--When was the last discussion you had about what kind of encouragement will help them thrive?--How can you mix up your encouragement?--How can you become the encouraging parent who helps fuel your teen and frees them up to perform their best?--How can can you be an encouragement superstar during the inevitable highs and lows your teen athlete or performer will face?Lets' gooooooooooo Very Important Parents--encouragement from you carries major weight! It's time to up your game and please know you can count on us to ENCOURAGE you on your most important journey in this most important relationship. You got this!Finally, THANK YOU for listening! We do this for you! And, if you love what we're creating here on this podcast, we would so appreciative if you shared this episode or podcast with your parenting friends who would love it too! We're also a big fan of 5 star reviews (if we are living up to such welcome praise). We're on a mission to help thousands of parents to help help thousands of their teens by encouraging them to Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Hi there and THANK YOU for joining us here on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! In this episode, we are excited to unveil the second "E" in The Triple E Toolkit. If you haven't listened to Episode 17 where we examine the first "E" (equip!), we strongly encourage you to check it out first (although it isn't absolutely necessary to do so). Moms and dads, your relationship with your teen athlete/performer is powerfully transformed when you empower them. Empowering your teen requires you to allow him or her to determine what success looks like for them and how hard they are willing to work to achieve it. Focus and confidence will soar for both you and your superstar when you level up this skill! This is a fun one to add to your tool belt, parents! If you love what you hear on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast please share it with your Very Important Parent friends and if you have a moment, we would be so appreciative if you left us a 5 star review on your favorite podcast platform! You're doing better than you think parents--keep going, your kids are counting on you. Believe in yourself and believe in them! We're cheering you on! --Nate & Steve

Let's go Most Valuable Parents! Thanks for tuning in to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast where we encourage you to think creatively about your approach to parenting, uh coaching, your amazing sons and daughters. Let's skill up and help your dynamic teen athlete or performer to shine!Today we kick off a series just for you (well, really it's for the teens!). In this first of 3 episodes we pull the first tool in our Triple E Toolkit out of the, we guess, kit. The first E is: EQUIP! This crucial tool has multiple applications for you as Parental Units and multiple implications for your teen who is just itching to explore their limits and perform their best. Pick up this "E" and let's go to work!Note: The Triple E Toolkit is available to you for FREE (yay--we love free stuff!) at our ever growing and evolving website: createtransformbecome.com. Go grab it today (look for the "Download Free Tools" button) and skill up so your teens can elevate their games!Thanks for listening in and if you loved what you hear from us, please share this episode with another parent or two or three who would love to hear it too! THANK YOU and we're cheering you on as you tackle the hardest job (responsibility, blessing, calling, etc.) in the world: Parenting! -Nate & Steve

Hello parents! Do you want your teen athlete and performer to be happy and shine on the stage, court, or field? Of course you do and so do we! Wait--what if there were specific tools that can help you make this happen? Good news! There are! In this most useful episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we introduce The Triple E Toolkit for parents. For you!A remarkable shift happens when parents intentionally choose to improve their skills rather than assuming skill development is solely for their teen athlete or performer. The 3 E's in The Triple E Toolkit, namely Equip, Empower, and Encourage will help you build new capabilities and confidence in your relationship with your teen.These transformational skills will turn you into a high performing coach! Learn to do more than recognize the struggle, honor it by leveling up your game. Help your son or daughter to Excel (another E!), perform their best, and Enjoy (we're not gonna say it) a thriving relationship with you. Let's tool up together and become skilled High Performing Parents, um Coaches!Btw, you can get The Triple E Toolkit on our website: createtransformbecome.com. It's complimentary--we want all parents to add it to their parental and coaching workbench!Thanks for listening and if you love our message, please share this episode with two or three of your parent friends! --Nate & Steve

Greetings MVPs (most valuable parents)! We have a question for you! What in the world is a QOC?Well, let's waste no precious time here. A "QOC" is a "Questions Only Conversation!" This game changer will transform your conversations with your teen athlete or performer (and your spouse, partner, friend, co-worker, random stranger, and probably your boss, although we don't know your boss so we cannot confirm if a QOC fits their agenda right now)!Two fundamentals of great relationships are trust and communication and you'll create a double whammy of both by utilizing The QOC Tool! It's not magic but we won't be surprised if you experience magical results with your teen by using The QOC Tool.And by the way, The QOC is one of the free thinking and parenting tools available in our growing arsenal for parents of athletes and performers at createtransformbecome.com. Check us out there and up your parenting game!Thanks for listening and if you love our message and are receiving value from our podcast, please, please, please leave us a 5 star review and some comments describing what you love about it as well as sharing this episode with a few of your parenting friends. Thanks for being part of our community. Thanks for listening. Thanks for helping us to help thousands of teens by helping thousands of Most Valuable Parents! TEAMwork WORKS! -Nate & Steve

Welcome VIPs (very important parents) to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast where we tackle the hardest job ever: parenting!Parents--you're doing your best and racking up parenting wins, but you also feel at times that you're losing the communication game. Join the club! As perfectly imperfect parents ourselves we understand the importance of creating healthy lines of communication between us and our teens. Today we share an incredible tool that can transform your family dynamic—"The, may we say mighty, Communication Ring!" It is just one of a growing cache of coaching tools we are making available to you for free at our evolving website: createtransformbecome.com. Hop on board with us and unleash a wave of energy and enthusiasm into your family life! Equip yourself with strategies to navigate the challenging teenage years by fostering love, trust, and open dialogue. You got this VIPs and we got you!! -Nate & Steve

Don't you, like every parent, want your teen to perform their best? Of course you do! How can you help your teen experience the empowering freedom and support that can alleviate much of the intense pressure they feel to perform and to please you?Where's the map for all of this?!Well, here's the good news! We have THE map! We wish we had it in our possession years ago and you'll learn today how it was born out of necessity. In this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we proudly introduce The Parenting Success Pyramid. This amazing system has four fundamental components: receiving coaching, creating meaningful relationships, developing the right skillset, and finally "coaching" rather than "parenting" your teen athlete or performer.And there's more! Within The Parenting Success Pyramid are built-in tools designed for and tested on real parents just like you! You will soon find these free tools on our website (createtransformbecome.com) along with our first course, The Scoreboard Course, as we continue to build our stockpile of resources to help you and your teen!Thanks for listening and sharing this podcast (& a 5 star glowing online review) with your parenting friends! Let's goooooo! You can do this parents! -Nate & Steve

In this short and insightful episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast, we explore the foundational power and profound impact of coaching.Parenting your teen athletes and performers is really, really hard! This is one of several reasons we discuss in making our case for you as a parent to seek high level coaching. Elevating your own game will equip you with the tools and skills to foster a championship level relationship with your teen.This is the foundational level of our framework: The Parenting Success Pyramid-which assists you, the perpetually busy, sometimes stressed, and always well-intentioned parent to stop parenting & start coaching your teen to greater peace of mind and success on the court, field, or stage. Coaching is the foundational level of The Pyramid (Listen to Episode 13 for an overview of our Parenting Success Pyramid model). Coaching just plain works! If you can't tell, we highly recommend it! :)If you love listening to The Stop Parenting and Start Coaching Podcast please share this episode with a parenting friend or colleague and post a 5 star review! THANK YOU! And, please join us in our upcoming episodes as we will enthusiastically share more of The Parent Success Pyramid! -Nate & Steve

SHOW NOTE: Our gratitude for Mel Schmitz is overflowing! Mel was so accommodating by recording with us while on holiday in Malaysia.We are so pleased to share our interview with the incomparable Mel Schmitz on this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast. Mel is an Educational Psychologist at the International School of Stuttgart in Germany. She has served there for over 15 years and is also known as the "Teacher of Happiness!" Among her many talents (she's a mother of two wonderful kids, enough said!), Mel is a immensely talented author who creates unique nonsensical rhymes about her parenting adventures! She will make you giggle while she makes you think. Pure brilliance!Here's a sneak peak of the wisdom Mel drops in this episode:The best answer is a useful question! Even better if it is a sticky one! Get curious with your kids and ask them great questions.We are not defined by our past parenting mistakes!Make yourself a student and enter your teen's world to create connection and mutual respect. Respect is a great anger!Lessons learned from my wise mother during "the talk" at age 13.Parenting is about deep self work not some hack or tip. And, it's not about you (parents), it's about your kid!Contentment and self-regulation is needed within ourselves as parents before we model it to our kids.If you want more of Mel and we know you will, please connect with her on LinkedIn and visit her website where you can get a full dose of her amazing nonsensical parenting rhymes!Thank you for listening and if you love this episode of The Stop Parenting & Stop Coaching Podcast as much as we do, please share it with your parenting friends! And as Mel says "You've got this, you're not a screwup, build that connection with your kid, start small, but start!" -Nate & Stevehttps://www.linkedin.com/in/melschmitz/https://www.melschmitz.com/Check out the free Oreka app (look for the unicycle logo) on the App store

Have you ever posted a celebration moment of your teen's performance on social media? If so (and even if not!) you will be intrigued by the provocative discussion in this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast.Proud parents (rightfully so!), we challenge you to think about your thinking and begin evaluating your intentions when it comes to how you dish out praise.Breaking News: Parenting is the toughest job ever! As parents of teen athletes and performers, you are walking a tightrope of balancing expectations, setting standards, and responding to the outcomes of their performances. That's a heavy load and is NOT easy! And, we all make mistakes here. No worries--we got your back!So what are we to do? Let's start with some thought provoking questions and finish up with actionable advice to help you up your parenting game so that your teens can up their games! Here are a few teasers:-Are we shouting praise and whispering criticism?-Is what I'm doing, saying, or posting beneficial for my teen?-How is my teen perceiving my praise and social media posts?-How does the concept of "growth mindset" relate to how we praise our kids?Parents, we believe in you! You can do this!THANK YOU for supporting us! Please share this episode with your friends who are parents of teen athletes and performers. And, if you love us as much as we love you we'd be so grateful if you left us some glowing comments and a 5 star review wherever you are subscribed to this podcast. Thanks again! -Nate & SteveReferences:Georgetown University McCourt School of Public Policy Center for Families and Children: https://ccf.georgetown.edu/2022/03/24/research-update-childrens-anxiety-and-depression-on-the-rise/Canadian Journal of School Psychology: Rogers MA, Theule J, Ryan BA, Adams GR, Keating L. Parental Involvement and Children's School Achievement: Evidence for Mediating Processes. Canadian Journal of School Psychology. 2009;24(1):34-57.

We have some game day gold for you in this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast. Get your foam fingers and take your seats as we venture into the parent section at a high school football game! Are you ready to listen to the crack of shoulder pads as we tackle the sensitive elephant in the...stands? We are! Let's goooooo!Have you ever sat by that parent who can't help but yell out instruction and put on a free coaching clinic? We have a critical question and some high performance coaching for that parent and it probably is not what you'd think! Listen in to learn this critical curiosity question that can help you best execute the only role available to you as a parent in the stands! Honest answers to this question as a parent spectator will help you: 1) improve your relationship with your teen performer, and 2) liberate your teen to enjoy their performance much more, not to mention most likely perform better, too! A real Win-Win, baby!But wait, there's more! We'll also explore the fine line between great parenting and performance coaching including some practical "what" and "how" to do stuff.Sit back, enjoy, and as always, we sincerely thank you for listening! If you LOVE this podcast almost as much as you LOVE your kids, please leave us a 5 star review and share it with your performance parenting friends--thanks!! -Nate & Steve

Thanks for tuning into The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with us, high performance coaches Nate Crandall and Steve Galley! We know parenting teen athletes and performers can be like hacking your way through a dense jungle of confusing vines. It's an adventure for sure! We get it and we got you. Welcome the to the jungle, baby, you're gonna...win!In this episode, the critical importance of shifting our focus towards the things we can genuinely control is our target. Parents who learn this skill and model it well for their teens will impact them for good and for life.When you can let go of things outside of your control it's like wielding a sharp machete to hack your way through the vines of frustration to discover blued sky! Let's dive into "controlling the controllables" and find that peaceful vista!Thanks for listening and supporting us. If you have any show questions, suggestions, or general feedback, we'd love to hear from you. Please message us at [email protected]. Have a transformational parenting day!! -Nate & Steve

Episode 7: She's back! More awesomness with Karen Summerville!Get ready, parents! In Episode 7 of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching podcast, we're diving back into our fascinating conversation with the remarkable Karen Summerville—The Parent GPS™!If you missed Episode 6 (Part 1) we highly encourage you to listen to it now!In Part 2, Karen will have you smiling and thinking about how you can help your children discover their constellations of gifts. Here are a few teasers from this episode:--Piano recitals in baseball uniforms, a "great ending of a soccer career," cello playing, and our favorite: running past first base in a diaper!--The common parental mistake we make when living vicariously through our children. Hmmm...--How do you help kids explore their constellation of gifts and try new things when they have already discovered something they're good at?--"All my son wants to do is (play) video games!" Karen has a very "interesting" take on this common exclamation she hears from many parents during her speaking engagements.--What is the best way to compliment our children? How can we be helpful rather than harmful?--"We're all just walking on this earth." Wow, what a story!--What would current Karen tell her younger mother self? Boom!We thank you so much for listening and if you loved this episode, please share it with your parenting friends! -Nate & StevePlease sign up for Karen's free newsletter and connect with her at her website or through the social media platforms listed below:Website: karensummerville.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karensummerville/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theparentgps/

This episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching podcast is a home run! Join high performance coaches Nate and Steve as they dive into a riveting conversation with the one and only Karen Summerville. Karen is a wife, super mom of two boys, and a former litigation lawyer turned career coach. Her life now has taken a new direction and what a blessing that is for parents and children! A talented speaker and writer, Karen is helping parents to help their children discover their own constellation of gifts!When you hear Karen tell her story, including the raising of two very active sons (whose intense love of baseball eventually landed them both in the pros), you'll learn why she is The Parent GPS™. Full of wonderful lessons for all parents, this episode is a must listen and must share! Step up to the plate with us today and you will walk away with some bona fide, actionable strategies to up your parenting game!Thank you for listening and if you loved listening to this as much as we loved recording it, please leave us a 5 star review and some glowing comments--thanks for listening! -Nate & SteveNote: This episode is Part 1 of 2--there is more parenting wisdom and more stories to come with Karen in Episode 7 next week where Karen unveils more wisdom in guiding parents to help their kids discover their constellation of gifts.Find and connect with Karen in the following places:Website: karensummerville.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karensummerville/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theparentgps/

Your requests to learn more about both of us have been honored!In this episode you'll get to know A LOT about your CreateTransformBecome founders! We hope you enjoy listening to this as much as we enjoyed recording it! Let the fun begin!Thank you for your support--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your teen athletes and performers! --Steve (SG) and Nate (Crandy)And, we'd love to hear your feedback and any questions or ideas you may have for upcoming episodes. Please send us a message at [email protected]. THANKS!

Discover (or remember) an awesome truth in this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching podcast. We invite you to listen in as we dive into the fascinating world of teens and parental opinions. Ever felt like your teen athlete or performer doesn't care what you think? Well, think again! In this episode, we'll explore how your talented teens secretly treasure your viewpoints, despite appearances that may say otherwise. Parenting teen athletes and performers can be tricky, but understanding they crave your feedback is a game-changer! Tune in as we highlight the importance of your input on their sports, friends, and lives. You can bridge the gap and connect with your teens like never before! Thanks for teaming up with us for this eye-opening conversation! -Nate & Steve

Hey there, podcast listener fam! We've got a juicy topic lined up for you in this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching podcast: "What's your #1 job as a parent?" Whoa--that's a tough question to answer and break down! Clarity is the name of the game here. Getting clear about your answer to this question is key to creating meaningful connection with your teen athletes and performers. We are excited for you to unlock your parenting superpowers. Let’s get started now–we appreciate you listening in! -Nate & Steve

Parenting is the hardest job and there is not a close second. Truth! We said it and we believe it. The way to transformation is paved with honesty. In this episode you'll discover some surprising reasons why parenting is the ultimate challenge. Learning about them will help you revolutionize the way you think about your parenting! Parents--let's begin creating your new and improved mindset and help you empower your teen athletes and performers. We can do this. YOU can do this! Welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast We thank you for listening! -Nate & Steve

Welcome parents of teen athletes and performers! In our debut episode, we dive right into what it means to "Stop Parenting and Start Coaching!"We challenge the traditional perspective of parent/teen connection and interaction. Your teen has a sports/performance coach(es). Approaching your parent/teen relationship like a high performance coach allows you to connect and empower your teen in unique and powerful ways. Yes, we want to help you discover how to "Stop Parenting and Start Coaching!" In doing so, you will fulfill your critical role as a parent. YOU are the BEST life coach your teen could have!Thank you for joining us on this exciting and most important journey! -Nate & Steve