Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

In this quickie episode, Christine discusses why asking for help is key to your success and well being. She gives you tips for getting over the common obstacles that arise when asking for help (like feeling like we are a bother or being afraid of a getting a no). You'll also learn a very simple, practical process for asking for help from your inner guidance and the Universe.

This call is about changing your story and how to thrive, not just survive. Today's caller, Chris, is dealing with shame and frustration around the story she has about money. Oppression and scarcity have been major themes in her life and she is looking for guidance about how to shift it. We work through how she can be open to giving and receiving love and moving out of 'victim' and into acceptance in order to shift her energy.

Join Christine and Rob as they talk about leaving a "safe, secure, good enough" career to pursue what you are really passionate about, lessons learned from taking a massive leap of faith, the importance of intentional experiences and connections with like-minded people, and forgiveness.

his call is about sticking to a routine. Today's caller, Megan, wants to stick to a routine that allows her to accomplish her goals but is instead modeling her life around other people in her life. This is a great episode to kick off the new year as we delve into how to narrow down what is really important, becoming aware of how you respond to stress and how to focus on high-value priorities.

Christine guides you through a new seven-step transformational goal-setting process that will make manifesting your dreams A LOT easier. Going through this process will support you in identifying what is blocking you and then taking action toward your goals. Use this process in combination with last week's guided meditation to release 2018 and call in 2019 and you will be kicking off the year feelings so clear and inspired!

This call is about moving out of indecision, making a choice, and taking action. Today's caller, Cecilia, wants permission to make a decision. She has allowed logistics to block any action she is considering and she is overwhelmed with the 'hows' and hasn't fully examined the 'what ifs.' During the call, we uncover what her intuition is telling her and why she should listen to it.

Listen in as Christine summarizes the main lessons and blessings we all gained from 2018 and forecasts what is up for us in 2019. She then guides you through a beautiful meditation to gracefully let go of 2018 and begin co-creating 2019.

This call is about using a creative process to create vibrations high enough to reshape your story. Tiffany feels blocked by her past. She has done the mental work but still feels blocked emotionally. Remember, it's never too late to reshape your story. Don't think just because Tiffany is a young woman, as an older man or woman you can't reshape your story. It's not too late for you.

Natalie Jill is a Fat Loss Expert turned high performance coach. She helps people across the globe reach their health, business and life goals BY empowering them to level up and create everything from nothing.

This call is about the importance of soothing and nurturing ourselves so we feel safe. Caller, Sally, doesn't feel motivated and wants guidance on how to break the pattern of feeling down. When we feel safe, we automatically feel more creative and relaxed. We have the opportunity to restore and replenish ourselves and when we feel safe, we are also able to process and heal wounds and traumas.

Ajit was born to a middle-income family in Jaipur and grew up in an extended family of 23 other people under one roof. Space and money were scarce, and so as a little boy, he dreamt of abundance.

This call is about sorting through emotional traffic and protecting yourself energetically. If you feel like an empath or a sensitive person, chances are you are someone who has emotional intelligence and is impacted by the energy and emotions of others. If family members or friends call you sensitive or over-dramatic, this episode with Tiffany provides guidance on how to deal with your empathic gift. [For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode170] When empaths or highly-sensitive people are flooded with other people's emotions, it's like traffic that slows us down. It can make us more triggerable, and it takes us longer to see clearly what is truly triggering us. We have to get out of traffic emotionally. We do that by processing our own feelings and by setting emotional boundaries. So, we can be compassionate with people but not sympathetic. The more we can be in compassion, not sympathy, the more we can keep our emotional immune system up and be emotionally healthy. If highly-sensitive people don't process their own emotions or discern what are their emotions or someone else's, they can be highly-reactive, a.k.a. dramatic. When we keep ourselves emotionally healthy, we are less likely to be drained by other people's emotions. It's important not to isolate yourself to protect yourself. Being alone is replenishing but we all need other people. Don't fear people or connections. It is super important to let go of the limiting belief that you think something is wrong with you. You need to update your beliefs and know that nothing is wrong with you. You need to find your tribe. Connect with like-minded people on January 3rd. For just $20 you can be part of my virtual group coaching session. It includes a guided meditation and will help you to reflect, renew and replenish yourself this season. Go to ChristineHassler.com/group to sign up. And, as you may know, I am a Master Coach for the Primal Health Coach Certification Program, which teaches coaches how to thrive as a health and life coach. Early bird pricing for the special live event ends December 15th. Visit PrimalHealthCoach.com/austin-masterclass for everything you need to be a part of this transformational experience. Consider/Ask Yourself: ● Are you often called out for being over-sensitive or being dramatic or reactive? ● Do you find yourself drained or triggered by people who are making choices you are not aligned with? ● Do you feel like the black sheep of your family or that no one really gets you? ● Do you tend to attract emotionally unavailable people into your life? ● Do you find solace in isolation and feel safer being alone? ● When it comes to feeling, do you have intense feelings and overwhelm and unbearable sadness? Tiffany's Question: Tiffany is feeling lost and overwhelmed and feels like something is wrong with her. She asks for guidance on how she can embrace her empathy. Tiffany's Key Insights and Ahas: ● People tell her she is too sensitive. ● She feels she is different from her other family members. ● She is affected by other people's actions. ● She feels things very deeply. ● She navigates through everyone else's feelings. ● She is drawn to people who are 'shut down.' ● She feels isolated and lonely at times. ● She is triggered by certain experiences. ● She doubts her thoughts and feelings. ● She is a people pleaser. How to Get Over It and On With It: ● She needs to protect her energy and learn how to reduce the amount of traffic on her emotional freeway. ● She needs to upgrade her spiritual hygiene and read books about being an empath. ● She needs to clean up her own unprocessed feelings. ● She should sign up for my Personal Mastery Course and attend my Spring Retreat. ● She should do the emotional release work in Expectation Hangover. ● She needs to listen to her inner voice. ● She needs to let go the belief that something is wrong with her and own her gifts. Takeaways For You: ● Read books written for empaths. ● Find out what the best spiritual hygiene practices for you are. ● Don't people-please or think you get your value from making other people feel better. ● Process and clear your emotional traffic. ● Join my Personal Mastery Course to meet like-minded people and to start meeting your tribe. Resources: Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community. To watch episodes of coaching sessions, go to Youtube.com/christinehassler Christine's Personal Mastery Course Christine's Signature Retreat Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Christine's Books, including Expectation Hangover @ChristinHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram [email protected] — If you want to be a guest on this show.

Listen in as Christine and her partner, Stefanos, answer listener questions about dating and relationships. Topics discussed are: what to do when someone cheats in the relationship, how to get over the pain of being single and dating advice for introverts.

This call is about friendship and making friends as an adult. Today's caller, Nicole, wants to move past a break up with a childhood friend and make trusting, intimate connections and friendships in her adult life. As adults, we have more communications strategies but we also have longer stories about what we judge as not good enough. This episode highlights the opportunities that present themselves when we feel, deal, and heal with imprints from our past.

In this episode, Christine explains why we feel lonely and gives you three different pathways to deal with (and overcome) loneliness this holiday season.

This call is about finding the motivation to be consistent and committed to working on important projects and self-care. Today's caller, Jenna, would like to follow through with her passion project but limiting beliefs created in during her childhood and her fear of disappointment keep her from taking action. If you can relate to a lack of motivation or self-sabotaging behavior, then you will receive a lot from this episode.

Christine shares her personal gratitude ritual and leads you through a gratitude affirmation process. You can download her guided gratitude meditation at: https://christinehassler.com/gratitude

This call is about overcoming roadblocks to motivation. Desiree calls in concerned about her ability to follow through, and commit to her goals. But, in this as in most coaching sessions, we delve deeper into why she is holding herself back and suppressing her feelings. If you relate to not feeling motivated and are ready to shine your light, this episode will help you discover how to take risks and go after your dreams.

Christine speaks with author and workplace expert Dan Schawbel about how technology has led to increased feelings of loneliness and isolation. Listen in to surprising stats about our how our addiction to devices is de-humanizing us and get tips on how to be more connected to actual human beings!

This call is about feeling worthy and transforming the inner critic. Elizabeth calls in asking for daily mantras, actions, and tools to help her feel worthy of a loving relationship. She is struggling with enoughness. She wants to get over a 'toxic' relationship from her past and truly embrace, rather than sabotage, the healthy relationship she is in now. We get to the fundamental ouch or significant life event that created the misunderstanding that perpetuates her feelings of not being enough.

In this episode, Christine talks through why vulnerability is so important to healthy relationships and how to do it in a safe way. Vulnerability creates more authenticity in our lives which leads to deeper connections and greater intimacy.

This call is about being willing and committed to truly healing past trauma. The caller, Cory, asks how to process her trauma in a way that doesn't make her feel more traumatized. If any of you are feeling this way and want to understand how to process your past without fear and crying all the time, I think you will appreciate this episode. And, if trauma has been part of your past listen to this episode in a calm space where you can really take it in.

Sadie Lincoln is the co-founder and CEO of barre3, a fitness company focused on teaching people to be balanced in body and empowered from within. Starting in 2008 with the flagship studio in Portland, Oregon, barre3 has grown to include more than 140 franchise studios powered by female entrepreneurs, plus an online-workout streaming-subscriber base in 98+ countries.

This call is about releasing pain and leaning into spirituality. The caller, Mel, is asking the existential questions about the purpose of life and why we are here. Many people ask themselves these same questions and it is important for us all to discover our own spiritual path and beliefs. If we believe that our soul traverses multiple lifetimes, part of the reason we come back is to evolve out of pain.

Dr. Matt Kreinheder joins me today on coaches corner to answer these questions. He is is a transformational healer, speaker, coach, and author of the book: Awakening the Mystic. Dr. Matt has a doctorate in chiropractic, a master's degree in acupuncture and has professionally written for publications all over the globe.

This call is about self-love and overcoming self-induced judgments. Anneke calls in for guidance about how she can start being her true self. She vulnerably opens up about the fear that comes up when she compares herself to others and her feelings of loneliness. We cover a lot of ground in this session including how she can make a transition into full, authentic self-expression. This is the very first coaching episode of this podcast that originally aired on Oct 22, 2015.

This is a deeply personal episode for me . . . I get personal, I am sharing someone with you who means a great deal to me personally and we are talking about a topic I am deeply passionate about: sexual healing.

If you have a passion, a calling, or a gift you want to share with the world but you can't seem to get it started or make a living at it, then you will love this episode. Today's caller, Layla, has a passion for music and would like guidance on how to share her gift fully with the world. We decode the major block that commonly gets in the way of sharing one's gifts with the world.

As she rose up the ranks to star status in the fitness industry, Patricia Moreno found herself trapped in a vicious cycle of body consciousness, resorting to extreme exercise and dieting to maintain her appearance. She thought, "Here I am, doing all of these crazy things behind the scenes and preaching exercise and diet—and it's not working for me."

This coaching session is about the need for love and connection. Whether or not you struggle in your relationship with food like Christina does, what we really end up talking about is how loneliness and a lack of love can lead us to fill ourselves up with other things. I also explain how stress can increase the appetite making it harder to have a healthy relationship with food.

Inspired by many listener questions and national mental health day on Oct 10th, Christine shares her personal journey with overcoming depression and managing anxiety in this episode. She offers insight on what causes depression and/or anxiety as well as tips for better mental health.

Do you know the value of positive thinking but just can't seem to shift out of negative thinking? This coaching session is about expectations and shifting negative patterns. During this call, we examine Danielle's past to understand what formed her current expectations and get to the root of why she is sabotaging herself in relationships.

Christine welcomes CEO, Entrepreneur, Advisor, and Speaker Jennifer Love to the show to discuss changing your story around wealth and taking action to become even more successful. Jennifer Love is the CEO of One More Woman – a fast-track, high-performance educational and advisory community helping women entrepreneurs take the stress out of the money equation so they can effectively raise, make, manage, and give money. She is a nationally-acclaimed mentor, international business strategist, speaker, and

The heart of this coaching session is about feeling safe and speaking your truth. Sara's mother is trying hard to mend a relationship damaged by alcoholism but is striking out when it comes to giving Sara what she needs. We work through the steps Sara can take to release the resentment and educate her mother about what she really needs because we cannot shift our relationships until we shift something inside ourselves.

This is a fantastic episode that offers you practical tools for how to FEEL and DEAL with your emotions. Amber Rae is called a "Millennial Motivator" by Fortune and "The Brené Brown of Wonder" by Mind Body Green, Amber Rae is an author, artist, and speaker whose work invites you to live your truth, befriend your emotions, and express your gifts. Amber and Christine dive into how feelings are a messenger and will guide you through processes to make them your friends. To learn more about the Person

The core issue in this coaching session is abandonment. Chrystal's limiting beliefs around trust began when her father left the family to return to his home country. She took on her father's issues by personalizing the event and she is still triggered by the event, even as an adult. She has a breakthrough when she realizes her father's decisions had nothing to do with her and she is worthy of abundance and love. If you feel you are broken or

If you feel like you have a lot of awareness but things in your life are not changing…it may be time for some "experiential" work. In this episode Christine defines what experiential work is and why it's important. Jill joins her and they talk about what happens at Christine's signature retreat to help you discern if it's right for you. More info about the retreat here: www.christinehassler.com/spring-retreat

The heart of this coaching session is about self-compassion. Steve has been in his masculine and repressing his pain for much of his life. Another level of his pain is surfacing and that's because his unconscious knows he is ready to deal with it. If you are at a point in your life where you feel like you have done a lot of personal growth work but pain is resurfacing in your life you do not want to miss this episode. It takes a lot of energy to

Since a lot of you were asking, I brought Stef back on the show to share the story of how we met and what we did to call each other in. We talk about listening to intuition, what being "whole and complete" really means, how to do the inner work to prepare for a partnership where you feel truly met, and much more!

This coaching session is about a man who wants to foster a deeper emotional connection with his father. Nicholas and his father have a good surface relationship but he wants it to become more intimate. This session is a great example of how men (especially the younger generation of men) are really looking to break some old patterns of men not having to be emotionally connected. If you are doing personal growth work you may be craving a deeper relat

It is never good to feel bad about things that make you feel good! In this Coaches Corner Christine talks about six key things that are not only healthy to do - but healthy to feel really good about doing. For more info about Christine's upcoming Spring retreat go to: https://belive.tv/broadcasts/face-to-face-e3hvjmotw8_m/face_guest

This coaching session is about sexuality and freedom of sexual expression. Frankie feels shame about who he truly is and who he is attracted to. Shame is one of the most painful feelings we experience as humans because it reinforces the illusion of separation, makes us feel like we don't belong and can't be who we truly are. It reinforces doubts about self-worth because we think there is something wrong with us that we need to hide or keep secret. So, if shame is something you deal with in any aspect of

Marisa Peer shares my passion for helping people make lasting changes that don't require years and years of therapy. That said, Marissa is a therapist, in fact one of the best in the world. She has spent over three decades treating a client list that includes international superstars, CEOs, Royalty, and Olympic athletes. Marisa teaches "simple steps that produce dramatic and life-changing results". When she reveals her fundamental rule – that all our emotional and personal problems come from us

This coaching session is about shifting limiting beliefs. Nohemi is aware she has beliefs that are not serving her and she is aware of where these limiting beliefs came from yet they continue to drive her behavior and choices. She is having difficulty shifting the way she feels inside This session is a beautiful, courageous example of how we can go into our pain. Having awareness just isn't enough We may have a lot of awareness about what our lim

In today's episode Christine dives into two questions from listeners. The first question about getting over feeling stuck despite doing soooooo much work. The second question is regarding sexual desire and satisfying oneself when not in a relationship.

This call is about asking for what you want in a relationship and if you don't get it how to leave without feeling guilty. Today's caller, Brooke, is deciding whether or not to leave her marriage. She is struggling with guilt and obligation due to a major expectation hangover that came up after they were married. The big picture in ending a relationship with someone who is going through a difficult time like an expectation hangover, a physical

A lot of listeners have been reaching out for support around breakups so in this episode I share my five top tips for navigating the completion of a relationship. Learn how to get from breakup to breakthrough with grace!

This call is about changing your perception of what fear is. Today's caller, Roman, is a mission-driven entrepreneur who becomes paralyzed by fear. During this call, you will learn that fear is an internal alarm system and how to get it working in your favor and the assets and liabilities of being an entrepreneur. Being a mission-driven entrepreneur sounds good and you can make a difference but at the same time, it can be a trigger. As we help th

Listen in as Christine tackles questions from listeners. The first one is from a woman who is considering ending her marriage because she feels she and her husband are on different paths. The second question is from a gentleman who wants to be free of his "gold-plating" behavior (and if you don't know what that is, Christine defines it!)

This call is about setting boundaries and taking care of your own needs. Today's caller, Caitlyn, is having an expectation hangover about her engagement planning process. She is excited about her wedding but her family and friends don't seem to be. This episode covers a lot of ground and we go really deep in this episode. Being a caretaker can be a survival skill. Survival needs can be the need to feel loved, to feel valued and to feel like we be