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Summer Rewind: The Power Of PDA: How To Get It On In Public & Give Zero F*cks

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOOD How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram Website [Episode 116 on Youtube] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 5, 202452 min

178. How To Set Up The Perfect Summer Date

Alright Honeys, we're juuuussst about ready to send you into your summer of hook-ups but can't let you go without a little help and advice for our girl, Abigail Jensen. In this episode, we dive into girl chat about what makes for a PERFECT date. We chat about: How to practice being confident Key ingredients for setting up a great date Where to take your dates to ensure good vibes Questions we should be asking to get to know your date Common dating mistakes LTR dating tips Connect with Abigail Instagram Rat Girls Podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 22, 202459 min

177. How To Give An Erotic Massage: Benefits, Positions & Stroke For Both Giver And Receiver

Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets??? We chat about: What makes a massage ✨erotic✨ The benefits of an erotic massage How to get present in the moment Best positions to give a massage Massage prep How to incorporate ALL our parts Connect with Barbara: On Instagram Website Urban Tantra Second Edition Paperback Transcendent Bodies: Erotic Awakening Massage For Trans And Gender Non-Conforming Bodies Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 15, 20241h 5m

176. How To Be The Best Kisser & Leave Them Begging For More

There is nothing more make-or-break than kissing chemistry, so as we head into our summer of hook-ups, let's refresh ourselves shall we?! This week, we chat with the one and only, Luna Matatas all about the art of lip-locking. In this episode, we cover: Mistakes we make while kissing How to practice your technique What cues to pick up on from a partner What to do with your lips How to french How to communicate with your partner about what you want more or less of Connect with Luna: On Instagram On TikTok Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 8, 20241h 5m

175. How to Date Selfishly, F*ck Casually & Build Your Summer Roster

Dating casually never seemed so easy after this convo with Talia Koren. As the host of Dating Intentionally podcast, and a HIGHLY experienced casual dater, Talia knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there to get what you want and have fun while dating. In this episode, we cover: Getting clear on what you want out of dating Tapping into your own desirability Benefits of casually dating How to be selfish (in a GREAT way) Creating your roster Rules of Casual Dating Connect with Talia On Instagram On TikTok Dating Intentionally Podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 1, 202453 min

174. Teasing Your Naughty Bits: Nipple-gasms, Anal Play & Tips for Talking Dirty

We believe that every last BIT of you deserves maximum pleasure so we brought back Dr. Tara to teach us a thing or two (or 12) about how to tease, play and talk dirty to ALL of our naughty bits. In this episode, we cover: Breast and Nipple play Nipple-gasms for ALL How to play with the booty cheeks How to relax during anal play What to do with the balls Dirty talk tips Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram On TikTok Website ✨Dr. Tara's Course ✨ Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 17, 202446 min

173. Blowjob Fundamentals: How To Shake Off Performance Anxiety & Feel Confident As The Giver

Get ready to be BLOWN away this week as we cover the fundamentals of giving a Bl*wjob worthy of a standing (laying, sitting) O with Dr. Jenni Skyler. 👏 We also cover: How to feel safe and comfortable How to make a bl*wjob romantic How to ask your partner if they're in the mood Positions for both givers and receivers Finishing tips Connect with Dr. Jenni: On Instagram On YouTube Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 10, 202458 min

172: How To Create A Healing, Sensual & FUN Masturbation Practice

Azaria is one magical (p*ssy) fairy and she shares her wisdom by dishing out some of the BEST, yummiest, most healing tips and tricks for masturbating with a vulva & vagina. She'll heal your soul, and help you reach your maximum O. We also cover: The definition of self-pleasure How to use your masturbation practice to heal How to build a sustainable self-care routine Ways to get creative with touch Dual sensory activation Connect with Azaria: On her website On Instagram Or listen to her podcast: Getting Intimate Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 3, 20241h 4m

171. Oral Sex: Tips For Going Down On A Vulva, Maximizing Pleasure & Feeling Confident As The Giver or Receiver

Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, is here to walk us through her top tips for oral sex on a vulva. We cover: How to initiate going down (or any type of intimate play) Non verbal pleasure cues to watch out for How to communicate what you want as the receiver Positions Specific ways to orally pleasure a vulva A method that reportedly helps people ✨finish✨in 3 minutes or less How to feel confident and sexy as the giver or receiver Connect with Annabelle: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 27, 20241h 5m

170. Vaginal Health: How To Care For Your Bits, Perform Self Checks & Advocate For Yourself

YOUR VAGINA IS BEAUTIFUL and deserves to be taken care of. That's why we're diving into all things vaginal health with April Davis, from discharge, to pubes, and everything in between. April Davis is the creator of Haus of Vagina, a community that combines her extensive background in birth work and passion for sex education to empower vagina owners everywhere! In this episode, we cover: What to look out for when it comes to vaginal health The regular self checks we need to be doing Common signs of infection and when to call the doctor How to work through shame and embarrassment around vaginal health and going to the doctor How to advocate for yourself at the doctor Common things we do that negatively impact our vaginal health Trying new period products to find what works for YOUR body Whether pubic hair matters for maintaining your vaginal health Connect with April: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 20, 20241h 15m

169. Master The Art of The Handjob

This week we're rediscovering the power of the humble handjob with relationship and intimacy coach, Keeley Rankin, MA. We cover: WHY handjobs are worth including in your sexual toolkit Common mistakes we make when giving handjobs Ways to tease and seduce your partner Navigating the different parts of the penis Different movements to try How to play with the balls Cleaning up after someone cums The mental roadblocks that can get in the way of us feeling sexy and having fun Connect with Keeley: On Instagram On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 13, 20241h 8m

168. Master The Art of The Pussy Massage

Ready to put those hands to WORK?! Ashley Manta, a sex and relationship coach, is here to teach us the art of pussy massage (aka fingering/hand sex). We cover: Why we’re ditching “finger banging” in favor of ✨pussy massage✨ Common mistakes people make when fingering The most pleasurable ways to touch a vulva or vagina The best positions for hand sex Getting involved as the receiver How to incorporate toys Why you might want to try adding in some butt stuff Connect with Ashley: On her website Access her courses On Instagram On her substance Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 6, 202457 min

167. Infidelity: How To Recover After Someone Cheats

Ever wondered why people cheat? If it's possible for a relationship to TRULY heal after someone's strayed? Cue Rebecca Stone, LCSW, a therapist who specializes in helping couples recover after infidelity. In this episode, we cover: How Rebecca defines cheating & why it's SO important to define it within your relationship WHY people cheat The role attachment styles play in infidelity How to disclose to your partner that you cheated Whether recovery is possible and if "once a cheater, always a cheater" holds true The necessary ingredients for repairing your relationship post-infidelity The stigma and shame that betrayed partners experience when they choose to stay Connect with Rebecca: On TikTok On Instagram At Brooklyn Somatic Therapy Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 28, 20241h 11m

166. New Relationships: Common Mistakes, What To Watch Out For & How To Make The Most Of Your Budding Romance

Whether you're dating around, ready to find your person, or loving it up in the honeymoon phase, knowing how to navigate the highs and lows of a new relationship is pivotal. Catherine Drysdale, a sex and relationship coach, is here to help us understand what we tend to mess up, what we need to look out for, and how to make the most of a brand new relash. We cover: Common mistakes we make when starting a new relationship How to reframe the dating process so you can feel CONFIDENT and in control Why you SHOULD be asking the hard questions early on Why a smaller dating pool is actually a good thing Red and green flags to watch out for How to work through anxiety and insecurity while on a date Connect with Catherine: Access free resources on her website Catherine's Relationship Compatibility Guide Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 21, 20241h 5m

165. How To Fight Fair

HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn’t a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back and this time they’re sharing their expert tips on how to fight. We cover: Why fighting is actually a part of a healthy relationship How to fight fair How to regulate your emotions during a fight Scripts for expressing your feelings and apologizing What resentment can look like and how it manifests in our relationships The grief that comes along with committing to a long term relationship Connect with Em & Jen: On their website Listen to their podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 14, 20241h 15m

164. How to Cultivate & Maintain A Healthy Relationship

This month we're all about RELATIONSHIPS and who better to start us off than Victoria Albina, NP, MPH? As a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious and overwhelmed, Victoria is the perfect person to walk us through how to maintain the long term relationships we're in. We cover: What a healthy relationship looks like How codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing impact our relationships What happens when we rely on a partner for joy How to start assuming positive intent How consent and boundaries will help you prevent resentment How to approach a partner when starting a conversation Sponsors: Playdrop: use code DEWME to get 10% off at playdropmats.com Connect with Victoria: On her website FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners Listen to her podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 7, 20241h 8m

163. Positions For Discreet & Outdoor Sex

Whether you're trying to keep things discreet or wanting a romp in the great outdoors, we've done the research and found all the tips, tricks, and positions you need to make it a pleasurable experience. Got a roommate you don't want to disturb? Trying to sneak in an orgasm while on a hike? No prob, because we cover: How to prepare for discreet sex Positions for discreet sex Public/outdoor sex trends Locations for outdoor sex (from beginner to more adventurous) Positions for outdoor sex Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 24, 20241h 1m

162. Quickies: The Unsung Relationship Hero For Emotional & Physical Connection

Short on time? No worries, we're talking quickies with sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tara, and learning all the ways to start using quick sex sessions to our advantage. We cover: What a "quickie" actually is The benefits of quickies Types of quickies (there's probably more than you're thinking...) Positions for quickies The importance of incorporating "play" into your relationship Using quickies to try out something new Connect with Dr. Tara: On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 17, 20241h 7m

161. Sex Positions For The Lazy Lover

Calling all lazy lovers... this episode was made especially for you. We're looking for minimum effort and maximum pleasure, which is exactly why we're talking with Ginny Hogan, a stand-up comedian and author of the book "Sex for Lazy People: 50 Effortless Positions So You Can Do It Without Overdoing It." We cover: Why sex doesn't have to be high-energy or high-effort How to make sex as low effort or lazy as possible Positions for when you just want to chill Releasing the pressure aka letting sex be good without forcing it to be amazing Lazy masturbation tips Connect with Ginny: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 10, 202450 min

160. Sex Positions For When You're Feeling Insecure

This week we are getting into position to have the best sex ever, even when we're not feeling our best. It's hard to remember that we deserve pleasure when we're feeling hot, but especially when we're feeling VERY NOT. In this episode, we chat with Sarah Watson a certified sex therapist and sex educator about how to have great and pleasurable sex even when our insecurities are making an unwanted debut. We cover: How to approach sex when you're feeling insecure How to communicate your insecurities to a partner Asking for validation KNOWING that you deserve pleasurable sex Positions that'll help keep you focused on the present The importance of solo pleasure Connect with Sarah Watson: Simplesexeducation.com @Swsxtherapy on Instagram Flow Extreme podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 3, 20241h 3m

159. Set Your Sexy New Year's Intentions

If there’s one thing we’ve learned about having good sex, it’s that you need to be INTENTIONAL. So that’s what we’re doing for 2024, setting sexual intentions to get us closer to having the BEST DAMN SEX we can. In this episode, we’re chatting about: Our personal intentions for the new year and how we plan on implementing them (i.e. masturbation practices, embracing our buttholes etc.) Sexual resolutions/intentions submitted by YOU (our listeners) Advice for implementing your intentions based on EXPERT tips from previous episodes Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 27, 20231h 8m

158. A Simple Bitch's Guide To Connecting With Your Cycle, Resting When You're Tired & Nourishing Your Hot Bod

Here at Honeydew Me, we are first and foremost ✨simple bitches✨. So when we're connecting with our bodies, we're looking for simple, no bullshit tips. That's why we're talking with Usha Anandi, a holistic nutritionist, herbalist, yoga teacher and founder of Womben Wellness, WHO JUST GETS IT. We cover: Realistic practices for connecting with your body and your cycle (aka you don't have to overhaul your entire life) Why you should definitely give a fuck about connecting with your body Why rest is SO important and how to stop feeling guilty about it Ways to nourish and move your body while supporting your womb Where to start without getting overwhelmed Connect with Usha: On Womben Wellness On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 20, 20231h 3m

157. How To Have Psychedelic Sex

We hope you're PSYCHED for this episode, because we sure as hell are. Jessica Alfaqih, a Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach, is here to teach us the ins and outs of having psychedelic sex (both sober and with the help of some plant friends). We cover: What psychedelics are and how they impact your mind and body How psychedelics can be used to enhance your sexual experiences How to have the same psychedelic sex WITHOUT using psychedelics (aka sober) Where to start if you're a newbie Visualization techniques for getting into a psychedelic state Conditioning yourself to be kinder to yourself The importance of integration CLICK HERE for a FREE workshop with Jessica on December 16th '23! Connect with Jessica: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 13, 20231h 7m

156. Somatics: How To Feel Your Feelings, Trust Yourself & Make Friends With Your Body

This month at Honeydew Me we’re learning how to connect with our bodies and there’s no one better to start us off than THE Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious, exhausted and overwhelmed... and, hawt damn, is she INCREDIBLE at it. In this episode, we cover: What it actually means to FEEL your feelings and HOW to do it WTF somatics means and why it’s so important Sex and somatics Making friends with your body Getting present and dropping into your body Self awareness and self trust Connect with Victoria: On her website FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners Listen to her podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 6, 20231h 8m

155. Speed Dating, Hookups & Casual Flings

We pussed ourselves out there ALL MONTH LONG and now we're ready to share the dirty deets with YOU. From speed dating, to Hinge dates, to hot hookups, we're chatting through it all and sharing our biggest takeaways. We cover: What it's like to go to a speed dating event Navigating casual dating for the first time Hooking up with strangers Ending a fling Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 29, 20231h 6m

154. Find Your Flirt Style & Feel Confident AF

This week we're learning how to flirt and feel confident AF while we do it. Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, is here to spill all his flirting secrets and give us the actionable tips we've been waiting for. We cover: A CLEAR definition of what flirting is The 4 main flirty styles and how to find your personal flirting style What we're getting WRONG when it comes to flirting What to do if you're shy or awkward Benjamin's flirting framework How to enhance your verbal flirting game Using your body to flirt Connect with Benjamin: On Instagram On TikTok Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 22, 20231h 5m

153. Owning Your Slut Era

This week we're putting our sluttiest foot forward and pussing ourselves OUT THERE by learning how to be hot sluts. Lucky for us, Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut, is here to teach us how. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author who is here to help you embrace your inner slut. We cover: What it means to be a slut (it's empowering af) Finding your slutty confidence Zachary's journey to becoming a slut Slutty mantras to live by What if you want to be a slut but you also catch feelings? How to embrace your slutiness and feel into it ALL DAY LONG Connect with Zach: Buy his book "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto" HERE! Visit his website HERE Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 15, 202352 min

152. How To Puss Yourself Out There & Get What You Want

Ready to put your self OUT THERE? We thought so. Cue Amy and April, hosts of Shameless Sex Podcast and authors of the upcoming book "Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path". We're unpacking HOW to puss yourself out there and get what you want both in the bedroom and beyond. We cover: What it means to put yourself out there and how to get started How to put yourself out there when you're single AND in a long term relationship Where to find people to date or just bang Pick up lines and initiating flirtatious conversations Navigating and accepting rejection Bringing back the spice to a long term relationship Small ways to put yourself out there throughout the day Connect with Amy & April: On their website Get their book HERE' Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 8, 20231h 18m

151. Entitled & Indulgent Foreplay

This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover: Expanding your definition of foreplay How to turn yourself ON Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage How to feel ENTITLED to your needs How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨ Low-stakes ways to initiate sex How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY Connect with Haylin: On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 1, 20231h 4m

150. Pet Play: Using Role Play To Unleash Your Wild Side

Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover: What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like Props and accessories Communication while role-playing Dealing with the awkward and WTF moments that can arise during role-play Connect with Tyomi: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 25, 20231h 10m

149. Bondage & Restraints

This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover: Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD) Why being bound is so erotic How to get started in bondage Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more) Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid Dominance and rope games Connect with Midori: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 18, 20231h 0m

148. How To Ask For Rough Sex

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover: Sexual communication basics How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires Navigating shame around sexual interests How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried How to make these conversations more fun Connect with Stella: On her website Get her books Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 11, 20231h 11m

147. Dominate the Bedroom: How To Build Confidence, Work Through Embarrassment & Dominate Like A Pro

It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover: What makes a good domme both privately and professionally What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides Setting containers and boundaries How to build confidence How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant How to recover when you make a mistake or say something "stupid" in the bedroom What a session with Eva looks like Connect with Eva: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oct 4, 20231h 2m

146. Come With Us To A Sex Club

We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover: Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions All the rules and why we LOVED them The set up of the club What we saw and what we DID Major takeaways and tips for other first timers Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 27, 20231h 7m

145. Cuckolding 101

WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover: What cuckolding is and how it all works Why it's a turn-on The different roles in a cuckolding scene How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding Figuring out if cuckolding is for you How to navigate opening your relationship Connect with Jen: jenmeyertherapy.com Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 20, 20231h 12m

144. Guide To Threesomes & Sex Parties

Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect: Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them Positions for threesomes What to do when you're feeling left out IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that What it feels like to be double-penetrated Finding a third Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it Navigating sex parties Being a "good" slut Resources from the episode: betterlover.com ecstaticbirth.com Connect with Susan: susanbratton.com On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 13, 20231h 12m

143. Polyamory: How To Elevate Your Sex, Relationships, & Life By Unlocking Your Slutty Heart

First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover: What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory) Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want What the BENEFITS of polyamory are What polyamorous relationships can look like How sex can work in polyamorous relationships Boundaries, rules and COMMUNICATION Connect with Dr. Liz: Their website Their Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 6, 20231h 15m

Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em

One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 16, 202335 min

Summer Rewind: Turn Ons & Mid-Sex Name Slips

For our last rewind of the summer, we’re revisiting turn ons with sex educator, Cassandra Corrado. We cover: How to figure out what turns you on How to ask for what you want Giving ✨constructive✨ criticism to a partner What to do when someone kills the mood When you accidentally say the wrong name Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 9, 202359 min

Summer Rewind: Squirting

It’s the last month of our Summer Rewind and we’re starting off by revisiting an audience favorite: SQUIRTING. Sex educator, Shea Alexander joins us to share the ins and outs of the elusive juices (lol sorry). We cover: What squirting ACTUALLY is How to do it G-Spot basics Clean up Talking with a partner about squirting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 2, 20231h 15m

Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em

Another check in with Cass & Em cummin right atcha. We’re chatting through some of our most TRANSFORMATIVE sexual experiences and our major takeaways. If you’re looking for a little encouragement to take up space and get what you want in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 19, 202329 min

Summer Rewind: Going Down

This week, we’re heading ✨down south✨ and revisiting cunnilingus with sex educator Luna Matatas. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when eating out. We cover: Working through shame (aka how to stop worrying about how you look, taste, and smell) How to move your tongue How to incorporate fingers Positions How to engage as the receiver AND SO MUCH MORE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 12, 20231h 12m

Summer Rewind: Body Neutrality for Better Sex

Summer can bring up ALL SORTS of insecurities when it comes to our bodies, so we're revisiting one of our favorite episodes with Brenna O'Malley. Brenna, a non-diet dietician, takes us on a deep dive of body neutrality and teaches us how to navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We cover: How to navigate vulnerable body image moments Whether or not affirmations work Brenna's top tip for fueling an amazing sex life Food in the context of dating Diet culture and diet talk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jul 5, 20231h 1m

Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em

Craving a cozy convo with your besties? Us too. So press play and join us for a quickie 😘 We're talking sex, we're talking marriage, we're talking LIFE CHANGES, honey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 21, 202337 min

Summer Rewind: Fingering

Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef’s kiss*. That’s why we’re revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover: What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE Pleasure anatomy and technical basics How to touch the outside (aka the vulva) How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you’re in Positions How to add in oral Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 14, 20231h 2m

Summer Rewind: Doggy Style

We’re gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover: What doggy style is and its many variations Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY How to make doggy feel more intimate Finding the G spot during doggy Stroke tips and tricks What you can do as the receiver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 7, 20231h 1m

142. How To Explore Your Fantasies & Level Up Your Partnered and Solo Sex

We’re diving HEAD first into fantasies with Gina Gutierrez, the Chief Creative Officer and Co-Founder of Dipsea (aka our fav audio erotica app)! We chat about: How to start incorporating fantasy into your sex life Navigating fantasies wile you’re in a relationship What to do if fantasizing doesn’t come easily to you What to do when something you DON’T like pops into your fantasy (and why this happens) What people typically fantasize about (according to the data) Where our fantasies come from The tools and benefits we gain from fantasizing Our favorite Dipsea stories CLICK HERE for your 30 day FREE trial of Dipsea! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 31, 20231h 11m

141. Degrade Me But In A Hot Way

Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about: What degradation play is WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons How sex and shame are connected in our brains Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU Boundaries and safe words Examples of how to engage in this type of play Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame Humiliation Play Resources: https://bit.ly/HHHStudent Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 24, 20231h 6m

140. You're Not Too Emotional: How To Embrace "Negative" Emotions & Ditch The Need To Be Taken Seriously

Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about: Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions Allowing all emotions to be FELT Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.) Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions Being taken seriously when you're upset Is there such a thing as "too emotional"? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 17, 20231h 1m

139. The Sex Ed You Never Got: Masturbation, Plan B, & Porn

We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the shitty sex ed we got growing up). We cover: If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one How much masturbation is TOO MUCH How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids Emergency contraceptive 101 Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s? Navigating porn use in a relationship Feeling in competition with porn If sex should EVER hurt and reasons why it does De-centering penetration in partnered sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 10, 20231h 11m