Good Is In The Details

Enjoy this encore episode (one of our top episodes!) with author of Lady Killers, Tori Telfer. Learn more about Tori: https://www.toritelfer.com/books Get extra content and support GIID: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Law Professor and author of Demand The Impossible: One Lawyer's Pursuit of Justice for All, Robert Tsai. We discuss the story behind the book detailing the American Lawyer Steven Bright. What is meant by justice? How can the law impact culture? What is the role of money in justice? Learn more about Robert Tsai's work: https://www.bu.edu/law/profile/robert-l-tsai/ Get 50% your order with FactorMeals using the code Details50: Factormeals.com/details50 Check out http://www.avonmoreinc.com Get extra content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Accepting Sponsors. Get in Touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske teams up with Ella Parlor (Eavesdrop With Ella podcast, author of High Tolerance). We discuss the book The Sex Will Be Good Again Tomorrow: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent, by Katherine Angel. What are assumptions about sexuality underscoring conversations about consent? How can we become more thoughtful communicators? What are cultural hurdles when it comes to appreciating and vocalizing consent? Get your copy of Ella's book: https://ellayourbella.com/meetella Check out Ella's podcast: https://ellayourbella.com/podcast Use offer code Details50 for your Factor Meals: FactorMeals.com/details50 Join our Patreon and support GIID: Extra Content! Read The Sex Will Be Good Again Tomorrow.

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Professor Robin Reames to discuss her book The Ancient Art of Thinking For Yourself. What is rhetoric? How can understanding rhetoric help us in our everyday lives? What is the origin of rhetoric? Learn more about Professor Reames and get her book: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/contributor/robin-reames/?lens=basic-books Get your Factor meals using offer code Details50: Factormeals.com/details50 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Get in touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

You feel it. You hide it. Philosophy says you might be wrong to. Envy is almost universally condemned, called a deadly sin, a character flaw, something to suppress and never admit to. But what if the story we tell about envy is incomplete? What if some forms of envy aren't moral failures at all but windows into our deepest values, our most honest desires, and even our capacity for growth? In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo sit down with Dr. Sara Protasi, philosopher at the University of Puget Sound and author of The Philosophy of Envy (Cambridge University Press) — winner of the 2024 Joseph B. Gittler Prize from the American Philosophical Association. Dr. Protasi argues that envy is more multifaceted than it seems, and that some varieties of it can be productive and even virtuous — bringing together empirical evidence and philosophical research to identify four distinct kinds of envy: emulative, inert, aggressive, and spiteful. Understanding which kind of envy you're feeling, she argues, tells you something important about who you are and what you value. What we explore in this episode: The four kinds of envy — emulative, inert, aggressive, and spiteful — and what each one reveals about the envier's situation, psychology, and motivations. Why emulative envy — the kind that makes you want to rise to the level of the person you envy rather than bring them down — can be genuinely virtuous and self-improving. How to tell the difference between envy and jealousy — and why the distinction matters more than you think How to distinguish envy from resentment — and the simple philosophical test Dr. Protasi proposes for figuring out which one you're actually feeling. Why philosophy has historically ignored emotions, and what we lose when we treat reason as the only thing worth examining What envy reveals in the context of personal loving relationships, and why envy is possible, even unavoidable, in relationships we care about most. Envy in the political sphere: what it reveals about equality, fairness, and what we believe others deserve What it means to get "real and human" about an emotion most of us have been taught to hide — and why that honesty is itself a philosophical act. This is the episode that makes it safe to look your envy in the eye; not to indulge it, but to understand it. And understanding it, Dr. Protasi shows, is how it becomes useful. Guest: Dr. Sara Protasi — philosopher, University of Puget Sound. Author of The Philosophy of Envy (Cambridge University Press, 2021). Winner of the 2024 Joseph B. Gittler Prize, American Philosophical Association. Learn more about Dr. Sara Protasi: https://saraprotasi.weebly.com Use offer code GOOD15 for your volumizer brush: https://clmcreations.com Get in touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com Get extra GIID content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Philosopher J. Aaron Simmons to discuss his book Camping With Kierkegaard. What does Existentialism teach us about habits? Goals? Living in the present? Get Camping With Kierkegaard: https://jaaronsimmons.com Get 50% off your Factor meals using offer code details50: https://www.factor75.com/pages/podcast?c=DETAILS50&mealsize=8-1&c_comms=PERCENT&utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=cpm&utm_campaign=podcast50off&utm_content=act_podcast_podcastads&discount_comm_id=7267f20b-a39f-4440-9ca2-1404329a2b84&dis_channel=audio Get your April 5th tickets for the Women's Networking event using offer code GOODISINTHEDETAILS10: https://themoderndaywife.com/pages/the-london-event-april-2024 Learn more about podcasting at the Irvine OutlierHQ event: https://www.outlierhq.com Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Support the pod and join our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn and Rudy welcome back Philosophy Professor Mark D. White to discuss his book Daredevil From the Beginning to Born Again. What moral lessons do we learn from the story of Daredevil? How do we understand ability and disability culturally? What is Justice? And, what can we learn about love? Learn more about Mark: https://www.profmdwhite.com Get your CLM Volumizer with offer code GOOD15: https://clmcreations.com Join the pod's patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske welcomes two of the hosts of the popular indie podcast My Worst Date, Keegan and Christina! How do dating apps influence dating culture? What should we keep in mind about safety when dating? How do shifting ideas about gender roles impact dating? Learn more about this fantastic podcast: https://www.myworstdatepodcast.com Get your hair volumizer and use offer code GOOD15 for a discount!: https://clmcreations.com. FREE shipping on U.S. orders. Get ready for your Bridge Party: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo present "The Why of Podcasting" for the OutlierHQ Podcast Festival. We share the story and creation of Good Is In The Details, some tips for podcasters, and our journey of learning through producing the show. Learn more about OutlierHQ: https://www.outlierhq.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Philosophy Professor Matthew Congdon (Vanderbilt University). We discuss his book Moral Articulation On the Development of New Moral Concepts. How do we frame moral issues? How does language play a role in the way we consider morality? Can transportation reflect our ideas of justice and equity? Learn more about Matthew's work: https://matthewcongdon.net Read Rudy's article from Forbes: "2023 Transportation Trends that Could Impact the Future of Transportation". Support the pod on Patreon and Join our bookclub: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor! http://www.avonmoreinc.com Learn more about GIID: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Philosopher, author, speaker, Tom Morris Ph.D. (The Art of Achievement and Plato's Lemonade Stand). How does Philosophy inform and guide our lives? Our understanding of success? Goal setting? How can the wisdom of Philosophy help us with change? Learn more about Tom Morris's work and books: https://www.tomvmorris.com Check out Sieze the Moment Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seize-the-moment-podcast/id1472668685?i=1000636548258 Get extra content for GIID on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome author, podcaster, and marketing guru, Ella Parlor (High Tolerance: The Intoxicating World of Alcohol Marketing). What does marketing involve? What is unique about the alcohol business? How can we understand our relationship to alcohol and to marketing? Ella shares her journey through this industry and some wisdom on work ethic. Buy Ella's book: High Tolerance Check out Rudy's Forbes article mentioned in the episode: https://www.forbes.com/sites/rudysalo/2019/11/21/the-impact-of-californias-independent-contractor-law-on-the-future-of-transportation/?sh=2f9d863e57be Join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back Philosophy Professors Richard Greene and Josh Heter to discuss Punk Rock and Philosophy. What does the genre reveal about cultural shifts and attitudes? What does it mean to be a punk rocker? We discuss style, gatekeeping, anger and happiness, all within the framework of Punk Rock. Get your copy: https://www.amazon.com/Punk-Rock-Philosophy-Pop-Culture/dp/1637700229 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske partners with The Modern Day Wife and explores the career shifts of women in business. What are the first steps to bringing one's idea to life? What is the disposition of the successful woman? We learn how a belief in self anchors the possibility of creation, community, and happiness. Learn more about our wonderful guests: Meagan Elieff and Meghan Fialkoff, founders of https://themoderndaywife.com Franne Golde https://www.frannegolde.com Amanda Dill https://www.facebook.com/amandamariedill Jennifer Benshlush https://www.coverupbyjenny.com Thank you to our sponsors: https://www.truvaga.com use offer code DETAILS at checkout https://itsfoodforyourskin.com/onlinestore http://www.avonmoreinc.com Special shoutout to friend of the pod http://www.fishyfoto.com Join our Patreon for extra content https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back Rich Fahmy, MS, CPT, CWC, CES, PES (National Academy of Sports Medicine). What is BMI? How can we understand cultural attitudes around weight and diet vs health? What are some tips for navigating through the holiday season in a healthy manner? Learn more about Rich Fahmy: https://blog.nasm.org/author/rich-fahmy-ms-nasm-cpt-ces-pes-master-instructor Check out the NASM pod: https://www.nasm.org/resources/podcast-network Use promo code DETAILS for $15 off at checkout: https://www.truvaga.com Thank you http://www.avonmoreinc.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and guest co-host Konstantin Hatcher (California YIMBY) talk with founder of Latina Rebels and author of For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts, Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodriguez. We learn about the power of writing and observation, of finding one's voice and challenging social norms, and the creation of a genre. Learn more about Prisca's work: https://www.priscadorcas.com/bio/ Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back Dr. Kate Mangino (Equal Partners). Gwendolyn asks Kate's thoughts on a recent push to end no fault divorce in a few districts. How do ideas about marriage and divorce reflect gender assumptions/traditions? We learn about the significance of caregiving from our personal lives and how that role fosters important skills that can be used in the work place. What are these transferable skills? How do we discuss our caregiving roles at work? How can employers view time taken for care as a benefit to their business? Learn more about Kate Mangino: https://www.katemangino.com Join. our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails https://www.goodisinthedetails.com Thank you to our sponosor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske talks with Dr. Kate Madorin and Dr. Kristina Tansavatdi about their thoughts on the popular podcast The Retrievals (from This American Life). How is women's pain understood and communicated? What is the role of empathy in medicine? Learn more about Dr. Tansavadti: https://www.facesbydrt.com/about/dr-tansavatdi/ Visit our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Listen to The Retrievals: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/804/the-retrievals Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

In memory of Brittany Delaney of https://www.blacktablearts.org

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo talk with Dr. Michaela O'Donnell about her book Make Work Matter. What can theology teach us about our approach to work? How has the pandemic shaped our ideas of work? What is the role of empathy? https://www.goodisinthedetails.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back author/Professor, Dr. Dahlia Schweitzer. Dahlia is examining the true crime case of The Black Dahlia. What is the historical significance of this unsolved crime? How does the public's treatment of Elizabeth Short ("The Black Dahlia") reveal our ideas about women and gender? And how does this relate to Film Noir? Learn more about Dahlia: https://www.thisisdahlia.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code The Details: https://www.newsly.me

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo interview Philosophy Professor Dr. Gregg Caruso (SUNY Corning), author of Rejecting Retributivism. Free Will, Punishment, and Criminal Justice. We discuss the meaning of free will, what is a free will skeptic, determinism, and how understanding free will (or rejecting the idea of free will) impacts our sense of justice. Watch Gregg's Ted Talk "The Dark Side of Free Will" Learn more about Gregg's work: http://www.greggcaruso.com Join our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome philosophers Richard Greene and Joshua Heter to discuss the film The Godfather. What philosophical lessons and ideas come through in the film? How are we to understand justice? Loyalty? Family? Check out The Godfather and Philosophy. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code The Details for https://www.newsly.me

Gwendoly Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Psychologist and author, Dr. Seth Gillihan. How can we temper our thoughts? How can we become mindful? What are the techniques of CBT? Learn more about Seth's work: https://sethgillihan.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to https://www.lunaescent.com Use offer code The Details for 1 month free premium subscription: https://www.newsly.me

Enjoy our holiday encore episode on Captain America with 3 time guest, Professor Mark D. White. (Originally aired July 4, 2020.) Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Read Mark's book: https://www.amazon.com/Virtues-Captain-America-Modern-Day-Character/dp/1118619269/ref=sr_1_1?crid=AVV4QX932AKH&keywords=Mark+d+white+captain+america&qid=1688492393&sprefix=mark+d+white+captain+america%2Caps%2C230&sr=8-1

What is the mindset of a successful woman entrepreneur? Gwendolyn Dolske partners with TheModernDayWife.com to interview five women in business. How does one start? How does one handle obstacles? Rest? Balance? This episode has advice and inspiration for anyone pursuing business. Much thanks to Nev Tomic, Robin Ackerman, Jamie Jensen, Raana Kashani Gregg, and Cherie Monson. Our guests' websites: https://labeautefatale.com https://www.bhaestheticmedics.com https://www.lunaescent.com https://piperbluemakeup.com https://clmcreations.com Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code The Details for 1 month free premium subscription: https://www.newsly.me Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

The definition of a good husband is changing. Here's what the data actually says, and what philosophy thinks about it. A hundred years ago, a good husband provided financially and came home on time. Today the research tells a strikingly different story and it has enormous implications for what makes a marriage work, what makes both partners happy, and what we're actually looking for when we commit to building a life with someone. In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo dig into one of the most searched and most debated questions in modern relationships: What makes a good husband in 2023 and beyond? Our guest, Brian Page of Modern Husbands, gives us all the details. What we explore in this episode: What the data says about marriage and happiness; including the finding from the transcript that when both partners have an equal voice in financial decisions, couples are happier and far more likely to stay married How equal decision-making in marriage is consistently linked to higher marital happiness and how husbands who share household labor have greater odds of being in the high happiness trajectory. How public attitudes about marriage have shifted dramatically with 62% of Americans now saying marriages are better when both partners share jobs and household responsibility. What philosophy says about partnership, commitment, and the ethics of relationships Whether the "good provider" model of husbandhood is outdated and what replaces it. How gender norms shape what men believe a good husband looks like and how those norms can harm both partners. What emotional labor, cognitive labor, and equal partnership actually look like in practice. The Aristotelian case for a flourishing marriage: what does it mean for both people to genuinely thrive? Learn more about Brian Page: https://www.modernhusbands.com/our-founder Get in touch: https://www.goodisinthedetails.com Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer codee The Details for: https://www.newsly.me Check us out on Instagram: GoodIsInTheDetailsPod

Gwendolyn and Rudy welcome True Crime podcaster, Sarah J McLaughlin (host and producer of the compelling and top of the charts pod, Appalachian Mysteria). What goes into producing a true crime podcast? What is the story behind the WVU 1970 murders of two young women? How does our fascination with true crime reflect our cultural values? Is there a link between transportation and season 1 of Appalachian Mysteria? Learn more about Appalachian Mysteria: https://www.jamstreetmedia.com/appalachian-mysteria Delve into the nuance of True Crime: https://www.backdropmagazine.com/features/the-true-crime-wave Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code TheDetails: https://www.newsly.me Support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn and Rudy welcome journalist and host of the podcast Now What?, Carole Zimmer. What is the meaning of journalism? How has it changed over the years? How can we distinguish between entertainment and news? What does podcasting add to the space of journalism and media? Learn more about Carole's work and her amazing podcast: https://www.carolezimmer.com/podcast Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code The Details for https://www.newsly.me Join our Patreon and support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome creator of Mac's List for employers and job seekers and host of Find Your Dream Job Podcast, Mac Prichard. How does one navigate job searching in 2023? How can we align our dreams and happiness through work? What kinds of questions should one be asking in the job search process? How do different generations approach work and goals? Learn more about Mac Prichard and his courses/resources for job seekers: https://www.macslist.org/about/about-us Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use offer code The Details for https://www.newsly.me Join our Patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Philosophy Professor Dr. Drew Dalton (Dominican University). We discuss Dr. Dalton's book The Matter of Evil. How has scientifc research in the last few decades impacted our understanding of existence? Moral action? Does the universe have a moral status? What does it mean to be good? Learn more about Professor Dalton: Bio and Books Thank you to this episode's sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Use promo code The Details for: https://www.newsly.me Join our Patreon for extra content and our book club: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome documentarian/podcaster, George Siegal (Make It Better Podcast). We discuss George's film The Last House Standing, an examination of the way in which homes have been designed and ways in which homes can be designed given the impact of natural disasters. What questions should home buyers be asking? What is the responsibility of the individual, the community, and the government? Check out George Siegal's documentary: The Last House Standing. Check out Rudy's interview on Make It Better: "How You Get To Work Needs To Change." Listen to Rudy's interview with Liz Farmer "Financing Climate Adaptation." Thank you to the pod's sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com Download Newsly and use offer code TheDetails: https://www.newsly.me Join our Patreon for more content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Historian/musician/Investigator/True Crime Podcaster, Matthew Kraig Kelly. We discuss his investigative work in producing the excellent and engaging podcast The Looking Glass. How did Matthew choose the case of the MacDonald murders? How does the historical context help us understand the evidence? Why are people drawn to the True Crime genre? Check out The Looking Glass: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-looking-glass/id1661874262?i=1000591538101 (Also available on other platforms like Audible, Spotify, and Stitcher. Learn more about the case on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelookingglass_podcast/?hl=en Check out Instagram: @thesoundofanimalsfighting Use offer code The Details for 1 month free premium subscription: https://www.newsly.me Join our patreon for extra content and support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome musician/producer/educator/education consultant, Rich Balling (RX Bandits, The Sound of Animals Fighting). What is it like to follow the two paths of music and education? How to balance creativity with profession? What is the state of education? What is the significance of reading and test scores for young students? Revolution on Canvas Use offer code The Details for 1 month free premium subscription: https://www.newsly.me Join the pod's patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Spoken Word Artist Educator/ Executive Director of Black Table Arts, Brittany Delaney. What is the role of the arts in education? Why does creativity matter? Learn more about Brittany: LinkedIn Read about Black Table Arts: https://www.minnesotamonthly.com/arts-entertainment/black-table-arts-co-op-fuels-black-creativity-in-south-minneapolis/ Join our Patreon!: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Download https://www.newsly.me and use offer code TheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome author of Philosophy and Blade Runner, Professor Timonthy Shanahan (Loyola Marymount University). How can film spark interest in philosophy? How does the film Blade Runner address themes of AI, mortality, love, and what it means to be human? Get your copy of Philosophy and Blade Runner Learn more about Professor Shanahan: http://faculty.lmu.edu/timothyshanahan/ Support the pod on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Download Newsly with offer code TheDetails: https://www.newsly.me

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome author/expert on DE&I, Dr. Lauran Star. What does diversity mean? Inclusion? What are healthy structures in the work place? How can different generations communicate their strengths? How do these ideas contribute to the good life? Learn more about Dr. Lauran Star: https://www.drlauranstar.com Download Newsly and use promo code TheDetails: https://www.newsly.me Get extra content and join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

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Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Rabbi Dr. Mark Goldfarb. It's the end of 2022, let's talk about what gives life meaning and joy. How can faith help us navigate life? How can we discuss interfaith relationships? And, yes, Rudy asked about aliens. We're incredibly grateful to learn from Rabbi Mark about these big questions and how they are approached in Judaism. Learn more about Rabbi Mark: Temple Beth Ohr Join our patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gender equality at home isn't just better for women. It's better for everyone — and the research proves it. The pandemic ripped the lid off something that had been simmering for decades: in most homes, the division of labor isn't equal — and it's making everyone less happy. But what do we actually do about it? And what does it take for men to genuinely show up as equal partners? In this episode of Good Is In The Details, Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo sit down with Kate Mangino — gender expert, professional facilitator, and author of Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home (St. Martin's Press), featured in The Atlantic, CNN, the Washington Post, BBC World News, and The Guardian. What we explore in this episode: Why the problem isn't women needing to be fixed or men needing to be blamed — both are equally victims of a gendered culture that assigned them roles they didn't choose. What the "EP40" teaches us: 40 men who are genuine equal partners at home — intentionally taking on half the physical AND emotional load. Where did they come from? What motivates them? What can other men learn? Cognitive labor and emotional labor: what they are, why women disproportionately carry them, and what it costs a relationship when they go unacknowledged. How the birth of a first child is one of the two life events most likely to cause a dramatic gender shift in previously equal partnerships and what to do about it. Why gender equality at home is good for men too; including for their health, happiness, and relationships with their children. How to have the conversation with a partner who isn't aware of the imbalance Practical, actionable steps for any household regardless of sexual orientation or family structure. Guest: Kate Mangino — gender expert, facilitator, and author of Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home(St. Martin's Press, 2022). Her writing has appeared in Time, Harvard Business Review, Good Housekeeping, and Slate. Learn more about Kate Mangino: https://www.katemangino.com Read Kate's essay "You Might Want to Quiet Quit Housework, Too." Join our community, get exclusive access to behind the scenes content, be the first to know about upcoming shows, learn more about Philosophy, be part of our pod book club! https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Professor Aaron James (UC Irvine, Chair of the Philosophy Department). How do the tools of philosophy shape and enhance our experiences in life? What is the relationship between money, banking, the state, and morality? We discuss Aaron's upcoming memoir, the role of creative writing and academic writing, and the value of philosophy in education. Learn more about Professor James: UC Irvine Philosophy Department Check out Professor James's book: Assholes: A Theory Use offer code TheDetails for www.newsly.me Get extra content and support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo celebrate their 100th episode with gratitude and shoutouts (Jeff Cortese, Erin Darling, Angela Gorrell, Mark D White, and Matt Ritter to name a few)! Thank you to our amazing listeners and guests. Thank you to the podcast community for your support (special mention to Sieze the Moment Podcast and Hot Pizza Ass). Dolske and Salo discuss what they've learned through podcasting and announce their book in the works. Get your Magic Mind with the discout code Details14: https://magicmind.co Join our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back Philosophy Professor Mark D White to discuss his book, Marvel Comics' Thor: If They Be Worthy. What is the psychology worthiness? How does one create a life of worth? How can philosophy help us unpack and examine the character Thor? Is Rudy just like Thor? #RudyisThor Learn more about Mark's work: https://www.profmdwhite.com Thank you to our sponsor Magic Mind! Use Details14 at checkout to get 20% your order: https://magicmind.co Join our Patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo talk with Brooks Elms, WGA Screenwriter and writing coach. We learn about the power of creativity, the nuance of screenwriting, we talk about our favorite films, and how this practice teaches us more about our life goals and passions. Learn more about Brooks Elms: https://www.brookselms-coaching.com/about-brooks Thank you to our Sponsor Magic Mind! Use offer code: Details14 https://magicmind.co Download Newsly.me and use offer code: TheDetails Join our Patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome author/podcaster Tori Telfer (Lady Killers: Deadly Womone Throughout History) to discuss women serial killers. How does one write about true crime? What is unique about the stories of women serial killers? What can we learn from these stories? Check out Tori Telfer's book featured on the pod: Lady Killers Visit our fellow podcaster: Grow & Glow Podcast Join our patreon for more content: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome Rich Fahmy (National Academy of Sports Medicine). What is the relationship between joy, wellness, and fitness? What is the science behind movement? The mind/body connection? Connect with Rich Fahmy: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rich-fahmy/ Check out The Joy of Movement Join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome psychologists and podcasters, Leon Garber and Alen Ulman (Sieze The Moment Podcast). We learn how psychology is useful for navigating the good life and how podcasting is a tool for exploring these ideas. How can we better communicate? What is confirmation bias? Is there a healthy view of pride? Check out Sieze The Moment Podcast. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Use offer code Gwendolyn for 50% of your purchase: https://veloriawear.com

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back to the pod journalist Liz Farmer. How is infrastructure being addressed with new government spending? How does this impact our lives? What does climate equity mean? Can infrastructure be "just" or "unjust"? Read more of Liz Farmer's work: https://lizfarmer.substack.com Join our Patreon and support the pod! https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Check out https://veloriawear.com and enter GWENDOLYN for 50% off your first order.

Gwendolyn Dolske welcomes Cindy Scharkey RN back to the pod! Cindy lends her expertise in sex education to this mini-sode series How Do You Maternity? What should women ask of their doctors? How do we understand intimacy, sex, and our partners during pregnancy? Check out Cindy's podcast: Permission for Pleasure Learn more about Cindy's work: https://bio.site/cindyscharkey Get 50% off your veloria order using GWENDOLYN at checkout: https://veloriawear.com Get more content and join our book club at: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails

Gwendolyn Dolske and Rudy Salo welcome back author/professor Dahlia Schweitzer. We discuss her book L.A. Private Eyes and delve into the way these films set in Los Angeles mirror culture. It's a deep dive into detective stories and film noir. How does the history and design of LA fit into these stories? Learn more about Dahlia: https://www.thisisdahlia.com Support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/GoodIsInTheDetails Thank you to our sponsor: http://www.avonmoreinc.com