Spoken By Elswyth - Femdom Hypnosis

I talked about Sabriel in an earlier podcast episode, closer to when The Slap was released. Transcript Somewhere near me, someone has a problem. The problem, they’re convinced, it can be fixed with a hammer. Now I swear, I can barely if at all hear them if I walk down the street, but it’s echoing through the attic spaces above these old row houses. If you don’t know what a row house is, imagine like… a whole line of town houses, basically. Everyone kinda sharing a wall, and apparently attic space as well. It’s not like impossibly loud, but the little green meter on the right hand side of my screen, it bounces around in the same rhythm as the hammering. So I do know that means the microphone picks it up. Now Monday I didn’t record a single word, because I don’t like repeating myself. And so as the week went on, I don’t know, it just basically became like a comedy in its own way, of weird little noises. So I’m recording this mostly train-of-thought podcast episode. It might make it to you a little later than usual, but you’ll forgive me. You’ll simply be excited to hear from me, right? And if the hammering actually starts while I’m talking then I’m just going to roll with it. Now recently I put Party of Perversion, that session, on sale for a little while. Now in case someone, anyone was wondering what method I use to decide which sessions to put on sale, I confess there… ooh, I confess. Okay, take us to like a little dark room, you can choose which side of the screen you’re sitting on. You can even be on my side, come sit with me, right? Well, there is no grand marketing scheme behind it. Now I know, maybe there should be. The truth is I know that the whole FOMO it works. Hell, it works on me. So yeah, there’s some people out there who want to listen to my sessions… and I don’t mind helping them make a choice. Look at this one, it’s five bucks cheaper than usual! And as far as choosing the sessions goes, it’s simply that I’ll get a message that mentions a session, or reminds me of a session, and I want to make it easier for my listeners to explore it. So there’s no divine spark, or marketing team right there on speed dial. It’s just pure whimsy, that’s all. So Party of Perversion was picked up by a few people, a few of my lovely listeners who hadn’t heard it before… and that was fun, because I have some comments on it now, some new takes. And I love these fresh perspectives. And then on a semi-recent Friday, I was sitting in a tea room with my laptop, basically vacillating over what to create for this week. And actually, I was also writing a pros and cons list of publishing a few short stories that I’ve written. I’m still considering a few different venues, few different ways of doing it, and of course there would likely be an audiobook. I suspect it would be quite easy for me to find someone to record my words, right? Oh and then I was also thinking about Sabriel. Now it’s funny how Sabriel sessions come to be. They basically never start out as Sabriel sessions. I’ve had a few people ask me about the name… now I do get that in certain cultures the name Sabriel it might come across as quite feminine. That’s actually not the goal. It’s similar to like… Gabriel. That type of name. So anyway, that’s Sabriel. The first Sabriel Session is Violet, and that came to be, before I even had a name for this character. This person… this Eternal Suitor. Now Violet is as much about how it feels to be a seducer, as it is about being the… seductee? I’m sure that’s a word, it just sounds nicer than “target”, or “victim”. Right, I know… some of your are like “No, use victim!” you like that better. But Violet brought about that whole idea of having a certain someone who’s the subject of that kind of play. It’s pure hypnokink, right? I know that I’ve explained that before, but let’s tread back over familiar ground. You enjoy that, right? I know how many of you listen to Press Play every morning… and just as many have decided they’d rather reinforce the POUR trigger every night before sleep. That’s actually a perfect example. It isn’t at all about the traditional BDSM, Femdom kink. You know I love some worship, or some chains, or some mild feminization… or more. But I’m never going to be one of those expert rope tops who can make beautiful harnesses. I can do a very nice mermaid tail. And I’m probably always going to be out-knotted by boy-scouts and fishermen alike. It’s a bit too fiddly. But hypno for the sake of hypno, it’s the Sabriel wheelhouse. I’ve always enjoyed this conversational style, with lots of confusion and poetic language. Oh, and strange, half-remembered references to pop culture. I love getting a message from someone that says basically “I love such-and-such session, but I was just thinking about it while I was cooking, gardening, showering… whatever… and I realized that it is riddled with Madonna lyrics.” or “I’ve heard X three times before, but this time I realized that you were describing this movie scene and

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Today’s Free Trigger Reinforcement Session revisits the Season Four Deepening Trigger, POUR, and Dear/Darling. Also available from today is a similar trio of trigger reinforcements, for my favourite sissy maids. Both bundles include two versions of the trigger reinforcement. Also included are 6-minute mini sessions that are suitable for daily use. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Today’s episode, and full length session that’s coming up, is all about reinforcement. Back in a previous episode in this season, and I’ll try to link to that in the show notes, I asked for your feedback regarding reinforcement sessions. And boy, did I get quite a lot! I’ve finally finished creating what I feel is the perfect groupings of different triggers into these standalone reinforcement sessions. The first one is free here on the podcast. It includes reinforcements for the Season 4 Deepener, POUR, and our fun word game of Dear and Darling. The POUR… I wonder how many times I can say POUR in this episode? Ummm, anyway, the POUR section is meant to be more of a heady meditative experience. You can listen here, or if you’d prefer to revisit the Season 4 Deepener, POUR and Dear/Darling trio without the podcast intro, you can go download it directly from the SpokenbyElswyth.com  On the website, you’ll also find some other reinforcement trios available. I’ll let you discover it, just… rather than just blurting the words out on the podcast, right? There have been a flurry of new subscribers to the podcast feed and the Youtube channel. So first, welcome in. And second, my content that’s available publicly for free, here, it tends to be the milder versions of what’s available on the website or sometimes directly to Patrons, or listeners, as rewards. My audience is set to adult, or mature, but I’m still mindful of the guidelines out there. So on the SpokenbyElswyth website it’s easier to provide content that doesn’t hold back. So in the case of these reinforcement sessions, the trio being offered publicly is more of… a Femdom Hypnosis Foundation content. While the ones on the website hone in on fetish or they’re simply more explicit. They will have similar artwork which will make it way easier to find the ones that belong in this series. Now my Patrons, they receive a monthly allowance code that they use for sessions that appeal to them. In the early days, I’d choose which session to give to Patrons but realized that is quite a trick with the huge variety of interests that we seem to share! The code made my life much simpler. Plus, I realised the sessions that locked behind the Patron wall were actually unavailable to people who either couldn’t use the platform, or chose not to.  So now, let’s get started on the reinforcement session for today. You need to find a place where you can listen without interruption. I promise you won’t be taking off your clothes or going into any peculiar poses. You should be familiar with the Season 4 Deepener, POUR, and Dear/Darling triggers. If you haven’t heard all of them, follow the show note links to find those sessions and listen to them first. The post 4.64 SbE Fractionation Induction, and a Free Trigger Reinforcement Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In today’s session a few previous sessions are mentioned by name, or simply come to mind. And today they’re all better than 25% off. That Poly/Cuck story with no ending can be found in podcast Episode 61. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Hello there. Today’s episode is all about feedback. Starting with feedback on the Winter Cuddle Sessions. This is part of a longer email I’m just sharing this extra fun part of it… and it’s talking about the unintended consequences of some suggestions heard in those Cuddle Sessions. I think it’s pretty sweet. This little story is borrowed from a Listener’s message, and is not provided in this transcription. Next is the feedback on the story opener that I shared a few episodes ago. The particular story with the hypnotist, and the group of people. I’m choosing just two replies to share here. Now, even though I’m only sharing two, I will say they represent a lot of the emails and the messages that I received on this one. The directions that people chose tended to be similar, which I think is a pretty good vote that this does need to turn into a full session… so don’t be surprised if you see that coming up soon. So the first response is one I had through email… and this person says… The other two stories about watching a room full of hypnotized people play with each other, or personally getting to enjoy “Orgy Time” are also omitted from this transcript. I suppose you’ll have to listen for yourself. So what do you think? If you think your response to that doesn’t fit in either of those categories, go ahead and send me a message again. If you have something completely different, I do want to go ahead and show it. Now today’s episode is kind of short because either Thursday or Friday of this week, you are going to have two sessions available… and I’m pretty busy trying to wrap those up. Go out, enjoy your day, and find me again later this week… or you know, mosey on over the the website, SpokenByElswyth.com, and find something else to listen to. You deserve good things. The post 4.63 Your Feedback on Femdom Hypnosis Workshops, and a Cuddle Session Story appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Slave Position Training is still on sale for a few more days. One of the positions appears in today’s session, and you will wish you know it before it comes up! No transcription is provided for today’s time together. You should know that there are times in this episode where I will tell you to press stop. I do, sincerely mean it. I also invite you to start from the beginning over the weekend, at your leisure. The post 4.62 Running the Gauntlet appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I want to make use of the poses from Slave Position Training in some upcoming episodes. Want to play along? The session is on sale right now… Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Alright, this episode is a mix of polyamory, swinging, cuckolding, music suggestions and storytelling – in no particular order. But first.. where have I been? And a thank you for a present that recently arrived… it was perfect timing. Truly perfect timing. So lately, last week, just a crazy mix of personal and practical issues they just managed to eat my recording time and editor availability. As many of you probably cottoned on by the number of times I complain about it, even though I love it, I do live in a city. And sometimes the noise that goes on around me, it’s completely out of my control. Now I know the other podcasters tend to be the types that work weeks and weeks ahead, I kinda don’t like to do that because I love to get the feedback from you and then we do this together. I feel like if I just go way ahead I’m basically doing this on my own. Lucky for you, it didn’t stop my writing so I have a unique treat in progress for you. It’ll be free and available to everyone. It’s about 75% completed and… yes you hear a dog in the background, but we’re just going to go ahead. It’s about 75% done, I don’t quite have an ETA for when it’ll be completely done and out there… I do know that I’m enjoying it immensely and I have pretty high standards for what I want it to turn out to be, so that’s what’s taking a little bit longer. Now a patron happened to message me during one of my writing sprees and we ended up exchanging playlist ideas for different scenarios. In my case it was putting words on paper, for him it was sanding down the floor. I think I won that one. Anyway, one that came up was the Chris Janson “Buy Me a Boat” and I admit even though I am not wildly into country there are some songs that’ll suck me in and, yeah, that’s one of them… so I already had that on my playlist. It’s just one that gets you moving, I guess. Now in my hometown area in the states there, there you’ll find every wedding reception or graduation party, it has some of these core country songs played just to get the people out on the floor. And Kameron Marlow, he came up too and wow he has a voice. So, as for the poly – swinging – cucking bit. I have an orphaned storyline that I return to every so often. It’s not actually a session, though could be one, it’s more of an entertaining daydream. Cerebral masturbation perhaps. Just not sure what it’d fall under… so I ended up reading like guides, terminology to different lifestyles and so on. Basically just trying really which direction I wanted to go with this. Maybe it should be very taboo, or dial it back, so it’s not… ummm… anway I realised as I was going through, and what led me to this, is there are a so many. Many definitions and terms. First, I think we all know polyamoury, right? Basically having multiple romantic, sometimes sexual, relationships with people, and it’s where everyone knows what is going on. There’s no secrets. Swinging is more of a sex-based ummm… though, the lines there can also blur, again… the usual, multiple partners scenarios. There’s something called soft swinging which some people describe as you’re with your partner, the other person’s with their partner and you just happen to be in the same room together. Though I have heard other definitions of that one. Ummm… and like I said, it can blur. The intent, the focus, the emphasis it sets them apart. And then we have the trusty cucking, and buddy, if you don’t know what that is, then I’m shocked. Because I don’t know how you can spend any time at all in like… fetishy things and not know what it is. But hey let’s pretend you are one of those sweet summer children and you have no idea. It’s basically when another dude has sex with your girl. Now I’m sure it could also be another woman having sex with your woman, or so on… or another guy with your guy, and such… basically, the person you’re in this relationship with is having a sexual encounter with another person. Ummm, with or without you being there. Now here is my personal conspiracy theory. It’s that a lot of these guys that claim to be into cuckolding… that claim to be cucks… they’re not really. They’re just really into live porn. A free way… well I guess it’s not free if you get a hotel and all that, but a free way to get a show. And they’re not actually running the emotional gambit that’s supposed to go along with that activity. I’d be interested to know what you think about that one. So there we are. We’re on the same page. Let me tell you the lead in for the story, this daydream that’s in my head. And then I want you to send me a message about which direction you think it should go; poly, swinging, cuck or something altogether differen

The full Etiquette Training Sessions are available now! To celebrate, enjoy discounts on all Sissy Maid themed sessions this weekend. Some technical issues mean editing has taken a little longer than expected. I’ll likely release the first Trigger Reinforcement Session on Tuesday 21st of February. It will focus on the most popular sessions from your feedback; the Season Four Deepener, POUR and Dear/Darling. The post An Etiquette Training Session for All Maids appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Happy Valentine’s Day. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript So it is that day again. Happy Valentine’s Day. Hopefully you’ve heard that, or said that, already today. But if not, and you need a Valentine, you are always welcome to ask me. Chances are I will say yes… partly because I am one of those people who doesn’t believe love is limited by giving it out, or receiving it by more than one. I want to say thank you for the lovely gifts. They have been trickling in over the past… probably week and a half, or so. It’s always funny to me when someone goes on a deep dive into that Amazon wishlist, and I’m actually surprised by something I put on there… it’s been a lot of fun. I have responded privately so if you’ve gifted and you haven’t heard from me, make sure it isn’t hidden away in your email somewhere. Or go ahead and check Patreon as well. And thank you to the clever ones who, they prefer to not use Amazon and instead use that tip feature that’s in the SpokenByElswyth shop. One note especially, and there’s no way you don’t know who you are, cracked me up. If you’re wondering if it was yours, it’s the note about a pub crawl. And… if you’re unfamiliar with that phrase, I do suspect it’s mostly in the UK, it means basically starting at one pub and making your way along a street, and stopping at more pubs, til you reach a final one or perhaps reach your limit. The danger of course is you take along someone like me and I insist on staying at the venue that has the live music! I am not good at pub crawls for those two obvious-ish reasons. One I just gave to you, right? If they have live music, basically any kind… it can be two guys with guitars. It can be jazz, or so on, I’m gonna wanna stay. And as for alcohol, my limit is definitely not on part with most British people. I’m just gonna blame it on a different kind of upbringing. So my creatives have been busy creating and it appears the writing bug has bitten quite a few of you! I have a writing prompt of sorts to share. It came to me, actually in the middle of the night, which led to looking up a few details just to make sure I have them correct. And that led to this story, which sounds like it could be a drama that runs for a few decades. Or in the case of Netflix it’d get one season, end on a cliffhanger, and then you find out it’s canceled. Here’s the story: Psyche is so beautiful that the jealous goddess Venus commands her son Cupid to make her fall in love with an unworthy man. However, Cupid falls in love with Psyche himself. Concerned about Psyche’s lack of suitors, her parents consult the oracle of Apollo. They are told that Psyche’s future husband is a monster and that she must be abandoned on top of a mountain. It’s like the Indian Matchmaker show, like, gone wild. And I confess, I confess, I totally binge-watched that show. I had a few other things going on at the same time but wow, it’s pretty satisfying. Anyway. So where were we? Oh yes… her parents. They were concerned about those lack of suitors and told to put her on top of a mountain. The west wind, Zephyrus [..], saves her and carries her to Cupid’s palace. Cupid visits Psyche only at night and forbids her to make any attempt to see him. Psyche is curious about her lover’s appearance and fearful after her two jealous sisters convince her that Cupid is a serpentine monster. Now, if this dude is visiting you every night to have some good sex, I’m asuming it’s good, because she’s curious right? She wants to see… wouldn’t you have caught on my now if he’s some kind of a snake monster? Which does remind me… I really, really want to do a tentacle story, so I need at least like a dozen of you to send me a message and say “Yes, please,. Tentacle story. I want that!” Okay, so… she is now urged on by these two jealous sisters. They tell her to take a look, so she conceals a lamp and knife in her bedchamber. When Cupid is asleep, Psyche illuminates his beautiful figure with the lamp but a drop of hot oil accidentally wakes him. Now if this, if this is Season One of the Netflix show, this is the cliffhanger. This is where it ends… drop of oil, he wakers up. That’s it… and then you’re like “ooh, that’s okay because Season Two will come soon.” Yes, I’m a little salty about Netflix canceling a show I liked. I don’t actually watch a whole buncha TV. I’m more of a reader… I just, I don’t know, I just find it easier because I don’t actually have to remember what I was watching. Anyway, I just find it way easier. But on the occasion I do watch something, I really want to be able to, you know, get the time from it. Especially if it is this series, and you’ve watched episode after episode after episode, I want the whole story. And so maybe that is why books come out superior because, they have the whole story. Even if the ending, and I’m talking about you Night Circus, even if the endi

This session requires the Season 4 Deepening Trigger. Transcript Today’s session is all about discovering your femdom hypnosis suggestions style through my crash course. The session requires you, first of all, to have the Season 4 Deepener fresh in that lovely mind of yours. If it isn’t, go listen to that session a few times and then come back and play this one. You can find the session free on the SpokenByElswyth.com website. Like all of my Femdom hypnosis sessions, listen to this in private where you are unlikely to be interrupted. All movements suggested include the option to do so in the headspace or in everyday life, whichever feels right. You are also required to have a sense of humour, a willingness to be aroused, and a strong desire to go where I lead you. Now this session is unlikely to cause any upset, but it is a trip through different suggestion styles and structures including some different themes as well. Bravery may be required, but I think that a sense of humour, and pleasure in obedience, that’ll be enough. Now I promise you won’t end up naked, but I don’t promise that you won’t end up doing something… outside of your comfort zone. As that quote goes, courage isn’t the absence of fear, it is the triumph over it. Now that I’ve talked about bravery enough to get your heart rate going, let’s get started. The post 4.59 Discover Your Femdom Hypnosis Style With Elswyth’s Crash Course appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Transcript We are talking today about suggestions. They come in all shapes and sizes, and when they’re suggestions that I plan to use repeatedly, I typically call them triggers. Those word runes that get nestled into your mind. Much like you may try to restart a campfire by blowing on it, a simple blowing on them makes them glow brightly again. In our world, that breath of air, it comes in the form of words. There are many suggestions throughout my work, more than I could possibly list – not that I’d freely share all of them with you anyway – but for the more formal triggers, where we have been putting together a list, they generally have a name or perhaps a sound associated with them. The result is when you hear, or see, the word that particular emotion or feeling will cascade over you. Making sure that you’re aware of the list of triggers, and you practice them, it’s staple of our enjoyment of each other. This is why we are revisiting triggers and I asked for your feedback a while ago about how you like to practice… and that has been an entire spectrum of answers. I’m looking forward to getting into that more with you. But let’s step back a moment and talk about suggestions in general. Not a week goes by that I don’t get a message from someone stating they only respond to direct suggestions. That’s it. If it isn’t authoritarian style, they’re convinced it’ll never work on their strong-willed mind. And that’s ridiculous. Even outside of hypnokink, we respond to suggestions all the time.  The indirect suggestions of advertising have their way with all of us, unless of course, you’re a hermit completely cut off from the world – but if that’s the case, how are you listening to me? I’m going to give you a confession, it’s not particularly juicy, but it’s still a Fact about Elswyth, that woman from the willow trees… and it’s the fact that I’m a ridiculously easy mark for anyone advertising outdoor bags or backpacks. Or messenger bags, have to add those ones in too. It’s that “ideal life” that they’re often marketing along with them, although in my case I continually struggle with finding that perfect bag for most occasions. I’m not really into purses, I have my “if you know, you know” handbag that works for most things. But man, talk to me about backpacks with space for wet shoes or easy storage for a rain cover and I am all in. My friends also know if they tell me they’re looking for a bag, and the reason why, that I’m on that hunt. Blend the hunting skill of Artemis with the fiery passion of Aphrodite and that is me on the bag trail. And, when I share that story with someone who is the king of “I only respond to authoritative suggestions”, they will generally share in return what indirect suggestions, or messaging, works on them. I have no doubt that as I shared my story, you came up with similar thoughts about what pictures, imaging, influencer shorts, or whatever that manage to grab you by the collar and bend you to their whims, even if just for a few minutes.Now, I realize for some of you that you’re just here. You’re blissfully unaware of debates about milton model vs meta-model style of hypnosis. Although, if you’re curious, the meta-model differs quite a bit from the Milton Model.The Milton model, it has more word play. You’re probably smiling at that. It offers a variety of options for constructing sentences containing these deletions, and distortions, and sweeping generalizations. The listener, that’s you, needs to generate your own interpretation of what he hears by discovering that missing information within yourself. Those this Milton Model, the use of nonspecific language forms is intended to induce and keep this state, the trance state of course, in order to bring your unconscious and hidden resources into contact with your personality. That’s the idea, anyway. And while usually I am directing you to a very specific point, either in a visualization, or an emotion, or physical sensation, there are sessions that basically require this open-endedness so that you can get to the point where you – delightfully unique you – are supposed to end up. With these, you’re typically instructed to report back to me – all of those thoughts and feelings… hmm… does that sound familiar? All of my thoughts and feelings belong to… You share those thoughts. You share those feelings. And I have an even deeper ownership of you. Thursday’s session is going to be an experiment of sorts. I am going to use nine different structures of suggestions. We’ll spend more time on some than others, but all in all it should be a fun time for you to learn even more about yourself. I know that experiencing different types of hypnosis is exciting for you, you can’t know what has the most power over you without this type of variety in there. And as for those that believe there is only one way that works for you, I assure you that you are wrong. There might be certain hypnotists that work best with you, but I

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A listener shared a story inspired by the Private Performance session from Episode 53. And in turn, I’m sharing it with you. Make sure you listen to the end of the story. There are some important words that many need to hear, especially a number who aren’t taking their training seriously. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Today’s podcast episode has a treat for you. It’s a story from one of my dear Patrons. The inspiration, it clearly comes from scenes in The Private Performance… that session from episode 53. And you know that I love collaboration so I’m happy to share it. Now before I do, I have a hint about Thursday’s session being released on the podcast. The inspiration, it comes from the month of February and that holiday that seems to be adored, detested, and ignored almost equally by the population. Nested right there in the middle of the month, Valentine’s Day brings to mind all of the American high school emotions of Prom. Y’know, you have the smug ones who have been a couple since they met and know they’re always guaranteed a date for every single formal. You also have the ones who get early invites, but then play Prom Date. Well, Prom Date Chicken by giving vague responses, wondering if a better, hotter, date offer might come along. And then you have the ones who desperately want to go and they have that building fear and anxiety of “Will I get asked?” “Will I have time to find a dress, a tux, a limo, dinner reservations and all of that?” And finally, there are the ones who truly can’t be bothered, have zero interest at all, and they opt out entirely. If you’re in the latter category, you may find not a lot for you in the Thursday session. But if you love.. Well, love.. Whether it is the pursuit or the overwhelming, heads over heels, intense NRE (that’s new relationship energy for those unaware) or the safety of being both loved and giving love, you’re going to find something there for you. Okay. Alright, boys, settle in and let Mistress tell you a story… everyone loves story time. The post 4.56 A Private Performance Story appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

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This session is for anyone wishing to increase their confidence, to develop and embody the qualities of a genuine submissive. The play button is deeply symbolic in this season of Spoken by Elswyth as we are focused on this auditory experience. When you press the play button, you have made the decision to welcome in my voice in your ear, reaching deep into you. Transcript You know that I love to give you good things. So along those lines, today’s good thing that I have for you is a full length session after this podcast introduction. Now, I admit… I don’t have a favorite type of session. I thrill in sessions that focus on the hunt, like the Eternal Suitor, or the Pirate Queen. But I also love those sessions that feel almost like… innocent conversation. The type you may even have in a café, where for all the world it seems like an everyday, vanilla conversation. But I know what wordplay I am weaving in, and where I want to take you. So for today’s trigger setting session, it may at first seem like an almost-vanilla idea. There’s nothing new about using affirmations, or a guided meditation, to set intentions… right? These declarations are an affirmation, and a reflection of inner knowing, spoken with confidence. Those kinds of affirmations, they alter the way that you think, feel, and respond to both yourself and the world. So even within our play, our shared headspace, this is a profound way to access parts of your subconscious. So it’s probably up there as one of my favorite tools. A useful session. Now this session, it’s going to be purposefully kept short, so it can be used regularly as a tool to strengthen the trigger. And to revisit your words and emotions. It is designed with the experience hypnosis subject in mind, so if you find it challenging to slip into trance, I suggest that you do other sessions to improve your agreeable nature, and then return to this one. Now there is no harm in continuing with this trigger setting, as well as the mini AM and PM sessions that I will have out there for you. They work as affirmations even without going deep into trance. To make it easier to access the daily shorter meditations, the AM and PM sessions, they will be posted as individual episodes. They’re also available as immersive videos on Youtube… but for true convenience, head over to the SpokenByElswyth website and instantly download the trigger setting session, the three minute session for morning, and the three minute session for evening. All three sessions are bundled together, and will be available indefinitely in your SpokenByElswyth personal account… so you can’t misplace them. If you’d like my assistance in choosing your words, you can reach me through Patreon or the website. Please do not use the YouTube comments as a way to reach me. It’s honestly a hassle that I don’t care to indulge in… I like YouTube. I know so many find me that way. But we can chat privately instead. Now, the likes and the subscribes, or podcast reviews? Those are always welcome. It allows me to keep SpokenByElswyth ad free, no annoying sponsors trying to hawk their wares, and to keep doing this with you for a long time to come. I have used willing Patreon volunteers to test this session, and as always I welcome more. And from their experience, I know that you may begin to use the AM and PM mini “Press Play” sessions immediately. But you will get the best experience by keeping this trigger strong. The word runes flaming in that mind of yours. Revisit this session to do so… you may also revisit the session to alter your word choices. Now you may find that the daily mini Press Play sessions, your reaction to that, it may range from mild to a vivid, trance-like state. My intention is to create a space for your personal journey of self evolution, and development as a submissive. An entranced companion. My pet. Now find a spot where you can be comfortable, free from interruptions, and ready to go into trance. The post 4.55 Press Play Femdom Hypnosis Trigger Setting appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

You’ll find your opportunity for feedback on the subject of trigger reinforcement here (Google Forms Link):https://forms.gle/YKK3nbSaxpK8on8B8 Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript We are off to a fantastic start of 2023. I have an Inbox that’s positively full of fantastic ideas. And even better, I have quite a few documents going, full of scripts that I can’t wait to finish up and share with you. We’re going to visit quite a few places, and a lot of moods together. You know how much I love creating with you. So before I tell you about the upcoming session for episode 55 on Thursday, let’s talk about an idea that a clever listener shared; a trigger reinforcement session. Now of course, it’s not just for one trigger, because you would simply go back and listen to the session for that one. Instead, think of this as a kind-of SpokenByElswyth melting pot of triggers. Both words and sounds. So I want your feedback on this one. Ummm… kind of through a vote. You can find the link to that in today’s show notes, or on the website in the transcript, depending on what your podcast provider allows you to see. Now if you’re missing part of the notes, you can always just head over to the SpokenByElswyth website to see the latest post. It’s all in there. The link, it’s going to take you to a Google Form. And the vote is simple. Just tick off all of the triggers that you would like included in a reinforcement session. I will leave a spot for notes, so if you want to share some other ideas… perhaps different groupings of reinforcements, and not just the typical ones, really think outside of the box. And I know, not everyone wants to experience using a feather duster, or being six inches tall… so go ahead and jot those ideas there. A bit of brainstorming together as we wrap up the first month of 2023. I’m the only one that sees the answers, so be bold, be brave, be polite. There’s no reason to hold back. Now Thursday’s session, as I’ve mentioned, is going to be the ideal morning trigger setting. It’ll be called “Press Play”. Now it is important that you have elevator pitched this. Are you familiar with this idea? An elevator pitch is being able to explain an idea, even a grand huge idea or project, in about 30 seconds. You know, the time it takes to go up in an elevator with someone. And 30 seconds, that is not a lot of time. I mean, I know what some people think you can get up to in an elevator, but between the cameras and the haste it’s really not possible. Don’t do it. Back on topic; I’ve received a flood of messages about the ideal morning session that I have in the works. Well, basically almost done. So I know it has been on your mind. The good news is that the session, it’s going to have two delightful add-ons available. And depending on the feedback about those, I might go back and do it with a few other sessions. And you can wait ‘til Thursday to find out what they are.  Now this session for Thursday, it will be public. It’s going out on the podcast, it’ll be on Youtube and such as well… or go to the website and you can find it there. It is aimed at my experienced folks. I tripped over what pet word to use there, for a second. It is going to be a shorter trigger setting session, mostly because I want it to be easily repeatable with plenty of trance time in there. So this session is one that you will go back to again and again. Yet another reason why it’s going to be a standalone on the podcast… because I want you to have that time to tinker, you know, with your programming goals and setting, moods, where you’re going. Because it is for experienced people, and because I want you to go deep. Ah, deep is really my favourite. You need to have the Season Four Deepener on board. If you don’t have that one, it is free over on the website… it’s in the Season Four bundle, the Femdom Hypnosis Free Basic Beginner Bundle. That one. If you haven’t listened to it in a while, go ahead and do it again. Your account on the website, it does store everything that you’ve received on the website, so if you’ve downloaded it before it’ll be there, you know, if you’ve lost it. The trigger setting for Press Play, it includes that physical action of pressing the finger tips of your ring fingers together… and it also continues with our Auditory Experience for setting it. In the session, I will walk you through how to know the right focus words for you. If you finish that session and you’re left with doubts, just get in touch with me and we will go over your word choices together. If you’ve done the work of thinking about your ideal morning, sending your ideas to me, and narrowing down that elevator pitch, I suspect… well, I trust, that the first time through the session it is going to blow you away with how easily it works for you. I have a clever new technique that I am throwing in that one… and so I’m looking

This session includes references to diverse power exchange and BDSM practices. These happenings are presented as something to be viewed, not experienced. But as always I suggest you familiarise yourself with a safeword session before any play with me. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript This podcast episode is a guided visualization. It’s a full hypnosis session with an induction, and it requires your full attention. If you’ve started listening on the train, or at work, then wouldn’t it be nice, dear, to save this one for later, dear? You can get yourself comfortable and slip into trance properly? Now, the induction here is borrowed from the recently re-released punishment session… you know, the one about Corners. But that’s not the only thing that’s borrowed. Here is a fresh take on an old idea… because a long time ago I asked listeners to imagine some scenarios happening to someone on the other side of a plexiglass screen. What was the reason for this? Well, I wanted to explore some ideas, but I didn’t want to subject them to you in the form of a visualization. It pleased me to know that you were able to be detached from those events. Be able to see them from a safe place, and more easily remove yourself from them if they were less than pleasant as they took their place in your imagination. This is a different approach to the Listening Room sessions. At the moment, that’s The Pirate Queen and Financial Domination. Two really fun sessions that push on all sorts of non-consensual and coerced themes. The Listening Room is a tool for creating that same type of safety valve. It allows me to spring something on your subconscious, it allows me to surprise you without having to spoil the ending for you… and it isn’t a flawless solution, but I believe it’s more comfortable for both of us than simply telling you that you have to trust me, completely. You can still trust me completely. I think it’s in your nature. So in this session, you’ll visit a theater with me. A theater where I control the action. And I’ll show you how to take control of the stage, the puppet-actors, their characters and everything else. And eventually you’ll lay on a whole production for us both to enjoy… sound like fun? I know it will be. So now it’s time to start sinking into trance, for me. The post 4.53 Mistress Invites You to a Private Performance appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Transcript This is what you are going to do. Touch the fingertip of your left ring finger against the fingertip of your right ring finger. Let’s see if you can remain this way throughout the entire episode. Lets get a bit of admin out of the way and chat about POUR and Thursday’s free session, before we discuss the best training schedule. Now, POUR is free for Patrons. If you’ve joined recently and don’t have the POUR trigger setting session, drop me a line and I’ll make sure you have the code to download it. This is not the same as the discount code given monthly to patrons on a certain tier. This one is for all Patrons. And if you’ve not seen it written down, it is POUR, P-O-U-R, not Poor, as in… oh, you poor dear. It’s not that kind. Now Thursday’s free full-length session on the podcast, it’s going to be a mix of hypnosis, meditation and reflection. Now this is not going to be walk… well I wish it was sometimes, but walking along the beach and reflecting on your inner self and what makes you a person. This guided meditation is definitely Spoken By Elswyth style, and you’re going to walk through… ah… fun. We’ll just leave it there, we’re just going to say it’s fun. And then you’re going to reflect on it. So… that one, make sure you do join me on Thursday. Now I haven’t forgotten about our ideal morning emotion trigger setting, that’s coming up as well. The responses, wow they just flooded the email and feedback form, and so on… so I’m crafting this session in a way that hopefully works for quite varied needs and wants. Now let me know if you have more to say on that issue. I always like when my muses like to co-create with me… and if you’re unfamiliar with what I’m talking about, the Ideal Morning Emotions trigger, just go on back to episode 50 and it’s in there. Remember back in Locktober, that episode where I had the naughty boys stay behind after I let everyone else go? Keep that in mind, as I continue to talk today about training. So when you start with a new trigger, when I’ve given you a new trigger, it is tempting to listen to it just once or twice, and then jump into a session that uses it. Now, if you’ve been with me, close to me, for a while… and you’re already primed to obey and accept the word runes, this method it might actually work. You have the desire, the motivation, and you also have plenty of past success to build upon… but if you don’t go back and spend the time in that trigger setting session, you will likely find that you never have the depth of experience that I intend for you to have with it. So in that regard, there is no single answer here. You can revisit the session until you get the effect that you want, and the degree of permanence or longevity that you want. That can happen after a single listen, or it might take a dozen hours of more of being immersed in that session. I strongly recommend any new trigger be done at least two to three times a week, and with our ideal morning trigger setting, the one I’ve recently mentioned, you will be doing that… plus you’ll be interacting with that trigger every morning. Even just for a couple of minutes, which keeps the session fresh. My personal style of hypnosis, it’s a blend of different techniques, including the guided meditations and physical triggers, and this allows me to connect with you on different levels. So that feels all nice and fancy, right? But basically, what it means is that I am using the hypnosis techniques, both permissive and indirect, the wordplay, the music which you’re aware of, that has its own little easter eggs of happiness hidden in there. And these guided meditations, as well as the deep daydream, almost this maladaptive daydreaming that you can actually stay immersed in, that you can actually visit when you’re not even in a session. And yes, I know, quite a few of you do. That type of hypnosis, my style of hypnosis, means you can’t actually just google some generic answer, because this isn’t the average hypnosis experience. Now for triggers you maybe had well in hand, but have now become diluted, you do need to take the time to refresh them. How long that takes will depend on a number of factors, including how often you listen, the nature of the suggestions, how open and resistant you are to the suggestions… man, how suggestible and decisive you are. And, you know some personal idiosyncrasies in there. It will also depend strongly on real life consequences. If they are positive, which let’s be honest most of mine are, because even if it’s fetish related I’m always encouraging you to be your genuine self. The one that I accept and the one that I adore. And because of that, their positive nature, they will tend to strengthen even if you don’t dip back into that session. So here is the best technique. Just listen until it sticks. You’ll generally know when you’ve reached that point. And if it starts to wear off, listen until it sticks again. That’s the easiest method, albeit not quite the formulaic one that so

Corner Time is your punishment trigger, and the perfect counterpart to POUR. But if you need more punishment, perhaps if your New Year had a false start, then add in A Mild Rebuke. And continue with Left with Warm Thighs for a taste of physical punishment with erotic, hypnotic suggestion. Transcript Hello there, I hope you have had a nice, refreshing, restoring, energizing, and fantastically fun time during the break. On one hand it feels like it has been quite a while, and on the other the time has just flown by. And speaking of flying… wasn’t that exciting here recently, in the States? Uh, what a mess… it’s so strange to hear about everything getting grounded. Although I suspect a few people were probably relieved. I mean, if you had to leave, like… your holiday destination, and it just gave you a few more days in the sun, I think I would take that. I think I would take just about anything that means a few more days in the sun. What would you take for pleasure? What would you exchange in order to get that pleasure? You see, it feels a little wrong on one hand, to just jump into today’s topic, which I’m only going to lightly cover today. We’ll get deeper into this later on. And that’s… Punishment. Not what you expected, huh? Though I guess you could tie it in with returning after the holidays, because… chances are, if you made those unrealistic, sky-high, stupid, New Years Resolutions… you’re probably faltering about now. And some people probably don’t even have their holiday decorations down yet. And here you are, stopping all those goals. That is not being nice to your future self. One of the reasons why punishment is on my mind, is that you likely know that when you take that downtime, when you let your brain just wander wherever it will, it often comes up with these brilliant ideas. Especially if you’re a Mistress. I mean, it doesn’t take much for you to tell me that my ideas are brilliant, right? And speaking of, I waded through so many Patreon and email messages today. It was absolutely fantastic… and from the pictures, and the stories, about New Years Eve… ooh… debauchery? I don’t even know the right word to describe some of these pictures and some of these stories. Maybe you feel like you’ve been a bit of a bad boy, and could use some… well… for people who have been with me for a while, you probably have this trigger, so I can’t say the words, because the words happen to be the trigger. We’ll just call it… 90-degree angle, inner-room time. I realise that particular trigger it is actually one of my oldest Spoken By Elswyth sessions. It was done when we were all still locking down… and it’s on the older microphone, in not so nice of a recording setting, and so… I decided that one needed an overhaul. Now for those of you who have that particular trigger just well ingrained… don’t worry. It’s not changing that much from the way that it makes you feel. And how do you feel about punishment? Are you the type that actually feels remorse? That feels a genuine dismay over letting down your half of this agreement between us? Or do you feel a bit bratty? A little bit… “Oh, she can’t break me”? Maybe a mixture of both, going back and forth? It likely depends on the punishment, right? If I just kind of… sit on the edge of the bed and tell you to be across my lap… and ease down whatever’s covering your bottom and use my hand… which, I do not like to hurt my hand. You know that particular punishment, it’s going to be pretty light. So unless you’ve done something actually wrong, really wrong, and my words, my disappointment in you, is adding to what my hands are doing, chances are you’re just going to glide right through that one, yeah? But let’s say that either in a physical nature, or… a mental one. I mean, we really do like to use these words, don’t we? You’re placed in a pillory. Do you know what that is? Imagine, there you are… you’re just stuck. And you have… well, there’s a few different ways to go about this. Let’s do, let’s do simple. Let’s be minimalist. Let’s be… let’s be like the IKEA of dungeon toys. And this one is just simple metal… it holds you in place… it keeps your head kind of up, it keeps your knees and your hands on the floor. Bottom up. I mean, you could practically be a table, right? And it’s fun to be a table! But it’s not usually fun to be stuck, like a stockade, or the pillories that are the big square pieces like, of wood, that fashion around a person’s neck. Wide enough that a person can’t reach their arm around to even scratch their nose. Or feed themselves. Can you imagine being stuck in that? Of asking for food? Asking for a drink? Asking for me to scritch your nose for you? Or would you ask? It likely depends, again, on what kind of person you are when you accept punishment. What kind of person you are and what kind of naughty thing you’ve been up to. And I do use the word accept… because we know that’s part of it, right? You are accepting my place over you. Your place below me. And

Transcript Welcome to 2023. We have a fresh new year ahead and I’ve already made quite a bit of progress on you. We will continue this progress. This year continues our shared auditory experience and I have good things to give to you. One of them appeared yesterday. Somewhere between the parties and hangovers, you surely found the time to download the Show Me session. It isn’t one that can willy-nilly be placed on the podcast, so you will need to visit the website to get it.  Before I get into your new morning habit, let’s discuss a bit of admin. The next episode of the pod will be out on Jan 10th or 11th, and then we are going back to the typical publishing schedule. I’ve heard from enough of you to realise that you’re equally busy so let’s enjoy our everyday life experiences during this season and then come back together for this shared daydream. Now is the time to join in as a Patron, the link is in the session notes, to get a free code for… almost any session on SpokenbyElswyth.com. I say almost because there is a reward session on there that’s not for free with the code. It’s the Locktober one. Now not only do you get a freebie, you also keep SbE ad-free and get to have your polite say in the upcoming sessions. Plus, it is the easiest way to send me a message. With that said don’t be disappointed if you don’t hear much from me this week, as I mentioned we’ll be back to normal around the 10th or 11th. So let’s talk about your new habit for 2023. How many times a day do you press play or start?  On a podcast. On a remote control. Perhaps even on a shiny kettle? Mine does have a play button. Or, hey, old school. You know that satisfying click of pushing play on a tape recorder and watching the, what… gears, begin to turn? Oh hey, if you have done that in the last week, pushed play on an actual tape recorder, I want to hear from you. So go on, send me a message, and I suspect I won’t hear from many… or any. I want you to take a few moments to breathe with me. Don’t worry, we’re not going down deep, this isn’t a hypnosis session nor is it going to be that long. It is merely setting the stage, providing a foundation, for further work in our next session. Okay, and just to keep it simple because a lot of us had a late night, we’re going to do a bit of the box breathing. [This segment of the episode is excluded from this transcription.] That’s it for today. I want you to just enjoy your New Years Day, do not put too much pressure on yourself, and seriously keep those new years resolutions sane. We all know that setting them too high or too perfectionist just leads to them being dropped. Or fuck it, toss them out and tell yourself that you’ll revisit them on Feb 2nd for groundhog day, Imbolc, or you know whatever else is celebrated on that day and just enjoy this January and the post-holiday season. I give you permission to enjoy your life. The post 4.50 Your New Morning Habit for a New Year appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

There’s a teaser for this new JOI-style session in today’s podcast episode. This little piece was inspired by a real-life conversation and shares a naughty thought or two. Perhaps it’s all you will need, today? If not, I know where you can find more. Tune in tomorrow for a New Year’s Day podcast episode. The post 4.49 Mistress Judges If You Can Fuck Her – New Year New Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Today’s full length session is Follow Your Dreams. Find the full session, without podcast fluff and with alternative background music, in the shop. A brief note to Getting Longer listeners. The third and fourth releases have been mistakenly introduced as “Release Two”. This will be fixed when Release Five rolls around in the New Year. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Today’s episode has a full hypnosis session for you to enjoy after this bit of an introduction. Now if you find yourself wanting to return to this session again and again, you can find a download for it on the website, SpokenByElswyth.com. And on the website, that version doesn’t have the podcast intro or anything else. It’s basically like all of my other sessions. Title, and then it goes into it. What is Psychography? Now before we get to the session, I wanted to first tell you a bit more about it and what to expect, because it is a bit different… and tell you about the very sexy session coming out on New Year’s Eve. Just a bit of admin and housekeeping… you will have that New Year’s Eve session… well, sessions, and then on New Year’s Day there’ll be a short podcast just to begin your year the right way. Today’s session, is called Follow Your Dreams. It’s an Automatic Writing session, or if you wanna be fancy it’s called Psychography. So what is Automatic Writing? Now, long time loyal followers will remember that we’ve dabbled in Automatic Writing previously. The purpose of this session is kind of help you find your dream, your goal, and to have the passion to go after it. So the session, it’s going to use that Automatic Writing as a way for you to just… be free. So you’re going to be in a place where you’re not going to be disturbed or feel self conscious. A place where you can also write, so… desk, sofa with a clipboard, whatever… something like that. Obviously you’re going to need to have paper in front of you, and a pencil in hand. Now, automatic writing it does flow naturally. Although, if you are new to hypnosis, and I know quite a few people just stumble upon me, if you’re new to hypnosis it might take you a few tries to get there. But you don’t mind if it takes a while to get there, do you? Think of it as cerebral edging. The results are worth it. Mistress Judges If You Can Fuck Her Now, as I mentioned, the next session it’s going to be out on New Year’s Eve… and… and I struggled with a few title ideas, and I opted for something straightforward. It is “Mistress Judges If You Can Fuck Her”. That is straightforward, right? “Mistress Judges If You Can Fuck Her”. You get the whole gist of what the session, sessions, is going to be like. Now, I had all kinds of titles floating about, and most of them were coy… because I really love word play. But, they could all of been easily misconstrued. Like… Show Me Your Skills. Show Me Your Skills could be about the two of us in a cosy kitchen as you show off your omelette making prowess, right? And if I ask if you’re worthy, well… I could, I could just be quizzing you on your ADC skills, as a botlane duo. I confess, that right now I absolutely love that some of you have no clue what botlane duo means, while others do. And perhaps a new listener is now completely down a bunnyhole of botlane duos that are hot for this upcoming season of League… and they’re not thinking about Automatic Writing, or Fucking… or Being Worthy at all. Okay, come on, put those Draven day-dreams away, and return to me. The New Year’s Eve session, it will have three endings available, and each of those will be in a different session… and I’ll let you wait to find out what those are, but I’ll bet that your clever mind has at least two ideas already. Okay, we are just about ready to get into the session, and like I said… if this particular session resonated with you, and you’d like to have only the session, and not always come back to the podcast, I don’t mind whichever you do, you can find it over on the website. Okay, let’s go ahead and get ready. The post 4.48 Automatic Writing Session (Psychography) – Follow Your Dreams appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Transcript I have great new for you. The next piece of Getting Longer is going to be released today, so make sure that you download it. You can go over to the website and download it from your account, and you can always find it there. If you have any issues just, you know, let me know. I know that you’re going to absolutely enjoy this piece. Now as we are in the throws of the holiday season, the podcast publishing is going to be… continue to be… a little hit or miss, simply because of travel, having you know, family friends etcetera visit, and all of that. But don’t worry. I still have good things planned for you… especially in the New Year. So go ahead and download that newest instalment of Getting Longer and then of course, let me know what you think. The post 4.47 – Getting Longer Release Four appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

The Winter Cuddle 7 Session Bundle is the tried and tested way to promote wet dreams. With seven nights of frustrated snuggling and naughty thoughts to treat your subconscious. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Before I get into whether or not you like mystery boxes, I want to say a thank you for the lovely holiday gifts that have been coming my way. The Gift Certificates, they’re almost always used on doggo toys. I am on this quest to find a dog toy that can’t be destroyed in 10 mins, but is also kinda fun. It seems like the indestructible ones are basically as interesting as rocks. Yeah, I know… some dogs love rocks. Maybe that’s yours, it’s not mine. Also, thank you for the perfumes. I’ve been enjoying trying out some different scents. I do have… I guess you’d call it a signature scent that I typically go back to, but I’ve been… I don’t know. I’ve just been wanting to change it up. For those of you who wear perfumes or colognes, do you typically always stay to the same thing? Is that so somebody can always tell when they’ve borrowed your hoodie or your jacket? More Things Submissive Guys Need to Know I don’t know… I think there’s just something about being close to the end of the year, and getting ever closer to that December 21st when we can have that shortest day and then look forward to slowly, sunshine coming back again. It just always makes me want a bit of a change, so… perfume for me, it adds to that. I’m not overly into a lot of other consumerism type of things… I gotta admit, other than lingerie, toys, costumes, fun stuff… my everyday basic wardrobe tends to fall in that minimalist capsule wardrobe bit. And if you don’t know what that means, just like the kitten heels, you can go look it up. You should know, as someone who enjoys Femdom, and women, you should know what a capsule wardrobe is. Oh and speaking of wardrobes, thank you as well for the bracelet. It is absolutely gorgeous. It is actually prettier in everyday life than it happened to be on the website, and that doesn’t always happen. December here tends to be endless invites, endless invites, to things happening at pubs. So, it’s like… okay, here we go again. Dressing up, but not too fancy, right? And jewelry tends to bridge that gap. The simple LBD, you should know what LBD means, paired with different jewelry, it goes a long way. And it makes it… well. It makes it easier to go to these endless holiday functions that you get invited to. Now the good news is, generally speaking most of them are a lot of fun. They’re not the typical must-go-to work-dos that feel basically just like going to another day at the office. But for whatever reason it does feel like every social or networking or work group, feels like they have to squeeze in this December gathering. And then they all think they’re being kinda clever by doing it on a Thursday. Because they assume you have nothing going on Thursday, right? It’s insane, I swear my Saturday night is basically desolate on the calendar, meanwhile Thursday is overlapping… well let’s just say I could probably do a pub crawl every Thursday night throughout December if I wanted to. And wear a different perfume, and my nice glittery bracelet. Okay, let’s get into the actual topic-ish, of today’s podcast. How to Surprise a Hypno Mistress Do you like Mystery Boxes? There might be a few ways that you can answer that question, but I’m thinking about TV shows specifically. Do you, or did you, love Twin Peaks? Lost? The first season of Stranger Things? These shows are a loosely bound category that share the common trope of hiding a great deal of the plot from you. You learn about the characters, and then your perceptions are toyed with as the circumstances are changed. Sometimes this feels like the rug being pulled out from under you. And other times, in an even more thrilling fashion, they merely whip away the tablecloth, leaving the glasses and silverware still neatly arranged on the tabletop. If I were running a movie podcast, my cohost and I would probably digress into the difference between these shows and movies like, Fight Club, The Prestige, Sixth Sense. No spoilers here, but as they’re all more than a decade old… so I feel like I can say that each of these films has a twist at the end. The mystery box TV genre, well I think I appreciate it a little more because it has longer to stretch its legs, and works on this unspoken covenant that you’re going to give it time to explain itself. Most people I’ve discussed this genre with have enjoyed these shows to differing degrees. I have strongly differing opinions with a close friend about The OA and Russian Doll. I’ll let you guess which I loved and which I hated. The point stands that these shows aren’t universally received, and that’s alright. I’ve just started Night Sky after a bumbling conversation where I teased my Netflix and Chil

Follow my unique induction and prepare yourself to enter a new spot in my vast headspace. You’ll find yourself in a snowglobe that I’ve designed to get you ready for 2023. Homepage: https://spokenbyelswyth.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spokenbyelswythWishlist: https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Will you fail these five headspace questions? So we’re going sledding today. You can call it tubing, tobogganing, whatever. You get the idea. Today’s podcast episode, it is going to be a hypnosis session, so I do expect you to listen to it when you have privacy, and safety. It’s not for listening to while you’re commuting to work.It does require the Going Deeper Faster trigger, and you’ll find the link to that in the session notes. Now, I came up with this idea in a kind of unlikely way. It’s partly because today is December 1st. Now, I don’t remember this as much being a thing as maybe it is now… because that’s how commercialism goes, right? The whole Advent Calendar thing. I think there used to always just be little piece of chocolate, right? And they’re behind little doors in a cardboard thing. But then it grew… there is everything you can imagine available out there. From beard oil, to cheeses, and hot sauce, or gin. Toiletries, just really a bit of everything. This way of counting to Christmas. But for me, I kind of like this as a wrap up to 2022. I don’t know what your year has been like. Hopefully fantastic. But we all tend to start the year with certain expectations… and as time goes, sometimes that changes. Usually it changes. So… for today’s session, we’re going to do a bit of that. But it is going to be all within the headspace. Now… the reason why I’m putting this inside the headspace is mostly because of honesty. Honest with yourself. Honest with me. And the reason that came to mind, it’s because of this guy… we’re not going to call him a gentleman. I suspect that type of person, I suspect the manners are all for show. Just someone I happened to bump into kind-of regularly because of the gym. And he had made a comment of… man, I’m not even giving the backstory to this, because it’s really kind of boring, and a little bit cringe and cliché. Anyway… but a line that he said was “Being willing to lie about how we met.” That is one of the headlines in dating apps and so on that never fails to catch his attention. And I get to wonder… I guess for some that just means lying about finding each other on Tinder and so on. But it’s kind of a fun little daydream, right? To think of different ways that people would meet, and then become very attracted, attached to each other. And the two people coming up with this mutual lie that they tell their circle of friends and family and so on. But they, they of course, within the inner circle of just them… they know the truth. And I love that kind of truth. I also get a bit of a kick out of that type of a lie. Just because it’s, I don’t know… the hopeless romantic bit of it, perhaps. So if you want, tell me in a message, or email, you can comment but again I’m kind of bad at seeing comments. Especially the YouTube ones. You know… what scenario, unlikely, you can’t use what I just said, would it be that two people would meet and they would both adopt that. Willing to lie about how they met. Okay, so what I want you to do, before we get into today’s session, is either pause it here and wait until you’re able to listen… or go ahead and find a bit of your comfort. A good spot to be in. Take a few good deep breaths. It’s quite unlikely there’ll be anything in today’s setting unless you hate snow. If you really hate the snow you’re gonna have to skip today. And there’s also a version without the podcast intro that will be available on the SpokenByElswyth website. That website should also be in today’s session notes, so go head over to the website if you want to download a, well, “clean”. A not-a-podcast version of this hypnosis session. The post 4.45 Will you fail these 5 headspace questions? Submission Snowglobe Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Today’s podcast includes two different rambles that are going to pique the interests of my collected foot fetish and high-heel enthusiasts. I’ve also heard that the snippet from the Winter Cuddle 7 Session Bundle that talks about stockings is particularly of interest to the type of man with those sorts of interests. The code MONDAY20 will still grant you 20% off your order all the way to midnight Tuesday. I’ll be watching USA Vs. Iran and Wales Vs. England this evening, among friends.If you’re joining me, you should take a chance to browse the shop during half time, and treat yourself to some HFO or Cuddle Time to celebrate victories (or mourn defeat). Transcript I struggled to come up with a title for today’s podcast episode… so I decided to go with “First Date Questions – What nakes you happy?” He was really tall. I mean… ridiculously tall, even next to my wearing-heels-that-should-only-go-to-dinner, or the bedroom heels. Are you familiar with these? Let’s digress shortly… there are, you know, different stages some women go through in their lives, especially if that woman is clever enough, you know… clever enough to realise she has that freedom of choice, even if it ends up being the wrong choice. Though that choosing generally leads to better choosing in the future. One of those scenarios, it involves heels. Yes, I know. Women are not the only ones that wear heels, but I can say that those heels I’ve chosen for others, they tend to just be those private encounter heels, and they’re never expected to wear them to a work do, or on that third, should-we-fuck date. For me, I clearly remember a date… a meeting with a particularly lovely man that I’d already had a few social encounters with, but never a proper date. So, there weren’t the usual first date whatever-things going on. We actually knew each other. Now unlike the man I mentioned when I started this rambling tale, this particular man he wasn’t tall. He was, well… is, he’s still living his happy life in the home state of Mickey Mouse, grandly living out his fantasies in the daily, and that makes me happy as well. Well I wore heels to that dinner. Low ones. Practically kitten heels, and if you don’t know what those are, you should. You are a man who claims to be into Femdom, and knowing all the ins and outs of clothing, it’s basically a job requirement. You are not the average dude, who is above all that kind of woman-stuff, right? Right? So, kitten heels, dinner, and then the after-dinner stroll that happened to be on the absolutely worst pavement, uh… sidewalk, that you can imagine. Like a proper gentleman, which happens to be just about the only type I date, he offered his arm. But I realised the heels were either going to meet an unhappy end, or you know… worse. I really didn’t want to land on my ass in front of the Friday Night crowd. I blame that sling-back design more than the height or non-height of the heels, but whatever. I’m digressing from my digression. He was dressed in the understated yet quite appealing man’s style of a nice shirt, jacket, jeans, and a pair of Vans. That was the night that I learned that not only do I like Vans. The shoes. But my date and I had, well have… as I mentioned, he’s still alive. And this is starting to make me sound guilty, isn’t it? I keep saying “No, I swear he’s still alive! When I left him he was breathing.” Anyway, he’s still alive, so am I, and we have the same size foot. I ended up keeping his Vans, and he kept my heels. And, that was also the night I learned about these marvellous inventions. There are flats that fold to be put into a practical purse when heels just won’t do for a walk. And really, who wants to give up romantic walks just because of their shoes? So certain heels of mine are for dinner, or the bedroom, or playroom-playtime. I mean that counts, too. The rest of the time I confess that I prioritise my comfort and happiness over style, but since this is an auditory experience, you’re welcome to imagine whatever, on my feet. I actually encourage it… go on. It can even be kinda white, warm and sticky. Because some days, that’s the perfect sprinkling for bare feet… followed by a warm tongue. Oh, I should mention that this comes to mind because my shoe-swapping date, he’s also a foot fetishist, and played a pretty big role in my conversion. Just no tickling, I’m not into being tickled. So anyway, back to my story. Back to this party. He was really tall. We had a conversation about nonsense… well, there’s no shame here right, so I’ll just tell you. It was about whether or not “Last Christmas” is a breakup song. I’ll let you know, I do have strong feelings on this topic, so if you want to be brave and share your opinion, go for it. At dinner, when our knees, they brushed under the table, it felt like I’d been punched in the gut. Now how often do you get that? So I shared this with a friend of mine, who was being nosey and asked about the dinner party. And she gave m

Today’s podcast episode is followed up by a free full-length session. This session is the first episode of Getting Longer – An Auditory Experience. This ongoing serial tells the tale of a growing relationship between a professional Mistress-hypnotist and her newest subject. Getting Longer requires the Season Four Deepening Trigger and the safeword session. You can find both in the Beginner Bundle. The session also makes use of the POUR and Dear/Darling triggers. If you’re already on board with Getting Longer – An Auditory Experience, listen anyway. I know you’ll also want to revisit episodes 2 and 3 before the next instalment arrives. A Cyber Monday (and Tuesday) deal Today and tomorrow enjoy 20% off your entire order with the coupon code MONDAY20. Transcript Today is Cyber Monday. And that means I have a free session, and a limited time deal for you. Now, today’s free session is one that you might have heard… especially if you’re one of those guys that just must listen to everything I have available. If that’s you, and you truly have everything, free or not, that I’ve put out there then let me know. Because I’m going to have to work out something different for you… but chances are there’s still a session that you’re missing, and you’re in luck. Go over to SpokenByElswyth.com, and look at today’s post, for today’s podcast, and you will find a special code that’s good until Tuesday at midnight. But like I said, if you already own everything, get in touch with me. Now today’s free session, it is the first installment, just a taste, of Getting Longer for Season Four. Now, the only thing required to enjoy this session is to make sure you’ve used the free sessions available in the Season Four Beginner Bundle. That’ll get you started. Then, go ahead… put on some headphones and enjoy Getting Longer Part One. The rest, they’re available over on the website. So you’re not really behind, but you will find as you listen through that this one especially, for season four, it continues to change in little, clever, subtle ways. As well as, of course, Getting Longer. All of the installments are right there and every time a new one comes out it’s automatically added into that bundle, so you can instantly download it. But go ahead, if you have not tried Season Four’s Getting Longer, you are definitely in for a treat. Find somewhere private to be, and enjoy. The post 4.43 Cyber Monday – Free session and limited time deals appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I’m excited to hear from you about your thoughts, experiences and idle daydreams about visual stimulus and tools. In this podcast episode I touch on my use of breath control and breath play. There’s plenty of breathing exercises in the podcast archive. But the perfect place to put all those techniques into practice is the Heady HFO With Breath Play session. Transcript Today’s episode is “What do you know about hypnotic devices?” Somewhat recently I received a message from a loyal listener that said “Dear Mistress, Quick question”. And I’m going to say it wasn’t a question, or particularly quick, but here we go. “I was wondering how effective visual stimulus is with hypnosis? I know some of your YouTube uploads use trance-enhancing visuals, but I can always fall under just fine without any of these visuals. Would you consider doing more content with visuals to enhance the hypnosis, to either help induce a subject or to implant suggestions? Thanks for any info you can provide.” So for a while there, I was doing a little bit more with videos to go with YouTube. However, due to… quite a bit of feedback, especially from those who regularly come in and use my content, I found that amount of time spent using the videos was a bit unwarranted. Most people simply listen. A lot of people just find me by the RSS, the podcast feed on… you know, whatever particular podcast app you happen to love. Maybe this is the time to remind you to Like, Subscribe, Leave a Comment, but maybe not… I’m really bad at getting back to the comment sections. I prefer those Patron messages and emails. But you can also leave a rating, that would be good. I found that the time spent with these videos, I was better off just putting that into writing and recording. Now with that said, there are a few that will be coming out that might have some interesting visuals, and I am open to taking requests… so if enough people tell me that you would love to have a special video, visual, get in touch with me and we’ll go from there. But let’s go ahead and actually talk about what these visuals are. Now a few of them are… I almost said “trite” but I don’t think that’s what I’m going for. A few of them are basically ingrained in us, that we believe they are great hypnotic tools. The pendulum is one of them, which somebody gifted me a gorgeous crystal pendulum a while ago, which I love, a nd it sits on my desk. Oh, and the hypno-disc. That’s the one that’s the spiral, you know… around and around and around. Those are some of the visuals… for a stage hypnosis, there are other visuals you see. You know, dimming of the lights, and putting a spotlight on a certain thing, and so on. You know, there’s this whole theater that goes into it. Now I’m not saying this is fake, because this amount that goes into it, you’re already primed to accept that. If you’ve grown up watching, you know, those cartoons where the one jumps up and he has the pendulum and he’s swinging it in front of the other one’s eyes, whose eyes then turn all swirly… well if I’m in front of you and I have this hypno-disc visual, and I start it, somewhere in you is something primed to believe it’s going to work. Now, one of the things it’s doing, basically, is I’m telling you to stare at it. I’m reminding you to try not to blink, to give it all of your focus, keep bringing you back to paying attention. Meanwhile, your eyes, they start to get tired. More than likely, they start to water. That gets you to blink, that gets them to start to feel heavy, and you know… before you know it, we’re off to the races, right? So yes, there’s definitely a benefit to visual stimulation, visual aids, for hypnosis. But this is an auditory experience, right? Now, if you are one of my clever ones, and you love those little easter eggs, whether its words or the music design itself, you know those little hypnotic tools, they are embedded throughout the SpokenByElswyth sessions. The music that I use is bespoke, it’s made for me, for you, and it’s chosen for purpose… so you have that as a auditory aid. But let me give you one more, let me just show you… well, not show you but tell you, another way that this can be used. So we’re going to use a pendulum… but we’re using a metronome. So listen to the metronome that’s going to start in just a little bit, and when you hear the first sound, breathe in, say “sleep”, either out loud (because you’re on the train) do it in your head! And on the next one, exhale… and say “deep sleep”. So, “sleep”… “deep sleep”. So you get it, we’re going to go on like that just for a bit… I promise you’re not going under. This is more about just relaxing… if you have to, just tell all those worries and anxieties and whatever else you have running through your head, that you’re setting them to sleep. Okay, ready? Here we go. Make sure you listen to the episode for a short breathing exercise. Okay, there… now how do you feel? There’s something magical about repetition. There’s somethi

Interested in the ideas behind today’s podcast episode? Want to go further? You can learn to look inside yourself, using the lens of Femdom Hypnosis. On the Locktober page you will find a simple form for confirming your Locktober success. In most cases you will have to complete this to earn your reward. The new trigger has already appeared on the podcast, and the trigger setting session will appear this month. Transcript In today’s episode let’s talk about whether or not you want to meet your ideal role model. Now this can take a… wow… quite a few different forms, right? So it could be the ideal role model for, you know, the everyday mundane world. The person that you would like… if possible, maybe not 100% but if you could kind of step into their life, while keeping a lot of your own life. I don’t think you should ditch all of your own life, friends, pets, whatever, you would do so. And for the kink side, this would mean if… if you do, you know, indulge in BDSM, or D/s, or Female Led Relationship in your everyday life, what that everyday life role model would look like. Or, let’s say this is your kink, this is your fetish, you know… the erotic hypnosis, so it would be, maybe someone in a certain place in the headspace. That little chunk, or maybe not so little, of your life. The ideal role model for that part. Now, we don’t have any real limits, right? I mean, other than… there are certain things we’re not doing. But when it comes to imagination, creativity, seeing where you know, hypnosis and trance will take us… it’s pretty open. So your ideal role model of… well, the sky could really be the limit if it is the erotic hypnosis side. Okay, so let’s just say that whatever you would call this progression in time, that you have this ideal role model, and you meet yourself as that person. Some people refer to this as the age progression, the time progression, for some it’s like a mental rehearsal. You hear about this in the sports analogies a lot. You know… that say your favorite basketball player, you’ve heard a thousand interviews with him and he talks about how he imagines that shot, you know? Or supposedly golfers do this… I’m not one who watches golf. I will watch basically any live sport in person. I enjoy that… I don’t quite get the golf thing, but I do enjoy being outside, so hey… I might like that as well. So anyway, that mental rehearsal, the process imagery, goal imagery and result imagery, they’re kinda all the same thing. They’re speeding up time and being in that spot. That spot of success. So curious to know if… if this is something that you personally would find intriguing, or would it be intimidating, would it be way too much for you to be able to imagine this ideal role model and step into their place. This, you know, almost an elaborate roleplay, right? This anticipated, future situation where you would love to be. I want to hear your thoughts on that. Or I have a feeling that for some of you, maybe that isn’t quite so interesting, because the end result, the end goal of where you are, isn’t as satisfying as going through the process. Maybe if we did this time progression, and you did get to meet your ideal role model and your own self, you could ask them questions, you could know what their own story was, what path they took. Would that change it up for you? And the other variation that would be available for this idea… I’m not saying I’m doing, I’m not doing eight hundred different role models, I just really am fascinated by this idea and by almost this… people call it the Marmite reaction, you know… you either love it or hate it, there’s not really a middle ground for Marmite. I think anchovies might have a similar thing of how people feel about this. And I wonder too if it makes a difference if you are having this ideal role model for a mundane thing… that you finally got that company going that you wanted, or you opened your own business, or you’ve finished that 10K you didn’t think that you would get to do… versus 24/7 lifestyle as a sissy maid, or… man… living most of your time in puppy play, or actually turning yourself over, basically 100% to having your thoughts and memories, thoughts, wants, needs, everything made and remade, and actually being immersed in that female led relationship to the point that… that’s it. That’s your reality, whole entire difference. RIght? Lots of different ways that it could go. But also, the experience itself could be different too. So what if, you know, I’m a bit leery of this but I wanna try it, but you know it’s your typical trance experience. Maybe even in the Listening Room. So you know there’s a very vivid safeword setting for that… of taking off the headphones in the Listening Room. Or what if, instead, we went really deep. Into this incredible, deep, trance stage… where instead of like, it feeling maybe just like remembering something, or meeting someone, that this deeper trance experience is truly believed in imagining. Where the experie

The Winter Cuddle 7 Session Bundle is available now. Come cuddle with me every night of the week. November 11th Update: I’ve fixed a small mistake in the session. The updated version is available on your Downloads page, and in the podcast episode. Transcript Today’s podcast episode is a Winter Cuddle Session, and it has some information about some extra fun bits available. Now I know I already told you in Episode 39, about the Winter Cuddle Session, and what it’s about. And you’ll get to hear it after this little introduction. Now what you are going to do, is simply hold onto this podcast session until you’re tucked up into bed. The actual session, it’s a little over 20 minutes long and it does tell you to relax into sleep at the end. Now, if I could offer it in a little orange pill bottle, it would be required on the bottle to be adorned with a “Do Not Operate Heavy Machinery” sticker.Are you forklift certified? Seven More Snuggly Scenarios You’re no stranger to the idea that a session that appears here on the podcast might be twinned (over on the SpokenByElswyth.com website) with something that offers a different perspective, or more variations. Now after I wrapped up the script for the session you’ll hear today… or tonight… I came up with seven other sensations that I knew would fit nicely into what was already there. So, instead of choosing which sensations to work into the session, I decided to embrace my inner hedonist and just do everything. Each of the sessions in the bundle includes two or three of these extra moments, and so each session is five or more minutes longer. Wet Dreams Through Hypnotic Conditioning I combined the pieces together in the ways that felt right to me. And we both know, don’t we, who’s right? This isn’t an exhaustive set of a hundred sessions, covering every possible combination. But, my dear one, it *is* enough that you could listen every night of the week. And I’ve presented them in such a way that you won’t know exactly what you’re getting until you listen. I do have a little description there on the website, of what the pool of possibilities happens to be, so you’re not going to be stunned or shocked or whatever. You just won’t know what’s going to come up, and that’s fun, right? Okay, so now it’s time to either stop the podcast, or to head for a nap, or if you’re lucky enough to be listening to this at bedtime, just snuggle on down and go ahead. I know you’re going to love it. The post 4.40 Sleep and Wet Dream Hypnosis in a FREE Winter Cuddle Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I promised a link to my Amazon wish list in these show notes, and here it is:https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2H0LNXYM2TDCU Transcript Welcome to today’s episode. It’s the Spoken By Elswyth Locktober Review, and Reward Update. So… I had a bit of a delay, but you know what? Deadlines call, and I have to answer. But the good news is that there’s a fun session coming out here on the podcast on Thursday. I’ll tell you what that is in a moment, but first let’s talk about… A thank you to a very special gentleman for the gift of the new yoga mat. You don’t wanna know what the old one was looking like, so it’s nice to have this bit of sunshine to tote along with me to class. Thank you for that. Also I received an Amazon gift card, which… I reall enjoy getting those, because I kind-of have my own mental list of things, and some of you are aware that very high on that list is anything that deals with sunlight. So my home is a bit sunnier now. Also had some other things come off the Amazon wishlist which… I actually had from a few of the people notes come beforehand to say to not thank them publicly, which was interesting. I think they were afraid I might add some commentary to the items that were purchased. But anyway, thank you… it’s always a fun surprise, right? To get something in the mail? If you want to look at my wishlist, the link is in today’s episode notes. If you want to do something free and easy to help the podcast, make sure you hit “Like” and “Subscribe” and it wouldn’t hurt to have some good… I don’t even know if it’s four, or five star reviews out there. So, feel free to do that too. It costs a bit of time, but gifts of time, they’re pretty good gifts, right? So we are into November, depending on where you live that means all kinds of things. You might have just recently had your bonfire night, or… oh, you might be out voting today. Yeah, so… interesting times, right? And those things kind-of go hand-in-hand. Anyway, right… not getting into politics, I swear. We had out Locktober last month, for October. Did have a bit of a derailment in there thanks to the, you know, stupid you-know-what managing to invade my body. Man, that’s not even good. Like if you were writing a bit of sexy, let’s say it’s a… oh, X-Files is the only alien TV show I can think of. You know, you’re writing a bit of sexy fan-fic, and you decide, oh… invasion, alien invasion on my body. It would never result in a lot of coughing, and a fever, and basically feeling like shit. Or maybe the last one, I don’t know… well, I don’t even like fanfic for the most part, I do really love amateur writing. I can’t always get into the fanfic thing. Anyway, let’s go back to the topic. We had out Locktober… there… was a form on the website, and it let you sign in, and put you name in there, whether you planned to participate. Now, the form is closed, which it should be because it’s November, but your reward is coming. I will let you know when it’s ready. And the reward is going to be one of those fun little Easter Egg things that I like to slip into the podcast or the sessions, or whatnot. And it is only being given to those who participated in this year’s Locktober… so next year we’ll do something different, but I know you’re going to love this one; I really love this particular trigger, party because I love words and I love this word. So anyway, that’s coming. Now we still have some people waiting until the 10th, and… one unfortunate soul, just one, who won’t be able to get a reward until the end of November. Sad, huh? But, I am happy to have been the center of this little game, this experience… I’m glad I had a whole host of reponses and reactions to the rice punishment. I’m glad to know it had the desired effect on almost everyone who experienced it. I even had a very polite request for a sensation play session like the… Left With Warm Thighs, do you know that one, dear listener? Well… a hypnotic session that brings about this particular discomfort through hypnosis, it might just be worth exploring. If you’re listening and thinking to yourself that you need a file like that, let me know, okay? Some of my favorite types of messages to receive, these were the descriptions of chastity as a sort of slow-burn of arousal and desire and uh… well… here, let me read something that I copy/pasted:Dear reader. You need to to listen to episode to hear this little snippet. Is that such a hardship? Okay, so… more news about the new Thursday Session; this was going to be the Locktober Cuddle Session, and okay… what’s a Cuddle Session? On Patreon I released a Cuddle Session, I think it would have been earlier this year… and it’s a something-something hypnotic session that focuses on the sensations of having me cuddled up behind you, in bed. Oh, and that original one, it has lots of deliberately confusing language, it toys with some subtle emotional manipulation, a little jealousy, but it still comes back to good, snuggly thoughts before it leads you to s

The session I’m gifting you today was planned for next week. You can find out what it’s all about in the podcast episode, and it’s something you can make use of immediately. The Locktober Cuddle Session has become something grander. You can look forward to it appearing next week, and like this session there will be a version available right here on the podcast feed. The post E38 Session: Easy alert trance cues to improve concentration appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Transcript In today’s episode we need to talk about Headspaces. It’s basically a SpokenByElswyth requirement. In my creative process for sessions… I do like to borrow from different hypnotic strategies, theories, and history. And using those using those pragmatic nuts and bolts suggestions – both the highly indirect, permissive and metaphoric, and also the direct, forceful, and authoritative. This is a Femdom Hypnosis slant after all. The different sessions allow for this creativity, plus I know that how you experience hypnosis isn’t the same as how another might. Now Erickson, he was a big fan a multiplicity of suggestions and keeping them simple. But I know that you are clever. I know that you fucking love the mind games.. And because we’re not working on something like stopping smoking, where I would use simple suggestions presenting a sufficient number where you willingly take this one or that one… I feel just fine with having this variety… because this isn’t a deadly serious issue that you’ve come to me with, right? Like stopping smoking. It’s something else… so we can have a lot more fun with it. And really like including the ones, that you may only receive and take on after the third or fifth listen through. All of this is highly repeatable, right? So it’s fun to know the more you do it, again and again, the more you’re going to get. Now quite a few of my sessions, they have multiple versions intertwined. They have these threads that are similar, right? But they come at it in a slightly different way. If you have listened to the most recent Financial Domination one, it’s very obvious in there… and I’m a creature of habit, I tend to stick to sets of three. Now I did mention before that in the past, I really struggled with that creative, interesting element to FinDom. And, yeah… it just wasn’t. It just wasn’t clicking. And what allowed it to actually click for me was turning it into more of that shared experience. By really diving into that headspace that hypnosis allows us to have, right? It’s a totally different experience compared to just… being in person and, not saying necessarily one is better than the other, but… they are quite different, and when it comes to something like Financial Domination, I’m gonna say the hypnotic version is way better. Now, before I get into that, about the headspaces and how it varies, let’s talk about that Lemon Convincer script. If you haven’t experienced it, go back to episode 24 and take a listen… it’s fine, I’ll wait. That particular session… the reason it’s called a convincer is because it’s typically used to break the ice in a private or group sessions. It allows someone to touch on hypnosis, use those various senses, and for many people, they then realize that they do have this depth of imagination and memory just waiting to be drawn from. For instance, in that lemon convincer script, which kitchen did you imagine yourself in? Now quite a few people can tell an entire story about which they picked, why they picked it, and give lots of details. Enough that like, I feel like I’m taking this trip, and I’m visiting it with them. I’m sharing that space. For someone like me, and honestly… someone like you, when a person does that, when a person is able to describe and share that place enough, that space, they really are adding on to our personal headspace, and I love that. Now before I go further, I do have a small favor to ask. Whether you’ve found me on YouTube, Spotify, or your favorite podcast provider, take a moment to subscribe to the SpokenByElswyth podcast. It helps me to be found and to continue to put my time and energy into this project. Also, you may have noticed I have zero ads. I don’t think you want to hear a sock sponsor in the middle of my podcasts, though socks can be useful for things like keeping your feet warm… so I’m keeping it this way, right? This means your support on patreon or purchases through the website, it just keeps the lights on, and with the way the UK economy is going, I need that support. I need my light. So thank you to those who have done this already and to those that haven’t, what are you waiting for? Okay, now back to talking about headspaces. For those that indulge in this daydreaming regularly, you may have found a certain aesthetic that works for you, like a fusion between Elswyth’s teachings and Animal Crossing. You know, what is on your island? I know, from numerous conversations over the years with patrons and other followers that describing the headspace is a joy, and it’s often very detailed. You’ve made space for that forest walking area, the town that we visit in Walking to Seduction, and you’ve either found or created your temple. So creating the FinDom session, it meant it wasn’t going to be all name calling and exchanging of bank details. The shared experience, the overlapping of headspaces, the creating new territory in that mind of yours… that is my kin. I can exchange bank details with a personal tr

Financial DominationMeet your Cash Mistress, your Sugar Baby, and the Goddess who demands an even more meaningful tribute. $7.00 Shop now Today’s episode was originally planned for yesterday. At this point I expect a new episode will appear on Friday. For everyone asking, I’m feeling much better, and my cough is under control. Transcript Today’s episode is about L-D-R-F-L-R’s, and some rambling. I’m going to tell you about something that’s out of character for me… usually I don’t like hearing about the minutiae of chastity play, at least when it comes to those L-D-R-F-L-R situations. And so in spite of the fact that I’ve had a few listeners ask me to play the role of keyholder… and I’ve had a few beg me to play the role of keyholder, I usually turn them down. I think it’s the disconnect of long distance that makes it a bit less appealing. Doesn’t quite have the same oomph as our usual, y’know… erotic hypnosis relationship. Because I don’t get to passively observe the effects of frustration, and make little bets with myself over when you’ll break, or ask for more than I’m likely to give. Oh, or reap the benefits when it comes to my own pleasure, or all the other ways that affection and appreciation can be displayed. But these last almost-three-weeks, I’ve really enjoyed it. Maybe it’s the fact that all this chastity-themed fun is concentrated in one place, and that the expectation of no orgasms is present in every connection for this short time. And then the elephant in the room; I’ve been unable to record a podcast episode for a little while, so I have enjoyed keeping up with the trials and tribulations of a month in chastity in message and emails. You’ll likely hear a little bit in my throat. I managed to catch what everybody… what everybody seems to have. Still getting back to my normal self… really surprised how this one managed to kick my ass for a bit. And speaking of those messages and emails… I’ve had lots of messages about wandering hands and desperation. I’m enjoying the pride that the mental chastity aficionados all display, and I’ve had artful photographs shared by some of those who did elect to make use of a device. I’ve even had slip-ups, and I’ll be addressing those in a moment. Here’s something I want, it’s your task for the day, if you haven’t told me how it’s going, do so. Even if it hasn’t been going, you know… great. Remember, you do need to go over to the website, SpokenByElswyth.com/Locktober to tell me if you’re participating in order to be eligible for that exclusive reward that’s popping up in November. So it hasn’t all been sunshine and rainbows. Not least because… that running total I promised I’d keep? Well… that number hasn’t increased much recently. I don’t really need to tell you that this coughing fit is a real mood killer. But things are looking up; I’ve enjoyed some quality writing time… and today there’s a new Listening Room session that really dives into Financial Domination. You’ll find it in the shop, and if you’ve heard The Pirate Queen, well it’s definitely in that same… “direct” style. There’s a real narrative for you, that you can just be totally immersed in. A story where you’re the subject… victim? Let’s say victim, of another incredibly controlling, and possessive Mistress-figure. Oh, There’s also a session, I’m.. right now calling it the Locktober Cuddle Session. And fingers crossed that’s going to pop up later this week. There’s some work left to do on it, but it’s all about warm and close sensations brought through sleepy, trancey, relaxation hypnosis. It’s certainly a session that’s perfect for right before sleep… and I know you love your Sleep Hypnosis. And at the moment the plan is to put a version of that out on the podcast for everyone, so that’s something you get to look forward to. But, okay. You have your task; if you haven’t told me how Locktober’s going for you, now’s the time. Even if you fucked up. It’s okay, I told you it’s okay, right? Over a week ago now. But now’s the time to climb back on the horse. And if you’ve been good, if you haven’t had a single intentional orgasm since the last day of September, you’re allowed to leave now. Off you go. Feel free to shut off the podcast, or the YouTube video. Once again, I’m assuring you that you’re not in trouble. You’re not missing out, and you should feel my pride POUR over you, due to your good behavior. That was the dog. She wants to go for a walk… and so she just keeps roaming around the room. Anyway, you’re not missing out, like I said. This is just, not for you. Because you’ve been a good boy. If you want to know what message I have for the disobedient ones, you’ll have to listen to the episode. The post 4.36 Checking In, With Chastity (and Punishment) appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I’ve taken a test, and then another test, and I’m now certain that I have Covid. It’s relatively mild, but you might find yourself waiting until Thursday to be teased about the impending two week stint without orgasms. Luckily this story was already recorded on Friday, so I can share it with you today. Transcript In today’s episode I’m sharing some of the responses I had to episodes 32 and 33, the plant episode… remember that one? With the orchids and cacti. And the utopia idea. So I had quite a few people, confessing whether they feel into being a orchid, or a cactus, or… you know, fluctuating between. And one of the emails from… a particular submissive gentleman gave pretty good reasonings for why he is a vine. Now if you’ve ever seen these lush vines growing, like the golden pathos and so on… they’re impressive. They’re easy. And the reason why he identified as a vine wasn’t necessarily because he considers himself to be easy. But because the rampant vines, they like exploring a lot, yet… always happy to follow guidance, training. And they’re pretty able, you know, to survive alone. They can deal with some mistreatment and being ignored. But I’ll tell you, one of my favourite things about vining house plants, is they’re so easy to share with friends. I mean, you can share them with a half-dozen friends with minimal effort. Very minimal effort. And if you’re actually looking for a gardening tip, all you do is… cut off a part of it, plop it down in water, you know, change it every week or so, you’ll have roots, throw it in dirt (or not) it can stay in water, and give it to a friend. If you’re looking for, you know, how to share your submissive tips… well… well let me know, and I’ll do that in another episode. And so for episode 33, again, quite a few responses. Lot of people love the idea of Utopia, and I’ll get to a few of those, and we might revisit this a couple times, so if you still have an idea that you haven’t shared with me, go ahead. We’re going to start off, this one, with a story that was inspired by Episode 33. So go on and get yourself, you know a cup of hot chocolate, or some hot tea. Settle on in for storytime. Listen to the podcast episode to hear this delightful piece of hypno fiction. The post 4.35 Don’t Miss This Utopia Story – Listener Response to Episode 33 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Transcript Today’s episode will have a full length session after a bit of a introduction. The session is “How to Quickly and Easily Avoid Chastity Failure”. So you can certainly listen, and enjoy it right now… but I’ll let you know when it’s time to pause and get comfy somewhere private before listening any further. By the time you’re hearing this you could well be a whole week into this experience. Does it help you to think about the time ticking away? I’ve been thinking about that ever since our Cactus/Orchid conversation, whether the Cactus-type is more likely to not notice the pages being torn off the calendar. And why is it dear, that this Locktober has to take place in one of those long, long 31-day months? If only it could be February, and you could happily say that you’re already a quarter of the way to freedom. Well, of course February wouldn’t work, right? Because what would you be doing on the 14th? Oh, and this session also comes at a great time, because someone told me a story of how they woke up with both hands already wrapped around their… you know. I do think, dear listener… loyal and faithful sub, that if you don’t sleep naked, it makes it a bit harder to grab your cock. What do you think? Find yourself some PJs? And y’know, because it’s getting into fall weather, make them the cute ones. You know the ones that zip all the way up in the front. Bonus points for a hood… a hood that has ears on it. Now I’m not saying you need a whole furry persona. I think that’s called a fursona, that sounds right. But I could be making that up… I’m not saying you need that. You can go to almost any department store and find a way to turn yourself into a bear, or a tiger, bunny… et cetera. Just something fuzzy that covers up parts you’re not supposed to be touching. I’ll… oh! I have a little sticky note here for myself. It probably wins for the… oddest sticky note that someone else could possibly see. I told you on the 3rd of October that I was already up to six. Well, it’s… it’s quite a bit more than that, but you know I’m just going to blame hormones, and I’m also going to blame this account that was sent to me. I’m not always into dress-up. I know, I just told you to dress up like a tiger or a bear or whatever… not always into that. Not always into my french maids, not always into my prissy’s. Not always into my sex-doll-sluts, I mean… not everything has to be about dress-up, right? But ah… man, on this particular account, the person in it has these pyjamas that I am totally obsessed with. I need to find out where they found those, desperately need that. If you ask me nicely, in an email, or Patreon message, whichever one’s easiest for you, I’ll tell you what they look like. Okay, so I did promise you a full session, right? So now is about time for you to find that quiet, private spot. Go ahead, I’ll wait. Oh, and just a quick note that if you would like to have this session to use at any time, without the podcast preamble, just go on over the the website, SpokenByElswyth.com, and you can get it there. Any session that you get through the website, is kept in your account so you can have unlimited downloads. Very useful if you happen to misplace things. And if you enjoy having full sessions available on the podcast, be sure to either hit like, or subscribe, or leave a review, depending on where you’re listening to me. Having the likes and reviews and so-ons, subscriptions, just makes it possible for more to find me, and for me to dedicate even more time to you. The post 4.34 How to Quickly and Easily Avoid Chastity Failure appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Tune in on Friday, when a full-length meditation and hypnosis session is expected. Transcript This transcript is provided for the purposes of information only. Unless strictly necessary, I insist that you listen to the session before consulting this reference.Good boy. Today’s episode is a bit rambly. It’s my idea of a Utopia setting, but like most of my ideas this is not one set in stone, this is just what I came up with morning after reading a pretty interesting message. The person wanted to know, what is one of my taboo fantasies. Something I would do maybe only in an actual daydream of my own. Now I don’t know if they expected me to come up with something really shocking. Or, really sexual or whatever else. Maybe this hedonistic orgy that one of these festivals, you get together with, and everybody lives their best life for a while. A Hypno Utopia Setting? But I had a walk to take after that, and while I was going, I really got to thinking about this one. Like, for today… what would be my no-holds-barred Utopian thing? And I came up with… having a bed, out in like the middle of nowhere, okay? Let’s make it a four-poster bed, we’ll put a white canopy on it, something that gives a bit of intimacy while not really blocking off the scenery, okay? And I’m going to set this bed in a very quiet place. While I was on vacation, holiday, a while back… I had the pleasure of visiting this lake, a glacial lake, up the mountains… that was so quiet. Now I grew up in a rural area, where you could pretty easily get away from the sounds of cars and people and so on, but it did not compare to this, to the way that the silence felt. I’ve heard that there is a crater or, I think it’s on Maui, that’s one of the Hawaiian islands, that has been dubbed “The Quietest Place on Earth”. The sound level is about the same volume as your breathing, it’s ten decibels. ANd since I’ve started this project, I’ve gotten pretty good at reading sound meters, so I know what ten decibels happens to be. So this bed, would be placed somewhere that quiet. With a guarantee of no interruptions at all. Something that… even though it goes against the definition of the word, is a shared solipsism. You know, that… the only thing that you have direct access to, basically, is the contents of your own mind. And just because you see something, it doesn’t mean it actually exists. People do see stuff. And indulging in that… so myself, and whoever is with me, being this… alone and detached, feeling that we’re the only two people that exist. Okay, still with me? I know, it’s not kinky yet. The Intimacy of Trance But then playing with it. For me, trance is very intimate. I somewhat recently read this actually very well written article about sleeping together. Sleeping is just about the most intimate thing you can do together. I’m going to argue, it’s more intimate than sex… because think about it, you know… two people can meet, find themselves just wrapped up in this passion, have sex and then kind of go on their way, right? But sleeping together without some kind of closeness, it seems strange, wrong. Pretend those two people, in these throws of passion, fantastic sex, both fall asleep, and wake up the next day. Most of the time, I think one, or both, of the people they’re both basically ready to leave. Whatever drove them together for that sexual passion, did not keep them cemented together for that intimacy of waking up together. And now, you know… some people, they look forward to every night, going to sleep with their partner, or partners, and having that close, intimacy of even before like your brain is fully awake, perhaps you’re already reaching out to the other, or others, or what-not in your bed, right? That instinctual closeness, knowing that they’re there. And for me, with trance, with playing with the… or maybe playing isn’t the right word, but with using the erotic hypnosis, it is tapping into that energy. That sleep intimacy, plus some, right? Because those dreams that you’re having, you’re not conjuring them up all by yourself. That shared solipsism happens because I do have access to your mind. To your thoughts, to your emotions, to creating the experience that’s going on. And you have that intimacy and that trust and that openness that we can just be the only two people. The Deepest From of Hypnotic Submission Now because it’s really not like this big confession unless there’s something else with it, and my big confession can’t be literally that I just want to sleep with someone, right? How interesting would it be, to have the trance, have the headspace sharing, the word runes, and all of that bleed over. Have those lined just so faint you can barely see them. Because of this period of being just two people, alone in the world. How far could I nudge you? When I was looking up some information about sounds and silence and such, I always thought of… you know how they talk about the moon, and being quiet, and everything else? I didn’t really thin

There are one or two mentions of triggers in this podcast episode, and some are invoked. Find the POUR and Marshmallow trigger setting sessions on the Locktober page. In this episode I mention a session aimed at my sissy maid, Prissy. It’s a fun erotic story told to you in trance, with a humiliating, demeaning (but orgasmic) finale. This session absolutely will not help you retain a state of chastity for the month. Transcript Are you a Loctober Orchid, or Cactus? So it’s October 3rd already? Kinda surprising, honestly. A happy accident of days 1 and 2 of Locktober taking place over the weekend. But depending on your disposition, your normal routine this might be where things start to get interesting, anyway. It’s certainly the plan that as the month goes on, I’ll have to address what we’re going to do with any thoughts of cheating, or even the reality of you slipping and consciously having an… unsolicited release. But do I really, really need to start today, this first installment of the SbE Locktober, with a caveat like “If you’ve been… very naughty, hidden yourself away in the bathroom to cheat, and jerk off” et cetera. No, I don’t think so. Everything’s on track, right? Now if you’ll indulge me with beginning a thought with a metaphor, and deliberately leaving you wondering what point I’m making… here we go. I have a few houseplants. I don’t know about you, but I think the number of people keeping succulents and so on, it’s basically exploded in the last couple of years. Probably due to the C-word, right? Or heck, maybe I’m just seeing more of it personally? We’re all looking at different internets these days, right? But I have a cactus or two. Part of the appeal (though not really for me) of these plants is they like to be left alone, and for a certain type of person, that is just right, just perfect. Cactuses like to be ignored. I had a family member growing up she had a huge one in her kitchen, which to children is very intimidating, but now as a full-on grown up, I just find it really inspiring in a way. I don’t think I’m ever gonna get one that big. Or live that long, actually. So it’s true. Because of this, most of the plants I keep are you know, the long, vining things that like to creep up a moss pole of a bamboo, or go across the mantle. That’s my happy spot. But I do keep one, somewhat humble Orchid. It was a gift, I suspect most people throw them out once they stop flowering. And because this easy-going grocery store example, man they are high maintenance. Especially when you compare it to that cactus that’s just on the window sill. Or even the vining plants, they like attention, but if you forget they’re like “It’s okay, that’s fine. We know, you’re busy.” But an orchid it has no chill at all. If you want that thing to flower again, you have to water it on a certain schedule, you have to get it tthe right amount of light… the temperature, it makes a difference. Oh, there’s special fertilizer. And regular potting soil… no, no-no-no-no, the orchid does not go in that. I paid a pretty hefty premium to put it into special orchid bark. Which is insane for a plant that in the wild just grows on trees and it’s just fine. So anyway, it’s like the difference between that perfectly browned roasted marshmallow and when you just stick it in the flames, let it catch fire, and blow out the blackened mess. Getting a chargrilled marshmallow is easy, getting it evenly brown is not.  It’s not exactly a test of one’s personality, which houseplants you like to keep. I think it’s the same as those that walk that moral high road when it comes to roasting marshmallows. Now, if you’ve never done it, I’m probably gonna lose you here. And I admit I haven’t done it as much recently because, after becoming vegetarian and realising what gelatine actually is, and I don’t really like a lot of sugar either, so… all of those things go together, but anyway… anyway. With roasting marshmallows, there are the people who believe very firmly that to be a good person means slowly turning it, getting it evenly brown all the way around. And there are other people who fall into the camp of… ya stick it in the fire, let it catch fire, twist it a bit, blow it out… and then you have this blackened mess. Again, just like with the houseplants, and chastity… I’m not saying one is morally superior to the other, but I do know which camp I fall into. So maybe for these first two days you’re been trying to avoid thinking about chastity at all, other than using the sessions, making sure that chastity trigger, it stays firmly in your mind. I’m not going to let you get away with that for the whole month. We’re not going to just ignore it. We are going to reflect on it, talk about it, and you are going to have some tasks where you tell me how you’re feeling. You know those thoughts and feelings that belong to a certain someone… I’m going to collect those. And I’m also pretty open about how it effects me, as well. Going through this Lockt

I know I can trust you not to get into trouble until the Monday the 3rd of October. But if it’s not as easy as you expected, make use of this mini relaxation and affirmations session. The affirmations are borrowed from the middle of the Chastity Mindset Sessions. Transcript Today is the final precursor episode to the SpokenByElswyth Locktober. The end of today’s episode is going to be a mini meditation session of mindful breathing and include the Mindset Sessions, those chastity affirmations. There’s a link to the full Chastity Mindset Session in today’s episode notes, so go check that out if you don’t have it already. If you’re not participating in Locktober, feel free to do the breathing anyway, but you might just wanna gloss over the affirmations. There might be some “Explain like I’ve been listening for five minutes” information in this episode. But if you’ve been listening for a while, I know you won’t mind listening carefully. There will be three episodes a week for the next month, in our October. This crazy sporadic schedule, it… it is going to be sorted soon, although I know many have said it’s allowed them to catch up. So there’s always a silver lining. New Erotic Hypno Content Coming Soon! So for next month, there is still going to be fun and erotic sessions coming out. As I mentioend previously, I have a few things in the works. And some have gotten kind of clogged up in the editing process. There will be a new Getting Longer release. Getting Longer is the erotic hypnosis session, well a number of sessions, that form to complete a narrative. The episodes come out every few weeks, and you just buy it once, it goes in your account, and you automatically get access to all of the new versions that come along. There’s a new “Walking to Seduction” style session. It’s shaping up, it’s going to be quite different to the first one from episode 4. And a new “Listening Room” session, it’s in the same vein, I would say, of The Pirate Queen. And this one is tangled up in such delightful topics as Financial Domination and forced movement. Now I do promise not to release, or demand that you listen to, any sessions that are explicitly about seeking orgasm, for that month. Now November, woo… you might be busy. You better stay hydrated. The Permission for Release, those Permissive Circumstance, the thing that I throw out in the podcast episodes, that if you have met that circumstance for today… like… let’s say today’s, we’re going to go very basic, are you wearing sock? If you’re wearing socks, you have my permission for an orgasm today. Now if you’re not wearing socks, that means too bad, so sad. No release for you today. That is a Permissive Circumstance. They’re not always that basic, sometimes it’s more of an honour system of… do you remember a certain affirmation, or a session, or a trigger.  I was going to make to make today’s Permissive Circumstance a bit… juicier, so if you think the sock one is just a bit too mundane for you, so how about this? You have permission, as long as you’ve told me, promised me, that you’re going to succeed at Locktober. You can do that by going to the website, SpokenByElswyth.com/Locktober and it’ll tell you exactly how to do so. So PCs they’re on hold during October and resuming in November. Now if you’re not doing Locktober and will miss the fun game of chance, use some dice – even for yes, odds for no. Keep track and then you can let me know at the end of the month. A Chastity Mindset Mini-Session This mini-session that’s coming up, is one that you’re going to use after you’ve “entertained yourself” if you met today’s… either one of today’s Permissive Circumstances, and it’s also one for you to revisit throughout the month. So find a place where you’re unlikely to be interrupted. You’re not going to have to do any particular movement, it’s just going to be guided breathing and the affirmations. It’s suitable for mental chastity, or the type that involves little cages, or strategically placed piercings. Oh sorry dear, did I push a button when I said “Little Cages”? I just meant cages. Big cages, enormous cages. Roomy, even. Does that make you feel better? Now this isn’t really hypnosis, but it leans on hypnosis techniques, and it makes use of Affirmations. And if you come back to this short session every day, you’ll likely have these affirmations memorized. Affirmations are literally just positive and encouraging statements, but when they first came to prominence they were coupled with hypnotic trance. We can make use of them both ways, because we’re flexible like that, right? So you’ll hear affirmations like these as parts of longer sessions. In fact, these very affirmations appear in the middle of the Chastity Mindset Sessions. We’re going to take a moment to relax. Not with a deep trance, this time but just with a simple, mindful breathing technique. You’re going to need to be somewhere comfortable, either sitting or lying down, and where you can be reasonably ce

Let’s not beat about the bush. I have the sniffles. I had a slightly different plan for yesterday’s episode but since it’s something I’d like you to revisit, I’m shuffling things around to ensure I sound “right”. I think all will be well by Friday the 30th. It’s important to keep looking forward. Transcript In this episode I’m covering whether or not you’re living the sub-guy life. And, later I’ll go over whether or not you can call me Mistress, because that’s a question that has surfaced a few times. Both of these topics actually, they’ve come up quite a bit in emails and messages. Also, the elephant in the room. I obviously have a cold. My entire city seems to have a cold. There is a run on Kleenex here. I won’t be recording sessions with this voice, but I figure a podcast is stuffy-nose-voice-appropriate. Literally had a short spanking session with someone over this stuff-nose situation, just today. Which put me in a good Mistressly headspace, and I decided just to go ahead with the podcast. Oh, someone had the audacity to say they couldn’t take me seriously when I talk like this. They’re now… and they did you know, the whole pinch-their-nose-together. Well they’re now taking me seriously after taking a hairbrush to their bottom. Just about everyone has a hairbrush, or a wooden spoon, or heck even a flat shoe works in a pinch. But spanking isn’t one of today’s topics, it’s whether or not you’re living the sub-guy life. Now I do get a lot of sad tales. I am not signed up to be somebody’s therapist. I do have a lot of hypnotherapy skills, but that’s not quite the same as couple counselling, is it? Now with some of these, I get you. I was once in a relationship that was definitely the wrong place for me. It was not the right place for him, but it was one that just… on paper seemed to be the right choice, you know? And you do and you do and you do and you keep thinking it will get better, but you know time is passing and that clock is ticking and you gotta make a decision. For a lot of people that is so hard because it’s almost like your friends split up, right? And your relatives say stuff, and then people say things like “Oh you know, grandma and grandpa were married for fifty years.” Well, whatever, don’t go after the fifty year thing if it isn’t the right relationship, okay? Because it’s your life and you don’t get like a trophy, nothing like that. Anyway, so sometimes the relationship is just the wrong one. But quite a few of these sad tales that come through are not so much about the wrong relationship as much as the wrong mindset. So I get a lot of… whining. That that you know, you just can’t live your submissive guy life because she won’t tell you what to do. Or you can’t bring this up because she is so… well, I’m saying she but you know, this is the Femdom podcast, so I’m assuming these, this is my lane to stay in. Training Yourself to be a Better Submissive Or you know that your relationship partner is just so close-minded. Well here’s the thing, you can still do stuff. Let’s say you’re actually living with someone, you’re sharing a house, okay… that’s this relationship opr a few someones, or whatever. There are things available to you to do as a submissive guy. Now, don’t go asking what you can do… because that creates work. I. Hate. This. Now if it’s an actual project, like we are… let’s pretend we’re back in the States and we’re gonna be living on a farm, okay? And we are building a chicken tractor, and I’m… you know… doing my thing and you come over and say “Oof… what can I do?” That’s fine, you know? Because there’s an order to it, right? And it’s a one set project, whatever… fine. In your own house, come on… you know what needs done. You know it. I know you know it. You know you know it. Your partner wasn’t born knowing everything about knowing how to manage a house, how to make sure appointments are made, or this tax is handled, and the library books go back. They weren’t born with this innate knowledge. It isn’t some skill. They don’t sneak us off to these secret classes to learn all this stuff. Okay? You know. You’re a grown-ass adult, you know. So just do it. Seriously, if you are a submissive guy and this is a person you love… maybe you’re claiming right now you don’t love ‘em as much, or you’re not in love with them like before… whatever. Pretend you’re dating. Pretend it’s still that engagement period. Whatever, and go for it. Right? And don’t say what you did. Don’t expect some big old thank you. Because guess what? That assume whatever chore you just did, you did it assuming it was her’s, and so therefore you deserve a thank you. Now I’m hoping that if you’ve been with me for a while, that you are not that kind of a guy. Really hoping. Yeah, because… oh my god, that’s so tedious, isn’t it? So, you know… if I’m living with someone, I’m not going to gush over the floor being swept, well, in certain scenarios with you know, outfits include

Transcript Welcome to “What’s in a name?” and our name tattoos actually taboo? And finally, a little bit about what I’ve been working on and what you can expect… but in true Elswyth order, we’re just going to flip those around a bit. So I’m pretty excited about a project I have going on. It is going to be a longer session than what I typically put out. It’s also going to be free, so this isn’t some plug. Ah… plug, that comes up later. And yes, the kind you’re thinking of. Not one for a product. It isn’t for you to purchase it or what not. So, the session it’s one of those that I started writing it, I got distracted by a cover of a song, and then got distracted by having to hunt down the video of the original song. But while I was doing all of that it just gave me a great idea of how to work this all in together. It is going to be a sleep hypnosis session but it’s going to be very specific for the kind of play that we enjoy, and tie into season four. Now I do have another Walking to Seduction, and some other sessions that are sitting in the, well there isn’t an actual box, but if there happened to be an actual box it would say “To Be Edited”. Just between the somewhat chaos of August, it seems that everyone is on holiday… and then September with the stuff that happened, some of that has fallen behind. But the good news is a flurry of new things coming out, right? And it’s worth the wait. I also want to say “Thank You” for those on Patreon who agreed to go ahead and be my testers, my guinea pigs for new sessions. You’re likely going to be busy. So let’s go back to this whole thing about names and name tattoos. Now the name tattoo thing came up because I have a bit of a fascination with the idea of my name written in script, tattooed on someone’s bottom. But we’ve all heard, right, how some tattoo artists they even refuse to do it. They will not put the name of someone else on your body. So I do want to hear from you. I think you tend to be a bit more of the loyal, devoted, everlasting type. Would you, would you have someone’s name tattooed on your bottom? Or, hey… somewhere else if you know, you just don’t want to bare your ass to the tattoo artist. That led to the idea of… what if it’s not a name, but it’s the nickname or pet name, or… you know, the D/s name, right? Property of Mistress-so-and-so, and… you know, Owner of (if the owner decided to do it) Owner of such-and-such. And so I want to hear that as well. What nicknames do you adore? And… what nicknames have you heard others have, and the stories behind them. Somewhat recently I was in a conversation, and the woman in the relationship kept referring to the dude as “Pirate”. Like, capital P, that was his given name, he popped out and his mom said “Yes… this kid, his name is Pirate.” That’s how he referred to him. She even introduced him as that to other people. Now, this is a pretty friendly crowd, but it wasn’t like a BDSM event or anything like that, and it comes about that the reason his name is now Pirate, is because he had referred to her as his “Little Treasure”. And I absolutely love that. I love these little pairings and how the come together. Now it seems like there is a plethora of nicknames for female submissives, and for the men… I don’t know, it just seems there’s not quite as many, right? I guess we could throw Pirate in there. You have boy, boy-toy, man what else? Pet. And that’s very original right? But pet is just nice… it’s warm, it’s comforting, it’s like… this cardigan that you’ve had for a while and you put on. I also like that one nickname that came up, and I’ve used before, is Bunny. But someone used Bunny and Bun (and I told you there’d be something about a plug, right?) because his favorite toy happened to be the little bunny-tail butt-plug. Now if you don’t have one of those, and you know you are open, to having a plug, you need one. Even if you have nobody to show it off to except your own happy self, I promise you that you will absolutely love it. There is just something too cute about this fuzzy little tail, nestled in right there between the butt cheeks. With or without a name tattooed on those cheeks. So I guess, you know, along those lines you could also have… puppy, kitten, and if the guy always goes by Richard, or Thomas, or I’m really scraping now for some names. I guess I should have written a few of these down, you could always call him the younger version, right? Like… Ricky, and Tommy. Uh, that would be fun. Unless like… his Mom is the only one that still calls him that nickname, then… I say go back to “Bun”. So that’s it. Today’s episode is a bit shorter, I do want to give you a permissive circumstance. It’s this; if you are regularly called a nickname, (and the nickname of your regular-old-first-name, it doesn’t count). But if you have a nickname associated with you then you have my permission. If you don’t have one, come up with one. And then you have my permission. Try to be clever. Go along with that pirate id

Find Part One here. Start making use of the Chastity Mindset Sessions today. Hypnotic trance, affirmations and post hypnotic suggestion to effortlessly keep you in a state of denial. Chastity Mindset Sessions – Bundle of Three SessionsWhether you’re resigned to your fate, unbearably frustrated, or just eager to please you will know that it’s easy to be in chastity. $7.00 Shop now Transcript Welcome to Part Two of How to Succeed at Locktober. For those of you listening currently you likely notice that this was missed on Monday… because in the UK on Monday everything basically shut down. Even all the cinemas were showing the funeral. Even the adult channels, they were showing the funeral as well. So to escape all of that, headed off into the woods with some friends. Went for a hike, enjoyed fresh air, and you know… the bank holiday. So, I do feel bad that somebody lost their mum, their nan, their cousin, et cetera. But after ten days of mourning, I just really needed to have an escape. So here we are for this, part two. In part one I covered things like a juicy story about my experience, well one of them, with a chaste man. I also talked about using a cock cage versus hypnosis, or you know… using both. And what Locktober is, so if you’re finding yourself puzzling over that word, go back to episode 25. That is part one of How to Succeed at Locktober. You can also go on over to the website, SpokenByElswyth.com/Locktober, and there you will see more information about it, and the information about the the Locktober 2022 exclusive reward. It is going to be free, but it is only going to be available to those who actually say they’re going to particpate. Sounds fair to me. And I’m usually right. Right? The good boys out there know the answer to that questions. The appropriate way to respond. Let’s start with this part… what if you are usually chaste? What if you listen to the podcast, you follow along with the permissive circumstances, and you use that as your… guide to whether or not you get to orgasm? Ummm… that’s fine. Just consider yourself to be like expert level. If you typically use a device, how about trying it during Locktober, with just using my words and your mind? I’m also going to have something fun for the beginner, intermediate and advanced. That’s going to show up on the podcast, and while all of October is not going to be dedicated to Locktober, it will be mixed in there. Let’s also say this; what if you have a keyholder? What if you have a partner? Are you really going to turn them down for the entire month of October? Or are you going to ignore your keyholder? I don’t think so. Just be a full-on grown up, and honestly use your common sense, use your judgement on which parts of my SpokenByElswyth Locktober apply to you. Do not neglect your partner. Do not ignore your keyholder. Got that? Okay. Cause it’s just wrong… it’s putting your wants above them. And you’re better than that. How about wet dreams? If you have a wet dream… does that mean that you’re out? Nope! No, actually, if you have one I wanna hear about it. Because, okay I’m not going to say it’s a fetish, because it doesn’t seem like it really is, but it is a… it is definitely an interest of mine to hear about it when it happens. Usually because somebody will tell me that they were dreaming about me. So no… wet dreams, they don’t mean you’re out. I actually consider them to be a success on my part. And now even if you’re not into locking up your cock, you’ll find my gift to you next month… a kind of twist on the Midas Touch, is one that’s going to be useful throughout our time together. So you know the why and you’ve worked out most of your how… again the good things that I’m going to give you to help with your success, it includes the Marshmallow session. It’s free and its over on the website on the slash-Locktober page. The Chastity Mindset Sessions, encouragement in various podcast episodes, and that reward I talked about that’s only available to those who participate. If you don’t participate during October 2022, you’re not going to be eligible. And as I mentioned not everything that you hear from me over the upcoming month is going to be perfectly aimed at your success. If you’ve already hear the Chastity Mindset Sessions, or looked them over, you’ll know that I’m just as interested in those times that you’re frustrated and needy. It doesn’t all have to be some sober acceptance of your chastised state. And so I’m going to let you get away with only a few instances of me deliberately teasing you. Winding you up. Getting you hot and bothered. As if knowing that someone else wants your cock locked away for a month, doesn’t already get you hot and bothered. But I’m definitel

I’ve created a useful page for you to find out more about Locktober. Don’t forget that for the rest of the month, my favourite HFO/JOI sessions are on sale. Transcript Hey everyone. Today I am going to continue the topic of bratty behavior. But before I jump into that… just a quick reminder that on the SpokenByElswyth website, the Locktober page is now active. I will put a link to that in the show notes for today’s episode, or just go to SpokenByElswyth.com/Locktober. There’s a flurry of downloads happening for those J-O-I, H-F-O sessions. Almost like some of you can hear the clock ticking, the calendar pages tearing away. So in episode 24 I set you the task of providing some examples of bratty behavior. Perhaps writing a haiku for me. A haiku like…Brat sub disobeysMistress says, “That is your choice,Now we’ll just part ways” I liked the rhyme in that one. Sometime I should assign limericks instead, I think their traditionally tawdry nature, well it might suit the subject material. Here’s another one…Pout in your cornerThrow your raw temper tantrumI simply won’t care … I’m fond of the first two lines, but the last is a lie. Of course I care. I don’t always show it. And once you’re in the corner, I’ll be caring, but I might also be reading a novel. I had quite a lot of ideas and suggestions about bratty behavior, but not enough. We’ll get to that later. But there is time here to talk about some of my favorites. There is one that popped up on Patreon which took the form of a sort-of free verse poem. And it started… “She took a handful of my hair “Oh, wow, a scalp massage!” She tightened her grip: “That’s not what I’m going to massage.”I liked this one, it felt very natural… the sort of conversation I’m likely to have as a vanilla or a mundane conversation shifts into that actual play, or a scene of sorts. I also had a fantastic funny one from one of my dear ones who really loves the human furniture scenarios, so they mentioned… you know, if you had a bratty chair, it would likely move just as you went to sit down. Or you know, put a thumbtack on itself. Very fun, I like these types of stories. And then… looking through my notes… I had a fairly lengthy story from a patron about a bratty puppy. It might be a little long for the regular podcast. Should I maybe read it out as an extra episode one day soon? Send me a message, or an email. One woof for “Yes”, two woofs for “Yes please!” Thank you to every one of you who did complete the bratty task I sent you. I read every one of them, and I’m proud of you, for being obedient, and for being creative. Your task for today is more like… accounting. And I do promise that we won’t talk about chastity every day until November 1st rolls around. But be honest with me and with yourself; because you know your habits, and your usual level of insatiable desire. How many orgasms is my guy, my obedient guy who’s so, so looking forward to Locktober… how many orgasms are you actually going to forgo? If the answer is 30 or more, well then dear, wouldn’t it be wise to start practicing before going cold turkey?If your E-M-O… Pardon me, that’s a bit of Mistressly jargon… If your estimate of monthly orgasms, is less than 30, you have permission today, but you don’t have to use it. Now if you’ve heard that you were good, that you completed the bratty assignment and that I’m proud of you, you can go and get on with your day. The last part of this podcast is only for boys who heard episode 24, listened to me set them a task, and then ignored it. So if that doesn’t apply to you, if you did you homework, run along now. Go get on with your day. All the good boys should have stopped listening by now. The post 4.27 Sharing Your Bratty Behaviour Submissions appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Are you looking forward to Locktober? There’s more information appearing on the Locktober page all the time. Find the new Chastity Mindset Sessions in the shop. Chastity Mindset Sessions – Bundle of Three SessionsWhether you’re resigned to your fate, unbearably frustrated, or just eager to please you will know that it’s easy to be in chastity. $7.00 Shop now Transcript So welcome to “How to Succeed at Locktober, Part One”. This is Part 1 of a 2-part series dedicated to the Spoken By Elswyth Locktober, for 2022. Now, if you’re not familiar with it, Locktober is the nickname given to October, for those who spend the month in chastity. Typically done with a cage, key, lock, right? But… we’re gonna talk more about cages and how to use hypnosis instead, later on. But let’s just talk about my version of Locktober for now. I adore teasing you. Taunting you. Nudging you. But this Locktober, I want you to succeed. That will be the recurring theme. Sure, we’ll have other chastity games where I’ll definitely win by making you fail, but this month is going to be like our… Lent. Not everyone is expected to participate. But for those who do we’re gonna make sure we both get something out of it. And even if this isn’t your typical thing, I suspect you’re going to want to push yourself, because it is one of my things. And because you can toss your email address into the pot, to receive an exclusive, free, Locktober 2022 reward trigger. This trigger will only be available to those who participate in Locktober. And it will be used in future podcast episodes and sessions. It’s important to note that on the SpokenByElswyth.com Locktober page, you’ll find the list of recommended triggers, including one of the newer ones. The Mild Rebuke. And this is where I should also give you the disclaimer to do the Safeword Setting Session, whichever one you choose. Why You Should Love Chastity So, what do you get from chastity, and specifically what’s the benefit of Locktober? Well, Locktober means not waiting until next week, or you know… after that guy’s weekend to begin. It starts on October First. No wavering, no excuses. Thirty-one days of devotion. Thirty-one days of making new habits, remaking new thoughts. Seeing you succeed at this. I do like a successful man. So while you’re waiting for it to begin, one thing to do is to write down your expectations. Your desires. Before October rolls around, tell me what you hope to gain from the experience. Now be specific. Don’t just say… a better submissive… that’s what you always want to work on, isn’t it? And next month, in October, there will be a podcast episode that revisits this idea of your expectations. Okay, so… how are you going to do it? If you have a cage, or cages, you can use what is available to you. Some may even have the very, very nice piercings… if so, go for it. If you want to try one, hurry up and do so before October rolls around so you can get a decent fit on a device. Now, some you may decide to rotate through cages, others they choose one and stick with it. If you want my opinion, or want me to choose, go ahead and send me some pics of your toy drawer and I’ll let you know. Make sure, if you plan to leave it on the entire time, that you’re aware of the hygiene and safety requirements. Chastity and Hypnokink: A Perfect Match But let’s say you want to fully indulge in this hypnokink and use trance. Use a chastity device or thought that’s set by me. So, instead of a physical lock, your lock ties into our headspace. And my words, your word runes, your triggers, they keep you in line. Now this may take a bit more effort on your part, especially if you’re new. But I know you can do it, and listening to the chastity sessions regularly, they help to keep that lock in place. Seriously, I have no doubt you can do it. I know the power that my words have over you. Now, while we’re being practical, as I mentioned before with hygiene and safety, it should be stated that regular ejaculation, it is good for you. I don’t recommend following Locktober with a No Nut November. After all, my Permissive Circumstances… they’re generally quite lenient, so by now you should have worked out, that I love when you’re worked up, and need to cum. Needy boys, sometimes, make the best boys of all. And many a pet, many a man, has worked out ruined orgasms in a cage, or milking with a prostate toy. It isn’t that difficult, it just takes determination. And in the next episode we’re going to talk a bit more about wet dreams. Why Mistresses Love Locked Up Guys Whenever this topic of chastity comes up, or a new session comes out, I find my inbox full of nosey-boy questions asking what I get from it. Do I just want you to suffer? To sigh, to fixate on that cock locked away? No… well… sometimes the first one, but that’s not my main goal. Let me tell you a story about a soft-spoken, polite, chaste gentleman. Now I knew of his kinks due to online discussions, and I found him in a

The third instalment of Getting Longer An Auditory Experience is available from your Downloads page. And if you haven’t joined in this experience already, why not? Listen to the podcast episode to find out what we’ll be diving into later this week. I’m looking forward to next month, are you? The post 4.25 Getting Longer An Auditory Experience – Release Three appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In an upcoming instalment of Getting Longer, there will be a pointed focus on sensory play. As a precursor to this, after today’s podcast episode you will find my recording of the Lemon Convincer Script. If you aren’t familiar, this is a tool often used by hypnotists to help relieve subjects of some of their preconceptions about hypnosis, trance, and visualisation. Once you’ve taken the time to listen, send me a polite note through email, or Patreon messenger. You can answer the questions posed at the end of the episode, or just let me know whether or not you can taste lemons. Transcript Today’s episode is about brats and, at the end of the episode I’m treating you to the infamous Lemon Convincer Script. So be aware you’ll need a small chunk of time to close your eyes and indulge in some sensory play. Also, fair warning, today’s episode comes with doggos in the room, road construction, and an incredible amount of traffic. Those who have been with me for a while, you know that my city has a fetish for road redesign and for digging up the road to replace cables and whatnot. It’s not on the same level as Atlanta, Georgia and their endless road construction. It’s just enough that I know when they’re reconfiguring this or that it means my normally quiet day has way more traffic sounds. And because one of the doggos is just very, very insulted by what is happening outside, that doggo is in the room and he tends to be a bit noisy… so if you hear some random groans, moans, grunts, whatever… it’s the dog, I swear. So lets see what magic Pita can work out and if you do hear the canines or the automobiles, consider it to be the ambiance of City Life. For those cutesy curious nosey ones, today’s random playlist, it has Jerk It by Thunderheist going. I heard it as part of a spotify running playlist and it quickly made my favourite list. Now I don’t remember this song from when it originally came out. I’m sure it had to be a very popular club thing. I don’t know much about the artist, either. I do know the video has some sweat, a cock and some heavy gold chains. Mmm.. I love, love, love, heavy chains. Okay back to the topic! I’m working on another episode release for Getting Longer for S4. As you know, I’ve been playing around with more auditory cues and I love the easter eggs that have been recognised by loyal listeners. Getting Longer will be delving into more sensory play and so that brought to mind the lemon script. But.. as I planned that for today’s episode, I received a note from a man asking, well basically telling me, to break him. He offered money in exchange. What he didn’t offer was any motivation. Oh, sure, I’m guessing he considers the cash to be the motivation, but can you imagine just how fucking boring a session would be if that’s my only motivation? I  mean, we’re all about co-creating and cerebral play here, and if I’m just going through the motions, it’ll show. Call me crazy, but if I’m not excited by it, I’m not doing it. I mean I do actually identify as a top, here. And you know, that comes with certain characteristics. So why didn’t it excite me? Well, first, there’s no conversation. Let’s pretend this gentleman, he struck up a conversation with me and we hit it off. Lots of good chat, sharing, and flirtation going on. Perhaps this flirtation leads to lust and me being curious about him… and then he brings up that he’s always been curious about how a top can be… well, topped. Broken. Admittedly, my knee jerk reaction is generally a big ol’ sigh because that’s a trope that does get touched on a lot. The whole, almost-childish, nah-nah-you-can’t-make-me, break me kind of thing. But let’s say this gentleman says it, then goes onto something else. Like, for days… something else, never mentions it again. Although, you know, he’s letting it clearly be known he’s curious and open, yet he doesn’t flat out ask for it. The flirtatious conversation continues. Now, am I likely to start nudging, pushing, testing, trying out creative phrasing on this delightful man? Yes. Why? Well, because I’m intrigued by the person and because it’s an intellectual challenge to do so without making it obvious.Now he’s still gets what he wanted, right? But it’s now this story. It’s a relationship. It’s actually interesting. Is this the same as seduction? Sure. It’s a form of it. I know there are many submissives who delight in the role of being a brat. Some do it because it gives them then permission to do what they wanted to do anyway, right? Others, it’s just presenting that “challenge”. Honestly, just like the Domly Dom asking to be broken, the submissive brat usually is a turn off for me.  In the case of this season’s Getting Longer session… what do you think would happen in that situation if the submissive guy, he suddenly rebels in the Listening Room and says “Nope, not doing it!”. Is she going to cajole him or try to top him to make him stay? Nope. She’s going to show him the door. For me

For your convenience, some sessions mentioned in this episode in an easy-to-find format. The next instalment of Getting Longer – An Auditory Experience will arrive next week. Transcript Welcome to Audio Tools for Femdom Hypnosis. Specifically, for my version of Femdom Hypnosis. This is totally a self-indulgent episode. It’s me talking about the way I like my sessions to come together and work as experiences. You know what I mean… auditory ones.. And this means taking a deep dive into some of the tools that I’ve made use of… I say me, I do not edit, produce, etcetera, the things, I just put my input in there. So it’s really just about those things I’ve made use of, especially for Season Four. There’s a good amount to unpack here, and so it might be that I’ll decide to leave some parts of this subject to talk about in a few weeks. A Brief History of Erotic Hypnosis I’ve been doing this, Spoken by Elswyth, for two years, and if you went all the way to the bottom of the Patreon feed and listened to some of the first bits and pieces that I put out, my musical background was just this… a short, looping, spa-music sort of thing. I didn’t particularly like it. I found it a bit nasal and whiny. Like cicadas. But I didn’t want to use anything that might be distracting. And… also, I made an assumption that it was what people expected. Now I’ve still not listened to even five whole minutes of sessions from other… “Content Creators” on the internet. I don’t really know what anyone else is doing, and I kinda don’t want to. Even when I did group hypnotherapy sessions, or even private sessions, other than training and you know, sometimes adding on those CEU’s and such, I usually found it best to just… stay in my own lane, right? So it’s not out of some misguided belief that I’m a naturally gifted expert at this hypno-Mistress thing, but because I have this great relationship with many of you, and I know you love my approach, right? It works for both of us, so why do anything that might hurt that? Okay, back to background Music. And here’s a Frequently Asked Question that I want to Answer right here. Why do I always use Background Music? Well… habit. I always had music playing in my formal practice as a hypnotherapist. I always have music playing when I’m writing. I’ve had you listen to quite a few of the things that I listen to. And I’ve also listened to quite a few things that you listen to. I believe strongly that it’s a key to removing distractions… and not least because it fills the space between words, helping ensure that the listener (that’s you) doesn’t so distinctly hear a car passing by, or someone moving furniture in the next apartment. In terms of recorded content and especially the kind of sessions that I like to create, background music is also a kind of glue. It holds everything else together. And yeah, it also hides some imperfections. I’m not standing in a professional vocal booth when I record. Now, if someone wants to gift to me the six-seven-whatever odd thousand pounds it costs to recreate one in your home, go ahead. I will make good use of it. But that’s not what I’m doing at this moment. I also, I don’t have an engineer pushing the buttons, knowing when something wasn’t exactly right and asking for do-overs. But the glue thing… sometimes I’ll move from one thought to the next, deliberately shifting context. And I’m always aware of how, when I’m asking you to be in trance, asking you to be relaxed, be paying attention, that this can be jarring, and have the opposite effect. And I really believe that having the music there, it has a positive effect on your immersion and continued state of trance. But I don’t like the spa music, right? And I also don’t like you catching distracting things in the music, so over time I’ve asked for music to be made that’s kinda hard to pin down for the casual listener. There are sometimes strange rhythms, and random melodies and these really tall harmonies that don’t go anywhere. I’m not sure how much I should really draw attention to this, and I know I can’t talk about how the music is put together without making myself some notes from the people that made it. Maybe you should let me know if you want me to really pick apart the bespoke music that I use in most of my sessions? But there’s a good amount of thought and effort put into getting the music right. Even the music that goes along with the podcast, well there’s I think four different versions of it. Because you know I also make use of it in different sessions I’ve released since the start of Season Four, and different moods call for different things. The podcast version is the most open and sparse. It’s the Elswyth Unplugged version. It doesn’t make use of the binaural beats, or special relaxing tones and frequencies. It really is background music in that regard. Recently I’ve also been finding some stock music and sound effects that suit sessions like…ummm, oh… The Walking to Seduction. If you haven’t listene

I know you will enjoy this Forest Bathing experience. It includes the perfect amount of Femdom. And it takes place in the Shared Headspace, where you’re used to handing over the reigns to me. Transcript You may have noticed that this is a long podcast session. That’s because we’re doing a full-length session called Forest Bathing. Earlier this month, I shared with you a hypnosis session for erasing triggers and other things. And you enjoyed it, right? Or maybe it would be better to say that you found it useful, though if you enjoyed the… Classroom Setting it might have encouraged some extracurricular activities. I certainly remember having a lot of grading to do at the time. Today I’m going to share with you just one more positive and affirming hypnosis session. It’ll come right after the podcast episode, so just keep listening. It takes the form of a deep relaxation session and visualization, a hypnotic version of the practice of Forest Bathing. Now if you struggle here and there with visualization, be aware it is a skill, so the more you do it, the more you’ll find that you’re able to experience being in these different places. And if you don’t know what Forest Bathing is, and you can’t work it out from the name alone, first off you should know that you won’t be taking a dip, getting wet, at all. But this is all about simply, calmly, quietly existing in nature and taking in whatever positive effects this can have. As a practice it’s proven to reduce… just different things, but if you’d prefer anecdotal evidence, I’ve done this, and I like it, and it makes me feel good. As a matter of practice whenever I’m out walking my doggos, if we’re not heading to near water, we’re usually heading towards a spot that has the tallest trees possible. Now this isn’t your typical vanilla session. It does have our twist on it, right? You expect that by now. Those delicious Femdom overtones. And I don’t have to explain why that’s a plus. Now, listen closely… on the website you’ll also find a Special Edition of this session. It includes the session itself, without this long-ass introduction, and two other versions. The goal of these extra versions is to associate the positive feelings of Forest Bathing, and the release of negative feelings, with something positive. So one session, the “Sleepy Session” takes you towards a deep sleep. And sleep hypnosis is always popular. And the other session… it’s called the “Horny Session”. It’s all about in a perfect sexual fantasy as you find release. Now, that sleepy session, it makes a lot of sense. One of the effects of real-life Forest Bathing is reduced cortisol, which is bound to help you rest. I don’t think I can find a medical reason why attaching your sexual desires to Forest Bathing is necessarily a good idea. This is more a manifestation of me guiding you towards something good by taking a hold of your cock. You know, and just tug, tug tugging you along. Now isn’t that often the best way to guide you? If you want permission for release today, it’s an easy one to earn. Step outside and find a real tree, and spend a minute with your hand against the bark. I’m not sorry if this demand leaves you looking foolish for moment… perhaps the nearest tree is in the middle of a roundabout. Did your Mistress essentially tell you to “Touch Grass”? And your task of course…is to simply keep listening and enjoy the session. The post 4.22 Free Femdom “Forest Bathing” Hypno Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Here in the UK we’ll be enjoying a three-day weekend. In spite of some plans being made here, I’m not skipping an episode of the podcast, but expect a Tuesday/Wednesday/Friday schedule next week. Tuesday will be provide a full-length hypnosis session, and you should also expect a new variation of the Mild Rebuke trigger. Transcript Welcome to today’s episode, which is all about the irresistible things that men do. Now today’s episode is pretty light-hearted… I found this list of thirty things, and obviously it’s not really catering to the Femdom Relationship, but it just says these are things that men do that are irresistible. I often find when I’m writing certain sessions, especially the ones along the Sabriel storyline, it req uires that I actually do some deeper thinking about what I find attractive. And as you know, there are so many things that are little and we don’t really notice them after a while. So I think that’s why, this particular list, it caught my eye. It was a nice way to like… I don’t know, dig into my own head and be like “Do I like that?” “Is this why the guy at the coffee shop was so damn sexy? That kind of thing. Oh, and on a different note; since returning from holiday and you know, playing catching back up on my actual work. You know, I still have yet to hit the lottery. I don’t play it. And as well as writing some of these new ideas that came to me while away, I just had to give up on my email inbox. So you probably noticed a flurry of responses through the Patreon messages. I’m doing alright there, but for email… I love you all, I just can’t wade through that and still do new stuff, so… if it’s something pressing-urgent, then of course send it again. Feel free to send a Patreon message, whichever works for you. But that’s it… I want to create new stuff, and I read so many of the messages, but while being away, if you’ve been afollower of mine, you know that I hate typing with my thumbs. I don’t usually answer stuff on my phone, so that’s that. Full disclaimer. Okay. Now, other thing… you’re going to hear me scrolling more than likely. Consider it to be a feature and not a bug. Don’t blame it on my poor sound guy. It’s me. I don’t feel like trying to edit myself and pausing as we go. So. Whew, with no further ado; Number One. Steering the wheel with just two fingers. No. I fucking hate this; I am the type of person than can get carsick and if someone is just doing the one-handed, barely-driving thing, unless we’re in Iowa going through fields, not literally going through fields, but you know… still on the road. No that’s a big old no-no. And actually, I prefer to drive. Okay, number two is driving with an elbow out an open window. No. For the same reason as number one. No. Number three, is putting your hand on the small of my back and guiding me to my seat. Yeah, I’m a sucker for this one. I really like touch, and I like that old-fashioned kind of thing. Works for me. You can also put it on my ass, I’m really… I’m really kind-of low key about that, especially while walking out and about with someone that I’ve been with for a while. If you just met me, don’t do that… that’s rude. Okay, number four is placing a hand just above my knee at the bar. This depends on context… you would likely need to ask, even discreetly, first. I would like asking on that. And I say “I would like” but we both know that means “You have to ask”. Okay let’s see… ooh… extending an arm across the back of my chair. Yeah, I like that… you know, especially in a crowd, with friends, hanging out… it’s a good one. Wrapping an arm around my waist. Yep, and unlike the y’know… hand on the thigh, you can usually get away with that without asking. Okay, I don’t know if I like this or not, actually… I don’t think I’ve seen someone do it. So, if you are a guy who does this, this way, feel free to set up your phone. You can cut off your head for privacy if you want, and try this. It is “Taking a shirt off my pulling it over your head with just a thumb and forefinger. Yeah, I don’t think I’ve seen someone do that. Okay, so hey… if you wanna try it out and send it to me, I’ll let you know if I find that attractive. Well… irresistible, right? Eight is drinking a beer bottle with just two fingers. Is that even… yeah, I guess it would be possible, thumb and forefinger, eh, I don’t know. I don’t really see people drink out of bottles that often and I don’t think I would be like “Ooh, that’s great.” Uh, the other one is “Taking a wallet out of the front pants pocket.” Ummm… oh, their reasoning is that you are going to lean back a little, and you’re going to slide that hand into your pair of jeans. I don’t know, I don’t know if I buy that one. Hey, if you wanna try it and send it, go for it. Ro… this is a “No”. Rolling a buttoned-up shirt to the elbows. Every freaking politician does this now, right? To be relatable? No. That’s a no. The soft-eyes-gaze. So, the thinking for this one is because the person isn’t being dom

Like Episode 10 this episode features a few Mind Control Fragments. You can also listen to individual fragments in the Playlist Player, on the website. Eye Contact Induction - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth On the Beach, Between Two Hills - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Play Party Trilogy - Athos - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Play Party Trilogy - Porthos - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Play Party Trilogy - Aramis - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth A Simple Awakener - Mind Control Fragments - Spoken by Elswyth Transcript Welcome to Episode 20. Your apophenia might begin to tingle today, because today I’m releasing a few new Mind Control Fragments, plus a playlist that links them all together. And the first time we did this was Episode 10… but don’t want you to think that’s an Every-Ten-Episodes thing. It might just be a happy accident. So, these three MCFs have a common theme. They’re all sensory experiences, the experiences of some different people at a only-slightly fantastical play party. And the idea that sparked these stemmed from a conversation with a Patron, before my vacation, and I wrote all of the words.Last year’s vacation resulted in some Mind Control Fragments too. They were… “Rock Pool Release” and “On the Beach Between Two Hills”. I’m working on making it easier for Patrons to find all the MCF’s that exist. If you’re not a Patron, well… you can hunt for them. Like seashells. They’re not *too* hard to find. If you need a reminder, The Mind Control Fragments are little pieces of erotic hypnosis sessions that are usually about 5 minutes long, and you can mix-and-match them together into longer sessions. And as a sort-of-example I’ve put these new ones together for you at the end of the podcast episode, for your listening pleasure. You can also download each piece by right-clicking or long-pressing the fragments in the playlist on the website, and saving them to your device. Again, I’m not really able to offer up much tech support, it works on my computer, and on my phone. If you’re motivated, I’m sure you’ll work it out. Today’s task is to find somewhere private to listen to the session that follows, and today’s Permissive Circumstance is… yes, but; you have to find release somewhere you’ve *never* done so before. So your usual spot, maybe that’s in your bed? Maybe you’re the type to prefer the shower, well… those places aren’t an option for sure. If you’ve ever had an orgasm on that couch, well not today, dear. Find somewhere *new*. But don’t get arrested! That release can come during or after the playlist. Whatever feels right. The post Mind Control at a Play Party appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.