Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how God uses us in the phases of our life - whether they are positive or negative - and will always turn them into something better...especially when we say "yes" to God. Dante is closing up his tenure as an Elder at his church and discusses some of the lessons-learned, and Dave talks about the importance of not just "going through the motions" at church. Highlighting a book by R.C. Sproul, the guys talk about five spiritual disciplines, and not shying away from being the "Jesus freak" when it comes the the spiritual discipline you enjoy the most. Bottom line...wait until you see what God is able to do after you say yes! Referenced book by RC Sproul: https://www.heritagebooks.org/products/5-things-every-christian-needs-to-grow-sproul.html Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

In this Memorial Day episode, Dave and Dante discuss how a legacy dad can take Memorial Day and use it to promote proven biblical principles that leave a lasting legacy. Enjoy the discussion! To support families of those who have given the ultimate sacrifice, please consider donating to these organizations: https://www.fallenpatriots.org https://foldsofhonor.org https://fisherhouse.org https://fascholarship.com https://pattillmanfoundation.org https://www.taps.org for information https://www.militarywidows.org for information Music courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Using a story as the catalyst, Dave and Dante discuss the way one sin can turn into another and another and another. With references to Paul's list of things to avoid, they discuss the importance of stopping the small sin in its tracks before the train completely derails. Also...new music! Music Courtesy of: Superepic by Alexander Nakarada | https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

One of the greatest movies from the 90's included these four words: "Pop quiz, hot shot." In this episode, Dante quizzes Dave on an important Legacy Dad topic: how do you stoke the fire in the kitchen? Tune in to hear Dave's analogy to what you actually need to have a successful fire, and take the lessons and apply them to your lives!

If you could hit the "re-do" button on being a dad, what would that look like? If you've got the experience of being a dad, what would you tell a new dad? What are the keys? Dante leads the conversation, speaking of loving your wife, respecting her and the kids, being the spiritual leader, and more. Additionally, Dante provides an update to the Legacy Dads ministry and podcast. The legacy continues!

Parents are we being more Christ-like with a balance of truth and grace or pharisaical with threats, rules, and demanding obedience? Too many mental health problems in children today come from poor parenting styles or worse, emotional abuse left unchecked. Learn the signs of bad parenting and how to turn away and become more balanced and Christ like.

The Holy Spirit derails our podcast into a talk on our current state of economics, God's word on stewardship, and what our role should be in helping others versus empowering others to help themselves.

Easter 2021, What Is Our Identity? Can identity change? Who and what defines our identity and being. Do we listen to popular culture or the media for our identity or does our identity come from God? This Easter Sunday 2021, strive to Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.

Christian Living in a Cancel Culture. How do Christians live faithfully according to Biblical truth in a culture that embraces radical relativism? What happens when people are suppressed, censored and not allowed to express their beliefs in this culture? How do we adhere to the moral and constitutional high ground without reacting in fear, anger, or by attacking others?

Research suggest that the current divisive nature in the United States or "cancel Culture" may have been caused by parenting practices. Cancel culture is forcing censorship of free speech and free thought and some believe has gone too far.

Men's ministry ideas and an action plan to implement effective strategies. We discuss men's ministry curriculum, men's ministry events, starting a men's ministry, and the best men's ministry activity ideas for effective discipleship and spiritual growth. Show Notes: Resources https://fightclub414.com/ https://www.legacydads.org/milk-to-meat/moving-from-milk-to-meat

What is true in the Bible? What is relativism? Are moral questions true or false or only relative to some particular standpoint. Is there no absolute truth and only different perspectives with no standpoint that is uniquely privileged over all others?

Vinnie Adams Special Needs Ministry Director at Faith Church Indiana talks about parenting and ministry to special needs children and teens. The Reflectors ministry facilitates the discipleship and belonging of people with special needs and is a true testament and example of the Gospel of Jesus Christ that we could all learn from.

Do you remember the last time God showed up unannounced in your life? Even though the Lord is everywhere always, occasionally He'll show up in a unique way. Will you be ready? Will You be afraid?

Jeff McDaniel joins Legacy Dads to discuss how lies have made us think faith is about fear, guilt, and shame but the truth of the gospel is far from that.

Forget political pundits and social media, get biblical truth on unity and how to shrewdly discern wolves in sheep's clothing. Stop playing the enemy's game of dividing ourselves and get back to advancing God's kingdom.

What is repentance? Why shame and guilt doesn't work with kids or in life and a better approach to bring about repentance, obedience, and true heart change.

Creating amazing family memories and experiences. What to do and what not to do on vacations and daily life. Research shows positive childhood experiences help children deal with stress, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Positive experiences also overwrite negative, traumatic experiences and give children more grit as they grow older.

Love, Grace, Faith, and Peace. How to be Gospel Focused for 2021 and understand that you are enough, you have enough, and God's grace is sufficient to overcome. With all the craziness going on, get your family back to being christ-centered, and gospel focused this year.

Dante and Lance discuss what to do when we fall short in parenting, the common pitfalls parents make, and how to correct and parent Biblically.

Lance and Dante discuss finishing 2020 strong and getting Christ centered for the Christmas season.

Lance and Dante invite you to partner with them to help the people of Malawi by providing access to healthcare, sustainable farming, and spreading the gospel through the local church. Legacy Dads is launching exclusive content, behind the scenes, and members only live sessions to equip the church in Malawi. Buy us a coffee and change the world! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/legacydads

But God. These two words explain the gospel with simplicity. Lance and Dante discuss there may not be two more hopeful words that we could utter. When God enters the lives of sinners like you and me, true transformation, hope, and renewal happen. Our way of giving thanks to God is to use our lives to glorify Him and advance his kingdom.

Lance and Dante talk about some positive things parents are learning from COVID and how these are affecting the mental health of children. Also, why parents need to be mindful of co-regulation with our children.

Lance and Dante discuss being sensitive to the needs of our wife and family and using empathy to realize when we might need to change directions. How to realize the key moments when our family needs us most and be there for them in these crucial moments. https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest

Lance and Dante talk the election, having a biblical worldview, and no matter who wins, ensuring we are glorifying God and being examples to the world. Plus, Lance and Dante give their election predictions.

We're so excited for the Perfectly, Imperfect Christian Parenting event and will be speaking virtually at the event this weekend. As Christian parents we know how important it is to raise our children with a picture of God's love for them every day. But most days we're stretched too thin to do more than the status quo. That leaves us feeling reactive instead of proactive, never growing into the parents we know we were created to be. And, the highlight reel we see on social media doesn't help. It only leaves us feeling more hopeless and inadequate, seeing a facade of perfection in others lives we'll never measure up to. If you are looking for honest, transparent encouragement and advice on parenting, marriage, finance, and more then join us for the Perfectly, Imperfect Christian Parenting event at the link below: www.perfectlyimperfect.org/a/34476/nzLVzDCo

Dante and Lance discuss what the purpose of pain is, why pain exists in this world and our lives, and how God may use our pain for His glory.

Joël Malm is the founder of Summit Leaders where he uses outdoor adventure and personal coaching to help people find their calling and pursue a vision for their lives. In this podcast, Joël discusses anger, worry, and anxiety along with the root causes and how to understand what triggers your emotions and how put the brakes on. Joël gives you practical ways to slow down, deal with anger, and respond with love. Show Notes: http://www.joelmalm.com/ http://www.summitleaders.com/

Narcissist Generation - Lance and Dante discuss recent research on failures in education and how empathy and civility have become seemingly rare. Lance and Dante give you some biblical action steps to ensure that you are not raising narcissists in your home. Show Notes: Perfectly Imperfect Parenting Conference - Sign Up Here - www.perfectlyimperfect.org/a/34476/nzLVzDCo

Pastor Adam Griffin, co-author of Family Discipleship joins Lance and Dante to discuss our roles as husbands and fathers in gospel-centered discipleship focused in three key areas: time, moments, and milestones. Adam is the lead pastor of Eastside Community Church in East Dallas, Texas. He previously served as an elder and spiritual formation pastor at the Village Church. Adam lives with his wife, Chelsea, and their three sons Oscar, Gus, and Theodore, in Dallas, Texas. Show Notes: https://www.amazon.com/Family-Discipleship-Leading-through-Milestones/dp/143356629X https://www.eastsidedallas.org/

Cameron Arnett – actor, director, producer, and speaker joins Lance and Dante for the second part of their podcast. Cameron starred in the Christian films "Overcomer" and "I Still Believe" and is currently the CEO of Camy Arnett Production Studios (CAPS). Cameron discusses role models, humility, and the Church's role in racial tensions. Show Notes: https://www.cameronarnett.com/ https://www.cameronarnett.com/copy-of-portfolio https://www.camyarnett.com/

Cameron Arnett – actor, director, producer, and speaker joins Lance and Dante in this podcast. Cameron starred in the Christian films "Overcomer" and "I Still Believe" and is currently the CEO of Camy Arnett Production Studios (CAPS). Cameron discusses leaving Hollywood, overcoming setbacks, and gives some solid advice for men, husbands, and fathers.

Brad Silverman is the director of movies like No Greater Love, Grace Unplugged, and is the director and writer of the recently released movie Selfie Dad. Paul Long is the President of Kappa Studios and the producer of "Selfie Dad." Lance and Dante discuss the Selfie Dad movie as well as making faith-based films in the midst of Hollywood. Show Notes: https://selfiedadmovie.com/ https://www.selfiedadresources.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Selfie-Dad-Michael-Jr/dp/B088XZF8HG

Social Media Risks Parents Should Know About - Research from Jonathan Haidt and Jean Twenge on how social media affects children and specifically girls and daughters. Tips for parenting in the social media age, online safety tips for parents, and parents monitoring of kids social media use. Show Notes: LET'S CONNECT! -- https://www.facebook.com/legacydads/ -- https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/ -- https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest LISTEN TO THE LEGACY DADS PODCAST - Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3l59A3y - Google Play: https://bit.ly/2QeHMv8 - Spotify: https://spoti.fi/32ifwO6 - Pandora: https://pdora.co/34lpzo2

Lance and Dante finally reveal the big news! Hear the news and also Dante and Lance's backstory of how Legacy Dads came about. Show Notes: LET'S CONNECT! -- https://www.facebook.com/legacydads/ -- https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads/ -- https://www.youtube.com/c/crazyemptynest LISTEN TO THE LEGACY DADS PODCAST - Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3l59A3y - Google Play: https://bit.ly/2QeHMv8 - Spotify: https://spoti.fi/32ifwO6 - Pandora: https://pdora.co/34lpzo2

Lance and Dante are joined by Jeff McDaniel for part two to discuss listening and obeying what God has in store for us. Our role in God's plan for discipleship and reaching all nations with the Gospel.

Jeff McDaniel joins Lance and Dante to discuss current church multiplication movements and discipleship. Jeff talks about how we can hear from God in order to be obedient to God's unique calling for our lives.

Dante and Lance discuss current barriers to spiritual growth. Has the modern church created a consumer mentality? Does the church make us too busy with activities to engage the community? Does a ministry calling need to be under the walls of a church or out engaging people?

Lance and Dante discuss the five most common mistakes Christian parents make and alternatives to transform the family.

Part 2 of How To Fix America - Lance and Dante discuss five ways to develop more empathy, compassion, and diversity in our children. How to discipline in a way that leads to self regulation and emotional control.

Dante and Lance discuss four false premises of cancel culture being parroted in the media, education, and the culture. How to teach our children to think rationally and critically and what can be done to turn this country around.

Dante and Lance discuss some new tools they are rolling out to help men, marriages, families, and discipleship.

Dante and Lance discuss the dangers of high control parenting and the evidence that shows the psychological and emotional damage done by this type of parenting. Learn the warning signs and how to use moderation to teach our children obedience and compliance.

Lance and Dante talk with Tim Ferrara of Discerning Dad about his book Everyday Discernment and how we can practically apply discernment to our lives. Tim explains how reading God's word, prayer, and listening to the Holy Spirit can impact our daily decisions as husbands and fathers.

Lance and Dante discuss the film American Gospel: Christ Alone, directed by Brandon Kimber which talks about false teaching and doctrines such as moralistic therapeutic deism, prosperity gospel, and the word of faith movement.

Dante, Lance, and Jamie Clay discuss the recent killing of George Floyd and practical ways to move forward. Whats is the role of the Church as well as areas such as education and the financial sector.

Dante and Lance discuss the recent killing of George Floyd and the protests and anger that has followed with Jamie Clay. Jamie grew up in Chicago and is now an African American leader and businessman that has a unique perspective and wisdom for the church and Christians on this issue.

Lance and Dante discuss some of the daily principles every Legacy Dad should be doing and practicing to be a more effective husband, father, and disciple of Christ.

Dante and Lance discuss why people are currently divided on re-opening the country and why more and more people are mistrusting of experts and leaders in positions of authority.