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Hard Work Isn’t Enough—You Have to Manage Up! - with Melody Wilding

Managing up is not about flattery. It’s about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) career skills: learning how to manage your boss. If you’ve ever felt invisible, undervalued, or like you're doing everything right but still not moving forward, this conversation will shift your entire perspective on leadership at work. You’ll learn: • Why “being a team player” might be damaging your reputation and future • How to set boundaries without making enemies or risking your job • What managing up really means—and why it’s not the same as sucking up Connect with Melody melodywilding.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 8, 202554 min

How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty – A Masterclass in Boundaries with Eliana Goldstein

Saying yes all the time is the fastest road to burnout. In this episode, career coach Eliana Goldstein breaks down why setting boundaries is essential—not just for your well-being, but for your success. Whether you're leading a team or pivoting your career, this is your wake-up call to stop people-pleasing and start protecting your energy. What You’ll Learn: Why saying “yes” too often can destroy performance and relationships How to set boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish The biggest mistakes people make when trying to advocate for themselves Enroll in THE CAREER UPGRADE COURSE Discount link: https://www.elianagoldsteincoaching.com/offers/hgjebgSL?coupon_code=NEGOTIATEANYTHING BOOK A CAREER ASSESSMENT CALL! Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 7, 202527 min

Why Most People Fail to Persuade — And What to Do Instead — with Omar M. Khateeb

What if your biggest obstacle in sales isn’t your product — but how you’re pitching it? In this episode, Kwame sits down with persuasion expert and medtech strategist Omar M. Khateeb to explore the psychology behind why people actually say yes. From understanding emotional triggers to mastering persuasion at scale, this is a no-fluff conversation packed with insights you can use immediately. What you’ll learn in this episode The biggest persuasion mistake people make (and how it silently kills deals) How to use Omar’s “Present Pain, Future Fear” framework to drive action The difference between ethical persuasion and manipulation — and how to stay on the right side Whether you're a sales pro, entrepreneur, or just trying to get better at influencing others, this episode is a masterclass in how to persuade without pushing. Connect with Omar M. Khateeb Omar's Social Media Omar's blog Follow Omar on LinkedIn L[in] Profile Upgrade Course Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 6, 202534 min

From Fear to Influence: The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by strategic communications executive Maha Abouelenein. With extensive experience at top-tier companies like Google and Netflix, Maha shares invaluable advice on building personal brands, effective storytelling, and the power of self-reliance. Together, they delve into the nuances of value creation in professional relationships and overcoming fears in communication. With actionable tips and real-life examples, this conversation is a goldmine for anyone looking to elevate their negotiation skills and personal branding. What will be covered: Maha Abouelenein's professional background and her new book, "The Seven Rules of Self-Reliance." Key strategies for effective communication and the importance of authenticity. How to create value in relationships and why it's crucial for successful negotiations Connect with Maha Order the Book 7 Rules of Self-Reliance: How to Stay Low, Keep Moving, Invest in Yourself, and Own Your Future Maha Website Follow Maha on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 5, 202526 min

The FBI’s Top Hostage Negotiator Reveals What Actually Works in Negotiation – with Gary Noesner

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Gary Noesner, a retired chief of the FBI Crisis Negotiation Unit with 30 years of experience in high-stakes negotiations. Gary shares captivating stories from his career, including his involvement in major cases like Waco, and offers profound insights into the principles of effective negotiation and conflict resolution. They discuss the essential qualities of a good negotiator, the importance of genuine communication, and the critical role of emotional intelligence. Listeners will gain valuable lessons on building respect in relationships, learning from mistakes, and the impact of authenticity in both professional and personal negotiations. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from Gary's experiences and wisdom that have saved lives and resolved critical situations. What Will Be Covered: Gary Noesner's experiences as a chief negotiator for the FBI, including high-profile cases like Waco. The key traits of successful negotiators: genuineness, sincerity, trustworthiness, and reliability. The parallels between law enforcement negotiations and business negotiations, emphasizing the importance of maintaining positive relationships. Follow Gary Noesner on LinkedIn Gary Noesner LinkedIn page Gary Noesner website Buy Gary's book: "Stalling For Time." Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 4, 202550 min

Why You’re Not Being Heard—And How to Change That Through Assertiveness

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Ivna Curi to discuss the art of assertive communication in negotiations. Overcoming numerous setbacks, the duo dives deep into the core of being assertive without losing warmth, an essential skill for both personal and professional life. Ivna shares invaluable insights from her extensive experience helping professionals, with a particular focus on women, to speak up confidently and effectively. The episode is packed with actionable strategies, practical examples, and proven techniques to master assertiveness in the workplace and beyond. What will be covered: The four components of assertiveness: expressing oneself, showing respect, maintaining calmness, and being effective. Common myths about assertiveness, including perceptions of aggression and conflict. Replacing negative communication habits, such as complaining and assuming, with actionable, solution-focused approaches. Connect with Ivna Follow Ivna Curi on LinkedIn Assertive Way Institute LinkedIn page Assertive Way website Ivna's podcast: "Speak Your Mind Unapologetically." Ivna's Ted Talk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 3, 202558 min

The Silent Mistake Brilliant People Make When the Pressure’s On

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian and guest Matt Abrahams delve into the art of effective communication, particularly when responding on the spot in high-stakes situations. Matt, a communication expert, shares insights from his new book, "Think Faster, Talk Smarter," and emphasizes the importance of mindset, audience understanding, and empathy. They discuss common communication pitfalls and provide tangible strategies to improve spontaneity and connection in both personal and professional interactions. Listeners will discover how reframing mindset and practicing spontaneity can lead to more authentic and effective communication. In this episode, we cover: The significance of mindset and empathy in effective communication. Strategies for improving spontaneity and adapting communication under pressure. The importance of thinking about your audience's needs rather than just your message. Listeners will learn: How to approach spontaneous communication as an opportunity rather than a challenge. Techniques to improve connection through paraphrasing and empathy. Ways to prepare effectively for impromptu interactions in negotiations and daily conversations. Keywords: negotiation, communication skills, spontaneous communication, effective communication, empathy in negotiation. Connect with Matt Buy the Book: Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You're Put on the Spot Listen to: Think Fast, Talk Smart Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 2, 202529 min

Never Lead Alone: Keith Ferrazzi on the Mindset Behind Exceptional Teams

Buy the book Never Lead Alone: 10 Shifts from Leadership to Teamship In this engaging episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian sits down with Keith Ferrazzi, a high-performing teams coach and bestselling author, to discuss the transformative power of shifting from traditional leadership models to teamship paradigms. Throughout the conversation, they explore practical strategies for building trust, enhancing team accountability, and embracing conflict resolution to boost team performance. Keith emphasizes the importance of operationalizing these concepts with actionable steps and social contracts within teams. This discussion provides invaluable insights for leaders and team members looking to foster a more collaborative and dynamic organizational culture. What will be covered: The concept of moving from leadership to teamship and its impact on team dynamics. Practices for fostering peer-to-peer accountability and resilience within teams. Strategies for building trust through personal, structural, and professional levels of engagement. What listeners will learn: How to implement practical techniques to improve team performance and negotiation skills. Ways to address and overcome trust deficits within organizations through simple practices. Methods for team members to lead from within by promoting ownership and accountability. Connect with Keith Ferrazzi Buy the book Never Lead Alone: 10 Shifts from Leadership to Teamship Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Apr 1, 202532 min

Feedback Feels Like a Fight? Here’s How to Change That — with Heather MacArthur

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes back Heather MacArthur to explore the intricacies of giving and receiving effective feedback. Heather, an expert in coaching and consulting with a wealth of experience across various industries, shares her unique insights into how to create a productive feedback dialogue. Listeners will learn about Heather's innovative "above the line" feedback model and how to handle feedback they might initially disagree with. This conversation is a goldmine for anyone looking to refine their negotiation skills and become better communicators within both professional and personal environments. What will be covered: Effective strategies for giving feedback without appear accusatory or confrontational. Techniques for receiving feedback positively and using it to improve interactions. Handling disagreement in feedback to maintain constructive dialogue. What listeners will learn: How to maintain an open mindset and genuine curiosity when giving feedback. The "LEAP" approach to receiving feedback while managing emotional responses. Ways to manage difficult conversations to foster trust, even when disagreements arise. Keywords: negotiation skills, effective feedback, communication strategies, handling difficult conversations, professional development. Connect with Heather MacArthur Low Man on the Totem Pole Podcast Heather's Forbes Articles Follow Heather on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 31, 202533 min

The Psychology of Negotiation Under Pressure

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Dr. Mat Park, an organizational development specialist and sports psychology expert, to discuss mastering your mindset and performing under pressure. Dr. Park shares his multifaceted approach to leadership coaching and mental training, drawing from his experience with elite golfers and executives. Together, they explore the importance of balancing craft, body, and mindset, and dive into the crucial aspect of addressing stress to enhance performance in both negotiations and everyday life. Listeners will gain insights into the science behind stressors, how to strengthen mental acuity, and the significance of emotional intelligence in achieving negotiation success. What will be covered: The three essential components of performance: mastering craft, body conditioning, and mindset. The difference between stress and stressors, and how they impact performance. The role of emotional intelligence in negotiations and leadership. Connect with Dr. Mat Park The Insight Company Dr. Mat's story at NASA Mental Performance Golf Academy Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 30, 202528 min

Why Saying No Can Make People Trust You More

In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian delves into the often-overlooked yet crucial role of saying "no" in negotiation. While many focus on getting to "yes," Kwame explains why mastering the art of saying "no" can actually enhance your negotiation results and relationships. Through insightful strategies like the "no sandwich" technique, listeners will learn to deliver their "no" in a way that is both respectful and effective. With practical examples and actionable advice, this episode equips you with the tools to handle difficult conversations with poise and clarity. What will be covered: The psychological barriers that make saying "no" challenging. Common ineffective strategies when people try to avoid saying "no." Techniques for saying "no" without damaging relationships, such as the "no sandwich." Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 29, 202532 min

The #1 Career Trap Women Fall Into — And How to Avoid It - with Kweilin Ellingrud

Buy Now The Broken Rung: When the Career Ladder Breaks for Women--and How They Can Succeed in Spite of It In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Kweilin Ellingrud and Simon Perez to discuss strategies for career advancement, overcoming workplace biases, and the importance of financial and physical health. Kweilin, a senior partner at McKinsey & Co, shares insights from her book "The Broken Rung," focusing on how women can proactively navigate their careers and increase their lifetime earnings. The conversation delves into topics such as the concept of experience capital, the significance of making bold career moves, and the evolving role of negotiation and soft skills in today's workforce. This episode provides listeners with a holistic approach to success, combining career strategy with a focus on health and well-being. Topics Covered: The concept of experience capital and its impact on career growth and earnings. Strategies for overcoming workplace biases and advocating for oneself. The importance of choosing the right company and the role of negotiation and soft skills. Connect With Kweilin Ellingrud Follow Kweilin Ellingrud on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 28, 202543 min

Saying the Right Thing Doesn’t Matter If You Deliver It Wrong – with Communication Expert Michael Hoeppner

Buy Now The Book Don't Say Um: How to Communicate Effectively to Live a Better Life In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes expert communicators Michael Hoeppner and Simon Perez to discuss the intricacies of effective communication, especially under pressure. Michael shares his unique insights into enhancing delivery rather than just focusing on content, emphasizing the importance of being present and other-focused in high-stakes situations. They delve into practical exercises that can transform your approach to negotiation, with a focus on embodied cognition and physical presence. This enlightening conversation offers valuable strategies for unlocking authentic communication skills that resonate in any negotiation setting. What will be covered: The significance of focusing on delivery over content in high-stakes communication. Practical exercises to improve physical presence and reduce self-consciousness. Insights from Michael Hoeppner on helping public figures like Andrew Yang communicate effectively. https://gktraining.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 27, 202547 min

How to Talk About Money Without Ruining the Relationship (or Yourself) - with Elizabeth Husserl

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Elizabeth Husserl, a financial advisor and money therapist, to explore the intriguing relationship between money, psychology, and negotiation. Elizabeth shares her journey of blending economics and psychology for effective financial planning, emphasizing the importance of understanding our emotional relationship with money. Through personal stories and expert insights, listeners will uncover how to navigate financial conversations with loved ones and feel empowered in monetary negotiations. The episode sheds light on redefining wealth beyond monetary gains, providing practical tools for self-assessment and improvement. What the episode will cover: The intersection of economics and psychology in financial planning and decision-making. Personal stories around contrasting money personalities in relationships. Practical tools and exercises for improving your financial conversations and negotiations. Connect with Elizabeth Husserl Buy the Book The Power of Enough: Finding Joy in Your Relationship with Money https://elizabethhusserl.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 26, 202540 min

What Your Team Isn’t Telling You—And Why It’s Holding Everyone Back

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Most employees want to do a good job but they don't always know how to tell you what they need. In this episode, Melina Palmer Applied Behaviour Economist, author, and host of the podcast The Brainy Business explains the things your employees need from you that they can't always tell you. She also provides tips on how to break down barriers to change and create micro-habits that will help your team succeed. Connect with Melina Follow Melina Palmer on LinkedIn The Brainy Business Buy The Book "What Your Employees Need and Can't Tell You" Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 25, 202529 min

How to Set Boundaries and Still Be You

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian and guest Melissa Hereford delve into the art of setting effective boundaries in negotiation. Melissa, with over 23 years of experience in teaching negotiation skills, shares her unique perspective on how these skills are applicable beyond the corporate world, affecting personal and professional relationships. Through engaging discussions and role-playing scenarios, they explore the importance of preparation, clarity, and flexibility in negotiations. Whether you're negotiating a salary or everyday agreements, this episode equips you with actionable strategies to enhance your conversational effectiveness. What Will Be Covered: The significance of setting boundaries in negotiation using metaphorical concepts like fences and roots. Practical tips for being clear and concise in your communication to maintain credibility and confidence. How preparation and strategic planning can greatly improve your negotiation outcomes. Connect with Melissa Melissa's Website Follow Melissa on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 24, 202541 min

Unlearn Silence: How to Speak Up Without Regret - Elaine Lin Hering

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company This episode is essential for anyone looking to break free from the constraints of silence to lead a more fulfilled, authentic, and vocal life. Whether you’re striving to assert your ideas more confidently, aiming to create a more inclusive and expressive workplace, or simply seeking to live more fully, “Unlearning Silence” offers the opportunity and the tools needed for change. Join Kwame Christian, CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, for an exclusive LinkedIn Live event as he sits down with Elaine Lin Hering, author of the transformative book, “Unlearning Silence: How to Speak Your Mind, Unleash Talent, and Live More Fully.” This paradigm-shifting discussion will delve into the pervasive influence of silence in our personal and professional lives and explore practical strategies for dismantling these barriers to truly find and use our voices. You'll learn: Insightful Analysis: Understand the deep-seated reasons behind why we choose silence over speaking out and how this affects our careers and personal lives. Practical Tools: Learn concrete strategies from Elaine Lin Hering on how to break the cycle of silence, making more intentional choices about your presence at home and at work. Real-life Applications: Gain insights through real-life examples discussed by Hering, illustrating the impact of unlearning silence. Guided Road Map: Receive a clear, actionable road map for navigating the challenges of speaking your truth and unleashing your full potential. Empowerment: Discover how unlearning silence can not only transform your own life but also create a ripple effect that empowers those around you. Connect with Elaine Lin Hering Follow Elaine Lin Hering on LinkedIn Buy the book: Unlearning Silence HOW TO SPEAK YOUR MIND, UNLEASH TALENT, AND LIVE MORE FULLY By Elaine Lin Hering https://elainelinhering.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 23, 202546 min

Difficult Colleagues? How to Manage Workplace Drama Without Sacrificing Your Peace

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this eye-opening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with Catherine Mattice, founder of Civility Partners, to tackle one of the biggest workplace challenges—dealing with difficult colleagues and navigating workplace conflict. Feeling drained by office politics? Struggling to stand up to overbearing coworkers? Unsure how to address workplace tension without making things worse? This episode is for you. Catherine, an expert in workplace dynamics and conflict resolution, shares practical strategies to: Address disrespectful behavior before it escalates Set firm boundaries without damaging relationships Coach difficult colleagues to shift their behavior Navigate power struggles and regain confidence Workplace challenges don’t have to hold you back. Whether you're dealing with passive-aggressive behavior, office drama, or direct intimidation, this episode equips you with the tools to stay in control and negotiate your way to a better work environment. Listen now and start taking back your power. Connect with Catherine Buy Now The Book: Back Off! by Catherine Mattice Follow Catherine on LinkedIn https://civilitypartners.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 22, 202537 min

The Psychological Tactics Bullies Use — And How to Outsmart Them

Buy the Book: For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Lucia Kanter St. Amour to discuss the complex dynamics of negotiating with bullies. Lucia, an expert in negotiation and mediation, shares her personal experiences and insights on handling bullying, drawing from her new book "For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation." Through engaging storytelling and practical advice, the episode explores Lucia's approach to negotiation, emphasizing the importance of building coalitions, understanding emotional dynamics, and strategizing effectively against high-conflict personalities. Using real-life examples, they delve into the societal roots of bullying, offering listeners valuable tools to manage these difficult conversations. What will be covered: Lucia's personal experiences with bullies and how they shaped her negotiation strategies. The societal roots of bullying and its prevalence in adult interactions. Practical negotiation techniques when facing bullies, including building rapport and understanding emotional dynamics. What listeners will learn: How to identify and respond to bullies using effective negotiation techniques. The importance of coalition-building and having allies when negotiating with difficult personalities. Strategies to maintain composure and protect oneself in high-pressure negotiation scenarios. SEO Friendly Keywords: negotiation techniques, negotiating with bullies, handling difficult conversations, mediation strategies, emotional dynamics in negotiation. Connect with Lucia Lucia's Podcast: Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation Book Synopsis: FOR THE FORCES OF GOOD Buy the Book: For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation Web: Pactum Factum Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 21, 20251h 1m

Tired of Unproductive Talks? Tips for More Meaningful Negotiations in Work and Life

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company To get involved with the Ohio State Alumni Association or the Young Alumni Academy, please visit the following links: Ohio State Alumni Association: https://www.osu.edu/alumni/ Young Alumni Academy: https://www.osu.edu/alumni/get-involved/young-alumni-academy In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Carly Wood and Lisa McLeod to delve into the nuances of negotiation, especially as it pertains to Young Alumni. The discussion opens with Carly Wood sharing her experience with the Ohio State Alumni Association and the value of working with the Young Alumni Academy. The conversation covers strategies for avoiding a myopic mindset in negotiations, leveraging silence effectively, and cultivating common understanding instead of common ground. The episode provides practical advice for managing emotions in both personal and professional discussions, and emphasizes the importance of preparation in negotiations. What will be covered: The role of emotional regulation in negotiation and conflict resolution. How to maintain flexibility and openness in discussions to avoid a one-track mindset. Strategies for finding common understanding when common ground seems elusive. What listeners will learn: Techniques for effectively using silence as a strategic tool in negotiations. How to differentiate between manipulation and persuasion, especially in personal negotiations. Tips for young professionals on negotiating salary, promotions, and work conditions. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 20, 202551 min

Afraid to Negotiate? How to Get What You Want Without Hurting Relationships

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian invites Sarah JanTausch to share her extensive experience in politics and how it connects to negotiating through fear. With years of involvement at local, state, and national levels, Sarah delves into stories and strategies that women in politics often face, highlighting the role of negotiation. They explore the psychological aspects of negotiation, combating impostor syndrome, and how incentive structures from economics can be applied to everyday negotiations. This conversation offers practical advice for building confidence and approaching difficult conversations with clarity and purpose. Bullet points of what will be covered: Techniques to negotiate through fear both internally and externally. Insights into how impostor syndrome and fear manifest in negotiation. Strategies for successful political fundraising through negotiation principles. Bullet points of what listeners will learn: How to apply incentive structures in negotiations to understand all parties involved. The importance of acknowledging and overcoming perfectionism to enhance negotiation skills. Effective approaches to asking for money in political campaigns, ensuring alignment with personal and campaign values. Follow Sarah on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 19, 202532 min

Negotiation Decoded: How Data Exposes Hidden Human Behaviors

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this captivating episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian is joined by negotiation professor and psychologist Jordi Quoidbach. They explore the revolutionary ways artificial intelligence and large language models are transforming negotiation research and strategies. From dissecting the effectiveness of open-ended questions to analyzing non-verbal cues, Jordi shares his groundbreaking findings on what really works in negotiations today. The discussion deepens into how these insights can enhance negotiation skills, ultimately leading to better decision-making and increased happiness. What will be covered: The evolution of negotiation research from traditional methods to the use of AI and large language models. Surprising findings on the role of questions and non-verbal behaviors in successful negotiation outcomes. The psychological elements of negotiation, including how emotions impact decision-making. Connect with Jordi https://www.quoidbach.org/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 18, 202543 min

The Irish Secret to Conflict Resolution: How Enda Young Turns Division into Dialogue

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian chats with Enda Young, the managing director of Mediation Northern Ireland, about conflict resolution, negotiation, and mediation. Enda shares his journey from being a mechanical engineer to becoming a prominent figure in the world of conflict resolution after being deeply influenced by the aftermath of a bombing in Northern Ireland, which emphasized the power of reconciliation. The conversation delves into different approaches to negotiation and mediation, highlighting how one's ego and ability to step back can impact the efficacy of a resolution. The duo explores the nuances of effective mediation, the importance of personal growth in handling conflicts, and how international experiences shape one's understanding of negotiation. Discover the intersection between negotiation and mediation and how they share fundamental skills. Explore the role of ego and personal growth in effective conflict resolution. Learn about unique strategies and personal anchors to enhance negotiation and mediation skills. Listeners will learn: How to differentiate between a negotiator's mindset and a mediator's perspective to enhance dispute resolution strategies. Techniques to maintain emotional maturity and awareness in high-stakes negotiations. The importance of self-awareness in personal and professional conflicts to achieve sustainable solutions. Connect with Enda Follow Enda Young on LinkedIn Mediation Northern Ireland LinkedIn page Mediation Northern Ireland website Certified International Negotiator Course Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 17, 202530 min

Tired of Being Taken for Granted? Learn How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of the Negotiate Anything podcast, host Kwame Christian sits down with self-esteem and relationship expert Natalie Lue. Natalie shares her personal journey of transformation from a chronic people pleaser to a boundary-setting advocate. This conversation dives deep into the intricacies of people pleasing, highlighting how it serves as a barrier to authentic relationships and self-worth. Listeners will gain valuable insights into identifying their own people-pleasing behaviors and the empowering life changes that can result from setting boundaries effectively. In this episode, we cover: How to identify people-pleasing tendencies and their subtle manifestations in daily interactions. The empowering nature of overcoming people pleasing and its positive impact on relationships. A simple technique for distinguishing between actions driven by desire versus obligation. Follow Natalie on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 16, 202547 min

Kwame Christian: The Art of Walking Away— When to Do It with Confidence

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian delves into the dynamics of walking away from a negotiation or a deal. He emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset from deal-making to deal discovery, ensuring listeners approach negotiations without unnecessary pressure. Kwame discusses the critical role of preparation, especially understanding and working with your BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement), to maintain leverage and confidence. He also highlights the nuances of effectively communicating while deciding to walk away, ensuring that bridges aren't burned and doors are left open for future opportunities. What will be covered: The shift in mindset from deal-making to deal discovery. The significance of preparing your BATNA for better negotiation outcomes. How to gracefully walk away from a negotiation without damaging relationships. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 15, 202550 min

Is a Narcissist Controlling You? A High-Conflict Expert Reveals How to Take Back Your Power

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by negotiation expert and attorney Rebecca Zung. Rebecca shares her insights on dealing with narcissists and bullies in negotiation settings, empowering listeners with strategies to shift from being victims to victors. She introduces her SLAY methodology, which stands for strategy, leverage, anticipate, and you, to help individuals confidently navigate high-conflict situations. This conversation is particularly relevant for anyone looking to refine their negotiation skills and effectively handle difficult personalities. What will be covered: Definition and identification of narcissistic behaviors in negotiation settings Rebecca Zung's SLAY methodology for negotiating with high-conflict individuals Strategies for setting boundaries and breaking free from toxic relationships Connect with Rebecca Rebecca's Website Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 14, 202550 min

Molly Fletcher: The Internal Negotiation Behind Every Success

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with Molly Fletcher, a former sports agent turned author and speaker, to discuss the impactful role of confidence in negotiation. Molly shares her incredible journey from negotiating everyday scenarios learned from her mother to handling multimillion-dollar deals in the sports industry, emphasizing the importance of imagination, practice, and resilience. The conversation explores Molly's concept of "Dynamic Drive" as a life philosophy that incorporates relentless self-improvement and stepping into discomfort to achieve better outcomes. This engaging discussion offers listeners insights into improving their negotiation skills while embracing a confident and dynamic approach to life's challenges. What Will Be Covered: Molly Fletcher's career transition from a sports agent to an author and speaker. The influence of everyday negotiations and the role of confidence in high-stakes deals. The philosophy behind Molly's upcoming book, "Dynamic Drive," which promotes continuous personal growth. Connect with Molly Pre-Order The Book: Dynamic Drive: The Purpose-Fueled Formula for Sustainable Success Molly's Website Follow Molly on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 13, 202532 min

Kate Vitasek: "Stop negotiating, turn around and align interests."

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of the "Negotiate Anything" podcast, host Kwame Christian welcomes negotiation expert Kate Vitasek to share her groundbreaking approach to negotiation and collaboration. Vitasek, a faculty member at the University of Tennessee, discusses her vested methodology which encourages aligning interests rather than traditional negotiation tactics. Through shared stories including a successful high-stakes negotiation within the Canadian healthcare system, Vitasek illustrates how collaboration can lead to innovative solutions, transforming toxic adversarial relationships into trusting, cooperative partnerships. Listeners will learn the potential of using vested negotiation strategies to foster stronger business relationships and prevent disputes before they begin. What will be covered: Introduction to Kate Vitasek's vested methodology and its application in negotiation. Real-world success stories of transforming relationships through collaboration, particularly within Canadian healthcare. The process and impact of redefining negotiation through alignment of interests and mutual trust. Connect with Kate Vitasek https://www.vestedway.com/ Kate Vitasek Books Follow Kate on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 12, 202530 min

Todd Dewett: The Hidden Dangers of Avoiding Difficult Conversations

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode, Kwame Christian is joined by guest Todd Dewett to explore the art of authentic leadership in the business world. They delve into Todd's unconventional career path and his compelling take on authenticity, informed by experiences both in academia and the corporate landscape. Todd shares insights from his new book "Dancing with Monsters," where he uses a creative fable featuring a vampire to illustrate important leadership lessons. Together, they discuss the power of vulnerability, the balance between candor and kindness, and the significance of relationships in fostering a positive workplace culture. What will be covered: Todd's unconventional career journey from academia to business consulting and public speaking. Insights and stories from Todd Dewett's new book "Dancing with Monsters". Discussion on the dynamics of candor and kindness in leadership within the context of negotiation. Connect with Todd: www.drdewett.com Follow Todd on LinkedIn Buy Now the book- Dancing with Monsters: A Tale About Leadership, Success, and Overcoming Fears Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 11, 202530 min

Exploring Conflict Resilience: A New Approach to Negotiating and Mediation with Bob Bordone

In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian engages with negotiation and conflict resolution experts Bob Bordone and Simon Dowling. The discussion dives deep into the concept of "conflict resilience," a pivotal element of effective negotiation strategies often overlooked in traditional teachings. Bob Bordone shares his insights from years of experience, emphasizing the importance of sitting with the discomfort of differences and approaching conflict not as a threat, but as a powerful means to build stronger connections and relationships. The conversation also explores how neuroscience and personal introspection can enhance one’s ability to negotiate with empathy and assertiveness, ultimately contributing to a more productive dialogue both personally and professionally. What will be covered: The definition and importance of conflict resilience in negotiation. The evolution of negotiation strategies, incorporating elements of emotional intelligence and neuroscience. Practical examples and techniques to enhance personal conflict resilience, drawing from internal family systems (IFS) and affective labeling.

Mar 10, 202545 min

The Hidden Job Market: The Best Opportunities Aren’t Where You Think

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian engages with guest Mac Prichard, a seasoned expert in career development and public relations. Mac shares valuable insights into navigating the hidden job market, emphasizing the importance of informational interviews in uncovering unadvertised job opportunities. The conversation delves into strategic approaches for effectively negotiating and networking to enhance career prospects. Listeners will gain critical perspectives on how clarity, goal setting, and effective communication can transform their career trajectories. What Will Be Covered: The concept of the hidden job market and its significance in career advancement. The structure and purpose of informational interviews as a negotiation tool. Techniques to effectively reach out and communicate with potential career contacts. Connect with Mac Follow Mac Prichard on LinkedIn Macs list LinkedIn page Website: Mac's List Podcast: Find Your Dream Job Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 9, 202527 min

Erika Ayers Badan: Nobody Cares About Your Career

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by Erika Ayers Badan, the CEO of Food52 and former CEO of Barstool Sports, to discuss the nuances of workplace negotiations and the power of authenticity in one's career. Erika shares her journey of negotiating in various industries, from sports entertainment to lifestyle, and highlights the importance of staying true to oneself. The conversation delves deep into how authenticity can be a powerful tool in both personal and professional negotiations, as well as the courage it takes to say no when necessary. Listeners will gain insights into Erika's vast experience in negotiations, her thought process behind tough decisions, and how she navigates complex deal-making scenarios. What will be covered: The significance of authenticity in successful negotiations and career growth. Insights from Erika's personal negotiation experiences, including the sale of Barstool Sports and dealings with major media companies like ESPN. Strategies for setting boundaries and saying no in professional settings. Connect with Erika Ayers Badan Buy the Book: Nobody Cares About Your Career Follow Erika on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 8, 202541 min

Split the Pie: A Radical New Way to Negotiate - with Barry J. Nalebuff

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian engages with Barry Nalebuff, a renowned Yale professor and seasoned entrepreneur, to explore the art of negotiation through the lens of fairness and empathy. Drawing insights from his book "Split the Pie: A Radical, Revolutionary New Way to Negotiate," Nalebuff shares a unique approach to dividing resources that dates back 2,000 years. Through compelling examples, Nalebuff illustrates the power of logic and emotional intelligence in achieving successful negotiations. Listeners will discover how transparency, fairness, and a principled approach can transform their negotiation outcomes. What will be covered: Barry Nalebuff's "Split the Pie" negotiation strategy and its historical roots. The significance of empathy and logic in negotiation scenarios. Real-world examples, including a negotiation with Coca-Cola and fair compensation for teachers. Connect with Barry Barry's website Follow Barry on LinkedIn Buy Now Split the Pie: A Radical New Way to Negotiate by Barry Nalebuff Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 7, 202533 min

Seth Godin: The Power of Creating Tension in Negotiations

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with the legendary Seth Godin to delve into the art of creative conversations and negotiation. Together, they explore the complexities of enrolling others into creative marketing strategies and how to manage difficult conversations effectively. Seth shares insightful anecdotes from his career, highlighting the importance of creating the right conditions for dialogue and the strategic use of tension in negotiation. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the psychology behind negotiation, focusing on status, affiliation, and maintaining consistency. What will be covered: The concept of enrollment and its role in successful creative conversations. The strategic use of tension and status in negotiations. Seth Godin’s personal experiences and anecdotes that illustrate effective negotiation techniques. Connect with Seth Godin sethgodin.com Akimbo: A Podcast from Seth Godin Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 6, 202529 min

IBM’s Cindy Anderson & Anthony Marshal on Thought Leadership for Negotiators

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Cindy Anderson and Anthony Marshal, two thought leaders from the IBM Institute for Business Value. The discussion centers around their co-authored book, "The ROI of Thought Leadership," and its unique intersection with negotiation. They explore the tangible impact of thought leadership on negotiation, persuasion, and communication, offering listeners actionable insights. As Cindy and Anthony dispel common misconceptions, they provide a roadmap for individuals to harness thought leadership to amplify their authority and negotiation skills. What will be covered: A deep dive into what thought leadership truly means and common misconceptions about it. A discussion on how thought leadership intersects with negotiation and enhances persuasive communication skills. Exploration of practical steps for individuals to become thought leaders and effectively produce thought leadership. Buy Now The ROI of Thought Leadership: Calculating the Value that Sets Organizations Apart Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 5, 202531 min

Your Boss Won’t Tell You This: How to Get a Raise with Meggie Palmer

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian is joined by Meggie Palmer, founder of Pep Talkher, to discuss the art of knowing your worth and securing the compensation you deserve, especially in light of today's economic challenges. Meggie shares insights into her mission to close the gender pay gap and highlights the importance of recognizing your value in the workplace. With practical advice on preparing for salary negotiations, Meggie arms listeners with the tools to approach these crucial conversations with confidence and strategy. Tune in to explore how self-awareness, preparation, and advocacy can transform your career trajectory. In this episode, we will cover: The importance of knowing your worth and how it impacts salary negotiations. Strategies for effective preparation for salary discussions, even amidst the challenges posed by inflation. Ways in which employees can advocate for themselves and others in creating equitable workplaces. Join peptalkher - closing the gender gap Follow Meggie Palmer on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 4, 202526 min

Culture Over Tactics: Richard Cogswell’s Formula for Sales Success

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," Kwame Christian engages in a compelling conversation with Richard Cogswell, author of "The Cultural Sales Leader: Sustaining People, Attaining Results." Richard shares insights from his book, drawing from his extensive experience in sales leadership across the Asia Pacific region. He emphasizes the importance of culture within sales teams, explaining how effective leadership goes beyond mere tactics to foster an environment where teams can thrive. Listeners will gain an understanding of how to align sales strategies with organizational culture to achieve lasting success. What will be covered: Richard Cogswell's journey and career insights in the payments, data, and technology industry. The significance of culture in transforming sales teams for long-term success. Challenges and solutions in sales leadership, including dealing with high performers and aligning cross-functional teams. Connect with Richard Cogswell www.richardcogswell.com Buy the book: The Cultural Sales Leader: Sustaining People, Attaining Results Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 3, 202530 min

Unlocking Persuasion Secrets with Adele Gambardella and Kwame Christian

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," Kwame Christian sits down with Adele Gambardella to explore the art of mastering negotiation techniques. Adele shares insights from her expansive career in journalism, PR, and crisis communication, and unveils strategies from her new book "Convince Me," co-authored with former FBI hostage negotiator Chip Massey. They discuss the importance of crossing disciplines to create unique negotiation strategies, the concept of targeted validation, and Adele's revelations around how our convincing techniques are established as early as age six. Through a rich dialogue, listeners are equipped with practical tactics to become more persuasive in their professional and personal lives. What will be covered: How Adele Gambardella integrates PR and crisis communication with FBI hostage negotiation techniques in her book "Convince Me." The concept of targeted validation and its efficacy in negotiation situations. The impact of starting with your strongest point in negotiations and how to navigate the convincing continuum. Order today te book CONVINCE ME and claim your exclusive bonuses convincingcompany.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 2, 202541 min

Wies Bratby: Unveiling the Power of Negotiation for Women

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this empowering episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by Wies Bratby, an expert in career negotiation and advocacy for women. Wies shares her journey from a lawyer to creating her organization, Women in Negotiation (WIN), where she helps women negotiate their careers and salaries with astonishing success. The conversation delves into the importance of mindset, self-value, and developing a communication model to achieve personal and professional growth. Wies emphasizes the transformative power of negotiation, not only in financial terms but also in building self-confidence and recognizing one's worth. What will be covered: Wies Bratby's unique approach to empowering women to advocate and negotiate for themselves. The success of Women in Negotiation's coaching program and its impact on women's careers. The role of mindset in negotiation and overcoming societal barriers. Connect with Wies Listen to Winning with Wies Bratby Podcast Wies' website: https://womeninnegotiation.org/ Contact Wies: https://linktr.ee/womeninnegotiation Register to The Free Seminar with Wies Follow Wies on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Mar 1, 202532 min

The Compassionate Curiosity Framework Explained - with Kwame Christian and Lindsay Andrews

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian takes on the role of the interviewee as Lindsay Andrews sits down with him to delve into mastering the art of difficult conversations through his compassionate curiosity framework. Kwame shares his journey from being a people pleaser to becoming a negotiation expert, emphasizing the importance of self-trust, emotional management, and proactive engagement in challenging discussions. Lindsay and Kwame exchange valuable insights on how to navigate emotionally charged situations, build confidence, and transform fear into productive action. Tune in to learn how negotiation isn't just a skill but an empowering identity that can strengthen relationships and foster personal growth. What will be covered: The compassionate curiosity framework and its three steps: validating emotions, compassionate curiosity, and joint problem-solving. The role of emotional management, introspection, and self-reflection in preparing for difficult conversations. Strategies for building trust, confidence, and navigating fear and imposter syndrome in negotiation contexts. Listen to the Unstuck on You Podcast by Lindsay Andrews Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 28, 202539 min

Angela Cheng-Cimini: Mastering Difficult Conversations in HR

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Angela Cheng-Cimini, a seasoned HR professional with three decades of experience. Angela shares her expertise on navigating difficult conversations in the workplace, particularly those resembling mediation between conflicting parties. Delving deep into the essence of organizational courage, Angela emphasizes the importance of open communication and self-awareness in professional settings. As she transitions into a new chapter in her life, Angela reflects on the value of being honest and transparent to foster a productive work environment. What will be covered: Strategies for handling workplace mediations and resolving conflicts effectively. The concept of organizational courage and its impact on corporate culture. Angela's personal experiences and insights from her extensive HR career. Follow Angela on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 27, 202527 min

Bridging Divides: Negotiation Lessons from City Leadership with Mayor Tony Roswarski & Mayor Erin Easter

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company How do leaders navigate tough conversations, build collaboration across political and community lines, and handle high-stakes negotiations? In this insightful episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Mayor Tony Roswarski (Lafayette, IN) and Mayor Erin Easter (West Lafayette, IN) to explore the art of negotiation in city leadership. Together, they break down: The power of finding common ground in divided communities Active listening as a tool for trust and persuasion The challenge of misinformation and how to counter it in public discussions Emotional intelligence in leadership—how to repair missteps and foster collaboration The hidden power of relationships in negotiations Whether you're leading a team, managing community disputes, or handling difficult conversations in your daily life, this episode is packed with practical negotiation strategies you can apply immediately. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 26, 202559 min

Effective Storytelling: Stop Being Nice, Start Being Clear - Amber Wright

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by Dr. Amber Wright, a communication expert, to explore the transformative power of storytelling in negotiation. With nearly 20 years of experience, Amber shares her expertise in fostering effective communication practices, both in personal and professional settings. The discussion delves into the critical questions that define human interactions and the responsibility we have in showing up authentically in conversations. Through engaging dialogue, Amber provides practical strategies for improving communication and increasing confidence, highlighting the intersection of preparation, persuasion, and authenticity in difficult conversations. What will be covered: The role of storytelling in negotiation and its impact on effective communication. The WSD Method for clear communication and its application in various settings. The relationship between confidence, preparation, and successful persuasion. Connect with Amber Wright Follow Amber Wright on LinkedIn https://wordswellsaid.com/ Get a free chapter of Can We Talk Shop now: Can we talk? Cards Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 26, 202548 min

The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Secrets to Getting People to Reveal the Truth – John R. "Jack" Schafer

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape. What will be covered: Techniques to detect deception through behavioral and verbal cues. The use of elicitation in negotiations to gain truthful information without direct confrontation. Strategies to handle deception while preserving relationships in negotiations. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 25, 202555 min

Kwame Christian: The Unexpected Power of Admitting a Mistake - Reverse Interview by Lauren Sabo

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Lauren Sabo, an attorney specializing in education and special education law, for a reverse interview where Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies for managing client expectations and aligning goals for successful negotiation outcomes. Techniques for setting clear boundaries and knowing when to part ways with a challenging client. Follow Lauren on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 24, 202558 min

The Art of Salary Negotiation: Understanding Anchoring and Expectations

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of the "Negotiate Anything" podcast, host Kwame Christian is joined by negotiation expert Jeff Sipe to delve into the intricacies of job negotiation strategies. They provide valuable insights on how to handle pressure-packed conversations, the importance of setting high anchors, and the effective use of graciousness and kindness in negotiations. Throughout the discussion, Jeff shares practical advice on deflecting salary expectations questions and discusses the critical role that pitch, tone, and delivery play in successful negotiations. Listeners are introduced to innovative tools and methods, including leveraging AI for interview preparation, as Jeff shares his vast experience in negotiating job offers, particularly in the tech industry. What will be covered: Strategies for deflecting salary expectation inquiries and the importance of timing in discussions. The role of pitch and tone in maintaining composure and effectiveness during negotiations. An overview of Jeff's AI tool designed to enhance interview answers and negotiation outcomes. Connect with Jeff https://www.practiceinterviews.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 23, 202538 min

Amy Green Smith's Guide: 3 Tips to Transform People-Pleasing Habits

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by life coach and hypnotherapist, Amy Green Smith, for a deep dive into overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and enhancing self-worth. Amy unpacks the complex intersection of emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal influences that affect our negotiation strategies in daily life, whether it’s within the workplace or personal relationships. She discusses the evolutionary background of people-pleasing behaviors, offering a nuanced perspective on when such strategies can be beneficial and when they undermine self-worth. Listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of the role self-perception plays in their negotiation effectiveness and overall life satisfaction. What will be covered: Definition and implications of people-pleasing behaviors and how they relate to negotiation. The impact of emotional intelligence on self-advocacy and boundary setting. The interplay between subconscious beliefs, societal influences, and personal empowerment. Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 22, 202541 min

Jean M. Lawler: How Humor Can Make or Break Your Negotiation

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this engaging episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Jean M. Lawler, an experienced commercial and insurance mediator, to share her insights on realistic deals and creative solutions in conflict resolution. Jean delves into her typical day handling litigation cases, the importance of distinguishing between wants and needs in mediation, and the power of empathy and creativity in negotiations. The conversation highlights the benefits of pre-mediation preparation and the use of bracketing strategies to set reasonable negotiation ranges. This episode is packed with invaluable mediation and negotiation tips that can enhance your conflict resolution skills. What will be covered: Jean M. Lawler's professional journey from practicing lawyer to full-time mediator. The daily responsibilities and challenges in handling litigation and pre-suit cases. Strategies like pre-mediation preparation and bracketing to facilitate smoother negotiations. Contact Jean M. Lawler, CIPP/US Jean's Website: https://www.lawleradr.com/ Follow Jean on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jean-lawler/ Schedule Your Mediation: https://www.lawleradr.com/take-action Phone: 310-683-4332 Jean’s Case Manager: Nikki Safavi Nikki’s Email - [email protected] Jean’s Email - [email protected] Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 21, 202533 min

The Power of Keeping Negotiation Simple—Mark Mirra Explains How

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Mark Mirra, the founder and CEO of Aligned, a negotiation training, coaching, and consulting firm. Mark shares his expertise in simplifying complex negotiation strategies through a structured four-phase approach: preparation, communication, proposing, and aligning. By exploring the intricacies of different types of negotiations, from hard bargaining to partnerships, Mark provides actionable insights that make it easier for listeners to apply negotiation strategies effectively. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their negotiation skills and contribute to successful business outcomes with a simplified yet powerful methodology. What You'll Hear Covered: An overview of Mark Mirra's unique, simplified negotiation framework The four phases of negotiation: preparation, communication, proposal, and alignment How internal alignment and strategic communication can improve deal velocity Connect with Mark Mirra Follow Mark on LinkedIn https://www.alignednegotiation.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 20, 202539 min

Dan Oblinger: How to Detect and Address Lies in Negotiations

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian engages with guest Dan Oblinger, a seasoned police crisis and business negotiator, about effectively dealing with deception in negotiations. Dan leverages his diverse background, including his experience in ancient philosophy and ethics, to provide a comprehensive approach for navigating deceptive situations. The conversation covers a robust three-pronged strategy focused on preparation, tactical listening, and confrontation of deception without compromising professionalism. Listeners will gain valuable insights into how understanding the nuances of human behavior and active listening can uncover and manage deception in negotiation contexts. What will be covered: Dan Oblinger's unique journey from police crisis negotiator to business negotiator, and his insights into human behavior. A detailed explanation of a three-pronged strategy to deal with deception, including preparation, tactical listening, and confronting deception. Techniques for building trust and respect in negotiations to minimize the likelihood of deception. Connect with Dan Connect with Dan on LinkedIn Learn More About Dan Dan's Books Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Feb 19, 202544 min