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The 3 Skills Every Great Negotiator Has (And Most People Ignore) - Reverse Interview
Negotiation isn’t just a skill — it’s a life-changing mindset. In this special crossover episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian joins Mike Lander of Higgle to reveal how he went from avoiding conflict to teaching millions how to navigate it. You’ll hear the story behind his rise as a globally recognized voice on negotiation, the neuroscience that explains why most conversations go wrong, and the three skills that every top negotiator shares. Whether you’re closing a deal or setting a boundary at home, Kwame’s Compassionate Curiosity framework will help you manage your emotions, build trust fast, and lead tough conversations with confidence. You’ll learn: What the “amygdala hijack” is — and how to stop it How to use AI roleplay to rehearse high-stakes conversations Why tone is more persuasive than tactics The 3-core skill model every negotiator should master How trust (not technique) drives long-term success If you’ve ever struggled to be assertive, this is your roadmap to becoming a confident communicator in work and in life. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Treating Negotiations Like a Battle — Try This Instead
If every hard conversation feels heavy, it’s time to change the script. In this episode, speaker and author Erin Diehl shares how joy, empathy, and humor can transform even the most uncomfortable interactions. Whether you’re negotiating with a client, giving feedback to a teammate, or bracing for a tense talk at home, Erin explains how to shift your mindset, calm your nervous system, and lead with radical presence—without losing your edge. You’ll learn: The real reason most difficult conversations go wrong How to rewire negative thinking using simple mental “interrupts” Why humor is a leadership tool—not a distraction How to access your frontal lobe (instead of flipping out) What improv teaches us about negotiation, empathy, and trust This isn’t fluff—it’s neuroscience-backed, results-driven communication reimagined through joy. If you’ve been holding your breath through every tough talk, this episode is your exhale. Connect with Erin www.itserindiehl.com Buy the book: I SEE YOU! Listen to The Workday Playdate Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Every Bad Client Starts with One Missed Red Flag — #1 Sales Strategist Explains
The worst deals don’t break you later — they fool you early. In this episode, sales strategist Kim Orlesky reveals why bad-fit clients slip through your filter, how to recognize red flags before it's too late, and what it really means to sell from a place of power. From walking away from misaligned deals to reframing budget conversations and asserting value without pressure, this conversation is a blueprint for anyone who negotiates, sells, or wants to stop saying yes out of desperation. You’ll learn: The hidden “winner’s curse” of closing the wrong deals How to qualify clients by alignment, not just money The question to ask that instantly shifts the power dynamic What most sales pros get wrong about budget How to hold your price — and your standards This is the mindset shift that separates burned-out closers from confident negotiators. Connect with Kim Visit Kim's Website Connect with Kim on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You’re Leading Like a Doer — And It’s Holding Everyone Back
Why Doing Everything Right Still Leaves You Stuck? How to Finally Level Up? This episode is a masterclass in leadership evolution — raw, real, and exactly what high achievers need to hear when the next level feels just out of reach. Jade Davis, VP at the Port of Cleveland and advisor to the largest Black woman-owned public affairs firm in Ohio, joins Kwame to reveal the invisible shift that transforms good performers into true leaders. In this powerful conversation, Jade unpacks what it really means to lead without ego, influence without force, and grow by being radically honest — especially with yourself. You’ll learn: Why being a “doer” can sabotage your leadership potential The career-changing advice his wife gave him (that he didn’t want to hear) How to earn trust and drive results without controlling everything What vulnerability looks like when you're managing up, down, and across\ Connect with Jade Follow Jade Davis on LinkedIn Awards Jade Davis Port of Cleveland www.thorntonbuckeyegroup.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How Real Relationships (Not Networking) Lead to Success
What if your next life-changing opportunity came from a single conversation with a stranger? In this electrifying episode, Dr. Ruth Gotian returns to share the real secrets behind connecting with anyone—from Nobel Prize winners to NBA champions. Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, Ruth breaks down her proven approach to building authentic relationships that open doors, spark collaboration, and create lasting impact—no awkward small talk required. Kwame and Ruth dive deep into: Why you should stop mimicking morning routines and start cultivating curiosity The underrated power of showing up (with or without an agenda) Ruth’s game-changing 24-7-30 follow-up rule for lasting connection How to approach keynote speakers without feeling like a stalker (plus the one thing never to do) Real stories of how genuine interest—not business cards—builds trust that lasts This isn’t just about networking—it’s about building a life and career through meaningful conversation. Listen in and discover how to talk to strangers in a way that actually matters. Connect with Ruth https://www.ruthgotian.com/ Follow Ruth on LinkedIn Buy the New Book: "The Success Factor" Buy the book: Mentoring: A Complete Guide to Effective Mentoring Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Your Weakness Might Be Your Greatest Persuasion Tool
What if the key to persuading someone wasn’t hiding your flaws—but revealing them? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with behavioral science expert and bestselling author Richard Shotton (The Illusion of Choice) to uncover the hidden psychological levers behind trust, influence, and decision-making. From the Stolen Thunder effect to the surprising power of using precise numbers, you’ll learn how small shifts in language and strategy can drastically increase your credibility and impact at the negotiation table. Whether you’re a negotiator, marketer, or just someone who wants to get better at persuading others without manipulation, this episode offers actionable insights grounded in decades of research. Connect With Richard Buy Now: The Illusion of Choice: 16 1/2 Psychological Biases That Influence What We Buy Follow Richard Shotton on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You Have No Idea What Authenticity Means — Until You Learn This
You think you’re being authentic. You’re not. In this powerful conversation, media expert, keynote speaker, and author Jeanne Sparrow breaks down the real meaning of authenticity — and it’s not what you think. Most people confuse authenticity with oversharing. Others stay silent, mistaking fear for integrity. Jeanne explains why true authenticity isn’t about saying everything — it’s about knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and how to use that power with intention. You’ll learn: Why oversharing kills trust (and isn’t real connection) How to tell the difference between fear and truth How to adapt without losing yourself Why your presence speaks louder than your words — and how to own it Whether you're leading a team, having a tough conversation, or just trying to show up more powerfully — this episode will change how you think about being “yourself.” Connect with Jeanne jeannesparrow.com Buy now The Book - FEARLESS AUTHENTICITY - by Jeanne Sparrow Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What It Really Takes to Sell Homes in Beverly Hills
In a market where confidence is cheap and trust is everything — Nikko Santo Pietro delivers the real game. Selling real estate in Beverly Hills during the worst market in decades? That’s exactly what Nikko Santo Pietro is doing — and thriving. In this episode, Nikko breaks down how he closes multimillion-dollar deals by combining bold marketing, sharp pricing strategies, and next-level negotiation skills. You’ll learn how to win clients’ trust (even when they overvalue their homes), why wearing a cowboy hat can be a power move, and how to sell authentically without ever needing a suit. Whether you’re in sales, real estate, or any high-stakes negotiation, this episode shows you how to stand out, qualify yourself, and lead with strategy — not ego. Connect with Nikko Instagram: @nikkoshow Follow Nikko on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Secret to Winning People Over — Without Manipulation
Authenticity wins — but only if you know how to share your story. In this episode, Shaquille Alexander reveals the power of authentic storytelling in leadership, sharing how his journey from adversity to public service became his greatest asset. As a first-time candidate running for City Treasurer in Whitehall, Ohio, Shaq opens up about his upbringing, his commitment to the community that raised him, and how he transformed personal struggles into a narrative that connects with voters. But this conversation goes beyond politics. You’ll discover how to craft a compelling story that inspires trust, motivates supporters, and even raises money — without ever feeling like you’re “selling.” Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or anyone trying to persuade others, this episode will show you how to lead with integrity and impact. Connect with Shaquille Alexander Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shaqdeez27/?hl=en LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/shaquilledalexander/ X https://x.com/shaqdeez27?s=11&t=qqhIBC0srJUv2PauEhIQG
Stop Being Afraid to Ask: How to Finally Get the Raise You Deserve
Stop being afraid to ask — because staying silent is costing you. In this episode, Crystal Ware shares her powerful insights on why so many people, especially women, struggle to ask for what they deserve. Whether it’s negotiating your salary, setting boundaries, or simply speaking up, Crystal reveals how to overcome the fear of asking and finally own your worth. You’ll discover practical strategies to define your value, communicate it with confidence, and never leave money on the table again. If you’ve ever hesitated to ask for a raise, a promotion, or even respect, this episode is your guide to becoming unapologetically bold. Connect with Crystal Want to subscribe to "The Clarity" Newsletter, visit us here: www.crystalwaremedia.com Follow Crystal on LinkedIn crystalwaremedia.com cadenceinsurance.com https://linktr.ee/crystalware Listen to Get Clear with Crystal Ware Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Secret Persuasion Tactics from CIA and FBI: Sell Like a Spy with Jeremy Hurewitz
Master the secret tactics spies use to win trust and uncover the truth. In this gripping episode, Jeremy Hurewitz, corporate intelligence expert and author of "Sell Like a Spy," reveals the secret persuasion tactics used by the CIA, FBI, and elite intelligence officers. Hurewitz draws on his years of experience working alongside former CIA case officers, FBI negotiators, and counterintelligence experts to share powerful strategies for winning trust, gathering intelligence, and persuading anyone — even when they don’t want to share. From the art of elicitation and radical empathy to mastering deception detection and reading people like a book, this episode is packed with real-world spycraft secrets you can use in sales, negotiations, and everyday interactions. Hurewitz also shares jaw-dropping stories of espionage, including how intelligence agents use access agents and covert techniques to gain crucial information. How spies turn targets into traitors — and how you can ethically turn leads into loyal customers. The secret to asking questions that reveal everything without raising suspicion. Why detecting deception is about recognizing red flags — and how to spot them. How to use intelligence techniques to build trust and influence anyone. If you’ve ever wanted to know how spies get people to reveal their deepest secrets, this episode will show you how to apply the same tactics in your life. Jeremy Hurewitz Buy the Book Sell Like a Spy: The Art of Persuasion from the World of Espionage Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Dangerous Lie About Win-Win Deals — Patrick Tinney Exposes the Truth
Stop chasing tactics — strategy is what wins big deals. In this episode, Patrick Tinney reveals the truth behind successful negotiations: it’s not about clever tricks or aggressive tactics — it’s about strategy. From navigating high-stakes deals to mastering leverage and risk management, Patrick shares the secrets that have helped him close hundreds of millions of dollars in deals. You’ll learn why most people fail in negotiations, how to avoid the “split the difference” trap, and how to build trust without sacrificing profit. If you’ve ever wondered why some deals fail while others succeed, this episode will show you how to become a truly strategic negotiator. Connect with Patrick Tinney Buy Patrick's book: "Unlocking Yes" on Amazon Follow Patrick Tinney on LinkedIn Centroid Training & Marketing LinkedIn page Centroid Marketing website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Harvard’s William Ury: The Hidden Power of Going to the Balcony
In high-stakes conflict, the greatest power is knowing when to pause. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with William Ury, Harvard negotiation master, co-founder of the Harvard Program on Negotiation, and co-author of the global bestseller "Getting to Yes." But beyond the books and accolades, Ury reveals his most profound secret — "Going to the Balcony." William Ury shares the gripping story of how this simple yet transformative technique helped him navigate high-stakes conflicts, including an explosive crisis in Venezuela that nearly spiraled into civil war. Ury explains how stepping back — both mentally and emotionally — is the ultimate power move, whether you're negotiating a billion-dollar deal, resolving a family dispute, or defusing an international crisis. Listeners will discover: The surprising power of silence and how it can change any negotiation. How to use "Going to the Balcony" to maintain control in the most intense situations. Why mastering yourself is the key to mastering any conflict. Real-world stories where Ury’s method transformed impossible negotiations. If you’ve ever struggled to keep your cool in tough conversations, this episode is your blueprint for turning chaos into clarity. Listen in and learn the technique that has saved lives, brokered peace, and transformed the way the world negotiates. www.williamury.com Buy the Book: POSSIBLE- How We Survive (and Thrive) in an Age of Conflict By William Ury Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Most People Fail to Achieve Their Goals — Raymont Harris on the Mindset That Changes Everything
Most people spend their lives chasing success — but they never realize they’re running in the wrong direction. In this episode, former NFL running back Raymont Harris reveals the shocking truth about mindset that transformed his life — from growing up in poverty and losing his mother at birth to achieving his dreams in professional sports and beyond. Raymont shares the secrets behind his elite mindset, why talent alone is never enough, and how the right beliefs can change everything. Whether you’re struggling to break through in your career, facing tough negotiations, or just trying to overcome self-doubt, this episode will give you the mental tools you need to succeed. https://raymontharris.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Danger of Not Taking Risks
Why Most People Lose Big Without Noticing In this episode, Jeremy Delk reveals how his journey from a small town in Kentucky to Wall Street was shaped by the toughest negotiations of all — the ones with himself. Jeremy’s raw stories of losing millions, battling self-doubt, and building a multimillion-dollar venture capital firm expose the brutal truth most people miss: Success isn’t just about strategy — it’s about facing your own fears, mastering your mindset, and daring to take bold risks. Listen now to discover how to stop sabotaging yourself and start negotiating like your life depends on it. Connect with Jeremy Delk Jeremy's Instagram Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Smart Goals Are Setting You Up for Mediocrity – Caroline Miller Reveals How to Achieve the Impossible
Most people are failing at their goals because they’ve been taught the wrong way to set them. Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller In this transformative episode, Caroline Miller, a leading expert in goal setting and positive psychology, exposes the fatal flaws of the widely accepted SMART goals approach. Caroline reveals the difference between learning goals and performance goals, explains why most people are stuck with "zombie goals," and offers a revolutionary, evidence-backed method for achieving big, life-changing goals. Through powerful stories and actionable insights, she shows you how to cultivate resilience, unlock your true potential, and shield your dreams from those who unknowingly sabotage them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to achieve their biggest ambitions without falling into the trap of mediocrity. Connect with Caroline Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller www.carolinemiller.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Problem with Being Too Nice: How to Reclaim Your Voice and Say NO
Saying "yes" when you mean "no" is a slow poison. Buy The Book Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes In this episode, Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician turned organizational psychologist, reveals the hidden costs of excessive compliance and how it silently destroys your self-worth. Learn why we mistake compliance for consent, how social conditioning traps you in silence, and the psychology of "insinuation anxiety"—the fear of offending others that keeps you stuck. Discover the true power of defiance, the skill of saying no without guilt, and how to reclaim your voice, your values, and your authentic self. Connect with Dr. Sunita Sah sunitasah.com Buy The Book Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Leadership Mistake That’s Costing You Your Best People (Anne Chow)
Most leaders are blind to the biggest threat to their team’s success. In this episode, Anne Chow, former CEO of AT&T Business, reveals the hidden leadership myth that quietly undermines team performance and destroys trust. Drawing on decades of experience leading thousands, she exposes why even well-meaning leaders can fall into this trap — and how you can avoid it. Discover the critical shift you must make to lead with impact, build real connections, and unlock your team’s full potential. Connect with Anne Follow Anne on LinkedIn https://www.theannechow.com/ Pre-Order Now The Book: Lead Bigger Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How One Question Can Transform Your Negotiation Results
Trust is your most valuable currency in negotiation — and most professionals waste it. In this episode, Keld Jensen, a globally recognized negotiation expert and author of 26 books, reveals why trust is more powerful than any contract. He explains why negotiating without first aligning on how you will negotiate is a costly mistake, how to leverage behavioral economics to understand irrational human decisions, and how the world’s best companies are using Centers of Excellence to transform their negotiation results. If you want to elevate your negotiation game from tactical to transformative, this episode is essential. Connect with Keld on LinkedIn Learn more about Keld Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The One Thing to Do Before Signing Any Contract — Most People Skip It
Contracts don’t secure deals — trust does. In this episode, Courtney Kelly reveals the hidden truth behind successful negotiations in high-stakes construction: building strong relationships before a single document is signed. As a pioneering project manager in a male-dominated industry, Courtney shares how proactive trust-building, emotional intelligence, and strategic communication transform conflict into collaboration. Whether you’re managing multi-million dollar projects or everyday deals, this conversation will change how you negotiate — and how people respond to you. Connect with Courtney Kelly Follow Courtney Lynn Kelly on LinkedIn Courtney Kelly Books website McCarthy Building Companies Inc. LinkedIn page Mc Carthy website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Your Ideas Aren’t the Problem — You’re Pitching Them Wrong (Vinnie Potestivo’s Creative Deal Strategies)
Most people play it safe — and that’s exactly why they stay stuck. In this episode, Emmy Award-winning media advisor Vinnie Potestivo reveals how bold creative decisions can turn ideas into empires. From discovering stars at MTV to helping creators monetize their talent, Vinnie shares his blueprint for transforming creativity into success. You’ll learn the mindset shifts, strategic moves, and untold stories that can turn rejection into opportunity and take your career to the next level. Don’t just create — conquer. Connect with Vinnie Twitter vinniepotestivo ihaveapodcast Websites vpe.tv ihaveapodcast.com feed.podbean.com/theihaveapod Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Secret Strategy FBI Negotiators Use — And You Can Too (with Melissa Fortunato)
This isn’t theory—this is negotiation at the highest level. In this gripping episode, FBI negotiator Melissa Fortunato reveals the real tactics used in hostage crises—and how you can apply them to your toughest conversations at work and at home. From infiltrating criminal organizations undercover to de-escalating a 15-hour standoff, Melissa shares raw, behind-the-scenes stories that show why connection always beats force. You’ll learn why diversity makes teams more persuasive, how to show authority without killing trust, and the one skill most people neglect that could change every negotiation you’re in. Whether you're facing a deal on the edge or just want to be heard, this episode gives you tools that actually work. Follow Melissa F. on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Saying Yes to Everything — How Strategic Boundaries Can Save Your Career
Saying yes too much is killing your career. In this episode, tech strategy expert and executive coach Tiffany Rosik reveals how the simple act of saying “no” can transform your reputation, your workload, and your entire career trajectory. Drawing from her upcoming book That's Not the Help I Need, Tiffany breaks down how to escape the people-pleaser trap — without guilt, without drama, and without burning bridges. You’ll learn how to pause high-pressure conversations, reframe your identity at work, and negotiate smarter in real time. If you’re burned out, undervalued, or always the one picking up the slack — this is the mindset shift you’ve been waiting for. Connect with Tiffany Rosik tiffanyrosik.com Follow Tiffany Rosik PMP, RMP on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How I Went from People Pleaser to Confident Negotiator
Most people lose negotiations before they even open their mouth — here’s how to change that. In this raw and eye-opening conversation, Kwame Christian reveals the mindset shift that transformed him from a people pleaser into a confident negotiator. You’ll learn why most people fail — not because they lack skill, but because they’re stuck in outdated mental habits. He breaks down the difference between skill and talent, shows you how to disarm conflict with curiosity, and shares the one mental shift that can save any deal when things go wrong. Whether you're leading a team, asking for a raise, or navigating tension at home, this episode will teach you how to stop reacting and start leading the conversation. Connect with Michael I See What You're Saying Podcast Buy The Disciplined Listening Method: How A Certified Forensic Interviewer Unlocks Hidden Value in Every Conversation h www.inquasive.com michaelreddington.com Connect with Michael Reddington on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The One Thing That Saves a Deal When Everything Goes Wrong
When the pressure's on and everything's falling apart, this one principle can still save the deal. The deal is about to fall apart. The founder just died. Clients are backing out. Competitors are circling. What do you do? In this gripping episode, real estate leader Andy Newton shares how he led his team through a sudden tragedy — and what he learned about negotiation, leadership, and holding deals together when everything goes wrong. You’ll hear how one principle — simple, powerful, and often forgotten — became the key to saving relationships, rebuilding trust, and closing high-stakes deals under pressure. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or navigating tough conversations, this episode is a masterclass in what really holds a deal together. Follow Andy Newton on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Status Beats Strategy — And How to Build It from Scratch
Everyone talks about strategy, but what if that’s not the real problem? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Shaahin Cheyene, serial entrepreneur and creator of a billion-dollar company, to reveal the hidden power that decides most negotiations before they even begin: status. You’ll learn how status works, why it silently determines your influence, and how to build it from zero — even if no one knows your name yet. Whether you're selling, pitching, or just trying to be taken seriously, this episode shows you the real reason some people always seem to win Connect with Shaahin www.shaahincheyenne.com Listen to The Business Story of the Week Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You’re Not Bad at Negotiating — You’re Just Emotional
The real battle in negotiation happens in your head. In this episode, negotiation expert and author Moshe Cohen joins Kwame to reveal the uncomfortable truth: most failed negotiations aren’t about tactics — they’re about emotions. You’ll learn why your inner stories, unconscious triggers, and emotional reactions hijack your performance when it matters most — and how to take back control. Whether you're facing a high-stakes meeting or just struggling to speak up, this episode is your playbook for mastering the conversation inside your head before you ever open your mouth. In this episode: The hidden emotional triggers that derail smart people How to rewrite the story you're telling yourself Real strategies to stay calm, think clearly, and speak powerfully under pressure Connect with Moshe Buy the book Collywobbles: How to Negotiate When Negotiating Makes You Nervous Follow Moshe on LinkedIn https://negotiatingtable.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why New CEOs Fail—And How to Survive Your First 6 Months in Power
Becoming CEO is a dream for many—but few understand just how emotionally turbulent and strategically complex that transition really is. In this powerful episode, Dr. Ty Wiggins, global head of the CEO and Executive Transition Practice at Russell Reynolds, reveals what most leaders get wrong in their first year, why being “smart” isn’t enough, and how to avoid the crash that hits so many executives around the 6-month mark. With clients ranging from first-time CEOs to seasoned global leaders, Ty brings a rare behind-the-scenes perspective on pressure, presence, and emotional control. Whether you're a senior leader, a founder, or simply want to level up your leadership, this episode is filled with actionable insights you’ll want to write down. What you'll learn in this episode: Why emotional control—not IQ—is the most undervalued CEO skill The one mindset shift that separates good leaders from great ones How to communicate decisions without sparking fear and confusion Connect with Dr Ty Wiggins Follow Ty on LinkedIn Buy now the book: The New CEO: Lessons from CEOS on How to Start Well and Perform Quickly (Minus the Common Mistakes) http://tywiggins.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Mindset That Makes People Instantly Trust You — With Former FBI Spy Recruiter Robin Dreeke
You can’t fake real connection — but you can learn how to create it. Robin Dreeke spent his career recruiting spies for the FBI, building trust with people trained to trust no one. In this unforgettable conversation, he reveals the mindset that transforms strangers into allies — and the key habits that turn everyday conversations into powerful relationships. Whether you're trying to lead a team, build influence, or just stop overthinking your social interactions, this episode will reset how you think about human connection. In this episode, you’ll learn: – The 4 keys to instantly building trust – Why emotional safety is more powerful than persuasion – How to stop making it about you — and become the person people open up to Connect with Robin Buy Now the Book: It's Not All About Me Buy now the book: The Code of Trust: An American Counterintelligence Expert's Five Rules to Lead and Succeed Buy Now the Book: Sizing People Up https://www.peopleformula.com/ Follow Robin on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Caught Off Guard? The Secret to Bouncing Back in Tough Negotiations
When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break down why your brain freezes under stress — and how simple techniques can help you think sharper, react smarter, and protect the deal when it matters most. If you want to master emotional resilience and negotiate like a true pro, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Therese Huston theresehuston.com Buy the Book - Sharp - 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Work (and Negotiate) With People You Don’t Like — From the Man Who United South Africa’s Enemies
Most people think collaboration requires trust. Adam Kahane’s life work proves otherwise. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Adam Kahane, Director at Reos Partners, a pioneer in facilitating collaboration between fierce adversaries—from politicians and generals to guerrillas and activists. Adam shares the powerful story of how he helped leaders on both sides of apartheid South Africa work together toward democracy, and explains why understanding, not agreement, is the key to breakthroughs. Learn how to work with people you don’t like, remove obstacles to real progress, and find common ground even in the most divided environments. Connect with Adam adamkahane.com [email protected] Follow Adam on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Negotiate Like Your Career Depends On It — Insights from a Top Sports Agent
If you walk into a negotiation without leverage, you’re already losing — and NFL agent Henry Organ is here to make sure you never do. In this powerhouse episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with Henry Organ, founder of Disruptive Sports Agency and author of The Informational Interview Playbook. Henry pulls back the curtain on how real power is built — from branding yourself strategically to controlling the leverage in every deal. Whether you're closing million-dollar contracts or fighting for your next opportunity, this episode will change how you think, act, and negotiate forever. What will be covered: Henry Organ’s journey and the founding of Disruptive Sports Agency. The significance of personal branding in building leverage. Strategies for managing expectations and knowing when to walk away from a deal. Buy now the book: THE INFORMATIONAL INTERVIEW PLAYBOOK by Henry Organ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
If You Sell Like Everyone Else, You Lose — Lisa McLeod Shows the New Way
If you're selling for the money, your buyers can feel it — and you're leaving the best deals on the table. In this game-changing episode, bestselling author Lisa McLeod reveals why the sales strategies you were taught are keeping you broke, stressed, and replaceable. Forget "closing the deal" — Lisa shows you how the world’s top salespeople drive higher revenue, bigger margins, and deeper loyalty by selling with noble purpose. You’ll learn how to de-commoditize your business, take control of the negotiation, and rewire your mindset to win deals that feel good — and actually stick. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or negotiation, this conversation will flip your strategy and your confidence on its head. Connect with Lisa Buy The Book: Selling With Noble Purpose: How to Drive Revenue and Do Work That Makes You Proud. McLeod & More Follow Lisa on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why BATNA Might Be Your Biggest Negotiation Mistake - with Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier (Part II)
Order NOW The Book: EVOLVE or Be Slaughtered: Negotiation For The 21st Century (Beyond Negotiating) by Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier What if the rule we’ve all been taught — “never negotiate without a BATNA” — is the very thing limiting your success? In this mind-expanding conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Derrick Chevalier, negotiation strategist and author of Evolve or Be Slaughtered, to expose the hidden danger of over-relying on your BATNA. Together, they explore why the best deals are rarely the ones you plan for, how to embrace creative discovery at the table, and what great negotiators actually do when things don’t go according to script. Whether you're a seasoned dealmaker or just learning the ropes, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about leverage, planning, and negotiation itself. Connect with Derrick https://h-c.com/ Follow Derrick on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Faking Confidence Is a Trap — Here’s What to Do Instead - with Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier (Part I)
One mistake. One moment of faking expertise. And it cost him a deal with Stevie Wonder. Order NOW The Book: EVOLVE or Be Slaughtered: Negotiation For The 21st Century (Beyond Negotiating) by Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier In this unforgettable episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Derrick Chevalier — bestselling author of Evolve or Be Slaughtered and executive VP at Harrison Chevalier — to unpack the painful but powerful story that changed his life. From a failed negotiation with Stevie Wonder to creating a framework that helps leaders master their craft, Derrick shares how true confidence is built through competence — not performance. What you'll learn: Why pretending to know something can ruin your credibility — permanently. The ICSEAR framework: a step-by-step model for mastering any skill, including negotiation. How to move beyond balance and embrace harmony in high-pressure conversations. Why great negotiators must learn to flow like jazz — and how to get there Connect with Derrick https://h-c.com/ Follow Derrick on LinkedIn If you’ve ever walked out of a meeting thinking, “I should’ve done better,” this episode will show you how to make sure that never happens again. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
He Was a Nervous Student — Then Negotiation Changed Everything
A Real Story of Confidence, Clarity, and Breakthroughs In this episode, Kwame talks with Kevin Tuinte, a mechanical engineering student from the Netherlands who discovered the power of negotiation… and never looked back. Through his work with the Negotiation Project Twente, Kevin went from anxious in tough conversations to leading high-level negotiations — even winning global tournaments against top law and business schools. You’ll learn how Kevin trains soft skills in a technical world, why breaks are an underrated tool in high-stakes moments, and how practicing negotiation weekly changed his mindset — and his future. What you’ll learn: – The moment Kevin realized he could stay calm under pressure – Why breaks are a secret weapon in negotiation – How to train confidence, not just tactics – Why negotiation is a bundle of soft skills (and not just for business people) Whether you're a student, professional, or lifelong learner — this is the reminder that negotiation is a skill you can master. And the best time to start is now. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Body Language Trick That Instantly Exposes Weakness —(FBI Expert Explains)
What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don’t even know it? In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered. You’ll learn: – The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start – How to command authority without saying a word – Why “benign curiosity” is the ultimate secret weapon in difficult conversations – The psychological patterns all powerful communicators share Whether you’re negotiating with a client, a boss, or a narcissist — this episode will change how you see people… and how they see you. Connect with Joe Be Exceptional Book Follow Joe on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Aiming for Peace. Aim for Good Conflict Instead
Most conflict conversations fail before they even begin. Steve Beck shares his Good Conflict framework — a practical, human-centered approach that helps you prepare, structure, and recover from difficult conversations. Learn how to deal with competing desires, uncover hidden narratives, and build trust that lasts. Whether at home or at work, this episode will change how you approach conflict forever. Steve Beck is a seasoned expert in organizational leadership and conflict resolution. With over two decades of experience, Steve has honed his skills in resolving conflicts and building strong relationships across diverse settings. His unique approach, named "good conflict," emphasizes curiosity, humility, and prioritizing interests for successful negotiations. Explore more about Steve Beck's work and insights by visiting his website: https://cstevebeck.com/. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Real Reason You Freeze — And How to Break Through
You’re not weak — your nervous system is just overwhelmed. In this deeply practical episode, Kwame Christian sits down with coach and educator Jay Fields to unpack why so many of us lose ourselves in high-stakes conversations. Whether it’s people-pleasing, freezing, or shrinking to avoid conflict, Jay explains how your body’s responses hijack your ability to stay present — and what you can do about it. You’ll learn: The difference between conceptual and embodied self-awareness How to stay connected to your truth in other people’s "force fields" Practical tools to regulate your emotions and recover your voice in real time Jay-Fields.com LinkedIn Learning Courses Follow Jay on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You’re Not Lacking Talent — You’re Lacking Strategy: How to Speak, Sell, and Succeed
Most people don’t lack talent—they lack the confidence to use it. In this enriching episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Amandeep Thind, a seasoned public speaker and negotiation expert, to share his compelling journey from overcoming personal struggles to achieving professional success. Amandeep delves into the importance of confidence development, the necessity of applied knowledge, and the strategic negotiation techniques that have defined his career. The conversation covers his early years of financial hardship, the transformational power of internal negotiation, and the value of networking and mentorship in public speaking. Listeners will gain insight into Amandeep's proven strategies for maximizing career opportunities and negotiating effectively in both personal and professional arenas. What will be covered: The essential steps to build confidence and public speaking skills gradually. The importance of experiential knowledge over theoretical knowledge. Insights into strategic negotiation techniques and career advancement strategies. Connect with Amandeep Thind Instagram: Amandeep Thind Instagram - a Wife and two kids ( 1 baby) https://www.instagram.com/amandeep__thind/ YouTube: Amandeep Thind YouTube Website: Amandeep Thind Website LinkedIn: Amandeep Thind LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Smart People Still Lose Deals — And How to Stop It
Most deals don’t fail on price — they fail on people. In this episode, Kwame sits down with Michiel Koopman, former Dutch soldier and current Head of Trading at Google, to break down why deals collapse even when everything looks good on paper. You’ll learn how ego, weak relationships, and a lack of empathy quietly sabotage negotiations — and what to do instead. Packed with real stories and powerful insights, this conversation will make you rethink how you approach every deal. Follow Michiel Koopman on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Control Your Hormones Before You Ruin the Negotiation — with David JP Phillips
EYour hormones might be sabotaging your negotiations. In this episode, global speaking icon David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to intentionally trigger the right “emotional cocktail” before a high-stakes conversation. You’ll learn how to: • Boost testosterone without acting aggressive • Use oxytocin to build trust—without going soft • Prime your brain for creativity, calm, and clarity • Change your state and even influence theirs If you've ever felt anxious, frozen, or off your game in tough conversations, this episode is your playbook for taking back control—physiologically and psychologically. Stick around for the end—we even talk about how to prep the other person’s mindset without them noticing. Connect with David www.davidjpphillips.com/ Buy the book: Hgh On Life Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What Losing Everything Taught Me About Negotiation - L. Scott Ferguson
In this raw and revealing episode, Scott shares how his early abandonment shaped the way he saw himself — and others — and how it nearly destroyed everything he built. From his time in the military to leading a multimillion-dollar company, Scott opens up about the real cost of ego-driven success. 🔥 You’ll learn: — Why confidence without humility can backfire — The moment Scott realized he needed to change — and how he did it — How physical presence and emotional awareness impact negotiations — What real redemption looks like when you’ve hurt others This isn’t just a story of loss — it’s a masterclass in personal transformation, emotional intelligence, and how the most powerful negotiations are often the ones we have with ourselves. Connect with L. Scott Ferguson Time to Shine Today Time to Shine Today Podcast Follow Scott on LinkedIn Follow Kwame on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You’re Not Missing Skills — You’re Missing Status. Here’s How to Get It, with Alison Fragale
You might be doing everything right — and still not getting the respect you deserve. In this episode, Kwame sits down with psychologist, professor, and author Alison Fragale to expose one of the most overlooked forces in negotiation and career advancement: status. Not money. Not power. Not charisma. But how others perceive your value — and how you can influence that perception. You’ll learn: What “status” really is (and why it’s more powerful than any tactic) Why competence isn’t enough if people don’t respect you How to increase your status before the negotiation even starts The two traits people use to judge you instantly — and how to show both How to build a network that promotes you when you’re not in the room Connect with Alison Follow Alison Fragale on LinkedIn https://alisonfragale.com/ ORDER ALISON’S NEW BOOK - Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Feel Guilty Saying No? The Science Behind Why — And How to Break Free - with Psychologist Guy Winch, TED Speaker & Author
Do you feel selfish, anxious, or even guilty just for saying “no”? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault. In this eye-opening conversation, Kwame sits down with psychologist, author, and TED speaker Guy Winch to unpack the deep psychological roots behind our fear of rejection, the guilt of boundary-setting, and the hidden emotional costs of people-pleasing. You’ll learn: Why rejection hurts like physical pain (yes, literally) How to reframe fear and rewrite the labels you give yourself The secret to setting boundaries without ruining relationships Why most people fail at boundaries — and how to do it right The one question that will completely change how you approach tough conversations This episode is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with speaking up, saying no, or putting themselves first without shame. Plus, Guy gives a sneak peek into his upcoming book Mind Over Grind — and why burnout at work is hitting harder than ever.
Not Loud Enough to Be a Leader? — Learn to Lead on Your Terms
If you've ever felt invisible, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself In this episode, executive coach Patience Ogunbona explains why the modern workplace favors extroverts — and how introverts can stop playing a rigged game. We break down the six pillars of courageous leadership, the hidden strengths of quiet thinkers, and why you don’t have to be the loudest in the room to lead it. If you've ever felt invisible in meetings, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself. And more importantly, the way you show up. Follow Patience on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Soulful Way to Get What You Want — Without Manipulating Anyone
If you've ever felt uncomfortable “selling yourself” — this episode might just change everything. In this episode, Jason Harris, co-founder of the award-winning ad agency Mechanism and author of The Soulful Art of Persuasion, shares how he built a powerhouse business without using manipulation or salesy tactics. Instead, he leaned into empathy, generosity, and storytelling — values most people don’t associate with persuasion. We talk about how to lead with integrity, what it really means to influence without forcing, and why your reputation is the most powerful negotiation tool you have. Connect with Jason Buy the book: The Soulful Art of Persuasion Follow Jason on LinkedIn Jason Harris Mekanism Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Struggling to Be Heard? Learn the Secret of Super Communicators — with Charles Duhigg
Ever walk away from a conversation feeling more disconnected than before? You're not alone — and bestselling author Charles Duhigg is here to explain why. In this powerful episode, Charles (author of The Power of Habit and Supercommunicators) reveals the hidden science behind every conversation that fails — and exactly how to turn it around. Learn how to recognize the 3 types of conversations, why most breakdowns happen even with good intentions, and what super communicators do differently to build trust, defuse tension, and connect deeply — fast. Kwame and Charles break down: Why practical advice often backfires in emotional conversations The “matching principle” and how to use it How to avoid one-upping and start listening for real Why asking better questions is your #1 communication superpower This isn’t just about talking — it’s about leading, connecting, and transforming every difficult conversation you face. Whether you're leading a team, navigating conflict at home, or just want to be heard — this episode is your playbook. Connect with Charles Duhigg Follow Charles Duhigg on LinkedIn https://www.charlesduhigg.com/ Buy the book: Supercommunicators Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The One Thing Smart Leaders Miss About AI: Professor Hise Gibson
Hise Gibson pulls no punches about what’s really standing in the way of successful AI integration: leadership failure. Drawing on decades of experience in combat, crisis, and the boardroom, Professor Gibson explains: Why most leaders are underprepared for the human side of AI adoption—and how to fix it How trust, not technology, determines whether teams resist or accelerate change The overlooked interpersonal deficit caused by the pandemic—and why your team’s soft skills may be your hardest problem Whether you're leading a team, scaling a business, or just trying to navigate the future of work, this conversation will change the way you think about leadership forever. Follow Hise Gibson on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Feel Underpaid? Here’s the Truth About Getting a Raise (with The Naked Negotiator)
Hard work isn’t enough — you need strategy. In this episode, Michael W. Phillips — veteran consultant and author of The Naked Negotiator — reveals why negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms. Drawing from 30 years of high-stakes deals, he shows how the same principles apply when asking for a raise, and why relying on “fairness” can quietly sabotage your career. You’ll learn: What managing your boss really means — and why it’s not sucking up How to replace “fair” with “reasonable” to shift power in any negotiation Why most people never even start the conversation — and how to build the confidence to ask Whether you’re in procurement or pitching your own salary, this episode is a mindset reset you didn’t know you needed Connect with Michael W. Phillips Follow Mike Phillips On LinkedIn https://www.phillipsconsulting.co.uk/ https://michaelwphillips.ampbk.com/ Buy now the book: The Naked Negotiator by Michael W Phillips Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!