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Needless to say, there has been a tremendous amount of turmoil and division in America over the past several years. This isn't new in the history of the United States but it seems to me that we, as citizens, are more divided than we've ever been on a myriad of issues from foreign policy, to COVID restrictions and mandates, to gun legislation and healthcare, and everywhere in between. And, my guest today has a lot to say about these issues and more. And, not ironically, I'm sure people will be very divided on this conversation as well. His name is Representative Dan Crenshaw, a former Navy SEAL and Representative for the state of Texas. Today, we discuss the new COVID measures announced by President Biden last week, foreign affairs and the threat of terrorism (including everything happening in Afghanistan right now), why our emotional responses to these issues are getting us into trouble and putting us in danger, and why we all need to be more informed rather than ignorant on the most pressing issues of today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Discussing the government response to COVID Balancing being empathetic with being rational Why get into politics and how does it change people Thoughts on leaving Afghanistan - what is an acceptable cost? Most people have not known war for 20 years, they have known peace Biden got lucky that the Taliban took over so quickly The proper way to look at healthcare We need more confidence in our arguments Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how to find opportunity through hardship. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Start thinking about the long term - what/who are you going to create? What do you need in order to make it a reality - who do you need to become? Start formulating plan - what is your strategy for getting there? Get to work. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is flying solo and answering the week's top questions from Order of Man's exclusive brotherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 3:26 How do you be present and honest with yourself? 8:30 Do you ever wonder if you are taking everything too seriously? 15:00 What tips can you provide for uprooting the family to a new state? 18:12 How would you recommend turning a daily objective into a tangible task that you know you're making progress in? 24:00 Are there any activities or exercises you practice in order to become more resilient in preparation for future challenges? 26:10 What are your strategies for instilling self-confidence in your kids? 32:16 Within the household, do men need to lead in every scenario or are there some areas where women should lead? 38:50 How do you know when your Battle Plan or goals are pushing you hard enough versus pushing too hard in one area? 45:30 Did your wife always work out and take care of herself? 51:00 For men who are trying to break free from pornography, why is it important for them to actively be part of an accountability group and report successes and failures? 57:14 What Jiu-jitsu Gi do you wear and what do you recommend for beginners? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Increasingly, it seems to be that we're losing much of the common sense that we, collectively, once possessed. Common sense has been replaced with quick sounds bites, "clapbacks" on social media, and manufactured outraged designed to drive clicks and capture eyeballs and attention. But my guest today is using his voice, social media, and any other platform available to share his common sense, rational approach to some of the world's most pressing concerns. His name is Zuby and I know many of you are already very familiar with his work. Today, we talk about the dangers of tribalism, the motives and intentions of our government overlords and elites, how to have real conversations that actually drive change, why empathy is crucial in dialogue, and how to recapture common sense in uncommon times. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: You can only do so much thinking by yourself There are three ways to solve any conflict Effective communication is a super power We're all susceptible to group think What it means to live in a free society Fear and anxiety shuts down rational thinking The importance of understanding the perspectives of other people Focus the conversation on where we agree, rather than disagree Don't fall for media propaganda The bias is often hidden in what people "don't" say Being wrong is different than lying Everybody is a moral monster to someone else Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses three steps to help you turn your vision into reality. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Dream big but work small Focused variety Honor the journey Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss Kipp's newly-awarded black belt and dig into your questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 11:24 Do you address topics, such as transgenderism, feminism, etc., with your children? If so, how? 19:24 How have you found success with creating your schedule and sticking to it when you are the only person holding yourself accountable? 25:14 How do you maintain discipline and consistency when working on self-improvement? 38:14 For someone who is recently divorced with children, what advice do you have for dating women and finding the right partner? 46:10 How does one battle moral beliefs with work mandates? Is it different if your employer is the military? 51:40 What are some good forms of discipline for children? 1:00:44 How do I deal with disapproval (or "hatred") from the parents of the girl I am dating? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Gentlemen, I cannot tell you how stoked I am to have my guest on today, Mr. Michael Chandler. If you're not already familiar with who he is, Chandler is a three-time Bellator MMA Champion who only recently made his debut in the UFC after long-time speculation of him making the switch to UFC. On top of all of that, Michael is a devoted family man and we spent about half of our conversation talking about what it means for him to be a husband and father. We also cover overcoming a very public loss, why every man ought to bet on himself, three traps to avoid when on the losing side of the equation, Chandler's upcoming fight in November, and the conflicting aspirations of being a family man and fighter. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Being selfish in training so you can be selfless with your family Grinding until we're 50 Anticipating and avoiding regret The importance of making your partner the best person they can be In relationships, it all comes down to communication Taking chances on yourself What do you do when you fall short Be your authentic self Praying for wisdom and discernment Success not perfection We follow people because they are willing to take chances Fighting for a living, while living a Christian life The importance of having a long term perspective Embracing the process should be the goal Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how the OODA loop can help us make better decisions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The OODA Loop and decision making Observe - Where are you currently and what exactly do you want? Orient - What are the steps that it will take to get me there? Decide - Make a decision. Act - Put it into action…then start back at "Observe" Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen sit down together at Origin's Jiu-Jitsu Immersion Camp to tackle the hottest questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 6:00 What's going on with Ryan's belt? 7:12 Gi or no Gi? 16:00 Do you have any advice for men just starting out in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 12:45 How long has Kip been cycling? How does this benefit you, mentally or physically, compared to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 36:00 What is the relationship between assertiveness and confidence, and tips to grow both? 42:00 Before going into a business partnership with a friend, what are some things you should agree on or should you avoid it altogether? 48:00 Who are your heroes? 55:30 Do you think that the "multiverse" argument is lazy? 59:00 What is your favorite podcast interview you've ever done and why? 1:03:00 How can we be present with our flaws and how can we turn them into advantages? 1:04:45 What can I do to help save siblings from having a victimhood mindset? 1:10:06 What is your advice on getting over being quiet and reserved in public? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Frankly, gents, I don't even know what to say about this conversation. It was a powerful discussion from a man who has been through hell and back to fight for not only who he is as a man but as a father of his children. His name is Greg Ellis and, although you may not recognize his name, you have definitely seen him on the Silver Screen. Today we talk about the true purpose of vulnerability, why social media should be called "anti-social media," the crisis of meaning that modern society is facing, and why fatherhood is in the crosshairs. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Using social media as a tool Appreciating art, literature, and sports We are not entitled to success Drawing inspiration from challenge Society devaluing the "male" The importance of an earned merit system Competition versus cooperation The most influential person gets to establish and enforce the rules Don't count your victory while the game is still being played We have to let kids deal with their own hardship Boys raised with a dad tend to be more purpose driven The value of "empowerment feminism" The inequality of the equality movement We need to challenge moral hypocrisy Getting set for part 2 of the conversation Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the five steps to being present and how presence will help you achieve maximum success in every area of your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Five key elements of being present in the moment and how it can serve you effectively: Focus Curiosity Humility Mastery Objectivity Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss Ryan's take on Afghanistan and tackle your hottest questions from the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 10:20 What are healthy ways that men can process sadness without feeling weak? 14:40 What areas should men focus on to render themselves obsolete and prepare children to leave the house? 28:10 What is the next step for Order of Man as a whole? 38:40 What is the number one indicator of guys being successful within the Iron Council (and life)? 45:55 How do you realign your goals, halfway through the year, to finish the year strong? 50:20 How do you find a healthy balance between "me time" and "family time?" 52:20 What does "transition" mean when transitioning from military to civilian or from one career to another? 59:50 How can you gauge if you are a "warrior" if your mettle has never been tested? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Every one of us intuitively knows that getting stronger is the right thing to do. It quite literally improves every facet of our lives from the influence we can develop with others, to the energy needed to build a business, and the stamina and mental fortitude needed to raise and lead a family. Why, then, do so many men slack in this department? My guest, Sal Di Stefano, and I talk about that today. He is an expert in strength training and the author of The Resistance Training Revolution. We discuss the chronic health issues of today's modern man, cardio vs. strength training, developing testosterone naturally, the traits of admirable men, and how to burn fat and get stronger. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why men are not doing what they know they should be doing What resistance training is…and IS NOT Understanding calories and how our bodies adapt Why it makes sense to "get jacked" You have to enjoy or at least value the process All forms of activity, if applied appropriately, have value Longevity and resistance training Resistance training and increasing testosterone The "alphas" are the ones who could lay the smack down but don't The effect of resistance training on political views Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down what to do and what not to do when going through a separation or divorce. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS DO's Train your body Learn a new skill Develop a new hobby Start a side business Build new male friendships Participate in a physical challenge Get your financial affairs in order Get involved in a charity DO NOT's Do not drink your sorrows away Do not get lost in pornography Do not stalk her Do not sleep with a bunch of women Do not seek vengeance Do not end your life Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take your questions from Facebook and discuss why every man should consider himself "awesome." Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 11:20 What do you think is the source of apprehension in men surrounding counseling? 20:40 How do I develop more influence over my daughter, who is in college? 24:20 What have you learned from starting and leading the Order of Man movement? 40:40 What are some ways we can hold elected officials accountable? 44:30 How do you get through to kids who have decided that they are "trans" or non-binary? 56:20 What is your opinion on leading entry-level workers? 01:03:00 What is the number one indicator of success with guys in the Iron Council? 01:10:40 When you F up, what are your tactics for continuing on and making amends; specifically, how to deal with feelings of failure? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

I had the opportunity to visit with Representative Madison Cawthorn with my family in DC last week and, let me tell you, it did not disappoint. We got a chance to tour the Capitol Building and get a small glimpse inside the world of politics and DC. But we also had the chance to sit down in his office and throw down the podcast you're about to listen to. We talk about the world of politics, why, while politics is fast-paced, very little seems to get accomplished on the Hill, how we as men can be informed without immersing ourselves in the political arena and theater that comes with it, the world of outrage, and, at the end of the day, what we as men need to do to keep this country on track. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Most politicians come to DC with noble intentions Its important (and fun) to play the political game Term limits on congress Values-based rather than issue-based representation How to avoid corruption while being surrounded by it Don't be defined by your challenges Working with people you don't like The balance between speaking in a bold way and avoiding extremism Using a lack of a filter as strategy The benefits of surrounding yourself with people who will call you out Disappointment is the most challenging thing about being in DC What is the political leadership doing right? Time for the silent majority to wake up A term limit bill that actually has a chance Eliminating federal income tax Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the four things men should do to become less dependent on their employer. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Become a master networker Have ZERO debt Create multiple income streams Produce more than you consume Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen celebrate Ryan being freed from Instagram jail (for now), answering your hottest questions from the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 7:12 Who is your current dream guest? 9:40 Do you think political views within a relationship need to be similar for the relationship to work? 16:50 Do you have advice for husbands whose wife is struggling with postpartum depression? 23:30 What are your thoughts on the man who gained an elected position in prison? Is this the sign of a healthy or failed justice system? Healthy or failed democracy? 29:00 What are a few things (and the most important thing) that you've done to improve your relationship with your wife? 33:40 Do you think I should get off social media? 37:50 Is there a tipping point in our country's slide toward socialism when you would consider leaving? If so, where would you go? 40:00 Do you feel there is a direct connection between feminism and the divorce rate in the US? 52:20 In a world of men who are afraid to make mistakes or fail, what are some quantifiable ramifications of passivity and being quiet to avoid confrontation? 59:55 What is one good strategy to deal with overcoming distractions? 1:07:40 When you've felt like a failure or if you've dealt with depression, how did you handle that mentally and use it as a tool to motivate you and not depress you even more? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Our innate pursuit of comfort is the enemy of achievement and, yet, we've failed collectively to keep our biological hardwiring to seek the path of least resistance in check. Why is that? Why is it that we know we should seek discomfort yet find it so difficult to do? That's the topic of my conversation today with Michael Easter, the author of The Comfort Crisis. Today, Michael and I discuss the damage of helicopter and "snow plow" parenting, the psychological programming that keeps us from achievement, the concept of Mysogi and embracing annual challenges, how a healthy relationship with death keeps people fulfilled, and ultimately what you can do to overcome the Comfort Crisis that permeates every fabric of society. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Life really isn't that hard Parents seeking guidance from, rather thank giving guidance to, their kids Snow plow parenting Measuring happiness The value in considering your own death Challenges are required for true happiness Finding the balance between seeking comfort and challenging ourselves Why do we need to exercise How do we push ourselves mentally and emotionally The benefits and drawbacks of routine Finding value in boredom Put your ego aside: try to suck at something Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men need to stop swinging for the fence and just try to get on base. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Men constantly swing for the fence, trying to get the results without putting in the work. Wins should not be defined by the outcome, they should be defined by the process - the results will take care of themselves. Write down small wins, experience big results. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen battle through technical issues and travel fatigue to tackle some of Instagram's hottest questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 6:10 Do you think its a duty for men to train our minds and bodies to protect the people we hold dear? 7:20 How can you make sure you are investing enough time in family? 10:00 What are some ideas for 'rights of passage' for becoming a man? 11:30 Any tips for maintaining a consistent workout routine after having a baby? 14:00 What is one skill you wish you had but you do not? 17:00 What are some recommendations for a beginner archery hunting bow? 21:40 Have you ever thought of competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 23:30 What are some book recommendations for my ten-year-old son? 24:45 Who would you recommend to follow on Instagram? 26:15 When starting a business, do you prefer to take out a small business loan or find an investor? 31:00 Are there certain liberal values you wish the right would adopt? 32:50 Do you ever make the mindset shift to depend more on God and release high self expectations? 36:25 What do you do when your profession no longer aligns with your values? 40:14 Do you have any thoughts on bad selfishness and how to stop thinking about myself above other people's needs? 43:50 What is one good strategy to overcome and deal with distractions? 47:12 What metrics do you use to personally track your success? 53:35 Are there any good podcasts that speak more to the mom's role on raising a boy into a man? 58:20 How do you strive to maintain balance in your life on a daily basis as stressors grow and kids/family/work are introduced? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

My guest today needs no introduction. Most of you might know him as Survivorman. His name is Les Stroud and he is a legend in the nature, wildlife, and survival communities (for good reason). Now, I thought we'd be talking all about survival strategies and techniques today but we immediately took the conversation deeper and covered everything from our disagreements on the Boys Scouts new rules allowing girls, why women tend to be better survivalists and what gets in men's way, our responsibility to contribute to society and the 3 ways we can, what the "joy of completion" means and how to harness it, and how to become our own survivorman in every facet of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why women tend to perform better in certain survival situations How ego gets in a mans way in a survival situation Value of women being included in Boy Scouts The importance of adult male mentorship to young males How to overcome the lack of early mentorship as a young man The benefits and drawbacks of having a chip on your shoulder How canoeing lead Les to what he is doing today The importance of the "joy of completion" The benefits of connecting with nature The joy of teaching kids Why failure is a great teacher The importance of giving your kids realistic expectations If you want to learn how to better communicate with your peers, wife, kids, friends, neighbors, and strangers, join us inside the Iron Council this month. ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses facilitating personal growth by creating environments where you can suffer - physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS In light of life being relatively easy, we must deliberately and intentionally create hardship for ourselves in controlled environments Manufacturing hardship is not about playing the victim card In your training, choose the path of MOST resistance Distinguish between sources of fear: "is this going to kill me" or "is this just going to make me uncomfortable" Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss how single men can positively impact fatherless boys, how to hold the line after past failures, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 5:20 What made you choose Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu over any other martial art? Can someone get the same lessons elsewhere? 12:32 Have you ever used BJJ outside of the gym in a real world situation? 22:30 How can a single man can effectively invest in the lives of fatherless boys? 25:40 How do you identify the shit test from your wife and kids and what are some ways to start laying a line without being an ass? 36:40 What investment books do you recommend? 42:00 How do you draw a distinction between the desire to advance and grow in your work and career and the biblical mandate to be content with where you are? 52:20 What are your opinions on the effects of the housing shortage on millennials? 59:45 Do you have a recommendation for a book or a podcast on setting boundaries? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

My guest today is none other than Rickson Gracie, the son of Helio Gracie (the man who developed Brazilin Jiu-Jitsu). Rickson is a 9th degree red belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and a mixed martial artist. He was widely considered to be the best fighter of the Gracie clan and one of the toughest individuals in the world. He's been training since he was six, received his black belt by 18, and subsequently went on to be undefeated in his professional fight career. He is also the author of his upcoming book, Breathe: A Life in Flow, the subject of the documentary, Choke, and the upcoming Netflix Documentary called Dead or Alive. Needless to say, this man knows as much about Jiu-Jitsu (if not more than) as any other as any other man on the planet and I'm honored to have him here today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Jiu-Jitsu is more mental than physical How does warrior mindset in Jiu-Jitsu translate to improving in other areas of life Respect for the Gracie name and art of Jiu-Jitsu Finding value from external pressure Responding to critics and those who challenge the effectiveness of the art Learning about ourselves through challenges Successful men don't dabble Code of honor Finding your purpose through service Gentleness versus violence in the art Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the seven pitfalls to avoid if you want to find more fulfillment and satisfaction in your relationship. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. #1 Ditching your friends, hobbies, or activities for her #2 Clamming up #3 Failing to establish boundaries #4 Not showing interest in her interests #5 Stop courting your wife #6 Undermining your own credibility #7 Improving yourself for the wrong reasons Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are finally back together. In the midst of increasing censorship, we hope this episode makes it to you, as Ryan and Kipp tackle some of this week's most thought provoking questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 3:57 - What are your thoughts on UFC 264? 10:00 - Do you have any tips on how to get a clear mind and prioritize things? Is there a process you use to do this? 17:00 - How do you battle plan for a day when you are on vacation? 23:00 - Do you have any tricks for not getting exhausted or burnt out while working a job and trying to build a business? 27:46 - When starting a new job or working to build a stronger network, is it wise to allow new friendships to begin or focus on getting rid of those I don't want in my circle first? 31:40 - What is your favorite wild game recipe? 34:40 - How do I prepare my 6-year-old for football? 37:10 - When should we build our new home? 40:42 - What is your favorite way to drink coffee? 42:08 - What techniques do you use to compartmentalize stress? 48:46 - How does pornography affect marriage? 56:00 - How can I help a friend who won't help himself? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week.

Brandon Tatum is a former All-American football player, police officer, and now, political commentator. He is also the author of the upcoming book, Beaten Black and Blue which chronicles his time as a police officer and the tensions between police officers and the public. Today, we talk about why the terms "white privilege" and "toxic masculinity" don't paint an accurate picture of what's going on in society, America's place and position on the world stage, the power and undermining of the nuclear family, the modern male's role in society, the truth behind Marxist movements (including BLM). SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Creating unnecessary division Using words to trigger emotion The proliferation of porn and sex Using language to manipulate The privilege of having a father Being an All-American athlete Growing up around violence Taking life in a new direction Creating your own reality The never-ending lie of racism Contributing everything to God Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares seven points to help maintain your frame as a man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 People will work against you #2 Evaluate other people's motives #3 Establish, communicate, and uphold boundaries #4 Disengage or defend your position #5 Stop unnecessary emotion #6 Maintain the long-term perspective #7 Eliminate your ego Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

ASK ME ANYTHING is a weekly show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. In this week's episode, Ryan Michler discusses rekindling the sexual fire, dealing with a narcissistic mother-in-law, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1:53 What are the best strategies to pay down debt? 6:15 Can science help develop us as men? 7:30 Can you reframe a relationship and the dynamic between a man and woman? 13:00 How can I create a rite of passage for my children? 15:00 How do you help others take responsibility for their own lives? 18:05 How do you deal with a narcissist mother-in-law? 21:47 How do I rekindle the sexual fire after kids? 25:25 Why have you stopped asking what it means to be a man? 28:59 Can you do too much self-development and neglect other areas in your life? 34:55 How do explain to your kids about the true meaning of the 4th of July? 37:33 What point would you give up a relationship after you're the one to always make the effort with no reciprocity? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

If you turn on the news or any social media apps, you're likely to be met with a myriad of fantastic headlines, the latest political scandal, racial tensions, violence, or any number of issues these outlets use to get our attention. Of course, most of this is exaggerated to get us worked up without providing any real solutions to some of the issues that actually exist. My guest today, Suresh Madhaven, and I begin to break down some of these issues and work towards unpacking and discussing solutions rather than focus on the outrage that is used against us. We talk about the importance of men's rites of passages, breaking down the concept of systemic racism, crying wolf on the real issues, movements against masculinity, and the role of men in a fatherless society. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A boy's coming-of-age Defining systemic racism The term "white privilege" The real victims of racism The greatest lie being told The lack of police training Steps to avoid the police Framework to live your life Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the origin of Order of Man and four lessons he learned along the way. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 Humble Yourself #2 Pursue Your Interests #3 Don't Burn The Boat #4 Minimum Viable Product Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen is flying solo and shares his insight into man's most pressing questions. Follow Order of Man on Instagram at @orderofman and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:50 What has it been like to work with Ryan and Order of Man? 7:40 How can a man stay vigilant and protect his family when out in public? 10:15 Is there a problem with overthinking things? 16:40 How can I as a nephew help my uncle who's battling with depression? 19:46 Why do most men prefer to drink beer than get out in nature? 21:15 How can I get my autistic children more active and away from video games? 25:15 What are some steps to put ego in check? 31:03 Can you recommend a book other than the ones you guys always recommend? 33:30 How do you help people take responsibility for their lives? 35:50 What should I consider before joining the Iron Council? 39:02 What is the best way to build on a victory? 40:50 Do you focus on a promotion or side hustle? 43:50 How can one keep intentions pure when we have so many desires? 49:50 Can you touch on radical acceptance of things we cannot control? 52:06 Is there such a thing as too much honesty? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

We've all heard people say, "You've got to pay your dues" or the concept of the 10,000-hour rule. But what if it didn't have to be that way? What if you could skip the line, so to speak, and accelerate the results of your life while everyone else stands in line simply waiting for their turn. That's what my guest today, the one and only James Altucher, and I discuss – how to use the concept of 10,000 experiments, not 10,000 hours. We talk about why "stay in your lane" is bad advice, how to become the top 1% in your field much more efficiently, how to become an idea-generating machine, harnessing the power of "idea sex," and how to creatively add value to others so you can win faster. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of good storytelling Why you should NOT stay in your lane Caring what the right people think The Concept of 10,000 hours The upside of experimenting Dividing your skills into micro-skills How to generate new ideas Finding and creating new opportunities How to never run out of ideas Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares five tips to help you navigate the challenging evolution of marriage. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 Establish realistic expectations #2 Be vigilant in your marriage #3 Continue to foster growth #4 Be effective in your communication #5 Keep the spark alive Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Ryan Michler is back with your weekly ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1:25 How do you look at risk vs. reward? 5:44 What is a rite of passage example? 9:25 Have you ever considered doing a father/daughter Legacy event? 12:37 What does it mean to be a man? 20:05 What's the greatest challenge to building a band of brothers? 24:40 Any advice for stepdads? 26:33 How do you know when to pivot into something different? 30:28 What would you say as a speaker at a high school graduation? 33:45 Is there a protocol to follow when you have too many options? 36:33 Are meat bags for hunting nothing more than extra strong trash bags? 37:49 Is being told to "suck it up" good advice for a man? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Today, I am joined by Dr. Brian Ray, one of the world's foremost authorities on home-based education and the founder of the National Home Education Research Institute. We cover a broad range of topics here including the stigmas around "homeschooling," common misconceptions like lack of socialization and parents being unqualified to educate, where and why the world started to move away from schooling at home, the threats to homeschooling, and ultimately why all families, at a minimum, should consider home-based education. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Throwing out the word "homeschooling" Giving children too much authority Using your wisdom to lead children Common homeschool objections Treating children like cattle Conflict management and kids Empowering kids to have a voice A father's moral obligation The practical application to life The pitfalls to avoid in homeschooling Living a life without social media Getting on board with home education Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares personal insight into one of his greatest challenges when it comes to ambition and success. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Ryan Michler is running solo again in this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:06 Why is there so much controversy when speaking about men presiding in the home? 5:00 Advice on pursuing a passion career or a career that pays well? 7:18 When do you allow your son to go off on his own at an early age? 9:50 How do you implement information read from books? 12:48 What is the greatest learned from doing a podcast? 15:10 What's the best way to give my wife a break with a newborn? 17:12 Where did you get the plans for your canoe? 18:55 Have you ever been on vacation in Florida? 22:19 Where do you see the legal institution of marriage? 25:06 Is it a good idea to get tested from Low T at a young age? 26:29 Tips for a young man looking to be a homeowner. 29:47 How can I get my wife on board with overhauling our finance? 32:40 How can I build mental toughness and resilience? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Most of you are probably aware of Matthew McConaughey and his new book, Greenlights. I'll admit, I was a bit hesitant to read the book myself (I explain why to Matthew in this podcast), but after hearing from enough people that I had to read it, I decided to pick up a copy and, let me tell you, it did not disappoint. So, when I had the opportunity to have Matthew join me on the podcast, I jumped at the chance. We talk about many important topics in this conversation and really hit on fatherhood as we're approaching Father's Day. We also discuss the power of being the underdog, reinventing yourself, the value of sacrifice, taking our fathers off pedestals they don't belong, and the concept and benefit of greenlights. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Gambling and investing in yourself Having the choice to be a victim Putting your father on a pedestal Rituals and initiations with your child Living in complacency and comfort Why American needs a civics class The value of playing the long game Course correcting your children Realizing that you're immortal Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares practical lessons he and his son (Brecken Michler) learned while building a canoe. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 You don't need to know it all #2 Move slow and methodical #3 Some things still suck #4 Afford yourself some grace #5 Let the future fuel you Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are back to their usual shenanigans. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 7:15 How do you come up with ideas for Friday Field Notes? 14:07 How did you handle imposter syndrome when starting out? 20:35 What's the best way to get out of a slump? 32:46 How do you overcome childhood trauma? 35:23 Why do people complain about life? 40:24 Is it important for men to be dangerous? 45:48 What are your thoughts on the recent UFO sighting released by the government? 48:43 What personal development resources exist for children? 1:03:24 What is the best book for rebuilding yourself? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Personal combat isn't something that most of us are likely to engage in any time soon but with seemingly increasing threats such as rioting, looting, home invasions, and active shooter situations, your ability to administer violence might just save your life and the lives of the people you care about. That's why I really enjoy my conversations with my guest today, Clint Emerson. He has made a career and life out of understanding violence and how to use it effectively. And, in his new book, 100 Deadly Skills: Combat Edition, he breaks down basic combat skills every man ought to learn and become proficient in. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Learning to fight from a book Training from all directions Turning on the violence Life or death scenarios Setting yourself up for the win Where confidence derives from The perishable skills of fighting Mastering the fundamentals Forcing yourself to get better How to keep yourself functioning Human performance centers Training for the gaps in your fitness Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler addresses the greatest threat to civilization, a lack of engaged, capable, and righteous fathers. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Let the fire off the leash Curiosity is a virtue Exhaust your boys Reward the action Connect the dots Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler attempts to answer your questions and solve society's most pressing issues (Without Kipp Sorensen). Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How do you become more focused on tasks when you're so busy? All men are created equal vs. social equity? How did you learn to start a business? What are your sales numbers for your mercy store per month? Are you familiar with the work of Dr. Moore? What was the pivotal movement where things started to go downhill with society? What is your favorite clean eating snack for health and fitness? Do you have any hints for cultivating patience? Aggressive Patience How would you deal with being disrespected by a coach as an athlete? How do you inspire the younger generation to be all they can be? What are your non-negotiable? How do you win back an ex when she claims to have moved on? How can a foreigner join the U.S. Army? How can one gauge a successful outcome when relocating out of state for new opportunities? How do you encourage kids to follow in the family business? Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review

Most of you guys know that I don't listen to a ton of music but if there's one music artist you'll catch me listening to more than anyone else, it's my guest today, Cody Jinks. He's got such an interesting style but, more than that, he's a fascinating man and it was an honor to have the chance to talk with him. Today, we talk about where his style comes from, bucking the trends of pop culture, his transition back to work in the wake of the COVID response, what it's like to perform in front of thousands, overcoming nervousness, and striking the balance between inspiration and responsibility. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Balancing family and life Giving everything you've got Getting burned out Growing up in a small town Leaving behind a legacy Dealing with anxiety Working with creative people Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 7 tips, strategies to help when life has you down. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Strategy #1: Get your ass out of bed Strategy #2: Put the right information in your mind Strategy #3: Get around good people Strategy #4: Get exercise your body Strategy #5: Make yourself the project Strategy #6: Commit to a cause Strategy #7: Serve other people Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review

Join Ryan Michler for another ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What's one piece of advice for a first-time father that I won't hear anywhere else? What are three non-negotiable rules for building a successful podcast? What are your thoughts on building a business with little to no money? What will the world look like in 20 years? How does one choose a career or business to get into? If Order of Man didn't exist today, what would you be doing? What have you done to motivate yourself when you hit rock bottom? How can one prepare for a career change when there's so many unknowns? Do you have a current coach or mentor that you regularly meet? What advice would you give to a teenage boy? How do you get on the same page as your spouse? How do you combat the growing woke culture in a blue collar economy? Do you have scientific resources that suggest you should or should not take the vaccine? How can I be more a capable man when protecting my family and dealing with an illness? How can I get others to see that I'm working on myself? When speaking with a woke liberal, what subject could be common ground? Do you think the technology that we utilize is good or a hindrance? Militare or college? What's your favorite pizza topping? What do you use to motivate yourself when you wake up feeling like crap? How can you encourage kids to follow in the family business? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Men, I wanted to do something special today as next Monday is Memorial day and, after serving time in the military myself, I know how crucial it is that we remember our fallen warriors and honor the ultimate sacrifice they made to protect and preserve our way of life. So, I invited my friend and the youngest living Medal of Honor Recipient, Kyle Carpenter, back on the podcast to talk about his military service, transitioning from the military, and ultimately living a life worthy of the sacrifices of so many. If you don't know Kyle's story, he was as close to death as one person could be after jumping on a live grenade in Afghanistan to save his fellow Marines. All I ask is that you have a listen and stop sometime this week to think about how you are living your life and the millions of men and women who have died so that you can. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/330 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares five tips, strategies to help you create your own inspiring and profitable movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Tip #1 Just get started Tip #2 Don't knock off others Tip #3 Know your lines Tip #4 Don't quit Tip #5 Experiment Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review