Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

You're a legacy dad (or mom, or parent, caretaker, or whatever). You've come to Christ and know that you're supposed to pray. If you're a Christian in today's world, statistics show that we are praying less frequently, for less time, and (arguably) with less depth than in previous generations. Maybe when it comes down to it, your prayer sounds more like a prayer from a pageant contestant than someone who is trying to talk to God. If you're in this position (or anything remotely similar), this episode is for you. Dave and Dante discuss a couple of ways to pray - the five finger method, and the ACTS method - as ways to continue to develop your prayer life.

Dante and Dave discuss five man-killers that are sure to take down any man who isn't properly equipped to recognize and respond. How do we deal with fear or abdication or anything in between? Listen in for some practical and biblical ways in which to protect yourself and your family from these man-killers!

Dave and Dante are back together to discuss what it means to be a man of God as opposed to being a man of the world. Listen in as they discuss some of the aspects of an article written in 2014 (and updated in 2018) to highlight what a Legacy Dad should be focused on today.

In this episode, Dante brings on another special guest to talk about her faith journey, her view of what a Legacy Dad is, and more importantly, to keep Dante in check! Listen in as Dante and his daughter Belle discuss the Legacy Dad and Christian life.

Western church consumerism versus the church of Jesus Christ - what is our role as legacy dads and moms in this modern era of "selfish"? What does true church and worship look like? Dante and special guest, Octavian, explore the differences between western churches and what true worship should look like.

In this second part of this two-part series, Dave, Dante, BJ, and Bryan discuss the rest of the phases of crisis and how Christian men and Legacy Dads can walk through it to get to a positive outcome. What is the end result of a man seeking solid biblical counsel in order to navigate a crisis? Tune into the discussion to find out!

In this special joint-edition podcast with the Kirkmont Men's Podcast, Dave and Dante, and guests Pastor BJ Newman and Chaplain Bryan Dodge discuss crisis in mens' lives. In part 1, they discuss the Christian perspective on crisis, and start unpacking the phases of crisis. From the moment a man faces crisis, be it physical, emotional, or spiritual, the importance of having other men, rooted in faith, providing sound, biblical advice and perspective, cannot be understated. Tune in for part 2 "Hope On the Other Side" after this episode! Hear the Kirkmont Men's Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kirkmont-mens-podcast/id1493718258 Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

In this episode, Dave and Dante interview Joshua Glaser and Daniel Weiss, authors of the book Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents. In their book, they provide parents with the tools they need to navigate a hyper-sexualized culture. As leaders of Christ-centered ministries aimed at helping families live in God's beautiful design for sexuality, Josh and Daniel are passionate about helping parents raise healthy kids — both relationally and emotionally. In Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World, Josh and Daniel are the experts parents need to help their kids navigate a digital world full of landmines. More information here: https://www.treadingboldly.com/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/treadingboldly/ Buy the book here: (available June 15th 2021) https://www.amazon.com/Treading-Boldly-through-Pornographic-World/dp/1684511607 Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how God uses us in the phases of our life - whether they are positive or negative - and will always turn them into something better...especially when we say "yes" to God. Dante is closing up his tenure as an Elder at his church and discusses some of the lessons-learned, and Dave talks about the importance of not just "going through the motions" at church. Highlighting a book by R.C. Sproul, the guys talk about five spiritual disciplines, and not shying away from being the "Jesus freak" when it comes the the spiritual discipline you enjoy the most. Bottom line...wait until you see what God is able to do after you say yes! Referenced book by RC Sproul: https://www.heritagebooks.org/products/5-things-every-christian-needs-to-grow-sproul.html Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

In this Memorial Day episode, Dave and Dante discuss how a legacy dad can take Memorial Day and use it to promote proven biblical principles that leave a lasting legacy. Enjoy the discussion! To support families of those who have given the ultimate sacrifice, please consider donating to these organizations: https://www.fallenpatriots.org https://foldsofhonor.org https://fisherhouse.org https://fascholarship.com https://pattillmanfoundation.org https://www.taps.org for information https://www.militarywidows.org for information Music courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Using a story as the catalyst, Dave and Dante discuss the way one sin can turn into another and another and another. With references to Paul's list of things to avoid, they discuss the importance of stopping the small sin in its tracks before the train completely derails. Also...new music! Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

One of the greatest movies from the 90's included these four words: "Pop quiz, hot shot." In this episode, Dante quizzes Dave on an important Legacy Dad topic: how do you stoke the fire in the kitchen? Tune in to hear Dave's analogy to what you actually need to have a successful fire, and take the lessons and apply them to your lives!

If you could hit the "re-do" button on being a dad, what would that look like? If you've got the experience of being a dad, what would you tell a new dad? What are the keys? Dante leads the conversation, speaking of loving your wife, respecting her and the kids, being the spiritual leader, and more. Additionally, Dante provides an update to the Legacy Dads ministry and podcast. The legacy continues!

Parents are we being more Christ-like with a balance of truth and grace or pharisaical with threats, rules, and demanding obedience? Too many mental health problems in children today come from poor parenting styles or worse, emotional abuse left unchecked. Learn the signs of bad parenting and how to turn away and become more balanced and Christ like.

The Holy Spirit derails our podcast into a talk on our current state of economics, God's word on stewardship, and what our role should be in helping others versus empowering others to help themselves.

Easter 2021, What Is Our Identity? Can identity change? Who and what defines our identity and being. Do we listen to popular culture or the media for our identity or does our identity come from God? This Easter Sunday 2021, strive to Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.

Christian Living in a Cancel Culture. How do Christians live faithfully according to Biblical truth in a culture that embraces radical relativism? What happens when people are suppressed, censored and not allowed to express their beliefs in this culture? How do we adhere to the moral and constitutional high ground without reacting in fear, anger, or by attacking others?

Research suggest that the current divisive nature in the United States or "cancel Culture" may have been caused by parenting practices. Cancel culture is forcing censorship of free speech and free thought and some believe has gone too far.

Men's ministry ideas and an action plan to implement effective strategies. We discuss men's ministry curriculum, men's ministry events, starting a men's ministry, and the best men's ministry activity ideas for effective discipleship and spiritual growth. Show Notes: Resources https://fightclub414.com/ https://www.legacydads.org/milk-to-meat/moving-from-milk-to-meat

What is true in the Bible? What is relativism? Are moral questions true or false or only relative to some particular standpoint. Is there no absolute truth and only different perspectives with no standpoint that is uniquely privileged over all others?

Vinnie Adams Special Needs Ministry Director at Faith Church Indiana talks about parenting and ministry to special needs children and teens. The Reflectors ministry facilitates the discipleship and belonging of people with special needs and is a true testament and example of the Gospel of Jesus Christ that we could all learn from.

Do you remember the last time God showed up unannounced in your life? Even though the Lord is everywhere always, occasionally He'll show up in a unique way. Will you be ready? Will You be afraid?

Jeff McDaniel joins Legacy Dads to discuss how lies have made us think faith is about fear, guilt, and shame but the truth of the gospel is far from that.

Forget political pundits and social media, get biblical truth on unity and how to shrewdly discern wolves in sheep's clothing. Stop playing the enemy's game of dividing ourselves and get back to advancing God's kingdom.

What is repentance? Why shame and guilt doesn't work with kids or in life and a better approach to bring about repentance, obedience, and true heart change.

Creating amazing family memories and experiences. What to do and what not to do on vacations and daily life. Research shows positive childhood experiences help children deal with stress, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Positive experiences also overwrite negative, traumatic experiences and give children more grit as they grow older.

Love, Grace, Faith, and Peace. How to be Gospel Focused for 2021 and understand that you are enough, you have enough, and God's grace is sufficient to overcome. With all the craziness going on, get your family back to being christ-centered, and gospel focused this year.

Dante and Lance discuss what to do when we fall short in parenting, the common pitfalls parents make, and how to correct and parent Biblically.

Lance and Dante discuss finishing 2020 strong and getting Christ centered for the Christmas season.

Lance and Dante invite you to partner with them to help the people of Malawi by providing access to healthcare, sustainable farming, and spreading the gospel through the local church. Legacy Dads is launching exclusive content, behind the scenes, and members only live sessions to equip the church in Malawi. Buy us a coffee and change the world! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/legacydads

But God. These two words explain the gospel with simplicity. Lance and Dante discuss there may not be two more hopeful words that we could utter. When God enters the lives of sinners like you and me, true transformation, hope, and renewal happen. Our way of giving thanks to God is to use our lives to glorify Him and advance his kingdom.

Lance and Dante talk about some positive things parents are learning from COVID and how these are affecting the mental health of children. Also, why parents need to be mindful of co-regulation with our children.

Lance and Dante discuss being sensitive to the needs of our wife and family and using empathy to realize when we might need to change directions. How to realize the key moments when our family needs us most and be there for them in these crucial moments. https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest

Lance and Dante talk the election, having a biblical worldview, and no matter who wins, ensuring we are glorifying God and being examples to the world. Plus, Lance and Dante give their election predictions.

We're so excited for the Perfectly, Imperfect Christian Parenting event and will be speaking virtually at the event this weekend. As Christian parents we know how important it is to raise our children with a picture of God's love for them every day. But most days we're stretched too thin to do more than the status quo. That leaves us feeling reactive instead of proactive, never growing into the parents we know we were created to be. And, the highlight reel we see on social media doesn't help. It only leaves us feeling more hopeless and inadequate, seeing a facade of perfection in others lives we'll never measure up to. If you are looking for honest, transparent encouragement and advice on parenting, marriage, finance, and more then join us for the Perfectly, Imperfect Christian Parenting event at the link below: www.perfectlyimperfect.org/a/34476/nzLVzDCo

Dante and Lance discuss what the purpose of pain is, why pain exists in this world and our lives, and how God may use our pain for His glory.

Joël Malm is the founder of Summit Leaders where he uses outdoor adventure and personal coaching to help people find their calling and pursue a vision for their lives. In this podcast, Joël discusses anger, worry, and anxiety along with the root causes and how to understand what triggers your emotions and how put the brakes on. Joël gives you practical ways to slow down, deal with anger, and respond with love. Show Notes: http://www.joelmalm.com/ http://www.summitleaders.com/

Narcissist Generation - Lance and Dante discuss recent research on failures in education and how empathy and civility have become seemingly rare. Lance and Dante give you some biblical action steps to ensure that you are not raising narcissists in your home. Show Notes: Perfectly Imperfect Parenting Conference - Sign Up Here - www.perfectlyimperfect.org/a/34476/nzLVzDCo

Pastor Adam Griffin, co-author of Family Discipleship joins Lance and Dante to discuss our roles as husbands and fathers in gospel-centered discipleship focused in three key areas: time, moments, and milestones. Adam is the lead pastor of Eastside Community Church in East Dallas, Texas. He previously served as an elder and spiritual formation pastor at the Village Church. Adam lives with his wife, Chelsea, and their three sons Oscar, Gus, and Theodore, in Dallas, Texas. Show Notes: https://www.amazon.com/Family-Discipleship-Leading-through-Milestones/dp/143356629X https://www.eastsidedallas.org/

Cameron Arnett – actor, director, producer, and speaker joins Lance and Dante for the second part of their podcast. Cameron starred in the Christian films "Overcomer" and "I Still Believe" and is currently the CEO of Camy Arnett Production Studios (CAPS). Cameron discusses role models, humility, and the Church's role in racial tensions. Show Notes: https://www.cameronarnett.com/ https://www.cameronarnett.com/copy-of-portfolio https://www.camyarnett.com/

Cameron Arnett – actor, director, producer, and speaker joins Lance and Dante in this podcast. Cameron starred in the Christian films "Overcomer" and "I Still Believe" and is currently the CEO of Camy Arnett Production Studios (CAPS). Cameron discusses leaving Hollywood, overcoming setbacks, and gives some solid advice for men, husbands, and fathers.

Brad Silverman is the director of movies like No Greater Love, Grace Unplugged, and is the director and writer of the recently released movie Selfie Dad. Paul Long is the President of Kappa Studios and the producer of "Selfie Dad." Lance and Dante discuss the Selfie Dad movie as well as making faith-based films in the midst of Hollywood. Show Notes: https://selfiedadmovie.com/ https://www.selfiedadresources.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Selfie-Dad-Michael-Jr/dp/B088XZF8HG

Social Media Risks Parents Should Know About - Research from Jonathan Haidt and Jean Twenge on how social media affects children and specifically girls and daughters. Tips for parenting in the social media age, online safety tips for parents, and parents monitoring of kids social media use. Show Notes: LET'S CONNECT! -- https://www.facebook.com/legacydads/ -- https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/ -- https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest LISTEN TO THE LEGACY DADS PODCAST - Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3l59A3y - Google Play: https://bit.ly/2QeHMv8 - Spotify: https://spoti.fi/32ifwO6 - Pandora: https://pdora.co/34lpzo2

Lance and Dante finally reveal the big news! Hear the news and also Dante and Lance's backstory of how Legacy Dads came about. Show Notes: LET'S CONNECT! -- https://www.facebook.com/legacydads/ -- https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/ -- https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest LISTEN TO THE LEGACY DADS PODCAST - Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3l59A3y - Google Play: https://bit.ly/2QeHMv8 - Spotify: https://spoti.fi/32ifwO6 - Pandora: https://pdora.co/34lpzo2

Lance and Dante are joined by Jeff McDaniel for part two to discuss listening and obeying what God has in store for us. Our role in God's plan for discipleship and reaching all nations with the Gospel.

Jeff McDaniel joins Lance and Dante to discuss current church multiplication movements and discipleship. Jeff talks about how we can hear from God in order to be obedient to God's unique calling for our lives.

Dante and Lance discuss current barriers to spiritual growth. Has the modern church created a consumer mentality? Does the church make us too busy with activities to engage the community? Does a ministry calling need to be under the walls of a church or out engaging people?

Lance and Dante discuss the five most common mistakes Christian parents make and alternatives to transform the family.

Part 2 of How To Fix America - Lance and Dante discuss five ways to develop more empathy, compassion, and diversity in our children. How to discipline in a way that leads to self regulation and emotional control.

Dante and Lance discuss four false premises of cancel culture being parroted in the media, education, and the culture. How to teach our children to think rationally and critically and what can be done to turn this country around.