HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo
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Ep 159Ep159 - Holistic Dentistry: TMJ and Sleep Apnea Connection with Dr. Claire Stagg
I have sleep apnea. I also had major jaw surgery at 15. Are they connected? If I had a Magic 8 Ball, it would likely say, "All signs point to Yes". And so would one pioneer in holistic dentistry by the name of Dr. Claire Stagg. Through my personal journey of trauma and jaw surgery, we highlight the limitations of conventional solutions like CPAP and oral appliances, underscoring the need for a comprehensive, whole-body approach. Dr. Stagg shares invaluable insights into the interconnectedness of our body's systems, focusing on non-surgical solutions for TMJ, clenching, grinding, sleep apnea, and airway disorders. This is about building your symphony of specialists who focus on the root cause, not just the diagnosis. It's the conversation I wish my parents and I had over 35 years ago when I sat in the dentist's chair. Today, I hope it serves as a guide for anyone struggling to find answers. And for parents, let it offer a new kind of hope for your kids to leave you better informed when it comes to your dental health and overall well-being. Grab a copy of Dr. Stagg's book, "Smile: It's All Connected" Hardcover: https://amzn.to/3XLYm9X (Amazon) Share storytime about proper dental health with her children's book "Captain IFBI" https://amzn.to/4cipP7l (Amazon) Get the Daily Dental Protocol Checklist. https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/Y4V5mXB CONNECT WITH DR STAGG https://healthconnectionsdentistry.com/ https://www.instagram.com/SmileProDentist https://www.facebook.com/SmileProDentist HEALING IN YOUR HANDS. HAVENING WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/HIListicallySpeaking/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective/ https://x.com/hilaryrusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ FULL TRANSCRIPT ALSO ON PODCAST WEBSITE 00:06 - Dr. Claire Stagg (Guest) Think about all the systems that are shut down because you can't breathe right? The oral appliance isn't going to fix it. The CPAP is definitely not going to fix it, because what's going to happen is the body is going to acclimatize or get used to that level of band-aiding and then it's like okay, you know what it is. The little Dutch boy with his finger came to mind with a dam. So you put one finger here and then you put one finger here, and then you put one finger here and you put one finger, and then you're not gonna have enough fingers or toes, and then the dam's gonna break. And it's exactly the same concept. 00:40 - Hilary Russo (Host) Okay, my friends, One of the reasons I went into the work that I do is it was an effort to heal my own trauma and, as a result of that, from having TMJ my whole life, from having jaw surgery when I was a teenager and not knowing really how to heal and not getting the right kind of support after that surgery, I wanted to know what I could do to heal later in life, because we really never stop healing, right? You hear me talk about that all the time and it's really how Havening came into my life. It was the first time I was ever Havened was on the trauma from my surgery years later. But what we're learning is that it's all connected. Everything from head to toe. It's all connected. Everything from head to toe, it's all connected. 01:32 So when I was introduced to Dr Claire Stagg, a holistic dentist who believes in the whole body approach thank you so much I knew that her story and her method would resonate with so many others, because I've had these conversations with so many Dr Stagg about TMJ, jaw issues, clenching, grinding, stress and the problems that happen after the breathing, the sleep apnea, and it's such a common problem. So when you came into my space, when I was introduced to you by a client who you introduced me to, I knew that you were the right person to talk about this, to share the journey, to share possibilities, and I am so grateful that you are here. 02:12 - Dr. Claire Stagg (Guest) Well, thank you, thank you, and I think it would be good to, if it's okay with you, to answer your questions and your journey, because I think you went through the whole gamut of from the start out the gate to the journey itself. So the first thing I'd like to add is that surgery is a massive undertaking and, unfortunately, one of the things because you and I have talked before this is that, without stepping on too many toes and being politically correct, it would be wise to figure out why orthognathic surgery is being done. A lot of times people are having their jaws move forward without understanding how the whole concepts work, and a lot of times some things can be done, so a lot and some can be done non-surgically. You just don't know what. You don't know until you know it. So surgery is a end-all, be-all concept and if you have a broken bone, it's a good time to put things to
Ep 158Ep158 - Your Nervous System, Mind, and Body have a Healing Secret Language with Karden Rabin
EWhen it comes to healing the body and mind, there's an unspoken language. It requires understanding the deeper signals our bodies send. The language that's often overlooked. Until now. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, nervous system medicine practitioner, Kardin Rabin, shares his own journey through chronic back pain that left this body worker looking for ways to transcend and transform. What he found were synchronicities that not only opened the door of pain to purpose, but lead him on a journey to help himself and others regulate an often dysregulated nervous system. Discover the Secret Language of the Body with actionable steps to help you Heal through Awareness, Interruption and Redesign. And find out how a chance meeting with Bessel van Der Kolk at a coffee shop changed his life. Plus, an offering of tools and support that puts true healing within reach. Get 50% OFF the HEAL Program with the HIListically Speaking discount! Since Hilary is a HEAL Associate and believes in this work, you reap the rewards! Holistic Nervous System Regulation 10-Week Course https://programs.somiainternational.com/offers/3WZw69Wo Grab a copy of "The Secret Language of the Body: Regulate Your Nervous System, Heal Your Body, Free Your Mind" Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bUvGiV (Amazon) Audiobook: https://amzn.to/4ehuYxY (Amazon) Kindle: https://amzn.to/4b1zWfw (Amazon) CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro 6:51 Opioids, Grief, and generational pain 11:51 Chronic Pain and Trauma17:20 Emotions and Pain Relationship21:10 Exploring Trauma and Healing Through Books 22:35 Bessel van der Kolk in a coffee shop24:42 The Secret Language of the Body 32:42 HEAL and SOMIA Program49:49 Serendipitous Encounters 53:44 Rapid Fire Game59:00 Conversation closing thoughts01:03:27 Hilary close and information PREFER TO WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE? Subscribe https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso OTHER BOOKS MENTIONEDThe Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van Der Kolk, MDhttps://amzn.to/4ccbU28 (Amazon) Healing Back Pain by John Sarnos, MDhttps://amzn.to/4bZdK78 (Amazon) CONNECT WITH KARDENhttps://somiainternational.com https://www.instagram.com/kardenrabin https://www.instagram.com/somiainternational HEALING IN YOUR HANDS. HAVENING WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com TRANSCRIPT Full transcript at https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 00:05 - Karden Rabin (Guest) This process of healing trauma, of healing chronic stress, of healing nervous system disorders, absolutely requires a non-verbal approach through the unspoken language of the body. 00:21 - Hilary Russo (Host) Your nervous system needs you and I wish I knew this Correction correction. I wish I understood this is what I mean when I was struggling with my own chronic pain, when I had my jaw surgery, when I was on the healing journey because, let me tell you, at 15, it was a doozy and every year following that, I just did not have the tools right. And as we get older, we experience more of these snap crackle pops in our body. It happens, it's life right. 00:49 But here's the deal that pain in your body, that trauma that is making you want to run for cover because you don't feel safe. It's actually a signal. It's a signal, it's a call and you're hearing it and yeah, you've done the work. I get it. That's why you check in on this podcast week after week. You've done the work and you're like why am I not healing? Why am I feeling this way? Well, you've come to the right place, because it's all about finding the right support and people that will guide you on that journey, Like my friend, nervous system medicine practitioner, Karden Rabin. What's up, my friend, it is so good to have you here. 01:25 - Karden Rabin (Guest) Hi Hilary. 01:26 - Hilary Russo (Host) We talk so much before we press record and every time we have a conversation it's like I feel like we're just two kids in high school hanging out, chilling and just having a good time, because really, I mean, first of all, we get pretty giddy talking about the nervous system together, so we're totally geeking out. But, there's a reason for it. We're here on this planet to do something to help people, right? 01:49 - Karden Rabin (Guest) Yeah, to just vibe so well with someone who speaks your language and who helps you get it out there. 01:55 - Hilary Russo (Host) Yeah, and you're doing that. You're doing that as co-founder of SOMIA, the HEAL program that you have Now, this new, incredible, unbelievable book that is just paving the way. That's the secret language of the body. Yes, please show that. Regulate your nervous system, heal your body and free your mind. We're going to have a link to tha

Ep 157Ep157 - What's the Root Cause of Your Trauma With Melissa Hiemann
Melissa Hiemann had her 'awakening' back in 2014 when she realized after years of avoiding her traumas through addictions and instant gratification, she was repeating bad behaviors and avoiding the root cause of her pain. Nearly failing out of school and focusing on limited beliefs, she realized something had to give. That wake-up call lead her on a new path of discovery and inner healing. Now, through her Centre for Healing, she's helping others find their future peace today, by raising consciousness through manifesting and being trauma-informed. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, we get to the root of what's holding you back and weighing you down, discover different energetic hygiene approaches and pave the way for abundant living. DOWNLOAD AND TUNE IN TO THIS CONVERSATION ON ANY PODCAST PLATFORM OR YOUTUBE! https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro and Your Future Peace 01:47 Root Cause of Addictions and instant gratification 09:15 Unexpected Journey and Finding Purpose 11:38 Maintaining Energetic Hygiene for Practitioners 14:10 Importance of Professionalism and Self-Care 19:13 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care in Work 22:35 Importance of Trauma-Informed Certification 30:00 Rapid Fire Game 32:58 Healing Generational Trauma and Self-Regulation 36:24 Trauma-Informed Healing Resources CONNECT WITH MELISSA https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecentreforhealing https://www.instagram.com/thecentreforhealing/ https://www.youtube.com/@thecentreforhealing https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissahiemann/ GRAB HER BOOK ON AMAZON!Natural High: Secrets to Overcoming Instant Gratification and Finding Inner Peace https://amzn.to/3yPTwxR CENTER FOR HEALING COURSES (Use code HILARY for a 10% discount on any course) https://www.thecentreforhealing.com/a/43957/58GLXrgy PUT THE HEALING IN YOUR HANDS WITH HAVENING https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ TRANSCRIPT 00:07 - Melissa Hiemann (Guest) A lot of people. They reach out for things outside of themselves to try and feel okay, to try and feel safe in their body, and so those can be instant things like addictions, like I had shopping addictions. I had heroin, marijuana, alcohol, cigarettes, anything I could do in the moment to not feel how I was feeling. I was just jumping to it because I didn't know how to escape how I was feeling in the moment and so when I had those things I felt good for a little bit. But what happens is you ruin your future peace. 00:40 - Hilary Russo (Host) Let's get to the root cause Now. I know that that term is thrown around a lot right, root cause? And in the world of functional medicine and holistic medicine, it's about going beyond the diagnosis or the surface, or really getting to the heart of things, the soul of what is holding you back and weighing you down. One of the things I love about HIListically Speaking is having guests come on the show who are experts in their field, but they share their own journeys, right. They're getting to their own root cause, their soul, and turning their own traumas into triumphs. 01:17 Melissa Hiemann she has been on her own awakening journey and she started that back in 2014. And, melissa, you nearly failed out of school. You struggled with addictions addictions and I use that with an S on the end and from those traumas you learned how to heal your limiting beliefs and now, as a therapist, you help others do that every day. It is such a pleasure to have you here and being really open to talk about the root cause and how we can change those traumas into triumphs. Thanks for being here. 01:48 Thank you so much for having me on. It's a pleasure. I want to really talk about the root cause of things, because we haven't covered that topic, but also the fact that you have dealt with numerous addictions, not just one. I've had people come on the show talking about one thing, but it goes back to this book that you wrote called Natural High Secrets to Overcoming Instant Gratification and then Finding the Inner Peace. So can we go there? First, because I think in this world of instant gratification, which we get that from the internet, we get that from different addictions and the internet can be one of them. Now we get that from different addictions and the internet can be one of them. Now, how are you working with people in this area from your own experiences? 02:30 - Melissa Hiemann (Guest) Yeah, sure. So yeah, from my own experience of overcoming my addictions and going on my own healing journey, as you mentioned, I came to realize I wasn't willing to sit in my body with how I was feeling. And so an outcome of that and
Ep 156Ep156 - Designing Your Holistic Space with Gala Magriñá
EBefore she was designing holistic spaces, Gala Magriñá was living large in the fashion industry. But no amount of partying and rubbing elbows with celebs created a happy space, inside or out. That is until she realized that investing in your personal space is investing in yourself. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, discover how holistic interior design goes beyond the aesthetics and considers the mind, body, and spirit approach that's necessary to create mindful spaces that support inner healing and personal growth. You'll walk away with a new perspective of what it means to create a respite that flows and flourishes personally and professionally. Download and listen to this conversation on any podcast platform. https://pod.link/hilisticallyspeaking Grab The Badass books series Gala and Hilary talked about! You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life, Jen Sincero https://amzn.to/3KjV99l (Amazon) Get all four books! You Are a Badass Series 4 Books Collection Set by Jen Sincero (You Are a Badass, You Are a Badass at Making Money, You Are a Badass Every Day & Badass Habits, Jen Sincero https://amzn.to/4dRn3qS (Amazon) CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro 00:27 What does holistic mean to you? 03:24 Gala's story: From fashion to functional living 08:05 Design and Well-Being Connection 13:31 Navigating Stressful Transitions in Design 11:02 Personalized Wellness Practices 18:15 Creating Sanctuary-Like Spaces 24:51 Beyond Spaces 26:55 Interior Design Methodology 32:48 Rapid Fire Game 34:52. Investing in your space is investing in yourself 35:06 Hilary Close CONNECT WITH GALA https://www.instagram.com/galamagrinadesign https://www.linkedin.com/in/galamagrina/ GALA'S DESIGN COURSE (launching in Sept 2024) https://galamagrinadesign.com/beyond-spaces-course/ PUT THE HEALING IN YOUR HANDS WITH HAVENING https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening GRAB MY DISCOUNT ON HOLISTIC HEALTH COURSES AT IIN https://sldr.page.link/4byd CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 155Ep155 - Pet Lovers Stories: Voices of Unconditional Love & Companionship
Grief wrapped its cold hands around my heart with the loss of my calico kitty, Miss Eliza Doolittle. But in sharing my story on episode 151, I discovered I wasn't alone and others had a tail of their own to tell about the power of pet companionship. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, I passed the microphone over to our listeners who share gratitude moments for the fur babies who left a paw print on their hearts. Whether they're purring beside us or frolicking beyond the Rainbow Bridge, we honor the laughter and love they bring into our lives, as we recount stories of the profound bonds formed between humans and their animal companions and heal in community. CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro 00:08 Healing Through Community 03:04 Juile and Champ 04:28 Bree and Moe 05:24 Amy and Bella 06:31 TC and Charlotte 07:38 Brooke and Lady 8:48 Kristin and Angie 10:18 Beverly and Coco 11:24. Hilary's closing thoughts on pet loss and love JOIN ME FOR THE NEXT HAVENING HAPPY HOUR https://www.hilaryrusso.com/events DOWNLOAD THE HUG IT OUT FIVE DAY CHALLENGE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/5daychallenge CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeakinghttps://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ TRANSCRIPT Full transcript available on https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 00:08 - Hilary Russo (Host) The power of community is amazing, isn't it? It helps us connect, it helps us grow, it helps us learn and it helps us heal. Recently I lost my beautiful calico kitty, Miss Eliza Doolittle. Those of you who watch this podcast know that she sits right behind me on this very chair. Maybe you've seen her in commercials or in videos and if you know me personally, you've probably had a chance to sit with her for a while right here in my home. And one of the ways I found healing, after close to 19 years with her by my side, was to share her story right here HIListically Speaking, and what I learned from living with her for close to two decades. To me it was therapeutic to share with you. It felt right, as raw as it was, as real as it was and as recent as it was. It was necessary and important for my healing journey. 01:09 What happened after I dropped episode 151 was an outpouring of HIListically Speaking listeners from listeners and fans and friends and family and strangers. I received gifts and cards and words of encouragement and kindness and stories, so many stories, your stories, and I thought what better way to share and heal than in community? After all, that's what this podcast is all about. That's what HIListically Speaking is all about those empowering conversations of trauma to triumph through health, healing and humor. Basically what it takes to be a happy and healthy grownup, because even in loss there is laughter at some point in time, don't you think it comes. It might take a while, but it's there. 02:10 So this episode is about you and your stories. Pets that you have loved, that have made a difference in your life. Some have crossed over the Rainbow Bridge already and maybe they're hanging out with Eliza. Others showed up just at the right time and are still bringing you happiness and joy and, I hope, for a very long time. I asked you to press record and share your stories and your pictures so that we can honor those fur babies in our lives. And what came back is what you're about to hear on this episode, and it is truly inspiring and amazing. When we become pet parents, we know our time with them is short. It is likely that we will outlive them, and we know that there will be heartbreak. It's inevitable. But to love and to be loved is the real gift. 03:04 - Julie (Caller) Hi, this is Julie Marty-Pearson from Bakersfield, California, and I am here to share my story about my childhood dog, champ. I got Champ as a puppy when I was about 12 years old. At the time I was dealing with some difficult health issues and I ended up missing most of my 7th grade year. Champ became my best friend. He was my little buddy. Seeing most of my 7th grade year, champ became my best friend. He was my little buddy. He was there with me through all the tough days when I wasn't feeling well, when I wasn't able to see my friends and go to events and fun things like I wanted to, and Champ was there for me. 03:37 All the way through college I lived with my parents to save money, and the day I left for grad school I had to say goodbye, even though I knew he'd be taken care of by my parents. I knew I was going to miss him. Little did I know he had snuck a little surprise in one of my boxes for me. Cut to the next day in my new apartment, unpacking all of my boxes In the middle of my books, in one box I found Champ's tennis ball. He had dropped it in the box for me and I packed it away without knowing, so that I would al
Ep 154Ep154 - Heal by Eating Real: How to Reverse Chronic Disease with Dr. Nicolette Richer
We have a saying in the world of integrative nutrition. If it's made by people in white coats, you are likely going to see people in white coats. In other words, your food could be keeping you sick. But Doctor of Social Sciences, Nicolette Richer is on a mission to change that for millions of people by 2030. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, we take a deep dive into the healing potential of whole foods as Dr. Richer shares her insights on dismantling systemic barriers to wellness, particularly for BIPOC women. Learn about the pitfalls of the ketogenic diet and other trendy plans, and be inspired by stories of empowerment and recovery through eating from the earth. This episode is not only rich with actionable knowledge but also a call to action for those tuning in to embrace scientific literacy and health education for a healthier, more informed society. It's time to eat real to heal on the HIListically Speaking Podcast. Full Transcript https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro 00:08 Food as Medicine for Healthful Living 03:25 Addressing Health Disparities 10:24 Holistic Healing Empowerment 14:10 The Dangers of the Keto Diet 16:02 Media Misinformation 19:33 Health Coaches and clients 27:02 Nutrition, Healing, and Wellness Journey 29:00 Dr. Richer's shift from government to nutrition 31:45 Rapid Fire Game 32:55 Reversing Chronic Disease and Detoxing 34:00 Hilary's closing thoughts and how to connect CONNECT WITH DR. NICOLETTE RICHER Eat Real to Heal Cookbook: Using Nutrient-Dense Foods for Happiness and Longevity https://amzn.to/4blFWAG (Amazon) Eat Real to Heal: Using Food As Medicine to Reverse Chronic Diseases from Diabetes, Arthritis, Cancer and More https://amzn.to/4bnnFCZ (Amazon) https://www.instagram.com/nicolettericher/ https://www.facebook.com/richerhealthconsulting/ https://www.youtube.com/@eatrealtoheal https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/eat-real-to-heal-podcast/id1442998357 JOIN THE REAL TO HEAL PROGRAM https://www.richerhealth.ca/eat-real-to-heal-course PUT THE HEALING IN YOUR HANDS WITH HAVENING https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening GRAB MY DISCOUNT ON COURSES ON INTEGRATIVE NUTRITION AT IIN https://sldr.page.link/4byd CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ ******* EPISODE TRANSCRIPT Full Transcript https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast) 00:08 - Dr. Nicolette Richer (Guest) Individuals who can afford to buy food at Whole Foods, but they still choose to buy processed refined food. I've been working with these individuals for a long time. I've, quite frankly, become a little bit exhausted because we do have so much information there's too much information out there, in fact but it's interesting. I've decided to really focus on BIPOC women, and that is an area that I know I'll be focusing on probably for the next half of my life, the next 50 years, and it's the area with some of the biggest challenges, because we're still facing racism in this area. We're still facing those economic gaps as well. 00:43 - Hilary Russo (Host) All right, my friends, this is not the first time we talked about this, but imagine being able to reverse the chronic diseases in your life, the health issues that you have, with small changes and I mean really small changes that can make a difference. Like I said, this isn't the first time we talked about this. Holistic living and integrative nutrition is really a big part of that. If you can reverse 97% of the chronic diseases out there with whole food eating, with different kinds of approaches to taking care of your body, mind and spirit holistically, whole body approach, wouldn't you want to have the answers? And that is exactly why I have Dr Nicolette Richer here. She is a doctor of social sciences and she is on a mission to teach 22 million people using food as medicine by a deadline, by the way, 2030. Dr Nicolette, it is so great to have you here. Thank you so much for being on HIListically Speaking. 01:39 - Dr. Nicolette Richer (Guest) Yeah, and thanks for having me. It's a pleasure to be here and share this information. 01:43 - Hilary Russo (Host) So I was chit-chatting with you before we pressed record about. You are the first doctor of social sciences I've actually had on this podcast. We're, you know well into 150 plus podcast episodes here. Being that this podcast is about holistic health well-being, turning those traumas into triumphs in our life. I've realized from the different kinds of doctors I've had on the show many in functional medicine and integrative medicine that doctors do not go to medical school and take nutritional courses. That's kind of an extracurricular and I do want to start out there. So how is be
Ep 153Ep153 - Adoption, Family Bonds and Belonging with Julie McGue
The echo of the past can be filled with uncertainties, especially for those touched by adoption. Award-winning author Julie McGue, a twin adoptee bravely bares her soul in her quest for identity within her richly blended family. Our conversation explores the topic of closed adoption, and highlights not only the obstacles faced by those denied access to their biological lineage and medical history, but also the universal longing to deeply understand our roots. From the insecurities of adoptive parents to the fear of rejection from birth parents, we travel the rocky road adoptees commonly face. But also, the transformative power of community and storytelling that can serve as a channel for the shared human experience that heals and shapes our lives. CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Intro 04:38 Discovering Family History and DNA 08:40 Navigating Family and Identity Struggles 11:13 Reunion and Discovery 17:01 Adoption and Loss 19:15 Community Support 32:54 Ancestral Exploration and Healing 34:35 The Power of Storytelling 36:25 Rapid Fire Game 38:05 Julie's final thoughts 39:45 Hilary's closing CONNECT WITH JULIE MCGUE https://www.juliemcgueauthor.com www.facebook.com/juliemcguewrites www.instagram.com/julieryanmcgue www.linkedin.com/in/julie-mcgue-a246b841 JULIE'S BOOKS ON AMAZON "Twice a Daughter: A Search for Identity, Family, and Belonging" and "Belonging Matters: Conversations on Adoption, Family, and Kinship" LEARN MORE ABOUT HAVENING WITH HILARY https://www.hilaryrusso.com/havening RECEIVE THE BRAIN CANDY NEWSLETTER https://hilaryrusso.com/braincandy CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ EPISODE TRANSCRIPT (Full Transcript https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast) 00:08 - Julie McGue (Guest) This is the day that she always feared would happen. And all of a sudden, here it is, it's happening, and she didn't show her best self. Did she come around? Yes, she came around, but it was a tricky mother-daughter conflict. We were adults, so we did work our best at re-encouraging everyone that the love was there. 00:31 - Hilary Russo (Host) We hear a lot of ups and downs when it comes to adoption, but one thing if you are not an adoptee or you're not even connected to the adoption community, a lot of questions come up about belonging, identity, how to make sure you know everything about your health and well-being and I have not covered this topic on HIListically Speaking before and I find this to be something that is extremely important for us to talk about whether you know somebody or you are an adoptee or you have adopted a child and I think one person that is a perfect guest to have on the show is Julie McGue. She is an adoptee, she is also a twin, and she is someone that did not seek out information about her adoption until later in life. And, Julie, this is a topic that I think does need more discussion, and I'm so glad you're here to share your experiences and your story. So thanks for being here. Thank you, yeah, oh. 01:41 Was Julie adopted together with her sibling? Were they adopted separately, and how the relationship with your sibling and the family really was able to grow and prosper and just create that sense of belonging and identity? Can we go into that first? Oh, sure, I'd be happy to. 02:01 - Julie McGue (Guest) So my twin sister and I were adopted together through Catholic Charities and their policy was always to keep multiple birth siblings together. So right off the bat, my birth mom knew that if she had more than one child which was definitely something that ran in her family that her daughters or her kids would stay together, so that was important to her. One of the things that's interesting about being a twin, especially if you're adopted is one of the things that adoptees often wonder about is who do I look like, who do I take after? And so that sense of belonging is a big question for adoptees. From the very beginning I never had to look understand who I look like. I always looked like my sister. To be raised with a full sibling is a real blessing for any adopted person. So a lot of good things came out of being adopted with my sister. 03:12 My parents also adopted a boy two years after my sister and I, and how often happens, they were able to have three biological children after all of us. So I grew up in this big Irish Catholic blended family of three adoptees and three biological kids. To my parents' credit, I don't think I could tell any difference, but how they treated any one of us. Everybody had the same rewards, the same punishments. They were pretty strict and they were very clear about how much they loved us and how much they wanted this family that they built through adoption and natural c
Ep 152Ep152 - Emotional Intelligence Essentials: How to Achieve Your Goals and Dreams with Dr. John Demartini
If you've ever wondered how self-perception can influence your journey to personal success, this conversation on the HIListically Speaking Podcast with guest Dr. John Demartini is for you. A world-renowned luminary in human behavior and emotional intelligence, Dr. Demartini will have you asking yourself, "How do I elevate my self-awareness?" But also inspire authentic living through balance and embracing both the inner hero and the bully within. Dr. Demartini shares his trauma-to-triumph stories that will leave you in awe. Including two powerful lessons he learned as a high school dropout from one of the world's most successful entrepreneurs of his time, to the words he lives by that have been the blueprint for humanity, wisdom, and love. CHAPTERS/KEY MOMENTS 0:00 Intro 0:10 Human Potential Through Emotional Intelligence 03:38 Imposter Syndrome, the Ego for Authenticity 07:17 Self-Judgment and Behavior 16:08 Lesson in Wisdom and Courage 21:54 Creating Original Ideas for Humanity 29:09 Free Masterclasses with Dr. Demartini 31:00 Essentials of Emotional Intelligence Book 32:50 Unlocking Your Inner Genius 38:47 Self-Talk for Success 42:48 Authenticity and Self-Acceptance 46:25 The Power of Gratitude and Love 56:28 Life's Balance and Self-Confidence CONNECT WITH DR. DEMARTINI https://drdemartini.com/ or @drjohndemartini Essentials of Emotional Intelligence Book (available on Amazon May 2024 CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Never miss an episode or info on upcoming workshops and events. Subscribe to the Brain Candy Newsletter. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT (Full Transcript https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast) 00:00 - Dr. John Demartini (Guest) Every symptom in our physiology, every symptom in our psychology, every symptom in our sociological connections, in our relationships, even in our business transactions. Our feedback mechanisms trying to get us back to authenticity, where we have equanimity within ourselves and equity between ourselves and others, so we can create a transaction that has a sustainable, fair exchange, where we maximize our potential. So we understand that, no matter what's going on, it's on the way for that objective, not in the way. 00:30 - Hilary Russo (Host) Am I unlocking my greatest human potential? Think about that question just for a moment, because that's where we're going today. Sit with it for a moment and then think about that, because you're about to meet somebody who can challenge you with that question and help you find the answer. He is not your typical expert. He has a unique blend of wisdom and wit and insight, and he's dedicated his life to unraveling the mysteries of human behavior and helping people, including himself, discover that human potential. Thank you so much for joining us here. As I mentioned, you are a world leading human behavior specialist. You're a philosopher and international speaker, multi bestselling author and founder of the Demartini Method, which is a revolutionary tool in modern psychology, and it is just such a pleasure and a joy to have you here to share more about what you do and how you hold space in this world. So thank you. 01:32 - Dr. John Demartini (Guest) Thank you. What a great intro. Thank you. 01:35 - Hilary Russo (Host) Well, I've been really tapping into everything you're sharing and you talk a lot about, most recently the emotional intelligence side of things with your most recent book, and I want to touch on that because you really have made such a significant difference in how people are truly transforming their own lives. So let's go there first. What is making this book, this most recent book, the Essentials of Emotional Intelligence, different from all these other amazing pieces of literature you've written in the past? 02:28 - Dr. John Demartini (Guest) not always appreciate themselves, not love themselves, because of the emotional vicissitudes and volatilities that they allow themselves to participate in. I'll give an example. You see somebody walking down the street. You meet them and you think, wow, they're more intelligent than me, or maybe they're more achieving, successful than me, or maybe wealthier, or maybe they're more, have a stable relationship, or maybe they're more of a leader or more they're physically fit or more inspired. 02:59 And then you put them a bit on a pedestal because you're conscious of the upsides and blind and subjectively biased and unconscious of the downsides. And then you beat yourself up and minimize yourself and then you're not honoring your magnificence Because you're comparing yourself to others instead of comparing your daily actions to your own values. Or you might meet somebody and you look down
Ep 151Ep151 - Pet Loss: From Grief to Gratitude with Hilary Russo
How do we navigate the heartache of loss while cherishing the beauty of memories shared with our cherished pets? Join me for an intimate reflection on the enduring impact of my cat, Eliza Doolittle, whose passing after nearly 19 years left a profound mark on my heart. Let's delve into the love and responsibilities that come with being a pet parenting, finding solace and support within our community during times of grief, and ten life lessons learned from our furry companions. Plus, a chance to share your pet story on an upcoming episode. FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS AVAILABLE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast CHAPTERS: 00:00 Intro: The Rainbow Bridge 05:31 The Story of Eliza: The Cat Who Saved Me 09:44 The Grief and Guilt of Euthanasia 12:54 Finding Gratitude Through Grief 17:33 Connection With Pets Beyond the Veil 20:00 Ten Things I Learned from the Life of a Pet 23:21 The Power of Community and Rest 26:30 Share Your Pet Story 27:55 Honoring Unconditional Love Share your voice and pet story on an upcoming episode: https://www.speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking Join the HUG it Out Collective on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Episodes mentioned on this podcast Ep 17 Chris Palmore Finding Gratitude After Loss Ep 128 Are You a Human Being or a Human Doing? Eliza and Hilary's Blue Buffalo Cat Food Commercials youtube.com/hilaryrusso Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone: https://lipbone.com/ FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS AVAILABLE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 00:00 - Hilary Russo (Host) 19 years Seems like a moment in time, but for close to 19 years I was blessed to have a pure shadow of sunshine by my side. On my birthday, however, my sweet Eliza Doolittle decided it was time to take a journey without me, and a light in me dimmed. April 1st, just two days after my birthday and two months shy of 19 years, my five pound sassy calico found her way over the rainbow bridge and something changed in me, which is why I'm sharing this with you, because I have a feeling, if you've ever loved and lost a pet, you're going to resonate with what I'm about to share with you. It took me some time to sit down and record this episode. I have to be honest, I needed some time to step away. To be honest, I needed some time to step away. I needed to process this loss and I really needed to allow myself to see where this was going to hit me, because, while I have had pets my entire life since I was a little girl in fact, I don't really know that many years without having a pet in my home, nothing was quite like Eliza. She was mine and I was hers, and for close to two decades, I made this commitment to protect her, to love her, to care for her, and that came with some responsibilities Responsibilities I have never known before. Responsibilities, responsibilities I have never known before. It was level up, it was different, and the feelings that go along with that kind of responsibility, that kind of love, were different too. So, after sharing with those who are closest with me about her passing my family, my friends, my Hug it Out Collective, even colleagues and clients I realized that community is where we really find our healing, and it's a reminder that we were never alone in this battle. Right, even if the responsibilities are different, even if there are hours and hours alone, even if they were just for us to bear, we're really never doing it all by ourselves, because someone you know or yourself has been through it, and I want to share with you just how common it is. 02:40 It's estimated that more than half of the global population has a pet at home. That's over half a billion dogs and cats, and in the US, 70% of households in 2021 were pet owners, and since the pandemic, the amount of pet adoptions is on the rise, thankfully. So I know I'm not alone when I share that these numbers, no matter what type of pet you have, be it fur, feathers, fins or scales. You likely have, or you have, faced pet loss. And isn't that the rub To know that you will love an animal so much, knowing that it's likely they will leave this world before you and we know that, going into it too right. I know I did, and yet I still loved. And when the time is right, somewhere down the road, I will again, because that's what we do as pet parents. We open our hearts again and again, just not now, not yet. Just not now, not yet. 03:50 So with that in mind, I thought I would share my story about Miss Eliza Doolittle and some thoughts I have about grief, what I've learned from my time with Lizzy Girl, and some possibilities for us as we go forward on this journey, plus a chance for you to share your story on an upcoming episode. And if th
Ep 150Ep150 - Menopause Doesn't Have to Suck with Erika Shannon-Hathaway
Your journey through menopause can be transformative and empowering. When I first heard that statement, I rolled my eyes! But, hear me out on this. You and I both know there is no magic pill to make it go away. And "no", you can't sell your uterus on Ebay either. (Yes, that was a question I got in an email). What you can do is find ways to better understand all the changes and holistically age with beauty and grace. From hormones to hot flashes, brain fog to body changes, it's like puberty for adults. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, Hilary welcomes Certified Menopause Coach Specialist Erika Shannon-Hathaway who not only answers your questions but shares actionable steps and practical tips from symptom management and macrodosing to mental clarity and menoparties for self-care. FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS AVAILABLE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast CHAPTERS: 00:00 Intro 02:08 The Importance of Health Coaches (51 Seconds) 06:40 Navigating Adult Puberty and Parenting 14:44 Importance of Self-Care and Mindset 26:50 Erika Answers Your Questions (Audience Q&A) 37:00 Managing Menopause, Hormones and Sleep 46:48 Struggling With Brain Fog 53:05 Nutrition and Exercise in Menopause 54:04 Weight Gain and Estrogen Loss 57:45 Rapid Fire Game 01:00:00 Erika's Closing Thoughts 01:01:00 Hilary's final thought and info Download my FREE guided Self-Havening for Hot Flashes and Hormones video https://www.hilaryrusso.com/hormones CONNECT WITH ERIKA: https://www.instagram.com/erikashannonmovement https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikashannon/ https://www.facebook.com/erikashannonmovement https://www.erikashannon.com/menoparty https://www.erikashannon.com/yournextchapter-landing-page Interested in getting better sleep? Listen to Ep 140 with Sleep Expert Mollie Eastman. FREE HAVENING HAPPY HOUR & EVENTS Join the next Free Havening Happy Hour. Next event: March 27th at 7pm ET. Registration is required https://www.hilaryrusso.com/events CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ EPISODE TRANSCRIPT (Full Transcript https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast) 00:00 - Erika Shannon-Hathaway (Guest) There are so many things now that give us community around it that it helps us regulate our symptoms and therefore improve our quality of life as we're going through the inevitable journey of menopause. 00:13 - Hilary Russo (Host) As a living, breathing human. You are someone, you know someone or you love someone on the menopause journey and I'm now on the other side of this myself. But I still have questions about how to stay healthy mind, body and spirit All the questions there. Because it's more than just hormones, it's befriending your body, it's understanding the signs and acceptance of this beautiful aging process that we go through as women. And if this isn't you, this conversation is going to help you, support those who are going through this journey. So I've invited my friend, Erika Shannon Hathaway on the show to have a little girl chat, answer your questions and help you walk away from this conversation with a clear understanding of how you can embrace the change. Now some of you tuning in might know Erika because we've spent some time together a number of years on Daily Burn 365, that live streaming fitness show we were both on. 01:13 But Erika, my dear friend, you have not only been in this fitness industry for close to two decades, you started making that womanly change yourself and said that you want to do more, not just for yourself, but for those you serve, because you've been a coach, as a fitness instructor for years, as someone who has been in this field for so long, and now as a certified menopause coach specialist, you are helping women pave a new way. So thanks for being here. This is so great. I really love that we're going to be talking about menopause. 01:46 - Erika Shannon-Hathaway (Guest) Thank you. It is so great to be here with you, Hilary, and it's always just like a reunion to see the old gang from DV365. I love you all so much and thank you for doing what you do with this podcast. I think you help and serve so many people who really need it and it's just a real privilege to be here. So thanks for having me. 02:08 - Hilary Russo (Host) Well, I love having my DB365 friends on, but this goes so much bigger, as you know. You know being the work of holistic health and thank you for that. I appreciate that. You know it's just we're here to serve and I remember us having a conversation about just health in general and when we were on the show and I was actually a participant on the show while you're one of our amazing trainers we were given health coaches and this was a fairly new industry. You know the he
Ep 149Ep149 - Keep Breathing: From Unthinkable Loss to Unbreakable Resilience with Dr. Kate Truitt
Embark on a profound journey with Dr. Kate Truitt, the voice of lived experience and scientific wisdom, as she unveils the raw intricacies of her latest work, "Keep Breathing." Dr Truitt is an award-winning clinical psychologist and applied neuroscientist. She's internationally recognized for her expertise in trauma, stress, and resilience. She calls "Keep Breathing" part autobiography and part scientific exploration. Together, we unwrap the layers of life's adversities, from the anguish of loss to the resilience required to face another day. As Dr. Kate shares her personal journey into the darkness, we intertwine the stronghold of community with the advancing tides of therapy, emphasizing the paramount importance of human connection and trust in the odyssey of healing and light. FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS AVAILABLE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast CHAPTERS 00:00 Dr. Kate Truitt Opening Soundbite 00:36 Hilary Russo Episode Intro Keep Breathing 7:49 Navigating Mental Health and Wellness 12:25 Chronic Illness and the Opioid Epidemic 14:57 Changing the Narrative on Loss to Resilience 19:19 Flash Bulb Memories and Vulnerability 32:24 Navigating Grief and New Love 47:09 Rapid Fire Interview With Dr Kate 51:00 Dr. Kate's Final thoughts 52:30 Hilary's Close and Information 53:25 Havening for Healing Journey Support Dr. Kate's Books: Keep Breathing: A Psychologist's Intimate Journey Through Loss, Trauma, and Rediscovering Life https://amzn.to/3wuKSnN (Amazon) Healing in Your Hands: Self-Havening Practices to Harness Neuroplasticity, Heal Traumatic Stress, and Build Resilience https://amzn.to/3WOvYDp (Amazon) Connect with Dr. Kate on all social media platforms at @DrKateTruitt Get her free Keep Breathing Healing Companion Toolkit: https://www.drkatetruitt.com/freeresources Tune in to Dr. Kate's other conversation on the HIListically Speaking Podcast (Ep 109) and learn about Healing in Your Hands https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast/episode/20c0e132/ep109-dr-kate-truitt-the-healing-power-of-touch Interested in giving Havening a try? Schedule your session and mention you heard about it on the podcast. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Join the next Free Havening Happy Hour. March 27th at 7pm ET. Registration is required https://www.hilaryrusso.com/events CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ EPISODE TRANSCRIPT https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 00:00 - Dr. Kate Truitt (Guest) Those behavioral responses, those flash-bowl memories. They're there through an evolutionary construct and that's, I think, such useful information when our brain is grappling with depression and anxiety or suicidal considerations, or just trying to find a way to keep breathing. Fundamentally, Because our brain's good at keeping us alive. It's its number one job. It's not so good at reading the instruction manuals that the 21st century has handed to us for a thriving life. 00:36 - Hilary Russo (Host) There are people in your life that you will meet that will either be there for a moment, a season or a lifetime You've heard this before and somehow someway no matter how much time they are in your life, because it's just a measurement of time you need to decide the role that they're going to play, especially as life is going forward, and I'm not only talking about those positive moments either, because life is truly about contrast. 01:04 It's about growth, it's about finding balance, personal development right, and Dr Kate Truitt knows that all too well. If the name sounds familiar, it's because she has been here on the HIListically Speaking podcast before, and she was here talking about her first book, healing in your Hands, which was the story of really how we can put self-healing and self-havening into our lives. But now she's back with something much more personal, and I am so elated to have you Kate. Kate the Great, as I call you, someone I consider a friend, a mentor, especially in the world of havening, and you're an award-winning clinical psychologist, neuroscientist, internationally recognized for your work in trauma and stress and resiliency. But more so, you are just a human being going through this life like anybody else, with your own story, and that is really what your newest book is about Keep Breathing and I'm just so glad I get time to share space with you again. It's always a gift. 02:07 - Dr. Kate Truitt (Guest) Yeah, well, right back at you, Hilary. Thank you so much for inviting me on and I just. You are a friend and a dear colleague and I admire you so much, and so I'm really excited to share about Keep Breathing and to dig in? Yeah, because at the end of the day, we are all just humans doing our
Ep 148Ep148 - Unraveling Fascia: Exploring the Body's Hidden Matrix with Julia Blackwell
It's the crucial biological fabric that holds us all together. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast we pack the mysteries of fascia release by taking you on a transformative journey with the wisdom of Fascia Remedy founder Julia Blackwell. Tune in as Julia shares her story of profound emotional and physical relief. And what she did to turn her lifelong battle with nerve damage into a mission to help others heal from within. From foam rolling and simple breathing techniques, It's time to move past the common misconceptions and find solutions to pain management and mobility improvement. We venture beyond the surface and explore the root causes of fascial tension and what you can do right now to "Unlock Your Hips" and unravel the unrest. FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT AVAILABLE https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro 04:00 Deep Dive Into Fascia and Pain 13:54 The Power of Fascia in Healing 19:21 Fascia's Impact on Mental and Physical Health 22:00 Fun with Fascia. How do you say the word? 25:20 The Importance of Proper Foam Rolling 32:58 Rapid Fire Game 34:40 Julia's final share with you 35:16 Hip Unlocking Challenge With Julia 35:40 HUG it Out Challenge with Hilary Connect with Julia at www.movementbyjulia.com or on social at @movementbyjulia on Facebook and Instagram Get her free foam rolling series Unlock Your Hips: www.movementbyjulia.com/podcast In honor of Women's History Month, I'm giving one woman that chance to work with me for free. Just schedule your session and mention you heard about it on the podcast. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Download the free 5-Day HUG it Out Challenge and turn your chaos into calm with confidence. https://www.hilaryrusso.com/5daychallenge CONNECT WITH HILARY https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ TRANSCRIPT Full version https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 00:00 - Julia Blackwell (Guest) Within three months of doing this type of fascia release, I felt more freedom and emotional releases and just a change, such a big change in the feeling function of my arm than I had in 23 years of trying all the other types of modalities. 00:21 - Hilary Russo (Host) Okay, my sunshine, how many times do you have that feeling of pain or discomfort in your back, your neck, your shoulders, any part of your body, your knees and nothing seems to work. Nothing that you're doing to stretch it out, to make it feel better is working at all. It took me years to understand that you really have to get to the root of the issue of these kind of things. And then I tried fascia release therapy. Game changer how I found it was. I took a trip to Costa Rica and I was doing a retreat and I gave it a try. It was part of the retreat and let me tell you, it made a huge difference and I realized that there were parts of my body that I truly didn't understand and there were things that I was holding within that I didn't know how to release and I needed a little help, as we all do right. 01:16 So Julia Blackwell is a fascia release practitioner, she's an educator, she is the creator of the fascia remedy, and you may be wondering what the heck is fascia? Right? All good, all good, we're gonna cover that. That is why Julia is here on, HIListically Speaking, not only to share more about what fascia is, but what you can do to relieve that pain, to be more mobile, to increase your performance. And, julia, I know that you have your own story and I'm so grateful to have you here, because this is a topic I haven't HIListically Speaking, and I think it is so important because it affects our entire body as a whole, doesn't it? 01:57 - Julia Blackwell (Guest) Oh yeah, absolutely, and yes, thanks so much for having me on. 02:00 - Hilary Russo (Host) Of course. So let's talk about fascia Before we go any further. Let's define what fascia is, so there's a clear understanding of it. 02:10 - Julia Blackwell (Guest) Oh, absolutely. Also, just from my Cincinnati roots, I'm gonna call it fascia because all of my hard A's, it's just hard to have it to think. 02:20 - Hilary Russo (Host) I love that. Yeah, I'm sure it's called something everywhere. There's different dialects all over the world who tune into HIListically Speaking , so I love that you bring that up. 02:29 - Julia Blackwell (Guest) Yeah, it's correct both ways. But yeah. So fascia is the biological fabric that organizes all of the water and material in your body. So you can think of it like plastic wrap that wraps around every single thing that you have. So every muscle fiber, every muscle, every bone, ligament, tendon, organ, blood vessel, nerve, it's all wrapped in this connective tissue. That's one uninterrupted, interconnected system that functions as a
Ep 147Ep147 - Kick the Inner Bully to the Curb: Transforming Stress and Worry with the Power of Words and Thoughts (Bonus meditation!)
As a March baby myself, there's an extra spring in my step when this month rolls around, not just for the promise of longer days but for celebrating the indomitable spirit of women throughout history. But what about our own stories of triumph and the quiet impact we've made? That's the heart of our latest chat, where we turn the spotlight inward and take a deep dive into the importance of the words we use and choose and the thoughts and worries that determine our day. I got real about the inner battles we all face, like stress, self-doubt, and that nagging inner critic that's all too familiar. I share my journey of overcoming these hurdles with insights into neuroscience, and discuss how changing our mindset can dramatically alter our relationship with stress. Plus, a giveaway for one lucky listener and a bonus meditation to close our conversation. In honor of Women's History Month, I'm giving one woman that chance to work with me for free. Just schedule your session and mention you heard about it on the podcast. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ ----- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ------ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro about March and Honoring the Divine Feminine 0:45 Confronting the inner bully, worries and self-doubt 1:06 Hilary shares her personal story and the If/Then Game 3:33 Relate. React. Respond. 4:48 Hilary's giveaway to HUG it Out 5:45 Bonus Guided Meditation with music by Lipbone Redding --------- EPISODE TRANSCRIPT --------- Full Transcript available here: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HILARY RUSSO 00:00 - Hilary Russo (Host) I am all kinds of giddy because March is my favorite month. It marks the beginning of spring. Daylight Savings is just around the corner. It's the month when I was born Shout out to you if you're a March baby too. And it's Women's History Month. What a great time to be empowered and inspired by what other women have accomplished over the years. Who's your favorite? Who inspires you? Actually, I have a better question for you. What about your own accomplishments, and who have you touched, moved, and inspired in your life? 00:35 Now, if you're struggling with that thought, if you have a hard time thinking that you've made a difference in someone's life and you're hard on yourself, wondering why someone else is getting more done in their lives, or you're overwhelmed and you're feeling stuck, that inner bully is definitely showing up in the moment. How many times do you let that doubt creep in? You allow the inner dialogue to take over and enter stress? I get it. I've dealt with it too. 01:05 Here's a little story for you. My dad used to call me a worry wart, because if I could worry about something, I would find it, and I would definitely worry about it to the end of time. In fact, I had this ridiculous game that I used to play. I called it the if-then game. Yeah, I even gave it a name. It made no sense at all. It would go something like this If I can toss that little piece of paper into the wastebasket, then I'm going to get an A on my test. Yeah, like I said, it makes no sense. Here's another one If I can make that light before it turns red, I'm totally going to get asked to prom. So, spoiler alert, I got asked to prom, but it really had nothing to do with me making the red light. It's ridiculous, right? How the hell did any of this benefit me? What was the value in that kind of game? Reality check, it had no positive impact on my life. If anything, it made me more stressed and I was putting way too much pressure on myself. 02:11 You see, stress consumed me as a kid and it didn't stop there. The smallest things would worry me. I was anxious, I would have panic attacks about things I couldn't control, but the one thing I actually could control was my thoughts about the thing I was stressing about. Imagine that it was a vicious cycle, but I didn't have the tools and I felt the overwhelm and I felt it often and it sucked. And it wasn't just Hillary as a kid, it was also the adult, me as well. Man, adulting, it can be hard, and it comes with its fair share of responsibility, doesn't it? But the bigger responsibility is not the task at hand, it's what I'm about to share with you right now. 03:01 I figured something out you can control much of what you're feeling by changing your mindset, your energy, your thoughts. This isn't woo-woo, this is neuroscience. And when I started to really do the inner work, when I found others who could guide me and support me on my journey, something really changed. I changed, and guess what? It's something I work at every day, because stress doesn't go away, turns up in life daily. The dif
Ep 146Ep146 - Leap! Brave Steps to Maximize the Gift of Time
Have you ever felt the weight of time, wishing for just a single day more to achieve your dreams? Time's elusive dance is the heartbeat of this episode, as we weave through the tapestry of a leap year's extra day—a gift of time. Along with listeners' shares, we ponder a number of ways you could enrich your life with those precious extra hours. From personal growth to the bliss of extra sleep, we explore the delicate balance of effort, surrender, and trust and take a brave leap forward to relinquish the reins of control, just a bit. Plus, a challenge that's like having me in your pocket whenever you need it. Download the FREE HUG It Out 5 Day Challenge! https://www.hilaryrusso.com/5daychallenge Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ ----- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ----- CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:21 Why do we have a leap year? 2:41 Audience shares. What they would do with extra time. 6:22 You choose to choose and the HUG it Out challenge. 8:22 Eight ways to leap into better health. 15:29 Closing thoughts --------- EPISODE TRANSCRIPT --------- 00:00 - Hilary Russo What would you do with one more day, if you were promised an extra 24 hours? How would you choose to spend that time, knowing that it was the only amount of time guaranteed to you? That's been on my mind a lot lately, especially with it being a leap year, a year that provides an extra day on the calendar, right? But here's the rub that day is not promised to you and it is not promised to me. What is promised is that the measure of time, that unit of time, is going to go on with or without you. So a calendar year is typically 365 days long, right? These so-called common years are the number of days it takes for the Earth to do a complete orbit around the sun, but 365 is actually the rounded number. It takes the Earth 365.242190 days, or five hours, 48 minutes and 56 seconds. That's almost six extra hours in that year, and that time has to be accounted for somehow. And that, my friends, is why we have February 29th. And I am not here to give you a science lesson, as nerdy as I might be, as interesting as it might be to you. I'm here to go back to that first question I asked you, with that extra day, if it was promised to you. What would you do to take the leap? 01:44 As I'm recording this, I'm on a deadline to get this episode done. Boy, oh boy, I could really use some extra time. It was in perfect Hilary fashion. It was the last minute idea that came to me ADHD brain was really showing up. Oh, I'll do an episode about this. And I started saying things to myself like oh, I could really use an extra day. If you're like me, I bet you catch yourself saying that too. Don't you Just give me a minute? Can I get a tea by the end of the day? Oh, the hours are flying by. I mean, the list goes on and on, with all the excuses, right. In fact, I recently asked you about this very thing, both in my Havening Happy Hour and then on social media. I asked you what would you do if you had more time? What brave leap would you take? And these were the replies that came back, and you might identify with some of them. 02:42 Ann said that she would use the time to promote her business and put herself out there more. Debbie would make a serious commitment and a plan for retirement. Rebecca would organize more activities and travel more with her kids. Matthew says work runs his life and he wants to relax more. Beverly wants more peace and tranquility in this last part of her life. Diane wants to build a website. Shelly wants time to work on her speaking and training business. Beth is leaping into making that long-term Italian visa a reality. Amy says she's got a big move coming up and that will likely shift her business. 03:17 Julie is thinking if I had an extra day, I would launch my new podcast. Now there's a lot of wood is going out there instead of leaps. Right, this is a "no woulds zone. No woods just when what a could have showed a product. So when is now the right time? And the answer is in the question. You need to trust. Stop micromanaging the universe. That's not your job. Show up, be trust and let it do the work for you. Right, surrender and release. And then there's that one leap I hear about the most. 04:03 If I had more time, if I had an extra hour or two, I would sleep more. We are a society, a nation and even a world that's really lacking sleep. And if you want to learn more about this, I actually shared all about sleep and our need for optimal sleep in episode 140 of the HIListically Speaking Podcast with sleep expert Molly Eastman. She was my guest on the show and she shared a lot of great advice on how to get optimal sleep. So be sure
Ep 145Ep145 - Widow Your Way from Grief to Resilience with Rebecca Johnson
When it comes to grief, it's possible to live happily…even after. Rebecca Johnson knows her fair share of loss. Just weeks after the sudden death of her husband, she found out she had a rare and inoperable eye cancer. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, Rebecca shares how an unexpected twist of humor and courage was the calling she needed to press "record" and heal. By sharing the message to "Widow Your Way", she found resiliency and community with a mission to take back control and find joy in the everyday, no matter the loss. Connect with Rebecca and tune into her podcast Love is Not Dead…Just My Husband on any podcast platform. https://www.instagram.com/loveisnotdead_justmyhusband/ https://www.facebook.com/loveisnotdeadjustmyhusband If you're struggling to find your way through a loss in your life, let's see if Havening is right for you on your healing journey. Book a complimentary clarity call and let's HUG it Out and heal. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout If this episode has touched, moved and inspired you, pay it forward and consider leaving a rating and review wherever you're tuning in. Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ------ 00:00 Navigating Widowhood and Overcoming Loss 00:30 Transforming Traumas Into Triumphs 05:06 The Power of Podcasting 08:21 Gratitude, Loss, and Legacy 12:21 Embracing Widowhood and Overcoming Challenges 29:43 Empowering Widows Through Personalized Grieving 33:44 Self Care and Dating Adventures 42:45 Word Association Game in Podcast 46:29 Connect With Rebecca Johnson's Podcast --------- EPISODE TRANSCRIPT --------- 00:00 - Rebecca Johnson (Guest) For me, it turned out that my widowhood journey was nothing about my husband. It's not. Being a widow has absolutely nothing to do with your dead husband. It's all about you. You are the widow. It's called widowhood for a reason. It's your journey, it's about you. 00:25 - Hilary Russo (Host) Well, one of my favorite sayings is you choose to choose. I know you've heard me say that before if you've been tuning into HIListically Speaking for some time, and it's really a reminder that we truly can change our thoughts and then change our lives in that very moment. Right, and it doesn't mean that we should not feel our feelings or our emotions, it doesn't mean we should ignore the upsets or the traumas that have happened in our lives. But by choosing to choose, we have this ability to really take our lives back and I know I've been on that place a few times myself to turn those traumas into the triumphs, one day at a time. Rebecca Johnson, you reminded me of that Now. For those of you who don't know Rebecca, you will after this. 01:14 She is the host of the podcast Love is Not Dead. Just my husband and I met you during she Podcast Live and also PodFest, and while I was the one presenting on the stage and sharing and hopefully people were learning something from what I had to share. I learned so much from you, just having a little time with you during those four days down in Florida, and I just am so elated to have you here to share your story, to share parts of who you are, to share your podcast and just really be in the room with you right now. 01:46 - Rebecca Johnson (Guest) So thank you so much for being here, sweet Rebecca oh my God, that is so flattering and I mean thank you for having me. I was so ecstatic whenever you said you wanted me on your podcast because your energy when I met you after the award and you came up and talked to me I've honestly only met one other stranger in that same type of scenario where their energy just drew me to you. 02:22 - Hilary Russo (Host) So yeah, I'm elated and touched by that and I think you know for me, thank you for that, for me, putting out that beacon, we tend to align with those who will mirror back at us. Right, it's being in the room, it's creating that vibe and, you know, it's like the saying like survive a tractor tribe, right, and we are in that room with a tribe of people, with a group of women who are podcasters, who are making a difference in this world. Plus, can I just add, before we go any further and into your story, this gal won, like the People's Choice Award during that she Podcast Live. You won the Sonic Bloom Award, which was like the award of awards that everybody thought, your podcast, which you've only had for a year. Again, love is not dead, just my husband. We're going to talk about that. 03:13 So, congratulations, thank you, love that and you know, for those of you who do not know Rebecca yet, like I said, you will, but she is a widow. She has survived multiple losses in a ve
Ep 144Ep144 - Khara Croswaite Brindle: Ruptured Relationships: How to Heal and Understand Mother-Daughter Estrangement
When the bond between a mother and daughter fractures, the emotional fallout can resonate through every aspect of life. Hilary Russo guides this raw and enlightening conversation with celebrated family therapist Khara Croswaite Brindle, author of "Understanding Ruptured Mother-Daughter Relationships," and peels back the layers of this deeply personal issue. During this intimate conversation, Hilary and Khara unravel the tangled reasons behind daughters distancing themselves from their mothers, from toxic dynamics to ancestral traumas. Addressing the societal stigmas that often accompany the decision to step back, we shed light on the importance of setting boundaries for emotional health, and how the decision to create distance is rarely taken lightly, but often a necessary step in preserving one's well-being. Touched, moved, or inspired by this conversation? Consider sharing it with someone you know and leave a rating/review wherever you are tuning in. Connect with Khara and grab a copy of her books: https://www.estrangementenergycycle.com/ https://www.facebook.com/croswaitecounselingpllc https://www.linkedin.com/in/kharacroswaite/ https://www.instagram.com/kharacroswaite/ Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS --------- (0:00:00) - The Rise of Mother-Daughter Estrangement Therapy, abuse, trauma, and generational trauma influence the rising trend of estrangement in mother-daughter relationships. (0:04:32) - Understanding and Navigating Family Estrangement Family estrangement's multigenerational impact, forms of distance, setting boundaries, therapy for affected family members, maintaining emotional well-being. (0:13:54) - Understanding the Estrangement Energy Cycle The emotional journey of adult daughters dealing with ruptured mother-daughter relationships and how educators can support children experiencing family estrangement. (0:22:16) - Healing Estranged Mother-Daughter Relationships Nature's complexities of mother-daughter estrangement, generational trauma, and attachment styles, and the value of therapy and coaching for healing. (0:28:09) - Understanding Mother-Daughter Estrangement and Healing Healing and reconciliation between estranged mothers and daughters, with emphasis on individual journeys and the importance of mutual effort. (0:36:16) - Understanding and Healing Mother-Daughter Estrangement Healing estranged mother-daughter relationships, prioritizing mental health, and using self-regulation tools like Havening for self-empowerment. --------- EPISODE TRANSCRIPT --------- 0:00:00 - Khara Croswaite Brindle I think a lot of people are now talking about it. I think it's always been happening, but maybe we're seeing an uptick because people have are going to therapy, they have language for it. Now they're looking at this from the lens of abuse and trauma and that's justifying some of the rupture, the distance between parents and their children. 0:00:18 - Hilary Russo One in 12. One in 12 people my friends are estranged from a family member and it's a choice that can be very challenging for many. But when you do the inner work, when you create the space for healthier relationships and for a better understanding of self, it really can pave the way for a new you. And when it comes to mother and daughter estrangement especially where there's been possibly repeated trauma, discomfort, pain, misunderstanding even a daughter's choice to cut her ties from her mother can come with so much emotion and still much pain in the healing process. Khara Crosswaight Brindle is a licensed therapist who wrote the book about this very thing understanding ruptured mother-daughter relationships, guiding the adult daughter's healing journey through the estrangement energy cycle. And I have to say, Khara, this is such an important topic because of the clients that I see. There's so much parental child estrangement that I've been seeing more so than probably years ago. I feel like people are coming into their own and I'm really happy you're here to talk about this topic because it is a important one and I know you specifically focus on the mother-daughter in this book specifically, but this is happening with many relationships. So thank you for being here, thank you for sharing your voice and your wisdom, thank you, Hilary. 0:01:48 - Khara Croswaite Brindle Yeah, I'm excited to talk about it. It's on the rise, so let's talk about it. 0:01:53 - Hilary Russo So let us talk about that when we say it's on the rise and we hear numbers like one in 12, one in 12 seems like a pretty big number when you think about in the grand scheme of things,
Ep 143Ep143 - ADHD: How to Find Solutions with Dr. Connie McReynolds
Is your child acting out and has problems paying attention? What you've been told about their "willful bad behavior" could be wrong and Dr. Connie McReynolds has neurofeedback to back it up. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, Hilary Russo asks Dr. Connie how she has been able to Solve the ADHD Riddle and the traumas associated with it. Including, anxiety, anger, panic attacks, conduct disorder, depression, chronic pain, cognitive decline, and PTSD Plus, she answers listeners' questions to help you understand what your child needs in order to thrive. Grab the Book! "Solving the ADHD Riddle" by Dr. Connie McReynolds https://amzn.to/46XfZWR (Amazon) Take Dr. Connie's free assessment: 7 Signs Your Child May Have Auditory or Visual Processing Problems https:/www.conniemcreynolds.com Connect with Dr. Connie: https://www.facebook.com/people/Dr-Connie-McReynolds/100024845513843/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/connie-mcreynolds-ph-d-463502b/ https://www.instagram.com/morningstarneurofeedback/ Connect with Hilary: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Chapters 0:00 Intro 4:25 Neurofeedback and ADHD 7:00 Changing the narrative about behavior 8:40 Information on free assessment 11:00 Hyperactivity, neurodivergence, and bullying 13:55 auditory and visual processing 15:25 You can teach an old brain new tricks: ADHD and adults 22:55 Biggest challenge writing Solving the ADHD Riddle 25:55 Listeners' questions 31:33 Hilary shares the THINK method 39:00 Rapid Fire game 39:56 Dr. Connie McReynold's final thoughts 41:07 Hilary's close: Show and guest info TRANSCRIPT Dr. Connie McReynolds And so if we change the narrative and how we think about what's going on and what behaviors mean, if we broaden that discussion, if we open that conversation to a different level, and we understand what's really going on behind the behaviors or underneath the behaviors, what's actually causing the behaviors, then we can guide this child in ways that we would not be able to otherwise. Hilary Russo Does this sound familiar? Your child is acting out. They aren't paying attention. They can't even follow simple tasks and whether it's coming from you or the teachers, you're just at your wits end. I know there are a number of listeners out there that are going, Oh, yeah, Hilary , tell me about it. And you're running out of therapies. You're running out of medication ideas and you're just over it and you want to know if there's other solutions. Well, that is exactly why we have Dr. Connie McReynolds here today. She's a licensed psychologist. She's a professor, rehabilitation counselor. She's also a podcaster. Love my fellow podcasters who is on the road to map the brain to give you alternative approaches to change the narrative around ADHD, whether we're talking about your child. Where we are talking about you because we're going to touch on that today. So Dr. Connie, thank you so much for joining me on HIListically Speaking, for being a voice and just having the ability to talk about this openly because it really is a topic. I think we're not only hearing about how to manage the ADHD with our children, but also ourselves. We're finding out these things about ourselves and starting to ask questions. Dr. Connie McReynolds Oh, thank you, Hilary, for having me. It's a pleasure to be here today and I look forward to our conversation. Hilary Russo Your book, Solving the ADHD Riddle, which is the real cause and lasting solutions to your child's struggle to learn. What was your reason for writing this book? I'm going to show this to those who are watching on YouTube, but what made you go here when you actually, as a psychologist, have been holding space for those who are age five, all the way up to 95? Why the kids? Dr. Connie McReynolds So over the 15 years that I've been doing this work, um, I, and I'll back up just a skosh, which is it really goes back to my own childhood, which my mother taught second grade for 32 years in the same classroom. And so I come from a long line of teachers and people and my mother was quite innovative. In her world, she brought typewriters into the second grade, you know, 30 some years ago, 40 some years ago, because she knew that's where the future was going. And she thought, let's teach these kiddos how to do this. And so fast forward really into my work, I've been a psychologist in the rehabilitation counseling field for well over 30 years now. And my goal has always been strength based assessment and understanding how people are functioning in their life. Looking at these areas that maybe aren't working well for them, it's like, well, what is this? And then about 15 years ago when I st
Ep 142Ep142 - Marie Diamond: How to Feng Shui the Life
Picture this: your life as a harmonious masterpiece, with every aspect vibrating in sync with The Universe. Your home, the ultimate haven where serenity and balance reign supreme. Sounds dreamy, right? But, where do you begin? Consider this episode your golden ticket to transformation, balance and harmony with guest Master Trainer of Feng Shui and Law of Attraction, Marie Diamond joins Hilary Russo on the HIListically Speaking Podcast. Connect with Marie Diamond mariediamond.com or on social media @mariediamondofficial Grab Marie'sbook: Feng Shui Your Life: https://amzn.to/4bt4PKN (Amazon) Subscribe & like wherever you tune in so you never miss an episode. Connect with Hilary: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: hhttps://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Music by Lipbone Redding httphttps://lipbone.com Marie also dives deep into listeners' questions, unraveling the mysteries of Feng Shui one query at a time. It's like having a cosmic consultant right in your earbuds, helping you curate a life that resonates with prosperity, love, and success. Chapters: 0:00 Intro 1:50 What is Feng Shui 3:30 Marie's near death experience 5:35 Marie's introduction to Feng Shui 9:32 Feng Shui Your Life book 15:32 Working with the environment 16:30 Bringing in romance 18:20 How to Feng Shui your bedroom for love 22:20 Using the Diamond Compass 27:00 How to feng shui your office for success 35:30 How has Feng Shui worked for you? 37:00 Why decluttering is important for your chi & health 41:00 The importance of crystals 41:55 Marie answers listeners' questions 42:16 Personal direction. What is it? 45:00 Paintings in the bedroom 47:00 Vision board and success 48:45 Objects help! Marie and Stephen Spielberg 51:15 What if you don't like your home? 54:00 Colors in your home 55:55 Rapid fire game 58:15 Marie's words of wisdom 59:00 Hilary's closing thoughts TRANSCRIPT HILARY OK my friends as we know sometimes all it takes is a simple shift to make things look and feel better in our lives right? You adjust yourself all the time when you're sitting in a chair when your body's feeling uncomfortable and I'm constantly talking about the power of altering your thoughts your moods your behaviors your habits to find that calm in the chaos through Neuroscience . But what about your home what about your respite? That place that you come home to every day what if a simple positioning of a desk or removing a picture or even changing the color or moving a plant can add Fortune, health, love, wisdom and so much more into your life. I wish I had Marie Diamond in my pocket to help when I was making shifts in my own life and in my own home but guess what she is here she is the most renowned feng shui master in the world you may recognize her from the global sensation The Secret or her Mind Valley class or just reading any of her amazing books and she's here now on HIListically Speaking to answer listeners questions and share more about her new book "Feng Shui Your Life a beginner's guide to using your home to attract the life of your dreams". Marie Marie. This is a gift having you here thank you so much for joining us on the show. MARIE oh thank you so much Hilary it's it's such a pleasure to be here and all your listen listeners and viewers. HILARY you are a gift in this area in so many areas I mean I know that you are a master of the Law of Attraction of f and I think what I want to do is really start out first by those who might not be familiar with Feng Shui if you can just share what that is and we'll go from there. MARIE: Feng Shui is an energy system that you can compare with like acupuncture for the body so but this is like acupuncture for the home. So to create energy flow we're going to use colors, positioning of furniture to make sure we're in the right location in the landscape looking at what is inside the house of uh images um so everything around us is like I call it a three-dimensional vision board and so it's all affecting us on a subconscious level. And feng shui means literally wind and water. It's a Chinese system for more than 3,000 years and it really is creating flow and it's like connect with the energy the chi that we have and that's why wind and water are the two major elements that we're tapping into. That's why water is considered creating abundance and wind bread is creating life force and that's why we're using the compass directions to make that all happen so this this is such a spiritual journey too. HILARY For those who might not be into the spiritual so much and I think we're seeing more people getting into that this is something that's very simple to do in your own home a simple adjustments in your own home that can create that flow right that chi in the home but for you I mea
Ep 141Ep141 - Emme: What is True Beauty? Being Mind and Body Positive
Oprah called her Godmother of the full-figured woman for good reason. As a woman with curves, Supermodel Emme faced challenges and criticism but stood undeterred. Not only did she conquer the fashion world, but she also left an indelible mark on the way we perceive beauty, body positivity, and self-love. For Emme, being a supermodel also means being a role model. It comes with a responsibility that goes well beyond the runway. On this week's HIListically Speaking Podcast, Emme shares her story from athlete to mental health advocate. Get inspired as she shares her mission which is encouraging young women everywhere to embrace their true beauty. She gets clear on the power of self-talk and what it means to show up and be true to yourself. How a slap from The Universe opened her eyes to the need to go within and focus on holistic well-being. From snow to sound…she shares two activities that keep her centered. This episode is a celebration of individuality, diversity, and embracing your unique beauty. Connect with Emme and learn more about her True Beauty Foundation by visiting her website www.emmestyle.com or social media @theofficialemme @true_beauty_foundation Touched, moved, or inspired by this episode? Consider paying it forward to someone who would align with the conversation. And consider leaving your thoughts in a rating/review wherever you're tuning in. Need a mind and body positive pick me up? Want to recharge that resolution? Come and be kind to your mind on January 31 at 7 pm ET with the return of the virtual Havening Happy Hour. Registration is required. Claim your spot here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYpf-2tqjouE925fGngXlJdIQbY1OAetxVM Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 140Ep140 - Mollie Eastman: Sweet Dreams: Useful Skills for Better Sleep
I don't sleep well. How about you? According to the National Center on Aging, 936 million adults around the world are estimated to have mild to severe OSA and I'm one of them. If left untreated, sleep apnea can lead to heart, kidney, and metabolic health complications. And while this is just one disorder, sleep disorders are part of a global epidemic that threatens the health and quality of life of up to 45% of the world's population. Before you grab the CPAP assuming that's your only solution, I found the expert who understands that sleep is a skill. Mollie Eastman had her struggles with sleep. Today, this recovered insomniac is a leading authority in helping you find your best rest with possibilities you may have never considered. During this episode of HIListically Speaking, Mollie answers listeners questions on everything including: Getting good sleep when you travel and finding balance in the bedroom without smothering your partner with a pillow. She also shares several high and low-tech strategies to optimize the bedroom Plus, the types of professionals that could help you on your road to better rest that you may have never knew existed! Connect with Mollie Eastman at www.sleepisaskill.com or on all social media: @sleepisaskill Take advantage of her FREE PDF: The Optimized Bedroom: 18 Strategic Ways to Create a Better Sleep Environment bit.ly/3vEgxSS Ready to get into a sleep state in minutes? Book a complimentary call to find out how Havening can help you rest best, like it did me! https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Book mentioned during this conversation: "Sharing the Covers: Every Couple's Guide to Better Sleep", Wendy Troxel, PhD Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 139Ep139 - Dr. Romie Mushtaq: How to Cure a Busy Brain
Get ready for a mind-blowing conversation as Dr. Romie Mushtaq opens up to Hilary and listeners about her groundbreaking book, The Busy Brain Cure: The Eight-Week Plan to Find Focus, Tame Anxiety & Sleep Again. Stress and burnout almost killed this board-certified physician. After undergoing life-saving surgery, Dr. Romie set out on a global journey to research and heal the negative impact of stress on our brains and bodies. During this conversation with host Hilary Russo: Discover the secrets of how to turn chaos into calm with actionable steps from ADHD to insomnia. Learn why "diet" is a four-letter word that can lead to food shaming and a disconnect from your ancestral roots. Witness a personal moment that Dr. Romie experienced for the first-time during her conversation with Hilary, and you have a front-row seat. Learn more about Dr. Romie Mushtaq and order her book by visiting her website : https://drromie.com/book/ You can also connect with her on social media @drromie Ready to take the FREE busy brain test? Click this link: https://drromie.com/busy-brain-test/ Want the recipe for Dr. Romie's Dal Chawal that she mentioned in the show, sign up to receive the Brain Candy newsletter and we'll send it to you. www.hilisticallyspeaking.com Book a complimentary call with Hilary and learn how to change the brain with Havening Techniques. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 138Ep138 - Rewind: The Best Conversations of 2023
It's difficult to narrow down a year's worth of conversations when every moment has meaning. But, we heard your call and listeners did the choosing. This HIListically Speaking Podcast episode is a collection of some of your favorites of 2023. Those trauma-to-triumph stories that helped you HUG it Out with yourself and know that you're not alone in the battle. It's what helped you find the humor in the healing, the understanding in the uncertainty, and the growth from self-gratitude. From abductions and addictions to abuse and afflictions. You heard stories from the heart. Through those conversations, you discovered courage, connection, resiliency, and realignment toward a better tomorrow. If there was ever a time to get tuned in, tapped in, and turned on to the power of self-empowerment, this is the episode. During this episode, you'll be reintroduced to the following guests and topics: Jessica Buchanan (Ep 122 ): a hostage's story of survival in the desert. Vanessa Reiser (EP 126): a therapist's race to beat the narcissist JD Roberto (Ep 130) on good communication can make or break a relationship Amber Romaniuk (Ep 127) takes us from self-sabotage to body freedom and how to change your relationship with food. Dominique D'Vita (Ep 117) talks tantra and being soulfully sexual. Your stories about being child-free or childless (Ep 121 & 124) Daniel Patterson (Ep 123) opens up about sobriety and why youth mental health is at stake. Hall of Famer Siri Lindley (Ep 118), gets you back on track to turn any failure into a victory. You can listen to any of these episodes in their entirety wherever you tune in and subscribe. Or on the podcast website at https://hilisticallyspeaking.com/ Join me at She Podcast Live: Unplugged and PodFest Expo this January in Orlando, FL. I'll be speaking on how to retrain the brain during She Podcast Live. Get 20% off with the code HILARY. https://www.shepodcasts.com/spl/ Want to learn more about the HUG it Out® Method and how you can work with Hilary personally to bring more healing, understanding, and gratitude into your own life? Book a 1:1 with Hilary today. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Join the HUG it Out® Collective Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 137Ep137- Today I Am Grateful For... (Voices of Gratitude)
"𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗜 𝗮𝗺 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗳𝗼𝗿…". How would you finish that sentence? During this very special Thanksgiving holiday episode, as we continue to honor National Gratitude Month, Hilary hands the mic over to listeners to share their gratitude moments and amplify messages of appreciation and hope from around the world. This episode of 𝙃𝙄𝙇𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙎𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜® is sure to hit the heartstrings and act as a reminder that even during difficult times, there is much to be thankful for. As a bonus, and in collaboration with Grateful Peoples, a non-profit organization on a mission to put gratitude journals in the hands of school children around the world, Hilary announces the winner of the Gratitude Giveaway. One lucky listener will receive a Grateful Peoples Gratitude Journal to continue their journey to be kind to their mind. If you enjoyed this episode, pay it forward and share it with someone who will benefit from the message of greater gratitude. You can also share your own appreciation and leave a rating and review. Want to learn more about the HUG it Out® Method and how you can work with Hilary personally to bring more healing, understanding, and gratitude into your own life? Book a 1:1 with Hilary today. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Join the HUG it Out® Collective Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 136Ep136 - Shannon Huffman Polson: The Grit Factor: How to Find Resiliency, Courage and Purpose
In this awe-inspiring episode, Hilary welcomes the extraordinary Shannon Huffman Polson, a beacon of strength, resilience, and unyielding determination. Shannon's life story reads like an epic novel, filled with triumphs over adversity. During this episode of HIListically Speaking, she shares the invaluable wisdom behind her grit and leadership. From her groundbreaking achievements as one of the first women to fly the Apache helicopter in the U.S. Army to her remarkable journey through grief and loss, Shannon's experiences are a testament to the human spirit's capacity to rise above even the darkest moments. Tune in as she imparts powerful insights on how to harness resilience, embrace challenges, and emerge stronger than ever before. Through her compelling narratives and profound wisdom, Shannon will inspire you to unlock your own reservoirs of inner strength and leadership. This episode is a beacon of hope for anyone facing adversity, reminding us that within every challenge lies an opportunity for growth and transformation. Prepare to be moved, uplifted, and inspired to rise, just as Shannon has done time and time again. Grab a copy and download Shannon's Grit Factor Manifesto for FREE. https://training.thegritinstitute.com/the-grit-factor-manifesto Connect with Shannon on social media at @shannonhpolson. Check out the Grit Institute on YouTube: @thegritinstitute Learn more about The Grit Institute by visiting thegritinstitute.com. You can also check out her books at The Grit Factor and North of Hope at shannonpolson.com Share your voice of gratitude on the HIListically Speaking Podcast. Visit speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking and press record. Your message will be shared in an upcoming episode. Want to know how you can turn your own traumas into triumphs? Book a free session with me today and HUG it Out for your health. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso HUG it Out Collective on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast 𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗛𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗥𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗼 Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 135Ep135 - Teddy Droseros: How to Grow Your Gratitude
Did you know that a 5 minute daily gratitude journal practice can increase long-term well-being by 10%? In fact, several studies show that writing down details of positive experiences you have throughout the day, week or even the month can help condition your brain to be more appreciative of the things you have in your life. No wonder Teddy Droseros is on a mission to encourage more Grateful Peoples in the world at an early age and put more gratitude in the classroom. What started as a project to help him overcome grief and create more happiness in his life, turned into a revolution that is now impacting school children in a number of countries. Teddy's Grateful Peoples project is happiness between the pages and he's sharing his story on HIListically Speaking. Enter the Gratitude Giveaway for a chance to win one of the Grateful Peoples journals and have your voice heard on an upcoming episode during National Gratitude Month. Just go to SpeakPipe.com/HIListicallySpeaking and press record. Follow the prompts to share your gratitude message. If you leave your message by November 8, 2023, you'll be entered to win a Grateful Peoples journal and your recording will be shared on the show. Want to learn more about Teddy and Grateful Peoples, go to grateful peoples.com or visit the Instagram @gratefulpeoples. Sponsor a student or classroom by donating at https://gratefulpeoples.com/donate Support by grabbing a Journal or Book at https://gratefulpeoples.com/shop Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 134Ep134 - Maria Pendolino: Raising Your Voice about Disability Employment
In an industry where representation of disabled individuals is distressingly rare, there are rock stars out there who are amplifying their voices in order to change that. Award-winning professional voice-over actor Maria Pendolino is one of them. At 22, she was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis, a painful chronic condition that can affect mobility. But that didn't stop her from moving mountains for others just like her. As part of Disability Employment Awareness Month, Maria shares more about what's being done to create more authentic representation in film, television, and the voice-over industry. Including what you can do to be part of the change for yourself and those you love. Being the daughter of a disabled father, this is a subject close to my heart that you've heard me talk about on the HIListically Speaking Podcast. But this time, we're taking a bolder step forward in what Maria calls, " a world that isn't made for us." You can connect with Maria on her website at voicebymaria.com. Check out the Disabled Voice Actors Directory: https://www.disabledvoiceactors.com/ Be sure you're subscribed to HIListically Speaking, wherever you're tuning in, and consider leaving a rating and/or review to us know how we're doing. And if this episode touched, moved or inspired you, please pay it forward. HIListically Speaking is looking to collaborate. If you're a business interested in sponsoring the show, let's have a conversation. Email [email protected] Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 133Ep133: Vinnie Potestivo: The Power of IP: How to Own Your Podcast and Your Brand
If you think you own your brand and content, think again. You'd be surprised how many podcasters and creators find themselves in a funk or at a loss of control over their own intellectual property. Vinnie P to the rescue! An advocate for independent creators, Vinnie Potestivo is an Emmy Award-Winning Media Advisor and podcaster who grows personal brands & founder-led companies by scaling content distribution, visibility & media reach. If you're a podcaster with unanswered questions, this conversation is for you. Expect some "Vinspiration" that will help you take your show and your brand to the next level, including: The benefits of knowing your niche, trademarking, and picking your platform. The importance of influencer marketing indexes, IMDB, and discoverability. How sponsorships and monetization are closer than you think. Why newsletters, LinkedIn, and ChatGPT shouldn't be ignored. Plus, Vinnie opens up about imposter syndrome and how he turned his traumas into his superpowers to be the #1 source of creative and career inspiration. Get ready for the masterclass you have been looking for, because Vinnie wants you to win. Get started and grab your FREE Growth Kit at vpe.tv/hub And be sure to check out Vinne's podcast and website ihaveapodcast.com for more Vinspiration. Connect with Vinnie on social at @vinniepotestivo @ihaveapodcast or on his YouTube: youtube.com/vpetv Be sure you're subscribed to HIListically Speaking, wherever you're tuning in, and consider leaving a rating and/or review where you tune in. HIListically Speaking is looking to collaborate. If you're a business interested in sponsoring the show, let's have a conversation. Email [email protected] Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Edited by 2Market Media Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 132Ep132: Janine Charron: Face-Off: Embracing Mental Fitness, Breast Cancer and Life Beyond Sports
When it comes to navigating some big storms, former professional women's hockey player Janine Charron says, "Game On!" Janine has always embraced the T.I.G.E.R. within. It's something she not only learned at an early age when she hit the ice, but the sage advice from her dad and grandfather. And that wisdom and discipline have helped her through some difficult times. From bankruptcy to breast cancer and divorce and deal breakers, Janine has treated it as part of life's currency: which means continuing to show up and keep going for the goal. But this is more than about the game of hockey. As she says, sports are what you do, they're not who you are. On this episode of HIListically Speaking , Janine shares more about life's playbook and getting to "know thyself". The mental fitness that's necessary to understand your values, boundaries, and standards. The tools to help your kids self-lead and be mental and physical athletes. How sitting in the silence was the biggest lesson after her breast cancer diagnosis and the healing hand that was the wake-up call. Plus she not only answers your questions about showing up for your child athlete and yourself to build resiliency. Connect with Janine Charron Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janine.goulet/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tigermethodjanine/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@janinecharron Be sure you're subscribed to HIListically Speaking, wherever you're listening, and consider leaving a rating and/or review where you tune in. Join the HUG it Out Collective on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 131Ep131: Dr. Robyn McKay - Spiritual Intelligence: Bridging the Gap Between Science and Spirit
Have you been told you're too "woo woo" for the corporate world or even in your personal life? You may be an empath. But here's the deal, staying true to WHO you ARE is more important than WHAT you DO. After all, you're a human being over a human doing, aren't you? On this episode of HIListically Speaking, award-winning psychologist Dr. Robyn McKay taps into your spiritual intelligence. It's a conversation that will have you breaking barriers between science and spirituality and, learning how to trust your own intuition for the win. You will discover: Why she believes happiness is overrated. What you can do to tackle burnout while protecting your boundaries. How to nurture your relationships with time, money, and work or career. Plus, a 5-minute free training to tap into your own spiritual intelligence and energy is available on her website: https://drrobynmckay.com/shield Connect with Dr. Robyn: Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/robynmckayphd LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynmckay1/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.robynmckay/ Listen to Becoming the Channel Podcast https://www.drrobynmckay.com/podcast Be sure you're subscribed to HIListically Speaking, wherever you're listening, and consider leaving a rating and/or review where you tune in. Join the HUG it Out Collective on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Register for the next FREE Havening Happy Hour virtual experience Sept 27th 12PM ET: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYlceyppzooE9XfGYP5cUpyBcC8aGHqzwfu Share your gratitude moment and amplify your voice on the HIListically Speaking Podcast : https://www.speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 130Ep130 - JD Roberto: Let Your Vibe Attract Your Tribe
EWhen it comes to building community, connection, and trust are priority number one. And being the leader of the pack comes with a lot of responsibility. JD Roberto knows that all too well and does not take that lightly. For 8 years, he has been the host of the live-streaming fitness show Daily Burn. To the members, he's considered more than the guy on the screen. He's a mentor, a motivator, and a friend. Now, he's taking his talents to the next level and putting out some good vibes in the health and wellness space. But not without people learning a little more about this host with the most. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, my friend JD shares some stories that have helped him turn his own traumas into triumphs. Including: Tough lessons that have helped him become a better husband, father, and man. He opens up for the first time about his service and advocacy for protecting survivors of domestic violence. His first break in the biz and what he learned about using his voice for good. Plus he answers your questions on everything from self-care routines and education to problem solving and being present. Raise the Good Vibes and join JD's wellness group https://goodvibes.jdroberto.com/ Follow JD on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jdroberto Join the HUG it Out Collective on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Register for the next FREE Havening Happy Hour virtual experience Sept 27th 12PM ET: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYlceyppzooE9XfGYP5cUpyBcC8aGHqzwfu Share your gratitude moment and amplify your voice on the HIListically Speaking Podcast : https://www.speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking Interested in giving Daily Burn a try? Use this code to get a 30 day FREE trial plus 20% off your subscription if you join! https://dbrn.co/hilaryrusso Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 129Ep 129 How Secondary Trauma Impacts You
You didn't have to be at Ground Zero to feel the impact of Sept 11th. Events like 9/11, can have an impact on you just by witnessing it through the media or hearing other other people's first-hand traumas. And when Mother Nature shows her power, we feel powerless. This day and experience is just one of many that can create duress. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, Hilary not only shares her personal experience as both a health journalist and trauma-informed emotional health practitioner who has been confronted with secondary traumatic stress, but offers solutions to protect your own emotional well-being. During this episode, you'll discover: The difference between secondary traumatic stress, compassion fatigue and burnout What signs to look for that could be effective your mind, body, and spirit Tools and resources to help you build resiliency and emotional stability Plus a chance to share your voice on the podcast and HUG it Out! - EXPLORE HAVENING TECHNIQUES TRAININGS & WORKSHOPS https://www.hilaryrusso.com/training Register and attend the monthly, free Havening Happy Hours https://www.hilaryrusso.com/events GET BRAIN CANDY DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX https://www.hilaryrusso.com/braincandy Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 128Ep128 - Are You a Human Being or a Human Doing?
This mid summer check-in with Hilary will have you asking yourself, "Am I a human being or a human doing?" But even doing nothing IS something. And that "something" could be just what you need to support your emotional well-being. With August bringing the first of two full moons, Hilary will explore with you: Why this is the perfect time to get clear...mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. The importance of mental fitness and how community support matters. How o take a break and take action simultaneously with a special challenge that will help you clear the space with intention. Join the HUG it Out Collective on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hugitoutcollective Want to try Havening in a 1:1 session. Book here: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/
Ep 127Ep127 - Amber Romaniuk: How to Turn Self-Sabotage into Body Freedom
That negative self talk isn't doing you any favors. But somehow, you keep doing it, don't you? When it comes to body positivity, the roller coaster ride that follows the endless dieting and workout routine can really take a toll on your well-being; not only emotional and physically, but spiritually and energetically as well. And before you know it, self-sabotage becomes the name of the game. Amber Romaniuk knows the story all too well. Over a five year period, she spent more than $50,000 on binge foods, gained and lost over 1000 lbs and all the while trying to balance her hormones and digestion. But at some point, Amber said, "enough is enough" and got to the bottom of her limiting beliefs that were keeping her stuck. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, the Emotional Eating, Digestive and Hormone Expert Opens up about how she found her Body Freedom™ that lead to what she calls her "biggest healing miracle". You'll learn how to tap into your own intuition on a spiritual level to create your own miracles that lie within. And you'll see what it takes to kick that inner critic and cravings monster to the curb. We're not sugar coating anything during this conversation. So tune in now. Find out where where you stand when it comes to emotional eating by taking a special quiz designed by Amber personally https://amberapproved.ca/emotional-eating-quiz/ And then meet with her 1:1 for a Body Freedom™ session. https://amberapproved.ca/body-freedom-consultation/ Connect with her on social via Instagram and YouTube: https://instagram.com/amberromaniuk and https://www.youtube.com/@amberromaniuk Want to learn more about upcoming guests, giveaways and how you can be part of the HIListically Speaking Thrive Hive, sign up here: https://hilaryrusso.com/thrivehive Get social and connect with Hilary: Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone.com Edited by 2MM
Ep 126Ep126 - Vanessa Reiser: Running from the Narcissist
ENarcissists spend their life blaming you for the things they did. Let that sink in for a moment. If you've been in a relationship with a narcissist, you get it. It can be personal, professional, family or friend. And it's not until you've cut the cord that you see the manipulative tactics used to keep you small and wondering what's wrong with you. From gaslighting to love bombing and everything in between, you feel like you are stuck, need to change and when you finally wake up, getting out can seem far out of reach. Licensed therapist Vanessa Reiser has been there. And because of my own story of being in the relationship with a narcissist, I gravitated to her message. Let me tell you, she doesn't sugar coat when she shares… or runs. Running is Vanessa's own therapy. And since 2021, she's been hitting the pavement to raise awareness of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence every June. But this isn't just any run. Vanessa takes to the road in a wedding dress. I told you she was different. And this year, it's Connecticut that gets to cheer her on. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, we get the low down of living with a narcissist. But also, a few important facts that every person should know including: The difference between narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder and the red flags to look for. How Vanessa found her way out of the abuse and into the therapy chair supporting others on their journey. And where she learned about narcissism herself. You have to hear it to believe it. Plus, how you can follow or even join Vanessa on her run June 1 and 2 to show your support. Lace up, my friend. It's time to take back control…. Connect with Vanessa on social @vanessareiserlcsw or via her website tellatherapist.net Want to join her on the journey to fight domestic violence on June 1 and 2? Visit the link to the run to find out how: https://narcissisticabuserun.com/ If you or someone you know is possibly in an abusive relationship, please share this episode with them. And if you're in danger, contact the National Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline. 1-800-799-SAFE. You can also text "START" to 88788. Or visit the website for more resources: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/narcissism-and-abuse/ If you need support healing from a relationship with a narcissist, book a complimentary Havening session with me. One of my greatest gifts is having the tools to help me and my clients build confidence and resiliency again after leaving a narcissistic relationship. you can too. Just book the session at https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Get social and connect with Hilary: Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary RussoMusic by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM
Ep 125Ep125 - Dr. Don Wood: Reboot the Brain (Fix the Trauma Glitch)
You're not broken. Your internal operating system is just running too many programs and that's slowing you down. In a tech savvy world, imagine what would happen if you treated our brain and body like a computer. We spend a lot of time fixing the glitch with tech. Why can't we do it with our trauma and our minds? Dr. Don Wood says that most trauma work is about managing, coping and living with it. But his goal is to fix the glitch that is keeping you stuck in that brain looping pattern. In other words, he's helping you reboot the brain. During our conversation, he shares more about his patented and cutting edge TIPP method that has helped thousands get out of their heads, shift their minds and reach their peak performance. He gets personal about how his work helped saved his daughter's life from iIdiopathic pulmonary hemosiderosis (IPH), a rare autoimmune lung disorder. He shares a solution to panic attacks. Including what you can do to stop them before they stop you. Plus, why words matter and are the basis for what he calls the "emotional concussions" in your life. Learn more about Dr. Don Wood and The Inspired Performance Institute, visit http://www.gettipp.com/ You can also follow Dr. Don social media: https://www.facebook.com/inspiredperformanceinstitute http://instagram.com/drdonwood https://www.youtube.com/inspiredperformanceinstitute Consider sharing this episode with someone. And don't forget to subscribe and leave a rating/review wherever you tune in. Want to learn about Havening and Hilary's signature HUG it Out System to turn your traumas into triumphs? Book a complimentary session today: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Get social and connect with Hilary: Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM

Ep 124Ep124 - Voices of the Childless and Childfree
When I decided to share my story about not having children on Episode 121, I never imagined the amount of feedback I would receive from listeners wanting to share their voices. It was my hope that being vulnerable and creating a safe space would lead to a few shares. Instead, there were many. And this episode belongs to listeners sharing the "why" of being childless or childfree. From fear to freedom, mental health to miscarriages, infertitlity to indecision, and even grief to gratitude…it's all here. And no matter what the why of each person may be, the real lesson lies in community, compassion and a true sense of self. Thank you to all who pressed "record". And to those just tuning in, your support and love doesn't go unnoticed. Together, we're better…no matter what road you take. For we never walk alone. Want to share your thoughts about this episode to be played on the show? Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking and amplify. If this episode touched, moved and inspired you in any way. Or you know someone that would find it helpful, please pay it forward and share. Your thoughtful responses and ratings are always appreciated. If you listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, consider leaving review. And be sure to subscribe wherever you tune in. HIListically Speaking is on all platforms. While this topic may be a sensitive one for some, please know support is available. I'm offering complimentary Havening sessions to provide you with neuroscience based tools to self-regulate and be kind to your mind. Book here: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/

Ep 123Ep123 - Daniel Patterson: Sobriety & Life Beyond Booze
EAddiction can take you down one of two roads. For former teacher Daniel Patterson, he was one of the lucky ones to find the road to recovery. After taking his last drink on January 1, 2015 he made a promise to be better, for himself and others. Now over eight years sober, Daniel is on a mission to create a SoberTunity, an empowering community to connect, create and curate a life beyond booze. But still leave room to have uncomfortable conversations and "land the plane". During the conversation: Daniel opens up about his own recovery journey and how he faced a lot of resistance until he got the right support. He talks about the importance of having humor in the healing…the "traumady" that's necessary to connect. Daniel also gets real about his own suicide attempt and what it means to him to finally share his story. Plus, the importance of normalizing mental health in an effort to empower the next generation. If you or someone you know needs help or is in crisis, call/text 988 or chat by visiting 988lifeline.org. You can also find more resources that offer guidance and support at https://www.samhsa.gov/find-support/in-crisis To connect with Daniel and find out more about his SoberTunity Think Tank, visit https://www.sobertunity.com/ You can also connect with Daniel via social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pattersonperspective/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pattersonperspective Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pattersonperspectiveinc If you need further support in the trauma informed space to change your thoughts, moods, behaviors and habits, Hilary invites you to try a complimentary Havening session with me her to HUG it Out for good. You can set up a session by visiting the following link: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Interested in sharing your story of sobriety or road to recovery on HIListically Speaking? Just visit speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking and press record. Your story could be someone else's survival guide. Share today. If this episode touched, moved and inspired you in anyway, consider paying if forward and sharing it with someone who could find value in what we shared. Get social and connect with Hilary: Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM

Ep 122Ep122 - Jessica Buchanan: Kidnapped! A Hostage's Survival from Deserts to Mountaintops
One day you're a teacher doing humanitarian work in a foreign country. The next, you are in the middle of the Somali desert taken hostage and wondering if that day will be your last. That's what happened to Jessica Buchanan. She spent 93 days surviving in deplorable conditions. With her health deteriorating and questioning the moment she went against her gut, somehow the only woman taken hostage lived while others did not. With the help of the Navy's SEAL Team Six, her dramatic rescue has been a game changer in her life. Now, a New York Times best-selling author who was named by Newsweek as one of the 150 most fearless women who shake the world, she's building community, slaying advocacy and helping others heal. On this week's episode, Jessica shares her story, her passion and her next move that is taking her from deserts to mountaintops. Grab a copy of Jessica's books Impossible Odds: The Kidnapping of Jessica Buchanan and Her Dramatic Rescue by SEAL Team Six and her newest book From Deserts to Mountaintops by visiting her websites: www.jessbuchanan.com and www.desertstomountaintops.com Connect with Jessica: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicacbuchanan/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.landemalm/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-buchanan-tedx-speaker-nyt-bestselling-author-05ba7364/ Podcast: https://www.westatpod.com/ If you'd like to submit your voice and your why on the episode about being childless or childfree, or you just want to share what touch, moves and inspires you about the HIListically Speaking Podcast, go to https://www.Speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking and I'll share it on the show. Struggling to turn your own traumas to triumphs? Need support on your healing journey? Book a complimentary 1:1 session with Hilary. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Find out about the latest guests and giveaways or stay in the know about emotional wellness tips and workshops and speaking engagements with Hilary but joining her Brain Candy Thrive Hive. It's free and delivered strait to your inbox: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/thrivehive Be sure to connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: www.hilaryrusso.com Podcast Website: http://hilisticallyspeaking.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM
Ep 121Ep121 - Childless by Choice
I'm not a mom. And at 50, the chances are slim to none that I ever will be. At least, with science on my side. While I thought I found my peace with this some years ago, recently, something stirred the pot and it's why you're listening to this today. On this episode of the HIListically Speaking Podcast, I get personal with you about my why and choice to be childless. The hope for this episode is to create connection and open up the conversation with others like me who want to share their voice and their why on the show. Not having children can be influenced by a variety of factors...some positive and some negative. After listening to my story, I hope you'll find this space to be a trusted container to share your's as well. Are you ready to press record too? Do you know someone who is? If so, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking and share. Then your voices will be amplified on an upcoming episode in part two. If you are struggling with this and need further support, book a complimentary session with me to learn how to turn your traumas into triumphs. I'll share more about my HUG it Out approach and how Havening can help you heal. Book your free session here: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM
Ep 120Ep120 - Jessica Kupferman: Being Undeniable
And as the voices of women (and those who identify as) continue to grow at the microphone, something bigger is taking place. Jessica Kupferman knows this all too well. She is not only one of those voices at the mic, she's also co-founder of She Podcasts, a group that provides a space for women in the podcasting industry to find sisterhood in storytelling and inspiration through the airwaves….no matter what the topic. Her sweet spot? Helping podcasters set up systems for growth and training them on how to obtain sponsorship. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, Jessica opens up about the mess behind her message. From learning to live with ADHD to the loss of her daughter from a heroine overdose. And how a purpose-driven business woman found her home between the headphones. Come and be Undeniable and join Jessica and Hilary in Washington DC! She Podcast Live will take place June 19-22 and is one of the most supportive and inclusive conferences for women podcasters providing a place to learn, grow and succeed in the industry. You can grab your ticket by clicking this link https://shepodcasts.regfox.com/spl22 and using the code "HIL" for a discount off registration! Hilary will also be speaking at the conference about being Mindful at the Mic. And attendees will have a chance to work 1:1 with Hilary during the week on their own healing journey. To learn more, drop Hilary an email at [email protected] and put "podcaster" in the subject. She'll personally email you back with details on how to grab a slot, turn your traumas into triumphs and be more mindful at the mic everyday! Want to connect with Jess personally? You'll find her on social at @jesskupferman or @shepodcasts SHARE YOUR VOICE! Don't forget to share your gratitude moment at https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking You'll not only have your voice shared on an upcoming episode, you have a chance to win a Grateful Peoples journal. Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com Podcast Website: http://hilisticallyspeaking.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by https://www.lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM
Ep 119Ep119 - Life After 50: Wisdom from Listeners
Hilary hits a milestone. To honor this big birthday, she's handing over the microphone to her listeners over 50. Tune in as they offer sage advice, wonderful wisdom and thoughtful response about the beauty of life past 50. You'll hear from listeners, fellow podcasters and friends. Plus a special appearance by two people who have been in her life since day one. It's an episode like no other that will surely touch, move and inspire you to find the joy in every day and take no time for granted. If you want to share your own words of wisdom or have something you'd like to tell Hilary about this episode or others, you can leave your own voice message to be shared on the show at https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking Episodes Hilary mentioned at the beginning of the show: Episode 66: Dan Buettner, The Blue Zones, Secrets to Longevity Episode 101: Dr. Ellen Albertson, How to Rock Your Midlife Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM

Ep 118Ep118 - Siri Lindley: From Impossible to Possible (A World Champion's Journey)
Being an athlete puts a lot of stress on the body and the mind. So how do you turn the impossible into the possible when the finish line seems so far out of reach? Whether you're an athlete or not, adversities in life happen every day. But for two-time World Champion triathlete and Hall of Famer Siri Lindley, some steps forward were harder to take than others. During the conversation, Siri takes us back to what inspired her desire to be the best. Even when some days felt like the worst. She opens up about coming out to her family and how it paved a new path in her life. The lessons she learned from Tony Robbins that opened new doors as a coach and motivational speaker. How her devotion to horses taught her everything about forgiveness. And what it means to find a way, no matter what's blocking the path. Plus, her new book, "Finding a Way: Taking the Impossible and Making it Possible" hits the shelves this June. And you can win a signed autographed copy! Just visit https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso/ follow the details in the podcast post about this episode. Connect with Siri through her website https://www.sirilindley.com or on all social media platforms at @sirilindley. Your voice matters! Don't forget to share your thoughts on http://Speakpipe.com/hilisticallyspeaking and I'll share it on the show. Need support turning your traumas into triumphs? Connect with me and book a complimentary 1:1 session. We'll HUG it Out on your way to healing, understanding and gratitude towards self: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Edited by 2MM

Ep 117Ep117 - Dominique D'Vita: Tantra & Your Sexual Energy
EReady for a soulgasm? Then it's time to say "YES" to tantra. Get ready to "bliss out" and take a deep dive into the world of tantric sex with master tantra coach and registered nurse Dominique D'Vita. This conversation will open your eyes and chakras to the world of sexual energy and healing that will not only make you understand your own body better, but be a better lover in your partnerships. Dominique also opens up about her own soulgasm experience that left her blissed out. And she hasn't looked back since. You'll walk away with valuable tips on how to have better orgasms, better sex and a better life. She's even answering some listener questions and she's not holding back. And if you're ready to transform your love life with tantra, you can download Dominique's free master class https://learn.yestantra.com/ Connect with Dominique: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yestantra/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/yestantra Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YesTantra/ Website: https://yestantra.com/ Ready to share your voice on the HIListically Speaking Podcast? Tell me what's on your mind about the show, an episode or a guest. If you're a podcaster, share your show name too. I'm sharing more voices on the show. https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking Are you ready to turn your own traumas to triumphs? Book a complimentary session with Hilary to see how Havening can help you on your healing journey. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: www.hilaryrusso.com HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding

Ep 116Ep116 - Nikki Sharp: From Toxic to Transformation (A Model's Journey to Wellness)
How toxic is your life? If there's an area that's not bringing you joy, be it person, place or experience… it may be time to reevaluate. Transformations come one step at a time. You don't have to see the end result to know you're moving in the right direction. Nikki Sharp knows that better that better than anybody. This former model turn wellness coach and 2x best selling author, found herself in a toxic environment that created an unhealthy lifestyle. And her relationship with food and her body wasn't helping her well-being either. Especially with a health care system that she says, failed her. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, Nikki doesn't hold back. Find out how she made the life changing shift and how she's holding space for others to do the same. Why the most important coach in your life is closer than you think. And the one's you should absolutely avoid. Plus a chance to join her Ultimate Transformation Program at a very special price and see how you it can work for you too at a special price! Use this link to sign up and the discount code HILARY https://nikkisharp.mykajabi.com/a/2147530346/9V7m88ru You'll get 10% off the Ultimate Transformation Program. And be sure to connect with Nikki via her website nikkisharp.com or on Instagam.com/nikkisharp. Plus, this is your chance to amplify! I'm looking for real listeners to share one things they are grateful for to be part of an upcoming episode. Just leave your a voice message at https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking You can also share what episodes and guests you loved hearing from on the show. And if you're a podcaster, give your show a shoutout. Are you ready to turn your own traumas to triumphs? Book a complimentary session with Hilary to see how Havening can help you on your healing journey. https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: www.hilaryrusso.com HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding Edited by 2MM

Ep 115Ep115 - Kute Blackson: The Magic of Surrender
What if this or something better is on the way? Imagine that thought instead of trying to plan everything in your life. In other words, what if you chose to let go? Surrender and release your plans to the care of The Universe? For most, the ego would step in and fight you on that. But for transformational teacher and motivational speaker, Kute Blackson, choosing the Magic of Surrender was a game changer. But it didn't happen overnight. A son of a minister, Kute's path was predestined. But it didn't match what he wanted to his life to be. And after a long personal journey that included growth, pain and even loss, learning to let go was not only a path that aligned with his soul's purpose, but it was one that went above and beyond his own expectations. Because…he surrendered. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, Kute tells his story about the lessons on the mountain. How the best selling books he wrote were not the one's he wanted to write and what inspired the change. His thoughts on death and the one regret that changed his life for good. Want to take home a copy of Kute's book for free? Enter the Magic of Surrender Giveaway. One winner will win a signed copy of Kute's latest book "The Magic of Surrender". Details and how to enter on Hilary's Instagram: @hilaryrusso or YouTube Connect with Kute Blackson Facebook Instagram Twitter YouTube LinkedIn Work with Hilary on your own mind and body connection. Book a free breakthrough session and HUG it Out for your health: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Want to leave your thoughts on an episode, guest or the show and let your voice be heard on HIListically Speaking? Leave a voice message at https://www.speakpipe.com/HilisticallySpeaking Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone.com Edited by 2MM

Ep 114Ep114 - Dr. Amy Robbins: Connecting Grief, Death and the Afterlife
How comfortable are you with the thought of death? Be it your own or someone close to you, it's probably one of the most difficult conversations to have. And when it comes to grief or the fear of dying, the level of discomfort tends to multiply. But what if you turn your focus towards conscious living, instead and use death as a lens to awaken you in life? Clinical Psychologist and Medium, Dr. Amy Robbins is a leading expert on conscious living. And it was personal loss that caused her to wake up and see things differently. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, she shares with you the first time she was visited by her aunt after she passed away. Also, how she found balance between the psychological and spiritual world to create a safe space for her patience and herself. And what it means to live your essence and discover the positive side of death. You can find Dr. Amy Robbins podcast Life, Death and the Space In-between on all podcast platforms. You can also connect with her on social media: http://instagram.com/DrAmyRobbins https://www.youtube.com/c/LifeDeaththeSpaceBetweenDrAmyRobbins https://www.facebook.com/dramyrobbins And consider subscribing to her newsletter, Soul Wisdom which you can find on her website: https://www.dramyrobbins.com/ Have you subscribed to the Self-Care Sunday YouTube Live series yet? We discussed how to manage with grief and death this past week and included a Self-Havening experience. Watch the replay here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6fgkXj15fhA&t=97s Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/hilaryrusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by https://lipbone.com/
Ep 113Ep113 - Living with Loving Awareness
Are you living with loving awareness? This week on HIListically Speaking I'm going to share the power behind a mantra made famous by the great spiritual leader Ram Dass. But there's a method to my madness since I made this the focus of my new YouTube Live, Self-Care Sunday. A new series that launched just day's before Valentine's Day. This episode gives you an inside look into the new weekly series that tackles everyday upsets and ideas from the week prior and how to use them to propel you forward; empowered into the week ahead. This week, it's all about self-love and that loving awareness that connects you to all things. Find out why your good intentions could lead to bad results if you aren't too careful. And why going within could pave the way for more love to share. Plus, a challenge that will keep you engaged and your heart filled. You'll also get a breakdown of what the weekly series will look like. Walk away touched, moved and inspired as you create the space for Living with Loving Awareness. The Self-Care Sunday Series is live on YouTube every Sunday at 10am ET. Subscribe and watch the entire first episode here: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Enjoyed this episode? Leave a rating and review and let me know what you think and what you want me to cover. You can find HIListically Speaking on all podcast platforms. Find them here: https://pod.link/hilisticallyspeaking Let's Connect on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by https://www.lipbone.com/

Ep 112Ep112 - Jennifer Longmore: Investing in Yourself & Your Soul's Purpose
How healthy is your story? If that question makes you stop and think , understanding your soul's purpose could provide some clarity. On this week's episode of HIListically Speaking, we're taking a deep dive into Akashic Records. And if you're wondering what that is, my guest is the perfect person to share. Jennifer Longmore is the founder of the #1 Akashic Training School. And if you want to get clear on your sacred diary that impacts your health, your wealth…your soul's purpose… you need to listen to this conversation. You'll discover: What it means to elevate your consciousness in all areas of life. How to align with financial abundance and money matters Plus, you'll hear how this former forensic investigator turned entrepreneur went on her own journey following a traumatic wake up call that she calls her life shift initiation. To learn more about Jennifer, visit www.souljourneys.ca or connect with her on Facebook at Facebook.com/jlongmore. Don't forget to grab her FREE audio training on getting to the root of money blocks and shifting in the right direction: https://www.souljourneys.ca/money Join me LIVE for Self-Care Sundays at 10am EST on YouTube for a Self-Havening experience and be kind to your mind. Subscribe here: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Connect with Hilary Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso Website: www.hilaryrusso.com HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding Edited by 2MM

Ep 111Ep111 - Justin Frandson: Get Grounded and Optimize Performance
If man-made radiation and toxic tech concerns you, this episode is a must. We explore the dangers of EMFs (Electromagnetic Frequencies or Fields) and how they could be the root cause of a number of health issues that are keeping you from optimal health. Justin Frandson has been working with athletes for over 25 years. But when he started seeing how the invisible stressors of EMFs were taking a toll on the health and performance of his clients, this coach decided it was time to get grounded in more ways than one. On this episode, Justin sets the record strait about the dangers from excess rollout of man-made radiation from technology we use everyday. From smart watches and phones to wireless earbuds and wifi and even electric cars. He also shares tips on how you can stay grounded and safe by having Mother Nature in a bag with products he's spent years researching for his own family and yours. Plus the Get Grounded Giveaway that will put you on the path to optimum health. All you have to do is visit my instagram @HilaryRusso. https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso/ And follow the instructions on the Get Grounded Giveaway posts. You can also purchase any of the items we talked about on the show by using this special link to access a great offer. https://athleticism.com/hilaryrusso From EMF Grounding Rocks and the MCT oil to the Faraday Bags and more. And of course, Justin's book Athleticism. (Amazon) Get in touch with Justin on Linkedin Justin also mentioned a few books during our conversation: Electric Body, Electric Health by Eileen Day McKusick (Amazon) The Invisible Rainbow by Arthur Firstenberg (Amazon) Dr. Thomas Cowan's books (Amazon) Work with Hilary on your own mind and body connection. Book a free breakthrough session and HUG it Out for your health: https://hilaryrusso.as.me/hugitout Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: www.hilaryrusso.com HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding Edited by 2MM

Ep 110Ep110 - HUG it Out with Yourself: The Path to Healing, Understanding and Gratitude
80% of people will quit their new year's resolutions and goals before February 1. Hilary explores how to "HUG it Out" with simple hacks that keep the momentum going using neuroscience based tools and holistic approaches that she uses in her own life and with her clients. Plus, an inside look at her 14 Day FREE HUG it Out Challenge (Starting January 30) that will help you release the stress and align with success. Claim your spot and join the challenge and clear the chaos, find the calm and build confidence with intention: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/challenge Don't forget join the Thrive Hive and get your dose of Brain Candy by signing up for Hilary's newsletter: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/thrivehive Found this conversation valuable? Pay if forward. And leave a comment, rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or where ever your headphones take you. https://linktr.ee/hilisticallyspeakingpodcast Connect with Hilary @hilaryrusso Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso Twitter: https://twitter.com/HilaryRusso Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking Website: https://www.hilaryrusso.com/ HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com/ Recorded on SquadCast (Try it free for 7 days) https://squadcast.fm/?ref=hilaryrusso