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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE keys to recapturing control of your emotions and why that is so important. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Realize that you have inherent worth because you are a human You are responsible for your own emotions Confidence is earned Begin to objectify your emotions Dial in your physical health Join the Iron Council brotherhood Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (8:30) What is your favorite Christmas tradition? Why is it valuable to have traditions in your life? (16:00) What are your plans and projections for 2023? (18:20) What do you teach your son when he comes home with his first busted lip? (22:00) Do you ever get inspired for a podcast topic from a comment that is made in the Facebook group? (24:00) How do we rectify philosophy and rational thought with the new age idea of fulfillment? (32:00) Any tips on how to keep myself from stressing out too much when dealing with medical uncertainties regarding my son? (39:30) After being hurt by previous social/church groups, who disbanded during COVID, I no longer want to participate in these types of groups. We have moved to a new location and my wife wants me to get involved in or start new groups. How should I deal with this? (49:00) How do I create resilience in my 3-year-old daughter? (56:00) Did you battle imposter syndrome on your journey to success? (1:08:50) What advice should I give my son when he only seems to care about working, drinking and camping? Should I care or just let him take care of his own life? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Men, as you're thinking about your New Year's Resolutions, it's easy to become trapped in day-dreaming . So many men look forward to what they want to accomplish but rarely do they calculate the plan to achieve their objectives and, most importantly, take the actions necessary. Today, I am joined by former Army Ranger and founder of Bare Performance Nutrition, Nick Bare. We discuss removing ego from the equation, looking at life as a series of "sprints," managing expectations with important people in your life, keeping yourself from becoming resentful and callused towards others, and the power of "forward thinking and backward planning." SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Men bond over working hard Getting started now The importance of having a vision for your business, family, and life The importance of delegation in a growing business Finding your identity outside of your business Backward planning your legacy Getting buy-in from your wife when you are "sprinting" in the business Why fitness is non-negotiable Considering how your goals can impact others Building mass and running Is there a time when enough is enough Join the Iron Council brotherhood Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE tactics that you can implement right now to start down the path toward self improvement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Exercise Find a hobby Journal Organization Have other men in your corner Join the Iron Council brotherhood Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement - and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (3:00) What are your thoughts on men using emojis? (5:20) Can you speak about why some men are seeing marriage as a less attractive lifestyle option? (10:20) How has homeschooling changed for your son, Brecken, as he has entered his teenage years? (12:50) What are some milestones and "rite of passage" moments men can implement for teenage boys? (18:00) What practical tactics do you use to fight demons that you may face? (22:30) Have you competed in a BJJ tournament or do you plan to compete at some point? (23:15) How do you maintain a religious practice when most people in my life are not believers and ridicule my Catholic faith? (29:30) How does one communicate about a problematic action that is directly affecting the person and oneself? (36:50) What are your thoughts on "spiritual bypassing?" (42:00) What are your thoughts on hiring friends and family? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

I think it's safe to assume that if you're listening to this podcast, you're a man who is interested in becoming a more capable man. Unfortunately, the men who have come before us have, in a lot of ways, made it possible for us not to have to step up the way we as men ought to – as "savage servants." Today, I am joined by Nick Koumalatsos – a former member of Marine Reconnaissance – to talk about what it means to be a "Savage Servant." We also discuss physical fitness as the foundation of what it means to be a man, why we must fabricate struggle, positive programming, and personal growth through humility. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: We don't have to make the mistakes of our parents Gaining vision for your life at a young age Balance between a giving your kids a better life and fabricating challenges Sons generally look like their father Positive programming with your sons We need to put effort into our kids Moving past judgment of others Humility is being a savage servant If you prepare, you are less likely to need it Our foundational anchor is physical fitness and health The Iron Council opens up for new members December 15. Sign up here. Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler takes on topics from the Order of Man Facebook Group, including handling failure and responding when things don't go your way. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to build a workout habit when working a job with varying hours How to deal with family during the holidays How to handle failure and when things don't go your way Manage expectations - life is going to throw you curveballs Get your mind right Get around people that live the life that you're after Understand that it will take time Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (9:00) How present does a father need to be in order to be impactful? (18:30) How do I balance stress of being a father, working a very time-consuming job, and pursing my passion of getting into politics? (22:00) Can you recommend some resources to help me grow in self-confidence? (25:20) What have you learned about how stress management and time management correlate in business and life? (32:00) How do I know I am making the right move for my family when I am making a decision that will improve the situation for my immediate family, but will also distance my wife from her extended family, which is very important to her? (44:30) What was the biggest challenge, outside of alcohol, to get you to 4 months of sobriety? (52:40) How do we help friends and family in their struggles with alcohol or sobriety? (1:05:00) Do you find it difficult to give yourself grace? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Finding our sense of worth as men can be an extremely daunting task. We're often led to believe that if we say just the right things, do all the things we should be doing, and achieve the success society has deemed appropriate, we'll find what we're looking for. Unfortunately, many of us are left with a sense of emptiness in spite of our worldly success. My guest today is my good friend Granger Smith. Today, we tackle a conversation we really haven't had on the podcast as we talk about self-worth, the danger in the "love yourself" message, why cultural Christianity doesn't cut it, feeling like a fraud, and ultimately finding faith and hope in God. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Do things that are intrinsically meaningful Determining when enough is enough How to take the power away from critics The problem with superficial, cultural Christianity We are only worthy through God Why does suffering exist? We need challenges and hardship to refine us Sometimes "self-help" isn't enough Always moving forward We need to stop thinking about ourselves first Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help you overcome the tendency to self-sabotage. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why do we self-sabotage? We tend to choose the path of least resistance We have a lot of insecurities as men How do we self-sabotage? We rest on our laurels We consciously or subconsciously undermine our efforts How do we KILL self-sabotage? We have to make mindset shifts Use goal planning as a starting point Sometimes you just have to throw a wrench in the system Spend time around people and programs that get you to think about life differently Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (1:30) Bloom where you've been planted or go forth and change the world? (8:00) Do you have any thoughts on finding and retaining good team members for my construction business? (14:20) What are you guys focusing on in Jiu Jitsu right now? (23:40) Do you think you still start putting on a father-daughter event? (23:30) How important is it to have a morning and nightly routine? Would you share what you do for your routines? (30:00) What criteria do you have for getting involved with a church? (33:00) What can we do to start making tough people as soon as possible? (37:00) What are some ideas for a side hustle while I am a full-time seminary student? (41:52) How can you take time to relax and focus on family in between the grinds of work and life? (45:40) Do you have any tips for me and my daughter as we prepare to start a podcast together? (48:20) How do you deal with having one son who has chosen an activity that you are also interested in, while another son has not shown interest in anything yet, without showing favoritism? (52:20) My family does a monthly call to stay in touch but it is growing stale. How do I start trying to change it so that it can be more valuable than it is now? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Marriage is one of the most challenging yet rewarding pursuits for a man. Unfortunately, very few of us have ever been taught how to successfully navigate the dynamics between men and women. And, all too often, it leads to headache, heartbreak, and divorce. Today, I'm joined by marriage expert Keith Yackey to talk about these dynamics and how to successfully build a long and thriving marriage. We talk about the ROI (return of intimacy) in marriage, how a man gains his power back after giving it away, the "mommy matrix," why seeking her validation will backfire, and the 5 dials of a powerhouse marriage. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Thriving in business vs thriving in marriage Five dials that help men measure effectiveness Women want you to be a good parent Women want you to be her partner Women want you to be a producer Women want you to have fun Women want you to do what you say you're going to do, when you say you're going to do it Become the guy that any woman would be thrilled to be with Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to build and strengthen your friendships with other men. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Know what you want Improve yourself Go where these men are Add value to other men Continue to nurture the relationship Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (3:15) When everything feels like it's falling apart and you feel like giving up, how do you push through it? (13:30) How can you build confidence in yourself after taking a major blow, such as an unwanted divorce? (18:00) After shooting the biggest whitetail buck of my life, how do I maintain my sense of pride and stay modest about what I've accomplished and not let the jealously of people make me feel guilty? (22:00) Why don't more men share mental health struggles and provide support for each other versus leaving each to fight a battle on their own? (26:10) How do you overcome complacency? (27:40) Is there a pathway you or Kipp recommend for working toward quitting my job? What some considerations, other than money, that I should be aware of? (32:30) In your opinion, is journaling worth it? (37:00) How are you helping your children to be gritty when their lives are actually significantly more comfortable than your life was growing up? (40:20) How do we balance striving for excellence without being crippled by the ideal or perfect? Any tips for overcoming the obstacle of perfection so we can improve? Or is this a false dichotomy? Is there a way to pursue perfection without falling into inaction? (50:20) How to combat intense social anxiety? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Fear is something that all of us have to deal with. Yet, too many men allow their fears to cripple them from what otherwise could be an incredibly meaningful life. Today, I'm joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about why fear drives too many of our life decisions. We discuss hitting rock bottom and crawling out, the compound effect of small and simple tasks that lead to big results, the distinction between "fault" and "responsibility," the power of therapy, overcoming means of sedation, and living life unafraid. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Cutting out alcohol Exploring the "value" in vulnerability Therapy as a proactive measure Accepting and coping with PTSD Letting your kids see your weaknesses Its ok to change your mind and your opinion The journey to faith Everyone could do their small part Hitting rock bottom Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a 3-part framework that men can use to overcome anger. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1. Get to the root of why we are angry (who, what, when, where, why, how) Who are you angry with? What is happening when you are angry? What time of day is it happening? What is my environment like? How do you express your anger? 2. Learn to deal with anger in healthy ways Journal Margin (take a breather) Exercise 3. Learn to express yourself in a healthy way Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (4:00) What is your opinion on the use of crossbows during archery season? (8:20) What are some activities I can give a group of boys to scratch the primal itch without being destructive or dangerous? (13:30) Where do I draw the line between extreme ownership and letting go, as management has continued to add responsibilities to my plate with the departure of other staff? (22:30) In your separation with the wife, did you encounter a lot of negative comments and lack of support from your friends? (27:00) In a difficult circumstance, how do you prepare to be uncomfortable but not struggling? (37:10) With today's economy and interest rates, what are your thoughts on buying a house right now and refinancing after rates go down or waiting for things to turn around? (40:20) How do you build in margin in a service-based business? 5050 From a faith perspective, when at a crossroads or facing a tough decision, ow do you know you are acting out God's plan? (1:00:24) What are some strategies for dealing with groups or activities that brought you joy in the past but now you are finding them monotonous or less engaging? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography. My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don't work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today Behavior changes that indicate an addiction How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn The downside of counting streaks Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in todays society The importance of having a trusted person Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings Confession to yourself and others is an important step Grab your FREE copy of The Last Relapse Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Overcome the ease of modernity Don't be a superhero Lead before the title Render yourself obsolete Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions. We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Channeling your competitive drive Reconciling between making money and helping others Responsibility means "able to respond" How to find your sense of worth The importance of having purpose in your life The power of "interruptible" moments Encouraging others with small acts and words Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Order Tim's new book, Mission Possible One-Year Devotional. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office's all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable? (16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together? (23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity? (31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others? (39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt? (51:30) My girlfriend just left me…should I have a vision that is more focused on myself or should I keep my vision focused on family and others? (56:26) What is your best way to confront your competition in a challenge when you notice that they are competing out of integrity? (1:02:30) What is your position on self-awareness assessments, such as the Clifton Strengths assessment? Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Psychological safety. It's not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man's innate desire to protect those he's closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short. My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it 80% of men want to create a better marriage Developing emotional maturity in the home How do you know how you are coming across to your kids? Different kids, different personalities The power of genuine curiosity Receiving feedback from your wife does not make you a doormat Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why it is important: There are unforeseen events in life Other people have a say in the matter Often we have faulty timelines How to keep yourself in the game: Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve Focus on the process, not the objective Take a look at the past (see how far you've come) Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors) Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (10:00) As we near the end of 2022, what is your theme going into 2023 that you will base your Battle Plans off of? What is one big goal you have for next year that everything will work towards? (25:30) What are some important manly virtues? (40:00) What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Fight Club? (47:00) What's the biggest thing you've let go of that significantly improved your life? (59:00) Can you provide some tips on balancing children/family schedules with your own routines and "self care" or health schedules. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Failures, victories, challenges, setbacks, ups and downs, and everything in between. They're all part of life. It's how we frame the rollercoaster of events and what we do about them that make us men. Today, I'm joined by longtime friend, serial entrepreneur, hunter, husband, and father, Rick Trimmer to talk about some of his biggest challenges and how he's learned to overcome the adversity to create an incredible life for himself and family. We cover the path of least resistance and the path of most resistance, overcoming failure and losing everything, doing the right thing because it's the right thing to do, and putting one foot in front of the other every day. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why men have trouble going deep into relationships The power of genuine curiosity You need to keep pushing through challenging times Achieving your goals doesn't happen overnight Getting through life minute by minute Sometimes its appropriate to feel ashamed Helping other men learn from your mistakes Finding purpose in the absence of religion Being a "stay at home dad" Showing gratitude to those who support you Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a FIVE part framework to help men respond to failure and quickly get back in the game. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS When things go wrong, stop the behavior and stop flailing around Orient yourself toward what you want Change your priorities and adapt your behaviors Enlist the resources you need Take calculated, precise, consistent action Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions live from the 3rd annual Order of Man Maine Event, held earlier this month. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:00) How much passion do you need in your quarterly battle plan vision? (6:12) How does a man build authority and influence as an employee, with no formal leadership position? (12:44) How do you get your parents to "want" to be the type of grandparents who are engaged with your kids? (18:46) How do I transition from the fast-paced activities of my business each day to a mode that is appropriate for family time at home in the evening? (29:40) What is the vision for Order of Man for the next few years? (38:10) When do you know that you've put enough effort in to helping someone and you now need to step back and let them figure things out themselves? (44:20) How do I execute my duties as a son, with a mother dealing with dementia, without letting it impact my ability to show up for my wife and daughter? (54:00) What are some practical ways that men can work to initiate our sons and boys in the community to become real men? (58:40) How do you know how far to step and what doors to go through when multiple opportunities are presented? (1:07:20) What is your advice for men who feel they have no substance underneath their superficial traits or titles? (1:15:00) What are some strategies for overcoming anger issues? Specifically when it is directed at family members? For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

With as much craziness and violence we see in public these days, it's crucial that we as men learn how to effectively protect and defend ourselves and those we love. Fortunately, with a little intentionality and planning it's not all that difficult to keep ourselves and others safe. Today, I'm joined by Former Navy SEAL, FBI Agent, and Federal Air Marshall, Jonathan Gilliam to talk about how to do just that. We cover the concept of preparation versus paranoia, the default of awareness, when to get involved in situations and when not to, the "crawl, walk, run" theory, and recognizing and neutralizing threats before they occur. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The difference between paranoia and preparation The danger of complacency Know God before you can achieve anything Groupthink is rampant and out of control Evil thoughts are often emotional and not logical Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from October 2021, Ryan Michler discusses why men should move from a "What If?" mindset to a "Let's Find Out" mindset. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What opportunities have you already missed by playing safe? Your situation is no different than the people you see as successful The worse case scenario is usually not as bad as you fear Don't just play 'not to lose' Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Tune in NEXT WEEK for a special Ask Me Anything that was recorded during this year's Maine Event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:30) What are some things that you did or wish you have done to prepare yourself for fatherhood? (4:50) What books do you recommend for a man going through a separation with his wife, but both are hoping to reconcile? (14:50) Can you share some thoughts on how to get through a loss of a family member? (19:40) What are your top ways to invest in your company to generate more cash flow? (23:00) Do you have any recommendations to help me get through the initial shock of realizing that I have a long way to go, on the path to personal improvement, so I can continue doing what I know I need to do? (27:00) What are some markers that you use to know when it is time to part ways with an organization? (32:30) What are your thoughts on how the Maine Event and your recent moose hunt went? (34:00) What do you do to stay organized in business and in life? (36:30) What is your plan to beat your kids next year at Tug of War? What does that workout plan look like? Are you ok emotionally after that loss? (39:00) What is the best way to increase net worth? (41:50) How do I coach team members to change their mindset and embrace a culture of adaptability? (46:00) Have you ever considered creating or selling a challenge coin for the Order of Man or Iron Council? For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Hunting is not only something that provides a challenge and sustains life for many of us, as it has for countless generations. But it also provides unique and powerful opportunities to build bonds between those with whom we share these experiences. Last week, I had the opportunity to share such an experience with my son, Brecken, as we set out on a moose hunt in the wilderness of northern Maine. On today's episode, Brecken and I share the story of how we harvested a beautiful bull moose in an epic hunt, filled with disappointments, missed shots, but ultimately success…and how the greatest success of all had nothing to do with hunting. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Drawing the lucky moose tag Getting settled into camp The moose habitat in Maine Early opportunities in the hunt Success on the last day Team effort to bring down the beast The highlight of the trip had nothing to do with hunting Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps that men can implement to break away from the lone wolf mentality and use resources and relationships to become a force multiplier. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. Drop your ego Empower others Render yourself obsolete Observe people's strengths Create systems in your life Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:10) What advice do you have for people writing their first vision statement/ battle planner? How do we tap into that inner version of ourselves to find out what our true motivators are? (20:00) How should you structure the responsibilities between husband and wife? (32:00) What is the best way to recruit new members for the Iron Council? (37:30) What is the best way to organize a local meet up? (39:10) Can you share your thoughts on both the Legacy and Maine Event? (54:30) Is it important for leadership to have open and timely dialogue with team members? What's an effective way to do this when your team is 100+ members? For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

With as much information available to us this day and age, it's hard to decipher which information to consume and which we should be listening to in the first place. Everywhere we turn, we're inundated with sensational headlines designed to capture our eyeballs, not necessarily keep us informed. Today, I'm joined by TV and Radio host and political commentator on Fox News, Brian Kilmeade. We cover a wide range of topics including the shifting of the Overton Window in media, the course correction America needs, how to determine which information is worth pursuing, what role the American citizen plays in this, the overdose of information we're all dealing with. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Predictions for who is running in the next presidential election The evolving role of a newscaster The shifting Overton window regarding gender issues The United States is a self-correcting country Deciding what issues to address Building a team and establishing loyalty Gathering information from diverse sources Balancing independence and tradition with your kids Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the key themes of his new book, The Masculinity Manifesto, and discusses why these concepts are so important to all of us as men. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. What makes a man a man? Mindsets of masculine leadership Harnessing masculinity for productive outcomes Living like a man Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:30) Are there plans to translate the podcast to other languages? (5:40) How do my wife and I get on the same page with parenting techniques? (14:20) What are your thoughts on purchasing and financing a vehicle? (21:00) For battle planning, what quadrant do you focus on to build your business and career? (33:30) Besides marriage and kids, what were the most meaningful moments of your life? (37:00) Are your thoughts on daycare the same as public school? For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

It seems like it's political month around here but with the mid-terms coming up, I think it's important that we discuss some of these crucial political topics that impact us, our families, and our communities so much. I'm joined today by former Navy SEAL and Congressional Candidate, Eli Crane, to talk about why it's crucial men have at least some interest in politics, how courage in you breeds courage in others, the collapse of some of our most predominant social institutions, the concept of ideological subversion, and the need for principle over power in our elected officials. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Responding to the needs of the nation How much can one person do? Motivated by principle vs. motivated by power The importance of staying engaged The military becoming a social experiment Complacency in voting The power vacuum will always be filled Every one of us can do something Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of finding a healthy outlet and FOUR factors we should consider when choosing the best option. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. Must be stimulating to you Should be physical Should be convenient Needs to be challenging Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (6:00) What's your thoughts on the current FBI raids on conservative/Christian men? (7:40) How do you know when you should leave a steady pay check for your own business? (12:00) What would be some tactics we could use to expand or move beyond this box (constructed of our previous experiences) if the current situation that we find ourselves in, while not ideal, has put us in a better position than anything we have yet to experience? (25:00) How can I help my kids overcome new fears, which have surfaced after separating from my wife? (30:40) How do you build a group of men around you that goes deeper than surface level? (36:00) What, if any, resources do you suggest for talking to son about sex? (41:00) Have you considered expanding the Order of Man into any other areas? E.g. OoM shooting ranges, OoM BJJ Academies, OoM Hunting Classes, or anything else along those lines. (44:50) How do I balance being a present father, fiancé and working, while also trying to take care of myself in order to take better care of my family? (48:40) How does this quote from John, relate to what you offered those who attended the Legacy event? Eldredge says "Boyhood Above all else, is a time of being the beloved son, the apple of your father's eye. A time of affirmation. For though I maintain my premise laid out in Wild at Heart—that every man shares the same core Question, which is "Do I have what it takes?"— Before and beneath that Question in a man's search for validation lies a deeper need—to know that he is prized, delighted in, that he is the beloved son." Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Anytime you mention the word, "politics," you know you're in for a charged and polarizing conversation but it's crucial we talk more about politics and the policy that comes with it because it impacts every facet of our lives. My guest today, Congressman Dan Crenshaw, joins me to talk about the key issues impacting culture and society today including a healthy approach to reaching across the aisle, why it's important for conservatives to have a voice in what we typically view as liberal issues, not only the far left but the far right – something he calls, "woke conservatism," the importance of humility and open-mindedness, and distinguishing between politics and policy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Prioritizing in politics The downside of rank contrarianism Pursuing rational environmentalism Red flag laws and gun control Men's tendency to gravitate toward negative information Lack of critical thinking and humility in America Negative consequences of playing around with politics We don't need another AOC Victimhood is seen as an attribute in society Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from September 2021, Ryan Michler discusses how to find opportunity through hardship. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. Start thinking about the long term - what/who are you going to create? What do you need in order to make it a reality - who do you need to become? Start formulating plan - what is your strategy for getting there? Get to work. Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:30) Is there a balance between sharing your goals and telling everyone your business? (6:30) Do you see a greater demand for Christians to be emboldened and stand for Christian values? (16:00) How can I combat burnout as a new dad, going to school and working overnight? (34:00) What martial art would you recommend for someone with vertigo? (37:00) What are some business lessons you wish you could tell your "year one" self? (44:40) What challenges have you seen once you've found success? Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

All of us want to be happy and successful and, yet, for many of us it seems so far away or so hard, if not impossible, to obtain. But my guest today, the one and only Ed Mylett, makes the case in his newest book, The Power of One More, that what we ultimately desire is not all that far away at all but perhaps just one more decision, step, conversation, or action away. Today, Ed and I talk about how to develop that mindset, why being "rich" does not necessarily equal having money, the difference between confidence and arrogance, why it's crucial we identify our value systems, the power of equanimity, pursuing progress, and taking inventory of our lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Its easy for men to get discouraged Arrogance vs healthy confidence Don't attach your identify to the external Knowing the line between serving others and serving yourself Can anger serve us? Learning how to channel your emotions An awareness of a challenge helps it lose its power over you The ultimate confirmation does not come from a human being Pursuing progress, not perfection Reframe what it means to miss things with your kids Sometimes you need to be "creatively present" Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive men and what to look for when forming these relationships. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. They should be successful (in the areas where you want to be successful) They need to have a shared value or belief system They must be open to discussing these ideas There has to be some process or system in place They must be willing to be honest and bold with you Join the Iron Council. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:50) How do you have a serious conversation with someone who has a tendency to run from them? (12:50) What advice and insight would you give to a soon-to-be father? Is there anything you would have done differently? (18:10) How do you regulate how much time you spend in conversation with others? (24:20) What advice do you have for guiding teens through social media when they have pressure from their friends? (29:30) Do you have any tips for how I can navigate my first year in a new job with a new company that lacks structure and systems? (42:00) What can I do to have an impact on the young men in my family? Join the Iron Council Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

I think most of us believe there is a reason we're here on this planet. But I personally know how hard it can be to uncover and discover the reason that is. It seems daunting considering how easily we can become consumed with trivial matters and the distractions of modern culture and society. But my guest today, Eric Thomas (AKA, The Hip Hop Preacher), has been helping millions of people around the world ignite their power and purpose. Today, ET and I talk about overcoming the "passive boy," becoming more of who you are – not a clone of someone else, why you don't need the world to approve to succeed, the battle between the "two you's," and finding immense opportunity in crisis. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Criticism often reflects one's own insecurity Getting what we want isn't necessarily getting what we need Learning from others rather than being them Know what self-actualization means to you Having a relationship with God You need both God and money Taking personal responsibility for your life Join the Iron Council Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Belief in oneself is a powerful component but often neglected. In today's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from May 2021, Ryan Michler explains where belief comes from, how to develop belief, the importance of believing in yourself, why men are needed, and more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - Where belief comes from - How to develop belief - Believing in yourself - Why men are needed Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Drew Kachurak take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:30) What state were you in when you started in the Iron Council and where are you now? (12:00) What would you do regain the passion for something you've lost due to your own greed, selfishness or laziness? (20:30) What factor have you seen that makes the difference between someone succeeding with their goals, battle plan, etc. and them failing? (29:30) What strategies do you use when you feel overwhelmed with more to do than you have time? (32:20) My friend has been thinking about starting a business idea for a few years. This business is like a second side to the business that I run right now. Would it be inappropriate if I begin doing this business because I have the funds and time to do it, while he doesn't? Or would I be stepping on his toes and negatively affecting our friendship by doing this? (36:30) What are some ways to make the most of being a stay-at-home dad and overcoming the stigma that goes with it? (39:00) What do you do if you are struggling to move on from a crisis, even after the danger has passed? (45:00) If you could only have one piece of equipment to work out with, what would it be? (45:50) How do you safely handle conflict at work, online, or at home? (50:00) While working to expand my business/brand, I can't always be there holding hands. What is your first move with creating an environment to have employees that generate revenue when you or one of your managers is not around to keep that momentum and that expectation high? (58:50) How do you talk about Toxic Masculinity when other people believe it's a real thing? (1:08:30) How do you deal with a mother-in-law who is very opinionated about everything in your wife's life? Do you set boundaries or do you let your wife set the boundaries? (1:10:00) What is the resolution for raising a child who has been spoiled? (1:14:30) How can I better communicate my feelings, ideas, wants, and information? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Most of us would like to believe that in a moment we are called to make a stand on our principles, we would do it without hesitation. But can we say for certain we would act in accordance with what we believe when confronted with the risk of social alienation, ostracization from our friends and family, potential loss of a job, and the financial insecurity that comes with it? That's exactly what my guest, NBA star Jonathan Isaac, had to deal with when he decided to stand for the National Anthem when all of his teammates took a knee during the height of the Black Lives Matter movement and the George Floyd case. Today, we talk about his decision to do so, why people place labels on and attempt to dehumanize others, facing your fears by walking with Christ, the power of social media and group think, and becoming bold as lions. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Choosing to make a stand Loving each other the way that God loves us Highly emotional situations require restraint Hypocrisy in the faith Racism is cured by a change in someones heart The message often gets lost in a protest When God's plan doesn't align with our plan Staying in your lane while being authentic to yourself Membership in the Iron Council will be opening soon. Join the waitlist here. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the important of recognizing when we need to let go…and some techniques for making it happen. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life. Recognize that we don't have as much control as we think we do Often the need to control is rooted in lack of self-worth and self-confidence Remember to check in on your brothers Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.