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Ep 282165: Boys Adrift | Dr. Leonard Sax
Continuing on the theme from last week (because I believe this is such a critical topic right now), today we talk about the fact that young boys seem to be going astray. The school system is stacked against them, society seems to be dismissing masculinity altogether, and being a man is something that actually has to be defended. My guest, Dr. Leonard Sax, joins me to talk about 5 factors driving an epidemic of unmotivated boys and underachieving young men, how the school system needs to be overhauled if we are to re-engage our boys, the dangers of endocrine disruptors in men's lives, and how boys are going adrift and, more importantly, how to get them back on track. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5 factors driving unmotivated boys and underachieving young men How the school system is stacked against young men Why boys are struggling with academic achievement How the school system needs to be changed The dangers on endocrine disruptors The effect pornography has on young boys The value of consequences for young men How to help our boys find passion and purpose How to re-engage our boys DR. LEONARD SAX I was introduced to Dr. Leonard Sax's work through my wife as she picked up a couple books on her pursuit to more effectively raise our boys. She came across two books in particular: Boys Adrift and Why Gender Matters. After she got done reading them, she asked if I would. From the opening remarks, I knew this guy had some of the answers to the challenges we seem to be facing in raising young men. Dr. Sax is an MIT graduate, a physician, and a psychologist and has been practicing for nearly 30 years. He is well-versed (as you'll hear today) in gender issues and the crisis our young men and women seem to be facing today. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/165 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 281FFN 107: Crafting the Perfect Morning Routine
Today, I want to talk about such an important topic and one which is easy to overlook simply because we've all heard about it so often. That said, I believe establishing a healthy morning routine is one of the most important things you can do during your day as it really establishes the benchmark, the framework, and the foundation for the way the rest of your day will go. The reason that I think most people overlook (or can't even stick to a morning routine) is because there's so much advice about it already and we begin to believe that we have to pigeonhole ourselves into one way of doing it. Here's what I'm here to tell you: I'm going to share my morning routine. Now, that doesn't make it the morning routine. It simply means that it works for me. The most powerful thing if you can do with regards to your morning routine is to find something that works for you. This is a process of experimentation. So, again, I'm going to share with you what works for me. If you like it, adopt it. If you don't like it, don't adopt it. If you like parts of it, adopt part of it. You get the idea. www.orderofman.com/FFN107 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 280ITT 010: Training the Mind | Joshua Laycock
EToday, I talk with Joshua Laycock about his awakening, why "good enough" is your enemy, the power of your potential, and how to train your mind. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 279164: A Man's Responsibility to Future Generations | Matt Labrum
This one is special to me. As most of you know, I grew up without a permanent father figure in my life. I've mentioned in the past that there was a select group of men who helped mold and shape me into the man that I am today. I'm not sure there is another man in my young life who was as influential as my guest today. His name is Matt Labrum and he was my high school football and baseball coach. Today, we talk about his influence in my life and thousands of other young men's lives, the power of allowing kids to fail (including some failures of my own), why competitive sports are so valuable in a young man's life, why he cut his entire team from the football program, and a man's responsibility to future generations. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of allowing kids to fail Why competition is critical for young men How winners continue to find a way to win The politics of raising children and coaching Pros and cons of coaching your own children Our obligation as men to give back to future generations How sports are about so much more than the game Why one high school football coach cut his entire team The difference between being a parent and being a defender How to raise boys through the power of competitive sports MATT LABRUM Men, I did this interview a little while ago and I've been anxiously waiting to release it to you. Every single one of us has some very influential people in our lives. Today, I'm talking with probably the most influential man in mine, especially as a young boy learning to become a man. He is a high school educator. He has been teaching for more than two decades and, in addition to that, he is a high school baseball coach (when I was in school, he was the head football, basketball, and baseball coach). He gained some national attention several years ago after cutting his entire football team from the program for grade and attendance issues, and how his team was showing up in the community and at school. This is a man I admire and respect as he shaped a lot of who I was as a young man and who I am still becoming. He never took it easy on me. We talk about two experiences in particular during this conversation but I never doubted how much he cared about my progress and the progress of the boys under his care. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/164 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 278FFN 106: The Folly of "Zero Fu*ks Given"
EYou've likely heard of the phrase "zero fu*ks given." While I can understand to a degree what anyone may be saying when they use that term, I can't help but see the mistake in that line of thinking – especially for men. Your job is the exact opposite of that sentiment. Your job is to care about a lot, and be a man of value in the walls of your home, inside your business, and out in your community. But if you walk around with a chip on your shoulder and take the stance that everyone else should leave you alone and there's nothing you should really care about, I've got to think you're missing a big element of what it means to be a man. Not to mention, you're limiting your potential and the potential of those around you. www.orderofman.com/FFN106 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 277ITT 009: From Complacency to Contentment | Doug Hershberger
EToday, I talk with Doug Hershberger about losing massive weight, stoicism, learning to control what you can, being a steward over yourself, and moving from complacency to contentment. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 276163: The True Cost of Liberty | Braxton McCoy
EGuys, if you listen to just one of my podcast, please make it be this one. Today, I am joined by my friend and fellow soldier, Braxton McCoy. He and I served in Iraq together in 2005-2006. One day we were playing softball together and the next day, I hear he's been hit by a suicide bomber with multiple fractures and life-threatening injuries to himself and others. I didn't fully realize the extent of his injuries until this interview. This one is raw, it's truthful, and it's extremely insightful when it comes to one soldier's perspective of war, responsibility, obligation, and liberty. We talk about the truths and fallacies of PTSD, overcoming the demons of war, how a near-death experience changes your perspective, and the true cost of liberty. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The true and great cost of liberty One soldier's story of surviving a suicide bomber The truths and fallacies of PTSD Overcoming the demons of war Finding new purpose in life Why heroic soldiers don't consider themselves heroes The power of writing down your thoughts and stories Living for yourself and others The after-effects of surviving a near-fatal suicide bomber The power of responsibility and obligation How near-death changes your perspective BRAXTON MCCOY As I mentioned before, I have my friend and fellow soldier, Braxton McCoy on the show today. We've lost touch over the past 10 years or so since we served together in Iraq but when I found out he had written a book about our experience and, more specifically, his experience in Iraq, I knew that this would make for a powerful conversation. After more than a decade of physical therapy and more surgeries than I care to think about, Braxton has regained most of his strength and rebounded emotionally from an extremely traumatic situation. He has twice served as National Advocate for the Army Wounded Warrior Program, and twice as Veterans' Advocate for the Coalition of Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans in the District of Columbia. His four years as an advocate were focused on getting veterans back to work, as a meaningful way to outflank Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. In 2013, Braxton McCoy started Warrior Employment Project, a non-profit designed to connect veteran families-in-need with CEO's and CIO's leading to the veterans' employment. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/163 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 275FFN 105: Leaders are Readers
Some of the greatest men the world has ever known are voracious readers. Teddy Roosevelt was said to read a book every morning. General James Mattis is said to have a library of over 600 books. Bill Gates reads a book a week. Mark Cuban reads for 3 hours every day. Elon Musk was once asked how he learned to build rockets, to which he replied, "I read books." Now, I'm not suggesting that by simply reading books, you will achieve the types of results these men have achieved but, reading and acquiring new knowledge through the written word is something that seems to be a common thread line through most, if not all, successful people. Today, I'll share with you why that is and I'll also be issuing you a challenge we're going to be holding over the next 30 days. www.orderofman.com/FFN105 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 274ITT 008: Turning Information Into Application | Pierre Azzam
Today, I talk with Pierre Azzam about overcoming introversion, the feeling of being lost and turning information into application. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 273162: Tapping Into Your Hidden Networks | David Burkus
There is no such thing as the self-made man. While I can certainly understand and even appreciate the gesture, the truth is that every successful man had some help along the way. That help usually comes in the form of others. My guest today is David Burkus. He is the author of Friend of a Friend: Understanding the Hidden Networks That Can Transform Your Life and Career. Today, we talk about the power of "weak ties," how to leverage "preferential attachment," how to become a super connector, and how to tap into your hidden networks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to find your hidden networks The power of "weak ties" How to develop silos and clusters of networks How to become a super connector Why building teams are critical to your networking success How to leverage "preferential attachment" The difference between mixers and activities The science of networking Connecting over strange ties How to develop stronger social capital Why the adage, "who you know" isn't the whole story Overcoming and utilizing the "illusion of majority" The benefits of becoming a network broker DAVID BURKUS Today, I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, David Burkus. As you might imagine, I have the opportunity to talk with hundreds and hundreds of successful men but David is someone who stands out to me as one of the most intelligent, articulate, and well-researched guests we've had on. He is a best-selling author, a speaker, and associate professor at Oral Roberts University. In his new book (which I highly recommend), David offers readers a new perspective on how to grow their networks and build key connections—one based on the science of human behavior, not rote networking advice. He's delivered keynotes to the leaders of Fortune 500 companies and the future leaders of the United States Naval Academy. His TED Talk has been viewed over 1.8 million times and he is a regular contributor to Harvard Business Review. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/162 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 272FFN 104: Building a Thriving Tribe
I want to talk with you about building a thriving tribe. Now, this may be a conversation geared towards those who are working to build their own business/social media tribes like we've done here but, really, it's for any man who wants to lead. And, all men are leaders. So, whether you're leading a tribe of hundreds of thousands that spans the entire planet (like we are here), or you've been tasked with leading a new project at work, or you've got a wife and children to protect, provide, and preside for, or you're a coach or school teacher, or in the military, or going to school, we all have tribes to lead. Today, I'm going to walk you through a few key insights that have helped me build this tribe significantly larger and more significant than I ever could have imagined. www.orderofman.com/FFN104 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 271ITT 007: Taking Ownership in Divorce | Kipp Sorensen
EToday, I talk with Kipp Sorensen about taking complete ownership in divorce, being more emotionally available in relationships, and living a life of integrity and authenticity. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 270161: Saved From Success | Dale Partridge
Today, we talk about something we've never directly addressed on this podcast, God. Now, before you tune me out based on that word alone, I believe that regardless of what you believe, there is something to be learned in every conversation and every experience. That's why, when my friend, Dale Partridge reached out to talk about his new book, Saved From Success, I knew I needed to have him on. At the risk of losing a few listeners and receiving a few disapproving emails, I thought this was a conversation worth having. We talk about Dale's definition of success compared to much of society's, why men are hesitant to surrender to a higher power, how to develop a life of significance and meaning, and how all of us can be saved from success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How Dale defines success versus much of society Why men are hesitant to "surrender" to a higher power Specific money rules all men should learn to follow What does it mean to be "mature" and how to develop it Why we've become a culture where our youth are worshipped How a man begins to believe in God Where morality comes from Why the fear of death can be both a positive and negative Overcoming the "Gap of Integrity" How to develop a life of significance and meaning Why society views children as nothing more than a hindrance Becoming more influential, the right way What it truly means to be free DALE PARTRIDGE Today, I have the honor of introducing you to my friend and repeat guest, Dale Partridge. I had him on the show in June of last year to talk about turning your passion into your profession. About a month or so ago, he reached out to me regarding his new book and I thought it would make for an interesting conversation. For those of you who may not know, Dale is an extremely successful entrepreneur and the founder of Startup Camp, which teaches aspiring entrepreneurs the ropes when it comes to building businesses. I've been following him and his message for a long time and we've managed to build a friendship through our mutual work in calling men to step up to be men in their homes, their communities, their business, and every other facet of their lives. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/161 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 269FFN 103: Building a Tribe, Developing Confidence, and the Drive for Bigger and Better
EToday, I answer questions from Facebook about building a tribe, creating a network of connections, developing discipline and confidence, how to help sons with their anger, and improve the drive for bigger and better. www.orderofman.com/FFN103 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 268ITT 006: Overcoming an Alcohol Addiction | Scott Pinyard
Today, I talk with Scott Pinyard about overcoming an alcohol addiction, becoming a better role model for our children, and how to eliminate debt. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 267160: The Value Proposition | Tyler Harris
Adding value is a phrase we'll all heard. Like any word the marketers of the world get ahold of, it begins to lose some of it's meaning when it's overused. But that overuse doesn't make it any less valuable as a strategy for growth and success. My guest today, Tyler Harris, is using the idea of adding value to create a hugely successful social media business on top of his already existing success in the financial services industry. Today, we talk about how personal responsibility lies at the foundation of success, how and why every man should develop more presence, why people are starving for the truth, and how the value proposition is so powerful. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Striking a balance in life The power of consistency Determining what course of action is best for you Why you should lead with insane levels of value How personal responsibility is the foundation of achievement Why you should avoid playing not to lose Why the truth is so refreshing to people Using social media as an accountability tool How to avoid mismanaging your time Developing presence The qualities to look for in team members TYLER HARRIS Gentlemen, I have the honor of introducing you to someone I've been following for a little while now, Tyler Harris. I've been extremely impressed by his level of dedication and discipline when it comes to building a new business using the power of social media. I talk with a lot of people who want to build a movement using the social tools at our disposal but I talk with very few who are doing it in a way that actually moves the needle. And, as I got to know more about Tyler's story, I can see why. He's been hugely successful in establishing relationships and putting in a ton of work in order to thrive in the financial services industry (which is a very hard market to break into). Now, he's applying those same principles to his new endeavors and sharing them with us today. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/160 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 266FFN 102: Fuel to the Fire
I spend a lot of time talking to men on a daily basis. One thing I'm always intrigued by is the fire that I can see (or can't see) simply by looking into their eyes. It's been said that "the eyes are the window to the soul." If that's true, you can tell a lot about a man and his passion and enthusiasm through a quick glance and connection of the eyes. Unfortunately, all too often what I see when I look is lifelessness, soullessness, and a general complacency and signs of defeat. I can certainly understand and even relate to that feeling. For a lot of years, I felt the exact same way. I occasionally look at old pictures of myself and I recognize a defeated man when I see him. Let's face it, life is tough. It gets challenging. It gets routine, boring, and monotonous at times. And, what I experience more often than not is men who allow those circumstances to defeat them. I think one of the biggest dangers in society today is a lack of men who are passionate, fired up, engaged in creating a meaningful life for themselves and those around them. If you're one of these guys who has lost the passion for life, have hope. The fire is there, inside you. You just need to add a little fuel to it to get it stoked again. Here are several strategies for adding fuel to the fire: www.orderofman.com/FFN102 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 265ITT 005: The Mental Fight Club| Reece Carter
EToday, I talk with Reece Carter about the power of a mental fight club, why you need to stop lying to yourself, and how to harness healthy competition. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 264159: Embrace the Suffering | Rorke Denver
Suffering isn't typically something people like to attract in their lives but the reality is you cannot fully escape it. It's part of the human experience. So, rather than run from the unexpected suffering we're all likely to face, my guest, Navy SEAL Commander Rorke Denver suggests we run towards it and embrace it instead. Today, we talk about the power of identifying and living by a set of ethos, how to create an extremely powerful ecosystem for success, when you should follow the rules and when you should break them, and how you can embrace the suffering life is bound to present. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of living by a set of ethos Whether leadership is natural or developed How to create an incredible team culture Why suffering is crucial Developing a powerful ecosystem Why you should "subject yourself to something bigger" Establishing non-negotiables The three pillars of manhood When you should follow the rules and when you shouldn't The art and science of leadership The qualities to look for in team members RORKE DENVER I was at an event about a month ago and my guest's name was brought up to me three times in about ten minutes. I was intrigued so I looked him up and new I needed to connect with him. Every once in a while, you make a new connection that feels more like old friends than new acquaintances. And, that's how I felt when I started talking with Rorke Denver (this interview is the first time we've talked). This man is truly incredible. He's a Navy SEAL, Ranger qualified, New York Times Bestselling Author. And, on top of all that, he starred in the movie, Act of Valor, and has since gone on to create an amazing business focused on the idea of Ever Onward. He's taking all the lessons he's learned and sharing them with the world so they too can learn what it takes to lead their own lives. And, speaking of leadership, this man is an incredible leader (you'll hear that in the interview) and has since become a friend of mine. I believe in finding and connecting with high-quality men and Rorke is among the best. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/159 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 263FFN 101: Lord of the Flies
There seems to be this strange shift in society today where we, collectively, have begun to give more credit to children than they deserve. Historically, adults have made the decisions and been the influential party in the direction of relevant culture and policy. Now, in some sort of weird, reality version of Lord of the Flies, we've begun to allow our children to dictate the tone of the conversation and set the framework for some very serious issues all of us will be impacted by. Now, before I get into what I'm going to share with you today, allow me to explain a couple things, a disclaimer if you will. First, I do not believe children should make the rules or set the tone of adult conversations. This does not mean I don't care about our kids or have empathy and/or compassion for their perspectives and experiences. Second, some of our children are very intelligent. There's no denying that. Still, they lack the life experience required to fully understand the ramifications of their limited experience. Third, I am not of the mindset that children should be seen and not heard. I listen to my children (and the children in my community I have a responsibility for) every day. That said, I as the adult, make the decisions. www.orderofman.com/FFN101 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 262ITT 004: Creating a Legacy | Justin Bailey
EToday, I talk with Justin Bailey about creating a legacy our children will be proud of, the power of accountability, and why we should all be more intentional about our lives. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 261158: The 1% Rule | Tommy Baker
Most of us tend to focus on that one big, audacious goal we all have. The problem with that is it may be so far out there or so unrealistic that subconsciously we believe we can't ever achieve it. My guest and friend, Tommy Baker, makes the case for focusing more on the process than the result. In fact, in his new book, he teaches how to fall in love with the process and achieve our wildest dreams. Today, we talk about overcoming the law of diminishing returns, how to effectively set goals, the greatest myths of achievement, and how to harness the power of the 1% rule. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to fall in love with the process as opposed to the end result Overcoming the law of diminishing returns How to effectively set goals Why focusing on the "how" is critical Developing and exercising faith The myths of achievement The power of a why, vision, purpose, and mission The 3-step code for achieving more Why auditing your life and implementing "auto-deletion" is so powerful How focusing on death helps you live better The truth about massive expectations and unrealistic goals TOMMY BAKER Gents, my guest today is return guest, Mr. Tommy Baker. He's been on the show once before but has since written a new book and I knew, based on feedback we got from our previous conversation, we needed to have him back on. If you haven't listened to the first episode, you'll soon hear why Tommy and I get along so well. His energy is second to none and his enthusiasm and engagement with life are infectious. He is the founder of the Resist Average Academy and podcast and has a passion for helping people achieve more in every single area of their lives. Originally, a fitness coach, he's since expanded his own capacity for growth and expansion and is more focused now on helping people get their mindset right. His first book is called Unresolution and the follow up is what you'll hear all about today, called The 1% Rule. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/158 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 260FFN 100: The Demise of Responsibility
Take a look around and I think you'll agree with me that there seems to be more and more men who are shirking their responsibilities as men. It's easy to understand why. It's always harder (at least initially) to accept responsibility. If you do, it means you'll actually have to exert yourself. You'll have to go into the office a little earlier. You'll have to stay a little later. You'll miss the latest season of Game of Thrones (or whatever series happens to be on right now). It means you'll have to volunteer to help a neighbor in need. Or serve in your church or community. It means you'll have to put your own hobby on hold and help your child with his or her homework. It means that the hunting trip will have to wait because your business or family needs your attention. Of course, when I put it that way, no sane human being would want to accept more responsibility. So, what do we do instead? We complain about rights and entitlements. It's pathetic. "It's my right to free health insurance." "It's my right to a good job." "I'm entitled to my wife's support." "My boss owes me a promotion." "That company has to serve me the way I want to be served." It's selfish. It's weak. And, most importantly, it's a detriment to yourself and society as a whole. What happens when the majority of people begin to demand "rights" without a willingness to accept responsibility for securing those rights? I think we all know the answer to that question. And, just in case you don't, the answer is, "it collapses." www.orderofman.com/FFN100 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 259ITT 003: Losing Weight and Paying Off Massive Debt | Bart Folse
EToday, I talk with Bart Folse about losing over 100lbs and paying off over $100,000. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 258156: How Hunting Makes You a Better Man | Adam Greentree
EI went on my first hunt just last year and I can tell you that it was one of the most rewarding experiences I've ever had. I have another trip planned in a couple weeks and I already know it's going to push me and expand me in new ways as a man. Although I wouldn't call myself a hunter just yet, I am learning and inspired by men like my friend and guest today, Adam Greentree. He's been hunting in Australia for most of his life and I really wanted to get his perspective because it's one we just don't hear a lot. Today, we talk about why adventure is so important in the lives of men, developing an open mind to new ideas and experiences, knowing what battles to fight and when to make a stand, and how hunting can make you a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • How hunting makes you a better man • The value of hunting on the pursuit of mastery • How to overcome challenges, obstacles, hurdles • Why adventure is so important in the lives of men • Developing an open mind to new ideas and experiences • How hunting helped Adam create a "new awakening" for himself • Knowing what battles to fight and when to make a stand • The conservation efforts lead by hunters • The critical importance of providing for your family • How hunting can make you more passionate and appreciative of life • Dealing with hate and criticism ADAM GREENTREE Gentlemen, today I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, Mr. Adam Greentree. Adam is an avid bowhunter from Australia, he's the host of the Bowhunter's Life Podcast, and is someone I admire and respect for his dedication to his craft and his quest for mastery when it comes to all things bowhunting. I've learned so much from this guy in such a short period of time and he's inspired me to live a life of more adventure and to pick up a bow and see what the fuss is all about for myself. I'm also blown away with his hunting schedule. The amount of hunts this guy participates in is unreal. And, how he does it and the adventures he takes part of will definitely inspire you to tap back into your primal roots. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/157 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 257FFN 099: How to Write a Book
Today, I thought I'd pull back the curtain and share with you a little bit about the process of writing a book. I've received a lot of messages since we published, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men about what it took to write the book, the challenges, the victories, the things I did well, and the things I didn't do so well in making this book available to you. Let's face it, writing a book isn't an easy process. It's a painstakingly slow journey that really causes you to question your own sanity. Sometimes you run across days you feel 100% committed and, other days, you want to quit and throw in the towel. So, since I've received so many questions about the process, I figured I'd give you some insight and you can decide from there if writing a book is something you want to take part it. We'll cover the reason you need a strong "why," the actual process (including the tools I used), the timeline you should follow, what format to publish in, and whether you should find a publisher or self-publish. www.orderofman.com/FFN099 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 256In the Trenches 002 | Chris Gachko
EToday on In the Trenches, I interview Chis Gachko about his challenges and victories in improving his marriage, starting a family, and launching a new business. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com

Ep 255156: Calling in Your Social Capital | Jordan Harbinger
One year ago, I had my good friend, Jordan Harbinger on the show to talk about building social capital. Today, he's back on the show to talk about calling in that social capital. Through a series of unfortunate events with his business, he's had to reach out to his network, connections, and friends and request help in building a new business from the ground up. Without his work in building a strong network in the past, Jordan admits he'd be in a much worse position today. In this episode, we talk about why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea, how to get over asking people for help, something Jordan calls "systematic network maintenance," and how to call in your social capital. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea How to build a network without the expectation of anything in return Why people choose to follow certain people How to maintain consistent contact with your network How to get over asking people for help Getting comfortable with helping others Getting comfortable with asking help from others The strategy of "opportunistic network maintenance" The strategy of "systematic network maintenance" How to use content management systems to enhance your social capital Specific strategies for building out and asking for help from your network JORDAN HARBINGER Today, I have the privilege of introducing you to my friend, yet again, Jordan Harbinger. This is his third visit on the show and every single conversation with him has been packed with value and wisdom. Jordan reached out to me a month or so ago after having left his previous business, The Art of Charm, to inform me that he was striking out on his own. I know a lot of you are familiar with that company and probably follow it as well. You probably also know that Jordan had a falling out with the other founders and found himself needed to tap into his social capital, which he's been building for years. The thing that impresses me most about Jordan is that it is apparent he applies what he teaches and, as much as I wish we were having this conversation under different circumstances, in this conversation you'll hear exactly how he's going to crush his new business venture using the skills, tools, and strategies he's been teaching for more than a decade in the business. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/156 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 254FFN 098: Makers and Takers
There are two types of people in this world: makers and takers. The reality is that we've all been a bit of both in our lives. But I think more and more I'm seeing the pendulum switch in society from most of us being makers to most of us being takers. It's not sustainable. It's not healthy. And, frankly, it's not manly. So today, I thought I'd share why being a maker is not only your job as a man but it's much more profitable and fulfilling way to live. And, I'll also share five very practical tips/mindsets for turning yourself into more of a maker. www.orderofman.com/FFN098 Please leave us a rating and review!
Ep 253In the Trenches 001 | Bubba Downs
This week, I interview Bubba Downs, our host of the new series, In the Trenches.

Ep 252155: Supporting Our Nation's Warriors | Phil Randazzo
EI spent time in the military, including an active-duty tour to Iraq in 2005-2006. I know how hard it can be transition from service to civilian life. One of the most challenging things for me was to go from having a clear sense of direction and purpose to not knowing what my next battle was. I know a lot of our nation's warriors feel the same. Today I talk with my good friend, Phil Randazzo, about his 15-year mission to help our military members successfully transition into civilian life. I believe so much in what he and his organization are doing that I now sit on the board of advisors for American Dream U. Today we talk about why transitioning out of the military is so challenging, what our military members should be doing prior to leaving service, how they can find a new battle to fight, and how we can support our nation's warriors. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why transitioning out of the military is so challenging Why our veterans discount their experience from the military What obligations and responsibilities we have to take care of our warriors How building a new tribe is critical for veterans The best steps to take prior to transitioning from service How to develop a new sense of purpose beyond the military Why suicide rates are so high among veterans and what to do about it How to find a new battle to fight How to harness technology to launch a successful second career Business owners' perspectives on hiring military members What valuable translatable skills military members possess PHIL RANDAZZO Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to introduce you to my friend Phil Randazzo. Him and I met about a year ago through some mutual acquaintances and since began working together with his organization, American Dream U. Phil is an extremely successful business owner working in the financial services industry but more important than that is his 15-year journey to help transition our nation's warriors. I can tell you that this is a man who has his heart in the right place and is genuinely concerned with helping our veterans. He's been invited to the White House, testified in front of Congress on the behalf of veterans, been given a key to the city of Las Vegas, and commissioned as a member of the Veterans Service Commission. So, needless to say, he's committed to the work and I couldn't be more proud to be part of his organization and call him a friend. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/155 Website: http://orderofman.com )________________________________
Ep 251FFN 097: Boys Need Dads
I'm sure you're well-aware of the drug abuse, suicide, and violent crime rates with regards to young men. It's all over the headlines these days and, with the latest school shooting in Florida, it's become impossible to ignore. There is a real problem here. And, while the rest of the world focuses on gun control and legislation in hopes of putting a bandaid over the problems that are becoming all too common, I'd encourage us here within the Order of Man to look at the root of the problem, which I believe is fatherless homes. Let's take a look at some of the statistics: 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census). 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes (Center for Disease Control). 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes (National Principals Association Report). 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988). 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction). I could go on and on about this but I think you can see that there is a problem with fathers being absent in the home. I do want to be very clear here, this is not intended to put down women who are raising children on their own. My mom did for much of my early life and she did a terrific job. That said, the facts are the facts. And this is what the data is telling us. I know I could also talk with you about the impacts on girls when fathers are absent but for the sake of this discussion, I want to talk about boys exclusively because it's boys who are perpetuating much of the problems we see in society. I believe the solution is homes where fathers are present and engaged. What I wanted to do today is connect the dots between boys and fathers and why this relationship is so critical for the well-being of our sons and society as a whole. Here are 5 reasons why dads are needed now more than ever. www.orderofman.com/FFN097 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 250154: Own the Day, Own Your Life | Aubrey Marcus
ESo many of us focus on the end result - some noble goal we wish to pursue. And, while there's value in knowing where you're going, my guest today makes the case for measuring your successes in the smallest unit of measurement possible. Most of you know Aubrey Marcus, founder of Onnit. He is back again to talk about how he has managed to build so much success in his life. Today, we talk about the key to starting your day off right, the benefits of unconventional training, napping, supplements, weird lunches, and how to own the day and own your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • Why focusing on the smallest unit of measurement is critical • The key to starting the day correctly • The power of hydrating, breathing, and freezing • Where and how supplements come into play • Utilizing drive time to your advantage • How eating a weird lunch will serve you so wellHow to be more efficient through utilizing daily napping • The benefits of unconventional physical training • How to turn your life into an experimentation • Building a powerful environment to attract powerful people • How to own your life rather than it owning you AUBREY MARCUS I have a repeat guest for you today and one most of you know. Aubrey Marcus is the founder of Onnit, which specializes in food, supplements, equipment, and apparel. The more I get to know this guy, the more I'm intrigued about how he produces results in his life and the interesting and sometimes strange way in which he experiments with everything that he can. He's a multi-sport athlete, a philosopher, a podcaster, a business owner, and author, and somewhat of a scientist when it comes to achieving total human optimization in his own life and the millions of people he's working hard to inspire. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/154 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 249FFN 096: 10 Steps to Reclaim Masculinity
We've all heard the adage that you are the average of your five closest friends. I don't take that too literally but I do know that when I surround myself with powerful people, life changes. There was a time in my life where I lacked any real intentionality about who I surrounded myself with and the results (or lack thereof) showed. Since those days, I'm made a deliberate and strategic decision to find people who are thriving in ways I want to thrive and put into action some strategies that have connected me with New York Times Bestselling Authors, elite warriors and athletes, multi-millionaire business owners, and, frankly, some of the most successful people on the planet. I think we can all agree that men and masculinity are on the defensive. There is a disturbing trend in society that says we are simply not needed. This could not be further from the truth. And, unfortunately, it will take something catastrophic happening before society, as a whole, realizes the value of strong and noble men. I'm not interested in waiting until that happens because I believe our job as men is to provide, even if it isn't all that appreciated. Unfortunately, we'll continue to see the ramifications of a lack of men and masculinity: suicide rates, drug use, violent crimes, school drop out rate, child abuse, etc. So, in an attempt to begin the dialogue around reversing the trend, I made a post on Instagram with ten steps to reclaiming masculinity. Here they are: www.orderofman.com/FFN096 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 248153: Developing Physical and Emotional Intelligence | Josh Trent
EWe all know health and wellness are important when it comes to stepping into our full potential but most of us tend to think it ends with eating right and exercising. While those elements are certainly important on our road to a healthy life, it goes well beyond lifting weights and eating salads. My guest today is Josh Trent. He is the founder of Wellness Force and is focused on helping people across the planet lead healthy lives. Today we talk about connecting the head and heart, how to identify which beliefs are serving you, how to harness both the beast and the spirit inside all men, and how to develop physical and emotional intelligence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What the term "wellness" actually means How to develop physical and emotional intelligence How to connect "head to the heart" How to identify what beliefs and actions are serving you The power of a technology fast How to develop more confidence How to reconcile ownership and kindness How to use the past for forward progression How to harness both the beast and the spirit Using the process of reflection for growth Why transforming the mind leads to a transformation everywhere else JOSH TRENT My guest today is the founder of Wellness Force, Josh Trent. Josh and I met at the Spartan World Championship and since the minute I met him, I've been blown away with his energy and enthusiasm for life and the desire to live it well. Throughout his 14 years inside the health and wellness Josh has helped thousands of men understand and develop physical and emotional intelligence. His knowledge and expertise goes well beyond what every other "fitness guru" will tell you as he takes a more well-rounded approach to developing the body, mind, and soul. He's worked with and interview hundreds of the sharpest minds in the wellness industry and has been on his own personal journey and transformation which you'll hear more of in our interview. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/153 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 247FFN 095: Connecting with Powerful People
We've all heard the adage that you are the average of your five closest friends. I don't take that too literally but I do know that when I surround myself with powerful people, life changes. There was a time in my life where I lacked any real intentionality about who I surrounded myself with and the results (or lack thereof) showed. Since those days, I'm made a deliberate and strategic decision to find people who are thriving in ways I want to thrive and put into action some strategies that have connected me with New York Times Bestselling Authors, elite warriors and athletes, multi-millionaire business owners, and, frankly, some of the most successful people on the planet. The reason I want you to listen very closely to this episode is that I'm not particularly anything special. There are a lot of men out there who believe that the reason I've been able to connect with these people is because I'm successful. Guys, that just isn't true. I may be experiencing some success now but when I started Order of Man, I had absolutely no track record of success. I've simply figured some things out and executed relentlessly. So this isn't something only extraordinary people can do. Whether you're achieving huge levels of success of none at all, everyone can implement the five steps I'm going to share with you and do the same thing I've done. The first point I need to make is that all of these five steps have the foundational element of adding value. I want you to focus on serving others and enhancing their lives. That's it. At it's most basic level, that is how you succeed and position yourself in the company with the right people. But let's break this down even further. www.orderofman.com/FFN095 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 246152: The Future of Higher Education | Adam Braun
Higher education seems to be quite the topic these days. With the rising costs of education and the debate as to whether or not students are learning applicable skills, it seems inevitable that we'll see a shift away from traditional higher education to something more practical and affordable. I've been an advocate for trade schools and apprenticeships programs for some time now but my guest today gives us yet another option to the challenges our young men and women face on the road to higher education. My guest today is the founder of MissionU, a one-year higher educational program that gives students the skills and experience to succeed after college. Today we talk about the rising cost of education and what can be done about it, how education institutions and students can and should work together towards solutions, bringing back the human element to schooling, and the future of higher education. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why traditional higher education is becoming less relevant The future of higher education Enhancing the human element to higher education The rising cost of college and how to reduce it How to create win-wins between educational institutions and potential employers Utilizing technology to make education more efficient The power of teaching "soft skills" in college How colleges have an obligation to teach applicable skills Where traditional education is falling short How educational institutions and students can work together for solutions The power of investing in student's education ADAM BRAUN My guest today is Adam Bruan. Adam is a New York Times Bestselling author, an entrepreneur, and a speaker. He is the founder of Pencils of Promise, a "for-purpose" organization dedicated to building schools around the world. In fact, they have now built over 400 schools. What's even more impressive is that he took $25 and turned it into this organization that has generated $30,000,000 of funds raised. Since then, he has turned his attention to the challenges surrounding higher education and has dedicated himself to creating solutions to some of the world's most challenging problems. You're going to hear the passion and excitement in his voice as Adam and I have a conversation everyone would agree needs to be had about where to go with our post-secondary education. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/152 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 245FFN 094: Solve Your Own Problems
It is amazing to me how quick we are to talk to other people about their issues and their problems yet we seem to be incapable of recognizing the problems in ourselves. It's sad because we spend so much time and attention and energy on changing something that is completely outside of our control when the real power comes from changing the thing that is entirely within our control – ourselves. I get it. It's easier to focus our attention elsewhere than it is on us. If we flip the mirror around and take a look at where we're falling short, it leads to work and effort to do something about it. www.orderofman.com/FFN094 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 244151: Know Fear | Tony Blauer
EFear is something that every single one of us experiences but the reality is that most of us don't know how to adequately face it when it rears its ugly head. Your ability to understand your fear and how to use it to your advantage may be the difference between life and death. Today, I'm joined by Tony Blauer with Blauer Tactical System in a conversation every man needs to hear. We talk about handling confrontation effectively, when violence is the answer, how to become what Tony calls a "courageous bystander," and how you can become more powerful by knowing your fear. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to handle confrontation How to improve your "respons-ability" How the brain learns What is the survival response system How the "startle-flinch response" helps you Why some people don't fight back When is violence the answer Four critical moves in dangerous circumstances How we overestimate our own abilities The three-step process for handling threats How to become a courageous bystander What to do when you're punched in the proverbial face Four steps to managing fear more effectively TONY BLAUER My guest today is Tony Blauer. Tony is a self-defense expert and the creator of the SPEAR system which stands for Spontaneous Protection Enabling Accelerated Response. I know that's a mouthful but what he's been able to learn, develop, and teach is how to harness the body's natural defense mechanisms to respond to a threat of violence effectively. He's been training special forces and LEOs since the 80's and is one of the only experts who has successfully affected training across all the combat-related communities: self-defense, combat sports and the military & law enforcement sector. Today, you're going to hear the passion in his voice as he talks with us about stepping into the role of protector for ourselves, our families, and our communities. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/151 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 243FFN 093: Men are Providers
Men are providers. Period. And, there's more than one way for us to provide: Financial, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual. Today, I share an excerpt from my new book, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men, regarding how we, as men, can step more fully into our calling to provide for ourselves, our families, and our communities. If you enjoy this excerpt, I ask that you consider picking up a copy of my new book, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men. And, if you already have, please leave us an Amazon review so we can get the message of masculine sovereignty out to the world. Enjoy the excerpt. www.orderofman.com/FFN093 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 242150: Own the Dash | Dakota Meyer
EThere are two days you have no control over - the day you're born and the day you die. Every other day in life represents an opportunity to choose how you decide to live it. My guest today, Dakota Meyer, calls this "Own the Dash." The dash is all the days between your date of birth and your date of death. Dakota Meyer is a retired Marine and the recipient of the highest military honor one could earn, the Medal of Honor. Today we talk about how he views the events that earned him that recognition, overcoming an attempted suicide, how he has redefined himself through living in service of others, and how he owns the dash. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to "Own the Dash" Turning adversity into opportunity The value of service to others in overcoming struggle How humility allows you to thrive Not using PTSD as an excuse to self-destruct Overcoming a suicide attempt The power of owning your failures How to make better decisions How to find and connect with the right people Implementing a team in your life How legacy can drive you to do great things DAKOTA MEYER Wow guys, this has got be one of my favorite episodes to date. My guest, Dakota Meyer is a Marine, a Medal of Honor recipient, a New York Times Bestselling author, a business owner, and probably one of the most humble men I've had the privilege of meeting. In 2009, he and his squad were ambushed by Taliban insurgents where he learned some of his team members were missing. He went back to find them and, in the process, rescued 12 wounded and provided cover for another 24 Marines and Soldiers. I was absolutely blown away with his perspective on those events (which was not what I expected) and the subsequent depression and failed suicide attempt that followed. Since then, Dakota has gone on to found a successful construction company and has now dedicated himself to serving others and allowing others to use his platform to share messages of inspiration across this nation. Sit back and buckle up. Dakota is one of the most real humans I've ever met as he shares some of his personal stories (good and bad) that have made him who he is today. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/150 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 241FFN 092: The Myth of "Toxic Masculinity"
There's a term that's being tossed around these days that's really been bothering me the more I think about it. The term is "toxic masculinity." The reason that term bothers me is because, frankly, it does not exist. It's not real. And, to perpetuate the term is to do injustice to what it means to be a man in the first place – which is probably why it's pushed with such a heavy hand. I think there's a growing movement to undermine masculinity and the term, "toxic masculinity (and others like it)" is just one way to spread the propaganda that somehow masculinity is bad, or evil, or toxic. It just isn't the case. Masculinity, by its very nature is good. It's strong. It's assertive. It's productive. It's caring. It's compassion. It's charitable. And, I've even go so far as to say it's loving. www.orderofman.com/FFN092 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 240149: Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship | Pete Roberts
EEveryone these days wants to be an entrepreneur and while I applaud their desire to go out and create something from nothing, too many men are in it for the wrong reason. Today, I'm joined by my friend and founder of Origin USA to talk about the meaning of entrepreneurship. This one is unlike a lot of the podcast you see on entrepreneurship where you'll hear the ten tactics every entrepreneur needs to know. We go deep into why entrepreneurship is so important, why you should and shouldn't go into business for yourself, why vision is so critical, ethical responsibilities and obligations, and why creating a business without compromise is so critical. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The value of entrepreneurship Why someone should become an entrepreneur Why someone should not become an entrepreneur Why striping away your ego is critical to your success Developing a belief in yourself How to develop more confidence How to use faith to take more calculated risks Our moral and ethical responsibilities as business owners The value of resourcefulness How to find new pathways How to revive old ways of doing things and "modernizing" them The value of a challenge and competition Why creating a business "without compromise" is a huge competitive edge How to connect with influential people using timing and value PETE ROBERTS Gentlemen, today I am joined my my friend, entrepreneur, and founder of Origin USA, Mr. Pete Roberts. I came across what Pete was doing through Jocko (who is Pete's partner) and was immediately inspired by his story and message behind him and his company, Origin. This man is not just an entrepreneur but someone who has meaning and significance about the work he's doing to bring manufacturing back to his hometown and create a product that is entirely made in the US, without compromise. More than anything, today you're going to hear why he does what he does, where his idea of vision, ingenuity, and discipline come from and how the notion of business ownership ties into our responsibility as men to protect, provide, and preside in our homes, our businesses, and our communities. Again, this isn't a checklist-type interview of everything an entrepreneur should know and do but a conversation about ideas, responsibility, and creativity. Listen to the stories and the message Pete has to share, implement it, and I guarantee you'll live a more fulfilled life and help those you come in contact with along the way do the same. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/149 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 239FFN 091: A Crash Course in Confidence
One topic I see talked about more than just about any other is that of building confidence. It seems that more and more men are lacking the confidence they desire in their lives. I think there's a lot of reasons for this so today, I thought I'd share with you why we seem to be experiencing more of that, and give you some very quick and actionable tips in order to develop confidence and, of course, the results that stem from it. More than anything, you've got to understand that you are not entitle to confidence. I know you may think you know that but it's amazing to me how many men seem to think confidence is something men are born with and that some men are just inherently confident. I think that has some truth to it. Some men are born with a predisposition to be more confident in their lives but I believe the bigger variable to building and developing confidence is the ability to take action despite fear. www.orderofman.com/FFN091 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 238148: True Transformation Through Exercise and Nutrition | Josiah Novak
EIt's that time of the year again when the masses begin their new year's resolutions. Fitness, exercise, and nutrition is always at the top of people's New Year's Resolutions but all too often people fail within the first couple of weeks or months to stick to their plans. Today, I am joined by my friend and fitness coach, Josiah Novak, to talk about nutrition and exercise and why people fall short of their objectives. We cover why they fail, how to create the right environment for success, how to get back on track when you fall off, and how to create a true transformation in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why people fail with their health resolutions Why we look for the magic pill Common health challenges to overcome How to create the right environment for success The basics of establishing healthy nutrition and exercise habits Why health is usually the first thing to go How to develop more discipline How to get back on track when you fall off Identifying your values to keep you on track Why you should focus on the process rather than the results How to find the correct motivators How to maintain consistency and focus Best tips for exercise and nutrition JOSIAH NOVAK Gentlemen, I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. Josiah Novak. I met Josiah through a mutual friend a little over a year ago and through getting to know him over the past year, I can tell you he is the real deal. I think it's easy for us to assume that these fitness guys have always had the perfect physique but what I admire about Josiah is that he has gone through his own transformation of losing over 80lbs and is now dedicated to helping men around the world do the same in their lives. You're going to hear that he's not all marketing and hype and another one of "those guys" but a real person who has learned to take a practical no-nonsense approach to the way we move, how we exercise, and what we eat. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/148 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 237FFN 090: A Code of Conduct
Most of you know by now that we have live meetup in Nashville coming up January 26th and 27th. It is going to be an absolutely killer event and I want you there with us. So today, I thought I'd pull back the curtain a little bit and share with you some of the details so you know what we're up to. If you've been to one conference, you've been to all of them but what we wanted to do here is create something truly incredible because the last thing I want to do is sit in a hot, stuffy room for two days and be talked at. I can't imagine you'd want to do that either. So, at the risk, of giving away all of our ideas on how to run an effective meetup for men (unlike a lot of these conferences), let me break down eight things about this event you're going to want to a part of. www.orderofman.com/FFN090 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 236147: Self-Mastery through Bow Hunting | John "Dud" Dudley
Self-mastery is something I talk about a lot. There are a ton of external sources that seem to be fighting against us at any given time but, even worse than that, is that we seem to be our own worst enemy at times. The best way to combat that is to learn to master your natural tendency to do things you know you shouldn't. Today, I'm joined by my friend, John Dudley, to talk about archery which, at first glance, doesn't seem to have to do with self-mastery. But that couldn't be further from the truth. The amount of dedication and discipline this man has towards become a master of his craft is inspiring and something we can all learn from. We talk about becoming a more well-rounded man, the power that comes from honing a craft, why coach-ability is critical, becoming a lifelong learner, and how to master yourself through bow hunting. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Connecting with nature through bow hunting Becoming more a well-rounded man Taking ownership of your life The power that comes from honing a craft Why coach-ability is critical Ethical responsibilities we have The value of knowing where your food comes from Where training comes into play The relationship between want and waste Why repetition is so important Being a lifelong learner Holding yourself to a higher standard JOHN DUDLEY Guys, I'm stoked to bring you this conversation with one of the most qualified men to talk with you about mastery and discipline. I recently picked up archery and, in fact, I harvested my first deer earlier this year. I underestimated what it would take to make that hunt a success but a lot of what I learned, I learned from my guest, John Dudley. He's been involved in archery since he was 10 years old (he talks about his first hunt) and since went on to shoot professionally for 20 years with over 120 events worldwide including gold and silver medal with the US archery team. He's dedicated his life to archery and you're going to hear the passion in his voice as he is striving to become a master in his and show us how to master ours. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/147 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 235FFN 089: Meet me in Nashville
Most of you know by now that we have live meetup in Nashville coming up January 26th and 27th. It is going to be an absolutely killer event and I want you there with us. So today, I thought I'd pull back the curtain a little bit and share with you some of the details so you know what we're up to. If you've been to one conference, you've been to all of them but what we wanted to do here is create something truly incredible because the last thing I want to do is sit in a hot, stuffy room for two days and be talked at. I can't imagine you'd want to do that either. So, at the risk, of giving away all of our ideas on how to run an effective meetup for men (unlike a lot of these conferences), let me break down eight things about this event you're going to want to a part of. www.orderofman.com/FFN089 Please leave us a rating and review!

Ep 234146: A Life of Adventure | Laval St. Germain
EI want you to take a serious, truthful look at your life. When is the last time you went on an adventure? I'm not talking about a date with your wife, or trying a new restaurant, or you happened to take a new way to work. I'm talking about a real adventure that scared you, pushed you, and made you feel alive? Today I'm joined by adventure enthusiast, Laval St. Germain to talk about why it's critical we "step out, and shove off." Today we cover establishing new perspectives for life challenges, why most men are content with living vicariously through others, the danger of cognitive distortions, and how to live a life of adventure. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What calls a man to adventure Overcoming excuses Eliminating discomfort Weight risk vs. reward Creating a new perspective for life's challenges Why we have a desire to prove ourselves The concept of practicing misfortune Mental preparation The danger of cognitive distortions Rising to the level of our training Finding experts Why living vicariously through others is never enough Avoiding comparison What exactly is delayed activation LAVAL ST. GERMAIN Today, I'm joined by adventurer and explorer extraordinaire, Laval St. Germain. This man is so qualified to talk with us about living a life of adventure. His resume includes being the only Canadian to climb Everest without supplemental oxygen, climbing an skiing Iraq's highest peak, the fastest ever crossing North Atlantic solo row, climbing the highest peaks on 6 of the 7 continents among other amazing accomplishments. He spent 53 days rowing across the Atlantic, and lost three fingers to frostbite. He's a mountaineer, an endurance athlete, and a pilot. What more can I say about this guy? He's incredible and inspiring. I know you'll walk away inspired to live your own life of adventure. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/146 Website: http://orderofman.com
Ep 233FFN 088: The Best Investment You Can Make
I'm looking at a few of my investment accounts this morning and one of the things I've invested in this year is cryptocurrency. As of this recording, Bitcoin is over $17,000. But, what I want to talk with you about today has nothing to do with the financial markets. The only reason I bring that up is because I'm amazed at how often people are willing to speculate in something as volatile as Bitcoin and, yet, when you ask them how they're investing in themselves, all you hear is crickets. Now, I don't know where Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies are going to be in the next 12 months and longer. Depending on when you're listening to this, it could have skyrocketed even higher or completely crashed and burned. But, what I do know is that finding a way to invest in yourself this year will always prove to be a good investment. So, today, I thought I'd cover six ways you can and should invest in yourself. Again, this is not going to have anything to do with any financial markets. I am a financial advisor by trade but I don't want to talk about that. I want to talk with you about the best asset you'll ever have – yourself. And, if that's truly the case, you're going to want to invest more heavily in yourself than you have in the past. This year alone (2017), I will have invested roughly $30,000 in myself. Some of you may think that's low and some of you will think that's high. Either way, it's all relative. The more you can invest in yourself the better. In fact, I recommend earmarking funds from your paycheck each month to invest in yourself – at least 10%. So let's talk about 6 ways to invest in yourself. www.orderofman.com/FFN088 Please leave us a rating and review!