Libido Lounge

In this episode, Dr. Diane, Celeste, and Danielle explore body image, pleasure, and sexual health. They discuss touch sensations, vaginism, and disinterest in sex. A libido quiz sparks a conversation on body image and healing. The episode emphasizes internal body awareness, pleasure as a birthright, and understanding vaginal numbness. They highlight non-penetrative sex and the journey to heal body image issues through erotic embodiment classes. The episode concludes with insights into working with Danielle and Celeste and an invitation to join the Libido Club. Want to listen to part two of this episode: Make sure you join us at the Hot and Modern Monogamy Club for exclusive access: MyLibidoDoc.com/Club 🔥 Take their class to get better insight into your turn ons, turn offs and how to communicate with your partner: https://learn.somatica.com/link/nryY5m?url=https%3A%2F%2

What if we told you that orgasm and ejaculation aren’t the same thing—and that separating them could supercharge your sex life, your energy, and your confidence? In this episode, I sit down with Matt Sturn, a somatic therapist and coach for men’s sexuality, who went from five-minute sex to mind-blowing, multi-orgasmic pleasure. And guess what? No ejaculation necessary. We dive deep into how early porn exposure trained our bodies to rush sex, how men can rewire their arousal systems, and why lasting longer isn’t just about technique—it’s about energy mastery. Matt shares his five-step process to orgasmic control, the daily practice that changed everything for him, and why his partner cried the first time they connected for 45 minutes straight (yes, really!). For Part Two with Matt on Edging, join our Libido Club: mylibidodoc.com/libido-club

Have you ever felt like your desire makes you “too much”? Or that your cycle is a curse, not a gift? In this fierce and freeing episode, Dr. Diane welcomes global pleasure advocate Melissa Louise for a juicy, no-holds-barred conversation on feminine sovereignty and erotic intelligence. Together, they expose how our culture trains women to operate like men—burnt out, pleasure-starved, and disconnected. Melissa shares why honoring your body's natural rhythms, redefining orgasm, and embracing sensuality isn’t just hot—it’s healing. You’ll learn why slowing down is your superpower, why faking orgasms is sabotaging your pleasure, and how to lovingly rewire the dynamics that keep you stuck. If you’re ready to ditch the shame, ignite your libido, and start living from your own turn-on—this episode is your permission slip.

Ever felt like your body just won’t respond, no matter how much you try? You’re not broken—but the way we’ve been taught to think about female pleasure is. In this episode, we explore why orgasms can feel impossible for some women and how cannabis is now being recognized as a legitimate medical treatment for female orgasm difficulty (FOD). Some U.S. states, including Illinois and Connecticut, have even added FOD to their list of qualifying conditions for medical cannabis! If you’ve ever felt frustrated, pressured, or ashamed about your orgasms (or lack thereof), this episode will change everything you thought you knew about your body and pleasure.

Ever wondered why you don’t crave sex the way you used to? Or why your partner always seems to want it more (or less) than you? You’re not broken—but the way we’ve been taught to think about desire is. In this episode, I sit down with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to uncover the real reasons behind low sex drive, desire discrepancies, and why women are often blamed for “not wanting it enough.” If you’ve ever felt disconnected, pressured, or “not in the mood” more than you’d like, this episode will change everything you thought you knew about desire.

What if women’s pleasure was a priority, not an afterthought? In this provocative episode, Dr. Diane sits down with Leah Spasova, a psychologist, sex and relationship expert, and founder of Life’s Explicit, to explore how society, censorship, and cultural conditioning are keeping women sexually unfulfilled. They uncover why so many women feel disconnected from their own pleasure, how corporate interests profit from dissatisfaction, and what happens when women start reclaiming their sexuality. Plus, we discuss how your sex life impacts your mental health, relationships, and even your career success—and what you can do to change the script. If you've ever felt like your pleasure has been sidelined, this conversation is a must-listen.

Are you normal? When it comes to sex, intimacy, and orgasms, so many people wonder if what they're experiencing is typical. In this episode, we break down the numbers—real statistics about orgasms, libido, erectile function, and what’s actually happening in bedrooms everywhere. Dr. Diane Mueller is here to normalize the conversation around sex. So many people struggle with some level of sexual dysfunction, yet almost no one talks about it—not with friends, not with partners, and certainly not at dinner parties. But here's the truth: you're not alone.

Are you ready to bust the myths and tackle the taboo of anal sex? Today on The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with board-certified sexologist Amy Rowan to get real about anal intimacy. With so much misinformation out there, many people are either too afraid to try it or have had negative experiences in the past. But when done correctly, anal sex can be pleasurable, pain-free, and even orgasmic. Amy shares her expert insights on why numbing creams are a huge mistake, why rushing the process leads to pain, and how the right preparation can make all the difference. Plus, she dives into surprising stats—like the fact that 63% of women enjoy anal sex, but 77% have had a bad experience at some point. Whether you’re curious, hesitant, or want to improve your experiences, this conversation will help you navigate anal sex with confidence, communication, and pleasure in mind. No shame, no stigma—just real talk on making it work for you.

We’ve just dropped a new episode that you don't want to miss! This time, our expert, Dr. Diane, dives deep into Why Communication with Sex is Hard. If you’ve ever wondered why talking about sex can be so challenging, this episode has got the answers you need. 🧐

Low libido is a common challenge, but there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. In this episode of _The Libido Lounge_, Dr. Diane unpacks the top reasons behind a sluggish sex drive and shares actionable tips to bring back the spark.

What if a single word could help you reclaim your joy and power? In this _Girlfriend Edition_ of the _Libido Lounge_, Dr. Diane and her friends Ruby and Sapphire dive into what it means to "Tune Into Pussy." It’s about so much more than language—it’s about embracing pleasure, releasing shame, and connecting deeply with yourself.

Think your friends are the only ones who avoid talking about sex? Not here. In this “Girlfriend Edition,” Dr. Diane teams up with her friends Ruby and Sapphire for an unfiltered, no-judgment zone to discuss all things libido. We get into the highs, the lows, and everything in between—how stress, emotions, and even productivity are tied to feeling sensual and alive. This episode is for anyone who wants to feel more connected to themselves and their partner (and maybe have a laugh or two along the way).

Are you stuck in a rut when it comes to your love life? This episode will change how you think about intimacy forever. Dr. Diane sits down with Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and self-proclaimed "orgasmonaut," to discuss the transformative power of understanding your own pleasure.

The holidays are here, and while they bring joy and celebration, they can also be a total intimacy killer. Between family dinners, endless to-do lists, and all the chaos, how do you find time to keep the spark alive? Dr. Diane shares her top tips and tricks for staying connected with your partner during the busiest time of the year. Discover fun, creative ideas like making a fantasy basket for year-round excitement, turning your body into a playful scavenger hunt, and exploring ways to keep communication open and sexy. Plus, learn why a little planning can make all the difference in turning this holiday season into your steamiest yet. Don’t miss her announcement about the upcoming deep dive episode with intimacy expert Susan Bratton, which is coming early next year. Get ready to end the year on a high note—emotionally and physically.

Do you ever wonder how to truly feel pleasure in your body? 🌟 "The practice of pleasure is the practice of presence." Join Dr. Diane Mueller and guest Cali David in the Libido Lounge. Discover how slowing down and being in the moment can change your experience of pleasure and intimacy. Cali shares simple exercises to help you feel more present every day. Ready to dive in? Watch now!

"Stress is more than just an external experience; it's a hormone," Dr. Tricia Pingle shares in this eye-opening episode. We dive deep into how stress and anxiety are stealthily impacting your hormones and sex drive. Dr. Diane Mueller and Dr. Pingle explore why chronic stress often puts your libido on pause and how the body adapts in unexpected ways. Discover the surprising mechanisms at play and learn actionable steps to break free from the stress cycle, reclaiming your energy and passion. Don't miss the vital insights that could transform your understanding of stress, hormones, and a vibrant sex life.

Are you ready to tackle the taboo of talking about sex? Today on The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with Dr. Evelin Dacker, a sex-positive family medicine doctor, to get real about what it takes to have open, honest conversations about intimacy. From her unique "STARS Talk" model to her inspiring journey from the roller derby rink to the TEDx stage, Dr. Dacker shares how we can all approach sex as an important part of health and well-being. This episode dives into why talking about sex can be tough, how these conversations can get easier, and why they matter at every stage of life. Whether you’re looking to connect with a partner, bring new tools to your practice, or just be more comfortable discussing your own needs, this conversation will help you break down barriers. Get ready to rethink intimacy, communication, and the joy of a healthy sexual life.

Are you worried about breast cancer screenings? On today’s episode, Dr. Diane talks with Dr. Yvonne Carney, an integrative gynecologist. Dr. Yvonne shares a new way to screen for breast cancer called QT Imaging. It’s safer and more comfortable than regular mammograms. There’s no radiation, no pain, and it’s great for women with dense breasts. Dr. Yvonne also talks about anxiety, hormones, and why knowing your options matters. Don’t miss this chat if you want better choices for your breast health.

Ever wondered what your orgasm patterns can reveal about you? In this episode of The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane dives into a fascinating conversation with Anna Lee, co-founder of Lioness—the world’s first smart vibrator that gives you biofeedback about your pleasure. Anna shares how the device not only tracks your orgasms but helps you understand what factors like stress, caffeine, or even time of day do to your pleasure. Listen in as Anna explains how Lioness went from an idea to a revolutionary tool for sexual wellness. Discover the three unique orgasm patterns—ocean wave, avalanche, and volcano—and find out why understanding your data can transform both solo and partnered pleasure. Whether you’re curious about leveling up your sex life or want to learn more about your body, this episode offers a deep dive into how data can empower your sexuality.

Have you ever wondered if hormone replacement therapy is safe? Or maybe you're curious about why menopause seems to hit harder than it did for past generations. In this episode of the Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with women's health expert Dr. Betty Murray to explore these questions and more. Together, they challenge outdated beliefs about HRT, explain how living longer affects hormone health, and reveal the hidden dangers of toxins that disrupt our hormones. Learn why the fear surrounding HRT may be misplaced, how you can safely support your body through menopause, and practical steps to protect yourself from hormonal toxins. Whether you're approaching menopause or are well into it, this conversation is packed with insights to help you thrive at any stage. Tune in for a myth-busting discussion that will empower you to take charge of your hormonal health.

What do you do when you and your partner aren’t on the same page about intimacy? In today’s episode, I sit down with relationship experts Tara and EJ Kerwin to tackle one of the most common challenges couples face—desire discrepancy. We’ll explore why couples often struggle with mismatched sex drives and how to rebuild connection through better communication and emotional safety.

Have you ever wondered why you keep stuck in the same negative relationship patterns? In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to discuss how past trauma, big or small, can hijack your ability to feel safe, loved, and connected. We dive deep into the science of how our brains, particularly the amygdala, trigger stress responses that sabotage intimacy and trust. Dr. Ray shares actionable steps to heal emotional wounds, break free from self-sabotage, and empower yourself in love. Plus, we talk about practical ways to rewire your beliefs about relationships so you can finally attract the love and connection you deserve. Whether you’re struggling with trust or trauma or simply want a better understanding of relationship dynamics, this episode is for you. Dr. Ray also shares exercises from his book All It Takes Is One and a free masterclass designed to help you transform your love life.

_"We only live once... and I would hate for someone to leave this world without engaging in their fantasies."_ — Dr. Toni Bear. In this eye-opening episode of The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with certified sexologist Dr. Toni Bear to tackle the taboos around sexual fantasies. Why do so many of us feel shame around our desires, and how can we break free from these stigmas? Dr. Bear shares her journey, from helping LGBTQ youth come out healthy to becoming a global advocate for sexual empowerment. Dr. Bear explains how exploring your fantasies can reignite passion in relationships and improve overall well-being. Whether you're struggling to communicate your desires with your partner or curious about the role of fantasy in your sex life, Dr. Bear’s insights will guide you through the process of embracing your true self. She also offers practical advice on navigating taboo topics, breaking through cultural and religious barriers, and safely exploring fantasies with consent.

Do you wonder why many women struggle with body shame, especially around their most sacred area? In this episode, Dr. Diane talks with Pussyology expert Sierra Sullivan about healing through body acceptance and feminine empowerment. Sierra shares her journey from overworking in masculine energy to discovering a sacred ritual transforming her relationship with her body. They explore the origins of Pussyology, reclaiming the word "pussy," and how this work helps women break free from shame. Whether you're comfortable with your body or feeling unsure, this conversation will open your mind and heart. Sierra also introduces her "Love Your Yoni" mini-course, a great starting point for this empowering journey.

Are you curious if your breast implants might be causing health issues? In this episode, Dr. Robert Whitfield, a leading holistic plastic surgeon, joins Dr. Diane to explore Breast Implant Illness (BII), affecting around 30% of women with implants. They discuss how bacterial contaminants, hormonal shifts, toxins, and critical symptoms like fatigue, low libido, and thyroid problems can trigger BII. Dr. Rob explains his 'SHARP' process for optimal recovery after explant surgery and the role of detoxification in healing. If you're considering explant surgery or want to learn more about BII, this episode offers expert insights and practical advice.

Are you ready to feel more confident, joyful, and connected? In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller talks with Jennifer Joy Jimenez, the creator of TranscenDance™, about how dancing can help you reconnect with your body and bring more pleasure into your life. Jennifer shares her journey from a professional dancer to creating a unique movement practice that helps people feel more alive and happy. Learn how letting your body lead—both in dance and in your relationships—can help you break free from routines and discover new levels of joy. Whether you want to boost your confidence, improve your relationships, or just find more fun in moving, this episode is full of simple tips and inspiring stories to get you started. Plus, Jennifer is offering a special gift—a free dance class that will help you start your journey to feeling more alive today!

Why is climax sometimes hard to reach? In this episode of The Libido Lounge, Dr. Diane Mueller helps us understand the female orgasm. She explains how nerves, blood flow, and mental focus play a role. Dr. Diane also shares tips on how to enjoy sex more and reduce stress about performing. You'll learn about different types of orgasms and how to find what works best for you. Plus, discover a special kind of orgasm that can even help improve your mental health. This episode contains simple, practical advice to improve your intimate life. And don’t forget, it’s sexy season! Rate and review our podcast for a chance to win great prizes, including a spot in our 21-day Libido Jumpstart course. Listen in, stay classy, and keep it sexy!

Are you struggling to reach orgasm or want to discover new ways to enhance your pleasure? In this episode, we sit down with Susan Bratton, an intimacy expert who shares her journey from orgasm challenges to mastering over 20 different kinds. Susan explains the concept of "orgasmic cross-training" and how using the right tools and techniques can open up new pathways to pleasure. Learn how to overcome performance anxiety, explore the power of sex toys, and embrace your body’s full orgasmic potential. Whether you're a beginner or looking to take your intimate life to the next level, this episode offers practical advice and hope. Plus, discover why communication is key to a fulfilling and relaxed sexual experience. And don’t forget—it’s sexy season! Rate and review our podcast for a chance to win amazing giveaways, including Susan’s top programs and pleasure tools. Tune in, stay classy, and keep it sexy!

Are you ignoring your body's signals and wondering why your intimate connections are lacking? In today’s episode, we explore womb healing with Caitlin, a holistic womb healer, coach, and somatic psychotherapist. Caitlin shares her journey of learning to listen to her body and unlock her desires, and how ignoring these signals affected her intimacy. Discover simple steps to connect with your body, understand the energy stored in your womb, and release past traumas. Caitlin explains how even small traumas can impact our well-being and what we can do to heal. Join us for a powerful discussion that will help you find your “yes” by listening to your body’s “no.” Don’t miss Caitlin’s tips for deep healing and improving your intimate relationships.

Are you struggling to keep the spark alive in your relationship? In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller sits down with Heather Shannon, a certified sex therapist, to explore the deep connection between our emotions and sexual energy. Discover how compartmentalizing emotions can dim your libido and learn practical strategies to reignite your passion. Heather shares insights on internal family systems therapy and how understanding our internal parts can lead to better sexual health. From creating a safe space for open communication to recognizing and addressing negative self-talk, this conversation is packed with actionable advice to enhance your intimacy.

What does it take to reclaim your sexuality and confidence after a double mastectomy (or any other body-disfiguring surgery)? Enter Amy Rowan, the suburban sexologist, who shares her journey from the shock of diagnosis to post-surgery empowerment. Amy opens up about her fears around body image and sexuality, revealing the pivotal moment she took control of her pleasure. Intimacy and connection, she shows, are crucial for healing. We discuss how stress and body changes impact libido and how maintaining a sexual relationship can be a powerful tool for stress relief and healing.

What does it take to maintain intimacy and connection while facing the challenge of decreased libido during the journey to conceive? Enter Jessica Preston, a specialist in sexual health, wellness, fertility, and women’s health, who shares her expert insights and personal experiences. From understanding the commonality of the issue to providing actionable solutions, Jessica offers hope and practical advice for couples navigating this sensitive and often stressful period. Discover how holistic approaches can complement conventional medicine to enhance fertility and sexual health and learn about the surprising link between orgasm and conception.

What role do hormones play in blood sugar regulation, weight loss, and libido? Join us as we welcome Ashley Koff, RD, founder of The Better Nutrition Program, to explore the intricacies of incretin hormones and their impact on our health. Ashley sheds light on how these hormones influence not only our metabolic health but also our sexual well-being. Learn practical tips on optimizing your hormone levels naturally and discover the surprising connections between your gut health, blood sugar, and libido.

Could the chronic stress we carry around be making us more vulnerable to HPV? Today, I sat down with Dr. Doni Wilson, a superstar in naturopathic medicine, to unravel the link between stress, cortisol, and our immune systems. An HPV diagnosis can feel like a heavy burden, with standard advice to 'wait it out' feeling flat. We explore why traditional treatments like LEAP procedures often fall short and dive into proactive, natural strategies to help your body clear the virus. We also delve into how stress impacts everything from digestion to libido, revealing how chronic stress disrupts gut and vaginal microbiomes, making you more prone to infections. Dr. Donnie and I share practical tips to break the stress-libido cycle, from dietary tweaks to activities that boost oxytocin, the body's anti-stress hormone.

Hormonal issues causing you dryness "down there"? Join us with OBGYN and Hormones Expert Dr. Anna Cabeca as we tackle hormones and how they impact everything we do from mood, to weight to sex life, and how through lifestyle, diet and mindset we can balance them in a way that we can live our best lives before, during, and after menopause. We also dive into celebrating our "second spring," highlighting the cognitive and emotional renaissance that comes with these changes.

What if understanding conscious relationships could change the way you see love? Join us with Christina Weber, a luminary in intimacy and connection, as she unveils the Four Pillars of a Conscious Relationship. Our conversation dives into emotional vulnerability, personal accountability, and treating relationships as sacred grounds for practicing love. We explore how vulnerability and authenticity form the backbone of genuine connections, removing barriers that hinder emotional evolution.

Have you ever felt the weight of trying to conceive dampen the spark in your bedroom? Dr. Diane Mueller here, and I've brought in fertility expert Dr. Susan Fox to shed light on how the pursuit of parenthood can influence our sexual desire. We’ll discuss the stressful cycle that can inadvertently cool one's libido, and offering nuggets of wisdom on how to preserve that vital connection with your partner.

Why do some relationships endure the test of time while others crumble? Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and relationship expert, joins us to share her wealth of knowledge on building strong, lasting partnerships. With a background in the front lines of marriage breakdowns, Sarah brings a unique, battle-tested perspective to the conversation. She introduces the top 'F' words signaling relationship red flags from her book, "Live Laugh, Love True Love,” and we explore how aligning fundamental values can be the bedrock of love's longevity. It’s a dialogue that ventures beyond the surface, challenging us to look deep within our connections and ourselves.

Ever feel a little cervix tension during sex? Let’s talk about it. Today, we'll discuss how to release cervical tension (and mental distress) -- as we endeavor to ultimately lose ourselves in sexual pleasure and deep, mindblowing orgasms. We are joined by Jamie Thompson, a sex and initimacy coach and creator behind _Awakened Woman_, an online haven for women embracing their feminine essence and sexual freedom.

Why is (consistent!) self-love _such_ a challenge? It's totally normal to struggle with this – especially on days with bad skin and extra pockets of belly fat. We hit the gym, try to eat better, and sometimes we feel a little boost—but then, poof, it fades after a day or two. _What gives?_ In this episode of Libido Lounge, we are joined by embodiment expert Emily Wishall as we explore the transformative power of being fully present in your own skin—boosting not just your well-being but also lighting up your sexual pleasure like never before. We're diving straight into the societal pressures that try to disconnect us from our physical selves, dissecting how they sow self-doubt and how we can reclaim our power for a deeper level of sexual pleasure. 💖

As someone who's been through sexual assault, my journey has been both arduous and enlightening, revealing how deeply shame can really affect our libido. I'm Diane, and I want to talk openly about how shame, fueled by societal norms and personal trauma, can mess with how we see ourselves sexually. Shame gets deep into us, from society's expectations to our private struggles behind closed doors. I'll dive into how shame can harm our sexual happiness and why it's crucial to face these deep-seated beliefs for healing and a better sex life. Let's chat about this important topic together.

In this episode, Dr. Diane delves into the multifaceted world of libido, addressing the root causes of low sexual desire in long-term relationships. She explores the importance of understanding personal needs and the role of pelvic health in maintaining a healthy libido. The episode further uncovers how interpersonal dynamics and open communication between partners can significantly impact sexual satisfaction. As the discussion unfolds, listeners are equipped with resources and insights to navigate their intimate lives more effectively. The episode concludes with information on how to access additional promotional content and tools.

Ah, anal sex. A topic that many find daunting yet potentially pleasurable. This week at the Libido Lounge, we peel back the layers of hesitancy surrounding this intimate act and discuss the keys to unlocking unknown pleasures in a safe and enjoyable manner. There's no shying away from the nitty-gritty; we tackle the essentials of cleanliness with tips like bathing and enema bulbs to ensure a hygienic experience, as well as the importance of choosing the right lubricant—listen in to find out our favorites.

Ever felt the heat of your relationship simmer down to a comfortable, yet uninspiring warmth? Get ready to rekindle the spark as we invite you into the Libido Lounge for a candid exploration of passion and playfulness in monogamous relationships. We're not just talking about reigniting the spark—we're throwing in a whole fireworks display of ideas to help you and your partner create a sensual extravaganza. From the art of flirtation to daring heart-to-heart conversations, we discuss the vital role of emotional intimacy and why penciling in pleasure and exploring sexual novelties can lead to a whole new world of satisfaction.

Have you ever felt pressured to have a baby, making intimacy feel more like a duty than something enjoyable? Bitter as it may be, conception isn’t always easy and can create tension in a relationship In today’s episode of Libido Lounge, we welcome Dr. Aumatma Simmons as she pulls back the curtains on this intimate struggle, sharing her expert insights on how libido and infertility are intricately connected. We delve into the emotional challenges couples face when trying to conceive, where the focus on becoming parents can overshadow the joy of being intimate. We also talk about about how couples can reignite the excitement they felt at the start of their relationship, fertility beliefs that need to be challenged, and tips on how to get pregnant without relying on the “perfect timing” method.

Remember the time when your body started to change in ways you never expected, and you had to figure out how to love the skin you're in all over again? We're revisiting that journey, only this time it's menopause knocking on our doors. Join us as we explore how to prepare our bodies and minds for menopause, starting ten years in advance. We’ll dissect the similarities between the hormonal changes during puberty and perimenopause, and how these changes can affect our body image and self-confidence

Have you ever felt stuck with how to know what is pleasurable or how to mentally prioritize yourself? You're not alone! So many feel this way and struggle to "turn off". In today's episode of Libido Lounge, we'll talk about prioritizing self-care and how doing so can greatly affect your sex life. We'll also explore the unexpected twists in sexual desire that often come post-breakup and reveal why indulging in self-pleasure isn’t just a solo act of passion but a critical step in nurturing your well-being.

Have you ever felt as though you're trapped in a tug-of-war between your career and your romantic life? In today's episode of Libido Lounge, join us as we unlock strategies for balancing jobs and joy, and delve into small, pleasurable rituals that can dramatically shift your stress landscape and enrich your relationships. If you've ever felt the strain of balancing an ambitious work ethic with intimacy, this episode is for you.

Be honest, ladies. When the love making just isn’t making it happen, do you fake it? No judgement here. There could be a myriad reasons why women aren’t climaxing as frequently as men. Perhaps your mind is overloaded, your mood isn’t quite there, or the cosmic forces aren’t aligning to get you where you want to go. Welcome to the Libido Lounge, where we walk you through unlocking the secrets of better sex and deeper intimacy through honest talk. In this episode, we'll talk about how our brains drive desire and how faking your lust and desire can lead to problems.

Dr. Diane welcomes Naomi Harris to discuss the often-overlooked topic of menopause and its profound impact on women's lives. They share personal stories and education about menopause, shedding light on how it affects libido and relationships. The conversation delves into societal views on aging, challenging the notion of diminished self-worth as women age. Naomi offers insights on enhancing libido and maintaining fulfilling relationships post-menopause. The episode also addresses the sensitive topic of pelvic pain and the importance of understanding and addressing it. Listeners are invited to join the Menopause Revolution Summit for further exploration.