Real Talk Christian Podcast

Christians talked about the Image of God, but what does it mean? In today's episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss the idea of the Image of God, where we find it in Scripture, and how it plays into today's everyday conversation, including racism. **On July 9, we will be having our 50th episode! In honor of our 50th episode, we are giving away a RTC MEGA SWAG BAG. The live drawing for the MEGA SWAG BAG will be on Friday, July 10** Links mentioned in the article: https://erlc.com/resource-library/articles/what-does-it-mean-to-be-made-in-gods-image Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

On this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller answer MORE random questions from you – our RTC family! In part two of "Ask RTC Anything," Marc and Fuller answer these questions and a few more: Are the gifts of the Holy Spirit gone or are they still today? We also quote the verse in James about the loving the widow and the orphan, but how does the church love the widow in this day and age? Why did Jesus tell so many people not to tell of his miracles? What are modern idols in the church Is it wrong to want to be rich and famous and if so, why? If you have any question that you'd like us to answer on the podcast, please send it in! You can message us on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter at @realtalkchristianpodcast or email us your questions at [email protected] Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

On this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller answer random questions from you – our RTC family! In part one of "Ask RTC Anything," Marc and Fuller answer these questions and many more: Can I be a Christian and be outside of the church? Is the Old Testament racists? Did God create evil? Or is evil just the absence of God? Is the concept of “sin” outdated? As in, is there a list of things that God hates or did tradition make them up? Is it okay for guys to wear makeup? If you have any question that you'd like us to answer on the podcast, please send it in! You can message us on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter at @realtalkchristianpodcast or email us your questions at [email protected] Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Every church has a "tithes and offering" portion in their worship service, and it seems like pastors are always talking about "giving your money back to God in the form of a tithe" . . . but have you ever stopped and asked the question, "Is tithing even Biblical?" In today's episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss this topic from both a Biblical and practical viewpoint, and at the end of this episode, they each share their opinions on if a Christian should or should not tithe. They even get into the question of "Should a Christian give to their local church?" Links mentioned in the episode: "Why Tithing is not required today" from TGC with Thomas Schreiner https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/7-reasons-christians-not-required-to-tithe/ "The Bible Commands Christians to Tithe" from TGC with William Barcley https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/bible-commands-christians-to-tithe/ "Does a Christian Have to Tithe" from the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association https://billygraham.org/answer/does-a-christian-have-to-tithe/ "Is the Tithe for the New Testament Believers?" from Christianity.com https://www.christianity.com/church/tithing-and-giving/is-tithing-for-the-new-testament-believer-11579309.html Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

"Finding you identity in Christ" is a Christianese phrase that is tossed around all the time. What does it actually mean and is this even something that we should strive for in our lives? In today's episode of RTC, Marc & Fuller discuss this big idea and try to bring it down to everyday life. We look at the attributes of Jesus himself (because as Christians, Little Christs, we are supposed to emulate him) and looking at what it means for you once you become a follower of Jesus. Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Questioning God. Is this something we are able to do? And if so, what should we be questioning God about? Also, is there a difference between asking God questions and question God? Growing up, many Christians were taught that when you question God, you are showing your lack of faith, but is this thought process correct? On today's episode, Marc & Fuller answer questions like these and then give some tips on how to remain faithful to God in the times of silence. Towards the end of the discussion, they both get real with each other and answer the question for themselves: If you could ask God one question, what would you ask him? Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Is there such a thing as "finding your soul mate" or "finding the one." So many people believe that either God or the universe (if you're not Christian) has created one specific person for you to spend the rest of your life with; however, is that actually Biblical? In this episode of RTC, Marc & Fuller discuss their views on "soul mates" and "the one" while also looking at what someone should even be looking for in a spouse. Arguably, figuring out who you're going to spend the rest of your life with is a very important decision, so we'd like to help you along in the process. Links mentioned in the episode: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/soul-mate-signs-definition https://www.christianpost.com/news/soul-mates-what-does-the-bible-say-about-the-one-youre-destined-to-marry.html https://www.ibelieve.com/relationships/10-scriptures-to-pray-right-now-for-your-spouse.html Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Why does gambling get such a bad rap in Christian circles? Isn't it the same as going to a basketball game or a concert? They are all entertainment after all, right? Gambling has been called a "sin" by many Christians, but what does the Bible actually say on this topic? Does it even say anything at all? Today, Marc and Fuller sin down to answer this question as well as give some wisdom into this topic. Links mentioned in the episode: https://www.bestcreditcards.sg/sg/blog/reasons-gambling-bad-idea/ https://www.gty.org/library/articles/A157/five-reasons-gambling-is-wrong Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

In South America, fútbol (soccer) is king. Everyone plays the game, loves the game, and idolizes the soccer local heroes. Some people started to wonder, "if people love soccer so much, can we use this is a bridge to tell people about Jesus?" This is exactly what Joseph and Kimberly Frerichs asked themselves, and they decided to do something about it. In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller sit down with Joseph Frerichs to talk about his journey. He is a third generation missionary to Peru, which means he grew up in the country and is a native. He has been playing soccer competitively in Peru since he was a kid, but left Peru and professional soccer to study ministry here in the states. Now, it's time to head back. We talk with Joseph about what is was like as a missionary kid, what it takes to get back on the field, what kingdom successes he has seen since starting his mission work, and what it means for his family to uproot their American lives to head back to Peru. At the end of the interview, Kimberly joins us and shares her heart, too! We know you're going to love this conversation. And if you loved this conversation, please consider support Joseph and Kimberly. They are in need to financial partners to support them as they serve God in Peru. The links are below. Where to learn more about the Frerichs and support their ministry: https://www.facebook.com/Frerichs2Peru/ https://donate.ambassadorsfootball.org/civicrm/contribute/transact?id=181 Links mentioned in the episode: Tortured for Christ by Richard Wurmbrand: https://www.torturedforchrist.com/ The God Ask by Steve Shadrach: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CIKKBX6/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_KgVQEbVF0R821 Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Single and in her mid 20s, Beth Schneider decided to follow God's leading and open her home and heart to foster care. Little did she know that just a handful of years later, she would adopt five girls out of the foster care system! In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller interview Beth Schneider of @schneiderladies to talk with Beth about her journey into foster care and ultimately becoming a single adoptive mom (which apparently was not the plan). We ask Beth why she got into fostering, what "highs" and "lows" has she experienced while being a single mom, and what word of encouragement would she give to someone wanting to step out into fostering. We know you're going to love this episode and love Beth, so make sure you follow her and the girl's story! How to stay up to date with Beth and the girls: Instagram: www.instagram.com/schneiderladies Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/schneiderladies Online: https://schneiderladies.com/ Email: [email protected] Links mentioned in the episode: Fervent Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer: https://www.amazon.com/Fervent-Womans-Serious-Specific-Strategic/dp/1433688670 Ragamuffin Gospel by Brennan Manning: https://www.amazon.com/Ragamuffin-Gospel-Bedraggled-Beat-Up-Burnt/dp/1590525027/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1587605970&sr=1-1 Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0AAbba Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Most Christians know the verse, "We love because God first loved us" (1 John 4:19), but here's a Christian maybe you haven't thought about: If someone doesn't follow Jesus and isn't a Christian, can they love at all? In today's conversation, Marc and Fuller set out to answer this question while answering many other questions about love. In this conversation, they also touch on common grace given to all mankind, while asking if this enough for people to understand, know, and show love in it's purest form. Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0AAbba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Marc and Fuller went live on Facebook via Zoom on Good Friday 2020 to talk about the beauty of Good Friday. In this episode, we talk about Jesus' entering into Jerusalem, why the crowd went from "Hosanna" to "crucify him" in less than a week, why the Romans wanted Jesus dead, what Jesus accomplished on the cross, and why that's import for us today. As Protestants, we don't need to be afraid to have a theology of the cross, and we hope that this conversations help you develop your thinking and beliefs. Books mentioned in the podcast: "Fifty Reasons Why Jesus Came to Die" by John Piper: https://amzn.to/2VCZBGP "Who is Jesus?" by Greg Gilbert: https://amzn.to/2Voku8v "The Cross of Christ" by John Stott: https://amzn.to/2RwbcGo "Jesus is ____" by Judah Smith: https://amzn.to/2RwK75I "A Theology for the Church": https://amzn.to/3es98sO "Bible Doctrine" by Wane Grudem: https://amzn.to/2V3Qi3g Websites mentioned in the podcast: https://www.christianity.com/god/jesus-christ/what-s-so-good-about-good-friday.html https://www.theguardian.com/science/2004/apr/08/thisweekssciencequestions Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0AAbba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

You may know not it, but contraceptives and family planning has been a moral debate in the church since the introduction of the birth control pill in the 50's & 60's. Since that day, most people just assume that in order to properly plan for a family, there is only one method, which has caused some people to ask, "is there a better way?" FEMM (family education & medical management) is a process that teaches women (and men, too) how to family plan without the need of contraceptives. FEMM teaches woman how their body works and how God masterfully created them. Sara Nass, a FEMM educator, teaches us about the FEMM process as well as answer many practical and ethical questions that Marc and Fuller had going into this conversation. Whether you are trying to start a family or plan on starting a family at some point in time, we know that you'll great benefit from today's conversation. Show notes: Learn more about FEMM: femmhealth.org How to contact Sara: https://femmhealth.org/teacher/sara-nass/ or [email protected] Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

It doesn't take long to realize that there are literally hundreds of different churches inside of one city–Methodist, Baptist, Lutheran, Wesleyan, Christian, Brethren, Church of God, Church of Christ, Church of God in Christ, etc. But this isn't even the best part. The best part? There's different types of churches inside each denomination! Some have estimated that there are well over 200 different distinct Christian groups inside Protestantism. On the episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss how we got these denominations, why it even matters, and ultimately, should it matter? There are some disagreements between the guys on this episode, which resulted in a very long, passionate conversation. Resources for you to learn more about the various theological topics that separate Protestant Churches: Different ways churches view sanctification: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/essay/models-of-sanctification/ Different ways churches view communion/Lord's Supper/Eucharist: https://simplyputpodcast.com/four-views-of-the-lords-supper/ Different ways churches view salvation:https://www.gotquestions.org/Calvinism-vs-Arminianism.html Different ways churches view baptism: https://www.equip.org/article/baptism-theology/ Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Friendships with unbelievers. How is that supposed to work? We hear that we are supposed to impact our world for Christ, and in order to impact the world, you need to be a part of the world. But on the flip side, many of us Christians were taught from an early age that if you are surrounded by bad influences, it can destroy your life. But then you read in the Bible that Jesus was a friend of sinners and scolded the religious people. Isn't there something in the Bible, though, that says, "Don't be unequally yoked?" In this week's episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss these thoughts and questions while trying to figure out the balance of "How can I be friends whose those of a different faith than me?" Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

The unforgivable/unpardonable sin. The sin that so many Christians are scared to commit. Why? Because if you commit this sin, God will never forgive you, resulting in eternal separation from God in hell. But, is this a fear that any Christian should have? In this episode of RTC, Marc & Fuller discuss what the unforgivable sin. They look at the Biblical passages where we find this sin mentioned, who can commit, and ultimately, can a Christian commit this sin. Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Since being deemed a public health concern in the United State on January 31, the Coronavirus (Covid-19) has sent people into a frenzy – store shelves are empty, schools are closing down for the semester, sports have paused their seasons, church are cancelling their gatherings, restaurants are closing their dining rooms, people are being laid off, and people are wondering when the entire economy will eventually crash. What are we as Christians supposed to do in times like these? In fact, is there anything we can do? Marc and Fuller decided to make a bonus episode and discuss this Coronavirus together, and invite you to listen in on their thoughts about how a Christian should respond. Links mentioned in the episode: Updates on the coronavirus: https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/ Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

Personhood Theory. You may have never heard of it, but personhood theory simply asks the question, "What makes a person a person?" How one answers this questions directly impacts theirs view on human dignity, worth, and rights. Personhood theory also helps us understand our bodies and the creation of them! People's views on topics from abortion, euthanasia, sex slavery, population control, transgenderism, and homosexuality are all based on how you answer on specific question: What makes a person a person? On this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss this idea of personhood theory and what it means for both Christians and nonChristians and how this conversation directly impacts our views on the sanctity of human life. Links mentioned in the podcast and bonus links: Love They Body by Nancy Pearcey: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Thy-Body-Answering-Questions/dp/0801075726/ref=sr_1_2?crid=13MF3RJ02D52I&dchild=1&keywords=love+thy+body+by+nancy+pearcey&qid=1584027853&sprefix=love+thy+body%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-2 Human Dignity: The Fundamental Concept in Bioethics: https://cbhd.org/content/human-dignity-fundamental-concept-bioethics Infanticide and the deadly threat of "Personhood Theory" by Wesley J. Smith: https://www.firstthings.com/blogs/firstthoughts/2012/02/infanticide-and-the-deadly-threat-of-personhood-theory Human Dignity Is Not a Political Platform by Tina Boesch: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/reviews/dignity-revolution/ Friends of RTC: Paul Lindgren: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=zl34-6caQG-Zh9yU0OhM0A Abba Father Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Dudes and Dads Podcast: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com John Tibbs: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=VOFNd6eRSKy5xvuYylWcBA Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used on RTC: Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

If you have decided to become a Christian to simply escape torment in hell, are you really saved? Is this enough to get you into heaven when you die? In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss these questions as well as so many other facets to salvation – predestination, age of innocents, asking Jesus into your heart, and so much more. If salvation is the key to eternity, we probably should get this correct. Links mentioned in this episode: Brandon Saucier's New Podcast: http://abbafather.buzzsprout.com Easy way to share the Gospel: http://southsidesbc.org/gospel.html Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Original Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Joy Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

How do we impact our families? This is a question that most parents ask themselves because let's be honest, no one wants to raise a, for lack of better word, screw up. But how do we do it? How do we get there? What are some things we can do to impact our families for Jesus? This week on RTC, Marc and Fuller sit down with Joel and Andy from Dudes and Dads Podcast to discuss this topic. Dudes and Dads' podcast is all about how to be a solid dude and also be a solid dad. In this episode Joel and Andy share many intimate stories while they strive to impact their families for Jesus. Grab a box of tissues and get ready for a wonderful conversation. To learn about Dudes and Dads and also listen to the episode that we recorded from them, click here: http://dudesanddadspodcast.com Helpful links: If I Had a Parenting Do-Over: 7 Vital Changes I'd Make by Jonathan McKee: https://www.amazon.com/If-Had-Parenting-Do-Over-Changes/dp/1683220676/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=McKee+do+over+book&qid=1582778571&sr=8-1 Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

A church is only as good as it's volunteering members, but does the church ask too much of it's volunteers? In the typical church, 20% of the members do 80% of the work. Why is this the case and is there something better that the church can do in order to not overwork or burn out it's members? Or, is this just a part of being a good church member? Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

Can a Christian have faith in God but also believe in science? So many Christian put science in one part of their brain and then put faith in a different corner of their brain because modern scientists and atheists say that because of science, we have need for faith. In today's conversation, Marc and Fuller talk about the different types of science, how it's perfectly plausible to have faith but also believe in science, and ultimately, science is not a direct-flight to becoming an atheist. Links mentioned in the podcast: "Six Reasons Young Christians Leave Church" by Barna Research Does Science Argue for or Against God? Youtube Video with Eric Metaxas Young Earth Beliefs: Answers in Genesis with Ken Ham Old Earth Beliefs: Reasons to Believe with Hugh Ross Theistic Evolution: BioLogos 12 Ideas You Must Embrace to Affirm Theistic Evolution with Wayne Grudem Helpful links: Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

This week, Marc and Fuller had the privilege to sit down with recording artist John Tibbs and hear what it's like to be a self-made recording artist. We were able to talk with Tibbs about his personal trials and struggles, including a stutter that he had since he was a kid and back problems in the middle of touring season, and how all of this plays into his story of God's goodness. This conversation goes beyond the typical artist interview, so we know that you will enjoy it. John Tibbs was gracious enough to bless our RTC family with two free music tracks...one that has YET to be released. Click the link here to download those tracks now: https://1drv.ms/u/s!AnGQOJ27ZoXBgb4TpdjsFu7lKaLV5A?e=PseYlk Find John Tibbs online: https://www.johntibbsmusic.com https://www.facebook.com/johntibbsmusic/ https://www.instagram.com/johntibbsmusic/ https://www.youtube.com/user/johntibbsmusic https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Wm66SItUBLYFqJq03WH6d?si=nvMpScyBQfW30RujdAiS7g Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

Speaking the truth in love. Some people tend to speak lots of truth with little love, and other people tend to speak lots of love but are scared to speak truth. In this episode, Marc and Fuller discuss how we can strive to find the balance between the truth and love, and look at some practical ways to speak the truth in love. Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

Personality tests: some Christians love them, some hate them, some have no idea what they are. In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Fuller discuss the purpose behind each these personality tests, and then have a discussion on if these tests are even valuable to the Christian walk. If you love personality test, we know that you'll truly enjoy the conversation. Resources & Books mentioned in the episode: The Five Love Languages: https://www.5lovelanguages.com Myers-Briggs: http://16personalities.com/ Enneagrams: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com Enneagram Journals: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/journals Cure for the Common Life by Max Lucado: https://www.amazon.com/Cure-Common-Life-Living-Sweet/dp/0849900085 Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

As a Christian, how much can we look like the world in how we dress, think, and talk but still be devoted to Jesus? America is quickly becoming a "post Christian" nation and in order to reach America with Jesus, some people are beginning to think differently. Plus, with the rise of Pastors dressing more like the culture, music matching the culture, and Christians wanted to be involved in cultural issues, where should Christians draw the line? In this episode, Marc and Fuller discuss the idea of Cultural Christianity and Biblical Christianity. One host falls more into the "Christianity mirroring culture" and the other host is more "Christianity not like culture." So, what should Christian do and is there anything that we can do? Books mentioned in the episode: UnChristian by David Kinnaman & Gabe Lyons https://www.amazon.com/unChristian-Generation-Really-Christianity-Matters/dp/0801072719/ref=sr_1_1?crid=4GFKPMCTGARL&keywords=unchristian&qid=1579193490&sprefix=unchristian%2Caps%2C196&sr=8-1 The Next Christians by Gabe Lyons https://www.amazon.com/Next-Christians-About-Christian-America/dp/0385529848/ref=pd_sbs_14_5/133-5032413-3611558?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0385529848&pd_rd_r=9dc91b07-da6a-4020-8116-2e24ce305d80&pd_rd_w=qet5q&pd_rd_wg=bnV3v&pf_rd_p=bdd201df-734f-454e-883c-73b0d8ccd4c3&pf_rd_r=1GFPXY4PTJD12WBWJRCC&psc=1&refRID=1GFPXY4PTJD12WBWJRCC Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

For many Christians, doubt cripples their walk with Jesus, but for some Christians, they seem to believe "without a shadow of a doubt" all day every day. So, what happens when we doubt? Doubt can vary from doubting you salvation because of your sin or doubting that God even exists. So, what happens when doubt sets in? In this episode, Marc and Fuller discuss Christians & doubt. They talk about why is comes about, but more importantly, what we should do when that doubt arises. The conversation of Christians & Doubts takes off at the 15 minute mark. Books mentioned in the episode: Dad Tired by Jared Lopez https://www.dadtired.com https://www.amazon.com/Dad-Tired-Loving-Stumbling-Leadership/dp/0736977163/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=dad+tired&qid=1578603035&sr=8-1 Not Forsaken by Louie Giglio https://notforsakenbook.com Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

New Year Resolutions. Every does them; basically no one keeps them. So, what's the point? Should we have New Year Resolutions? In this episode, Fuller talks about how he doesn't do a New Year Resolution, but rather, he has his "Chris' Life Resolutions"—resolutions that he strives to keep every day that are not tangible but essential. Marc doesn't do resolutions, but rather, chooses one word to carry throughout the entire year. We hope that this episode will give you some new ideas to help make your 2020 the best year yet. Links mentioned in the episode: "Three Steps for a Productive Year" sermon series/blog series http://www.southsidesbc.org/2017.html Sinners in the Hands of a Loving God by Brian Zahnd https://www.amazon.com/Sinners-Hands-Loving-God-Scandalous/dp/1601429517 My One Word www.myoneword.org My One Word's creators word for 2019 http://myoneword.org/picking-a-word/mikes-one-word-for-2019/ Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

How do you find God's will for your life? Is it like a roadmap, a destination, something where if you miss it, you lose? Finding God's will can cause much anxiety, but does it have to be this way? In this week's episode, Marc gives a new idea on what it means to live inside of God's will and why we don't need to be so stressed about it, and Chris gives his view on God's will and how he strives to follow it. Let's see where we end up. Links mentioned in the episode: First sermon in Marc's series on God's will: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0K29JuHZ7824x9hWFD2Fxs?si=9pVvTMeERfe6DwtOA9L4Ew Just Do Something by Kevin DeYoung: https://www.amazon.com/Just-Do-Something-Liberating-Approach/dp/0802411592/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=A7P6BCYDK5F7&keywords=kevin+deyoung+just+do+something&qid=1577380107&sprefix=kevin+deyoung+just+d%2Caps%2C153&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExSVMySlk4WjQzREVEJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMzMxMDM3MkhTTjdDSFpMSFY2VCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwODA3MzE5VU9KSlhJOVJZU0pBJndpZGdldE5hbWU9c3BfYXRmJmFjdGlvbj1jbGlja1JlZGlyZWN0JmRvTm90TG9nQ2xpY2s9dHJ1ZQ== Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

It's a bonus episode! What does that mean? It means that we're still dropping another episode this upcoming week, but now you have two conversations to join this week. With Christmas season here, the question of "What should we do about Santa Clause with our family?" often comes up. Marc and Chris take an honest look at where Santa came from, what we should do about it, and how we, as Christians, should handle the idea of telling our kids to believe in an legendary figure. Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

Should we have unbelievers in mind when designing the Sunday morning worship, or since the church is for the believers, should unbelievers just be an afterthought? In this conversation, Marc and Chris clash in their ideas on their thoughts for honing in on those outside the church, and how the church can both edify the believers while also thinking about the unbelievers. This episode is a follow up conversation to episode 20. Links mentioned in the episode: Thom Rainer's book: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Welcoming-Church-Thom-Rainer/dp/1462765459/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=thom+rainer&qid=1576773203&sr=8-2 Victory in Jesus from South Side Worship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6y_2CZGAUuc Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

Many churches follow the mottos of "we want to be a church that unsaved people love to attend" and "before you believe, you belong with us." Is this the correct mindset to have, and what is the ultimate purpose of the Sunday Morning worship service/experience? We look at what the church is, what the church isn't, and is it such a bad idea to create worship experiences that unsaved people enjoy? Marc and Chris have some different opinions on this topic, so we hope you enjoy the conversation. Book Marc mentioned in the podcast: https://www.amazon.com/Naked-Anabaptist-Essentials-Radical-Anniversary/dp/0836199839/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+naked+anabaptist&qid=1576169265&sr=8-1 Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris talk about a sensitive topic: what to do when the church hurts you – whether it's the church leadership or people who attend the same church as you. They open up about how the church has hurt them, and Marc even gives the "other side" of the equation of when the church hurts one of their pastors. We hope and pray that this conversation will resonate with you and help you handle those hard relationships that you may have. Link mentioned in this episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/41858/1947854-missing-pieces-week-3-matthew-18-10-20-tough-love https://www.buzzsprout.com/41858/1994320-missing-pieces-week-4-a-willingness-to-forgive Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris talk all about Thanksgiving and Black Friday....primarily, Black Friday. Black Friday is known as the day to get all the deals, but should a Christian participate in Black Friday? Does Black Friday prove that we actually are not content with what we have? Where did Black Friday even begin? Join us as we dive into these questions and much more on this episode of RTC! Link mentioned in this episode: https://www.gotquestions.org/godliness-with-contentment.html http://thejoyparadeblog.com/contentment-friday/ Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Chris finishes the conversation with Paul Lindgren. So far in our journey, Paul has talked about his marriage, his affair, and his decision to come back home, but his journey is not over. Join us as Paul tells us the rest of his story as the story is about to take a left turn. Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Chris continues his conversation with Paul Lindgren. In part 2 of their conversation, Paul peels back the layers of his affair — his emotions, his struggles, his pain, his fight. Paul also talks about those friends in his life that reached out to Paul in his sin, and how people who love you are there to guide you to the everlasting truth of God. Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

In this episode of Real Talk Christian, Chris has a conversation with Paul Lindgreen. Paul is a musician (our podcast's intro music was written and produce by Paul) and one of Chris' best friends. Paul has been on both sides of the conversation when it comes to marital affairs – he had his own affair, came back together with his wife, and then she had an affair on him. Today's conversation is just part 1 of this conversation, but this episode deals primarily with his steps towards him having an affair. We hope that this will help you see the signs and learn some truths about making sure you fight for your own relationship when the time is right. Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, we have a three-way conversation between Marc, Chris, and our friend Brandon Saucier. All three of these guys have different views on how Christians should handle Halloween and if our families should take part in the festivities. And each view goes against the other in some way, shape, or form. We pray this conversation will help you and your family understand this cultural holiday, and how you should handle this holiday. Buckle up! Helpful links: • Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io • South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org • Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com • Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: • Artist: Paul Lindgren • Song: Paradise • Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris talk about the youth sports culture and how many people are actually setting up their kids for failure because of the emphasis on pursuing sports at all costs. In this conversation, we talk about many topics around sports, including: • The positives of sports • The negative of sports • The percentage of kids who go on to play Div. 1 sports and professional • Working through as a family to develop a conversation piece to have with your kids about sports and their involvement • How sports can change the world Links to read more about the subject: • https://time.com/magazine/us/4913681/september-4th-2017-vol-190-no-9-u-s/ • https://baptistandreflector.org/balancing-youth-sports-and-church/ • https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/spring-sports-and-sunday-church • https://www.sportsrec.com/6542508/how-many-youth-participate-in-sports-in-the-us Helpful links: • Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io • South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org • Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com • Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Music used in intro music: • Artist: Paul Lindgren • Song: Paradise • Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris talk about the show that took over the world by storm — Game of Thrones. Many Christians love and watch Game of Thrones, but should Christians watch Game of Thrones? Marc and Chris take an honest look at the show, the Bible, and try to come out with an opinion on the subject. Links to read more about the subject: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0944947/?ref_=nv_sr_1?ref_=nv_sr_1 https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/kevin-deyoung/i-dont-understand-christians-watching-game-of-thrones/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/kevin-deyoung/one-more-time-on-game-of-thrones/ https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/twelve-questions-to-ask-before-you-watch-game-of-thrones https://www.crosswalk.com/blogs/christian-trends/am-i-a-bad-christian-for-watching-game-of-thrones.html Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc interviews SoCal's greatest Junior High Pastor - Justin Herman. Justin has been in youth ministry for many years, and besides being a youth pastor, Justin is a podcast host, a podcast developer, and a never ending resource for parents. In fact, Justin teaches something called "Parent School" where he teaches parents how the teen brain operates and how they can parent well in today's world. Here are just a few of the conversation points that we talked about: How should we handle our teens on social media? How should we have conversations with our teens if they do inappropriate things with their phones (porn, sexting, chat rooms, etc.)? How do I understand my teenagers brain? For teens—how do you train your parents to trust you on social? Resources to help you parent well. Where to find Justin: Online: https://heyjustinherman.com Twitter & Instagram: @heyjustinherman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heyjustinherman Resources mentioned in the podcast: Jonathan McKee's content Website: https://thesource4parents.com Podcast: https://podcast.downloadyouthministry.com/parent-tips/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/Jonathan-McKee/e/B001IQWE9U?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1570715268&sr=8-1 Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc, Chris, and Brandon have a conversation on the question of "Can I be gay and be a Christian?" Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris chat with some high school and college students. We try to get into the brains of these students to see what it's like for them to be high school students and college students in today's public educational institutions. In Part 2 of this conversation, we center the conversation around a few different things: What are some of your struggles of being a Christian in your schools? What are some things that you wish adults knew about teen and college students? What are some pieces of advice that a college student would give a teen? Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris chat with some high school and college students. We try to get into the brains of these students to see what it's like for them to be high school students and college students in today's public educational institutions. In Part 1 of this conversation, we center the conversation around a few different things: What it's like for Eli to be a pastor's kid and a Christian at his public high school What it's like for Karli to have switched from a private, Christian college to a secular, state college What it's like for Jagger to be a Christian on a campus that doesn't let Christianity have a seat in the conversation on religious equality Helpful links: Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDkQzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian, Marc and Chris have an open conversation on the tongue and ask the question: Is the tongue a tool or a weapon? This conversation is more of a off the cuff conversation, so enjoy the ride! Helpful links: Article: https://billygraham.org/decision-magazine/january-2011/how-to-tame-the-tongue/ Article: https://www.christiancounselingco.com/5-ways-to-tame-your-tongue/ Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk QzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Chris continue their conversation with Brandon Saucier of South Side Baptist Church. Part 1 looked more into Brandon's story, but part 2 dives into the deep questions that most Christians are asking about music. We go long on this podcast, but we pray that you'll enjoy the conversation. Coffee that we drank while recording this podcast: https://www.hiseyeshonduras.com/coffee.html Helpful links: Skillet Lead Singer John Cooper on Marty Sampson of Hillsong: https://churchleaders.com/news/357259-john-l-cooper-skillet-cool-leaders-not-have-most-influence-christendom.html Tolkien & Lewis conversation mentioned at the end of the episode: https://www.premierchristianradio.com/Shows/Saturday/Unbelievable/Episodes/Unbelievable-CS-Lewis-Tolkien-and-Barfield-How-the-Inklings-made-sense-of-faith-Mark-Vernon-and-Malcolm-Guite-Michael-Ward-and-Daniel-Ray Preference in worship: https://churchleaders.com/youth/youth-leaders-articles/342155-worship-preferences-when-musical-taste-is-a-precondition-for-worship.html Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast Intro Music on podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk-QzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Chris interview Brandon Saucier of South Side Baptist Church. For the first half of the episode, we get to know Brandon and his story while getting to the question: "How should a Christian view music—secular, in the church, and in life?" The questions on music begin at the 22 minute mark. Coffee that we drank while recording this podcast: https://www.hiseyeshonduras.com/coffee.html Helpful links: Luther's use of musical style in his hymns: https://download.elca.org/ELCA%20Resource%20Repository/Did_Martin_Luther_really_use%20tavern_tunes_in_church.pdf Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io South Side Baptist Church: http://www.southsidesbc.org Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com Listen on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/4N0hAqBBr7Nc9UcEhLFPIn?si=Ep881RJcRdW0_kwCqwM-3A Listen on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-christian-podcast/id1475062864 Listen on Podbean: https://realtalkchristian.podbean.com Music in podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk-QzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Chris discuss marijuana, alcohol, and even caffeine, all while asking the question: What should a Christian's view be towards this topic? Today's culture sees nothing wrong with marijuana and many other substances, but how should a Christian view this cultural phenomena? Let's ask the question, "What would Jesus do?" as we discuss this topic. Where to listen: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N0hAqBBr7Nc9UcEhLFPIn?si=Ep881RJcRdW0_kwCqwM-3A Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-christian-podcast/id1475062864 Podbean: https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-hd5p7-b9e3b7 External Links to help you continue this conversation: https://www.ccef.org/marijuana/ https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/marijuana-to-the-glory-of-god https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/podcasts/tgc-podcast/marijuana-ever-okay-christians/ https://religionnews.com/2014/06/24/pastor-matt-chandler-talks-redemption-substance-abuse-serial-failures/ Music in podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk-QzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Chris talk about how Christians are supposed to live in the world & culture that we're placed but live in such a way where we are not living like the world. Are we supposed to have the mindset of "in the world but not of the world" or is there a better way to think about this topic? Where to listen: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N0hAqBBr7Nc9UcEhLFPIn?si=Ep881RJcRdW0_kwCqwM-3A Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-christian-podcast/id1475062864 Podbean: https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-hd5p7-b9e3b7 External Links to help you continue this conversation: https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/lets-revise-the-popular-phrase-in-but-not-of https://www.mayercommunitychurch.com/how-should-christians-interact-with-our-current-culture/ https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0385529856/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1 Music in podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk-QzCRwz8eU45gZQ

On this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Chris talk about the magical world of Disney and a Christian's response to Disney. In the world today, one cannot go far without interacting with Disney, but because Disney does not always line up with Christian values, some Christians believe that Disney is completely evil and should be considered as such. On the flip side, many Christians have no problem with Disney and let their children view any movie that Disney releases. How should Christians respond to Disney? Let's talk about it. Where to listen: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N0hAqBBr7Nc9UcEhLFPIn?si=Ep881RJcRdW0_kwCqwM-3A Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-talk-christian-podcast/id1475062864 Podbean: https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-hd5p7-b9e3b7 External Links to help you continue this conversation: https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/do-you-trust-disney-with-your-kids https://www.gotquestions.org/Christian-Disney.html https://www.russellmoore.com/2012/03/25/should-christians-boycott-starbucks/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/should-christians-boycott-boycotting/ Music in podcast used by permission by the author. Artist: Paul Lindgren Song: Paradise Link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1kiadclDcNpa2YdT6zCdP9?si=lEZeoDk-QzCRwz8eU45gZQ