Order of Man

Guys, you're really going to enjoy today's conversation with my friend and repeat guest Sal Di Stefano. You may know him from MindPump Media where they focus on physical and mental health primarily but Sal is so well-versed with trends in society that I really wanted to have the conversation we have today. We talk about logical fallacies, emotional hype, "cancel culture," victimhood as a perceived virtue, why superman isn't brave at all, and, ultimately, how to think rationally in an irrational world. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Effective communication Seeking smart people Having your mind changed The marketplace of ideas Collective truths Rolling the dice Understanding generality Long term behavior changes Self-growth Being a victim Marketing 101 The free market Rational Emotion SAL DI STEFANO As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Sal Di Stefano. He is the co-founder and co-host of MindPump Media. The man is a natural intellect as you'll hear during our conversation and has taken his passion for information and learning and applied it to the realm of physical fitness. He's been through some ups and downs regarding his own path of health and fitness and has used his extensive research and knowledge to create their MAPS programming. Now he along with his co-hosts, Adam, Justin, and Doug, they host the MindPump Media Podcast which is reaching the masses and has been downloaded tens of millions of times. I hope you enjoy this one as much as I did. MAINE EVENT AND LEGACY EXPERIENCE Good news, gents. We've had a few spots open up for our Maine Event (May 29th – 31st, 2020) and our father/son event, Legacy Experience (June 11th – 14th, 2020). If you're interested in joining with 100 other highly motivated and ambitious men in a weekend of camaraderie, competition, and collaboration, the Maine Event is for you. We'll be spending 2 ½ days working together to get you the network and framework to make 2020 your most productive year ever. And, if you've got a son between the ages of 8-15, join us for the Legacy Experience for 3 ½ days with 19 other father/son combos. We'll be engaging in physical, mentally, and emotionally demanding scenarios all designed to give both you and your son the tools and resources to usher your son into manhood. You can learn more and watch a quick video from each at www.orderofman.com/maineevent and www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/258

Today, I share the advice I would give my 20-year old self. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the comparison trap, destructive behavior, setting boundaries, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

With as much as we are inundated within our daily lives, it's becoming increasingly difficult to be completely present and mindful of the people and things that really matter. In fact (and in fairness to today's conversation), this podcast could actually be distracting you from what it is you should be doing. Today, I'm joined by my friend Donnie Vincent. Many of you know him as an avid outdoorsman, hunter, and conservationist but we tackle a different (but equally important) conversation today – being present and mindful of who you are and what you're after. We cover social media, finding work you love, dealing with a lack of confidence, taking care of yourself first, and ensuring you're focused on just the right things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Bridging the gap Sharing the experience Uncovering your path Capturing imagery Celebrating the wins Smoke and mirrors Collecting shiny things Discovering who you are Living a positive life Facing the pressure Moving your body Investing in yourself Fighting like hell The foundation of truth DONNIE VINCENT Many of you know my guest today, Donnie Vincent but I think you'll see and hear a side of him that you haven't heard before. Donnie is an explorer, a biologist, a conservationist, and a sportsman. And, I think after listening to our conversation, you'll hear how thoughtful and intentional he is about how exactly he lives his life. Donnie is an incredible storyteller and through his media company, Sicmanta, he has a powerful gift in bringing people into his outdoor adventures and connecting them with his passion for the wild. After hearing him today, you're going to understand what I mean and walk away inspired to lean into your life more fully. LEGACY My legacy is something that is very important to me. I'm sure it is for you too. Last week, I had the opportunity to spend 4 days with my two oldest boys and, as we laughed and joked, shared stories, and had an adventure, I couldn't help but wonder if I am doing enough to prepare them for life as their father. In fact, it's the thing that keeps me up and night more than anything else. I'm sure that, as a father, you feel very much the same way. For this reason, I launched the LEGACY EXPERIENCE three years ago as a 3 ½ day event to bring together fathers and sons around a group of strong, competitive, competent men, lessons, and resources. I want to invite you to claim one of the last 2 spots remaining for our third installment in Maine on June 11-14, 2020. If you're even remotely interested, please head to www.orderofman.com/leagacy to learn more and lock in one of those last remaining spots. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I want to share six key areas that will help you become the master of your domain. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of setting boundaries, edifying others, following your dreams, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

It seems to me that a lot of men have a hard time striking the balance between warrior and philosopher. For a long time, I was under the impression that men are either one or the other – the strong, rugged archetype or the smart, intellectual archetype. My guest today, John Lovell, founder of Warrior Poet Society, makes the case for why and how we, as men can be both. This has been a conversation a long time in the works and John has been requested by you guys countless times. We discuss what it means to be strong and smart, how to apply philosophy practically in our day to day lives, a basic introduction into firearms for everyday carry, and what it means and how to become a Warrior Poet. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Failure of men Qualified advice Evaluating feedback The pain of jealousy Being under authority First-world problems Appreciating food Beating yourself up Tools for training Force on force Mentorship Shoulder to shoulder The average gunfight Selecting guns JOHN LOVELL My guest today is someone who you guys have requested so many times and, fortunately, I had the opportunity to sit down with him at SHOT Show in Las Vegas a couple of weeks ago. Our conversation was bound to happen as his organization, Warrior Poet Society is so closely related to what we're doing here with Order of Man. John is a special operations war veteran having served multiple combat tours to Iraq and Afghanistan. He's also served as a Christian missionary to Central America – which is a testament to the duality of his Warrior Poet philosophy. And, on top of that, John teaches tactical pistol, rifle, and small unit tactics, and many other classes around the U.S. We had a lot of fun during our conversation and I can't imagine it will be long before we do it again. Enjoy. LEGACY I made a post on Twitter the other day stating that, "A woman can teach a boy to be a good man but not how to be good at being a man – the distinction between morality and capability. Morality alone is not enough. A man must be capable. And, that is the responsibility of the elder men." I believe so much in that statement that we created an experience to help put it into practice. It's called the Legacy Experience and it's designed to help you as a father usher your son into manhood by introducing him to the frameworks he'll need to thrive. Our event is held June 11-14th in Maine and over the course of 3 ½ days, you and your son will be competing with other men, developing new skills, and forging deeper bonds together. If you want to learn more and lock in one of the last 5 remaining spots, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/256

Guys, I've got a great one lined up for you today about ego and self-awareness. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of taking action, protecting your way of life, fellowship, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

We all know the world can be a dangerous place and if a man hasn't prepared himself for all that may come up, frankly, he's shirking his role and responsibility as a man. It's in our nature, after all, to protect, provide, and preside and yet so many men seem utterly incapable of doing so. Today, I am joined by a friend, repeat guest, and former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson. We talk about our nature as men, how society has seemed to go soft, why hazing in the right context is good for men and culture, keeping ourselves and others safe in dangerous environments, and our need to evolve as men. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Time in the Military The SEAL brand Making bad decisions SEAL culture Proving yourself What it's really about The "new guy" mentality Fulfilling your mission Violence Situational awareness Following the herd Train your brain Simple preparedness Macro vs. micro-skills The ultimate equalizer The great good A creative outlet An exchange of value Crisis management CLINT EMERSON As I mentioned before, my guest today is former Navy SEAL, New York Times Best Selling Author, and security specialist, Clint Emerson. Clint has combined his more than 20 years of military service to provide some of the best personal and corporate safety and security services. He owns Escape the Wolf which provides corporate safety solutions and training and Violent Nomad which is focused on the "darker" side of keeping yourself and others safe. He is also the author of 100 Deadly Skills and his newest book, The Right Kind of Crazy: My Life as a Navy SEAL, Covert Operative, and Boy Scout from Hell. LEGACY You've heard me talking about the Legacy Experience over the past several months and I'm glad to tell you that we still have a few spots available for fathers and their sons between the ages of 8-15. I have quite a few people ask if I'm scared to raise boys in today's society and I typically respond with something like, "With the type of boys society is currently raising, my sons are going to be kings." I know you feel the same way although you may not feel like you have everything you need to ensure that's the case. When you join us on June 11-14th, 2020, we're going to equip you and your son with the tools, frameworks, and instruction to ensure your son becomes that man you have a desire for him to become. You're raising a king. We want to help. Learn more and join us at www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/255

Today, I share with you my thoughts around discussing ideas intelligently. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of critical thinking, unplugging from social media, living a meaningful life, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Whether you're running a fortunate 500 company or working to lead more effectively in your home, your ability to rally the troops, inspire them to take action, and create the systems and process to allow your team (or family) to thrive is crucial. That's why I'm extremely excited to introduce you to my guest today, Bruce Pettet, President, and CEO of Leupold Optics. Today, we talk about the challenges of running a 700 employee strong, 5th generation family-owned company. We cover strategic planning, working through differences of opinion, getting a team to buy into the vision, making tough calls, and the power of strategic leadership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Fighting for our rights Woman hunters Guaranteed for life Life and death moments Building leadership Non-negotiable core values Three types of team leaders Generational value Thinking through your strategy Executing your plan Putting ego aside A critical part of growth Making the ultimate call Engaging team members Foundational work Defining dominance BRUCE PETTET As I said before, my guest today is Bruce Pettet and he is the President and CEO of Leupold Optics, one of the premier optic companies in the world. He has been named one of the "Marketing 100" and Sporting Goods Business named him and "industry pacesetter." In addition to his involvement in the organization, he A member of Safari Club International, Rocky Mountain Elk Foundation, and the National Rifle Association, where he shares Leupold's collective values of conservation and responsible hunting practices. LEGACY I know I've been talking about it for the last couple of months but if you are a father of a boy between the ages of 8-15, I want to invite you to our 3rd Legacy event on my property in Maine. The whole goal of the Legacy experience is to create a rite of passage of sorts and equip you, as your son's father, with the tools, resources, and conversations he needs to thrive as a boy becoming a man. It's no secret that the world is increasingly dismissive of men and masculinity and it's my goal (along with our cadre) to help inoculate and prepare your son for what this world has to offer. I invite you to head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to watch a quick video and learn more about what this event entails and how it can be an integral component of ushering your son into manhood. Again, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to learn more and lock in your spot. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/254

As opportunity presents itself in your life, don't miss out by making excuses. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I'm fielding questions without Ryan as he is at ShotShow in Vegas. I discuss the importance of being positive, serving others, sobriety, and so much more. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Warrior is a term that gets thrown around a lot these days. Most men have the desire, to some degree to develop and hone their warrior spirit. And, despite the fact that many men have never considered themselves warriors or served in the military, it is possible and advantageous to approach your life in the very much the same way a warrior approaches his. Today, I am joined by Marine Corps veteran and entrepreneur, Chris Albert to discuss exactly what it means to be a warrior. We discuss how to lead yourself when no one is telling you what to do, what it means to "slay dragons" and make yourself capable of doing so, improving your internal dialogue, and how to tap into the warrior archetype. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Delivering veteran solutions Learning online business Teaching people how to be free Falling into tyranny Facing confrontation Slaying dragons Becoming passive Letting yourself go Deep family roots Getting started Absorb everything you can The epidemic of suicide Alienating yourself Harnessing your skills CHRIS ALBERT My guest today is Chris Albert and, as I said before he is a Marine Corps veteran and founder of Warrior Soul. After leaving the military, Chris went into bodybuilding eventually owning one of the most well-known gyms in the world – Metroflex Gym. In addition, he is a trained social scientist with expertise in conflict resolution and decision making. He's taken his skills and experience and applied them in helping business owners and other individuals tap into the warrior spirit and produce incredible results in their life. LEGACY Gents, allow me to hit the pause button very quickly and tell you about our first-ever Maine Legacy Event. This experience will be held June 11-14th, 2020 on my property here in Maine and it's a father/son event like no other. If you're anything like me, ushering your son into manhood is one of your biggest concerns. It's one of the few things that really keeps you up and night. Over the course of 3 days, we've designed an experience to push, test, and inspire both you and your son to do and be more. We'll be shooting archery, participating in physical challenges, competing in Jiu-Jitsu, and learning the frameworks for success in life with the 20 other father/son combos that will be joining you. If you want to learn more and lock in your seat, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/253

Today, I give you the single greatest strategy for planning out your year. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I'm fielding questions without Kipp Sorensen. I discuss the importance of asking powerful questions, learning to rest, building a tribe, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share my thoughts on overcoming guilt for self-improvement. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to identify ego, develop male friendships, ask good questions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

As you roll into 2020, a lot of you listening are likely interested in leading more effectively in your life. You also likely realize how fulfilling, rewarding, and profitable becoming a good leader can be. But frankly, there are so many traps on the path to leadership. That's why I've been looking forward to talking with the Learning Leader himself, Ryan Hawk. Today we cover the distinctions between leading, managing, and coaching, the blessing and curse of ambition, when to lead and when to follow, and how to foster commitment in others over compliance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The fear of judgment The responsibility of leadership Leading yourself first Being the most prepared Taking from the best Deconstructing success Living up to your values Outward leadership Building committed teams Stepping up when times are tough Never outshine the master Stepping into the unknown The mindset of progression Leadership vs Management RYAN HAWK Gentlemen, my guest today is Ryan Hawk, the host, and founder of the Learning Leader movement. Ryan is a keynote speaker, advisor, and most recently, the author of Welcome to Management: How to Grow From Top Performer to Excellent Leader. He's taken his experience as a professional football player and sales executive, coupled with lessons learned from working with Fortune 500 companies and NFL and NBA teams, and distilled them into practical tips and strategies we can use to lead more effectively. I had him on the show as the 8th guest to ever join us and his growth over nearly five years has been incredible and a powerful testimony to the effectiveness of his leadership strategies. IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, it's not surprising that many of us thrive under pressure and seem to find a way to rise in the face of adversity and competition. That is why we wanted to take the element of competition and harness it for powerful growth inside of exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. When you band with us, not only will you get all the tools and resources you need to make 2020 your best year ever, you'll also tap into our competitions happening this month all designed to push us further than we've gone before. If you're ready to compete and level-up in every facet of your life, join with over 500 men all working to do the same inside the Iron Council. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share my top ten lessons of 2019. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of taking action, making the ultimate effort, reinventing yourself, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Whether you've never been hunting before, new to the pursuit, or a seasoned veteran, it's hard to deny that hunting is in our blood. We, as a species have been hunting for hundreds of thousands of years and it hasn't been until relatively recently that the art and science of hunting have come under so much scrutiny. That's why I'm extremely excited to introduce you to my guest today, Robbie Kroger and his project, Blood Origins. We talk about the importance of hunting, its positive effects on the environment and conservation efforts, why there tends to be such a polarization around the topic of hunting, both Robbie and I journey into the world of hunting, and how, whether you like it or not, hunting is in our blood. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The heart of hunters Reaching non-hunters Everyone has a story How we got here today A new wave of hunters The rhetoric against hunting Connecting to a primal urge Hunting provides purpose Sharing your harvest Ending the pain quickly Elevating the narrative of hunting Celebrity mouthpieces Becoming a better man Managing ecosystems Telling more unique stories Reaching those who aren't hunters ROBBIE KROGER My guest today is Dr. Robbie Kroger, a biologist who currently holds a position as the science coordinator for the Gulf Coast Ecosystem Restoration Council. He is also a professor at Mississippi State University in the Department of Wildlife, Fisheries, and Aquaculture. Outside of that, he founded a movement called Blood Origins which is aimed at sharing the "why" and "who" behind hunting. Where most hunting shows focus on the sport and the ultimate kill, Robbie set out to learn and understand who hunters are and why they do it. He's got some absolutely incredible films that document these stories and are share a side of hunting you may have never seen. Enjoy the conversation. IRON COUNCIL As of the release of this podcast, it's New Year's Eve and you're likely thinking about what you want to do differently in 2020. That's noble. You should be thinking about what the new year will hold. But, unless you're willing to do something about it and tap into a new way of thinking/operating, it's likely that you're going to fall into the same patterns as you always have. That is exactly why the Iron Council can be so powerful. Hundreds of men have banded with us and used the tools, framework, and accountability to lose weight, salvage relationships, get married, get strong, secure promotions, start a new business, and develop self-confidence through action. Whatever your objective is for the new year, we'll help you codify the process of making it a reality. Join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share seven traps to avoid as we move into 2020. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss character, building in margin, stoicism, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Political correctness, cancel culture, and "wokeness" is destroying our ability to have important discussions about some of our most complex problems. Ironically, the people that continually engage in this behavior say they're trying to help but end up doing the exact opposite. That's why I stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Zuby, to talk about these current issues and so much more. We discuss why people have such a difficult time engaging in intellectual dialogue, breaking the mold of people's expectations, the future of humanity – both good and bad and why the "woke" are destroying civil and critical discourse. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Fitting into a mold Being multi-dimensional Diluting the power of words Uniting people A healthy dose of skepticism Humble expectations Personal responsibility Victimhood mentality Billionaire bashing Resentment & envy The zero-sum mindset Correcting our behavior Creating your own morality A code of conduct Battling over ideology ZUBY My guest today is unlike any other. His name is Zuby and he is a rapper, podcast host, public speaker, and entrepreneur and graduate from Oxford University. I started following him several months ago when I saw a video of him destroying the British Women's deadlifting record in an attempt to bring some logic to the discussion that men and women are biologically different. He's a man who is unafraid to share the way that he views the world and has been dubbed extremely controversial even though, he's really not at all (we discuss this in the conversation). Gentlemen, please enjoy my fascinating discussion with the one and only Zuby. IRON COUNCIL Gents, by now you've heard all about the Iron Council. Many of you have banded with us. Many of you aren't interested at all. And, many of you are on the fence about joining. If you are on the fence, I understand. When I started down this path to fixing myself, it was hard for me to acknowledge that having a little help, instruction, and direction on the path was worthwhile. I thought I could figure it all out on my own. And, maybe I could. But at what expense? Time and effort. That's what it would have cost me. By banding with and learning from men who were further down the path than I was, I was able to accelerate the learning process and, therefore the results. I became a more connected husband, a more engaged father, a more successful businessman and more fulfilled in my life. And, if you're looking to do the same in your life, band with us – the 500+ who are on the same path and know how to help you get from here to there. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share with you general tips to help get your financial house in order. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I'm fielding questions without my co-host, Kipp Sorensen. I share my thoughts on forward thinking, masculine traits, identifying your own ego, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Every man knows that building effective and productive habits and systems is a crucial part of teeing him up for success. But, knowing and doing are two different things. And, it seems to me that most men fail to bridge the gap between the two because they don't know how to build those habits into their lives. That's why I'm stoked to bring you into the conversation that James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits, and I had about the subject. Today we discuss why you should focus more about systems and processes rather than goals, the power of changing your identity over changing your habits, an interesting take on discipline, will-power, and self-control you probably haven't heard of, and focusing on the fundamental unit of progress and ultimate success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Creating powerful results Working in harmony Eliminating failure A margin of safety The ultimate outcome Associating pain with progress Identity-based habits Your habits are the pathway Behaviors will lead the belief The 2-minute rule Mastering the art of "showing up" The four laws of behavior change Designing your own environment Preparing for battles Adjusting your systems JAMES CLEAR Gents, I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. James Clear. James has been covering the topic of habits, systems, goals, and processes for a very long time and, last year, he wrote a book titled Atomic Habits. Many of you have probably read it. At the time, we weren't able to schedule a podcast but I'm honored that we were able to have him on now. He's the creator of the Habits Academy, a weightlifter, photographer, and a New York Times Best Selling Author and he's been focusing on biology, neuroscience, psychology, and philosophy to help men become more successful on their own individual paths. I know you're really going to enjoy this one and get a ton of value from it. IRON COUNCIL Gent's, I just need to interrupt very quickly because I want to let you know that inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, we're doing a deep-dive into the subject of this conversation – habits. The 500+ men are uncovering the habits that are working for and against them, creating the systems to ensure they stick with the good habits and eliminate the bad, and holding each other accountable to staying on the path. In fact, many of the practices that James and I have been discussing in this podcast are the very practices and strategies we're employing inside the Iron Council. To learn more and lock in your spot, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share with you what I learned during my first year of jiu-jitsu. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of feeding your heart and soul, serving those you love, managing a budget, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

In my work over the past 5 years, I've seen a disturbing trend in men of sedation, mediocrity, and lifelessness. It seems to me too many men have lost their appetite for adventure, excitement, and a life full of meaning and purpose. If you feel like that describes you (even to some degree), or you know someone it does, this is going to be a powerful podcast. My guest today is Traver Boehm and he joins me to talk about his new book, Man Uncivilized. We cover what it means to be a man, how and why we should become more "uncivilized," overcoming playing the perpetual "nice guy," and showing up fully in our lives and the lives of others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A risk to your ego Undermining masculinity Relative safety Uncivilized Methodology Finding common ground The standard pathway for me Tapping into your primal side Harnessing the divine How to access emotion Be dangerous but not a danger The X-factor Overcoming legitimate threats Creating an affirmative life Asking for a need to be met TRAVER BOEHM Gents, I'm stoked to introduce you to my friend, Traver Boehm. He is a strength and conditioning coach, a Crossfit gym owner, an MMA fighter, a bodyguard, a surfer, acupuncturist, and so much more. He's got an incredible resume of interesting life experiences including sitting in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness for a month in Guatemala. It's those types of experiences that give Traver perspectives that many of us haven't considered before. Much of which is documented in his new book, Man Uncivilized, which is what we cover in our conversation today. I haven't known Travis for long but I definitely admire his passion and excitement for life, what it means to be a man, and a willingness to help others on their own path of masculinity. IRON COUNCIL As I'm sure you know, habits make the man. We've all heard the quote, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit." That's exactly what we've covering inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, this month – habits. We're uncovering how to eliminate habits that don't serve us, discovering ones that do, and implementing systems and processes to ensure that we incorporate the right habits into our lives. If you're interested in banding with us and creating the frameworks that will ensure your success on the family and/or career front, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot along with 500+ other men who are on similar paths. In addition to that, we've got my conversation with James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, joining me on the podcast next month to do a deeper dive. Again, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more about the brotherhood and claim your seat at the table. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share twelve tips for protecting yourself in marriage. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss fatherhood, how to establish boundaries, asking better questions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Social media is a powerful tool. If it weren't for the good social media has done, you likely wouldn't be tuned into this podcast right now. That said, it seems to me that the use of social media is making us dumber or, at least, encouraging us to behave that way. My guest today, Scott Adams, the creator of Dilbert, joins me to talk about exactly why that is and the type of thinking he refers to as "Loserthink." It's also the title of his new book subtitled, How Untrained Brains are Ruining America. Today, we talk about the fact that being right and being wrong feel the same, how to determine what battles to fight online, how shaming and mockery can be used positively, and ultimately how you can avoid thinking like a loser. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Augmenting your intelligence Wrestling with social media A "slippery slope" Linear thinking Predictable variables to success Influencing other people Enlightened selfishness Succeeding at systems Mental addiction Adding to your talent stack There's always a deeper level Engaging in "loser think" Determining a stranger's thoughts SCOTT ADAMS Gents, I am stoked to be able to introduce you to my guest today, Scott Adams. Before I do, I want to make sure I thank my friend, Jordan Harbinger, for introducing us. You may not know who Scott is right away but I'm sure you know Dilbert. Scott is the creator of Dilbert and the bestselling author of Win Bigly and his new book, Loserthink. Although Scott really started to gain attention and traction with Dilbert, his political commentary is, in my mind, just as, if not more, important. If you're interested, you can check out what he has to say on Twitter (@scottadamssays). He's never been afraid to ruffle a few feathers and I think that is why he has gained such a following – his ability to say what needs to be said and his ability to say it in a way that connects with so many of us. SYSTEMS AND PROCESSES Gentlemen, we're all aware of how important systems and processes are on our path to success but how many men have not created those systems in every facet of their lives. These are the same men who often wonder why that cannot seem to get ahead. This month, inside the Iron Council, we'll be exploring and deep-diving into the systems and processes I use and what the 500+ members are using to achieve maximum results. We'll help you unpackage your systems, explore what's working, remove what isn't, and rebuild a strategy that will ensure your success. If you'd like to know more and build your blueprint for success, band with us inside the Iron Council. You'll get the tools, challenges, assignments, camaraderie, and brotherhood needed to thrive. Again, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share ten strategies for forging mental fortitude to help face what life throws at you. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of acknowledging your demons, making better decisions, recognizing individual motives, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Within each one of us, lies untapped potential waiting to be unleashed. Most men go to their graves without realizing that potential. My guest today, strong man, Chris Duffin, is not one of those men. And, he's encouraging you how to unlock what has been dormant for so long in his book The Eagle and the Dragon. Today, we talk about what the eagle and the dragon signify in ourselves, stepping into fear and confrontation, how to differentiate between functional and dysfunctional relationships, the pursuit of purpose, and, embracing strength and reinvention. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Over-leveraging yourself Understanding your why Adapting to stress Creating space and margin Separating from your environment Purposeful action Counterproductive people Forming the world around you Pro-activity Reaching into the unknown Becoming a pillar of strength CHRIS DUFFIN My guest today is a man who, for many of you listening, needs no introduction. He's been on the podcast before – roughly three years ago. But with his new book coming out, The Eagle and the Dragon, Chris and I thought it would be good to sit down for a revisit. He's one of the strongest men on the planet but he's also an incredible thinker and in his new book, he illustrates his, interesting childhood and how he raised himself from those conditions to be successful as a businessman, family man, and strong man. I can't wait to share this one with you today. LEGACY A couple of years ago, I recognized a need to give men the tools and resources they needed to secure their legacy in their sons. With so much misinformation in the world about how to raise our boys, it's critical that we, as fathers, do the best job possible for the challenges they're likely to face. That's why we started Legacy, a powerful 3 ½ day event for you and your son between the ages of 8 -15. During the course of this incredible experience, both you and your son will be tested physically, mentally, and emotionally. And you'll both be equipped with the tools needed for your boy to transition to a self-sufficient man in a society that, frankly, doesn't want him to. And, you'll forge deeper bonds through a series of events and experiences unlike any other. If you want to learn more about what this experience holds and lock in one of the 11 remaining spots for our June 11th – 14th experience, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share seven books that even man should read for a newfound perspective in life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss co-parenting children, displaying signs of respect, becoming worthy of fulfillment and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Adversity is absolutely something all men deal with. So, what separates those who crumble in the face of it and those who rise up? That's exactly what my guest, former Navy SEAL Jason Redman, is here to talk with me about today. In today's conversation, we cover his incredible journey from being badly wounded from an enemy bullet through the face and arm to an incredibly successful business owner and public speaker. We also cover how to discover your purpose, build up mental fortitude and resilience, compete with the most successful people on the planet, and, ultimately, how to crush adversity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Developing mental scripts Getting ambushed in life The React Methodology Enduring discomfort Hitting rock bottom Playing the victim Living in denial Reflecting on mistakes Embracing hardships A better version of your new self Fighting for your life JASON REDMAN Gentlemen, I'm honored to introduce you to my guest today, former Navy SEAL and friend Jason Redman. He spent 11 years as a Navy SEAL and was badly wounded on the battlefield in Iraq where he earned the Bronze Star Medal with Valor, Navy Commendation Medal, and Purple Heart among other medals and acknowledgments. After retiring from the military in 2013 he went on to found a non-profit called Wounded Wear which provides tailored clothing for wounded warriors. And, in addition to that, he's written several books about his experience in combat as a leader on the battlefield and is a New York Times Bestselling Author. Today, he is here to share his lessons from battle. LEGACY I've got to a point in my life (especially since I'm a father) that what will remain long after I'm gone has become important to me. And, I'm sure if you're a father, you feel the same way. And, as a father, the lessons and experiences you share with your son are critically important to you. That is why we started the Legacy Experience. It's a 3 ½ day event in Maine designed to give you the tools, framework, and guide to usher your son into manhood. In the face of society's confusion about masculinity and manliness, it's critical that we, as our son's fathers, teach them the truth about the path from boy to man. Over the course of 3 days, you and your son will be tested physically, mentally, and emotionally and given the opportunity to forge deeper bonds between you and him. To lock in one of the ten spots remaining, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share with you five ways to be more prepared and avoid exposing yourself to vulnerable situations. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of spontaneity with your spouse, upholding standards, overcoming life's hurdles, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Keeping yourself and others safe and secure is a huge part of what it means to be a man. It falls under the "Protection" trifecta of our role and responsibilities as men. That's the reason having conversations like I do today with James Yeager is so crucial.It seems to me too many men believe we'll naturally rise to the situation when it is demanded from us. But without the proper training, we're likely to find ourselves wanting and in dangerous situations and encounters. We'd all do well to remember that we don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Planning for the unexpected A lack of motivation Walking with purpose Mastering the sword Yin & Yang of man Using guns to save How to avoid being "picked" Passing the smell test Natural point-of-aim Knowing what to look for Gear vs. Skill Dealing with intimidation Systems & procedures JAMES YEAGER Gentlemen, I'm so honored to be able to introduce you to James Yeager. This is a fascinating man and someone who is uniquely and extremely competent and qualified to talk about keeping yourself and others safe and secure. He is the CEO of Tactical Response, a tactical training company and his resume consists of two protective security details to Iraq, Chief of Police, K-9 handler, Deputy Sheriff, SWAT leader, Firearms instructor, and VP of a multi-million dollar tactical gear company.I could go on and on but suffice it to say that there aren't many, if any, more qualified individuals to talk with us about turning ourselves into the protectors our families and communities need us to be. IRON COUNCIL Over the past 5 years, I've really considered what it is a lot of men are missing and what I've seen in a lot of men is a lack of brotherhood. Most men seem to be going at life alone. We've all head the idea of the lone wolf and while I can understand that a man has to learn to make it on his own, having men who have my back, call me on my B.S., and support me has proven to be some of the most valuable relationships I've created.But doing that can be difficult with a demanding schedule and a lack of men who want to grow and evolve the same way you do. And that is the exact reason we created the Iron Council. It's a band of brothers (500+ of us) who have voluntarily decided that banding together is more powerful than going at it alone.Each week, we host calls and discussions, check-in for accountability, challenge ourselves to push outside of our comfort zones, call each other out, support, edify, and uplift.And, if you feel that might be of value to you in your life, we'd be honored to have you see if there is a fit for both us and you. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and claim your seat in the brotherhood. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share with you how to make better decisions using the OODA Loop. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of elevating others, investing in yourself, taking personal ownership, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

If you're anything like me, when you were a kid you had dreams of becoming an elite warrior or a NASA Astronaut – maybe both. My guest today is a man that took those dreams and is making them a reality.His name is Mario Romero. He's a former Navy SEAL, NASA Diver, and aspiring NASA Astronaut and he's here today to talk about what that path looks like, his struggles along the way, failures and setbacks, his path to redemption, and how he's a man who is currently living out every boy's dreams. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Going Beyond Pluto Every kid's dream The frontier of space Spacewalking Dark matter detection Pursuing fulfillment Interrogating nature Discovering new information Science in America Growing up in poverty Leaving the SEAL teams A downward spiral Building relevancy Studying astronomy Predetermined destiny Being courageous Rewriting a new path in life Getting into NASA Returning to the moon MARIO ROMERO As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Mario Romero. He spent over 8 years as a Navy SEAL and, upon leaving the Teams, he enrolled in college and achieved his Bachelor's Degree in Pure Mathematics from Columbia University.And, to add to that, over the past year he has been working with NASA as a NASA Diver preparing both the technology and astronauts for the demands and rigors of space travel.He's had a ton of ups and downs along his path and, despite his tremendous success in life, he's one of the most humble individuals I've had the honor of sitting down with. IRON COUNCIL You've likely heard of the philosophy of Stoicism. You've probably even read Marcus Aurelius' book, Meditations and/or Ryan Holiday's The Obstacle is the Way, Ego is the Enemy, and Stillness is Key.And, if you're interested in incorporating the teachings of the ancient Stoics in your life, I want to invite you to join the Iron Council as that is what we'll be talking about for the entire month of November.We've got the tools and resources to help you take a concept/philosophy and actually implement it in your life for better results in your marriage and career. We don't want to just talk about what it means to be a Stoic, we want to apply it for the betterment of ourselves and others. If you're interested and want to learn more, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share with you the perfect way to start and end your day. I've provided an outline below for my daily morning and evening routine. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Morning Routine: 0530 - Wake Up Drink Water Stretch 0600 - Physical Training 0715 - Scripture Study/Family Meeting 0830 - Daily Planning 0900 - Take Action Evening Routine: 1700 - Recap Day 2130 - Read 2155 - Check Plan for Tomorrow 2200 - Bed No Caffeine 4 Hours Before No Electronics Before Dark, Cool, and Comfortable Sleeping Arrangements Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Men, I'm fielding questions today without Kipp Sorensen. I'll be discussing the importance of physical intimacy, financial accountability, making prudent decisions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store