
More Than A Paycheck
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Ep 210How to have more good days at work
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey, it's Lindsay! In this episode, I dive into something we often overlook—what to do when you're feeling good. If you've ever found yourself anxious, waiting for things to go wrong when life is going smoothly, this one's for you. I'll show you how to really notice those good moments, make them last longer, and bring more of them into your life. You'll learn practical tips on how to amplify the good days, neutralize your experiences, and reframe how you think about success. Let's train your brain to embrace the positive. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 209How to be okay when you're not okay PART 4
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey, it's Lindsay! After 12 years at Amazon, I've seen countless high achievers burn out from stress and anxiety, but it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, we're wrapping up the four-part series, *How to Be Okay When You're Not Okay*. This final step is all about shifting your mindset and finding a new way to think about your tough situations. I'll share some hacks I use to help reframe challenging thoughts, and why an external perspective can be invaluable. Tune in to hear how you can take back control of your narrative and get closer to feeling okay, even when things are tough. Let's do this! Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 208How to be okay when you're not okay PART 3
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey, I'm Lindsay Lyman, and I spent nearly 12 years at Amazon watching high achievers burn out. But here's the thing—your career doesn't have to come at the cost of your sanity. In this episode, we're diving into part three of the series How to Be Okay When You're Not Okay. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck in a loop of frustration, or facing intense situations at work, this episode is for you. I'll show you how to neutralize the stress, take the power away from those spirals, and stop the emotional drain. Let's learn to climb out of the spiral and take control. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 207It's okay to not be okay PART 2
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey there! In this episode, we're diving into part two of a four-part series on how to be okay when you're not okay. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck, this is for you. I'll walk you through the next step in handling those tough feelings without judgment, showing you why it's totally normal to feel the way you do. We're going to normalize what you're experiencing so you can stop adding unnecessary stress to your life. Trust me, you're not alone in this. Make sure to subscribe so you don't miss the rest of the series—let's get you feeling better, one step at a time. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 206It's okay to not be okay PART 1
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey y'all, it's Lindsay Lyman here! In this episode, I'm kicking off a four-part series on something we all need to get better at—being okay when we're not okay. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or just plain tired, you're not alone, and it's time to stop pretending everything's fine. I'll be sharing the first step to navigating those tough emotions: simply noticing. Sounds simple, right? But it might just be the hardest thing to do. Tune in to learn how this small shift can start making a big difference in your life. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 205The Proven Formula to Get What You Want
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey, I'm Lindsay Lyman, and in this episode, I'm revisiting one of the most popular topics we've ever covered—how to achieve the results you really want in life. We've all been taught the same formula: work hard, achieve your goals, and then you'll be happy. But what if that formula is all wrong? In this episode, I break down why the old way of thinking keeps us stuck and introduce a proven method that actually works. If you're tired of chasing future success and ready to start living a fulfilled life now, this is the episode for you. Tune in and learn how to flip the script on your life! Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 204Explaining Your Skills After Years at the Same Company
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Feeling stuck when it comes to describing your skills and strengths to potential employers? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive into why it's so challenging to talk about what you're good at and how you can start getting clear on the unique value you bring to the table. From tips on identifying your hidden talents to a practical exercise that breaks down your achievements, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Ready to showcase who you really are and why that's your biggest asset? Let's get started! Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager
Ep 203Working hard is amazing but watch out for these 3 traps
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey, it's Lindsay! After nearly 12 years at Amazon, I've seen how overachievers can burn out from stress and anxiety. But here's the thing—having a successful career shouldn't cost you your mental health and personal time. In this episode, I dive into the concept of hard work and how to approach it in a healthy, fulfilling way. I'll share a personal story about tackling a massive yard project and how it taught me the importance of having a clear goal, avoiding fake work, and knowing when to rest. We'll also discuss common biases about work ethic and the challenges of balancing hard work with avoiding burnout. If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just curious about how to work smarter, not harder, this episode is for you. Let's explore how to stay ambitious without sacrificing your well-being. Tune in and learn how to find that sweet spot where hard work feels good and truly rewarding! Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager
Ep 202Why 'It'll Get Better When' is a Lie
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey y'all, it's Lindsay Lyman! After nearly 12 years at Amazon, I saw countless overachievers burn out from stress and anxiety. But guess what? Your successful career doesn't have to cost you your mental health and personal time. In this episode, we're tackling the common stressors like project deadlines, back-to-school routines, reorgs, holiday sales pressure, and the constant chase for promotions. I'll show you why waiting for these hurdles to pass won't bring you the happiness you seek and how your brain tricks you into believing things will be better when they're over. We'll dive into practical strategies to stop waiting for relief and start finding joy and peace right now. Learn how to deal with stress in the present moment, address real problems, and enjoy the journey without being overwhelmed by hypothetical what-ifs. Ready to feel better today? Tune in and let's do this together. And if you need more personalized help, head over to LindsayLymanCoaching.com/chat to schedule a free coffee chat. You got this!
Ep 201How To Work Less When You Have So Much To Do
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey there, I'm Lindsay Lyman. I spent almost 12 years at Amazon, where I saw so many brilliant and successful overachievers burn themselves out due to stress and anxiety. But having a successful career doesn't have to come at the expense of your mental sanity and personal time. In this episode, I'm going to share how you can make small, manageable changes to break free from the productivity hamster wheel and create a more balanced, fulfilling life. Key Takeaways · Recognize the signs of being trapped in a cycle of overcommitment and stress. · Understand that big changes often start with small, manageable steps. · Learn practical strategies to roll back unnecessary commitments and regain control of your schedule. · The importance of setting boundaries and saying no to maintain a sustainable work-life balance. · Hear personal anecdotes and real-life examples of how these strategies have helped others reduce stress and increase productivity. Join the Conversation If you found this episode helpful, don't miss out on a chance for a more personalized experience. I offer a limited number of free coffee chats each week, where we can discuss your specific challenges and get tailored advice to get unstuck. Sign up now before spots fill up! Links Mentioned in the Episode · Join the Coaching Waitlist: lindsaylymancoaching.com/join · Sign Up for a Free Coffee Chat: lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Follow Me: · Website: lindsaylymancoaching.com · LinkedIn: Lindsay Lyman · Instagram: @lindsaylymancoaching Remember, making small, intentional changes can lead to big improvements in your work-life balance. You've got this! Tune in next week for more insights and strategies to help you thrive in your career without burning out.
Ep 200How to love your job again
*** FREE COFFEE CHAT: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat *** 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey everyone, I'm Lindsay Lyman. After almost 12 years at Amazon, I've seen countless brilliant and successful overachievers burn out and leave their jobs because of stress and anxiety. But here's the good news: having a successful career doesn't have to come at the expense of your mental sanity and personal time. There's an easier way, and I can show you how. Let's dive in! Celebrating 200 Episodes! We're celebrating our 200th episode today! Thank you for being here and for all your support. Over the years, I've coached thousands of people and noticed recurring themes that we all struggle with, both in our careers and personal lives. Today, I want to talk about one of the most common issues: figuring out what to do when you're not motivated and fulfilled by your job anymore. It's important to understand that it's not your job's job to make you feel motivated and fulfilled. That responsibility falls on us. We need challenges, a sense of purpose, and the feeling that what we do matters. But how do we achieve that? Think of your job as if it were a person you're in a relationship with. How would you describe your relationship? Are you in the honeymoon phase, a healthy routine, or do you need couples counseling? How do you talk about your job when it's not around? Are you investing in this relationship? Your job responds to how you treat it. If you're bored or stressed, it will reflect that. Decide what kind of relationship you want with your job and take steps to make it happen. If you need help, I'm here for you. Go to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and sign up for a coffee chat. Thank you for listening and supporting 200 episodes of this podcast!
Ep 199Promotion Pitfalls: How to Sell Yourself for a Promotion
Sign up for a free coffee chat with Lindsay to discuss your career challenges and get personalized advice. Visit lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to schedule your session. In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, who spent nearly 12 years at Amazon, shares valuable insights on how to navigate the promotion process and avoid common pitfalls. If you're feeling stuck, unappreciated, or unsure how to advance in your career, this episode is for you. Lindsay discusses the importance of taking control of your career narrative, understanding and showcasing your contributions, and using data to back up your achievements. She also emphasizes the significance of highlighting your growth and learning from mistakes to make a compelling case for your promotion. Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more people who can benefit from these insights.
Ep 198Red flags of an untrustworthy manager
Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Hey there! It's Lindsay Lyman, and I'm back with another episode to help you navigate your career without losing your sanity. After almost 12 years at Amazon, I've seen countless brilliant, successful overachievers burn out and leave their jobs because of stress and anxiety. But guess what? You don't have to sacrifice your mental health for your career. There's an easier way, and I'm here to show you how. Today, I want to remind you that if you're feeling stuck, unmotivated, and constantly worried about your job, there are solutions out there. I've helped many people in your situation, and I genuinely believe that with more confidence and self-assurance, things will get better. We need emotionally intelligent leaders like you out there, making a positive impact. So, if you're struggling and want to feel in control of your career, handle difficult people, and stop working so much, I can help. The first step? Let's have a coffee chat. It's a free, no-obligation call where we dive into what's going on with you and come up with actionable steps to get you on the right track. Head over to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat or click the link in the show notes to book your spot. In this episode, we're diving into a topic that came up during a fun discussion in my coaching program: red flags that your manager may not be trustworthy. We'll talk about some not-so-obvious signs, potential yellow flags, and even some green flags to look for in a good manager. Trust me, these insights are going to be game-changers. Here are a few key points we'll cover: - Red flags like inconsistent one-on-ones, managers who don't bring their own team members, and leaders who gossip or dominate meetings. - Yellow flags that might indicate potential issues, such as managers who never turn on their cameras or always go first in group discussions. - Green flags that signal a great leader, like caring about you as a person, taking feedback seriously, and being transparent about changes. As you listen, think about how these flags apply to your situation and how you can use this knowledge to ask better questions during interviews. And remember, you're not alone. You don't have to navigate this on your own. There are solutions, and I'm here to help you find them. If you're finding value in this podcast, let's take it a step further. Book a coffee chat with me, and we'll talk one-on-one about your specific challenges and come up with a plan to get you unstuck. These chats are free but limited, so grab your spot now. Click the link in the show notes or go to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up. You got this. Let's make your career work for you, not the other way around. Talk soon! Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 197Why vacations don't solve burnout
FREE COFFEE CHAT: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 STEPS TO DEAL WITH A BAD MANAGER: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, a former Amazon employee with nearly 12 years of experience, discusses the misconception that taking big vacations or extended breaks can solve burnout. Lindsay shares insights from her coaching practice, emphasizing that while breaks are important, they don't address the root causes of stress and burnout. Instead, she highlights the need for daily self-care and incremental changes to build a sustainable and emotionally healthy life. Additional Resources: Free Coffee Chats: Lindsay offers free coffee chats to connect one-on-one and discuss your specific challenges. You'll leave the call feeling more hopeful and motivated, with practical tips to try immediately. Spaces are limited, so sign up today! Listen and Subscribe: Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite platform to stay updated with new episodes and tips for a healthier work-life balance.
Ep 196The 3 steps to master a skill
Resources: Schedule a coffee chat: lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Learn how to approach your manager for a promotion: lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask In this episode, Lindsay Lyman shares insights into the three essential phases of mastering a skill. Drawing from her extensive experience at Amazon and personal endeavors, Lindsay delves into how individuals can navigate these phases to achieve excellence in their careers and personal pursuits. Tune in to gain valuable insights into mastering skills and unlocking your full potential in various aspects of life. *Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are solely those of the speaker and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any organization.*
Ep 195You don't have a work life balance problem. You have this problem...
In this episode, Lindsay Lyman explores a new approach to achieving work-life balance. Drawing from her 12 years at Amazon, Lindsay discusses the common pitfalls of "play work" and the importance of incorporating true play into your daily routine to rejuvenate and energize yourself. Identify and Stop "Play Work": Recognize and eliminate tasks that are not truly productive. Incorporate True Play: Integrate small, enjoyable activities into your daily routine to boost your energy and motivation. Experiment with Play: Try different activities to discover what re-energizes you and helps you stay focused. Free Resource: Coffee Chats with Lindsay: lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat How to bring up your promotion to a bad manager: lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask Thank you for tuning in! Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might benefit from it. See you next week!
Ep 194How to bring up getting a promotion to your bad manager
Episode Summary: In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, a seasoned coach and former Amazon employee with nearly 12 years of experience, shares a high-level framework to help you get promoted even if you have a bad manager. She dives into the most common barrier people face when pursuing a promotion—the dreaded initial conversation with their manager. Lindsay provides actionable steps to navigate this challenging discussion, ensuring you can present your case effectively and respectfully, making it difficult for your manager to say no. Key Takeaways: • Common Barriers: The primary reason people hesitate to pursue promotions is the fear of having a vulnerable conversation with a potentially unsupportive manager. • Avoid Yes/No Questions: When discussing promotions or any significant changes, avoid yes/no questions to prevent an easy rejection. Instead, focus on open-ended questions that invite conversation and collaboration. • Start the Conversation Right: Begin by asking if your manager is open to discussing a possible path for promotion, setting a clear goal, and acknowledging any potential awkwardness upfront. • Stay Curious and Confused: To avoid frustration and defensiveness, stay in a mindset of curiosity or confusion. This keeps you and your manager on the same side, working together towards a solution. • Prepare with a Script: Lindsay has created a helpful cheat sheet that provides a script tailored to your situation, making it easier to present your case confidently and clearly. Actionable Steps: 1 Download the Cheat Sheet: Get your free copy at lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask to help you prepare for your promotion conversation. 2 Set Up the Meeting: Ask your manager if they are open to discussing your promotion, setting the stage for a constructive dialogue. 3 Frame the Discussion: Focus on the path to promotion and the specific areas you need to improve, rather than immediately asking for a yes or no answer. 4 Maintain Curiosity: Approach the conversation with genuine curiosity and an open mind to stay aligned with your manager, avoiding unnecessary conflict. Resources Mentioned: • Promotion Conversation Cheat Sheet • Lindsay Lyman Coaching: lindsaylymancoaching.com • Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat • Connect with Lindsay: • Website: lindsaylymancoaching.com • LinkedIn: Lindsay Lyman • Instagram: @lindsaylymancoaching Episode Transcript: Available at https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/how-to-bring-up-getting-a-promotion-to-your-bad-manager/ Subscribe & Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and provide valuable content. Note: Don't miss out on the cheat sheet to help you create the perfect talking script for your promotion conversation. It's a game-changer! Download it for free at lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask.
Ep 193Stuck and Frustrated at Work? How to Break the Cycle and Find Excitement Again
This episode explores the recurring cycle of excitement, learning, overwhelm, and frustration that many people experience in their careers. Lindsay Lyman, the host, sheds light on how to identify these phases and offers tips to break free from the stuck and frustrated stage. Key Points: The Career Life Cycle: New and Exciting: Learning a lot, enthusiastic about new challenges. Learning and Growing: Facing challenges, but still making progress. Overwhelm: Feeling overloaded with work and problems. Frustrated and Stuck: Demotivated, unchallenged, and unsure of the next step. Escaping the Stuck Phase: Recognize where you are in the cycle. Identify what excites and interests you. Seek new challenges: Change the scope or complexity of your current work. Learn a new skill. Change jobs, industries, or fields entirely. Pursue a passion project outside of work. Next Step Visit http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up for a free, one-on-one consultation to discuss overcoming career roadblocks. Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager
Ep 1933 Steps to Get Promoted
This episode breaks down the promotion process into three phases, with a particular focus on the third phase, where most people get stuck. Phase 1: Get Clear on Your Goals Define what you want out of a promotion (title change, money, scope of work, etc.) Identify your reasons for wanting a promotion (strong reasons will help you persevere through challenges) Phase 2: Play the Game Learn the rules and expectations for promotions at your company Gather feedback to identify your strengths and weaknesses Develop a plan to address your weaknesses and position yourself for success Talk to your manager about your desire for a promotion and how they can support you (use strategic language to avoid dead ends) Phase 3: Massive Action (Especially When Things Get Hard) Take consistent action, but avoid burnout When challenges arise, view them as opportunities to showcase your leadership skills Focus on showing up confidently, strategically, and with a willingness to make mistakes Embrace adaptability and problem-solving - be the calm in the storm Build your confidence in your ability to navigate challenges, not just in achieving specific outcomes Additional Tips Schedule a free coffee chat with Lindsay to discuss your specific situation at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Key Takeaways Promotions are not guaranteed, but taking massive action and developing the right mindset can significantly increase your chances of success. Your ability to navigate challenges and setbacks is a crucial leadership skill. Focus on who you are being throughout the process, not just the end goal. Call to Action Visit http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up for a free coffee chat. Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 1913 Elements of Trust – Part 2
Building Trust with Yourself This episode builds on the idea that trust is built through transparency, empathy, and consistency. Here, Lindsay Lyman dives deeper into how to apply these concepts to trusting yourself. Key Points: Transparency: Be honest with yourself about your goals, challenges, and emotions. Don't sugarcoat your reality. Empathy: Understand why you're feeling a certain way. Acknowledge your emotions without judgment. Consistency: Show up for yourself by following through on commitments, taking care of yourself, and setting boundaries (saying no). Examples: Transparency: Recognizing limitations and prioritizing tasks accordingly, instead of feeling pressured to achieve unrealistic health goals right now. Empathy: Acknowledging feelings of disappointment or frustration after a failed launch instead of suppressing them. Consistency: Regularly scheduling self-care activities like walks, even when you don't feel like it, because you know the benefits. Call to Action: Reflect on your own level of transparency, empathy, and consistency with yourself. Consider areas where you can improve your self-trust by incorporating these practices. Check out Lindsay's course, "How to Get More Done Without Needing to Work Nights and Weekends," for time management strategies. Sign up for a free coffee chat with Lindsay to discuss your personal challenges and receive actionable advice. Bonus: Sign up for a free one-on-one coaching session with Lindsay Lyman to discuss building trust in your specific situation. http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 1903 Elements of Trust Part 1
This episode dives into the foundational principle of trust and how it's crucial for successful teamwork. Key Points: Trust is the most important leadership principle: Without trust, other leadership principles fall apart. It allows teams to function effectively and individuals to feel safe and perform at their best. The Three Elements of Trust: Transparency: Being open and honest in communication. Avoiding surprises and keeping people informed. Sharing what's appropriate, not oversharing or gossiping. Example: During return to office, many companies lacked transparency about their true motives. Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others. Acknowledging and validating how people respond to situations. Example: Leaders who lacked empathy during the work-from-home transition struggled to build trust. Consistency: Showing up reliably and predictably. Being someone people can count on, even on bad days. Example: An unpredictable leader creates confusion and makes it hard to trust them. Actionable Takeaways: Reflect on which element of trust (transparency, empathy, consistency) you might be weakest at. Identify areas where you can improve your trustworthiness within your team. Bonus: Sign up for a free one-on-one coaching session with Lindsay Lyman to discuss building trust in your specific situation. http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Stay tuned for part two of this series! Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 189The 4 Steps To Get Over Something Hard and Move Forward
Life is full of difficult situations from terrible leaders to feeling like you can't get it all done. But there's a way to manage your brain in difficult situations and be an emotionally intelligent leader. List and learn what to do when: You're stuck in another reorg You're not getting a promotion You get vague feedback like you need to be more strategic You have to manage out an employee Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 188How to deal with a difficult boss
What to learn how to get promoted even with a bad boss? Save your seat: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/promoted ***************************** Tired of feeling stuck with a bad boss? This episode is for you! Learn how to take control of the situation and stop letting your difficult manager bring you down. The podcast dives into: Why you shouldn't blame your boss (it's impacting you more than you think) How to identify your negative thought patterns Strategies to choose how you want to react in challenging situations Taking action steps that empower you Stop feeling stuck and start taking charge of your career! Additional resources: How to get promoted with a bad boss: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/promoted Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 1873 biggest mistakes that stop you from getting promoted
The promotion process can be confusing, frustrated, and feel like a loosing battle. Especially if you have a bad boss. But there are 3 big mistakes holding you back that have nothing to do with your manager. Listen in this week as we dive into what they are so you can avoid these pitfalls. Listen and learn. Additional resources: How to Get Promoted When You Have a Bad Boss Free Webinar: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/promoted Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 186The 3 phases of action
What's the one think you really want? Is it a health goal, to reach a certain financial milestone, or start that side business you've been thinking about. Whatever it is, there are 3 phases of action you'll have to go through to reach your goal. Bust most people only make it to the second phase and stop. Listen in this week to learn what the three phases are and how to keep going even when it's hard. Listen and learn. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 185Looking for a new job when you're 50+
Looking for a new job when you're 50+ can feel daunting, but age should not be a barrier to career success. Listen in this week as we talk about ageism in the workforce and how to overcome limiting beliefs about age in job searches and career changes. Learn how to double down on your strengths, be confident in who you are, and approach new challenges with a mindset of self-confidence. Listen and learn. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager · One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 183It's time to get a new job
There are times when you choose to stay in a job you hate. Maybe it's for VISA reasons, or waiting for a stock vesting, or because it's easier to stay. But for so many others, it's time to find a new job. If the company and re-orged so many times you're not doing anything near what you were hired to do, or if you promotion keeps getting dangled in front of you without a clear timeline, or if terrible leaders are tolerated, it might be time. BUT, before you leave, there's one really important thing to do. Listen in this week and learn more. Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense Forbes article: https://www.forbes.com/sites/ethansteinberg/2022/07/28/want-a-pay-raise-switching-jobs-matters-much-more-amid-soaring-inflation-report-finds/?sh=1611e18b2b54
Ep 183Your brain would rather be right than feel good
Your brain is operating based on a lot of beliefs you already have. Things like, I have so much to do, it's hard to find a new job these days, or working hard pays off. But here's the truth. Your brain would rather be right then help you move forward and feel better. So, if you have thought that are keeping you frustrated and stuck, your brain is actively working to keep you stuck. Crazy, RIGHT! Listen in this week and learn how to manage your brain to help you get unstuck and feel better. Listen and learn Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 182How to Stop Worrying
There's no shortage of things to worry about these days. The last few years have made us question how safe and secure we are in our jobs, financially, and even physically. But there's zero benefit to worry. Listen in this week as we talk about why worry is lying to you and the 3 steps to take if you're stuck in a worry loop. Listen and learn. Additional resources: Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 181How to Get Over the Emotional Flu
It's flu season and it's bad this year. But I'm not talking about the viral flu. This week we're talking about the emotional flu. The one where you feel so tired and exhausted that you're having sleep problems, you can't get ahead, and you're dragging yourself through the day. Listen in this week as we talk about the best form of treatment if you too have the emotional flu. Listen and learn. Additional resources: · Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat · 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense
Ep 180How to feel more valued and fulfilled
Most people would not suggest investing all your money into one company. Or trying to build a business with only one client. Or betting all your success on one project. Putting all your eggs in basket very rarely workout. But when it comes to feeling valued and fulfilled, we do this all the time. We expect our job and company to help us feel appreciated and like we're doing a good job. This week we dive into why this is and talk about ways to diversify where you're getting your value and fulfillment from and why it's so important. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 179How to hold yourself accountable
There's a lot of tricks and hacks to hold yourself out accruable out there. Things like use a tracker, reward yourself along the way, or have an accountability partner. But if these things worked, we'd all be amazing at being accountable. But we're terrible at it. Join us this week as we dive into how to solve the root cause of the problem instead of treating the symptoms. Learn the 3 reasons why we struggle to hold ourselves accountable and what to do instead. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Grab your spot for the 3 Step Formula to Being Self-Confident When Looking For a Job free workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/confidence 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 178Struggling to get a new job? This is why.
Looking for a new job is a lot of work. It can take some time and a lot of rejection and vulnerability. But the reason you're not getting a new job has nothing to do with your resume or the number of jobs available in your field. It's because of this one reason and it's a big one. It's what's keeping you stuck, stressed, and feeling the pressure to make something work. Listen in this week and not only learn what it is, but learn what to do instead. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Grab your spot for the 3 Step Formula to Being Self-Confident When Looking For a Job free workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/confidence 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 177When You're Stuck in a Job You Can't Quit
Feeling stuck in a job you can't quit is a really hard spot to be in. Whether it's because you need to support your family, are working on a VISA, or some other reason, feeling stuck in a job you hate is the worst. Listen in this week as we talk about the 3 things to do if you find yourself in this situation. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 176If you have to let an employee go, make sure you do these 3 things
Whether it's for low performance or a reduction in work, letting an employee go is never a fun or easy thing to do. This week we're talking about the 3 biggest things to keep in mind if you find yourself in this situation. This is not tips on how to have the conversation and what you should or should not say. We're talking about how to take care of YOU and your team when this happens. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Download the one pager to ask your manager to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 175Thought habits that are keeping you stuck
We think over 60,000 thoughts a day which means most of them are subconscious. Things like, I don't know, or I have so much to do, cycle through our brain all day every day without even really realizing it. This week we're diving into what some of these thought habits are, why they are keeping you stuck and what to do instead. If your brain is going to subconsciously talk to you and create the life you want, let's make sure they are thoughts that are going to get you where you want to go. Listen in this week and learn how to get unstuck. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Download the one pager to ask your manager to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 174The most important part of changing a habit
You don't rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. The book Atomic Habits by James clear is an amazing book that gives some great tips and tricks on changing your habits. Listen in this week as we talk about some key takeaways from Atomic Habits but learn the most important step that's missing. If you want to change your life, change your habits. If you want to change your habits, you need to change this. Listen in and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Download the one pager to ask your manager to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 173The 3 biggest challenges leaders face when trying to get promoted
As a leader, the path to getting to the next level is very gray. In fact, there is no path. You have to go and make it up, but the most common thing I hear is "I don't know how." Listen in this week and learn the 3 biggest barriers leaders face when trying to get promoted. It's easier than you think when you start taking your thinking to the next level. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: 1. Download the one pager to ask your manager to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense 2. Get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager
Ep 172What most people get wrong when talking about wins at work
Click here to get the one-page document to use while asking your company to pay for you to get a coach. https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense Click here to get the 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop. https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Most of us tune out and gloss over the "wins" and "successes" at work. Your brain is designed to problem solve and things that are going well are not problems. But learning to take a minute and really acknowledge what's going well is one of the secrets to actually reaching the goal you're going for. But there are a few pitfalls we all fall into. Listen in this week as we talk about how to avoid those problems and make sure wins and successes don't become another checkbox to do item. Listen and learn. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 171Bored with your job? Follow these 3 steps to get unstuck.
We all get bored with our job at times. It usually happens once you've reached a few big goals and learned so much about your job that it's no longer challenging. You're bored because your brain loves a problem to solve, and you've solved all the big hard ones. So now what? Listen in this week and learn the 3 steps to take to feel motivated and excited about work again. And spoiler alert, you don't have to change jobs if you don't want to. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the show: - Access the 3 Steps to Deal With a Dad Manager free workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.v
Ep 170Dread the yearly review process because it feels like a waste of time? Listen up!
I dread the yearly review process. It feels like so much work where we're just checking boxes and it's not actually helpful. Then onto of that, I know the compensation conversation is not going to be what I want it to be so what's really the point. Listen in this week as I share what to do as an employee or manager to actually get something out of this process. And don't forget to download the free one pager to use and ask your company to pay for your career development through coaching. Mentioned on the show: One pager to ask company to pay for coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expensecoaching Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 169If your project retrospective does not include this, nothing's going to change
Program management 101 is to make a plan, do the thing, and reflect on what worked and what to do differently next time. But have you have noticed that the same problems keep coming up. Executives keep changing the project scope and timeline and unforeseen tech challenges keep happening. If you're retrospectives only focus on what you should start, stop, and continue doing, you're doing it wrong. Listen in this week and learn what to do instead to solve the issue at its root cause. Mentioned on the show: Schedule your free coaching call: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call Get the 10 Frameworks to New Thought Cheat Sheet here: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/retrospective Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 167Next level gratitude
Yes, data has proven over and over the multiple positive impacts practicing being grateful everyday has on us. And I'm all for it. But let's take it to the next level. Listen in this week and learn how to get even more positive effects from next level gratitude. Listen and learn. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 166Are you committed to your career but feel attached to your job? You're going to love this.
Being committed to something is being wholeheartedly dedicated to it. So many of us feel this way about our careers, but our attachment to our current job and the "stability" it brings keeps us stuck. Listen in this week and learn why this is and the two key steps to take to get unstuck. When you're 100% committed to the bigger picture of your career, it's so much easier. Listen and learn how. Mentioned on the show: Want to try out coaching and get some help for free? Grab time on my calendar at https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 165AI can't do this part of your job
There are so many exciting things happening in the space of AI. How we work and do things is changing and shifting as AI can do some of the tasks better and faster than humans can. There's also a lot of uncertainty of what that means to each of us and our jobs. Join us this week and we talk about what part of your job AI won't be able to replicate and why focusing on that part is even more important. Listen and learn. Mentioned in the show this week: - Book: Hidden Potential by Adam Grant Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 164The best strategy when working with lazy people
People that don't do their job, are lazy, and always take the easy route are so hard to work with. They make it harder for you to do your job and are so frustrating. Listen in this week and learn the best strategy ever and the simple thing you can do when you find yourself stuck working with these people Listen and learn. Mentioned in the podcast: Everyone needs a life coach. I would love to be yours, but the first step is seeing if we're a good fit. To do that, grab some time on my calendar here (http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat) and let's chat. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 163The art of mastering stress in 3 simple steps
Things are still not getting better as quickly or in the ways we want. Job scarcity, burned out employees, and terrible moral are still at an all-time high. This week, we're diving into how to deal with the stress, so you don't get stuck, overwhelmed, and burned out. There are two options when things are stressful. Either deal with it in a way that helps you keep moving forward and not freaking out, or deal with it in a way that makes you a crazy person that can't relax and stop obsessing about it. It's your choice, but if you don't choose on purpose, you will continue to spin and get deeper into the frustration. Listen and learn what to do instead. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 162The 3 steps to get unstuck
No matter how much we plan and prepare, things go wrong. Jobs are lost, flights get canceled, people ghost you, and project deadlines get pushed up. It's not the most fun part of life, but there's no reason you must feel stuck when hard things happen. Join us this week as we dive into the 3 steps to take to get unstuck from any problem. Learning to apply these steps will help you get start taking action sooner to get what you want. Listen and Learn. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 16110x is easier than 2x
Working towards a goal that improves KPI's a few basis points is small and not motivating. Working hard for small changes is not my idea of fun. But trying to really drive improvements or even create new KPI's can be so fulfilling. Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy wrote a great book that looks at this concept and applies it in a way that helps you reach your goals faster. The Book is called 10x is easier than 2x. This week on the podcast we're diving into what that actually means and how to apply to reaching a goal by the end of this year. Listen and learn. Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.
Ep 160STOP trying to feel good about crappy things
There are things that happen at work that are crappy, and we don't want to feel good about them. Promotions fall through. Being expected to work nights and weekends without any acknowledgement or end in sight. Making less than people you manage. And the list goes on. So how do we show up, do our job, AND like who we are when things are crappy? Listen in this week as we talk about the 2 steps to follow if you're in this spot. Listen and Learn Mentioned on the podcast: Join Lindsay's email list for early access to her updated coaching programs. Sign up here at https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/newsletter-oi/ Want to get help with your specific situation? Let's schedule a coffee chat. I offer a limited number of 1:1 coffee chats each week. There is no charge for this call so spots fill up fast. Grab time on my calendar at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/call and let's get you feeling unstuck today.