Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

Brooke Hazen struggled with porn-induced erectile dysfunction and a misdiagnosis after decades of unhealthy porn use. Erica Garza recalls being equally addicted to porn and shame, starting at age 12. Both folks are in a far better place now and hope their stories encourage others to feel less alone. Learn more: brookehazen.com ericagarza.com For the next 10 days, you can get 40% off your subscription Simply go to magicmind.co/boner and enter the code boner at checkout. After 10 days, you can still save 20% on your first purchase! Get a soothing dose of nature by ordering Ontario Wildlife Photography by Noah Cole! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Edging, faking it, sexy stories, toys! August shares highlights from her March 2020 studio session with author Autumn Bardot and listener, Kate, plus bonus tips. You'll hear about: A myth involving orgasms and having a baby Reasons some people fake orgasms (they're not all bad!) How to edge your way to stronger orgasms How to get there more efficiently when sex feels "too long" How fantasies we don't act on can be helpful Problems with aging-related sex myths - and strengthening alternatives A disability-related orgasm myth, thanks to Sammy Rei Schwarz Check out Ontario Wildlife Photography by Noah Cole Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest and the We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Couple's Vibrator Set! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Elizabeth Ruzzo, PhD thought her depression symptoms had to do with grad school stress, especially when her doctor seemed unconcerned. Going off of her birth control paired with her ongoing genetic studies led to a lightbulb moment: what if scientific data could help prevent birth control side effects? Now, as the CEO and founder of adyn, Elizabeth and her team strive to make getting the birth control you need—without the hassle of side effects—more accessible. Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to "your first $10K month" masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo Learn more about "Ontario Wildlife Photography" and order your copy at greenravenphotography.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she'd anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom. Topics you'll hear about: Dominatrix work and BDSM, as a newbie Erotic spanking Squirting, aka "she-jaculation" or "female ejaculation" Sex work, including an important myth set straight Check out Judy and Elle's stories in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories: https://bit.ly/3bgQG9k - edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to "your first $10K month" masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

What changed sex for you for good? What's your favorite sex story to tell? Or most embarrassing mishap? Comedians and hosts of Trailer Park Diaries, Vicki Barbolak (America's Got Talent) and Shawn Pelofsky (The Comedy Store), join August to explore these questions and more—with the help of a popular sex toy and Esther Perel's game, Where Should We Begin. Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to "your first $10K month" masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo Check out the latest specials (and LeWand) at The Pleasure Chest! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Makenzie Mizell engineered the recording session for this episode at the Period studio. Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

In this Girl Boner quickie, August explores skin-gasms then shares five smart and spicy ways to pleasure your biggest organ. Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to "your first $10K month" masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Work with voice artist, Rosa Delgado: [email protected] Support the show + get a skin bliss Yes, No, Maybe list: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

When Lucie Fielding was growing up, she didn't have a word for queer, much less trans. While studying sexuality, they started to feel free to explore their gender in earnest, with empowering, pleasure-rich and life shifting results. Today Lucie is a therapist and author of the award-winning book, Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments. And she has important advice for discovering more erotic possibilities in our lives. Follow Lucie on Instagram: @sexbeyondbinaries Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Reina grew up on on the Bible Belt, where her abstinence-only sex ed left her with more questions than answers—especially once she developed crushes on girls. Farming helped her heal from an eating disorder, and becoming an adult content creator has helped far more than her financial woes. In this episode, you'll learn: One of Reina's most perplexing sex ed memories How she worked past body image challenges What (and who) inspired her to cam for the first time What she loves most about her work Her top advice for moving past sexual shame Explore Reina's work and join her community: linktr.ee/Make_it_reina Save 20% on Magic Mind: magicmind.co/boner Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Jessie Fresh was in her early 20s when she realized that silence was her main sex educator. After a mid-coital wakeup call and two relationships—one with sexual chemistry, one with only emotional sparks—she sought ways to cultivate the richer relationships and sexual experiences she desired. Discovering the Erotic Blueprints changed everything for her. (And they may do the same for you!) Today, as a sex and intimacy coach, Jessie helps others find similar pleasure, self-embracement and empowerment. In this #GirlBoner episode, you'll learn about: Jessie's personal journey to richer sex and intimacy What the 5 Erotic Blueprints are Hot versus buzzkill ways to start sex for each type Learn more and take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz at jessiefresh.com. Jessie on Instagram: @jessiefresh Save 20% on Magic Mind: magicmind.co/boner Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Author Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer a part of her life when, two years after sex-reassignment surgery, one surprised her. Therapist Vanessa Marin experienced her first orgasm as a child, only to struggle in the climax department years later. You'll also hear: A few ways what we learn about female sexuality and women's orgasms can impact pleasure Why the "watch pot never boils" stance could stand in the way of your Os A common myth about gender and sexuality The original version of this episode was released in October, 2020. Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Do socks play a role in sex? Does size matter with pegging? How can we invite more pleasure? Hear some of the worst and best sex advice several experts have ever heard, plus a few of August's favorite sex tips from previous interviews and episodes. Learn more about the experts featured in this episode: augustmclaughlin.com/sexadvice Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0 Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Save 15% at Lumisque Skincare with code girlboner: https://co2lift.com/ Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

Fiona Dawson grew up in a semi-sex-positive home, and didn't question her orientation until she fell in love with a woman. Coming out as gay felt fairly easy to her. Coming out as bi was another story… Now an Emmy-nominated, award-winning filmmaker and author of the forthcoming book, "Are Bisexuals Just Greedy?," Fiona aims to un-f*ck gender and sexuality for a more harmonious world. You'll also learn about: Fiona's sexual "firsts" and a few from listeners The difference between bisexual and pansexual What Fiona's female gender identity means to her Fiona's "blow job learning curve" (and her related book dedication) Why it's pretty common for people assigned female at birth not to enjoy going down on a penis Learn about Fiona Dawson's work: freelionproductions.com Fiona on IG: fionajdawson and @nowwithfiona Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0 Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner Makenzie Mizell engineered the interview session for this episode at the Period studio: periodpodcastnetwork.com Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

When award-winning journalist Rachel Krantz started dating non-monogamous Adam, she thought she might finally break her pattern of short-lived, suffocating relationships. Once gaslighting ensued, she found herself stuck in a new set of problems. Rachel finally found healing and liberation and shared her story in the memoir, Open. You'll also learn: How non-monogamy helped Rachel explore her queerness Her advice on relationship/sexual desires versus societal "shoulds" How her reporter's mind led to a unique exploration of gaslighting What's most help her find healing Learn more about Rachel: racheljkrantz.com Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0 Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

August shares the experience that helped inspire all-things-Girl Boner and why she no longer considers herself a "late bloomer." Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0 Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

Allison Hope made a bet with a friend to see who could orgasm first, explored her sexuality in New York City's queer community and realized her sex limits during a salacious week on Fire Island—all before meeting her now wife. In the past few years, they've navigated very different libidos. You'll also learn: Two ways perimenopause can impact sexual desire How Allison's journey and erotica writing interplay What inspired Allison to write "The Phallacy" Allison's articles and essays: urbaninbreeding.com Read Allison's story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) More GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/

Rose Caraway had just launched her erotica podcast when she received an email from a listener with a compelling request: Would she share a story about cuckolding? That question, paired with a book she considers a "cuckolding bible," led her down a spicy and loving path—after some mixed feelings. You'll also learn about: Cuckolding basics Cuckolding tips for beginners How you can engage in it while staying sexually monogamous Important perks of erotica The parts of Rose's story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 that were inspired by IRL experience The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg Kiss Me Quick's Erotica Podcast Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Check out August's books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

Suzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen. Suzannah Weiss: suzannahweiss.com Judy Calabrese: judycalabrese.com The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg Explore the Pleasure Chest's Wanderful World collection! Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Check out August's books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner

Veronica Grant had her sights set on lasting love from early on. After a spree of mismatches and breakups, she learned what real emotional availability looks like—which made way for deep love. Today she's a life and love coach, and the author of the new book, You Are Meant For Love: A No-Nonsense Guide To Help Smart, Successful Women Attract High Quality Partners and Real Love. This episode explores Veronica's personal journey, from what she learned about sex and romance early on to ways she later used sex to save relationships and the heartache that finally prompted her to seek healing. Plus, what one relationship taught her about her sexuality, which brought her a lot of comfort and confidence. Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Check out August's books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books

If you've used sex toys, you probably have memorable sex toy stories. Hear several from listeners, as well as Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison of Bump'n—plus how these two siblings ended up launching an accessible sex toy company, with a mission that goes beyond the toy itself. Learn all about Bump'n and preorder the Joystick: getbumpn.com Check out the "Picture This" documentary on Prime. Explore the Pleasure Chest's Spring Fling collections! Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner This episode features voice artists Rosa Delgado and Loquiverba! Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.

Beverly Diehl felt somewhat relieved when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, a disease she expected to develop at some point. What she didn't anticipate was the profound impact a boudoir photoshoot would have on her body image and sense of sexiness. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear excerpts from August's 2019 conversation with Beverly, plus tips for planning your own sensual shoot. A transcript and a few photos from Beverly's shoot: augustmclaughlin.com/blog Beverly's Great Sluts of History series on Medium: writerbeverly.medium.com Beverly's memoir: Sex, Drugs, Rock 'n Roll & a Tiara Nick Holmes' photography Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner

Rebekah Buege was once shamed for her inability to orgasm with a particular partner. That relationship brought body image issues to the surface. Navigating the challenges led her to more pleasure and confidence, as well as her career. A few things you'll learn: How Rebekah dealt with orgasm challenges and her partner's shaming—and how she'd dealt with a similar occurrence more recently A common myth about the female orgasm and vulva owner / women's sexuality Her top advice for starting to cultivate body confidence Ways body fixation can take away from sexual pleasure Some of August's tips for reducing negative body thoughts, and the role sex might play (including a little excerpt from her Girl Boner book) Explore the Pleasure Chest's Best Couples Vibe collection! Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com

CK Love thought she was finally "fully open" in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on. Learn more about this episode's guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout) Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc. Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces "magical sex," and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same. In addition to Frank's personal journey, you'll learn: What "magical sex" is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive Learn more about Frank's work: themagicalsexbook.com Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or "girlbonerradio" at checkout) Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.

After a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured "next level insomnia." Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead. For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she'd grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lacked sexual chemistry, work. Renée's story is also one of hope, healing and vibrancy—including re: her Girl Boners. ;) This episode contains mentions of traumatic events and suicidal ideation. If you're struggling with such thoughts, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255 Explore or purchase Renée artwork: rasjacobson.store Order Psychiatrized: Waking up after a Decade of Bad Medicine Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

Emotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist. You'll learn about: Carolina's sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina's coming out (to family) story The importance of queer represention in films and TV Check out Carolina's film and festival: Indigiqueer Identity: Reclaiming Past, Present, and Future Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

Author Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel. A few more things you'll learn about: Communicating your desires Accepting sex-related feedback (with a throwback clip featuring Logan PIerce) Spicy and empowering perks of erotica Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here! Books by Kandi Steiner Between the Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff Best Women's Erotica of the Year, Volume 7 The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

After using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial. A few things you'll learn about: What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably dependent on them A perspective shift she recommends for embracing single-hood When Kerry's struggles with sex and love emerged A few reasons "sex and love addiction" termonology is controversial, and why Kerry believes that's a good thing How messaging around sex, love and romance make romantic and sexual compulsions trickier, and how those messages affect us all Check out A Single Revolution, by Shani Silver, and Crazy for You, by Kerry Cohen Save 30% on your first three of Zencastr here! Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Dr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs. A few more things you'll learn about: What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the '80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual desire in anyone, men and penis-havers included Benefits of embracing your sexuality as your own—plus an important way to do so Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here! (Open in Chrome.) Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for occasional email updates from August Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Why resolve to something diminishing when you can set your sights on something spicier? Dr. Sakshi Tickoo, a queer, Brown, chronically disabled occupational therapist and a sexuality counselor who's based in Mumbai, India, joined August to explore smart sexuality aspirations to consider as we move toward 2022. A few things you'll learn about: How (and why) to create a pleasure toolkit Sex goals set by listeners Benefits of exploring a new sexual practice, such as rope play or BDSM An exercise for building body confidence A toy you might LOVE, from The Pleasure Chest Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Dr. Jordin Wiggins grew up in a small Canadian town where her sex education involved, "don't do it." Later on, after setting her sights on a fulfilling sex life, she lost her libido twice. She found her way back and now teaches other women and vulva owners to never settle for bad sex and to value their pleasure and desires. You'll learn about: The importance of understanding your (or a partner's) menstrual cycle Cycle awareness as part of non-hormonal birth control Why some folks end up making to-do lists during sex Common barriers around female sexuality Benefits of shifting sex from a "should" to personal pleasure August's top tips for better connecting with your sexuality Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks - sexy gift ideas!

Nadia North grew up in Wisconsin and considers herself a late bloomer in the sex department. When she met and entered a relationship with porn legend, Peter, she had no idea how abusive he would become. Seth S. grew up as a highly sensitive kid in California, where he endured a sexual assault from an older boy. For years, that abuse affected his beliefs about male sexuality. Nadia is early in her healing journey and Seth is well into his. Both are speaking out in hopes that their stories and the lessons they've learned will have a positive impact on others. A few more things you'll learn about: What "love bombing" entails How being a highly sensitive person (HSP) has impacted Seth's PTSD and how how's grown to embrace his sensitivity What's most helped Nadia and Seth manage trauma while cultivating pleasure A grounding exercise from With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships Follow Nadia North on Twitter Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August

Lisa and Mike attended an upscale sex party at the Bocanegra Club that challenged beliefs they had about such parties and taught them important lessons. Journalist Ryn Pfeiffer took a Bodysex workshop that led to an orgasmic retreat and weekly self-pleasure circles. Learn more about Bocanegra Club. Follow Ryn on Instagram (@Ryn_says) or work with via Sextpanther. Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Explore Dr. Megan's Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Find safer sex tips during COVID here. Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August: augustmclaughlin.com/

Eroticism, pleasure, growth! Rae McDaniel, a non-binary gender and sex therapist-turned-coach, went from growing up in a conservative Christian community to embracing their queerness and finding erotic bliss in an unexpected place. They now support others on similar journeys. A few more things you'll learn about: Rae's journey through painful sex Gender stereotypes that stand in the way of sexual pleasure Ways to unlock your erotic mind Common pleasure barriers folks in the LGBTQIA+ community face Problems with talking about "feminine/masculine energy" An exercise for feeling more connected with your intimate self Check out the November specials at The Pleasure Chest! Explore GenderFck resources Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner

Kristopher Lovestone grew up learning a lot about menstruation, later earned his "red wings" and now has strong feelings about period sex. Makenzie Mizell has had many ups and downs with her periods, including a form of sexual freedom and relationship (red and green) flags. A few more things you'll learn about: How folks August surveyed about period sex feel about it Valid reasons folks avoid or embrace period sex Hematolagnia, or blood play Info for anyone concerned about going down on someone who's menstruating A few ways to make period sex more fun What conversations about period sex can tell you about a relationship Why Kristopher wrote his book, The Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men Why Makenzie named her podcast network, Period, and why you should check out Tinsel Town Tea! Pay What You Want for the Netflix of P*rn, aka Bellesa Plus: bplus.co/girlboner Support the show + get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner SIgn up for (very) occasional email updates: augustmclaughlin.com

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and knows a lot about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts. To hear August's full, unedited conversation with Erik and takeaways from Niba's over 200 first dates, join the Girl Boner community on Patreon, where you'll get exclusive access to archived interviews, bonus segments, Ask Me Anything chances and more! patreon.com/girlboner Celebrate Kinktober with The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/ SIgn up for (very) occasional email updates: augustmclaughlin.com

Guiding with excerpts from Girl Boners gone by (past interviews), August explores important facts, common myths and pervasive challenges involving the Big O. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: An orgasm issue that's frequently discussed in sex therapy The fluidity of orgasms Orgasms as an active versus passive process Accessories that can bolster orgasmic bliss Learn more about the featured guests: Deborah Kagan: Books, masterclass and more: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/ Shadeen Francis: Live Q&A sessions: shadeenfrancis.doyoumined.com Newsletter signup for special content, events and resources: shadeenfrancis.com Vanessa Marin: E-courses and more: https://vmtherapy.com Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Order Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment: augustmclaughlin.com/books

Author Sarah Fader was perplexed about sex early on, but she now finds solace and confidence in her sexuality. She also manages multiple mental health conditions and writes books and articles aimed at helping others better thrive. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: How sex can be nourishing when you're stressed, anxious or depressed (and not wanting sex is just fine and common, too!) How focusing on someone else's pleasure helps Sarah in the orgasm department 3 ways mental health can interplay with sex and sexuality Sarah's top sex tips Her advice for anyone struggling with their mental health Dr. Megan Fleming's Pleasure Pick for October! Follow us on Twitter: @TheSarahFader @AugstMcLaughlin @MeganFlemingPhD Save 30% on the Coral app: trycoral.app/new-coralers Celebrate Kinktober with The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/

Frances, aka "Captain Awkward," and content creator, Andrew Gurza, journeyed into careers involving sex and other stigmatized topics. Learn how Dripstick, which went viral on TikTok, came to be and what it's like to speak openly and perform in porn as a queer, disabled person. Follow us on Instagram: @awkwardessentials @andrewgurza_ @girlbonermedia Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August: Augustmclaughlin.com

Solo play, spicy bits, releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. Follow us on Instagram: @feministbookclubbox @notesbyniba @girlbonermedia Shop at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for occasional email updates from August: Augustmclaughlin.com Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ

Alicia Davon was studying psychology when she met Erwan, a man who was teaching workshops about the "extended orgasm." She's since become a relationship coach who teaches others all about this sensual practice. A few things you'll learn about: Alicia's first experience with extended orgasm How extended orgasms differ from traditional orgasms How Alicia and Erwan became more than acquaintances The stages of sexual arousal, according to Masters and Johnson Tips for getting started with extended orgasms Alicia's biggest takeaway from the practice Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Intro to Extended Orgasm online class Oct 23rd: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/154293964401 Free Love Life Consultation: Text 415 308 9580 or here! Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Explore the blog: augustmclaughlin.com Follow along on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.

A few things you'll learn about: How submission and powerfulness aren't mutually exclusive! The pitfalls and pleasures of hers-and-hers squirting What it was like for Liz to pass as straight Ways sexual self-discovery and embodiment can enhance your life Learn more about Lee Noto: https://www.leenoto.com Becomethehighpriestess.com Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: https://lizasch.com/salt-lips Shop at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Check out With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/with-pleasure Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ

A few things you'll learn about: How With Pleasure came together, and turned into a "very meta" experience How Jamila came up with the title that stuck Why pleasure practices are important during difficult times What "bodily divergence" means, in terms of sex and pleasure The importance of community while managing trauma Real pleasure practices, from several survivors featured in the book! Order With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships Follow Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist Learn about her therapy practice: fireandflowtherapy.com Learn more about the featured interviewees' work: Jazz: https://jazzgoldman.com Taylor: https://www.taylorliannechandler.com Kimleigh: http://kimleighsmith.com Jean: https://www.seeksafely.org Check out books that Robert and Hannah found helpful for healing: The Courage to Heal, by Ellen Bass The Dance of Anger, by Harriet Lerner I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation, by Laura Davis Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ

A few things you'll learn about: What the Clit Talk gals learned about sex early on The difference clitoris type and size make in pleasure How to give or receive more clitoral pleasure What you can expect from the Clit Talk crew's sexual empowerment course Empowering sex tips from Lindsey, Katie and Sugar Shop at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ

A few things you'll learn about: A condition that can be a natural part of aging What makes penile symptoms signs of a "disorder" The basics of Balanitis, Priapism, Paraphimosis, Peyronie's disease, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction How porn use fueled Gabe Deem's ED How Peyronie's disease impacted Don Cummings' relationship with his partner and sense of self What inspired Dr. Gabal to become a urologist Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner

Anal sex can be awesome with some smart planning. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll learn: Differences between anal sex in porn and in real life Ways to ensure cleanliness, especially if you're nervous about poo Painful mistakes to avoid Tips for maximizing pleasure and choosing an ideal toy More! Check out the featured guests' work: https://www.instagram.com/therealvickichase/ https://lunamatatas.com https://www.twogirlsonemic.com/ Shop the Anal Toy collection at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/anal-toys Support the show and get fun extras, including access to August's full, unedited conversation with Vicki Chase: patreon.com/girlboner Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ

Some sexual escapades are wilder than fiction! In this "OMG" sex stories edition, August shares the voices and stories of three accomplished romance authors. In addition to the titillating stories, you'll learn: Tips for dating or hooking up while traveling Potential benefits of angry sex An erotic excerpt by Skye Warren, tied in to her IRL experience This episode features the talents and work of voice over artist Rosa Delgado: [email protected] Check out the guests' books: https://www.karinakennedybooks.com https://nanamaloneromance.net https://www.skyewarren.com Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner

Do you ever find yourself thinking more about your appearance than your own pleasure during sex? Or feel increasing pressure as time ticks by, wondering when you'll finally reach orgasm? If disruptive thoughts stand in the way of your or a partner's pleasure, you're not alone. Learn more from Kara Loewentheil + join her community: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/ Check out Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner

This Girl Boner Radio episode celebrates some of Dr. Megan's most popular and beloved advice and sex tips (aka "Megan-isms") including ways to turn up the heat in a monogamous relationship, many of which can apply to other relationship styles as well. You'll also learn about: Signs that it's time to spice things up Scientific proof that many folks stay in love long-term Megan's goal for her own relationship with her husband A common belief that can interfere with relationship happiness The toughest part (plus good news!) about changing things up To start better prioritizing your own pleasure, check out Dr. Megan's FREE 9-day pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/desire/ Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras, including a bonus segment (featuring a body-love activity) from Dr. Megan! patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com

Sex is supposed to be noisy, unless silence is part of the fun or something you need for privacy. But what if a particular sound or bodily function makes you feel beyond embarrassed? Or if a partner hasn't exactly welcomed your sounds? This Girl Boner Radio episode features: An "OMG" sex story from Olivia, a professional dancer and Co-Creative Director for Colors Only erotica books Ways to degasify beans, with August's mom A throwback clip on sex sounds with Passion by Kait founder, Kait Scalisi, MPH Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who's been feeling blah and disinterested in sex since shifting away from pandemic lockdowns Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Check out Dr. Megan's Rekindle Desire program: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/desire/ Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com

The clitoris is only "mysterious" because it's been culturally ignored for so long. This week's stories illustrate how mighty the clit truly is and how impactful it can be to discover and embrace it! You'll also learn about ways to bring more pleasure to sex, two sex toys you may want to consider trying and some spicy game recommendations from Dr. Megan Fleming. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Some clitoris and female sexuality history An author and educator's experience growing up with a gynecologist father, whose medical books were missing something important! The life change clitoral pleasure led to for a comedian August's orgasm MRI experience What intersex means and a common related myth Ways an author and intersex activist has benefited from not being non-consensually operated on - and important takeaways for us all How a media personality shifted from envying penis-havers to embracing her body more fully The lube August is loving! Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Tracy's Dog: https://tracysdog.com (This toy review was sponsored and honest!) Check out Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Womanizer Eco at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/womanizer-premium-eco-vibrator Learn more about this episode's featured guests: Joan Price: https://joanprice.com Emma Arnold: https://www.emmaarnoldcomedy.com Jean Franzblau: http://www.jeanfranzblau.com Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com