Hush Podcast

As consumers, we are becoming more conscious of the choices we make every day and how they will affect the world that we live in. From plant-based diets to boycotting fast fashion, embracing the sustainable lifestyle is slowly (but surely) gaining more traction with Millennials & Gen-Zs. But is this lifestyle sustainable for the long run, or is this just a passing fad? Watch this episode on YouTube! https://youtu.be/ZqG4tyevNwUSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Christmas, the Hush girls answers 🔥saucy🔥 questions sent in by our listeners that were packed into an advent calendar! What kind of questions are you expecting and is there more to the calendar than just questions? Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/eTtbffaCn2gSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Singapore society is changing. With an ageing population and low birth rate, we need to ensure that we are able to tackle the challenges ahead. The Forward SG is an exercise for all of us to come together, examine our values and aspirations, build consensus and refresh our social compact. In this episode, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura explore the topic of Singapore’s ageing population and the traditional notion of filial piety. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/MEwMn1fkOyc See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"What was she wearing?" "Why was she out alone at night?" "How much did she drink?" How many times do we have to hear these repeated for us to realise that victims are not to be blamed for the tragedy that befell them? What do we have to do for society to practise more empathy and realise the crux of the issue starts from the perpetrators themselves?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Being a listening ear for your friends when they need you makes you one hell of a good friend, doesn’t it? Knowing they can trust you with their deepest, darkest secrets, and even helping them feel better than before. But what are the dangers of dishing out unprofessional advice, and where to draw the line? After all, people pay for a therapist! Let’s unpack with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want”. Spice Girls would have made you believe that right off the bat, you should already know what you want in life. But what if you don’t? In this episode of Hush, the girls and our guest, Singapore rapper/producer, Alyph will attempt to solve the never-ending existential crisis of figuring out what we really want in life. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WMIPkzoHzs0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are we slowly becoming more desensitised to cheating? It seems as though every few months, there will be reports on cheating cases. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls discuss the issues and reasons for infidelity and beyond. Why do people cheat even when they are presumably in happy & fulfilling relationships? Is nothing sacred anymore? Or is monogamy simply dead? Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/U32FgR8xZx4 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Since the dawn of time, girls have battled with body image. Surrounded by images of picture-perfect bodies, we are fed with the idea that we need to look a certain way. Naturally, fad diets and “health detox” supplements come into play just so we can achieve, what at times, seem like unrealistic beauty standards. But at what cost? Tyen Rasif joins the Hush girls to discuss diet culture and body image in this episode of Hush Podcast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting is a tough endeavour. The rising costs of raising a kid, the arrival of social media and internet predators have made us rethink the kind of world we want our children to grow up in. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our special guest, Naomi Neo discuss more on modern parenting styles, struggles of raising a kid in the social media age, and not forgetting, mum-shaming. Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QiAvWgrZgw4See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hush Podcast has been running for close to 2 years and we thought, hey let's do an AMA! We answer your questions about the show & topics related to the episodes in this episode of Hush Podcast! Round 2? Saucy questions are welcome - https://ngl.link/itsclarity.co Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UkoIL2fNwM0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Time to get down and personal. Some people like sex, some do not, and some of us just need a little more time to get used to intimate situations. All of these are completely ok. “Am I truly ready for this?” Let’s unpack this can of worms with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Friends and family are supposed to be your cheerleaders in life – supporting and celebrating the person you are, and the person you want to be. But, what do you do if a friend does the complete opposite? In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls navigate through identifying certain patterns and possibly toxic behaviours in our social circle and most importantly, how we can deal with all of these friendship dramas. Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q3KT_q1cgJcSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The news that Singapore is set to repeal section 377A and movements that advocate for the LGBTQ community, such as Pink Dot and #Ready4Repeal, mark a hopeful sign that Singaporeans are slowly moving towards a more open and tolerant society. But is being tolerant good enough? In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our guest, Jean Seizure, discuss the changing norms, and how we can shift from being a tolerant society to one that is more accepting and understanding.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As girls, we grew up thinking that we have to look a certain way & uphold a certain beauty standard - like the figures represented on media platforms. With more body positivity movements in the world today, are we more accepting of our confidence as we age? In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine share how they have found their confidence, style, and manage their anxieties in this phase of their lives.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’ve heard stories about how some friendships break apart after a group vacation. No doubt, travelling with friends can truly test your friendship, but that does not mean that it has to end in a fallout. In this episode of Hush Podcast Hazelle, Azura and Germaine share with us the perks and pitfalls of travelling with friends and discuss if it’s really better to travel with friends or go on a trip alone. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wzwZvGYsZPISee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

While death is not something that many Singaporeans fear, we definitely do seem to fear talking about it. The stigma which surrounds death deters us from having casual conversations about the doom and gloom. In today’s episode, we discuss death in all its glory and highlight the importance of having die-logues with the people around us when we are still fit and healthy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

So you’ve hit it off with someone and things are going pretty smooth. But how do you ensure that you’re both on the same page? Do you put labels on your relationship, and if so, what and why? In this episode of Hush, we’re laying out the base for all the complicated romance situations you’ve ended up in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever considered emigrating out of Singapore? According to research done in 2016, 42% of young Singaporeans want to emigrate. Personally, we have seen friends who are looking to work overseas or move away for a few years. In this episode of Hush, we get the girls to discuss if they would stay in Singapore forever.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do we believe that people deserve second chances? What if you had done something wrong in the past but the incident resurface and showed that you were not a very nice person? In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine discuss the possibility of people changing over the years. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/e27wBqyN_Ac See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On 24 Jun 2022, the US Supreme Court voted to overturn Roe v Wade, a constitutional law that recognises a women’s right to abortion in the states. The news is shocking and upsetting since women’s rights have come a long way today. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine share their thoughts and discuss more on the stigmas of abortions and women’s rights.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Elective egg freezing will soon be allowed in Singapore for women aged 21 to 35 years old, starting in 2023. As we celebrate this new milestone, there have also been critics of the new policy. While it is impossible to determine the success rate of the policy, we want to highlight one important message: Taking care of our own bodies. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine meet with Minister of State, Ms. Sun Xue Ling to speak about her experiences and thoughts on fertility health and pregnancy in her thirties. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Falling out of friendships can be awkward and heartbreaking for some. But according to experts, it’s only natural for acquaintances and even close friends to fall by the wayside as time goes on. In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share with us why it is ok to drop out of friendships or let it fade out. They share how their ‘past’ friends shaped them and why cutting them off was their best decisions at that time and it’s nothing to feel guilty about. Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ruroapRq2kwSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dating apps have made it so convenient for those looking for love, but it is also the perfect place for romance scammers to prey on innocent people. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine caught up with the latest love scam news and share with us how we could spot red flags and what we can do if we fall in love with a con artist.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After two years, nightlife activities are back in Singapore! Yay or nay? How are the girls feeling about it? Have they been heading out to party? Or would they rather stay home and wind down? In this episode of Hush podcast, we get the girls to discuss more about the party and clubbing phase they have gone through in the past and how their lifestyle has changed since the restrictions came in place.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Many of us in our 20s and 30s are often bounded by our parents’ traditional and cultural ways of upbringing and expectations. Over the years, things they said or done may have caused disagreements, fights, sometimes even emotional trauma.   In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine, together with our guest Carrie, share more about their relationships with their parents, childhood trauma, the healing process and ways to improve the relationships with their parents.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Breaking up with someone you love hurts, unfortunately, some things are just not meant to be. Relationships with our romantic partners are hard work but the most important relationship you need in life is the one you have with yourself. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine, together with our special guest Kelly Mi Li (most of you would know her from the Netflix series ‘Bling Empire’) discuss coming out of a bad relationship and the healing process after.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Moving out in your 20s and 30s is becoming more common in Singapore due to lockdowns and WFH arrangements. More young millennials are citing personal growth and independence as their biggest takeaways from this experience. Hush listeners and viewers are familiar that Azura has gotten married but is currently staying with her parents, Hazelle rented an apartment of her own, and Germaine is still staying with her parents. In today’s episode, we are talking about adulting, moving out and living alone where the Hush girls share their thoughts and tackle the big question: Does moving out really provide more personal growth and independence?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There is so much happening around the world today: wars, pandemics, stock market crash and “The Great Resignation”. It’s not common to see social media updates of people hopping onto a new job and doing something completely different in this pandemic. It seems like everyone is taking the leap of faith and embracing change. In this episode, the Hush girls will discuss their views on risk-taking, embracing new changes and stagnation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Male birth control pills are set for human trials! What exactly does this mean for men and women? In Singapore, birth control is still a taboo topic as it involves discussions of a person’s sexual lifestyle. However in this episode, the Hush girls - Hazelle, Azura and Germaine explore the bigger question: Should men and women have equal responsibilities when it comes to birth control? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Last year sucks, but 2022 will be better In this last episode of season 3 of Hush Podcast, we look back at all the great and not so great things that have happened to us personally - from break ups to road accidents, award nominations to work troubles. We also look at some of the things that went well and not so well for Singaporean women as reported by the media and discuss what can be done for 2022 to be better. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is your reaction to when you hear stories about marriage proposals? Do you react with “How romantic!” or do you immediately think that it’s unnecessary? To some, marriage proposals are a timeless and essential gesture as well as a necessary step on the road to marriage. However, others have called it outdated, superfluous and overly performative. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura discuss marriage proposals, look into when it all started and read some of your thoughts and opinions on the topic to find out if it still has a place in society today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

More young women are choosing career, freedom and independence over starting a family, and when or if they choose to get married, many are choosing to remain childless or have children at a later age. Yet a portion among them still feel guilty about their decision and at some point feel the need to conform to social norms, especially in Singapore, where women are still often highly judged by how they perform as a mother or wife despite their career success. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Rachel, discuss the dilemma: Family or career, and is it possible to have both?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The problem with the term "work-life" balance suggests that we can have careers, a romantic relationship, even babies, and a clean house if we just prioritise and work harder at "balancing" our lives. And, if we are good at this, we might even get some "me-time" to spend on ourselves. But we all know that this is further from the truth. 3 In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Sangeeta, get real about juggling the success of their craft and personal life. They’ll discuss the realities of hustling, what they had to give up in order to pursue their dreams, and if it is really worth it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s no wonder why some say a breakup can be worse than bereavement. When someone leaves you because of death, they are gone forever, whereas, with an ex, they’re still alive when they leave. This makes it harder for those who have seen the end of their relationship grieve the loss as they are able to see and watch in pain as their exes move on without them. But for some, a break-up isn’t necessarily the end of a relationship. Those who choose to remain as friends still spend time and grow old together. Time heals all wounds, they’ll probably say. Which do you relate to? In this episode Hazelle, Germaine, Azura and our guest, singer-songwriter Marcus Lee, discuss reasons why you can or cannot stay friends with your ex; share their experience healing from breakups and answer why trust between partners is the most important aspect of a relationship. Listen to Marcus's IDWBTW: (Eng) Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/track/62nSMJi40NybEgeRjuGwps?si=613b09a126be426a (Eng) YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VhUJWew5DQ (Official MV) YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oobwYHPK7oQ  --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stigma and embarrassment often see many of us suffer in silence for common and treatable conditions. There are probably more people than you think who suffer from those ‘embarrassing’ health issues that you might have like overly frequent urination, vaginal discharge, and bladder, bowel or period problems. We’re just too paiseh to talk about it.  In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest Fiza O, discuss common awkward and potentially embarrassing health issues that we kept secret way too long. --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A woman is born with a finite number of eggs that continuously depletes over her lifetime. Women tend to be most fertile in their twenties or early thirties, after which the quality of their eggs decreases. This also means that the possibility of having children - if we want them - becomes harder - but maybe it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine talk about fertility, social egg freezing and how all of these affect family, life and career. Useful links: https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/in-focus-social-egg-freezing-women-2137286  https://cnalifestyle.channelnewsasia.com/women/peoples-action-party-women-youth-paper-egg-freezing-273222 https://www.channelnewsasia.com/watch/budget-2021-debate-cheng-li-hui-allowing-voluntary-egg-freezing-1926846 https://www.straitstimes.com/opinion/dilemma-of-social-egg-freezing-for-women-in-singapore-0  https://www.msf.gov.sg/media-room/Pages/Social-egg-freezing.aspx  --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to what we wear - women just can’t seem to win. Our clothing choices are constantly held under the microscope. We have been told to cover up, but also to “not be a prude”. But how much skin is too much skin? How much of a woman's leg is acceptable to see in public? It’s time to recognise that our clothing is not the problem. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and guest Jasmine Sokko discuss the unnecessary policing of women’s clothes, and fashion as an identity. They share with us personal stories from when they were judged for what they wear and their opinions on the topic. Listen to Jasmine's new EP - https://open.spotify.com/track/2jG2FfL0zHPCCM5fwNcAGO?si=7a725ba7ba5445ef  --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Our emotional state usually determines the way we behave, and men and women relate to their emotions in different ways. When upset, women are more likely to directly express their feelings and seek support from friends and family, while men may hide their emotions or withdraw, often feeling that they need to be self-reliant. It doesn’t help that these behaviours are reinforced in the stereotypes and are often portrayed in popular culture. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Yung Raja, discuss if women are really more emotionally expressive than men; and debunk myths about men and their emotions. --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Relationships can be complicated when in-laws enter the picture, and somehow, it seems that women struggle a lot more than men in this aspect. No doubt, there’s a whole lot of anxiety and walking on eggshells to make things work, especially at the early stages of your relationship with your future in-laws.  In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss why some of us are afraid but mostly awkward, when facing our in-laws - particularly mothers-in-law; read and discuss some of the stories that you have sent in; and share some advice on how to deal with them. --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do soulmates really exist? We can debate all day on which camp you’re in, but whether you belong with the people who believe in finding their destined half (their one, true soulmate) or the people who believe in slow progress in relationships, we can all agree that love is complicated. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss love, devotion and all of its complications. They’ll discuss modern romance, interracial relationships, and much more with our invited guest, local singer-songwriter and Universal Music Singapore's latest signee, Yao (https://www.instagram.com/yaogotwav)Link to QUIZ here!https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190211-the-dark-side-of-believing-in-true-love --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Britney’s documentary has prompted a re-evaluation of media coverage of celebrities, especially young women, who were hounded and scrutinised within the bubble of 00s celebrity culture. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine take a deeper look into how women were portrayed in the public eye back then - in Hollywood, as well as in Singapore, and reflect upon it.  --- Follow us on Instagram for more updates on Hush: https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The pandemic has taken a significant toll on our mental health. More people in Singapore across different age groups are reportedly seeking help for mental health issues. While some of us are happy with the work from home arrangement, others are faced with deteriorating emotional health due to the loss of access to out-of-home activities, and being stuck at home in unconducive environments like poor family relationships and/or abusive parents. In this final part of Hush Podcast’s #WFH special, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss how working from home has impacted our mental health both negatively and positively, and they also share with the listeners some of the things they can do to reduce stress and keep their mental health in check. P.s. We have a Zalora-HUSH Secret promo code* in this ep! *Terms and conditions apply, please check via Zalora.sg or the Zalora app for more information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The pandemic has made e-commerce and online shopping the new normal - we buy everything online: from groceries to clothes, to even products that we would otherwise feel embarrassed to buy in stores. While it makes sense for us to shop online as we are discouraged to leave our homes, somehow we find ourselves feeling embarrassed whenever a new parcel comes at the door, and hide our purchases from our parents, siblings or spouses. Why do we do that and why do we feel that way? In this second part of our #WFH special, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss shopping habits since the pandemic and talk about all the silly things that we do to conceal this new normal. P.s We hid a Zalora-HUSH Secret promo code* in this ep! *Terms and conditions apply, please check via Zalora.sg or the Zalora app for more information. Correction: Please note that the example mentioned at 36:20 is inaccurate. T&Cs for the promo code applies.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In mid-May of 2021, Singapore’s government announced its return to Phase 2 Heightened Alert (P2HA), and introduced new COVID19 Safe Management Measures (SMM), forcing many of us to go back to working from home to reduce community transmission. Our Hush Podcast hosts Azura, Germaine and Hazelle, who are also colleagues at work, were additionally told to minimise contact among each other making it impossible for them to meet and putting a hold on our plans for a season 3. But work from home or not, we’re still bringing the girls back - via online this time - in this 3 part #WFH special to catch up and talk about things they do and think about during this P2HA.  In this first part of our #WFH special, the Hush girls confess to some of the out of the ordinary things they do while stuck at home, and talk about the things they do to relieve stress: from exercising, journaling, to spending way more time than they usually do online shopping. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever asked yourself: when did women start shaving or when did it become a beauty standard? In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share their thoughts on women's relationship with body hair. They’ll share a bit of history of when it all started, and discuss pros and cons on shaving, waxing, laser and going au natural.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How many times have you blamed your parents for “sabotaging” your relationships even when the actions were of your own? Whether it’s a form of mirroring the love you’ve gotten from your parents or filling a love gap that you’ve never received, you’re not completely wrong. Apparently, how you give and receive love in a relationship is greatly influenced and shaped by your parents. Some researchers suggest that our first experience with love and emotions is with our parents, and those early years set the bar for what we want out of love or relationships later in our lives.  In this episode, Azura, Germaine, Hazelle and our invited guest, Narelle Kheng, discuss these complicated relationships we have with our parents, peers and romantic partners. They’ll share some funny love stories, including the good, the bad and the ugly and how they think their upbringing plays a part in it.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In recent years, men have stepped up to contribute more to the care of children and the household, but women, unfortunately, continue to hold most of the responsibility for making sure things get done. In this episode, Azura and Hazelle discuss women’s invisible labour: The mental load. They share with us who does the household chores in their homes, and who plans when things should get done. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is it normal to be afraid of pregnancy? From pregnancy phobias to the cost of children and building careers - Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss their fears of pregnancy with our invited guest, 987 Radio DJ, Natasha Faisal.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Toxic relationships don't just apply to romantic partnerships. Friendships, familial and professional relationships can all turn out to be abusive or damaging as well. In this episode, Azura, Germaine and Hazelle discuss indicators of a toxic relationship and share what you can do if you experience them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Navigating Parents’ Expectations of Your Career Choices “Be a doctor or a lawyer,” they said. Growing up in Singapore, a tightly-regulated, structured city, many have been conditioned to make certain career choices based on our parents' rigid expectations of success. Oftentimes, those choices were carried out at the expense of one’s happiness. The pursuit of passion takes courage. So how can one break free from external factors that stop one from living vicariously? In this episode Germaine, Azura, Hazelle and our invited guest - model turned singer-songwriter, Iman Fandi, tell us more about their career choices, their parents’ expectations and how they get to where they are today.  This is part 2 of this episode, listen to part 1 here: https://spoti.fi/3vBlneSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.