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Affirmations II – Day 33

Links There are four entries in Affirmations Series Two: Almost Vanilla Affirmations for Creators and ProcrastinatorsAffirmations for a Playful PuppyAffirmations for a Rope BunnyAffirmations for a Shameless Slut Or find all four (for a cheeky discount) here. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. This is Day 33, and I know you were a good boy and downloaded the affirmations for yesterday. The Almost Vanilla ones. Well, today takes a juicy turn. Go to the website and download the definitely not vanilla ones. Also, make sure you’re keeping up with your weekly, monthly goals for those trigger settings. That’s important. And your Permissive Circumstance for today; if you had release yesterday, because you woke up hard… you woke up filling that cage, well… you have my permission again, because I am a generous Mistress. The post Affirmations II – Day 33 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 6, 20221 min

Affirmations I – Day 32

Links Download Almost Vanilla Affirmations for Creators and Procrastinators now, for free. The other Series Two Affirmations sessions will be available tomorrow. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 32. Your task for today is simple. Go to the website and download the new Affirmations. Your Permissive Circumstance is also pretty simple for today. If you woke up hard, or straining against that chastity cage, you have my permission. The post Affirmations I – Day 32 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 5, 20220 min

Floating and Falling – Day 31

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. We’re going to play a little game. We’re going to play with stage hypnosis. I’m sure you’ve seen this, perhaps in person if you’re lucky. I love, oh my God I fucking love, those little County Fairs. I think that’s what I miss about America is doing that in the Summer time. State Fairs are fine, but the County Fairs, that’s where it’s at. Okay, or you’ve seen it on TV. Stage hypnosis. Now, you have to make sur eyou’re positioned in a spot where, where if you go “ass over tea kettle” as my grandmother would say, you are going to be caught. So like, stand in front of your bed, or sofa, or swimming pool. Just somewhere safe, okay? That’s step one. So, I want you to stand here now, put your feet together, your body straight, put those shoulders back. Alright, looking good. And breathe easily. Comfortably. And put your hands at the side of you. Got it? Shoulders back a bit more. Alright. Now close your eyes, and imagine that your feet at hinged to the floor. Feet stuck to the floor, and your body is like a… stick. Straight. Hard. Long. Stick. Pointing upward in the air, but free to move either backwards or forwards, okay? Now, because you’re next to your bed, sofa, or swimming pool, if after a little while you find yourself becoming unsteady, don’t worry, alright? You got something to catch you. Now while you’re standing there I want you to breathe, very calmly and easily. And even through all my giggling, as I’m talking to you, I want you to imagine that your body is floating up. Up into space. Don’t try to do anything at all. Don’t try to not do anything. Just stand there. Stand there and let yourself drift. There you go. Now here’s the interesting thing; you’re beginning to drift backward. Now you’re drifting forward. A slight sway back and forth. Forward, backward, forward, backward. Swaying forward and backward. Backward, forward, and forward, and falling. Did you? My straight stick imagining floating up to space… in person, I could do this with you, and easily have you falling into that bed. Then again, in person, we probably wouldn’t need to use this trick to get you to fall into my bed. Your Permissive Circumstance for today is… no. And your task is to tell me, tell me about the sheets on your bed but… you have my permission to fib. Go all out. Have fun, using that creative side in describing them to me. The post Floating and Falling – Day 31 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 4, 20225 min

Think about baseball – Day 30

Links If your experience with today’s Task and Permissive Circumstance is dismal, you may need Marshmallow as part of your regular trigger setting training. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 30, and today I don’t have any questions for you, just instructions. You’ve been exploring your own limits, your ability to endure for me, in your private time, and we’re going to begin stretching that so very soon… but today let’s explore a different type of endurance. Now, some of you know this already, and some of you need to be told, but in the world of… baseball, a ‘perfect game’ is a game where a pitcher pitches a full nine innings, and not a single batter, not a single one, reaches base. This is pretty damn rare, most pitchers will never achieve it. In the history of MLB, no-one has ever done it twice. It’s something pretty special, if… if you care at all about baseball. I’ll confess I actually don’t have any Major League Baseball teams that I follow, not really. But take me to a farm team game, and I love them. They are the corniest, kookiest, most fun things ever. Live baseball. Fantastic. On TV baseball, ah… not so much. Okay, I got something for you. Back in 2010 a pitcher by the name of Armando Galarraga had put out 26 batsmen in a row, and the final man to face him is a man named Jason Donald. Now, obviously every player on the team knows how to swing a stick, but Jason is no pinch hitter. He’s is the Indian’s short-stop, and again for those who don’t know the sport, this means, this means basically he’s really good at catching, okay? So, Galarraga pitches. Donald hits the ball between first and second base, it’s collected and tossed back to our pitcher, and Galarraga, and every fan in the stadium is celebrating this accomplishment of a perfect game. I’m pretty sure they were on top of the world. But, tragedy. The umpire (the referee) he’s called Jason Donald safe on first base. Now, this wasn’t so long ago, and hiss call, it’s refuted by video evidence from multiple angles, and the eyes of everyone else present, but that call, that decision is final. Armando Galarraga’s chance at a perfect game was stolen from him in a split-second decision that turned out to be the wrong call. Now the umpire apologized profusely, but sport is governed by rules, and those rules state clearly that the immediate decision is final. Now, I don’t share this tale with you because I want you to infer some deep moral lesson from it, so I’ll dispense with any explanation of why you should take care of making snap decisions, or about how your triumphs and your failures are all part of the cloth from which you are cut. In fact, I didn’t know this story until I needed to make sure that you, dear man, could think about baseball when instructed. Do you know what I mean by that? Or maybe some cultural difference means that whenever you wish to delay gratification, you have some other subject you daydream about. You might even think of Marshmallows! Today your Task and your Permissive Circumstance are tied together, neatly. When you’re in your private place, when you won’t be interrupted, put your hand, or your favourite toy, on your cock and stroke, as fast or as slow as you like. And you’ll play this way for 27 minutes. Twenty-seven full minutes, and do not stop. You do not have permission for release until that time has passed. And if you absolutely need to take a break, then you’ll get denial at least until tomorrow. The post Think about baseball – Day 30 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 3, 20226 min

Why are you here? – Day 29

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Today is Day 29, and I have a few questions for you… my captured man. First, what are you doing here? Why do you seek this complicated relationship that we share? With a woman you can’t touch? That can’t physically touch you? Would you still want me if I lived on your street? If I lived next door? Or if I had you hidden away in my closet, or under the bed? In person, no longer able to carefully wrap the words I use to control you in poetry? Let’s shatter that illusion; I work hard to ensure that your vision of me is as flawless as I can manage. I am under no obligation to share the warts and all with you. And if I tell you to pay no attention to the woman behind the curtain, you’ll answer “What curtain?” Now, what did you do for me yesterday, keep doing today. Seeking your limits for me, so I can continue to stretch them. Is that rewarding? But you choose what to feel, and how much, and when it’s time to seek gratification you choose what words you want to hear. And there’s far more accessible, available, and visceral pornography out there… do you tell yourself that listening to my words is somehow more cerebral? Elevated? Sophisticated? Or do you recognise that these sessions, or the sessions where I tell you how I’d make you piss yourself, or how I’d dress you up, they’re all smut just the same. So do you want to hide behind the idea that hypnokink is all you care about? But dear one, that’s not what we’re doing here, in these sessions together. This isn’t quite porn for porn’s sake. I’m training you to be better, for me, right? Not as the slutty sissy who’s available for just anyone, or the eager puppy who doesn’t mind who takes him for walkies, but as mine. My Eternal Suitor, my creative and thoughtful one, even when you’re my mindless one. So is self-improvement your goal? Wasn’t there any other suitable self-help book on the shelf? Are you incapable of motivating yourself without attaching it to your sexuality? Maybe you are just like that little pup, only spurred to action by what’s between your legs, and sometimes your tummy. And maybe you’re mostly here because I do give you direction? Direction over what? When to play with your cock? I told you to find a coin, one you could flip whenever you’re in the mood, or toss it back in the piggy bank, and wank as often as you like. Oh, but it isn’t about your pleasure, is it? It’s all about me, it’s about what I want, and hey I’ll accept that appeal to my vanity. I’ll put it with all the others, like so many Valentine’s Day cards. How many times have I told you that I love stretching my creative legs, too. That’s no secret, is it? Making something from scratch, sending it out into the world, knowing it’s going to excite, thrill, admonish, hurt… tease and humiliate. Well, that’s more than enough reward for me. So, my captured man, what are you doing here? Go to sleep tonight with my voice in your ears, and dear… set your alarm some ten, fifteen minutes early. You have my permission for release, in the morning, and I’ll see you then. The post Why are you here? – Day 29 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 2, 20226 min

Fresh start – Day 28

Links Go back to Day 22 or Day 23, if you need to. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Today is Day 28. Yesterday was a milestone, and Day 28, it’s a fresh start. It’s like a Monday, without being aMonday… but lucky for us, it’s falling at the start of a brand new month. And not just any month. There is a very special holiday hidden, right in the middle. Well I guess hidden isn’t the right word. There are cards and flowers and everything everywhere, right? But speaking of relationships and commitments, I love the messages of genuine commitment to practicing the trigger settings. My commitment, my promise to you, is that I will be taking the time to remind you to meet those expectations, keep those promises. From today, whenever you reach that part of our daily time together where I give your permission, or not, you’ll know that I’m expecting you to keep up to date with your regular listening. Now, it’s really time to make that choice. Are you going to test yourself with the stick over the coming weeks, or is it playing the role of my statue that’s got your attention? And yes, if you’re feeling indecisive it’s time to flip that coin. Just like my promise to help you stay focused on your new regimen of regular listening, using those trigger settings, keeping them burning brightly. I’m going to be providing you with the tools you need to push yourself. For today, go back to Day 22, or Day 23, and let’s start exploring your tolerance. Use those recordings, or sessions like Forniphilia, or “Warm Thighs”, or even something like Circles Within Circles for inspiration. And I want you to find some private time today, and with no particular pressure, work out how far you can go comfortably. That’s an important word in this context, “comfortably”. It might be that comfortable is pretty far. I’m well aware that everyone’s tolerances are different, and not only that but there are some factors that play into how much you can personally take… well, it’s pretty normal to want more, to be able to take more when you’re excited, isn’t it dear? You have a couple of days to play around and explore with this step in your training, and if you want to, tell me about how you’re doing. Tomorrow at least will be a diversion, and we’ll get back to how to progress very, very soon. Today’s Permissive Circumstance is; yes, if. It can’t be that easy, it can’t just be yes. Yes, if you’ve chosen to statue training, and absolutely not if you’ve chosen the stick. Now now, don’t start thinking this means there was a right and a wrong choice… I just know what you need. The post Fresh start – Day 28 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Feb 1, 20225 min

The Highlight Reel – Day 27

I believe I’m over my COVID-inflicted “persistent cough” and there shouldn’t be any more interruptions in our daily training for a while. Links All my Trigger Setting Sessions are in one convenient place in my shop. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 27. Wouldn’t it be nice, dear, to take some time to revisit some of the highlights of things we’ve done over the past few weeks? In your mind, or in the flesh, find your… contrapposto. You do know how, right? Your weight on one leg. I know you did your research as I instructed. Are you imagining that axis from your foot, up through your abdomen, to the opposite shoulder? Once you have the pose just right, you can find the breathing rhythm that works for you, a slow and steady in-and-out. In. And Out.In. And Out. This pose isn’t the only thing you’ve been given as a tease, a taste of what I have in store for you. It wasn’t so long ago that you last put the Ouchie Stick to good use, and are those spots on your thighs still tender? Soon you’ll choose, or flip a coin, and continue eagerly down one path or the other for me, and test yourself. You have some goals for yourself. Some wrapped up in your desires, and some vanilla aims, too. I want you to work some regular listening into your other tasks and goals, now. The Dear/Darling trigger setting that you were so graciously given as part of this ongoing training, well I’m sure you’ve listened a few times, right? If you’ve been with me a while, or spent time exploring my website, then you might also have listened to Going Deeper Faster. These sessions are Foundational. They introduce triggers that I’ve used a number of times. Do you know what makes the trigger settings work the best? Yes, regular exposure, regular conditioning. And they’re also best when reinforced. So I want you to find those sessions, those trigger settings that are important to you, and to our relationship, and I want you to make sure that they’re easily available to us. This might be the two I’ve mentioned, and perhaps a few of my Maid Training triggers, or a version of Naughty… not right now, there’s no reason to feel pink-cheeked, Bunny… Are you still standing, posing for me? I hope so. Even if you only envisioned being my statue, imagined it, be honest with yourself… did you relax? If you’ve managed to maintain the position I asked for as I spoke, you have my Permission for today. Now, take your time to think it over, but make a commitment, a reasonable one, of which of these triggers you’re going to listen to on regular basis. Every other night? Twice a week? Rotating two, three, five trigger settings that you know are important to your training. Keeping these word runes glowing brightly, so I can use them in any way I please. And if you’ve already made a commitment like this, tell me about it. The post The Highlight Reel – Day 27 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 31, 20226 min

Honesty and forgiveness – Day 26

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 26. Now, it’s been a bit of time since you started this journey with me… and I have a small secret to reveal. We are at a milestone in this particular… uh… training series. The one that started on Day One. And do you remember how we started? Did you print out the Year Compass, or maybe fill it out digitally? Either way, I hope you gave it the time it deserved. Today, I want you to prepare yourself for our conversation. So wherever you are I want you to put your hands on your thighs, with the palms facing up. Take a deep breath, and exhale it fully. Find a rhythm for your breathing that’s comfortable and relaxed. One that you can maintain as we, uh… talk. That exercise, that task I set for you, taking the time to answer the questions in the Year Compass, I want you to spend some time reviewing it today. I want you to think about how you are progressing on your vanilla goals and aspirations. Or perhaps there are already some changes you’d like to make, because that is fine. And maybe not everything you wrote down is a vanilla goal, or habit… I kind-of expect that. I’m laughing because I know what’s on my list. But either way, this kind of process, this tool for mindfulness, it does rely on your honesty. And speaking of honesty, as you do this, I want you to pay particular attention to page… 10. Page 10 is about forgiveness, and the idea of forgiveness as it relates to power exchange play, it’s been on my mind, because you and I we know a little bit about forgiveness, right? Now I know you’ve experienced pain for me because I asked for it. Is ask the right way to say that? Let’s go with that, it sounds so very polite. Because I asked for it. But maybe not because I felt like you deserved it. There’s catharsis in feeling those intense sensations for their own sake. But there’s a whole community of masochists, you know what let’s just call them spankos, because that’s what they call themselves, and because I fucking love that word, c’mon, it’s fun. Spankos. Right? It’s fun. And they know that real forgiveness, the kind that follows real discipline, visceral, painful, humiliating discipline, even… well that’s, that’s just the best kind. If you’re going to learn anything from our time together, then your honesty is a requirement. So here’s your chance, today, to be honest. And, to seek forgiveness. Once you’ve spent your time with your Compass, you can tell me if you feel like you’ve failed in some way, with these past twenty-five days we’ve spent together. Now, I know… I know that we have a longer history, but we’re only focussing on Day One through to now. Maybe you’ve been telling little fibs about your adherence to Permissive Circumstances, perhaps you’re only paying lip-service to the ideas in your affirmation sessions. Or perhaps, you’re Compass is still sitting on the printer tray, with not a single pencil mark upon it. And if I feel like you need it, I’ll reach out and let you know how you can earn that forgiveness for your transgressions. Today’s Permissive Circumstance is an exercise in… possible… frustration. You have permission for release, but you do not have permission to touch with your hands. Or even to hold a toy with them. In fact, cross your wrists behind your back while you seek orgasm. The post Honesty and forgiveness – Day 26 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 29, 20226 min

The Illusion of Choice – Day 25

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Hypnosis Podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 25. Now today I’m not going to have you shake yourself off like my puppy coming out of the river. Or do any particular breathing. At least, not in this listening. I know you had fun with your affirmation session yesterday. Maybe, hey… you got to the end and every single phrase it fit you like a glove. Well, today’s Permissive Cirumstance is this. If you listen to those words again, and repeat everything you can, you have my Permissive for release. You can also consider that to be your task. Now, on Days 22 and 23, I guided you through some acts of devotion. And you learned to please me in two very different ways. I want you to push yourself, somewhat, in one or the other of these directions. This means you will have to make a choice, and today that’s all I’m asking of you; to think about your decision. SO maybe you really want to work on your ability to hold a pose for me. Or instead, you need to impress me with how many strokes you can take. Your choice, it might be based on your own fantasies. Or, you might opt for whichever of the two sounds most difficult. And, you might change your mind a couple of times over the next few days, and that’s okay. And when this decision becomes particularly relevant, if you haven’t already firmly made up your mind either way, then we’ll let fate decide. Keep using the Affirmation sessions as a way of meditation and conditioning, in short amounts of time. Using them frequently, it only makes you better. I promise. The post The Illusion of Choice – Day 25 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 27, 20223 min

An affirmations teaser – Day 24

Links The Affirmations Teaser can be found in the shop. If you need it, here’s a quick way back to Day 21. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Today is Day 24 and I’m sharing something fun with you today. Your task is to listen to a little… tease, I’ve put together for the upcoming Affirmations sessions. So right now, that little tease is in the shop, and you can probably it’s something like $9, or so. And if you use a special phrase as a coupon code you’ll get it for free. For a while anyway. We can’t reward procrastination. That expires eventually, and if you’re listening in the future there might be some other way you can get it. You can find the link in the show notes, and the special phrase you’ll need… well, it’s four words. And you were instructed to remember the first three back on Day 21. I’ll offer up some more clues to Patrons. And so your task, once you’ve acquired that little affirmation session, is to find a place for some private meditation, and to listen, and repeat, and savour the words. You know, the taste of them. Your Permissive Circumstance for today is this; you have my Permission if, you were one of those helpful boys who helped me way back in November to decide on what new Affirmations sessions to create. Okay, go see if you know the code, and enjoy. The post An affirmations teaser – Day 24 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 26, 20222 min

Warming hearts and elsewhere – Day 23

Links Do your thighs need more attention from your Mistress? Left with Warm Thighs is less than half price for the rest of January. Left with Warm Thighs with Femdom HypnosisTake ten strokes to each thigh for your Mistress, filling you with warmth that you can take with you as you awaken from hypnosis. $19.00 Shop now Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 23. On Day 22 you practiced being my statue. What do you think about your performance? Exquisite? Needs a bit of work? You can always use some distraction free time to work on your pose, and your discipline. And while today, you’re gonna need further privacy still, because we’re going to exercise your Ouchie Stick. If you’re not in a quiet and private spot right now, with stick in hand, then why not? For today you need to be sitting up, in a chair, or at the head of your bed, and you need to need to have your undies on, but your trousers off. Got that? I already told you that we’re going to focus on some long-term goals, and by now, you should know that your ability to suffer for me, is something I crave. Even if it’s not really your thing! I ended up taking a test yesterday after feeling blah, and have joined the ranks of people with Covid, so I deserve this bit of distraction, right? I deserve a lot of things. And you know what, with inflicting some pain, I don’t need to be able to leave you bruised and bloodied and broken, to be personally entertained. I just need to push you up to your limits, wherever they might be. So maybe the three… six… nine strokes you took on Day 14, maybe they were easy for you. Even insulting. Or maybe you used that honour system we’re working with to give yourself the gentlest little love-taps. It doesn’t matter to me either way. I know you’re going to test yourself as we continue down this path together. So today you’re going to take ten strokes with the Ouchie Stick. Last time I had you on your side, but by now you should be sitting, and each strike is going to be aimed at your thighs, so spread those legs wide. Just like yesterday’s training, and like the last time I helped you use the stick, I’m going to guide your breathing. I want you to fix your tongue behind your teeth for this exercise. Close your mouth, and I’m going to count to four as you inhale deeply. Then, you’ll hold your breath as I count down, and before I reach one, you will have used that Ouchie Stick on yourself. I will not say exactly when. Finally, you will exhale completely through your mouth, keeping your tongue in its place… and as you do this, you can make… you can make whatever noises you need to make. Start on the right-hand side, and I’ll tell you when to switch. [Breathing and Counting.] Wonderful. You took that well I think, and if you feel like you didn’t really impress me, reach out and let me know. Just like yesterday, you’ve already completed today’s task.. but today’s Permissive Circumstance is to Flip… your coin. Heads, you get release today. And tails, well… that’s denial. This might be where you learn if your token is your ally or not. See you tomorrow. The post Warming hearts and elsewhere – Day 23 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 25, 202210 min

The perfect contrapposto – Day 22

Links There’s a delicious MCF, where my Statue meets my Sissy Maid, on Day 15. Do you want to go back and experience it, after today’s session? Or perhaps you would like to find my Slave Position Training session in the shop. It’s half price with the coupon code UFFIZI until the 10th of February. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Hypnosis Podcast with useful training for the Submissive man. Welcome to Day 22. Today’s session involves a spot of practice at being my statue. You will likely prefer to listen and obey in a comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed. On Day 18, this was in the shower, and that might still be an option. You may also wish to be where you can see yourself in the mirror. Now, if you’re not in that place right now, stop here, and come back when you’re ready. I’ll be waiting. Which is really a funny statement to say, because I would probably not use that phrasing in every day life if we were playing together. You would get a much, much stronger statement. Okay, so over the next few days, we’re going to talk about a long-term goal for these training sessions that we’ve been enjoying together. And one of those goals could be developing your ability to hold a pose for me. This doesn’t have to be difficult. If you’ve played with Forniphilia you know some of my favourite poses. And of course, you’ve likely learned some of the details of the favourite training poses. And some of them, yeah they’re difficult to hold for a long time. But maybe you know the Waitress pose by heart? Well today you’re going to learn a new word. See, I’m goo for your mind and your body. This word is borrowed from the Italian with a Greek influence, and you know those Mediterranean Europeans, well they know a little about sculpture. And romance. Okay… this is a little bit of a side-track but I’m going to say it. The most romantic stranger that I met, kind-of like on a whim, was Greek. And I happened to be with two of my lady friends and three of us agreed that if he asked us to run away with him, we would. And it wasn’t even that he was the most handsome man that you could ever imagine, he was just so incredibly charming, and authentic and, ah… man. I’ve never been to Greece. I have a feeling if I go, I might stay there. Okay, let’s get back to our word. Today you’re going to find your perfect Conntrapposto, and I mean perfect for you. You can do your own research after this first session, but for today, which ever leg you have your weight on, take the opposite arm and bend at the elbow to hold your hand out. And then, for just three minutes, I’m going to help measure your breathing. Now as wonderful as you are, my statue, you can’t truly stand for hours without moving. You breathe, of course, and we’ve already talked a little about how your breathing will help you meditate, and maintain the mindset you need to impress me in this role. And you’ll also shift your weight from one leg to the other, and mirror your pose perfectly each time you do, and prolong the time you can serve me this way. So today, you are going to find your perfect Contrapposto, and I mean perfect for you. You can do your own research after this first session, but for today, whichever leg you have your weight on, take the opposite arm, and bend at the elbow to hold your hand out. And then for just three minutes, I’m going to help measure your breathing. [Music and Counting.] That’s three minutes, and you’ve done a great job. If practicing this way for me seems like a dream come true, I promise we’ll be here again soon. A bit of depersonalisation never hurt anyone. You’ve completed your task today, though you should send me a polite note if you need to. Your Permissive Circumstance today is to flip… your eggs. Or a veggie-burger. Or some delicious pancakes, they can be European, or they can be American. I don’t know if there’s any other kind of pancake. If you’ve cooked something in a skillet today, you have my Permission. And I will see you tomorrow. The post The perfect contrapposto – Day 22 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 24, 20228 min

Artefacts of your submission – Day 21

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Jan 21, 20223 min

I Obey – Day 20

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 20, and courtesy of whatever… gas inspection thing, that needs to happen in my home today, today’s session is very short and sweet. We are working up towards something, like I said. Today your task is to remember two words, okay? “I Obey”. Furthermore, your task is to find a quiet spot where you can be for about, hmmm… 5 minutes. Go through that relaxation that you know so well, and repeat those words either to the room, or in your head. “I Obey.” Consistency is key, right? Going back to basics can be the best thing of all. “I Obey.” This is the time of the year when a lot of people wobble, right? That new relationship energy with those new year’s resolutions begins to wain, but it’s not about motivation, it’s about consistency. And the Femdom hypno is very much like that, right? It’s not like throwing on a porn video and… I was going to say wanking, but I’m not convinced I want wanking to be in the transcript but there we go, it’s going to be in the transcript twice now. It’s more, it’s deeper, right? It’s training your brain. It’s retraining some habits and so yeah… consistency. And it’s also why I know that you’re doing better than average with that new relationship energy with new year’s resolutions. So go on, five minutes… “I Obey.” And your Permissive Circumstance for today, it’s this… if you’ve pet a hedgehog today… already, you can’t like… run off to the petting zoo… if you’ve pet a hedgehog today, you have my permission. The post I Obey – Day 20 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 20, 20223 min

Pebble Hunting – Day 19

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Fmedom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 19. I have three things going on in my life, which is probably why you’re going to hear some giggling going on. One; I have Dunkin Donuts French Vanilla coffee which is… amazing. I don’t think I’d be sold to always having flavoured coffee, but every so often this would be my go-to when I lived in the States. And I just love it. Second thing; They are literally tearing up the road again in front of my home. I get it… when they upgrade certain things they have to like… run new whatevers, but with the number of times they tear up this road and like… cut across it, you think they’d just put grates or something there so they can just pluck ’em up. So, if you hear some odd noises, consider it construction, training and just tune it out. Otherwise, I was never going to get to record today. Third thing; the third thing is the main reason I am full of laughter today. I have this lipstick, and it came in this… you know how, not so much for work, but friends you might just have little gift bag for the holiday you give around to people and so on? And for one of mine I received this lipstick that is supposed to, well… I don’t know. Isuppose it’s plumping your lips, whatever. My friend, she loves this one. I mean loooves it. I think she just might be just outing herself as a masochist because it… it isn’t horrible, but it’s very noticeable that my lips are still tingling. And I told her this, and then we both kinda laughed our assess off at the idea of like… putting it on, kinda nice and thick, turning up to a date, getting a great sloppy kiss in there, and then just watching the guy’s face. Okay so, if you’re going on any dates any time soon, beware of tingly lipstick. Okay, none of that has anything to do with what we’re talking about today. What are we talking about today? Maybe it’s collars… or being on your knees, or how long can you edge until… until your little friend just says “Please, quit touching me.” Or, hell… pissing yourself in the doorway. No, none of those. I mean you can still think about those things, that’s fine. Today we’re talking about things in your pockets. So, give yourself a shake. Give yourself a deep breath in. Hold. Exhale.Another deep breath in. Hold. Exhale.And another, deep breath in. Hold. Exhale. Continue breathing at your own pace, but you know… try to make it a little deeper and slower. So, things in pockets. If you’re like me, if you put on your winter coat and put your hands in your pockets, you know what’s on the left side, what’s on the right side. Maybe you have a smaller breast pocket or so on, but you probably know, and it’s very familiar right? The keys, earbud-case, mask… oh, and of course, the phone. Well, a bit ago I mentioned, in regards to the coin about the stones. And some part of your brain might be dealing with some FOMO there, so let me explain the stone. The purpose was to go out into nature, or Etsy, eBay, wherever, and look for a stone. Now, I actually quite enjoy pebble hunting. When I was in North Wales I found this grey stone, and it has a perfect circle about the size of a dime, once again I’m trying to think of the British money and I can’t come up with one, so… American dime. And maybe it’s not quite a perfect circle, but it’s very close. It’s a pale grey, on the darker grey stone. And being a Mistress, it’s a little bit like pebble hunting. You search through, you find quite a variety, you know can polish out the unnecessary bits, you can highlight the good qualities, you can smooth over a lot… but, sometimes that stone you find, that gleams so brightly at first, you find it only does so because it’s wet. So, for today, for your task… should you find a stone? I don’t know. Let’s trust the coin to decide. Flip it, heads for yes… tails for no. And if your coin is within arm’s reach, right now, you have my Permission for Release, because you have met the Permissive Circumstance. The post Pebble Hunting – Day 19 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 19, 20227 min

A Test of Patience – Day 18

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Today is Day 18. And we’re going to do some practice that kind of works its way into being that statue… and its not just statue practice, I mean there’s other times when it’s important, and… fun… to stand and wait, right? To be submissive and be there. Of course you could be the statue. You could just be showing patience. You could be waiting there with a warm, fluffy towel, though truth be told… I don’t actually like my towels all fluffy. I am very much one of those hang-em-up, and when they’re like almost stiff as a board, that scratchy-scratchy towel, that’s me. But it doesn’t really meet our little, our little fantasy here. Warm fluffy towel. Warm fluffy robe, that’s pretty good… or you know, just being still to take in some pain, or an overload of pleasure. You enjoyed the story of my statue who behaved brilliantly… who took on his role so completely, that even when the maid tried their hardest to distract him, he stood fast. Now be honest, could you stand so perfectly, flawlessly still as my statue did, for even… a half hour? Fifteen minutes? I want you to practice this for me, and so… we’re going to develop the tools you need to be successful. And I’ll be able to take even greater pride in you. Now you’re aware, as you’ve been listening over the last few weeks, and even earlier than that… I know that meditating on your breathing is a useful skill. And I help you learn it, and practice it, at every opportunity. Meditation is the other type of mindlessness that you can use to help you to be obedient. And meditation it often starts with just paying attention to the breath, and letting other things fall away. And from that control of the breath, you can extend it into your posture. You don’t have to do yoga. You just have to be mindful about what positions you choose… it’s why in the Position Training session I’m so careful to list the little details that I’ll be looking for… the thing, you know, that I’m likely to critique during training. So let’s go ahead, find a position, and we’re just going to do a few of these breaths. And then, throughout today you can go ahead and keep practicing. We’re going to count, well, in your head… So breathe in… one.Out… one. Breathe in… one, two.Out… one, two. Breathe in… one, two, three.Out… one, two, three. Breathe in… one, two, three, four.Out… one, two, three, four. And breathe in… one, two, three, four, five.Out… five, four, three, two, one. Now continue on and your own pace. It’s good, isn’t it? You focus entirely on me, and you feel that breath going in, and out. Do that counting, that little practice session, throughout your day today… and I have a task for you. The next time you take a shower, preferably today, when that shower is done… I want you to turn the temperate down. Slowly down, no need to shock yourself. And then after, just a few seconds, turn it off. Then, for no less than one minute, I want you to stand as still as you can be. You can even pretend you’re frozen solid. Four loops, five loops, through simple breathing… is plenty long enough. Your Permissive Circumstance is this; you have my Permission, in the shower. Yesterday, I asked you to find a coin, and if you didn’t already, you will need it for tomorrow. The post A Test of Patience – Day 18 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 18, 20227 min

Ouchie Stick Maintenance – Day 17

Links Didn’t you already listen to Day 14, when we used your ouchie stick? If not, you can go back. I’ll be waiting for you. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 17. You’ve had some time to think about it, right? That ouchie stick of yours. You can mull it over a little bit while you find a position for today. I want you to at least stretch your arms out wide… and if you don’t have space for side-to-side, reach down… but really feel the whole length of your arm. Both arms. If you have two… if you only have one it’s okay. I’m in a bit of a silly mood today because it is fucking freezing where I’m recording… and I swore to myself that I would not mention it, and that I would just be a professional and go through, but the length of today’s session is directly linked to the temperature of this spot that I am in. I did get out, at you know… oh-dark-whatever, to head to the gym, but oh my god it’s so, so cold here right now. Okay, so… stretching out your arms, breathe in to five… in… two-three-four-five. And out… two… three-four-five. And don’t you dare tell me if it’s like… sunny and gorgeous in your location, because today, I don’t want to hear it. I love a Monday, I love everything about this new week that’s coming up ahead, I just… I’m not feeling what the stupid thermometer keeps telling me. Okay, oh my god… we just spent two minutes talking about the weather. We have to get back to kink. Ouchie stick. Is it… too big? Hmmm… can it be too big? Maybe too narrow? Too skinny? Too wide? I mean… you can’t use a log. You’re all thinking about cocks anyway. Alright, whatever else. Is it maybe not enough of a challenge? I know, I know, masochism is not always… it’s actually not even often part of play, but… expanding out your list of accessories is, well it’s nice. So, and ouchie stick… getting the one that works for you is great. Or you know, hell… maybe you broke it on the last play session. In any case, today is ouchie stick maintenance day. Put that one on your calendar. I dare you. And while we talk about collecting, I realised while rowing to nowhere this morning, that you might not have a special coin. Coins are useful for many things, but especially those games of chance that I adore. We have a simple brain game coming up with a clue planned for it too. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Today is about ouchie-stick maintenance day, and the second part is to find a coin that you will keep handy. And your Permissive Circumstance is this; if you already have a coin, one that I directed you to get, you have my Permission. The post Ouchie Stick Maintenance – Day 17 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 17, 20224 min

The Maid – Day 16

Magical Cards Induction - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Pay Attention (Induction) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Permission to Go to Bed (Part One) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Q&A Affirmations - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth The Maid (Day 16) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Kneeling Positions with Obedient Movements - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth The Top - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Permission to Go to Bed (Part Two) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Links If you’re seeing this outside of my website, go here for the audio player. More information on Mind Control Fragments is here. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 16. Day 15 was a pretty enjoyable experience, wasn’t it? And I did promise a new, second, Mind Control Fragment for today. When you listen to it, you’re gonna recognize it as the counterpart to Day 15. I know that my clever one is going to enjoy this shift in perspective. You should know by now that you can be anything for me. Today’s show notes they offer up a different playlist of MCF’s for you. And in this version you’re… ummm… well. My poor dear, you’re not given permission for release at all. Instead, you’re given permission to go to bed. So today’s task takes place this evening, when you’re almost ready for bed. Sweet dreams. The post The Maid – Day 16 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 16, 20221 min

The Statue – Day 15

Eye Contact Induction - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Deep Breathing for Stress Reflief - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Kneeling for JOI (Side A) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Q&A Affirmations - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth The Statue (Day 15) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Kneeling Positions with Obedient Movements - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Kneeling for JOI (Side B) - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth A Simple Awakener - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Links If you’re seeing this outside of my website, go here for the audio player. More information on Mind Control Fragments is here. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 15. Today and tomorrow I will be releasing new MCF’s. They’re both guided visualisations that play on some of my favourite erotic hypnosis sessions. You already know Forniphilia, or a few of the Maid Training sessions. I’ve created a playlist for the first one. You can find the link to it in the show notes today. Now, maybe you still haven’t used Mind Control Fragments in the way they’re intended. This playlist includes two fragments that talk about permission for release. Actually… they give pretty explicit instruction to cum. So today’s task is to listen to the contents of that playlist, in order. And your Permissive Circumstance for today is… “Yes”, though only when the session tells you that you’re allowed. The post The Statue – Day 15 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 15, 20221 min

The Ouchie Stick – Day 14

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 14. Okay, it’s going to be a little bit different today because this particular episode isn’t for everyone. If you’re listening somewhere, anywhere, that privacy is not an option, this episode isn’t for you. At least, not right now. You can come back to it later. You will need your ouchie stick, and privacy, and a space where you can be on your side. So go ahead and pause this if you need time to find that. They ouchie stick, the privacy, and a place where you can be on your side. Okay, ready? On Day 6 you found that tender spot between your thumb and forefinger. Using that spot, you endured, showing what you’re willing to take for me. Do you remember the honour system? I tell you how hard, painful, it should feel… and you dole out just that amount. Light, medium, and so on. We will use that honour system today as well. And I am an experienced Mistress, I know that curious boys test out their toys. And there’s a great chance you already tested the stick, and that’s okay. I didn’t tell you to use it, but I also didn’t tell you to abstain, so I want punish your eagerness. This time, we’re going to do it together. So, it’s time to find that comfortable position. Be on your side, with your legs tucked up, your free hand can hold you stick. In a moment we’re going to start some familiar breathing, and during the breathing I’ll tell you three times when to strike. Aim for the back of your thigh. Oh, I’ll also tell you how hard. Our honour system guidelines are this; I expect you to be firm, but not so hard that the second stroke is unbearable. Leave room to go harder… got that? Okay, we’re gonna use our box breathing for this, so we’ll go in for four, hold for four, out for four, pause for four… and remember, there’ll be three strikes in here. So… In. One, two, three, four.Hold. Two, three, four.Out. Two, three, four.Wait. Two, three, four. In. Two, three, four.Strike.Out. Two, three, four.Wait. Two, three, four. In.Hold.Strike. Out.Wait. In.Strike.Out.Wait. In. Two, three, four.Hold. Two, three, four.Out. Two, three, four.And now find your own breathing pattern. Good, I’m proud of you. I know you likely tried your hardest. Today’s task, well… today’s task was obviously smacking yourself with a stick, because I said so. If you need extra homework, drop me a line and tell me how you feel, or if you had any issues. Perhaps your stick isn’t up to snuff. And if not we’ll take care of that on Day 17, Monday. The Permissive Circumstance for today is… to endure two sets of three strokes. No softer than the ones you just took. Harder is okay. Go back through this lesson and follow the breathing exercise at your discretion… or whatever… just get it over with. Good boy. The post The Ouchie Stick – Day 14 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 14, 20227 min

A chance to be clever – Day 13

Links If you didn’t download Dear/Darling Trigger Setting already, it’s freely available to all in the shop. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis, and useful training, for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 13. It’s not quite Friday the 13th, but wouldn’t you agree dear, that it is close enough for us to call it “lucky”? I want you to start today by kind-of stretching and moving. I’m going to join you in that because I have the habit of being one of those super-virtuous people that gets up at five-odd in the morning and heads to the gym, and today… I am trying to get more in the habit of using the different weights and so on. There’s just a few machines I’ve totally ignored, and you know how when you choose something completely different, it makes you… well… you find a muscle you don’t normally use. I did that today, so I think I’m so used to doing like… large group things, that… ugh, this one particular, the arm one, was like… yeah, I don’t do that movement, in my everyday life. So today is going to be one of those stretching and moving days, constantly. So shake yourself off, like my doggo coming out of the river. Stretch a bit. And find a good position. Okay, so; I want you to breathe in deep for two; One, two.And out for three; One, two, three.And in for five; One, two, three, four, five.And out for eight; One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight. Now breathe, at your own pace, for the next thirteen seconds, being aware of the breath as it travels throughout your body.Thirteen, twelve, eleven, ten, nine, eight, seven, six, five, four, three, two, one. And for twenty-one seconds I want you to breath again, at your own pace, but see that breath lighting up your body as it travels through. Go on; I’ll be quiet this time and watch the clock for you. All lit up and perfect? Of course you are. And now, I want you to continue this breathing at your own pace, but you’re going to move your body. Feel the muscles respond as you tell them what to do. And I want you to be inspired to choose a position that perfectly matches your mood for today. This position that you find, you’re going to hold it, if possible, for 34 seconds, starting now. There, now… how do you feel? This time devoted to you, us… me. You always feel better for taking the time to focus this way. Your task for today is not an easy one, but it is a fun one and it does add to your creativity, and it uses that brain of yours that I love. Besides, don’t you enjoy a chance to be clever? Your task for today is to find a thirteen letter word without using the internet. Yes, that means you can grab a handy book, or co-worker, or… or who knows, maybe just that clever lad on your train. But no internet. And your Permissive Circumstance for today is this; if you know what two, three, five, eight, thirteen, etcetera create, well then… you have my permission to enjoy your release today. The post A chance to be clever – Day 13 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 13, 20227 min

Limit Testing – Day 12

Links The Dear/Darling Trigger Setting can be found here. Once you’re familiar with the trigger, you can test your obedience and deepen its control over you with Limit Testing Scenarios. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 12. Should we celebrate hitting a dozen? I think we should… why not, right? I have a gift for you. This is a gift that has been unwrapped previously, but… but it has something given freely, and I really want to play with this one, so I’m tossing it out there. This is the Dear/Darling trigger. This particular trigger, I’ll explain more, when you go get it… but basically it sets in a phrase that leaves you so open and willing to do whatever it is that’s next. As always, repetition is key so you need to listen to the trigger regularly over the next few days or so. It’s all about keeping that word rune doing its job. But when you go, and this is your task for the day, when you go and download that free session, you’ll see below a list of Limit Testing scenarios. I’m going to encourage you to choose something that actually tests your limits. And for Patrons, there’s going to be another note out today telling you a little bit more about… a little bit more about how to pick your particular limit, and to download that one. So, that’s your task. Over to the website, SpokenByElswyth.com, and download the Darling/Dear… Dear/Darling, I tend to say it whichever way… trigger session. And then, pick that Limit Testing scenario that’s perfect for you. The post Limit Testing – Day 12 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 12, 20223 min

Dirty Talk – Day 11

Links If you’ve done your homework, but you don’t know how else to contact me, you can use the Tell Me Good Things form on my contact page. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training, for the Submissive Man. Welcome to Day 11. We’re going to talk a bit about dirty talk. Both inside of Femdom hypnosis sessions, and outside of it. You know… everyday life stuff. So what is your yum, when it comes to dirty talk? What if you could be guaranteed to hear exactly what you crave said to you in the next full session? That particular phrase that never fails? More on that later… let’s get you breathing and moving first. So for today’s position, today’s pose, I’m going to give you a bit of leeway. If my dearest is out and about and it a situation where you can’t really call attention to yourself, how about you just take your left hand, and place it over the wrist of your right? That feels good. And if you do have full freedom of movement, I want you on your knees. Either up, or resting back on your heels. You decide. For breathing today, you can go slow. You don’t have to rush. Take your time with “In”, and slowly, ease it “Out”. In. And Out. Slowly, deeply, back in. And out. Find your rhythm, but keep it slow. Sensual. A few of the phrases that I enjoy, off the top of my head… I think the first one especially for when enduring, is “You’re doing so well for me.” “How badly do you need this?” “I love it when you’re ass-up on the bed.” “You were made to be used by me.” “I’ve been thinking how I’ll take you all day.” Do you feel inspired yet? How about these ones? “I love how you take everything I give you.” “I give you good things.” Or the one that almost always creates a tingle… “You may need to use your safeword tonight.” And finally… “Shush… or I will gag you.” So, my obedient one, my careful listening one. I have two tasks for you today. The first is an opportunity to show of. To share more. To let me in a bit more. Share with me your favourite Dirty Talk phrase, that personal yum. And, I’ll be choosing some of them to use in the upcoming session that’s all about endurance. But as I mentioned, there’s also a way to have it guaranteed, as long as your phrase isn’t ridiculous. The other task; Dirty Talk, as I said, is all about listening to my words, what I say to you, carefully crafted for you. Over the first ten days of this series, there have been multiple instances where a key two-word phrase has been misspoken, on purpose or not, who cares? But it is out there. Your task, my beloved, is to tell me which episodes, which day, the misspoken phrase appeared in. For my Patrons, I’ll provide a hint of how many days this mistake-or-not occurred, so you’ll know how many to find. Send the day numbers to me, along with your yummy dirty talk phrase and the correct answers, well… as I said. Your naughty words are guaranteed to end up in that endurance session. And once you’re done… your Personal Circumstance today is… yes. The post Dirty Talk – Day 11 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 11, 20227 min

Am I wasting my time? – Day 10

Do you need help finding Day 6? It’s right here. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. So here we are on Day 10. Now Day 10 might be just a smug reminder of how wonderful you are, or it could be a pretty shocking revelation that you’re not what you think. Before we get into all of that, let’s find ourselves closer together. I want you to shake off tension. Thoughts, distractions. A mental shake, a physical shake. And breathe in.Hold.Out.And again, breathe in.Hold.Out.Breath in.Hold.Out. Continue to breath in deeper than normal, but not so much that you go under, or fall over. And now that I firmly have your attention, I want to talk to you a little bit about energy. And the flow of energy between me, to you, and back to me. I want you to realise and recognise that your needs, wants, they do extract a lot of energy to meet. Right? Think about it. Think about the creativity. The practical. Everything that goes into my words reaching your ears. Draining me of energy, it doesn’t serve either one of us, does it? Now in everyday life, in everyday life, our sessions would likely be met by… well, acts of service. The energy that you put back into us, it’s not just about serving me. It’s also about keeping my enthusiasm, my energy, my want for you, high. So these acts of service, while yes, they are obviously serving, they’re also replenishing, and protecting energy. So, let’s see something. Let’s see if you have been giving me what I deserve by doing a quick flashback to Day 6. Part of all proper training is reinforcing ideas. It’s why the Femdom Hypnosis Sessions, you listen to those once, again and again, making sure those triggers and sensation, that they have found a home in that mind of yours. Every fire, burns hot and then, burns down. The wood falling in on itself, and it begins to choke out the flames. So reinforcing is stirring those embers, getting fresh oxygen in there and building it up again. Toss on another stick! But not a particular stick. Do you remember which stick you found on Day 6? First, some simple housekeeping; if you didn’t listen to Day 6, go back and do so now. But, if you did listen, and you didn’t Obey, Day 6… stop listening entirely. Seriously. I’m not offering these sessions up each day as pure, passive entertainment. Even though they are enjoyable, right? I know I’m enjoying them. But I’m also working and investing in you. And I make sure that everything I ask for is something you can really do. Direction. Discipline. Service. I understand if sometimes your day-to-day means not hearing me every day… but god I cannot tolerate laziness. I put a lot of energy into you and in return it is your job, your purpose, to give back to me. I put a lot of myself into this. Into you. And in return, I want a lot of you. Even as I train you, your submissive self, your mind, should already be formulating how you will return that energy to me. Is it through a work of art? A work of words? An image that you know I’ll love? A small token to satisfy that gift-giving love-language? Or proof? Proof that you’re steadily working towards a better you. To offer me the best pet possible. And remember, your ouchy stick? It needs to stay handy because it will be touched upon in the future. I know your tolerance varies, so again we’ll be using that honour system when we get there… but today is just a short, Monday reminder of expectations, and checking to see if you’re meeting them. We’ll cover the Ouchy Stick instructions later. Today’s Permissive Circumstance is simple; if you made it to the end of Day 10’s message and you’re hearing this now, you have my Permission. It means you already did Day 6 and you obediently fetched your stick. Your task for today is to describe your Ouchy Stick. Either in your journal, or to me… you can send a picture. You can write a poem… but if it’s a poem, I’m going to insist on a cinquain.C. I. N. Q. U. A. I. N.Google will likely be your friend on that one. See you tomorrow. The post Am I wasting my time? – Day 10 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 10, 20229 min

Slow down – Day 9

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for my submissive man. Welcome to Day 9. This one is going out a bit later because it’s meant for relaxation. Maybe even one to listen to as you’re unwinding, getting ready to fall asleep. Or perhaps you’ve just finished a fantastic shower. Still warm, damp. And just want to have that quiet, peaceful bit extend longer. I know that sometimes I’m guilty of… of needing speed in my life, of just the agony of being forced to slow down… like going into the shop and grabbing a few items, getting out to the checkout and then… the person in front of me has decided they have forgotten something and so they go to get it. Or there isn’t a price-tag.Or whatever else happens.It, yeah, I think that’s one of my personal hells. Now with that said… if you and I bumped into each other at a local park, I would chat with you about anything. Easily. Five minutes, ten minutes, more. With no problem. I guess it depends on whether or not there’s a task waiting. Oh, and speaking of tasks, there are none for today. There’s no homework. There are no clues, no puzzles, no Permissive Circumstances… awww… c’mon, cheer up. There’s just the stopping. So with me, for a moment, if you’re doing whatever else, I dunno… brushing your hair or organising your socks, or… or ummm, organising the toy drawer… do most people have a drawer? I want you to stop. Yep, that’s it. That simple. Whatever you’re doing, other than listening to me, stop doing that for a few moments. And now I want you to listen. Usually those background noises we just push away, and every time you push them away it helps you to focus more on me. You. Us. It takes you deeper. But for today, for our Day 9, I want you to see if you can pick out some background noises. Maybe a sound that’s always there, and has been so there, that you totally don’t hear it any more. For me, in my everyday life, where I’m standing right now, speaking to you, it’s the occasional car going past. It’s not loud enough to be picked up… usually not loud enough for you to hear. Once in a while a big old truck goes rumbling by… and it’s so consistent in my life that I often don’t hear it at all. And now I want you to look. You might have your eyes open already… I’m willing to bet they’re closed. Open your eyes. Now look for something dinky. Teensy-weensy. In your field of view. Okay, now find another thing. And one more. And yes, I know… stop, listen, look, is basically train-crossing advice, right? But just go with me on this… because these little details, these little things you can learn to pick out, they do enhance your creativity. And you know that I’m all about your creativity. So as you unwind for the evening, or maybe just unwind for an afternoon break… stopping, listening, looking at little details, it makes a difference, it truly does. Especially if you’re being creative with words, description. For instance, in my everyday life, in front of me, on the wall, is one of those teensy-weensy artworks. I don’t know if they’re as popular as they are, used to be, but… about the size of a business card. People would do like, original inks, or oil paintings on them, and I love them. I mean how amazing to have this teensy-weensy piece of art. I think I’m said teensy-weensy three times already, that is not a clue, a hint or a puzzle, so don’t try to remember that. Let you brain relax. Anyway… it’s hanging up over there. And because of the light that’s coming in through the side window, and the little piece of tape that’s holding it on has this glisten to it. And that has been my little detail that keeps catching my eye, is this glistening piece of tape. Probably because most people would notice the little piece of artwork, and maybe I’ve just admired that piece of artwork enough times that now it is the tape’s turn to shine. So after look would be touch and smell. This I want you to do by imagining me, sitting in front of you. My hair is dark, it’s long. Use touch by pulling your fingers through it. Almost as if you’re going to separate it for a braid. Comb your fingers through it, partitioning it out to having three separate bits. Now lean forward. Inhale. You know my scent. Good, isn’t it? This slowing down. You’re breathing slower than when we started… your heart rate is slower. Your mind is more relaxed. And I’m willing to bet you have a bit of a smile on your face. So that’s it for our Day 9. Just slowing you down. Enjoying the little things. Don’t worry, I’ll get back to teasing you and more tomorrow. But for today I just… needed… this quietness

Jan 9, 202211 min

Inner Resources – Day 8

Transcript I’m going to invite you to take yourself, in your mind, to that location that always feels wonderful. You know where it is, and it means it’s easy to go there with me, to the shared headspace. This same exercise, it’ll be used in an upcoming full-length session together. But I figured my dearest deserved a bit of a peek at it today. Familiarity means a session will easily take you deeper, and the effect stronger. All good things. So before you take yourself somewhere, I want you to take yourself into relaxation.Breath in for me. And out.In. Out.In. Out. Find a good rhythm for you. Maybe give yourself that shake, like the doggo coming out of the river. Hear me, be with me. Push out everything else, and let’s be together. So take yourself, in your mind, to a location in our shared headspace, that feels right. I can offer one that I have a special fondness for, but first, let me ask you to recite after me. Let’s see if you remember… if you know… repeat after me. “My name is…” do you know what is said next? “My name is…”And now… “My name is… I am bound to Elswyth.”“My name is… I am bound to Elswyth.”“My name is… I am bound to Elswyth.” Feel the pleasure of those words. Go on. Do it again.“My name is… I am bound to Elswyth.” And now come with me, to the spot that just feels good for me, today. In this gallery of sorts. This gallery of mine, it has a tapestry on the wall. Now my pet, you can choose any temperature for the room… any flooring under your feet, any sounds in the air, because none of that matters. It’s the tapestry that you’re focused on. See a light, it illuminates the image in front of you. Drink in that scene. A man, and a woman, a font of water. The closer you get to the image, the more you can concentrate and see every detail, one-by-one. The room that these figures stand in, it’s lit by candles. A circle of meagre flames growing into a hole, together, bathing the couple in light. You can see that the man’s eyes are closed. And you note that he is floating. Floating, just a bit above the ground, or the bed… and at peace. Safe. Secure. Exactly where he wants to be. And she, she is holding a cloth, washing his face, or perhaps drying it. What ritual has been performed? See the label on this tapestry? No artist is given, but the name of this work of art is easy to read. Just two words, etched into the gold label, in familiar handwriting; “My Prize”. A proud name for a piece of art. Art can be chiseled, painted, sculpted, made and remade until made just right. The gifts that I give to you, the word runes that keep you on the right path, memories made and remade, placed.. habits removed, added, tweaked. So choose now a favourite place of yours in this shared headspace. A dressing room? A training room? A chair? A bed? Kneeling near a drain… a warm, open room, with an inviting bathtub? Or are we outside and not in a room at all? Maybe a useful tree being useful? A bench, placed among the flowers. A walk up the hill. Find your place and be there for the next while, and then your task for today is to share it with me. I want to know where my pet finds himself when left to his own devices… and if you have found this place easily, and naturally, you’ve met today’s Permissive Circumstance for release. Enjoy yourself there. The post Inner Resources – Day 8 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 8, 20229 min

The Birth of Venus – Day 7

Today’s episode describes work of art, and a question:What is the single-word name of the gallery in which the described work is displayed?The answer can be used as a coupon code, earning you a 50% discount on both of my full-length sessions that focus on posing. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for my submissive man. Welcome to Day 7. First a little bit of housekeeping, by giving you the disclaimer, but I would call it a spoiler; you’re going to be un… clothed in today’s visualisation. Now, it’s not hypnosis, so if you’re in the park or on the train, or wherever, you’re not going to be stripping off all your clothes. But the image in your head head, it involves a bit of nudity. Sounds fun, right? Right, so let’s get started. Before I put that image in your head, we’re getting started with your breathing. Do you remember doing the Lion’s Breath with me before? It’s a pretty easy yoga breathing exercise… a lot of beginner’s learn it, so even if you didn’t learn it from me, you may know it from somewhere else in your everyday life. It’s relaxing, it’s fun, which is… which is why you probably always hear the smile in my voice whenever I mention it. All you do is this, okay?Take a deep inhale through your nose.Lean your head back.And breathe out, through the mouth, with your tongue out. Got it? It’s almost like one of those lion statues with their tongues out?Okay… breathe in again, through the nose.Lean the head back.And out. Breath out, tongue out. And one more time. You know the steps, go on.In.Back.Out. How nice is that? Stimulating, right?And now let’s take in one more breath.This one, slow… and you don’t have to tilt your head back.Just breathe out, blowing out.Blowing out like that West Wind. The Zephyr.Out. That’s it. The air around you, in this visualisation of ours, as I walk you into a certain pose.. the air around it tastes as sharp as it kind-of feels against your bare skin. It’s briny. This briny air, now I know that the ocean and the beach isn’t always where we go to for visualisations. It has been a little overdone, right? Spa music and so on, they all want you to be at the beach, but okay… you’re going to keep that in mind for this. There’s no hand sand, under your bare feet. Instead, the hard, wavy texture of something… I can’t give it all away here, can I? I mean, let’s pretend that this is like… this is this version of a rug. So there you are standing on something hard, and wavy. Your feet are bare. The air is briny. The west wind, zephyr, blowing. And you’re nude. Vulnerable. Your right hand, it covers your chest. Pretend to be a pretty maiden, clinging to her modesty, if it helps. Can you guess where the other hand goes? Come on, pretty maiden, who’s naked and modest. Right, it goes between the legs, covering what’s there… how does that feel? And this is made easier because your hair has magically grown long. So long and wavy, or kind of smooth and straight, it varies… and it reaches down below your waist. And keep those legs close together, especially your thighs, wit your weight mostly on your left leg. Got it? Got this pose? Oh, and one of the Horai, they’re nearby, and waiting to drape this mantle around you to help with that modesty issue. Have you guessed it already? How long did it take you to realise, my silly dearest, that you are not a statue at all. Instead, you’re immortalised in a magnificent painting that hangs on the wall in… I think Firenze. I could be wrong. Wait. No, I’m right. Oh wait, no no… you would not be in Firenze at all, hanging on somebody else’s wall in a gallery. You would be on my wall. Right? Maybe a cleverly cut, recess where you can be in with a frame around? Ooh… I like that. Because my love, you would be heartsick and lonely without me. You’re meant to be displayed, near me. And I know you enjoy posing for me. If you haven’t memorised all of the slave positions yet, be sure to do so. They need to be handy. Go read today’s note and follow the instructions if you still don’t have them nestled as a word rune. The Permissive Circumstance for today is there. You have my Permission, only if you do so while draped in cloth. It can be your bedsheet, or a towel, I don’t care… but naked otherwise, right? And your homework… your task for today is to make sure you have those positions handy, and go forward and practice them. Good boy. The post The Birth of Venus – Day 7 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 7, 20229 min

I endure for Elswyth – Day 6

Links If you hear me talk about Sensation Play with Three Objects in today’s session, and want to know more about it, you can find it in the shop! Transcript This transcript is provided as a reference. If you haven’t listened to the episode already, then it’s not for you. This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 6. Now today is not going to be for my anti-masochism crowd at all. Sorry about that. But with the talk about canes and toys and some of the other interesting conversations going on, I thought maybe we would do a teensy-weensy bit of play along those lines. Go ahead, for a moment… find comfort, right? Shake it out, whatever works for you. My go-to tends to be, wiggle my head, wiggle my shoulders, wiggle down through my hips, and through my legs. Just something about this whole-body-wiggle, is very like… “Okay”, it’s very like, oh man… I hate to describe myself this way, but the puppy-play enthusiasts will probably love it; you know? And well, you also know how much I love my doggos. Anyway. So, imagine you are a… dog… in the river. A warm river. I’m not going to subject you to the British ones right now. And you come out, right? So this weight of the water is just on you, and that weight for today, that’s just the mundane. Whatever you’ve been wading through so far, that’s been on you. And then you just shake. Imagine almost in slow motion how dogs do it, and it just flings everywhere. That. Give yourself a shake. Good Puppy. Did that give you a tingle? So, shaking all that off, let’s talk, just a quick moment about “why”. So why sadism, and why masochism? Obviously there is that give and take, that exchange of power, with me. Giving me that power, to inflict upon you, whatever I need, for us, to feel good. I love giving you good things. This practice. This play. When done right, it has a lot in common with our Femdom, our hypnosis, sessions. It lets you find that submissive float. That alternative state of consciousness. It is relaxation once you’re able to do it. And there is that meditation, especially when we get to the point when it’s just… sensation. Hit. Touch. Slap. Pinch.Over and over. A nice spanking, with a rhythm.Hit, hit, hit. And you find that breath. You find that thought. And time goes. Any kind of resistance goes. Your body gets flooded. Totally flooded with all of those hormones that make you feel so good. And we connect. We connect in a way that’s so different, and so hard to explain to others, but why would we fucking care to explain ourselves to others? Right? Because we, are we. And others are others. And those shadows, they’re so easy to ignore. So right now, I want you to practice a bit of endurance. With one hand, I want you to pinch the skin between the thumb and forefinger of the other hand. Find that skin there, that webbing there… and pinch it. However hard you pinch is kind of up to you. You are on the honour system here. Keep doing so. And now I want you to do it while finding your breath. Breath in. Two three four.Out. Two three four five.In. Two three four.Out. Two three four five.In. Two three four.Out. Two three four five. Keep pinching. And now let’s try finding your centre with words.“I endure for Elswyth.”“I endure for Elswyth.”“I endure for Elswyth.”“I endure for Elswyth.”“I endure for Elswyth.” Okay. You can stop now, if you want. We have a longer playtime coming up, so… my dear masochist, or masochist in training, you will be able to perfect that enduring for me. But I want you to revisit today again, and keep going. Practice centring with the breath, or practice centring with your words. Perhaps change that thumb and forefinger pinch with an ouchy-stick, found outside or at a craft or hardware store. Or maybe, and this is your Permissive Circumstance for today, maybe use a handy hairbrush, that’s eager to find your inner thigh. If you’ve ever done so, you have my permission for release today. And your homework? Your homework is to take yourself outside, assuming you haven’t done this already because I know some of my long-term listeners and followers, I know you’ve done the Sensation Play with the three objects… but if you don’t have an ouchy-stick… and remember it can be little. Not everything has to be big, thick, long… little and skinny can be okay too. I want you to go out and find one. That’s it for today. Well done. Well done on taking that for me. The post I endure for Elswyth – Day 6 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 6, 202210 min

Day-Words – Day 5

Links Today a new MCF can be found on the Mind Control Fragments page. You can listen to the full playlist, or download just the “Eye Contact Induction”, the new Fragment, and the Awakener and make a short playlist for yourself. An old favourite MCF returned today by request, that ties in with the wonderful Under the Table full-length session! Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 5, dear. Isn’t it nice to be here? Did you say or mouth the words “Yes Darling.” instinctively? If not, maybe you need to go back to Day 4. And don’t worry, it’ll come to you eventually. The so-called Day-Words. Do you know what I mean? The Day-Words? It’s like the so-called Day-Collar. The collar that looks like a necklace… a bracelet, a cuff. Or perhaps even ink, etched into your skin. That collar, that symbol, the passable one. The one that passes in the middle of a crowd, or while we’re playing board games with friends. Or that sun-kissed day at the beach. “I think you’ve had enough dear.”“Yes, Darling.” and you stop. It’s almost like magic how well that training works. Before we talk more about dear, and Darling, I want you to find your breath for me. Let’s do that today with box-breathing. We can do fives, I promise, you’re not going to end up spread out on the floor. So breathe in, two three four five.Hold, two three four five.Out, two three four five.Wait. In, two three four five.Hold.Out.Wait. In.Hold.Out.Wait. In.Hold.Out.There. Keep your breath going. Deeper than normal, but still comfortable. And now I want you to find your position for me. You can do this for your everyday reality, or up in your imagination. So you’re standing, tall. Your right arm a few inches away from your body. The elbow bent. If you must, you can imagine doing the chicken dance just with the right arm, and make that chicken wing. Now be still, so that my left hand is placed on your forearm. Perhaps the sidewalk is icy, or I have on heels and we’re going down my favourite staircase, in my favourite hotel. Whatever. My hand on your arm. Does your left hand instinctively cross to be placed on my hand? Close. Secure. This walk, together. My gentleman during the day, happy, eager, creative, kind. And a whole list of other things, of course. My slave during the night, eager, happy, willing, open. Of course the day isn’t always day, and the night isn’t always night. The day can be at 11PM after a long day, when I need my almost-vanilla gentleman, and not my desperately horny submissive. Of course, you’re you, and those things do mingle together. The same one who whispers the naughty thought into my ear, can also hold the flowers bought “just because”. Today’s Permissive Circumstance is this; if you woke up, thinking about me, you have my Permission. And your task? Well my dear, your task for today is to enjoy the new MCF made for you. It’s over on the website, and just in case you’re unfamiliar with how to use the MCF’s, be sure to read the note on it. Just look on today’s post. And that’s it, for our Day 5. I hope you’ve been paying attention, because pretty soon you’re going to be quizzed on a particular phrase used, in the other days… and you’ll get to use that phrase, that cleverness of yours, to unlock more. The post Day-Words – Day 5 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 5, 20227 min

Terms of endearment – Day 4

Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day Four. You really got quite the thrill out of that Sets of Three Affirmation session, didn’t you? Tingles, shivers, in all the right places. I know which words to say to you to get to you. But let’s get back to talking about this new year, right? I’ve made the resolution to get more use out of my cane. I have a pretty fantastic one, I mean it’s simple, like; it can be in the corner and… most people probably wouldn’t figure out what it is. They would probably assume it has something to do with my love of houseplants, right? Well the cane it was a birthday gift. I’ve had it for over a year and I love it. It makes a great noise and makes wonderful lines, but… it hasn’t performed as much as I’d like. And so my plan, starting with the New Year of course, was to use it every day. And yeah, that means I’m up to today, Day Four. I’m being gentle-ish. I’m a really good judge of what people can handle… anyway… January First, well that was just one stroke, in the evening. Two on January Second, and you can guess how that goes. Building up slowly seems to be a good approach and y’know, I’m taking the same approach to this, I guess, “Season” of the podcast. I’m excited about some of the sessions I want to release soon, and working up to ten, twenty, thirty strokes too. Don’t worry too much about the target that I’m practicing on. You know it’s never your jealousy that I want. You can envy… I mean, envy’s alright. Right? Though when it comes to sharing and emotions, the love and all of those things, I just like to keep it out of that box that other people seem to throw it in to. Yesterday’s Sets of Three Affirmations, well they make the very firm point that I expect a certain degree of receptiveness and openess. Willingness, of course, to try things… and there’s a game that I like to play with that attitude in mind. My subtle… I can be subtle! My subtle way of providing a hint that my pet should be particularly enthusiastic about a suggestion is a sweet, little, friendly nickname… “dear”. Oh dear… wouldn’t it be nice, dear, to visit some place together? Wouldn’t it be nice, dear, to wear this? Wouldn’t it be nice dear to feel the cane on your thighs, to know you’re giving me so much joy? Letting me have this time to spend on you? Creating those deliberate lines? And when you hear “dear”, you’ll be filled with confidence. You’ll be reminded of your trust in me. You’ll know how much I need what I’m asking from you. Know how much I want you, to agree with me… and surrender. And you’ll say “Yes, Darling.” Go ahead. Let’s practice that. Let’s breathe in to the count of four. In…And breathe out; say “Yes, Darling.” In… two three four.And out; “Yes, Darling.” In… two three four.And out; “Yes, Darling.” In… two three four.And out; “Yes, Darling.” Your homework for today is to practice a little bit of romance. I want you to make a list of a dozen terms of endearment. You can do that. And then your Personal Circumstance… it’s if you can do that dozen in under one minute. You have my Permission. The post Terms of endearment – Day 4 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 4, 20227 min

Sets of three – Day 3

Links Read to try your luck with today’s clue? Go download Sets of Three Affirmations from the shop. If you need another hint, you might get something out of my latest post on Patreon. Transcript This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for the submissive man. Welcome to Day 3. Today will have a couple of things that play with “three”, including your task, which is going to lead you over to the “Sets of Three Affirmations”. Before we get into that, and you have to put your thinking cap on, I want you to find a comfortable position. A comfortable, yet one that I’ll enjoy seeing you in. Come on, you can shift. Be a little bit more on display. Breathe in to the count of three.One, two, three… hold… and out.One, two, three… breathe in, one, two, three, and out.One, two three. In again. One, two, three.And… out. One, two, three. Go ahead and continue at your own peaceful, relaxing rhythm. Bonus points if you stick to a count of three, or similar. Six. Nine. Twelve, twenty-seven. I mean, how crazy are you going to get? No passing out, because I do have important things to tell you. So in that comfortable position of yours, still breathing away, I want you to tilt your face up. Chin up a bit. Head back. Imagine yourself as a three-leaf clover. Oh, no pouting. Do you really think you’ve really reached four-leaf clover status yet? So there you are, my three-leaf clover, face turned up to the sun. Imagine some roots going down… can you feel that? Keeping you grounded. What’s nourishing them? Who is nourishing them? Maybe imagine a little bit of rain just sprinkling down upon you. This one little cloud that floated across the sun, just to pour down some raindrops on your adorable face. Take another deep breath in. This time, to six. And if you’re able, I want you to exhale all the way out to nine. Continue breathing. And now my dearest, you can change that rain shower, maybe to a regular shower. Whatever it is that throws you back to human form. Put on that thinking cap. And know that your task for today is pretty damn simple, but… but it still requires that you know a bit about me, which you should by now. Your task for today is you will go to the website; Spoken by Elswyth dot-com. And you can look for today’s post or follow the link in the show-notes. And there you’ll see the Sets of Three Affirmations. They are free, if… if you use the code, and now the code, the code for you should be so easy to work out because I’ve made the clue simple. In all lowercase letters, write out my favourite day of the week. The one that I always say that I just love. You can do that, right? I’m sure you know it, just like that. And your personal circumstance for today? Welp… there’s none. You can wait ’til tomorrow. And I especially love knowing that you, my patient, obedient boy, will be waiting ’til tomorrow after hearing those affirmations. A set or two are definitely on the naughtier side, but that’s fine, right? You love anticipation. And I will say, if you are hopelessly stuck and can’t figure it out that there will be a clue, a blatant clue placed on Patreon. As we progress through these days together, these little puzzles they’ll definitely get harder. But because I’m good to you, and I love to give you good things, there will almost always be an extra clue. The post Sets of three – Day 3 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 3, 20227 min

As you mean to go on – Day 2

Links It’s still early enough in the year to begin your YearCompass. Transcript This transcript is provided as a reference. If you haven’t listened to the episode already, then it’s not for you. This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom podcast with authentic hypnosis and useful training for submissive man. Welcome to Day 2. Yesterday I said you would need to have your thinking cap on for today. Remember that? Well let’s go ahead and get you ready to be open, accepting, clever maybe? I want you to start by just moving your hands. Twirling your wrists around, one way, another. Taking a good, deep breath in. Really feeling it go throughout you, and exhale. And again, with breathing in… maybe rolling your shoulders, or your neck. And out. Breathing in, deeply again, filling yourself. And exhale. Continue breathing in deeper than normal. Exhaling slower than you normally would. If you’re standing, you can wiggle those hips around. Yeah, even if you’re around other people. Nobody’s going to notice; be brave. As we’re entering into this new year, you’re going to find that my focus is on you. You want to be mine. You want to know exactly what makes my heart sing. What I find attractive. Irresistible. What I want to claim, as mine. Keep as mine. Train as mine. Maybe give it a scrub here and there, to start over again because I do love that. It’s almost like a Monday; washing you clean, and then filling you back up again. A fresh start. I want you to have your hands in front of you. Palms up. How does that feel? Like you’re ready to receive? Receive training, instruction, good things… and you do remember where all good things come from, don’t you? My clever one. Well, although I told you you need to have that thinking cap on, you actually don’t. Not for today… I mean, some level of thinking is usually required, right? I want your creativity. So perhaps you did the New Years Resolution thing, right? So let’s see… run two miles daily. Five AM wake-ups. Dump the evening drinking. Give up the sugar, increase the water, whatever… Did you, as someone who so wants to belong to me, did you leave space for creativity? The new hobby; maybe read 52 books this year, have that goal? Or improve upon a hobby? Or maybe, just writing a very lovely New Year’s note to your Mistress. Hmmm? How lovely was it? I wished you a Happy New Year. Do you think you can improve upon that note? If so, that’s the task for today. Your Personal Circumstance is something a bit different. You have two options. One; if you know that the note you sent came from the heart, it could not be improved upon, then you have my permission for release today. Or two; if you had some special tingles in a special place when I told you how to hold your hands, well you definitely have my permission for today. Before we go, before we wrap up our day 2 together, I want you to find your breath again. Breathing in. Maybe hold, and breathe out again. And continue on with that, breathing in, and out. And I want you to reflect on a few of these things. They are taken from the Year Compass, so maybe you did them already. But in this spot, where improving you, also mingles together with teasing you, let’s see what that brain of you, that mind, my playground, comes up with. First, this year I will not procrastinate any more over… what? You know what it is. It came to you instantly. This year I will draw the most energy from… now isn’t that a good one? This year I will be bravest when… This year I will say yes when… now that one, that one my dear, that is fucking easy, isn’t it? I will say yes when my Mistress requires it. I will say yes when my owner calls for me. I will say yes when my Goddess wants my worship. This year, I advise myself to… This year will be special for me because… And now one more. One more really good, deep breath in. And then a forceful exhale. All of it out. Clearing it out. Being ready and making space for more. The post As you mean to go on – Day 2 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 2, 202210 min

The Year Calendar – Day 1

Links If you’d like to start your year compass, you can find it here. I printed mine out, because I enjoy having a physical object for something of this sort:https://yearcompass.com/ The post The Year Calendar – Day 1 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Jan 1, 20222 min

Eunoia (December 15th) – The Spirit of Christmas

In this episode I make a mental list of John Cusack movies to rewatch. Transcript If you find yourself reading these transcriptions instead of using your ears, then allow me to grab you by yours… that’s right, I’ll grab you by your ear, and lead you to wherever you left your headphones. Especially if your name is “xenboy”. Today is Wednesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon, or through the form on the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included. First off, a welcome to the newest member of the Happy Harem through Patreon. Welcome to JJ. JJ, I think, is the name of a guy that always knows where to find the party… and usually doesn’t have a ride to get there. If I’m way off the mark, JJ, just let me know. I’ve had some feedback on the Prissy’s Chores sessions. Now for some of you, you’re like… hey “Where’s that session?” I typically release things first on Patreon, that way my lovely Harem can listen to it first and pick up if there’s anything that needs a bit of tweaking. The feedback on this one is quite positive, which is typical. And, I especially like this… Vince; he let me know that he was excited that it appeared on his cleaning day. Serendipity. Wait, now I feel like writing in books. Okay, does anyone else love that movie? I haven’t seen it in ages, oh, but that is my kind of a love story. So, for… oh, before I get to today’s homework, I was just going to jump right ahead there, and I do love today’s homework, but let’s go back a bit. I have had people asking me, in the spirit of giving, as Christmas is getting closer, about gifts. Now, I love the things that come to me off my wish-list. I don’t mention it all the time, but they’re nice. They’re wonderful little surprises when they come in the mail. But, I figured I would do something that’s a gift for me, a possible gift for you, and is also playful and fun. Almost in the spirit of the white elephant presents in that you don’t quite know what you’re going to get. Okay, so… in the first and possibly only time ever I am going to base this on money. And… luck. You know this is generally not me, at all. The ones that have been with me from the very beginning, what was it? We had these little goals set of upgrading the microphone, and then upgrading the Scarlett, and so on and so forth right? The desk, and the mouse, it just goes on. It was the steady building of our Spoken by Elswyth, together, which was very much with those early people, just in there with me. So for this one, I do have a couple of things I want. I have started actually going to an actual gym. I am one of those sanctimonious people that do it in the morning, when it’s still dark. I think you get extra virtue points if you get up when it’s dark, to go do shit. So that… man if someone wants to go crazy and buy me a ticket to go back to the States to see my Dad, I would love that too. But it doesn’t look like travel’s happening any time soon. Anyway, all of that aside, we’re going to do this just for fun, okay? So… it doesn’t matter how much it is. I’m not setting a minimum or anything like that. It does have to be over, just the typical Patreon amount, I can tell you that. Becuase if you’re new to Patreon, you can kind of set how much you give. The tier is set as a certain amount, but you can give over that. And people do. And what you’ll get, for the person who pledges the most, this month… and I’m sorry it’s still limited to that Happy Harem number of 100. I’m not sure what I’m sitting at right now. And that first amount will not count for new pledges, because that’s kind of unfair, right? It has to be above it. So for the person who pledges the most, before the end of December, you will get a 30-45 minutes, depending on the content and the flow and how that all goes, private, recorded, personalized session from me. Now, it can be any Femdom topic. It could be any hypnotherapist topic. It can be pretty taboo, but it can’t be illegal. If you want me to make you piss yourself, that’s fine. If you want me to make you piss yourself on the subway, that’s not fine. That one is taken from the headlines, by the way. If you want tucked in, in something cozy, sure. If you want a love story, okay… you want seduced, you want evil seductress, whatever, sure. You want wax dripped on you, just… come over some time because I like doing that in person. I love colourful wax, so much. Wax play isn’t really about being sadistic, it is about art and colours, and sounds. Okay, so that’s it. So for the month of December, the person who pledges the most over the normal tier amou

Dec 15, 20219 min

Eunoia (10th December)

In this instalment I request acts of veneration. Transcript Today is Friday. Fri-yay! Does that ever get old? I don’t think so. Uh, and this is Eunoia… Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions. So, yesterday we talked about senses, you got to go to the concert hall. It was a wonderful experience, right? I mean… we could really dress that one up to be a fantastic Femdom experience. I like taking a handsome man out. But anyway, yesterday Robert sent in his homework and he wins as an overachiever. I mean, not only did he list out quite a few sessions and what sensory experience he prefers, and how they… kind-of… worked… for him. And he did tell me how different ones worked better than others, that was fun. And shared his preferences for sensory experience while still being oh so very charming and polite, and acknowledging that Mistress is always right. He shared how he tweaks some of the visualisations to be movement based, because that is what sings to him. If it’s water that I’m describing, he feels the waves, the pressure, the water against his body, and his body rocking and moving. If it’s a candle flickering, he chooses to feel the varying amount of heat, like against his skin. Anyway, I really enjoyed the glimpse into your brain, Robert, and knowing how you’re using our playtime together. So tomorrow, Saturday, a new session will be released. Make sure you look out for that one. Your homework today, it’s to spend some quality time on your knees. It can be with an MCF, or another session. You can even listen to Eunoia again, listen to yesterday’s, go back to that concert hall… or simply turn on some music. I’d recommend something short, over like… Appalachian Spring, but hey, you do you. And then tell me about it. Your Permissive Circumstance, well, it’s so easy because it’s all within your control. As long as you whisper, or shout, or moan, or hell just repeat in a monotone, my name, during your playtime… you have my Permission. Now isn’t that generous of me? Okay… get on with your day, and I will see you tomorrow for our new session together. The post Eunoia (10th December) appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Dec 10, 20213 min

Eunoia (9th November) – Senses Visualisation

In this episode the circling helicopters might have finally found me. Transcript Today is Thursday, and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of those Femdom Hypnosis sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon, or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the listen section and continue on to Obey for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, etcetera. For today we’re talking about the eight sesnse. It should come as no surprise that people experience the sessions that we have in different ways. There are highly visual people that can recreate elaborate settings in their mind. While others, they prefer to focus on the sensation of breath and relaxation. So there are eight senses. Truly… well, at least eight? Right? Do you know them… I can hope you can easily rattle off at least five! I’ll give you a moment to think about it while you breathe. We’ll do my favourite box-breathing. Breathing in to four, holding for four, out for four, and my apologies if you can hear the crazy helicopter overhead… there it goes, but it keeps circling, so… I don’t know what they’re doing. So it’s either, deal with helicopter noise or never get the Eunoia out. But we can ignore distractions, can’t we? And you can always focus on me. So breathe in to four. Hold for four. Out for four. Wait for four. In, two, three, four. Hold, two, three, four. Out, two, three, four. Wait, two, three, four. In, two, three, four. Hold, two, three, four. Out, two, three, four. Wait, two, three, four. Go on and continue if you’d like, or find the breathing pattern that works for you. So imagine the sound of a throng of people just talking, moving around. And y’know… masses large enough to let these sounds kind of mingle in together. There’s a piercing discordance of two, three, more voices that’s cutting through the sound of the gathered people. More tones join this and blend and swirl together, each rising and falling, but as yet with none discernible. And now follow me here, and you’re sitting. You have a comfortable texture of a well-tailored shirt on. Your arm is already around the shoulder of the person next to you. Holding them close. And then you smell… a little bit of a cloud maybe, of perfume, or cologne, maybe that lovely Black Opium. Or the fantastic cologne that I’m not going to share the name of… and this smell it came from somewhere behind you as someone passes and then moves along. There’s the sound now, or the orchestra, because that’s what it is and where you are. It’s become progressively more pleasing and tuneful as they reach some consensus. They are joined by the occasional rumble of deep and rolling percussion, underpinning the now harmonious sounds the musicians are producing. The room, it darkens steadily. The warm lights over the audience dim, and together these many people… they take their cue to quiet. Even as some still shuffle, soft-shoed, seeking seats. So your homework for today is I want you to think about how you’re using your senses in everyday life, and in the sessions. Which resonate with you? The sensation play and so on that we go with. Which ones just make your body sing? And how do you twist the sessions that might not use your favourite way? That way they still work for you. That’s your homework; you can share it with me, or not. You can literally go about your day, thinking about these eight senses and being aware that you’re experiencing them. As I described the concert hall to you, I used five out of eight senses. Once you can put a name to two that didn’t feature, you have my Permission today. If you can’t already name eight senses, well… then you might have some reading to do. It’s always good to learn something new, and I’ll see you tomorrow. The post Eunoia (9th November) – Senses Visualisation appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Dec 9, 20218 min

Eunoia (December 7th) – Oat-Based Motivation

In this episode I share just the tip of some elf-related fantasies. Links If you aren’t a Patron, and you want to know more about PTTFO, you can find it here. Transcript Today is Tuesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the first half, and then continue on to Obey for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, and so on. Alright, so… today we are going to welcome in three new Happy Harem members, so hello to David, and to Alex, and Joep. I always love having new Patrons come in, partly because I like to find out how you found me. I think that’s one of the most fun parts. So for David, he mentioned that the MCF’s on Youtube are what led him to me, and hopefully David you found that the rest of the Mind Control Fragments, they’re on the website. I kinda lost the love for posting everything up on Youtube. I am liking this new software that throws the things over there, so I am going ahead and doing that. My apologies-ish to those of you who leave the YouTube comments, and I don’t always get back to you. I do if you send me a message, through Patreon or the website, I’m pretty good about that. I confess… you know how there’s certain websites that you just don’t get on with? I know people who never get on Facebook, and others who can’t stand Reddit, or whatever else. And I know that Youtube has all this great content that people really enjoy. Here and there, you know, I will look, but overall there is just something about how cluttered it all is that I don’t like… so that’s why I’m really bad at the comments. But as my Happy Harem can attest, I am really great… really great at getting back to you guys when you send me a message you know, through Patreon or just through the email or what-not. That’s why I limit my Happy Harem members to a hundred because getting to know you is vital to, y’know… playing with you. So hopefully David you will find the rest of those Mind Control Fragments. I haven’t made a new one in a little while. I think it might just be due to the schedule, so I’m looking at perhaps releasing them in the middle of the week instead. Getting my Monday back to being my “I love Mondays” and Eunoia, and the Mind Control Fragments going in on a different day. Meanwhile, Alex asked about the PTTFO… remember what the F stands for? And I know are a few other sessions Patrons haven’t been able to find, so… I actually have a happy little elf who… I kinda wish was dressed like an elf. Who wants to be my elf? Seriously, put your hands up if you’d be willing. The whole thing; the little shoes with the bells on them, the tights that show off everything… what else would my elf wear? Oh… a hat. Yeah, I think that’s it. I have a happy little elf working on tracking those down to make those easily available. As you know, I’m currently trudging through that part of the year when I have to get up well before the sunshine… so here’s my spot of happiness because I fucking love summer here because as like 4:45AM the birds are like “Yeah! It’s morning!” and they start singing, the sun is up, you have daytime for ages, and it’s brilliant. And I obviously need to have a second home somewhere else so that when winter creeps in I can just go have summer again. But no snakes. No poisonous snakes. If there’s non-poisonous snakes I’m actually kinda okay with that. I don’t care about spiders whatsoever, that’s fine. No snakes that would be my only rule. I’ve been… it really actually is morning, it’s 10:08AM here (London time) I’m just kind of giggly, I think I’ve had too much coffee. I’ve had too much shopping. I’m excited about Christmas and I’m hoping most of you guys are as well. And here’s my other happy spot… so here we go. So because I’m getting up before the sun, I have to get out with the doggos in the morning, I have a new ally in this fancy bakery-coffee-shop thing that just opened up not too far from me. And who will make me an oak… not oak… an oat… we’ll see if that gets edited out or not. Will make me an oat-milk latte or cappuccino… so by the time I get home, it’s the perfect thing to help me warm up my fingers and start typing… do something useful or maybe something fun. So that’s been a reason to stay here this winter. And thank you so much to Raymond for this lovely recipe book that arrived from my wishlist. I love so many of the things in this… it’s a Mediterranean Vegetarian cook book, but it’s not like… 50 ingredients per recipe. I know I have some harem-members wh

Dec 7, 20219 min

Eunoia (December 3rd) – Spelling Bees and Covered Knees

In this episode I share some Affirmations from the hat. Links The “Prissy” Blushing Sissy Maid Trigger Setting is now available in the shop. Transcript Today is Friday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about our connection between us, outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included. So, first of all let’s start with welcoming our newest Happy Harem members. We have Niccolo and… okay, I don’t know if this is actually supposed to be Arthur, or Artur. I have a knack for mispronouncing names. And because you all are so very lovely, I usually get very gentle reminders of how to say them correctly. Anyway, I appreciate that. I think it’s probably why I didn’t do shout-outs for the longest time. I guess I could just rename you all. I could have like… Pete Number One, Pete Number Two, Pete Number Three. Which number Pete do you want to be? Let me know. Oh, for the Hugge… some misheard that word, and went for “Hoohak”. Yeah, I gotta be honest with you, sitting in that dimly lit, smoke-filled room it’s not really my thing. And… I could do a steam room. Okay, if you are up for sitting in a dimly-lit steam room with me, let me know… because that… that counts as Hugge. And through the Tell Me Good Things form I saw… you guys, oh my goodness, I saw so many bizarre spellings. So many. Anyway, H. U. G. G. E. There you go. My condolences by the way, to Teaseme… who was a little further south in Spain. If I ever wish to be kind while testing your spelling I’ll be sure to include a definition. We’ll have one of those old-fashioned spelling bees, where the word is said two-three times and used in a sentence. We’ll do that. Oh, these last few days have also been a flood of messages about people’s desires to hear more about Prissy. Over on Patreon, Andrew shared his thanks and he said this… “Perhaps it’s your silky, sexy voice that’s so enticing, but I found myself in a local store, looking for pantyhose to wear. Now I don’t know if this is due to Prissy having such a lowly status, or my own slutty mind, but the first pair I picked up were fishnet tights. Eventually I left with three different pairs and currently enjoying wearing a pair of black, smooth pantyhose as I write this.” Well done, Andrew. Now that we’re getting into to Obey part of today’s Eunoia, I want you to take a moment, do that scan from your head down to those toes, find a spot that just feels… good… to release. Maybe if you’re standing it’s like… hula-hooping those hips around? If you’re sitting, perhaps on the train or a bus or whatnot, just tilt your head side-to-side. Take a good breath in. And let it back out. And do that again, because if it was good the first time, it’ll be good the second time, right? Good, deep breath in… and out again. So, your homework for today are affirmations to repeat aloud, or to meditate on. I’ve had affirmations coming my way, so I’m just kind of… being like that… well, I guess it wouldn’t be a Bingo Caller, I was going to say, you know… just someone who kind of rifles their hand around in the hat and pulls a couple out, that’s what we’re doing, okay? So the first one is this; I’m hot as fuck. Now that one’s good, isn’t it? I’m hot as fuck. If you’re alone you could like… shout it. That could be fun. I accept my body. I deserve pleasure in my life. My body has needs that deserve to be heard. I surround myself with authentic people. Sexual pleasure is a gift that I can give myself. So for today’s Permissive Circumstance you have my permission if you meditate on one, or all, of those affirmations, and focus on them as you seek release. You can write them down, pick a favourite, your choice… and I’ll see you tomorrow, Saturday, for a session release, and then fingers crossed things go well for Monday for another Mind Control Fragment. The post Eunoia (December 3rd) – Spelling Bees and Covered Knees appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Dec 3, 20217 min

Eunoia (November 30th) – Happy Harem Heights and Christmas Lights

In this instalment I disappoint at least someone by admitting that I don’t have a dentistry fetish. Links My Patrons are enjoying the third (and final? maybe?) Maid Trigger Setting. This will be released generally in a few days, when the first adventure of my Prissy Sissy maid becomes available. There’s still some time to get 35% off everything in the shop with this coupon code: CyberMonday21 Transcript Today is Tuesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all abou the connection between us outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the Listen section. And then you know the drill… continue on to Obey for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, and so on. Okay, so; you know how when you’re going to have something done everybody has to tell you their horror story? I knew I was going to end up with this crazy root canal, and I’ve never had like… any major dentist thing ever. Anyway, everybody wanted to tell me their crap and it’s like “No… no thank you! I don’t want to dwell there.” I just hate the horror stories, anyway… so it wasn’t too bad, I don’t really reccomend it for a fun time, then again I’m not a masochist so who knows? But it’s, yeah… it hasn’t been too bad. I just, you might notice, I’m talking a little bit funny because I’m just trying to make sure that my teeth just don’t clack together in an unpleasant way. Something you don’t really think about until you spend too much time thinking about your teeth. Anyway, so… that’s what was going on, you did not, oh my poor dears, you did not get an MCF. But, I will make it up to you. You know I like to give you good things. Oh, speaking of good things, welcome in to Jay, James, Shane and Daniel. That makes ninety-six, so… ninety-six coming up to the end of November, that ain’t bad, right? If you plan to get in on my training spots for January, make sure you grab yourself one of those last four spots. So the Black Friday/Cyber Monday, I wasn’t quite sure if I was gonna bother, but you know… I’ve got Bunny and some marketing people and they know how lackadaisical I can be about some of this, so… anyway… I threw that out there and actually, it was so much fun. I, ummm… yeah. I like it because a flurry of downloads and things like that happen, so I’m able to actually see what people are gravitating towards, and let me just say, there are a lot of maids in training out there. And I know I keep mentioning January and yeah, we’re not even in December yet… yes my Christmas tree is up! But lots of my dear Happy Harem members they’ve told me that they are pretty swamped. Like the latter half of December, whether it’s y’know… travel to go over the river and through the woods… I forget how the rest of that song goes. Or it’s some people having some much needed holiday, and for a few of my… a few of my poor dears, they’re basically just owned by their employers. I think a lot of people are stuck being on call. So, with all of that in mind, I’m just kind of looking at what we’re doing through December to get us to the best start for January, for that 2022… I know that I’m starting with those affirmations. I love affirmations and you guys love to send me affirmations. I especially like out kind of affirmations. So for this weekend we’re going to have a public session that’s going out. It’s going to deal with all about this holiday season while keeping in sight who you are, what you want to be, and so on… it’s going to be a blend of your everyday life, and our shared reality. Don’t worry, it’s not going to be about mundane guilt… nor is it just about self-help, whatever. It’s a real talk between a Mistress and her man. So I want you to take a moment, and just shake everything out. Right, roll your shoulders up… back… down… how good does that feel? This onw simple thing. One simple act, bringing pleasure to you. Take a breath in to four. And breathe out to five. In again to four. And out again to five. Good job, breathe normally. Go ahead and maybe roll your hands around, stretching out your wrists. We can do your head too, stretching your neck, maybe clockwise circles… counter-clockwise… Your homework for today is to spend some time saying goodbye to November. Maybe write down some things you loved about the month. Maybe send a text to a friend, a family member, somebody who needs to hear from you. Tell them some of the stuff you enjoyed this month. Depending on the friend you may or may not want to mention what we play with. And then ask them… ask them what you enjoyed about their November. And then get ready to say hello

Nov 30, 202111 min

Almost Eunoia (November 25th) – Black Friday and Pink Saturday

In this short-but-sweet episode I find the time to reflect on the fact that Black Friday has crossed the pond. Even I have a Black Friday coupon code: BlackFriday21 for 35% off anything and everything in the shop. It works today and for the rest of the month, because I couldn’t decide what time-zone to set it for. The new Maid Training trigger setting will be available on Saturday. I’ll allow you some time to get used to being my Prissy before putting out the first session. That one’s written and recorded, it’s a frivolous and rewarding experience that I’ll tell you more about on the weekend. Links If you can’t wait for the weekend and want to begin your Maid Training today, the Margaret Trigger Setting is free in the shop. The story of hosting a decadent dinner party with Pixie can be found in Under the Table. Transcript Hey everyone, this is almost a Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. It’s for this week, leading up to Thanksgiving, which… hopefully, those that celebrate have great plans in the works. Those that don’t celebrate you can pretend to be American for a day, right? Maybe do a friends-giving and enjoy that. It does seem like all around the world, even if you’re not doing Thanksgiving, all these companies are jumping on the Black Friday bandwagon. I have no idea why. Here in the UK we have Boxing Day, maybe that’s enough? Anyway, just saying this week.. bit crazy. Next week we will be back to… pretty much back to things as normal. I hope you enjoy what’s in the works for you, and… really, really happy with the responses that have been coming in lately, so keep that up. Your homework is to enjoy yourself for this week… your Permissive Cirucmstance is “Yes, yes… you have my permission.” So have a wonderful holiday… and I will see you on Monday for an MCF, see you on Tuesday for Eunoia and see you this week for a little bit of… Pink… fun? Bye for now. The post Almost Eunoia (November 25th) – Black Friday and Pink Saturday appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 25, 20211 min

Eunoia (17th November) – Recreational Drugs and Pocket Monsters

In this episode I assure you that YKIOK. Links The fun game I shared with my listeners last week was this Reddit RandNSFW link. You can get Slave Position Training in the shop. Go here if you haven’t already voted on my next Affirmations Series. Transcript Today is Wednesday and this is Eunoia Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon or the website to be included in the listen section and continue on to obey for the homework, permissive circumstance and so on. So I forgot to mention this yesterday but I heard back from a number of you about the Reddit-Random-NSFW permissive circumstance last week. That was fun, and so many of you enjoyed that as well so well done to you. It was very entertaining to me, that’s for sure. I had happy boys who received some fairly tame, vanilla porn… a few people that ended up with things like recreational drug forums and such… that’s not very erotic is it? And then there’s my dear Useful One, my statue, who ended up with Pokémon porn. Oh dear. That wouldn’t be my destination for inspiration, but I am not judgey about kinks. So I’ve never even sought out Pokémon-themed writing inspiration nor Pokémon-themed masturbation inspiration. But the Reddit link is fun, so I think I’m just going to put the link in the episode notes again. So the slave position training session… it’s remarkably popular, and I’ve had lots of kind comments about it. Dear Michel on my Patreon, he called it a Masterpiece. This all makes me feel confident that the upcoming training sessions that I plan to begin creating and releasing in January, those are going to be really well received. Right now I’m working on the newest Maid Training sessions, and plan to record that on Thursday and release on the weekend as usual. Today’s homework is “none”, so enjoy that. Your permissive circumstance however, okay… get ready. Start thinking Pokémon. Okay, you got it? If you know the names of three Pokémon who can learn Hypnosis, then you can have my permission today. This one feels almost generational, though I can swear Pokémon have been out forever. Maybe I need to asking for something a bit more 80s/90s tomorrow. Ooh… maybe one of you clever, clever men can send me an idea for tomorrow’s permissive circumstance. And hey I won’t even hold it against you if you make sure you can meet it. So that’s it for Wednesday and I will see you tomorrow. Be good. The post Eunoia (17th November) – Recreational Drugs and Pocket Monsters appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 17, 20214 min

Eunoia (16th November) – Crickets and Bubbles

In this episode I remember that Christmas is coming. Links The Personal Growth session Cole asked me for is also in the shop. I’ve just added it to the shop for the first time, at a deeply discounted price, hooray! The link to the Affirmations Series Two poll is here, and you can find the original Affirmations Series One sessions here. Transcript Today is Tuesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about our connection outside of session time… send me your notes through Patreon, or the website, which allows you to do it anonymously, and listen to the first half for answer, replies and shot-outs. And the second half goes on to Obey. A warm welcome to my newest Happy Harem member, Cole. Cole joined Patreon and immediately, though very politely, asked me for a certain Personal Growth session. So this session was, well… is, Penis Enhancement. See how it goes? Into Personal Growth? And Cole’s asking, well that reminded me that when I first posted it for my dearest, dearest Patrons, I had you ask for it individually… mostly because I wanted to inspire some moments of maybe gentle, or not so gentle, blushing. Sometimes a bit of teasing is great for the soul, right? It’s not actual humiliation. Okay, so, Christmas. Christmas is all over my city. It is amazing. I had the best time over the weekend, going into town. It was match-day. We won. Ah, man… I love live sports. I’ll be honest I can get into something televised if I have someone I’m really rooting for and yeah… yeah, I did watch Worlds. Not football, we’re talking e-sports. But man, live rugby, live football, soccer, whatever. The only one, the only one I can’t like, find crazy enthusiasm for, and it’s only because I can’t work it out, is cricket. They all look very posh and proper and fantastic, and the crowds are amazing, but I don’t know how cricket works, so I’ll stick with the other ones and if I’m ever lucky enough to be gifted some cricket-tickets and go along with… maybe a wonderful gentleman who knows the rules, I’ll figure it out then, right? I also tried Boba Tea… yeah, I think that’s a one-and-done kinda thing. A few of us were together, so… totally anti-covid, tried each others, and between the cheese-flavour and the… what was it, like watermelon-strawberry, and Oreo, I had a Thai-tea, which I usually love Thai-tea, yeah, I don’t know. It’s a one-and-done I don’t think I’m gonna be really wanting that any time soon. But in other news one of the food stalls that’s out has vegetarian samosas and I’m so lucky I do not live next door to these people. I would need a whole new wardrobe, they’re so good. Alright, now that I’ve made you all hungry… let’s talk about the Affirmations and my good boys who did their homework. I have a really nice selection that were shared with me. They’re all in that useful inspiration document. So my Happy Harem on Patreon they have been voting on what Affirmations Series Two sessions they’d like to see come out soon, and now… I have a really good idea for what their favourite ideas are. I’m going to make that poll available to the wider audience, you know… I’m data-collecting here. It’s very modern… Bunny would be so proud of me. Well Bunny’s proud of me anyway, because you know… Bunny’s proud of me because I put my shoes on today. He’s always one for compliments, he’s a great submissive. Anyway, so… that poll is going out to the wider audience, if you’re not a member of the Happy Harem, or Patreon, you’re going to have a chance still to vote… because I want to hear from you. I do know not everyone can join in with Patreon and so on… so I try not to hide everything behind that wall. Oh, I’m definitely going to be making the top two session my muses choose. But I’m not revealing what they chose yet… unless I change my mind after recording this. Okay, onto Obey. First thing first, I want you to stretch… and if you’re in the middle of a public place you can still stretch, right? I’m not asking for something crazy, I’m just saying stretch. If you can’t put your arms up, you can stand up on tippy-toes. If you can’t stand on tippy-toes you can probably put your arms out. If you’re missing arms and legs or you’re in a vacuum-sealed bed, but your head is sticking out, you can do some neck rolls. That’s a stretch, right? Go the other way. Alright, so your homework… if you haven’t done it already, is to vote in the poll. And if you voted already, hey… you get a day off, right? Or, as your homework you can tell me your favourite, but not known by most people, type of stretch. I have one. No, I have two. I have two, and if I rem

Nov 16, 20218 min

Fear of Being Naked

This full-length session encourages you to let go of the source of your fears and anxieties related to being naked, alone, or with others. Together we will reflect on the source of this shame and confront it, and then I’ll share the benefits. The session concludes with three enticing vignettes. Each is a fun, flirty thought, fixating on a moment in which you would find yourself comfortable without a stitch of clothing. The post Fear of Being Naked appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 15, 202133 min

Eunoia (November 12th) – Ex-Pats and Immigrants

Today I ramble about late-night TV and movie choices, and specifically Boss Level. Links So that “Random NSFW” Reddit Link is right here. Transcript Today is Friday and this is Eunoia, spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon, or the website to be included in the listen sections, and then continue on to obey, you know… because it’s good for you. First off, welcome to my newest Happy Harem member, Meeky… who went ahead and joined for a full year, taking up yet another lovely spot, gone… you know, once I hit a hundred, I won’t have to do shout-outs for new members. That’s actually… well, I don’t know, is that a good thing? Or not a good thing… we’ll see what happens. The Affirmations Series Two poll, it is going up today, so make sure you head over to Patreon, vote on that. So last night, I’m one of those people… I know that all of the lockdowns and stuff really got me to the point that I wanted to share a bit more of these cultural experiences with folks. I live, as most of you know, I am… I don’t call myself an ex-pat. I call myself an immigrant. All the Americans like to be ex-pats. British people usually like to be ex-pats too. Nobody wants to be an immigrant. Anyway, I am one. I live here in the UK. If I go to see a comedian, like I’ve been to see Stewart Lee and so on. They name-drop, so much. Like, everybody who lives on the island knows everybody else on the island, and I don’t. Or if you watch, and maybe it’s like this in America, but I just didn’t watch enough TV like this. If you watch, like, a game show, or some of these celebrity things like Masterchef and such, they… again, it’s like everybody knows everybody, ’cause everybody watches the same things. Anyway, so… I did get into that, yes. I watched umm… oh shit, what’s his name? Um… the Joe Exotic guy, I can’t remember the name of the show, I refuse to look it up. I watched that. I watched Squid Game, I don’t know… I just kept up with stuff. I usually have something else going on at the same time, so it just works. But last night it was one of those days where it’s just like… I don’t wanna go to bed, I don’t wanna go do something fun. And I had a couple of friends who were all like “Let’s watch something!” so it’s like… okay. One of them was like “Oh, yeah, The Wheel of Time has come out, and I have really been enjoying those books so it’s like “Uh, yeah… and I also want to see what some of the characters look like.” I think there’s a good bit of eye candy going on in Wheel of Time. So, sat down… ready to watch it, and is it out? Turns out the 19th is a whole different day than the 9th. So I ended up watching… I ended up watching “Boss Level”. Now, I will say… yeah, there’s some eye-candy that goes on with that. He’s not really my type though, and that… in Boss Level, most of it was good, ’cause it wasn’t like, all dark and mysterious and whatever else. But the ending was so bad. I’m not spoiling it, but the ending to me was so bad, because it’s like… let’s use all of our gadgetry and all of our special effects on everything, single like… shoot-’em-up explosion scene and then at the end it’s like… now we’re done. It’s kinda like erotica that leads up and the story’s good and you get in it, and it’s like… okay, then he came and it’s all over. It’s that. Michelle Yeoh is in the Boss Level one, which… she was fun to see her. She’s in the Shang-Chi, the… Marvel? I think… the Marvel movie. I have a habit of calling it the Pokémon Marvel movie, she’s in that as well. So, nice to see her. Okay… rambling almost over. Tomorrow is the Fear of Being Naked coming out. It’s going out for free on the podcast, so make sure you find that one. For homework today, your homework is to tell me my favourite day of the week and to tell me the one cutesy word that I use for one of the days of the week. If you can do those two things you’ve met your homework. If you can’t I guess you can just randomly go back and listen to Eunoias until you find it. Good luck. The Permissive Circumstance… sorry… okay, the Permissive Circumstance, first of all… don’t do this at work! Unless you work from home on your own device, do not do this in work, do not do this on the train, or somebody could be looking over your shoulder, though then again… really? You shouldn’t be doing a lot of the Permissive Circumstance stuff that way if it’s an action, right? Because it just leads to permission. O

Nov 12, 20218 min

Eunoia (November 11th) – The Writing Room

In this episode I daydream about reducing my workload. Links If you haven’t listened, or just haven’t listened recently, here’s all the Maid Training sessions currently in the shop. This category is going to double in size before January rolls around! The post Eunoia (November 11th) – The Writing Room appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 11, 20214 min

Eunoia (November 10th) – Affirmation Multiplication

In this instalment I talk about Thanksgiving, even if it’s a little early for all that. Links Seriously, send me affirmations. I want a wide selection of ideas to help plan out further affirmations sessions. Your suggestions help guide that writing process. The post Eunoia (November 10th) – Affirmation Multiplication appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 10, 20215 min

Eunoia (November 9th) – On the Other Hand

In this episode I talk a little about Youtube, and what’s coming the next few months, without giving everything away. Links The Trick and The Treat are still available in the shop. It doesn’t need to be Hallowe’en for you to enjoy them, and you don’t even have to dress up! The first set of Affirmations sessions have been in the shop for a long time! Transcript I’m using “Headliner” to post these episodes to YouTube and make transcripts for them. I haven’t exactly worked out all the kinks yet, so for the time being this episode doesn’t have one. The post Eunoia (November 9th) – On the Other Hand appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 9, 20218 min

A Useful Pocket Pet MCF

I might be spending most of my writing time this week dedicated to my various, well-trained, flirtatious sissy maids, but while one pot is allowed to come to a rolling boil, another simmers quietly on the back-burner, receiving gentle stirring so nothing sticks to the bottom. So here’s a little meditation on my Pocket Pet, which you’ll also find in the Mind Control Fragment player today. You’ll notice the Locktober sessions have all vanished. All six can still be found as a bundle in the store, if you need them to help you enjoy November! Eunoia will be out tomorrow, bright and early. The post A Useful Pocket Pet MCF appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Nov 8, 20214 min

Eunoia (November 4th), The Latest Plague and Icarus

In this chapter I tell you a story about poor Al. It’s a good one. Links Heady HFO With Breath Play is apparently really, really exciting. To celebrate, if you use the coupon code “THANKSAL3” at checkout, you can get $10 off this session for the rest of the month. Transcript Today is Thursday, and this is Eunoia Spoken by Elswyth. So as some of you can probably hear, I’m just slightly plagued with this same, ridiculous cold that I swear the entire United Kingdom has. I’ve recently reconnected with a friend of mine… she lives in Portugal, she has these amazing photos, and if I’m still coughing a week from now, I’m going to be living in Portugal, and I’m going to have some amazing photos. I’m going to find the sunshine. Ugh… we all wear masks and wash our hands and everything. How do we al have this cold? And I know it’s not that… because you know, I tested like everybody else does, but I don’t know if I’m the only one but every time I cough I feel, I feel like everyone in like a five-foot radius or… nah it’d actually be a little bit more than that because I was thinking meters, anyway… it just makes you feel plagued. It really does, so it’s annoying. Okay, let’s get back to more fun stuff, other than British germs, right? That’s a pretty, pretty low bar there for fun! So let’s talk about Heady HFO, with the Breath Play. It’s been in the shop for a little while now. My Happy Harem on Patreon have also, of course, had it. Some of whom are engaging in denial, which… guys I just love you. And then there’s Al. Okay, so poor Al… Al made it all the way to the 27th, when he decided of his own free will to listen to that session. And Al, well Al didn’t slip up once, okay? He didn’t. Nope. Three times. Three, three whole orgasms from Al through Heady HFO. Wow, so what’s the right metaphor here? Did Al fly to close to the sun? Those his fate is more enjoyable than falling into the sea, right? If I have anyone doing No-Nut November, let me know… because if I do, I’m really tempted to throw out another HFO session just to test that resolve and see what happens. Okay, for this upcoming weekend, the new session that’s going to be out it’s going to be… what’s a good hint? It might require some stretching beforehand. Maybe comfy clothes? Or, hey, y’know, dress in what nature gave you and just enjoy. If you want another clue, this session it harkens back to the time when Eunoia truly was daily. I do aim for the four days a week, Tuesday through Friday, but ah… you know… life. And there was the different themes for each week. This is playing with one of those themes. It was requested a while back, and just other projects popped up ahead of it, but I am looking forward to putting it out there on Saturday for all of you. Okay, so… let’s see. What should we do for Obey? Oh… here we go. I am working on, for January, something that has been asked for quite a few times. I have so far, a list of ten sessions that would be part of it, and it is going to be extremely specific training. Basically, somebody wrapped you up in a big old cardboard box. It does not start this way! So those with claustrophobia don’t worry, it’s just my example. Say you were dropped off on my doorstep and you were like “Hey, this is me, let’s make me into what you want.” That is exactly what this training does. It is not just about the bedroom, though training in the bedroom is important. It’s about also, personality… how you carry yourself… the kind of man whose arm I want to be on… that whole thing. That is exactly what January is going to have. So for your homework, I want you to tell me, what area of your life (and try to make it something you think I probably don’t have already on my list) but what are of life or personality or relationship that you think I would change about you, or you would want me to tweak or change to match what I like in a submissive. So there you go, that’s your homework. Hopefully that makes sense! And your Permissive Circumstance, well… it’s an idea that came from the old Eunoia format too. So following on from yesterday’s pumpkin stipulation, if you have a plastic, or a metal Christmas tree tucked in your attic, garage, closet, or whatever else… or hell, maybe you already set it up… then, well, you have my permission today. You don’t have to have the tree up. You just have to have one around the house, the garage or whatever. Okay? Alright, I will see you on Friday, and on Saturday… don’t forget the new session. For those of you who haven’t experienced The Trick and The Treat, that’s over on the website, and have a great day! The post Eunoia (November 4th), The La

Nov 4, 20216 min

Eunoia (November 3rd), The Many Flavours of November

In this instalment I say hello to a backlog of new Patrons and reward the stragglers among you. Links The Trick and The Treat can be found on Patreon, or here in the shop. Transcript Today is Wednesday, and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about our connection outside of our sessions together. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the Listen section, and then continue on to Obey for the Homework and Permissive Circumstance, etcetera. So, first of all here are our shout-outs for the new Patrons. My newest Happy Harem members. Okay, oh me, oh my… this is um… this is John, Dick, Andrew, another Andrew, oh no… I’m gonna say this is “Aruthae”. If I didn’t get that right let me know. I probably won’t get it right the next time, but I do try. Slavedoc, that one’s easy… Lau Bu, and I think that’s short for something… Mike, and J. And J has a lovely pair of high-heeled boots in their profile picture. I gotta know J, are they yours? I had a message from my Cal Dude who accidentally listened to one of the Locktober MCF-tease sessions towards the end of last month. Um… poor Cal Dude. You know, I never once told anyone to deny themselves for a month. I never once told anyone to carry on through November either. But I know that some of you will. It’s exciting to know that the number of days, well… it’s gone up, and up, and up… and then there’s the little doubts. What if the orgasm isn’t that great? What if I’m just left disappointed in myself? Although, PSA here… for your prostate health, you really actually shouldn’t go forever and ever without ejaculating. Doesn’t mean you have to have the orgasm, you can also learn about milking. It is a thing… it has nothing to do with cows and goats and so on. I had very positive feedback from my Happy Harem about the trick-or-treat. Technically I think it’s called The Trick and The Treat. These are two Sabriel-themed sessions and they went out on Patreon for Hallowe’en. Um… oh and if you have no idea what Sabriel-themed means, it’s a name that’s associated with a specific kind of session that I make. They’re all about pure hypnosis training and… and mind control, with everything you can think of when Mistress is saying “Mind Control” to you. Sabriel is introduced in the Eternal Suitor session and yeah, that’s what he is. He’s the guy who is always trying to impress, in a good way, like he’s on a first date, or a third date. And you all know what happens on the third date. He doesn’t ever reach a point of over-familiarity and he’s kept there through erotic hypnosis. It’s fun, it’s a little bit predatory. I enjoy it. I’ll put those sessions up in the shop today on the Spoken by Elswyth website for everyone else who hasn’t had it can go there and enjoy it. If you haven’t listened to The Apartment, and PTTFO, and The Eternal Suitor… well they’re all required listening, so you also need to have those sessions… and my apologies if you can actually hear my tummy grumbling. Maybe PitA will be able to edit that out. If not, yeah… it’s like, almost 11, I’ve been busy and it wasn’t until I actually started Eunoia that I realised… I should have had some breakfast. Okay, Homework. For those of you in the States, or with friends or family from the States and you’re on social media, you probably see that one of the very many variations on November theming is the Thankful one. There’s also No-Nut, and it seems like No-Nut should not be following Locktober. No-Nut has nothing to do with walnuts. Or pecans… they’re not pee-cans, they’re pecans. Um… the moustache growing one, Movember. What’s the other one? No buying Nestle products. There’s also a “No Buying” one. And the newest one I’ve seen is a mindfulness one about saying “No” to everyone and everything that makes you unhappy. But let’s talk about the thankful one, because it ties into your Homework. You, share your favourite session title with me, and… and… there’s a thinking part here. You have to also share a sequel idea that you’d enjoy along the same lines. I had somebody do that with the maid session, and that story’s good! You all will be thankful for them. Okay, I think that wraps us up for today. Does it? Does it…. no… because you need your Permissive Circumstance. This is it, this is for the procrastinators. This is when you win… ready? If you still have a Jack’o’Lantern out front of your house on the window, a picture on your door, whatever… you have my Permission today. See you tomorrow! The post Eunoia (November 3rd), The Man

Nov 3, 20217 min