Girls Gotta Eat

What profile pics should I use? How do I craft the perfect opening line? Is it normal to hate my life every time I start swiping? We're answering these questions and deep diving on everything dating apps -- profile pics, bios, opening lines, first dates, and even when to say Boy Bye and move on from a match. AND we're reading the best and worst pickup lines you've gotten on the apps. We're also catching up on Rayna's thriving social life and Ashley's recent wedding (complete with wedding speech tips). Hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @rayna.greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Native: Get 20% off your first purchase at nativedeodorant.com, use code GGE20. Away: Visit awaytravel.com and use promo code GGE to get $20 off a suitcase. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month at hellofresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have Internet sensation, soon-to-be-author, our new friend, and record holder of the biggest traps we've ever seen Tank Sinatra join us for an enlightening conversation on relationships. We discuss codependency and breaking the pattern of it, when to sleep with someone for the first time, what real intimacy is, vetting someone on a first date, and more. We have him Mansplain some of your burning questions about male behavior, and we also deep dive into CUFFING SEASON and our goals for it. Enjoy! Follow Tank on Instagram @Tank.Sinatra and @TanksGoodNews. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for merch and tour dates. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. Postmates: Download the app and use code GGE to get $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. BetaBrand: Go to betabrand.com/gge for 20% off your dress pant yoga pants. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy bedding, visit Buffy.co and use code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are so honored to have the Beyoncé of Porn (our words, not hers) Erika Lust join us for a real and raw discussion about adult films and fantasies. She's an erotic film director/producer and truly a pioneer in the female-oriented porn world, and we're talking to her about how porn has changed peoples' sex lives for better or for worse, fantasies (and how to use erotic videos to make them a reality), where to watch ethical porn, tips for making your own x-rated home video, fluffers (still a thing?), and more. We're also catching up on our latest tour and all the shit that went down, and playing an appropriately sex-themed round of Is This Weird? Enjoy! Check out Erika's films at XConfessions.com and follow her on Instagram at @ErikaLust. Click HERE for your free week trial of X Confessions. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for merch and tour dates. Thank you to our partners for this episode: FabFitFun: Use code GGE to get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com. Figs: Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with code GGE. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to get 15% off your first purchase. BioClarity: Get 15% off everything at bioclarity.com with code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Cue up the eggplant emoji -- we're getting into sexting and dirty talk! Certified sex coach and writer Gigi Engle joins us to discuss what to say in your sexts, rule of nudes, dirty talk in the bedroom (and the best positions for it), what NOT to say about your partner's genitalia, and more. We're also playing a game of That Took a Turn and catching up on Ashley's new life change and Rayna's recent neighbor run-in. Enjoy! Follow Gigi on Instagram @GigiEngle and check her website for everything else. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Billie: Go now to mybillie.com/gge to save 10% off your razor. Rothy's: Go to rothys.com/gge to get your new favorite flats. OpenFit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership. Text GGE to 303030. Lola: To get 40% off your first month's subscription, go to mylola.com and enter code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should you continue dating someone if you know they're not The One? How do you break up with your partner when they've done nothing wrong? We're discussing "lukewarm" relationships and breaking up with someone who's great but just not great for you, and sharing our most recent experiences with this (ie. all your questions on our summer romances answered). AND we're introducing a spicy new segment about y'all f*cking your doormen (we're so proud). Hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com with code GGE. Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo at livingproof.com/gge with code GGE. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month by going to hellofresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's the most dramatic two-on-one date in Bachelor history: Rayna, Ashley, and Derek Peth. Ok, so maybe it's not that dramatic but we do get deep with the #BachelorNation favorite. We discuss playing hard to get, dating multiple people at once, virginity/condom mishaps, thirst trapping on Instagram, being known as a crier, and much more. And of course we're answering your burning Bachelor questions (most importantly about drinking/eating/f*cking on the show). We hope you enjoy! Follow Derek on Instagram @PethDerek or just Google him. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Fabletics: Get 2 leggings for $24 ($99 value) when you sign up for a VIP at fabletics.com/gge. Native: Get 20% off your first purchase by going to nativedeodorant.com and entering promo code GGE at checkout. Figs: Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com and code GGE at checkout. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy bedding, visit buffy.co and use code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have comedy power couple Courtney Maginnis and Casey Salengo on this extra sexy episode where we discuss couples therapy (they're pros), working in the same industry as your partner, how to keep the spark alive, dirty talk, and much more. They're also sharing their story of turning a friendship into a romance, recapping their recent engagement (!!!), AND answering listener questions about relationship issues. This is our last episode in the original home studio where it all began, and we hope you enjoy! Follow Courtney on Instagram @CourtMaginnis and Casey @CaseyJSalengo. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Feals: Become a member today by going to feals.com/gge and get 50% off your first order + free shipping. Postmates: Download the free app and use code GGE for $100 of delivery credit for your first 7 days. FabFitFun: Use code GGE to get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com. BioClarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + an additional 15% off at bioclarity.com with code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friend breakups can be just as painful as romantic ones and we're discussing it all -- drifting apart, getting back together, fights, jealousy, roommate conflicts, making new friends, and more. We also recap and rank fights we've had (oh yes, we fight...in public), and play an extra special round of "How I Knew She Was a True Friend." And lastly, we catch up on Dewey Beach, Rayna's brother, and Ashley's vibrators. We hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Rothy's: Go to rothys.com/gge to find your new favorite flats. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to get 15% off your first purchase. OpenFit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership by texting GGE to 303030. Lola: Get 40% off your first month's subscription at mylola.com and enter code GGE when you subscribe. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ooh baby baby, we're talking fertility on this episode with renowned gyno-to-the-stars Dr. Sean Henry. We discuss how to know if you're fertile, what can affect/not affect your reproductive abilities, all things egg freezing (age, procedure, cost, etc.), more. And we have a very special guest MERRILL (!!!) join us to discuss her recent "baby insurance" policy. We hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: LiquidIV: Get 25% off at liquidiv.com with code GGE at checkout. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com with code GGE. HelloFresh: For $80 off your first month, go to hellofresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. Ritual: Get $10 off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're talking about MISTAKES and have hilarious comedian/friend Francis Ellis join us to chat about being fired from (what was once) his dream job and the aftermath that ensued, including a semi-consensual trip to France. We discuss turning negatives into positives in all areas of life (work, relationships, etc.), decide if "once a cheater always a cheater" is true, and have Francis mansplain some burning questions about male behavior from our female listeners. We also catch up on our most recent travels, Ashley's apartment search, and a piggyback ride in Minneapolis that took a turn. Hope you enjoy! Follow Francis on Instagram @francisccellis and check out his podcast Oops. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Fabletics: Get 2 leggings for only $24 at fabletics.com/gge. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit buffy.co and enter promo code GGE. Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo with your purchase at livingproof.com/gge + promo code GGE. Bioclarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + an extra 15% off everything at bioclarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have sex and dating writer Candice Jalili (Elite Daily, Cosmo, Time, etc.) in the house studio to discuss the "late blooming" topics we've been dying to deep dive on -- being a virgin in your twenties and never having a boyfriend. We chat about overcoming insecurities, knowing when to give it up, our virginity losing stories (ranked), and what it's like always being the single friend. Also, we catch up on life events (is Ashley moving?!), and play an extra ridiculous game of This Took a Turn. Hope you enjoy! Follow Candice on Instagram at @CandiceJalili and check her website for her work. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Away: Go to awaytravel.com/gge and use promo code GGE to get $20 off a suitcase. Postmates: Download the app and use code GGE to get $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. Figs: Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with code GGE at checkout. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com with promo code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

That's right, we're talking about the ever-so-important languages of love -- what the five languages mean, which ones we are, and how to get your partner to speak your language for a happier, healthier relationship. We also deep dive about cuddling (are you a Rayna or an Ashley?), and discuss the phenomenon of exes coming back into your life just to fuck it up. AND we have an extra special former guest join us to catch up on testicles, his new relationship, and play a round of Psycho or Power Move. We hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Native: Get 20% off your first purchase by going to nativedeodorant.com and entering code GGE. Rothy's: Go to rothys.com/gge to find your new favorite flats. OpenFit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership by texting GGE to 303030. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to to find your perfect fitting bra and get 15% off your first purchase. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we are deep diving into mental health (mental illnesses, treatments, and even suicide) with comedian Brendan Eyre, and he's the most perfect person to discuss these topics and provide plenty of comic relief along the way. He takes us through his "journey" of mental health from a psychotic breakdown in Alaska to trying to escape a psych ward to where he is today in a solid place doing comedy and in a loving relationship. We also tackle how to handle mental illness in a relationship. And we kick off the episode with an update on our latest travels (specifically, Jersey strippers and dates in Denver). We hope you enjoy! Follow Brendan on Instagram @EyreBud and get his album here. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: LiquidIV: Get 25% off at LiquidIV.com with code GGE at checkout. No Bull: For simple, durable, and functional training gear, visit nobullproject.com/gge. HelloFresh: For $80 off your first month, go to hellofresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do lesbians deal with the same bullshit straight women do when it comes to dating? We have hilarious comedian (and lowkey model) Sydnee Washington joining us to discuss this, along with other topics like the female orgasm and life factors that affect it, opening up your relationship, communicating with women vs. men, your family not accepting your sexuality, and much more. We also bring back Fuck Marry Kill, and catch up on celeb sightings, Rayna's vibrator crisis, and Ashley's hot new neighbors. Enjoy! Follow Sydnee on Instagram @JustSydbw. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @OneHungryJew. Check our website for NEW tour dates, merch, and fundraising. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Figs: Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with code GGE at checkout. Living Proof: Get 20% off any No Frizz products at livingproof.com/gge, code GGE. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com with code GGE. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to mylola.com and use code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does my partner deserve to know how many people I've slept with? What about my past relationship history? Should we know each other's phone passwords? How can I poop in private?! We're answering all these burning questions about privacy and boundaries on this week's episode. We're also discussing Ashley's birthday (and more #CancerSzn feelings), Rayna's recent tryst, and playing another shocking round of That Took a Turn. Hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Donate to our fundraiser for Immigrant Families Together HERE. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Birchbox: Get $5 off your first month of You-Time by going to birchbox.com/gge and enter code GGE. Fabletics: Get 2 pairs of leggings for just $24 at fabletics.com/gge. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. Bioclarity: Get 40% off skincare routines and 15% off everything else at Bioclarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're covering lots of important ground on this episode with writer/author Maria Del Russo -- how to accept (and enjoy) being single, finding yourself and not being a "dating chameleon", knowing what you want and don't want in a partner, not letting bad dates get you down, booty call chauffeurs, hammock sex, and more. We also introduce a new feel-good segment inspired by Maria's book "Simple Acts of Love" and catch up on Rayna's Russian adventure and who Ashley is beefing with now. We hope you enjoy! Follow Maria on Instagram @MariaDelRusso and check her out more here. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @OneHungryJew, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: No Bull: For simple, durable, and functional training gear, visit nobullproject.com/gge. Postmates: Download the app and use code GGE to get $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. Rothy's: Go to rothys.com/gge to shop their stylish, sustainable shoes. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to find your perfect fitting bra and get 15% off your first purchase. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're joined by comedians Mike Feeney and Mike Cannon who are absolutely hilarious, best friends (or so we thought), and happily married. We're talking to them about meeting your spouse at a young age, married life vs. single life, keeping the spark alive, and more. We play a game of Psycho or Power Move with one of the funniest stories we've heard yet, and also catch up on summer travel, new feedback on 69'ing, and a dating app update we're pissed about. We hope you love this one as much as we do! Follow Mike Cannon at Instagram @IAmMikeCannon and check his website for more. Follow Mike Feeney @IAmMikeFeeney and check his website for more. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Butcherbox: Go to butcherbox.com/gge and enter code GGE for $20 off your first box + free bacon for life. Openfit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership by texting GGE t 303030. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a hot one! We are so excited to have Hannah Berner of Bravo's Summer House, Berning in Hell podcast, and meme royalty to discuss mental health when it comes to dating, tackling your own issues, and the differences between toxic relationships and healthy ones. We're also talking about the allure of ugly-hot guys, difficulty getting over funny guys, and a whole bag of weird shit during a hilarious round of Red Light Green Light. Enjoy! Follow Hannah on Instagram @BeingBernz. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Fabletics: Get 2 leggings for just $24 at fabletics.com/gge. Living Proof: Get 20% off any No Frizz products at livingproof.com/gge, use promo code GGE. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month at hellofresh.com/gge80 and use the code GGE80. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to mylola.com and enter GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's our 69th EPISODE (!!!), it's just the two of us, and we're bringing it back to our roots and covering shady social media behavior. We discuss when a partner is "micro-cheating" -- what it looks like, what it means, and how you can approach the situation. We also share some awkward/embarrassing/alcohol-related instances that happened recently, reveal our true feelings about 69ing, and play another emotional game of "How I Knew It Was Real." We hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. Betabrand: Go to betabrand.com/gge for 20% off your Dress Pant Yoga Pants. Bioclarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + 15% off everything else at bioclarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have the hilarious/beautiful/savage Marie Faustin join us to discuss everything from threesome propositions to pegging fantasies to why she doesn't want a boyfriend. Subtopics include: Cowboy boots, broke dudes, and gay porn. We bring back "Is This Weird?" with some doozies, and also catch up on our latest (mis)adventures with guys and the foolproof way to know if someone isn't into you. Enjoy! Follow Marie on Instagram @Reeezy and check her website for show dates and more info. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for show dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Postmates: Download the app and use code GGE for $100 of free credit for your first 7 days. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to find your perfect fitting bra and get 15% off your first order. ModCloth: For 15% off your purchase of $100 or more, go to modcloth.com and enter code GGE. One time use, expires 10/5/19. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Break out the lube y'all, it's a sex toy episode! We have the amazingly knowledgable Lisa Finn from Babeland toy shop giving us all the good vibrations. We're talking about choosing the right sex toys, introducing them with your partner, BDSM, butt stuff (plugs, pegging, etc.), lube, and more. We're also sharing our most embarrassing vibrator-related stories, along with your submissions. Enjoy! Shop at Babeland.com (code BabesGottaEat for a discount) and follow on Instagram @babeland_toys. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: OkCupid: Download the free OkCupid dating app today. Openfit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership by texting GGE to 303030. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We've talked plenty about women getting over breakups but what happens when dudes get their hearts broken? We have hilarious comedian Anthony DeVito telling his tragic tale (don't worry, he's fine now) and sharing the ways he coped with losing (who he thought was) the love of his life. We're also talking about finding love at any age (hint: there's hope for your single grandparents), and misreading signs on dates and the embarrassment that goes with it. Also in the episode: Canada tour dates (!!!), recapping Rayna's Cuba trip and previewing Ashley's upcoming travels, and a PSA on women's rights. We hope you enjoy! Follow Anthony on Instagram @Devo4Tivo and get his album Dream Occupation. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/gge, promo code GGE. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month by going to hellofresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at FabFitFun.com, promo code GGE. Lola: For 25% off subscriptions, go to mylola.com and enter GGE25. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can I date someone my friend dated? Should I care that my friends still talk to my ex? If I catch a guy cheating on his girlfriend, do I tell? We're answering these questions and more on our GIRL CODE episode. We're also sharing our own girl code experiences (spoiler alert: they're sex related), giving some Netflix and spank bank recommendations, and introducing a new feel-good segment where we may or may not cry again. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Postmates: Download the app and use code GGE for $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. BetaBrand: Go to betabrand.com/gge for 20% off your Dress Pant Yoga Pants. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, go to buffy.co and enter promo code GGE. BioClarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + 15% off everything at Bioclarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know we love someone who can speak profoundly on relationships and also talk shit, so we're very #blessed to have Kate Kennedy of Be There in Five and author of Twinkle Twinkle Social Media Star join us this week. We're discussing the pressure to get engaged from family/friends/coworkers based on their expectations (and how not to be one of those assholes), dating app profiles (guys, what are you DOING?), and how not to drag your past relationship baggage into the next one. We're also introducing a brand new segment of feel-good stories (for once), and sharing a surprising DM proposition we both received. We hope you enjoy! Follow Kate on Instagram @BeThereInFive and check her website for everything else. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for NEW TOUR DATES and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Baked By Melissa: Get 15% off your order at BakedByMelissa.com and enter code GGE when you sign up. Hers: Get your first month of birth control for $5 at ForHers.com/gge. OkCupid: Download the free OkCupid app today. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at FabFitFun.com and use the code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We convinced Mark Manson (life guru/bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck) to sit down and answer the question "Is love f*cked?" (Spoiler alert: It doesn't have to be.) We discuss the current hellscape of dating and how both men and women should navigate it, expressing your feelings and getting out the gray area, and whether love is enough to sustain a relationship. We also have him "Mansplain" some hot topics like when to sleep with someone and the reason men ghost then resurface. Also on the agenda: Ashley's new fantasy and Rayna's apartment drama. Enjoy! Visit MarkManson.net for articles, courses, and to purchase his books, and follow him on Instagram @MarkMansonNet. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Brumate: Go to Brumate.com and use code GGE for 15% off your first order. OpenFit: Get a special, extended 30-day free trial membership to OpenFit by texting GGE to 303030. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to find your perfect fitting bra, and get 15% off your first purchase. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you know when you meet the right person? We're chatting with ultimate girl crush Eden Grinshpan (restaurateur and host of Top Chef Canada) about getting engaged within weeks of meeting her husband and how they're still killing it (with a kid) six years later. We also discuss the illusion of perfection on social media, the best country to meet men, nightmare dates, and the secret to "having it all." And lastly, we play a game of Psycho or Power Move and dissect some confusing (but not surprising) male behavior. Enjoy! Follow Eden on Instagram @EdenEats and check her out on Top Chef on Food Network Canada. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates. Thank you to our partners for this episode. Betabrand: Go to betabrand.com/gge to get 20% of your Dress Pant Yoga Pants. Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/gge + promo code GGE. Zola: To start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your registry, go to zola.com/gge. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month by going to hellofresh.com/gge80 + use code GGE80. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Raise a glass...it's our WEDDING EPISODE! We're discussing survival skills for being single (and/or broke) during wedding season, wedding planning tips so your guests don't hate you, overall etiquette, bridezilla behavior, bridesmaid woes, eloping, and even tips for canceling the whole thing! We also share our proudest wedding walk-of-shame stories. Cheers, we hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: OkCupid: Download the free OkCupid dating app today. Poshmark: Get $5 off your first purchase at Poshmark.com, invite code GGE5. BioClarity: Get 40% off skincare routines + 15% off everything at BioClarity.com when you use code GGE at checkout. Lola: To get 25% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter GGE25 when you subscribe. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's another moneeeey episode, but this time with a professional! We are joined by Ramit Sethi, New York Times bestselling author of I Will Teach You To Be Rich, to not only discuss money issues in relationships, but also personal financial success. We cover how to talk to your partner about money (everything from income imbalance to longterm goals to debt), lending money (should you ever do it?), when to splurge and when to save, and how to get a raise at work (complete with role playing). We also share what went down in Florida and reveal one of Rayna's deepest, darkest secrets. We hope you enjoy and get rich, bitches! Check out Ramit's website I Will Teach You To Be Rich for all his info, and follow him on Instagram @Ramit. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Postmates: Get $100 of delivery credit for your first 7 days by downloading the app and using code GGE. ModCloth: For 15% off your purchase of $100 or more, go to modcloth.com and enter code GGE at checkout (one-time use, expires 7/6/19). Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're going deep into the stars with professional astrologer Mecca Woods! She explains which signs are compatible and why, schools us on what a sun/moon/rising sign means, decodes the ever-so-controversial SCORPIO, and we even discuss Mercury Retrograde and Saturn Returns. (And don't worry, we go through every single sign and its relationship style.) We also chat about Ashley's "one that got away" and the new guy Rayna's dad wants her to date. We hope you enjoy! Follow Mecca on Instagram @1Meccanism and check her website for consultations, to buy her book, etc. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Brumate: Go to brumate.com and use code GGE to get 15% off your first order. OpenFit: Get a special extended 30-day free trial membership, text GGE 303030. Third Love: Go to thirdlove.com/gge to find your perfect fitting bra and get 15% off your first purchase. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Comedian, actor, and amateur dog whisperer Dan Soder joins us for another off-the-rails episode where we discuss everything from drugs to sober sex to "relationship dirty talk." He also pens the new "Thank U, Next" and shares the hilarious story of him losing his virginity. We catch up on Rayna's recent bout of abstinence and Ashley's lack of affection. Hope you enjoy! Follow Dan on Instagram @DanSoder and check his website for more info and tour dates. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates. Thank you to our partners for this episode: For Hers: Get your first month of birth control for $5 at Forhers.com/gge Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/gge Hello Fresh: Get $80 off your first month at hellofresh.com/gge80 + code GGE80 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should you cohabitate...or no-habitate? We discuss the right time and right reasons to move in with a partner, financial arrangements and how to tackle them, tips and tricks for sharing your living space, the art of compromise, and how it can all go terribly wrong. We also catch up on recent travels/tacos, and play an extra spicy round of This Took a Turn. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for upcoming tour dates! Thank you to our partners for this episode: LegacyBox: Go to LegacyBox.com/gge and save 40% off today. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, go to buffy.co and enter promo code GGE. Lola: For 40% off subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're so excited (aroused?) to have comedian Remy Kassimir join us to talk about masturbation and cumming! At age 27, Remy had never had an orgasm, so she started a podcast about it and went on a quest to climax. She shares the details of all the attempts and how it finally happened, plus we dive deep into masturbation (including playlists and spank banks), sex toys, the complexity of the female orgasm, and more. We also catch up on Rayna's move, Ashley's recent foot-in-mouth moment, and share some hilarious results of our "Shallow Challenge." We hope you enjoy (and finish)! Check out Remy's podcast How Cum, and follow her on Instagram @RemyKassimir. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates! Thank you to our partners for this episode: Postmates: Download the app today and use code GGE for $100 of free delivery credit for your first 7 days. Rothy's: Go to rothys.com and use code GGE for free shipping. BioClarity: Go to BioClarity.com and get 40% off skincare routines plus an additional 15% off everything on the website using code GGE at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We brought in a brilliant sex educator Kendall McKenzie to discuss all those "embarrassing" sex and body topics including STDs (everything from symptoms to how to tell your partner), birth control methods and periods, UTIs and other vaginal infections, queefing, penis sizes, and more. We also catch up on dating apps and introduce a new conversation starter. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for LIVE SHOW dates and merch. Thank you to our partners for this episode: ThirdLove: Go to ThirdLove.com/gge to find your perfect fitting bra, and get 15% off your first order. Ritual: Visit ritual.com/gge to start your ritual today. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's just the two of us, and we're finally tackling this long-awaited topic! We're sharing our personal experiences and digging deep into all the areas surrounding being friends with exes. We also read/analyze a very crazy email from a listener about her fiancé and his relationship with his ex. Plus: Recapping our "world tour" (new crushes on the road, which city got the wildest, DM PSAs, etc.) AND a hilarious round of Psycho or Power Move. Enjoy, angels! Follow us on Insta @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for LIVE SHOW DATES (may still be tickets available in Dallas, Austin, Tampa, and Miami). Thank you to our partners for this episode: Living Proof: Get a free sample of dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/gge, promo code GGE. HelloFresh: Go to hellofresh.com/GGE60 and use the code GGE60 to get $20 off your first 3 boxes. Hourglass Cosmetics: Get free shipping with the purchase of a Caution Mascara at hourglasscosmetics.com/gge, promo code GGE. FabFitFun: Go to fabfitfun.com and use code GGE for $10 off your first box. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are so thrilled to have the hilarious Chris Distefano as our first dad on the show to talk about fatherhood, baby mama drama, dating as a single parent, keeping the peace in the family, and much more. A little more about Chris: He's a history and animal expert (sorta), has super sperm (seriously), and has a really great outlook on life we're so happy to chat about. We also have him "mansplain" some confusing male behavior (including "He's watching all my Instagram stories but won't ask me out!?"), and we give an update on a shocking encounter with a dude Rayna used to like. We hope you love this one! Follow Chris on Instagram @ChrisDComedy, watch his Comedy Central special Size 38 Waist, and check his website for tour dates. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: LegacyBox: Go to legacybox.com/gge and save 40% today. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit Buffy.co and enter code GGE. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

F*CK YES, we have the illustrious, hilarious Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson of the Guys We F*cked podcast joining us for an extra sexually explorative episode. We're covering kinks, deep diving into hitting and cuckolding, reviewing dick pics, discussing masculine and feminine energy, and more. We also chat with them about their podcast success, and play a special (cum-themed) "Is This Weird?" for Krystyna and Rayna. Enjoy! Follow Corinne and Krystyna on Instagram @SorryAboutLastNight and check their website for their book, shows, and more. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for tour dates and merch. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Rothy's: Go to rothys.com and use promo code GGE for free shipping. ThirdLove: Go to thirdlove.com/gge now find your perfect-fitting bra, and get 15% off your first purchase. BioClarity: Get a free clarifying masque by going to bioclarity.com and using code GGE when you purchase a routine. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's the Health & Fitness Episode AKA Revenge Body Episode AKA The Episode We Got So Many Requests For. We stray slightly from straight dating/sex talk to share our #journeys with our bodies and where we are now with our happiness and confidence. We're giving our diet and fitness advice; discussing insecurities, celebs, and surgeries; and of course, bringing it back to dating and sex by analyzing what happens to your body at every stage in a relationship. Ashley also gives a crazy update on a guy from her past (this summer) AND we're introducing a new segment called "This Took a Turn." We hope you enjoy! Follow us on Instagram at @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for NEW TOUR DATES! Thank you to our partners for this episode: FabFitFun: Go to FabFitFun.com and use code GGE to get $10 off your first box. Ritual: Visit ritual.com/gge to start your ritual today. Scentbird: Go to scentbird.com/gge and use code GGE for 50% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We cozied up in an LA hotel room to chat with Violet Benson of the Instagram sensation @DaddyIssues_ about how she started the 4-million-follower account and quit her boring job, combatting depression, avoiding toxic men, masturbating, and fucking famous people. We also play a round of Psycho or Power Move, recap our LA trip, and discuss what we've been binge watching lately. Enjoy! Follow Violet at @VioletBenson. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode! Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit Buffy.co and enter code GGE. Hourglass Cosmetics: Get free shipping with the purchase of a Caution Mascara at hourglasscosmetics.com/gge, use code GGE. HelloFresh: Get $80 off your first month by going to HelloFresh.com/gge80 and use code GGE80. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fresh off a world tour, we have comedian Ari Shaffir join us to chat about non-monogamy and honesty in a relationship, why he doesn't want kids, leaving his religion, and doing drugs to change your life. We also recap our latest travel experiences (including Rayna's ex), and Ashley's recent "Is This Weird?" date. Enjoy! Check out Ari's website for tour dates, videos, and more. Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast.com, check our website for merch and tour dates, and get extra episodes at Patreon.com/girlsgottaeat. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Bioclarity: Get a FREE clarifying mask by going to bioclarity.com and use code GGE when you purchase a routine. BeachBody: Text GGE to 303030 for your free trial membership. Poshmark: Get $5 off your first purchase at Poshmark.com, use code GGE5. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have the incomparable Matteo Lane (comedian, artist, celebrity expert) impersonating everyone from Cher to Adele, while also chatting about recovering from a painful breakup, the challenge of balancing a thriving career and a relationship, and how to handle a partner who is having doubts about you. We also answer our first Is This Weird? email from a man (honey, it's juicyyy), and introduce a new segment analyzing all our favorite pop queens of the past (Britney, Lindsay, etc). Enjoy! Follow Matteo on Instagram @MatteoLane. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, check our website for tour dates and merch, and find extra episodes on Patreon.com/girlsgottaeat. Thank you to our partners for this episode: ThirdLove: Go to ThirdLove.com/gge now to find your perfect-fitting bra, and get 15% off your first purchase. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, go to MyLola.com and enter code GGE. Scentbird: Go to Scentbird.com/gge and use code GGE for 50% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're so excited to open the convo about open relationships with Malerie and Sam, an awesome (and also hot) polyamorous couple. We ask all those burning questions (How does it work? Whose idea was it? Do you get jealous? What about marriage?), and delve a little further into trust and handling conflict in a relationship. We also recap Ashley's Mexico City trip and Rayna's NYE party flirt turned party foul. Enjoy! Check out Malerie on Instagram @Malerie_Day. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, check our website for tour dates and merch, and get extra episodes at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Poshmark: Get $5 off your first purchase at poshmark.com, invite code GGE5. Zola: To start your free wedding website and get $50 off your registry, go to zola.com/gge. Ritual: Visit ritual.com/gge to start your ritual today. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big 2019 Energy, coming in hot! In our final episode of 2018, we're talking about resolutions, the energy we're bringing into the new year, and how to achieve goals when it comes to weight, career, romantic relationships, and friendships. We also recap Christmas on the Hesseltine farm, texts from exes, AND we're so excited to present the 2018 Girls Gotta Eat Awards to our former guests. Thank you to everyone who listened, subscribed, rated, reviewed, and laughed with us this year -- we are so thankful for you. XOXO Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Extra episodes at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Scentbird: Go to Scentbird.com/GGE and use code GGE for 50% off your first month. Living Proof: Get a free sample of the award-winning dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/GGE and use code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Merry Christmas, ya filthy animals! We brought in the hilarious Lev Fer and Andrew Collin to chat about their latest dating stories, happy endings, girls sliding into their DMs (what to say, what to avoid, what got them laid last week, etc.), and more. We also play another ridiculous round of Psycho or Power Move, and recap our Holiday Spectacular. Enjoy! Follow Andrew Collin on Instagram @AndrewTCollin and Lev Fer @LevFer. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Hourglass Cosmetics: Get free shipping with the purchase of Caution Mascara at hourglasscosmetics.com/gge + promo code GGE. Fabletics: Get two pairs of leggings for only $24 at fabletics.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ahhh the age old question -- How can I get this guy to commit to me/be my boyfriend/stop sleeping with other women/marry and impregnate me? We tackle it from all angles -- tough love to techniques to last ditch efforts. We also recap Rayna's Mexico trip/plague, Ashley's new international man, and introduce a hilarious (and inspiring?) new game: PSYCHO or POWER MOVE. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Twitter @Girls_GottaEat, and check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for supporting Girls Gotta Eat: Fabletics: Get two pairs of leggings for only $24 by visiting Fabletics.com/gge. Scentbird: Go to scentbird.com/gge and use code GGE for 50% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gather round, y'all! In this nonstop-laughs episode, we talk with actress/comedian/best-person-on-Instagram Heather McMahan about her thriving long-distance relationship and why it works, sexy pics gone wrong, coping with the loss of a parent, and so much more. We also recap a ridiculous shopping experience, and introduce a new game that incites a fiery passion in everyone. Enjoy! Follow Heather on Instagram @HeatherKMcMahan. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for live show dates and merchandise. More episodes available at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Addyi: Learn more at Addyi.com/gge. Lola: To get 40% off subscriptions, visit MyLola.com and enter code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Comedian (and DANCER) Nikki Glaser joins us for a hilarious, no-holds-barred talk about surprising turn-ons (ie. wanting your boyfriend to hook up with someone else), loving yourself, loving anal, not fucking guys until they earn it, Dancing With the Stars, and more. Ashley also shares her latest dating app experiment, and Rayna recaps a family milestone. Enjoy! Follow Nikki on Instagram @NikkiGlaser and find tour dates and more on her website. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast and check our website for live show dates and merchandise. More episodes available at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode! Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit Buffy.co and enter code GGE. Living Proof: Get a free sample of the award-winning dry shampoo with your purchase at LivingProof.com/GGE and use code GGE. Scentbird: Go to Scentbird.com/GGE and use code GGE for 50% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Strap in (or strap-on) for this one! We're joined by hilarious comedian and actress Emma Willmann (Netflix, Colbert, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) to talk about the Lesbian Hunger Games, being in the closet in high school, sex toys, dating apps, bisexuality, and more. We also play Is This Weird? with one of our most bizarre sexual scenarios yet, and Rayna analyzes Ashley's latest Hinge encounters. PLUS we announce new upcoming live shows! Find all things Emma on her website and follow her on Insta @EmmaWillmann. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our sponsors for this episode: Addyi (Learn more at Addyi.com/GGE.) ModCloth (For 15% off your order of $100 or more, go to ModCloth.com and enter code GGE at checkout. One-time use only, expires 2/2/19.) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our early Christmas present to you: BONUS EPISODE! We're discussing being single over the holidays and giving advice for dealing with family pressure, the dreaded judgmental questioning, and general loneliness while everyone around you is coupled up and (seemingly) happy. We also share tips and tricks for hometown hookups, reveal our best/worst gifts from our exes, talk about soup for way too long (apologies in advance), and do a holiday-themed Is This Weird? Enjoy! Follow Girls Gotta Eat on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for upcoming show dates and merchandise! More bonus content at: Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Holidays, families, gift stress, weird traditions....there's so much to consider (and so much that can go wrong) when it comes to dating someone during "the most wonderful time of the year." We discuss all these tricky topics so you don't end up with a Blue Christmas. We also recap our Chicago trip (including an awkward hotel incident), and uncover another shocking reveal about Rayna during a festive round of Fuck Marry Kill. Enjoy! Follow Girls Gotta on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, check our website for show dates and merchandise, and THIS JUST IN: Bonus episodes at Patreon.com/GirlsGottaEat! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should you date an ex-con? We brought in ConBody trainer and "formerly incarcerated individual" Derek Drescher to discuss dating when you have a record, and share his inspiring transformation from inmate to marathoner/keynote speaker/overall awesome dude. Other topics include Cheetos, dick measuring, Ariana Grande, keeping socks and boxers on during sex, and more. Enjoy! Follow Derek on Instagram @DerekDrescher. Follow Girls Gotta Eat @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, and check our website for show dates and merchandise. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices