Spoken By Elswyth - Femdom Hypnosis

I’ve had a productive October, enjoyed creating some fun sessions, and some genuinely useful sessions, but I desperately wanted to release something deeply gratifying, and so this Saturday Session is just pure smut. Check out the trailer right here, then if you’re dying to find out more follow along to the shop and I’ll tell you everything there is to know. The post Saturday Session – Heady HFO With Breath Play appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

If you are enjoying the challenge of Locktober, but don’t like to go entirely without, then you might like A Little Locktober Tease. There’s four of these Mind Control Fragments and all of them encourage you to stroke for a while. And they all tie in with the Marshmallow trigger, which will help you get through the month if you’re flagging! Eunoia might be postponed a few more days. I’m eager to put out a few real (full-length) sessions before the end of the month and need to focus in on writing and recording them. There’s still only one of me. At the moment, the plan is to focus on our Breathing on Saturday the 23rd. At the end of the month I plan to release a pair of sessions that tie in with the Sabriel trigger set in The Eternal Suitor. These are pure erotic hypnosis fantasy sessions, that sink deep down into that kink and revel in what makes it special. If you want a taste for what’s in store, by all means revisit The Apartment. If you’re dying for a Permissive Circumstance today, well… today you absolutely have my permission as long as you’re listening to my voice. Be sure to let me know what helped you finish, because that’s my motivation to keep writing! The post Midweek Update appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

This Saturday Session is a confidence boost. It begins with a gentle guided meditation induction, focusing on a pendulum. The session itself will help you alleviate fears of failure, and feelings that others think negatively of you. In short, it’s all about feeling emotionally bold. This session uses the Going Deeper Faster trigger setting that you can find in the shop, as well as in the Beginner Bundle. Be More Bold also uses the visualisation of a whirlpool as part of the hypnotic induction. It might not be suitable for listeners with a fear of dark, deep or open water. This session was chosen by my Patrons in a poll. The other session, “Fear of Being Naked” will be released next month. The post Be More Bold appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this chapter I talk about old telephone answering machines and ramble for longer than I should. Transcript Today is Friday, and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about our connection outside of our sessions together. Send me your messages through Patreon or the website to be included in the “listen” section and continue on to “obey” for homework and permissive circumstances and so on. If you’re unfamiliar with permissive circumstances, go to my website and read some more there. So a warm welcome to Eric and Michael with an “A” for joining my happy harem here on Patreon. Welcome in. I had lots of messages from tidy boys and most of them, well, most might be an understatement. Most of them didn’t seem genuinely excited about the idea of wearing a stained shirt, one patron in particular, he mused over the question of if he continued on with his own personal growth if it would make him well, I guess, if it would rid him of his desire to do things, that make him uncomfortable, for others. Now in the everyday life and the outside world, that mundane that we refer to, probably yeah. But in this shared headspace or in realms of consent, of this power exchange, probably not. What you’re describing, and if you feel the same way, dear listener, then this applies to you too, is an authentic submissive mindset. You feel good when you’re doing something for someone else and you feel even better when it’s tied up with your sexuality and I don’t think most people will ever totally shake that. Partly because you won’t want to. I’m not saying of course, that you have to be some kinkster in order to appreciate the good feelings that come from doing something for someone else. I’m just saying, when it’s tied up with lust, that’s a whole different ball game and we’re all mature enough to understand the difference between our everyday life interactions and our consensual adult ones. So this is also a little bit, well it’s distinct from the other kind of submissive guy that I see who has a particular kink or fetish or a predilection for a powerful, strong, dominant woman. But, and this one drives me batshit crazy, but the woman, they always want her to perform a certain role in a scene. It is being the prop. It is the telephone sat on the table. It is the – I’m trying to think of some other props. I have to confess here. For my unwinding every so often, I’ve been rewatching Seinfeld and, oh, wow. I didn’t watch the early Seinfeld. I don’t have no idea when I came into watching Seinfeld but a few of the artifacts in there are, they’re just hilarious to me to see them. Now, you totally forget that some of these things had existed, like using somebody else’s phone, and we’re way off the topic of fetish here, but using somebody else’s phone, to call your answering machine. I remember when that came out, just thinking that was some kind of voodoo or something. Anyway. So, so the second group of person, and I’m not saying it’s bad per se. Especially, if the other person, the top that you have in the scene, is fine with it. But if you have to constantly – if you constantly just want the one thing and the other person only performs the one role, it’s, it’s completely different. And people can get that, obviously, from me, you can just stay in one of the particular pillars and be like, “This is where I belong”. You know, “I’m Margaret” or a “Pixie”. Man, I would take a house full. I would take a house full of Margarets and Pixies and others today. That just sounds like fun. But it is different than the person who has this overall submissive role that they have adopted and part of the reason why this is actually on my mind is I would say about a quarter of the messages I get are very, very prescriptive. Very, “This is exactly what I’m looking for. Can you do this?” Which is fine. A lot of great ideas come from that, but I will say like the other bit, the other three quarters that this is focused on wanting training and wanting to cultivate and continue to grow that authentic submissive side that perhaps you’ve seen others and, you know, right. You’re like, “Yeah, but what is he doing? How does he do that?” Or you’ll meet somebody in your everyday life that you want to be around them and long after you’re done having a conversation or whatever else, you still remember them because of the way they made you feel. So I’ve been mulling this over, partly because it is dark when I take my doggo for a walk in the morning. So it just gives me plenty of time to be in my own little quiet world and think. I’ve been slotting in a collection of different sessions and almost seeing how these things would connect in together to make my,

In this instalment I talk about condiments. Stick with me, it’s fun. Transcript Today is Thursday, and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our playtime together. Send your notes through Patreon or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the Listen section and continue on to Obey for the homework, permissive circumstance, and so on. Yesterday I forgot to mention a quick thank-you to Elijah for supporting me on Patreon. Some people reach out immediately when they join Patreon, and others don’t… I could send them a message through Patreon, but it’s more fun to say “Hi” this way. This is an auditory experience, after all. So I have two Personal Growth sessions recorded, and they are entitled “Be More Bold” and “Fear of Being Naked”. These are both confidence-building sessions of different types, and they’re both a little bit naughty, mostly because learning should be fun. As I mentioned yesterday, I’ve offered them both up to my Patrons, and they’re voting on which one will be released on Saturday. For those of you doing Locktober, I’m guessing you wish you could be released on Saturday! The other will come next month some time or so on… so that Patreon poll is ticking along, and you can head over that way if you want to see where the votes are leaning at this time. Okay, and in Listen I was going to share an interesting little tidbit, ummm… story… about humiliation play and it stuck with… sorry, it always, always makes me laugh because I can so easily see the two types of people that I’m about to describe to you… so, with humiliation play… and it’s about what totally mortifies one person, and how the same thing can be used by another one to be just, hilarious fun. I know this is yet another reason why I appreciate all of those thoughts and feelings that get so freely shared with me. Don’t remember that particular line? “All of my thoughts and feelings belong…” Yeah most of you know it. If you don’t, you’ve missed a session, or two. Anyway, the reason this story stuck with me is that it talks about using ketchup and mustard with two, very different, bottoms. So I’m imagining the image of these two bottoms. One… one pet is sent to do an errand with ketchup and mustard stains on his shirt. Now for this pet, this is enough to destabilise him completely, and instil those squirmy feelings in him as he does errands. And by the time that boy makes it back, yeah… he’s going to be ready to truly get played with. And now, the other bottom? Well, you hand him a bottle of mustard and a bottle of ketchup and he’s gonna squirt them both all over himself while yelling “I’m a hotdog! I’m a hotdog!” So tell me, honestly, no fibbing… which type of bottom are you? No, we’re not playing that there’s a spectrum… right now, you have to say, and we’re going to say that this is also your homework, which type of pet are you? A tidy boy, who can’t bear to go out with some stains on his shirt? Or ummm… fair food? Let me know. And for the Permissive Circumstance, if Locktober applies to you, no permission from me and if not… okay… five minutes. I told you yesterday that five minutes can seem like a long time, remember? That’s your limit, so start whenever you’re comfortable, but from the moment you touch yourself, five minutes is all you get. And be sure to let me know how that went for you, because I need to know if tomorrow should be four minutes, or seven. The post Eunoia (October 14th), Tidy Boys and Fair Food appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this segment, those quietly playing Permissive Circumstance are revealed, and I explain my absence yesterday. Links You can find the Naughty Bunny (Caught Masturbating) Trigger Setting here. Transcript Today is Wednesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. I’ll say ahead of time, if I sound like I’ve just inhaled a bunch of pepper, or I’m having an allergy attack or something else, the actual reason is way more mundane… I just finished a sad book. And I’ve been waiting and waiting to not sound stuffy any more, and that’s apparently never going to happen. So I figure, you know, we’ll just persevere. I promise, there’s nothing wrong in my life other than I left the last few chapters of a sad book to read today. And I can’t even tell you the name of the book because it would actually, for if others are reading this, I know it’s on one of the major lists, if somebody else is also reading this book, it is a spoiler. So… everything’s fine. This is just what I sound like after I’ve had a good cry over some fiction. Let’s start in with Listen… and… I want to say hello to Derrick, who sent me a polite note, letting me know he’s playing along with Permissive Circumstance. He found me on Reddit, and has only listened to Eunoia so far. I’ve seen similar sentiments from Sissy Cheri, and from Mike. And they only reached out after that last little piece of homework, and that’s fun. I like hearing from you. It’s more fun hearing about people’s experiences with the podcast and the games we play together than looking at like… the podcast downloads graph anyway. I know that my dear Bunny, the writing Bunny, oh… for those of you that don’t know, I pick out someone’s clothing in exchange for him doing his writing practice daily. It’s just 500 words, but it keeps him in that habit, right? Anyway… Bunny also loves numbers and marketing. Oh, and I guess speaking of Bunny… I’ve had some very, very sincere thank yous for Naughty Bunny, the trigger setting session. So if you haven’t heard that one, it did come out on Saturday. And, yeah… I do love to drop that particular word rune into sessions. It just fits nicely in different places and I know from you guys that you love that as well. Definitely listen to that one because it’s going to be coming up again… and finally there’s a question from Michael who says that he is thinking of becoming a Happy Harem member over on Patreon. He asked if he gets any full-length hypno audio files in with his membership, and there’s a few dozen of you who are able to answer that with a resounding “Yes Michael, of course.” I have a little private area on the Spoken by Elswyth dot-com, the website, where Patrons can collect some sessions that the out crowd would have to pay for. And other sessions went on the Patreon feed… usually what I do is I send a code out on the Patreon, and then people use the code on the website to download. Patreon is a little bit of a pain in the butt at times… and I know other people use, like… I’ve used Google Drive and things… but it just to work best just going through the website. So… yeah. You do get full-length things through Patreon. I don’t have an entire list. Maybe I need to find one of my really organised Happy Harem members and then they can make out the little tree of sessions and so on. Let’s see… and speaking of being disorganised, yeah… I did promise an episode of Eunoia yesterday that you’re getting today instead. Truth be told, I had a really great reason to stay in bed yesterday morning… and so I did. You know the pleasures of working from home and having a bedroom full of goodies and good company. And by the time I was up, showered, and then got distracted in the shower, and working… there was just too much traffic noise and other bustle outside to record. So… okay… let’s go on to Obey. If you’re a Patron, one of my dear Happy Harem, I want you to go vote for which session goes out on Saturday, in the poll. I think I have space for like a dozen more people in the Patreon, so if you’re not a Happy Harem member, go head over, join and vote. Okay, next… Permissive Circumstance. Firstly, if you’re doing Locktober, well you have a new MCF, it went out on Monday, that’s going to entertain you. Or it… well, there’s no “or”, it will frustrate you, and it might entertain you, and some people, they like to play and tease and edge throughout the month. And some don’t. Isn’t it funny that everyone has different rules for themselves. So let’s see… have you been good so far today? Did you get a good night’s sleep? Brush your teeth? Eaten decently? If you answered yes t

Oh dear, for a few days there the “Encouraging Locktober Affirmations” were missing, and some cruel person replaced them with “Less-Than Useful Locktober Affirmations”. Well, now the Encouraging version has returned (with a small audio correction, also). It’s also attached here. There’s also another Locktober Tease Session, so no matter how you’re approaching this challenge there’s something good to listen to. As always you can find the Mind Control Fragments players here: www.spokenbyelswyth.com/mind-control-fragments/ Some non-chastity MCF’s might pop up next Monday. See you tomorrow for Eunoia! The post Mind Control Fragments appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Once upon a time I released a trigger setting session called Naughty Bunny – Feminization. The trigger set by the session induces a sense of gentle shame, and when I released it, I had considered all sorts of fun adventures that my Naughty Bunny could get up to in later sessions that would have expanded on the theme. But the truth is, I love dropping this trigger into whatever session calls for it. Naughty Bunny is my name for you when I want to make sure you’re blushing, or maybe your breath catches slightly. You can be the rabbit in the headlights, who has realised that he’s caught, whenever I desire. So enjoy this free trigger setting session, and you can be sure to experience the sensations it brings in my first Pocket Pet session. The post Naughty Bunny (Caught Masturbating) Trigger Setting appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this episode we talk about Fri-yay, and review our hygiene efforts. Transcript Today is Friday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. I had a bit of a pause there because I’ve fallen into the habit of jokingly referring to it as Fri-yay, and for whatever reason that has stuck, especially in my friend-circle, and so Fri-yay.. no whenever I say it outside of that I always have this pause of “Oh shit, which one did I say?” Anyway… today is Friday and this is Eunoia, so let’s get started. I want to say thank you to Peter, who is my latest Patron. Welcome in to the Happy Harem, and I also… I managed to forget to say a welcome to Alex, and sorry for that. Patreon is kind-of peculiar. I think it’s because it doesn’t have a lot of competition, so… so it sometimes feels like it was designed a decade ago and then never touched again. Yeah, it’s a little bit erratic in some of the notifications… so welcome again, to you Alex. And I had, I had a flurry of responses about handwashing and well done all of you.. including Cal Dude, and October-David, who is using his temporary nickname, so well done. Those two came through the Tell Me Good Things form, and they brought the average up to somewhere between 7-and-8. So eight “All good things come from Mistresses” each time you wash your hands, and go ahead and do more if you’ve been really dirty. Oh, speaking of… the Tell Me Good Things form, it is on the Contact page of my website, and so it’s an easy place to throw short messages like “Hey, thanks for permission to cum!” and “Thanks for denial!”. Some of you, you could just do that the entire month, right? If you’re clever enough you could probably like, write a script to do it. The “Thanks for denial!”. Of course you should also be sweet, with like… “Dear Mistress Elswyth. Thank you for denial. Warmly…” or “Yours…”, I do love Yours when it’s coming from my Happy Harem, and then your name, or nickname. And I did promise a short Eunoia today so… maybe it’s already time to move on to Obey. So let’s do so. Your homework is nice and easy, if you’ve been listening, but have never sent me any kind of a message… I want you to go to the Contact page, spokenbyelswyth.com/contact, and then just send a note. There are useful instructions on the page for how first notes should be, so they’re “polite”. You can send a hello, or you can ask a question, or suggest something, and you can be anonymous if you prefer. And for today’s Permissive Circumstance, if you send me any kind of note today, through that form, well then you have my permission, and hey I’ll have fun knowing how many orgasms I personally endorsed today. Of course, if you’re doing Locktober, just send me a note as well, thanking you for denial. Okay, go on, enjoy your Fri-yay. Depending on editing my Happy Harem may find Saturday’s Session out today. I will link it through Patreon for you. For everybody else, Saturday’s Session is coming out tomorrow. Due to the content it is not making it to YouTube, so just go to the website to download it. And, I will see you then. The post Eunoia (October 8th), Tell Me Good Things appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this instalment I wrap up yesterday’s thoughts on Hypnotic Inductions, with some Homework and Permissive Circumstances to boot. Transcript Today is Thursday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection betweeen us outside of the hypnosis sessions. Send you notes through Patreon or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the Listen section, and continue on to Obey for the Homework and Permissive Circumstance. Today is part two of talking about inductions and deepeners, not all of them used in our femdom hypnosis sessions, but… I’ve received interesting ideas on how to weave in more physical ones after asking about it yesterday in the homework. And thanks to those that did their homework and sent those messages in. So another method is arm levitation. This is pretty classic, it’s an Eriksonian tecnique. Basically, you get comfy; imagine a nice lounge, let’s make it white. I really like white furniture. Nice white lounge, you’re all stretched out. Your arms to your sides, eyes closed, and I would ask you to feel the difference, feel the different feelings in your arms. And making suggestions… so let’s say your left arm feels heavy, your right arm feels light, or hot, or cold… you enter a trance and you could-might even physically lift your arm. You’ve probably heard this one done with like a tie, a bunch of balloons around your right wrist and I put a heavy bucket of sand in your left hand. And that suggestion,. that visualisation, it will often have a physical side that happens to it. Seeing a client’s arms move. The other one is eye fixation. And this one is, really… this is something you probably do a few times a day without realising it. You will find yourself kind of zoning out, missing other people talking ’cause you’re kind-of staring at something in the room. Uh, it’s pretty easy. But that is a trance-like state. And any object of focus, it can be used to induce a trance. The pendulum, the swinging pocket watch. Those, you usually think of stage hypnosis with them. And there are certain schools that teach hypnotherapy that would probably lose their minds if any of their therapists started using a crystal pendulum, just because it has a bit of a stigma around it. But we don’t worry about stigmas, do we? Two of the reasons that eye-fixation works is… well, one; the object, we’ll say the pendulum, it keeps a conscious mind occupied, and that opens the subconscious mind to suggestion. And, second… it’s a bit more mundane, basically your eyes get physically tired when they’re going back and forth, or they fixate, so… okay… do that now. We’ll pretend this isn’t listening and this is obey. Obey me. I want you to look up at the ceiling, don’t bend your neck, just like… look up so your eyes are really tilted up. Keep going. Keep doing it until you actually feel your eyes get tired and begin to close. That’s one of the keys to eye fixation. The other one I like, and by the way, you can quit looking up, the other one I like is the body scan. I love this because it’s a gift that you can give to yourself outside of hypnosis, and with starting a session this way I know that it’s giving you a good thing… and I do love to give you good things. It can also be like married in together with some other techniques, you know… the full body scan, checking for tension in your shoulders… There’s something very loud going by outside! Going down through your shoulders, you know, your lower back, your thighs, your hips, your knees and doing that scan. You know that I love to pair this together with pink glitter. Kudos to you who remembered where that one came from. Okay… so, today’s shout-outs go out to uh… Ned, Ducky and Dave, uh, not October-Dave, for sending in the most… I’m trying to find my word here, for somebody who loves words, we’re going to say outlandish; outlandish homework replies to yesterday’s homework to yesterday’s homework. I don’t think we’ll be trying those, ummm… one involves heels, which I’m guessing was inspired by this skimpy outfit yesterday, but we’re not doing that with the heels. So on Monday there will be another Locktober MCF, and on Saturday I have, well… let’s just call it a confidence builder session, being released. I swear I’m gonna put it in Personal Growth as well, over in that pillar. It was a lot of fun to create, and I think quite a few of your are going to enjoy that one. It’s a great confidence builder. Okay, uh… the homework. Today’s homework is to repeat “All Good Things Come From Mistress” every time you wash your hands. You may do so in your head, or in, out to the room, it’s your choice, and tell me how many of those

Today and tomorrow I’m sharing my thoughts and ideas of hypnotic inductions, and asking for a few ideas, too. Of course, you’ll find the usual instruction to “Obey” at the end of the episode. Links Oops, it looks like the Mind Control Fragment Page has changed a little, especially if you’re mostly looking at the Locktober playlist. Get all the Locktober fragments right here, without having to pretend you’re patient. Transcript Today is Wednesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions. Send your notes through Patreon or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the Listen section and continue on to Obey for the fun homework, permissive circumstance, and whatever else I sometimes tuck in there. So today and tomorrow, I’m doing two parts of a series just talking about hypnotic inductions. With Femdom hypnosis I still follow a somewhat traditional hypnotherapist layout of hypnotic sessions, even though the content is quite different. It is important that the body is relaxed and mind is open before we truly dig in. Many of my Happy Harem have shared their favorites and least favorite induction methods with me. I have one dear that dies a little inside each time the beach is mentioned.. which is a shame, because I fucking love the beach. But because he did tell me that and quite early on, I am aware of it and I’ve also become hyper-aware of how often meditations and visualizations and all these things use the beach. Ummm… another dear, uh, well he practically like vibrates with happiness if I do a confusion induction, especially with numbers. Now, sometimes there is no rhyme or reason to which induction and deepener I choose for a session, it’s just whatever I’m in the mood to try out, or say. Ummm, but most of the time I do have a plan, I have a general, like, outline, Uh, usually so I can hide those word runes in there, or pick an induction that I know someone particularly enjoys… especially if I’m doing a session based on a fetish I know they enjoy. That’s one of the perks to having the smaller, limited Patreon. Okay, so, I mentioned the visualisation one. The beach, the comforting place, a stream, going down those stairs or hallway. Visualization can be used both to induce trance and to make suggestions. Like for example, if I tell you if you’ve done the lemon script, the quickie as it’s called, it has you recall a room that you’re very familiar with, in that case its the kitchen. Imagining every detail in the room; the floor, the shape of the windows, the painting on the wall, the smells coming from the stove, even the light coming in. You can take that and then have you move onto a room they you’re less familiar with. So you’re struggling to recall exact details and this little mental struggle going on, its when you are actually pretty open to suggestion. And I like that. I like that tied in with he conversational confusion one, simply because it is easy, so even if you’re new to hypnosis, or Femdom hypnosis, etcetera, its easy. It’s easy to imagine a place and we’re social being so a lot of us love describing places to other people. If we are, if we went out to coffee and I’m like “Hey, tell me about your Grandma’s kitchen.” you’d probably enjoy telling me about it, right? It’s nice. And then if I said “Okay, now tell me about your school’s cafeteria.” that could be a little bit harder and that is where, in our conversation you’d be a bit more open, your mind would be. Okay, so the confusion it purposefully has misdirection or word play woven through it. It can have the numbers and so on as well. For those of you who are long-time listeners of Spoken By Elswyth you know certain words and word games I love to do. I love words. I think one of my first gifts to come off my wishlist was from my dear Nicholas was a thesaurus. And I know, in this day and age even your phone has a thesaurus in it, but having the actual weighty book is quite nice. I almost always have books on my wishlist, because I love the words, I love playing with it, I know so many of you who are literate people who enjoy words as well and like that kind of play. The last one I’ll discuss today, so we can save a few for tomorrow, is the sudden shock induction. This is the one people often bring to mind when thinking of Stage Hypnosis or those rowdy TV evangelists on at like one in the morning. You know the ones that they go around smacking people on their foreheads and knocking ‘em backwards. It’s usually a trust fall scenario, not someone actually crashing to the ground, but Erickson who was often fond of like the handshake technique being a trigger, he also claimed that stepping on a person’s foot and then following it with a suggestion worked brilliantly. Now, I don’t think I can go around

In this instalment I tell you as little as possible about all the Locktober MCFs that are available this month, and I will test your mental arithmetic. Links The Mind Control Fragments player is always available here. There’s an item in the shop that gets you all the Locktober content immediately. Transcript Today is Tusday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our playtime together. Send your notes through Patreon or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the Listen section and then continue on to Obey like a good boy. Today is a somewhat shorter Eunoia because I’m getting out MCF’s out for today. More about that later… first of all, Bunnybee sent me a polite request for a MCF based on JOI. Lots of acronyms there, right? An MCF JOI that involves a stroker or… I like the word stroker better than Fleshlight, because now that I’m an American living in the UK, whenever I slip and say flashlight instead of torch, which I think torch is ridiculous, I know that there’s a certain group of people that automatically turn flashlight into Fleshlight. But torch, seriously? Torch sounds like we’re getting, y’know the tar and feathers and we’re gonna go storm the mad scientist’s lab up on the hill, right? Torch is just… I don’t know. I can’t do it. Anyway… so… Bunnybee mentioned an MCF JOI that involves those particular types of toys and, I have recorded one that does involve that. But… it might not be what you were hoping for. It is part of the Locktober Mind Control Fragments. So, I delayed a day or two on those because it was just easier to record all the bits and pieces in one fell swoop, but the first one should already be available and for those who are impatient and don’t want to wait for them to trickle, drip, out… you can find the entire set on the website, and the link is also in the podcast, YouTube, website description. Ummm… you can always go to the blog post usually to find things. You know what, let’s quadruple the Patreon and just earn me enough money that somebody else can do the YouTube and the posting and whatevers, because I would always rather create and talk to all of you, than do that side of things. Okay, so… yeah… so that’s coming out, and there’s no early peeks for my Happy Harem on this one, because I really love knowing which of you just couldn’t wait. So, for Obey, it is going to be a little different today. No breathing, no meditation, simply because I am releasing an MCF today that is all about stress reduction through breathing, so your homework is to listen to that MCF release. Even if you’re not interested in the Locktober, per sé, you can still listen to that, there’s some positivity in there… and then, ummm… y’know that’s easy enough for you, right? That’s easy homework, listen to me talk to you. You’re doing that already, look at you, you’re so good. Let’s balance it out with something trickier. Here is your Permissive Circumstance. Okay, come on, hope you had your coffee, tea, run? Whatever you need to do this morning… or afternoon, or evening, depending on when you’re listening… what is [REDACTED]? You can have a few seconds, I won’t count down. That seems cruel, and… did you get [REDACTED]? If you worked it out before I kindly told you the answer, you have my permission today. But if you’re doing Locktober, even if you got [REDACTED], oh my dear… you’re wrong. Bye for now. The post Eunoia (October 5th), Locktober Mind Control and Fast Math appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this episode, let’s just take a moment to talk about Locktober. Are you taking part? Honestly, it’s not really my thing, and you certainly won’t catch me taking any oaths of chastity… but I do like the look of those shiny cages, and I do enjoy teasing people. I have a few ideas of how to make this month more fun if you’re keeping to a regimen of abstinence, mostly coming through some Locktober-themed MCF’s which you’ll hear about soon enough… though the Marshmallow Trigger Setting is freely available, and the chastity themed variation is half-price right now. The post Eunoia (October 4th), Locktober Housekeeping appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Today I also touch upon some advice for journaling. A few responses to September Goals were in journal form and I really enjoyed reading them (especially a certain someone who responded over three emails). My Patrons received a Saturday Session on Friday, a new version of the Naughty Bunny Trigger Setting. I will tell you all a little more about it shortly, and decide how I’m publishing it. The post Sunday Eunoia, Together Day (October 3rd) – Wave Breathing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this instalment, let’s start October by looking at how well we achieved our goals for September. With smoothie advice and a nihilistic play. Links Pocket Pet’s Free Trigger Setting session can be found here. Transcript Today is Friday, and this is Eunoia Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our playtime together. Send your notes through Patreon or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the Listen section, and continue on to Obey for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, etcetera. So, today is Friday… uh… October 1st. Yes. I know, I know, you know me… if you know me. You know I love it when the first day of the month falls on the first day of the week, but for October I’ll take this. It’s okay. I think part of that is because of the magic going on in my inbox. I did not know what to expect of my September Naughty and Nice goal challenge when I tossed it out there. Just kinda… threw it out there, in the wind, and told you not to check in and whatever else, and just to turn them in at the end of the month. Honestly, I really wondered what was going to come of that. Ummm… but man, you know what? I shouldn’t have. I should have known. They started arriving yesterday and there’s a lot, a lot of them. Oh, so what I was going to do, this is all anonymous, the responses and stuff those will happen privately, but I wanted to give you a few examples of what went on. So, one person, they spent the month reaching out to people in their local kink community, going to some munches and meeting some people. Well done on that, breaking out of your comfort zone that is incredibly hard, and progress? That’s impressive. Someone else, they acquainted themselves with their Vitamix. If you do not know what a Vitamix is, imagine those insane YouTube videos, and I swear I do not watch these things, I just have friends that do, and they’re like “Hey, look at this!” and then I suddenly find myself looking at their phone watching this YouTube video. But if you imagine one that’s like “Will it Blend?” and its ummm… I don’t know, a VANS shoe, or… I’m really coming at a loss here, a Nokia phone, y’know, something like that. Imagine that… “Will it Blend?” and now imagine the blender. That’s probably a Vitamix. It’s just this heavy-duty, does-everything, including making hot soup kind of thing. Okay… so… They reacquainted themselves with their Vitamix and indulged in some delicious smoothies, real ones, with veggies in them. I always like… I have one particular family member, and we only talk at a distance because obviously I’m in the UK now, and they’re still over in the States, and… as we would say in the South “Bless their heart”… they basically think if you throw it in the blender, whizz it around for a bit, it somehow becomes healthy. And they showed me their ingredient list for a smoothie once, and it was crazy… it was like a Greek yoghurt, like a vanilla Greek yoghurt, it was peanut butter, and again these aren’t like inherently bad, right? It was bananas, and a… man I can’t even think of which other fruits, I don’t know, the list just went on and on. And then they decided it needed some chocolate, ’cause chocolate goes with peanut butter, so they have like this protein powder and I swear by the time they’ve finished this was like 3,000 calories of fruit. Fruit and peanut butter and ’cause it was heavy on the peanut butter, and yoghurt. And to them it was just… it was health food, because it came out of the blender and it was a smoothie. Anyway, this person… they… in their Vitamix they were making real ones, with veggies in them. I used to, when I was a medical professional, and I had people say “Ooh, I’ve been juicing.” and I’d say “Okay, what are you juicing?” and it almost always would be something like… apple and carrot juice, or orange and carrot juice, and in my mind if you want a pat on the back for juicing, you better be juicing celery. Though really don’t, just eat the celery, but if you’re juicing celery and wheatgrass and I don’t know… cilantro, and something else in together and you’re drinking that, that’s hardcore and that probably has something good in it for you, okay… …we are six minutes into this and I have got totally caught on a tangent. I wish I could see Pita’s face as he is editing this because he is just going to wonder what happened. I’m in a good mood, though. I got up early, I grabbed a fanstic shower, I ummm… my clothes were warm, they were on the heated drying rack. If you are not in the UK that probably means nothing to you, because you probably just throw everything

In this chapter, Second Hand Embarrassment and Second Chances. Transcript Today is Wednesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our playtime together. Although we do get plenty of playful moments here. Send you notes through Patreon, or the SpokenByElswyth website to be included in the listen section. And continue on to Obey, for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, etcetera. So, first of all I reached ninety Patrons out of my hundred-Happy Harem. Uhhh… and thanks to Testing123, for making that happen. Want to bet that I’ve attracted another sound guy? Okay, so… Geoff, which might not be Geoff and it might be Joff, I’m having one of those moments. Sometimes I swear that I was meant to just stay in small town America, and do nothing else. So, Geoff-Joff, hello. I’ve been putting this off because, well… do you know the second-hand embarrassment of watching someone sing at a wedding even if they’re objectively good? Or is that just me? Well, Geoff-Joff did something amazing. He wrote an actual song, and it’s called Shared Headspace. And he has recorded it and shared it with me and it’s wonderful. I’ve had poems and photographs, and drawings, and goodness, even people sharing their baking adventures with me, this creativity. And I don’t mean to belittle any of those things when I say; there’s nothing much more soul-baring than sitting down with just a guitar and your own voice and words. That’s why people like MTV Unplugged right? Or liked them. When was the last time they made one of those, anyway? I don’t even know if MTV is still going on, but I do recall a few, and anyway… let’s skip over that, it has nothing to do with Femdom, or Hypnosis. But, you know I love the creativity. The shared creativity is fantastic. Alas, I don’t have permission to share that with you all. Ummm, let’s find out if our Joff-Geoff is agreeable to allowing me to share it. If so, then you’ll get to hear it. Now, onto Obey. I counted a handful of Spoken for Elswyth Entreaties yesterday afternoon, and received handful of promises that it would come soon. I know, I know, that I have more eager men looking for Permission than that. So breaking out the lazy for me, but work for you card… in obedience. Your homework is that you have another chance today. You will record yourself saying the Entreaty, but today you also need to punctuate your recording with  a heartfelt apology for not  doing it yesterday. If you already did this Homework, well then you’re certainly full of all sorts of warm and positive feelings from knowing that you’ve pleased me, so you don’t need permission for anything else, right? And for those of you hopelessly confused about what this Permissive Circumstance means, it’s this… I give you a PC for the day, and if you meet it, or have met it, for instance… once upon a time it was something like “If you’ve had a glass of water today”. If you’ve met it, you have my Permission for release… yummy, wonderful… release. I think that’s pretty clear, right? You know that YouTube is a pain in the you-know-what… and sometimes it catches the oddest things. So for those of you in the comments section asking if I’ll put an HFO, JOI or whatever else on YouTube, the answer is… “No”. I don’t monetize my YouTube channel or whatever else, I don’t care… most of my stuff just goes through Patreon and the website. There is plenty of free content on the website, all you have to do is click over there and you can listen to whatever. So, that’s a Permissive Circumstance. If you record yourself, today, as part of your Homework, you’ve met the Permissive Circumstance. Now, what is this entreaty? For those of you who have not heard it, you get to hear it now. I want you to find your most submissive… in public, like real public, like… we’re sitting at the train station, yes I have a thing for trains, or we are walking through the park. Maybe we’re at the mall, maybe we’re in a café. Imagine somewhere for us to be. Public though, people around. With proper social distancing. Now, you’re in that spot, right? You’re with me. Don’t make me be all by myself, you get over here with me, okay? Now… be in your most submissive while in public pose, and let’s take in a nice, deep breath, and let it out gently. And again. And out. And one more deep one in. And out. Find your regular breathing pattern. Relax. I’m not that scary, besides, we’re in public. And now I lean in closer to you, and say softly… Oh Darling Elswyth, you who awaken and enthral,Logomantic sorceress from whom good things come. You have promised to enrapture and bind with words,To furnish your faithful, floating follower with a felicitous  futu

How are your logs for September’s goals? Only two days left! Today you can share with me whether your goal was Naughty, Nice, or whether you picked one of each. If you aren’t sure what I’m talking about, well perhaps we’ll play again soon. We’ve started to pick up the Permissive Circumstances game for our newcomers, anyway. There’s even a fun one in this episode, I encourage you to have a try. If you still don’t know what I’m talking about, then a Permissive Circumstance is a condition for release. Yes, you can earn your orgasm for the day one way or another, and you know it’s more fun when you have permission. That condition might be playing in a certain way, or completing a task, or it might just rely on whether you know the answer to some trivia question about a song that’s stuck in my head. I’m whimsical that way. Links Today’s Homework involves the Spoken for Elswyth Entreaty. It’s on the MCF Player right now. If you want to earn your Permission this way today, you can email your little audio clips to me. Transcript Today is Tuesday and this is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. You can probably hear a dog in the barkgr… ha… barkground. But I’m not editing that. We’re just gonna… we’re persevering. Today is Tuesday and the virtue is perseverance. Oh, this is when I say Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of session-time. Send your notes through Patreon or the website to be included in the listen section and continue on to obey for the homework, permissive circumstance and sometimes a guided meditation or thought. Today’s Eunoia is a short one. It’s for the people, mostly, my newest dears, who are behind on September goals and this late in the month, they’re unlikely to catch up. So I’m offering some Homework through Eunoia just to give, y’know, another way to play. Welcome to my newest Happy Harem members. We’re up to 89, out of my hundred… and I’m going to totally ruin this first name, but let’s see how we do. I have; Goffredo, and Jackson. Ryan, and Bladeking. Okay, what are you? A Yone? Although, I’m a fan of Irelia. Especially a fed one on my side. She’d probably be a bit miffed to be called a King. How about… oh… duh… Bladeking. The mopey guy… Viego. I also have to say, I don’t know what that came to me. Viego? I swear that’s the perfect name for a small dog. So, Bladeking… are you in to puppy play? Oh, my Cal Dude, here’s the other one… he’s the only person I heard from that correctly guessed that the slightly, slightly condescending nickname used for me is “Sweet-Pea”. No, the rest of you don’t get to use it. Alright, take that deep breath in. More. Hold. And out. Deep breath in again. And as you exhale, shake out your hands. Deep breath in again. And as you exhale, lower your shoulders. And deep breath in again. And as you exhale just roll your neck around. Clockwise. Counter-clockwise. And now breathe at your own pace. For obedience today, you voluntary (I’m stressing that word) you voluntary homework is this; toss off the shyness and record yourself saying the Entreaty for Elswyth. It can be a simple phone recording, or hey… go all out and find yourself a Blue Yeti. Though I do prefer Rode microphones. If you’re unfamiliar with the Entreaty for Elswyth, you can find it on the MCF player on the website. Ummm… MCF… Mind Control Fragments. The player is right here… click on Spoken for Elswyth. You’ll get bonus points if you memorize it before you record it… and, you likely guessed it. That is also your Permissive Circumstance for today. The rules are… must be audio only, and I plan to merge them together as… maybe it’s in honour of Hallowe’en coming up, I don’t know. I plan to merge them together into like an incantation. Minus the forest and candles and orgy. So, I am distracted now… you’re distracted too, don’t lie. So, no video. Only audio. No names included, other than mine, and… you give me the right to jumble it up into one big auditory experience. No video, no video, no video. Let me repeat the instructions. Kidding. Yes.. some of you know where that’s from. I did watch Squid Game. I have no idea why I subjected myself to it. I hate dubbing. I told some of you this before and I’ve had the most hilarious responses to it, from people sending me shows with it and so on. My Dad loved those crazy old shows with all the dubbing, that was so bad… so bad… so I think it’s just too many, y’know, weekends watching Dad watch these horrible shows. So I hate the dubbing, but I got sucked in my the colours, and the idea being kinda like The Long Walk by King. Which is also a heart-wrenching experience. So

Included in this episode; the results of some subtle self-promotion, a little bit of Homework and Permissive Circumstances, and an admission of guilt regarding my domestic servants. Transcripts as a concept have survived to the following week, so the editor is obviously not too overworked. Once a dozen are done this way I’ll reflect. Any strong opinions? Are they useful to you? Let me know. Transcript Today is Monday and this Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth. Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our sessions. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the listen section, and continue on to obey for the homework, Permissive Circumstances, guided meditation or whatever I think up for today. So… yesterday I posted some links to the SpokenByElswyth.com site out on the internet. I’m not on some mad advertising spree I just know that a lot of people might have never heard of me. So, welcome to my newest Happy Harem members who are no doubt exploring what I have on Patreon and such, uh… taking us up to… oh… up to 87 out of my 100 limit. So, welcome to Dev and Daryl and 17 others who downloaded the Beginner’s Bundle since yesterday. So if you’re new to Eunoia, welcome to you too. Monday’s Mind Control Fragment, affectionately known as MCF’s, this one it allows you to visit England and unburden yourself. Saturday’s Cuddle Session is up on the site too. It’s a free download, you can also find it on the podcast. Ummm… you won’t find it on Youtube because I can’t be arsed to do the video and such. Ummm… this is an auditory experience anyway. Don’t worry, I’m sure I’ll get back to that but y’all know that my preference is to chat with you directly, and stay out of the cesspool that includes YouTube comments and so on. If you haven’t heard the Cuddle Session, go ahead and look for it on SpokenByElswyth or just on the Podcast. My wishlist, it’s been updated, it literally has a bit of everything on there including some crazy things. I’m still waiting on that canal boat maker to offer their wares… or to somehow snag one into my word web. I think I’m more likely to find an app developer, a professor… or I don’t know; a novelist. So where are all of the ship makers hiding? And for those of you who want a new hobby? Especially if you live in the UK, or next to water that gets you connected to the UK, may I recommend; boat-making. Oh, how did you get on with your last homework assignment? I know… most of your homework and PC is wrapped up in our September goals, but I did give you an extra assignment after being inspired by Teaseme’s message. A few days ago, Mr. Brad was filling my ear with some flattering compliments, telling me how much he enjoys dressing in satin and silk, and xenboy is one of those who was listening very carefully in our Cuddle Session and noticed that I mentioned a maid who wasn’t my flirtatious Pixie, or my dutiful Margaret… and so I guess I should admit that I’m working on a new maid training session, and a new trigger setting to go along with it. I think that Pocket Pet is proof that releasing a trigger, and a session together is a good practice for all of us. Okay, and now it’s time for Obey. Let’s go with that familiar pose, of your hands resting, palms up. You know, I prefer that you have them on your thighs, but if that’s not possible… let’s say you’re listening to me while stretched out on your tummy… you can just put them in front of you. Palms up. And let’s go ahead and do some of that box-breathing. We’re gonna breathe up to four, hold for four, down for four, wait for four… okay? Let’s begin. In, two three four…Hold, two three four…Out, two three four…Wait, two three four… In, two three four…Hold, two three four…Out, two three four…Wait… keep waiting… Keep waiting… And In, two three four…Hold, two three four…And Out… Let it all out… and resume a breathing pace that’s working for you. Feeling tingly? For obedience today, I want you to listen to today’s MCF; the Rock Pool. If you’ve done so today, prior to listening to today’s Eunoia, I’m quite proud of you. And, you’ve received your reward already, and just to swap this around a bit, I’m giving you a Permissive Circumstance for today, to welcome all those dear new ones. If… I just know some of you are going to smile so big at this. If you have not listened to today’s MCF, then go on and do so, and you have my permission to release after. That’s your reward. Or hell, during… during if you can manage it but I seriously doubt that anyone is getting their rocks off to rocks. I guess your homework

Today will also feature an episode of Eunoia. But here’s some encouragement to release and let go of negative thoughts today. You know by now that you have my permission to play with these however suits you best. If you choose to leave “Kneeling For JOI” on loop for an hour, then you’re allowed. Promise to tell me what happens when you do! The Mind Control Fragments playlist has been updated, bringing back a few pieces that had been removed. If you’re wondering whether you have a complete collection… then you might like to know that so far there are 25 fragments. The post Mind Control Fragment – Rock Pool Release appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

If you’re having a lazy, lay-in-bed morning, why not scroll back an episode and listen to A Cuddle Session? Even if you’ve already heard some of it… you might have drifted happily off to dreamland last time. The post Eunoia, Together Day – Lion’s Roar appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Maybe it’s time for bed. Maybe you’ve woken up early enough that you get to snuggle back down and sleep a while longer. Either way, be under the covers and close with me for this Cuddle Session. This is a conversational hypnosis session, and a guided meditation. It is sexually suggestive, erotic and playful. It is also deep, swirling and confusing. Repetition, wordplay and creative overdubbing are heavily featured. Some members of my Happy Harem on Patreon have already told me that this session gave them a great night’s sleep, and other more exciting things besides. You know, a recently satisfied guy always rests easy. The session is set to bespoke music that will be familiar to anyone who requested a Spring Sleep Session earlier this year. I think it makes for the perfect way to fall back to sleep together. The post A Cuddle Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this instalment; Pocket Pet patience, Dirty Talk, and some info about the next Saturday Session. It’s one you’ll be happy to stay in bed for. I’m trying out adding a transcript to these episodes. As I write this, I’m not sure how much extra work that’s going to be, whether it’s better for me, my listeners… both… neither? We’re going to find out! You’ll hear that I’ve changed my opinion on whether it’s right to mention my listener’s first names and nicknames on the podcast. If you don’t want that to ever happen, you should let me know. Links Pocket Pet Session One is in the Shop. The trigger setting is freely also available in the shop, on the podcast feed, and on Patreon. Transcript Today is… well… it’s Wednesday, but you’re likely hearing this on a Thursday, unless of course this week has gone crazy and it’s Friday! And this of course is Eunoia, Spoken by Elswyth.Eunoia is all about the connection between us outside of our playtime together. Send your notes through Patreon or the Spoken by Elswyth website to be included in the Listen section, and continue on to Obey for the Homework, Permissive Circumstance, and well… a bit more. Okay, are you ready? I’ve had a few naughty ones that forgot all about patience and jumped right in with a session. You know… the Pocket Pet session? The trigger went out to everyone and the first session, the first little playtime with those triggers, it is in the shop. But I did tell my Happy Harem, I did tell you that you’ll get it in October.So for those naughty ones, now, they have a punishment. Or funishment. I think it falls into that category. I do love handing out some old-school correction for my errant boys. Okay. I’ve gone back-and-forth and back-and-forth on this in regards to using first names or nicknames. Of course I’ll never use surnames and if you want to address me anonymously you know you can always do it through the website. So, I absolutely love what Raymond has to say about the Pocket Pet and Dirty Talk. I especially love that he goes on about how much he would love to be able to worship my body. Being on his knees. Waiting for my finger to raise his chin so he could see my beautiful lips and look into my hazel eyes. See, he’s not one of those “Eyes Lowered” guys. At least not in this scenario.He goes on to say, and I’m just going to read this, his words, you would raise me up completely with your fingertip, and allow me to kiss your lips just once. Then I would kiss your cheek, and then just behind your ear. And then your neck… this is in quotes… “You smell so fucking good I can’t take it.” I like that.Kissing and nibbling further down I would be lost in your scent. Your hand on the back of my head would guide me.Okay… and then it goes on. And because this Eunoia generally does make it to Youtube which is a stickler for certain things, I can’t go on with that one. Ummm… oh… and then my dear Teaseme says I loved Breath of Fire. The cheery mood you were in made my whole body happy. You’re so much fun and it pleases me to hear you so carefree. I hope that you can enjoy every day for the rest of your life.Tell me… seriously people… tell me how amazing is it that there is this soul out there in the world who says “I hope you can enjoy every day for the rest of your life.” Now, I know, this, our current homework and personal circumstance is… not personal, permissive circumstance is handled for right now. We have our September challenge going on but man… you guys… okay… you do have homework for today.Here’s your homework. You gotta make someone smile the way I smiled what Teaseme had to say; “I hope you can enjoy every day for the rest of your life.” I just fucking love it. I love it, it so sweet, and nice, and genuine, and perfect. And honestly, we should all be willing to be that free. Just to tell people to just live their lives and enjoy themselves, right? And, and then he goes on and he talks about lots of other wonderful things. Okay, so… oh and he also calls me sweetheart and… yeah… yeah, yeah… I’m going to allow that one. Sweetheart. It’s fine. It’s really close to, they started out condescending, but… but then simply stayed nickname that I often get called by Pita, and then somehow Bunny picked it up.It’s a vegetable. It’s not “a vegetable”. That’d be a dumb thing to call somebody, right? Like “Hey, a vegetable, wanna go to a movie tonight?” It’s not that, but it is a vegetable. Kudos to you if you manage to guess it. So… I want you to find a good posture for you. It’d be great if you could stretch out somewhere comfortable or slump down into the chair but I realise that’s not always possible with Eunoia. But I want you to take this time now, breathe, do that body inven

A small editing mistake has been spotted in Pocket Pet, reminding me that Patrons should always get sessions first!Whether you downloaded the session from the Shop or from Patreon you can replace it with the fixed version here. If you prefer to listen on the podcast feed, well now you can! The other download links will be fixed in a few minutes. I have some other things to say about Pocket Pet, which will come in tomorrow’s Eunoia. Now I’m off to record this weekend’s Saturday Session. The post Pocket Pet Updates appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

This morning has already been a productive Monday, getting a few more personalised MCF’s recorded so they can go out into the world. There’s so much variety, some are positive and affirming, some need written down in detail before recording, and some are easy to create from the notes. Others are just the best kind of Dirty Talk. That’s the newest little fragment that’s publicly available. Download it and blend it in with your other favourite fragments and give it a try. Dirty talk is a conversation. A conversation where you can say whatever you’re feeling, there’s rarely any wrong answers. Listen to this fragment, and be sure to Contact Me and tell me your little dirty talk phrases. You can develop on what you heard, or maybe something entirely new comes to mind as you listen. You can even take Permission when you’ve done so, regardless of how your naughty and nice goals are going today. Say thank you! The post Dirty Talk – Mind Control Fragments appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Today’s Eunoia includes information about the new pillar, thank yous for my wonderful gifts, and another breathing technique. I will say, I have a few naughty ones that didn’t pass the patron patience test! Somehow, I’ll forgive you. Maybe a bit of C-Time? Or a long love letter promising future obedience? So many options. The post Sunday Eunoia – Breath of Fire appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Step one: Pocket pet trigger setting session. The full session is a free download available here. Step two: Session One – only listen to this after you’ve fully ingrained the new word runes. This session is mentioned in the patron patience post on Sept 18th. The post NEW: Pocket Pet Pillar Trailer appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Take a moment with me, to just be together. Not to reflect on the week that has past, or to spend too much time thinking about the week to come. Someone asked me what my favourite book was on Patreon, and I gave a less than complete answer, though I did share that I’m currently reading “Mad House at the End of the Earth”. I plan to finish that up, sitting in a comfy chair, outside a yurt, on the side of a hill! I will be back Tuesday morning. The post Sunday Eunoia – Position Change Breathing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I’ve been enjoying creating personalised MCF’s (a little later than expected) and a handful have already been sent out to the lucky, loyal recipients. Some of the ideas were a strong push to create things I’d already been considering. Others were completely new and original. I’m sure that this one (Polly) won’t be the only one that needs to be turned into a public session. It’s here on the podcast feed, and worked into the MCF player in the usual place. So, one of you will recognise the content of this little Fragment. This little foray into a pet play scenario is somewhat toned down from what was sent privately. Thank you to that one good pet who came up with the seed it grew from. Need more? Patrons have already received Position for Release, but it is now available in the shop. This is a completely shameless JOI session and while you can enjoy it in your usual comfortable position, you are strongly encouraged to move around as you listen. Next Saturday is my target date to release Pocket Pet, a new trigger session that introduces an truly fantastical experience. The post Mind Control Fragments – Polly appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

You might start to feel like this session spends a little too long concerning itself with “energy flowing through the body” and such. Don’t worry about it dear, you’re trying something with me! You can come back to it if this leaves you curious, or leave it well alone after the first time. My new full-length session “Position for Release” will be available shortly, and it does explore our breathing exercises in a more intense and exhilarating fashion. I can’t wait to share it with you all! (Though my Patrons have been listening and enjoying since Thursday…) The post Eunoia, Together Day – Nine Round Breathing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

If only it could be Monday. Ah, well. For some of you, this may be a true beginning with me. For others, it may be a continuation of your growth. And there are the few that need that “restart”. I’m grateful for my dear Happy Harem and your support throughout this trying summer. Even the little notes checking on my family with Hurricane Ida, etc, mean quite a bit to me. Acts of service through the giving of time is part of my love language – shocking, eh? Be sure to collect your gift! I hinted at this in an earlier Eunoia but finally solidified the best way for us to progress through this September. I’m still playing some catching up with my Real Work, but I have a gazillion ideas for SbE that I want to see to fruition. Today’s Eunoia has an HW / PC in it regarding one such project. Send your reply. So you are going to jump into your fall with a Naughty & Nice Goal Setting and every day that you work towards one of them, you’ll give yourself a point. Write down (digital or electronic) what you did to progress, even small things count as progress, and at the end of the month, you’ll send it my way.You will be rewarded based on how many days you completed. No fibbing. Got that? Keeping track can be done with a spreadsheet, napkin, or an artistic endeavour completely with coloured pencils. If you go with non-digital, just snap a pic of it on Sept 30th. I will share in the first Oct Eunoia what others got up to (anonymous of course!) and the rewards. –Norton Juster Here are the rules: You must write out your N&N goals. You may NOT tell anyone (not even me!) your goals.You will keep a daily log of what you’ve done towards the goal (you can do one or both). If you miss a day or two, you’ll jump back in on the current day.You will NOT fib. No lying. No cheating. Be honest with both of us! You must send in your record to me on Sept 30th – based on the London time zone. (yup, srsly). All participants will receive something, but the thing will vary based on what you’ve done. Naughty Goal Ideas Extend your edging goalDecrease your staminaLearn a new skill.Try a new toy or plan for one.Expand your viewing list.Write down your fantasies.Try out a new fantasy.After orgasm, write down The Thought that pushed you over. Nice Goal Ideas Finish 2 booksStart writing a bookCycle that centuryFollow a routineEat your veggiesLearn a new skillDo a daily relaxation, using Eunoia or similar.Journal for 10 minutes daily The post September 1st – Restart / Refocus / Reset appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I don’t remember exactly what I mentioned as far as sessions in this Checking the Diary Eunoia, because I was too busy talking about how great my chair is. I’m working through Personalised MCF sessions (I’ve recorded about 40% of those that were requested) and writing two different full-length sessions to be released as soon as possible. Those are Pocket Pet and a JOI session with lots of talk about the position I would choose to have you in. Something for everyone! I’ll turn this into a Youtube video later today! The post Eunoia – A Queen Needs a Throne appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

If you’re seeing this in your favourite podcast app, remember that there’s more you certainly aren’t seeing on Elswyth.com A return to normalcy means a return to Together Day this Sunday. I’d tell you how excited I am to start a fresh week, a fresh Monday (and you’ll hear about my new journal this week, I’m sure)… but actually, that’s not important. Together Day isn’t about next week, or the last, it’s about being present in this moment. The post Together Day – Seven and Eleven appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

The (Monday) MCFs will be appearing later today. EDIT: The MCFs are now live on the player. One is beach themed and for my “I don’t like the beach” people, rest assured it’s not all about sandy serenity. Consider it a mini-vacation. The other is movement-based – either in everyday life or in our shared headspace. Today’s Eunoia is a thank you, bit o’ sad, and then a clearing the slate to give space for creativity to resume. I don’t think we ever fully get over losing someone, but we do find ways to smooth the sharp edges of grief and allow more of the good and less of the sad to fill us. Today’s Eunoia also includes the beginning of Ch13 from A Book of Matches. A good read. The post Wednesday Eunoia – Returning appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Hello, lovelies! Later today a sensation play session will be going out for Patreon feedback. This session IS about getting hurt in a yummy way, so for all my masochists.. come play. For those not into it, don’t worry, I have something else planned for you later this week. The weather has changed which means recording will FINALLY be happening again. Thanks for all of the messages and fun pics lately. I love it. M. E. The post Eunoia – The Unicorn Bicycle & Red Thighs appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I can’t be the only one who daydreams in the shower, who does some of their best, most creative and inventive thinking in the shower… right? So this Mind Control Fragment can be found in the MCF Player, where it comes just before bedtime, of course. It’s been hot enough here that I’ve taken a cool shower each evening, it certainly helps with getting good rest. Also included on the MCF page; an edited (fixed) version of Margaret’s Rules. There was a mistake in the original version, but it returns here. Margaret’s on my mind. There’s a third (final?) maid trigger session in the works, and I’m hoping that Margaret will have a deeper adventure, just like Pixie does in Under the Table. The post Mind Control Fragments Update appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Happy Sunday, my loves! While happy smut writing continues, we also have time together to simply breathe. Enjoy your Sunday – go outside, find some fresh air, or stay in and be cozy with a book. For those of you stuck in work, choose another day this week to be your Sunday. The post Eunoia Sunday – Breath Play – Box appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

This is Mind Clutter Clearing. This session is dedicated to you, for a healthier, happier more balanced you. A better you for me. Good habits, good thoughts, good feelings. Let’s scrub that brain before we dive into a bit of the dirty next week with either sensation play, or maybe some HFO training. I know… it sounds selfish, but I’m still giving you good things. Good habits. Good health. Good thoughts and feelings. The post Mind Clutter Clearing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Today is a happy, chatty instalment of Eunoia… the kind where I just tell you what’s on my mind. And it comes complete with a Permissive Circumstance at the end.Thank you for the dozens of songs that dropped into my inbox, I’ll be putting them all on a playlist and listening while I write later. Shout-outs. K writes:Dear Mistress Elswyth! Thank you so much for the wonderful Spring sleep session that you made for me, I had my best sleep for as long as I can remember – and the best time before falling to sleep – after listening to your recording at bedtime. Your voice and your words and your sentences are so precious to me. You make me calm down and relax and to feel safe. I am so grateful to have found you and to have you in my life. Thank you so much for your kind words, Kjell; every response to the Sleep Sessions has always made the whole creation process wonderfully rewarding.This was the last Sleep Session I will make, though there are a few that were made, but that I’m now hunting down!Right now I’m seeing the first requests for Personalized Mind Control Fragments filter in; if you’re a Patron you can check there to find out more, and if not you can request a Custom MCF here. Here’s some of the songs that have been suggested… M suggests: Kiss of Life by Peter Gabriel I’m on board with this one! CD suggests: The Tide is High by Blondie I don’t think I’ve heard this, but I can already tell I’m going to enjoy it. Tm suggests: Chop Suey! by System of a Down I know of this band, and expect this one is going to be loud! V suggests: Margaritaville by Jimmy Buffet This will be interesting. I know the tune, but I can’t remember any of the lyrics. I wonder if I’ll be left thinking V is making some statement about his opinions of me with this suggestion… Tm writes:What is the circumference and length of the plug or dildo I would need to take your strap on? Well, I promised I’d answer a question or two that was a little racier than what usually pops up in my inbox! And the answer might not be what everyone wants to hear, but like most women who own a strap-on I have more than one toy which can be attached to the front of it.For most purposes, the inch-wide, six-inch long pink toy (it’s smooth and not at all realistic) works just fine. I do also have a cock that’s black silicone, fairly rigid, and about ten inches long. It’s a little more fun to play with; it looks much more intimidating and has lots of wonderful ridges and textures.Perhaps I should start a Bad Dragon fund on Ko-Fi? P writes:Dear Mistress, I am interested in your Femdom Orgasms Control. The problem is, I don’t have the willpower to not touch myself in between. So I would like to buy a chastity cage, but I don’t know which is good? Can you recommend me one, or at least a good place to safely buy one online? Also I’m curious in the possibilities of online keyholding. Can you provide me more information? Sorry for all the questions and thank you in advance for your answers. Alright, I’ve never once worn a chastity cage (for obvious reasons). I have worn a key on a cord around my neck for a few days, but it’s pretty scratchy. Of the people I know “In the Flesh” who’ve ever worn one and had any success there’s two things I’d suggest;First there’s the “Holy Trainer” style toys that are made of a rigid, plastic-type material. Apparently these are fairly comfortable, but one partner who wasn’t circumcised couldn’t get on with it at all since skin tended to “stick” to the inside of the toy after a while.Second, if you visit eBay or any other online shop where people resell cheap toys (AliExpress, why not?) you can find all manner of inexpensive steel cages with simple padlocks. The same partner who didn’t like the Holy Trainer (let’s call them B) found better success here. B liked a metal cage that was a bit more open, so he could prod things anywhere they pinched.Universally the men in my life who liked this kind of play agreed on one thing; these kinds of cages are more comfortable with briefs or other tight-fitting underwear, rather than loose-fitting boxers. The extra weight isn’t supported by boxer shorts, and ends up getting uncomfortable quick.If anyone has any advice or success stories, leave a comment… or reach out and I’ll perhaps add your comments to the next blog post. The post Eunoia, July 14th appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Goodness, this Togetherness session is much racier than last week. Though this instalment does include a little preamble ramble. I did have tomorrow’s Mind Control Fragment info on my mind, and the Saturday Session Athaneum which is a lot of things… a love letter to my Happy Harem on Patreon. The post Together Day – The Sigh – 4 7 8 appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

This might be our together day, but I’m catching up on some work. Will you curl up below my desk, warming my feet for me as I add these finishing touches on “Under the Table”? I feel this won’t be the only post today, there are a few things I wish to share, about Mind Control Fragments and about Pixie. The post Sunday Eunoia – Equal Breathing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I’m more than aware that a few of my lovely followers have been missing regular Eunoia, my “Preamble Rambles” especially. Oh dear, this session seems to have turned into almost exclusively rambling! Find out what sessions are coming soon for Patrons and everyone else, and a whole lot more that was on my mind. Shout-Outs V writes:I just finished (?) PTTFO and what an auditory delight it was! Thank you for all the good things! I’m certain I’ll revisit it in the coming days to try and continue to wrap my mind around it Thank you for such a kind review of “PTTFO“. Here’s a reminder that this session’s five-letter title is also a coupon code that will earn you a discount on Eternal Suitor and The Apartment. CD writes:Dear Mistress – The Bialetti Moka Pot seems pretty cool. I had never heard of it. The video made it look easy to use. I may invest. Tm writes:Oh my god! I didn’t know such a thing existed! I am getting a moka pot immediately!!! I love it. Thank you so much for expanding my mind and teaching me about this genious invention. Pexels.com DM writes: Dear Mistress, you sound like you’re in a really good mood today, happy to hear it. No homework for me today, those espresso makers are fantastic. Have a great day! Ciao for now. It seems that by suggesting that you learn to use a stove-top espresso maker I inadvertently sold a few. Time to get those Amazon Affiliate links set up! N writes:It seems that the new session isn’t in the Shop yet, but I would like to mention a session that you had intended to release months ago and never did. Do you remember the week of Eunoia that involved practicing a different posture every day? You mentioned that you were going to make a standalone session from that. Thank you for the permission, Mistress. Thank you so much for reminding me! This should be very easy to do, and I’ll make it a priority. For everyone interested in this session,Tell Me Good Things: should this be a longer session with a proper induction, or a simple run-through of positions with time to hold each pose? AB writes:Dear mistress, i want to learn to last as long as I want inside a vagina. I have a stamina training Fleshlight. I would love a kind of joi edging session training stamina. Wow! Thank you so much mistress. Pexels.com I’m not so convinced that this can be learned this way. I had a partner who suffered from “death grip” and so would take an uncomfortably long time to orgasm when playing together. The solution was outright banning masturbating by hand; only the Fleshlight or a vibrator were permitted.I’m not certain how to translate this into lasting longer. I think this kind of stamina is a matter of delaying gratification, and only practice with a willing partner will help. The post Eunoia, A Statement of Purpose appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

There’s just one suggestion (or polite complaint) that I’ve heard repeated about Mind Control Fragments. More than a few of you have told me that the induction is not long enough. Maybe this has left you unable to reach a deep trance. Today you will find a new fragment that can be used as a stand-alone induction, or as a conversational deepener in conjunction with “Eye Contact”. It’s inspired by an induction I first used all the way back in July, last year. Soon I’ll be adding some more of these fragments to Youtube, just another way I can create my own little playlist of sessions. I’ve been sharing these new snippets on Wednesdays, and just like last week, if you’re spending time playing with this game, you have my permission for today… if you promise to let me know what you get up to. A Quick Update I’ve posted this fragment to YouTube. You can find it here. The post Mind Control Fragments – A New Induction appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

If you usually skip the video, you should take the time for this one. I found a few interesting couples and I AM IN LOVE with the one necklace. The dangling charm down the back sells it. I’m just not convinced I could wear it on one of my typical evenings out! And hit the “like” button so YouTube will be all impressed by the numbers. Happy Sunday! I plan to have an ongoing Sunday breathing session for a while longer. The chatty Eunoia will be returning for a *midweek* check-in. Doing so on Monday is a bit of a trial because it never leaves me enough time to work through messages and such. (And I do like giving praise when it is earned!). Saturdays will likely continue to be session days. The routine makes all the difference, right? And I looooove the way we can use the PC cards to keep that game rolling. The response to PTTFO is scrumptious, but I’ll save some of that for Wednesday! I have a naughty “under the table” session just waiting to go out. If I have it edited prior to Saturday, I’m sure I can be convinced to give it to my Happy Harem a bit early. The post Eunoia – Sunday – Deep Abdominal Breathing appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

What is PTTFO? By the end of this session, you might find out. This session might feel like a fun flirtation, a story of a couple on a date. But is there something else going on behind the scenes? Did I change your perception with a trigger, a word rune I’ve nestled in your mind? Did I leave you feeling warm, confused… happy, off-balance? There’s no time to think about it, too long. “I love this song… don’t you?” This session uses a number of different triggers, from different sessions I’ve released in the past. You might recognise one, you might not recognise any of them. You might feel them, even if the words slip by you. The only required reading is “Going Deeper Faster“… and why wouldn’t you want to go deep? Why wouldn’t you want to go fast? We can go Deeper together If you enjoy this session, I know you’ll appreciate a visit to My Apartment. Or perhaps you’d like to know what being my Eternal Suitor means to you, and to me? Both of these sessions are 20% off in the shop with the coupon code PTTFO. The post PTTFO – Mind Control Femdom Hypnosis appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Ah, Saturday. I wonder how many of you have made it this far? You already know if you have my permission or not, and I’m already enjoying myself, thinking about what game I want to play with you next week. Later today I’ll be releasing a new Saturday session. This one will be on YouTube and on the podcast, it’s a fun flirtation touching on a lot of triggers that have been set in the past. There’s a subtle theme of ownership intertwined with suggestions of mind-control and memory play, as well as a few surprises. This session you’ll hear later today, as I said it uses a number of triggers, though “Going Deeper Faster” is required listening. If you’re not familiar with it, you’ll find it in the shop, podcast feed and attached to this post, right now. Tomorrow is our together day, and on Monday I plan to release a new MCF or two. The post Permissive Circumstance – 26th June appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

I’m still feeling a little off colour thanks to Pfizer, but these little fragments had made it out of my head and onto the page already, and now they’re ready to be heard! The Top is available on the podcast feed, but you can find Under the Table in the MCF playlist. This second fragment is a fun hint at the content of another session that will be coming soon… I hope it surprises you a little, I never want the titles of these sessions to completely give the game away, but also don’t want them to be riddles themselves. Last week’s “Marshmallow” themed Mind Control sessions (Side A and Side B) spurred a number of happy compliments. One of you seemed delighted to tell me that they listen to the first part ten times in a row one evening, kneeling beside their own bed. Perhaps even a little proud of yourself, weren’t you? Both of these sessions can also be found on the playlist. The post New Fragments – “The Top” and “Under the Table” appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Penetrate is live! The latest Saturday Session is available here.What can you expect with Penetrate? A delightfully yummy trigger word that leaves you open to greater intimacy. Try it out. As promised, here is the study showing the benefits of alternating nostril breathing. This controlled breathing technique is used to produce calm, relaxation, balance, and stress relief. Plus, as the study shows, it can also help reduce blood pressure and improve your attention span! The post Eunoia, Together Day (Alternating) appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

In this episode I lay out very carefully what I hope my weekly schedule will be for the next few months, and leave you some hints to upcoming Saturday Sessions. This schedule should stick until I take a week on the beach in early August! Thank you all for being wonderful and patient, I know that this podcast has been a touch sporadic for a few weeks now. The post Monday Eunoia, “Sono Ritardo” appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

Let’s continue our exploration of breath play on our together day. Today is Sunday, so let’s not concern ourselves with the week behind or the week ahead. I’d like to know how you do on your first try, counting up to 108. The post Eunoia, Together Day (Stillness Meditation) – June 13th appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.

TWO other versions available: // Chastity – https://spokenbyelswyth.com/product/marshmallow-chastity-hypnosis/// Foot Fetish – https://spokenbyelswyth.com/product/marshmallow-foot-fetish-hypnosis/ Patrons receive a coupon for a free instant download. Check Patreon if you haven’t received yours yet! The Marshmallow trigger is delivered to your subconscious in a conversational hypnosis style, using indirect hypnosis and storytelling to achieve results. The Marshmallow trigger session is all about delaying gratification. This can mean staving off the desire to do something frivolous and unproductive, or putting off reward until work is done. On the other hand, it could just mean inspiring that warm and fuzzy sensation, instead of frustration when you’re faced with denial. There are currently three versions of this session available. One is more of one-size-fits the harem session. If you like femdom, you’ll like it. But if you like your femdom with a foot fetish sprinkle on top, you’ll want to explore Marshmallow Trigger: Foot Fetish Hypnosis and for my chastity fans, Marshmallow Trigger: Chastity Hypnosis. All three set the same trigger for Marshmallow, a word you’re likely to hear more and more through the Spoken by Elswyth sessions, but you choose the one that makes your happy heart sing. Disclaimer: As always, you should do the safeword setting session prior to playing with me. There is a free one available in the beginner bundle or get the headspace themed one on the shop. The post Learn to delay gratification (and enjoy it!) Marshmallow Trigger Session appeared first on Spoken By Elswyth.